Oh I'm crying. I've been sober 40 years, trying hard to work this 12 step program and it's never changed how I feel about myself!!! I still isolate, still feel less than, still not comfortable with myself still trying so hard. Thank you I feel such a sense of relief. I just want to be comfortable and happy with me, to love this person.
Dear One, thank you for your comment and commitment to your sobriety. I truly honor the path that you're on, and all that you've survived and endured 🙏 I feel to share with you another RUclips offering of mine, titled "Loving the Way You Are" which can assist you, as well as "Awakening True Happiness" Here are the links to both: ruclips.net/video/_1W5OAKdAOU/видео.html&t ruclips.net/video/K9ASrrdRad0/видео.html In loving service always ❤️
Hi Matt I'm only 10 years old and I listen to you every night. My dad had introduced you to me In the car on the way to Nevada for a vacation when I was 7
Hey if any child of love out there can pray for my daughter Joyce that she always has gods love and peace surrounding and protecting her I’d be thankful
Matt you literally just saved my life. I've been doing the spiritual gymnastics for years, thinking it was the way to finally move forward, and I was only holding myself back, killing my ego over and over again. Thank you for helping me re-embody myself. I'm so grateful for you in this world ❤
Matt, you are an artist, a poet, a gardener, a healer of hearts. You paint in words which drive the truth home with an explosion of awakening. I appreciate your humour, your courage, your passion. You ignite me to reach for new heights or shall I say depths within.
Right on Matt. My first spiritual teacher told me I was too selfless and needed to go on an ego trip to build a healthy strong functioning ego. Huge awakening without a healthy ego structure we revert.... we can't hold expansion.
I work the twelve steps along with enlarging my spiritual life with you Matt, Mooji, Wayne Dyer, all of you and I don’t live small , but I learned from the fourth step to release resentments finally and let the light shine thru , but til I did the thorough fourth step, nothing helped and I was 22 years sober and pissed til I finally did the deep step work then I found a you and others and took clearly to your teaching , so there is good on step work to open you up, then continue to grow with other teachers like you, without step work you would’ve made no sense as mu light was fully blocked by resentments, but I’m not timid or meek nor am I selfish , but I try to let the ego ( little child begging for love) show itself and love it to the light
I have been listening to many of your talks, and soaking in the wisdom. But I wish to comment on the 12-Step mention. I have been a member of Al-Anon (For families and friends of alcoholics) for twelve years now. I think there is a lot of value in the twelve steps. If one really works through the steps one will find that it isn’t passive program at all- while you may be asked to ‘turn things over’ it is still necessary to take action, take the ‘next right step’ Working the twelve steps helped me look in the mirror and see myself in a way I never thought to do. Now I find I am in a better headspace and certainly much more open to spiritual awakenings than I had ever imagined.
Hi. Thanks for commenting on this. I am in a 12-step program myself but for substance abuse, and it has helped me stay sober. I do resonate with what Matt is saying about it being more for self-centered people (especially the substance use ones unlike Al-anon and others like ACA and CODA), but something about it has been beneficial for me and I need it. But it does confuse me a bit hearing the polarity with his message and 12-step, I’ve been at odds with this for a while now, since I got sober 2 years ago.
“Confidence is what you feel when your ego feels safe. And your ego feels safe when Consciousness is its guardian. That’s proper balance.” Thank you Matt for this incredible talk. I understand so much better now. I have always wondered how to be both loving and confident. Sometimes as empaths we feel we have to choose one or the other. Not the case. :) Thank you for this.
...random, but. Can I ask you a question..? Have you ever been hurt so badly, that you lost trust in all of humanity? Not intentionally, not as a decision, but something you were left to observe about yourself again and again, as you discover seeming overnight, that once wide openhearted and embracing of all, for most your adult life, and now you second guess every word you say, and whether a person can be trusted, that anyone you speak to is going to turn on you and attack you. No longer knowing how to simply exist in your own skin, for fear of being attacked. Is this something common, that many people go through? Is it part of awakening?
I’ll never get over the infinite depths of value within every single transmission you share….. there are no words to describe the gratitude my soul feels knowing you are here on earth offering this for the benefit of all…… thank you and blessings to everyone globally 💜
in alcoholics anonymous..the proper use of the ego❤the proper use of the steps has permitted great wisdom in millions.saved my life for sure.surrender doesnt mean being a doormat.ego in reverse....messy bog of emotions.
God bless 🙏 you Matt. Streaming tears of gratitude for acceptance and relief and love of my self listening to this that I've been waiting for my whole life... Thank-you. 😢💖
How does MK always pop up a new vid just when I need it??? And does anyone else get overcome with the most delicious giggles and deep belly laughs while receiving these luscious teachings? (and digging that shirt. it takes a real man to rock a polka dot. ;) )
After a long time I feel good about being Persian. because Matt said Rumi is his favorite poet and I am able to read these poems in the original language. It made me wonder how much we take ourselves and our rich culture for granted. thank you Matt and thank you candle holder for writing this.
Thank you for explaining why Jesus said : "Why have you forsaken me." And for sharing your wonderful ideas! You are inspirational, make me laugh at myself and I love you!
