Benjamin Tod, "We Ain’t Even Kin," // GemsOnVHS™

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • We traveled to rural Kentucky to find Benjamin Tod, who had a collection of songs to share from his new solo record, "A Heart of Gold is Hard to Find,". We recorded on the porch of his grandfather's home. These days, it has been great to see Ben really come into his own, comfortable with who he is and where he comes from. There's a maturity to this record that reflects his own growing up, songs with angles of him I haven't seen before.
    This song in particular is a departure from the usual internal dialogue, or narrative song. Here Ben writes personally, about his paternal relationship with a man he calls his grandfather, despite, as the song says, them not being kin by blood. It's relatable subject matter in the 21st century, so many of us coming from non traditional homes.
    Those of you paying attention might find a fitting connection in a song off of Lost Dogs early album. I can only think of one song where he has addressed family, and the tone of that one was very different. Those who know, know.
    It really seems Benjamin has come full circle, a coming home and healing.
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  • @GemsOnVHS
    @GemsOnVHS  4 года назад +197

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    • @thyland726
      @thyland726 4 года назад +5

      Unreal, this man has "IT!" Fuck me this is good.

    • @johnnygoforth8563
      @johnnygoforth8563 4 года назад +1

      My fiance is a super fan. We have been to multiple shows in Lexington ky. She refuses to miss out on seeing lost dog. She even got her 58 yr old mother to listen to one song and she was hooked so she had to see for herself ..... the venue didn't hold that many people. Not saying that an artist is required to meet and greet the fans, but we waited after every show for hrs.. she wanted her mom to meet this inspiring artist who's music had pulled them both through such terrible news. About three months later she passed away from liver cancer.. would have been nice if the band could have found time to meet at least some fans ....

    • @odinspride545
      @odinspride545 4 года назад +2

      You sir are absolutely a great singer your lyrics touch a spot inside that few who sing have ever done it

    • @maryschuler979
      @maryschuler979 4 года назад

      I love your music Ben you're a lovely soul

    • @dylanblake3461
      @dylanblake3461 3 года назад

      When you make it just keep telling your story . Because that kind of music we all can relate too. Seen to many good musician blow up and change . Remember where you came from but don't forget where your going . Keep up the good work .

  • @UnkleRonnie
    @UnkleRonnie 3 года назад +898

    I’m nearly 40 years old. When I was 18 my grandfather intervened in my reckless living situation and asked me to live with him. Little did he realize I was heavy into drugs and the bad decisions that come with that. I stole money from my grandfather. Lots of it. And I saw my grandfather cry as the police took me away. It took a few years for me to get over my pride and mend the relationship. And even then I was too afraid to ever talk about it. 2 years ago my grandfather had a heart attack and only had days to live. He was heavily medicated on a morphine drip but by the grace of god he somehow woke up and was conscious when I came to see him. And I apologized. And my grandfather, on his deathbed, remembered every detail of my childhood with him...almost like he was reading from a book. I hugged him because I knew it was the last time I’d see him alive. And he passed the next day. I’m forever thankful that God allowed me to have those last moments of redemption with my grandfather. RIP Pap

    • @robertthompson7878
      @robertthompson7878 3 года назад +18

      Thank you for sharing... from those that relate

    • @souslesbombes
      @souslesbombes 3 года назад +15

      Good on you man. I loved mine. I have no father. He was everything to me. I never got that bedside farewell. He died of a long painful alzheimer disease. I never got to say a proper goodbye because when I realized he was leaving us, his mind was already gone. Thats when i realized you can't take nothing for granted in this world.

    • @isaacmarshall8783
      @isaacmarshall8783 3 года назад +18

      You made me cry like a baby sir, I just hope I have this redemption with my grandmother

    • @00xyq
      @00xyq 3 года назад +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @stevesnodgrass7434
      @stevesnodgrass7434 2 года назад +3

      Peace my friend

  • @mitchellb.2476
    @mitchellb.2476 4 года назад +1028

    This one goes out to everyone missing their Grandpa. 🍺

    • @cmfoy19891
      @cmfoy19891 4 года назад +17

      Miss him every day. RIP pops.

    • @mitchellb.2476
      @mitchellb.2476 4 года назад +14

      @@cmfoy19891 same buddy, same. So much.

    • @dleonexj
      @dleonexj 4 года назад +19

      Fuck yea man this song seams as it was written about my grandfather that wasnt blood to me... hits home. Men that were incredibly influential to our lives.

