Advantages of creating systems and not just setting goals | Peter Attia, M.D. with James Clear

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  • @altan65
    @altan65 Год назад +94

    "Act in alignment with the person you're trying to be" love this one! Thanks for the great interview!

    • @TheAlchemist1089
      @TheAlchemist1089 Год назад

      Most basic concept in the law of attraction community

  • @MelanieSakowski
    @MelanieSakowski Год назад +20

    1. Make changes that are small and easy to do.
    2. Layer them on top of each other (like units in a system or atoms in a molecule).

  • @smileyspoon1
    @smileyspoon1 Год назад +17

    I actually had the identity epiphany like this video recently. My son was born ten months ago and I promised my wife no side projects for a year. Things God hard for a while because I didn't feel like I was being the best at anything. I returned to my previous routine of waking up early, learning and doing side projects in the morning but just really scaled it back so it's not intrusive to family life. I felt like myself again and felt more relaxed when I am just chilling with the family. When your actions and your identity is not in alignment... Things get messy real quick.

  • @at1withev1
    @at1withev1 Год назад +7

    This reminds me of a time when my good friend smoked his last cigarette. He just randomly in the middle of the day said remember when I used to smoke? And then from then on referred to smoking in the past tense and refered to himself as not a smoker... The day of I thought he was insane, but he's not smoked a cigarette in 10 years so I guess he won

  • @gmaro
    @gmaro 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen on RUclips. 10/10 analysis.

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunset 3 месяца назад +2

    “Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” I like this quote. The workbook called 30 Days to Reduce Stress by Harper Daniels goes great with Atomic Habits too.

  • @monsaemon
    @monsaemon Год назад +69

    I’ve always argued this with my bosses at work that if you focus more on process over result, once the process is ironed out the desired outcome will happen as a result of the process.

    • @djackson4605
      @djackson4605 Год назад +6

      Arguing with your bosses is a sub-optimal strategy. If you could shift that into suggesting things to your bosses, even the exact same content will be accepted a lot more readily.

    • @monsaemon
      @monsaemon Год назад +8

      @@djackson4605 I mean fair. It was just a word choice for a RUclips comment. I usually go for conversation over argument. That gets way more accomplished. But I’ve always liked the phrase “old boss is a dick til you meet the new one” 😂

    • @dwylhq874
      @dwylhq874 Год назад

      @monsaemon what industry/job are you in? And how old is the company you work for? More context would be very helpful. We love the way you think. ❤️

    • @jimmason8502
      @jimmason8502 Год назад

      You must work in banking ;) I spent 12 years in banking and they favor results over process, but they don;t get that one produces the other.

    • @stillwatersnightsky6533
      @stillwatersnightsky6533 Год назад

      Omg I have been saying this forever at my workplace falls on deaf ears. They want the snazzy technology and tools, but won't focus on the process itself

  • @armenalexanian
    @armenalexanian Год назад +32

    This video sounds like it might be boring but the concept of developing a vision for your desired identity (as a healthy person or strong or sociable etc) is the most powerful mindset I can imagine. I used to eat like a powerlifter but I lifted weights like a hobbyist and I gained a bunch of fat. Now that I've adjusted my identity, I eat and lift like a hobbyist and my weight is where it should be. This video deserves 100x more emphasis and it's a shame it's just mixed in with millions of other videos. I also dig James' concept of vision -> strategy -> tactics. Huge fan of Dr. Attia.

  • @justinkompf
    @justinkompf Год назад +49

    Great work discussing identity. Research actually is coming out on this. We focus on it for exercise promotion. Our next study is going to look at it in relationship to resistance training participation. Strength training I think is great for identity promotion because you can become more technically skilled and you can increase the weight you lift. Skill improvement -> identity revision -> continued adherence. There’s some interesting work on social media posting as it relates to identity for exercise too because self expression is one way to show that a behavior is a part of who you are. Anyways, done rambling, love this is a discussion!

  • @Bysisa
    @Bysisa Год назад +3

    I really enjoy reading Atomic Habit's.
    Thanks James

  • @jthancock
    @jthancock Год назад +17

    This type of discussion on identity shifting is fascinating to me. If anyone is interested in pursuing this topic further, a couple books I would recommend are "The As-If Principle" and "Psycho-Cybernetics", although James did sum it up pretty succinctly in this video.

  • @thomashayes3783
    @thomashayes3783 Год назад +2

    Identity versus outcome was how I finally managed to quit drinking after 15 years. Instead of "quitting drinking" I reframed it as "I'm not a drinker anymore." and it felt almost overnight, the mindset shift.

