Any good authority figure in the business world will use please and thank you. Common sense tells you it is politeness when asked to do something and not a request you are going to say no to. Those who do not say it are usually the types of people who feel superior over someone and enjoy proving it with their lack of descency!
Tamari Boatner do they make students use the word please? Honestly I think the word “please” is only legitimate for use if you are pleading. Not at all necessary to be used in a coherent question. Only after you are met with a “no”, would you need to try and plead with someone. People will say “ please is the magic word,”. Oh really?! You can get anyone to do anything if you say it? Do people ask their bosses to say please when the boss asks them to do something? It’s a word I see that wastes time when parents or elders use it to teach a child how to ask for something “ properly”. “ Can I go to the bathroom?”, should make plenty of sense to someone already. If they are asking you to say please after that easy to understand and not at all rude question, then they are acting high and mighty/authoritarian.....aka disrespectful of others. “Please” is for Pleading only.
No! how rude to request with "Please." Pee on your socks... {Seriously, a classmate of mine in 2nd grade with bloody knees from a recess snowball fight was refused permission to go to the bathroom (despite "Please...") by our horrible abusive teacher, Madeline F Wilcox. --"You should have gone when it was time, Young Lady." I checked the obituaries for Miss Wilcox whenever i returned to my hometown. Missed it. The bloody-socks girl sat there bleeding into her socks and shoes. She shared story at a Reunion.
Because your average child already has great manners!?! They need to hear please and thank you on a regular basis. Yes, they should comply with directions from a teacher, but they should never become programmed to automatically comply because someone in authority commands you to do something. Also, that sends the wrong message. That says you are not worthy of respect. A teacher would never tollerate that from a student. "Adults" should teach children the proper way of acceptable communication in our society, and it needs to start with them. This is. Preposterous in my opinion. Perfect setup for Marshal law. Let's get our children accostomed to obey without hesitation or question.
Understand. But kids will test and push the limits. =Not comply until the esp 1st year 'sweet' teacher keeps asking... Or parent who doesn't back up her requests. Kids will see how long they can ignore her requests in the hall. Kind but firm is the way to be. With a smile (if they are truly 'just being kids/ excitedly talking with friends,,,), manners, and expectation they will comply. Quiet enforcement of rules., 2nd level.
Well I see this as an absolute win because you know you have to ask to go the bathroom please but now that it’s going on that school you just walk out with no problem but yeah I agree with you it just seems dumb like if you want to get respected then you can’t all just say please you have to say please in order to make it respectful
I always say "Please," and "Thank You," and I am told it is appreciated so much because of the lack of people having the courtesy to treat another person with respect. Sometimes that is the only respect received. My kids do say "please," and "thank you."
The way I think of it is this: Imagine that you're baking a cake, and you read the recipe and instructions. The instructions don't say, "Please preheat the oven to 350. Now please mix the butter in with the cake mix. Now please add an egg. Please stir..." Teacher's instructions are essentially similar. The teacher is not asking a favor; the teacher is giving directions. I am not opposed to the word "please" but I do question the idea that the word must be included in every direction a teacher gives.
Real talk -- whether you're asking for a favour or giving a command, the other person ALWAYS has the CHOICE to comply or not. Just saying "please," which is simply polite, doesn't mean there won't be consequences for misbehaviour. What adults are SUPPOSED to be teaching children is how to make good choices, not mindlessly follow orders. Dumb.
So, you can't be "specific and concrete" while using manners? Teachers already don't, nor are expected to coddle the children but we put our children into their care for 8 hours a day 5 days a week and while we teach our children manners at home we expect everyone at school to uphold the use of manners. If my kids were in a school where no-nonsense means no manners from the teacher toward my children, I would expect my children to demonstrate "no-nonsense, no manners" towards the teachers such as: "Ms. Teacher, I am getting up from my desk and leaving the classroom now to go to the bathroom", then stand up and leave the class and have that be acceptable.
