If You ARE STUCK in the PAST... You need to watch THIS | Jordan Peterson Motivation

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2021
  • ABOUT THE VIDEO;
    Jordan Peterson's advice will change your life. In this video, he explains how to FREE YOURSELF FROM THE PAST. If you are stuck past there, then this video is definitely for you. Because most of the time people will carry around memories of the past that will continue to torture them for years. And these memories can manifest themselves in different ways and Jordan Peterson gives advice on how to deal with these memories.
    About Jordan Peterson:
    Jordan Peterson is a renowned speaker, author, former clinical Psychologist, and Professor. He has written three books so far. The first one is The Architecture of Belief, in which Peterson describes a comprehensive theory about how people construct meaning, form beliefs, and make narratives. The book, which took Peterson 13 years to complete, draws concepts from various fields including mythology, religion, literature, philosophy, and psychology, in accordance with the modern scientific understanding of how the brain functions. Check it out here: (Maps of meaning: amzn.to/3pB2d8r) The other book is 12 rules for life, A best seller. Check it out here(12 rules for life: amzn.to/3BgM5vh. His recent book is
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Комментарии • 137

  • @motivationinspiration7126
    @motivationinspiration7126 2 года назад +25

    "People become successful
    the minute they decide to"
    -Harvey Mackay

  • @EddieBoes
    @EddieBoes 2 года назад +128

    If you are reading this, you, like me, found this video for a reason. We CAN overcome the negative memories of our past that still plague our conscious minds today. This short video gave us the plan. Let’s write it down, figure it out, and move on, stronger. Life is beautiful, let’s be an active participant in the now.

    • @MrABDURREHMAN1
      @MrABDURREHMAN1 2 года назад +1

      I live in the happy memories of my past.what to do now

    • @EddieBoes
      @EddieBoes 2 года назад +4

      @@MrABDURREHMAN1 Nothing wrong with that. And I think from what I understand of what Jordan Peterson says about it, he would agree. It is the memories of the past that are negative and hold you back.

    • @MrABDURREHMAN1
      @MrABDURREHMAN1 2 года назад +1

      @@EddieBoes I think my present is negative that I Thence live in happy past.

    • @motivationinspiration7126
      @motivationinspiration7126 2 года назад

      @@MrABDURREHMAN1 I get what you mean. I find myself reminiscing about good times past, too. Haven't figured out how to go back in time (yet). So the best we can do is focus on making our present and future as good as possible. Remain positive. Try not to focus too much on the negative. You'll be alright. I wish you all the best! You achieve anything you want! Stay strong! 💪💪

    • @FedeArgentina
      @FedeArgentina 2 года назад

      ​@@MrABDURREHMAN1 Same, 29 years old now.. But I have no idea what the fuck happend in the last 10 years.
      Since born to 20 everything was awesome, best childhood posible, multiple friends, happy days, months, years...
      And right now i just got 29.. I really don't have a dificult life or big problems... Im with the same girlfriend since I was 16. Not a very complicated job to do.
      I think my problems come from being innocent, nice and funny to cynical, intelligent and pessimistic (about the world, my country, speed of time). And also losing contacts with my friends in adolescence, separating into different interests and careers.

  • @kl9552
    @kl9552 2 года назад +11

    Let's all send out a prayer to that 58 year old man. May he be blessed with a peaceful night's rest. 🙏

  • @aimingmind807
    @aimingmind807 2 года назад +15

    "The ultimate question of Man is not who we are, but who we could be." - Jordan Peterson

  • @adamkern6243
    @adamkern6243 2 года назад +4

    I hate that I’m a coward, I’m constantly tortured by what could have been

  • @erikvanzanen
    @erikvanzanen 2 года назад +12

    Writing is an underestimated power we all have. It is the ability to write 'yourself' as it is, which you can reflect on later, which has a tremendous effect on not only evaluating yourself, but also in becoming aware of your growth. or not

  • @Iresey981
    @Iresey981 2 года назад +3

    Two years ago 1 day before my 22bday I lost someone who wasn't blood but treated my like a son, he meant so much to me. Being around him was like a breath of fresh air, I could be a kid, have fun be free and he was right there next to me playing right alone with me. But now if he pops in my mind...I dont know I just break down everything. Some days I have to force my self to forget to keep going.

