Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately

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  • @reginarampersad
    @reginarampersad 3 года назад +194

    “No one is you and that is your power”

    • @lessonsfromafather3465
      @lessonsfromafather3465 3 года назад +1

      It’s perfectly accurate ;)

    • @issabelsmith3657
      @issabelsmith3657 3 года назад

      I know a man who can help you get love💞♥️ without much effort 💯💯

    • @issabelsmith3657
      @issabelsmith3657 3 года назад

      I heard about Dr Johnson💯💯💯 from a friend of mine👭👭👭

    • @issabelsmith3657
      @issabelsmith3657 3 года назад

      I contacted him and he helped me get the love💞💕 I had always wanted for long time

    • @issabelsmith3657
      @issabelsmith3657 3 года назад

      I didn't believe at first but when I saw that what he said was coming true💯💯I believed him and I didn't regret it

  • @amandagoosman916
    @amandagoosman916 3 года назад +65

    Matthew’s ability to empathize and encourage such a broad audience, while being relatable and maintaining such a dynamic presence is such a refreshing talent. I don’t know what kind of psychological background or training he has but he is definitely doing what God intended him to and helping so many.

    • @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light
      @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light 3 года назад +2

      Yeah I reckon he chats to God and tells people what God tells him to🧚‍♀️

    • @marco-bgu4888
      @marco-bgu4888 3 года назад

      @Amanda Goosman....I agree with you. I believe that his ability is God given.

  • @IAmMonicaDenise
    @IAmMonicaDenise 3 года назад +139

    Comparison is the thief of joy and the #1 enemy of your Confidence!

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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    • @mariannefidel
      @mariannefidel Год назад

      I couldn’t agree more ❤

  • @b.johnny369
    @b.johnny369 3 года назад +85

    “I am not enough.” The root of all lack of confidence. Probably learned it before we were 8. We just build on it as we get older.

  • @RamadaTheFemme
    @RamadaTheFemme 3 года назад +350

    can we talk about how nice this shirt looks on Matthew??

  • @DeMafiaGirl
    @DeMafiaGirl 3 года назад +127

    This does say a lot. Matt's insecurities about never being as good as Tony Robbins yet a lot of us love Matt way more than we care for Tony Robbins. Who cares if there's a bigger guy with a better stage presence than Matt, he's still more important to his fans than Tony. This is the case for everyone else. There will always be people who will love you more even if there are better more successful more beautiful people out there. It's the connection that you make with someone and the friendship that you cultivate that makes you irreplaceable.

    • @natural91LC
      @natural91LC 3 года назад +6

      agree! I used to òlike Tony Robbins, but the more I see his stuff the more a scam it seems to be. I mean, yes a lot of what he says is good but many things are toxic and misogynist. Matthew is better, he show a great deal of empathy and doesn't think he's hot stuff, in the sense he always tries to better himself and stays humble. (so it seems at least, i don't know him personally)

    • @user-vn9sh6hv8r
      @user-vn9sh6hv8r 3 года назад +6

      I seriously dislike Tony Robbins..! I gather he has some good things to say but it feels like you're being shouted at. I get that he has some vocal issue or health problem that affects his voice, but i personally just cannot listen to it. It makes me tense up. I've also seen some of his treatment of people on camera and he comes across as a bully. Maybe that's what some people want in a coach, but it sure as hell is not what i want..! Matt on the other hand is super easy on the ear (as is Stephen). So weird to even think he's comparing himself to Tony Robbins. Big and dominating does not equal better!!

    • @natural91LC
      @natural91LC 3 года назад +5

      @@user-vn9sh6hv8r yep, exactly. he seems to be a bully with his clients (let's face it that's what they are). For my personal history, being shouted at , triggers my trauma and I don't learn or improve. I get that tough love is needed sometimes and that lots of people do improve with this stronger approach but he's on a whole another level.

    • @hindhader
      @hindhader 3 года назад +2

      syrollesse, your comment is so beautiful and reminded me of a line from a book: “It is the time you have put in for your rose that makes your rose so important.” ...