  • @quengmingmeow
    @quengmingmeow Год назад +20

    I took a speech/persuasion class in college years ago. We explored this idea-nameless at the time, but an idea--and this idea was this: how can you most effectively get someone to make a lasting change? Is it by convincing them (identity) so their behavior changes or is it getting them to do behaviors (fake it til you make it) so their identity changes to match actions? There was no clear answer, but almost 30 years later with more life experience, I fall squarely into the identity camp, although I have seen people “turn into” people they weren’t by doing bad behaviors. Maybe if the behavior is “easy to do” (like many things making someone a worse person), then identity isn’t supreme. But attempting to change by doing harder things (improving one’s self) I believe is supremely identity.

  • @hazezard2936
    @hazezard2936 Год назад +3

    I have practice what James Clear thought in his book "the Atomic Habits".
    I love the fact that we can improve our behavior base on small progress and setup the environment to help us progress even more.
    However there is one big flaw when we rely on the environment. When the environment change we lost the habits we accumulate.
    It happen to me during the pandemic. All my daily routine was disrupted when the movement restrictions order announced in my country.
    In my case i reverted to my lazy old self laying sofa watch phone all day.
    I found the best way to build habits is through believe system. This is because no matter what happen to the environment, we are still holding to the value we believe. We are still the same person with the same character.
    For me the best believe system is Islam.

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet Год назад +7

    Great episode ✨

  • @jaegertier6352
    @jaegertier6352 Год назад +4

    It was nice of Tim Ferris to stand in for James here. Well rounded guy

  • @jewelofdasouth96
    @jewelofdasouth96 Год назад

    Powerful conversation. Absolutely loved it. ❤

  • @tammyfulkerson2164
    @tammyfulkerson2164 Год назад +1

    Needed these reminders! Thank you....long recovery from 2 big injuries and could NOT work out....im trying now to just be who I was( a person who works out)...after a 3 month NO WORKOUT....you've helped with the mindset I need to revive. I'm fortunate as I have loved being a workout person...

  • @dreamleaf6784
    @dreamleaf6784 Год назад

    Thank you and thanks James clear. I'm just finishing up your book. Life changing!

  • @lenkavolnhals7197
    @lenkavolnhals7197 Год назад +1

    You are someone! Thank you. I love habits and I am staying with them. Goodnight.

  • @celwise
    @celwise Год назад +4

    Peter is such a great interviewer... Love James' message too.. FTA for the algo

  • @napez4126
    @napez4126 Год назад +14

    Small habits based on positive emotion is sustainable and creates systems

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD Год назад +2

      How to start a new habit: think small. How to create a system: do small habits. ☺

  • @jasonlee3218
    @jasonlee3218 6 месяцев назад

    I changed overnight when my wife became ill. So an external driver. It made me refocus on my health and lifestyle.

  • @operationacoustic9273
    @operationacoustic9273 Год назад +258

    Is it me or does James Clear have the exact same voice as Tim Ferriss? loll

  • @edu.monstrik
    @edu.monstrik Год назад +1

    I´ve seen this clip twice and the part with the smoker answers example was really enlightning (8:04).
    Well done here!

  • @filmawayvlad
    @filmawayvlad Год назад

    I find this conversation really important! Great English! Greek wisdom combined with the ambivalence of the post-modernistic semantics is great too!

  • @jaylav2373
    @jaylav2373 Год назад

    High Quality Episode, thanks friend.

  • @barbbrazes869
    @barbbrazes869 Год назад +1

    Great interview!

  • @barbarosozturk
    @barbarosozturk Год назад +1

    Great episode!

  • @bluecheckmiya
    @bluecheckmiya Год назад

    This was a fantastic breakdown

  • @manolopapas
    @manolopapas Год назад +15

    As David Goggins said you have to reinvent yourself

  • @loganmanagh2268
    @loganmanagh2268 Год назад

    Nice convo thanks!

  • @gnarlyDUCK
    @gnarlyDUCK Год назад +16

    My life is full of coincidence... or is it. I just finished this book! Its a great follow up from Gabor Mate's In Realm of Hungry Ghosts which I highly recommend for everyone.

  • @SF_Native
    @SF_Native 6 месяцев назад

    Just finished Atomc Habits this morning. Really great read!

  • @conservativemovement
    @conservativemovement Год назад +4

    Now my goal is to create systems.

