Korean Actors Who Married For Popularity And Didn't End Well

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  • @aleviemsaf
    @aleviemsaf 2 года назад +8021

    "the fans have expressed their wishes for the couple to stay together for the sake of their sons happiness" ah yes, the child would be soooo happy living with parents who constantly fight

    • @bangtanmoosahu
      @bangtanmoosahu 2 года назад +398

      A child should not live like this. Fighting between parents is the worst trauma for a kid. Even I have live with my biological parents and they always fight and their fighting stills hunts me.

    • @NovalieSweet
      @NovalieSweet 2 года назад +195

      Agreed, it would actually be better if the parents divorced instead of using their children to stay together, just for the children to constantly see their parents fight and think that's a way a relationship should be. And constantly questioning themselves if they are the problem

    • @jyadidtnova1051
      @jyadidtnova1051 2 года назад +52

      That's why communication is more important in a relationship, than having kids to make your significant other happy. If you can't communicate with your partner, don't even think about have kids. Otherwise your kids will end up hating you, for being raised by a stubborn single parent, who can't stay in a relationship.

    • @justhairr
      @justhairr 2 года назад +34

      Exactly, i know some kids wishes their parents go back together but living with parents that are hurting ecah other way more depressing

    • @Cezeji1
      @Cezeji1 2 года назад +37

      The fans opinions shouldn't have any bearing in anyone's life

  • @cr0wsnest
    @cr0wsnest 2 года назад +4078

    Forget the age gap. The red flag is really "we dated for a month"

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +128

      I used to think that too but if arranged marriages when the 2 did not even know each other can be happy and blissful, then even a month of dating is sufficient. Often times it is a matter of can you accept, love, tolerate and adjust after marriage. That is much more important than what you know prior to marriage.

    • @anymenezes3314
      @anymenezes3314 2 года назад +61

      i really think the same, but i realized that in korea they marry fast anyways and the divorce rates are higher too

    • @CrankDatJonasBoi
      @CrankDatJonasBoi 2 года назад +85

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj You just proved why it's not sufficient. A month dating is not enough to get to know someone. If you choose to tolerate them after that the fact that's different, but you cannot learn anything about anyone with only a month of dating. You're learning to settle and tolerate what you got stuck with, that is not love. Love can only come after a long period of figuring out your relationship and how to work together. You can't love anyone in only one month.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +51

      @@CrankDatJonasBoi Not necessarily as I have seen arranged marriages be happy and blissful while others who have dated for years to no avail. My sister in law’s parents were in an arranged marriage but have been happily married for 60 years. My other friend who dated her current husband for 3 years before marriage is now unhappy and wants to divorce so it just depends. My brothers best friend married only after 6 months and they are now happily married for 21 years. Therefore, it truly depends as knowing anyone well like you think beforehand does not guarantee anything. Plus, a successful marriage takes much more than just love. My main point is knowing someone for a long time before marrying them does not guarantee happiness and an everlasting marriage. You make it seem like marrying right away is always bad which it isn’t. The thing is growing with them as you progress through life after you get together is much more important as people grow and change just like you do.

    • @shivangi1390
      @shivangi1390 2 года назад +6

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj exactly I was about to comment the same ..

  • @snehabhat4876
    @snehabhat4876 2 года назад +3318

    Asking a unhappy couple to stay together for the sake of the child is sick.

    • @nothingavailableleft
      @nothingavailableleft 2 года назад +51

      Actually it's not. If they can go to therapy and learn not to fight in front of the kid. Divorce is traumatizing.
      Every child wants their parents to be together.
      Who says they get to put their happiness before the happiness of their child? When I become a mother I am ready to sacrifice all my happiness for my child. My child's happiness will become my happiness.
      So what if I grow to dislike my husband? I'm sure I can tolerate him and pick up a hobby to give me happiness instead. Or a book. Or start dancing zumba.
      Don't become a mother if you think your life will still be about you.
      The birth of a good mother is the death of a woman. Don't have children of you are not ready to put them first.

    • @oweesposts5227
      @oweesposts5227 2 года назад +109

      @@nothingavailableleft Your children mental health and not having trauma,should be your first priority,because a loveless marriage can destroy a child,unless you think children are so stup!d,that they can’t see or sense,that there’s something going on with their parents,it’s so backwards for you to think that,what a child needs is a loveless,hating each other,can’t stand each other marriage,so far as the parents are together,just because you have no dignity doesn’t mean you should teach your children that it’s okay to have no dignity or self love,if you are a mother who thinks making your children stay in an unhealthy environment,just because you are afraid of losing your marriage,then you shouldn’t be a mother

    • @snehabhat4876
      @snehabhat4876 2 года назад +83

      @@nothingavailableleft As a kid I was traumatized everytime I saw my parents fight. It makes the living environment very toxic. If a couple wants to split and do co parenting they should be allowed to do so.

    • @SarouneGougoune
      @SarouneGougoune 2 года назад +65

      @@nothingavailableleft not every child wants their parents to be together ahah. Growing up my siblings and I all wished our parents would divorce because they clearly weren't happy together and it made everything more difficult. 🤷‍♀️

    • @nothingavailableleft
      @nothingavailableleft 2 года назад +5

      @@oweesposts5227 I hope you will have more grace by the time you have a family than accusing people you don't know of having no dignity because that is not very kind.
      I'm sorry your parents were unable to make it work. Don't blame me for being determined and having my own values.