  • @user-sl7ml4iu6o
    @user-sl7ml4iu6o 10 месяцев назад

    My dad is stuck in the pas and I’ll do whatever I can to help him I’m 13 and I just want my dad back I miss when he was daddy and I was his little girl ❤

  • @c.a.henderson7957
    @c.a.henderson7957 2 года назад +1

    People need to hear this.

  • @stevewright4576
    @stevewright4576 2 года назад +6

    My. God. This man has helped me....

  • @jessejackson7546
    @jessejackson7546 Год назад +1

    I don’t know how yet, I have just started this video. I will post a comment after I have watched it to see what I think and if it helps me. Walk with me through this guys let’s do it together 🙏🏼🤞🏽

  • @alansimpson596
    @alansimpson596 2 года назад +3

    If you have been a soldier helping to bring peace to a conflict and have seen many atrocities along the way it may not be so easy to dispense with the past.

  • @1ali1996
    @1ali1996 2 года назад +29

    🔥 it's hard man ...

  • @DannyCowanMusic
    @DannyCowanMusic 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou for this. Very helpful.

  • @dm3144
    @dm3144 11 месяцев назад

    He is the 21st century “Jung”
    I am so ready to get out of my past cuz it was so horrible!
    I really thought I wasn’t stuck in the past, but lo and behold I am!
    Thank God, I found this man on RUclips! He is saving my life, for real!!!
    I’m 67 years old, and by God, if I live another 10-15 years???
    I’m certainly going to make the best out of it and be freaking happy! Good luck to everyone. Thank you for showing this content of Jordan Peterson he actually was a Godsend to me. ✌️🥰🦋
    I found out I have been doing life all wrong, WOW😮😢🎉

  • @shinchan-pu2ck
    @shinchan-pu2ck 2 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @soavinanychristine2639
    @soavinanychristine2639 2 года назад +1

    Thank you 💟

  • @taherhashemi160
    @taherhashemi160 2 года назад +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @StyleViewStudio
    @StyleViewStudio 2 года назад +1

    I love Jordan Peterson's no nonsense approach to psychology… I really do! Thank you

  • @damianlopez7630
    @damianlopez7630 2 года назад

    I'm still I'm still constantly plagued by the past especially negative events.

  • @carlosramirezrivera9314
    @carlosramirezrivera9314 2 года назад +4

    I'm stuck as fuck.. I hope my son will never have my life..
    Thank you jordan..

  • @talibnazary979
    @talibnazary979 2 года назад

    This man is Amazing!

  • @douglasstrother6584
    @douglasstrother6584 Год назад

    Writing gets the thought swirl out of one's head; whatever the it is, good or bad.

  • @mybaymax8680
    @mybaymax8680 2 года назад +1

    Lord help me

  • @jefferydarby6498
    @jefferydarby6498 2 года назад

    Watch this video it got me thinking about my old and it brings up the Situation I deal with it got something to do with my past life.

  • @nathanericschwabenland88888
    @nathanericschwabenland88888 25 дней назад

    yes

  • @blondboozebaron
    @blondboozebaron 2 года назад +3

    Visual cognitive therapy.
    G is an incomplete whole with one square angle drawn in.
    O is a whole.
    D is a split whole with two square angles drawn in.
    As we add a whole breath to the word we see GOOD expand.
    As we draw breath away into the words middle way we see its whole image to measure.

  • @yy9336
    @yy9336 2 года назад

    He is heavily 🙏🌹❤️

  • @m.k.h.2718
    @m.k.h.2718 2 года назад +7

    A very informative video. I'm going to try to journal and write down some takeaways that I've learned from my life experiences. Often, I found that when I listen to the advice of people devaluing my experiences, I tend to make decisions that I regret the most. I'm learning to trust my intuition more!

  • @brianbordenkircher52
    @brianbordenkircher52 2 года назад +7

    Living in the past can make you sick. Go forth and prosper. Others that left you in the past or you left in the past was likely for good reason. If not, change it, but do not dwell on the past.
    Do not stress over spilled milk. It already happened. Think logically. Maybe there’s a way you can go into the office 5 minutes early, just enough time to get milk for tomorrow morning.
    Ooo, french loast sounds good.
    Maybe today I’ll splurge and have cinnamon toast, a quick meal still, a delicacy for my diet, lol.
    My point is, don’t stress about the past or even to boast about the past. Move forward

  • @bloneajax2014
    @bloneajax2014 2 года назад

    Wow!❤❤

  • @paoladiaz1809
    @paoladiaz1809 2 года назад

    Learn from it gain ur wisdom to overcome

  • @markhatfield5621
    @markhatfield5621 2 года назад

    The advice given at the end of this video is also the advice given father to son on the very last page of the book 'Old Yeller'. It is something which I occasionally need to remind myself.