This is *HUGE.* Whole clusters of multi-layered self-deception and misunderstandings are cleared and start their way to integration while carefully listening to Matt's powerful words. Thank you 🙏🍀
I have been receiving that same download about ego being a necessary thing. Thank you for organizing the message so beautifully. Thank you for reflecting the light. Big hug.
1:19:00 "Confidence begins with, i am this way, by no mistake. It is by divine appointment, that i am every which way in which i am". ..."[Confidence is feeling] the commitment, of being all about what you're FOR."
i'm 11 minutes in and been crying and laughing interchangeably the whole time. haven't watched Matt for such a long long time, it feels great coming back. i love it here.
1:43:00 "People who judge, are just hiding from themselves~ by hiding in the judgements they have about others"... "The end of judgement, is liking You."
Lol and your Humor is so Refreshing & Healing 💜🖤🕊 Oh yes, I was definitely in a Narcissistic Environment growing up. Mother & Sister I was a scrumptious meal for them for 44 years until I walked away
When he told everyone to repeat after him...I followed along. I brgan to cry and I'm still crying. I felt a huge feeling from my heart. I just started doing my makeup too. Now I have to start all ovef
"What's the divine doing? Being all people." That's beautiful. Interestingly, the mystic William Blake (calling God "the Human Form divine") referred to all things in the cosmos as Human. Trees, mountains, rivers, flowers, the sky, animals, all Human. All seen through My eyes. Through My eyes of Love. xoxoxo
Thank you, Matt. For the longest time I struggled with trying to be better, accepting and giving to others, while at the same time feeling I accept and give more than I am really willing to. Love your wisdom! ❤
In an instant, I understand why I am having so much trouble asking for money for the work I do. I understand why AA made me feel worse and smaller, albeit sober. I had a therapist decades ago who introduced me to Gerald Jampolsky and she said there are only 2 kinds of people - other-directed and self-directed. At the time, I used that information to understand that my BF was not like me but now I realize that no one in my family is like me! Holy Shit - this IS blowing my mind. Thank you, Universe, for leading me to this video. I don't even follow Matt nor have I read any of his books. I will now:)
Surrendering is grounding by knowing we are a spiritual being. That’s where we begin to know who we really are. And when we know who we are, we can integrate & liberate with everyONE, especially when we commit fully into our experiences ~ good or bad (which comes from our ego). We chose to be here purposely to be a human being (with ourself & others) to identify ourself in order to find divinity! Scream out love ~ not judgements! His revelations/teachings are awesome 💞One-ness into Fun-ness!
My favorite quote which resonates with me so very wonderfully is "Confidence begins with I AM this way by no mistake, it is by divine appointment that I AM every which way in which I AM. My mom said I would run in circles and cry for GOD when I was 2 with my hands in the air and just full of joy. I would just keep doing it. I was her love bug and although that was stamped out for a while, pushed down, what you teach makes me feel like I AM ok to be that loving. Thank you for your wonderful messages and I am so glad I was directed to your videos on RUclips.
When I first started listening to you on RUclips, the "I love you"s were torture for me to even sit through. I couldn't even put my hand on my heart, much less speak the words. I remember the first time I was able to say it with you, and I broke down crying with how free it felt. Saying it tonight was another level altogether. I can't even put into words how amazing it felt. Thanks so much Matt for all you do. Your work has helped me so much and continues to do so all the dang time. I'm so grateful. And the hair looks awesome. :D
Wow, I love your authenticity and courage to expand in this way. Good On 'Ya mate! You probably just skipped to post-graduate school of spirituality in that one simple practice.. xoxoxo
Amazing stuff Matt. It's profound and rare to watch a youtube video that contains long moments of beautiful, blissful, deep, still, quiet calming silence. Us at home and all of you there were IN it together and it was glorious. Not to mention all of the countless other moments of ridiculously on point wisdom dispensed all throughout this dispatch. And it's funny. Actually funny. Like laugh out loud for real funny and not just kind of you know typical whatever funny. That is no small feat in 2019. Thank you and keep up the great work
Hi Matt...Today im staying in bed, cause its cold and winter....and listening to your RUclips, yes, your youtube, and you teach me so so much.......its oke to stay in my pj,s and in bed, for today......Im 70 and have never done that...love your videos.🌹🌹🐒🐒🐅🐅
Matt has always shown us subtler and subtler pointings to who we truly are, but this is by far the most profound elucidation to our most precious nature...
Woah! This message has been ringing in my ears ever since you started speaking. You & The Universe have impeccable timing as you are certainly delivering what this Heart, body, Soul..and ego! is ready to hear. Thanks a Million Matt!! Aloha Nui Loa from the Heart of Hawaii.
