Radiologist Shows What He Found in Brain Scans of Man With Severe Anger Issues
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- Опубликовано: 15 май 2021
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Natasha says despite her 8-year marriage with her husband, Brenden, being full of screaming, fights, threats, name-calling and pushes to the face, which she calls “muffing,” she still stays by his side. Why is Natasha trying to make this relationship work? Brenden admits he can get anxious, which leads to outbursts of anger, but says he suspects he could have a medical problem. Dr. Phil asks Dr. Bradley Jabour, CEO and Chief of Radiology at Medical Imaging Center of Southern California, to find out if Brenden could really have something medically wrong with his brain. (19126)
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The Dr is trying so hard to not say the words “child abuse”.
I was a super hyper active kid, got a hernia lifting a post at 12, stitches on head falling from concrete stairs, had a concussion playing park football, many other hard injuries. Had great parents and no child abuse. Sometimes kids just get into trouble on their own.
I agree. He is dancing around the term child abuse
YEP! I saw that!
@@jorgeparodi8644 But the differential with him here, is that he says he has never had any blow to the head. In other words, he was too young and doesn't remember. He didn't do it himself .
One of my sons fell off a ledge when he was a toddler and hit his head. I was walking with him while holding my newborn at the time and my son just darted over there - honestly, sometimes things just happen.
When everyone has blamed you all your life and suddenly someone tells you that it’s not your fault..❤
Fractured skull at 14 y.o.
Extremely angry young man, to the point I hit rock bottom, lost everything.....twice.
Self medicated for decades, I've found what works for me.
I know I can't stop the anger. It's always there, but I can now control it .
Much later in life when I eventually sought help,I was diagnosed with Explosive Personality Disorder, probable cause was childhood head trauma.
The hard thing now is living/coping with the havoc I caused......
@@robwalker7575 Read the new Testament friend "Bible" , Jesus will make it feel better if you call HIM.
This was how I felt after my autism diagnosis….
@@robwalker7575 Damn I didn't even know there was a thing called "Explosive Personality Disorder". I gotta go read on it.
Well in that case nobody is really responsible for any action they take, we just do what our brains tell us to do.
He's crying cause he knows EXACTLY the reason for the trauma. He just doesn't want to talk about it. Hence the ANGER.
ehh kids are wild, it doesn't have to be abuse. He cold be crying because he getting answers as to why he cannot control it, and maybe this will help.
I'm suspicious of that too.
Not necessarily. Maybe so but also it’s a refreshing but hard thing to figure out that it was your brain having issues and not all you just being crazy. After he’s probably thought that
Could be his natural opposite to his anger, sadness. Two extremes; inability to control emotions.
@@lptherapygroup6591actually sadness is not the opposite of anger. The opportunity anger is fear. Primary emotions and secondary emotions. Reference Plutchiks wheel of emotions.
But overall the parts of the brain associated with emotional issues stemming from TBI's overwhelmingly correlate w/anger in particular. Rage, anger, frustration. Those in particular are the key emotions commonly associated with TBIs. Think of the football players with chronic traumatic encephalopathy, or CTE.
Often times anger is also the result of decades of abuse. You try to get the abusers to stop and they don’t. Victims end up where they can no longer take it any more.
Hypnotherapy by a licensed psychotherapist can greatly relieve that trauma.
I agree. It helped me a tremendous amount. @@Patricia-vd9xh
I can relate
They feel helpless and trapped.
Story of my life. Awful existence
Everyone is saying he looks broken after hearing the results, but I think it’s more a release of emotions bc he has an answer and its a relief to himself that’s he not a horrible person but that he actually has a problem out of his control. Now that he know though it is on him to learn how to cope, recover, and better himself so he can treat others as they should be treated.
As someone with chronic illness, I think you're right. To me it looks like emotional release of finally finding out the answer to "what's wrong with me?"
Exactly. Finding out after thirty years of life that I had ADHD was so freeing for me because I finally knew my brain wasn't functioning like a normal person's and I wasn't just a shitty excuse for an adult. I would guess that's kind of what's happening in his mind because he has a valid reason now that he is the way he is, it's not an excuse, he still needs to work on any abusive behaviors, but he can see now that he's not just a shitty human, his brain is legitimately damaged and now he knows and can create a plan to move forward based on his diagnosis. Imagine the relief!
As someone with OCD, this was my exact feelings towards my diagnoses. I was so relieved to know for a fact that I wasn't a horrible person and that my intrusive thoughts and fears weren't my fault. To learn that they weren't a reflection of my sadistic character. It is sad but much more of a hope knowing that I can be good while having disgusting thoughts.