  • @harujo-koreanperspective1081
    @harujo-koreanperspective1081 2 года назад +1225

    I think in general, it's easier for celebrities to end up being not successful with their marriage in any countries, like being attractive and famous could be a double-edged sword I guess.

    • @anisanurraudah8383
      @anisanurraudah8383 2 года назад +22

      Yes. You cant have the best of both worlds. Unless you are being extremely private.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +11

      True to some extent.. not sure about Korea but there are happy Hong Kong celebrity couples so it just depends.

    • @syenas4100
      @syenas4100 2 года назад +14

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjlike he said it's in general, so obviously there will be few lucky exception.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +2

      @@syenas4100 not really as I have seen quite a few happy ones so it is not just a few exceptions. But that is in Hong Kong entertainment.

    • @syenas4100
      @syenas4100 2 года назад +5

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj you did also said 'a few happy one' and i said 'a few lucky exception' we are on the same page alright. when i said few, it doesn't mean only one or two. It means the majority are not so happy but there's definitely some who does.

  • @_GunpowdertheGabite
    @_GunpowdertheGabite 2 года назад +1565

    Divorce and unsuccessful relationship AREN'T FAILURES. It happens. People grow apart. We need to stop putting this stigma on others.

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 2 года назад +8

      Well said

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад +8

      I don't think men and women should marry. Just remain boyfriend and girlfriend

    • @arminalert4795
      @arminalert4795 2 года назад +39

      @@fearless6947 its nothing wrong being a married couple, divorce is pretty normal things

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад +6

      @@arminalert4795 Exactly, divorce is a pretty normal thing, that's why I think men and women should NOT get married

    • @mapuiinun5211
      @mapuiinun5211 2 года назад +1

      Amen to that👏

  • @fryeji1423
    @fryeji1423 2 года назад +1998

    Having a child with someone you don’t even love is disgusting, and they completely fucked up that kids life

    • @fryeji1423
      @fryeji1423 2 года назад +100

      @@universesays1842 so? That doesn’t justify it

    • @345y5
      @345y5 2 года назад

      modern relationship these days are fkup up anyway. Marriage is a joke ..

    • @ldrago6031
      @ldrago6031 2 года назад +151

      @@universesays1842 most women had a reason too. In the past women weren’t exactly treated well. What is the man excuse ? Other than hurting the women

    • @dp-oh6kq
      @dp-oh6kq 2 года назад +119

      @@universesays1842 why are you focusing only on women? The man is at fault too.

    • @universesays1842
      @universesays1842 2 года назад +5

      @@fryeji1423 it does as women never stop doing that
      women climb mostly on social ladder thanks to men that they associates and easiest way it's marrying them
      men rarely can do that as majority of women always want a man richer than her or at least on her level but not bellow her
      the exception it's when she is old or too ugly and the man is young and hot
      gold diggers are mostly women,not men
      i never seen women being mad when a gold digger woman finesse a rich man
      a young man finesse a older actress,women quickly crying "that's illegal"
      that's double standard from you women
      stop being delusional that a relationship will work out with a much younger male
      same thing i preach for delusional rich old farts but they ignore me and they end up paying a lot
      those old men are in a decaying state,still young women want them
      it's just gross seeing young women being with mummies or old hags with young gold digger males

  • @shhhimnothere.2878
    @shhhimnothere.2878 2 года назад +2142

    The reason I wouldn't do an age gap larger than 5 years older or younger, is because of the generational gap there'd be past that. I know myself and I wouldn't be able to put up with someone so much older than me that they sound like a parent, or someone so young I have to take care of them like a parent. I just want a partner that can live life beside me. Learn things together.... idk that's just me though... also, a Month of dating and then a proposal??? A little precipitous.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +149

      I used to think that but I have changed as age does not necessarily mean you will act your age. Age is just a number as you learn through experiences and stuff too not just how long you lived. Dating time is one thing but whether you can adjust in the long run after you marry. I have seen couples who dated for years to no avail but arranged marriages when people did not even know each other be happy and blissful. Therefore, it just depends.

    • @shhhimnothere.2878
      @shhhimnothere.2878 2 года назад +25

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj fair enough!

    • @justthetruth3950
      @justthetruth3950 2 года назад +39

      EXACTLY, the more I grow as an adult, the more I confirm this, although there some people who do not act their age, most often than not it usually comes as a red flag in the end.

    • @lorraineferrara78
      @lorraineferrara78 2 года назад +36

      9 year gap between my husband and I. Engaged after 3 months. Married for 13. Never say never 😁❤

    • @shhhimnothere.2878
      @shhhimnothere.2878 2 года назад +36

      @@justthetruth3950 yeah I guess it's just not a risk I'm willing to take. I'm overly cautious 😂

  • @itsjenniex
    @itsjenniex 2 года назад +373

    Honestly in Elis case it would be better for the two of them to just live seperately but rather not too far away from each other so they can both see their son regularly. I doubt that their child would be happy living with two parents around that either constantly fight or have a weird / cold mood around them.

    • @victoriashevlin8587
      @victoriashevlin8587 2 года назад

      I absolutely agree, and I cannot believe the amount of people I've seen in the comments shaming unhappy couples remaining together for 'the children's sake'. It's widely recognised in psychology that it is detrimental to children in those relationships to be around the only real role models they have who dislike or even hate each other. Let alone the fact that it fosters unhealthy beliefs and expectations in the developing persons mind , it can also set them up to see being abused/abusive as NORMAL rather than unhealthy or dangerous.

