I’ve been there, I can tell this poor kid is just on the verge of crying for hours straight. He’s holding onto something that he knows is ending. That period of time hurts so fucking much because you want so desperately to fix it, but you know there’s nothing you can do. You just feel so overwhelmed. Fortunately once the breakup does happen, it’s up from there. I’m not saying that it won’t hurt, it absolutely will, but once you have that break, you know there is NOTHING you can do to fix it, and that you need to move on. There’s some comfort in that.
There absolutely is comfort in knowing there’s nothing you can do etcetera. I went through this towards the end of highschool with my “highschool sweetheart” after leaving her. It sucked so damn bad knowing circumstances screwed us, but accepting it and growing was the best thing I could have done. Its been over a year and life is so good, I’m relieved to say that i’ve found somebody else and more importantly.. a fair bit of myself.
@@slopcrusher3482 TO ANYONE FEELING THIS. i was literally going through some shit 10 minutes ago watching this. about a girl. I decided i needed to be upfront and told her i was bothered, and we talked about things. i wanted to solve some issues. while i know that ill never be that special to her she was able to tell me that she understands how i feel and we need to have a talk about our previously bad communications. made me feel happy and i havent felt happy in days. TALK TO PEOPLE. TELL PEOPLE YOU CAN TRUST HOW YOU FEEL. and talk to the person you are having an issue with. if you cant tell them youre upset and have her want to talk about it you deserve better.
Coming from such a hilarious guy this took me back to when i was young and it also showed a real human side to theo . this kid is in a bad spot and evrey thing he was told by theo was spot on truth and wisdom!
He's actually a real good emotional guy. See a clip the other day that for the 1st time felt some1 really understood me. Was a short on a motivation channel. It was about wanting to be with someone not any selfish reason. But because you feel like you shouldn't waste what you can offer someone. N that's me. But the western world is getting more selfish succeed. But when we get old n any inheritance is gone on old people homes. N we have no family we will wonder where we fucked up
Feel you man. I am 42 and went through a divorce, house, kids, everything involved. The ground under my feet faded away when I was thinking that I had to do it all alone. I am OK now and you will be OK too. It can take a long long time but eventually life finds a way for you. Remember that you have one big advantage: the power of your youth....work out, look around, you have a lot to live for. Big hug from the Netherlands dude ❤
To everyone there struggling with a breakup, men especially. It’s okay to not be okay. Take a day. Grieve. Cry. Sleep in. Take a week. But then, one day, you have to make the choice to get up. You have to make the choice to get in the shower, and fuck it, turn it cold. You have to make the choice to go to the gym, and form a healthy habit. The girl who you were in love with, who you are in love with, she might not be on the other side of the bed, but she’s going to be in your heart, and what is grief, if not love persevering? The more you hurt, at least you can say that’s a measurement of how much you love. But now, you have to learn to build up the love of yourself again, and like Theo said, that takes effort, and that’ll be hard. But you can do it. It happens every day, and some cases are worse than others, but you can get through it. I know you can. And I know you know you can too. Stay strong, kings
Same thing happened to me, I thought all was lost. Like this feeling of nothing, you look down and there’s nothing. I stopped living and started existing, like nothing mattered to me anymore. I was just going through the motions at that point, because that’s all I could do, I stopped eating, sleeping. But if that didn’t happen to me I wouldn’t have met my girlfriend of three years. Everything happens for a reason, it really does. I found that reason with her, so keep that head up! It will get better brother I promise.
Right now I’m going thru it, like a breakup, and this video really helped me out a lot, I saw it on an edit on reels and I had to find it, and I’m glad I did, I’m going thru a similar time man, 4 years all of highschool, not even down the drain but just suddenly stopped, this video helped me rethink things, thanks whoever reposted this 🙏
Wow. There is a lot of wisdom in this man and I hope the young man is able to receive these words. Pray for your enemies, or potential enemies. She's not that, but could quickly become such a person if you aren't careful. Resentment can creep in unannounced. Don't become bitter. What's good for her is good for you, and only she can choose what's good for her right now. Be strong, but as a guy, I encourage you to also let your weakness be known. Confess it when you feel it and ask for strength. Let it play out. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
In the exact same shoes. Lost my relationship. All you can do is think about the future and try and work hard at what you want for yourself. Lookin back just hurts and often when you look back to much you won’t find anything new. And then it becomes torture. Feel the good and be greatful for everything. Take the good with you and don’t be spiteful. I’m trying my best to live by that. Everything goes away in the end but that’s what makes it special in the first place yo.