Agreed
I wholeheartedly agree. I recently discovered I may have Asperger's syndrome and that I have chronic anxiety disorder. I am being treated for the anxiety which has been absolutely life changing. But just learning that I "have" a problem, not that I AM a problem was extremely emotional and a huge relief for me.
I feel terrible for him. It’s actually heartbreaking to find out that your brain doesn’t function normally. You can see in his face how broken he is after this discovery.
The sadness part is more ppl than u think are all around us suffers from this! Most ppl don’t go get their brain checked unless they have headaches.
I would think it would be a bit of a relief. Because the alternative is that he is just a douche. At least this way is proof that it’s out of his control.
I've been kicked in the head more than 7 times myself.
And he may be thinking a care taker may have been violent toward him and never told
That's probably relief.
I applaud this man for allowing himself to be examined.
100%.
I have had multiple head traumas and I get mad at the smallest things sometimes....
I'm 65 now.
This has opened up a new avenue for me and my Doctors...
Thanks....
70 years old, multiple impacts, some even leading to impaired consciousness. It finally ended for me after a series of 8 ischemic strokes in April of 2015.
I’ve had multiple head trauma as well, starting at age 10 when I use to bang the back of my head against the wall. In adulthood I was punched many times and thrown into things hitting my head. I’m 59 now
Glad you're ok!
So sad . At least he’s finding he’s not just crazy and angry . He has a problem .
the sad part is if its a brain issue it isnt like hes emotional and therapy can help him, its hard hearing your brain is the reason bc u cant do too much for your brain
@Linda Lowther right, but he lives in the US. Imagine the costs of something like that
@@yungflo60 Phil often funds a lot of the treatments for his guests
@@Tyrosine0910 I hope this guy gets it. I struggled with anxiety and depression for a long time and was able to stabilize it with the "mind over matter" mindset, but literally physically not being able to do that because of brain damage must be so difficult not only to deal with but to cope with. I'm praying for this dude.
I'd rather be crazy and angry though. Easier to treat with therapy, medicine, self love, eating well and exercise.
Something physically wrong would be very hard to treat or even impossible.
Gotta give props to that brain doctor. He throughly presented his findings without sensationalizing any of it, being empathetic to the fact he is dealing with a persons life while also explaining why that kind of brain trauma could effect someone’s behavior.
If only the judicial system would catch on to these new findings.
He was trying to stay scientific, and not attribute all his anger to the little anomalies in his brain scan. It very well might be, but he emphasized that he needed follow up to determine that. And Phil kept pushing him to simplify too much.
Well he is on tv ya know?
@@wrinkleypinkley RIGHT! THATS HOW U KNOW TRASH COMES IN ALL SORTS AND SIZES LOL
The Neurologist
What compassion in the voice of Dr. Jabour while the speaking to his patient.
It seems to me that he knows exactly what caused those injuries, and he has tried to put it behind him, but realized how deeply it affected him and still does.
❤
The good news, who ever did this to him is screwed. Court wise, plus your crazy thing is going to go out of the window. You can't defend that!
Actually, He's probably grateful to hear a reason he has anger issues.
💔
@@tanyakwiatkowski5638 IED DESTROYED ME TO0 😢😢😢 I feel remorseful
Something like that would change everything. From self loathing to better self understanding. Now, the healing process can begin.
indeed, when we understand the cause, we come to acceptance of what we have/are, and then is when change can start, if you will.
This is so sad I feel like he’s blocking out this trauma (being hit on the head) because he started crying once the doctor brought it up. I feel so bad for him :(
@Avakin Goth Queen He has an anger issue due to brain trauma. Saying you’ve no empathy for him because of the risk he could pose due to incidental injury is like saying you’ve no empathy for the mentally ill as a whole, as many pose potential threats to others when not treated. That’s why he’s there... to get treated.
For some reason people always feel bad for the abuser. When they "forget" its because they don't want to own up to what they have done. The one getting abused is always the wrong one.
@Avakin Goth Queen he literally has no control over it.
@@michellegirau8136 have brain damage is a lot different than someone willingly being an abuser without brain damage
@Avakin Goth Queen way to not understand medical science
I hope that Brandon is doing well and has answers to his brain injuries 😢 ❤
Imagine how many more of us are walking around with legitimate brain functioning issues and ppl judging them thinking it's simply a character defect. SMH
uncomforting truth to people that think those with character flaws are simply evil
Lots!!! So many ppl had head injuries from a variety of things as a kid and they were brushed off. School sports, bike, skateboard, skating injuries and rarely do they even get examined afterwards. Kids get hurt just being kids and then they start driving, car accidents are rampant. my generation didn't have bike helmets, wear seatbelts. Concussions are overlooked. Some head injuries are minor, some are not. But repeated blows to the head are all too common and highly underdiagnosed and they're cumulative. Society is full of undiagnosed brain injuries and the outcomes are now becoming all to visible and maybe medicine is starting to catch up with the football players with CTE and now celebrities with Frontal Temporal Dementia. I hope ppl start getting diagnosed more and we start learning more about it. It's out there, everywhere and ruining ppls lives.
