Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately
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We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting.
Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach. Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes.
In today’s video, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are.
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Comparison is the thief of joy and the #1 enemy of your Confidence!
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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I couldn’t agree more ❤
can we talk about how nice this shirt looks on Matthew??
Enttttt
Right???
Distracting!
And how hot Matthew is !!! I can literally just stare at him all day !!!
@@udayachanigarapu7510 same Lolol 🙈🙈😍😍
“No one is you and that is your power”
It’s perfectly accurate ;)
I know a man who can help you get love💞♥️ without much effort 💯💯
I heard about Dr Johnson💯💯💯 from a friend of mine👭👭👭
I contacted him and he helped me get the love💞💕 I had always wanted for long time
I didn't believe at first but when I saw that what he said was coming true💯💯I believed him and I didn't regret it
Matthew’s ability to empathize and encourage such a broad audience, while being relatable and maintaining such a dynamic presence is such a refreshing talent. I don’t know what kind of psychological background or training he has but he is definitely doing what God intended him to and helping so many.
Yeah I reckon he chats to God and tells people what God tells him to🧚♀️
@Amanda Goosman....I agree with you. I believe that his ability is God given.
This does say a lot. Matt's insecurities about never being as good as Tony Robbins yet a lot of us love Matt way more than we care for Tony Robbins. Who cares if there's a bigger guy with a better stage presence than Matt, he's still more important to his fans than Tony. This is the case for everyone else. There will always be people who will love you more even if there are better more successful more beautiful people out there. It's the connection that you make with someone and the friendship that you cultivate that makes you irreplaceable.
agree! I used to òlike Tony Robbins, but the more I see his stuff the more a scam it seems to be. I mean, yes a lot of what he says is good but many things are toxic and misogynist. Matthew is better, he show a great deal of empathy and doesn't think he's hot stuff, in the sense he always tries to better himself and stays humble. (so it seems at least, i don't know him personally)
I seriously dislike Tony Robbins..! I gather he has some good things to say but it feels like you're being shouted at. I get that he has some vocal issue or health problem that affects his voice, but i personally just cannot listen to it. It makes me tense up. I've also seen some of his treatment of people on camera and he comes across as a bully. Maybe that's what some people want in a coach, but it sure as hell is not what i want..! Matt on the other hand is super easy on the ear (as is Stephen). So weird to even think he's comparing himself to Tony Robbins. Big and dominating does not equal better!!
@@user-vn9sh6hv8r yep, exactly. he seems to be a bully with his clients (let's face it that's what they are). For my personal history, being shouted at , triggers my trauma and I don't learn or improve. I get that tough love is needed sometimes and that lots of people do improve with this stronger approach but he's on a whole another level.
syrollesse, your comment is so beautiful and reminded me of a line from a book: “It is the time you have put in for your rose that makes your rose so important.” ...
Who's Tony Robbins?🤣
“I am not enough.” The root of all lack of confidence. Probably learned it before we were 8. We just build on it as we get older.
I understand completely.
The universal trauma
Please venture out of dating and relationships I’ve watched you for years and you’re the only one I’d listen to when it comes to communicating better, be more confident at work, etc
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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I love this. Its so holistic and wholesome. It reminded me what I actually wanted before I started obsessing over my love life.
Awesome book about confidence: "6 Pillars of Self Esteem" Nathaniel Branden
It's been a game-changer for me, probably one of the most impactful books I've read. The author breaks down and analyzes different aspects of self esteem and also gives some exercises to figure out what you're struggling with and how to improve.
Thanks so much for sharing about this book!!! I’m going to look into it 🙏🏽
I always relax a little when someone reminds me of the permission to fail. Confidence is so mysterious for me in that it arises naturally and counterintuitively when I accept the imperfection inherent in being human
Thank you for your comment. I'm a perfectionist and it's a big thing that ruins my confidence, your comment made me think
Regarding this "I'll be confident when...", remember sometime in the past you said that, and now your living that future from that past. Therefore, be happy for what you already achieved. You'll do it again :)
I am from India ....How can i contact Matthew Hussey ?
Best confidence is working on yourself with no other distractions, single life is the best 🙌
Wouldn't say "the best", but certainly efficient
I think we've been sold this idea that the best life is when you focus on yourself. But there are layers to that. We're social beings and having a life where you care about someone else and not just yourself very often is way more fulfilling.