    • @catmartin7809
      @catmartin7809 3 года назад +2

      Who's Tony Robbins?🤣

  • @dwightschrute4252
    @dwightschrute4252 3 года назад +28

    Please venture out of dating and relationships I’ve watched you for years and you’re the only one I’d listen to when it comes to communicating better, be more confident at work, etc

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @contempl8ive
    @contempl8ive 3 года назад +22

    I always relax a little when someone reminds me of the permission to fail. Confidence is so mysterious for me in that it arises naturally and counterintuitively when I accept the imperfection inherent in being human

    • @KarinaSwan
      @KarinaSwan 3 года назад

      Thank you for your comment. I'm a perfectionist and it's a big thing that ruins my confidence, your comment made me think

  • @diogoramiro3987
    @diogoramiro3987 3 года назад +12

    I’m 21 and I can say My confidence come through respecting myself, respecting my values and defending in what I believe, having goals, healthy life…etcetc. I know that I won’t fit every girl I want and That doesn’t mean that it’s a problem on me. And I should not fake who I am just to fit her. If she doesn’t feel attracted in what I am, than I won’t be worried, if she is there and cares for me is something, if she doesn’t is on her. Just share a bit of my confidence! Thanks for this video mate!

  • @Booster85
    @Booster85 3 года назад +99

    Best confidence is working on yourself with no other distractions, single life is the best 🙌

    • @jlghinis
      @jlghinis 3 года назад +7

      Wouldn't say "the best", but certainly efficient

    • @IevaKambarovaite
      @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +23

      I think we've been sold this idea that the best life is when you focus on yourself. But there are layers to that. We're social beings and having a life where you care about someone else and not just yourself very often is way more fulfilling.

    • @Booster85
      @Booster85 3 года назад +7

      @@IevaKambarovaite I’m an introvert by nature so enjoy my own company, I’m more productive when I am alone too, being sociable has its benefits as we all need friendships, but the more we rely on others for self gratification the more we become disappointed

    • @Violet.Claire.88
      @Violet.Claire.88 3 года назад +7

      I don't understand why you need to say that single life is the best in relation to the fact of working on your confidence... you can still work on your confidence while being in a relationship (of course, it has to be an HEALTHY relationship). It's not like you stop being yourself while in a relationship 🙄

    • @Booster85
      @Booster85 3 года назад +2

      @@Violet.Claire.88 if you come from where I am from then you will understand how selfish and toxic most relationships can be, from experience I have been burnt too many times s

  • @BignBeautifulXo
    @BignBeautifulXo 3 года назад +10

    I think we’re our own toughest critic. There’s things people admire about us that we ourselves don’t even see because we’re too worried about being better and never standing back realizing how great we already are 💚

    • @mariannefidel
      @mariannefidel Год назад +1

      “Realising how great we already are” that for me is a key takeaway. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts x

    • @elizabethdebebe8388
      @elizabethdebebe8388 Год назад

      This

  • @lavanyam2892
    @lavanyam2892 2 года назад +11

    I love this. Its so holistic and wholesome. It reminded me what I actually wanted before I started obsessing over my love life.

  • @sharonbrown3061
    @sharonbrown3061 3 года назад +7

    I rarely write in the comments section, but thank you Matthew, this was really insightful. I’ve been single 6 years and been focusing on building my business and raising my teens. I was literally saying yesterday to someone how my weight is linked to my confidence. But when I lost weight previously, I still wasn’t as confident in other areas. Then I put on a little weight and the confidence I did have crumbled. Will definitely register for the masterclass 🤟🏻

  • @soda6265
    @soda6265 3 года назад +11

    Awesome book about confidence: "6 Pillars of Self Esteem" Nathaniel Branden
    It's been a game-changer for me, probably one of the most impactful books I've read. The author breaks down and analyzes different aspects of self esteem and also gives some exercises to figure out what you're struggling with and how to improve.

    • @mariannefidel
      @mariannefidel Год назад

      Thanks so much for sharing about this book!!! I’m going to look into it 🙏🏽

  • @user-my2eo9lo1y
    @user-my2eo9lo1y 3 года назад +2

    "To be confident, one must feel confident in learning to value and love oneself." You are genuine and there is someone who love your genuine and confident self. Be confident not a perfectionist. Perfectionist will fail, confidence will succeed..God Bless!

