It’s actually pretty easy to be self-disciplined (if you stop getting distracted)

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
  • Self-discipline comes from clarity, not force. It's not difficult for a writer to get up early to write. It's not difficult for a bodybuilder to eat healthy. It's become a part of their identity. They just do it.
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    5:24 Discipline Comes From Clarity, Not Force
    8:57 Removing Distractions
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Комментарии • 272

  • @XandersHub
    @XandersHub 15 дней назад +70

    1. visualise what you want to become.
    2. Learn skills to become that version of yourself.
    3. Put into action what you have learnt.

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 6 дней назад +6

    When you start a business… by yourself…. YOU ARE THE PRODUCT. Figure out your strengths, personality, and skills. Market YOU. Connect with customers that MATCH YOU. Target people YOU WANT to help.

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 21 день назад +80

    self discipline is the byproduct of knowing what you want and accepting nothing less from yourself.

  • @questinpodcast
    @questinpodcast 21 день назад +110

    “They don’t know what you know”
    Good wisdom to understand why some people won’t support your efforts

    • @diabeatit5189
      @diabeatit5189 11 дней назад

      And going a step further, if they did, they'd still find a way to strike it down. That's why its so important to not need anyone to understand us. When I reached that level, I can't even tell you the mental freedom.

  • @WildCornovii
    @WildCornovii 21 день назад +96

    You describe me. A million goals to focus on. Never achieving any. Spread too thinly.

    • @sejwalvishu
      @sejwalvishu 21 день назад +12

      Same bro same! So many ideas so less execution. Plus ADHD

    • @debayandasgupta488
      @debayandasgupta488 21 день назад +11

      @@sejwalvishu don't stigmatise yourself this way, you can dismantle this identity. All the best.

    • @delusionalpath
      @delusionalpath 20 дней назад +6

      Start habit tracking and prioritize the most important habits

    • @Bsurfing
      @Bsurfing 18 дней назад +1

      Find someone who can help you automate some of the tasks, work on this first.

    • @KatJaguar1122
      @KatJaguar1122 12 дней назад +1

      In part that is due to being highly creative. So don’t view it negatively.
      Just empower yourself to get things done in whatever way works.

  • @FromTh1sDayForward
    @FromTh1sDayForward 20 дней назад +26

    You are on an entirely different level with your guidance.

  • @Fillup82
    @Fillup82 21 день назад +126

    Discipline is freedom.

    • @chronos5457
      @chronos5457 21 день назад

      Is your name Fillup?

    • @badawg3383
      @badawg3383 21 день назад +9

      Undisciplined one is slave to his moods🗿

    • @stepbro1992
      @stepbro1992 20 дней назад

      Discipline is the illusion of freedom

    • @rogue_luko
      @rogue_luko 20 дней назад +3

      Hi Jocko😂

    • @sarilsrivastava181
      @sarilsrivastava181 19 дней назад

      Self discipline is freedom

  • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
    @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 16 дней назад +168

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 16 дней назад +2

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 16 дней назад +1

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @morseemily
      @morseemily 16 дней назад +1

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 16 дней назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 16 дней назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @meherzadirani3889
    @meherzadirani3889 20 дней назад +27

    My Understanding from this Video:
    - Many people struggle to focus on their big goals due to distractions and external influences.
    - Parents and society often dictate what people should care about and pursue, which may not align with personal goals.
    - Overcoming distractions and achieving goals requires self-discipline, which comes from clarity and knowing what you want.
    - Self-discipline involves saying no to distractions and maintaining a clear vision for the future.
    - To achieve self-discipline, one must remove distractions, view life as a game with challenges and goals, and reinvent oneself by changing behavior and identity.
    - Confidence comes from pushing beyond limits, failing, and learning from those failures.
    - Starting a business, writing in public, and making new friends are key steps to building self-confidence and achieving goals.
    - Publishing work and exposing oneself to criticism and feedback is crucial for improvement and building confidence.
    - Confidence is a journey of continuous improvement and self-discovery, requiring dedication and a willingness to face challenges.

    • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
      @user-kn1vp8vo3k 13 дней назад

      Dam my brotha this is hit right here man appreciate the wisdom my man✊ you got the right mindset fasho

    • @bramlilipory4116
      @bramlilipory4116 11 дней назад

      Excellent work. Thank you

    • @user-if5ls5td7k
      @user-if5ls5td7k 5 дней назад

      Overcoming distractions and achieving goals requires self-discipline, which comes from clarity and knowing what you want----------sometimes we don't know what we want or just feel helpless to find or achieve it
      Dan Koe : You can watch this and do nothing with your life because you " don't know enough to start" OR You can finally take the leap and dedicate ur life to learning and building rather than expecting everything to be given to you

  • @rajbala6010
    @rajbala6010 21 день назад +13

    Contrary to the notion that the mind craves order, it is, in fact, inherently chaotic. The mind operates by diverging into multiple directions, enticing distractions, and perpetually scanning the environment for threats and pleasures. Attempting to sit still without thought proves difficult, regardless of the meditation technique employed. Nevertheless, achieving success in any domain necessitates understanding one’s mind and imposing a degree of order upon it. This task becomes particularly challenging in our modern age, where myriad distractions constantly vie for our attention.

    • @Vilify3d
      @Vilify3d 21 день назад

      The only comment that matters.

    • @homelessmillionaire1
      @homelessmillionaire1 11 дней назад

      Excellent comment

    • @billpavlou9467
      @billpavlou9467 10 дней назад

      You have knowledge you can use my friend 👌 You have a problem to solve, solve it then teach it .

    • @rajbala6010
      @rajbala6010 10 дней назад

      @@billpavlou9467 I probably should. Lol. Thanks for your reply.

    • @Bittzen
      @Bittzen 5 дней назад

      Our Will seeks Order, but the rest of the brain is causing erratic disorder and affects the mind. Developing a stronger Will will help us assert Order over Entropy. I believe the region of the brain that neuroscientists say is the seat of Willpower and potentially even the will to live is called the Anterior Mid-cingulate Cortex, if I recall. It can be grown larger and developed, but most people don't know how to develop it and do things that shrink it.
      Addictions weaken it. Doing things we don't want to do grow it, which makes it easier to do what we don't want to do and develops our Willpower. The opposite, falling into bed habits and addiction, shrinks it, which obviously makes it harder to crawl out of and weakens the Willpower.

  • @TimRidleyArt
    @TimRidleyArt 17 дней назад +4

    As an artist, I've always had the negative reaction to the word "business" just as you described. It's an unfortunate and limiting belief that has kept me working for studios and not for myself for several years. I'm excited to start Mental Monetization and finally start working for myself. Thanks Dan.

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 20 дней назад +10

    Hi
    I'm from India. I can relate to every word you spoke. You are doing a great job and the world needs great value creators like you

  • @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc
    @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc 17 дней назад

    You are amazing. Thank you Dan.

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz 21 день назад +2

    This is gold. Thanks!

  • @___JUANMAN
    @___JUANMAN 15 дней назад

    Thanks Dan. We appreciate your content.

  • @Angel-lx6xe
    @Angel-lx6xe 21 день назад +7

    Out here changin lives, Dan.
    For real.
    Good for you.🌸
    I'm glad you exist.

  • @hockinghillsalive3624
    @hockinghillsalive3624 19 дней назад +3

    I subbed yesterday after realizing I'd been loosely watching your channel for several months without being subscribed.
    🙏🏽
    I appreciate you, Dan.

  • @stevekostakis2983
    @stevekostakis2983 21 день назад

    This video is your finest hour…you laid out my life in full. Thank you.