    • @trajanfidelis1532
      @trajanfidelis1532 4 года назад +10

      I love mine so much, I dread the day the lord calls him home

    • @jaycanizaro4999
      @jaycanizaro4999 4 года назад +3

      Cheers man 🍻

  • @GemsOnVHS
    @GemsOnVHS  5 лет назад +902

    Thumbs up if you love ur grandpa. Find Ben on Instagram @benjamintodmusic and we're @gemsonvhs

    • @35GetSome
      @35GetSome 5 лет назад +10

      GemsOnVHS my grandpa also wasn’t blood but he sure raised a man that raised me right and I’m proud to call him my grandpa❤️ RIP Gordon Simberg

    • @GemsOnVHS
      @GemsOnVHS  5 лет назад +7

      @josh major it rly wasn't me bud. theres lots of youtube comments, some of them slip through. all love tho. death and old age can be a scary thing. i hope i go swiftly!

    • @TheWolfElder
      @TheWolfElder 5 лет назад +5

      Whatever I do in this world, I want to tell Ben thanks for doing this.
      You have no idea how much we relate.
      My granddad wasn't blood related, but he married my grandma and they lived six blocks away. When things got bad here they'd let me come down for the night. Get me away from the fighting.
      As I grew up, he was diagnosed with dementia when I got into high school. In my senior year it got to where I was spending weekends and after school nights taking care of him and helping where I could.
      The last nine months he barely remembered anything and was put on hospice care.
      He died a week after I graduated. Buried him three days later. I still visit him from time to time.

    • @cadengraves1956
      @cadengraves1956 5 лет назад +2

      Is this coming out on iTunes!!! Like please 😭😭

    • @TouchOfMaddness
      @TouchOfMaddness 5 лет назад +5

      You can just feel the emotion in everything he does

  • @Jay18878
    @Jay18878 Год назад +7

    My father isn't blood, but he's my daddy.

  • @giveiteverything8390
    @giveiteverything8390 5 лет назад +1342

    His voice makes me feel the pain of every mistake I’ve made in my life while experiencing the hope of redemption at the very same time.

  • @mikegonza7929
    @mikegonza7929 Год назад +5

    Real men make real men.

    • @markusa5521
      @markusa5521 Месяц назад

      No truer statement this comment should have all the likes

  • @Gafferd8186
    @Gafferd8186 5 лет назад +790

    It's a good day when we get a new benjamin tod song from gemsonvhs

    • @richardstacey4394
      @richardstacey4394 5 лет назад +7

      Damn right it is, I was ecstatic when I saw it. Watching again

    • @The_dude94
      @The_dude94 5 лет назад +2

      That's exactly what I was thinking.. It's been a while but we'll worth the wait!

    • @swaggercat
      @swaggercat 5 лет назад +2

      More please

    • @chrismcdaniel7901
      @chrismcdaniel7901 5 лет назад +7

      I mean to tell ya man. His songs hit home everytime

    • @Gafferd8186
      @Gafferd8186 5 лет назад +7

      @@chrismcdaniel7901 whether its addiction, mental illness, or just growing up, anything you're going through his music hits hard in my opinion

  • @nesterperiwinkle
    @nesterperiwinkle 4 года назад +426

    Ben is one of those “once in a lifetime musicians”. He can do more with a worn guitar and a front porch then 99% of top paid musicians can do with fancy recording studio equipment. Awesome talent!

  • @chrisclements4511
    @chrisclements4511 5 лет назад +328

    this makes me think of my stepdad..naw f##* that, he's my Dad ..

    • @TheAdiaz0126
      @TheAdiaz0126 5 лет назад +5

      Amen brother

    • @hurley467718
      @hurley467718 5 лет назад +4

      Same...

    • @bobstone1746
      @bobstone1746 5 лет назад +33

      Damn that was nice bro. I am a step dad to a teenage girl and it's not always easy and leaves one feeling unappreciated alot. I'd love to hear her call me dad one day.

    • @TWR_Creations
      @TWR_Creations 5 лет назад +3

      Damn right man

    • @stdavis22
      @stdavis22 5 лет назад +16

      @@bobstone1746 it takes a MUCH bigger person to raise someone else's child than their own

  • @hunternorth8817
    @hunternorth8817 5 лет назад +142

    Damnit Ben, if you're reading this, you just made me cry.
    My Grandparents raised me, and Grandpa was the most important person in my life. I lost my mind when he passed.
    Thanks man. Street kid to street kid, I don't even know you, and we ain't even kin, but I love you, man.

    • @GODT1TAN
      @GODT1TAN 4 года назад +7

      I know exactly how you feel man really hurts to lose your hero

    • @hunternorth8817
      @hunternorth8817 4 года назад +1

      @@GODT1TAN that he was, too.

    • @VikasKumar-et3fk
      @VikasKumar-et3fk 3 месяца назад

      ​@@hunternorth8817ho❤😊zjdk. Aqq aqpxqqqqqqqs 😅😅o sa opp.0😊 x92

    • @eyes2c..519
      @eyes2c..519 3 месяца назад

      He has yt page ❤

  • @timmycash1
    @timmycash1 5 лет назад +388

    Man, this one got me before he ever sang a word. That exhale. That’s the exhale you let out before you undertake something trying. And the way he looked around as he played the first few chords. You could see him seeing his past growing up there. Keep this stuff coming our way, it’s unrivaled. Thank you for the music.

