I'm aged 52..I've been watching your channel for maybe 6 weeks. I really appreciate your honesty over your battle with mental health. I struggled in my 20s and 30 s big time. However in my 50s I'm good.....thanks for your honesty..love that. I've been to Vietnam in 2014.....saigon...da lat....NHa Trang,and more over 8 weeks. I plan to live in Vietnam 6 months a year in couple years and 6 months England( it's my home)......You are a talented man...good at explaining things .good interviewer...you seem lovely. I hope you pick up soon. Great job with the channel. Martin...Bristol ..England.....ps.....get back to the gym....! It will help lift your mood
Hey, I'm moving to HCMC next month so I've been trawling RUclips for info and your vids have been my absolute favourite. I think sometimes it feels like people put on a persona for RUclips so I really appreciate how authentic you appear in these videos. You seem like a very kind, smart, personable person and I hope you feel better soon!
Honey I love you and am so proud of your honesty and transparency. Do what you like is always what I have told you. I saw someone comment regarding making a list of goals etc. Try making a list of what you like. Pick one thing everyday from that list and do it. Practice gratitude, daily exercise, and sunshine. All of these things will only bring positive results. I would love to see you travel. I really enjoy those vlogs. I like seeing how you get your destination, your accommodations, and the destinations highlights. All of it is so exciting to watch. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. You will get too caught up in the results and lose sight of your artistic and creative vision. Stay strong Ronski. I love you.❤
I wouldn't go anywhere until you have to leave the country to renew your visa. I like it when you explore the food culture and talk to the locals at the market places. The mall, coffee shops and the movie theater followed by a good place to eat is something I would enjoy. I'm sure Trang has a lot of ideas on where to go and explore.
When I'm in vietnam, saigon especially, I walk around like you and just immerse myself into the culture and it can really change my mood into a happy one. Great video! Keep up the vlog 🙂
I wouldn't worry about numbers. I follow a lot of Vietnam/Thailand creators and I think your numbers are extremely strong, especially as someone who doesn't do too many gimmicky videos like endless apartment tours/cost of living/visa advice type stuff. I think most people are here because they like following you personally and that's a special thing!
Hey Man. Just wanna drop a note to say that we found your channel when we first moved to VN about 2 months ago. We watch a few other channel but yours has a uniquely genuine vibe. Please do not compare yourself to others because we’re all unique and we can’t accommodate/satisfy everyone. If i can encourage you to continue to be you and not try to be someone else. Continue with your genuine interactions with locals. Continue to share your experience with the beautiful people of Vietnam.
Mekong delta is the spot I want to see! My wife is from a town down there and I hope to move there one day! Love this video, recognize the very spot you are from when I was there a few months ago! Great content! Thanks!
Getting out of your comfort zone is definitely not easy. Don’t let your thoughts deceive you. Listen to what your heart is guiding you to do. Fear is a natural state of mind but it is also an illusion. Step into fear my friend. You’ll be glad you did. Not like you haven’t done it before. 🫶 Blessings to you and good luck.
I'm not a doctor or anything but I find it helpful to take Vitamin D (take 30 mins walk in the sun) & B-complex supplements daily and exercise regularly. It definitely helps me mentally. Learn meditation as well. Some time our brain goes off the rail and off balance, we just have to lead it back on the right track. We are in control of our head, not the other way around. We all have bad days and good days...we all want more of the latter. :)
One more good video 👍 yes ! you should be happy and proud to do those videos for us 👍 thanks for that👌 I’m so board here in California 🙁 . You are making me travel every time I see your footage. 😉keep up the good work and I hope you feel better soon.
My favorite things I did in Da Nang. Rent motorbike. Ride to My Son Sanctuary early morning, starting before the sun rise, arriving before the tour buses, amazing experience. Ride the Hai Van Pass route to Hue, beautiful. Waking early to watch the sun rise on the beach, it once brought me to tears.
Take us with you to Hỏi An, or maybe to Huề. Absolutely no need to compare your work to anyone else’s. There is a an authenticity you have others don’t. Your videos are contemplative, like captive, slow films that draw their viewers in. Keep this tone: one take per video, like we are there with you.
