5 Signs Of Rob Being Abusive Towards Sophie | 90 Day Fiancé

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Комментарии • 88

  • @agenaw2877
    @agenaw2877 2 месяца назад +17

    If you remember her friend from London he went over and asked is everything okay when Rob and Sophie we're arguing. So it was as if she had told him about Rob's temper and abuse.

  • @knockofftasty9693
    @knockofftasty9693 2 месяца назад +22

    Abusive people hate accountability they blame everyone else for their problems. They also think they are the prize and can get so many people but will stay with the person they can control

    • @adventuresofkatekat
      @adventuresofkatekat 2 месяца назад +5

      Words of truth

    • @mayrarosario4002
      @mayrarosario4002 2 месяца назад +3

      👏🏼👏🏼u hit the nail on the head 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼

  • @adamwrobel6485
    @adamwrobel6485 2 месяца назад +14

    In my opinion Sophie played him from the beginning. Rob is how he is, but he is not a villain.

    • @racharina
      @racharina 2 месяца назад +2

      Totally I agree

    • @Mrs.Futtlebuttle
      @Mrs.Futtlebuttle 2 месяца назад +2

      Me too​@@racharina

    • @allclassallthetime4739
      @allclassallthetime4739 2 месяца назад +3

      he still makes excuses and doesn't own up to a single wrong

    • @kahdijahmcdonald6363
      @kahdijahmcdonald6363 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes he is a jerk but she played with his emotions and could have took her behind back home instead of being her mom and her face

    • @Missemeka
      @Missemeka 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes exactly. She dont love him. She too immature for marraige and wants party lifestyle and to explore other ppl still. She thinks robs hot but that's it I think

  • @Caraf
    @Caraf 2 месяца назад +7

    I think it’s clear he’s emotionally abusive and Sophie is attached hoping she’ll see that nice guy he was pretending to be in the beginning. And was too insecure to leave at the time because he puts her down so much.

  • @joycek6556
    @joycek6556 2 месяца назад +10

    Rob move on - you didn't marry Sophie and her mother. How can you put up with that?

  • @KKarczinski-b5j
    @KKarczinski-b5j 2 месяца назад +8

    Sophie needs to make her decisions without outside sources butting in. Rob has shown he loves her more than she has returned the favor. They need to split and then get on The Single Life and find better partners.

    • @michiko9075
      @michiko9075 2 месяца назад

      rob needs to find a woman that's as insufferable as he is lol

  • @cathimurphy-bee6759
    @cathimurphy-bee6759 2 месяца назад +5

    From the very first time they had that argument about him online cheating and he asking her when she was going to let it go, I got a really scary vibe from him. I've been in an abusive relationship. I know the look he gave her all too well. And the thing about leaving him and going back and leaving over and over. That's a thing an abused person will continually do, hoping things will get better. You love the person. It's addictive, and it's destructive, and it's sad. So yes, Madzie, I don't think you're wrong about this.

  • @justme4895
    @justme4895 2 месяца назад +7

    You could tell by the dog's behavior in a previous episode that Rob is abusive. He may not hit her but that mfer hits walls and others things and has the knuckles to prove it. Sophie only wants to be around if Rob is complimentary of her looks. That dummy was geeked when he threw out some lame compliments like a high school kid while they were in therapy. Genuinely bored of their screentime.

  • @kahdijahmcdonald6363
    @kahdijahmcdonald6363 2 месяца назад +3

    Why marry him she gaslit him and nobody deserves to be abused period. She had no intention of being with hiim. She never took responsibility for her behavior either so put that up here too

  • @agenaw2877
    @agenaw2877 2 месяца назад +5

    My ex was physically, verbally and mentally abusive and everything he was doing to me verbally and mentally he told his family i was being that way towards him

    • @movingmad.
      @movingmad.  2 месяца назад +3

      @@agenaw2877 so messed up

    • @adriana27100
      @adriana27100 2 месяца назад +1

      Wow, the manipulation is beyond, glad you got out!

    • @TT_09
      @TT_09 2 месяца назад +1

      It’s called DARVO, abusers turn the tables.

  • @dawnslight676
    @dawnslight676 2 месяца назад +8

    My gut is telling me Rob is not the only aggressor and he's just reacting. She may go off herself, totally coming off innocent. Total BS.

  • @AtlChica883
    @AtlChica883 2 месяца назад +7

    The knuckles! He’s hitting walls or destroying things when he’s angry. He may not be hitting her but he’s punching things and that’s abusive because it gets her to be quiet because he’s showing aggression. Makes sense since he saw it growing up unfortunately. Now Sophie always having some one makes sense. He probably doesn’t do it in front of people.