you cry, you allow yourself to feel. yell at the sky punch a pillow, give yourself time and be extremely gentle and patient with yourself. and one day you will eat your breakfast brush your teeth and you'll realize you have not though of her in a while. travel dig deep into yourself and show others love and compassion. then when you are ready slowly learn to love again, your heart most likely wont ever be the same again, mine never was. your heart cant heal but it will mend with time and self love. i was with a girl for 7 years just for her to cheat on me a day before our wedding. i know your pain so well and please dont self destruct to see is she still cares, i did that and she didnt care not even enough to insult me. i hope your doing well. remember day by day. and allow yourself to feel
My gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we ll meet this weekend to have a talk. She helped me through a lot of depression and also. Before she broke up I had NO idea who i was, what i want to become etc. I always just felt like i need her in my life. But when she DID break up, i just realized that I am at a point in my life, where i need to become mature and where i need to understand what I want from my life and how i want to life it. I understood those things, and since those 3 weeks i ve been working out every day, made lists on what i want to achieve and already worked for those goals. I have a new job (atleast most likely it DO look like it :D) and overall i m feeling so much better. All of this are probably things she s been missing in our relationship. Me not knowing where I want to be, what I want to achieve and also who I will eventually be. It feels wrong to "try to fight for her" when we meet. I dont want to force her to stay with me or anything. Still I wonder if she will notice how I changed and if it is going to have any impact on her. Thanks anyone for reading :)
Talk was like in a movie. Was really sad and romantic. Sadly it was the END. But it was better than not talking. I love her, from my heart. But rn i ll work on myself and I mean it. I ll go from chubby to perfect body, I ll earn a lot of money and one day she ll think "What have I lost?" - and ye. Who knows, maybe one day we ll meet again.@@_jokuhyypio_4703
Theo is special man. This video is something I always come back to when those lonely and heartache feelings creep up on me. The man knows how to ease your mind and make the problems in your life not feel so big. Much love, gang gang
That is a 3rd of this man’s life he’s just coming to terms with losing. He’s younger than I and he’s more thoughtful than I. At 23 years old, almost 24, I still find myself getting blindsided and left in the dust with heartbreak. I just lost the investment of 2.5 years and watched our plans for the future die. I cannot imagine the pain this man lived with for how long he lived with it. I hope he’s doing good.
Hey man probably won’t read the comment but I am 23 arguably going through the same amount of heartbreak as you, with me being the one to break it and kinda force her away from me and ultimately regretting it. It’s a tough loss but with all my trails and me explaining how I can take care of her and make her a worry free life it just doesn’t account to what she wants and needs with herself and that’s something I have to come to the conclusion with. Theo did perfect in showing the true nature of taking what broke you and loving it even though it’s hard to
Didn't think I'd relate to the advice he gave, but after really sitting with it for a minute, I realized that this could apply to a really harsh relationship that ended for me pretty abruptly. Thanks for uploading this. I'll leave a timestamp here so I can look back at this every now and again (2:20)
I am also dealing with losing someone i spent a third of my life with. It's been a year and half and all I do is work and workout. Just kinda existing, no thrill in life. I feel like I'll be alone forever because what's the point if it can be ripped away from you. Very isolating in deed.
I had the same situation as this kid, dated a girl from 7th grade-freshman year of college. in a way this kids lucky, I’m glad to be hearing this at 24, he heard it at 18.
Damn bro theo really got me through some shit n im still going through shit n watching him rn.. idk sum about his podcast just calms me down when I’m feeling down:(.. makes me realize shit more..
I swear when Theo goes deep he goes DEEP. I first heard this when I was basically in the same situation and it really helped me through it. Bless you for the advice Theo and hope that kid is happy now
I have been with my girl for about a year, we havent split up but i get those feelings like she is cheating or having more fun, but i know she wont but those thought kick me in the gut, your mind is the enemy, love the ones you love with all your heart.
