What a brilliant woman. Dedicated to her line of work supporting the victims of hijackles. Until her last breath she gave to those of us who are healing from these kind of relationships. Much love to her family ❤
You are so right! We do tend to divulge too much when we feel connected. I learnt that a long time ago. I only answer questions and disclose very little. Just enough.
So sad to hear of your passing. So grateful for your videos through the years. God bless your family in this time of sadness. ❤ You helped me in my greatest time of need, forever grateful.
For anyone that sees this message please know that you can send the doctor your gratitude by leaving a message here or wishing her well in spirit. She truly left us all a precious gift with all these videos.
Dear dr. Shaler, I just can't believe you left... I wanted tobe your client three weeks after I discovered you and your life saving channel. But then I discovered you already left this world... I am so greatfull for all the videos you left for us behind, I appreciate your work and your empathy so much! You help me so so much! I will never meet you face to face, but i feel like i knlw you for many years and i cry and miss you😢💔
Thank you so much for this episode. Coming out of relationships with hijackals can be so disorienting and it would be hard to remember to protect future relationships from that drama. thank you thank you thank you.
Oh, sweet woman Dr Shaler, look at you. Pouring everything that you had to get your message out to us as your struggling in health. This makes me weep seeing the outpouring of love you have for your community. I feel so loved and yet we never met. I know all your viewers have felt the same through the validation you gave us. May you rest in peace and thank you so much for all that you contributed to this topic. 💔
Thank you so much for explaining these relationships to the public. I lived this and know what you are saying. Please get better soon! It pains me to see you struggling.😇🤗❤
37:18 first time I heard someone else talk about group dynamics. Facilitation and structure where all can speak is important. Very helpful info for professionals running groups that allow certain voices to dominate. Part of the issue is the member creating space by asserting themselves. The other part is facilitation. I do agree that there’s a role for the facilitator to intervene, as well.
Whats wrong, youre sick😢,🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 i have you in my prayers.❤. Listening to you helps me. it calms me down. I realised so much. About how all men have treat me. I m almost ready to leave al behind. Exept my kids Hope you get well soon🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤ just found you three weeks ago online. Im shocked to see you this way😢
Guilty as charged! I couldn't seem to break the habit - I would hold back and hold back then the dam would break. Making progress and this helped - thank you 💐🩷💐🩷💐
Thank you so much for sharing I’m surely listening 🔥🪭❤ your the first to call them hi-jackals it makes so much more sense because I’m sure it must be a different type of high getting over on people but it’s not good living in total fear that’s no way to live oh wow God Bless you .🪷
Dr. Shaler we appreciate your efforts
Thank you kindly
What a brilliant woman. Dedicated to her line of work supporting the victims of hijackles. Until her last breath she gave to those of us who are healing from these kind of relationships. Much love to her family ❤
😢🙏, Dr. please know we appreciate you.
does anyone know if she is okay?
@@lunaluna5815I’m wondering the same thing. What illness is she dealing with??
I have no idea but I am praying for her ♥️ please let her feel better she is such a caring person to share all of this.
@@lunaluna5815she passed away this week. God bless her for her work.
Thank you Dr. Rhoberta for all the help and guidance that you have given out over the years🇨🇦❤️
You are so right! We do tend to divulge too much when we feel connected. I learnt that a long time ago. I only answer questions and disclose very little. Just enough.
I so needed to hear this message. Over sharing shows poor boundaries and invites disrespect.
So sad to hear of your passing. So grateful for your videos through the years. God bless your family in this time of sadness. ❤ You helped me in my greatest time of need, forever grateful.
For anyone that sees this message please know that you can send the doctor your gratitude by leaving a message here or wishing her well in spirit. She truly left us all a precious gift with all these videos.
Dear dr. Shaler, I just can't believe you left... I wanted tobe your client three weeks after I discovered you and your life saving channel. But then I discovered you already left this world... I am so greatfull for all the videos you left for us behind, I appreciate your work and your empathy so much! You help me so so much! I will never meet you face to face, but i feel like i knlw you for many years and i cry and miss you😢💔
Thank you so much for this episode. Coming out of relationships with hijackals can be so disorienting and it would be hard to remember to protect future relationships from that drama. thank you thank you thank you.
Su sabiduría nunca morirá 😢
Oh, sweet woman Dr Shaler, look at you. Pouring everything that you had to get your message out to us as your struggling in health.
This makes me weep seeing the outpouring of love you have for your community. I feel so loved and yet we never met. I know all your viewers have felt the same through the validation you gave us.
May you rest in peace and thank you so much for all that you contributed to this topic. 💔
I am so grateful for you ❤. Thank you for sharing so generously, elder wisdom, I bow before you silver queen
I miss her so much 💛
Thank you so much for explaining these relationships to the public. I lived this and know what you are saying. Please get better soon! It pains me to see you struggling.😇🤗❤
Oh my goodness, Rhoberta. Are you going to be okay?? Sending well wishes your way. I’m sad seeing you like this 😢
Such great advice 💎 like pearls of wisdom!
Thank you! I need your advice now! Take time for self care. Your wisdom is appreciated!
Prayers for you 🙏
Ty for being there💖Doc...RIP🇨🇦
🙏🏽 thank you for all you’ve done to help everyone! 🙏🏽
Thank you dear soul for your wisdom and I send you tons and tons of love and health 💜 !
Bless you for helping so many. God speed.
37:18 first time I heard someone else talk about group dynamics. Facilitation and structure where all can speak is important. Very helpful info for professionals running groups that allow certain voices to dominate. Part of the issue is the member creating space by asserting themselves. The other part is facilitation. I do agree that there’s a role for the facilitator to intervene, as well.
Thankyou Dr Shaler. You were an amazing courageous lovely lady. You are very missed. May you rest in eternal peace. 🙏🏻💐🌷💕
Your message is true and made all the more beautiful by the strength to share during a health challenge
❤️👑❤ fortitude & 🙏
I miss you! I love you Roberta. You help me alot.
Whats wrong, youre sick😢,🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 i have you in my prayers.❤. Listening to you helps me. it calms me down. I realised so much. About how all men have treat me. I m almost ready to leave al behind. Exept my kids
Hope you get well soon🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤ just found you three weeks ago online. Im shocked to see you this way😢
Thank you 🩵
She will be missed 😢😢
❤❤❤GOD BLESS YOU ❤❤❤
Thank you Dr Shaler - you have helped me so much! I hope that you feel better soon and have the help you need. Much love, you are in my prayers ❤🙏🏾
Brightest of blessings go out to Dr Rhoberta ❤you have given me some life changing advice in the last few weeks .Thank-you ❤
I got a notice from Patreon that Dr. Roberta Shaler has passed away. 😢
I had a feeling 😢😢😢
I’m so sad. She was such a wonderful person and helped so many.
Dr Shaler
Hello thanking you so much for your words and knowledge I said a prayer just now for YOU and healing may The lord bless and heal you❤
She has passed 😢
@BrillGirl82 so sorry to hear may God let her Rest in peace
What was her illness if it's not personal?
Sorry so sad your health is fragile. You deserve better from people.
❤
Guilty as charged! I couldn't seem to break the habit - I would hold back and hold back then the dam would break. Making progress and this helped - thank you 💐🩷💐🩷💐
Thank you so much for sharing I’m surely listening 🔥🪭❤ your the first to call them
hi-jackals it makes so much more sense because I’m sure it must be a different type of high getting over on people but it’s not good living in total fear that’s no way to live oh wow God Bless you .🪷