  • @shimsokshim2995
    @shimsokshim2995 2 года назад +11

    I think the "extraction" part of what he said is the most important for me because I had a really bad childhood bullying experience that has haunted me for years and still does, but then I think about why that person did that? I know they had an abusive as all living shit mother, but what I never thought about and never wanted to think about was what I did to trigger him all those times before he started acting up? I don't wanna go into details, but I start realizing some of the blame for what he did is on me, and having to confront that is horrifying to me and still is.

    • @robertm.vaccato1334
      @robertm.vaccato1334 2 года назад

      You have to please read in-between the lines with guy! I thought he was a stand up guy too!

    • @lucilepatterson6190
      @lucilepatterson6190 2 года назад

      Shimsok, I really appreciate your coming forth and giving example to the very thing all people need to look at more often. Thanks 😊

    • @robertm.vaccato1334
      @robertm.vaccato1334 2 года назад

      @@lucilepatterson6190 you have to question people who only eat meat? The lion's mane diet come on! This guy is a satanist they have to tell you what they are up to! Just look at the imaging to his videos thumbnails! Did they ever strike you as strange! I use to put this guy on a pedestal but then I found inconsistencies within my research pertaining to this man! Just look at his daughter she is a great display of what he is all about! There was that on video in regards to utilitarianism if I remember correctly regarding universal income! The guys is straight psycho you should try and find that video or just go through some some more but with an open set of eyes!

    • @shimsokshim2995
      @shimsokshim2995 2 года назад +1

      @@robertm.vaccato1334 Her comment wasn't even talking about him, so if anything, I think you meant to reply to me??? Also, I did my own research, and I am not sure at all how you diagnosed a man with his own depression, prescription withdrawal, and covid issues as a psychopath. And most RUclipsrs' thumbnails are just artistic or dramatic representations of what they or the person they are showing is talking about. And even if the man is psycho, his work has saved tons of peoples' lives. My friend can attest to this, so even if Jordan is crazy, he's using his crazy in a good way, even if he does have some questionable habbits here and there. Don't we all?

    • @robertm.vaccato1334
      @robertm.vaccato1334 2 года назад

      @@shimsokshim2995 I don't think you have the ability to think independently, not everyone does! It doesn't matter what you believe? I was warning you! If you don't get it well then you never will. It's not my problem at all, I don't need anyone to convince me of anything I already know! A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still! You should learn to Keep an open mind! It's when we think we are sure is usually when we are wrong! Thinking and knowing are two different things! Nothing is ever set in stone and everything is always subject to change, so be cautious when people claim to have answers for everyone. That's is really impossible just think about it, if you can!

  • @Southernrefinish88
    @Southernrefinish88 2 года назад

    Wow.

  • @5foothi
    @5foothi 2 года назад +2

    Such an amazing video, love this type of content! the world needs more of this, keep up the great work and may you get to where you need to be.

  • @sollywilman7754
    @sollywilman7754 2 года назад +1

    This speech is 1 of.

  • @rivaraptor4277
    @rivaraptor4277 2 года назад +2

    I want to resolve my past mistakes. Only problem is, I legally can't

  • @user-fe5cn6qc4h
    @user-fe5cn6qc4h Год назад

    You know. It sucks because my past was the good time in my life. I was making money and besides just that, I had everything. Maybe I had some bad financial accounts but regardless, I was making it. Now, I sit here at 1 am thinking about how I gave all that up as I struggle to make any money a week. Chasing a dream that sometimes seems unreachable. If I make it out of where I’m at right now , I don’t know. I just hope I make it out

  • @chickenwing1887
    @chickenwing1887 2 года назад

    I think this is the exact problem I have

  • @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier
    @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier 2 года назад

    Does someone have a template, or examples of how to set past things on paper ? I'm getting the words out but it's not coming as clearly as I think it should...