@@IevaKambarovaite I’m an introvert by nature so enjoy my own company, I’m more productive when I am alone too, being sociable has its benefits as we all need friendships, but the more we rely on others for self gratification the more we become disappointed
I don't understand why you need to say that single life is the best in relation to the fact of working on your confidence... you can still work on your confidence while being in a relationship (of course, it has to be an HEALTHY relationship). It's not like you stop being yourself while in a relationship 🙄
@@Violet.Claire.88 if you come from where I am from then you will understand how selfish and toxic most relationships can be, from experience I have been burnt too many times s
I’m 21 and I can say My confidence come through respecting myself, respecting my values and defending in what I believe, having goals, healthy life…etcetc. I know that I won’t fit every girl I want and That doesn’t mean that it’s a problem on me. And I should not fake who I am just to fit her. If she doesn’t feel attracted in what I am, than I won’t be worried, if she is there and cares for me is something, if she doesn’t is on her. Just share a bit of my confidence! Thanks for this video mate!
First thing I noticed was Matt's arms like omg 😍😍😍
Really I like the outfit you’re wearing in your photo
can iI PM you?
His head is getting smaller than it was
@@HouseMDaddict 😂😂😂 Call it like it is..! I agree but have been too polite to say so. There's a point where people body build and it becomes disproportionate. But sometimes they can't stop because it becomes an addiction (the body-chemistry stuff) and they're worried if they stop it'll turn to flab.... It's slippery slope!
Sameeee
Same girl
I am 29 years old, getting frustrated and anxious that I still haven't met someone to build a strong long lasting relationship. Seeing posts on social medias about engagements and weddings, I am questioning my worth and losing confidence.
I get that in my 40th trip around the sun.
Matthew where is your miss, when you preach all of this???
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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I rarely write in the comments section, but thank you Matthew, this was really insightful. I’ve been single 6 years and been focusing on building my business and raising my teens. I was literally saying yesterday to someone how my weight is linked to my confidence. But when I lost weight previously, I still wasn’t as confident in other areas. Then I put on a little weight and the confidence I did have crumbled. Will definitely register for the masterclass 🤟🏻
Ok, last question: consider a vid or 'dating-health' checklist for people whom need to know whether they are fit enough not to pollute a future relationship.
A couple of pointers before jumping into a new relationship:
▪️Are you self-sufficient or you're waiting for someone else to make you happy?
▪️Do you have ill feelings towards your ex?
▪️How are your non romantic relationships? Do you have a circle of friends?
▪️Do you take care of your mental and physical health?
You don't have to have everything together before you enter a new relationship. It's all work in progress. I have a video about it on my channel if you're interested.
yikes... I definitely go into people pleasing mode and I am totally like that in my regular everyday life. I have trouble saying no to things I dont want to do because I dont want to disappoint people so that translates into my dating life.
So find ways to work on it. I used to be like this but I had great friends and family kind of keep me aware of when I was doing things above what I needed to do, and when people were taking advantage of my kindness. I eventually got out of that habit. Now I have plenty of people, besides long time friends or family members, who like me for me. I am enough because I set appropriate boundaries at work, in my social life, and when I feel like dating again post-covid, it'll carry out there too.
I think we’re our own toughest critic. There’s things people admire about us that we ourselves don’t even see because we’re too worried about being better and never standing back realizing how great we already are 💚
“Realising how great we already are” that for me is a key takeaway. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts x
This
Lack of confidence makes me sabotage relationships.
This is one of the BEST videos you have ever done!! 👏👏👏👏
PS Signed up!
"Insecurity masks our essence." (noting down)
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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The button in the link doesn't work. Maybe this event is not intended to be for Latin America. :(
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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According to social media virtually every single person has the perfect relationship. Now, divorce stats and the reality of meeting and knowing those same braggrat couples and the overall compatibility between them is honestly average at best. Married couples often look bored and indifferent particuarly the man, so dont feel so bad when you see all this bragging. Its a total fabrication.
The life you live is more important than the words you speak.
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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1. Not everyone is our cup of tea. It holds true for Tony Robbins, who is mentioned in the video. There is something in his appearance ( essence as you call it) and presentation that is very repelling to me. He exudes very strange vibes.
2. I disagree with your statement that circumstances can entirely erode confidence. Yes, maybe "confidence", which is brittle, composed of and based on external validation. But if the foundation of our inner confidence is firm, the circumstances can still shake us a bit and elicit some self-doubt but at the same time awake our warrior's spirit and faith that we would be able to sort things out and overcome them.
