Tyler is so right about saying "thank you" more often. I work in fast food and trust me, getting a "thank you" every once and a while is super super appreciated. 😅
I just wanted to say that you are helping me a lot in my recovery. I discovered your channel a few days ago and I can’t believe how much it has changed the way I feel about my ed. Today was the first time I was able to challenge myself with one of my fear foods and it’s all thanks to you! I love you so much 🥺🧡 and it helps to know that we’re not alone in this struggle.
I love seeing how far you’ve come. It’s so inspiring and brings me happiness! And you and Tyler are so funny! And ngl I would watch solely to see bear. I’m wondering though do you still get ED thoughts? Because aren’t you eating what you want everyday? Only love no hate x
Is it just me that gets stuck in this cycle sometimes? I restrict for a while and then, something clicks and I'm determined to recover. I eat a lot in the beginning and it's super scary. Then, as I get used to eating more and my mental hunger does down, I start eating less. Then one day I get hungry and something is in the way of me getting food, so I don't. Whether it's because I'm out or I feel uncomfortable eating infront of people. Then I get addicted to the feeling of hunger all over again and I relapse. Is there any way to stop his cycle?
Get a goal thats different than hunger or looks or control...What "cured" me after years was the goal to get: strong and unbothered with how I look. It was scary and I relapsed a few times, but I still got fitter, stronger and relaxed about what and how much I eat. Hope that helps.
i’ve never seen someone else put what i’m going through into words before, it’s nice to know i’m not the only one ☺️ i wish the best for you, and hope you find your way out of the cycle
For me it is very similar... it happened 3x already, something makes me realize that I lost too much weight and need to put some back on. I’ll increase my calories and stop tracking everything but after a few weeks I always go back to being stricter and decrease my calories... I don’t feel hungry but still, I’m too skinny now and need to put sone fat on (I’m already pretty muscular so veryyyy lean)
I zoomed over straight from Instagram! Have you ever thought about going truly “all in” like Stephanie buttermore? So eating what you want to every day?
It’s crazy. The first video I saw of you, was your mom challenging you with meals she chose. The sausage for breakfast stressed you out so much and I felt it. You have come so far, I’d even say you completely left the path of the ED. Wow
As a Canadian I can completely confirm the stand off situation 😂 it's honestly a little ridiculous sometimes!! Also loving the TREAT YO SELF vibes of this video, I've been having some cravings I haven't been giving into lately so I think this video was a sign from the LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE gods AKA you and Tyler ✌️💯🔥
I am not sure how I would react if I told someone that I love them & they said "I accept your love for me & extend it back to you." Tyler's love language is anything but the one that actually uses language. 😂 Maybe it's better that Tyler doesn't say "I love you" to Bec all the time though, since he values the word "love" so much & Bec will know he truly does love her when he says it.
Brenna his love language is helping her through her disorder no man would help a girl and stay that long for her recovery if he didn't love her, he motivates her and helps her be happier and healthier that is love not some word that you can say any time you want actions speak louder than words.
@@iwanttoast6545 Yeah that makes sense lol. I wasn't meaning to put too much weight on the word either, I just thought the conversation was funny. It's clear that Tyler loves Bec because of how he treats her, supports her, etc. as you said. I apologize for wording it in the way I did. Thank you for pointing this out.
I remember getting out of my psych class on my first semester of college and I go on RUclips to see one of Rebecca’s fear food challenges on my feed.I remember clicking on it and feeling somewhat relieved, I thought if she can do it I can do it too! I can recover and not feel guilty about eating what I craved. Thank you Rebecca you’re the reason I started my whole recovery process ❤️ much love.
FINALLYYY someone who does not enjoy strawberry flavored things😭 I really dislike banana flavored things as well lol my boyfriend tries to get to try strawberry/banana things all the time and I gag! 🤦🏽♀️😂
like, are u eating EVERYTHING u want for only a day or for the whole life??? Plz don't mind, i just got it in my brain accidentally!!!lol. Since you're recovered, then why calling it only for a day!! u know what i mean XXD
@@martina9467 I get it, I got an ED too, I just wish she wouldn't lie about it when most of her audience are probs ppl with eating issues. That and the fitness obsession. It's not healthy for a disordered person to watch.