I'm really glad you got out of your reclusive state. I can see that just by forcing yourself to get out has lifted your spirits... somewhat. A bit of sunshine, vitamin D and just interacting with the friendlier humans in your neighbouhood does a world of good.. I've felt this way many times, and found that, once I pushed through that wall of inertia, everything seemed to fall in place. Or rather, I responded to the outside stimuli.... I enjoyed your video, the quality is top notch,- like being there myself. .I'm sure there are wonderful areas of Vietman to be explored. I heard nice things about Dalat Viet Nam.Maybe add that area to your list ? I look forward to your next video. Take care !
Guineas maybe those birds. See them in the South in the states. The feelings I guess just happen. I have been feeling like that a little myself. I haven’t been here a year in Vietnam yet. And I’m 60.The dude the said hello to you. I think he took a pee in the river🤣 you’re doing fine man. I enjoy your videos. And you talking about your life. We just have days like that. Just go through them. I need to get back into walking myself. Keep up your vlogging. I think it helps you . And you’re good at it.😎
I'm now 42 and I think the 20s was the worst time of my life. I didn't know where my life was headed. I also failed to get into med school. When I turned 35, and finally got a good career, everything finally fell into place. Work on your career and everything will fall into place. If anything, I'm jealous of your younger age where you have more time to figure things out. Find out if you can do med school in Vietnam. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
I'd like to see you chill in Da Nang for a while for purley selfish reasons. After a brief visit there recently, I think it would be a great place to retire. I'd like to see how you feel about the place and what you discover.
Love your vids bro. Take a short trip to My Tho or Ben Tre for a few days and relax & chill. I missed Saigon's traffic. Left SG 30+ years ago and only been back once.
Sorry you're going through a rough period. For what it's worth and from my perspective, your videos are best when you just walk, talk, and show us the neighborhood where you live. Your style works! It's what sets you apart from the usual youtuber, and makes your videos something we always look forward to. We want to see what it's really like living in Vietnam, in a real neighborhood, with an authentic person. I like your alley walks best! My husband loves the street food visits, too. We watch them all, but your guest visits from other youtubers don't interest us much, or the interviews... we tune in to Big Time Bentley for Big Time Bentley, YOU! You're unique. Maybe you need a little break from the ongoing heat/humidity of Saigon. I always lose my energy and feel sluggish when the humidity is high. When you're feeling this way, maybe a little visit to the north... or wherever it's milder climate... would help you reset to your good place, again. (Next time you're in So Cal, why don't you visit Joshua Tree, feel the positive energy, meditate and commune with nature, and maybe even find yourself again. It's only 2 hrs from LA, but a world away. No rat race here and dry as a bone! ) 🙏
Melancholy maybe? Davefucius says, "You can't predict the future, you can only influence it by doing the best you can and enjoying yourself." :) Positive actions create positive reactions, building an optimistic attitude. I always feel better when I do something nice for someone, even petting a nice little black dog or helping an old lady across the street. And I've noticed there are a lot of old people walking around. So many possibilities. :)
Hey Tyler, I think it helps if you write down some goals. They don’t have to be big and bold. Daily things you want to achieve like working out, grabbing groceries, finding a new restaurant, etc. Long term things like traveling, making high quality videos of the things you love. It will help you focus and be productive by just having a plan. Stay strong man, you have a small loyal group of people on the internet wishing you the best.
Re health issues. Here's my personal experience in VN. The food (esp. some of the street food), are incredibly unsanitary. I tested them on purpose. I ate them, and I get the runs. Then I stop and eat higher end foods at restaurants, no runs. I repeat on street, runs again. Btw, I was born in VN so I thought I would have some immunity but not so. The food is just dirty and unsanitary, even locals get sick. If u monitor the street vendors how they wash their dishes, it will disgust u to vomit. I have a love/hate relationship w VN. But nah, I will rather be in Thailand. VN is a shit hole, at least for me. But I will try DaNang next for 6 months. Hope it's better than HCMC :)
Perhaps what’s keeping you relatively well mentally is your overriding positive mindset. Keep doing what you like (creating video contents). A trip to Mũi Né would be nice. Wishing you the best brother 👍
How about Vung Tau, Da Nang, Hoi An, Nha Trang, Phu Quoc or Da Lat? Vietnam has so many interesting places with different climate zones for you to visit.