3. Speaking about confidence in dating. I like this quote: "I won't settle for some man just because he is better than no man. I need passion, fire and assurance this relationship is almost as good as the one with myself, and it's a hard standard to meet". 😁
Tried to “book” the live event and it says “sorry there are no events for this date range”. 🤷🏼♀️
Hi! I just booked the event. Below the calendar just click (again) on "book now", don't choose the date. Should work for you, too 🤗
@@karolinw829 thanks, that worked!
That's for an event on June 24th... Not on June 9th, isn't it? I'm so confused 🤔
@@marinapilipenko yeah I’m confused too
@@thematthewhussey got it! Thank you very much 🥰
also, somehow you spelled my name how I like it (and not how my YT username is spelled). made my day, I'm blushing ☺️
Matthew you are an inspiration because you are true to yourself and everyone around you. Your authenticity is golden and to be able to be real is a great strength. You and Steve are both great guys, most importantly you make us smile 😊
The relationship is urs. Yr essence, story.
might as well have a funky attitude, be conf now
know ur true essence
juzd n u will be conf
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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I really like how you addressed your own recent insecurity, the stye. By bringing it up yourself, you took control back. And that I find very sexy. It was an excellent reminder that you, handsome, are just as human as the rest of us. Thank you for your continued coaching: sharing your passion, knowledge & advice❤
Yup i dated an extremely beautiful girl. Works out as much as I do, lifts like i do, we had great chemistry, and for some reason all these insecurities came up that i was not aware of and i translated to the bedroom because of the anxiety i ended up having. And i was definitely trying to please her in every way so i wouldn't lose her. From the start it seems i was already thinking that i didn't deserve her
Sounds like you had a scar city mind
Thank you Matthew for all your hard work and good advice for us!
Great and interesting video! I'd say, however, that the things we do to ameliorate certain areas of our life, like getting in a better shape, concentrating on our career, learning a new language etc do have an effect on confidence, but not because of the final result we achieve but because of the process. This is fundamental in children education: it's not the result that matters, it's the process. When we engage in something to get better at it, we get more confident because the process itself changes and adds something to our essence that cannot be taken away even when we stop doing that thing. For example, if I start going to the gym, not only do I become fitter, but I also learn something about my body, I get acquainted with new techniques, I slowly improve my discipline, I get to know more people (improving my ability to interact with them) etc. It's these things that deeply affect my essence and my confidence, not the getting a better body per se, and they will remain even if I stop going to the gym.
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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Your essence Matthew it's very highly concentrated 🤗
I like the strong essence because they are kept in small bottles.
You don't need to be as tall as Toni R.... I can beat that he would love to have 10 ml of your essence 🍾🥂
is the event full already? tried 3x n i cant seem get in when i click 9th of june. it keeps saying “Sorry, there are no events taking place in the selected date range.” 🤷🏻♀️
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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Matthew you are the best coach in the world because you have a unique energy that no one else has.
I can connect and understand your message by the unique way you deliver it better than Tony Robbins.
Thank you for showing the things from different perspective, I haven’t thought about that before and will try to apply it to achieve that so desired confidence.
So true he’s the best 💕
"Screw it im going to enjoy it"...Thanks Matthew ♡ and thanks for address insecurity through illness xx
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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Lol...I've walked past couples and thought 'shit....they look like brother and sister!' ...now that's a terrible part of me!!!🧚♀️
Matthew is a fine looking man but why is he still single? He dispensers advice which is often times good but does he practice what he preaches?
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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Nothing is for certain and permanent. So, I don't really see any solution to this except perhaps one thing: if it's right it should be easy. And if you lose you'll find another way. Also, being insecure is inherently human and it comes and goes. Life will find a way. Embrace and cherish being a person who sometimes questions yourself and who isn't stupidly confident and boastful. Nothing wrong with you.
Whats your special magic
Thats a life changing sentence
My birthday at 1st June... Its my worst days ever. Im all alone💔
Happy early bday. I will cheer you on the other side of the world. June baby, just like me. 😋
@@missanonymus585 thank you very much, 💕💕
Happy Birthday....I'm alone too Hun but God will bring a good man to you X
Hey, Happy Belated Birthday, hope you had a better day. 🥳🥳🥳😜😜
I've watched your videos for a while now and there is one topic you have never addressed that I really think should be addressed when dealing with dating. Competition. When dealing with someone who tries to Interfere with Mr.right.
