Anybody who is reading this and going through a heartbreak. TIME HEALS. Feel and embrace your pain and learn to fight, fight for yourself to be better. Pain is temporary, suffering is optional. Avoid being in jail with your thoughts.
One persons temporary is another persons eternity. When your heart is shattered you want to heal. You don't want to loop thoughts everyday. You want peace.
I love that saying, so very true. She's been gone for two n half years now and it hurts so bad to see her destroy herself on heroin and meth slowly before my eyes, we had 2 children, I have custody and the struggle is real financially, but you have to stay the course
It pains me to know that there are so many experiencing heart break, but I feel comforted by the fact that we are all here and going through it together.
The pain is at times unbearable I was so blindsided by him leaving me and on Christmas Eve at that after almost 5 years it would’ve been the end of this month..my whole world was gone in a blink of an eye… I try to be strong but it’s those random memories that pop up throughout the day and at night it just gets worse because he’s not laying by my side nor am I waking up to him any longer I’m so so heartbroken please tell me it gets better???😭
I pray that everyone listening this will find peace, get over their ex and fall in love with themselves. There are better things waiting for you my loves❤.
Margarita... My wife and I totally understand! It's why we create the content that we do. We want to take the lessons we have learned, through the pain that we have felt to let others know, there's not only light at the end of the tunnel, but that light is the bright and beautiful. You can experience a relationship that is deserving of you and will honor you and bring you more joy than you could have realized. It's exactly what happened for me. We send you all of our light and love and wish you all the best! 🙏🏼❤️
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost. Do you need your ex back if yes I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay
As an empath I already predicted that my relationship include my marriage will be a dead end since 9 months ago. And because of the fact that I saw red flags from my ex I was ignoring and hiding behind my sorrow cuz I didn't wanted to lose her. It took 4 months to recover from that cheating and toxicity until I understood that is the time to live the past behind cuz life's too short for being in this kind of emotional pain.
to anyone going through a heartbreak right now, your going to be okay, some days will feel harder then other, but you got this, we all do, keep going my beautiful strong people
@@buotanngasiaw trust me you will, time will heal. if she left you so easily then she clearly didn’t truly and utterly love you, and one day you will find that, you will be okay, you got this.
@PrincessAstrea I’d like to tell you something that my wife allowed me to realize. We are never in need of anything. We’re deserving… You’re deserving. And hearing those words touched a chord in you. That tells me you’re someone who deserves to be sustained in knowing how strong and capable and worthy of all good things you are. Another thing my wife tells me when I feel like something is too much to conquer: “You’ve got this.” So… you’ve got this. You have all the power and love within you to come out better than ever. I’ve been there and I understand. It’s the whole reason I shared this video in the first place. Sending you much love and light 🙏🏼💙
Man... I'm over here trying to get over a 2 year relationship, I look at the comments and some of y'all are trying to get over 5, 8, 10 year relationships? I'm so sorry :/ I truly love y'all and I'm praying for all of you. It makes my relationship look like child's play.
2years here as well and it is very tough, tougher than my previous 8 years with baby mom or any relationship for that matter. I've been advised to let her go and my life will be filled with awesomeness..... it's so flipping hard to let her go.....damn
@@michaelan6107 did this just happen? Have no shame. Im still thinking of a guy who ultimately ghosted me after just a couple months and we really didn't have a relationship! Not the label anyway. When you feel connected with someone, it is what it is. No one can tell you how fast you need to move on. If you skip any steps in the process, you won't grow. You need to go through the stages so you become a better partner but more importantly, choose the right person for you in the end.
After 22 years of marriage (24 years total relationship), my husband revealed an affair of past 2 years and moved out. I nearly died of a broken heart. THIS posting is beginning to help me.
we were in a relationship for 10 months. I just got a big heart. I spent 1.2k. I'm going to go see her on Thursday. if she didn't change I'm just going to go. It's going to hurt but i can't keep trying and trying for someone that doesn't want to try for me.
It will be my 3rd night listening this. I must say it's working. Everyday I miss him less and now I don't even want him back. I'm moving on and it feels great 😊
I agree. But sometimes it feels like losing the person meant for you... and it hurts like hell. I've lost mine 10 days ago... I know I'm grateful that he came into my life but really wish he hadn't left it because he's an amazing person regardless of the breakup... it was just the wrong timing for us...
I don’t care how long it takes, i will read every comment here. I never knew so many people could really be connected this way. Praying for us all. Healing is needed…please take the pain away. 🙏
Hi Tony. I truly agree. I so needed this community. It has only been less than two months and I try to reject the fact I do deep inside wish it were different … but I know God has told me a while ago this man is not right but I ignored everything. Thank you for this community. I surely need the inspiring words. ❤🙏
My husband left me two weeks ago and this is my first night trying this. I'm healing from my abandonment issues and now this. These comments are so comforting and inspirational. Thank you
Natalia, I hope you are doing well. My wife left me and I know how much it hurts. Right now, I’m figuring out how to love after divorce and it’s not easy.
He said, “you treat yourself with kindness and respect, you will discover how so many other people also treat you with kindness and respect…” and then, “you attract someone who treats themself with such love, that they are attracted to you and treat you with such love as well” This really hit me as the relationship that ended for me was toxic. It was difficult but I realized that I shouldn’t accept less than the bare minimum. I shouldn’t accept poor treatment. True self love is knowing I deserve better and saying no to anything that isn’t that. My ex didn’t love himself at all. Of course he’d never be able to love me how I needed. If anyone else relates, know it gets better. Pour into yourself and see how others pour into you.
@Tap.My.Photo.For_Contact the universe answered my prayer and sent me a wonderful partner who loves me like I’ve never been loved before. Now i feel completely indifferent toward my ex. These videos work
❤ I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and my husband cheated on me last week and has since abandoned me and he been so horrible, so cruel and nasty, you would think I was cheated on him. Reading your words reminded me that the bare minimum is what I’m getting, well actually I’m getting nothing. I am so wounded. I hope you are well and hopefully you reply so I know it’s going to be OK 8 months down the line.
Listened last night. My relationship of ten years ended just last week and I was a wreck. I knew I couldn't continue to let my children watch me fall apart. I feel much better today and I'm optimistic about my future, alone.
Reading all of these comments breaks my heart even more tbh. :( why do people hurt people so much? Why do people leave the beautiful people that love them so much? I would have done anything in the world for my ex. I was beyond infatuated and in love. We lived together for two years and the bond we had I thought was absolutely incredible. He was my best friend. I had a mental breakdown that lasted for months during Covid and he decided to leave me during the worst time of my life. Yet I still miss him so much because he had never done me wrong until the end. I don’t know if I’ll ever get over it. I’ve never been so sad and disappointed. I thought he was going to be my husband.
All the best to you on your journey through healing. Hurt people hurt other people, so don't take it personally. Love yourself like your life depends on it, and you will be sustained in it. ❤️🙏
@Alexa So sorry to hear how you were treated. Part of the pain is knowing that the future you saw for yourself has gone. You will get through this, your life will be different, not necessarily bad, but different. Take care and don't be afraid to lean on family and friends for support. xx
@The American Debt Slave Found him on fb. If it's any consolation, his drawings are sh*te ! Seriously though, this must be tough for you. Cannot imagine what you are going through xx
Hope its getting better for you, I'm going through it too. If they cannot see the worth in themselves unfortunately they won't see the worth in the relationship smh you deserve and will have much better
The love of my life passed away and I don’t want to move on. It’s like accepting that he’s gone. But he comes in my dreams and whispers, “Just live!” So this is me trying.
I'm very sorry for your loss, Naomi. I had a similar experience last year with what I refer to as "the energy" of my late father. I have a couple of other programs that you might also find beneficial. Here's one for connecting with our guardian angels: ruclips.net/video/wfsHnu6PGkc/видео.html My wife and I send you much love and light 🙏🏼❤️
I don’t usually comment on anything but I just wanted to vent a bit since this feels like a safe space. I think love is a beautiful thing but I never knew it could come with just as much or more pain. I feel like I’m going insane actaully, I can’t sleep I feel sick I don’t have an appetite they’re constantly on my mind and I wish they weren’t. It’s crazy how one person can cause you to totally abandon all self respect for the sake of saving something that’s not worth saving. I hope one day I can think of him or hear his name and not feel my heart drop to my stomach. For all the people going through the same thing, I hope you heal quickly bc this feeling is one of the worst things I’ve ever experienced:’)
So sad to read this. Can I ask how you’re feeling now? I’m going trough something similar right now and I wondered what it’s like for you now 2 months later
I feel your pain. It’s been 18 months and the feelings you describe seem mild compared to how I feel. I just thought about this just now as I’m typing - I’m 45 and feel like that was my last chance at finding love. I found out last week that she has a boyfriend and it sent me spiraling downward and this is the worst pain I have ever felt. I can’t even look at another woman without feeling like I’m cheating on her. To make matters worse, my therapist of 4 years retired 3 months ago. I can’t bear the thought of trying to explain in everything that led up to this to someone new. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder years ago. She pretty much raised my 3 daughters for the 5 years. She made their lives so much better and has remained in their lives by going to some of their events and taking them places. Now that she has a new partner I know that those times are now going to stop. This heartbreak has destroyed me. I lost my high 6 figure finance job. I lost my house. I have zero motivation to go forward with life. If you read this far, please say a little prayer for me even if it’s 10 years from now. 💔🙏🏼💔
I agree, a break up is so painful to the heart and soul I had pains in my stomach due to hunger I had lost 16 pounds. I’ve worked on self-help and learning more about myself and what a healthy relationships is.
@daphneverbuntx I'm going through this now. Wondering where you are at now. I hope you have healed. I dont think I'll ever heal from him this time around.
My wife and I separated a month ago, we were married for a decade. She's with someone else. I've listened to this for a couple nights and I'm feeling so much better. Words cannot express my gratitude for this platform and everyone in the comments. I've sat here and read so many countless stories of heartache and my thoughts go with you all. I've discovered empathy and compassion here, a purpose greater than myself and my concerns. I can't thank you all enough for this.
Sorry to hear that. Marriage should be lifelong and sacred yet half are ending in divorce. Woman seem to always have another guy lined up. They call it monkey branching and it comes off extremely cold. The heart is a muscle and a man’s heart can feel very strongly. Regardless of what society tries to convince us.
It's been almost five weeks since we broke up. I can't sleep, I can't study. I don't want to feel heart broken in this life ever again. It's very painful. I pray that everyone who comes here to heal quickly, move on and become the vest version of themselves.
Yeah, my break up was bit over a month ago for me as well. But this is definitely a current time of feeling so lost with lots of questions. Sleep is the worst I'm with you there! I try to keep busy and when I'm not I practice meditation. Yoga has really helped too. Our emotional stress seems to cross over to physical tension, loosening all that up can really change the day. I'm so sorry you are going through this, especially with it being so new, I do relate. One day at a time, as we all get on the other side of this. :)
I am 4 weeks into my healing from someone I truly loved, but was abusive. I hope we can all heal and can learn from it. It’s sad that love is what we all want really - but it’s so complex. But disrespect and using people can be so easy for people to do. My heart aches. 😢
Surrender yourself completely, don't resist, Don't fight back .let everything flow through you. Google 'headspace' and practice Mindfulness. I know how it feels . A decade long relationship eneded 2 months back . Trust Me breakup is a blessing . It will open new doors for you . Love yourself , Have gratitude !