@@martina9467 yeah im confused as to how she is still so slim despite these videos... if she does restrict on other days then she is sending the wrong message to viewers that drastic weight gain is not a consequence of recovery and she should really address this bc it is deceiving viewers. but then again, this is just the assumption that she restricts on days she isn't filming
I love her channel and it has really helped me in recovery, but I’ve also thought the same thing recently. Like does she just have an insane metabolism? Because she still is very slim. Idk, I hate the speculate it’s just so hard to know what’s real and what’s not anymore
@@SomethingWet Yeah ngl I do find it slightly triggering that she moved away from ED content due to recovery, but then does videos like this, which slightly imply that she restricts on other days. No hate to her, EDs are tough and EDs are different for everyone but just wonder how honest she's being.
@@martina9467 for me i was literally going all I while recovering i gained weight but now i am back to being really slim and toned without exercising more while still eating what and when i want but i need to say i love healthy foods but I don't put a limit on amounts but honestly my metabolism just increased so much but i do not think she eats like 5 or 6k calories every single day...as i couldn't i would feel sick but i do eat a lot while maintaining my figure so please do not accuse her of being fake she doesn't need to gain weight just because she is recovered now that is non sense
I'm making an effort to eat whatever I want but in the end I just feel bloated and physically uncomfortable. I feel like I have to choose between my mind and my body. I'm craving this mentally, but if I eat it I'll be too full. It so tiring.
i understand because i'm currently recovering. it's something very scary that happens, but as your body becomes more used to the increased amount of food, your weight redistributes. you definitely can do it!!!
@@meredithjulia162 thank you so much. It feels like a new challenge everyday. I know I have to keep going though. I hope you are doing well! We can do this!
how in the world did you guys film that last bit without bursting into laughter!? I was trying not to and I could barley contain myself! (p.s: I love you, you're so beautiful inside and out and I aspire to one day feeling good about eating what I want 'cause it doesn't have to always be your needs. Moderation after all, right?) :)
Well, I think I would eat pizza.🍕 By the way, I was sleeping but as soon as I woke up I took my phone to watch your video! I love this kind of video and you’re so inspirational to me!💞
do you ever eat while on the go? or standing up? or just snacking at random times in the day? correct me if i’m wrong but i’ve noticed that a large part of eating disorder rules is sitting down and making an event out of eating, which it seems like you do very often still, even in your recovery. I would love to know if that’s still a challenge for you, and if it is can you make a video challenging yourself to only snack randomly throughout the day - on buses, while walking etc. lots of love and support for your channel regardless ❤️
What does Tyler do for a living? My bf lives in HK and ive always wanted to do a year abroad but most of the jobs are english tutors unless you speak cantonese
If you could only eat ONE FOOD for the rest of your life...what would it be?
bread. just bread
Crepes? They're versatile so I can get both sweet and savoury 😋
Pizza bcs you can put literally anything on a pizza 😂
Margherita pizza!
@@hanna4474 words to live by
Tyler is so right about saying "thank you" more often. I work in fast food and trust me, getting a "thank you" every once and a while is super super appreciated. 😅
I just wanted to say that you are helping me a lot in my recovery. I discovered your channel a few days ago and I can’t believe how much it has changed the way I feel about my ed. Today was the first time I was able to challenge myself with one of my fear foods and it’s all thanks to you! I love you so much 🥺🧡 and it helps to know that we’re not alone in this struggle.
I'd love to see a "Tyler eats everything he wants for a day"
Georgia Landie she has this kinda video already (eating my bf’s portion sizes sth like that)
I felt the tastiness of that egg-tart through the screen though I never even tried one :P~
ahhh you have to!! definitely something on the bucket list
I love seeing how far you’ve come. It’s so inspiring and brings me happiness! And you and Tyler are so funny! And ngl I would watch solely to see bear. I’m wondering though do you still get ED thoughts? Because aren’t you eating what you want everyday? Only love no hate x
Is it just me that gets stuck in this cycle sometimes? I restrict for a while and then, something clicks and I'm determined to recover. I eat a lot in the beginning and it's super scary. Then, as I get used to eating more and my mental hunger does down, I start eating less. Then one day I get hungry and something is in the way of me getting food, so I don't. Whether it's because I'm out or I feel uncomfortable eating infront of people. Then I get addicted to the feeling of hunger all over again and I relapse.
Is there any way to stop his cycle?
