It Was Time For Them All To Be Put Away
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Grief is a long process, don't feel rushed ♥
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Step by step..you can't rush how your heart heals. You are doing a fine job...still here keeping you company 💕💕
It took me over 3 and a 1/2 years before I was ready. Then my spouse forced it on me.
@@SherpasDayJamie give the 2 dog beds to your grand dog Dexter or Key
I just want to say don't rush yourself to move or put anything away, and by all means don't "get rid" of these important things. I have made that mistake and, trust me, the regret and sadness can make recovery much harder. It can be very comforting to have his things around and you will absolutely know when you're ready to put them away. (We are all different, so the grief timelines can be different...)
That was a huge step, Jamie. Sherpa lives on in your heart where he's safe and warm and never hurts. ((Hugs))
You are quite right. He will be forever in his heart and through his memories.
I love how you said that, and it's so true. ❤
And there´ll be snow every day to play in🙂
Well said ❤️🩹
And thus begin the next stage of grief, the accepting stage. You're doing great Jamie.
It is very difficult to put his things away. I still have my St. Bernard’s collar and bowl after more than 40 years. RIP Delilah, 1974-81. We miss you, Sherpie. Take care, Jamie.
Oh samir
You still haven’t let go of your dog’s bowl and collar and haven’t gotten over losing your dog after 40 years ago? I’ve had a few pets since I was a child in my family’s home, and when I got married, we had a few pets and it was very sad when they passed away but we never kept their bowls, beds, collars, even the toys. We threw them out after a few days after they’re gone. We just have a lot of pictures of our pets throughout the years and we loved them like they were our children and grieved but if we kept all their beds and bowls, there would be a pile in the corner of the garage or closet. But if that was your only pet since ‘81, I understand. But also, every time I would see the bowl and collar, I would always be sad and probably cry every time. Even if it was put away in a closet or in a box in the garage, I would be carrying that reminder that my precious pet, my fur baby will never come back. But if it still gives you comfort, that’s what matters.
Sherpa doesn't need beds where he is now.
He's got all the energy to run around forever.
Perfect 💙uk
Und die vielen Chicken Balls nicht zu vergessen! 😀💕
Jamie, I know how difficult that was. When my Sadie passed away having to pick up her bed and blankets, the towels we kept by the front door to wipe her wet fur, her food and water bowls, her tennis ball, I thought my heart would break. But it shows you’re progressing in your stages of grief. Take care of yourself and know that you’re always on my mind and in my prayers. Losing Sherpa has had an impact on millions around the world. We will always love that precious fluffy boy. I can’t wait to meet him in Heaven someday. Hugs from Tennessee USA. Btw, I’m praying for all my neighbors in Florida as the next hurricane is approaching. God bless everyone. 💕🐾✝️
🥺 I'm praying for everyone to be safe too Debra 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Saying good bye is the hardest part of life. Our beloved pets never go. away. They live in our hearts forever. Big steps today Jamie. ❤️👍🏻
Stay safe and God bless
Jaime, Pray to God to heal Your Grief. You are always in my prayers. He was in every moment of Your life. Move both of them and clean up all areas. You are braver than You think. Allowing Yourself time to feeling your grief and You won't be weak, when You cry. You are being human, and I commend You for doing so. Most men don't and they repress their hurts and pains and never dealing with them. You are more of a Man because You do. God bless You Dear Friend. ✝️🛐🙏💯🆘️👆🆙️😇💝✨️⭐️✨️🕊✝️🇺🇸✡️🇺🇸✝️🐺🐾🦴
Jamie, give yourself credit, please. You are working through your grief with strength and grace. We are all with you ❤
One step at a time Jamie. Sherpa will always be in your heart.
I gave some of my dog's toys/ blankets/ supplements/ bed, etc to my vet to donate to good dog owners who maybe couldn't afford an expensive bed for their dog. I still have his toybox can't bear to part with his favourite toys, they still smell of him. It's been six and a half years now. Love never dies.
We did the same. I think the hardest part was running the vacuum and her hair not coming right back. She is a German Shepard and got hair everywhere. I miss her everyday 😢
We did the same. The hard part was in ran the vacuum and her hair was not coming right back. She was a German Shepard. Miss her everyday
Oh Sherpa ….. your daddy is struggling with your loss and the whole world is struggling with your loss as well …. We all love you Sherpa
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@@SherpasDaymy biological father lost his dog to the same thing Sherpa had I broke down in tears
Having been through the grief of being widowed in my 30s….also passing of pet cats & dogs through the years ..this 67 year-old understands what you’re going through….Yes ….it is healthy when we reach that part in grieving walk to put things away and think of where they are now rather than where they were ..and it stops us from staying stuck!