Haha what a coincidence. In my comparative religions class today, we were on the subject of christianity and the teacher was talking about how Jesus was considered to be both 100% human and 100% god, and this video matches up perfect to that. Thank you Matt, you are amazing! And to whoever is reading this, May you be blessed. 😊
This is so, so true! About a year ago (after over a decade of post-awakening "learning") I was once again in the depths of despair. I couldn't be what the teachings were asking me to be - couldn't do what they were telling me I could do ... In the midst of this I had a powerful moment of clarity: I HAD NO SENSE OF SELF. I had been beating myself up, moving from teaching to teaching trying to figure out what was wrong with me and desperately wanting to rid myself of something I didn't even possess! This was not something I'd ever even heard of, but I _knew_ it was true for me. So thank you Matt, for the validation and the additional clarity on this topic! :)
oh God, I'm busted. I have always hated and avoided name tags. I was always the only one without the name tag. Felt so free. Yeah? how's that been workin' for ya? Then, my "no self" led itself boldly into hell, dark night of ..... well, you name it...... (funny how hellish the dark night can be to one who is no one). and compassion led me out (thank you Matt). In college so many years ago, before my "no self Buddhist" monastery days, we read a book by Paul Tillich called "The Courage To Be." Finally, now, after al these years, I understand. This video says it all. Thank you so much Matt, I sent my SELF you, good for me! xoxoxox
I'm pretty old and loving this, too. I am so glad to see a young person (or any person!) speaking this truth ... and with laughter. I had to get sick to begin to see I had been poisoning myself physically and spiritually. I am thrilled with this! This takes awareness to a new level! Woohoo!
What I love about Matt Kahn is that I hear him saying (in demonstrably more understandable terms) the things I keep trying to say and have yet to effectively communicate. People look at me as if I might be a little dangerous, because there are words, but they don't seem to be expressing "real world" thoughts. One of my sources, a long time ago, brought me the novel realization that self-absorption is *selfishness.* Not self-respect or self-sovereignty, or self-actualization, or any of those power words, but a particularly sneaky sort of selfishness, the selfishness of the tragic hero/heroine: "I'm so bad, I'm so worthless, I'm such a failure, I, I, I...." In effect, "I have to pay lots of attention to myself, because I have to think of all the things I do wrong;" and it IS addictive. It's an attempt to feed the ego, but we're so afraid of ego that we have to feed it bad "food," ie, bad attention. And very often, addiction is the way toxicity presents itself. Diabetic? You will crave sugar. Very often, knowledgeable nutritionists identify food allergies by asking, "what do you eat every day? What food do you 'need'?" And often, cravings are an attempt, not to prod the toxic place, but to substitute for something else we lack, but don't realize we need; often, something harder to obtain than the toxic thing we keep reaching for. We eat sugar because sugar is in everything. When we eat quality nutrient-dense whole carbs, we don't crave sugar as badly. And when we find ourselves caught up in "I'm so bad" mind talk, it's time to ask, "what thoughts am I addicted to?" and then figure out what the real spiritual deficiency is that we're trying to address.... (You may not see how this has anything to do with what Matt is saying, but it's there....) I've been thinking pretty intensely lately about the necessity of ego. Honoring the ego isn't selfish; a healthy self-concept is as vital as a healthy circulatory system. Perversely, denying the ego is ultimately "selfish," hence, unhealthy. Here it is, here's what he said: your job is to be an individual. You can be Soul ANYWHERE. We're experiencing Earth because we can be humans here. Why waste the opportunity, by denying that? Yeah, we're One; but we're also all unique perspectives on Oneness, and that's what we came here to be. We take care of our bodies because they're our vehicle, our mechanism for experience. Our ego is the maintenance supervisor of our earthly experience. It's there for a reason, part of the instinct for self-preservation, necessary for the optimal operation of the vehicle. It has a point. Thanks, Matt.
I wished I was born Jewish when I went to my first Bat Mitzvah! I love you Matt. Thank you for your teaching. My heart opened, my mind quieted and chose to give myself permission to commit to what I experience right now, without judgement.
Any time I have sat down and enjoyed one of your talks I have felt, "truth." I have often said, "How did I forget that?" Thank you, Matt for your love and teaching.
Thank you for explaining the importance of our egos. It helps us become grounded with ourselves when it’s integrated with our souls✨💖✨”It takes an ego to manifest an embodied soul!”
i didn’t realize how much i needed this until i heard someone speak these words to me. thank youu matt, it’s incredible how you’re able to sum up such emotions in such a short amount of time. all my life i’ve felt like i’ve tried to desperately fit the mold of something that i’m not, it feels great to give myself the permission to just BE ME.
I used to be very self absorbed but in a self hating kind of way. Trying to connect to my heart and grow out of my old ways. Not sure I'm exactly the type of person Matt has in mind when he speaks but I'm working on it. His videos have been very helpful either way!
You had mentioned the narcissist earlier and I was deeply affected by my relationship with an extreme narcissist. We have kids, so I was unable to completely avoid him. He was so angry that I left him that he did extreme measures to destroy my confidence and kinda messed up the kids minds. It's taken 17 years to figure out all of this. I'm so ready to be confident and get back that needed ego. I'm guessing that the work of art is still in progress. This helps a lot. I'm excited again. I felt like I was missing inside. Thank you!
I was watching this yesterday afternoon; by last evening I was coming clean to my wife about addictive behaviors I was hiding from her. I've had a few transformational experiences, and was still not coming completely out of hiding. Everything is on the table now, I feel like I really stepped into my humanness and am choosing my life, instead of numbing it out. I must've been ready to tell her, but I can't help but think it was your pointing that showed me the way.