Yo dude. All is cool. Make it an adventure; make it a bike journey. It’s great roads up to Hoian and then Hue. Do it, life is for these ‘get out’ adventure. Good luck honey. -Lee. England.
Before you head off on a trip - can you give us a look around your gym and a rundown on your workout? You certainly seem to have done a cardio session just walking there!😂
My mom watches your videos all the time for years! She is Vietnamese and she says to go to Phu Quoc island! BTW, I live in El Segundo and we watched your Pho Dreams video! Sent you some $$ feel better dude.
Mate thanks for your honesty, I’m pretty sure everyone has ups and downs. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and know that behind the clouds the sun is still there.. and they will eventually blow away.. I would swap lives with you any day 😝
i know how you feel, keep yourself busy. Helps, If you have someone to keep you motivated. Travel is great as it keeps you busy and distracted from negative thoughts. if we meet up, can tell you the bad habits and how to overcome. its gets easier. i always get sick at least once on every travel to VN, usually from bad aircon, but you should not get sick again for a while.
Hello Tyler, Hope all is well for you in Saigon. Seems your lack of motivation has been drained by climate and surroundings, as you already know I’m from Phú Quốc, thế minute I land in Vietnam I want to get out of Saigon immediately, life is too busy, too much pollution in Saigon, I want peace and quiet, I want to see the horizon, swim in the ocean, is how I find peace for me. Just living a simple life for me is all I yearn for. Going to Phú Quốc is how I achieve this. All u need is to get out of the city and explore other options in Vietnam. You’re all good it seems, my time guess is 8:14am. Start listening to more reggae music and your mind will change instantaneously. Take it easy Bentley 🤚✌️✌️
It might be the chaos and the heat everyday in saigon. Go to a private nice beach somewhere in DaNang and have a coconut. After that go back to US and consider Ketamine therapy. Comeback when you heal.
As someone who's experienced depression I found too much caffeine ...coffee etc causes my mood to waver up and down what helped me....and this is boring ...drink 2 litres of water a day ...cut down on caffeine ...my mood really improved just by doing this. .give it a go
Did you help David Khai when he lost his wallet? The timing of the videos, if they are chronologically in order, would seem to be the case. Keep it up dude, you're living my dream!
Please eat well. No processed food at all only walk to fresh street food and good coffee stalls. So important what you put in your system to how you feel, body and soul. ❤️
Please link/post your girlfriend’s channel so we can support Trang. Stay strong Tyler! My wife and daughter are living in An Vien, Nha Trang and I am here in Ann Arbor, MI…wishing I’m with them 😢!!!
From watching couple of your honest/frank videos (your downside videos), it really does sound/feel like have clinical depression. I think they call it "major depressive disorder". Cleveland Clinic: Clinical depression, also known as major depressive disorder (MDD), is a mental health condition that causes a persistently low or depressed mood and a loss of interest in activities that once brought joy. Clinical depression can also affect how you sleep, your appetite and your ability to think clearly. I also read this for treatment: The mainstay of treatment is usually medication, talk therapy, or a combination of the two. Increasingly, research suggests these treatments may normalize brain changes associated with depression. I have had friends who had/has "Major Depressive Disorder". I also had friends who had Bipolar Disorder and Schizophrenia. Unfortunately this video and your other "honest/frank videos" they remind me of the past with my old friends who had clinical depression.
Da Nang and Hoi An - once you’ve made the move back out to the gym and filming you should feel better ❤ anyway we are missing seeing around HCM and other delightful places 😎
No human on the planet is always happy ,however its something your unconscious mind tells you that you missing something.As human specially men ,if you are a driven and motivated man and you not setting goal or not reaching those goals it leads to have down times,its human instinct that helped human to survive for thousands of yours if you dont make changes you get stagnated ,I know this because I been in situation for over a month.Set a goal and plan for it and shake things up and you will get better
Try to quit vaping, it’s very harmful to your health, Tyler. Quitting vaping can also save you money. It’s a win-win in my opinion. Hopefully, you could overcome your obstacles.