  • @drewzcutz1
    @drewzcutz1 Год назад +2

    Great video! The sound quality is so crisp, can you please shave what set up you are using…. Thanks

  • @sumaiyaqureshiofficial
    @sumaiyaqureshiofficial 3 месяца назад

    Great episode ❤

  • @franklinbruce7121
    @franklinbruce7121 Год назад +1

    The cigarette analogy was AWESOME

  • @user-tb8ro5ik7w
    @user-tb8ro5ik7w 5 месяцев назад

    Dr. Attia, that shirt is incredible

  • @suziehartwright
    @suziehartwright Год назад

    Thank you. 😉

  • @5hydroxyT
    @5hydroxyT Год назад +9

    there is a very big difference between someone who wants to change because they don’t accept themselves, and someone who HAS to change because the path they are on is unsustainable and putting their whole existence in jeopardy. In the latter case change can happen due to an epiphany, since that is often the only option

    • @COLL3CTO
      @COLL3CTO Год назад +2

      This is very true and overlooked, I had an epiphany in my 20s and unfortunately I was correct and many of my peers are dead to due drugs and different lifestyle choices. If I did not change I would be dead

  • @VictorElGreco
    @VictorElGreco Год назад +2

    I believe it was Aristotle who said that “virtue is a habit”, that who we *are* stems from what we habitually *do* in our daily life.

  • @clifcody
    @clifcody Год назад

    So good

  • @OnkarShrma
    @OnkarShrma Год назад +1

    Watch from 6:00 . You will still understand everything from this video.

  • @oolala53
    @oolala53 Год назад +2

    I made another comment here that did have a critique in it, but basically, I very much resonate more with his idea of establishing systems that a person inspires to, or that they think it’s going to have benefit, but not making a particular result like a certain number of pounds be the reward Because the statistics show that getting to a certain weight is not enough of a pay off to people. Even the admiration of other people can end up backfiring if you’re depending on it. I think the same is true, if you depend on the scale, which he inferred. If you’re only doing the habits, because you want to wait a certain amount, and then you don’t lose that weight, that part of you that made it easy to gain. The weight is going to start making some very convincing arguments for why it’s not worth it. but if you can find the reasons you don’t like your over eating habits rather than you don’t like your overweight body, it’s gonna be a lot easier to stick with behaviors that combat what you don’t like about your eating. If you actually terrifically enjoy over eating, you haven’t found any problems with it, you’re gonna have a much harder time.

  • @lloydhinshelwood
    @lloydhinshelwood Год назад +1

    I 100% agree

  • @ErinLAnderson
    @ErinLAnderson Год назад +1

    Thx. Definitely motivated to read Atomic Habits.

  • @abhipatil4844
    @abhipatil4844 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @xiomanaxoxoxo3212
    @xiomanaxoxoxo3212 Год назад

    Wow . My brain just exploded

  • @cynenergy
    @cynenergy Год назад

    one for my books!@

  • @Jameswilliamsod
    @Jameswilliamsod Год назад +3

    Does it bother anyone that for cinematic effect you see a slice of a blurry Peter's head? I can't stop looking at it 😳

  • @diegonayalazo
    @diegonayalazo Год назад +7

    Thanks for sharing. James has a similar voice to Tim Ferris.

    • @donspradley6912
      @donspradley6912 Год назад

      Agreed! I think that every time I hear him speak.

    • @abracadabra324
      @abracadabra324 Год назад

      Tim's recent podcast really confuses me hahha

  • @funkymystic
    @funkymystic Год назад

    What is your closing credit music? So funky!

  • @dirtbagseth
    @dirtbagseth Год назад +2

    Great discussion. Hard to stop looking at your head in the corner though 😂

  • @kevinkan1
    @kevinkan1 Год назад +2

    Scott Adams, the original Systems over Goals OG

  • @Unnecessary-Depth
    @Unnecessary-Depth Год назад +8

    For some reason this makes me remember being taught to use the question WWJD (What would Jesus Do). of course this presumes you want to strive to be like Jesus.

  • @belgravedave
    @belgravedave Год назад

    What earbuds are you wearing Peter?

  • @runemartinguldberg9056
    @runemartinguldberg9056 Год назад +5

    This is Scott Adams theory.

  • @levmarkelov
    @levmarkelov Год назад +2

    What about people with ADHD? Those who struggle with keeping up with systems because we crave novelty and find sticking to one thing difficult.
    What tips are there for keeping consistent with a system as someone with adult ADHD?

    • @michaelplace
      @michaelplace Год назад +1

      Build a new identity that excites you and fall in love with him every single day until you decide to become someone new. Then repeat the process all over again and fall in love with your life.

  • @choicea535
    @choicea535 Год назад

    All this will evaporate on a hot day. Remember that.

  • @logan9920
    @logan9920 Год назад +3

    Did he credit Scott Adams with systems over goals?