  • @ImStephhhh
    @ImStephhhh 9 дней назад +1

    Needed this! I’ve been relentlessly pursing something not because of me but because of pressures. Thank you for the reminder

  • @allankamper5695
    @allankamper5695 День назад

    Dan, excellent content and delivery. I'm hooked. Thx

  • @LightningStar21
    @LightningStar21 3 дня назад

    So on point, and so helpful. Thank you Dan

  • @STOIUM
    @STOIUM 20 дней назад +1

    Thanks man. This is my favourite video of yours that I've watched so far

  • @kellenkenlyn
    @kellenkenlyn 20 дней назад +1

    Thank you Dan. Your advice has bettered me as a writer and encouraged my faith in the practice.

  • @MaxKomes
    @MaxKomes 19 дней назад

    May be the best video yet, Dan.
    I like how you explain identity formation and socialization. These messages of autonomy is what this age of distraction needs~

  • @Thesionshow
    @Thesionshow 20 дней назад

    You drop gem after gem in your videos. Thank you.

  • @ishitaswarupp
    @ishitaswarupp 21 день назад +3

    Your videos are such gem that i dont want the world to know about them 😭 but the content you share is reaching masses undoubtedly

  • @mayammmm276
    @mayammmm276 10 дней назад

    Hi, this is the first video of yours I’ve watched, and I had to pause near the end just to say this is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched! You gave so much valuable insights, such clarity and really helpful information. I appreciate you!!!

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 21 день назад +1

    all change is identity change! love that.

  • @victormolina100
    @victormolina100 21 день назад

    Thanks man, that really inspired me broo love from Brazil

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 16 дней назад

    This is the path I have chosen for the rest of my life. I like this path so much. Thank you Dan for this value addition

  • @bobbiebobbob8761
    @bobbiebobbob8761 20 дней назад

    The succinct explanation and questions used to gain clarity in this video is so much more practical than 99% of the BS on RUclips, great job.

  • @Unikadanceeventsparties
    @Unikadanceeventsparties 21 день назад +2

    Thank you Mr. Koe ❤

  • @ihsankamil6279
    @ihsankamil6279 21 день назад

    This is such an amazing video thank you dude changing lives for sure

  • @kikiposada
    @kikiposada 20 дней назад

    More clear and powerful with every video. Great stuff

  • @huseinfatehi2596
    @huseinfatehi2596 21 день назад

    Thank you for this truly

  • @RafaelLopez-dv5vz
    @RafaelLopez-dv5vz 19 дней назад

    Thank you Dan.

  • @carlapires7732
    @carlapires7732 17 дней назад +1

    Listening to you feels like digging deep into your emotional & psychological self to uncover hidden flaws, preventing you from being who you are & advancing in life. More effective than any session at the psychoanalyst. Thank you for raising people up through your impactful words!

  • @learnwithlerato
    @learnwithlerato 18 дней назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @TimeToTrinkTenTeas
    @TimeToTrinkTenTeas 21 день назад

    Your writing, your language is really impressive

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 6 дней назад

    I am grateful for this video, your mind and desire to create this video, and the internet for providing wonderful mentors like yourself.

  • @Sweety_24
    @Sweety_24 21 день назад +23

    The best thing I ever did was subscribe to your RUclips channel!!!

  • @SimracingArnout
    @SimracingArnout 20 дней назад +3

    Best video you have made this far.
    I used to game eu4 like always.
    I stopped and build yt videos instead.
    I cant go back to eu4. The yt is my new game.

  • @user-lv1uw8ke9k
    @user-lv1uw8ke9k 21 день назад

    Ahhhh , you are so lovely to listen to while I sleep❤

  • @amonifinau4048
    @amonifinau4048 20 дней назад

    Thank you!

  • @arkbjorn
    @arkbjorn 21 день назад

    Very interesting and useful video. Thank you.