Been listening to you the past few days and I’m feeling much more at ease with myself and with whatever is going on around me. I never felt this way in my life. Thank you for the ego integration teaching.
Amazing...love spirit's synchronicities!! I just told my sister about an experience I had during my Power of 8 intention group...the group had come to my intention and I consciously stopped sending and opened my heart to receive( my learning curve on worthiness took a while), at which point my Ego (in the form of an adolescent boy) made some snarky disparaging comment. Well to my own surprise, and joy, "I" laughed and said "You're cute" then pulled him into my arms in front of my open heart and told him " This love is for you too...relax and feel it" My sister then asked me if I read your book which I had just gotten but no I hadn't started it. She said what I was talking about sounded like your stuff. That was yesterday. This "morning" I woke up at 3:33 (go figure) the 7th night of wee-hour wake-ups and what should pop right up but this video! Thank you for shining your light and inspiring me to let mine shine as well. I have a love-filled inspiration/manifestation in process and when the time is right, I look forward to working with you! Blessed Be. Wendy
I've watched this 3 times now. This guy is a living , real time catalyst in my own experience. I quote him in my book and express the tremendous value the Love Revolution has added to my personal philosophy and direct experiences of Love. And now this. I arrived at this same framework of ego and ego integration in my own journey and to have this witness of the same shared experience is beyond satisfaction and validation. It's the demonstration of consensus, signaling that upgrades have indeed, already occurred. Here it is, confirmed. I feel a sense of sublime celebration, the paradox of electric calm. Thank you Matt and crew, times a thousand! In the field.
Oh I'm crying. I've been sober 40 years, trying hard to work this 12 step program and it's never changed how I feel about myself!!! I still isolate, still feel less than, still not comfortable with myself still trying so hard. Thank you I feel such a sense of relief. I just want to be comfortable and happy with me, to love this person.
Dear One, thank you for your comment and commitment to your sobriety. I truly honor the path that you're on, and all that you've survived and endured 🙏 I feel to share with you another RUclips offering of mine, titled "Loving the Way You Are" which can assist you, as well as "Awakening True Happiness"
Here are the links to both: ruclips.net/video/_1W5OAKdAOU/видео.html&t
ruclips.net/video/K9ASrrdRad0/видео.html
In loving service always ❤️
Hi Matt I'm only 10 years old and I listen to you every night. My dad had introduced you to me In the car on the way to Nevada for a vacation when I was 7
Hi Shannon! Good to see you here. So happy that a very young person such as yourself is "here" learning this beautifully vital lesson.
Wooow its so great to see you here, it’s truly amazing, keep on learning, growing and loving the world 🌍❤️
Shannon Martinez Good for you and for your dad 👍
All the best on your journey 🙂
And may Matt’s revelations help your life’s journey create many beautiful experiences from loving yourself ♥️
For the first time in my 34 years of life, saying i love you to myself did not feel fake.
Hey if any child of love out there can pray for my daughter Joyce that she always has gods love and peace surrounding and protecting her I’d be thankful
Matt you literally just saved my life. I've been doing the spiritual gymnastics for years, thinking it was the way to finally move forward, and I was only holding myself back, killing my ego over and over again. Thank you for helping me re-embody myself. I'm so grateful for you in this world ❤
Matt, you are an artist, a poet, a gardener, a healer of hearts. You paint in words which drive the truth home with an explosion of awakening. I appreciate your humour, your courage, your passion. You ignite me to reach for new heights or shall I say depths within.
Love Matt, supper accurate relatable spiritual ninja care bear. Who says spirituality can't be fun, hash tag love n light.
*Profound, profound, profound. I will be rewatching this over and over again.*
Yes !
@@freshstrt3140 namaste friend :)
Right on Matt. My first spiritual teacher told me I was too selfless and needed to go on an ego trip to build a healthy strong functioning ego. Huge awakening without a healthy ego structure we revert.... we can't hold expansion.
I work the twelve steps along with enlarging my spiritual life with you Matt, Mooji, Wayne Dyer, all of you and I don’t live small , but I learned from the fourth step to release resentments finally and let the light shine thru , but til I did the thorough fourth step, nothing helped and I was 22 years sober and pissed til I finally did the deep step work then I found a you and others and took clearly to your teaching , so there is good on step work to open you up, then continue to grow with other teachers like you, without step work you would’ve made no sense as mu light was fully blocked by resentments, but I’m not timid or meek nor am I selfish , but I try to let the ego ( little child begging for love) show itself and love it to the light
Hi. Thanks for commenting on this 🙏 I am a friend of Bill
Fantastic...trueness of loving conciousness
🙏❤️🤗
"Enlightenment is waking up out of unworthiness." Game changer ❤
Right bro
dear dear Matt
I found you just two months ago and I cannot say how dramatic my life has changed.
thank you for being a person.
I LOVE YOU
moon YOU changed your life, he put YOU back in the driving seat lol 😉 🙏🏾
I so appreciate you being on this earth Matt - a new paradigm teacher of the empowered Heart and Soul ❤️❤️❤️
I have been listening to many of your talks, and soaking in the wisdom. But I wish to comment on the 12-Step mention. I have been a member of Al-Anon (For families and friends of alcoholics) for twelve years now.