  • @jordanb9161
    @jordanb9161 5 лет назад +22

    It’s not often you come across someone who puts this much soul and love and pain in every single song. But Benjamin Tod and Ashley Mae are heavyweights in the world of music is my eyes. Thank god for them in this generation where music has lost the soul that the great American troubadours once gave it. When it’s all over, Tod will be mentioned in conversations alongside the Zandts and Clarks of history and he deserves nothing less.

  • @isaacolmsted7425
    @isaacolmsted7425 5 лет назад +356

    But we’re not concerned cuz there’s nothing to learn from resentment (I love that)

    • @The_dude94
      @The_dude94 5 лет назад +6

      His song writing is nothing short of remarkable!

    • @teamlamedetroit8407
      @teamlamedetroit8407 5 лет назад +2

      That jawn immediately hit me.

    • @CodyMitts95
      @CodyMitts95 4 года назад +3

      I unliked this comment 2 months later to like it again

  • @anthonywallace8135
    @anthonywallace8135 5 лет назад +58

    Made Kentucky proud with this one.

  • @fercampos4161
    @fercampos4161 5 лет назад +196

    People say I look like my grandfather,
    And I begin to explain we ain't even kin,
    He'll interupt with "why bother?"
    And saunter away with a sideways grin,
    Cause we both understand, not giving a damn, about feeling,
    Why in the hell try and tell folks what you are living?
    Life is defined by decisions,
    And you may burn Bridges you ain't got time to mend,
    You're too old to be in this condition,
    You're too young for the Lord to take in.
    He'd read me the Bible til midnight,
    And he'd tan my hide when he caught me in lies,
    When I dropped out of school we did fight,
    And we lost some years in darn foolish pride,
    And now Im not sure if I'm better or worse for the distance,
    But we're not concerned cause there's nothing to learn from resentment.
    Life is defined by decisions,
    And you may burn Bridges you ain't got time to mend,
    You're too old to be in this condition,
    You're too young for the Lord to take in.
    He'd cheers with the television,
    Hoping this year Kentucky will win,
    And I'd give a yell from the kitchen,
    And I wear it with it pride that I'm close to him,
    And I count the days and watch as the haze fills his eyes,
    But I won't complain it's a privilege to live and die.
    Life is defined by decisions,
    And you may burn Bridges you ain't got time to mend,
    You're too old to be in this condition,
    You're too young for the Lord to take in.
    You're too young for the Lord to take in.

    • @FallinFromTheSkyy
      @FallinFromTheSkyy 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you

    • @billybishop9
      @billybishop9 5 лет назад +11

      *He'd tan my hide
      *Our foolish pride

    • @bsdnfraje
      @bsdnfraje 5 лет назад +2

      Thanks, great job. But 'sonter' should be 'saunter'.

    • @fercampos4161
      @fercampos4161 5 лет назад +9

      Thanks for the help guys, I was actually just jotting it down for me, and once I had it, decided to post seeing as nobody else had taken a shot at them. Will add your input asap.

    • @ashleyshires6688
      @ashleyshires6688 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you friend ♡♡♡

  • @paintballbiggie
    @paintballbiggie 5 лет назад +213

    "And I count the days and watch as the haze fills his eyes. But I won't complain, it's a privilege to live and die."
    Such a poignant, yet beautiful way of looking at mortality. Absolutely gutted me.

    • @Truesday2011
      @Truesday2011 4 года назад +5

      Jeremiah Grady that’s a deep quote man. A lot of truth.

    • @danedonovan5787
      @danedonovan5787 4 года назад +2

      love this jam. Ben Tod is the man. I am such a big fan. I also like this guy Brett McDaniel. So much talent out there ruclips.net/video/xVlvlUfiZ34/видео.html

    • @MsAesthete
      @MsAesthete 3 года назад +3

      Still the line that gets me every time. I make everything in the room stop moving and making sound so I can soak it up properly.

    • @travisladymon9498
      @travisladymon9498 3 года назад

      @@danedonovan5787 xo1-@

    • @misfitcrow3350
      @misfitcrow3350 Год назад

      Having been raised by my great grandparents who were in their 60's when I was born, I watched those 2 old people which it took some time to come to grips with them not being the saints I thought that they were. Just more of layers of lies which I became aware of at age 11 but not realizing it's depth of the lie and everything else it revealed if one can remove the rose colored glasses and accept the world as it is, sadly, truly. Incest, rape, and disowning the victim to save face against the scandal. I don't know why post this here. But there is that.

  • @Graggster80
    @Graggster80 5 лет назад +61

    Wow amazing man u paint such a picture man with the lyrics you belt out

  • @angstgaming7582
    @angstgaming7582 5 лет назад +20

    Genuinely don't understand how some one can be so talented, and not be super famous.
    Love from England! Great lyrics as always!

