Even it's it's happenstance it's definitely a victory and an added reward for mother and doctor seem good. If course the parents might not have extra money to pay.
If they’re only expecting one and the egg splits that’s a hard call. I’m sure most would love that but there’s always going to be someone that isn’t prepared, etc. I’m not trying to be mean btw! I hope it doesn’t come across as that. xo
What the Doco doesn't focus on is the mental implications of giving away a baby you held for 9 months , in a nation with no Social Security . Yes they sold it, but the pain remains. It also overcompensates the donor side while giving near no exposure tot he mother's situation after the delivery. Pathetic.
I feel like they need to provide the surrogate mother with some serotonin blocker for when the child is born so that she does not form the bond that naturally occurs when a mother births a child, and vise versa (as in, the genetic parents receiving a serotonin inducer so that they bond with the child) The experience must be induced so that the sides feel towards the child as it should be. But that's just an idea, I'm not sure.
@@timthetoolmanasshole724 no, the child didn't know the mother, if my child was taken away from me at directly birth I would expect that it would still instantly assume that it's being held by its true mother, and I say mother and not parents because a baby doesn't likely know what a father is when it's born, since it didn't develop it's sensory/nervous system yet. It's the surrogate mother that usually suffers here, not the child who was wanted from the start (unless they abandoned the child as many "parents" do).
Agreed. The doctor is sugarcoating the whole deal. And let’s be real, how many women don’t have a choice? How many are being forced to do it by family members? What’s her future going to be like when everyone involved is happy and may not actually see any of that money?
Adoption is beautiful. Why does DNA matter so much to these ppl? It kills me. My husband and I adopted our beautiful baby girl. She's the love of our lives. Too many children need a loving family. This surrogacy crap is so wrong.
I don't mean to be mean. I have dealt with infertility myself. Adoption seems cruel to me too. You take someone's baby. Some situations there is no family to take care of the child but in some the parents may just be poor. I wonder if helping them financially is less selfish than to take their baby.
@@JV-pl5ff not always. We adopted. The birth mom contacted me. She got my number from her neighbor who happened to be my ex brother n law. She didn't want children EVER but she did find a family who would love her child and do. She's very much a part of our daughters life even though she didn't want her. She gets pictures regularly and goes to dinner with her and to the park because that was my only stipulation. That my daughter would know her and when she's old enough would know why the bio mom didn't want her. It's not like she doesn't love her. She does. She just never wanted children. She's asked if she became pregnant again if we would take that baby too. Of course we will. Sometimes adoption happens because ppl are poor and that's a tragedy yes, but sometimes it's like ours and that's beautiful.
@@JCC_1975 that is a good reason and saw a friend of mine do that. It breaks my heart that people can do that when they are so blessed to physically be able to conceive. Well I guess not everyone thinks the same. I am glad your daughter has someone like you to call mom.
Such an amazing video. The couple was so happy on the birth of the baby boy. The happiness of becoming parents was clearly on their faces. However, the women who gave birth have to face a lot. She faces all the pains from getting pregnant to giving birth. At the end, she has to give the baby. This must be really painful.
People believe their genes are superior, instead of pouring love and care into a child in dire need. People don’t love babies/children, they love THEIR OWN children.
Adoption in the US is insanely expensive along with tons of red tape. Many want biological or infants. Why, i dont know. There are plenty of children that are waiting for adoption, they just arent newborns. They paid 30k for ivf. 7k for the surrogacy so 37k as i understand.
My husband and I had fertility issues before having our first son. I can’t explain how desperate you begin to feel month after month. Fortunately we ended up conceiving naturally and then got pregnant again. I don’t think I could ever par take in this as I strongly believe the baby grows an attachment to the voice and smell of the woman it grows inside of but I can’t judge others for doing this as long as it is legal and all parties are willing knowledgeable participates.
Surrogacy is a result of people feeling entitled to a child. People do not deserve children. Children are not cute collectible toys for display. They’re real human beings that will grow into adults with their own personalities and opinions. There’s more to life than having children.
one noticeable part is this when this Indian couple went back to India they still choose to save a few Indian ruppes and choose a rickshaw. I can imagine their living standards and poor lifestyle in the UK
Having been adopted and placed a child for adoption (assault baby) I do in the back of my mind wonder about the fitness of this rabid obsession with a biological child. If you are so very pressed that it be genetically related than do you really want a baby for the joy of parenthood or is it just an inane desire to procreate... I mean sure try it a few ways for fertility or even an attempt or two at surrogacy but once those have failed and the obsession is still there I guess I find it an oddity that I simply must question what exactly their motivation is
In the Netherlands, contraception and abortion are free. To adopt, they want you to be rich own your house, work 40h a week, not be sick and or handicapped, be married for a number of years, non smoker, live in a neighbourhood where tge neighbours are alike these conditions and just PERFECT.
@@NikkieRoxxx in Switzerland too, except contraception isn't even free. And once you give up a child for adoption, after a certain delay where you can claim it back, you have no rights whatsoever to contact him/her or even just to know how she/he is doing. It's a shame, really... But abortion, of course, is free, and possible up to the very end of the pregnancy...
Surrogacy is one of the most immoral things that is legal, it is baby selling essentially. So many children need foster parents in U S if you truly want to be a parent help those kids first
@@NikkieRoxxx are you trying to say those requirements are somehow wrong or unfair? in case you've forgotten, adoption is done for the benefit and in the best interest of the child. not to fulfill the adopters desire to have a baby. otherwise, it's just human trafficking.
What is striking is how there appears to be no real voiced concern from the mother who lost her own uterus during the birth of her son, about the possibility of the surrogate being at risk of experiencing the same loss.
It's amazing how much people will do to have a baby while others pay to abort theirs. This is also so sad. Using young girls who are poor to carry babies.
People who desperately want a child choose to get pregnant (by whatever means they utilize). People who get pregnant by accident did not choose to get pregnant. Also, we mustn't forget the "egg donor" industry. It is actually killing young women who, for money or even "altruistically" (separating mother, motherhood and child is not altruistic) donate their eggs. And it works with the surrogacy industry as well. Both are exploitative and cause so much harm to so many women and innocent children.
It would really be sad if some of these women were beginners and after giving birth could not have children of their own. My, the female style is of dress in India is gorgeous.
Fuchsiababe in the US that is standard protocol. They have to previously had live birth(s) and be done with their family because that’s one of the many risks, infertility. Surrogates must also have consent of their husbands if married or at least all my surro friends have.
I wish they would ask these people why not adopt? That one couple paid well over 100K for just IVF without a surrogate, with it probably close to 120K. It's not like they were well off either, just an average working couple. It's their choice but I'd like to know why some of these people would go to the lengths of draining their savings for the sake of DNA when so many babies need a home...
Because they are too selfish, their greed, selfishness and self centerdness is so great, they will stop at nothing to get what they want while the children in desperate need contunue to suffer.
Google User 2000 its not their fault that some parents leave their kids and they suffer. That couple doesn’t have to pay for mistakes of that parents. They deserve their own child. Sorry for my English
We have adopted and we are asked the same question: "Why don't you want your DNA in your child?" - Everyone has do do what their hearts and minds tells them is the right way. NO one should adopt if it's not absolutly what they want, because the history and the trauma in these kids are real and painfull for the families.
You should not be able to order a human being like you order a pizza. These people are selfish full stop. If you can’t bear a child and don’t want to or can’t afford to adopt then humble yourselves. Everybody has troubles in life, everyone has pain and difficulty to bear. If your worst problem is that you can’t have a child then in the grand scheme of things you are lucky. You are not “helping” these women who are surrogates. Help is giving without expecting anything back. Especially not expecting a human being for money. Its sick. Volunteer at a local hospital, at a school or church if you need love. Don’t try and buy a baby.
Cami Breide me too it’s sickening.. did you see Indian couple from Britain. The surrogate had to have a cesarean they didn’t even thank her.. like wtf they baby snatchers.. creepy!!
Y'all obviously do not know what surrogacy means. It is not the surrogates biological child. It is the couples sperm and egg made into a embryo then placed into the surrogate.
Rylee&BrettsMommy it doesn’t negate that a woman has to use her womb for nine months. It’s not an easy task being pregnant for that long and having hormones running thru your body like that. This just a sick example how the well to do can exploit the poor under privileged women.