It really doesn't make much difference... I was diagnosed as bipolar with ADD long before getting PTSD from a lifetime of having close and formative relationships with multiple malignant narcissistic abusers, traumatic events and losses, and got knocked out twice and none of it keeps people from passing judgement and condemning just about everything you say or think or do that isn't what they would say or think or do or feel entitled to tell others to say, think or do and not every expression of anger is unjustified or exaggerated...
there are a lot of injustices, ideologies and cruelties happening out there that are deserving of outrage >.>
Me lol. ADHD and ptsd. But judged for it and my symptoms constantly. Suppressing is so draining though
My husband has brain scarring from his pos father beating his pregnant mother's belly to try and get her to miscarry. Thankfully, he left before he was even born. My husband met him for the first time when he was an adult. His father did not recognize who he was until he gave him his last name. He did not attend his funeral. Because of his scarring, he was turned down when he tried to enlist in the Marines, which had been a dream of his. His father messed up his life in many ways without even being around.
Our brain is so complex yet vulnerable at the same time.
My Gawd where you from
@@numba1punta110 Nigeria but was born and raised in Germany ✨
Do you give brain?
@@JustinCase-my5vc that is so disrespectful.
@@JustinCase-my5vc sounds like you could do with some
I just want to hug him, he seems genuinely heartbroken to find this out. I feel for him massively.
I think he feels relieved more than anything. He now knows it's not something he's doing purposely & it validates his feelings of not being able to control it.
I feel the same way.
I agree with everyone saying it's relief. That would certainly be my feeling if I were in his place!
Also, I think it's "cute" Phil pretended to ask the guy for his permission to share his medical info. 🤷♀️
I'm devastated for him 💔❤️
@@tarafarabobara159 It's probably a "CYA" maneuver. In all likelihood, he signed detailed HIPAA release forms before the show was recorded; but Dr. Phil is asking him for permission here so that his consent is on film. That does two things: (1) it stops people from complaining that he's violating HIPAA via his show, and (2) if a guest were to ever attempt to sue, he can pull the tape back up and say "it is recorded that you gave consent".
My aunt showed several areas of brain injury following a stroke. The hospital staff thought perhaps she had an abusive partner. She was a single woman never, married. She had never reported any injury nor had any contact with police. Because we don’t perform MRIs on “normal” people, we have no idea how frequent these areas of “brain injury” are in the population at large, and whether or not they are consequential.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
Finally! They actually scanned somebody's brain! I'm impressed
They did it like maybe a month ago, with some doctor that had his own center for some kind of mental health treatment I want to say.
Twice, I'm impressed
Pessimistic I shall be. Dr Phil will always be more of a shady business type to me than a caring "Dr"
@@T.d0T.I agree
Psychiatrist's are the only doctors who throw dart's in the dark. Neurologist can scan the brain and pinpoint the correct medicine to treat it.
The wife knew there was something else going on, that's why she stayed.
That's sweet that she stood by him
Maybe she did it
No, it was because he was abusive
So many people do not believe you when you tell them that something is wrong with someone you love brain. When you watch someone change so dramatically after a head injury, and YES they can become abusive, but you stay with them because you KNOW it isn't coming from their heart but from their brain. It does NOT make the abuse any easier to take though so I do understand why most spouses or family members leave.
Or maybe she was scared to leave because he was abusive to her
If there was abuse in his past anger could not only stem from the injury but from buried trauma.
Damn. Having brain trauma is probably the worst thing that can happen in your life.
❤
Gen X and generations before are FULL of people with undiagnosed brain injuries. Yep, we got hit, a LOT, by adults.
There are so many people like Brenden out there that don't get the benefit of this expensive type of medical diagnosis. They instead go through disciplinary measures, incarcerations, etc. Many wind up unemployed and often homeless. They are blamed by society for their actions and behaviors.
Yes, it's too bad that brain scans are not yet a standard part of a physical when someone is arrested for major crimes. In many cases, the scans would give us better information as to what is really going on with a person.
So true unfortunately
This 😭
Yes
Been here doing this
Seven distinctive areas of damage. Multiple moments where he was struck hard enough to permanently damage his brain. What was happening to this young man?
it is sad and he probably was abused or hit his head as a child
He has been abused as a child at some point.