  • @CarComparos
    @CarComparos Год назад

    Daym, even my Activa ain't so efficient!

  • @captaintosen23
    @captaintosen23 Год назад

    The part where he mentioned identity change is essentially the same idea as the book Psycho Cybernetics.

  • @CharlieShaughnessy
    @CharlieShaughnessy Год назад +13

    Systems over goals, as pioneered by Scott Adams.

    • @WideAwakeHuman
      @WideAwakeHuman Год назад +3

      And someone before him and someone before him, etc… so what

  • @jz5005
    @jz5005 Год назад +1

    Do you two have the same stylist?

  • @MarkoSkace
    @MarkoSkace Год назад +1

    Actually, Atomic can mean that you can't break a thing down further, which would've been a more suitable explanation for the title Atomic habits.

  • @christopherlouie1671
    @christopherlouie1671 Год назад

    Tony Robbins was saying back in the 80s

  • @sistertujuana4834
    @sistertujuana4834 Год назад +2

    To the point of identity: the Bible says “for as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Prov 23:7

    • @FirstLast-il5gt
      @FirstLast-il5gt 3 месяца назад

      Yes! And to the point of evidence, the Bible says, "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for and evidence of things not seen." Hebrews 11:1

  • @oolala53
    @oolala53 Год назад +4

    I think there is a missing piece here. It’s not just making a habit change, but having bad habit, feel like it’s worth the effort. I am not a naturally tidy person, but I do make my bed. And that’s because I discovered that for the time and effort, commitment, which is about 90 seconds, it was very reinforcing. Every time I walk through my bedroom, which I have to do to use my bathroom, the way the bed looked reinforced my efforts. However, I have not been able to make myself keep my dishes cleaned up. The effort and time involved because I do like to cook, and that ends up making messes Feels much different from making the bed. I do not like to have my food cool down so I do not do all of the dishes to prep the meal before I eat and even though it is nice to have a clean sink later in the day, the amount of time it takes, and the effort after the meal to clean everything Feels like way more of a burden to me than it does to make my bed. So it Hass to feel like that identity is worth it, if you are dealing with a habit that does not come naturally. I was able to make changes regarding my binging habit, because I got to the point where I could not stand the idea that I was going to binge for the last few decades of my life. That was way more important to me than losing weight I’ve ever been. I did end up eventually losing 40 pounds, but it took a long time, and I actually never got discouraged about my habit because of the weight or lack of loss of weight. I was not going to go back to binging whether I never lost a pound or not. I feel more ambivalent about the necessity of being a tidy person. It would be more convenient, and it would make some things easier in my life, but from my side, it feels like a great deal of effort.

    • @dirtbagseth
      @dirtbagseth Год назад

      Clean while you cook 💨

    • @oolala53
      @oolala53 Год назад

      @@dirtbagsethIf you find the burden of that worth it, or you don’t find it a burden, we are two different people. But you wash on! 🙂

    • @dirtbagseth
      @dirtbagseth Год назад

      @@oolala53 it's all just practice and habit forming. You can do whatever you set that brilliant mind of yours to…...

    • @oolala53
      @oolala53 Год назад

      @@dirtbagseth You haven't disproved my point. Please tell me a habit that you have adopted that continues to feel difficult and onerous but that you still do.

    • @Arthur-uz2zm
      @Arthur-uz2zm Год назад

      @@oolala53 I mean, have you read the book? James Clear talks about this. He talks about making habits that are obvious, attractive, easy and rewarding.

  • @amorestperpe
    @amorestperpe Год назад +1

    Maybe it's because I'm a chemist, but I never thought atomic habits meant huge. I thought it was micro

  • @nativeinyou
    @nativeinyou Месяц назад

    The identity thing was much better covered in Psychocybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.

  • @vincentcorso1688
    @vincentcorso1688 Год назад +4

    Wow I wonder how this plays with alcoholic anonymous and gamblers anonymous
    They make you say hi I am an alcoholic/compulsive gambler
    Wonder if the results would be better if they said I don’t drink alcohol or I am not a gambler

  • @ikbenmarko
    @ikbenmarko Год назад

    It indeed bothers me to not workout, #addicted identity?

  • @timmothyburke
    @timmothyburke Год назад +1

    I wonder if the mechanism in the brain that makes people regain weight can be tricked by some kind unconscious self image mechanism. So if you can find a way to talk to your unconscious mind you can somehow add a new regulation system to the existing system. It's coincidentally something that I was thinking about a few days ago.

