How I Saved My Marriage | Three Years Of Struggle | A Beautiful Advice
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- Опубликовано: 11 фев 2024
- How I Saved My Marriage | Three Years Of Struggle | A Beautiful Advice #dilkibaat
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Dear Iqra, I am writing this comment to let you know how wonderful heart and beautiful soul Allah has blessed you with. Your every vlog is so meaningful, the words and topics you choose to talk about are very insightful and relatable to full extent. Alhamdulillah I came across your channel to gain a different perspective and wisdom in a way. I truly appreciate your hardwork, enthusiasm and clarity of mind.
May Allah SWT bestow His choicest blessings on you, Ameen
Love & Hugs
Your revert sister in Deen from India
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Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah make ease for you in this new path of life. May Allah brings lots of barakah n khair in your life ameeen.
Your comment made my day ❤️
Reallyyyy she is owsmmmmm woman mashallah...
Welcome to the religion of peace kajal
Ap boht acha bolti han
Such a pure lady May Allah bless you always ❤❤❤
Meri shadi ko 15 sal hone wale hain mashaallah ❤️ or hamare relationship me aaj v wahi respect or muhabbat hai......
Mere husband ne mujhe shadi k bad ek bat kahi ki jis tarah miyan biwi ka mohabbat band darwaza k ander hota hai waise hi larai jhagra v band darwaza k ander hi hona chahiye...is cheez ko aaj tk main follow kr rhi hoon...
So true. Masha Allah ❤️
These four things should be Deal Breaker:
1. Physical Abuse
2. Substance Abuse (drugs, alcoholism etc)
3. Extra Marital Affair
4. Haram money
Baqi sab maslay solve hojatay hein
Im sorry but if husband is a cheater?? I couldn’t do it anymore, i tried to save my marriage for ten years, but his cheatings never stopped, i had to ask for divorce, my marriage was effecting me and my children mentally, i had to quit, but Allah knows i tried my best.
I completely agree with you... Meri mother in law ne bhot choti choti baato pe bhot matter create Kiya. Somehow I adjust the things for one month... But some matter was exgraatte alot by my mother in law... And I spoke to my family and their family members... Matters to kuch solve hue ni .. balki ek hi mahene me hum dono husband wife k bich itni duriya badh gai .. k baate ab ego pe aagai .. ek mahena shadi rahi...8 mahene mai apni maike me rahi....or uske baad meri talaq ho gai.... Dekha Jaye to Baat shayad kuch bhi ni hoti .agar mai or mere husband samaj paate... Q k doosro ko bata k to baat... Talaq pe hi pohch gai...
Khair ...Jo hua usse maine bhi yahi sabak liya hai... K husband and wife k beech kabhi koi teesra nahi aana chahiye....unki khud ki aulaad bhi ni...
Dua kijye ....k Allah Tahla muje bhi sabar de.... Or hamare partners ko humare haq me behtar farmaye. Ameen
But a woman is helpless, when husband shares every small thing with his parents, and act innocent in front of u...commitment shall be from both the sides....one side this advice doesn't work
This video is a therapy. I am going through a fight with my husband. Seems like Allah sent this video to me as a message
Same here
I agree with not complaining about small issues with people/family.. but Many people use the “don’t discuss our issues with family” as a way to continue abusing their spouse. If you are feeling overwhelmed by your relationship with your spouse and your body is screaming at you telling you that something is wrong and it’s not simply “not all marital disputes” please tell family and get them involved. It’s not just about physical abuse. Some people will neglect their duties or even withhold affection to control the relationship/you. This is abuse and overtime will chip away at your self esteem. The longer you accept it and keep silent the harder it will be to make a change. It’s okay to inform family of things that are driving you crazy/breaking your heart/will, and they can offer you a place to stay so the other spouse learns it is not acceptable and hopefully fixes up.
What will one do when u are the only one to communicate n the other one doesn't give a damn....it's easy to say when ur spouse atleast listens to u.....
I’m totally agree but mere husband har cheez me apni sisters ko involve karte the or mai khud tak rakhti thi is waja se humara reshta kabhi bhi teek nahi ho paya and we parted aways
MashaAllah such wisdom. Golden rules of marriage survival. ❤
Can’t agree any better than you
If husband and wife follow the principles and guidelines in Islam the marriage would be a blessing. Very good blog.