@@jivonniasmith9770 yeah he hit his head 7 different times causing different injuries. Please this was obvious abuse
Maybe dropped as a baby
Sports
My husband has Intermittent Explosive Disorder because he was beat in the head as a child. His whole family treated him awful and denied any abuse for years Even though they knew his abuser hurt others in his family. I took them his brain scans and went off on them for not taking care of my husband when he was just an innocent child and ignoring his medical needs. We hardly see those people anymore. The diagnosis gave me a way better understanding of what he goes through and how to handle it when he gets upset. It's not always easy because it requires me to master my own emotions but he's a wonderful person and he is worthy of love and care just like he took care of me through all my medical issues. These issues are very real and traumatic brain injuries known as TBI can cause serious problems. If anyone you know gets a bad head injury or has a history of being abused please get them looked at. The physical and emotional scars run deep.
This dude knows exactly what happened when he was younger. He just doesn't wanna say it to sound like hes making excuses.
What if his parents beat him, but if he says anything they will kick him out and he will be homeless? Will you take care of him? Stop making stupid comments unless you are also offering a solution.
What if it happened when he was a baby, before he can remember? Shaken baby, for example? You can't just make snap judgements - even the doctors said the cause would need to be found out and investigated. Neither he nor the doctors know.
@@Zzueshe's married with a family and their own place. He doing better than most but that don't mean he is doing good.
Poor dude I could use that brain scan
@@danf7411 That is good to know.
@@mehitabel6564good point. But he could have taken a fall as a toddler on the playground and not remember.
I wish someone had been sitting with him such as a parent or partner, it was heartbreaking to see him sitting on his own crying.
Baffled - His wife was sitting across from him.
They're sitting 6 ft apart due to Covid restrictions. But he really needed a hug there
@@5Demona5 well that's messed up. For crying in the mud ,they are married. Should not have to distance like that.
It's not like they are sitting 6 ft away from each other at home
I thought the exact same. I just wanted to give him a big hug. X
I know a few people are saying he’s heartbroken, but there must also be so much relief. He now knows that there is a physical reason and name to what he’s been struggling with. I always knew I had an anxiety disorder, but when I was officially diagnosed I felt a huge amount of relief. For those with a mental health condition, giving a name to how you feel means you can have power over the disorder. He’s going to have a lot of work to manage his symptoms, but now he knows how to fight against the mental health disease he’s living with.
I too have anxiety. I have depression and I'm bipolar.
What a mess. I take 4 meds to help me deal.
I had an abusive father who beat me regularly as well as a husband.
I'm no angel, but I did not deserve all that I got
If I wasn’t diagnosed with OCD by 16 I’m not sure how I’d have kept going. It’s really why this stigma and lack of normalcy is so harmful.
Having the information can bring compassion to ones experience. Definitly would be emotional to recieve confimation that what you struggle with has a valid physical basis.
Same when I was diagnosed with autism as a young adult. I didn't know why I'd get so upset at things that seemed meaningless to other people. It really helped to know why I'd react differently than other people to certain things and made me much happier moving forward.
And now he knows he is not crazy, and not just making excuses, he has had physical trauma that hasn't been able to heal 😢
Something bad happened to this poor guy. I hope he finds closure someday.
My heart breaks for him.
This happens more than people realize. I worked where a volunteer had a serious head injury after a car wreck and not only did he lose cognitive function, but his otherwise very docile sweet demeanor was subject to fits of anger.
I heard of that kind of thing.
I heard of people hitting their heads and having different accents, and I heard you can be almost dead and your brain will allow you to do routine activities. Brain is incredible...
Seems the poor guy knows what happened and he is remembering it
Yup that's exactly what's happening so sad😢
He knows and it’s not his fault. Got to be so hard to cope.
Prayers 🙏 to Brenden! Now that he knows what causes his anger he can learn tools to control it!
MR Phil had his license revoked in Texas. He’s NOT a dr anymore!
I pray God brings peace to his heart 🥺
He does 💜
I feel like knowing this was a relief to him cause he’s gonna realize that he’s not angry just because. His brain had trauma and that started to cause his anger issues. So he is literally sick, it’s something he can’t quite control
In 2015, while working at Lowes and going to therapy for my "mental illness". I would come home from those sessions and read sources online.
One said that doctors literally just get paid to diagnose people. Even if you are normal.
A few years later. I discovered that this is how doctors make their living ? By this over inflated price from this magnetic resonance image.