Get a goal thats different than hunger or looks or control...What "cured" me after years was the goal to get: strong and unbothered with how I look. It was scary and I relapsed a few times, but I still got fitter, stronger and relaxed about what and how much I eat. Hope that helps.
@@np1695 I'll definitely try that! Thank you so much! I'm gonna start doing that 😊
i’ve never seen someone else put what i’m going through into words before, it’s nice to know i’m not the only one ☺️ i wish the best for you, and hope you find your way out of the cycle
@@juliaortiz6483 thank you. And I hope the best for you too 🥰
For me it is very similar... it happened 3x already, something makes me realize that I lost too much weight and need to put some back on. I’ll increase my calories and stop tracking everything but after a few weeks I always go back to being stricter and decrease my calories... I don’t feel hungry but still, I’m too skinny now and need to put sone fat on (I’m already pretty muscular so veryyyy lean)
I zoomed over straight from Instagram!
Have you ever thought about going truly “all in” like Stephanie buttermore? So eating what you want to every day?
She had extreme hunger, if I'm correct? It doesn't work if you don't experience that kind of hunger.
It’s crazy. The first video I saw of you, was your mom challenging you with meals she chose. The sausage for breakfast stressed you out so much and I felt it. You have come so far, I’d even say you completely left the path of the ED. Wow
As a Canadian I can completely confirm the stand off situation 😂 it's honestly a little ridiculous sometimes!! Also loving the TREAT YO SELF vibes of this video, I've been having some cravings I haven't been giving into lately so I think this video was a sign from the LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE gods AKA you and Tyler ✌️💯🔥
“love is a powerful word and it’s thrown around easily nowadays”
COULDNT BE BETTER SAID 👏👏
I am not sure how I would react if I told someone that I love them & they said "I accept your love for me & extend it back to you." Tyler's love language is anything but the one that actually uses language. 😂 Maybe it's better that Tyler doesn't say "I love you" to Bec all the time though, since he values the word "love" so much & Bec will know he truly does love her when he says it.
Brenna his love language is helping her through her disorder no man would help a girl and stay that long for her recovery if he didn't love her, he motivates her and helps her be happier and healthier that is love not some word that you can say any time you want actions speak louder than words.
@@iwanttoast6545 Yeah that makes sense lol. I wasn't meaning to put too much weight on the word either, I just thought the conversation was funny. It's clear that Tyler loves Bec because of how he treats her, supports her, etc. as you said. I apologize for wording it in the way I did. Thank you for pointing this out.
you’re such an inspiration rebecca x just wondering do you work out? and how often x
I’m always disappointed when the plate is huge but the portion is small...lol
The pasta looks great tho:)
BEC I love your videos!!! You and Tyler should do a couple QandA!!! U two are the best!😊😊
Haha I think we’ve done a couple of those but always good to do an updated one!
I remember getting out of my psych class on my first semester of college and I go on RUclips to see one of Rebecca’s fear food challenges on my feed.I remember clicking on it and feeling somewhat relieved, I thought if she can do it I can do it too! I can recover and not feel guilty about eating what I craved. Thank you Rebecca you’re the reason I started my whole recovery process ❤️ much love.
I am so proud of you, you have come so far and inspire me everyday!❤️❤️❤️
Your videos are an inspiration for me..... thank you so much
Can we all agree that Bec is just goals?! 😍😍
Love love love this!
More trying new foods and restaurants! More doing whatever you want :)
Next time I get an advertisement call on my phone, I won’t hang up, I will ask them to subscribe to your channel
LOL! Soo good 😂 I like the plan
Your such an inspiration Rebecca!
Every time u upload a video I wait eagerly for it to end so that Tyler would come with a new hilarious way to make viewers subscribe.😁
"Which is something I never do"
Me: WhaT
oh never mind
PRANKED.
yes LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! just shout out inspirational quotes all day everyday!!! can you be my life coach bec?!
whenever i am lost for words...i'll pull out a quote...good idea (Y)
Love your videos!!! You should do a video either trying to speak chinese all day OR learning to speak chinese!! I think that'd be a super fun video!!