So many comments: I think it's 8:45 a.m. / Next time you start to feel stuck in your apartment, do a video from there and we will remind you to get outside! / The birds are guineas / Imposter syndrome is so common these days, you are not alone! / I think you'd find Da Lat to be a peaceful change of pace
yeah I think I need to just get over the idea that videos need to be "perfect" or "well planned"...get back to the spontaneous, raw, real life content that I love
Glad to see you’re doing better. Your symptoms seems like you may have had COVID. I followed your channel closely since you live in the neighborhood where I grew up in. Best of luck to you.
why don't you go back teaching? make more money and invest to grow it. This way you can live off of your investment in the next 20 years. always like your honesty. Just think positively and practice gratitude.
Keep up your gym workout and walking. The worst thing you can do is lie in bed and self pity. Take it from a guy who had 4 BAD episodes of mental breakdowns and depression...
Hey buddy hang in strong. i love your real life channel. but you need sunlight Vitamin D which lifts a human spirit up from depression. Now you need to get into the state of assumption.
I think they are female peacocks. I can barely notice that they some stuff dangling "upward" from their head. The male peacocks look glamorous... while the females look super dull and boring.... from what I can remember.
look into gut brain microbiome, your digestive issues could be linked to your depression. i had the same issues when i first came to vietnam. i slowly rebuilt my gut microbiome and i am doing a lot better today now.
There are days when I wake-up just like you... saying fuck it...but since I'm a compulsive obsessive daydreamer my mood changes. Your mood too changed quickly when you arrived at the market and got surrounded by people. Recently you talked with David, about his motorbike trip, you should give it a try Tyler and not worry about what you're going to film 🫰
Hey Man. Just wanna drop a note to say that we found your channel when we first moved to VN about 2 months ago. We watch a few other channel but yours has a uniquely genuine vibe. Please do not compare yourself to others because we’re all unique and we can’t accommodate/satisfy everyone. If i can encourage you to continue to be you and not try to be someone else. Continue with your genuine interactions with locals. Continue to share your experience with the beautiful people of Vietnam.
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I'm aged 52..I've been watching your channel for maybe 6 weeks. I really appreciate your honesty over your battle with mental health. I struggled in my 20s and 30 s big time. However in my 50s I'm good.....thanks for your honesty..love that. I've been to Vietnam in 2014.....saigon...da lat....NHa Trang,and more over 8 weeks. I plan to live in Vietnam 6 months a year in couple years and 6 months England( it's my home)......You are a talented man...good at explaining things .good interviewer...you seem lovely. I hope you pick up soon. Great job with the channel. Martin...Bristol ..England.....ps.....get back to the gym....! It will help lift your mood
Hey, I'm moving to HCMC next month so I've been trawling RUclips for info and your vids have been my absolute favourite. I think sometimes it feels like people put on a persona for RUclips so I really appreciate how authentic you appear in these videos. You seem like a very kind, smart, personable person and I hope you feel better soon!
I really appreciate that and I'm glad you like the videos
good luck with your move too!
Honey I love you and am so proud of your honesty and transparency. Do what you like is always what I have told you. I saw someone comment regarding making a list of goals etc. Try making a list of what you like. Pick one thing everyday from that list and do it. Practice gratitude, daily exercise, and sunshine. All of these things will only bring positive results. I would love to see you travel. I really enjoy those vlogs. I like seeing how you get your destination, your accommodations, and the destinations highlights. All of it is so exciting to watch. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. You will get too caught up in the results and lose sight of your artistic and creative vision. Stay strong Ronski. I love you.❤
love you
stay positive man! Thanks for all you do and I love your content. Please keep it up.
I wouldn't go anywhere until you have to leave the country to renew your visa. I like it when you explore the food culture and talk to the locals at the market places. The mall, coffee shops and the movie theater followed by a good place to eat is something I would enjoy. I'm sure Trang has a lot of ideas on where to go and explore.
When I'm in vietnam, saigon especially, I walk around like you and just immerse myself into the culture and it can really change my mood into a happy one. Great video! Keep up the vlog 🙂
So true!
I wouldn't worry about numbers. I follow a lot of Vietnam/Thailand creators and I think your numbers are extremely strong, especially as someone who doesn't do too many gimmicky videos like endless apartment tours/cost of living/visa advice type stuff.
I think most people are here because they like following you personally and that's a special thing!
@@BensonRichardE really appreciate that comment!
