My Entitled Son DEMANDS His Inheritance after I'm Diagnosed with Lung Cancer - Reddit Podcast
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When you have a child you are legally responsible for them until they are 18, you aren't entitled to be paid back just for raising them. Our two are 41 and 31, not only are we still there for them, we will be until we pass on!
Story 1: I would most definitely deny an entitled kid any sort of inheritance if they showed more interest in the money over my well-being.
What you do is leave 1 penny for them, that way they can't contest the will on the basis of being forgotten, because thats usually the go to when it comes to entitled people who get nothing, they'll contest the will by telling the judge "oh well, obviously since i'm not mentioned they had forgotten to include me since they did intend to leave me something and told me so."
The 1 penny means there's proof they in fact didn't forget.
*Story 2:* It's crazy how some people are. The child in this case obviously enjoyed the game but also knew that it belonged to OP and was nice enough to return it to OP. Why mother was less than willing to let her have her game is beyond me.
It is CRAZY to me that the fast food mother was so demanding when the employee used her personal break time (her very minimal time off the clock) to essentially play with the child. Wow!
Story 5) this is a tough verdict to make, but gonna say the daughter is not the asshole, if the eldest daughter passed as 5 then the younger siblings would have little to no memory of their older sister but growing up with every happy event being overshadowed by grief will ruin any memories they have.
"Happy birthday, it's a shame your older sister didn't live to see it"
"You're graduating to middle school, it's do sad your sister never got the chance to go to school"
"You got into college, if your sister lived you could have gond to the same college"
"Congratulations on your engagement, it would have been nice if your sister could have been your bridesmaid"
Growing up under the shadow of someone that never never got the chance to live and always being a second thought would drive a wedge between anyone.
Story 5: I lost my father and now recently my aunt. However i need to move on and not force everyone to join my grief. Grief is an anchor. You need to move on. So yes, you are a jerk.
Story 1, I'm glad you were there for your granddaughter, ruth, Mathew is a female dog, but at least he was able to own uo to it, i hope, he can turn his life around
It's insane that anyone would demand their parent die just so that they can inherit money from them. I just recently inherited money when my father passed away a few years ago. While appreciative of the money, I never demanded it. I just said something like *"Thank you!"* and then deposited it in the bank.
@@jasoncarpp7742 so wholesome, at least he admitted what he did was wrong
@@jasoncarpp7742 my condolences
@@Draven_starboy I’ve been disinherited (long story), but I’m okay with that.
@@princessmarlena1359 good on you for taking that in stride
Trying to take my switch just because I have to go back to work. F right off. Plus your son is a better person somehow and I'm surprised he knows better because his mom is a literal child
You should send her a message and tell her that the car was a cheap price to have her completely out of your life from the moment she took the car away from you. you're done. he has no mother. she died that day
The grieving mom while it is understanding is the jerk
To be honest, although losing a child is the worst thing a parent can go through, I'm a big believer in living for the living and not the dead. For example, I was furious with my step brother last week as he sent a photo of him in my town, yet he didn't even come for a cuppa. He had traveled over 6 hours to visit his mum and nanas graves, yet he couldn't spare 15 minutes to come say hi to the family who are very much alive and only sees once a year 🙄 I did tell him next time don't bother telling me your in town unless your coming to see us as I would never go to where he lives and just send a photo saying hey I'm in town then not make a effort to visit, then he has the audacity to say he rarely sees us 🙄 I'm all for remembering loved ones I have a photo of my best friend in my home and when I met my partner I told him, look there is a photo of a random guy up, he's my best friend who died when he was 21, and im warning you, that photo willalways be up in my home , thankfully my partner knew him and was totally fine with it, and he will also take me to his grave anytime if I want to go , which isn't often, I went when the kids finally came out of hospital, they were premature and in hospital for months, then I didn't go again until this year, we were driving past and i said can i visit sam please, he said sure lets go, and we did i spoke to sam told hi and had a one way conversation about what crap id been up to then we left 🤣 I hadn't been for over 20 years, thats because my ex would make me visit every week and it drove me crazy, so i decidied id never make a habit of going and just visit when i feel like it, but I think about him every day, and sometimes talk to him. I get losing a child is hard i know better than most as ive had 14 misscarriges, but I would have never have done what this parent has done making their living children play second to the child who died that's just messed up and wrong on so many levels, to be honest i can see the living kids cutting ties due to it in future if they dont stop doing this as they are basically saying the dead sister is more important to them than their living children 🤔
@@annied1827 oh man. Im sorry to hear that. I very much agree though. So almost selfish how they want to visit the grave but not to help their family mourn!