FINALLYYY someone who does not enjoy strawberry flavored things😭 I really dislike banana flavored things as well lol my boyfriend tries to get to try strawberry/banana things all the time and I gag! 🤦🏽♀️😂
You are glowing! So pretty ✨
I wish I had the courage to do this❤❤❤so proud of you!
this is really solid editing i'm satified within the first 2 seconds of the video loll
As soon as I saw your notification I got on as soon as I could. Your videos really help me in recovery so thank you so much
I was sleeping but I didn't think twice when I got ur notification😁💖
haha you were sleeping and STILL was first!
hehe yup Im on my way on becoming a true BJ 😂😍
I love your videos! 🥰
As a Canadian, can confirm Canadian chicken is serious business
like, are u eating EVERYTHING u want for only a day or for the whole life???
Plz don't mind, i just got it in my brain accidentally!!!lol. Since you're recovered, then why calling it only for a day!! u know what i mean XXD
@@martina9467 I get it, I got an ED too, I just wish she wouldn't lie about it when most of her audience are probs ppl with eating issues. That and the fitness obsession. It's not healthy for a disordered person to watch.
@@martina9467 yeah im confused as to how she is still so slim despite these videos... if she does restrict on other days then she is sending the wrong message to viewers that drastic weight gain is not a consequence of recovery and she should really address this bc it is deceiving viewers. but then again, this is just the assumption that she restricts on days she isn't filming
I love her channel and it has really helped me in recovery, but I’ve also thought the same thing recently. Like does she just have an insane metabolism? Because she still is very slim. Idk, I hate the speculate it’s just so hard to know what’s real and what’s not anymore
@@SomethingWet Yeah ngl I do find it slightly triggering that she moved away from ED content due to recovery, but then does videos like this, which slightly imply that she restricts on other days. No hate to her, EDs are tough and EDs are different for everyone but just wonder how honest she's being.
@@martina9467 for me i was literally going all I while recovering
i gained weight
but now i am back to being really slim and toned without exercising more while still eating what and when i want
but i need to say i love healthy foods but I don't put a limit on amounts
but honestly my metabolism just increased so much
but i do not think she eats like 5 or 6k calories every single day...as i couldn't i would feel sick
but i do eat a lot while maintaining my figure
so please do not accuse her of being fake
she doesn't need to gain weight just because she is recovered now
that is non sense
I would probably eat muffins and peanut butter or oatmeal. Thank you for all that you do. Stay beautiful 💞
Wow, i'm so early! Never been THIS early. Love you
OH heyyyy ;) The cool kids are here!
You're such an inspiration Rebecca and I love your personality! I see a new video notification from Rebecca Jane...I click. Simple
Ur my favorite RUclipsr! Everytime you post a video I get so excited!!
The walking through the door!!! I often make the mistake to hold doors open and get stuck😂
I need the entire quote “youre gonna eat cause you have to eat everyday the way that you wanna eat and the life that you wanna live....” on a shirt
Omg the calamari bit had me in stitches 🤣
I just started the video but I’m LOVING your hair it’s so cute with the little waves/curls
"i accept your love for me and I extend it back to you" - Tyler you're hilarious haha
You (and your boyfriend, YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT MATCH btw!!!) got a new subscriber 😁
I've been watching you for so long I can't wait for the day that I can meet you at a meet and greet!!
Loooove this (and all your videos) ❤️ tbh if I could only eat one food dinner it'd probably be Greek salad with extra feta
Hey! Are you still on a weight gain plan? Any tips for gaining weight in recovery and coming to terms with weight gain?
I already know that GREEK food is what you need .....visit us 😭.....visit Greece 😭❤❤❤❤
Sold. Not sure when I’ll be there tho :(
omg the calamari of the sea is cracking me up!!! It took me awhile to connect sheep and lamb as the same animal!!!
Tyler out here still strong with the inspirational quotes tho 💪😩💪
Ahhhhh I just had my first sip of ginger ale at the exact same time lol. That shook me
Omg what? You coincidentally had ginger ale with you? Haha cool!
@@BecJane 😂😂 love it
Oohh everything looks SO good! You are such an inspiration! Thank you so much for your videos, you are amazing!
Tyler's iconic T - shirt, loving it!
I'm making an effort to eat whatever I want but in the end I just feel bloated and physically uncomfortable. I feel like I have to choose between my mind and my body. I'm craving this mentally, but if I eat it I'll be too full. It so tiring.
i understand because i'm currently recovering. it's something very scary that happens, but as your body becomes more used to the increased amount of food, your weight redistributes. you definitely can do it!!!