Convenient that Denise got the one teacher in all of CMS that agrees with no nonsense nurturing. My first year of teaching (at one of the schools Denise was the superintendent for), I was a guinea pig for this ridiculous program. It started within my first few weeks as I was finishing setting up my classroom (we were given no time to set up our rooms) and I was just getting to know my students and make those important connections with my second graders who came from some of the lowest income areas of Charlotte, NC. Many of these babies were homeless or lived at the homeless shelter, I found it absolutely necessary to make their classroom a safe environment for them to feel comfortable to enjoy their learning journey. This came to an abrupt haunt as the no nonsense nurturing team came in and forced me to stop these connections with my babies. They told me to stop telling them “good job” and to start narrating what they were doing. Ex. “Johnny completed his math problem correctly.” I instantly noticed a disconnect from my students and saw they would start acting out for attention. The no nonsense nurturing coaches had microphones hooked up to a head piece a had to wear and had to copy everything they said. After each session we would meet and they would critically tear me apart and tell me how to talk to my class. Not to mention they were giving me homework and told me I had to script out every single thing I would say to my students throughout a lesson. I cried after every session. My students knew something was wrong. They knew we had to just get through these sessions so the s coaches would leave us alone. The teachers in our school ended up banning together to ban this program bc it was not right for the children/population we serve. We of course didn’t see eye to eye with our administrators. This program, the coaches, the fact that they forced a new teacher into an experimental (at the time) program is part of the reason why I left teaching. And I loved those kids like they were my own I gave my heart and soul to that classroom. I assisted with the homeless population in our grade level, donated my time and all kinds of materials and personal items for those less fortunate. I would have loved to continue my journey at that school but I just couldn’t be apart of something I disagreed with so strongly.
but people at work ask if you could do something and they say please? or at least thank you? this is just disrespectful to the students and it's the type of thing I hated when I was in school
Going through school I don't think I ever heard the teachers ask me to please do my work or please stop talking and get on task. I was always just told to do, because we knew thats what we where supposed to be doing. But it wasn't "not allowed to say please" if i asked the teacher to grab my bag because it was close to her and she was heading my way I simply asked if she would please grab it. She would. If the teacher needed help reaching a book or pulling something up on the board from the computer while she was up teaching she may notice I was already done with my work and was working on other classes work, she would ask me "come grab this book for me please?" Or "would you come change slides on the computer for me please David? It's a pretty simple life. Stop making it fucking stupid.
s7uidz exactly, they want to program our children with the command and knee jerk reaction becoming automatic compliance covered under the guise of, your kid is to stupid to understand that a teacher's request is somehow differentiated if accompanied by please! People are blind.
I think in urban schools where it's hard to manage the classroom sometimes (I attend one) this kind of no please allowed it a great idea. You don't have to waste time and it let's the teacher have more control. It's probably more beneficial in the long run.
What I don’t think a lot of you are understanding (Coming from a student who has been a volunteer at a summer camp for kids) is that when you are teaching a large group of young children, it’s easy for things to get chaotic. Yes, it is nice to be polite, but sometimes you have to put your foot down or shit doesn’t get done. I, as a doormat myself, have tried about a million different tactics that include being polite, and let me tell you most of the time that doesn’t work. Stubborn kids are stubborn, and just because most kids are nice doesn’t mean that the other kids can fuck around and delay the rest of the class. If it works, and the kids are generally happy, who the hell cares? They’re children, and children need discipline.
abbyyannasworld abbyyannasworld do they make students use the word please? Honestly I think the word “please” is only legitimate for use if you are pleading. Not at all necessary to be used in a coherent question. Only after you are met with a “no”, would you need to try and plead with someone. People will say “ please is the magic word,”. Oh really?! You can get anyone to do anything if you say it? Do people ask their bosses to say please when the boss asks them to do something? It’s a word I see that wastes time when parents or elders use it to teach a child how to ask for something “ properly”. “ Can I go to the bathroom?”, should make plenty of sense to someone already. If they are asking you to say please after that easy to understand and not at all rude question, then they are acting high and mighty/authoritarian.....aka disrespectful of others. “Please” is for Pleading only.
hahah our shit hole of a school had this but we still said plz.They tried to get us to do what the teacher does in this but we were so insulted and angered that our teacher tried to act like they were our parents.We kinda went on a revolt and eventually got the school and teachers to quit the bullshit.Please and thank you are not meant to be nurturing they are meant to be polite and have nice manners and to be respectable.Teaching kids not to say please and thank you are only teaching them how to be disrespectful.These kids are gunna grow up and go out in the world and think they dont ever have to say please an thank you and its not gunna end up well on their part
So this is the new thing now. We can't use the word 'please.' What's next? Can't say 'thank you' or 'you're welcome.' or any other pleasantries that we were taught as kids. These are prime social phrases (with their meanings attached) to make a child grow into adulthood with a stable mental appreciation of how to respect other people.