@@candycoatedcyanide3267 I am a surrogate. 5 times. I love being pregnant. I love it. I don't want to raise a baby. I just wanted the joy of being pregnant. I love giving birth. How dare you assume that I am being taken advantage of. Being a surrogate is a joy for me.
you pay 30.000 dollars for a precious baby then leave the hospital in a rickshaw (tuck tuck) in the crazy traffic of India!!!!!my brain can not digest this!
7,ooo$ to carry twins. Ouch I had 3 pregnancy one of which was twins and it's more then twice the trouble. My twins did well after all the scary part but I still do physical therapy and had surgery to repair nerve damage. I understand they chose this but worry about the possible life impact.
Geee.......maybe I should get on the bandwagon and go exploit women in other countries. Nahhh, I want women to become independent and not have to rent out their wombs. Who says that the childless are living a life of misery? It's been proven that having kids makes life HARDER.
@shilo6928 I presume you’ve been a Gestational surrogate carrying a Genetic baby for 2 Biological parents? Good for you! Some of these naysayers are hypocrites, they’re supposedly pro choice but draw the line at surrogacy..?
This will be a great program for me. Being a male from America, I have lost my ability to trust another person. If I do surrogacy, from the third world, the child will be mine, I will have primary custody. Further, When I get married and they sign the prenuptial agreement, my son/daughter and my money will be protected.
This is such an emotional video. I am glad she was able to survive. She gave birth to such a cute baby. However, she was unable to conceive for a second baby. For her, surrogacy was the one last option. Surrogacy is really a blessing for such couples. It is really hard for those couples for whom even surrogacy fails.
Hi. It is a great video. My friend was an infertile woman. She wanted to have a baby but it was not in her fate. In the end, she decided to go for surrogacy. She went for it. She has a baby now. She is a happy mother. I am so happy for her.
Couple that had a little boy that was four years old Iit really upset me a little bit she’s upset because she had a hysterectomy but she ended up with a beautiful baby boy and that wasn’t enough for her? They’re acting like their child died their child did not die. They are so so lucky not only did the mom survive but the baby did too. I can’t have a baby Unfortunately my medical conditions will not allow me to carry it and I’ve had to come to terms with the fact that I will never be a mother no matter what. I’m not married and not in a relationship currently and without help there’s no way I could possibly take care of a child I had to come to terms that I’m not gonna have one just won’t happen and I got so upset to see this woman complain that she has just one baby and not to be so happy you have a husband and a baby because some people don’t even have that and never will.
I was also TOTALLY disgusted by that couple, esp the mom. The way she was so cutesy in videoing her 4-year old (with a stupid name, Ptolemy...geez that will look dumb on a resume as an adult) as she explains they did not have the surrogate get pregnant...like she expects that kid (who looked a little yonger than 4 but whatever) to react or care or even UNDERSTAND / conceptualize the information she is saying. Its like she is a mommy blogger coaching her kid to give a certain response so she can capture the fake response she wants on camera. Ppl like her should not have kids.
Indeed it is the exploitation of the less privileged. I would say India must ban this or provide tangible rights to surrogates as well as the IPs. There are lots of cases that fit right with the exploitation of human rights. Ukraine has become very advanced and well aware of the rights and laws, therefore, he has become the most sought country for surrogacy. It protects the rights of surrogates as well as the IPs.
What I want to know is... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ADOPTION? The main reason why I disagree with surrogacy or IVF is because we should be finding homes for the children that already exist, not going through all this trouble making more. I DARE these parents to go to an orphanage, and say to the children to their faces, "We are doing IVF or surrogacy because you are not good enough"
+Chibi Neko Adoption is an option. It is very hard. I only had one biological child of my own, and she died before I got to know her. One thing that bothers me is when my parents, or other relatives just tell me to be happy childless. They don't understand how it feels. I'm considering adoption. I cannot forsee what the outcome will be, but I'll try. Adopting a child is not a replacement for the one I lost. I want to raise an orphan so I can guide and nurture him/her.
I've had 3 healthy babies without any issue and I want to help someone become a mama or even daddies become daddies... I can't imagine life without my kid's & a healthy couple deserves that without having to break laws or travel contents... I'm 31 this month and live in the usa.
Females can love each other, cheer for each other unless they're uneducated & only see competition, let's step up & promote female potential! Let's teach, help & cheer for each other & God bless their children!
I cant have kids and im about to start IVF knowing theres a 29% chance it will be a success. This couple are an insult to many others in my position. She has a child of her own but she's wasting all that precious time, energy and money chasing another? I hope they can finally enjoy raising their son.
@Jennifer P, they may want MORE than one child. How they spend their money is THEIR business, just like how you spend yours on those EXPENSIVE IVF treatments is yours!! The heart wants what the heart wants you know that...I know personally what you are going through and I wish you 29 Thousand times a successful IVF procedure!!!
I don't have any sympathy for people who pay for women to be exploited and carry "their" babies. But the guy at 23:03 really needs to get punched in the face. Saying he was ripped off and that they knew women may be exploited but they never imagined they could be exploited themselves. This shows the absolute lack of empathy for other human beings. I'm sorry, but there's no way someone like that is going to be a good role model for a kid or a good parent.
the prime motive is money is true and a person needs help and another provides help is true also. But the rub is the poor get 1/5th of the value of the "deal" the poor carry the baby and receive little in return. It is clearly large profits because of the growth seen in the business. again on the backs of the poor. what I am saying is if the money was shared more evenly and regulations with longterm studies made this can benefit everyone equally.
I oppose surrogacy process and it needless to say that surrogacy can be a very expensive affair and it is therefore not an option for those of few financial means. However, contrary to myth, many commissioning couples are not rich in the traditional sense but a middle class or upper middle class. The surrogate mothers are typically, but not always, in the lower income range and therefore a typical argument is, "The rich are exploiting the poor!”. And I believe it is the main argument why surrogacy is prohibited in many countries. Unfortunately, there are some countries like Ukraine for example which still allow such kind of exploitation in their territory. That’s why today a number of people are going there for the surrogate baby.
To me this is no different then buying organs. They dehumanize these women and call them “incubators”. I don’t know how anyone can justify this selfish behavior.
I see it as a win-win situation.A lot of these women have children they can't afford to feed and doing this helps them immensely.They know the child(ren) they are carrying is or aren't biologically theirs.
Nawll, for once can't believe I'm saying this but um I'mma agree with the China one child law.... people need to take more responsibility over religious make believe.....GOD would never want this for his people or the universe whatever we wanna call it
That's far from the truth, cause the Seagate mothers that carry the babies for nine months, they are also the mothers. They are not only Seagate mothers. That's the reason so many mothers don't want to become Seagate mothers, cause its verry painful to give up a child.
@@littleblueprintwritinghood192 So if someone has more than 1 child we would kill them or put them in orphanages like China did too? Wow you're fucking ignorant
7-8000 USD per surrogacy is definitely taking advantage of theae women. They put their lives at risk. And then who will take care of their kids if something happens to them?
I am on the fence about it. your changing someone else life yet it's like buying a product almost so I am torn. Unfortunately it's just how society is. If you don't have kids society makes you feel like "You failed at life and should be ashamed!". If you have your own child it's like "congratulations"! Sadly the majority of society see adoption as picking up someone's used baggage. If society did not make people feel this way than these places surrogacy clinics would not need to exist.
This really is an unfortunate event. It makes me awfully sad. I'm a massive supporter of surrogacy. However, I can't understand how can people go for it in India. This is so inhumane! This is why people cannot stomach that surrogacy is actually helpful. Please improve your services and stop this exploitation.
Stop hating. If you can have babies, shut the fuck up. If you aren't adopting kids or sending every dollar you make above what you ABSOLUTELY NEED to starving kids or other charities, shut the fuck up. learn from the video, stop criticizing. The problems with this arrangement in terms of predatory practices toward surrogates and the people purchasing the surrogacy are risks people were willing to take. For every unhappy couple or surrogate mother on this film there are a thousand happy ones. Go find another issue about which to go on an impassioned internet rant and stop letting your opinions be about shaping the lives and choices of others, whether you are a Christian extremist or the woman on this film pontificating about the flaws with this industry. People who can't build success themselves criticize the success of others in hopes of recognition.
Why do they not consider adoption? Already living and existing kids are waiting for a family and a home! Aaaaannnd,It's legal and not a baby trade or doesn't traffick desparate women's wombs!