Appreciating and very matured wife ...Allah apko Khush rakhy...Meri bhi shadi hny wali coming soon...InshAllah apny Jo Jo batain ki hy agar insan ispy Amal kry to waqai BHT sary fasad khtm ho jy ...very nice...life me aj aik new advice mili hy aik bari behn ki taraf say....thanks GOD bless you...
Mashallah bohaaat acha topic n bohaaat hi achi realistic approach to resolve the issues between husband and wife iqra sis you did the justice with the topic Allah aap ka Hami o Nasir ho aur sub husband wife ko aisa hi khubsurat rishta rakhna chahiay Allah hamesha khush o abaad rakhay aap dono ko Ameen
بالکل ٹھیک شاباش بہت سمجھدار بچی ہو اللہ تعالی میری بیٹیوں کے نصیبی اچھے کرے اور تم جتنا سمجھدار بنائیں
Bohat achi sharing,keep inspiring us...❤❤
Jazakallah for this wonderful message.. i just went through very hard time of my marriage. Lekin Alhumdulilah aub all good scene hai. I would like to mention yea jo kisi sy share na karnay ka kaha hai na bohat best baat bole hai. Exactly jitnay loog involve hotay hain outna he mushkil hojata hai sort out karna. Please remember me and my family in duas.
Thank you.
Randomly ye video samny aii i am not even married but found this video helpful ❤very wise advices 🫶🏻stay blessed
Useful, zazakallah khair
Mashallah zabardast bat❤and very motivated vlog
Thats exactly what we r doing since 4 years.. jo b hy apas mie sought out krien .. thats a good advice❤
5 years ago,I had a really bad argument with my husband which led to series of other arguments which nearly led to our seperation.
The worst thing was that our parents and the entire family got involved. Some said it was my fault ,some said it was his. Everyonw tried to mend our relationship. Everyone was too desperate to make us a happy couple. Noone gave us space ,no one really knew how to help a couple who wants to part ways.
The pressure, the opinions ,the constant nagging left us in a very difficult position.
Everything escalated really quickly to a worse state.
The troubles we had between each other started to feel too small compared to the troubles our family gave us.
Me and my husband ended up together only because we had to endure too much pressure from family. We both were super traumatized.
The trauma of all the drama that was caused due to family's involvement still lingers in my heart.
Since then we never tell anything to our family.we both have been emotionally shut.no matter how big the problem is ,we sort it out together no matter how long it takes.
Meri shadi ko 3 month hue hain or apk is vlog say muje kafi help mili h jazakALLAH Kafi cheeze samaj main ai h
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ ہر ایک بیٹی کو ایسی سمجھ عطا کردے آمین ثم آمین
Bahot bahetarin bat batai❤👌👌
Iqra apiya. Allhumdullilah allhumdullilah me bi esy hi krti ai hu and 10 years ho gay hen but sakoooooooon hy life me. Ye BAAT muje mery husband ne kahi thi walimy k bad ❤❤❤ AP ne re mind krva diya muje Mera function ❤❤❤ thankssssss❤
Thank you so much dear api iqra ap ny deeply baty share ki myri life ma be bohat problem the or hai inshAllah ma apny husband K sath mil k zindagi ko bahtar bano ge inshAllah plz pray for me every one ❤❤❤❤❤
BHT itminaan Mila hai apki BAAT sunke.... JazakAllah ❤
Behtareen Dil ki baat❤❤❤❤
Alhamdulillah me and my husband have same thoughts👍🏻
ما شاء الله
Ese hi achchi knowledge dete hai ❤
ma sha Allah bht achi bt Hai same meri b yhi soch Hai me b aisa krti bht achi advice Hai kindly sb lrkian goar kijiye GA faida hoga in sha Allah
I exposed my silly problem to everyone and now damaged life
AOA api main itna kho g thi vlog main mjy pata nai chla kab khatam ho gya vlog main or sunna chahati thi ap ny jo bat btai hai wo kamal hai 100% kam ki bat hai thanku so much .....thanku so much again...I am Atiqa Afzal
This is so amazing sister you covered everything! Pray Allah give us the ability to practice and may it be sadqa jariya for you. Ameen
Nice bohot achi batein share kein apnay achi obsevation share kein❤👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Very good advice
Respect sb se phly ha husband wife ma r ye boundaries ap dno ne hi set krne ha
Married life is so beautiful
But bht afsoos hota ha jb log is pakeeza rista ko khrab krte ha
Sb parents ko apne beta ho ya bete un ko before marriage hi ye sb cheeze skhane chaye
I really liked this topic of yours, i was married at a young age but i knew the value of friendship and asked my husband to be my friend first and then my husband kyunki friend jaisa bhi ho apko acha lgta hai lekin husband/ wife se ek expectation ho jati hai aur waisa na hone par bura lgta hai. I hav been through though times but never ever i let others know about my jhagda and even if husband started to speaking out loud i used silence and sabr. Today is the day that my husband is supportive in every thing even my mother in law prefers living with me rather than her own daughter because of behaviour issues. All thanks to Allah. Dear Iqra u r guiding people with your beautiful words may Allah bless you always. Each and every topic was covered beautifully Masha Allah. Lots of love to you💕
Nice shearing sister i agree with you❤
MashaAllah ap bht positive hain❤, Yah best video hai...litterly is me bht se asi cheezin hain Jo me ny experience ki hain...