I can't even count the times pimples during my period made me think I look ugly🤦🏻♀️ how ridiculous is that?? Like we all know it's natural and it's not like people stare at them🤣 same thing with stretch marks or cellulite or whatever the hell you can think of.
This is the best video on this channel yet! Thank you for the life advice. Rebuke insecurity for it’s not of God. We allow the enemy to convince us we’re not good enough.
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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You've become a very valuable man. You communication has gotten much clearer, with your acceptance of yourself. It shows through the amount of vulnerability you are comfortable with now. Most definitely a keeper 💜
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
massage him on WhatsApp
Essence is real. My BTS bias was one of the guys considered one of the most handsome, but then I started noticing one of the rap line guys, and I just loved his personality and the way he carries himself, his essence. He's my bias now. I'm ot7, not a solo stan, but I can't resist his essence.
Thank you so much for this, Matthew! One of the things I appreciate the most about you is how you try to encourage people in all parts of life (not just dating and relationships) and point us toward self compassion. We are all in this together! We are ALL insecure about SOMETHING (many things) and that is part of the human experience. But when we focus on those insecurities, we miss the joy and blessings we have and dim the light that we bring to the people around us!
Thank you so much for making this, Mathieu. I needed to hear that.
I've just come out of a relationship and feel absolutely horrible. I "got the guy". I followed your advice and I was so happy. Until he decided to leave. However it was an honest and a very decent breakup. Nonetheless I am devastated and eventhough I've been through heartache before this time around it r e a l l y stings. But - I've found my way back to your videos and will start the jurney to mend my heart - again. But last time around it was such an experience and I'm sure I'll start to look forward to what's in store for me. Thank you for being on RUclips, Mat. You really make a difference 🙌🏼
Tried to book and the site said no events on that date. June 9 😩
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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Tony Robbins will never have your lovely accent!
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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those muscles are amazing ✨
i like the idea of "what works about you"
because i feel that about myself and the people around me but i've never figure out what is it ❤️
"To be confident, one must feel confident in learning to value and love oneself." You are genuine and there is someone who love your genuine and confident self. Be confident not a perfectionist. Perfectionist will fail, confidence will succeed..God Bless!
Amazingly truthful video about our confidence in general. (I have had a black eye for the past week due to an accident and I have been super insecure about it. I hear you! 😆)
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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I've watched you for years and you still make me have so many "duh!" moments lol because you make so much sense!!! I'm glad that your information is becoming common sense to me, my confidence is improving and I'm finally okay with being alone until I find someone that cares about me and wants to make me happy. Thank you for being my unofficial coach for so many years!
Omg so excited about the Masterclass with you and Charlotte Tilbury!!!!
Hello Erika❤
You are great, Matthew :-) You have given me hope 3 years ago that good men exist. I just trusted your words and they are true. I am happily married to one of them now :-)
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.
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Matthew’s guns were very distracting i keep looking at em while he was talking. Still good talk, i learned alot again today, thanks Matthew Buff-ey
Matthew Buffey is hilarious 😂😂
Absolutely, charisma is not only the obvious measures. Confidence is not only produced by perfectionism, it's created by getting up again when we failed. I like the fuck it approach. Sometimes the choice we need to make is accepting that imperfection will always be there, there is no guarantee of certainty.
I can relate. I really resonated with the “getting up again” part and embracing how moments of failure can actually give us confidence by realising how strong we are.
Hi, when I click "book now" it says there are no events taking place that day?
Me too. Then I saw others’ comments to look next to Matthew’s photo, under the text there is a BROWN “Book Now” box. Click it and it will bring you to the sign up. Be prepared that a different date from June 9th will be shown. I got June 24th.
@@nascarkelly6879 Yes okay got it thank you!
Nothing in life is guaranteed. If it matters, you will put forth the effort. That’s the difference between success and failure for anything. No regrets is knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that you tried your best. No one perfect...including self. Embrace and love who you are now. The rest will fall into place.
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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I can't with the whole dating thing...It's positively EXHAUSTING!!!! I often think I will probably never find anyone...and that's sad because I'm a great catch!!!!...I just have zero interest in participating in dating right now....🤷♀️
Says "no events listed for this date" I think there's an issue with registration.
Hi! I just booked the event. Below the calendar just click (again) on "book now", don't choose the date. Should work for you, too 🤗
Karolin is right... to the right of Matthew’s photo and under that text, click on the BROWN “Book Now” box. Funny thing is, my booking is Wed. June 24th.