    • @kirst.
      @kirst. 2 месяца назад +4

      Yep, I grew up with screaming parents.
      Had a lot of anger issues myself. Always got dismissed in discussions because of me raising my voice immensely.
      It's not easy to get rid of those patterns.. takes a lot of work and continuous conciousness.
      You have to see where in communication you go wrong yourself (therefore also get to know yourself and what triggers you, where it stems from and if the one your fighting with, is really the one you're angry at.. And what you can do to improve yourself.

  • @KKarczinski-b5j
    @KKarczinski-b5j 2 месяца назад +4

    Many think Sophie is cute & innocent. I think she's conniving and the green card is her goal. Rob is immature, but this "relationship" will help him grow. There is zero affection and futile communication between them. So, what was the actual point of Sophie coming to America, if not for love?

  • @bridgettegossett2228
    @bridgettegossett2228 2 месяца назад +4

    Maybe Sofie is afraid to be alone with him to have these conversations

  • @anarwalji6200
    @anarwalji6200 2 месяца назад +10

    Lets be fair if Rob is abusive than he should have been in jail like her mama and why are Sophies friend not advising her to divorce Rob or charge him for abuse, Sophies mom said few words about Sophie and her friend called cops on mom then why the hell not call cops on Rob. Something is wrong here Sophie needs to return to London.

  • @ZeroJewelz
    @ZeroJewelz 2 месяца назад +5

    Claire is obsessive with her daughters life, I think she lives precariously through sophie, she won't ever give Rob a chance, she will always think the sun shines outta sophies 🍑 , sophie and Rob are a married couple who have the mentality of children, both have problems, both are responsible for the problems within their marriage, Claire needs to step back from letting sophie grow up. I'm a mother of 2 married daughters, I let them make their own mistakes, if they need me I'm a call away, I would never ever involve myself into their marriages..
    I'm a parent first n foremost not a friend.

  • @tiffanylongboat9280
    @tiffanylongboat9280 2 месяца назад +2

    You hit the nail on the head 🔨. Mom is there as a buffer. To help keep him in check. Also, makes sense why her gf, Kate, despises Rob.

  • @michiko9075
    @michiko9075 2 месяца назад +1

    it makes me happy to see someone holding this man accountable for his actions and not babying him bc Claire tells him like it is

  • @ameleiizane
    @ameleiizane 2 месяца назад +2

    Uh ya, no one needed 5 signs because you could see it on day one. He has the temperament of a pimp and he treats Sophie like she’s his property. The term “my wife “ is literal to him. That’s why Claire is so forceful and trying to talk Sophie out of being with him. Claire has seen a lot of Robs in her day and that’s why Rob hates her so much. He hasn’t been able to isolate Sophie the way he normally would. I’m always so shocked at how much hate Claire has received when it was all pretty obvious.

  • @anarwalji6200
    @anarwalji6200 2 месяца назад +22

    If Rob is so abusive than Sophie needs to fly back to London. I think she brings the worst on Rob and TLC is showing only Robs aggression not showing how Sophie is in reality.

    • @galaxys6071
      @galaxys6071 2 месяца назад

      Sophie is toxic. If he doesn't worship her than he is a bully. And she brings people around to gaslight and torture. Sophie is a scammer! She does everything she is mad about to Rob... she is bi so she gets to like whoever and play with everyone. Rob can't have friends

    • @gbriataylor2554
      @gbriataylor2554 2 месяца назад +3

      No they show Sophie exactly how she is manipulative and whiny Rob is just more angry and loud type of abusive where Sophie is more lowkey abusive but they both still abusive if that makes sense

    • @agenaw2877
      @agenaw2877 2 месяца назад +1

      Well Michael should be flying on back to Nigeria if he is so in fear of his life

    • @racharina
      @racharina 2 месяца назад

      E X A C T L Y!

    • @racharina
      @racharina 2 месяца назад

      ​@@agenaw2877you can't compare here.

  • @catherinehardin6286
    @catherinehardin6286 Месяц назад

    No, Rob, I think you showed Claire exactly WHO YOU ARE.