I honestly don't understand why people make such a big deal out of this and call it "controversial." I don't see why it's wrong to help a couple have a child when they are unable to do so on their own. If it is a gestational surrogacy, then the child is not even genetically related to the surrogate. She just carries the baby for 9 months and do something wonderful for someone else. Some people just don't want to adopt and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. All of you who are leaving hateful comments probably can have children on your own. Imagine that you can't. Wouldn't it be wonderful if someone could help you? A mother is more than someone who carries a child. A mother is someone who brings you up and cares for you. I could see how badly those couples wanted children and they would have been great parents. The only bad thing about this is that many Indian women who are involved are doing it for the wrong reasons - Money. I hope those agencies educate these women and prepare them for this journey by giving them good health care and living conditions. It is not the most natural way to have children, but it is an amazing thing to help a couple become parents and there is nothing wrong with it.
Hasi R , they make it for the wrong reason? and for you it is the fault of these poor Indian women which do this for money, are you kidding me?...what you propose, they have to do this just to help rich people to get babies, and have everything in life where theses poor women can die hungry and have nothing? they take 7000 dollars to give someone a baby that's is nothing really nothing they take nothing they exploit them.and you speak that they are good couples, and great parents, you can see only what they show you in video, but you forget baby gammy 's father the pedophile? guy who make a baby like this, all people who do this are not a good parents as you say.
I do understand that there are poor Indian women and not everyone can make money easily. What I was saying is, I hope those Indian women do it because they want to help other people and not just for the money. I don't really understand what you mean when you wrote about the father being a pedophile. I hope you understand that there is no actual sexual acts involved in this process. The sperm and the eggs are donated from the parents and injected into the surrogate in a medical setting.
Hasi R,but women do this for many reason the most important is to try to help their children's and family first with money which they get, and secondly they want to help others family, that's known and all surrogate women say this, the first motivation is money but it is not the only one, and the pedophile father, I talked about one famous case of surrogate mothers, its is known in all world, the Baby Gammy case, you can search her in youtube there is many videos about him, the trisomy baby abandonate by his biologic parents, they are Australians, and his father is a pedophile...that just to tell you that not all parents who ask surrogate mother to make a baby not all of them are good parents as they show us in this video.
+Hasi R What you have to remember is that the surrogacy industry works on money. And they WANT women to be surrogates "for free" - that way, they don't have to pay them anything. Please also note that actual surrogacy-conceived individuals, as well as donor-conceived individuals, are already adults and many are opposed to surrogacy and sperm and egg donation (those often go together, because the "intended parents" can literally custom-order a baby according to their wishes with other people's eggs and sperm). It harms the children that are born through it. And it exploits women - pregnancy is a dangerous process in humans, and many surrogates face health complications from the process ranging from mild to permanently changing (including the loss of their own fertility and organs) to fatal. And we can't even say that regulating surrogacy would change all of that, because it never does. It should be banned - and THEN debated thoroughly, so that no more women and children are harmed until lawmakers can come up with a solution. The human rights of others can not be disregarded just because people suffer with infertility. People suffer a wide variety of issues, many of them can't be changed, but somehow, infertile people should get a pass for doing whatever they can, no matter how ethical, to change their circumstances? I'm sure cancer patients would love the option. But no, instead, infertile people pump their money into adoption, surrogacy and egg/sperm/embryo donation industries, rather than into medical research to actually cure causes of infertility. Sure, makes sense.
I'm so tired of people who write about adoption under videos about surrogacy. Why don't you just go and adopt a baby instead of teaching infertile people how to live their lives? I think it's wrong to even compare surrogacy and adoption. As was said so many times already, surrogacy is a way of infertility treatment. I had cancer of the uterus so I can't carry a baby by myself. I chose surrogacy to have children, is it a crime? It is my baby and sm just helped us to carry our son. I don't consider surrogacy as something bad and wrong. This procedure gives people hope and happiness to infertile couples. Thanks to surrogacy we have our son and I have family I've been dreaming about.
I think this is great. it seems like a fantastic opportunity for the poor Indian families to be lifted out if poverty, it gives the biological parents a dream they couldn't afford in their own country.. it's totally a win- win situation, what's wrong with that?
I completely agree with many commentators. India was the worst variant for infertile couples. But I understand that people who used surrogacy there. For many of them it was the last chance to have children. They can`t afford to use surrogacy in other countries. In the US one need to have more than $100 000 to do it. It`s impossible to get such money for ordinary people. I work in one of the clinics in CA. We deal with surrogacy and ART as a whole. We advise many our patients to go abroad. About a year ago Argentina was a perfect variant. Bu now Zika is widespread there. So I can`t recommend South America as a surrogacy destination. Now many of our patients go to Georgia, some prefer to go to Ukraine. They offer good programs for small money. Everybody was satisfied with their work.
I hate the idea of basically incarcerating women for surrogacy until the baby is born. No baby farms. If a woman is a surrogate and doesn not have a home then funding should be provided for her to independently find a place. If there is a legit medical need and no proper hospitals near where the woman is staying then an entire apartment should be provided for the family. There are women in a freaking hall way on cots renting their wombs as though they were cattle. That disgusts me. They should be provided for during and after their pregnancy. Her husband and other kids should also be there in a nice place not a gd hallway. I consider it immoral to keep women in hallways and on site at a baby farm. But have no issue with surrogacy and considered it myself. But the offer for me way quite different. And there was absolutely no staying on premises at a glorified stall
Y'all obviously do not know what surrogacy means. It is not the surrogates biological child. It is the couples sperm and egg made into a embryo then placed into the surrogate.
@@ryleebrettsmommy2704 you clearly dont know the connection between a baby and its mother. The mother grew the baby in her womb for 9 months so of course the baby is going to want its natural mother no matter what. Why do you think it illegal in some places to separate puppies from their mothers until at least 9 weeks?
@SelfDeprecatingJokes dogs aren’t removed because they’re not being taken to an adoption dog mom who’s going to care for them. They need to be with the original dog mom so that they can be nurtured in a way that humans can’t do as well. The human baby can be nurtured by another human adult. It’s not like you’re taking the babies to empty houses and just leaving them there. Learn about some psychology and think about the logistics of it before comparing humans to dogs.
There are many women willing to be surrogates for people in this country. These women are poor. They need to create a proper system where the surrogates get what they deserve. The clinic I went to for my surrogacy was so organized. It impressed me. i had a great experience there. They need this in India too.
Countries should 1. Not allow citizenship for babies born by surrogacy outside your country and 2. Impose jailtime for trying to, or lying about the subject. The baby should be returned to country of birth. This is disgusting
If the surrogate is good with doing it then I guess it's ok. As long as no one is forcing them to go through it. I don't know why are people giving this whole concept weird names. People are in need of babies. They should be glad that the needy are being provided by something.
I get that some people want to have biological kids but it seems kind of wrong to go to India to have a baby when there are already so many kids out there, and in India alone, who are in need a family.
Kelly, Orphans are used as curency in INdia, grants for them , and young orphan girls are valued for the sex they can provide to the orphanage officials.Sounds like hell, but its worse than hell.
Hi everyone. Dear it is really a very nice video. Actually the problem is that many people want their own baby who adopt their own characteristics. It is only possible with surrogacy. In surrogacy the eggs are placed in the healthy womb of surrogate mother. The surrogate mother then fertilizes the eggs and delivers the baby. As the eggs are of the couples so the produced offspring adopt the characteristics of the couple itself. This is the main reason that people choose surrogacy over adoption. Surrogacy indeed is a blessing for such couples. I really respect your point of view but what the fact is fact and we can't change people's perception. Thanks!
What an amazing video. I truly appreciate your efforts. So many people are unaware of the procedure. I am glad that surrogacy is becoming common now. It has helped so many patients. It has helped complete their dreams. It serves as a magic to the barren families.
lol. I'm poor AND childless and where is HELP for me? There isn't . I find this to be wrong b/c I don't think these women understand anything about the world now. If they did, they wouldn't be having more kids.
Exactly. When people say "everyone has a right to a child" they somehow seem to exclude poor infertile couples. It's only the rich couples who have rights.
feeling like a biological child is owed to you is so fucking disgusting. I am currently pregnant, accident, but I would never EVER go to the narcissistic lengths these couples go to to procure a child.
When I was in search for clinic myself I read many information about surrogacy in India but to be honest it's never been my option. I love the country, been there on holidays many times, and people are lovely but the level of their life stop me from trusting my child to Indian woman. My choice was Ukraine and it was a great experience. At list Ukrainian women do this because they want to help. And the level of their life much higher. I pray for all surrogate mother in the world.