You are so incredible & so worthy my darling. You will be alright. I can relate, mine is as fresh as 28days. Healing wishes✨ & loving hugs from Nigeria🇳🇬❤️🤗
me i dont know when this end, but i want to end this crying thing and blaming thing in me.I just wanna move on, because thats the right thing to do. I just dont know how😔 and when all stop.even i know the other person there are okay and having fun like everything is nothing😔
I cannot even tell you how amazing this is, if for no other reason than this man actually spoke for eight hours. He’s not saying the same thing over and over again on a loop, he’s legit telling you how amazing you are and how everything is going to be okay in like 1100 different ways, all night long. My ex sure as hell never did that, lol
I’ve listened to this for the last 4 nights and I swear it’s helping. I will continue to listen for as long as it takes until I am deprogrammed from missing a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship and a future I was never going to have.
I used to be in so much pain, I used to go to bed crying and waking up crying, I got tiny, I felt empty, hopeless and I used to pray to not wake up for my sleep. For so long, I struggle with the pain, sadness and loneliness . The day I decided to start reading my Bible and prayer every day, my life change, I’m so much at peace, I’m happy by myself, I gained good weight and I more beautiful than ever. When you remember God , he will definitely remember you out of your pain. Try it people.
Going through a break up and currently dont feel like living anymore. It was for the best. But I cannot take it. I am 37 and never felt pain like this before.
Tanacious1111... I understand and I have been in that incredibly painful and dark place at almost the same age. I was actually older. My wife, too went through a painful break up after she was 40. And we tell ourselves a lot of lies when go through this experience. We tell ourselves someone was the one, how can we go on without them, etc... Life will never be the same! All of that. And I can tell you, our mind makes up a lot of stuff and we run away with it. The good news is, you can take control of that. Relationships are learned and we can easily unlearn them. That's exactly all the information my wife and I put into this program to assist people with. So they can move on faster and be better than ever. And you know the really good news is!? You'll discover how there's someone even more amazing then you could have every realized! That's exactly what my wife and discovered: life was more amazing thann we would have ever imagined with our old partners! You can do this! And my wife and I send you all our love and light and positive energy! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
I'm surprised that this actually works and definitely helped to ease my heartache. I woke up not thinking of him or wanting him anymore. Thank you sir❤️
I use to pray with all my being for my husband to recognize his mistakes and not leave our family. Now 5 years later .... I’m the happiest I’ve ever been! My life is peaceful and abundant! You may not see it right now but it’s happened for a reason that you may not understand! Just believe and allow the process to happen!
This gave me me hope. I pray every day for him. I pray to be able to pick up the pieces he left & heal from this pain. I cannot make him see his mistakes. I tried so hard & ultimately broke my own heart. But realize it isn't my responsibility to make him see. He needs to see it on his own... I set him free with all my love. I want his happiness. So doing my very best to let go & no longer hold on to an idealistic outcome. Working on myself. My kids need me whole again.
I loved him from my core. I would have done anything for him. He left me then filed for divorce- was cheating and now with that woman. Only married for 3 years. I am devastated. Please pray for me. I wish you all well and healing.
I'm so sorry but I want you to know that you are worthy, you are enough & you are incredible. Sending u healing wishes✨ and big warm loving hugs all the way from Nigeria🇳🇬❤️❤️
This has helped me move on from my wife of 10 years who fell out of love and cheated on me. I have great value to offer the right woman. I was loyal, honest. I accept that we were two souls who crossed paths and had many amazing experiences together including two beautiful daughters. However, we were not meant to be forever, unfortunately, but that does not mean it is the end of the road for me, and the beauty of love, romance, companionship and all of the other amazing things partner can be. I am going to be okay. I am going to be successful in my future relationship. I have learned through this separation and I will be a better version of myself. My next partner will get the absolute best of what I've learned. Thank you to the creator of this incredibly helpful RUclips video. You have helped me to let her go and move on with my amazing life and I am excited about the incredible things to come ❤️❤️
For the first time in a long time, I don’t feel alone.. thank you to everyone in the comments for sharing your piece of your story. you’ll be okay, whole and healed soon ❤️
Yeah it takes a while to accept everything warm and nice is over.. lol it hurt so bad you just sleep with your tears .. but you're going to move one .. just focus on you ✨
God please help me heal... I need to heal. It's been so hard for me to come to terms with this overwhelming feeling. I didn't deserve this. Please give me the will to want to live
We will make it. Hang in there. I know this pain. It is familiar. It But like the feeling of the warm sunshine after a storm, we will be renewed and our heart will be ready. But smarter. ;)
In 2004, I felt like the last person on earth. I had broken up with my boyfriend because of issues we couldn't discuss,very bad co.munocation skills. I basically disociated from my life ,let it fall apart, and my boyfriend fell apart with it. I was clinically depressed. He probably was too, he never had another long term relationship after me.Neithet did I. 17 years later I thought we had both moved on. We finally talked, and he wanted to try the relationship again. I was so happy that I would be able to make up for the past. But a few hours later he said it was too late to have a relationship. Now, three weeks later I am still stunned and devastated.
I’ve been listening to this same video every night for the past few months. I think it’s helping me because I’m able to fall asleep easier, but I wake up to the reality of everything. I want this to stay with me not just through the night. I want to let those negative feelings go
If you’re currently listening to this because you’re going through a heartbreak. I’m sending you so much love because I know that it hurts. I’m sorry for whatever you’re going through That’s lead you here.. I pray for your upmost healing.
Been listening to this every night. Whenever I think I'm feeling better it hits me again. How can it not when I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with somebody? I thought she was my best friend. I had no idea when she waved bye to me the last time I saw her that it was for good and I'd never see her again. All the inside jokes. Even normal words or tones of voice or ordinary items. So many associations once you've built a whole life with somebody. And maybe the most hurtful part is having to realize that at some point it was all fake. Never knowing how far back the fakeness was. At which point was it acting? Because there's no way love just disappeared that day, suddenly, for no reason at all. Sometimes I still can't believe it's really over. It hurts so much all of the hopes and dreams for the future, all gone.
hang in there. The love you felt is real, and is within you. The love you felt came from your love, and thats real. Trust in the process, in your life, that better days are yet to come. You are the love of your life, conect with yourself and spirituality. remeber that life is magical and dynamic. Try meditation, pray and faith in life and thet worth it to try to move on. If the person decided to go, let it go. Embrace yourself. May god be with you.
It's been 3 months today & the pain, anxiety & depression haven't seemed to fade. Just like all of you, I'm up all night from the heartbreak. Almost 9 years of my life, for this in the end? I pray every one of us gets through this quickly & heals 100% only to find a much happier & healthier love and life. ❤ We do deserve it.
I am in the same place. I lived with him and based my entire life around him for me to just be disposed like I never mattered. But remember things happen for a reason. This break might not be permanent or it might lead you to something so much better. Either way this time apart was meant to happen and I hope you find solace in that.
Its been a year since she divorced me...together for 8 years, promised eachother divorce would never even be an option. And she left me for another man. She went on, what was supposed to be our honeymoon trip, with him just after our anniversary. Iv been so broken, beaten, and defeated. Its been a year and I still feel pain, i still havent healed and still miss her so much despite how cruel she was and idk why. My heart just doesnt want to let her go...to anyone going through this...stay the course, keep your heading and set sail. Just, dont sail away from what your going through. If your going to set sail...do it towards something. Im in no position to offer advice, but if I could thats what it would be. Good luck to e everyone, the pain is real, the darkness will consume you, but there will be light again. Maybe not today, tomorrow or within the next year. But it will come and when it does I hope its blows open those dark doors and fills your entire world with light again. Stay strong, keep moving forward, and dont ever let anyone convince you that you dont mean anything, bc you do. You mean something to someone out there and that itself is reason enough to heal.
Week number 6 after break up of 17 year relationship 😢devastated dose not touch it my poor girls I’m sorry for not being a better man and what part I played in for this out come but I love you all ❤❤❤❤❤
First time listening and I saw a difference. I woke up about two hours before it ended and found myself thinking about random things then it hit me. He wasn’t the first thing on my mind nor was the obsessive desire to check my phone and see if he had texted overnight! It definitely also helped to read all the comments here and see I’m not the only one dealing with this type of thing. To anybody reading this I hope you know how valuable, lovable and worthy of true love you are. It’s painful now but it gets better! I wish that pure joy and laughter will find you again. ♥️🙏🏾
Came across this today, worst breakup of my life, literally feel as of my life got ripped out from inside me. Going to use this tonite 🤗 love to everyone here who is going through the same situation. 🌸
Hey guys it actually does get better! a few weeks ago when I last commented I was in a bad place but I’m honestly surprised how much better I feel compared to how I did then. Start talking to new people with no expectations and try focus your attention on getting yourself back! I still have a ways to go on my new journey of self discovery but I can feel myself regaining my confidence and can start to envision a better future. To anyone that took the time to read this, I wish you all the best on your personal journey, keep moving forwards and take each day as it comes. No pressure. I’m sure you will wake up one day soon and feel uplifted like I did with a new passion for myself! Hope this helped even just a little, love to everyone who needs to hear this ❤️
After 25 years of marriage I was abandoned hearing "you know I've never been happy". That was 2016. I've been suffering for years as that other person prepares to marry again telling our children, "I'm going to do this one right." Three nights in listening and I am so grateful to add this to my faith. I will recover.
23 years for me, together since we was 17. Kids grown and im all alone for the first time ever, the loss is overwhelming.. listening for the first time tonight I hope it helps as I'm so sick of feeling so worthless.. 🤞
@@Lisa.pizzza thank you for asking! I really was able to forgive my past and move on. I even married my sweetheart from 30 years ago this May 2022! It's just too wild, simply too wild! I found so many other things to listen to as well. Things that keep me moving forward. 😊
Is anyone else kind of scared that this might have actually worked? 😳I feel like I was addicted to the pain and part of me doesn’t want to let go but I’ve tried so many other things for five years and I think this actually is working! It’s only been two nights and I don’t have that deep sadness in me anymore. I listened to it at night while I sleep and I feel so at ease when I wake up!
I've been through horrible heartbreak. I'm ok now but it took a little while. I wish this was around a few years ago. My prayers are with you and I hope you feel better. There is someone out there that will value you like you deserve but you gotta fully love you first
Just because someone doesn't see your worth does not make you unworthy of love and respect. You deserve someone who choses you everyday and so did I. 🥺 We will all get through this
I read so much pain on the comments. I hope you all get well! 🙏 I'm also in pain right know and I feel very lonely, but eventually things will get better for all of us. Learn to let go. Previously I spent 2 years hurting for someone, but this time I'm really trying to focus on myself and to better myself. It's not easy. Right before I'm writing this I woke up because I was dreaming about her. But then I mentally wished her all the luck and felt grateful for all the good times we had. I guess part of trully loving someone is to accept their decision and to let them go. Just try to be OK for today. Everyday make an effort to go out and do something that feeds your soul. I often go catch the sunset or just standby by the sea. I also started meditating every night. Like now. Go to the gym. Read a nice book. Go get out with your friends! Right now I feel miserable, but I know this is the way I must take to be happy again. 🙏
Thank you for writing this, I take comfort in reading as I am too experiencing heartbreak. I haven’t yet let go fully it’s harder than I thought but i know time is a healer I hope that I can come to except her decision to end things and truly let go.