@@meredithjulia162 thank you so much. It feels like a new challenge everyday. I know I have to keep going though. I hope you are doing well! We can do this!
i’m so excited i love watching your videos (:
I rlly needed this video today!! Thank you
As a Canadian I can say the Canadian standoff happens to me about once a week
Love your videos💞 but all of this makes me hungry. It’s almost 1 am.
Midnight snack + one hour
“i love you”
“i-“
*midroll*
well played
I thought this too 😂
Im glad you didn’t call it that a cheat day!💞
how in the world did you guys film that last bit without bursting into laughter!? I was trying not to and I could barley contain myself!
(p.s: I love you, you're so beautiful inside and out and I aspire to one day feeling good about eating what I want 'cause it doesn't have to always be your needs. Moderation after all, right?) :)
OMG the Canadian standoff LOL
As a Canadian, I can verify I've had several of those instances
Totally.
So early wow...love you Rebecca!! You inspire me every day ♥️
I ❤️the channel and the videos are amazing and you are very inspirational.
Well, I think I would eat pizza.🍕 By the way, I was sleeping but as soon as I woke up I took my phone to watch your video! I love this kind of video and you’re so inspirational to me!💞
This makes me so happy, it an honour! Thanks for supporting me so much :)
I haven’t had an egg tart in AGES...time to hunt one down! 🥚💛
You put so much effort into finding creative ways to get your viewers to subscribe, and honestly they better
all the credit goes to Tyler :)
Well I was singing Disney songs when you posted this... But I'm watching it now while my voice is recovering from belting lol
beck, how do you get ur hair so pretty? show us!!!!
You are just a BEAUTIFUL person
Every seen Fairly Odd Parent? Obtuse, rubber goose, green moose, guava juice
Giant snake, birthday cake, large fries, chocolate shake😝
“I love you”
“I.... accept your love and extend it back to you”
OH YEAAAAHHH LOVE YOU BECCA!!!❤️
Oooooooo yaaaahhhhhhh! How r u?
Rebecca Jane FINEEEE THANKSSSSS!!! 🤍 KISSES FROM PORTUGAL 🇵🇹 ☺️
Love you abd your videos so much you are amazing!!
Aww thank you! I’m glad you enjoy the mess :P
Nice new food, Rebecca!❤️
I'm fashionably late 😎😂 I love your videos :)
I loved the vid 💕! Btw, in spanish both calamari and a squid are called "calamares" (cause they're the same thing lmao) 👀
awww haha I love strawberry flavored things D:
damn tyler got really existential in this vid
Early❤❤and i loved the video😉✨
I'd definitely go for yoghurt and muesli with nuts on top. Do you work out Rebecca?
i love ur videos!!! i know this one is gonna be awesome
thank you Natalia
do you ever eat while on the go? or standing up? or just snacking at random times in the day? correct me if i’m wrong but i’ve noticed that a large part of eating disorder rules is sitting down and making an event out of eating, which it seems like you do very often still, even in your recovery. I would love to know if that’s still a challenge for you, and if it is can you make a video challenging yourself to only snack randomly throughout the day - on buses, while walking etc. lots of love and support for your channel regardless ❤️
This is a great idea
Never been so early in my life lol! Loved the vid as always, bear is adorable xx
LOVE IS NOT FINITE CONCEPT!!
seriously Tyler, don’t block yourself from the world’s love
Question! Is Hong Kong good to go with COVID social distancing? Because we’re not doing so hot in the US 😅
i'm watching this as i try to eat a pancake.....big steps!!!
chocolate chip pancakes?
Rebecca Jane yes!!! super fluffy and a childhood favorite!
can you do a video eating only cantonese food or only speaking cantonese?
What does Tyler do for a living? My bf lives in HK and ive always wanted to do a year abroad but most of the jobs are english tutors unless you speak cantonese
I think he's a professional athlete but I may be wrong
well, ahoy to you too, matey! and that bacon? dude, I've never tried bacon in my life and you made that look phenomenal.
You guys are the cutest couple ever
bear and i say thanks!
If I could only eat ONE FOOD, it'll have to be....bananas & nut butter
Is it just me or is this video camera quality AMAZING
Same opinion about the word "love" as Tyler! ;)
Tyler should be a motivational speaker.
Did you get a new camera, it looks AMAZING!
thanks!! no it's the same camera! hmm i wonder what looks different
@@BecJane oh haha okay! you inspired me to start my own channel btw :)
so early 😍💗💗
Don’t worry we still love you 🇨🇦
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