@@patricksedjro1764 if you live in a country like the US where they charge you thousands of dollars just to get into an ambulance, that might be true. But in the rest of the world where healthcare is pretty much free, misdiagnosing people doesn’t make any sense. Where I live, public hospitals and doctors are always so busy, they don’t wanna keep you there. There are always gonna be sick people, doctors don’t need to make up an illness. If they do or if they don’t, we don’t know. But saying doctors make money if someone’s sick is like saying funeral homes make money when people die, so they’re just gonna go out and start shooting people so they can have more work and earn more money. I think it sounds ridiculous.
@@Rudom17 shut up
@@patricksedjro1764 lmao see ? So the doctors diagnosed you correctly 🤣🤣🤣
@@patricksedjro1764 no you shut up and take several seats. You put quotations around mental illness, then gave your conspiracy theory analysis which says you obviously don't believe in them. Are we overcharged in the united states for even the simplest procedures, yep. But no one is out there dxing someone with freaking brain trauma/injuries just so they can charge you. Ffs I'm barely trained in the medical field and can tell his scan is off. Mental illness IS real, and I think you're just in denial. Due to what, who knows?
Children fall from trees, bikes, skateboards and playground equipment. Boys tend to play rougher games like football. I had a friend’s son who tripped while playing a pickup game of basketball in college and hit his head on the curb. He was knocked unconscious and woke up in ICU with a subdural hematoma and didn’t remember anything. His injury was severe but how often are injuries less common. Children pick up younger siblings and accidentally drop them. I walked outside with my head down and hit a heavy clay planter pot hard enough to stun me and break the pot. Accidents happen but we tend not to think think they are serious unless you end up in the hospital. It doesn’t necessarily point to child abuse.
Yeah, I dropped a family friend I picked up as a kid and she had a concussion and started vomiting. She later in life hit my sister in the head with a ping pong paddle and my family kind of convicted her as guilty. Her anger was probably caused by me.
I need this badly..I'm a 40 year old male that has nothing but rage as an "emotion". Horrible rage
jesse lee peterson has an answer for you.
or intense counselling
@@Lauren-vd4qeIf he has nothing but rage it’s probably something deeper than something a counselor to fix.
we dont know if he needs someone other than a counselor, but a counselor is a good start. @@Blueicyyy
It is likely that as a child you were not permitted to express any emotions except anger. Anger is the emotion that comes out when sadness, fear, and hurt were not allowed to be expressed.
Hugs to you. Therapy will help you get in touch with yourself again.
Psychiatry is the only medical field that doesn't look at it's relevant organ. Tons of us walking around with hurt brains and just pushing through.
They just want to dope you up and keep you reliving any negative happenings in your life
Therapy is very helpful. I wish it were more widely available. However, I owe the field of psychiatry big time.
So true! And it changes a person’s whole life when they understand it’s not their fault. Now he has something to work with. He was very lucky to be able to get a scan.
@@GadereneLegion I agree, if you can get proper therapy. Too many places have terrible therapists that only make you feel worse. You have to keep trying new ones til you get one that’s a good fit, if you can, otherwise they start blaming you for not wanting to get well. If a therapist makes you feel so bad you become suicidal, find a new one, don’t give up.
But it can. Clinical psychology relies often on neuroscience, cognitive/behavioral neuroscience, to ground some of the behaviors one can witness to the brain itself. If you have ever taken an intro to biopsychology class you quickly see the overlap between psychology, neuroimaging, and neuroscience.
I couldn't even imagine being told that news... I feel bad for his situation.
I think the poor guy is probably thinking “ So that’s why I’ve been feeling angry at everyone, WTF”
I have hit my head dozens of times growing up in 70’s and 80’s. Some minor some bad but all not good. Try surviving raising a family and running a business and not f ing it up. Now thats a story worth telling. There are millions of us.
Nobody said you’re good at it . Don’t be such a jerk he was obviously abused as a kid
Blah blah, not about you.
Boomer mindset
Do you realize how hard you have to get hit as a child that you suffer permanent scarring of your brain and it’s tissues so bad that it causes behavioral issues?? Unless someone was repeatedly beating you with a baseball bat til you fell unconscious or something equally as graphic, you whacking your head when you fell off your bike or the swings is literally a paper cut compared to this dude’s missing foot (metaphorically speaking). God bless you, and God keep you 🙏🏻✝️❤️
As a survivor of violent childhood abuse, In my opinion, he's been beaten. I bet he loves his parents and didn't want to mention it. I'd have done the same thing. Reacted the same.
Same
No memory sticks before age 5
@@maureenblutekraus3561 really so I don't remember being molested, those memories I have don't exist 🤦♀️🤷♀️
It's possible he was beaten or someone dropped him on his head before age 5. I'm sorry you suffered a trauma.