  • @tulistar3
    @tulistar3 3 года назад +3

    You've become a very valuable man. You communication has gotten much clearer, with your acceptance of yourself. It shows through the amount of vulnerability you are comfortable with now. Most definitely a keeper 💜

    • @lovenevergiveuplove9650
      @lovenevergiveuplove9650 3 года назад

      Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

    • @lovenevergiveuplove9650
      @lovenevergiveuplove9650 3 года назад

      massage him on WhatsApp

  • @andlj.179
    @andlj.179 3 года назад +2

    1. Not everyone is our cup of tea. It holds true for Tony Robbins, who is mentioned in the video. There is something in his appearance ( essence as you call it) and presentation that is very repelling to me. He exudes very strange vibes.
    2. I disagree with your statement that circumstances can entirely erode confidence. Yes, maybe "confidence", which is brittle, composed of and based on external validation. But if the foundation of our inner confidence is firm, the circumstances can still shake us a bit and elicit some self-doubt but at the same time awake our warrior's spirit and faith that we would be able to sort things out and overcome them.
    3. Speaking about confidence in dating. I like this quote: "I won't settle for some man just because he is better than no man. I need passion, fire and assurance this relationship is almost as good as the one with myself, and it's a hard standard to meet". 😁

  • @marco-bgu4888
    @marco-bgu4888 3 года назад

    Matthew, I have heard many many public speakers, advisors, and motivators, but their message about what confidence is lies on external shallow aspects that are so fragile they can dissipate any moment and destroy our confidence as you mention. Those messages deep down lack something and also they make me feel like confidence is something unreachable for me. On the other side, you are the very first one who talks about the own essence. For the first time I get a hint of what can be a new road of self discovery. Your message makes so much sense. Thank you!

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 года назад +14

    The life you live is more important than the words you speak.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @anonymousperson8259
    @anonymousperson8259 Год назад

    12:58-14:40 Anybody else feeling Mr. Rogers "It's you I like" vibes? I needed this 💯😊😊😊

  • @kellyjanepattinson6710
    @kellyjanepattinson6710 3 года назад +5

    "Screw it im going to enjoy it"...Thanks Matthew ♡ and thanks for address insecurity through illness xx

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @maariyah5808
    @maariyah5808 3 года назад +6

    Matthew you are an inspiration because you are true to yourself and everyone around you. Your authenticity is golden and to be able to be real is a great strength. You and Steve are both great guys, most importantly you make us smile 😊

  • @taniaparadiso2343
    @taniaparadiso2343 3 года назад +14

    Regarding this "I'll be confident when...", remember sometime in the past you said that, and now your living that future from that past. Therefore, be happy for what you already achieved. You'll do it again :)

  • @julialaugerman2931
    @julialaugerman2931 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this, Matthew! One of the things I appreciate the most about you is how you try to encourage people in all parts of life (not just dating and relationships) and point us toward self compassion. We are all in this together! We are ALL insecure about SOMETHING (many things) and that is part of the human experience. But when we focus on those insecurities, we miss the joy and blessings we have and dim the light that we bring to the people around us!

  • @ZoeyIndigoSky
    @ZoeyIndigoSky 3 года назад +57

    First thing I noticed was Matt's arms like omg 😍😍😍

    • @madisonbekk3064
      @madisonbekk3064 3 года назад

      Really I like the outfit you’re wearing in your photo
      can iI PM you?

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад +5

      His head is getting smaller than it was

    • @user-vn9sh6hv8r
      @user-vn9sh6hv8r 3 года назад +1

      @@HouseMDaddict 😂😂😂 Call it like it is..! I agree but have been too polite to say so. There's a point where people body build and it becomes disproportionate. But sometimes they can't stop because it becomes an addiction (the body-chemistry stuff) and they're worried if they stop it'll turn to flab.... It's slippery slope!