Thanks a lot for this post. Could you please post “how to find your essence “? 😭🙏🙏🙏 you are an amazing life coach✨
That's the best Matthew's video I've watch - the key to dating know yourself and develop an internal power that will boost you all the time :-D
I tried to book for the event on 9th June and it says there are no events on that date?
Me too. Then I saw others’ comments to look next to Matthew’s photo, under the text there is a BROWN “Book Now” box. Click it and it will bring you to the sign up. Be prepared that a different date from June 9th will be shown. I got June 24th.
Matthew.. my goodness, you look so hot here 🙈
Woohoo! Can’t wait to watch and listen to the collaboration with Charlotte Tilbury!!! 😍💕🥳 I’m a huge fan of you and her!
Any advice on getting back a girl?
Blubbed a bit whilst watching this 💕 I have figured out my essence in the last few months. I am me..flaws and all. The fuck it attitude. I messed up a few presentations few days ago but I am not stewing on it.....I will be better next time 💕💕. I constantly self sabotage....people tell me I give the air of confidence but deep down am my own worst enemy. I grew up within a comparison culture and struggled to come into my own until now. Thank you. Oh and signed up for the 9th of June 🙌🏽🙌🏽Xxx
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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I've signed up to the event. Collaborating with Charlotte Tilbury is such a clever idea and I love both of your work, so this is very exciting!
𝑨𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕
𝑪𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒊𝒈 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒏𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒅𝒂𝒚𝒔. 𝑺𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕_𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓 𝑴𝒓𝒔 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑
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Link is not working properly, I m trying to register bt it is not working post clicking on book now, pls help here
It didn’t work for me the calendar link but the link lower down worked
Me too. Then I saw others’ comments to look next to Matthew’s photo, under the text there is a BROWN “Book Now” box. Click it and it will bring you to the sign up. Be prepared that a different date from June 9th will be shown. I got June 24th.
Love this Matt! 😊I actually have a lump in my throat.🙃 I am traveling that day but will try😊 to join the video .Sarah Y.
When you need to ask for attention. And love and care.. Its not the one sister. Who loves you does it normally without any request.
Amen
I've got a date on Monday and I'm not feeling confident right now. Thanks for making this!
Just be you! I'm sure you're awesome! You never know if that "you" us who they're looking for, so don't try to change into who you THINK they want. I've personally had some great dates where the ice was broken simply by me laughing at how awkward it was initially. I remember one where it encouraged him to laugh and relax and we had a really great time. He wasn't in the same path that I was so we mutually agreed that it wasn't going further but we both acknowledged that it was more fun when we loosened up and addressed the awkwardness.
I can't book this masterclass. I went on the page and I picked 9 June and some other dates and it kept saying no dates available. Please tell me what to do
Hi! I just booked the event. Below the calendar just click (again) on "book now", don't choose the date. Should work for you, too 🤗
Same! After clicking to book it says no events available
Karolin is right... Look next to Matthew’s photo, under the text there is a BROWN “Book Now” box. Click it and it will bring you to the sign up. Be prepared that a different date from June 9th will be shown. I got June 24th.
Trying to replicate social norms destroys self confidence. Understand yourself and work with your values. Own it and be it.
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚.
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I have confidence, problem is women have never wanted anything to do with me. How do I get women to like me Matt?
Omg I needed to hear this vedio. I had the most devastating break up with diagnosed sociopath. I lost my complete confidence. How can I my old Ritu back.
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.
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A black teabag compress is a wonderful treatment for a stye. Earl grey, orange pekoe, etc- wet the teabag and put it on your eye for 20 minutes. You’ll be amazed.
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚’𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈.
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Ah nooooooooo... you just killed us 😢
I got help from someone, he was the one only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband to me and he seve and solve my relationship problem..
massage him on WhatsApp
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from USA
I would love to listen to a podcast where Matthew & Dr K talk about this kind of stuff.
I think it’s impossible to become confident in everything… if one would start something new and had to perform something i bet that person would also be shy or anxious to do it… it’s normal I think. The best lesson I’ve learned is to accept yourself 100% even with your flauws and “les positive traits”… your inner self talk is so important but don’t bash the negative thoughts, see then for what they are.. a part of you…
LOVE Tony Robbins, enjoy you very much too, Tony can be bigger than life personality, You have a soothing manner, quietly addressing what you know peeps are thinking and leading in the right direction... I have a natural ability to draw men, but then they love going into the friend zone, seems I have a natural ability for that(lol).. I had to examine and see what was my pattern..and I can NOW clearly see my pattern for drawing men and see why they loved the chose the friend zone with me. Fortunately, I know how to address my Subconscious(the part 90% in charge of what you think do and say) and I went in to change that.....I had been using your info as a guide to see what I was doing. I found 9 things, so I went in, silenced what was causing me to do those 9 different pattern habits. All had to do with me staying in masc energy mode! Ready to see what unfolds for me now!! Thanks a billion.