Mri b same ap jesi situation ha mra b aisy hi 2 sal nikah raha mre husband b uk or mjy b shadi k bad pta chala k mai ne jesa unhe 2 sal mai samja wesy to wo bilkul b nai... Or ap samj sakti hn is taklef ho jab aisy hota ha... Allah tala mre liye b asaniya paida kary or jesy Allah tala ne apko himmat di mjy b mily ameen.. Bht achy sy ap apni shadi ko manage kr rahi hn
Omg same was with me . Mery husband USA rehty h r Mera visa m kafi problems rhi so after 5y Mera visa laga but yaha aa kr Mjy totally different insan mila . AGR m kisi ko kch btaun to koi believe hi nh kr skta reality Kia h . Ub bs beti ki wajah s yaha reh rahi hmm . I was a working lady r always kehna yaha aa kr prhna job krna etc r yaha aa kr bat hi nh suntay . I can’t say a single word Jo m chahti hmm and this leading me towards depression and anxiety
What about husband who has this habit of complaining to his mother and sister about issues of his wife ? Initially he himself took promise not to involve others and now breaking his own promise every other day. He never admits his mistake, rather blames his wife for breaking his promises.
Ma shaa Allah Barak Allah...love your vlogs specially #dilkibaat
Totally agree wth u frnd
Helpful advice❤
Itni pyari baten ❤subscribe to karna hi padega😊
Hi! that’s great advice you gave out. I’d like to add though, please stop stereotyping women as ‘zara ziada emotional’ creatures.
Yes we’ve been told this, but it’s actually a very hateful way of invalidating women. If you take a closer look at reality, it’s mostly men who lose control over their emotions and get verbally, and even physically abusive.
Aap ne sunay hon ge qissay, jidhar ‘ghussay mein aa ke’ aik aadmi ne aurat ko talaaq ki dhamki di, aur talaaq bhi de di.
It’s mostly, 90% of the time, men who are so emotional that they end up ruining their marriages in the heat of the moment.
And by saying things like ‘women are just more emotional creatures’ - you are taking away men’s needs to hold themselves accountable for how they are actually the ones who are far more emotional.
It’s men who show extreme road rage in traffic, who get extremely angry if someone overtakes them on the road, who throw a fit if the waiter gets their order wrong.
‘aadmi tou phir hotay hain thoray ghussay ke taiz’ is what is used to excuse them.
you have a great platform, please use it to help women understand that it’s not their job to single-handedly save their marriage.
Mashallah jazakilahu khairan, itni kam Umar me itni samajhdari ki batein meri choti behan dil khush ho gaya alhamdulilah ❤
How intelligent you are, every single word you said is in our experience, very well explained. MashaAllah you are very good girl. Well brought up.
Ye batain mjhy bht km umer m bht achi trhan smjh achuki thi
Aslamualikum appi jazakallah kahir for shering this big tip because meri shadi abi nai hui hai but inahallah jald honewali hai aur muje kafi help melige is video say allah ne apko zariya banke mere pass behja es video say may allah bless you appi ❤
Very nice topic and good advice hamesha dua karna chahiye Kay sabr ki taufeeq rahe
Masha Allah! Beautiful advice dear Iqra! Jazakallahu khair!