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 3 года назад

      Sameeee

    • @a.k.9404
      @a.k.9404 3 года назад

      Same girl

  • @ersheri
    @ersheri 3 года назад +6

    Lack of confidence makes me sabotage relationships.
    This is one of the BEST videos you have ever done!! 👏👏👏👏
    PS Signed up!

  • @ripal1991
    @ripal1991 3 года назад +10

    I am 29 years old, getting frustrated and anxious that I still haven't met someone to build a strong long lasting relationship. Seeing posts on social medias about engagements and weddings, I am questioning my worth and losing confidence.

  • @evenight0024
    @evenight0024 3 года назад +17

    "Insecurity masks our essence." (noting down)

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @plamitodorova5952
    @plamitodorova5952 3 года назад +4

    Matthew you are the best coach in the world because you have a unique energy that no one else has.
    I can connect and understand your message by the unique way you deliver it better than Tony Robbins.
    Thank you for showing the things from different perspective, I haven’t thought about that before and will try to apply it to achieve that so desired confidence.

  • @ayatahmad2156
    @ayatahmad2156 3 года назад +1

    Here's what works about you for me: you are real and raw. I know you are "one of us"
    You are clear and specific with your advice.
    You are really good at putting abstract ideas and feelings into words

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @ianbooth4010
    @ianbooth4010 3 года назад +1

    I can relate to this is so many ways. Until recently I had been dating a girl that I thought was out of my league.
    My insecurities weren't there initially, but lockdown, work issues, trying to be the best dad to my son, all these crept into my life and I ended up in a deep depression. I wasn't good enough, for anyone.
    When we went our separate ways recently. I started eating better, training more spending more time on myself, but my mind keeps coming back to the same thing.
    'She left because I wasn't good enough'.
    I blew it. I truly love(d) her.

    • @promiseosajie840
      @promiseosajie840 3 года назад

      Hello dear friend I got my relationship fixed with the help of the greatest spiritualist who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

    • @promiseosajie840
      @promiseosajie840 3 года назад

      Here I leave his WhatsApp number he will surely help you

  • @ForWhyThooo
    @ForWhyThooo 3 года назад +2

    I've watched you for years and you still make me have so many "duh!" moments lol because you make so much sense!!! I'm glad that your information is becoming common sense to me, my confidence is improving and I'm finally okay with being alone until I find someone that cares about me and wants to make me happy. Thank you for being my unofficial coach for so many years!

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious 3 года назад +8

    Thank you Matthew for all your hard work and good advice for us!

  • @lex6819
    @lex6819 3 года назад +1

    Essence is real. My BTS bias was one of the guys considered one of the most handsome, but then I started noticing one of the rap line guys, and I just loved his personality and the way he carries himself, his essence. He's my bias now. I'm ot7, not a solo stan, but I can't resist his essence.

  • @jenniferwhite546
    @jenniferwhite546 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely, charisma is not only the obvious measures. Confidence is not only produced by perfectionism, it's created by getting up again when we failed. I like the fuck it approach. Sometimes the choice we need to make is accepting that imperfection will always be there, there is no guarantee of certainty.

    • @mariannefidel
      @mariannefidel Год назад

      I can relate. I really resonated with the “getting up again” part and embracing how moments of failure can actually give us confidence by realising how strong we are.

  • @KadeSyx
    @KadeSyx 3 года назад +4

    Yup i dated an extremely beautiful girl. Works out as much as I do, lifts like i do, we had great chemistry, and for some reason all these insecurities came up that i was not aware of and i translated to the bedroom because of the anxiety i ended up having. And i was definitely trying to please her in every way so i wouldn't lose her. From the start it seems i was already thinking that i didn't deserve her

    • @MaricaIvica
      @MaricaIvica 3 года назад

      Sounds like you had a scar city mind

  • @zobabahider9820
    @zobabahider9820 Год назад

    Your magic is you're authentic positively , your funny and compation way , you're very good in connection with people , makes who watching you feel comfort ❤️

  • @michellereeves3337
    @michellereeves3337 3 года назад +3

    Amazingly truthful video about our confidence in general. (I have had a black eye for the past week due to an accident and I have been super insecure about it. I hear you! 😆)

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @erikauy7265
    @erikauy7265 3 года назад +3

    Omg so excited about the Masterclass with you and Charlotte Tilbury!!!!