Hola Marcelo espero k estés mejor asi es el amor te enamoras y te rompen el corazón y nuevamente lo mismo así uno aprende 3n este mundo pero ay aprendes las leyes del amor y sabes a k atenerte y no entregar tu corazón rápidamente a esa persona k no se lo merece así se madura y aprenderás a controlar ese bello corazón ❤ 😊
I felt the difference on the second night. It's been 2 weeks since I started listening every night and I'm in a VERY different place now. Blessings to you John! Thank you!
before I came on RUclips I was lookin at my horoscope hoping it’d give me some kind of hope with my ex... I just need to let go and cant seem to find the strength. I’ll be listening to this until then... Thank you universe
For all those people who have come here because they can't make sense of their breakup and have been left feeling empty and foolish and used.... You're not alone, look up Narcissism and Narcissistic abuse, once I understood this it all made sense as to why my ex girlfriend behaved the way she did...Day 2, i'm hurting like hell but I know I wont be in pain forever...None of us will 🙂
I don’t want to love anymore.. i hate this feeling that comes after being betrayed on numerous occasions.. i hate it! The hurt, the embarrassment... the fact she can look me in the eyes with no emotions and be that way after all I’ve done for her. Literally risked my life trying to please her (caught Covid, back in July) ... still no pleasing that woman.. go broke for her just so she wouldn’t suffer.. smh, my loyalty is ignorant.. love... i wish that was one feeling that i couldn’t feel.
Same exact thing happened to me. We were engaged and he just left 2 months before the wedding and had been cheating and never had any remorse or anything.
Bless you for making this. I just got my heart broken by someone I considered my best friend. I told him things I never told anyone else, gave him all the good energy I could give him and he did the same. Then one day, he just changed up on me like I never knew him. I had to find out he cheated cause he refused to tell me , and refused to let me go. This is still so fresh and new to me and my heart is literally torn apart from the inside out. It feels like someone is pouring acid all over my internal organs and everything inside of me burns. Tonight is my first night listening to this. I'm 5 mins into it and im already starting feel the pressure release from my heart.
Sacrificed everything for that one person but in the end all I got was resentment and a heartbreak. I wish nothing but the best for that person and I am sure I will also be able to feel loved and cared again. Stay strong my dear frens 🙏💐
29 years married plus 5 years dating more than half my life my first kiss my first date my first everything The break shattered my core! Its been a year but the broken pieces are still lying around I was looking for all kinds of help from everywhere This was a gift!
To everyone who needs to hear this. As hard as it feels right now, things will get better, but only if we allow them to. Let us not blame ourselves or even those who left us. If we cannot learn to forgive and understand that not every relationship is going to work and that those who are gone now deserve to live the life they want to, then we will be stuck with the pain forever. Everyone deserves to be happy no matter how much pain it may cause others. Just remember that nobody is to blame, not yourself, not them, family or friends. The bonds we form and the memories with those we cared for, or loved should never be shadowed by pain,suffering, anger, guilt, resentment, or sadness. If you chose to remember, remember the positive times, and realize that they once loved, and cared for you, and one day someone else will to.
Oh Tim. Took me so long to even get to the point of acceptable pain. And yet, what you say is all true. Grieving the loss of a relationship is just incredibly painful.
@@The72Nana accepting new beginnings, instead of dreading the end. We are all in this together. As hard as it gets the best thing to do is think positively going forward. You can do it, I don’t even know you and I have faith In you! One day at a time
This was so so awesome. My nearly 3 year relationship ended 2 days ago and the pain has been unbearable. Listening to this really helped. I slept well and feel I can face the day ❤️
So you feel the difference after the video? I am going through a 5 year marriage breakup he chose to walk away versus working it out.And it hurts so badly.
2 years ended 5 days ago, I sometimes feel like I'm totally healed, but now I'm just broken like the break up just happened yesterday. I loved him with all of my heart😢
I know it doesn't seem like right now to a lot of you, but there are upsides to events and feelings like these. For years after a break I obsessed while my life passed me by. Finally I decided that anyone who really loved or loves me would want me to be healthy and happy. Now I am grateful for what happened because of the lessons learned and insights gained. Be gentle and kind to yourself. Anyone here has already turned in the right direction. Keep trudging. One day it will feel like flying🙃
Wow! I just woke up for the first time in months ON TIME to my alarm 4.15am and feel REFRESHED ! I am not anxious, and my headache is gone! My shoulders feel relaxed finally! I was at a breaking point lastnight and your video came across my screen. I thought to myself I could try this and see how I feel in the morning before calling in sick. THANK YOU SO MUCH! I know now I can do this. I dont know exactly how this works, but I know my brain needs rewiring from all the pain and abuse. All I can say, is God bless you for doing this. Thank you! You saved me!
Thank you for sharing your experience, Wendylou072! I am very grateful to hear from you and that you had a good experience. That is exactly why I do what I do. I just read your comment to my wife and she was very touched. We send you all of our light and love and all the best for you! 🙏🏼
this video made me realise how true heartbreak feels like. made me recall all my good and bad memories. only thing we need to know is we must be confident , accept the truth and move on. not every person's suffering is same. never settle down for a person. build your career for yourself. this is just the start, you have alot to struggle. dont settle down for this. you have alot to achieve. keep shining like a bright star and make it happen.
If your reading this! Say this under your breath "God I give you my heartbreak and my pain" and you'll feel this amazing feeling in the morning and dont listen to sad music! Drink some nyquil if you have to but dont go to sleep crying! God is never blind to see our tears nor deaf to hear our cries! ❤❤❤❤
I find this very soothing. Just went through a really rough break up after 8 years together. Im happy we remained friends but its just hard still. I realized I almost made her out to be this goddess I worshipped and when she wanted to go find herself outside our relationship I was left with nothing. Learn to love yourselves people. You'll always be in a relationship with yourself. Dont depend on other peoples approval to make you happy, they simply need to add to your own happiness
6yrs being the sole source of income, to someone who wouldn’t cook, clean, seek help for their mental illness that caused so many fights, or take any responsibility. I should feel relieved it’s over but all I feel is heartbreak and alone. Not even anger towards them, just wish they cared the way I did for so long. All I want now is sleep and a way to forget.
My therapist said depression and sadness are your feelings telling you that something isn't right and it needs to be addressed. Depression happens when your feelings are screaming at you, this isn't right do something about it. I never realised this before. I never put myself first but now I do. Good luck folks, you will get through this xxx
OK I'm absolutely floored. I can't thank you enough for this insanely effective video!! A little background- my boyfriend of 8 years very suddenly up & left me at the end of July. He told me he just "needed some time to work on himself" and was staying at a Buddy's place. Kept me hanging for a month with "I love yous" & "I'm coming home because I truly want to be with you, Valerie!" BS. Well he busted himself last week & I found out he's now living with a woman he met in JULY and according to texts she sent me - already MADLY in love. Lol Needless to say, I've been walking around a big fat ball of sadness, misery and tears for days now. I listened to this last night & I swear to you I feel completely different today. I'm not kidding. I've gotten used to constant thoughts of them together & have been missing him SO much it physically hurts. Ok, I woke up this morning in the best mood I've been in since this all went down. My mind is suddenly clear & not clogged with obsessive thoughts of him. I thought no way. No way did that help in one night. I actually sat down & closed my eyes & hardly any thoughts of him. They were there, but they weren't clear enough to cause much pain whereas before, I thought about him constantly and just knew the pain in my heart would never cease. I still miss him & will love him forever, but I have a renewed sense of hope this morning and it feels AMAZING. 💔
I am praying this will help me the way it has helped you. I am very very close to killing myself and I really don't want to do that but I don't want to hurt anymore
Listened this morning, It was 4:30 am & I couldn't go to sleep. I'm not sure how I came across this channel but I gave myself permission to heal by any means necessary. Everything will work together for my good. I have purpose & I will remain whole.
I went to sleep at 11pm. I woke up at 7:30 without any heartache/intense sadness! (I was having intense heartbreak sadness every morning for about five months now...supposedly "twin flames" issue). I'm so grateful and happy!! ❤️🔥😎👌
I have no words to explain how wonderful this video was last night! My 25 yr marriage is ending and ive been a wreck...my mind racing with horrible thoughts as SOON as i wake up. Not today!! I woke up with peace in my heart mind and soul!! Cant wait to listen over and over even while I'm at work. Thank you thank you thank you 😊
About a month before Christmas my boyfriend/partner of 13 years unexpectedly broke up with me. I have been devastated to say the least! Almost everyday since that time I woke up with this gut wrenching feeling inside of me and an intense feeling of loss: it was like nothing I've felt before. Add my anxiety to that and well I was a huge disaster! Almost every other day I would cry at a drop of a hat and every time I would think about him I would breakdown or have this awful feeling inside. I started listening to this guided sleep hypnosis about a week ago and I just can't explain it: I have stopped crying! I still think about him, but I don't react like I did prior to this week. Its like there something inside me that makes me feel like I will be ok. That gut wrenching feeling has subsided and I'm going to be ok. Thank you - I have always been a skeptic of hypnosis- and after listening to this for a week - you've made me a believer, at least in your skills! Highly recommended to anyone going through heartache!
I know God the universe brought me to this. It's time for me to get out this toxic relationship. 8 years and all I've endured was 2 kids abuse and disrespect.
We send you much light and love, Samantha! You have a whole tribe of higher viber here that are rooting for you and cheering you own. We send you all our love and our light and all our positive energy! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
My ex left me 2 and a half weeks ago I thought I was the only one going thru this I appreciate all the comments and glad I am here with everyone to heal and love ourselves good luck to everyone in their own journey
I’m a month in and it’s a bit better ish. So much love. I totally understand the pain you are in. So much love for you. We are heading somewhere amazing. When we relax and start to let go we will never want to look back. hugs and love 💕
It feels so good to not be alone in heartache...the devastation has been all encompassing. He abandoned me for a third party. After 8 years and finally having a baby. He threw me out of the gone we shared for 6 years...He's gone. I'm trying to find acceptance for what he did to us and or how I contributed and still manage to show up for our child.
Im tired of not being able to sleep or crying all night until my eyes are red and swollen/blistered … gave this person 4 years of my life 💔💔💔….I can’t get it back but I want my peace back
First morning in a couple months waking up without my heart feeling like it’s sinking into despair. Without feeling empty inside because I don’t have a text or some sort of acknowledgment I exist from someone else. My heart is light my breathing is good, and my mind is much clearer than last night, thank you, definitely making this a regular listen.
Never loved someone so much in my life other than my daughter and I'm 45 years old. This has helped me so much. It literally cleared up the deepest pain in my heart. I feel like it's going to be ok from now on. I feel it in a place of total peace in self-love. I listened 3 times. The 3rd time was during the day while I was working at my desk. I will continue listening until I'm totally free and never look back.Thank you.
It’s going to be alright, I was there for months! Didn’t talk to no friends or fam regarding the situation I just went through the motions and took it one day at a time…. the sister of my ex boyfriend she was my best friend but even her I’ve had to wean her off because she was not helping the situation by trying to encourage a relationship that is clearly toxic on her brother’s part! You just have to cut family members off as well. so far, I’m doing very well I go to work and come home to a peaceful home, although my ex and I lived separately. I even started traveling abit and just finding hobbies & things to do that make me happy🙏🏾😀 I simply don’t have time in my life for dead weight/dead beats! period the key is to learn to love yourself! Apparently GOD has shown us who they are so we must take that and run with it never to look back! my Instagram is swtvibez4life I often take “girls” trip but lately by myself which is also enjoyable! contact me if your interested! Stay positive, stay uplifted w time it gets better!🙏🏾
My ex ended things with me because he met someone at his workplace and she confused his feelings so much that he said he couldn't give me the love i need and deserve anymore. He was my first long relationship and first love (i'm 27 now). We were together for more than 3 years and lived together. The last year we progressed so much as a couple that i was starting to fall in love with him and his personality again, and then out of the blue he tells me this... I'm so heartbroken, and I have never experienced such pain in my life. I feel confused, by all the feelings (anger, sadness, love, betrayal, emptiness, loss etc.), and I can't stop thinking of how beautiful things were with him and what we built together, all to be taken away by a random crush. I don't know how to get over this... I still love him and I just want to go back to where we were. My world is crashing down each day and even if i do make progress it all starts again in the morning. The pain, the crying, the memories, like I remembered nothing. My heart goes out to everyone who is feeling this and I just want to hug you.