This is a misleading headline. I don't see what the issue is here. This is how it was in public schools when I attended grade school in the 70's. May I, Please and thank you were used only when appropriate. Which was usually by students. But you did hear courtesy when appropriate. But no, *the teacher should **_not_** be saying please sit down, Excuse me or May I, to get the students attention.* I remember one teacher used to tap her pointer on the blackboard to get the class's attention One like to clear their throat. Another would just walk up to the blackboard and start talking. The point being, they didn't ask, or request you pay attention, you were expected to. For the best classroom environment, conducive to learning. There needs to be repetitive enforcement of strict classroom rules of conduct starting from day one. The students need to know that there will be no exceptions to the rules(but common sense must also exist and applied). The teacher should clearly lay out the classroom rules and what will be expected from the students. The most important is the start of each class. Students should know exactly what they need to do without reminders. Having strickt adherence to classroom rules and etiquette, does not mean that the teacher can't be relaxed and have a casual teaching approach. Or be a fun teacher. Because the nurturing part of teaching comes from the lesson plan and interaction with the students. Along with the one on one interactions between the teacher, students and parent/s/guardian/s. All go together for an optimal learning environment.
Firstly, the - "World" - Please? Second see how the bad loop started. You don't need to ban the word just for the bad crowd. You might as well quit your job then.
Quynh Kyasarin do they get huffy if the kids don’t say please? I’d be fine with it if they are allowing kids the same. “ Can I go to the bathroom?” Makes a ton of sense and is NOT a rude way to ask. Only when someone demands a “ please” ( a plea) before they say yes, is anything actually rude.
To be completely honest im not againsr it but im not for it i understand bith sides one its easier said than done i know teachers deal with a bunch of crap from students that like to mess around in class and are disruptive but and it is hard sometimes for teachers to have to constantly put up with it but at the same time people are forgetting that kids have to continue their social education at home is well saying that the no nonsense program keeps kids away from learning manners is lidicrous they should already be learning that at home. I went to a public predominately blsck school and my parents taught me how to conduct myself in public if they left it up to the school to teach me everything i would be just as wild as some of my classmates were. Try teaching a class with 20 plus students while babysitting some class clowns is not very conductive.
All I see is that we need to go back to old ways. Kids need manners. And teachers should never ask for a student to behave. Not start some stupid program.
at first i thought this was BS but after watching, i see what they are trying to do. parents and teachers have to be the authority figure and give the kids structure.
SPacy sam aku holT at what age does a person get to tell you to “ say please”, after you have asked them for something? “ Could you do blank for me?” makes perfect sense and is not rude at all. Only when the person being asked says that they need to hear the word “please” does any part of this exchange actually become rude. “ please” is for pleading only. Also, I have had to teach my children that “ please” is NOT a magical word that gets you what you want. I’m all about manners, kindness and morals but not the useless and, often times, time and energy wasting word “please”
Im super on board with this. Absolutely, you NEED to learn, you have to learn, I dont care what you think. Teaching kids at a young age that there are responsibilities and duties you have to do in life is great. Im fine with this.
Brian Payne this is insane! All children with a reasonable IQ know when something is a request no matter what words are attached. I have four awesome children. They are people, be it less experienced, they should be treated as we want to be treated. All these people saying it's a great idea, are basically saying that their kids are ignorant! Are they unable to teach their children while showing them the respect they deserve? If please changes a child's response, then you haven't raised your child right. Likely these people saying it's a great idea are the very people not raising their children but asking the school system ie. Government to do their job for them.
How much of who we are is taught by our parents? Or taught to us by our social interactions with other people? School raises children far more than parents do, simply because of the environment. Kids learn everything about social behavior and personal interactions through school. You raise your kids, it what manner? By telling them to do things? Be polite, say please and thank you, share, be kind, courteous, all wonderful virtues. But in school, they see the actions of others, actions of the masses. I can tell you absolutely from person experience I learned more about how to be a person from school than my parents. And thats not saying my parents werent great parents, they were wonderful. The Model parents for any child growing up, love, compassion, understanding, but that still doesnt change the fact that its in school were children learn how to interact with others. You are a fool to say and think otherwise.