It's extremely sad to know what happened to this couple. IVF is a good option what im quite sure it wasn't done properly. Since the treatments associated with pregnancies and infertility aren't uncomplicated most of the times. It Requires proper clinic with experienced doctors to make these treatments work out. Surrogacy is the best option nowadays for infertile people. I believe people should go for surrogacy in Europe rather than India as it's not a good choice. Currently, i am visiting biotexcom in Ukraine, The clinic never disappoint anyone.
it is the much informational clip to see. I really want to appreciate these clips which are spreading this information. an event is going to held in Lodan on 19 August of Biotextcom. which is much informational. they will all related information of infertility and the solutions of it. I wish that all the infertile couple may have their best.
I hope everyone in the comments talking about adoption have adopted at least 2-4 kids themselves and choose not to have bio kids. Otherwise don't shame infertile couples.
TheSisterlyBloom Exactly these judgemental people will be happily popping our their own biological babies and mounting high horses to blame infertile couples who opted surrogacy. This is discrimination at the highest form, so just because some people have ‘disability’ and cannot conceive they by default are forced to adopt??? And this enforcement is not exploitation? Exploitation is forcing anything on anyone who is not willing to do it. All you self righteous people crying for the rights of orphan children are will fully exploiting the infertile couple by shoving adoption down their throats!
Surrogates women carry only the baby produced by the male egg and her own ovule so it is not their own baby but it is the baby of the surrogate woman with the DNA of the other man.
It just blows my mid that people would spend so much time and money on IVF and surrogacy when there are babies-a-plenty to be adopted. Why does it matter so much that your baby looks like you?
+Kay Race blah blah blah..adoption is about 50k$ its very costly process!!!why didint you get fixed so you can not havyour own kids but just adopted yes there is plenty of kids to adopt so why did ypou make your own...you are selfish and ignorant...you could helped one of those poor things who needs love and family but you wanted to make your own baby...im sick of ignorants and hypocrites as you..,you could have helped the orphans but you wanted to make your own kid...shame on you....
There's actually NOT a lot of babies to be adopted. The adoption industry has to resort to more and more deceit, lies and illegalities in order to make any money. Also, not everyone is fit to raise someone else's child. Being raised by people you are not related to requires extra care and understanding. That said, surrogacy doesn't help, since it harms the surrogate as well as the child.
But a donor egg baby is not your baby. I don't think I could have a baby that belonged to my husband but not me. So sad women are faced with having to make that choice. That's heart wrenching.
This is the ultimate solution to the problem of infertility. But sadly there is no clinic in India you can trust. I better prefer the clinic in Ukraine for the treatment of infertility. Sometimes it's easy to get rid of this problem and sometimes it's tough to deal with this situation. It's good to have your surrogacy or IVF treatment from the experienced staff. This can help you out in many ways. Nowadays I am visiting the clinic situated in Ukraine for my treatment and I am having a great experience .
I m feeling sorry only for those surrogates which passed through this due to poverty....slap on such govts which took the women to this sacrifice.selling their wombs...exchange of baby n money is business.it can be act of kindness if money is not involved n done by some relative.
A very insightful video how surrogacy has been exploited in India and considered a blessing in another part of the world. However, in India, the legal laws must be established in order to keep the exploitation at bay. These women who know, get the proper medical attention after the delivery and do they retain their pre-pregnancy health? I would say, none should exploit other for a personal aim. The legal laws must be established to limit this pregnancy bazaar in India and given proper medical care and ensure the fertility clinics are well equipped providing skilled medical care.
I hate that this is happening. If giving birth to healthy full term babies was an Olympic sport I would be Simon biles!!! I wanted to help a family but didn't meet the rediculous requirements!!!
Why not adopt children ? I was adopted by beautiful, loving couple .. we need people to adopt children , so many kids in the world 🌍 would love to go home to a loving 🥰 parents .. give them the chance ..
Why is adoption only suggested to infertile people? There are more fertile people than infertile. Why shouldn't they be asked to adopt vs have biological children?
As if the tangled web of emotions that come along with surrogacy weren't complicated enough, legal issues can make the process even more of a struggle for mothers and families. While there's no doubt that carrying a baby for nine months and giving birth creates an emotional attachment, additional problems can arise if the surrogate has the legal option to keep the baby. Surrogacy is not equally enforceable in all states. This may mean that the intended parents have no legal right to claim the baby as their own. That may complicate the decision-making process for a surrogate who can't bear the thought of giving up the infant. For some women facing such challenges, reliance on a surrogate mother may be an option. Like the women whom they help, surrogate mothers may experience a host of emotional issues. I have been through surrogacy in Bio tex and I know the pain. There has also been stories of surrogate exploitation in some countries which is something bad.
Maybe it is because I'm not in that position but I don't understand why they don't just adopt. There are newborn babies out there that need families. I just don't get it.
They delivered the baby on a whole platter tho🤣. But frfr the gift of life is an amazing thing and being able to be a blessing to someone who can’t carry a baby for themselves is great when done the right way for the right reasons is amazing.
as a man, I cannot even imagine how hard must be a surrogate mother
As a woman and a mother of one, neither can I.
As hard as selling your own child after giving birth
They should pay her more money for the twins
The normally do. In Ukraine, as of 2020, the surrogate mother makes thousands more for carrying 2.
Even it's it's happenstance it's definitely a victory and an added reward for mother and doctor seem good. If course the parents might not have extra money to pay.
If they’re only expecting one and the egg splits that’s a hard call. I’m sure most would love that but there’s always going to be someone that isn’t prepared, etc. I’m not trying to be mean btw! I hope it doesn’t come across as that. xo
Just not enough $$$ for this. 100k is needed!
They do!!
What the Doco doesn't focus on is the mental implications of giving away a baby you held for 9 months , in a nation with no Social Security .
Yes they sold it, but the pain remains.
It also overcompensates the donor side while giving near no exposure tot he mother's situation after the delivery.
Pathetic.
Sush Ana, I appriciTe ur concern for the lady who went through so much for 9 mts n the feeling of emptiness she feels after.
I feel like they need to provide the surrogate mother with some serotonin blocker for when the child is born so that she does not form the bond that naturally occurs when a mother births a child, and vise versa (as in, the genetic parents receiving a serotonin inducer so that they bond with the child)
The experience must be induced so that the sides feel towards the child as it should be. But that's just an idea, I'm not sure.
Exactly 9 months then ripped from the only mother he knew
@@timthetoolmanasshole724 no, the child didn't know the mother, if my child was taken away from me at directly birth I would expect that it would still instantly assume that it's being held by its true mother, and I say mother and not parents because a baby doesn't likely know what a father is when it's born, since it didn't develop it's sensory/nervous system yet. It's the surrogate mother that usually suffers here, not the child who was wanted from the start (unless they abandoned the child as many "parents" do).
Agreed. The doctor is sugarcoating the whole deal. And let’s be real, how many women don’t have a choice? How many are being forced to do it by family members? What’s her future going to be like when everyone involved is happy and may not actually see any of that money?
Adoption is beautiful. Why does DNA matter so much to these ppl? It kills me. My husband and I adopted our beautiful baby girl. She's the love of our lives. Too many children need a loving family. This surrogacy crap is so wrong.
Protect the children Beautiful 💕
I don't mean to be mean. I have dealt with infertility myself. Adoption seems cruel to me too. You take someone's baby. Some situations there is no family to take care of the child but in some the parents may just be poor. I wonder if helping them financially is less selfish than to take their baby.
@@JV-pl5ff not always. We adopted. The birth mom contacted me. She got my number from her neighbor who happened to be my ex brother n law. She didn't want children EVER but she did find a family who would love her child and do. She's very much a part of our daughters life even though she didn't want her. She gets pictures regularly and goes to dinner with her and to the park because that was my only stipulation. That my daughter would know her and when she's old enough would know why the bio mom didn't want her. It's not like she doesn't love her. She does. She just never wanted children. She's asked if she became pregnant again if we would take that baby too. Of course we will. Sometimes adoption happens because ppl are poor and that's a tragedy yes, but sometimes it's like ours and that's beautiful.
@@candylove49 thank you
@@JCC_1975 that is a good reason and saw a friend of mine do that. It breaks my heart that people can do that when they are so blessed to physically be able to conceive. Well I guess not everyone thinks the same. I am glad your daughter has someone like you to call mom.
Such an amazing video. The couple was so happy on the birth of the baby boy. The happiness of becoming parents was clearly on their faces. However, the women who gave birth have to face a lot. She faces all the pains from getting pregnant to giving birth. At the end, she has to give the baby. This must be really painful.