I lost my 17 year old German Shepherd Guy in 2017. I kept everything, even his collar and tag. 6 years later, I got a fox red labrador puppy (Rafferty) and he uses Guy's bowls, wears his collar and lies on his bed. You can never replace a much beloved pet but you can continue to love another who needs your love.❤
@@rozwood1668 yes, absolutely, 6 years on and I now have an elderly ex street dog plus a bitch who was so skinny and scared she ran away from all people. I love them dearly, but my boy is always in my heart.
When my Suzi died in January, it marked the end of 22 years of having a Beautiful Fur Baby in my life-she was the third of our babies to pass. Putting her beds and clothes and all the leads away was brutally difficult but it did help to not be constantly reminded of the loss. Of course all 3 sets of ashes and collars are still on my mantle with photos, but the beds were especially hard to see empty. You are brave to tackle it, Jamie! 💜💜💜💜🫶🏻
You are absolutely right....to see the beds empty is brutally hard!!! I think Jamie has done this right...he may notice this in a couple of weeks. Greetings from germany 🖐🖐🖐
@@karinkowall3694 Thanks for the validation. 💜 I am visiting Germany this December-traveling to a bunch of places to see the Christmas markets. I am very excited to see your beautiful country!
@@lesscarmel5527 That sounds great! I am sure the german christmas markets will not dissapoint you...I love them too.
Have a safe trip and enjoy! 👍😊🖐🖐🖐
In due course Jamie... when you're ready you're ready. Continue to be kind to yourself. And remember, the phrase... moving on but always remembered and never forgotten. He really was a special boy ❤
I've carefully cleaned around our SharPeis "nose art" on the patio doors since she crossed rainbow Bridge in January. I finally washed it off yesterday. Go at your own pace.
You Know there's a Puppy that needs a home and when you are ready..That Special little guy will say.. Thank you for saving my life ❤️ .. ..... I Am Sorry for your Loss hun , God Bless You ❤
100% It might have his coat pattern, it might have his eyes but you know itll be thr right pup.
I agree he needs a pupper to do fun things with.
I kinda agree. It's not Jamie who needs another dog, it's another dog who needs Jamie. Sherpa got to live a life 99% of other dogs could only dream of.
That happened when I lost my dogs Crutie and Amber. I didn’t think there could be another another dog that I could love. I even gave away all my dog stuff. Then just over a year after I lost Crutie I stumbled across Maggie. She was at a city dog pound on death row. I took her straight away. We had 8 wonderful years together. At the end of the day I really believe she saved me❤
@@AD270479 you got that right ❤️
Jamie, no matter what you do, you're never going to lose Sherpa. He will be with you always. ❤
Sherpa is a blessing to us all.
You're doing great Jamie. Putting away the beds and bowls is all part of the process. If it helps, remember Sherpa isn't in his 'things' he's in your heart, and loss will soften with time so your memories will increasingly be warm and comforting.
Grief is different for everyone. You're handling it all in your own way and so proud of you for managing both beds ❤️ thank you for taking us along on your journey 🐾❤️
You will never forget Sheapa, even if you put everything away. He's always going to be in your heart Jamie ❤XXX ❤
I’m proud of you Jamie. It’s tough I know. Been through it twice.
You still have all the gifts everyone has sent for your memories. He will never totally leave you!
Your little visitor at the end was so cute!!
I hope you’re having a wonderful day!
Hugs 🐕🦺💙
It’s so hard to do putting their things away whether human, dogs, cats or birds. I feel for you Jamie. You do what you think is right for you as we are all so different. I commend you on making those changes. May you please take care and stay safe. Louisa. 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️🤩🤩🤩
Big step today. Well done Jamie...❤
Do what will heal your heart but remember beds or no beds he will always be there He loved his tea. Take care Jaime 🤗🤗
James please get an armchair so you can sit in front of the fireplace and a small side table to put a cup of tea on..we are all on your side.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Oh wow. You've got a hedgehog. Your cupboard is tidier. You'll be able to find things better, now. You are very brave to move Sherpa's beds, but I think it will help. Have a great evening, Jamie. 💖
Sherpie will understand, he’s always in your heart ♥️ sending love and hugs 🥰🐾🐈⬛🐈⬛🐕🐾🐾💁🏼♀️❤️❤️❤️💖
Aw thankyou 😊
Your memories will remain forever, Jamie... ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know it’s hard Jamie, we’re here for you 😊. Sherpa is always with you
Aw thankyou 😊
Poor Jamie even if you take away all of Sherpas things know for a fact you will always carry Sherpa 😀 n your heart and soul ❤️ always
Yes, it's very difficult to move on. I kept my dog's collars, favorite toys, and feeder bowls. When our local rescue was having a supply drive, I donated her two beds. It was difficult, but I thought it would be nice to give two shelter dogs something soft to sleep on. The people running the drive were very grateful, and it did my heart good.❤
Moving forward after the death of someone so close to you is extremely hard to do. Know that we are all here to listen and help in whatever way we can.