I was there too brother I was with my girl for 2.5 years and me being so overwhelmed with the feelings I had I didn’t really get to enjoy the moments we had all my advice is to slow down and enjoy everything literally everything
Such solid advice. People are going to want to grow, and if they feel that they can’t grow in the ways they want to WITH you they’ll cut the cord. I think there’s always a chance, I think you can always work things out if you’re truly willing to try and you genuinely love the person so I hope the caller sorted things out.
Damn brother hope this guy is good I’m dealing what he’s dealing with 5 years later from this vid was wit this girl since i was 15 we broke up 8 months ago stop fully checking up/seeing each other, and now that is official over its rough.
One thing Theo doesn't say here is this: If she has helped you out and is ready to move on, thank her and send her on her way before she starts to resent you. Like Theo said, if you do you may have another chance with her later in life. If you don't, things can get really dark between you.
"You gonna have other chances with her. its gonna be hard you have to stay busy, your mind is gonna be your worst enemy if you really start to miss her"
Damn im going through this rn 8 year deep and it feels like everyone goes through this but fk, she was my bestfriend... doing everything i feel like i need to move on but doesnt fill that void.
Stay busy mate. The gym is good. If you have them, spend time with friends (not everyone does). Try avoid doing all the drinking and bs. Feed yourself good food and work out and get plenty of sleep. It won’t cure everything but the machine runs a lot better when the engines been primed. Might take a few months or a few years but you need to forgive yourself and grow. All in time. See who comes out the other side.
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Damn even just the tone in that kids voice it's almost shaking you can tell he's going through a rough patch. Hope everything is good for him now
I’ve been there, I can tell this poor kid is just on the verge of crying for hours straight. He’s holding onto something that he knows is ending. That period of time hurts so fucking much because you want so desperately to fix it, but you know there’s nothing you can do. You just feel so overwhelmed.
Fortunately once the breakup does happen, it’s up from there. I’m not saying that it won’t hurt, it absolutely will, but once you have that break, you know there is NOTHING you can do to fix it, and that you need to move on. There’s some comfort in that.
@@slopcrusher3482Yeah man all too true. That leading up to the breakup is real painful.
There absolutely is comfort in knowing there’s nothing you can do etcetera. I went through this towards the end of highschool with my “highschool sweetheart” after leaving her. It sucked so damn bad knowing circumstances screwed us, but accepting it and growing was the best thing I could have done. Its been over a year and life is so good, I’m relieved to say that i’ve found somebody else and more importantly.. a fair bit of myself.
It sucks, but sometimes it's not meant to be. It can be the perfect match but at the wrong time
@@slopcrusher3482 TO ANYONE FEELING THIS. i was literally going through some shit 10 minutes ago watching this. about a girl. I decided i needed to be upfront and told her i was bothered, and we talked about things. i wanted to solve some issues. while i know that ill never be that special to her she was able to tell me that she understands how i feel and we need to have a talk about our previously bad communications. made me feel happy and i havent felt happy in days. TALK TO PEOPLE. TELL PEOPLE YOU CAN TRUST HOW YOU FEEL. and talk to the person you are having an issue with. if you cant tell them youre upset and have her want to talk about it you deserve better.
Been 4 years since this clip was uploaded, I hope this dude got through it and came out a better dude
What episode is this if you don’t mind sharing pal?
@@martingranados7974 I wish I knew
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Believe it’s 147 @ethanporter3709
Ep 147
The funny moments made me watch Theo. Moments like these made me a fan.
I came across “Theo Von Funny Moments”, but stayed because of videos like these.
Coming from such a hilarious guy this took me back to when i was young and it also showed a real human side to theo . this kid is in a bad spot and evrey thing he was told by theo was spot on truth and wisdom!
Right on brother🫶😔
He's actually a real good emotional guy. See a clip the other day that for the 1st time felt some1 really understood me. Was a short on a motivation channel. It was about wanting to be with someone not any selfish reason. But because you feel like you shouldn't waste what you can offer someone. N that's me. But the western world is getting more selfish succeed. But when we get old n any inheritance is gone on old people homes. N we have no family we will wonder where we fucked up
"You don't wanna be a life long listener 😂"
Maybe the best advice in a 9 min long video of great advice.
That one got me aswell haha
Theo is like a therapist who has never had a profession of psychology but he absolutely knows what he’s doing.