I’ve had my heart ripped out before. Now going though another breakup but not on the same level. It takes time brothers and sisters. It’s ok to feel the pain. You will be ok. Trust the pain. It’s making you stronger and leading you to higher consciousness.
Know that you’re normal to still miss them…even if it’s been more than a year. Everyone has their own pace. Time does heal. Send them love 💕 and do your best to think about your best life moving forward. You got this!
I love this comment section, i wish everyone move on to their next chapter in finding their true selves and peace. I myself have been struggling with someone who i truly loved with all my heart but what hurts is that she doesn’t know that. We learn from our failures and i do wish her the best and wish all of you the very best
I’ve been doing this faithfully since January 1st and it’s definitely working. For me it took a good 2 full weeks before I felt better so keep going if you’re just starting. Thank you!
When you have some alone time, get in-front of a mirror and just start venting. Vent about why he/she doesn’t derserve you. I did this for about 20 minutes and said everything on my mind and in my heart. That pit in my stomach went away 😁
05.09.22 I’m back here again. Broken, hurt. I’m here because I’m starting to realize that revenge isn’t the smart way to move on with my life. I hate being alone, I hate going through the heal process by myself but when the odds cancel out, I don’t have a choice but to focus on myself. I want to find myself again and love myself the way I loved many people before me. I want my love back and I want it all to myself. I don’t want to compare my progress to others, I just want to get better. I want to get out of this headspace.
I’m really tired of my situation right now. I thought my ex (for 3 years) was MEANT TO BE in my life (We broke up yesterday) ... But God removed him out of my life and I thanked him for that. God really loves me and he did that. God knew I tried my best to make things work in my relationship and he never gives a damn and he’s out there chasing women. God knows, He knew he wasn’t the one! But God, sometimes, it’s hard to let go of things that are comfortable and very familiar with, even when they’re not good for me anymore. I know I can do this ☹️ I forgive him for what he did but I will never forget .. Dear God, I ask you to renew my heart with your strength and purpose. Help me to walk closer in your way. I thank you God for removing him, and the toxic people from my life, in the times when I could not find the strength to remove them myself. I’m so happy that I got to listen to this video 🥺♥️ I will continued to do so. God bless you all. With God, all things are possible 😇
We just broke up today after being together for 4 years. I'm confused. He isn't toxic, doesn't cheat, doesn't lay hands. He watched me graduate college, become a nurse and helped with my studies. For him to be alright with never seeing me again has me feeling like I'm not worth knowing.
The healing journey is crazy. She ended it 7.5 months ago when I was at my lowest. Time makes it better but here I am at 4am needign this again. Wish you all the best
Mine did the same I stuck by her while she gained 100lbs and she hated herself and helped her improve her diet and experience and quit smoking and become in her own words the best version of herself she could ever remember only to have her leave when I lost my job and was struggling to find a new one and felt worthless I supported her for 7 years and 2 months of me not working and 1 month after she started working she needed her own place, her own space and I even helped her move and got her all settled in because I assumed she was going to continue our relationship I just figured she wasn't to have some independence and a day after I finished getting everything exactly where she wanted it she asked me to give her 30 days of no contact so she could focus on herself and I agreed because what choice do you have. I finally got back to work and I wanted to share my good news with her thinking she would be proud of me so after the 30 days I sent a message letting her know and asking if she would like to go out to center with me and I never got a response so eventually something came in the mail that I had to let her know so I see 1 message a day until the day before her appointment and then I called only to find that she had changed her # I talked to everyone that I knew that knew her and they all said she had removed herself from their friends lists so I came to the conclusion that she didn't want anything to do with me anymore. Sadly I feel she had been using me the entire time and now that she is happy with herself she is too good for me. Definitely not the person I love so I have to convince myself that she is not the person I love the person I am attached to dies existed outside of my mind and I have to accept that I imagined her as someone she wasn't and that's very hard for me to wrap my head around and my heart just won't accept it yet again I will get there thanks to these videos
Gonna try this it’s hard going though a heartbreak being a single mom and not introducing your kids to ur dating life so they don’t even know what you’re going through cause you have to be strong and keep a smile when you just want to close ur eyes forever
5:01:56 You feeling whole and complete does not require anyone else. You can now realize your feeling good is not determined by anyone elses choices or behavior or even their presence in your life ❤❤❤
Anybody who is reading this and going through a heartbreak. TIME HEALS. Feel and embrace your pain and learn to fight, fight for yourself to be better. Pain is temporary, suffering is optional. Avoid being in jail with your thoughts.
One persons temporary is another persons eternity. When your heart is shattered you want to heal. You don't want to loop thoughts everyday. You want peace.
How to avoid being in jail?
It’s so very hard to hurt and have no control over it.
Erica Awake I hate going to sleep because of waking up and feeling the pain rush through. I feel ya girl. I will be thinking of you!
Amen
It's 4:30 a.m. and I'm so heartbroken. God please touch and heal me. I need you more than ever. I'm praying God be with us all as we go thru.
Same its 4:30 rn
I hope your doing better now, my first time here we broke up at 3am
Same...
4am.. he left me on valentines Day ...after 4yrs.
@@beonechange6222 I'm really sorry about your breakup, how are you rn?
The right one can't leave you
Only the wrong ones leave
As one door shuts, another will open
Hang In there
I love that saying, so very true. She's been gone for two n half years now and it hurts so bad to see her destroy herself on heroin and meth slowly before my eyes, we had 2 children, I have custody and the struggle is real financially, but you have to stay the course
Amen
I didn’t wanted to leaveI but I was betrayed and cheated multiple times..😢
Thank you
@@mashicotton6094 it will get better, have faith, the right one is out there who values you for you.
It pains me to know that there are so many experiencing heart break, but I feel comforted by the fact that we are all here and going through it together.
I’m so heartbroken 💔
Its been 4 months but still im hearkbroken
The pain is at times unbearable I was so blindsided by him leaving me and on Christmas Eve at that after almost 5 years it would’ve been the end of this month..my whole world was gone in a blink of an eye… I try to be strong but it’s those random memories that pop up throughout the day and at night it just gets worse because he’s not laying by my side nor am I waking up to him any longer I’m so so heartbroken please tell me it gets better???😭
I had been 6months here and is as bad if not worse. First night. Hope it gets better
You’re right♥️ I pray for you, you pray for me
I pray that everyone listening this will find peace, get over their ex and fall in love with themselves. There are better things waiting for you my loves❤.
I’m trying, feels impossible right now…
So true & you don,t ever want to associate with a toxic spouse
So needed to hear that after being emotionally drained treated unfairly and betrayed n heartbroken by past 2 toxic ex boyfriends so horrible
Thank you
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I never thought I’d be using hypnosis to forget someone. I loved someone truly for the first time and it just broke me .
Margarita... My wife and I totally understand! It's why we create the content that we do. We want to take the lessons we have learned, through the pain that we have felt to let others know, there's not only light at the end of the tunnel, but that light is the bright and beautiful. You can experience a relationship that is deserving of you and will honor you and bring you more joy than you could have realized. It's exactly what happened for me. We send you all of our light and love and wish you all the best! 🙏🏼❤️
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost. Do you need your ex back if yes I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay
Contact or message him on WhatApp.
Rmma Favour nope I am choosing myself.
It will pass ask God and your family on the other side to help u🙏
one day we'll understand why it ended and didn't turn out how we wanted it to.. pray, stay busy, work on your mental health, focus on YOU....
Thank you, Caitlin. You get it. ❤️
As an empath I already predicted that my relationship include
my marriage will be a dead end since 9 months ago. And because of the fact that I saw red flags from my ex I was ignoring and hiding behind my sorrow cuz I didn't wanted to lose her.
It took 4 months to recover from that cheating and toxicity until I understood that is the time to live the past behind cuz life's too short for being in this kind of emotional pain.
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My wife walked out on me after 7 years
to anyone going through a heartbreak right now, your going to be okay, some days will feel harder then other, but you got this, we all do, keep going my beautiful strong people
Hopefully cause right now I'm so down and hutsssss she just leave me easily
@@buotanngasiaw trust me you will, time will heal. if she left you so easily then she clearly didn’t truly and utterly love you, and one day you will find that, you will be okay, you got this.
I needed this, im broken..and i feel empty. Im really trying!
God bless us all that are broken right now
I am trying😔
If you're reading this, I want you to know how beautiful you are inside and out. Never abandon yourself for others that are finding themselves ❤
Thank you, CzechPrincess for sharing those kind words with everyone! 🙏🏼💙
Thank you.
Your comment just made me burst into tears... Thank you.....I REALLY needed to hear those words. 🖤
@PrincessAstrea I’d like to tell you something that my wife allowed me to realize. We are never in need of anything. We’re deserving… You’re deserving. And hearing those words touched a chord in you. That tells me you’re someone who deserves to be sustained in knowing how strong and capable and worthy of all good things you are. Another thing my wife tells me when I feel like something is too much to conquer: “You’ve got this.” So… you’ve got this. You have all the power and love within you to come out better than ever. I’ve been there and I understand. It’s the whole reason I shared this video in the first place. Sending you much love and light 🙏🏼💙
Thanks 🙏🏾 ❤
Man... I'm over here trying to get over a 2 year relationship, I look at the comments and some of y'all are trying to get over 5, 8, 10 year relationships? I'm so sorry :/ I truly love y'all and I'm praying for all of you. It makes my relationship look like child's play.
That’s not true bro, if you loved someone it’s going to hurt
2years here as well and it is very tough, tougher than my previous 8 years with baby mom or any relationship for that matter. I've been advised to let her go and my life will be filled with awesomeness..... it's so flipping hard to let her go.....damn
@@michaelan6107 did this just happen? Have no shame. Im still thinking of a guy who ultimately ghosted me after just a couple months and we really didn't have a relationship! Not the label anyway. When you feel connected with someone, it is what it is. No one can tell you how fast you need to move on. If you skip any steps in the process, you won't grow. You need to go through the stages so you become a better partner but more importantly, choose the right person for you in the end.
After 22 years of marriage (24 years total relationship), my husband revealed an affair of past 2 years and moved out. I nearly died of a broken heart. THIS posting is beginning to help me.
Carol Liddell i am in the almost the same situation
Will be listening to this tonight . It’s so crazy how you can attach to someone give your everything to them and then today live like we never met
I know exactly what you mean, had a beautiful 3 year relationship, and in the blink of an eye, it was over, just like that. It’s so painful
Omg...that is exactly what i say...it's awful! 😔
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I feel the same
we were in a relationship for 10 months. I just got a big heart. I spent 1.2k. I'm going to go see her on Thursday. if she didn't change I'm just going to go. It's going to hurt but i can't keep trying and trying for someone that doesn't want to try for me.
Time heals all wounds, but that's also the hardest part. Time flies when you're having fun, But when you're hurting time moves slower then ever.