  • @gallarzo720
    @gallarzo720 10 дней назад

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @007d.a.b5
    @007d.a.b5 20 дней назад

    Holy Shit. Your videos are my absolute favorite. They always shake me with uncertainty and excitement, and help me realize the vast limitless of today if only I start taking more steps. Keep up the phenomenal work Dan!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 21 день назад

    Excellent point on the power of self-discipline in achieving goals! Remember, regular reflection on your progress and readjusting your strategies can also significantly enhance your focus and drive toward your personal ambitions. 🚀

  • @vivienneobineche3194
    @vivienneobineche3194 20 дней назад

    Just the validation I needed :)

  • @jslepx
    @jslepx 21 день назад

    Great Insights

  • @keniavalenzuela1218
    @keniavalenzuela1218 11 дней назад

    Thanks for delivering to us such as informative and motivating video❤

  • @Alirooble99
    @Alirooble99 21 день назад +1

    Thanks ❤

  • @carolzaher2655
    @carolzaher2655 19 дней назад +1

    Dan, you are the modern day guru. Thank you

  • @thirdrockjul2224
    @thirdrockjul2224 21 день назад

    Inspiring words! 👍

  • @RYCTalks
    @RYCTalks 16 дней назад +1

    Very insightful Video. Caring about others only makes you weak by draining your energy. It’s better to utilise that energy to care and love yourself ❤️.
    My prayer and wishes to all of you who are chasing your dream🏃‍♂️.

  • @storytellingforthesoulsarahc
    @storytellingforthesoulsarahc 18 дней назад

    Such a good video!

  • @carmitcohen858
    @carmitcohen858 21 день назад

    Brilliant, helpful, accurate 🤘👏🙌🙏

  • @claudinelogrado
    @claudinelogrado 20 дней назад +2

    Learning more every day and starting to apply your teachings to my new online business this week. Thanks.🙏

  • @kyrinmcl
    @kyrinmcl 5 дней назад

    Thanks Dan 🙏🏼🤍

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 19 дней назад +1

    Love & Peace Dan - Thank you always :)

  •  18 дней назад +1

    Thank you Dan, I'm so depress today but you words give me courage. 🌞

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 15 дней назад +1

      Thanks I appreciate my work

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 15 дней назад

      So happen that made you depressed

  • @greenrebellion84
    @greenrebellion84 20 дней назад

    Pure value.👍👍

  • @justathought7221
    @justathought7221 21 день назад +2

    Thank you for this. I want to quit my job so much and just go head first into the deep end of my goal. I’m the only one bringing in a pay check and to make matters worse where I am in getting me nowhere. I need to be in another state to make what I want to work. But I have to start where I am. I can write. I can brain storm and I have an idea. This video is something I will watch again. I wish you could go even in-depth. Thank you Dan

    • @RYCTalks
      @RYCTalks 16 дней назад

      Good luck my friend 👍❤️

  • @user-hs5vp9if9i
    @user-hs5vp9if9i 20 дней назад

    I like to his video! Thanks again!

  • @LearnUkrainianwithVakulenko
    @LearnUkrainianwithVakulenko День назад

    Meeen, it’s so resonating with what I’m going through right now.

  • @yahnaza
    @yahnaza 11 дней назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @AmbientTonez-fr4pw
    @AmbientTonez-fr4pw 20 дней назад

    Wow this is deep and accurate

  • @theblackhippiechannel
    @theblackhippiechannel 14 дней назад

    GREAT VIDEO 👍🏾👍🏾!! ❤

  • @Kabulstories4
    @Kabulstories4 21 день назад

    No Word to explain you bro next level ❤🎉❤

  • @hrishetarajkumari977
    @hrishetarajkumari977 13 дней назад

    Nah, we turning our life around with this one. THANK YOU DAN!

  • @diamondprincess9715
    @diamondprincess9715 9 дней назад

    This is too good!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 10 дней назад

    love it love it ... 😅 cheers Danny

  • @AIMusicArtandWriting
    @AIMusicArtandWriting 20 дней назад

    THIS. God I love this. So resonates man 👌👊👌🎯🔥

  • @aneshalove226
    @aneshalove226 14 дней назад

    There’s no way I couldn’t NOT comment on this. The gems you dropped made me have to note them down. Thank you. ❤

  • @nickiboy33
    @nickiboy33 9 дней назад

    Im glad I transformed and doing everything Dan mentions in this clip. I also have reached enlightenment so I just “float” around, not worrying much, working every single day towards fine tuning my goals and MY future and being selfish. You all should do the same. We come with nothing into this world and will leave it same way. Make your life count