  • @selena311lol
    @selena311lol 2 года назад +746

    Eli was once my ideal type from his easygoing nature and humour even tho I stanned many 2nd gen groups but he always felt closer cause he was eng fluent obviously. I remember his departure from UKISS and sudden public marriage/child announcement like it was yesterday. I remember thinking "dang it, it had to be him out of all of them" but wow I had no idea all this happened after cause he fell off my radar from going private for a while... Didn't realise its become so public now!

    • @dors_1255
      @dors_1255 2 года назад +4

      *when I saw him personally I became a kpop fan and he's my first love huhu*

    • @ROYAL_BTS_ARMY-fp1cf
      @ROYAL_BTS_ARMY-fp1cf 2 года назад +32

      I'm still stuck on him calling her from the United States for a divorce she had to go back to Korea to get the documents and then u pull this stunt that's messed up

    • @HappiAcrossCultures
      @HappiAcrossCultures 2 года назад +7

      me toooooo!!! UKISS was my first kpop band ever, i still remember finding 'Neverland' and Eli really sticking out to me. I had no idea it ended up like this!! 😭

  • @imane9919
    @imane9919 2 года назад +716

    After Eli and Yeonso appeared on We Got Divorced, we learned more about their situation and not only the one side story from his wife that you shared here.
    Their situation is complicated, they had financial issues, Eli couldn't find any job in Korea to support his family and that deteriorated their couple relationship...so he went to USA where his family lives and it was easier for him to find a job there. But as he was separated from his wife and son. . . they always had conflicts and one day out of the blue he asked to divorce because they just couldn't continue like that...
    A discussion they had on We Got Divorced really stuck with me, Yeonso said "we should have stayed together, do you think our son is happy not to have his father by his side?" and Eli replied "but do you think he would have been happier to see his parents arguing every day? "
    More of that Yeonso and Eli's mother didn't get along well and apparently his mother stole money from her, but he didn't even know about that until she mentioned it on that show.
    With We Got Divorced, knetz realized that they still have a lot of affection for each other and even confessed to still love each other. That's why people want them to stick together.
    Btw it seems like after that show, Eli decided to stay in Korea, apparently he found a job in a factory

    • @nurafifahshuhardi8240
      @nurafifahshuhardi8240 2 года назад +25

      Why he not brings his wife and son? He is men, a husband and father. But he irresponsible to leave his family.

    • @imane9919
      @imane9919 2 года назад +180

      @@nurafifahshuhardi8240 He left to find a job in USA, he couldn't find any job in Korea. When he finally worked, his wife was supposed to join him in USA with his son. But Yeonso wanted to raise his son in Korea. They kept on fighting about the situation, at the end Yeonso accepted to join him in USA but it ruined their couple relationship....at this point there was nothing left and he ask for divorce .... Yes he should have tried harder for his family. But their situation is very complex and I don't think that we, as an external person, can afford to judge them.

    • @BelanceM
      @BelanceM 2 года назад +47

      I feel like Eli has done enough sacrifices.
      She should have got it together and went to the US
      You're a grown women. The man's working in a factory now. Went from kpop to a factory villainize him. Besides it'll actually be better for the baby to have lived in both places. She must admit she was scared.

    • @imane9919
      @imane9919 2 года назад +68

      @@BelanceM she was ready to follow him in USA, Eli is the one who asked for divorce before she joined him in his country. He did that because their relationship was already destroyed with all their quarells and he wanted to make her free.
      She did nothing wrong, she was always accommodating, (except for her mother who didn't get along with her) I don't think there is anyone to blame on this story, they both did their best but money ruined that beautiful couple

    • @irinimyeon2520
      @irinimyeon2520 2 года назад +40

      I also heard some people saw her even selling luxurious bag to support her family bcs eli having a hard time and can't find job at sk at that time. I honestly don't blame both 100%. Both of them having a hard time maintaining the relationship. Financial issue, citizenship issue, the in-laws issue. Its so complicated but they decide to split up despite still have a love left in both of their heart. And to add they already have a responsibility which is their son. Its so messy :( but still, we also only know what they expose to us. As for all this info, I'm very skeptical on eli. If one of them really use the other, I hope the one get punished. If both really love each other, I'm sorry for them. But afterall, I just hope they find their happiness either together or separately, and their child will not affected much such as get bully at school etc. Poor kids.

  • @trinichan5103
    @trinichan5103 2 года назад +290

    Thats so fucked up. Let her see her children 😭

  • @iampigoinkoink5185
    @iampigoinkoink5185 2 года назад +1055

    Not letting her see her kid is inhuman !!! She freaking gave birth ...