@@maureenblutekraus3561 thank you, that's what I thought but they said around age 13 and 14, I'm wondering if he was dropped as a baby or shaken, but his family definitely did something
i got a tbi from a car accident and still struggle with emotional lability and anger issues. its such a struggle. i really feel for this dude. its a devastating condition to live with.
How you deal with it
how does he go on when you are telling him and the world that his brain is broken. i so feel for him
As someone with anger issues people like to say you just can’t cope or you just need to get over it without realizing it’s literally out of your control. I hate getting angry and blowing up at people it’s severely hurt or entirely broken a lot of my relationships mainly with my parents because they refuse to cut me any slack and they love to push my buttons. This man has probably had the same experiences from how he reacts to this. Your not a shitty person, your best is all you can do.
Wow how old are you I'm 33 and I used to have anger issues but with phone counseling and therapy I changed. My brother recently had a brain injury in 2019 and since then he hasn't changed a lot my older brother is not here so I'm afraid my brother may get hurt or even killed if he messes with the wrong person. Since there are limited options one of them is to move immediately and that's what Louie did he's the oldest
Aw man... as a kid he probably experienced some sort of abuse or trauma that he’s blocking out. Something happened to him💔
There is no way this wasn't.
He knows and remembers the trauma because once the doctor mentioned it he started to cry. He was trying to block it out all along.
I disagree. I think finding out from a clinician you arent normal is scary.
@@te9591 I think there are studies that point at people who have anger issues have parts of their brain that are less active and don't function like "normal" brains. Essentially it's a brain disease or disability, and things like that people lead to mental disabilities down the line and personality disorders. In my opinion it's a type of handicap.
It could be tears of relief at finding out that his anger problems have a genuine physical cause.
Dr Jabour I love your South African accent! Now with this evidence we just need to find out if it was abuse and if so these FLIPPING culprits or culprit that hurt this poor boy so bad should be put in jail.🧐🧐
We could solve sooooo many issues with proper medical care available to the public. Imagine being so angry, violent, self destructive and knowing you need help but have no way to get it unless you unleash that anger.
2:04 they finally start talking about the actual brain scan.
Legend
You're awesome! Thanks!
Y’all can’t wait two minutes for context? Lol 😆
Only the rich have money for that scan.
The real mvp
*I have a question..... why is it that mental health is such a major, serious issue among so many of us yet, doctors rather throw medications at us instead of doing brain scans like this to get the right diagnosis???!! I'm betting it's bc of the price and insurance issue but isn't that such a sad excuse when this could help so many of us suffering???!! It angers me so much!!*
Brain scans are really a new realm that’s coming up. I’m hoping in 5 years this will be standard care - a mental health professional.
Your are correct, the profit margin isn't nearly the same for fixing issues as opposed to masking them with continuous "treatments and medications" also scams don't produce side effects that make you rely on more scans. Medical is a financial scam like much of what we 'rely on or trust'
Why not do a brain scan on everyone suffering from mental issues, to first look for or rule out brain abnormalities and trauma? The only answer is $$$. These tests are expensive , and unless forced to, insurance won't pay for them.
Doctors are lazy and greedy, they don't care, it's a turn and burn industry, period. Look at all the misdiagnosed illnesses that lead to death. They don't care
Big Pharma. They'd rather dose it than treat it and that's pretty much for everything. Sad.
Praying for you Brian , I can tell you’re a genuine guy who wants to help himself get better
My heart breaks for this young man!!! Sending prayers for him and his family!
Yaay! Shout out to the South African doctor. Our doctors are so smart and I'm glad he was able to help the young man.
I knew I heard a South African accent! 😁🇿🇦
I thought I heard an SA accent.
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Go SA 🇿🇦
WHOOP WHOOP!!!!!!! I KNOW I heard that!
Somebody knows who busted Brandon up side his head.
Exactly 😔
A bully 😔
@@naomit.s7152 you did
@@kelvinmorris1991 Spotted the incel.
I’ve had horrible anxiety and depression and anger and lots of other things mentally. Only in the past year did I start finding out why it was. It was such a huge relief to know that it wasn’t my fault and that I’m not a terrible person. My doctor only prescribed pills so I’m taking a lot. I really wish I could get a brain scan. What is helping me to slowly but surely heal is going to Christian counselors and working through trauma and my feelings and views of life, myself, God, etc. The medicine has been helping somewhat to lessen my symptoms but it isn’t curing anything. It wasn’t until I started learning that God isn’t an angry, strict tyrant but is a loving, caring, protective healer and father and began to trust Him that my healing journey really began. There is hope!
Simply put, he was abused as a child, possibly even a baby, and his brain blocked it out. Sending him love ❤
I hope he takes path to recovery from here.