Love him man ❤️🙏🏽
"To love someone that is gone but theyre really not gone" hardest shit ive had to go through.
Feel you man. I am 42 and went through a divorce, house, kids, everything involved. The ground under my feet faded away when I was thinking that I had to do it all alone. I am OK now and you will be OK too. It can take a long long time but eventually life finds a way for you. Remember that you have one big advantage: the power of your youth....work out, look around, you have a lot to live for. Big hug from the Netherlands dude ❤
proud of you , man. glad youre doing well.
Mooi om te zien hoe het nu met je gaat, dankjewel voor het delen van je verhaal ❤
Did you find someone though? Or are you staying by yourself for now?
'you don't want to be a life long listener brother' ahaha
For a guy that is absolutely hysterical and makes jokes about everything Theo has pretty decent advice.
To everyone there struggling with a breakup, men especially. It’s okay to not be okay. Take a day. Grieve. Cry. Sleep in. Take a week. But then, one day, you have to make the choice to get up. You have to make the choice to get in the shower, and fuck it, turn it cold. You have to make the choice to go to the gym, and form a healthy habit. The girl who you were in love with, who you are in love with, she might not be on the other side of the bed, but she’s going to be in your heart, and what is grief, if not love persevering? The more you hurt, at least you can say that’s a measurement of how much you love. But now, you have to learn to build up the love of yourself again, and like Theo said, that takes effort, and that’ll be hard. But you can do it. It happens every day, and some cases are worse than others, but you can get through it. I know you can. And I know you know you can too. Stay strong, kings
Same thing happened to me, I thought all was lost. Like this feeling of nothing, you look down and there’s nothing. I stopped living and started existing, like nothing mattered to me anymore. I was just going through the motions at that point, because that’s all I could do, I stopped eating, sleeping. But if that didn’t happen to me I wouldn’t have met my girlfriend of three years. Everything happens for a reason, it really does. I found that reason with her, so keep that head up! It will get better brother I promise.
Same damn thing happened to me, it was rough but we made it out! Life haha.
Goin through a similar thing right now brother, and these comments help a lot. I appreciate you letting us sad sacks know there’s a brighter side
Right now I’m going thru it, like a breakup, and this video really helped me out a lot, I saw it on an edit on reels and I had to find it, and I’m glad I did, I’m going thru a similar time man, 4 years all of highschool, not even down the drain but just suddenly stopped, this video helped me rethink things, thanks whoever reposted this 🙏
“If you really love them, then let them go. If it’s true love, then they’ll come back”
Wow. There is a lot of wisdom in this man and I hope the young man is able to receive these words. Pray for your enemies, or potential enemies. She's not that, but could quickly become such a person if you aren't careful. Resentment can creep in unannounced. Don't become bitter. What's good for her is good for you, and only she can choose what's good for her right now. Be strong, but as a guy, I encourage you to also let your weakness be known. Confess it when you feel it and ask for strength. Let it play out. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Theo is amazingly smart. If you can get past his theatrics his wisdom is crazy
I'm a struggling man in his 30's too. I'm always amazed by how Theo can say the thing you might not want to hear but it's what you need to hear.
Really felt the “she could be real chatty” part 😂❤
onward
Theo Von and Duncan Trussell have given me so much sage advice. To think this is for free is insane. Thank yall so much fr ❤️
In the exact same shoes. Lost my relationship. All you can do is think about the future and try and work hard at what you want for yourself. Lookin back just hurts and often when you look back to much you won’t find anything new. And then it becomes torture. Feel the good and be greatful for everything. Take the good with you and don’t be spiteful. I’m trying my best to live by that. Everything goes away in the end but that’s what makes it special in the first place yo.
Hope this worked out well for the young man. Hope he started working on himself and still is. God bless.
you cry, you allow yourself to feel. yell at the sky punch a pillow, give yourself time and be extremely gentle and patient with yourself. and one day you will eat your breakfast brush your teeth and you'll realize you have not though of her in a while. travel dig deep into yourself and show others love and compassion. then when you are ready slowly learn to love again, your heart most likely wont ever be the same again, mine never was. your heart cant heal but it will mend with time and self love. i was with a girl for 7 years just for her to cheat on me a day before our wedding. i know your pain so well and please dont self destruct to see is she still cares, i did that and she didnt care not even enough to insult me. i hope your doing well. remember day by day. and allow yourself to feel
this popped up on my home page 5 years later and I needed this. Thanks man
I’m 30 and I’m taking lessons from this video. Thanks Theo
feels like he’s talking straight to me. Thank you Theo
My gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we ll meet this weekend to have a talk.