    • @niksquik_
      @niksquik_ 2 года назад +34

      It depends on the relationship she has with the child, plus who ever has full custody, gets to decide whether or not they want the child to see the other parent

    • @iguessso1790
      @iguessso1790 2 года назад +8

      So? He is still the father and it's now the other way around. If both parents don't live in the same county, things like that happen

    • @iampigoinkoink5185
      @iampigoinkoink5185 2 года назад +49

      @@iguessso1790 you guys have no idea ...it happened because when this case happened if some couple divorced in Korea the custody will go to father and well they were quite Powerful too ..they just wanted her so she can give them a kid .. that's it they treated her horribly ..he must have another wife and probably her kid Don't even know he has a different biological mom or those people probably told him she left him... please study about this case a little bit first

    • @iguessso1790
      @iguessso1790 2 года назад +4

      @@iampigoinkoink5185 sounds like your comment is bases on assumption. And i was talking about the first story just for clarification

    • @granmamushroom9246
      @granmamushroom9246 2 года назад +13

      @@iampigoinkoink5185 that's a lot of assumptions

  • @cherryblossom7442
    @cherryblossom7442 2 года назад +626

    i have a feeling that the second husband used her to pay his 7 year debt and used her to be on tv. When she was of no use he left and came back when they offered him a tv show. Heck he didnt care about his baby and wife

    • @ichieyamato
      @ichieyamato 2 года назад +114

      They were quite showy in the househusband show.. like every few minutes Eli would ask for a kiss. Didn't know he's like this tbh.. He also mentioned that he lost fans cuz of his marriage with her. Even if that's fact, what kind of a husband would say that? There were married people who stayed as his fans, he even got fans for being a father idol at such young age. Which made me had a peek of what his priorities were tbh.

    • @soulmechanic5539
      @soulmechanic5539 2 года назад +23

      We still didn't know all about what happend in they life there's more thing why they not along we didn't find

    • @akinyemioyindamola4875
      @akinyemioyindamola4875 2 года назад

      E

    • @steph3694
      @steph3694 2 года назад +66

      That husband is really shameless. Why couldn't he even pay for his own car? Divorced and still expecting the ex wife to pay for his car is just... Shameless. I really hope she doesn't get back to him and finds a nice new man

    • @soulmechanic5539
      @soulmechanic5539 2 года назад +2

      @@steph3694 I don't think they love each other before maybe they marrieg because of they parent

  • @dowoondodooong6564
    @dowoondodooong6564 2 года назад +351

    Oh my god, I watched Mr. House Husband and thought they were really compatible and a lovely couple. Guess not everything you see on social media is real.

    • @denden2935
      @denden2935 2 года назад +22

      Most things on social media are definitely not real...celebrities are selling us a lifestyle and we consume it. It's fine to watch these shows but always watch with a huge dose of salt!!! 😪

    • @Hirari103
      @Hirari103 2 года назад +8

      Yeah me too I thought they really cared for each other... I clicked when I saw them in the thumbnail, I was shook :(

    • @zalie110
      @zalie110 Год назад +3

      You are so naive to believe that

  • @tutziepop
    @tutziepop 2 года назад +346

    Banning a mother from seeing her children? This is so cruel. Considering how wealthy they are, what happened to common decency? Are they all not educated? Can she not take them to court?

    • @Aya-te6cv
      @Aya-te6cv 2 года назад +16

      Money talk.. sadly

    • @eifleefjn8002
      @eifleefjn8002 2 года назад +9

      Because they are "wealthy"

    • @simsgazytech2013
      @simsgazytech2013 2 года назад +3

      they are adult already now. high probability she met them now.

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat Год назад +1

      Lol being wealthy doesn't make you smart

    • @seminpark4528
      @seminpark4528 Год назад +1

      wealthy family, you watched K dramas? idk about them taking to court since idk how the law works in South Korea but they are definitely educated, I think they just dont care because obviously wealthy, tsk tsk.

  • @Leo-nh9ui
    @Leo-nh9ui 2 года назад +117

    the last case gives me britney spears vibe. How can you not allow her to see her children that she birthed wth.

  • @snowyconfession
    @snowyconfession 2 года назад +33

    I'm seriously fell in love with go hyun jung when she acted as mishil in great queen seondeok. I never knew the sad story behind her life. Now she is a great actress, I hope her children will be more proud of their mother.

  • @ozoz3444
    @ozoz3444 2 года назад +128

    staying together for the sake of their children is probably way worse than separating and living a happy life. As long they stay in their sons life, then everything will be ok. Eli seems super irresponsible tho and the wife spent too much money on plastic surgery. She looks terrible.

  • @genegenerourou2446
    @genegenerourou2446 2 года назад +128

    Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child .

    • @jminaj3467
      @jminaj3467 2 года назад +1

      And go hyun-Jung deserves her child.

  • @heartsincalico
    @heartsincalico 2 года назад +112

    it's actually so sad because they HAVE KIDS together. they need to find a way to solve the problems they have between each other but if only one of them care... it'll fruit nothing. this is why you have to be really careful and considerate when it comes to having a relationship, especially when you are a big figure like an artist... so much more problems will arise and once you regret your decision you'll have to bear so many weights...

  • @sasasadarkheart
    @sasasadarkheart 2 года назад +121

    Ukiss used to be my most fav group and Eli used to be my ulti bias…
    I didnt expect it from him… but after years in kpop yes I do admit hardcore fans are blind..

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 года назад +9

      '? divorice and problems are things that happen in life. idk why youre comment bothers me so much but theres something underhanded. if not just ignore me loll

    • @sasasadarkheart
      @sasasadarkheart 2 года назад +9

      @@melody3629 did u even watch the video? Or at least read the tittle. Also I’m saying the last sentence for general things in kpop fans world.