Brian Payne I can understand how you can agree with this idea, but i was in a school just like this once. I had so much anxiety and was too scared to ask questions, which made me really behind. I get some kids have been in this teaching mechanism and that they’re just used to it. It’s also, no matter what it is, still a good thing to say “please” and “thank you”. If the students don’t comply THEN you can be more forceful. But this is treating the students like they’ve been raised on a barn.
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I get what they’re trying to do but at the same time school is supposed to prepare you for the real world and it never hurts to have some manners
I would rather be respectful then being disrespectful
Tamari Boatner yeah
Any good authority figure in the business world will use please and thank you. Common sense tells you it is politeness when asked to do something and not a request you are going to say no to. Those who do not say it are usually the types of people who feel superior over someone and enjoy proving it with their lack of descency!
"May I go to the bathroom please?"
Tamari Boatner
do they make students use the word please? Honestly I think the word “please” is only legitimate for use if you are pleading. Not at all necessary to be used in a coherent question. Only after you are met with a “no”, would you need to try and plead with someone. People will say “ please is the magic word,”. Oh really?! You can get anyone to do anything if you say it? Do people ask their bosses to say please when the boss asks them to do something? It’s a word I see that wastes time when parents or elders use it to teach a child how to ask for something “ properly”. “ Can I go to the bathroom?”, should make plenty of sense to someone already. If they are asking you to say please after that easy to understand and not at all rude question, then they are acting high and mighty/authoritarian.....aka disrespectful of others. “Please” is for Pleading only.
GHASP
Tamari Boatner that is a good one
No! how rude to request with "Please." Pee on your socks... {Seriously, a classmate of mine in 2nd grade with bloody knees from a recess snowball fight was refused permission to go to the bathroom (despite "Please...") by our horrible abusive teacher, Madeline F Wilcox. --"You should have gone when it was time, Young Lady." I checked the obituaries for Miss Wilcox whenever i returned to my hometown. Missed it. The bloody-socks girl sat there bleeding into her socks and shoes. She shared story at a Reunion.
Its been 4 years are you still holding it in?
Because your average child already has great manners!?! They need to hear please and thank you on a regular basis. Yes, they should comply with directions from a teacher, but they should never become programmed to automatically comply because someone in authority commands you to do something. Also, that sends the wrong message. That says you are not worthy of respect. A teacher would never tollerate that from a student. "Adults" should teach children the proper way of acceptable communication in our society, and it needs to start with them. This is. Preposterous in my opinion. Perfect setup for Marshal law. Let's get our children accostomed to obey without hesitation or question.
Understand. But kids will test and push the limits. =Not comply until the esp 1st year 'sweet' teacher keeps asking... Or parent who doesn't back up her requests. Kids will see how long they can ignore her requests in the hall. Kind but firm is the way to be. With a smile (if they are truly 'just being kids/ excitedly talking with friends,,,), manners, and expectation they will comply. Quiet enforcement of rules., 2nd level.
Well I see this as an absolute win because you know you have to ask to go the bathroom please but now that it’s going on that school you just walk out with no problem but yeah I agree with you it just seems dumb like if you want to get respected then you can’t all just say please you have to say please in order to make it respectful
Kids are uselless if they dont listen order from us
Jail guards also don't bother to use the word '' please '', so it kinda gets them used to the inevitable.
Adults that were taught in other schools as kids:
Can I have some chips please?
Adults taught in that school as kids:
GIVE ME YOUR CHIPS, BRO!
I always say "Please," and "Thank You," and I am told it is appreciated so much because of the lack of people having the courtesy to treat another person with respect. Sometimes that is the only respect received. My kids do say "please," and "thank you."
The way I think of it is this: Imagine that you're baking a cake, and you read the recipe and instructions. The instructions don't say, "Please preheat the oven to 350. Now please mix the butter in with the cake mix. Now please add an egg. Please stir..." Teacher's instructions are essentially similar. The teacher is not asking a favor; the teacher is giving directions. I am not opposed to the word "please" but I do question the idea that the word must be included in every direction a teacher gives.