  • @ryandonavon7451
    @ryandonavon7451 5 лет назад +229

    I found Ben with the song Using Again, I'm not an addict but my brother is struggling with addiction, and that song helped me understand my brother a whole lot better with what he was going through and I appreciate it. I mostly listen to rock or metal music but I also like others and my grand father was in a bluegrass band so I grew up around it. Now I find myself putting Ben in the search tab and listening all day at work. I could never think of the lyrics he writes but it seems like they come from myself sometimes. Thanks for the great music Ben I hope you have found peace in what you do because you bring peace to others.

    • @commentingisawasteoftime7195
      @commentingisawasteoftime7195 5 лет назад +2

      Hey, there's a bigger range of emotions than what is contained in the album, Vulgar Display of Power.

    • @ryandonavon7451
      @ryandonavon7451 5 лет назад +1

      @@commentingisawasteoftime7195 yeah I saw Pantera in VA in 97 I think after Great Southern Trendkill was released, greatest concert in my life! Anthrax and Coal Chamber was there too! But yeah Phil is a great lyricist which is why I'm a huge Down fan! 🤘

    • @travishatcher1115
      @travishatcher1115 5 лет назад +12

      I found using again and it made me sit back and realize that I was going down the wrong road. I honestly feel like if it wasn’t for his music I wouldn’t be here breathing today. His music saved me

    • @ryandonavon7451
      @ryandonavon7451 5 лет назад +5

      @@travishatcher1115 Glad your here brother 👊

    • @bobstone1746
      @bobstone1746 5 лет назад +2

      @@ryandonavon7451 I saw Panthers at ozzfest 2001? In VA beach. Saw coal chamber at the boathouse in norfolk.....idk where your from but ya know dez (singer from coal chamber) new band devil driver is coming to norva with dope

  • @LargemouthLenny
    @LargemouthLenny 4 года назад +15

    i was raised by my grandfather that wasn't blood to me, and this song speaks so much to me that i can't get through the first verse without choking up. when he passes i will play this song at his funeral..

  • @isaacolmsted7425
    @isaacolmsted7425 5 лет назад +41

    Even better than anticipated! Absolutely amazing work and I am very happy that grandpa got a feature in the video, keep it up!

  • @The31st
    @The31st 4 года назад +15

    "It's a privilege to live and die" is a great line that says alot with only a few words

  • @elunico97
    @elunico97 5 лет назад +137

    We definitely need a documentary on this man. The soul he emits from his music is amazing. Add Ashley Mae to that and bam! The beautiful Lost Dog Street Band

    • @michellehonyumptewa8434
      @michellehonyumptewa8434 5 лет назад +1

      Amen

    • @justindavenport9182
      @justindavenport9182 4 года назад +3

      I don't understand why everyone thinks a documentary will conclude their emotions. Just appreciate the music he produces and leave it at that. Damn

    • @justindavenport9182
      @justindavenport9182 4 года назад +1

      @meefking8404 I agree 100%. Weird how everyone thinks a documentary will make anything better lol just listen and learn from his music.

    • @danedonovan5787
      @danedonovan5787 4 года назад

      love this jam. Ben Tod is the man. I am such a big fan. I also like this guy Brett McDaniel. He isn't as well known though. ruclips.net/video/xVlvlUfiZ34/видео.html

  • @fondestdiamond
    @fondestdiamond Год назад +4

    "People say I look like my grandfather
    I begin to explain we ain’t even kin
    He’ll interrupt with why bother
    And saunter away with a sideways grin
    We both understand not giving a damn about feeling
    And why in the hell try and tell folks what you are living
    Life is defined by decisions
    You may burn bridges you ain’t got time to mend
    You’re too old to be in this condition
    You’re too young for the lord to take in
    He’d read me the bible ‘til midnight
    And he’d tan my hide when he caught me in lies
    When I dropped out of school we did fight
    And we lost some years in our foolish pride
    Now I'm not sure if I'm better or worse for the
    Distance
    But we’re not concerned cause there’s nothing to learn from resentment
    Life is defined by decisions
    You may burn bridges you ain’t got time to mend
    You’re too old to be in this condition
    You’re too young for the lord to take in
    He cheers with the television
    Hoping this year Kentucky will win
    I give a yell from the kitchen
    I wear it with pride that I'm close to him
    I count the days and watch as the haze fills his eyes
    I won’t complain it’s a privilege to live and die
    Life is defined by decisions
    You may burn bridges you ain’t got time to mend
    You’re too old to be in this condition
    You’re too young for the lord to take in"

  • @nolanwilder5130
    @nolanwilder5130 5 лет назад +43

    god i love Benjamin Tod. Just what i needed today. Stay Blessed

  • @ethanmorton7122
    @ethanmorton7122 5 лет назад +56

    "We're not concerned cause there's nothing to learn from resentment"
    Best lyric I've heard in years.