I have a TBI front right lobe and I once struggled with severe anger issues had to learn to tame myself takes year's
Need help with that
What are some coping skills that you can pass on to others who might have TBI?
@@svelas100 everyone's coping skills are going to be different mine was it came with maturity although people with TBI's maturity level are behind based on their age you can learn to tame it I just no longer allow myself to get that angry and lash out it took a trip to prison to teach my a very valuable lesson that I needed to change this is almost 10 year's ago now it taught me to control my anger and I can't lash out at everyone because I can't control it internally it took me being told I was a threat to society that made me change but don't get me wrong I'm not perfect I do have my days but I've learned to keep my hands to myself now
I also went years with undiagnosed head trauma, and I empathize with him so much 💕 From this point on he will be able to manage his symptoms!
I had such severe anger as a child that I would beat my head against the wall. My family ignored it so as not to encourage it. No abuse caused this.
I wish they'd do this for most people. A lot of people just don't know what's going on with their own bodies and the instances of damage causing behaviors is super high
I love this doctor. I could never understand how a psychiatrist could throw all these pills at you and never once look at the brain function. The brain is the seat of our personality for goodness sakes.
You're exactly right
Um because they throw medications at you to treat you , theres nothing wrong with medications , medications actually saved my life, these brain scans are for research and help scientists and doctors come out with better treatments and possible cures
So true 👍
Never have a visit to psychiatrist. Bad bad bad experience with them.
It like doctor say, you have HIV and not getting a blood tests.
O my.. I cannot even begin to imagine. Someone knows something about his head injury. Prayers..❤🙏🏽💙
maybe CPS should get a hold these things too for abuse accusations
This scream child abuse.
My hearts breaking for him. I personally have a lot of lesions on my brain because I have Multiple Sclerosis. So I truly feel for him and pray he and his family are doing well.
I’m so happy for him they found concrete evidence there was trauma to his brain...he looked like he felt immense relief and validation, that he was not crazy, not senselessly angry, but that there was trauma around crucial developmental times. Now he can truly start the healing process.
Positivity
I am glad it's somebody besides Dr. Amen doing this brain scan, most medical insurance will not pay for brain scans.
Severe Child Abuse. As a baby, or toddler he was Abused. Prayers.
Wow. Seems like they’re actually starting to do what they’re supposed to; rather than just showcase people’s disfunction and drama.
My siblings have severe anger issues. It truly disrupts family dynamics and inflicts immeasurable amounts of trauma. Contending with someone's extreme anger is like walking through life alongside a 💣 bomb that could go off at any time 😔
Pray for them 🙏🏻💖 Jesus heals
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only son, so whoever believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.
Acts 2:38
Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Dr. Phil: Although it’s heartbreaking to get a diagnosis of brain injury, at least now he’s in a position to get neuropsychiatric help to begin his neurorehabilitation.
I’ve known a LOT of people whose lives were able to be improved incredibly after getting the specific diagnosis and the right help.
There are still many people out there who believe that old lie, that anybody who receives a brain injury after the age of four years, is essentially mentally challenged for life. It’s really important for that man and his family to know that while he may always struggle with certain aspects of functionality subsequent to that injury, he and his family can come a long way to recovery from this, and that many of the biggest steps can be achieved inside of a few months of getting started.
My heart and prayers go out for this couple.
This is spiritual...I wish I could talk to him. I see the problem...Smh...Praying for you bro!!!!
You’re right. It is spiritual. With physical evidence. But God can heal any situation.
Much respect for this man and his family. He is honest and owns his anger. He is trying to do all he can to find out what is wrong. God Bless sir.
May God help you find your answer and peace.
Real quick, Dr. Phil's shoes! This young man is definitely suppressing a traumatic episode on his life that caused his head injury. My prayers go out to the fam.
He might not be suppressing it. It may have happened so early in his life that he literally doesn't remember.
The body remembers trauma, though.
I'm afraid he may have been shaken as a baby 😭
Maybe the fam is the cause of it.
Maybe the family caused this….
The mother in me just wants to see him be held and supported with processing those emotions, instead of sitting in the spotlight, being scrutinized alone.
I have pretty extensive scarring to the front of my brain from an accident. My anger issues somehow make sense now...
I still think, as horrible as it is, it’s fascinating that trauma can cause physical damage on the brain... it’s really sad
In this case they do mean physical trauma, an injury.
They don't mean emotional or mental trauma
He's been badly abused.
I would really hate to have MY brain evaluated.
Bless that man, it's clear he hasn't really done anything wrong and sought out professional help before he ever could do something bad, as a man who's experienced a lot of anger and gone on to search the darker places for it's reason and meaning, I think it's important to not immediately recognise or identify anger with being a terrible human, it can often stem from a physical or even mental injury that you can work through and leave behind
So being knocked out and basically landing on your head . Can cause anger issues later in life... That's good to know
I have TBI and my anger wasn’t under control until I was diagnosed bipolar 2 almost 7yrs later!