The first couple appalled me. Talk about business like, they didn't even make sure the surrogate felt ok, they acted like she wasn't even human
@@lmc8833 I thought it was gross how they just left her in the room.
Couldn’t the couple with a child already adopt another one?
They wanted a biological child. Which is what they got
People believe their genes are superior, instead of pouring love and care into a child in dire need. People don’t love babies/children, they love THEIR OWN children.
Morgan J That’s so true❗️
In our country adoption is almost impossible as there are so few babies or young children.
Adoption in the US is insanely expensive along with tons of red tape. Many want biological or infants. Why, i dont know. There are plenty of children that are waiting for adoption, they just arent newborns.
They paid 30k for ivf. 7k for the surrogacy so 37k as i understand.
My husband and I had fertility issues before having our first son. I can’t explain how desperate you begin to feel month after month. Fortunately we ended up conceiving naturally and then got pregnant again.
I don’t think I could ever par take in this as I strongly believe the baby grows an attachment to the voice and smell of the woman it grows inside of but I can’t judge others for doing this as long as it is legal and all parties are willing knowledgeable participates.
Surrogacy is a result of people feeling entitled to a child. People do not deserve children. Children are not cute collectible toys for display. They’re real human beings that will grow into adults with their own personalities and opinions. There’s more to life than having children.
So selfish,these poor kids are going to be angry when they find out how their Mothers are treated,shame on them!
@@taliabraverwhat mothers? Surrogate mothers not biological mothers
It's the commodfication of human life.
one noticeable part is this when this Indian couple went back to India they still choose to save a few Indian ruppes and choose a rickshaw. I can imagine their living standards and poor lifestyle in the UK
How can someone take an auto with new born in a polluted sir of India , it s weird , Uber & olla taxi are available
They should have opted for surrogacy in UK only.
Having been adopted and placed a child for adoption (assault baby) I do in the back of my mind wonder about the fitness of this rabid obsession with a biological child. If you are so very pressed that it be genetically related than do you really want a baby for the joy of parenthood or is it just an inane desire to procreate... I mean sure try it a few ways for fertility or even an attempt or two at surrogacy but once those have failed and the obsession is still there I guess I find it an oddity that I simply must question what exactly their motivation is
I want something i can called my own you dont understand
In the Netherlands, contraception and abortion are free. To adopt, they want you to be rich own your house, work 40h a week, not be sick and or handicapped, be married for a number of years, non smoker, live in a neighbourhood where tge neighbours are alike these conditions and just PERFECT.
@@NikkieRoxxx in Switzerland too, except contraception isn't even free. And once you give up a child for adoption, after a certain delay where you can claim it back, you have no rights whatsoever to contact him/her or even just to know how she/he is doing. It's a shame, really... But abortion, of course, is free, and possible up to the very end of the pregnancy...
Surrogacy is one of the most immoral things that is legal, it is baby selling essentially. So many children need foster parents in U S if you truly want to be a parent help those kids first
@@NikkieRoxxx are you trying to say those requirements are somehow wrong or unfair? in case you've forgotten, adoption is done for the benefit and in the best interest of the child. not to fulfill the adopters desire to have a baby. otherwise, it's just human trafficking.
What is striking is how there appears to be no real voiced concern from the mother who lost her own uterus during the birth of her son, about the possibility of the surrogate being at risk of experiencing the same loss.
She just wants what she wants. And f they’re using a donor egg, they could just adopt…or just adopt.
It's amazing how much people will do to have a baby while others pay to abort theirs. This is also so sad. Using young girls who are poor to carry babies.
People who desperately want a child choose to get pregnant (by whatever means they utilize). People who get pregnant by accident did not choose to get pregnant.
Also, we mustn't forget the "egg donor" industry. It is actually killing young women who, for money or even "altruistically" (separating mother, motherhood and child is not altruistic) donate their eggs. And it works with the surrogacy industry as well. Both are exploitative and cause so much harm to so many women and innocent children.
So true but at the end of the day not everyone who wants a baby can afford adoption r surrogacy and it’s really sad
Abortion is sometimes medically necessary so that has nothing to do with this!
Get your weak ass pro choice argument out of here those women opened their legs and knew what happens no reason to abort unless your life is in danger
@@2davivadiva unless you're taking care of all the babies .... then shut the fuck up.... about abortions
It would really be sad if some of these women were beginners and after giving birth could not have children of their own.
My, the female style is of dress in India is gorgeous.
Fuchsiababe in the US that is standard protocol. They have to previously had live birth(s) and be done with their family because that’s one of the many risks, infertility. Surrogates must also have consent of their husbands if married or at least all my surro friends have.
I wish they would ask these people why not adopt? That one couple paid well over 100K for just IVF without a surrogate, with it probably close to 120K. It's not like they were well off either, just an average working couple. It's their choice but I'd like to know why some of these people would go to the lengths of draining their savings for the sake of DNA when so many babies need a home...
Adoption can be even more expensive in Australia and can take many many many years
People are entitled to there own DNA and not raise a child grow up and say your not my parents
Because they are too selfish, their greed, selfishness and self centerdness is so great, they will stop at nothing to get what they want while the children in desperate need contunue to suffer.
Google User 2000 its not their fault that some parents leave their kids and they suffer. That couple doesn’t have to pay for mistakes of that parents. They deserve their own child. Sorry for my English
We have adopted and we are asked the same question: "Why don't you want your DNA in your child?" - Everyone has do do what their hearts and minds tells them is the right way. NO one should adopt if it's not absolutly what they want, because the history and the trauma in these kids are real and painfull for the families.
You should not be able to order a human being like you order a pizza. These people are selfish full stop. If you can’t bear a child and don’t want to or can’t afford to adopt then humble yourselves. Everybody has troubles in life, everyone has pain and difficulty to bear. If your worst problem is that you can’t have a child then in the grand scheme of things you are lucky. You are not “helping” these women who are surrogates. Help is giving without expecting anything back. Especially not expecting a human being for money. Its sick. Volunteer at a local hospital, at a school or church if you need love. Don’t try and buy a baby.
This is 100% the truth. I am so glad others see this like I do!
I can't even watch, they sell babies, you see how they hand them over and just leave. This is too much for me.
Cami Breide me too it’s sickening.. did you see Indian couple from Britain. The surrogate had to have a cesarean they didn’t even thank her.. like wtf they baby snatchers.. creepy!!
Y'all obviously do not know what surrogacy means. It is not the surrogates biological child. It is the couples sperm and egg made into a embryo then placed into the surrogate.
Rylee&BrettsMommy it doesn’t negate that a woman has to use her womb for nine months. It’s not an easy task being pregnant for that long and having hormones running thru your body like that. This just a sick example how the well to do can exploit the poor under privileged women.
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@@candycoatedcyanide3267 I am a surrogate. 5 times. I love being pregnant. I love it. I don't want to raise a baby. I just wanted the joy of being pregnant. I love giving birth. How dare you assume that I am being taken advantage of. Being a surrogate is a joy for me.
I feel bad for the little boy, seems like he's just 'not enough' for his parents. I hope that's not the truth, but it just came across like it.
So agree. That made me sad that they spent a house payment trying to have their own baby when they have a lovely child to enjoy.
you pay 30.000 dollars for a precious baby then leave the hospital in a rickshaw (tuck tuck) in the crazy traffic of India!!!!!my brain can not digest this!
😂😂Mine too
Yup.
I thought the same…
That car seat looked like a toy
7,ooo$ to carry twins. Ouch I had 3 pregnancy one of which was twins and it's more then twice the trouble. My twins did well after all the scary part but I still do physical therapy and had surgery to repair nerve damage. I understand they chose this but worry about the possible life impact.
Geee.......maybe I should get on the bandwagon and go exploit women in other countries. Nahhh, I want women to become independent and not have to rent out their wombs. Who says that the childless are living a life of misery? It's been proven that having kids makes life HARDER.
I would be dead if it weren't for my son. He is my happiness...
Ellora Elise you should be a parent if you are so unstable
I "rented out my womb" I loved the experience and I'm going to do it again for the same parents in another year
@shilo6928
I presume you’ve been a Gestational surrogate carrying a Genetic baby for 2 Biological parents?
Good for you!
Some of these naysayers are hypocrites, they’re supposedly pro choice but draw the line at surrogacy..?
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This will be a great program for me. Being a male from America, I have lost my ability to trust another person. If I do surrogacy, from the third world, the child will be mine, I will have primary custody. Further, When I get married and they sign the prenuptial agreement, my son/daughter and my money will be protected.