I think there is a lot of value in the twelve steps. If one really works through the steps one will find that it isn’t passive program at all- while you may be asked to ‘turn things over’ it is still necessary to take action, take the ‘next right step’
Working the twelve steps helped me look in the mirror and see myself in a way I never thought to do. Now I find I am in a better headspace and certainly much more open to spiritual awakenings than I had ever imagined.
Hi. Thanks for commenting on this. I am in a 12-step program myself but for substance abuse, and it has helped me stay sober. I do resonate with what Matt is saying about it being more for self-centered people (especially the substance use ones unlike Al-anon and others like ACA and CODA), but something about it has been beneficial for me and I need it. But it does confuse me a bit hearing the polarity with his message and 12-step, I’ve been at odds with this for a while now, since I got sober 2 years ago.
“Confidence is what you feel when your ego feels safe. And your ego feels safe when Consciousness is its guardian. That’s proper balance.”
Thank you Matt for this incredible talk. I understand so much better now. I have always wondered how to be both loving and confident. Sometimes as empaths we feel we have to choose one or the other. Not the case. :) Thank you for this.
🙏🏽 this! I was just pausing to write it down! !
...random, but. Can I ask you a question..?
Have you ever been hurt so badly, that you lost trust in all of humanity? Not intentionally, not as a decision, but something you were left to observe about yourself again and again, as you discover seeming overnight, that once wide openhearted and embracing of all, for most your adult life, and now you second guess every word you say, and whether a person can be trusted, that anyone you speak to is going to turn on you and attack you. No longer knowing how to simply exist in your own skin, for fear of being attacked.
Is this something common, that many people go through? Is it part of awakening?
To you, reading this - you're awesome ❤️
I’ll never get over the infinite depths of value within every single transmission you share….. there are no words to describe the gratitude my soul feels knowing you are here on earth offering this for the benefit of all…… thank you and blessings to everyone globally 💜
in alcoholics anonymous..the proper use of the ego❤the proper use of the steps has permitted great wisdom in millions.saved my life for sure.surrender doesnt mean being a doormat.ego in reverse....messy bog of emotions.
Wow, this was something I needed, I'm always so spiritually confused and here comes Matt clearing up the old teachings that caused me suffering
Same lol
Same!!
Yes!
I had a dream last night you uploaded 7 new videos and I woke up to this video this morning posted 7 hours ago with 77 comments 😂 I love it
Synchronicity is amazing isn't it :)
I keep seeing 77 a lot :)
I really enjoy this video. New perpective. I will not be afraid anymore
Found this video at 7.07 am
that's one heck of a wet dream
Matt means : Magical Awesome Thriving (Teacher)Transformer !
Love you and your awakening teaching style :)You have saved many souls,including me!
God bless 🙏 you Matt. Streaming tears of gratitude for acceptance and relief and love of my self listening to this that I've been waiting for my whole life... Thank-you. 😢💖
How does MK always pop up a new vid just when I need it??? And does anyone else get overcome with the most delicious giggles and deep belly laughs while receiving these luscious teachings? (and digging that shirt. it takes a real man to rock a polka dot. ;) )
Perfect timing always. FULLY agreed .. and yeeesss (; lol love youu 💜
Love the bunny ears the heart makes over Matt. How appropriate so near Easter.
Chakra Docta Hahaha!!! Just noticed that!!!! Brilliant!
I've noticed that too!!!! :D :D:D
adorable!
Too funny! It’s all I see now.
True! Can’t stop seeing it now
I wanna be where Rumi lives, as well. 🤗😁🌻I'll meet you all in that field.
After a long time I feel good about being Persian.
because Matt said Rumi is his favorite poet
and I am able to read these poems in the original language.
It made me wonder how much we take ourselves and our rich culture for granted.
thank you Matt and thank you candle holder for writing this.
@@stardust5475 🙋♀️💚🌻
Persian culture was a hindu culture before Islam.
Candle Hoarder it was at 44 likes and 4 comments before I liked it lol ❤️
"There is a field.
I will meet you there.
Here we are.
This must be that field."
Here we are at that field.
I have tears of relief, tears of joy, tears of surrender. Permission to be me. Permission to own my uniqueness and to like me. So much gratitude ❤️
Thank you for explaining why Jesus said : "Why have you forsaken me." And for sharing your wonderful ideas! You are inspirational, make me laugh at myself and I love you!
This is *HUGE.* Whole clusters of multi-layered self-deception and misunderstandings are cleared and start their way to integration while carefully listening to Matt's powerful words. Thank you 🙏🍀
It's HUGE alright.
The Ego is integrated and becomes servant to the masterful soul, this resonates deeply, thank you!
I haven't even watched it yet but have already reached full ascension by seeing Matt's hair 😁
hahaha, that's funny :)
His hair is ascending
I have been receiving that same download about ego being a necessary thing. Thank you for organizing the message so beautifully. Thank you for reflecting the light. Big hug.