Hey Man. Just wanna drop a note to say that we found your channel when we first moved to VN about 2 months ago. We watch a few other channel but yours has a uniquely genuine vibe. Please do not compare yourself to others because we’re all unique and we can’t accommodate/satisfy everyone. If i can encourage you to continue to be you and not try to be someone else. Continue with your genuine interactions with locals. Continue to share your experience with the beautiful people of Vietnam.
@@dcbear168 thank you! 🙏
Mekong delta is the spot I want to see! My wife is from a town down there and I hope to move there one day! Love this video, recognize the very spot you are from when I was there a few months ago! Great content! Thanks!
Getting out of your comfort zone is definitely not easy. Don’t let your thoughts deceive you. Listen to what your heart is guiding you to do. Fear is a natural state of mind but it is also an illusion. Step into fear my friend. You’ll be glad you did. Not like you haven’t done it before. 🫶 Blessings to you and good luck.
I appreciate that!
I'm not a doctor or anything but I find it helpful to take Vitamin D (take 30 mins walk in the sun) & B-complex supplements daily and exercise regularly. It definitely helps me mentally. Learn meditation as well. Some time our brain goes off the rail and off balance, we just have to lead it back on the right track. We are in control of our head, not the other way around. We all have bad days and good days...we all want more of the latter. :)
One more good video 👍 yes ! you should be happy and proud to do those videos for us 👍 thanks for that👌 I’m so board here in California 🙁 . You are making me travel every time I see your footage. 😉keep up the good work and I hope you feel better soon.
Right on!
My favorite things I did in Da Nang. Rent motorbike. Ride to My Son Sanctuary early morning, starting before the sun rise, arriving before the tour buses, amazing experience. Ride the Hai Van Pass route to Hue, beautiful. Waking early to watch the sun rise on the beach, it once brought me to tears.
it's looking like a trip to Hue, Danang, and Hoi An is in order
Take us with you to Hỏi An, or maybe to Huề. Absolutely no need to compare your work to anyone else’s. There is a an authenticity you have others don’t. Your videos are contemplative, like captive, slow films that draw their viewers in. Keep this tone: one take per video, like we are there with you.
@@johnnguyen385 thank you so much for this comment
Your videos are quite unique, don't compare and keep up the good work.
Time 645am. Happiness =exercise= healthy eating =surrounded by familynfriends
I appreciate your candor. Please more content from Nha Trang. Thank you.
I'm really glad you got out of your reclusive state. I can see that just by forcing yourself to get out has lifted your spirits... somewhat. A bit of sunshine, vitamin D and just interacting with the friendlier humans
in your neighbouhood does a world of good..
I've felt this way many times, and found that, once I pushed through that wall of inertia, everything seemed to fall in place. Or rather, I responded to the outside stimuli....
I enjoyed your video, the quality is top notch,- like being there myself. .I'm sure there are wonderful areas of Vietman to be explored. I heard nice things about Dalat Viet Nam.Maybe add that area to your list ? I look forward to your next video. Take care !
very true thanks for the encouragement
Hey, go do some Vung Tau vlogs. Nice and close and there are lots of expats with really interesting backgrounds that would be interesting👍
I feels that where u go , it is all the same! 😅
Guineas maybe those birds. See them in the South in the states. The feelings I guess just happen. I have been feeling like that a little myself. I haven’t been here a year in Vietnam yet. And I’m 60.The dude the said hello to you. I think he took a pee in the river🤣 you’re doing fine man. I enjoy your videos. And you talking about your life. We just have days like that. Just go through them. I need to get back into walking myself. Keep up your vlogging. I think it helps you . And you’re good at it.😎
life is so hard , we must struggle everyday
@@tonyTony-vr7xn the struggles make the triumphs worth it
Thanks!
@@dcbear168 wow thank you so much! This really helps out a lot!
@@BigTimeBentley Just a small token of appreciation
I'm now 42 and I think the 20s was the worst time of my life. I didn't know where my life was headed. I also failed to get into med school. When I turned 35, and finally got a good career, everything finally fell into place. Work on your career and everything will fall into place. If anything, I'm jealous of your younger age where you have more time to figure things out. Find out if you can do med school in Vietnam. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
I'd like to see you chill in Da Nang for a while for purley selfish reasons. After a brief visit there recently, I think it would be a great place to retire. I'd like to see how you feel about the place and what you discover.
