I've lived on my own since I was 20! Now I'm in my mid 50's and own my car and home OUTRIGHT! IT'S ALL ABOUT paying the Monthly bills and MORE stuffing of the Retirement Accounts NOW! Oh and yeah DEFINITELY CUT THE CABLE BILL ALL TOGETHER!
After living 20yrs + with a narcissist, living alone is a breath of fresh air. No more treading on egg shells all the while.I can now do what I please when I please. Decorate my house how I want it, eat what I want, go to bed late or sleep late. Have friends round I could go on & on. Only regret, wish I'd done it sooner
I have lived alone for the past 2 years since my divorce. I spent the past 30 years putting up with a man baby and after having the freedom to do what I want when I want for 2 years it would very hard for me to ever live with a man again lol. My friend is the opposite- she has been on the hunt for another man ever since her divorce was final. I’m like “Why in the world do you want another one?” 😂
I love the idea of coffee and treats ... I live in Florida so the porch is HOT but I can certainly invite friends over for coffee and treats instead of lunch or dinner! Budget friendly!
I lived alone from the age of 22 until I got married at 29. It was one of the best times of my life. I had hand me down furniture the first couple years and no clutter because I didn’t have the money to buy crap. I learned how to be independent, self-sufficient and responsible. I never felt lonely. I think everyone should spend at least a year living alone if they can swing it financially. I had so much fun and the freedom is exhilarating.
Heck yeah! I'm a frugal elder who loves your tips. I live alone and make a game out of saving money. My latest money saving practice is that I've quit buying clothes for the rest of 2023. I have lots of beautiful clothes that I love combining in new outfits. I also try to waste zero food. Love you Kate! ❤
This company called Woman Within (size 12 up to 6X) used to have drastic sales in March. Big haul in ‘21, from nighties, swimsuits, a thermal-lined hoodie coat for $6.00. This year, it wasn’t the same. More like $75. reduced to $54. SHEIN, like Amazon, has unreliable sizing, so I did get a lot of cute things, but too many I couldn’t even get over my head.
I love living alone with my kid. It is not for everyone but I love it. Make my kind of food, drink my coffee, read my books, watch my shows, etc. If I come across a wonderful man, that would be amazing but I am also content in my life. God has blessed me in so many ways I am grateful that I am able to be independent or contribute to a relationship.
As a senior living alone, I think groceries are the most difficult part of the budget especially when you are trying to eat healthy, avoid fatty, high carb, and processed foods, etc. With the current crazy inflation, retirement funds don’t go as far as they used to. You have to prioritize the protein that you need for the week/month and shop the best sale prices.
Shopping at more than one supermarkets”lost leaders” will save you quite a bit of money. Sure, it takes more time, but it is worth it to stretch your food budget.
I am 58 and have been living alone 14 yrs since divorce in 2009. The struggle is real. IF social security is available to me in the near future- my SS check will be small because I made the choice to stay home (not earn income) with my 6 children for 16 years. I have learned to be most frugal. I cook in bulk- mostly cuz that's all I know from once feeding a family of 8. Used to hate leftovers- now they are my lifeline. Just made a 5 QT pot of soup from ground beef, rice, broth, some store brand Rotel tomatoes, salsa remnants, and drained cans of pinto beans, black beans, and corn- some spices. It's super delicious (to me). It will feed me for days. It cost about $12 max to make. I am lucky and grateful to like soups and easily combined foods.
I've lived alone for years until recently. My brother and me have decided to move in together because of health concerns. He's had heart bypass surgery and I have cancer so we thought it would be best to keep an eye on one another for obvious reasons. But we both have substantial income and I just paid off my house, so can't complain about much of anything. Still love your videos though, watch them whenever I can. You my dear are a winner, hope you know that❤️
Heck yes!! My tip for living alone is to find a good repair person and become friends with them. I’m really good friends with the guy I call for repairs. He never charges me too much and he’s fun to be around!
Heck yeah! I live by myself, one income, and love love love animals but I know that I can’t afford one so I’m going next weekend to a training to be a volunteer at the local animal shelter. Win/Win situation.
My favorite one to add; ask friends and family for their left over paint. I painted my walls and revamped some furniture with that when I moved. It made them happy (no guilt for having bought too much, or keeping it for “just in case”) and it made me happy. When I walk through my house the colors remind me of people I love. Bonus tip; after painting, put some paint in an old jar. And donate the rest to another person who can use it. Not having more stuff in your home than you need saves time and money too.
That's the best tip I've read in a long time. Thank you. My house needs a face-lift but I have had neither the funds nor the physical strength to do it. Guess how I will be tackling it now?