@@annied1827 oh
@Pixlyorsomething thought it best I explained why I'd lost 14. As I know it's very strange to lose so many 🙃 anyway I hope you and your family are all happy and well
@@annied1827 thank you! Have an awesome life and i wish the best upon you
As a parent myself I would never, ever dream of booting my kid at 18. (unless of course I raised a psychopath) Especially when they have barely had worldly experience, or for that matter paying me faithfully for what I put in for her/his car or any other kind of pricey item. If anything I would forgive the debt. It's like the mother just used her kid to get the child support, of which I am very sure never truly went to the kids best interests. What an evil narcissist... I say go no contact with both parents, they really don't seem to give a shit about her anyway. Poor girl😟
Story 5: This reminds me of one of Aesop's Fables, Grief and His Due. "When Jupiter was assigning the various gods their privileges, it so happened that Grief was not present with the rest: but when all had received their share, he too entered and claimed his due. Jupiter was at a loss to know what to do, for there was nothing left for him. However, at last he decided that to him should belong the tears that are shed for the dead. Thus it is the same with Grief as it is with the other gods. The more devoutly men render to him his due, the more lavish is he of that which he has to bestow. It is not well, therefore, to mourn long for the departed; else Grief, whose sole pleasure is in such mourning, will be quick to send fresh cause for tears".
Grief is hard to move past, if it's even possible to ever really love past it, but you can't let it rule your life. The more you give Grief, the more he'll try to take from you, and he's pretty damn good at getting what he wants from you
I just wanna say God Bless Josie for acting the way she did, for putting up with the crap che did and for being a saint.
For the story with the kid that passed away at five: I'm 11, and had to go through something similar. I had a little sister when I was five. She was born premature. I would ask to go see her all the time. But one day, I was walking down the sidewalk and asked dad if we could go see her, but dad said that she died. I was devastated, and still cry when I think about her. I am legit holding back tears
38- O.N.L.Y 38?! 200 views?! SOMEONE DO THE MATH AND FIND OUT WHAT PEOPLE DIDNT LIKE?!
The story about the young daughter that passed away: OP herself said "On THEIR (other 2 daughters) birthday, she thinks of her"! That should in itself make her realize she is making everything about the daughter who passed away!
Also, if OP hadn't demanded every milestone include pictures & stories about the daughter who passed away, the daughter getting married would have probably wanted to do something like this on her own at her wedding to include her sister. OP has taken the gesture away from her daughter by everything every celebration being about her sister!
Story 5: I regret to inform you that, yes, you're the jerk here. I understand not forgetting your daughter who passed, but now it seems like you've taken this level of grief up a notch. Making every special event in your living children's lives about your deceased child isn't fair to them, nor is it fair to yourself and your family.
So the mother who lost her kid story , it’s very sad , no parent should ever have to loose a child so young , that being said I do think that whilst it’s fine for you to have a memorial in you’re own home , trying to guilt you’re other daughter to do this at her wedding is a little much
At the end of the last story, I thought, "Some people just don't deserve children."
Story 5: I do kind of think that you were being a jerk because as it sounds,all of your other children's special days were taken over. I understand how hard a loss can be, especially one of your children, but you have to be able to get over it.😢
Story 6: Imagine that, cops are shitty and Mom was shitty too. Hope she has the life she deserves.
Story 5 ya op is the jerk I understand that you lost your daughter but their treating their other kids like there not important like Is Marnie’s wedding not Brooke’s Stuff like this will make your kids not want to see you anymore
Yep. My thought exactly. They are focusing on the dead instead of the living.
Yup
she needs to move on and focus on her own kids.
Story 1 don't give that no good jerk son anything and give it to Joise Ruth and other grandchildren and children. He didn't give shit while your husband is dying. He cheated on his ex-wife and trashed for a stupid reason oh she can't be hot and not cheating.
No views 7 likes makes sense.
Prob a glitch
Likes must update live; Views update only on first load of the video though.
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Story 1: No way is the OP a jerk and this is no over-reaction. Matt shouldve been disowned and disinherited over his attitude and comments. He's a bad son and bad person, plain and simple. His whole infidelity was pretty bad too, and his whole crying pity party when he was cheated on was pretty pathetic. Im willing to bet he only did that to try and gain sympathy from the OP, but he really didnt deserve it.