I've been there before but I think it's time to visit again!
Saying a prayer for you bro! Well wishes. 🙏 Enjoy your coffee.
thank you so much!
Love your vids bro. Take a short trip to My Tho or Ben Tre for a few days and relax & chill. I missed Saigon's traffic. Left SG 30+ years ago and only been back once.
Sorry you're going through a rough period. For what it's worth and from my perspective, your videos are best when you just walk, talk, and show us the neighborhood where you live. Your style works! It's what sets you apart from the usual youtuber, and makes your videos something we always look forward to. We want to see what it's really like living in Vietnam, in a real neighborhood, with an authentic person. I like your alley walks best! My husband loves the street food visits, too. We watch them all, but your guest visits from other youtubers don't interest us much, or the interviews... we tune in to Big Time Bentley for Big Time Bentley, YOU! You're unique. Maybe you need a little break from the ongoing heat/humidity of Saigon. I always lose my energy and feel sluggish when the humidity is high. When you're feeling this way, maybe a little visit to the north... or wherever it's milder climate... would help you reset to your good place, again. (Next time you're in So Cal, why don't you visit Joshua Tree, feel the positive energy, meditate and commune with nature, and maybe even find yourself again. It's only 2 hrs from LA, but a world away. No rat race here and dry as a bone! ) 🙏
thank you both so much! this is a really encouraging comment
Good Morning Tyler! We can hang out when I go to Vietnam in October 😊
Melancholy maybe? Davefucius says, "You can't predict the future, you can only influence it by doing the best you can and enjoying yourself." :) Positive actions create positive reactions, building an optimistic attitude. I always feel better when I do something nice for someone, even petting a nice little black dog or helping an old lady across the street. And I've noticed there are a lot of old people walking around. So many possibilities. :)
excellent advice...the little things are important
Hey Tyler, I think it helps if you write down some goals. They don’t have to be big and bold.
Daily things you want to achieve like working out, grabbing groceries, finding a new restaurant, etc.
Long term things like traveling, making high quality videos of the things you love.
It will help you focus and be productive by just having a plan.
Stay strong man, you have a small loyal group of people on the internet wishing you the best.
I appreciate that...I did that a couple of days ago and now I'm checking off things off the list...it does feel better
Re health issues. Here's my personal experience in VN. The food (esp. some of the street food), are incredibly unsanitary. I tested them on purpose. I ate them, and I get the runs. Then I stop and eat higher end foods at restaurants, no runs. I repeat on street, runs again. Btw, I was born in VN so I thought I would have some immunity but not so. The food is just dirty and unsanitary, even locals get sick. If u monitor the street vendors how they wash their dishes, it will disgust u to vomit. I have a love/hate relationship w VN. But nah, I will rather be in Thailand. VN is a shit hole, at least for me. But I will try DaNang next for 6 months. Hope it's better than HCMC :)
Perhaps what’s keeping you relatively well mentally is your overriding positive mindset.
Keep doing what you like (creating video contents). A trip to Mũi Né would be nice. Wishing you the best brother 👍
How about Vung Tau, Da Nang, Hoi An, Nha Trang, Phu Quoc or Da Lat? Vietnam has so many interesting places with different climate zones for you to visit.
Yeah Trang is doing great with her channel. A smart girl. You got a good one bro.
No doubt
Yo dude. All is cool. Make it an adventure; make it a bike journey. It’s great roads up to Hoian and then Hue. Do it, life is for these ‘get out’ adventure. Good luck honey. -Lee. England.
you should go to City of Can Tho for at least 2 days, film the floating market, it's very lively there...
@@jeanspitzner346 I did that about a year ago, videos are on my channel
❤️Praying for you❤️
@@sandw84 thank you!
I'd like to see you in.....da lat.....wonderful place that. Martin..Bristol..England.
Before you head off on a trip - can you give us a look around your gym and a rundown on your workout? You certainly seem to have done a cardio session just walking there!😂
At the beginning of your vlog, those birds look like guinea fowls to me.
My mom watches your videos all the time for years! She is Vietnamese and she says to go to Phu Quoc island! BTW, I live in El Segundo and we watched your Pho Dreams video! Sent you some $$ feel better dude.
