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Love love love this couple, may they be blessed 🙏🏽 the part when she was in the shower crying and marius came in and held her, absolutely got me😭, really lovely chemistry between them both❤
What a lovely couple! I’m no relationship coach or body language expert! But when my husband began sitting next to me with his leg crossed away from me, towards the door! I knew our Marriage was heading for trouble! Our body language never lies!! I wish Oti and Marius a long and happy marriage!!! 👸🏾💕🙌🏾
So refreshing to see a couple being raw in their conversations....truthful and acceptance of each other. Paul you bring the authenticity out of your guest. ❤ xx
Paul, what I love about you from the MAFS program is your humbleness and how you pay attention to details. That’s my favorite thing about you! I came across your channel, and it reminded me that I had wanted to find it before. I’ve now subscribed. Thank you so much for sharing with us. You’re an amazing couple. Bless you both! 😁❤️❤️
I love this! This podcast is amazing I love how its been so diverse on each episode its so well rounded and obviously Paul is AMAZING this has been my evening entertainment ❤ thankyou
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What a lovely couple and thank you Paul for the questions you asked. A lot of life gems, I now have words to explain the type of relationship I want to continue to have with my husband, family members and friends!!❤❤❤❤
What a lovely unselfish couple they both have worked so hard, love that both take equal part with everything, especially with their beautiful daughter no doubt they both have had to both work so hard but always encourage each other, i wish i could of seen them dance together, still miss you on strictly loved the dance you corographed on sunday, brilliant both wish you all the happiness ❤❤
I have learnt so much just from listening to this interview.I know aht good feels like and looks like. They are perfect for each other for sure. Paul you asked amazing questions too
Even though this podcast only scratches the surface in the analysis terms, of the huge challenges Otti and Marius face(d) as mixed-race couples or professionals in the entertainment industry or dealing with a premature baby or being the rebel in a family. It is important that these issues are addressed for all to learn from. Paul offers reflections and insights in an accessible, deeply humaine way. Offering this within the limitation of this short time for the interview and references to concepts if the viewer wants to explore further. Thank you to all three for this shared work.
Thankyou a very inciteful conversation there were lots of lessons to be taken and Otis husband was just what she needed.They were so lucky to have to find each other and learn from each other Marius is very wise may they have much Joy A great lesson in successful partnership
I thought this one would've resonated with me more being in the arts/entertainment industry; but I think the last 2 x interviews (Will and Sadia) gave such great takeaways it was gonna be hard to trump. Fave: Author Will Stor (suprisingly) 2nd- Sadia Khan 3rd- Lauren Goodger 4th - This one Love the diversity though bring on next Tuesday 🤗
Paul, can I come on and speak about my experience being a Windrush child? I long to speak and have discussions about coming from JA as a baby and meeting my parents for the first time. There are others like me. Perhaps a group discussion? It’s black history month remember 😅. Thanks x
Wow this brings back memories for me I’m from Rhodesia and I met my white husband there I went through a tough time lost people I thought were friend because they couldn’t understand why I was with a white man restaurants would refuse to serve us but I wised up and would go to the ladies wait a while why my husband placed an order got back the food was there and they couldn’t take it away from us although they called me coloured because my dad was half white my grandma must have went through a tougher time than myself my husband and I moved to the UK where I’m based back in Rhodesia my children would have been the wrong colour - so I can relate to Oti and her family why this world has to be like it is we don’t choose who we fall in love with and we all Gods creation let’s learn to love each other 🙏🙏 well done 👏🏼👏🏼Oti & you husband for speaking up👍🏼💕
Just wow Only found these podcasts with you paul I loved this with oti and hubby And have watched the one with maura higgins You are fantastic doinv these
Great interview but I think you missed lots out . I don't think you explored the breadwinner question properly . When in a partnership the money & income is for the family so there's no such thing as a breadwinner in this day & age 🤷♀️ Maurice came across as a man's man , v macho , knows who he is , v self assured & focused . Lovely couple