Story 2: Okay, first off, why are you bringing you Switch, or any kind of console to work with you? That alone is a recipe for disaster. Just because you'er a paying customer doesnt mean you are in any way entitled to someone's personal property. At least the manager didn't take this Karen's BS for a second and stood up for the OP here. I also feel bad for the little boy too.... having to have a Karen like that for a mom.
Story 3: This is why you NEVER buy anything for your work on your own dime without getting paid back for it. As for the bosses wife, talk about a huge penny pincher here. Is paying a couple cents for a bag really that big of a deal here? I think not.
Story 4: Yeah, working country clubs like this can be among the best and worst places to work for service workers. As a professional cook of 20 years, i used to hate cooking for people like Joe here (so glad i never served them). Joe should've been thrown out the moment he put his hands on the OP, and the other patrons should've done something about it too when he did, but at least they all backed up the OP when it came time to pay the bill. Least everyone put him in his place in the end.
Story 5: While i can understand the OP's grief for the loss of Brooke at such an early age, i can also understand the other siblings frustrations, particularly Marnie's. Its really fair that she wants to have one day about herself and not her deceased sibling. The OP is being rather unreasonable and insensitive towards Marnie here. On one hand, i dont think that a spare chair would be that big of a deal in the long run, but if Marnie doesn't want it, then don't press the issue and certainly don't attack her for it. I dont think the OP is a jerk here, but she definitely needs to think of other people's feelings and not just her own.
Story 6: The OP's mom, dad and aunt are complete scumbags... especially the mom. I always hate the "you owe me" attitude by parents like that. Your kids don't owe you a single thing for you raising them. As for the OP, i would disown the mom and go zero contact for the car incident and kicking them out.
story 5 reminds me of my high school friend or ex high school friend.
I agree with the bride. The dead child doesnt get a seat at the reception if the bride doesnt want.
On the story (where the parent lost their eldest daughter) I immediately felt sorry for them. :(
"You need to get over yourself!'
I'm sorry but no she doesn't. If anyone needs to get over anything the original poster needs to get over the loss of their daughter. I can't begin to imagine how hard it is to go through the loss of a child and nobody can tell you how long to grieve and how to grieve but after a certain point you need to get over that person's death.
Unless the original poster wants her kids to resent both her and the memory of the daughter that she loved so much she needs to seek out professional help.
Yeah just because you don't have money doesn't mean you can't seek legal counsel. There are plenty of lawyers who work either pro bono or contingency fee meaning that the lawyer is not get paid unless you win your case. If the original poster and that story can pull up bank records proving that he paid for it then it should be a fairly simple case and her writing out expenses on the back of a check justifying underpaying him would not stand up to scrutiny in court.
That would be an easy case and he's a fool for not taking it to court. I get wanting to wash his hands of the useless mother but he's leaving an easy case, and easy payout, and a sunk 25K on the table
Wedding story yes yes you are being a massive jerk a wedding day is about the bride and groom and you should be there for her
She’s right they’re all living in Brooke shadow and that’s not at all fair OP needs some serious therapy
Idk what else to put exept first
I know you are not a jerk this guy is dying of cancer and all he can think about is how big his inheritance is his priorities are all screwed up this guy's well-being is a lot more important than how much cash you're getting could be cut out all together
Story 1: You reap what you sow. Matt is selfish and deserved to be disinherited. Don’t write him out entirely, but just leave him a sad sounding fart [in a jar], or the financial equivalent of it so as to prevent him from contesting the will.
Story 2: NEVER, EVER, EVER bring anything valuable such as a Nintendo Switch to work or to school. Ironic that the boy is more mature than his mother.
Story 3: Ridiculous. Never do more than work than what you are paid. OP never should have bought milk nor done any chores in that unpaid early time.
Story 4: I’ve worked at country clubs and yacht clubs in food and beverage service. We had situations with members and their guests such as the case with Joe.
However, when it came to alcohol I and the rest of the staff would NEVER serve to any guest or member under legal drinking age, and for those old enough to drink, we would be sure to stop the drinks to them instead of over serving them.
Story 5: My condolences for the loss, but it is Marnie’s wedding, and it is her decision. Weddings are about the bride and groom, they are supposed to be happy events. Marnie is right to call out that mom. OP is TA and needs to get over herself. The son is also right to call out OP on what she is doing.
Story 6: Outrageous! That’s extortion! Paying child support is required by law, not “fulfilling parental duties”. I would at least be sure to put her in the lowest tiered nursing home.
Had a father who was like story 6, he would try to extort me all the time by saying "Well I did X so you owe me!"