Yes that's true
Preach man cause this is some true shit I am so impatient
It never healed mine🥺😭
I do not want to be heartbroken ever again 😭
Time does slow down..I want to skip ahead a month or 2😥.. but it will get a little better each day
It will be my 3rd night listening this. I must say it's working. Everyday I miss him less and now I don't even want him back. I'm moving on and it feels great 😊
Giggity Giggity goo bay bee
It's been a month since you've posted your message. How are you doing now?
@@MNMorales I've been great. After a few more nights of listening to this he was to the back of my mind.
@@khutiecharles3555 how long were you together?
@@Wargwarn 1 year
I’m sorry to say but sometimes a breakup can be a blessing.
100%
I think its always
Don’t be sorry. I still think about my ex at times. It’s been only be a month since we broke up. But what I’ve achieved focusing on myself is amazing.
most times
I agree. But sometimes it feels like losing the person meant for you... and it hurts like hell. I've lost mine 10 days ago... I know I'm grateful that he came into my life but really wish he hadn't left it because he's an amazing person regardless of the breakup... it was just the wrong timing for us...
I don’t care how long it takes, i will read every comment here. I never knew so many people could really be connected this way. Praying for us all. Healing is needed…please take the pain away. 🙏
Going on 1 month since the breakup. Still not eating or sleeping. I hope this helps 🙏
Hi Tony. I truly agree. I so needed this community. It has only been less than two months and I try to reject the fact I do deep inside wish it were different … but I know God has told me a while ago this man is not right but I ignored everything. Thank you for this community. I surely need the inspiring words. ❤🙏
Ya correct
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@@kimberleyann51it’s been 4 months since my breakup and i feel like i’ve been stuck in the same amount of heartbreak since the day we broke up
My husband left me two weeks ago and this is my first night trying this. I'm healing from my abandonment issues and now this. These comments are so comforting and inspirational. Thank you
My fiance passed away one day vefore last christmas..Time heals the wounds, I feel so much better now and you will too❤️
How are you doing now?
Natalia, I hope you are doing well. My wife left me and I know how much it hurts. Right now, I’m figuring out how to love after divorce and it’s not easy.
You got this... one day at a time.
Are you better now?
He said, “you treat yourself with kindness and respect, you will discover how so many other people also treat you with kindness and respect…” and then, “you attract someone who treats themself with such love, that they are attracted to you and treat you with such love as well”
This really hit me as the relationship that ended for me was toxic. It was difficult but I realized that I shouldn’t accept less than the bare minimum. I shouldn’t accept poor treatment. True self love is knowing I deserve better and saying no to anything that isn’t that. My ex didn’t love himself at all. Of course he’d never be able to love me how I needed. If anyone else relates, know it gets better. Pour into yourself and see how others pour into you.
Beautifully said....thank you!
@Tap.My.Photo.For_Contact the universe answered my prayer and sent me a wonderful partner who loves me like I’ve never been loved before. Now i feel completely indifferent toward my ex. These videos work
❤ I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and my husband cheated on me last week and has since abandoned me and he been so horrible, so cruel and nasty, you would think I was cheated on him. Reading your words reminded me that the bare minimum is what I’m getting, well actually I’m getting nothing. I am so wounded.
I hope you are well and hopefully you reply so I know it’s going to be OK 8 months down the line.
Thank you❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this
Listened last night. My relationship of ten years ended just last week and I was a wreck. I knew I couldn't continue to let my children watch me fall apart. I feel much better today and I'm optimistic about my future, alone.
Never think of a future alone. Nobody knows what the future will be. Im broken but thanks to this im feeling better everyday. Dont worry
@@michaelwickham3352 thank you very much. Not so much worried than hurt. Im glad you're feeling better as well.
Your peace will out weight any lonliness.
How are you doing now? I need honesty...im loosing it 😫
May God be with you
Reading all of these comments breaks my heart even more tbh. :( why do people hurt people so much? Why do people leave the beautiful people that love them so much?
I would have done anything in the world for my ex. I was beyond infatuated and in love. We lived together for two years and the bond we had I thought was absolutely incredible. He was my best friend. I had a mental breakdown that lasted for months during Covid and he decided to leave me during the worst time of my life. Yet I still miss him so much because he had never done me wrong until the end. I don’t know if I’ll ever get over it. I’ve never been so sad and disappointed. I thought he was going to be my husband.
Im suffering also. We was together during the pandemic from feburary till about 2months ago i still feel suicidal
All the best to you on your journey through healing. Hurt people hurt other people, so don't take it personally. Love yourself like your life depends on it, and you will be sustained in it. ❤️🙏
@Alexa So sorry to hear how you were treated. Part of the pain is knowing that the future you saw for yourself has gone. You will get through this, your life will be different, not necessarily bad, but different. Take care and don't be afraid to lean on family and friends for support. xx
@The American Debt Slave Found him on fb. If it's any consolation, his drawings are sh*te ! Seriously though, this must be tough for you. Cannot imagine what you are going through xx
Hope its getting better for you, I'm going through it too. If they cannot see the worth in themselves unfortunately they won't see the worth in the relationship smh you deserve and will have much better
Holding everyone’s hand that’s going through pain. We are strong and we can get through it.
Thanks 🙏
Thank you!
God Bless You* Thank You
Thank You & God Bless You. My heart needs relief from this pain* Listening for the 1st time & pray it helps*
Thank you JD* How nice of you.
The love of my life passed away and I don’t want to move on. It’s like accepting that he’s gone. But he comes in my dreams and whispers, “Just live!” So this is me trying.
I'm very sorry for your loss, Naomi. I had a similar experience last year with what I refer to as "the energy" of my late father. I have a couple of other programs that you might also find beneficial. Here's one for connecting with our guardian angels: ruclips.net/video/wfsHnu6PGkc/видео.html My wife and I send you much love and light 🙏🏼❤️
@@JohnMoyerHypnosis I listened to it. Will listen many times--so many layers to absorb. I never thought anyone read these messages! Thank you, truly.
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This touched me, I hope you are well and living with joy Naomi x
@@nicoler0072 wow, thank you so much for your caring heart and kind comment. I feel better just reading it! 🙏
I don’t usually comment on anything but I just wanted to vent a bit since this feels like a safe space. I think love is a beautiful thing but I never knew it could come with just as much or more pain. I feel like I’m going insane actaully, I can’t sleep I feel sick I don’t have an appetite they’re constantly on my mind and I wish they weren’t. It’s crazy how one person can cause you to totally abandon all self respect for the sake of saving something that’s not worth saving. I hope one day I can think of him or hear his name and not feel my heart drop to my stomach. For all the people going through the same thing, I hope you heal quickly bc this feeling is one of the worst things I’ve ever experienced:’)
So sad to read this. Can I ask how you’re feeling now? I’m going trough something similar right now and I wondered what it’s like for you now 2 months later
Im going through the same. I hope we all heal
I feel your pain. It’s been 18 months and the feelings you describe seem mild compared to how I feel. I just thought about this just now as I’m typing - I’m 45 and feel like that was my last chance at finding love. I found out last week that she has a boyfriend and it sent me spiraling downward and this is the worst pain I have ever felt. I can’t even look at another woman without feeling like I’m cheating on her.
To make matters worse, my therapist of 4 years retired 3 months ago. I can’t bear the thought of trying to explain in everything that led up to this to someone new. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder years ago.
She pretty much raised my 3 daughters for the 5 years. She made their lives so much better and has remained in their lives by going to some of their events and taking them places. Now that she has a new partner I know that those times are now going to stop.
This heartbreak has destroyed me. I lost my high 6 figure finance job. I lost my house. I have zero motivation to go forward with life.
If you read this far, please say a little prayer for me even if it’s 10 years from now. 💔🙏🏼💔
I agree, a break up is so painful to the heart and soul I had pains in my stomach due to hunger I had lost 16 pounds. I’ve worked on self-help and learning more about myself and what a healthy relationships is.
@daphneverbuntx I'm going through this now. Wondering where you are at now. I hope you have healed. I dont think I'll ever heal from him this time around.
My wife and I separated a month ago, we were married for a decade. She's with someone else.
I've listened to this for a couple nights and I'm feeling so much better. Words cannot express my gratitude for this platform and everyone in the comments.
I've sat here and read so many countless stories of heartache and my thoughts go with you all. I've discovered empathy and compassion here, a purpose greater than myself and my concerns. I can't thank you all enough for this.
Sorry to hear that. Marriage should be lifelong and sacred yet half are ending in divorce. Woman seem to always have another guy lined up. They call it monkey branching and it comes off extremely cold. The heart is a muscle and a man’s heart can feel very strongly. Regardless of what society tries to convince us.
May your heart be heal soon 💗
@@shermiladesilva6277 Thank you. :)
Can’t imagine that wish you something real
@@aidangoldberg1331 Ty
It's been almost five weeks since we broke up. I can't sleep, I can't study. I don't want to feel heart broken in this life ever again. It's very painful.
I pray that everyone who comes here to heal quickly, move on and become the vest version of themselves.
Yeah, my break up was bit over a month ago for me as well.
But this is definitely a current time of feeling so lost with lots of questions. Sleep is the worst I'm with you there! I try to keep busy and when I'm not I practice meditation.
Yoga has really helped too. Our emotional stress seems to cross over to physical tension, loosening all that up can really change the day.
I'm so sorry you are going through this, especially with it being so new, I do relate.
One day at a time, as we all get on the other side of this. :)
I am 4 weeks into my healing from someone I truly loved, but was abusive.
I hope we can all heal and can learn from it.
It’s sad that love is what we all want really - but it’s so complex. But disrespect and using people can be so easy for people to do.
My heart aches. 😢
Surrender yourself completely, don't resist, Don't fight back .let everything flow through you.
Google 'headspace' and practice Mindfulness.
I know how it feels . A decade long relationship eneded 2 months back . Trust Me breakup is a blessing . It will open new doors for you .
Love yourself , Have gratitude !
i hope u can move on. take it slowly.
I hope you soon find the peace you need to be happy*
I love how supportive everyone is on here. I love you all. Remember you are perfect how you are!
I just wanna feel like I'm enough, I just wanna move on honestly.
You are so incredible & so worthy my darling. You will be alright. I can relate, mine is as fresh as 28days. Healing wishes✨ & loving hugs from Nigeria🇳🇬❤️🤗
You are, i promise. It's his loss
I feel EXACTLY the same way
@@nafeesaali4409 you are so worthy my darling. Be easy on yourself. Take one step @ a time. Much much love❤️
me i dont know when this end, but i want to end this crying thing and blaming thing in me.I just wanna move on, because thats the right thing to do. I just dont know how😔 and when all stop.even i know the other person there are okay and having fun like everything is nothing😔
I cannot even tell you how amazing this is, if for no other reason than this man actually spoke for eight hours. He’s not saying the same thing over and over again on a loop, he’s legit telling you how amazing you are and how everything is going to be okay in like 1100 different ways, all night long. My ex sure as hell never did that, lol
Haha! Nor did mine. Mine still only has negative things on loop to say about me....and I still miss him..4 years now. How sick is that lol.
@@laabsenceofcol8079 I hope you’ve moved on…
lol I know right. He well grounded..What an amazing thing he does 🤭
@@laabsenceofcol8079ugh me too
I’ve listened to this for the last 4 nights and I swear it’s helping. I will continue to listen for as long as it takes until I am deprogrammed from missing a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship and a future I was never going to have.
Amen
update,
i just want to forget him. i wish we would’ve stayed strangers.