    • @jerryshaffer7978
      @jerryshaffer7978 5 лет назад +1

      Amen

    • @graceglory5thwheel43
      @graceglory5thwheel43 4 года назад

      I’m 42 and I STILL struggle with this at times. The line before that: “But now I’m sure if I’m better or worse for the distance” gave me chills.

  • @fallenchief15
    @fallenchief15 5 лет назад +201

    All hail the broken family.

    • @GemsOnVHS
      @GemsOnVHS  5 лет назад +31

      A fan we have here

    • @danielc2874
      @danielc2874 5 лет назад +2

      Great song

    • @DIRTYSANCHEZ1995
      @DIRTYSANCHEZ1995 5 лет назад +5

      Coming from a broken family, and now creating a broken family, that song hits me like a ton of lead.

    • @morganbrothers3898
      @morganbrothers3898 4 года назад

      Third Position I grew in a broken home, it also happened to me, I prey that my love and guidance allows my son to find the love he deserves

    • @spacecat86
      @spacecat86 4 года назад +2

      @@DIRTYSANCHEZ1995 it should. and instead of listening to sad songs on youtube to validate your feelings you should be fighting.

  • @ohsweatbret
    @ohsweatbret 4 года назад +9

    It’s so funny he has a song about this, I look a lot like my adoptive father and we will get comments saying how similar we look or “you can tell he’s yours.” We just kinda laugh about it afterwards

  • @jadefire2817
    @jadefire2817 5 лет назад +18

    PawPaw, I miss you. 20 years now, you've gone and left us. I try to remember what you told me, "Any day on this side of the flowerbed is a good one. "

  • @JcP3737
    @JcP3737 4 года назад +8

    My best friend in the whole world is my brother in law. He is adopted... As soon as I heard this song I showed it to him. I saw tears in his eye and I told him "life is defined by decisions" I love you Justin

  • @treyporter7735
    @treyporter7735 5 лет назад +34

    Shoutout Kentucky. Love all my people

    • @billhogue9523
      @billhogue9523 4 года назад +4

      My father's side of the family is from the hollers of Allen County. Thankful my roots are from Tennessee and Kentucky.

  • @valentinogarza7684
    @valentinogarza7684 2 года назад +5

    my grandpa just passed. hes my best friend, I lived with him and we spent nearly every day together. got his ashes back today. funerals sat. gotta put these photos in the album. man its hard. I miss you grandpa. I love you. ps. the dogs are missing you heavy, they love you too. we all do. also I road the chopper up north we just picked up. im glad you heard that engine running before you passed. I love you oldman.

  • @delaneybell1978
    @delaneybell1978 5 лет назад +106

    He writes his songs so that people who have experienced the same as him have a comfortable place to purge the darkness being inside his stories.. his soul..I have a man in my life just like that. Thank God for the ones who are daddies and mentors when they don’t have to be.

    • @fercampos4161
      @fercampos4161 5 лет назад +5

      I feel the same way, it's not gonna fit the masses, but the ones that these words do fit into, they fit like a glove. Every single word. And it's comforting that not only someone else has felt it too, but that it's been put perfectly into words.

    • @danedonovan5787
      @danedonovan5787 4 года назад

      I dig this jam. Ben Tod is the man. I am such a big fan. I also like this guy Brett McDaniel. He isn't as well known though. ruclips.net/video/xVlvlUfiZ34/видео.html

    • @brandonsergeon5915
      @brandonsergeon5915 2 года назад

      My wife and I have a similar story to Ben and Ashley so a lot of it hits real close to home for us.

  • @joelkerr1951
    @joelkerr1951 5 лет назад +15

    "why even tell people what you were livin?" I feel this shit everyday

  • @norcalnate3342
    @norcalnate3342 5 лет назад +84

    Lyrically amazing and song with pure talent. He can make you emotional over a folgers commercial if he sang it. Amazing song!

  • @johntstanley1
    @johntstanley1 5 лет назад +13

    Towns Vanzant would be impressed with your ability to reach others and the free way you live. I'm a follower of your efforts. And I enjoy every moment.

    • @judecaplin1860
      @judecaplin1860 5 лет назад

      John Stanley Took the words out of my mouth. Everytime i recommend Bens music to someone i always say he's our generations Townes Van Zant

    • @crazyg6219
      @crazyg6219 4 года назад +1

      Towns Vanzant.................man

  • @Whatup779
    @Whatup779 5 лет назад +19

    Love your music Benjamin. Just sittin’ here waitin’ for you to come back to Asheville. See you when you get here.

  • @jbellis11
    @jbellis11 5 лет назад +6

    My grandpa raised me. I always wished I had a different life, but looking back I’d never change a thing.