  • @cozmowiz5593
    @cozmowiz5593 2 месяца назад +5

    Sophie is just as Abusive but you have to know the signs. Soph raised her mom and protected from herself right? Her nurturing is kinda gone now due Tobago short relationship i had in grad school. Experience tells me she is more clever in her gaslighting than he. Soph has had a hard life her paranoia is earned but is a permanent part of her personality now. I learned this last fall at a siminar in Canada where I glanced at my mistake 22yrs after ran off she saw me and pretended I was not even there. She raised her drunk mom too. 😅

    • @BlindMellowJelly
      @BlindMellowJelly 2 месяца назад

      Well said. Both are great pop people but met at the wrong time for any building to take place. Your correct mom sucked all the normal out of Sophie now they prowel the web seeking the unassuming. 😊

  • @racharina
    @racharina 2 месяца назад +4

    Why didn't she fly back to England? Uhu, so abusive sure. Greencard hogging 🙄 Rob move on, you don't need this.

  • @Missemeka
    @Missemeka 2 месяца назад +1

    Both of them arent accountable for their wrongs. Sophies very immature aswell and thrives on compliments and is very vain. She thinks robs hot but doesnt like him let alone love him. Shes too young in the mind for marraige and isnt happy when not receiving constant compliments. We saw rob in the car after the lingere shop trying to talk but sophie threw a childish tantrum n said they dont need understand each other that he just needs tell her she's pretty make her feel good and their marraige will be fine n shel be happy. So yeah shes too young in the mind for marraige. Marraige is more than looks and compliments 😂
    From what claires said bout them drinking and drugs etc alot if say sophies still young and wants to explore...not be stuck in marraige.
    Rob needs be more aware of how he makes her feel tho too

  • @majortruth217
    @majortruth217 2 месяца назад +4

    Neither Rob or Sophie should have gotten married. Rob get anger management, Sophie get therapy you are confused about your sexuality. They never looked happy together, just painful & distant. This relationship is over!🤭🫣🤫🧐

    • @alix73
      @alix73 2 месяца назад +1

      100% correct!

  • @catherinehardin6286
    @catherinehardin6286 Месяц назад

    They are not going to be honest in The Last Resort, out of fear that TLC will drop them.

  • @Solvecrimebydinnertime
    @Solvecrimebydinnertime 2 месяца назад +1

    Of course you understand you don’t have a choice 😂

  • @kahdijahmcdonald6363
    @kahdijahmcdonald6363 2 месяца назад +1

    Why is this all Rob she stayed at her friends house anyway she was not even with him.playiimg reindeer games she never cooked or cleaned just whined her and mama

  • @SheilaC1
    @SheilaC1 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow, I didn’t even notice the knuckles. 🤦‍♀️

    • @garybowes3081
      @garybowes3081 2 месяца назад +1

      We never know what's happening behind closed doors

  • @donnaknowles4107
    @donnaknowles4107 2 месяца назад

    His hands are probably like that from boxing at the gym. I honestly don't think he's lifting his hands to her but i can imagine him getting frustrated and punching something but not her.

  • @rebeccacrakow2918
    @rebeccacrakow2918 2 месяца назад +1

    Rob is abusive 100%- but Sophie is NOT innocent! She should go back to the UK- but she probably won’t because of Last Resort and Single Life! ( it’s all coming) apparently abuse means nothing to her if she is getting paid🤷‍♀️ That’s crazy to me- go back home. As for Claire’s involvement- that’s all on Sophie. Why doesn’t Sophie go home with her mother?? Abuse is terrible!! Makes no sense except for fame and $$$.

  • @barbiejimenezmojica40
    @barbiejimenezmojica40 2 месяца назад +1

    At this point does Rob even like women because his wife does

  • @jpi8833
    @jpi8833 2 месяца назад +1

    They are both abusive but soph is a more malicious kind of abusive trying to make herself look she dont break a plate shes just as bad as he is if not more because i know she has to be gaslighting him just from what ive seen her doing to her own mum

  • @Mrs.Futtlebuttle
    @Mrs.Futtlebuttle 2 месяца назад +2

    I think your over thinking their relationship. I 🤔 don't even think they are together. It's obvious she doesn't love him. I think she just likes being on television. Her pouty, whiney, childish behavior is annoying. She won't go back to London, She is enjoying herself.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 2 месяца назад

      They were spotted recently at Disneyland and took pictures with fans. I think it’s all for the upcoming spin off shows. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @pattiosmith8963
    @pattiosmith8963 2 месяца назад

    From what I've seen, Sofie and her crazy mom are the abusive ones! Sofie wants Rob to be someone else, yet she thinks she's just fine! She marries Rob then leaves to go be with her friends, sleeping with her girlfriend ( she's bisexual). She never should've married Rob, she doesn't know what she wants or who she is. I side with Rob all the way!