❤❤❤❤
I used to be in so much pain, I used to go to bed crying and waking up crying, I got tiny, I felt empty, hopeless and I used to pray to not wake up for my sleep. For so long, I struggle with the pain, sadness and loneliness . The day I decided to start reading my Bible and prayer every day, my life change, I’m so much at peace, I’m happy by myself, I gained good weight and I more beautiful than ever. When you remember God , he will definitely remember you out of your pain. Try it people.
Going through a break up and currently dont feel like living anymore. It was for the best. But I cannot take it. I am 37 and never felt pain like this before.
Tanacious1111... I understand and I have been in that incredibly painful and dark place at almost the same age. I was actually older. My wife, too went through a painful break up after she was 40. And we tell ourselves a lot of lies when go through this experience. We tell ourselves someone was the one, how can we go on without them, etc... Life will never be the same! All of that. And I can tell you, our mind makes up a lot of stuff and we run away with it. The good news is, you can take control of that. Relationships are learned and we can easily unlearn them. That's exactly all the information my wife and I put into this program to assist people with. So they can move on faster and be better than ever. And you know the really good news is!? You'll discover how there's someone even more amazing then you could have every realized! That's exactly what my wife and discovered: life was more amazing thann we would have ever imagined with our old partners! You can do this! And my wife and I send you all our love and light and positive energy! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
@@JohnMoyerHypnosis Thank you very much. This is very encouraging.❤
Its so hard be strong
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Take heart my dear, it only a matter of time , you will be healed
Your not alone lovely, it will get less painful
I'm surprised that this actually works and definitely helped to ease my heartache. I woke up not thinking of him or wanting him anymore. Thank you sir❤️
Amazing, I'm going to try it because I'm hurt hurt
update
Lord I’m so heartbroken! I deserve so much better. Lord help me !
I claim healing and restoration for you. It's very difficult if you're heartbroken. Hugs 💞🙏🏻
Jasmine Renee...im sooo sorry. You are not alone. Almost 2 months later...i still hurt. He want talk to me...im learning its his lost.
Going through it too love, it will one day be just a thing of the past. Time heals.
Cassandra Santos did this work for you?! I need to get over my boyfriend ASAP
Jazmine Renee' ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I use to pray with all my being for my husband to recognize his mistakes and not leave our family. Now 5 years later .... I’m the happiest I’ve ever been! My life is peaceful and abundant! You may not see it right now but it’s happened for a reason that you may not understand! Just believe and allow the process to happen!
This gave me me hope. I pray every day for him. I pray to be able to pick up the pieces he left & heal from this pain. I cannot make him see his mistakes. I tried so hard & ultimately broke my own heart. But realize it isn't my responsibility to make him see. He needs to see it on his own... I set him free with all my love. I want his happiness. So doing my very best to let go & no longer hold on to an idealistic outcome. Working on myself. My kids need me whole again.
How are you now Monica?
Blessed you,All for it will come a time.for you to live & Love again.
Be true to yourself. You won't more than Gold.
I loved him from my core. I would have done anything for him. He left me then filed for divorce- was cheating and now with that woman. Only married for 3 years. I am devastated. Please pray for me. I wish you all well and healing.
I refer you to Baba. Olu... He attract my ex back to me after separation...
Whatxapp him...
Thanks__ +2348119132200...
I'm so sorry but I want you to know that you are worthy, you are enough & you are incredible. Sending u healing wishes✨ and big warm loving hugs all the way from Nigeria🇳🇬❤️❤️
@@danbauchihauwa1231 Thank you. ❤️💜
This has helped me move on from my wife of 10 years who fell out of love and cheated on me. I have great value to offer the right woman. I was loyal, honest. I accept that we were two souls who crossed paths and had many amazing experiences together including two beautiful daughters. However, we were not meant to be forever, unfortunately, but that does not mean it is the end of the road for me, and the beauty of love, romance, companionship and all of the other amazing things partner can be. I am going to be okay. I am going to be successful in my future relationship. I have learned through this separation and I will be a better version of myself. My next partner will get the absolute best of what I've learned. Thank you to the creator of this incredibly helpful RUclips video. You have helped me to let her go and move on with my amazing life and I am excited about the incredible things to come ❤️❤️
The same way here been so loyal and faithful.. but useless.. so much pain☹️☹️
Well written well said
Same here. It will get better. We will find peace.
I hope youre doing well
Thanks for your honesty. Focus on yourself and living life to the fullest.
For the first time in a long time, I don’t feel alone.. thank you to everyone in the comments for sharing your piece of your story. you’ll be okay, whole and healed soon ❤️
Rose mary I don’t want my ex back lol, I want to heal, work on my growth and start attracting better. Thank you tho.
Yeah it takes a while to accept everything warm and nice is over.. lol it hurt so bad you just sleep with your tears .. but you're going to move one .. just focus on you ✨
@@astrochld4103 ggg
Your beautiful btw!!!
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God please help me heal... I need to heal. It's been so hard for me to come to terms with this overwhelming feeling. I didn't deserve this. Please give me the will to want to live
We will make it. Hang in there. I know this pain. It is familiar. It But like the feeling of the warm sunshine after a storm, we will be renewed and our heart will be ready. But smarter. ;)
In 2004, I felt like the last person on earth. I had broken up with my boyfriend because of issues we couldn't discuss,very bad co.munocation skills. I basically disociated from my life ,let it fall apart, and my boyfriend fell apart with it. I was clinically depressed. He probably was too, he never had another long term relationship after me.Neithet did I.
17 years later I thought we had both moved on. We finally talked, and he wanted to try the relationship again. I was so happy that I would be able to make up for the past. But a few hours later he said it was too late to have a relationship. Now, three weeks later I am still stunned and devastated.
I’ve been listening to this same video every night for the past few months. I think it’s helping me because I’m able to fall asleep easier, but I wake up to the reality of everything. I want this to stay with me not just through the night. I want to let those negative feelings go
If you’re currently listening to this because you’re going through a heartbreak. I’m sending you so much love because I know that it hurts. I’m sorry for whatever you’re going through That’s lead you here.. I pray for your upmost healing.
💔🙏🏼🫂
Thank you so very much ~ I don’t feel so alone with all of you…..I thought I was the only one that hurt this incredibly much
Unloving someone is the hardest thing to do in life, i have learnt that
Been listening to this every night. Whenever I think I'm feeling better it hits me again. How can it not when I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with somebody? I thought she was my best friend. I had no idea when she waved bye to me the last time I saw her that it was for good and I'd never see her again.
All the inside jokes. Even normal words or tones of voice or ordinary items. So many associations once you've built a whole life with somebody. And maybe the most hurtful part is having to realize that at some point it was all fake. Never knowing how far back the fakeness was. At which point was it acting? Because there's no way love just disappeared that day, suddenly, for no reason at all.
Sometimes I still can't believe it's really over. It hurts so much all of the hopes and dreams for the future, all gone.
Going through the same thing. The Universe is going to see us through this.😔
hang in there. The love you felt is real, and is within you. The love you felt came from your love, and thats real. Trust in the process, in your life, that better days are yet to come. You are the love of your life, conect with yourself and spirituality. remeber that life is magical and dynamic. Try meditation, pray and faith in life and thet worth it to try to move on. If the person decided to go, let it go. Embrace yourself. May god be with you.
Then you have you ❤. And your nice personality will attract someone nice who is real ❤.
Ask God to reward you with believing firm faith you will be amazed how things get better and better. You will be happy that happened.
That's a hard part is not knowing when it all changed
35 years doesn't heal overnight.. fingers crossed the pain will go.
Mine was 22 years. I pray this heals you and me.🙏
Mine was 8years.. I pray that it heals all of us. 🙏🏼
Snap, it's such a change. I will never put myself through this again.
Mine was 16 years my first and only. I was 14 I'm 32 now
Mine is 32 years
It's been 3 months today & the pain, anxiety & depression haven't seemed to fade. Just like all of you, I'm up all night from the heartbreak. Almost 9 years of my life, for this in the end? I pray every one of us gets through this quickly & heals 100% only to find a much happier & healthier love and life. ❤ We do deserve it.
🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜 prayers you are feeling so much better and sleeping better!
I am in the same place. I lived with him and based my entire life around him for me to just be disposed like I never mattered. But remember things happen for a reason. This break might not be permanent or it might lead you to something so much better. Either way this time apart was meant to happen and I hope you find solace in that.
I’m currently 3 months after the breakup and feel like I’m spiralling. I hope you found peace and moved on 🧡
Its been a year since she divorced me...together for 8 years, promised eachother divorce would never even be an option. And she left me for another man. She went on, what was supposed to be our honeymoon trip, with him just after our anniversary. Iv been so broken, beaten, and defeated. Its been a year and I still feel pain, i still havent healed and still miss her so much despite how cruel she was and idk why. My heart just doesnt want to let her go...to anyone going through this...stay the course, keep your heading and set sail. Just, dont sail away from what your going through. If your going to set sail...do it towards something. Im in no position to offer advice, but if I could thats what it would be. Good luck to e everyone, the pain is real, the darkness will consume you, but there will be light again. Maybe not today, tomorrow or within the next year. But it will come and when it does I hope its blows open those dark doors and fills your entire world with light again. Stay strong, keep moving forward, and dont ever let anyone convince you that you dont mean anything, bc you do. You mean something to someone out there and that itself is reason enough to heal.
Week number 6 after break up of 17 year relationship 😢devastated dose not touch it my poor girls I’m sorry for not being a better man and what part I played in for this out come but I love you all ❤❤❤❤❤
First time listening and I saw a difference. I woke up about two hours before it ended and found myself thinking about random things then it hit me. He wasn’t the first thing on my mind nor was the obsessive desire to check my phone and see if he had texted overnight! It definitely also helped to read all the comments here and see I’m not the only one dealing with this type of thing. To anybody reading this I hope you know how valuable, lovable and worthy of true love you are. It’s painful now but it gets better! I wish that pure joy and laughter will find you again. ♥️🙏🏾
Came across this today, worst breakup of my life, literally feel as of my life got ripped out from inside me. Going to use this tonite 🤗 love to everyone here who is going through the same situation. 🌸
Going through it now too, such a horrible feeling... Did it helped you? I'm using it today
I’m giving it a go tonight, thanks for the love my man.
I'm ashan
Love to you all. Um heart broken also
Hey guys it actually does get better! a few weeks ago when I last commented I was in a bad place but I’m honestly surprised how much better I feel compared to how I did then. Start talking to new people with no expectations and try focus your attention on getting yourself back! I still have a ways to go on my new journey of self discovery but I can feel myself regaining my confidence and can start to envision a better future. To anyone that took the time to read this, I wish you all the best on your personal journey, keep moving forwards and take each day as it comes. No pressure. I’m sure you will wake up one day soon and feel uplifted like I did with a new passion for myself! Hope this helped even just a little, love to everyone who needs to hear this ❤️
After 25 years of marriage I was abandoned hearing "you know I've never been happy". That was 2016. I've been suffering for years as that other person prepares to marry again telling our children, "I'm going to do this one right." Three nights in listening and I am so grateful to add this to my faith. I will recover.
After 15 years she left me and my heart is hers she with her new partner and it kills me I'll pray for both of us
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. But I’m sorry for your sadness! You’ll heal
23 years for me, together since we was 17. Kids grown and im all alone for the first time ever, the loss is overwhelming.. listening for the first time tonight I hope it helps as I'm so sick of feeling so worthless.. 🤞
How are you doing?