  • @MilandIvanforlife7
    @MilandIvanforlife7 2 года назад +3

    How about those who has photographic memory like mine

  • @rod287
    @rod287 Год назад +1

    (FACTS OVA FEELINGS). UR FUTURE NEEDS EU UR PAST DOESN'T

  • @kimberleyanng.9638
    @kimberleyanng.9638 2 года назад

    I don’t even have the patience or time to think about people or things from 2021. It’s 2022! 😴✌🏾

  • @RubiksPang39
    @RubiksPang39 2 года назад

    Love the red dead redemption 2 soundtrack on the background

  • @shahbazulkarim4857
    @shahbazulkarim4857 Год назад

    I am suffering

  • @alexs3187
    @alexs3187 2 года назад +2

    I used to always dwell on the past. Can’t stop thinking about how I did that.

    • @Southernrefinish88
      @Southernrefinish88 2 года назад

      You see the big thing people have about religion especially the christian religion is that it offers an idea of this ultimate forgiveness and many people don’t like the idea of a person committing the most horrific crimes imaginable and being forgiven for those deeds in the afterlife.

    • @alexs3187
      @alexs3187 2 года назад

      @@Southernrefinish88 oh yeah true. I was just trying to use irony to spread a little humor.

  • @HugoStevenette
    @HugoStevenette Год назад

    Could you please link the sources ❤

  • @AnnaLVajda
    @AnnaLVajda 2 года назад +1

    No I'm stuck in the present I wish I was in the past though and the future looks even worse. I have no illusions about a brighter better tomorrow. I think humanity has peaked years ago I'm not optimistic at all.

  • @motivationalhack1503
    @motivationalhack1503 2 года назад

    Hey Buddy does your channel got monetized??
    Didn't saw any add on your video

  • @bakhtiarahmed4665
    @bakhtiarahmed4665 2 года назад

    True but it is not that easy but yes we and I should immediately burn are past specially bad memories

  • @mamidlagayathrigayathri683
    @mamidlagayathrigayathri683 2 года назад

    Well for me it's different I just constantly remember my sweet school memories and just live in that . What do I do?I want to stop my mind going there .I want to live in present and become successful in my life.please help me 😭😭

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 2 года назад

    Too many people are stuck in the past even though life is moving quickly.

  • @Xixo
    @Xixo 2 года назад

    Background music doesn't sound lile overcoming the past

  • @glynnispitcher9423
    @glynnispitcher9423 2 года назад +2

    (REHAB TIME!) YESTERDEY IS HISTORY/HERSTORY TOMORROW IS A MYSTERY. TWODEY IS A GIFT OF GOD WHICH IS Y WEE CALL IT THE PRESENT. FACTS OVA FEELINGS!

  • @LawderOfficial
    @LawderOfficial 11 месяцев назад

    write a song

  • @DJPashn
    @DJPashn Год назад

    Far out this man is clever.

  • @rob5735
    @rob5735 2 года назад

    Mix

  • @Cracktune
    @Cracktune 2 года назад

    I have recurring nightmares of me trying to escape my home as a young boy. I eventually cut all ties and left at 17. I dont have childhood memories... i have like 5 of them...I cant recall teachers names or roads ive lived on... that repository is not addressable . what then? I turn 40 this month.

    • @tphone6717
      @tphone6717 2 года назад

      May be if you start writing it will come back to you...

  • @ithacacomments4811
    @ithacacomments4811 2 года назад +12

    Yes that challenging event happened in my past.
    God was with me then.
    God brought me through my lack of wisdom and discernment.
    God protected me in the past and does in the present and will in the future.
    No worries. Be happy!

    • @user-lb1fl7sh8m
      @user-lb1fl7sh8m 2 года назад +1

      Yes now go keep going strong man !! Create your own life man !!

  • @harrymcough5545
    @harrymcough5545 2 года назад +3

    What if your thinking of good times you had in the past

    • @jpcrr8844
      @jpcrr8844 2 года назад +1

      In that case you might simply miss and yearn those moments, and therefore it still has a strong impact on you but in a different way. Here Peterson is talking about the memories that have a negative impact on you.

    • @nomudnolotus4410
      @nomudnolotus4410 2 года назад

      Thinking about something that makes you feel good is a good thing and doesn’t need addressing.

    • @harrymcough5545
      @harrymcough5545 2 года назад

      Yeh I yearn for the moments make me feel a bit down even tho they where good memories

    • @nomudnolotus4410
      @nomudnolotus4410 2 года назад

      @@harrymcough5545 If you want to stop thinking about something and are having trouble doing so I suggest yo research the pink elephant theory aka. ironic process theory. It's really helped me.