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 года назад

      @@sasasadarkheart please don't try to be condescending in your reply I didn't insult you nor give you attitude so please reply with the same respect it should be good discussion whether we see this differently. Also I'm not talking about the last sentence you wrote starting from "but after". I'm just having a issue with everything before because it strikes me odd when people say things like "I didn't expect it from him.." . I don't like that phrasing but no hate to you

    • @sasasadarkheart
      @sasasadarkheart 2 года назад +7

      @@melody3629 i’m repying you with my calm mind and still in respect, really. This is what lettering can do right? I cant do nothing with you being offend after reading whatever I wrote.

    • @melody3629
      @melody3629 2 года назад +1

      @@sasasadarkheart i can clearly tell that the tone and words youve choosen shown that that your peeved. also i cant really say im offended since there was nothing dircted towrds me personally. so that would be the wrong word choice, another word maybe bt not offended; but again i guess we are just gonna have to agree to disagree. i left my thoughts and what u do with it is whatever ^^

  • @sheFEISTY.43110
    @sheFEISTY.43110 2 года назад +187

    I think Eli and his ex-wife got married in the first place was because she was pregnant. Considering the effort they put on the show that they were a happy couple, must be so tiring. In most Asian culture (or in general), it looks bad for someone to even be a single mother. Ji Yeon Soo first rejected Eli multiple times before they got married. Shows she never really liked him that much but decided to give it a chance. I guess that chance got her pregnant.

    • @akuhappy3246
      @akuhappy3246 2 года назад

      @raka banerjee there are comments about them explained their story from both sides together in We Got Divorced. their cased is more than just negative assumption from us

  • @brendamarcus4405
    @brendamarcus4405 2 года назад +38

    Can’t understand mother not getting her kids or not even being able to see them, just because the father of them has more money or his family does. That is inhumane and cruel. The children will suffer for it. Of course the mother will or sometimes it’s even the father that this happens to

  • @KayKrazie
    @KayKrazie 2 года назад +123

    That's messed up. I thought these young kpop star marrying older ladies would last. It's so sad hearing they all separated.

    • @universesays1842
      @universesays1842 2 года назад

      no,you are messed up just like that old woman,you are delusional
      no man right in their head gonna choose as life partner a woman older than him 10+ years
      majority of men like women younger than them or at least around their age
      older 10+? you must be trully hot to catch a younger guy as husband or rich catching a gold digger male
      this isn't a sign from universe,it's a fact

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +9

      It is sad but I bet it is because of other reasons too not the age gap.

    • @costarica9685
      @costarica9685 2 года назад +7

      Well those marriages were not true marriages afterall...they were using it just to put up a show...so obviously. !!

  • @welcheee006
    @welcheee006 2 года назад +130

    I still remember about the first couple, when the news about their age gap released my friends were talking the same thing "i might do not have a boyfriend rn, maybe he is still with his dad, or maybe he still on planning" 😂😂

    • @rizsaja2314
      @rizsaja2314 2 года назад +11

      That also common in my country since huge age gap kind of normal here. There was a joke, if you still single, maybe your future partner haven't born yet so you have to be patient :(

  • @renagomezwasuthalainunt3063
    @renagomezwasuthalainunt3063 2 года назад +30

    Children do not make a marriage. It is the couple who is the center of it all. Never ever use ypur children as a weapon to make a relationship work. I feel sorry for them all. They all got married for all the wrong reasons. Keep safe and be well everyone.

  • @liliana2480
    @liliana2480 2 года назад +34

    Ohhh this video shocked me!
    I used to be a fan of U-Kiss and was even happy to see Eli getting his own family! Didn’t know that things went out this way! Poor Michael....
    And about the first couple who have a huge age gap, I watched their clips a lot, finding them lovely.....even thought that the girl is so lucky to have such a young and doting husband......
    Still can’t believe!

    • @alyanamaefernandez5073
      @alyanamaefernandez5073 2 года назад

      my shin dongho got divorced also. he regretted on not marrying me instead. just kidding. I miss my U-KISS orig members huhuhuhh

  • @_hunter_x_hunter_5809
    @_hunter_x_hunter_5809 2 года назад +34

    Poor Korean and Japanese celebs. People are so invested in their private lives. At the end of the day they are just normal human beings like us.

  • @nanawashere
    @nanawashere 2 года назад +40

    I think Eli and his ex-wife shouldn't stay together for the sake of their son. It seems like all the causes of this marriage failing is because of money and their poor management of finances. They are great parents for their child, just not great in taking care of money assets as it clearly can be seen in their expenses ( based on what she is saying and what he has purchased at least ).
    I do hope the best for both of them as they continue to be a good parent to their child. i hope Eli's words are true and that he visits his child as often as he can .

  • @iwonthesitatebitch.570
    @iwonthesitatebitch.570 Год назад +8

    the situation of go hyun jung is so terrifying and its unfortunately what happens when you enter into a marriage with a powerful man without properly protecting yourself with prenup agreement... i hope every woman remembers that if you get with a powerful man, he will turn all his resources and powers against you when things go south. protect yourself !!

  • @blackneko9401
    @blackneko9401 2 года назад +35

    Who said being cinderella surely make you happy ever after?
    When i was still kid, i really like fairy tale example like cinderella story. But after being 20s year old, i know that was totally fake in real world. If you a girl, pure, pretty, kind, poor and miserable, you can't marriage the prince. If you stubborn, you just being break by your family in law, your husband's circle, and of course your own husband.
    That was the example, you can't just see your lover's face, background, job, education, or personality. Look at his/her family, circle, and of course yourself.