@@Lisa.pizzza thank you for asking! I really was able to forgive my past and move on. I even married my sweetheart from 30 years ago this May 2022! It's just too wild, simply too wild! I found so many other things to listen to as well. Things that keep me moving forward. 😊
Is anyone else kind of scared that this might have actually worked? 😳I feel like I was addicted to the pain and part of me doesn’t want to let go but I’ve tried so many other things for five years and I think this actually is working! It’s only been two nights and I don’t have that deep sadness in me anymore. I listened to it at night while I sleep and I feel so at ease when I wake up!
Hi Heidi. I know your post has been awhile but I’m going through exactly the same thing as it only will be less than two months. Thank you. 🙏🌹
How if i.sleeep halfway of this meditation
I'm Going through terrible phase in my life .. couldn't let go ...
I’ve listened to this two nights in a row and I already feel like I’m healing and so much better! Thank you!
its nice 🤭
How are you doing now?
Same
I listened to this last night and my blood pressure was normal this morning for the first time in a week. Thank you for this!! ❤️
Blood pressure is WILDDD! I’m sorry for you 😓
one day we'll understand why it ended and didn't turn out how we wanted it to.. pray, stay busy, work on your mental health, focus on YOU....
SAME I didn’t wake up with a Panic attack and felt so rested I was mind blown
I'm not ashamed to admit I need this. I'll be playing it tonight. Thank you 🙏🏽
Sending you much light and all the best from me and my wife, Robert! 🙏
I've been through horrible heartbreak. I'm ok now but it took a little while. I wish this was around a few years ago. My prayers are with you and I hope you feel better. There is someone out there that will value you like you deserve but you gotta fully love you first
You’ve got this, Jules! My wife and I send you our love and light and energy. 🙏❤️🙏❤️
@@sarahjulianakatharinakech unfortunately, I've been a part of this club for a long time, friend. But this really helps! L&L❤
@@sarahjulianakatharinakech so much to say, but... I understand. I really do.
Just because someone doesn't see your worth does not make you unworthy of love and respect. You deserve someone who choses you everyday and so did I. 🥺 We will all get through this
Thank u
I read so much pain on the comments. I hope you all get well! 🙏 I'm also in pain right know and I feel very lonely, but eventually things will get better for all of us. Learn to let go. Previously I spent 2 years hurting for someone, but this time I'm really trying to focus on myself and to better myself. It's not easy. Right before I'm writing this I woke up because I was dreaming about her. But then I mentally wished her all the luck and felt grateful for all the good times we had. I guess part of trully loving someone is to accept their decision and to let them go. Just try to be OK for today. Everyday make an effort to go out and do something that feeds your soul. I often go catch the sunset or just standby by the sea. I also started meditating every night. Like now. Go to the gym. Read a nice book. Go get out with your friends! Right now I feel miserable, but I know this is the way I must take to be happy again. 🙏
Thank you for writing this, I take comfort in reading as I am too experiencing heartbreak. I haven’t yet let go fully it’s harder than I thought but i know time is a healer I hope that I can come to except her decision to end things and truly let go.
Hola Marcelo espero k estés mejor asi es el amor te enamoras y te rompen el corazón y nuevamente lo mismo así uno aprende 3n este mundo pero ay aprendes las leyes del amor y sabes a k atenerte y no entregar tu corazón rápidamente a esa persona k no se lo merece así se madura y aprenderás a controlar ese bello corazón ❤ 😊
Thank you for the uplifting and helpful words I’m feeling better already ❤️
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Very Kind words ..
I felt the difference on the second night. It's been 2 weeks since I started listening every night and I'm in a VERY different place now. Blessings to you John! Thank you!
before I came on RUclips I was lookin at my horoscope hoping it’d give me some kind of hope with my ex... I just need to let go and cant seem to find the strength. I’ll be listening to this until then... Thank you universe
For all those people who have come here because they can't make sense of their breakup and have been left feeling empty and foolish and used.... You're not alone, look up Narcissism and Narcissistic abuse, once I understood this it all made sense as to why my ex girlfriend behaved the way she did...Day 2, i'm hurting like hell but I know I wont be in pain forever...None of us will 🙂
I don’t want to love anymore.. i hate this feeling that comes after being betrayed on numerous occasions.. i hate it! The hurt, the embarrassment... the fact she can look me in the eyes with no emotions and be that way after all I’ve done for her. Literally risked my life trying to please her (caught Covid, back in July) ... still no pleasing that woman.. go broke for her just so she wouldn’t suffer.. smh, my loyalty is ignorant.. love... i wish that was one feeling that i couldn’t feel.
You are not alone. Love yourself and you will find someone who is worthy.
Keep ya head up man.
Same exact thing happened to me. We were engaged and he just left 2 months before the wedding and had been cheating and never had any remorse or anything.
@@emilymcafee7334 I'm truly sorry to hear.. I hope that in the end, it will all works in your favor! 💯
Hey John dont waste your time and energy for those who dont value you. Let go and move on.
Bless you for making this. I just got my heart broken by someone I considered my best friend. I told him things I never told anyone else, gave him all the good energy I could give him and he did the same. Then one day, he just changed up on me like I never knew him. I had to find out he cheated cause he refused to tell me , and refused to let me go. This is still so fresh and new to me and my heart is literally torn apart from the inside out. It feels like someone is pouring acid all over my internal organs and everything inside of me burns. Tonight is my first night listening to this. I'm 5 mins into it and im already starting feel the pressure release from my heart.
Sacrificed everything for that one person but in the end all I got was resentment and a heartbreak. I wish nothing but the best for that person and I am sure I will also be able to feel loved and cared again. Stay strong my dear frens 🙏💐
I did it for multiple people. Love and care for yourself first
I hope youre doing better
29 years married plus 5 years dating more than half my life my first kiss my first date my first everything
The break shattered my core! Its been a year but the broken pieces are still lying around
I was looking for all kinds of help from everywhere
This was a gift!
To everyone who needs to hear this. As hard as it feels right now, things will get better, but only if we allow them to. Let us not blame ourselves or even those who left us. If we cannot learn to forgive and understand that not every relationship is going to work and that those who are gone now deserve to live the life they want to, then we will be stuck with the pain forever. Everyone deserves to be happy no matter how much pain it may cause others. Just remember that nobody is to blame, not yourself, not them, family or friends. The bonds we form and the memories with those we cared for, or loved should never be shadowed by pain,suffering, anger, guilt, resentment, or sadness. If you chose to remember, remember the positive times, and realize that they once loved, and cared for you, and one day someone else will to.
Oh Tim. Took me so long to even get to the point of acceptable pain. And yet, what you say is all true. Grieving the loss of a relationship is just incredibly painful.
@@The72Nana accepting new beginnings, instead of dreading the end. We are all in this together. As hard as it gets the best thing to do is think positively going forward. You can do it, I don’t even know you and I have faith In you! One day at a time
Wow
Thank you. This really helped me
This is beautiful
This was so so awesome. My nearly 3 year relationship ended 2 days ago and the pain has been unbearable. Listening to this really helped. I slept well and feel I can face the day ❤️
So you feel the difference after the video? I am going through a 5 year marriage breakup he chose to walk away versus working it out.And it hurts so badly.
The pain is exactly the same as when I lost my mum. Should it be like this. Or is it just both 10/10 pain
2 years ended 5 days ago, I sometimes feel like I'm totally healed, but now I'm just broken like the break up just happened yesterday. I loved him with all of my heart😢
I know it doesn't seem like right now to a lot of you, but there are upsides to events and feelings like these. For years after a break I obsessed while my life passed me by. Finally I decided that anyone who really loved or loves me would want me to be healthy and happy. Now I am grateful for what happened because of the lessons learned and insights gained. Be gentle and kind to yourself. Anyone here has already turned in the right direction. Keep trudging. One day it will feel like flying🙃
Wishing all who are dealing with a break up strength and courage to move on ❤
Thanks
My dear God, Jesus and angels please help me to heal... forget and move on...
Wow! I just woke up for the first time in months ON TIME to my alarm 4.15am and feel REFRESHED ! I am not anxious, and my headache is gone! My shoulders feel relaxed finally!
I was at a breaking point lastnight and your video came across my screen. I thought to myself I could try this and see how I feel in the morning before calling in sick. THANK YOU SO MUCH! I know now I can do this. I dont know exactly how this works, but I know my brain needs rewiring from all the pain and abuse. All I can say, is God bless you for doing this. Thank you! You saved me!
Thank you for sharing your experience, Wendylou072! I am very grateful to hear from you and that you had a good experience. That is exactly why I do what I do. I just read your comment to my wife and she was very touched. We send you all of our light and love and all the best for you! 🙏🏼
this video made me realise how true heartbreak feels like. made me recall all my good and bad memories. only thing we need to know is we must be confident , accept the truth and move on. not every person's suffering is same. never settle down for a person. build your career for yourself. this is just the start, you have alot to struggle. dont settle down for this. you have alot to achieve. keep shining like a bright star and make it happen.
wise and very poignant words - let's hope those in need can take the steps towards this, no matter how small. :-)
If your reading this! Say this under your breath "God I give you my heartbreak and my pain" and you'll feel this amazing feeling in the morning and dont listen to sad music! Drink some nyquil if you have to but dont go to sleep crying! God is never blind to see our tears nor deaf to hear our cries! ❤❤❤❤
It’s okay to cry. It’s actually helpful. It helps release that buildup.
Thank you darling 🤲
Since mine has passed away * I do drink Night Quil some times* Bless you*
@@Gellybeanb1974, ❤️my arms are around you as is his 🤗❤️🙏and so is mine 💕I hear and feel your pain., 💗😘🙌
🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏🙌Thankyou 😇🙋♀️xxxxxxx
I find this very soothing. Just went through a really rough break up after 8 years together. Im happy we remained friends but its just hard still. I realized I almost made her out to be this goddess I worshipped and when she wanted to go find herself outside our relationship I was left with nothing.
Learn to love yourselves people. You'll always be in a relationship with yourself. Dont depend on other peoples approval to make you happy, they simply need to add to your own happiness
He betrayed me, I want just to forget him and be happy
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This is exactly how I feel
@@Veronica-bc6pp time heals, just accept that if he was your man he wouldn't do all this pain, you don't need this video
Good for you! Seems like a great attitude. Feed the your health, not your despair.
Your happyness starts within yourself 💯
6yrs being the sole source of income, to someone who wouldn’t cook, clean, seek help for their mental illness that caused so many fights, or take any responsibility. I should feel relieved it’s over but all I feel is heartbreak and alone. Not even anger towards them, just wish they cared the way I did for so long. All I want now is sleep and a way to forget.
My therapist said depression and sadness are your feelings telling you that something isn't right and it needs to be addressed. Depression happens when your feelings are screaming at you, this isn't right do something about it. I never realised this before. I never put myself first but now I do. Good luck folks, you will get through this xxx
OK I'm absolutely floored. I can't thank you enough for this insanely effective video!!
A little background- my boyfriend of 8 years very suddenly up & left me at the end of July. He told me he just "needed some time to work on himself" and was staying at a Buddy's place. Kept me hanging for a month with "I love yous" & "I'm coming home because I truly want to be with you, Valerie!" BS. Well he busted himself last week & I found out he's now living with a woman he met in JULY and according to texts she sent me - already MADLY in love. Lol
Needless to say, I've been walking around a big fat ball of sadness, misery and tears for days now.