  • @user-qv9dw1kq3q
    @user-qv9dw1kq3q 5 лет назад +17

    Benjamin Todd! No better sound! Never heard music sound so good to a story I understand! Would love to meet this guy and tell him what his songs have done to my life! Peace out brother

  • @chrisbaker7583
    @chrisbaker7583 2 года назад +5

    It took me a couple of times to make it all the way through this song. I was raised by my grandparents, and had a falling out with my grandfather, where we didn’t talk for 6 years. He died suddenly last year and now I have to live with those years we wasted on our pride. Thank you for your music, Benjamin.

  • @amysharpe698
    @amysharpe698 5 лет назад +13

    Anthony your description about Benjamin made me tear up. The way you write about him, it's impossible to not see not only your admiration for him but how strong your friendship is. You are to thank for giving LDSB and Ben this platform and I can't thank you enjoy for sharing.

  • @nathanbrintnall7597
    @nathanbrintnall7597 5 лет назад +8

    I've always said that my family isn't broken, it just got a lot bigger. Just because we aint blood doesn't mean we aint family.

  • @geobum
    @geobum 5 лет назад +223

    not a religious person, but if it's ben behind the pulpit..... i might find religion.

    • @jross6788
      @jross6788 5 лет назад +7

      I could get behind that movement.

    • @theb.s.d.4707
      @theb.s.d.4707 5 лет назад +14

      Music is the language of the soul.

    • @PrivateUsername
      @PrivateUsername 5 лет назад +19

      Forget crackers and wine, it's gonna be bacon and 'shine.

    • @jolenedesjardin7414
      @jolenedesjardin7414 5 лет назад +2

      That's what I said in my own head the 30th time listening 😂😂

    • @jeremyjones1843
      @jeremyjones1843 5 лет назад

      AMEN!!!!

  • @nealhardin6869
    @nealhardin6869 4 года назад +8

    This man has a talent that is unsurpassed by noone. Every song is like a beautiful walk down a treacherous road. I'm so grateful that Ben is around to tell his story. God bless you sir.

  • @LorelaiOnPawz
    @LorelaiOnPawz 5 лет назад +19

    Absolutely stunning as always. Your music makes life better ❤️

  • @BigNateOG
    @BigNateOG 6 месяцев назад +2

    Lost my grandpa to cancer 2 years ago..... We weren't blood but He basically raised me, and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about him....... I love and miss you big J... Till I see you again, take care of yourself....

  • @LesBlackwell
    @LesBlackwell 5 лет назад +27

    One if the most heartfelt songs I've ever heard and I instantly related to because I'm currently losing my grandmother.

    • @codyclark6779
      @codyclark6779 5 лет назад +3

      Sorry to hear your going through that man.

    • @isaacolmsted7425
      @isaacolmsted7425 5 лет назад +1

      I went through the same thing a little while back, my hear is with you friend

  • @edwintucker7995
    @edwintucker7995 5 лет назад +4

    Down by the Green River where paradise lay? :) This is a masterpiece. Keep it up, I love your music!

  • @darkmagic089
    @darkmagic089 5 лет назад +9

    Why do you always hit so goddamn hard?? Love it.. but damn

  • @zahmmy1
    @zahmmy1 4 года назад +6

    "...You're too old to be in this condition and too young for the Lord to take in..."

  • @disappearlikethemorning8220
    @disappearlikethemorning8220 5 лет назад +12

    Yes. Hell yes! Thanks for this stuff. Love you guys.

  • @CrissCrossCables
    @CrissCrossCables 5 лет назад +6

    I just appreciate the music man. I will rise, is one of my favorite vinyls. Cant wait for the next one man. Good shit again.

  • @benmorse
    @benmorse 5 лет назад +45

    What a fabulous song, and so great to see Ben looking so healthy. Can't wait for the record.

    • @jom706
      @jom706 4 года назад +1

      Anything I see from Ben makes me proud as hell. It's truly awesome, in the most literal sense of the word, to see what he's done.

  • @FirstLast-gk6lg
    @FirstLast-gk6lg 4 года назад +16

    “The great Gaels of Ireland are the men that God made mad,
    For all their wars are merry, and all their songs are sad.”
    ― G.K. Chesterton, The Ballad of the White Horse
    just passing on this awesome quote i saw from another song.

    • @celenabarclay1488
      @celenabarclay1488 4 года назад

      The Irish blessings or curse? Either way, we are stronger for sure 🤟🏽🤗

  • @jesselewis5699
    @jesselewis5699 5 лет назад +8

    “We lost some years in our foolish pride”... #dead

    • @SmashAtoms
      @SmashAtoms 3 года назад

      This one hits the hardest. My dad and I had a falling out when I was in high school, and we didn’t speak for 4 years. We finally made up and have a stronger understanding of each other. Hope all is well with you and yours.

  • @westcoastogee585
    @westcoastogee585 5 лет назад +9

    im a simple man. i see ben tod/ lost dog...i click like.