  • @chaoscolby
    @chaoscolby 2 года назад +27

    wow I remember Go Hyung-jung. She's in a k-drama called Spring Day.

  • @anae.juarez1969
    @anae.juarez1969 2 года назад +39

    I always thought they married because they have a child. No hating, but everytime a celebrity is pregnant they married. I know that in Korea having a child outside of marriage is seen bad.

    • @mimadzer
      @mimadzer 2 года назад +19

      Yeah, I'm not a fan of celebrity's shotgun marriage..it feels like they were forced to marry because of a child is coming, not because they were ready...

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h 2 года назад +2

      Well,you also have to know that is a practise for men to make their girlfriends pregnant so they could marry! Korean society is hard and life costs a lot!! So many people don't want to marry if they are not financially ok! That happens after 30+ and still many don't like it! So the solution is pregnancy!! As a forgeiners living in Seoul I have seen it happening a lot!

  • @Yayayayaya857
    @Yayayayaya857 2 года назад +11

    the last part had my heart crush like she can't meet her own kids this just take me back to 'Secret Garden' my heart feel for her.

  • @bagofchips8399
    @bagofchips8399 2 года назад +19

    They took "OMFG LETS GET MARRIED 🥺🥺" to a new level 😂😂😂

  • @yonnnn_
    @yonnnn_ 2 года назад +8

    ohhh i remember this couple now. their marriage announcement has gone viral back then and i think there were many people find them cute and roots for their relationship. to think that it ended like this..

  • @honey10tionup17
    @honey10tionup17 2 года назад +48

    Dude I used to watch clips of the first couple on that show and they were so toxic together it was hard to watch. I'm not surprised they didn't last. Most of the problems seemed to stem from the age gap. Her treating him like her son and him still wanting to do things a man in his early 20s wanted to do

  • @SaidNoOne11
    @SaidNoOne11 2 года назад +57

    I think it’s better to divorce when the kids are young because it hurts more when the kids are older and used to them being together.

    • @hannaansari2921
      @hannaansari2921 2 года назад +4

      Exactly,there's no point in staying in a toxic marriage kids or no kids,the earlier a toxic marriage ends the better it is for the child's mental health

  • @minouminou2034
    @minouminou2034 2 года назад +8

    I always knew this relationship wont last not because they dated only for one month but cause he hide the fact that he had a son... no man in love will hide his wife and son

  • @11liyahhh51
    @11liyahhh51 2 года назад +41

    I don’t agree with couples staging together for the sake of their child. Now I know it’s because majority of Koreans are conservative and that’s why a lot of them agree, but if the relationship was as toxic as they say they may end up reflecting trauma on their child.

  • @Jane-uy6ob
    @Jane-uy6ob 2 года назад +10

    for the first case, i’ve watched a lot of their clips and it seems like the woman still has feelings for the man. it’s sad seeing her express her concerns and love when you can tell the man is completely over everything. i don’t wish they get back together, i hope they heal and learn to be “friends” so they can co-parent and give their child the best.

  • @swarnikasingh4501
    @swarnikasingh4501 2 года назад +13

    I can't understand why can't she meet her kids?.. Do these people know what growing up without a mother feels like?

  • @MnMnBahr.
    @MnMnBahr. 2 года назад +15

    What! They were in love on that reality show

  • @iamchloe8714
    @iamchloe8714 2 года назад +5

    they are not the only couple who are like that, and this is why famous actor and idol start to date normal people instead of other idol and actor.

  • @estherdar7575
    @estherdar7575 Год назад +3

    This reminds me of Song Song couple Joon ki using Hye Kyo to boost his carrier/ fame. Couples that Divorce should remain divorced soulmates do not divorce processes / life lessons do. Love each other but do not do life together.

  • @deborahross2101
    @deborahross2101 2 года назад +17

    Thank you learned a lot💜💜

  • @obsidian00
    @obsidian00 Год назад +1

    I am obsessed with this channel...and I am not even Korean! Please keep up the great work.

  • @apiocatherine7116
    @apiocatherine7116 2 года назад +26

    From the stories, the couples had it coming for them. The institution of marriage will not accept any acting in it but what it was created for.

  • @dr2drm88
    @dr2drm88 2 года назад +1

    These chaebol people are the worst bullies denying the mother contact with the children and banning her ads in their stores.

  • @nigirlsamantha8888
    @nigirlsamantha8888 2 года назад +94

    I just want them to be happy, it's their life. Bless all. Everyone goes through different experiences and different situations. All will go to the same hole. I hope they will be happy with their life soon.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 2 года назад +42

    Really really sad for their children

    • @Kt-cn2rq
      @Kt-cn2rq 2 года назад

      Yes especially last one the inlaws and the ex husband are horrible. Can't she can't dispute the custody agreement so she can see her kids.

    • @riparipdanillemariamarthar8566
      @riparipdanillemariamarthar8566 2 года назад

      @Ray Mak never knew you were so active herejJCJSJSNDJC

  • @mamta2478
    @mamta2478 2 года назад +4

    Wow... these couples are no less than those tragedy romance genre korean drama.

  • @mizzdeegrannde
    @mizzdeegrannde 2 года назад +3

    Marriage in Private and quiet is d best thing.. No cameras, no or less judgement in the public eye."period.