All words are 100% said truth... sacchi aapne sab sahi kaha.. totally agree with u
Me and My husbnd also 2 different personalities bt this tip is amazing k baat apni khud tk rkhni chahye ghar walon ko batani ni chahye koi b baat
you hv share amazing thoughtful suggestions really need of every couple
Thnks for giving wonderful advise .. allah mjhe b itni smjh de ki shadi k bd m gltiya na kru or mre hone wle husbnd b ameen
This video is very helpful💯 and mai bhi ghar me sabse choti hun and Maine Apne bhai behnon k dekha hai nd mujhe ab bacche kaise paalna hai wo bhi samajh aa gayi hai kaafi had tak,Alhamdullillah ❤I just hope jab bhi I get married ,I try to give my best for the sake of Allah ,aur Apne jo bataya Bahut helpful hai ❤
I appriciate your way of thinking. Mashallah nice advice❤.
Dear Iqra
I have seen only 2 of your vlogs ,watching this vlog made me happy to see such wonderful people like you still exist. May Allah bless you.
Thank you so much ❤️
Ma sha Allah very nice vlog ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ and very useful for all ..❤❤❤❤ jazaq Allah ❤❤❤
Bht achi informative video h 🎉❤
Communication is the key
Ek dosray se baat karen, ek dosray ki expectations pochen , apni similarities or differences k oper baat karen
Dont assume or think usko pata hona chahiye , jub tak ap khud nahi baten ge
Agr baat nahi ho pa rahi aur larai shuru ho jati hy tou I would advise k ohr ghar se bahr baat karen kisi park mai , beach pe, chai pe jahan ap ird gird moujood logo ki waja se apne emotions control kar saken
Apni larai ussi waqt end karne ki Koshish karen aur ek dosray se khafa ho k na soyen subha utha k issue aur bada lagne lagta hy aur ghussa aur b barh jata hy
Shuru ka Kuch Time baat karne se b larai hoti hy lekin phr aisi adat parti hy k laraiyan hona hi khatam hojati hy aur srf discussion karne hi solution mil jata hy
Haftay mai ek dafa ek ghanta kum se kum zaror nikalen srf apne rishtay k baray mai baat karne k liye
Jo sari batein aspne batayi sahi hain. Emotional intelligence bhi hona zaruri hai. Lekin ek baat ka dhyan rakhna zaruri hai ki, abuse ko samjhen. Not just physical abuse emotional and psychological abuse ko bhi. Abuser ko bahut faida hota hai agar aap apni baat kisi se nahi batate. To abuse ko kabhi na chupayen.
Veryyyyy greatttttt thing bat sahi he.bht achi sikh diye ho
Maine aaj yonhi screen par aa rahi video open ki aur iqra ki bat bilkul ❤dil par jakar lagi aur maine subscribe kia channel and ek k bad ek kai videos dekhi
Pure heart, Allah ki Naik bandi jise Allah ne in salahiyato se is liye Nawaza hai k wo logon k kuch kaam aa jaaye aur wo aaa bhi rahi hai❤ Allah Hamesha khush rakhe
Aur Dunia Aakhirat dono jagha kamyab kare
❤Love from Saudi Arabia❤
Allah pak sb ki jorian salamat rakhy...Allah pak mery husband ka saya hmesha mery sr p slamat rakhy...mjy bht dar lgta hy kyun k main bht kam aqal hun
Me too😊
Walaikum salaam Apa my Name is Iqraa too from South Africa 🇿🇦 hubby Pakistani. Glad I found ur channel been binging for the past 2 days love and appreciate ur content and ur storytelling skills 😊 making marriage work really is a two way thing but men don't make any efforts and accept when they need professional help which makes things extremely difficult but in sha Allah will keep on trying
Very nice video. Very good advice 👍
Very Important message and much beautifully expressed.Jazzak Allahun Khairan.
Ache ar suche log allaha ko bi pasand hain yar too good ☺️
Thankyou... May allah bless you.... Ameen
Such me bohot accha laga sun k me bhi married woman hu mashallah aap ki advice ko yaad rakhugi inshallah follow bhi karugi humare beech me bhi bohot zada ladai hue chodne tak ki hogye thi but jab se mujhe beti atata ki hai Allah ne alhumdulilah plz dua me yaad rakhe thank you so much ❤❤
Really really informative and meaningful content!!