I didn't realise that Marius was that much older than Oti...I think he is like 7 or 8 years older so he was already 30 when they met,hhmmm thats puts a very different spin on it as I thought they were the same age.I suppose it meant that Marius to some extent was an older more mature as man than a similarly 22 or 23 year old man would have been.I think if they had of been the same age than maybe a man would have been more competitive and less supportive of Oti being "the more successful one".Maybe its not a matter of age but of character but he had obviously been round the bloc a few times and knew himself and was able to some extent provide Oti with the support to be the dancer and come over to the UK and strictly etc but it seems she also has a very strong family support system also which helps ALOT and a father who was keen to make sure she did not make a man the centre but her own career and goals etc. Also that fear of failure as a "black woman"Oti talked about ...hhhmm I'm not sure whether that fear was just as a "black woman"representing but just as a human being,individual and the fear of failure...especially when younger and especially when still so unsure of oneself and not so sure how to fail.I think its a bit disingenuous really to always represent it as "I am representing black women"...because even though in one way I get it but I think it also hides her own personal fears of failure or not being good enough and lets face it who doesn't have those fears !!!!!! Also hadn't her sister already been in Germany and made it in the dance world so she had her as a role model...Oti has many many "privileges"in the sense she has a very strong family ties and support and yes within the context of racism she has to fight as a black women but she cannot minimise her other privileges which many white or black may not have,in fact I think they are the biggest privileges of all in some ways.
@@Bee-bh8nk I’m not God so I can’t pass judgment. What I do have is a high level of discernment. I’m not feeling him… end of story. It’s Oti that has to feel him, not me! It’s not negativity, it’s my intuition. Now have a nice day
Thank you all for watching, and welcome!
This is one of many amazing and impactful conversations we'll be having here on We Need To Talk.
If you like what you see, hit subscribe, out of the first 20,000 subscribers, I'll invite 10 of you to the studio to meet me, the guests and watch these episodes live!
Thank you all for your support 🙏🏾
Marius has won my heart ♥️ what a wise beautiful man!
You can see the mutual respect between Marius and Oti. Interdependence is the relationship goal💛
I love how respectful they are of each other.
This is a great example of how couples support each other’s dreams, boundaries and values.
Isn’t Marius a wise man, lucky lucky lady to have such a wonderful husband ♥️
This podcast is one of a kind..a podcast but with the most professional therapist towards the audience and guests..love it!!✨✨
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Love love love this couple, may they be blessed 🙏🏽 the part when she was in the shower crying and marius came in and held her, absolutely got me😭, really lovely chemistry between them both❤
What a lovely couple! I’m no relationship coach or body language expert! But when my husband began sitting next to me with his leg crossed away from me, towards the door! I knew our Marriage was heading for trouble! Our body language never lies!! I wish Oti and Marius a long and happy marriage!!! 👸🏾💕🙌🏾
An amazing couple....so refreshing. ❤❤
So refreshing to see a couple being raw in their conversations....truthful and acceptance of each other. Paul you bring the authenticity out of your guest. ❤ xx
Very refreshing to watch Otti talk family life and friendship with Marius. Love them x
They explain everything so eloquently. Awwww bless ❤❤❤
What an inspiring couple. A true friendship and partnership.
Aww the way he looks at her! I Love how they come together and learn from each other ♥
thank you Oti. ❤
you brought tears to my eyes. we are good enough. 🫂
Absolutely especially around 00:1:22 mark💖💖💖
This is exactly the content I need between episodes of MAFS 😍💖
They both have shich a good understanding of themselves as individuals and great questions and respect! 🌠
What a amazing couple. Wouldn't life be better if we had more people like these 2 amazing people we love oti now we love Marius ❤️ xx
Half way through and I'm hooked. So refreshing listening to how you make things work..I wish you all the happiness in the world.
Most beautiful lovely interview. Got me hooked all the way❤
Paul, what I love about you from the MAFS program is your humbleness and how you pay attention to details. That’s my favorite thing about you! I came across your channel, and it reminded me that I had wanted to find it before. I’ve now subscribed. Thank you so much for sharing with us. You’re an amazing couple. Bless you both! 😁❤️❤️
Thank you Paul, Oti and Maurias. This was really an interesting and eye opening conversation ❤️
What a beautiful open and honest interview.................💜
I love the love of Oti and Marius and baby girl is God's blessing of their union.❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Love these two ❤ I want to see Marius on strictly please.