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7000$ in us = 523,743 in rupee. So to them it’s like half a million.
And the corrupted company are taking around 3 times more than what the surrogate's deserves. 8k out of the 30k???
They said it's 3 years wages
This is so wrong. We should accept that we can not have everything in this life.
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Just rolled on out of there with a new born baby in that death trap car thing
Brah, like it was a sack of potatoes 😲
Exactly. ..paying that much and can't afford a cab/taxi? Absolute ridiculous
Lol!!!
This is such an emotional video. I am glad she was able to survive. She gave birth to such a cute baby. However, she was unable to conceive for a second baby. For her, surrogacy was the one last option. Surrogacy is really a blessing for such couples. It is really hard for those couples for whom even surrogacy fails.
I don't want this to sound cold, however maybe it's not in their best interest to have children, maybe the higher power knows better!
Fucking stop!
Agree.These couples aren't satisfied with all of the blessings they've been given.Nothing will ever fulfill them
Agreed
Hi. It is a great video. My friend was an infertile woman. She wanted to have a baby but it was not in her fate. In the end, she decided to go for surrogacy. She went for it. She has a baby now. She is a happy mother. I am so happy for her.
Couple that had a little boy that was four years old Iit really upset me a little bit she’s upset because she had a hysterectomy but she ended up with a beautiful baby boy and that wasn’t enough for her? They’re acting like their child died their child did not die. They are so so lucky not only did the mom survive but the baby did too. I can’t have a baby Unfortunately my medical conditions will not allow me to carry it and I’ve had to come to terms with the fact that I will never be a mother no matter what. I’m not married and not in a relationship currently and without help there’s no way I could possibly take care of a child I had to come to terms that I’m not gonna have one just won’t happen and I got so upset to see this woman complain that she has just one baby and not to be so happy you have a husband and a baby because some people don’t even have that and never will.
I totally see your point.
I was also TOTALLY disgusted by that couple, esp the mom. The way she was so cutesy in videoing her 4-year old (with a stupid name, Ptolemy...geez that will look dumb on a resume as an adult) as she explains they did not have the surrogate get pregnant...like she expects that kid (who looked a little yonger than 4 but whatever) to react or care or even UNDERSTAND / conceptualize the information she is saying. Its like she is a mommy blogger coaching her kid to give a certain response so she can capture the fake response she wants on camera. Ppl like her should not have kids.
The mom with th kid is trying to heal her trauma through another womens womb. Its very depressing. She has a son that needs her!
Looked like they brought the baby out in a Turkey pan
I thought that too 🤣
Try adoption! So many babies are left behind because of the "human puppy mills"... So sad that this is allowed!
Indeed it is the exploitation of the less privileged. I would say India must ban this or provide tangible rights to surrogates as well as the IPs. There are lots of cases that fit right with the exploitation of human rights. Ukraine has become very advanced and well aware of the rights and laws, therefore, he has become the most sought country for surrogacy. It protects the rights of surrogates as well as the IPs.
Everyone saying adopt instead ADOPTION IS MUCH MORE EXPENSIVE EVEN THAN SURROGACY!!!
Leave about expensive but it also takes years together to adopt a baby🤷🤷
So what
That's lame the world sucks ugh dang money
What I want to know is... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ADOPTION?
The main reason why I disagree with surrogacy or IVF is because we should be finding homes for the children that already exist, not going through all this trouble making more.
I DARE these parents to go to an orphanage, and say to the children to their faces, "We are doing IVF or surrogacy because you are not good enough"
+Chibi Neko I plan on only adopting. Better to give an already abandoned child a home rather than bring one into this already overcrowded world.
+Chibi Neko because adoption is 3 times more funds than surrogacy. sad but the truth.
+Chibi Neko Adoption is an option. It is very hard. I only had one biological child of my own, and she died before I got to know her. One thing that bothers me is when my parents, or other relatives just tell me to be happy childless. They don't understand how it feels. I'm considering adoption. I cannot forsee what the outcome will be, but I'll try. Adopting a child is not a replacement for the one I lost. I want to raise an orphan so I can guide and nurture him/her.
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Or surrogacy.
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I understand. My wife and I will have to make a decision after the New Year of what is best. Maybe surrogacy.
I will pray first.
I've had 3 healthy babies without any issue and I want to help someone become a mama or even daddies become daddies... I can't imagine life without my kid's & a healthy couple deserves that without having to break laws or travel contents... I'm 31 this month and live in the usa.
Females can love each other, cheer for each other unless they're uneducated & only see competition, let's step up & promote female potential! Let's teach, help & cheer for each other & God bless their children!
It’s 7k for risking your life, and potentially your own future fertility. That is the reality.
Just not worth it but they are being exploited due to their under-privilege. It’s so sad.
Why don't these people consider adoption??? There are so many children who just want a home
I stand with you
Why can’t they just adopted children in need of families? Why do they care so much about having their own blooded child..
I cant have kids and im about to start IVF knowing theres a 29% chance it will be a success.
This couple are an insult to many others in my position. She has a child of her own but she's wasting all that precious time, energy and money chasing another?
I hope they can finally enjoy raising their son.
@Jennifer P, they may want MORE than one child. How they spend their money is THEIR business, just like how you spend yours on those EXPENSIVE IVF treatments is yours!! The heart wants what the heart wants you know that...I know personally what you are going through and I wish you 29 Thousand times a successful IVF procedure!!!
Exploiting women AND treating life as products. Disgusting!
NO WAY IS THIS EXCUSABLE. JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN IS INFERTILE, DOES NOT ENTITLE HER TO A BABY. LIVE WITH IT AND QUIT USING PEOPLE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
I don't have any sympathy for people who pay for women to be exploited and carry "their" babies. But the guy at 23:03 really needs to get punched in the face. Saying he was ripped off and that they knew women may be exploited but they never imagined they could be exploited themselves. This shows the absolute lack of empathy for other human beings. I'm sorry, but there's no way someone like that is going to be a good role model for a kid or a good parent.
the prime motive is money is true and a person needs help and another provides help is true also. But the rub is the poor get 1/5th of the value of the "deal" the poor carry the baby and receive little in return.
It is clearly large profits because of the growth seen in the business. again on the backs of the poor.
what I am saying is if the money was shared more evenly and regulations with longterm studies made this can benefit everyone equally.
I oppose surrogacy process and it needless to say that surrogacy can be a very expensive affair and it is therefore not an option for those of few financial means. However, contrary to myth, many commissioning couples are not rich in the traditional sense but a middle class or upper middle class.
The surrogate mothers are typically, but not always, in the lower income range and therefore a typical argument is, "The rich are exploiting the poor!”. And I believe it is the main argument why surrogacy is prohibited in many countries. Unfortunately, there are some countries like Ukraine for example which still allow such kind of exploitation in their territory. That’s why today a number of people are going there for the surrogate baby.
To me this is no different then buying organs. They dehumanize these women and call them “incubators”. I don’t know how anyone can justify this selfish behavior.
I’m curious to know if you’re pro choice?
The baby was literally delivered to them.
I see it as a win-win situation.A lot of these women have children they can't afford to feed and doing this helps them immensely.They know the child(ren) they are carrying is or aren't biologically theirs.
Nawll, for once can't believe I'm saying this but um I'mma agree with the China one child law.... people need to take more responsibility over religious make believe.....GOD would never want this for his people or the universe whatever we wanna call it
That's far from the truth, cause the Seagate mothers that carry the babies for nine months, they are also the mothers. They are not only Seagate mothers. That's the reason so many mothers don't want to become Seagate mothers, cause its verry painful to give up a child.
@@littleblueprintwritinghood192 One child law was a disaster and China still paying the price for such foolish law.
@@littleblueprintwritinghood192 So if someone has more than 1 child we would kill them or put them in orphanages like China did too? Wow you're fucking ignorant
7-8000 USD per surrogacy is definitely taking advantage of theae women. They put their lives at risk. And then who will take care of their kids if something happens to them?
I am on the fence about it. your changing someone else life yet it's like buying a product almost so I am torn. Unfortunately it's just how society is. If you don't have kids society makes you feel like "You failed at life and should be ashamed!". If you have your own child it's like "congratulations"! Sadly the majority of society see adoption as picking up someone's used baggage. If society did not make people feel this way than these places surrogacy clinics would not need to exist.
This really is an unfortunate event. It makes me awfully sad. I'm a massive supporter of surrogacy. However, I can't understand how can people go for it in India. This is so inhumane! This is why people cannot stomach that surrogacy is actually helpful. Please improve your services and stop this exploitation.