Topic is good but I m surprised to see u using nescafe. As it's an Israeli product. Kindly stop using this
Couldn't agree more on the fact that others can not forget and forgive like spouses can.
Also, I want to add to the point to the deal breakers list. it's not just the physical abuse. Emotional abuse is a real thing our family had a realtion with a person with narcissistic personality to be specific he was a covert type.... Nobody in the world would believe that such a good person treated you like that, so... any kind of abuse is a deal breaker and requires 3rd party involvement for sure asap.
JazakAllah Hu kher Ahsan Al Jaza ❤
❤❤👍 bht achi batain or kabab and chiken both looks mouth watering 🤤 stay happy ❤
Cheating is no no. Children will follow their father.so no bad example for them
This vlog caught my eye and all you said is 110% true
Jazak -Allah u khairaaa 🎉
Zbrdas dear iqra dil jeet liya sab khuch bilkul perfect bola hai ❤
Very nice thought. I thank you so much.
Finally some sensible content...really appreciate ur dil ki baat series...keep it up❤
My pleasure 😊
Apki videos sy bht kuch seekhny ko milthaa hy bht soothing voice hy nd barhen dil ko chooti hain kafi din sy apky video ka intzar tha
Or aj bht seekhny ko mila aj yahi topic chahye tha mjy need thi aise advice k
Thank you ❤️
Masha Allah!! You're awesome..I agree 100 percent
Wese kabi kabi khayal aata he ke kyon larki ko hi husband ki sari family ko apna parta he husband pr to ye sab laago nhi hota. Jabke hamare mazhab e is chez ka koi concept hi nhi. Idhar larki ki shadi hoi or wo aisi aisi jhanjaton me parr jati he ke marte dam tak phir chutkara nhi milta. Afsoos......Hmara mazhab to boht hi simple he lekin society ke pressure or norms ne ise boht complicated bana dia.
Pehli nar mene kisi se sahi salah suni h kitni suljhi hui batein..mera bhi yahi mann h bilkul apki trah ..nahi to logo ko share kro to wo bus attitude dikhana sikhate he ghar ko yodna sikhate hen or badtamizi krna sikhate h ki tum ese kro nhi to samne wala apko chhota samjhega kamzor samjhega😢😢😢😢sad reality of our society 😢😢allah apko khush rakhe dear
Mashallah superb topic
Firstly thanks tht u shared this topic in ur own way thru ur vedio....aapne bht sanjeedgi ki baat ki aur bht practical way mei bina bias hue ....mei aap ya koi bhi agr zindagi mei itna thehrao aur sanjeedgi le aaye to zindagi shayad kafi halki assan ho jaye ....❤
My husband is lier. I tried to safe my marriage for 2 years. But marriage life was deteriorating day by day. Affecting my mental health as well. Now seperated with having my 8 month daughter in hand
Respected and sweet Iqra your this vlog is wonderful nd amazing. Choti baat nhi kahen ge. Patay ki baat kahen ge isko.
Your every word is so true and reality based awlaaaaaaa , behtareen... her het baat dil ko choo gai..
Need to work on emotional intelligence
Kitni achi baat ki apne baaji. Sunkar bahot acha laga . JazakAllah khair. May Allah bless u abundantly Ameen
Mashallah both khoob. Jeeti ro beta, juug juug jiyo. Ye video InshAllah may apni baiti k saath share kroun gii. Allah tumay pardess may apnay husband k saath khooshokhuram rakhay.
1 st time on your channel, 1 st video of yours and i am going to subscribe because of your great advices ❤ may Allah bless you .....
At least your husband listens to you and doesn't complain his mom anything MashaAllah.
Any advice for such husbands jo apni maa ko sab kuch bata ker biwi ko bully kerwatry han.
Nice Sharing beautiful vlog watching from Glasgow Scotland uk 🇬🇧
ketni piyari baatein ki hai apne .. ketna deep sochti ho ap .. very good advices .. thanks alot !
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Do share more and more advices
first time i am watching you but you are ultimate you have brainwashed many issues jazaak allah khair ❤
Masha Allah ❤bahut achi naseehaten Allah taala apko khoob ajr ata farmaye Aameen
ماشاءاللہ اللہ تعالیٰ تمہیں نظر بد سے محفوظ رکھے آ مین بہت سمجھ دار بیٹی ہو بالکل حقیقت پر مبنی vlog ہے
Ameen ❤️