1:19:00 "Confidence begins with, i am this way, by no mistake. It is by divine appointment, that i am every which way in which i am".
..."[Confidence is feeling] the commitment, of being all about what you're FOR."
Another bomb video 🤙🤙🤙
Matt is the one and only true boss of spirituality 💪
Totally!!!!! Sooo liberating
Only? Getting cultish in here...
Kuyavian
Absolutely agree
This is like the “next step”
Woke up in the middle of the night and this video is directly addressing all my recent concerns perfectly. Blessed Guidance Love and joy to all
i'm 11 minutes in and been crying and laughing interchangeably the whole time. haven't watched Matt for such a long long time, it feels great coming back. i love it here.
1:43:00 "People who judge, are just hiding from themselves~ by hiding in the judgements they have about others"...
"The end of judgement, is liking You."
Lol and your Humor is so Refreshing & Healing 💜🖤🕊
Oh yes, I was definitely in a Narcissistic Environment growing up. Mother & Sister
I was a scrumptious meal for them for 44 years until I walked away
"There's a field. I'll meet you there. Here we are. This must be that field." Beautiful!
The ego is the 'diving mask' for physical reality.
Thanks, love this :)
Love ❤️
I love that Matt addresses the goodness and absurdity of our growth with humor and lack of pretension
When he told everyone to repeat after him...I followed along. I brgan to cry and I'm still crying. I felt a huge feeling from my heart. I just started doing my makeup too. Now I have to start all ovef
"What's the divine doing? Being all people." That's beautiful. Interestingly, the mystic William Blake (calling God "the Human Form divine") referred to all things in the cosmos as Human. Trees, mountains, rivers, flowers, the sky, animals, all Human. All seen through My eyes. Through My eyes of Love. xoxoxo
It is such a relief to have brutal truth put into words in such an understanding and compassionate way. Thank you, Matt, you get it.
Thank you, Matt. For the longest time I struggled with trying to be better, accepting and giving to others, while at the same time feeling I accept and give more than I am really willing to. Love your wisdom! ❤
“It takes an ego to manifest an embodied soul” lovely 👌
In an instant, I understand why I am having so much trouble asking for money for the work I do. I understand why AA made me feel worse and smaller, albeit sober. I had a therapist decades ago who introduced me to Gerald Jampolsky and she said there are only 2 kinds of people - other-directed and self-directed. At the time, I used that information to understand that my BF was not like me but now I realize that no one in my family is like me! Holy Shit - this IS blowing my mind. Thank you, Universe, for leading me to this video. I don't even follow Matt nor have I read any of his books. I will now:)
I’ve watched all of these now at least 4 x and every time I’m at a deeper understanding.
Thank you God for giving us Matt Kahn 💗
Surrendering is grounding by knowing we are a spiritual being. That’s where we begin to know who we really are. And when we know who we are, we can integrate & liberate with everyONE, especially when we commit fully into our experiences ~ good or bad (which comes from our ego). We chose to be here purposely to be a human being (with ourself & others) to identify ourself in order to find divinity! Scream out love ~ not judgements! His revelations/teachings are awesome 💞One-ness into Fun-ness!
YES Ego needs to be balanced & we must Master it not be enslaved to it! 🙌🏼 Were meant to be Whole in our HUMANness! 💜
If you're going tresspassing you better come with compliments!!! I love it, and I will!
My favorite quote which resonates with me so very wonderfully is "Confidence begins with I AM this way by no mistake, it is by divine appointment that I AM every which way in which I AM. My mom said I would run in circles and cry for GOD when I was 2 with my hands in the air and just full of joy. I would just keep doing it. I was her love bug and although that was stamped out for a while, pushed down, what you teach makes me feel like I AM ok to be that loving. Thank you for your wonderful messages and I am so glad I was directed to your videos on RUclips.
Flew to Seattle to see this talk. The world NEEDS to hear his message more than anything right now.
When I first started listening to you on RUclips, the "I love you"s were torture for me to even sit through. I couldn't even put my hand on my heart, much less speak the words. I remember the first time I was able to say it with you, and I broke down crying with how free it felt. Saying it tonight was another level altogether. I can't even put into words how amazing it felt.
Thanks so much Matt for all you do. Your work has helped me so much and continues to do so all the dang time. I'm so grateful.
And the hair looks awesome. :D
Wow, I love your authenticity and courage to expand in this way. Good On 'Ya mate! You probably just skipped to post-graduate school of spirituality in that one simple practice.. xoxoxo
@@lauren4434 Ahahah thank you! 😂❤️
I love you 😍
Amazing stuff Matt. It's profound and rare to watch a youtube video that contains long moments of beautiful, blissful, deep, still, quiet calming silence. Us at home and all of you there were IN it together and it was glorious. Not to mention all of the countless other moments of ridiculously on point wisdom dispensed all throughout this dispatch. And it's funny. Actually funny. Like laugh out loud for real funny and not just kind of you know typical whatever funny. That is no small feat in 2019. Thank you and keep up the great work
Hi Matt...Today im staying in bed, cause its cold and winter....and listening to your RUclips, yes, your youtube, and you teach me so so much.......its oke to stay in my pj,s and in bed, for today......Im 70 and have never done that...love your videos.🌹🌹🐒🐒🐅🐅
Matt has always shown us subtler and subtler pointings to who we truly are, but this is by far the most profound elucidation to our most precious nature...