@@mygrumpyunicorn thank you so much for your support! Cheers from Saigon to El Segundo and tell your mom and say hi to you both!
Mate thanks for your honesty, I’m pretty sure everyone has ups and downs. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and know that behind the clouds the sun is still there.. and they will eventually blow away.. I would swap lives with you any day 😝
Da Nang sounds cool
Hi Bentley! Great stuff! Could you please more ally exploring?
i know how you feel, keep yourself busy. Helps, If you have someone to keep you motivated. Travel is great as it keeps you busy and distracted from negative thoughts. if we meet up, can tell you the bad habits and how to overcome. its gets easier. i always get sick at least once on every travel to VN, usually from bad aircon, but you should not get sick again for a while.
Please go to Danang! It looks really nice. But if you have more time, the Ha Giang Loop by motorbike.
Hello Tyler,
Hope all is well for you in Saigon. Seems your lack of motivation has been drained by climate and surroundings, as you already know I’m from Phú Quốc, thế minute I land in Vietnam I want to get out of Saigon immediately, life is too busy, too much pollution in Saigon, I want peace and quiet, I want to see the horizon, swim in the ocean, is how I find peace for me. Just living a simple life for me is all I yearn for. Going to Phú Quốc is how I achieve this. All u need is to get out of the city and explore other options in Vietnam. You’re all good it seems, my time guess is 8:14am. Start listening to more reggae music and your mind will change instantaneously.
Take it easy Bentley
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cheers Oranguthanh always nice to hear from you and that's all sound advice
My suggestion is to go to the gym and make it a routine it will help you a lot. Do a video of Vietnam Nightlife in the evening 🌙
the birds in the first minute are guinea fowls
It might be the chaos and the heat everyday in saigon. Go to a private nice beach somewhere in DaNang and have a coconut. After that go back to US and consider Ketamine therapy. Comeback when you heal.
As someone who's experienced depression I found too much caffeine ...coffee etc causes my mood to waver up and down what helped me....and this is boring ...drink 2 litres of water a day ...cut down on caffeine ...my mood really improved just by doing this. .give it a go
@@MartinRichards-m4e yeah I avoided coffee today and I think I felt better as a result
Try to eliminate coffee. Switch to green tea .It help me.because the caffeine withdraw make it worse. Go to Dalat or Da nang .It sure help.
Legendary brother 🙌
Did you help David Khai when he lost his wallet? The timing of the videos, if they are chronologically in order, would seem to be the case. Keep it up dude, you're living my dream!
Please eat well. No processed food at all only walk to fresh street food and good coffee stalls. So important what you put in your system to how you feel, body and soul. ❤️
no doubt
Was it 5pm time?
Having hobbies helps my anxiety and negativity.
Please link/post your girlfriend’s channel so we can support Trang. Stay strong Tyler! My wife and daughter are living in An Vien, Nha Trang and I am here in Ann Arbor, MI…wishing I’m with them 😢!!!
wishing the best to you and your family! Trang's channel is: Amazing Trang
From watching couple of your honest/frank videos (your downside videos), it really does sound/feel like have clinical depression. I think they call it "major depressive disorder".
Cleveland Clinic:
Clinical depression, also known as major depressive disorder (MDD), is a mental health condition that causes a persistently low or depressed mood and a loss of interest in activities that once brought joy. Clinical depression can also affect how you sleep, your appetite and your ability to think clearly.
I also read this for treatment:
The mainstay of treatment is usually medication, talk therapy, or a combination of the two. Increasingly, research suggests these treatments may normalize brain changes associated with depression.
I have had friends who had/has "Major Depressive Disorder". I also had friends who had Bipolar Disorder and Schizophrenia. Unfortunately this video and your other "honest/frank videos" they remind me of the past with my old friends who had clinical depression.
8:12am
And would like to see you in Na Trang or Da Nang!
Da Nang and Hoi An - once you’ve made the move back out to the gym and filming you should feel better ❤ anyway we are missing seeing around HCM and other delightful places 😎
They are called Guinea fowl
I'm selfish in this but it'd be hella cool if you went to Vinh Long, where my wife is from! Not too far away from Saigon.