Stop hating. If you can have babies, shut the fuck up. If you aren't adopting kids or sending every dollar you make above what you ABSOLUTELY NEED to starving kids or other charities, shut the fuck up. learn from the video, stop criticizing. The problems with this arrangement in terms of predatory practices toward surrogates and the people purchasing the surrogacy are risks people were willing to take. For every unhappy couple or surrogate mother on this film there are a thousand happy ones. Go find another issue about which to go on an impassioned internet rant and stop letting your opinions be about shaping the lives and choices of others, whether you are a Christian extremist or the woman on this film pontificating about the flaws with this industry. People who can't build success themselves criticize the success of others in hopes of recognition.
Why do they not consider adoption? Already living and existing kids are waiting for a family and a home! Aaaaannnd,It's legal and not a baby trade or doesn't traffick desparate women's wombs!
I honestly don't understand why people make such a big deal out of this and call it "controversial." I don't see why it's wrong to help a couple have a child when they are unable to do so on their own. If it is a gestational surrogacy, then the child is not even genetically related to the surrogate. She just carries the baby for 9 months and do something wonderful for someone else. Some people just don't want to adopt and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. All of you who are leaving hateful comments probably can have children on your own. Imagine that you can't. Wouldn't it be wonderful if someone could help you? A mother is more than someone who carries a child. A mother is someone who brings you up and cares for you. I could see how badly those couples wanted children and they would have been great parents. The only bad thing about this is that many Indian women who are involved are doing it for the wrong reasons - Money. I hope those agencies educate these women and prepare them for this journey by giving them good health care and living conditions. It is not the most natural way to have children, but it is an amazing thing to help a couple become parents and there is nothing wrong with it.
Its not wrong but people who are religious freaks are scared of anything to do with science...
Hasi R , they make it for the wrong reason? and for you it is the fault of these poor Indian women which do this for money, are you kidding me?...what you propose, they have to do this just to help rich people to get babies, and have everything in life where theses poor women can die hungry and have nothing? they take 7000 dollars to give someone a baby that's is nothing really nothing they take nothing they exploit them.and you speak that they are good couples, and great parents, you can see only what they show you in video, but you forget baby gammy 's father the pedophile? guy who make a baby like this, all people who do this are not a good parents as you say.
I do understand that there are poor Indian women and not everyone can make money easily. What I was saying is, I hope those Indian women do it because they want to help other people and not just for the money. I don't really understand what you mean when you wrote about the father being a pedophile. I hope you understand that there is no actual sexual acts involved in this process. The sperm and the eggs are donated from the parents and injected into the surrogate in a medical setting.
Hasi R,but women do this for many reason the most important is to try to help their children's and family first with money which they get, and secondly they want to help others family, that's known and all surrogate women say this, the first motivation is money but it is not the only one, and the pedophile father, I talked about one famous case of surrogate mothers, its is known in all world, the Baby Gammy case, you can search her in youtube there is many videos about him, the trisomy baby abandonate by his biologic parents, they are Australians, and his father is a pedophile...that just to tell you that not all parents who ask surrogate mother to make a baby not all of them are good parents as they show us in this video.
+Hasi R What you have to remember is that the surrogacy industry works on money. And they WANT women to be surrogates "for free" - that way, they don't have to pay them anything.
Please also note that actual surrogacy-conceived individuals, as well as donor-conceived individuals, are already adults and many are opposed to surrogacy and sperm and egg donation (those often go together, because the "intended parents" can literally custom-order a baby according to their wishes with other people's eggs and sperm). It harms the children that are born through it. And it exploits women - pregnancy is a dangerous process in humans, and many surrogates face health complications from the process ranging from mild to permanently changing (including the loss of their own fertility and organs) to fatal.
And we can't even say that regulating surrogacy would change all of that, because it never does. It should be banned - and THEN debated thoroughly, so that no more women and children are harmed until lawmakers can come up with a solution.
The human rights of others can not be disregarded just because people suffer with infertility. People suffer a wide variety of issues, many of them can't be changed, but somehow, infertile people should get a pass for doing whatever they can, no matter how ethical, to change their circumstances? I'm sure cancer patients would love the option. But no, instead, infertile people pump their money into adoption, surrogacy and egg/sperm/embryo donation industries, rather than into medical research to actually cure causes of infertility. Sure, makes sense.
I'm so tired of people who write about adoption under videos about surrogacy. Why don't you just go and adopt a baby instead of teaching infertile people how to live their lives? I think it's wrong to even compare surrogacy and adoption. As was said so many times already, surrogacy is a way of infertility treatment. I had cancer of the uterus so I can't carry a baby by myself. I chose surrogacy to have children, is it a crime? It is my baby and sm just helped us to carry our son. I don't consider surrogacy as something bad and wrong. This procedure gives people hope and happiness to infertile couples. Thanks to surrogacy we have our son and I have family I've been dreaming about.
I think this is great. it seems like a fantastic opportunity for the poor Indian families to be lifted out if poverty, it gives the biological parents a dream they couldn't afford in their own country.. it's totally a win- win situation, what's wrong with that?
You are sick !
What happened to women controlling their own bodies? Oh, wait, I forgot that only has to do with abortion.
Poverty is what made this people to do this. Big difference.
I completely agree with many commentators. India was the worst variant for infertile couples. But I understand that people who used surrogacy there. For many of them it was the last chance to have children. They can`t afford to use surrogacy in other countries. In the US one need to have more than $100 000 to do it. It`s impossible to get such money for ordinary people. I work in one of the clinics in CA. We deal with surrogacy and ART as a whole. We advise many our patients to go abroad. About a year ago Argentina was a perfect variant. Bu now Zika is widespread there. So I can`t recommend South America as a surrogacy destination. Now many of our patients go to Georgia, some prefer to go to Ukraine. They offer good programs for small money. Everybody was satisfied with their work.
I hate the idea of basically incarcerating women for surrogacy until the baby is born. No baby farms. If a woman is a surrogate and doesn not have a home then funding should be provided for her to independently find a place. If there is a legit medical need and no proper hospitals near where the woman is staying then an entire apartment should be provided for the family. There are women in a freaking hall way on cots renting their wombs as though they were cattle. That disgusts me. They should be provided for during and after their pregnancy. Her husband and other kids should also be there in a nice place not a gd hallway. I consider it immoral to keep women in hallways and on site at a baby farm. But have no issue with surrogacy and considered it myself. But the offer for me way quite different. And there was absolutely no staying on premises at a glorified stall
This is torture!!!! Please stop! Look at the baby,he feels a void because he was taken from his mother! Money equals demon!Baby deserves LOVE!
The love of money is evil
Y'all obviously do not know what surrogacy means. It is not the surrogates biological child. It is the couples sperm and egg made into a embryo then placed into the surrogate.
@@ryleebrettsmommy2704 you clearly dont know the connection between a baby and its mother. The mother grew the baby in her womb for 9 months so of course the baby is going to want its natural mother no matter what. Why do you think it illegal in some places to separate puppies from their mothers until at least 9 weeks?
@SelfDeprecatingJokes dogs aren’t removed because they’re not being taken to an adoption dog mom who’s going to care for them. They need to be with the original dog mom so that they can be nurtured in a way that humans can’t do as well. The human baby can be nurtured by another human adult. It’s not like you’re taking the babies to empty houses and just leaving them there. Learn about some psychology and think about the logistics of it before comparing humans to dogs.
There are many women willing to be surrogates for people in this country. These women are poor. They need to create a proper system where the surrogates get what they deserve. The clinic I went to for my surrogacy was so organized. It impressed me. i had a great experience there. They need this in India too.
At least you gave one !
ok but who the hell names their kid "Ptolemy"?
A fan of Cleopatra
Their Greek
I am betting that the surrogate never sees a penny of that $7,000. Mother-in-law and son will claim it.
Countries should 1. Not allow citizenship for babies born by surrogacy outside your country and 2. Impose jailtime for trying to, or lying about the subject. The baby should be returned to country of birth. This is disgusting
If the surrogate is good with doing it then I guess it's ok. As long as no one is forcing them to go through it. I don't know why are people giving this whole concept weird names. People are in need of babies. They should be glad that the needy are being provided by something.
No. You are wrong. They are FORCED by poverty brought on by lazy/useless domineering husbands to do the most vile and unnatural of cruel acts.