  • @dena383
    @dena383 Год назад

    I think your sincerity it’s shows your confidence.. I love it..

  • @walker0972
    @walker0972 3 года назад +4

    This is the best video on this channel yet! Thank you for the life advice. Rebuke insecurity for it’s not of God. We allow the enemy to convince us we’re not good enough.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @kimberleyayache5408
    @kimberleyayache5408 3 года назад +1

    I literally had this issue at the start of the year and saw a therapist who advised, the only way you can gain confidence is to just do it! So I jumped back into dating and while it was quite unsuccessful, I’m feeling a lot more confident again and it makes me feel really empowered! I’m still working on it and I always will be, but I’m happy I jumped back in 😊

    • @Rwissam1987
      @Rwissam1987 3 года назад

      What were you insecure about?

  • @amiramahgoub
    @amiramahgoub Год назад

    Well. I'm glad to find your channel Matt. I learned a lot from you and I felt confident to writes to you and tell you about myself and my relationshups in the past. As I'm talking to someone I knew before without feeling shame or guilt for what happened to me or what I have done but it came nature . loyal and honest person you are and that the beauty of friendship.

  • @folapanache
    @folapanache 3 года назад +1

    There is no better time to be confident, just be freaking confident 🙌

  • @godsplan7726
    @godsplan7726 3 года назад

    Matthew Hussey..you say the right thing and you do the right thing..
    Matthew Hussey..you make this world a better place just by being in it..
    Matthew Hussey..you are a blessing to the world..

  • @nusibasaeed1938
    @nusibasaeed1938 3 года назад +2

    those muscles are amazing ✨
    i like the idea of "what works about you"
    because i feel that about myself and the people around me but i've never figure out what is it ❤️

  • @MrsFieSummers
    @MrsFieSummers 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for making this, Mathieu. I needed to hear that.
    I've just come out of a relationship and feel absolutely horrible. I "got the guy". I followed your advice and I was so happy. Until he decided to leave. However it was an honest and a very decent breakup. Nonetheless I am devastated and eventhough I've been through heartache before this time around it r e a l l y stings. But - I've found my way back to your videos and will start the jurney to mend my heart - again. But last time around it was such an experience and I'm sure I'll start to look forward to what's in store for me. Thank you for being on RUclips, Mat. You really make a difference 🙌🏼

  • @dena383
    @dena383 Год назад

    I love that you are real and give issues and everyday tips helping others.. helps people grow change be best self..

  • @kathyingram3061
    @kathyingram3061 2 года назад

    ~A few years ago when i thought i had cancer, i got more bold & confident than ive ever been, cuz i thought somehow i had nothing to lose, since i was gonna die soon anyway....since then, ive tried to get that bold attitude back...what an odd but nice consolation to perceived impending death it was....

  • @glowgrow4318
    @glowgrow4318 3 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot for this post. Could you please post “how to find your essence “? 😭🙏🙏🙏 you are an amazing life coach✨

  • @_lines_of_joy
    @_lines_of_joy 3 года назад

    I'm addicted to your advises! You are amazing. Thanks so much!!!!

  • @gracepulido7766
    @gracepulido7766 3 года назад +2

    I needed this reminder, thanks so much! You’re awesome!

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚..

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      +1=3=2=1=3=5=1=2=6=0=5..