No human on the planet is always happy ,however its something your unconscious mind tells you that you missing something.As human specially men ,if you are a driven and motivated man and you not setting goal or not reaching those goals it leads to have down times,its human instinct that helped human to survive for thousands of yours if you dont make changes you get stagnated ,I know this because I been in situation for over a month.Set a goal and plan for it and shake things up and you will get better
sound advice
*Xin chào Big Time Bentley* !
Try to quit vaping, it’s very harmful to your health, Tyler. Quitting vaping can also save you money. It’s a win-win in my opinion. Hopefully, you could overcome your obstacles.
Go to Da Nang & Hoi An - you will get relieved
Hi Tyler. Please post the name of Trang’s channel. Thank you
Amazing Trang
Carpe Diem, Tyler! Would love to see you in Da Lat!
So many comments: I think it's 8:45 a.m. / Next time you start to feel stuck in your apartment, do a video from there and we will remind you to get outside! / The birds are guineas / Imposter syndrome is so common these days, you are not alone! / I think you'd find Da Lat to be a peaceful change of pace
yeah I think I need to just get over the idea that videos need to be "perfect" or "well planned"...get back to the spontaneous, raw, real life content that I love
this was the closest time guess by the way...it was 9:45am...well done!
@@BigTimeBentley WINNER!! It was 8:45 one time zone over 😂
@@KK-FL haha true
Head south to the Mekong Delta...eat shell fish
Did that man just urinate in the river? 😱
Who’s Trang’s new RUclips channel?
Amazing Trang
I am dying to see Da Nang
Glad to see you’re doing better. Your symptoms seems like you may have had COVID. I followed your channel closely since you live in the neighborhood where I grew up in. Best of luck to you.
Sài Gòn đông người quá , Nha Trang better for you.
You should go to Nha Trang
Definitely need vitamin D going maybe a tan
in vietnam 😂 u dont lack of sunshine , just only u lack of money cause make you stress in mind
😎👍
cheers bro
Those are guinea hens or guineafowl.
Guinea hens
What is Trang’s channel name???
Amazing Trang
Can you please share Trang’s channel?
Amazing Trang
why don't you go back teaching? make more money and invest to grow it. This way you can live off of your investment in the next 20 years. always like your honesty. Just think positively and practice gratitude.
Guinea fowl
I may have missed it, but what is your GF’s YT channel called?
@@MrShanestain Amazing Trang
@@BigTimeBentley Thanks very much, I’ll check it out!
Hanoi maybe
Keep up your gym workout and walking. The worst thing you can do is lie in bed and self pity. Take it from a guy who had 4 BAD episodes of mental breakdowns and depression...
cheers man hope you're doing well
Hey buddy
hang in strong. i love your real life channel.
but you need sunlight Vitamin D which lifts a human spirit up from depression.
Now you need to get into the state of assumption.
Wishing you well! Get back to the gym..it is one of the best possible anti-depressants
@@Chrisaroundtheworld717 absolutely
I think they are female peacocks. I can barely notice that they some stuff dangling "upward" from their head. The male peacocks look glamorous... while the females look super dull and boring.... from what I can remember.
look into gut brain microbiome, your digestive issues could be linked to your depression. i had the same issues when i first came to vietnam. i slowly rebuilt my gut microbiome and i am doing a lot better today now.
how did you go about rebuilding your gut microbiome?
You should go to Nha Trang, all the other cities suck
There are days when I wake-up just like you... saying fuck it...but since I'm a compulsive obsessive daydreamer my mood changes.
Your mood too changed quickly when you arrived at the market and got surrounded by people.
Recently you talked with David, about his motorbike trip, you should give it a try Tyler and not worry about what you're going to film 🫰
Hey Man. Just wanna drop a note to say that we found your channel when we first moved to VN about 2 months ago. We watch a few other channel but yours has a uniquely genuine vibe. Please do not compare yourself to others because we’re all unique and we can’t accommodate/satisfy everyone. If i can encourage you to continue to be you and not try to be someone else. Continue with your genuine interactions with locals. Continue to share your experience with the beautiful people of Vietnam.
hope you guys are enjoing VN so far :)
@@BigTimeBentley Yes we are. We’re gonna stay a while so your content has been very helpful to us!
@@dcbear168 that’s awesome I’m very happy to hear that