  • @madboyreadynow28
    @madboyreadynow28 2 месяца назад +1

    I hate Rob. I think he's a horrible person, BUT do you think the show producers and camera people wouldn't pick up on physical abuse? They would not allow this couple to continue if there was a hint of physical abuse so let's drop this conversation. There is no way Rob is beating Clair so badly that his knuckles are red. In America, and especially in Texas, MMA gyms are huge right now. All men like Rob want to learn how to be MMA fighters. I don't know why his hands are red. He is mixed raced. I am sure he's not beating his wife. Next story.

  • @allclassallthetime4739
    @allclassallthetime4739 2 месяца назад

    i don't know man, if i'm dating someone, one of the top of my list is to gain my counterparts' parents trust and favor. i'll show them that I'M a prize and bring good addition to their family. that's the impression i'd think a reasonable man would try to go for.

  • @BlindMellowJelly
    @BlindMellowJelly 2 месяца назад +2

    Nailed it. Wonderful breakdown on the poorly executed production. Cant hide his behavior reasoning when it's on full display.

  • @user-te1hz6jn1o
    @user-te1hz6jn1o 2 месяца назад +1

    The Last Resort is co back🙄

  • @user-wn2di5st4k
    @user-wn2di5st4k 2 месяца назад +1

    Could just be a tlc storyline...and their both acting it out...

  • @Bella-wayne23
    @Bella-wayne23 2 месяца назад

    Rob is a narcissist and I can’t with him Sophia needs to leave but for someone mentally abused it’s not easy. But Sophia also has her issues and she shouldn’t alway bring her mom or friends in the conversation. They are toxic together and she picks a fight at time but still does not excuses his behavior because he also gas lights her as well. Rob cheated from the jump so I get Sophia’s behavior . They just shouldn’t be together

  • @KarmaKolors
    @KarmaKolors Месяц назад

    Can ppl not see he’s a narcissist Gaslighter she was told by a therapist. The best thing you can do for a narcissist is just walk away. You will not win when it comes to a narcissist that’s why she walked away maybe she was too scared to go home with him. You guys can’t keep thinking it’s Sophie without looking into Rob you guys think it’s Claire and all of this you guys are looking at the wrong people.

  • @kenswindle4860
    @kenswindle4860 2 месяца назад

    Disagree 💯%. If he was physically abusive, don’t you think Claire would have brought that up? All I have seen is Claire constantly being insulting towards Rob and Sophie enabling her mom’s behavior. Stop trying to invent excuses for Sophie and Claire. They are a toxic duo, and Sophie will never have a successful relationship with anyone as long as Claire is around.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 2 месяца назад +1

      Did you see the past videos that were “leaked” of Rob yelling at Sophie in the car and then she’s with their dog and he’s yelling at her again? I believe it was Claire that leaked them. They were covered and talked about on her several weeks ago and also by other RUclipsrs.

  • @maedero05
    @maedero05 2 месяца назад +5

    Parents love is unconditional ! Women partner love ? Men uncoditonaly love their partners, women only conditional love, please me not yourself I don't t care about your wel being except providing what I need, that's the truth ! Sophie gaslight Rob by not wanting to work out their problems, blaim Rob for going strange if she doesn' t want to accept Rob as he is only accept all those sweet girl things, me,me ?

    • @ericw8478
      @ericw8478 2 месяца назад +2

      If one wants unconditional love get a puppy.

    • @ldn876
      @ldn876 2 месяца назад +1

      Men only love themselves.

    • @annicklagace7414
      @annicklagace7414 2 месяца назад +1

      SOME women.. and SOME men ..
      Can't throw everybody in the same boat because of your experiences.

    • @Mrs.Futtlebuttle
      @Mrs.Futtlebuttle 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree with you about blaming Rob. She definitely doesn't want to work things out.

    • @maedero05
      @maedero05 2 месяца назад

      @@ericw8478 That's what women do, for companionship f for health or security ! They don't need it if they take relationship more serious, communicate more reasonable, don't excegerate don't give the silent treatment. Men too have issues express matters but at least it's more clear !

  • @user-wn2di5st4k
    @user-wn2di5st4k 2 месяца назад +1

    Their both actor's...

  • @Solvecrimebydinnertime
    @Solvecrimebydinnertime 2 месяца назад

    Omgg stop I didn’t want people to say two blk men u look alike u need to stop 😂

  • @Nigerianhero97
    @Nigerianhero97 2 месяца назад

    @MovingMAD, YoU look like Boston Celtics' Jaylon Brown (NBA CHAMPION, FINALS MVP WINNER)