  • @steshka1015
    @steshka1015 2 года назад +4

    I recognized the last one. She's famous. Lady Mishil (villain) in a historic drama, very famous in the Philippines.

  • @alexandrawolke9353
    @alexandrawolke9353 2 года назад +2

    Go Hyun-jung: This exactly shows the toxity of the chabeol - society : Money rules the world..

  • @ckylaunnie8447
    @ckylaunnie8447 2 года назад +6

    I didn't know that eli kim and yeon soo are now separated ... until youtube recommended this video...

  • @Estonian4life
    @Estonian4life 2 года назад +4

    It's hard to see our favorite idols struggle in life to find jobs and careers after their idol lives ended. Especially in Korea, even for the most simple job the competition is astronomically high and educational background plays an important role. It's always disappointing when some former idols reappear on some reality shows about "life after being an idol" and it shows they all struggle with depression, failed marriages, problems finding jobs and thinking that they are burdens to their families.

  • @judevictoria900
    @judevictoria900 2 года назад +4

    Couples in TOXIC relationships should never use their children to stay together. Imagine the damage on their mental health seeing their parents fight over and over? They’re better off living apart and having a good, healthy relationship with their children.

  • @__jenn1e__
    @__jenn1e__ 2 года назад +34

    Popular Opinion : You make the best videos 💜💜

  • @vldt5934
    @vldt5934 2 года назад +4

    Tbf he had a bright future ahead, with more training and endorsement he could’ve been an actor or a model, but then again some things really do happen…

  • @jhulianinadiligen9107
    @jhulianinadiligen9107 2 года назад +5

    BRUUUH I EVEN THOUGHT THAT U-KISS ELI IS THE STANDARD BECAUSE OF WHAT HE SHOWED IN MR. HOUSE HUSBAND💀

  • @Amazingfreakouts
    @Amazingfreakouts 2 года назад +1

    I don’t even know any of these people but I still watched lol

  • @dancingdohl
    @dancingdohl 2 года назад +5

    For that first couple, did they say themselves before that they met in a club? And even his friends thought he was being a gold digger but he assured them that he loved her?

  • @afshinnanase4736
    @afshinnanase4736 2 года назад +4

    Eli was my bias for so many years. I cannot believe he was like this. I am disappointed.

  • @des_3.0
    @des_3.0 2 года назад +1

    Everyone saw the first two marriages going that way. Even when they try, you can see there were many unsaid arguments brewing and not being discussed since they were in tv.

  • @mairiconnell6282
    @mairiconnell6282 2 года назад +11

    All that glitters is not gold.

  • @mariondaim4491
    @mariondaim4491 2 года назад +8

    For Eli & His Ex Wife i think they were both in the wrong , honestly most couple are both in the wrong most of the time so ... Again we were not in their life so

  • @alicea5
    @alicea5 2 года назад +77

    The last couple…what did the court use to deem her unfit and wouldn’t even let her see her children??!!! Unless she is very very toxic, she should get supervised visitations. Sigh.
    Dating is different from marriage. How do u know someone is gonna be compatible?

    • @EJK-wy3eb
      @EJK-wy3eb 2 года назад +37

      The ex is the CEO of Shinsegae... Money helps a lot in life

    • @hannahkhin4938
      @hannahkhin4938 2 года назад +28

      Her ex is the CEO of Shinsegae . Those extremely rich people are above the law and government in S.Korea .

    • @coryhawley738
      @coryhawley738 2 года назад +2

      custody usually goes to the father in south Korea so its common

    • @Elizabeth-ej3yn
      @Elizabeth-ej3yn 2 года назад +2

      money, reputation and connections. I've watched a lot of her dramas, had no idea she had to deal with this.

  • @luvinsweetlife
    @luvinsweetlife 2 года назад +1

    Hi. What are the sites that have Korean shows and dramas with English subtitles?!

  • @jessb_mochaBL
    @jessb_mochaBL 2 года назад +13

    Korean actors' marriage is hilarious to me. They see marriage as a game, sometimes when I hear so and so get married I say hmm bet they'll stay for 6 months - 1-year max together and divorce. Unlike Chinese actors marriages last longer 🤔

    • @amishasaha5975
      @amishasaha5975 2 года назад +4

      It's not like Chinese actors have a very good marriage... There are actors and actresses of C drama land whose marriages didn't last for 6 months too...

  • @bwane5961
    @bwane5961 2 года назад +7

    I was watching this so seriously until 7:18. What is Yoon Doojoon got to do with these stories???😆😆😆

    • @ronailush
      @ronailush 2 года назад +1

      Glad I'm not the only one recognized him 😂 I thought my eyes tricked me

  • @idoulover
    @idoulover 2 года назад +2

    My thing with age gap relationships is as long as the older person isn't waiting for the younger to become a certain age. Aka as long as they met as adults (To me that's 21 but in the US the legal age is 18, which is still too young for me as I was still in high-school at 18)

  • @ireneonly
    @ireneonly 2 года назад +2

    And the last one, the real truth of marrying a chaebol.

  • @justacomment1389
    @justacomment1389 2 года назад +5

    7:18 isnt that yoon doo joon from beast/highlight? he looks so much like doo joon

  • @crazyMRRL
    @crazyMRRL 2 года назад +16

    Ku hye sun and Ahn jae hyun for me this include on the list😥

    • @mimadzer
      @mimadzer 2 года назад +18

      Mine is Song Joongki & Song Hyekyo...it feels like they were married because of the hype/pressure from public, they should have dated longer before decided to get married

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +5

      @@mimadzer I think they only married because of the characters they played. I don’t think they needed to date longer. Dating time does not dictate a happy marriage for sure.