  • @shianlichiam9654
    @shianlichiam9654 18 дней назад +1

    This is amazing

  • @TheAubreyLynch
    @TheAubreyLynch 21 день назад +1

    Thank you for these amazing videos. I’m building my channel slowly but surely with weekly posts. I take in everything you say and apply it when appropriate. I’m on week 20 and I’m committed to the long haul. I find your videos moving and inspiring. Keep em coming! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

  • @CrownedbyShirley
    @CrownedbyShirley 11 дней назад

    Too many truths to quote from this video. Wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Cycle2life
    @Cycle2life 21 день назад +1

    Amazing…wisdom beyond your years

  • @HauPT369
    @HauPT369 21 день назад

    ❤❤❤ Im alway wait your video😊

  • @novotnak_6099
    @novotnak_6099 20 дней назад +2

    "Caring only make you weak. They think you care, they walk all over you."

    • @coleculture1636
      @coleculture1636 16 дней назад

      It’s all about prioritizing your fucks that’s all

  • @aiyohwashereduh
    @aiyohwashereduh 21 день назад +1

    I've started reading your blog instead of scrolling through reddit and I've been getting some ideas and further inspiration for starting an instagram brand. Appreciate you, man

  • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
    @user-kn1vp8vo3k 13 дней назад

    Respect big time my g✊

  • @atlFalcons1184
    @atlFalcons1184 21 день назад

    Love your content, Dan. Very much appreciated. 🤌🏼

  • @daisybluegroff
    @daisybluegroff 20 дней назад

    1:23 Truth. I usually go opposite of what they tell me. Very challenging.

  • @alanikeiser
    @alanikeiser 13 дней назад +1

    6:26 yeah… trolls and gamers are not the same 😂 can’t have them in the same sentence.
    My sister is a gamer and it has improved her life 100% after being ill and introverted. She has also used it to relate to her kids.
    She doesn’t troll.

  • @LennyTim
    @LennyTim 21 день назад +1

    A lot of people think they don't care but they actually do a lot.

  • @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley
    @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley 6 дней назад

    This video is gold

  • @priyaldamani
    @priyaldamani 10 дней назад

    Gonna watch this on repeat

  • @jakewebb5371
    @jakewebb5371 15 дней назад

    Appreciate you! You helped me get through late night imposter syndrome. This video felt like a course in itself. I apologize but I found your courses on the dark web, I will buy your next one though :)

  • @ReginaldoKono
    @ReginaldoKono 19 часов назад

    In this video, again, there're so many important points to bear I mind for life, that Im not able list them all! At least I fell I'm being a little writer per this chat.
    A super video recommendation here.

  • @user-yn6tf6wv6c
    @user-yn6tf6wv6c 14 дней назад

    "You want to be a generalist in perspective to be able to navigate more situations in life without stress."
    absolute banger

  • @zhenren9703
    @zhenren9703 21 день назад +1

    I do not know how to explain this feeling. You sound just like me when I'm talking with my kids. It eerie. Same words, same logic... must be on the same vibe somewhere lol.

  • @sarilsrivastava181
    @sarilsrivastava181 19 дней назад

    While seeing your video i need RUclips transcript of yours to absorb it 80% and why only 80% because 20%will come from life experience.
    Thankyou

  • @karims9379
    @karims9379 10 дней назад

    Yes we must focus on our selves first

  • @RavinderSingh-ft5dw
    @RavinderSingh-ft5dw 13 дней назад

    Superb

  • @endofsamba
    @endofsamba 21 день назад

    Good vid

  • @user-bh7ue4iw1x
    @user-bh7ue4iw1x 8 дней назад

    You don't need music in the background, it's so annoying( you're amazing, your voice is enough)

  • @rawbinmo
    @rawbinmo 8 дней назад

    This guy is a good writer.

  • @TamarahTravels
    @TamarahTravels 20 дней назад

    Dan the hope dealer!!