Real talk -- whether you're asking for a favour or giving a command, the other person ALWAYS has the CHOICE to comply or not. Just saying "please," which is simply polite, doesn't mean there won't be consequences for misbehaviour. What adults are SUPPOSED to be teaching children is how to make good choices, not mindlessly follow orders.
Dumb.
Umm these are KIDS not robots...
What school bans the word please?!
Conservative industrialists.
@@alycejasmin6569 I guess so
So, you can't be "specific and concrete" while using manners? Teachers already don't, nor are expected to coddle the children but we put our children into their care for 8 hours a day 5 days a week and while we teach our children manners at home we expect everyone at school to uphold the use of manners. If my kids were in a school where no-nonsense means no manners from the teacher toward my children, I would expect my children to demonstrate "no-nonsense, no manners" towards the teachers such as: "Ms. Teacher, I am getting up from my desk and leaving the classroom now to go to the bathroom", then stand up and leave the class and have that be acceptable.
Convenient that Denise got the one teacher in all of CMS that agrees with no nonsense nurturing. My first year of teaching (at one of the schools Denise was the superintendent for), I was a guinea pig for this ridiculous program. It started within my first few weeks as I was finishing setting up my classroom (we were given no time to set up our rooms) and I was just getting to know my students and make those important connections with my second graders who came from some of the lowest income areas of Charlotte, NC. Many of these babies were homeless or lived at the homeless shelter, I found it absolutely necessary to make their classroom a safe environment for them to feel comfortable to enjoy their learning journey. This came to an abrupt haunt as the no nonsense nurturing team came in and forced me to stop these connections with my babies. They told me to stop telling them “good job” and to start narrating what they were doing. Ex. “Johnny completed his math problem correctly.” I instantly noticed a disconnect from my students and saw they would start acting out for attention. The no nonsense nurturing coaches had microphones hooked up to a head piece a had to wear and had to copy everything they said. After each session we would meet and they would critically tear me apart and tell me how to talk to my class. Not to mention they were giving me homework and told me I had to script out every single thing I would say to my students throughout a lesson. I cried after every session. My students knew something was wrong. They knew we had to just get through these sessions so the s coaches would leave us alone. The teachers in our school ended up banning together to ban this program bc it was not right for the children/population we serve. We of course didn’t see eye to eye with our administrators. This program, the coaches, the fact that they forced a new teacher into an experimental (at the time) program is part of the reason why I left teaching. And I loved those kids like they were my own I gave my heart and soul to that classroom. I assisted with the homeless population in our grade level, donated my time and all kinds of materials and personal items for those less fortunate. I would have loved to continue my journey at that school but I just couldn’t be apart of something I disagreed with so strongly.
but people at work ask if you could do something and they say please? or at least thank you? this is just disrespectful to the students and it's the type of thing I hated when I was in school
And the sheeple are like, "yes, this makes perfect sense"! Wonder how they postulated their bogus stats?
Going through school I don't think I ever heard the teachers ask me to please do my work or please stop talking and get on task. I was always just told to do, because we knew thats what we where supposed to be doing. But it wasn't "not allowed to say please" if i asked the teacher to grab my bag because it was close to her and she was heading my way I simply asked if she would please grab it. She would. If the teacher needed help reaching a book or pulling something up on the board from the computer while she was up teaching she may notice I was already done with my work and was working on other classes work, she would ask me "come grab this book for me please?" Or "would you come change slides on the computer for me please David? It's a pretty simple life. Stop making it fucking stupid.
"They say Jump and You Say How High Your Brain Dead Gotta Bullet in Your Head." ----=--Rage Against the Machine
s7uidz exactly, they want to program our children with the command and knee jerk reaction becoming automatic compliance covered under the guise of, your kid is to stupid to understand that a teacher's request is somehow differentiated if accompanied by please! People are blind.
This kinda crap is why my son sends his daughter to church school.
I think in urban schools where it's hard to manage the classroom sometimes (I attend one) this kind of no please allowed it a great idea. You don't have to waste time and it let's the teacher have more control. It's probably more beneficial in the long run.
SapphireNinja98 which kpop star is that in your picture?
What i want to say: May I go to the restroom please?
What I'm forced to say: I gotta take a sh*t, hand me the pass b*tch
School or factory?