Inspiring couple. Refreshing to actually hear a man say his opinions without being forced to.
I love this! This podcast is amazing I love how its been so diverse on each episode its so well rounded and obviously Paul is AMAZING this has been my evening entertainment ❤ thankyou
❤️ I absolutely love Oti! We miss her on TV 🤗
I hope I’ll have the chance to be one of the 10 lucky subscribers picked! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
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What a smart , put together couple
Love this Wow!! ❤❤❤ and just LOVE Oti, my fellow South African x
What a beautiful couple and a great, inspiring interview 🥰🥰
This is a fascinating insight of behind the scenes of strictly! 😍A lovely couple and so honest . Inspiring xx
Wonderful people 🤗🥰
Paul, this podcast is incredible! I love your approach ever since your Diary of CEO episodes we have needed this!!
That episode was the best. I ❤❤absolutely love it ❤ beautiful couple
Such a beautiful respectful couple.
That was so interesting,what a great couple.
Wow what a fascinating interview 👏 🙌 👌 ❤oti my favourite strictly professional ever
I can't believe it but I just Subscribed before watching one single video on this channel. Glad I did after watching this one 😊.
Me too. I enjoyed this conversation. They are both gems.
What a lovely couple and thank you Paul for the questions you asked.
A lot of life gems, I now have words to explain the type of relationship I want to continue to have with my husband, family members and friends!!❤❤❤❤
Thee best interview. Otitis & Marious you are an example of how to do....
Congratulations all👏👏👏👏
Absolutely loved this insight, two individuals being so honest & open!
This podcast 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this couple 💯❤️ Wow, what an awesome, supportive, loving couple. This was absolutely fantastic, you are the BEST therapist EVER 🎉
Such a lovely podcast you can see how respectful and they’re with each other. Wishing you both and your baby girl all the very best in life
What a lovely unselfish couple they both have worked so hard, love that both take equal part with everything, especially with their beautiful daughter no doubt they both have had to both work so hard but always encourage each other, i wish i could of seen them dance together, still miss you on strictly loved the dance you corographed on sunday, brilliant both wish you all the happiness ❤❤
I have learnt so much just from listening to this interview.I know aht good feels like and looks like. They are perfect for each other for sure. Paul you asked amazing questions too
Loved this wow 👌
Even though this podcast only scratches the surface in the analysis terms, of the huge challenges Otti and Marius face(d) as mixed-race couples or professionals in the entertainment industry or dealing with a premature baby or being the rebel in a family. It is important that these issues are addressed for all to learn from. Paul offers reflections and insights in an accessible, deeply humaine way. Offering this within the limitation of this short time for the interview and references to concepts if the viewer wants to explore further. Thank you to all three for this shared work.
Absolutely beautiful ❤
Lovely couple and great interview. 😊
Thankyou a very inciteful conversation there were lots of lessons to be taken and Otis husband was just what she needed.They were so lucky to have to find each other and learn from each other Marius is very wise may they have much Joy A great lesson in successful partnership
Mutral respect beautiful to see and hear.
Really beautiful conversation
Incredible content. Great conversation! Loved it. 😊
What a team!! Thoroughly enjoyed watching this interview and love their drive, very inspiring ❤
Such a good interview and very insightful. I really enjoyed watching and listening.
Beautiful 🎉 I'm from SA didn't know about Oti. Loved this!
Brilliant! Thank you
What a lovely podcast and couple. Wow ❤
Beautiful podcast ❤
This was sooooo good. 🙏🏽✨️💖
I thought this one would've resonated with me more being in the arts/entertainment industry; but I think the last 2 x interviews (Will and Sadia) gave such great takeaways it was gonna be hard to trump.
Fave: Author Will Stor (suprisingly)
2nd- Sadia Khan
3rd- Lauren Goodger
4th - This one
Love the diversity though bring on next Tuesday 🤗
Fabulous interview 🎉❤
lovely couple, respectful and supportive, great interview. I just would have liked to hear Marius finish a thought without interruption.