  • @christashaw7306
    @christashaw7306 5 лет назад +5

    This reminds me of my Stepdad, Tom Kendrick ❤️. He’s was with me through the roughest years, and passed before he got to see me make my way out. I still hear the things he’d say, and the remember the wisdom in his eyes. He did for me when he didn’t have to, and I wouldn’t be who I am today without him. Thanks for making great music from the guts of what life really is. You were made to write good songs, and I’m glad I get to listen❤️

  • @asiadawn5509
    @asiadawn5509 5 лет назад +7

    Reminds me of my grandpa who was my dad sacrificed a lot to raise me miss him like hell thank you for this honest music 🙏🏾

  • @MrBigpoe
    @MrBigpoe 4 года назад +1

    ill tell ya what now thats a real tune right there bud hits me in many ways. GO CATS

  • @jessehurtmusic
    @jessehurtmusic 5 лет назад +14

    this dude is simply fucking genious. thats what happens out of the darkness of chaos......beautiful simplicity.

  • @tyrbaldur5317
    @tyrbaldur5317 5 лет назад +4

    Today, I made amends with a friend of 10 plus years. I'm 29. We hadn't talked in over 2 years. Then somebody sent this to me. Now I'm sending it to the friend. Couldn't help but to tear up.

  • @Allias_TheToon
    @Allias_TheToon 4 года назад +4

    Every time I hear this song I break down and cry, i was adopted and its coming up on 1 year my grandfather passed, and I see his face when this song plays
    Edit: It's almost 2 years now and not any easier. Don't be estranged from your family I paid for my 4 lost years that we didn't speak

  • @thomasmarchese2808
    @thomasmarchese2808 5 лет назад +1

    If I had to choose a song to show someone from another country what true, good, quality American music is, it would be this. This is what I would want to represent the music of true Americans. Beautiful.

  • @theresasquirestheresa
    @theresasquirestheresa 4 года назад +4

    All I can simply say is:
    "Boy u speak from the very depths of my broken soul"...
    And I humbly thank u 💚

  • @BBoardman81
    @BBoardman81 Год назад +1

    I'm nearly 42. The only male role model I've ever had in my entire life was my step-dad. From the age of 3 to 41 he was it. He was the most beautiful and yet flawed man I've ever met. He blessed me with the chance to learn from the things he did right AND the things he did wrong. And we ain't even kin.
    Rest in Peace.
    Mark Shane Flanigan.

  • @shanebeisler8360
    @shanebeisler8360 5 лет назад +4

    Daddy won't you take me back to Muhlenberg County...

  • @starlameadows9536
    @starlameadows9536 8 месяцев назад +1

    Our grandson Brad text me at 2:43 in the morning asking if we could play this song at his Papi's funeral his Poppy stood here crying listening to it him and his poppies been real tight all of Brad's life is Poppy loves him with all of his heart so thank you for playing that song and Bradley thank you for listening poppy loves you.

  • @drewby613
    @drewby613 3 года назад +1

    Stop the presses. There is a song written in 3/4 time out there in the world. Use to be plenty in country music but I haven't heard one since, since, "Tennessee Waltz"? That was only written about fifty years ago or so. Well, thank you Benjamin Tod for ending the drought.

  • @clarkkc11
    @clarkkc11 5 лет назад +7

    Powerful. Always love your stories and music.

  • @jerrodlarkins9606
    @jerrodlarkins9606 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ran into Benjamin today at the dmv in my hometown. Madisonville ky. He let me get a quick selfie with him. Super cool dude.

  • @marendesmond3249
    @marendesmond3249 5 лет назад +6

    Man i would love nothing more to do music with him. So much passion in his songs. Heartache i know all too well.

  • @zachwhite9957
    @zachwhite9957 Месяц назад +1

    Every time I listen to this song and I’m drunk, I will comment and say it’s the greatest song ever recorded

  • @addicted2tone349
    @addicted2tone349 4 года назад +5

    We're all broken, it's how we handle it that defines us..

  • @landondonnelly5101
    @landondonnelly5101 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’ll start listening to mainstream music again when they start recognizing real music like this.

  • @actionbronson2223
    @actionbronson2223 5 лет назад +7

    ✌🏼 What a great song 💓 greets from 🇩🇪

  • @gilvogt4440
    @gilvogt4440 4 года назад +1

    Dosen't get more American than this....He might not be your blood kin, but the vine of your soul is clung tight to his family's roots........

  • @pmcdecorglasgow7271
    @pmcdecorglasgow7271 4 года назад +3

    Love from Glasgow, Scotland ❤ this guy is amazing

  • @AnonymousPersona
    @AnonymousPersona 5 месяцев назад +1

    This makes me think of my stepfather. I miss him dearly. I hope he's proud of who I've become.