  • @RoidfreeSenior
    @RoidfreeSenior Год назад +1

    Yeah, discipline is all about building good habits and losing not so good ones, right?

  • @MitchellGlucroft
    @MitchellGlucroft Год назад +1

    Gotta fake it to make it.

  • @mukundan101
    @mukundan101 5 месяцев назад +1

    12:15

  • @tenr01
    @tenr01 Год назад

    @11:20 i am taking a vote to become a programmer

  • @ashleytaylor994
    @ashleytaylor994 Год назад

    The concept of self identity was popularized by psycho cybernetics Maxwell maltz

  • @ashleytaylor994
    @ashleytaylor994 Год назад

    Guy sounds just like Tim Ferris’s

  • @joshstromer5640
    @joshstromer5640 Год назад +1

    If the world is saved, it will not be saved by old minds with new programs but by new minds with no programs at all.

  • @technuts
    @technuts Год назад +1

    The more I hear from the new age motivational speakers the more I realize how much of it is already taught in Hindu Mythology...Lord Krishna says, put in the work, don't worry about the results...and that's exactly what is being stated here, build the system and don't worry about the goal.

  • @lailadillsi8902
    @lailadillsi8902 Год назад

    100% same voice

  • @timmothyburke
    @timmothyburke Год назад

    It reminds me of the "What would Jesus do" fad.

  • @heathhamby
    @heathhamby Год назад

    I see they have the same barber

  • @d.mariecampbell7443
    @d.mariecampbell7443 Год назад +3

    I agree with everything up until you made of fun of “Fake it till you make it”… what we tell our selves matters… And if you keep telling yourself something you start to believe it… that’s why we should never say bad things about ourselves…

  • @nickwilsonxc
    @nickwilsonxc Год назад +1

    Sounds like a more easily digestible version of Jean-Paul Sartre’s philosophy.

  • @icebox_Intruder
    @icebox_Intruder Год назад

    Interesting. Sounds nothing like "manifestation."

  • @dhruvpatel4948
    @dhruvpatel4948 Год назад

    Why is he wearing AirPods while seating in front of him😂

  • @TribalGlobe
    @TribalGlobe Год назад +1

    No "fake it till you make it" does not mean you have to believe a delusion. It says "fake it" implying that you know it is a non-genuine action... until it becomes genuine. It's the same meaning as what you are talking about you just interpreted it wrong.

  • @LostInStates
    @LostInStates Год назад

    AKA fake 'til ya make it

  • @mariusgildenhuys3731
    @mariusgildenhuys3731 Год назад

    Easy to do, easy not to do...

  • @DrewIsHungry
    @DrewIsHungry Год назад +3

    This fake eyeline thing is making me uncomfortable. They’re not in the same room together. There’s nothing wrong with that. No need to use weird and unsuccessful editing tricks to pretend they are

    • @joscelinbrown9187
      @joscelinbrown9187 3 месяца назад

      Didn’t notice it until I read this comment😂

  • @vincedgarvlogs
    @vincedgarvlogs Год назад

    Lol the system is based on goals

  • @sohammookherjee9405
    @sohammookherjee9405 Год назад

    Bald is best 😂😂😂

  • @DarkMuj
    @DarkMuj Год назад +3

    These guys are bald!

  • @aryangod2003
    @aryangod2003 Год назад +1

    Please have Nobel Laureates in Medicine not self help gurus. Thank you.

    • @nl3712
      @nl3712 Год назад +1

      Read the book.
      All assertions made are supported by peer-reviewed research. See index for details.

    • @aryangod2003
      @aryangod2003 Год назад

      @@aaayyy1953 Then why bother with Phds universities like STanford and MIT and decades of research and expertise and awards? Sure occasionally there are geniuses who are experts without those, but Peter usually has At least doctors with noted contributions to their fields and even one Nobel Laureate (cancer physican) on the show. This seemed to be an exception

  • @matbob7249
    @matbob7249 Год назад

    It’s easy to lose and keep weight down- you guys casted uneducated thesis. We humans thrive on paleo diet or lifestyle to be correct. Get rid of carbs industrial seed oils grains and run machine on pastured animal products healthy fats - never be hungry and never gain weight… and it’s super delicious. Great behavioral info but please do not mislead with nutritional stereotypical fads low fat healthy whole grains calories in out b.s.

  • @otg1433
    @otg1433 Год назад

    Needless senseless chatter.. human never stop talking. We are born and then die( the body that is)the short span of time in between is what we term life so why fill it with all this analysis and noise ...nothing is that relevant or important ..silence wow that's something worth experiencing.

  • @l_3216
    @l_3216 Год назад +1

    the advantages of being bald