Putting the beds away is a big step in moving forward with your life...
Aw it was 😢
My lab is now 11 yo and I can see time catching up to her. You have been an inspiration to me when it comes to the care and love that the two of you shared over the years. @SherpasDay
One step at a time, your doing great, Sherpa is forever in your heart xx
Only YOU will know when the time is right. After 5 yrs I still have a basket of my furbaby's toys out. I'm fine with them there and no one says anything. Sherpa is always with you, dog beds, toys or whatever. Bless you, Jamie. Peace and well wishes.🙏🥰
Even though its hard ,you,ve got this ,l like that your doing things in your time .bless you you,ve got a big heart❤
Oh Jamie it is hard packing away their stuff but believe me it will feel better with time you’ll still picture Sherpa in his favourite spots, two years on I still see my boy. Please don’t be rushed into anything by others opinions you do what you want to when you want to. Best wishes. ❤
My big great dane furbaby crossed over on Apr 6 this year. Like you, I just couldn't get rid of his bed. I finally put it on my back screened in porch. I fully believe that Scooby-Doo sent me a pregnant stray cat. I never closed the doggy door to the porch and the cat appeared on it one morning. Now, 6 months later, the bed is happily being used by Mamacat and her 3 young toms. They nap and take long sleeps on it daily.
How sweet of you to take the cat in. I know your Great Dane is so happy about what you have done. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s hard to lose a loving fur baby. 😢
Be compassionate with yourself. Sherpa was an awesome part of your life. The pain will slowly ease.
It's been 13 yrs since I lost one of my huskies - I had him for over 14 yrs I still miss him.
Jamie please don’t be hard on yourself - it is incredibly difficult. Obviously you will still feel his physical loss, but it may make room for his spirit form to make himself known to you. What a brave thing you have done. Sending all love and good vibes. 💜💜💜
Aw thankyou 💙
Glad to see you put things away. All in your own time Jamie, all in your own time. Been there myself.
Most of us have been there and are with you 100%.Do what you can in your own time. Omg it was so so sad seeing Batdogs car 😢.RIP dear sherpa xx
8 dogs have passed on me over the past 10 years. It never gets easy but soon, another finds their way into my life. Half of them just walked up to my house. I always have room for new fur to hug. Jamie, you need to have another cuddle buddy. It's more fun when you travel.❤
I do miss Sherpa, I love watching the old videos
Jamie, you are doing so well. One little step at a time. I’m very proud of you. Sherpa will live in our hearts forever 🐾🐾💕💕💕
Long live Sherps
Grief has its own timeline & removing the big triggers of Sherpa not being there anymore will help in the process. You took a big step today & you should be proud of yourself. I’m sure you will always feel his presence & no matter what, Sherpa will never be forgotten. ❤️🐾
Move them Jamie. You carry memories in your heart. It will help you heal.
It's not easy thing to do sherpa will be in your heart all time
Aw he will 😊
This is exactly how it went for me as well. One day at a time. You have to do what feels right for you. I lost my white Bichon Friese named 'Tessa' about 4 years ago, and I still miss her.
Oh Jamie, the Sun's going to come out and your heart will be filled to the top.
Congratulations on taking a huge step forward Jamie. Take things one day at a time.
Changing the mats around was a really good idea. Those were hard steps. Cute little hedgehog❤.