@@valeriemacfair2205it’s the rich people’s faults that the women come from unfortunate backgrounds? Huh?
I get that some people want to have biological kids but it seems kind of wrong to go to India to have a baby when there are already so many kids out there, and in India alone, who are in need a family.
Kelly but it’s almost impossible to adopt from India 🇮🇳
Kelly, Orphans are used as curency in INdia, grants for them , and young orphan girls are valued for the sex they can provide to the orphanage officials.Sounds like hell, but its worse than hell.
0:20 her reaction is priceless 😍
Hi everyone. Dear it is really a very nice video. Actually the problem is that many people want their own baby who adopt their own characteristics. It is only possible with surrogacy. In surrogacy the eggs are placed in the healthy womb of surrogate mother. The surrogate mother then fertilizes the eggs and delivers the baby. As the eggs are of the couples so the produced offspring adopt the characteristics of the couple itself. This is the main reason that people choose surrogacy over adoption. Surrogacy indeed is a blessing for such couples. I really respect your point of view but what the fact is fact and we can't change people's perception. Thanks!
Society needs to understand what is Family??? Is family only having kids ???why can’t people accept fate. Money isn’t everything
Human exploitation!
I agree
What an amazing video. I truly appreciate your efforts. So many people are unaware of the procedure. I am glad that surrogacy is becoming common now. It has helped so many patients. It has helped complete their dreams. It serves as a magic to the barren families.
lol. I'm poor AND childless and where is HELP for me? There isn't . I find this to be wrong b/c I don't think these women understand anything about the world now. If they did, they wouldn't be having more kids.
Exactly. When people say "everyone has a right to a child" they somehow seem to exclude poor infertile couples. It's only the rich couples who have rights.
feeling like a biological child is owed to you is so fucking disgusting. I am currently pregnant, accident, but I would never EVER go to the narcissistic lengths these couples go to to procure a child.
When I was in search for clinic myself I read many information about surrogacy in India but to be honest it's never been my option. I love the country, been there on holidays many times, and people are lovely but the level of their life stop me from trusting my child to Indian woman. My choice was Ukraine and it was a great experience. At list Ukrainian women do this because they want to help. And the level of their life much higher.
I pray for all surrogate mother in the world.
You need to watch the Ukraine broken and abandoned babies the medical care is awful and lots of babies have been born with brain damage
It's extremely sad to know what happened to this couple. IVF is a good option what im quite sure it wasn't done properly. Since the treatments associated with pregnancies and infertility aren't uncomplicated most of the times. It Requires proper clinic with experienced doctors to make these treatments work out. Surrogacy is the best option nowadays for infertile people. I believe people should go for surrogacy in Europe rather than India as it's not a good choice. Currently, i am visiting biotexcom in Ukraine, The clinic never disappoint anyone.
it is the much informational clip to see. I really want to appreciate these clips which are spreading this information. an event is going to held in Lodan on 19 August of Biotextcom. which is much informational. they will all related information of infertility and the solutions of it. I wish that all the infertile couple may have their best.
alix smith I watched it also.
That Kid looked at Her like He was saying WTF You talking about ???
Exploiting women and children shocker.
I hope everyone in the comments talking about adoption have adopted at least 2-4 kids themselves and choose not to have bio kids. Otherwise don't shame infertile couples.
TheSisterlyBloom Exactly these judgemental people will be happily popping our their own biological babies and mounting high horses to blame infertile couples who opted surrogacy. This is discrimination at the highest form, so just because some people have ‘disability’ and cannot conceive they by default are forced to adopt??? And this enforcement is not exploitation? Exploitation is forcing anything on anyone who is not willing to do it. All you self righteous people crying for the rights of orphan children are will fully exploiting the infertile couple by shoving adoption down their throats!
Adoption....
its not quite the same for some people. The baby can be made up of you and your wife instead of just a random adults offspring
I understand it is not the same thing, it just seems very selfish
aConcernedHuman it's not selfish just because they're infertile. Loads of people have biological children everyday.
Surrogates women carry only the baby produced by the male egg and her own ovule so it is not their own baby but it is the baby of the surrogate woman with the DNA of the other man.
It just blows my mid that people would spend so much time and money on IVF and surrogacy when there are babies-a-plenty to be adopted. Why does it matter so much that your baby looks like you?
+Kay Race blah blah blah..adoption is about 50k$ its very costly process!!!why didint you get fixed so you can not havyour own kids but just adopted yes there is plenty of kids to adopt so why did ypou make your own...you are selfish and ignorant...you could helped one of those poor things who needs love and family but you wanted to make your own baby...im sick of ignorants and hypocrites as you..,you could have helped the orphans but you wanted to make your own kid...shame on you....
There's actually NOT a lot of babies to be adopted. The adoption industry has to resort to more and more deceit, lies and illegalities in order to make any money.
Also, not everyone is fit to raise someone else's child. Being raised by people you are not related to requires extra care and understanding.
That said, surrogacy doesn't help, since it harms the surrogate as well as the child.
lyanna lyanna beautiful response to that individual who wants to have their own child but happily judges those who cannot and have to chose surrogacy!
The woman only received 7k for carrying twins??!!! That is disgusting!!!! She should have received far more double!!!!
But a donor egg baby is not your baby. I don't think I could have a baby that belonged to my husband but not me. So sad women are faced with having to make that choice. That's heart wrenching.
This is the ultimate solution to the problem of infertility. But sadly there is no clinic in India you can trust. I better prefer the clinic in Ukraine for the treatment of infertility. Sometimes it's easy to get rid of this problem and sometimes it's tough to deal with this situation. It's good to have your surrogacy or IVF treatment from the experienced staff. This can help you out in many ways. Nowadays I am visiting the clinic situated in Ukraine for my treatment and I am having a great experience .
I m feeling sorry only for those surrogates which passed through this due to poverty....slap on such govts which took the women to this sacrifice.selling their wombs...exchange of baby n money is business.it can be act of kindness if money is not involved n done by some relative.
A very insightful video how surrogacy has been exploited in India and considered a blessing in another part of the world. However, in India, the legal laws must be established in order to keep the exploitation at bay. These women who know, get the proper medical attention after the delivery and do they retain their pre-pregnancy health? I would say, none should exploit other for a personal aim. The legal laws must be established to limit this pregnancy bazaar in India and given proper medical care and ensure the fertility clinics are well equipped providing skilled medical care.
I hate that this is happening. If giving birth to healthy full term babies was an Olympic sport I would be Simon biles!!! I wanted to help a family but didn't meet the rediculous requirements!!!
You don't have to justify your love of your son to us, you can see the love you want to give out to another person as well, you can love many.
The surogate mother's mother is crying...
This is crazy!
Why don't they ADOPT a child?!
JesusGodHolySpirit3 because like you we want to have our own!
Having a child is not a right. This is fucking evil.
Im not gonna lie i needed this!!!!
Why not adopt children ? I was adopted by beautiful, loving couple .. we need people to adopt children , so many kids in the world 🌍 would love to go home to a loving 🥰 parents .. give them the chance ..
Why is adoption only suggested to infertile people? There are more fertile people than infertile. Why shouldn't they be asked to adopt vs have biological children?
Soma looks soooo very detached during their 1st meeting. It’s very sad
Maybe she’s just a more reserved person
i dont see anything wrong here
God blessed them both
As if the tangled web of emotions that come along with surrogacy weren't complicated enough, legal issues can make the process even more of a struggle for mothers and families. While there's no doubt that carrying a baby for nine months and giving birth creates an emotional attachment, additional problems can arise if the surrogate has the legal option to keep the baby. Surrogacy is not equally enforceable in all states. This may mean that the intended parents have no legal right to claim the baby as their own. That may complicate the decision-making process for a surrogate who can't bear the thought of giving up the infant. For some women facing such challenges, reliance on a surrogate mother may be an option. Like the women whom they help, surrogate mothers may experience a host of emotional issues. I have been through surrogacy in Bio tex and I know the pain. There has also been stories of surrogate exploitation in some countries which is something bad.
I hope those children born to surrogacy will turn out well and not become a pain in the xxx to their parents.
Maybe it is because I'm not in that position but I don't understand why they don't just adopt. There are newborn babies out there that need families. I just don't get it.
There's tons of older kids too who need adopting. They're the least adopted, bc everyone wants newborns or young toddlers/children
They delivered the baby on a whole platter tho🤣. But frfr the gift of life is an amazing thing and being able to be a blessing to someone who can’t carry a baby for themselves is great when done the right way for the right reasons is amazing.