  • @karinkostolna3245
    @karinkostolna3245 3 года назад +1

    You have a good hearth, you are ephatic, shy and emotionall all in right way

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @wannabeagoodperson5827
    @wannabeagoodperson5827 2 года назад

    my heart was hurting almost the entire video because I can relate so much to it.. thankyou for breaking it down for me, I'll work on it

  • @alessandravalmadre7512
    @alessandravalmadre7512 3 года назад +6

    Great and interesting video! I'd say, however, that the things we do to ameliorate certain areas of our life, like getting in a better shape, concentrating on our career, learning a new language etc do have an effect on confidence, but not because of the final result we achieve but because of the process. This is fundamental in children education: it's not the result that matters, it's the process. When we engage in something to get better at it, we get more confident because the process itself changes and adds something to our essence that cannot be taken away even when we stop doing that thing. For example, if I start going to the gym, not only do I become fitter, but I also learn something about my body, I get acquainted with new techniques, I slowly improve my discipline, I get to know more people (improving my ability to interact with them) etc. It's these things that deeply affect my essence and my confidence, not the getting a better body per se, and they will remain even if I stop going to the gym.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +11

    yikes... I definitely go into people pleasing mode and I am totally like that in my regular everyday life. I have trouble saying no to things I dont want to do because I dont want to disappoint people so that translates into my dating life.

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад +2

      So find ways to work on it. I used to be like this but I had great friends and family kind of keep me aware of when I was doing things above what I needed to do, and when people were taking advantage of my kindness. I eventually got out of that habit. Now I have plenty of people, besides long time friends or family members, who like me for me. I am enough because I set appropriate boundaries at work, in my social life, and when I feel like dating again post-covid, it'll carry out there too.

  • @chantalallan8019
    @chantalallan8019 3 года назад +2

    I've signed up to the event. Collaborating with Charlotte Tilbury is such a clever idea and I love both of your work, so this is very exciting!

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      𝑨𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕
      𝑪𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒊𝒈 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒏𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒅𝒂𝒚𝒔. 𝑺𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕_𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓 𝑴𝒓𝒔 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @lilym5053
    @lilym5053 3 года назад +2

    Think I really needed to hear this !

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @LalienX
    @LalienX Год назад

    I've been chatting with this girl out of my league looks wise so I really needed this

  • @annamarsch6091
    @annamarsch6091 Год назад

    this was so helpful. thank you.

  • @Tennistiqueable
    @Tennistiqueable 3 года назад

    Lifting my spirit up every time im watching you.. thks

  • @jlghinis
    @jlghinis 3 года назад +10

    Ok, last question: consider a vid or 'dating-health' checklist for people whom need to know whether they are fit enough not to pollute a future relationship.

    • @IevaKambarovaite
      @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +2

      A couple of pointers before jumping into a new relationship:
      ▪️Are you self-sufficient or you're waiting for someone else to make you happy?
      ▪️Do you have ill feelings towards your ex?
      ▪️How are your non romantic relationships? Do you have a circle of friends?
      ▪️Do you take care of your mental and physical health?
      You don't have to have everything together before you enter a new relationship. It's all work in progress. I have a video about it on my channel if you're interested.

  • @gracielamartin9148
    @gracielamartin9148 3 года назад

    One of the best videos you’ve ever done. Thank you!

  • @paris8780
    @paris8780 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely we connect to your essence. Thank you Matthew Hussey!

  • @iraisbillings68
    @iraisbillings68 3 года назад

    You are so handsome and I am very grateful for your videos. Thank you Matthew! 💜

  • @kathygrow1652
    @kathygrow1652 Год назад

    I so appreciate you. Thank you!!!

  • @tsebosei1285
    @tsebosei1285 3 года назад

    Matt = breadth of fresh air. Matt = the best. Matt = awesome. If awesome was a person =Matt

  • @melaniedeatherage637
    @melaniedeatherage637 2 года назад

    Yes!! I was so confident like 5 years ago!!!

  • @sabrinachels
    @sabrinachels 3 года назад +1

    Woohoo! Can’t wait to watch and listen to the collaboration with Charlotte Tilbury!!! 😍💕🥳 I’m a huge fan of you and her!