Thank you for another beautiful healing for everyone! Many blessings to you.
“If you look within come with compliments otherwise you’re trespassing!” 👀
Radiculously Rawthentic huh?
Woah! This message has been ringing in my ears ever since you started speaking. You & The Universe have impeccable timing as you are certainly delivering what this Heart, body, Soul..and ego! is ready to hear. Thanks a Million Matt!! Aloha Nui Loa from the Heart of Hawaii.
Every word you speak melts into me like butter. So audibly delectable.
Haha what a coincidence. In my comparative religions class today, we were on the subject of christianity and the teacher was talking about how Jesus was considered to be both 100% human and 100% god, and this video matches up perfect to that. Thank you Matt, you are amazing! And to whoever is reading this, May you be blessed. 😊
I agree, Blessings to you too!
Lauren 😊🙏
wow," just because you have a diagnosis does not mean that you're not a healer." Thank You Very Very Much
1:08:00
This is so, so true! About a year ago (after over a decade of post-awakening "learning") I was once again in the depths of despair. I couldn't be what the teachings were asking me to be - couldn't do what they were telling me I could do ... In the midst of this I had a powerful moment of clarity: I HAD NO SENSE OF SELF. I had been beating myself up, moving from teaching to teaching trying to figure out what was wrong with me and desperately wanting to rid myself of something I didn't even possess! This was not something I'd ever even heard of, but I _knew_ it was true for me. So thank you Matt, for the validation and the additional clarity on this topic! :)
"There’s a field. I’ll meet cha there. This must be that field.” Amen.
YEEEEES 😍 a new video and I already know it’s going to be amaaaazing
Cosmicheart Thank you, Matt. You rearrange me till I’m sane. Love love
This is about so many of us, incl. myself.. Gratitude for All that You Are, Matt. 💫⛩️💎
Blessings to All Heart - centred Beings ⚛️🙏💜🕊️⚛️
🎉let’s have and be fun!!!! Just be YOU! Full on!!!!! 🎉
oh God, I'm busted. I have always hated and avoided name tags. I was always the only one without the name tag. Felt so free. Yeah? how's that been workin' for ya? Then, my "no self" led itself boldly into hell, dark night of ..... well, you name it...... (funny how hellish the dark night can be to one who is no one). and compassion led me out (thank you Matt). In college so many years ago, before my "no self Buddhist" monastery days, we read a book by Paul Tillich called "The Courage To Be." Finally, now, after al these years, I understand. This video says it all. Thank you so much Matt, I sent my SELF you, good for me! xoxoxox
Lauren beautiful!!!!!
Oh Matt! This made me laugh out loud!!! Not enough ego! It makes so much sense!!!! My authentic self! Be me!! I love you, I love me!
I'm pretty old and loving this, too. I am so glad to see a young person (or any person!) speaking this truth ... and with laughter. I had to get sick to begin to see I had been poisoning myself physically and spiritually. I am thrilled with this! This takes awareness to a new level! Woohoo!
I have no words for this. Only gratitude and well....I love you.
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What I love about Matt Kahn is that I hear him saying (in demonstrably more understandable terms) the things I keep trying to say and have yet to effectively communicate. People look at me as if I might be a little dangerous, because there are words, but they don't seem to be expressing "real world" thoughts.
One of my sources, a long time ago, brought me the novel realization that self-absorption is *selfishness.* Not self-respect or self-sovereignty, or self-actualization, or any of those power words, but a particularly sneaky sort of selfishness, the selfishness of the tragic hero/heroine: "I'm so bad, I'm so worthless, I'm such a failure, I, I, I...." In effect, "I have to pay lots of attention to myself, because I have to think of all the things I do wrong;" and it IS addictive. It's an attempt to feed the ego, but we're so afraid of ego that we have to feed it bad "food," ie, bad attention. And very often, addiction is the way toxicity presents itself. Diabetic? You will crave sugar. Very often, knowledgeable nutritionists identify food allergies by asking, "what do you eat every day? What food do you 'need'?" And often, cravings are an attempt, not to prod the toxic place, but to substitute for something else we lack, but don't realize we need; often, something harder to obtain than the toxic thing we keep reaching for. We eat sugar because sugar is in everything. When we eat quality nutrient-dense whole carbs, we don't crave sugar as badly.
And when we find ourselves caught up in "I'm so bad" mind talk, it's time to ask, "what thoughts am I addicted to?" and then figure out what the real spiritual deficiency is that we're trying to address....
(You may not see how this has anything to do with what Matt is saying, but it's there....)
I've been thinking pretty intensely lately about the necessity of ego. Honoring the ego isn't selfish; a healthy self-concept is as vital as a healthy circulatory system. Perversely, denying the ego is ultimately "selfish," hence, unhealthy.
Here it is, here's what he said: your job is to be an individual.