She helped me through a lot of depression and also. Before she broke up I had NO idea who i was, what i want to become etc.
I always just felt like i need her in my life. But when she DID break up, i just realized that I am at a point in my life, where i need to become mature and where i need to understand what I want from my life and how i want to life it. I understood those things, and since those 3 weeks i ve been working out every day, made lists on what i want to achieve and already worked for those goals. I have a new job (atleast most likely it DO look like it :D) and overall i m feeling so much better.
All of this are probably things she s been missing in our relationship. Me not knowing where I want to be, what I want to achieve and also who I will eventually be.
It feels wrong to "try to fight for her" when we meet. I dont want to force her to stay with me or anything. Still I wonder if she will notice how I changed and if it is going to have any impact on her.
Thanks anyone for reading :)
hey bro, my gf left me yesterday. I just want to know how’d the talk go? Ofc if you want to share that
Talk was like in a movie. Was really sad and romantic. Sadly it was the END. But it was better than not talking.
I love her, from my heart. But rn i ll work on myself and I mean it. I ll go from chubby to perfect body, I ll earn a lot of money and one day she ll think "What have I lost?" - and ye. Who knows, maybe one day we ll meet again.@@_jokuhyypio_4703
You could hear little bro pain/hurt in his voice. Hope he alright today.
I’m going through a similar situation as the kid. This coming from someone like Theo made me feel so much better and postive
Man I know that voice all too well
Theo is special man. This video is something I always come back to when those lonely and heartache feelings creep up on me. The man knows how to ease your mind and make the problems in your life not feel so big. Much love, gang gang
Felt just like bro at 1 point I don’t know how I got past it honestly, work and alcohol tbh
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Respect Theo! Thank you so much!
That is a 3rd of this man’s life he’s just coming to terms with losing. He’s younger than I and he’s more thoughtful than I. At 23 years old, almost 24, I still find myself getting blindsided and left in the dust with heartbreak. I just lost the investment of 2.5 years and watched our plans for the future die. I cannot imagine the pain this man lived with for how long he lived with it. I hope he’s doing good.
Hey man probably won’t read the comment but I am 23 arguably going through the same amount of heartbreak as you, with me being the one to break it and kinda force her away from me and ultimately regretting it. It’s a tough loss but with all my trails and me explaining how I can take care of her and make her a worry free life it just doesn’t account to what she wants and needs with herself and that’s something I have to come to the conclusion with. Theo did perfect in showing the true nature of taking what broke you and loving it even though it’s hard to
@@scarface9993 replying so he reads this comment!
This is something every young man goes through, it gets better over time👍🏽
Didn't think I'd relate to the advice he gave, but after really sitting with it for a minute, I realized that this could apply to a really harsh relationship that ended for me pretty abruptly. Thanks for uploading this. I'll leave a timestamp here so I can look back at this every now and again (2:20)
I am also dealing with losing someone i spent a third of my life with. It's been a year and half and all I do is work and workout. Just kinda existing, no thrill in life. I feel like I'll be alone forever because what's the point if it can be ripped away from you. Very isolating in deed.
I’m sorry bro. You’ll get through it man.
@@captainmiller2416 thanks homie, always good to get that reminder
Much love for Theo and the effort behind the post!♥️
I had the same situation as this kid, dated a girl from 7th grade-freshman year of college. in a way this kids lucky, I’m glad to be hearing this at 24, he heard it at 18.
Hope that kid is doing OK, everything happens for reason brother
Poor lad. Support for you bro
Damn bro theo really got me through some shit n im still going through shit n watching him rn.. idk sum about his podcast just calms me down when I’m feeling down:(.. makes me realize shit more..
same bro
I swear when Theo goes deep he goes DEEP. I first heard this when I was basically in the same situation and it really helped me through it. Bless you for the advice Theo and hope that kid is happy now
Poor guy.. first of many heartbreaks unfortunately. Hopefully, he will become stronger from this.