  • @katiepowell4772
    @katiepowell4772 3 года назад

    I totally relate to the 4 th comment read out at the start of the video , and I’ve never had lots of confidence in things that want to

  • @lavaniya85
    @lavaniya85 3 года назад +2

    Blubbed a bit whilst watching this 💕 I have figured out my essence in the last few months. I am me..flaws and all. The fuck it attitude. I messed up a few presentations few days ago but I am not stewing on it.....I will be better next time 💕💕. I constantly self sabotage....people tell me I give the air of confidence but deep down am my own worst enemy. I grew up within a comparison culture and struggled to come into my own until now. Thank you. Oh and signed up for the 9th of June 🙌🏽🙌🏽Xxx

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @shelbywilliams1603
    @shelbywilliams1603 3 года назад +1

    This was so helpful. I forget how awesome I am on the inside. Thank you for the reminder 🙂

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

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  • @user-qw9fq9vb5c
    @user-qw9fq9vb5c 3 года назад

    You are already worthy. You already deserve love. You might become a better person but love the person you are right now :)

  • @maryamnazari9052
    @maryamnazari9052 2 года назад

    Thank you, Matthew. for me, the most interesting thing about you is the topics that you choose which are really my concerns, and the way you speak, your approach, and your advice are really interesting and practical, also I really appreciate you for being the voice of Iranian women recently.

  • @amber4027
    @amber4027 2 года назад

    Ok this has been my favourite video to date. Thank you Matthew for speaking to this. Love love love what you do, it’s a gift and we all appreciate how you transform our thoughts and help us better ourselves ❤

  • @poonamtiwari8333
    @poonamtiwari8333 3 года назад

    Amazing life changing video ever I have come across.. Thank you so much for sharing your valuable ideas and experience with us... God bless you 🙏

  • @user-cr1wu5bb9b
    @user-cr1wu5bb9b 3 года назад +2

    Nothing in life is guaranteed. If it matters, you will put forth the effort. That’s the difference between success and failure for anything. No regrets is knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that you tried your best. No one perfect...including self. Embrace and love who you are now. The rest will fall into place.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @julieb4765
    @julieb4765 3 года назад +2

    I've got a date on Monday and I'm not feeling confident right now. Thanks for making this!

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 3 года назад

      Just be you! I'm sure you're awesome! You never know if that "you" us who they're looking for, so don't try to change into who you THINK they want. I've personally had some great dates where the ice was broken simply by me laughing at how awkward it was initially. I remember one where it encouraged him to laugh and relax and we had a really great time. He wasn't in the same path that I was so we mutually agreed that it wasn't going further but we both acknowledged that it was more fun when we loosened up and addressed the awkwardness.

  • @jhinwood8177
    @jhinwood8177 3 года назад

    All signed up and can’t wait! This video was amazing!

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 года назад

    It’s amazing how all the text messages you read at the beginning of this video people are struggling with what I think they can overcome very easily with the right set of tools. I’m not downplaying how they feel I’m saying for myself I often magnify something 50 million times when it really isn’t that big. They CAN overcome anything! Timing is everything, I’d rather wait patiently through personal development ,faith and prayer than to accept something awful I want God’s best.

  • @vivithefox6697
    @vivithefox6697 3 года назад +2

    I've watched your videos for a while now and there is one topic you have never addressed that I really think should be addressed when dealing with dating. Competition. When dealing with someone who tries to Interfere with Mr.right.

  • @Bamgeutcutiepie
    @Bamgeutcutiepie 3 года назад

    I admire this famous person.. because what I see in him is he is confident in what seems like a very core level. If he’s annoyed, or sad or tired. He shows it. Even in tv. If he’s not feeling it today, he kind of just accepts that. As someone always “on” he can still be quiet and feel like that’s ok, because he knows he matters even if he doesn’t give it his all today. Tomorrow he might be feel like being a goofy entertainer again but it’s all good. Either way he is, he knows he’s enough.
    That’s something I think is the best level of confident we can become. Because I don’t believe we should be confident in all areas of life. I might still feel worth something as a person, I might have confident on the outside but I think it’s ok to have things in your life steal your confidence. I don’t believe in being a super human all the time. I don’t believe in giving it your all. Being high achieving all the time. All I believe is this: whatever I am today, is enough. I am enough.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @jonassearcher3708
    @jonassearcher3708 3 года назад +1

    This video is timely!! Thank you Matthew Hussey! Much needed!