It was usually beer he wanted, and more often then not he would flat out lie by saying something like "Hey I need $5 for gas", only to actually buy booze with it.
You said or did something he didn't like then he was quick to remind you of "how much he's done for you" and all that crap, suffice it to say he's not a part of my life anymore and I never wish to see him again.
@@Nyghtking my deepest sympathies, I am glad you have been able to put it behind you and live a better life.
@@princessmarlena1359 Indeed.
Story 5: So sorry for your loss, but YTA. Persona 3: The Answer is controversial for one character's poor handling of her grief, especially when her actions directly result in a sequence where the party collapses into infighting. This is worse than that. You've let grief so completely and utterly consume you that you've Little Miss Sunshined a ghost and at best _almost_ alienated your surviving children. Either find a new therapist or be honest with your current one, because the therapy isn't working.
*Story 1:* Matt is the biggest jerk. Given his attitude, he deserves nothing of the inheritance.
Hello first story, the son probably didn't quite understand how it works with the bastard and not the bastard Bastards are born out of wedlock, not in a similar community And even if the parents divorce, it doesn't affect the status that the child was born in a similar community, so his daughter is not a bastard And besides, it's a pretty old confused term for its undersized creature And this is a ruler in the Middle Ages who has to worry about bastard not bastard and so on Because bastard is when two children could be fathered in ruler but Pretty useless in the political game back then See Henry the Eighth who had male descendants, but they weren't digital so he didn't inherit in chests That's why we could Elizabeth I
Who wrote as a customer does not extend to grabbing other people's property that's just plain being entitled
OP5: YTA. Nothing tough about this. This guy makes everything about his late daughter to the point where it's obviously damaged his other kids. It's disgusting.
Yes a fellow Pokemon player
For the last story, thats mom is a B. She already took everything OP had to her name, the only thing left that they had was that car i mean hell they mightve even been forced to live in that car if no one wanted to take them in. At the very least the mom could've left them that. I know I'm horrible for saying this but OP needs to send someone to bang up that car, that way the mom has to pay more than the car is worth to get it fixed.
We've heard the story about the switch before. What's up with all the repeat stories all of a sudden?
2nd story I heard this one before on the channel nice, if anything I hope you can retell the Story of Good Sir Sam well
Story 5 I don’t think you’re the Jerk you’re still grieving and not forgetting her your other daughter is being selfish she has passed she can’t take your spotlight and if she was alive she most likely would have wanted to be there for her younger sisters big day your not the jerk
Ok but the op makes it all about the sister she literally said she thinks mainly about Brooke on the other’s birthday
But she has been taken the spotlight op has been forcing her memory into all the other kids achievements and celebrations.
One of the kids has a birthday Brooke has to be involved.
One of them got an achievement Brooke has to be involved.
Their own bloody graduation Brooke has to be involved.
Forcing living people to get along when they're not that close for example family members step siblings half siblings usually builds resentment.
As sad as it is to say the same thing happens if you force someone's memory on people.
Op has made a Brooke an oppressive force in their lives. I'm pretty sure Brooke would have never wanted to become a toxic overhanging shadow on her younger siblings lives but that is what the op has made her.
Marine just wants to have one day where it's about her a wedding is meant to be about the bride and the Groom.
The tears shed are meant to be about them.
The smiles about them.
The feelings of well wishes about them.
Op has already proven that if Brooke is allowed to get involved that's not going to be the case.
Hell Marine is a better person than me because the second someone told me I was being selfish and I needed to get over myself for wanting one day about me. I would have straight up told them not to come to the wedding
The op needs way more therapeutic help because Brooke has a stranglehold on their life and they are forcing that strangle hold onto their other kids.
Not only is the op a jerk they are abusive intentionally or not
I agree with daughter and wedding
A 1 hey the last story about the person and their mom stole their car take her to Judge Judy I think Judge Judy pays for a plane tickets and hotels I heard her say it on the show on time
420 i got to Change that
Take get mad they're worse than Scrooge getting mad at being billed for 5 cents I could probably scrounge set up from my change jar
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I swear I’ve heard story 2 before…
You have a charming personality💋
just out of curiosity, are you canadian?
Cuz i kinda feel like you are due to the way you said sorry
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Story 5: not trying to be mean and i am sorry too but you're the jerk you need to stop bringing her to events all the time your kids are seeing you as a bad mother who favorites over her children
It’s not your event
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Uhhh. Fix your editing and scripting please. 4:36
The subtitles could be auto generated, hence why it picked up “guy” as “game”
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