  • @Cestuyla
    @Cestuyla 5 лет назад +4

    Nice song :-)
    Will it be released to Spotify ?
    There are too few songs from Benjamin on Spotify.
    Keep up sending the good vibes to France!

    • @jom706
      @jom706 4 года назад +1

      It's on his next solo album! If you check out their website it has all of Lost Dog's stuff as well as Ben's solo work

  • @stephanieburns3339
    @stephanieburns3339 5 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my father this weekend. He wasn't biological but loved me the same. This song is one of the only ones that explain how it feels.

  • @brianstearskingnothing
    @brianstearskingnothing 5 лет назад +6

    Wow thanks for the music brother it's great as always

  • @SquatchCustoms
    @SquatchCustoms 7 месяцев назад +1

    This song hits so fucking hard cause me and my mother were dealt the world shittiest hand her father shot her up with heroin when she was 6 and she got taken away and her aunt and uncle adopted her and they took care of her for her whole life until she hopped a train outta town shortly after my dad left so they raised me too and they put up with both of us being bats out of hell but last valentines day my grandfather passed and ever since I've been living off of beer cigarettes and your music your music heals my soul and I'm thankful for everything you have done for me

  • @danielthomas8958
    @danielthomas8958 5 лет назад +4

    The amount of emotion in your voice in this song is truly moving. You can tell these aren't words for you but are memories instead.

  • @Regal1936
    @Regal1936 Год назад +1

    I'm a grandfather raising my grandson, and he's not even blood, but I love him and he'll be mine until I die. Thanks for the song, it means the world to me.

  • @chuckcarney2099
    @chuckcarney2099 5 лет назад +3

    Hey Paw Paw, Good Job, and He's already in the Pulpit💯🖤🤠

  • @ryanbelcher38
    @ryanbelcher38 Месяц назад +1

    I wish I had a role model like this... Maybe shit would have been different

  • @looking4afix
    @looking4afix 5 лет назад +10

    Ben's voice always warm my heart, holy shit

  • @whilomforge3402
    @whilomforge3402 2 года назад +1

    I lost my stepfather in may of 2019. We didn’t look anything like one another, but he’d always introduce us as father and son. You have to imagine seeing a 6’5” Anglo, and a 5’7” Italian standing next to one another and claiming to be father and son. It was very funny! Unfortunately, he died unexpectedly at 57. I miss that man more than anyone I’ve ever lost, and I realize now that he taught me more than anyone I’ve ever known. I love him and miss him more than I can say, and this song reminds me of him. Thanks, Ben!

  • @dad_moose
    @dad_moose 2 года назад +3

    I used this song to get closer to my dad. It had a way of bridging the gap that a simple conversation couldnt. And for that Ben, I can't thank you enough

  • @jonasking9587
    @jonasking9587 2 года назад +1

    Named my son after my stepfather. Epic man. Took on a complicated woman with three kids. Eric was his name. Eric is my son's name.

  • @JWhite7
    @JWhite7 3 года назад +3

    My grandpa was and will always be the best man I've ever known, this song hits me on so many levels. Thank you Benjamin Tod for it

  • @travismitchell210
    @travismitchell210 3 года назад +1

    Funny timing I found this today... just came home to say my final goodbyes to my Grandpa on his 90th bday today. I don't know how I'm gonna do it but I'm certainly sure I'm tired of seeing this man suffer like he has been. That older generation of men seem to be the only ones that understand me and how I operate and now they're all gone. It's gonna be hard to be strong today but I'm gonna have to figure it out. Just hope to see you in another life.

  • @dn591
    @dn591 5 лет назад +5

    Benjamin Tod is saving my life

  • @thesportingprofessor3011
    @thesportingprofessor3011 4 года назад +1

    The best music in the alt country/Americana arena is owned by Kentucky! Another raising star...

  • @BossCat42
    @BossCat42 4 года назад +3

    Every once in awhile you hear a voice. A voice that on its own tells the story. A voice that through its depth, it’s honesty can connect you to a song. Connect you in a way that transcends music genres and Top 40 playlists. That’s what we have here. Thank you sir for this gift.

  • @garciahenry63
    @garciahenry63 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hope you see this brov. I was at your show in Charlottesville, VA within the past year. My granddaddy passed away 5 days before it. The song was on repeat, and hearing it in person was another level. It is spot on. This song and many of yours has gotten me through a lot. Thank you so much. I wish I could share this with him. I appreciate you and the crew. ❤️

  • @roadking0073
    @roadking0073 4 года назад +3

    I haven't heard a song that deep since Mr. John Prine passed away. Well done, lad. Well done.

  • @Yobigjake
    @Yobigjake 7 месяцев назад +1

    That line. “I count the days and watch as the haze fills his eyes” I think of the time lost with my father as he approaches senior citizenry

  • @paradox5672
    @paradox5672 5 лет назад +4

    I'm glad I found Benjamin Tod, good honest music. I can't wait until I get to hear his new solo album.