I listened to this last night & I swear to you I feel completely different today. I'm not kidding. I've gotten used to constant thoughts of them together & have been missing him SO much it physically hurts. Ok, I woke up this morning in the best mood I've been in since this all went down. My mind is suddenly clear & not clogged with obsessive thoughts of him. I thought no way. No way did that help in one night. I actually sat down & closed my eyes & hardly any thoughts of him. They were there, but they weren't clear enough to cause much pain whereas before, I thought about him constantly and just knew the pain in my heart would never cease. I still miss him & will love him forever, but I have a renewed sense of hope this morning and it feels AMAZING. 💔
I am praying this will help me the way it has helped you. I am very very close to killing myself and I really don't want to do that but I don't want to hurt anymore
I'm so sorry he put your through that. That sounds awful. I hope you are doing well now though and everything has improved?
Sending you lots of love❤
Listened this morning, It was 4:30 am & I couldn't go to sleep. I'm not sure how I came across this channel but I gave myself permission to heal by any means necessary. Everything will work together for my good. I have purpose & I will remain whole.
powerful words..
How are you feeling a year later?
I went to sleep at 11pm. I woke up at 7:30 without any heartache/intense sadness! (I was having intense heartbreak sadness every morning for about five months now...supposedly "twin flames" issue). I'm so grateful and happy!! ❤️🔥😎👌
So glad for you Iam just going through this❤️👍
I have no words to explain how wonderful this video was last night! My 25 yr marriage is ending and ive been a wreck...my mind racing with horrible thoughts as SOON as i wake up. Not today!! I woke up with peace in my heart mind and soul!! Cant wait to listen over and over even while I'm at work. Thank you thank you thank you 😊
About a month before Christmas my boyfriend/partner of 13 years unexpectedly broke up with me. I have been devastated to say the least! Almost everyday since that time I woke up with this gut wrenching feeling inside of me and an intense feeling of loss: it was like nothing I've felt before. Add my anxiety to that and well I was a huge disaster! Almost every other day I would cry at a drop of a hat and every time I would think about him I would breakdown or have this awful feeling inside. I started listening to this guided sleep hypnosis about a week ago and I just can't explain it: I have stopped crying! I still think about him, but I don't react like I did prior to this week. Its like there something inside me that makes me feel like I will be ok. That gut wrenching feeling has subsided and I'm going to be ok. Thank you - I have always been a skeptic of hypnosis- and after listening to this for a week - you've made me a believer, at least in your skills! Highly recommended to anyone going through heartache!
Thank you for sharing, Anita. All the best to you on your journey of healing and finding true love.
i hope you’re feeling better now i pray for you ❤️
I know God the universe brought me to this. It's time for me to get out this toxic relationship. 8 years and all I've endured was 2 kids abuse and disrespect.
We send you much light and love, Samantha! You have a whole tribe of higher viber here that are rooting for you and cheering you own. We send you all our love and our light and all our positive energy! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
John Moyer llllpllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
This is my story, only one year less. WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!💖
17 years here
Wishing you well
Thanks! I missed him way too much today that couldn’t stop crying.. This helps. I feel so much better now!!
My ex left me 2 and a half weeks ago I thought I was the only one going thru this I appreciate all the comments and glad I am here with everyone to heal and love ourselves good luck to everyone in their own journey
I’m a month in and it’s a bit better ish. So much love. I totally understand the pain you are in. So much love for you. We are heading somewhere amazing. When we relax and start to let go we will never want to look back.
hugs and love 💕
How are you guys feeling now ? I been going through it just 2 days now. And hoping to cope with this
To everyone reading this, We all will get through this❤️
It feels so good to not be alone in heartache...the devastation has been all encompassing. He abandoned me for a third party. After 8 years and finally having a baby. He threw me out of the gone we shared for 6 years...He's gone. I'm trying to find acceptance for what he did to us and or how I contributed and still manage to show up for our child.
Just remind myself. Healing is not linear, some day you is fine, and the next day, you are not fine. It's ok. Love for everyone ❤
Im tired of not being able to sleep or crying all night until my eyes are red and swollen/blistered … gave this person 4 years of my life 💔💔💔….I can’t get it back but I want my peace back
First morning in a couple months waking up without my heart feeling like it’s sinking into despair. Without feeling empty inside because I don’t have a text or some sort of acknowledgment I exist from someone else. My heart is light my breathing is good, and my mind is much clearer than last night, thank you, definitely making this a regular listen.
Damn this pain is consuming
@@lisaflavin860 yes I feel it too :( xx
@@rachelh7597 just seen your reply, how you feeling now ?x
I never wanted to let him go. I love him still. The pain is unbelievable the whole situation is. 💔
Happy to read this that you are doing better. 💕
Never loved someone so much in my life other than my daughter and I'm 45 years old. This has helped me so much. It literally cleared up the deepest pain in my heart. I feel like it's going to be ok from now on. I feel it in a place of total peace in self-love. I listened 3 times. The 3rd time was during the day while I was working at my desk. I will continue listening until I'm totally free and never look back.Thank you.
p.s. I started falling asleep at my desk. lmao But I was so at peace.
My wife and I send you much love and light, Jessica! ♥️🙏🏼
It’s going to be alright, I was there for months!
Didn’t talk to no friends or fam regarding the situation I just went through the motions and took it one day at a time….
the sister of my ex boyfriend she was my best friend but even her I’ve had to wean her off because she was not helping the situation by trying to encourage a relationship that is clearly toxic on her brother’s part!
You just have to cut family members off as well.
so far, I’m doing very well I go to work and come home to a peaceful home, although my ex and I lived separately.
I even started traveling abit and just finding hobbies & things to do that make me happy🙏🏾😀
I simply don’t have time in my life for dead weight/dead beats! period
the key is to learn to love yourself!
Apparently GOD has shown us who they are so we must take that and run with it never to look back!
my Instagram is swtvibez4life I often take “girls” trip but lately by myself which is also enjoyable!
contact me if your interested!
Stay positive, stay uplifted w time it gets better!🙏🏾
I am gradually healing from reading the comments on this video. I mean those comments really works for me to forgive myself from mistakes I've made.
indeed, been reading for 5 mins and already feeling better
My ex ended things with me because he met someone at his workplace and she confused his feelings so much that he said he couldn't give me the love i need and deserve anymore. He was my first long relationship and first love (i'm 27 now). We were together for more than 3 years and lived together. The last year we progressed so much as a couple that i was starting to fall in love with him and his personality again, and then out of the blue he tells me this... I'm so heartbroken, and I have never experienced such pain in my life. I feel confused, by all the feelings (anger, sadness, love, betrayal, emptiness, loss etc.), and I can't stop thinking of how beautiful things were with him and what we built together, all to be taken away by a random crush. I don't know how to get over this... I still love him and I just want to go back to where we were. My world is crashing down each day and even if i do make progress it all starts again in the morning. The pain, the crying, the memories, like I remembered nothing.
My heart goes out to everyone who is feeling this and I just want to hug you.
I’ve had my heart ripped out before. Now going though another breakup but not on the same level. It takes time brothers and sisters. It’s ok to feel the pain. You will be ok. Trust the pain. It’s making you stronger and leading you to higher consciousness.
Know that you’re normal to still miss them…even if it’s been more than a year. Everyone has their own pace. Time does heal. Send them love 💕 and do your best to think about your best life moving forward. You got this!
forty years together and he left me without any warning. The pain has been hell. I pray this helps.
Debbie im soooooo sorry. Debbie STAND UP AND SOAR
I just want to hug you.
Mine was thirty years it's painful
I'm sooooo sorry Debbie! I hope this helps you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
33 years for me.
I love this comment section, i wish everyone move on to their next chapter in finding their true selves and peace. I myself have been struggling with someone who i truly loved with all my heart but what hurts is that she doesn’t know that. We learn from our failures and i do wish her the best and wish all of you the very best
I’ve been doing this faithfully since January 1st and it’s definitely working. For me it took a good 2 full weeks before I felt better so keep going if you’re just starting.
Thank you!
When you have some alone time, get in-front of a mirror and just start venting. Vent about why he/she doesn’t derserve you. I did this for about 20 minutes and said everything on my mind and in my heart. That pit in my stomach went away 😁
I just broke up my abusive boyfriend. But i cannot deny that I'm missing him please God help overcome this situation
05.09.22
I’m back here again. Broken, hurt. I’m here because I’m starting to realize that revenge isn’t the smart way to move on with my life. I hate being alone, I hate going through the heal process by myself but when the odds cancel out, I don’t have a choice but to focus on myself. I want to find myself again and love myself the way I loved many people before me. I want my love back and I want it all to myself. I don’t want to compare my progress to others, I just want to get better. I want to get out of this headspace.
I’m really tired of my situation right now. I thought my ex (for 3 years) was MEANT TO BE in my life (We broke up yesterday) ... But God removed him out of my life and I thanked him for that. God really loves me and he did that. God knew I tried my best to make things work in my relationship and he never gives a damn and he’s out there chasing women. God knows, He knew he wasn’t the one! But God, sometimes, it’s hard to let go of things that are comfortable and very familiar with, even when they’re not good for me anymore. I know I can do this ☹️ I forgive him for what he did but I will never forget .. Dear God, I ask you to renew my heart with your strength and purpose. Help me to walk closer in your way. I thank you God for removing him, and the toxic people from my life, in the times when I could not find the strength to remove them myself.
I’m so happy that I got to listen to this video 🥺♥️ I will continued to do so. God bless you all. With God, all things are possible 😇
We just broke up today after being together for 4 years. I'm confused. He isn't toxic, doesn't cheat, doesn't lay hands. He watched me graduate college, become a nurse and helped with my studies. For him to be alright with never seeing me again has me feeling like I'm not worth knowing.
Amen.
Beautiful how u rely on god so much. I do too he will heal us all and help us get through this heart ache x
The healing journey is crazy. She ended it 7.5 months ago when I was at my lowest. Time makes it better but here I am at 4am needign this again. Wish you all the best
Mine did the same I stuck by her while she gained 100lbs and she hated herself and helped her improve her diet and experience and quit smoking and become in her own words the best version of herself she could ever remember only to have her leave when I lost my job and was struggling to find a new one and felt worthless I supported her for 7 years and 2 months of me not working and 1 month after she started working she needed her own place, her own space and I even helped her move and got her all settled in because I assumed she was going to continue our relationship I just figured she wasn't to have some independence and a day after I finished getting everything exactly where she wanted it she asked me to give her 30 days of no contact so she could focus on herself and I agreed because what choice do you have. I finally got back to work and I wanted to share my good news with her thinking she would be proud of me so after the 30 days I sent a message letting her know and asking if she would like to go out to center with me and I never got a response so eventually something came in the mail that I had to let her know so I see 1 message a day until the day before her appointment and then I called only to find that she had changed her # I talked to everyone that I knew that knew her and they all said she had removed herself from their friends lists so I came to the conclusion that she didn't want anything to do with me anymore. Sadly I feel she had been using me the entire time and now that she is happy with herself she is too good for me. Definitely not the person I love so I have to convince myself that she is not the person I love the person I am attached to dies existed outside of my mind and I have to accept that I imagined her as someone she wasn't and that's very hard for me to wrap my head around and my heart just won't accept it yet again I will get there thanks to these videos
Gonna try this it’s hard going though a heartbreak being a single mom and not introducing your kids to ur dating life so they don’t even know what you’re going through cause you have to be strong and keep a smile when you just want to close ur eyes forever
My heart hurts :/ for anyone else feeling the same sending you all the love I have in me.
5:01:56 You feeling whole and complete does not require anyone else. You can now realize your feeling good is not determined by anyone elses choices or behavior or even their presence in your life ❤❤❤