    • @mimadzer
      @mimadzer 2 года назад +3

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj could be...they were riding the waves...i wasn't even surprised when they divorced

  • @lulu_Lm
    @lulu_Lm 2 года назад +1

    Thats the thing with these celebrities, they marry the first person the meet. They don't date and test the waters, they just rush into a sistuation they don't understand and leave when they have a fight.

  • @jiminswife2312
    @jiminswife2312 2 года назад +2

    Waw.. i don't know they are divorce,, i used to like their program, looks harmonis and romantic tho 😲

  • @Morgan_79
    @Morgan_79 2 года назад +5

    💜

  • @yeoweehuathuat8926
    @yeoweehuathuat8926 Год назад +2

    Be a great parent , fight or argued is a normal family life. Unfortunately some parent fight in front of their kids ,but if they stay together the child will saw the parent try their best to commit to tis relationship for his happiness.Don’t give up on ur relationship .Unless one of the partner aren’t committed then divorce only option ! Divorce always the last resort !

  • @claudiaclaudia6656
    @claudiaclaudia6656 2 года назад +2

    I remember watching one episode of that show. The baby didn't look like it belongs to them. The mom massive plastic surgery and the dad's didn't help. They were such an odd couple and I didn't feel the attraction. I didn't bother with that show but i always think about them and remember how shocked i was when I saw the baby. Good luck to Eli and Ji yeon soon.

  • @lostsoul113
    @lostsoul113 2 года назад +8

    Wowww marriage is really scary 😵

  • @tiredbylife.5589
    @tiredbylife.5589 2 года назад +9

    24 and...40...uh? What is that age gap... ... ...chile...

  • @sasfishadventures9729
    @sasfishadventures9729 2 года назад +2

    I feel so bad for the last woman omh

  • @taco_bell_tingzyeetmywindo272
    @taco_bell_tingzyeetmywindo272 2 года назад +1

    …I’m- I seriously have no words for this. 😬

  • @Evalauj02
    @Evalauj02 Год назад +1

    Ugh all these older Unni needs to realize these younger dongsaeng won’t met their expectation. They need to find them an Oppa!!! 😅

  • @beckiehummelson4728
    @beckiehummelson4728 Год назад +1

    Go Hyun Jung just unmasked the evilness of the family of her ex-husband I advice everybody not to patronize their business empire

  • @BeLexi24
    @BeLexi24 2 года назад +3

    omfg eli tea im screaming

  • @ortamatama5479
    @ortamatama5479 2 года назад +65

    Don't fall for Eli's """charm"""" he's a sad excuse of a dad. His baby doesn't even recognise him. That's how deadbeat he is.
    Don't support his *sad* attempt at "crawling back" to his family (re: more like crawling back to showbiz to gain money).

    • @heebafatima5981
      @heebafatima5981 2 года назад +9

      I got into kpop when 3rd gen was going on but I saw Eli in one of the shows and I was interested. So I followed through their scenes and genuinely felt that he really irresponsible, he didn't really think of the people around him, his wife and kid and just no regards to how his actions will affect the future

  • @Susu-td7vg
    @Susu-td7vg 2 года назад +3

    @SBC and @KBS put those female actresses together, the plot getting revenge on terrible husbands

  • @enbeh7213
    @enbeh7213 Год назад +3

    eli kim's marriage was weird to a lot of people...

  • @preciouschinanayi
    @preciouschinanayi Год назад

    So heartbreaking everything will be fine 🌺

  • @mariareed5238
    @mariareed5238 Год назад +12

    my husband is 22 years younger than me and when I told his mum we were getting married she grabbed me and gave me the biggest hug ever she has been amazing

  • @idiopathic_x
    @idiopathic_x 2 года назад +7

    7:18 i thought that was Doo Joon from Beast? 😳

    • @krispykroke
      @krispykroke 2 года назад +2

      It is him 😂😂, the daughter took a photo with him and Apink once

  • @declan1520
    @declan1520 2 года назад +2

    All bad moments but for some reason the last couple… jeez😬unfortunately not all marriages work out well🥺just hope they stay mutual, positive etc for their children

  • @marielagutierrez6629
    @marielagutierrez6629 2 года назад +1

    0:25 You used the wrong picture that's Eli and Ji Yeon-soo

  • @nehavenkatesh1861
    @nehavenkatesh1861 2 года назад +2

    Relationships are messed up 🙂 God singles life is best life ever

  • @Mandozen
    @Mandozen 2 года назад +1

    Is this channel the same one as KookieLit? The narrator’s voice sounds the same.

  • @orophile1842
    @orophile1842 2 года назад +1

    What about Koo Hye-Sun and Ahn Jae-Hyun? I heard that it’s one of the messiest too

  • @supermaldita2471
    @supermaldita2471 2 года назад +2

    There are consequences actually when the gap is large especially the younger the boy because the boy wants to do much more in life and the older woman wants to have that well -organized family. The woman is more matured. It is better for a man to be older than a woman.

  • @eeivriell
    @eeivriell 2 года назад +2

    Why is there a photo of Doojoon from beast/highlight there 😶