Oh Jamie 😢❤ feel your sadness
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You should buy the vacuum storage bags. Grief is a long process i totally agree.... take your time and do it when you are ready.. God bless you
That was one HUGE step forward . proud of every step you’ve done . know how you feel after losing one of our dogs .. your doing so well .. hugs and much love ❤x
❤❤❤❤ that was a brave step, Jamie. All of us who’ve been where you are know what it’s like. The sighs and “ohs” will ease, with time. Then you will be left with all the wonderful memories of your precious boy. Take your time to move through the stages of grief. Sherpa will always be in your head and your heart, no matter what. Lots of love, Denise xx ❤❤❤❤
Very true ,you have lived through this as well ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Without sounding patronising, well done Jamie. I know how hard that was for you, but it had to be done. Of course it’s going to feel strange, not seeing the beds there, but Sherpa will always be in your heart and taking the beds away won’t change that xxx
What ever you decide to do we will always support be here for you much love Jamie , from Miss Lisa USA ❤🤍💙🇺🇸
It’s a process, Jamie. Painful, but healthy. Good for you for gathering up the strength to taking those steps.
Jamie, keeping our loved ones "alive" is the only way to bear the immense loss. You do whatever it takes. You don't move on, you just move through. The grief never goes away, you just find ways to live with it. I find immense comfort in having my mom's things near me. Having my Bella kitty's collar etc. You do whatever it takes to walk this life. You are doing Amazingly well! Tears are the healthiest way to grind through loss. Comfort will be your soothing balm. The Sea, the sunsets, walking is like tapping therapy, taking tender loving care of yourself. The grief never leaves, it just softens over time. All my prayers of comfort for you. 😊❤😊 Sherpa is always with you in spirit!❤❤
Well done Jamie, this was a big step! The “wildlife” vids were great and good job testing the driveway light! 👍🏻
Awe 😢😢😢😢 ❤❤❤❤❤ i miss him so much
Congratulations. on sorting and tidying up that cupboard.
Our cat passed away and we were gutted but rhen out of nowhere a cat desperate for love appeared and stole our hearts. We almost felt our old cat sent her and im sure Sherpa is lining up a pup for you too.
bjg step forwards, well done. You arent removing Sherpa, youre retaining all the memories. Please take care of the hedgehog, they are so endangered. Dog or cat food and water is all they need and they will stay around, if you grow veg they will be your friend by eating the slugs and nasties. Hugs and stay safe xx
Very true 💙
Your guy's hedge hog are so beautiful , hooe he reads your message, we have possum, usa😊
Its harder when you were used to being just the 2 of you . The sooner you get another companion the better.
You don't need material reminders, he's always with you and he will let you know. Grief takes as long as it takes, we're all different. When our last doggie went to Rainbow Bridge, everything went to friends and the dogs home so I know it continued to be of used which made me happy. Started again when we got a pup 3 years later who will be 12 in February! x
You need to do these things gradually at your own pace when you feel its right Jamie like putting away his beds. Well done that is a huge move. All my Love georgous handsome Jamie Annette❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾💋💋💋💋💋💋
Jamie you will never stop thinking of him he was a huge part of your life, 3 yrs on I still look at my malamute pics and tell him everyday how much I still love him and miss him xxx
Nice! Good job especially on the cupboard! I can't bring myself to clean up mine (looks almost the same as yours before) haha Also: I love the footage of the hedgehog! Have a good one Jamie
I know how hard this is. So sorry. He was a remarkable friend and brought me hours of happiness during a very dark period in my life. Thank you for sharing him with us all.
Well done, Jamie. That was a big step towards moving on.
Keeping busy is good.
Patsy and Scott in Sheffield ❤❤❤
Same sort of time as Sherpa passed on, lost one of ours 😢 its true, you do keep thinking theyre sat on their bed, or brushing past you all the time 😢 they are family. Sherpy is still watching out for you 🙏🏼💚
Aw 😢
Thank you for posting your journey through grief of losing a fur baby. I lost my baby and I since then, I have learned if a person has never loved a pet, it is impossible for them to understand the devastation of ripping a hole in your heart -- I have no one to understand my grief. Your videos, your face, your firsts without Sherpa, and your day to day help me soooo much. I can't explain what this means to me. thank you and please continue to post. People who need this are silently watching.
you’re letting g go of some of the grief but none of the love which will always be there. It’s a stage in the process take as long as you need to move on ❤
Man, this made me tear up! It’s definitely a big step Jamie. I’m proud of you for trying to do what’s best for you. What kind of creature was that at the end? It’s so cute!
I just lost my good boy earlier today. His heart was failing and it was his time to go. This has been the worst day I've had in quite a while.
I’m so sorry for you. You must be devastated emotionally.
@@Stephaniepephani You can bet.. There's been a lot of crying throughout today. He was getting old so I had already been fearing the worst.