The questions are so insightful ❤
Love this couples ❤❤❤
Paul, can I come on and speak about my experience being a Windrush child? I long to speak and have discussions about coming from JA as a baby and meeting my parents for the first time. There are others like me. Perhaps a group discussion? It’s black history month remember 😅. Thanks x
What lovely couple 😍🤩
Wow this brings back memories for me I’m from Rhodesia and I met my white husband there I went through a tough time lost people I thought were friend because they couldn’t understand why I was with a white man restaurants would refuse to serve us but I wised up and would go to the ladies wait a while why my husband placed an order got back the food was there and they couldn’t take it away from us although they called me coloured because my dad was half white my grandma must have went through a tougher time than myself my husband and I moved to the UK where I’m based back in Rhodesia my children would have been the wrong colour - so I can relate to Oti and her family why this world has to be like it is we don’t choose who we fall in love with and we all Gods creation let’s learn to love each other 🙏🙏 well done 👏🏼👏🏼Oti & you husband for speaking up👍🏼💕
❤❤❤❤❤. Am black and from Rhodesia too. Wish it remained Rhodesia not the corrupt Zimbabwe.
@RuvaTapiwait will NEVER be called Rhodes... again it's Zimba- dzema-bwe.
Just wow
Only found these podcasts with you paul
I loved this with oti and hubby
And have watched the one with maura higgins
You are fantastic doinv these
Loved this episode
Wow, as an African myself I’m quite shocked that South Africa is still this way.
Enlightening
Lovely story.
Subscribed!!! Would love to come down and meet with you and your guest!
Ide love to have a session with you. You really get into depth. Ive never had therapy, although I should have❤❤
Great interview but I think you missed lots out . I don't think you explored the breadwinner question properly . When in a partnership the money & income is for the family so there's no such thing as a breadwinner in this day & age 🤷♀️ Maurice came across as a man's man , v macho , knows who he is , v self assured & focused . Lovely couple
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I didn't realise that Marius was that much older than Oti...I think he is like 7 or 8 years older so he was already 30 when they met,hhmmm thats puts a very different spin on it as I thought they were the same age.I suppose it meant that Marius to some extent was an older more mature as man than a similarly 22 or 23 year old man would have been.I think if they had of been the same age than maybe a man would have been more competitive and less supportive of Oti being "the more successful one".Maybe its not a matter of age but of character but he had obviously been round the bloc a few times and knew himself and was able to some extent provide Oti with the support to be the dancer and come over to the UK and strictly etc but it seems she also has a very strong family support system also which helps ALOT and a father who was keen to make sure she did not make a man the centre but her own career and goals etc.
Also that fear of failure as a "black woman"Oti talked about ...hhhmm I'm not sure whether that fear was just as a "black woman"representing but just as a human being,individual and the fear of failure...especially when younger and especially when still so unsure of oneself and not so sure how to fail.I think its a bit disingenuous really to always represent it as "I am representing black women"...because even though in one way I get it but I think it also hides her own personal fears of failure or not being good enough and lets face it who doesn't have those fears !!!!!!
Also hadn't her sister already been in Germany and made it in the dance world so she had her as a role model...Oti has many many "privileges"in the sense she has a very strong family ties and support and yes within the context of racism she has to fight as a black women but she cannot minimise her other privileges which many white or black may not have,in fact I think they are the biggest privileges of all in some ways.
I will never ever understand racism.
I’d love to listen to these but who has an hour and a half to spare… they need to be shorter
I’ll be real! I’m not really feeling Oti’s husband for a reason I can’t pinpoint.
Stop being judgemental to someone you don’t know. He doesn’t care if you feel him or not. Keep negativity to yourself.
@@Bee-bh8nk I’m not God so I can’t pass judgment. What I do have is a high level of discernment. I’m not feeling him… end of story. It’s Oti that has to feel him, not me! It’s not negativity, it’s my intuition. Now have a nice day
I think he is very interesting in his own way. I enjoyed listening to both their sides of story.
@@FITAFTER60-x5l interesting indeed. Glad you enjoyed the episode, it was a good watch if anything.
Really. It’s ok as long as Oti loves him FULL STOP.