  • @itsgettingold
    @itsgettingold 2 года назад +1

    All of this is assuming that one wants to be freed from the past. Time seems to have stopped for me more than two years ago when my husband died. I'm here; just because I keep waking up. I suppose I'm stuck in the past because I don't care about the future without him. I'm functional bc I have strong self- discipline; no one knows my interior. Why do I have 'to move into the future,' Jordan? It's without meaning.

  • @georgespangler1517
    @georgespangler1517 2 года назад +1

    True, my past has told me to not get to involved with woman

  • @marlow769
    @marlow769 2 года назад

    Ok, I’m trapped. Now, how do I free myself? What are the nuts and bolts of this project and how do I put them together into something that brings me peace.

    • @FaisalAdvising
      @FaisalAdvising 2 года назад

      Jordan P is telling us to start journaling, the causality , effects, emotions and perhaps the solution. I need to start doing that

    • @user-ju6yb8dq9p
      @user-ju6yb8dq9p 2 года назад

      Buy his self-authoring programs

  • @essentialeagle7049
    @essentialeagle7049 2 года назад +1

    I'm staying right here...everyone can move on ...lee me lone... what cat must got old now

  • @jasonbeale6875
    @jasonbeale6875 2 года назад +2

    I remember very many positive experiences from as young as around 2 years old. I remember a few very negative things too but are the bad experiences meant to keep the balance between the pos/neg to stop you becoming a dreamer viewing life through rose tinted spectacles? Maybe my negatives weren’t that traumatic and my view is they probably weren’t. But I’m not sure what is traumatic for a child as opposed to an adult. My guess would be a child would be much more easily traumatised due to innocence. Interesting.

  • @maiwandpainda1815
    @maiwandpainda1815 2 года назад +2

    That’s way I can’t be present for 10 years
    I am stuck in the past
    It will take years to update my mind
    What to do ?
    🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @Jukeboksi
      @Jukeboksi 2 года назад +1

      Psychedelics. Don’t take them unprepared tho.

    • @maiwandpainda1815
      @maiwandpainda1815 2 года назад +1

      @@Jukeboksi how to be prepared

  • @pitpao
    @pitpao 2 года назад +1

    ok but what if you're just done with life and you are over 40.?

  • @helenbailey8419
    @helenbailey8419 2 года назад +18

    Permission to update your brain.

  • @josephsnisky1851
    @josephsnisky1851 2 года назад

    The Pattywagon will set you free.

  • @AmazingNature365
    @AmazingNature365 2 года назад +1

    I love Jordan Peterson. Ale reklamy to prawdziwe śmieci dla mózgu zwłaszcza Krzysztofa Króla.

  • @guillermopadilla4520
    @guillermopadilla4520 2 года назад

    Who ever touches you touch this,
    Are you ok talking?

  • @iamjustsaying4787
    @iamjustsaying4787 2 года назад +1

    What if it’s not something that someone did to me, but something I did to innocent others? Yes, I was young, but how could I be so evil? I can make excuses, but I just can’t let myself off the hook.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hairynipps2599
      @hairynipps2599 2 года назад +1

      Once u come to terms with it then make yourself a better person ull feel better.

  • @dennismacheda5948
    @dennismacheda5948 2 года назад

    Your stuck in people's past

  • @lykariotyranda1212
    @lykariotyranda1212 2 года назад

    still dont understand how this video helps

  • @theothertroll
    @theothertroll 2 года назад

    Ashame I can’t just shoot my ex 🤪

  • @tishie42
    @tishie42 2 года назад

    Step 4 anyone? Lol

  • @user-qu3tg1cr4l
    @user-qu3tg1cr4l 2 года назад

    So you are eating Klonopin if not for the past Mr Jordan???

  • @mathews2088
    @mathews2088 Месяц назад

    It all regrets. Sucks

  • @veronicalopes8948
    @veronicalopes8948 Год назад

    What's your problem you meant to say that i said i am wife for Dr Jordan B Peterson gave word of God is lord Jesus He is my husband ok i am bride of Christ i am church body of Christ His spirit is living in me faithfulness so what's your problem you said all are in Christ so doctor said we won't leave and i said i am yours

  • @benboydell3395
    @benboydell3395 2 года назад

    The slavish linking of visual images to words in these videos is, for me, off-putting.

  • @MrGobsmack
    @MrGobsmack 2 года назад +2

    tortured by anxiety? why not just take a bunch of drugs?

  • @nso9417
    @nso9417 8 месяцев назад

    I am the cause of my own trauma

  • @callmeabd6546
    @callmeabd6546 3 месяца назад

    6:36