You can be Soul ANYWHERE. We're experiencing Earth because we can be humans here. Why waste the opportunity, by denying that? Yeah, we're One; but we're also all unique perspectives on Oneness, and that's what we came here to be.
We take care of our bodies because they're our vehicle, our mechanism for experience. Our ego is the maintenance supervisor of our earthly experience. It's there for a reason, part of the instinct for self-preservation, necessary for the optimal operation of the vehicle. It has a point.
Thanks, Matt.
I wished I was born Jewish when I went to my first Bat Mitzvah! I love you Matt. Thank you for your teaching. My heart opened, my mind quieted and chose to give myself permission to commit to what I experience right now, without judgement.
Love you Matt
Any time I have sat down and enjoyed one of your talks I have felt, "truth." I have often said, "How did I forget that?" Thank you, Matt for your love and teaching.
Thank you for explaining the importance of our egos. It helps us become grounded with ourselves when it’s integrated with our souls✨💖✨”It takes an ego to manifest an embodied soul!”
Obviously I can’t get enough of Matt!
Gratitude my brother
You are one of the greatest blessings I have ever received, THANK YOU!!
Another outstanding teaching, ThankYou. I love you.
i didn’t realize how much i needed this until i heard someone speak these words to me. thank youu matt, it’s incredible how you’re able to sum up such emotions in such a short amount of time. all my life i’ve felt like i’ve tried to desperately fit the mold of something that i’m not, it feels great to give myself the permission to just BE ME.
Always Love Your Sharing 💙🖤
Love you Brother Empath 🖤💜🕊
I used to be very self absorbed but in a self hating kind of way. Trying to connect to my heart and grow out of my old ways. Not sure I'm exactly the type of person Matt has in mind when he speaks but I'm working on it. His videos have been very helpful either way!
Your transmissions always comfort me at the right time , I am so grateful for the most perfect positive focus and care the Universe shows me.
Thank you Matt ! You are so appreciated! We love you!
essence of the gospel church experience- “The commitment to being all about what you are for.”. beautiful
You had mentioned the narcissist earlier and I was deeply affected by my relationship with an extreme narcissist. We have kids, so I was unable to completely avoid him. He was so angry that I left him that he did extreme measures to destroy my confidence and kinda messed up the kids minds.
It's taken 17 years to figure out all of this.
I'm so ready to be confident and get back that needed ego.
I'm guessing that the work of art is still in progress.
This helps a lot. I'm excited again. I felt like I was missing inside.
Thank you!
Tonight I begin my next chapter of loving myself and building my future.
So wise , perfect words. I love you Matt Kahn!!!
I’m so happy for Matt’s teachings & beautiful heart. I love how he can make me laugh & see the silliness of beliefs I’ve held. God bless Matt 💖
I was watching this yesterday afternoon; by last evening I was coming clean to my wife about addictive behaviors I was hiding from her. I've had a few transformational experiences, and was still not coming completely out of hiding. Everything is on the table now, I feel like I really stepped into my humanness and am choosing my life, instead of numbing it out. I must've been ready to tell her, but I can't help but think it was your pointing that showed me the way.
hollysh*** just yesterday i checked if you upload something new because i really needed to get a message through and bam here you are!! thank you!!
I’d say this has been the most applicable transmission for me to date 😂❤️🙏☮️🔥🐸 much needed. Thank you so much Matt!
Been listening to you the past few days and I’m feeling much more at ease with myself and with whatever is going on around me. I never felt this way in my life. Thank you for the ego integration teaching.
Amazing...love spirit's synchronicities!! I just told my sister about an experience I had during my Power of 8 intention group...the group had come to my intention and I consciously stopped sending and opened my heart to receive( my learning curve on worthiness took a while), at which point my Ego (in the form of an adolescent boy) made some snarky disparaging comment. Well to my own surprise, and joy, "I" laughed and said "You're cute" then pulled him into my arms in front of my open heart and told him " This love is for you too...relax and feel it" My sister then asked me if I read your book which I had just gotten but no I hadn't started it. She said what I was talking about sounded like your stuff. That was yesterday. This "morning" I woke up at 3:33 (go figure) the 7th night of wee-hour wake-ups and what should pop right up but this video! Thank you for shining your light and inspiring me to let mine shine as well. I have a love-filled inspiration/manifestation in process and when the time is right, I look forward to working with you! Blessed Be. Wendy
What an appropriate hair cut for this teaching
like a regular person, selfs have hair, lol.... Not that I don't like bald...... I so love Matt and his teaching......
Hair is fun lol
“the glory of God is man fully alive.” St. Irenaeus of Lyons
I've watched this 3 times now. This guy is a living , real time catalyst in my own experience. I quote him in my book and express the tremendous value the Love Revolution has added to my personal philosophy and direct experiences of Love. And now this. I arrived at this same framework of ego and ego integration in my own journey and to have this witness of the same shared experience is beyond satisfaction and validation. It's the demonstration of consensus, signaling that upgrades have indeed, already occurred. Here it is, confirmed. I feel a sense of sublime celebration, the paradox of electric calm. Thank you Matt and crew, times a thousand! In the field.
Thank you!
Profound statement, no one has ever pointed this out! Jesus embodies both! YES!