God it just sounds harsh it's just too mean
To me that comes across as harsh but if it works it works
What? The please part makes literally no sense, are they trying to make kids more rude?
(Teacher) I I'M GOD LISTEN TO ME WITHOUT QUESTION!!!!!!
What kind of paint thinner were they sniffing, when they thought of this?
What I don’t think a lot of you are understanding (Coming from a student who has been a volunteer at a summer camp for kids) is that when you are teaching a large group of young children, it’s easy for things to get chaotic. Yes, it is nice to be polite, but sometimes you have to put your foot down or shit doesn’t get done. I, as a doormat myself, have tried about a million different tactics that include being polite, and let me tell you most of the time that doesn’t work. Stubborn kids are stubborn, and just because most kids are nice doesn’t mean that the other kids can fuck around and delay the rest of the class. If it works, and the kids are generally happy, who the hell cares? They’re children, and children need discipline.
Maybe it’s not even the word please, just being direct with the kids, especially when they need it.
"I would request for you to do or let me do this particular action"
Get kids used to prison.. w hard education that wher they will be
turning kids into robots smh
Dude the thing about it is this is my school
abbyyannasworld abbyyannasworld
do they make students use the word please? Honestly I think the word “please” is only legitimate for use if you are pleading. Not at all necessary to be used in a coherent question. Only after you are met with a “no”, would you need to try and plead with someone. People will say “ please is the magic word,”. Oh really?! You can get anyone to do anything if you say it? Do people ask their bosses to say please when the boss asks them to do something? It’s a word I see that wastes time when parents or elders use it to teach a child how to ask for something “ properly”. “ Can I go to the bathroom?”, should make plenty of sense to someone already. If they are asking you to say please after that easy to understand and not at all rude question, then they are acting high and mighty/authoritarian.....aka disrespectful of others. “Please” is for Pleading only.
random question but what was the first thing you thought about when u heard druid hills academy
(don’t lie)
Well at least you don’t have to say “can I go to the bathroom please” just walk away
“Can you pass the salt”
Wednesday?
“Now”
That's great! She shouldn't have to say "PLEASE do your work." It's just "Do your work"
it shouldnt be, please, move out of the way, it should be MOVE THE F OUT DUDE
hahah our shit hole of a school had this but we still said plz.They tried to get us to do what the teacher does in this but we were so insulted and angered that our teacher tried to act like they were our parents.We kinda went on a revolt and eventually got the school and teachers to quit the bullshit.Please and thank you are not meant to be nurturing they are meant to be polite and have nice manners and to be respectable.Teaching kids not to say please and thank you are only teaching them how to be disrespectful.These kids are gunna grow up and go out in the world and think they dont ever have to say please an thank you and its not gunna end up well on their part
Its going to make kids rude and arrogant
Do I pee here or can I please go to the restroom 👿
so they went from " please " to " YO BIOTCH "
Where´s Chadtronic when you need him?!
I get the idea. But this is also teaching kids to not have manners. All I have to say.
So this is the new thing now. We can't use the word 'please.' What's next? Can't say 'thank you' or 'you're welcome.' or any other pleasantries that we were taught as kids. These are prime social phrases (with their meanings attached) to make a child grow into adulthood with a stable mental appreciation of how to respect other people.
This is a misleading headline.
I don't see what the issue is here. This is how it was in public schools when I attended grade school in the 70's.
May I, Please and thank you were used only when appropriate. Which was usually by students. But you did hear courtesy when appropriate.
But no, *the teacher should **_not_** be saying please sit down, Excuse me or May I, to get the students attention.*
I remember one teacher used to tap her pointer on the blackboard to get the class's attention One like to clear their throat. Another would just walk up to the blackboard and start talking.
The point being, they didn't ask, or request you pay attention, you were expected to.
For the best classroom environment, conducive to learning. There needs to be repetitive enforcement of strict classroom rules of conduct starting from day one. The students need to know that there will be no exceptions to the rules(but common sense must also exist and applied).
The teacher should clearly lay out the classroom rules and what will be expected from the students.
The most important is the start of each class. Students should know exactly what they need to do without reminders.
Having strickt adherence to classroom rules and etiquette, does not mean that the teacher can't be relaxed and have a casual teaching approach. Or be a fun teacher. Because the nurturing part of teaching comes from the lesson plan and interaction with the students. Along with the one on one interactions between the teacher, students and parent/s/guardian/s. All go together for an optimal learning environment.