So sorry for your loss
It's ok Jamie, we know how u feel, grief takes ages to get out of our heads. We are all with you Jamie ❤ x
Grief, it takes some time. Don't rush take your time.. Sherpa is with you and watching over you. We all are here for you. ❤🐕
Jamie please take your time you don't need to rush I know that you miss him so much 😢 give yourself all the time in the world 😊
Hi Jamie, well done you were very brave moving sherpas beds, you were ready. Sherpa is still with you and loves you greatly
Personally, I am very proud of you for taking these steps. I know how difficult it is to pack up those things, and in the long run, they are still available to you. You know where you put them. Not having items laying around that remind you...huge step in the process!
I know how hard that was. I’m proud of you. Baby steps. You are doing wonderfully. Love and prayers heading your way ! 🎉❤
I agree with you 😞
A tough day for you, Jamie. But you made it through.
Jamie, I’m so proud of you for putting away Sherpa’s beds. I know that must’ve been very hard for you, and I’m very sorry for the pain you’re going through. You are an inspiration for the way you keep getting up every day and doing something whatever that something maybe to keep going and achieving some small victory over your grief.❤❤❤🙌🏻
It is difficult to be sure, but Lord Sherpa would want you to move forward. He knows you love him and always will, dear Jamie. You can always bring them out on occasion or save them just in case you ever decide to welcome another furry child into your life. Your heart will lead you along with Sherpa's loving spirit.
Thankyou Timmy 💙
That was a big step forward Jamie,you are in the right path!!!!🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
My heart still breaks for you Jamie. It’s been 3 years since I lost Bunny. She was 16. It’s hard putting away their things but they are just things . Sherpa will always be with you in your heart
I am just at the start of the grieving process for my Olli, who went over the bridge on Monday. Today is the first day I've made it out of bed. I've been wearing his collar on my wrist since I took it off at the vet. Removing his bed might not be possible for me, we have another dog, Bonnie who would sometimes share his bed, despite having her own. If iflve learned anything, you grieve at your own pace and do what is right for you. There are no right and wrongs.
You don't have to put pressure on yourself, Jamie. When your heart is healing, you will be able to take Sherpa's things away. It will happen naturally, without pressure, with acceptance, when you feel ready to do so.
That is a big step forward Jamie. Grief is very hard but you are trying. Sherpa would want you to move on. He’s watching over you and walking beside you. ❤
Heart retching moving the beds... feel for you bro 🫂
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I kept my boys beds out for 5yrs..and I still have their favorite toys 10 yrs later! You have to do what's best for you 💙🙏🐾🌈
Jamie, grief has no time limit. I wish I had the magic words to make it easier. We love Sherpa.
Jamie, you’ll never get over Sherpa’s loss but you will get past it. He’s always with you in your heart.
Don't put them away.....go get ready.....junior is waiting for you at the shelter Jamie. Please visit one and it'll do you good. I did that .... not replacing Sherpa in your life but honouring him by giving life to another needy soul who would bring you joy and keep you busy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Beautifully said!
Just take one day at a time, we are all behind you, and you will never forget him xx
Jamie, I saved my Pomeranian Teddy baby teeth, fur and his blankets. I have the ashes of my dogs that brings me comfort. You are making changes when you feel comfortable. You teach us how to be a better fur parents and you are teaching how to grieve and move on. Thank you for all your videos. Sherpa had the best Dad. Be well.❤
Oh Jamie how heartbreaking. 😢 You are stronger than I. Beds or no beds Sherpa is still there with you. 🤗💞💜
Aw he is 😊
Jamie, I understand exactly what you are going through. Perhaps you can help me. I lost my Snoopy a year ago. I still have his biggest bed in the great room still and another 2 beds also. Since my husband died a couple of years ago, I am the only one here. I know I must get them up. I will watch this video again to get inspired. That took a lot of courage to put up Sherpa's beds. You did a great job. Thank you, Sherril from St.Louis Missouri U.S.A.
Aww Jamie, I think there was a day that you try to put off for as long as possible.😢😢
But I also see it as a closure and a big step in coming to terms with Sherpa's death.
Just because things have been packed away definitely doesn't mean he's been forgotten.
On the contrary, he will always be in your head and especially in your heart.
You did absolutely amazing and are absolutely strong.👍👍
It's nice to see that you're cooking a lot again and, as always, it looks very good.
It goes one step further every day.😊😊
An absolutely great video😊😊
have a lovely day buddy and hopefully see you in a few days 💙💙👊👊
Thankyou buddy hope you're well 😊
Good for you Jamie. I know one of the hardest parts of saying good bye is putting away all their favorite things.
That was so difficult. I’m very proud of you sweetness. Love, Mama Bee