@Angel Peña they also usually come with the added mental health stress of PTSD, Anxiety, Clinical depression, etc. everyone should have a therapist. Everyone.
A guy in Seattle got knocked out, he was a average student throughout his life, but after the KO he was a math genius
@Angel Peña It's very sad
@@fdti6914 He was extremely lucky. It could have been absolutely opposite.
I hope he’s able to live a joyful life.
I hope he continues to learn about himself and find a solution that he can manage. Being out of control sounds very scary and very disheartening. But as humans have learned by now- knowledge is power.
My son has small tumors that causes his anger issues. Before he knew of them he tried so many things to help himself even signed up for the Air Force.
He was awarded a War Hawk, ranking 3rd most fit in like a huge number of people (forgot what it's called,lol..) He was so sick he hadn't been to the bathroom since before he went to boot camp until the end of it.
Tim ran with tore up infected blisters he had barely any sleep he was cross eyed in his photos from it but he made it through probably would've ranked #1 had he not been so ill. He even ranked high scores in the written tests as well. Im So proud of him!
He thought the military would fix his anger issues but it was too hard he was getting angry there too. He just couldn't handle it permanently without help when he got out he got a brain scan.
That guy reminds me of my son. So sincere about not wanting to be angry going through so much to get better.
My son is even on BP and psych meds now both meds make him exhausted and make him feel like a shell.
Everyone wants to hug the man. What about his wife who has been emotionally, mentally, and physically abused for years by him? Yes, they found a "cause" of some kind and hopefully he'll get help, but she could have been killed or her children seriously harmed with some of the dangerous and violent things he did. I'm very glad they found that something is physically wrong that potentially explains his behavior. I truly hope he gets the help he needs. But let's not forget the victim of his rage and violence too. I will be praying for every person in that family.
Besides being hugged she should be applauded.... she has more character than most
Jenny, he's the victim. It isn't always about the poor woman. He's got an injury or possibly a tumor that he may live with the rest of his life.
Jenny, It appears you fail to realize that HE is the primary victim. whatever his wife had endured (and now, obviously his children, too) she is now able to walk away if the challenge is too great for her, but he is left to confront the problem for the rest of his life. His children may be straddled for years as well with therapy of one kind or another, but their options are clearly more optimistic than his.
This is show business, not medicine.
@@phillijp Yes but the woman has been the victim of his abusive and dangerous behaviour. Saying she deserves no consideration is manifestly unfair.
This is a fear that I have with my own brain. I had a brain hemorrhage in January, and it might just be my imagination, but it feels like I can't focus on tasks as well and have difficulty with remembering things.
Praying for you❤🙏 That you get the answers you seek and feel better soon. Much love to you!
I hope you feel good soon nd have an amazing life ahead ❤️
Please get it checked out!
@@Amanda-Renee Aww, I really appreciate it, Amanda!
@@wishevolution2687 You're the best!
Big hugs to him and I hope the doctors can help him so he can control his anger .I am so proud of him for seeking help . God love this beautiful young man !
My brother has issues like this. While I don’t have much sympathy for him when he’s mad, it’s very sad to see how much it upsets him to get like that. They know it’s not normal, and they don’t like it. No one likes being angry like that. I feel his pain, it sucks.
Awww I feel so sorry for him. He's devastated. It's not an easy fix.
Calm down
I'm glad they've finally scanned the brain of a guest. Imagine the results for many of Dr. Phil's former guests.
And "regular" people out there.
They would show up empty.
My best wishes to you in your future. Take all the help that is offered to you. You deserve it.❤
Anger is a gift.
I feel so sorry for this poor man. I feel that he may have been hit on the head due to physical abuse that he's blocking out. Somebody in his family knows something and they need to talk about it. I just want to hug him because I went through pretty severe physical abuse at the hands of my own mother and sometimes I wonder if the scar tissue in my brain isn't because of that.
God bless this child of God. Father God, please lay your healing and loving hands on this young man and heal him completely in the name of Jesus. Amen. Brandon, have faith that your Heavenly Father in heaven will heal you. May you find someone to come forward with your history. 🙏🙏🙏
Childhood trauma, CPTSD complex trauma in adults. This young man has some inner healing to do. He is broken and it's sad to see him cry over his troubled past.
Poor guy! I don’t even know him but I’m crying and I want to hug him.
Wow that is an eye-opening experience that's why when he gets into a rage he couldn't remember anything afterwards🤔