The Industrial Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Please can you explain?!
*"please control"*
Robert Bork predicted this... eventually we all cater to the idiots in society
Stop expecting schools to teach kids what they're not getting at home.
Really, im keep letting my kid sayin it
I went to this damn school
I dont think that is good BAND THE WORD "PLEASE"
Firstly, the - "World" - Please? Second see how the bad loop started. You don't need to ban the word just for the bad crowd. You might as well quit your job then.
Why do schools even ban words 💀
America should ban "Thank you" as well
They removed the magic word! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
too
Oh wow. Something positive.
Best for the deff kids
Oh my God! That's My School!
Quynh Kyasarin do they get huffy if the kids don’t say please? I’d be fine with it if they are allowing kids the same. “ Can I go to the bathroom?” Makes a ton of sense and is NOT a rude way to ask. Only when someone demands a “ please” ( a plea) before they say yes, is anything actually rude.
Quynh Kyasarin y i k e s
To be completely honest im not againsr it but im not for it i understand bith sides one its easier said than done i know teachers deal with a bunch of crap from students that like to mess around in class and are disruptive but and it is hard sometimes for teachers to have to constantly put up with it but at the same time people are forgetting that kids have to continue their social education at home is well saying that the no nonsense program keeps kids away from learning manners is lidicrous they should already be learning that at home. I went to a public predominately blsck school and my parents taught me how to conduct myself in public if they left it up to the school to teach me everything i would be just as wild as some of my classmates were. Try teaching a class with 20 plus students while babysitting some class clowns is not very conductive.
they mean word
Ms. Alford
#teamidontcare
All I see is that we need to go back to old ways. Kids need manners. And teachers should never ask for a student to behave. Not start some stupid program.
Lack of manners never improved anything!!!!!
at first i thought this was BS but after watching, i see what they are trying to do. parents and teachers have to be the authority figure and give the kids structure.
SPacy sam aku holT at what age does a person get to tell you to “ say please”, after you have asked them for something? “ Could you do blank for me?” makes perfect sense and is not rude at all. Only when the person being asked says that they need to hear the word “please” does any part of this exchange actually become rude. “ please” is for pleading only. Also, I have had to teach my children that “ please” is NOT a magical word that gets you what you want. I’m all about manners, kindness and morals but not the useless and, often times, time and energy wasting word “please”
Good for NC
I was at this school
My teachers name was ms. Morgan
wow she teach like a man
Im super on board with this. Absolutely, you NEED to learn, you have to learn, I dont care what you think. Teaching kids at a young age that there are responsibilities and duties you have to do in life is great. Im fine with this.
Brian Payne this is insane! All children with a reasonable IQ know when something is a request no matter what words are attached. I have four awesome children. They are people, be it less experienced, they should be treated as we want to be treated. All these people saying it's a great idea, are basically saying that their kids are ignorant! Are they unable to teach their children while showing them the respect they deserve? If please changes a child's response, then you haven't raised your child right. Likely these people saying it's a great idea are the very people not raising their children but asking the school system ie. Government to do their job for them.
How much of who we are is taught by our parents? Or taught to us by our social interactions with other people? School raises children far more than parents do, simply because of the environment. Kids learn everything about social behavior and personal interactions through school. You raise your kids, it what manner? By telling them to do things? Be polite, say please and thank you, share, be kind, courteous, all wonderful virtues. But in school, they see the actions of others, actions of the masses. I can tell you absolutely from person experience I learned more about how to be a person from school than my parents. And thats not saying my parents werent great parents, they were wonderful. The Model parents for any child growing up, love, compassion, understanding, but that still doesnt change the fact that its in school were children learn how to interact with others. You are a fool to say and think otherwise.
Brian Payne I can understand how you can agree with this idea, but i was in a school just like this once. I had so much anxiety and was too scared to ask questions, which made me really behind. I get some kids have been in this teaching mechanism and that they’re just used to it. It’s also, no matter what it is, still a good thing to say “please” and “thank you”. If the students don’t comply THEN you can be more forceful. But this is treating the students like they’ve been raised on a barn.
It is the teachers who are restricted and using the word please is pleading instead of commanding. This could work.