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

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  • @hagarmostafa793
    @hagarmostafa793 3 года назад +1

    Big fan from Egypt ❤️❤️

  • @sarahyoung8696
    @sarahyoung8696 3 года назад +1

    Love this Matt! 😊I actually have a lump in my throat.🙃 I am traveling that day but will try😊 to join the video .Sarah Y.

  • @jazminebryant9707
    @jazminebryant9707 3 года назад +1

    I can't with the whole dating thing...It's positively EXHAUSTING!!!! I often think I will probably never find anyone...and that's sad because I'm a great catch!!!!...I just have zero interest in participating in dating right now....🤷‍♀️

  • @Foxandhen
    @Foxandhen 3 года назад +1

    Matt ! See you on June 9th!!! So excited!!

  • @rachaelvaldivieso3434
    @rachaelvaldivieso3434 3 года назад +1

    WOWW Honestly Math this was one of my FAVORITE VIDEOS you've ever made. Everything you said was so spot on and beneficial! Thank you for this video. I really loved it and found is so impacting. xxx Can't wait for your class with Charlotte!

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

      𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

    • @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly
      @PînnedbySųrvívalLılly 3 года назад

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  • @anncarroll3611
    @anncarroll3611 3 года назад +2

    You’re a decent, caring guy, Matthew.This is the simple truth. I appreciate your essence.

  • @captainswan3079
    @captainswan3079 3 года назад

    This video is just what I needed to hear. Right on time. Thank you Matt!💞

  • @giuliadenaro6713
    @giuliadenaro6713 2 года назад

    You are a Legend!

  • @judithcharvit7982
    @judithcharvit7982 3 года назад

    I can't wait for this master class , thank you !!!

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 года назад

    Matthew I think you’re an EXCELLENT SPEAKER! And we LOVE The way you talk , and your British accent. It’s amazing how we have these silly things in our head like you said stop comparing ourselves to others. And I prefer Matthew over Tony! Matthew seems genuine and kind compassionate NOT filthy dirty slimy and manipulative

    • @rahilayamusa7837
      @rahilayamusa7837 3 года назад

      Hello friend, I am from Australia. I can recommend this powerful spellcaster that helped me bring my ex back within 48 hours after 9 months of separation...

  • @donatellameravigliec.6833
    @donatellameravigliec.6833 3 года назад

    This arrives right in time Matt ! Thanks 🙏
    I’m afraid they would leave ....

  • @Dezikids5
    @Dezikids5 3 года назад

    This video is amazing and so are you. Thank you for all you do for the world..

  • @ninamadeksza911
    @ninamadeksza911 3 года назад +1

    That's the best Matthew's video I've watch - the key to dating know yourself and develop an internal power that will boost you all the time :-D

  • @kristenlobstein8634
    @kristenlobstein8634 3 года назад +1

    A black teabag compress is a wonderful treatment for a stye. Earl grey, orange pekoe, etc- wet the teabag and put it on your eye for 20 minutes. You’ll be amazed.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.

    • @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556
      @pnnedbybusinessblaze8556 3 года назад

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  • @iulianionescu
    @iulianionescu 3 года назад

    This was a really good video. Very informative and well presented. Thank you!!

  • @rartinderkaur3499
    @rartinderkaur3499 3 года назад

    Hi G ... Thank you for this graceful explanation on such a big topic once again . Awwwsome.Rightly said that both are two sides of the same coin . Insecurity is about no answer to why and how to values along with love and respect .on the other side confidence is a surety ,it's a belief that is an essence to completeness and a key to success among them . Thanks so much for everything . Much Care 🤗. Secured my place for the upcoming event and see YOU soon . Stay blessed 🤗...

  • @AmariaSweetMusic
    @AmariaSweetMusic 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for your wisdom. 💖🙏🏽

    • @AmariaSweetMusic
      @AmariaSweetMusic 3 года назад

      I'm allowing spirit to guide me through my healing and integration . . . Still pushing through Sexual & SRA traumas . . . Anxious Preocupied & Fearful / Dismissive Avoidant. Wprking on it.
      Of ot's meant to be, he'll return . . . We have a vacation in 2 weeks. If not, I am detached and ok if we lovingly part ways.