Theo is such a solid good dude ❤
Man he gives advice like a father
I have been with my girl for about a year, we havent split up but i get those feelings like she is cheating or having more fun, but i know she wont but those thought kick me in the gut, your mind is the enemy, love the ones you love with all your heart.
I was there too brother I was with my girl for 2.5 years and me being so overwhelmed with the feelings I had I didn’t really get to enjoy the moments we had all my advice is to slow down and enjoy everything literally everything
Such solid advice. People are going to want to grow, and if they feel that they can’t grow in the ways they want to WITH you they’ll cut the cord. I think there’s always a chance, I think you can always work things out if you’re truly willing to try and you genuinely love the person so I hope the caller sorted things out.
What a well spoken young man. Hope he’s doing well.
Amazing advice
Wow these things make me cry
I love Theo
This was some really good advice man
Damn. This was quite uplifting. Good stuff. ❤
This some good advice 👏
Damn brother hope this guy is good I’m dealing what he’s dealing with 5 years later from this vid was wit this girl since i was 15 we broke up 8 months ago stop fully checking up/seeing each other, and now that is official over its rough.
Theo “I’m listening, on word” 😂
Thanks Theo
I hope this guy is okay
currently going through almost an identical situation. this really helped
One thing Theo doesn't say here is this: If she has helped you out and is ready to move on, thank her and send her on her way before she starts to resent you. Like Theo said, if you do you may have another chance with her later in life. If you don't, things can get really dark between you.
I apreciate the hell out of this dude, nodody this godamn honest its fuvking legendary👏👏👏
He says some goofy a** stuff but he is actually giving some pretty good advice here
I been where the dude been it takes time but you can love again
dam fr this is something I been needing to hear
what great advice, I hope it helped him
@3:26 *that was my Amistad*
Yo, Theo is secretly a genius.
Another wonderful side to Theo Von♥️ Great advice! Great heart!But still the comedian….”she could be really chatty” 😂😂
I wish I saw this when it came out
I am turning 30 and I needed to hear this lol.
I love you Theo
Most comedians are deep thinkers and Theo is no exception. I think they become comedians to deal with the shit of life.
Life long listener🤣🤣🤣
been 2 months and vday is in 2 days. I miss her man
Same brother. Soldiering on
Shout out Theo mayne
Hope you okey Brother ❤🙏🏽
"You gonna have other chances with her. its gonna be hard you have to stay busy, your mind is gonna be your worst enemy if you really start to miss her"
4:54 ❤️
Damn im going through this rn 8 year deep and it feels like everyone goes through this but fk, she was my bestfriend... doing everything i feel like i need to move on but doesnt fill that void.
Stay busy mate. The gym is good. If you have them, spend time with friends (not everyone does).
Try avoid doing all the drinking and bs. Feed yourself good food and work out and get plenty of sleep.
It won’t cure everything but the machine runs a lot better when the engines been primed.
Might take a few months or a few years but you need to forgive yourself and grow.
All in time. See who comes out the other side.
Stay busy 🙌
well bro i’m 18, dated 2 years with someone and now im here like him
core core
very helpful, losing my wife after knowing her over a decade and its rough. I know it'll get better but right now I want to disappear.
We're all selfish animals.
Two of my exgirlfriends went to jail, and another one got pregnant from some other dude and she tried to trick me into thinking I was the father.
Fuck those bitches, especially the last one. Hope you’re doing well brotha!!! 😎🙏🏻🤝🏽
3:25-3:46
Some skittles lmao 🤣
dang man
Don't take her back bro walk on
CHATTY CATHY😭
im 10 years older and still havent figured it out smh
It’s over bro
@@jasonosaka i love God im chillin
Episode?
Fuuuuuuu them cinnamon certs lol
i wonder what happened to this man
Life
Jesus Christ is the truth reach out, nothing but respect.
😂😂😂🎰🎰🎰😅😅😅
How do you start seriously dating someone at 12💀💀💀
idk man but they did it
:)
Dang bro.. she’s going to college.. that’s not yo girl
it’s his girl. just because someone’s going to college doesn’t mean there a cheater. she’s needs to have a career too lmao