This is all just abstract noise without regard for reality. We can be confident in one thing and yet feel absolutely incompetent in another. Real confidence comes from experience that things work out, not a bunch of positive affirmations. You can tell yourself you're confident all you want, but the fact is you want certain people, your individual top 10%. When you meet one of them it makes you care, not many of them come around and even less show any interest at all. If you're watching MH it means you want something, if you want something it means you don't have it, this makes you needy, which is not confident. We cannot simultaneously want something badly and feel confident, because the things we want badly, are by nature, things that allude us.
Looking forward to 9th of June. Btw Team, not sure what, where I clicked, but it ended up showing me 24th of June. Is that just an error? I hope my registration worked. 🙏
That link didn’t work for me but the one one near the bottom of the page let me enter my email and confirm.
I got that date too. Waiting for email confirmation for which date is the real one.
Matthew i like your Chanel can you make a video on how to deal with haters evil people narsists
𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐!, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚...
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I kind of recognise myself în this .. single în so many years because I not been CONFIDENT I now when I feel good enough I not sure how to handle a New date or make a relashion . Damn ... what I can do ?!
Well. I'm glad to find your channel Matt. I learned a lot from you and I felt confident to writes to you and tell you about myself and my relationshups in the past. As I'm talking to someone I knew before without feeling shame or guilt for what happened to me or what I have done but it came nature . loyal and honest person you are and that the beauty of friendship.
Sorry, Matt and Charlotte, but I cannot attend the event. It takes place right in the middle of my workday. I really was intrigued to see what you had to say, too. 🙁
𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒐! 𝑰’𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝑩𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒌𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒏 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚
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Matthew.. The way you express, the way you carry yourself, your physique and one more thing tht is your hairstyle, arms and eyes... Aahhhh 😍
Hello friend, I am from Australia. I can recommend this powerful spellcaster that helped me bring my ex back within 48 hours after 9 months of separation...
~A few years ago when i thought i had cancer, i got more bold & confident than ive ever been, cuz i thought somehow i had nothing to lose, since i was gonna die soon anyway....since then, ive tried to get that bold attitude back...what an odd but nice consolation to perceived impending death it was....
There is no better time to be confident, just be freaking confident 🙌
I literally had this issue at the start of the year and saw a therapist who advised, the only way you can gain confidence is to just do it! So I jumped back into dating and while it was quite unsuccessful, I’m feeling a lot more confident again and it makes me feel really empowered! I’m still working on it and I always will be, but I’m happy I jumped back in 😊
What were you insecure about?
The first comment pretty much describes me and now that I will turn 30 in 2 weeks. I feel like 👎👎👎. Single, don't have a place of my own and no kids...................
Don’t compare your life to everyone else, comparison is the thief of joy, focus on what blessings you have right now and more things will come into your life down the line
Dont worry, i am 39 and single. Sigh.....
@@Booster85 its hard when you the only single among your siblings, and being African, they always question!
Tried to book and ‘no events’ appear. No registration options, nothing. Heeeelp!
Me too. Then I saw others’ comments to look next to Matthew’s photo, under the text there is a BROWN “Book Now” box. Click it and it will bring you to the sign up. Be prepared that a different date from June 9th will be shown. I got June 24th.
12:58-14:40 Anybody else feeling Mr. Rogers "It's you I like" vibes? I needed this 💯😊😊😊
I can relate to this is so many ways. Until recently I had been dating a girl that I thought was out of my league.
My insecurities weren't there initially, but lockdown, work issues, trying to be the best dad to my son, all these crept into my life and I ended up in a deep depression. I wasn't good enough, for anyone.
When we went our separate ways recently. I started eating better, training more spending more time on myself, but my mind keeps coming back to the same thing.
'She left because I wasn't good enough'.
I blew it. I truly love(d) her.
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Boost confidence now......I liked it.....cheers...your only ever full of good advice Matthew Hussey:)🧚♀️
And I'm only ever full of good ideas I tell myself......lol🐧