Heck yeah!! I lived alone after graduating nursing school until I got married (6 years). I absolutely loved it. I was alone but never lonely. I’m divorced now and my grown daughter lives with me but she’s busy with her own life so I pretty much consider myself living alone again ( with my fur babies) I spend my money the way I want to plus I only have to please myself and no one else.
My very favorite cost-saving tip is using the library for just about everything. Books, audiobooks, music CDs, movies, classes, book clubs, concerts, new friends…
I'm retired now and have been on my own for 20 years. Debt free retirement is the only way to go! Many things lead me down the debt free path but I think the #1 thing is to be mindful with spending. Think about it for a day or 2. That tells you if you want it or need it. Big difference. Great video!
Happy Frugal Friday, KSquad!!! Heck yes! We are empty nesters! We can live cheaply and still have a luxurious lifestyle! Simple things bring us immense joy! Sitting on our back patio with our homemade drinks watching the sunset over the Catalina mountains in Tucson is simply the best way to spend an evening! 😊
"Conscious spending" is a phrase we all should be following at all times. When I moved from a large metro area to a bucolic rural scene my income was reduced by 60%. I started evaluating every purchase in terms of how many hours of minimum wage work it would cost me. Really changed my mindset to equate spending with earning. Guess I was raised in a bubble. Now I'm retired with a paid off mortgage and almost no other debt and I'm happier than ever. Thank you.
Currently living alone & in my late 50's, working full-time from home. Seven years ago, my mom & I bought a small house together. Sadly, she passed away suddenly soon after we moved in. I struggled financially for some time but I've been able to continue in the house (mortgage payments are still cheaper than renting an apartment). Have had a couple of different roommates but choose to live by myself & my two senior cats. The cost of their care has increased this past year because of their health. But that is part of being a pet parent. I'm already using several of the tips in this video, such as no cable, just paying for streaming subscriptions that I really like & watch. My grocery list is always the same each month. However, to protect my health, I'm trying to stay away from the refined & processed foods, no matter how cheap they are. They aren't healthy. So, I always have eggs & cheese in my fridge, since there so many ways to prepare them. As well as veggies, both fresh & frozen. I'm trying to grow my own lettuce & kale too. One grocery store I shop at has rewards points: for free items, discounts for total bill, or discounts for fuel. Thanks for such a great video. It's always good to review and assess what we're doing and make any adjustments or changes as needed.
I have lived on my own for over 15 years now. I agree that when you have a lot that goes wrong unexpectedly at the same time, that is where I struggle. It is tough to feel the weight of not having anyone else to rely upon or to "save" you when things go wrong. God has been good to me, and He has provided for me all these years. I am so grateful for Him.
Thanks, guys, your comments give me hope. Been through a tough year, two years this dude of my divorce. I live alone, other than my best friend the dog. But after a health scare in '22 Tha ran a whole year, plus my dog and my car taking turns eating at a credit card with their breakdowns and health issues....it's been a difficult year so far. My health improved thus far, and the dog seems better (though now has meds for life), but the car.....the car....... The car, which takes me 16 miles round trip 4 days a week to my min wage job, in a small town with no real work prospects (59 yo with 35 years of retail experience....pretty limited)....I need a car, to keep working. It's paid for (was my ex's daily commuter, 140 miles a day 5 days a week) he gave it to me, knowing I couldn't buy a car..... but now it's falling apart. It's 11 years old w/ 207k miles on it. I can't afford a different car. I am struggling to pay for all these expensive repairs. But, I would not change a thing. I love the challenge of starting over-- but even better is the peace and freedom that comes with living alone. After the divorce, I realized the longest I'd ever lived alone was in my first aptmt, age 19, for 3 mos. Then I lived a roommate, and eventually my ex husband (36 years). So in spite of the difficulty this year, I'm still thrilled to be in my own again. Not even dating--don't care!
I have lived alone for 5 years now and love it! Living can be as cheap or extravagant as I choose. It’s just a matter of personal preference. As of now, the idea of living with anyone else is not a pleasant thought.
Heck yes! Widowed (years ago). The last 2 years, I've enjoy peace & contentment. I work all day 5 miles from this homestead. The budget is tight at times, but the $$ I save is a lot!!
Already live alone. Learn to grow some edible stuff that you would normally buy as part of your grocery shopping. I started with sprouting seeds, then salad leaves, and gradually added all my favourite herbs in window boxes with edible flowers as a bonus. These things saved me a fair bit and then I was raring to go when I had a patio to put containers on and grow veg and strawberries. When my circumstances changed again and I had a garden, I grew much more veg and fruits, herbs and every salad ingredient I could as well as flowers for the house. A small flock of hens provided fresh eggs daily for baking, desserts meals and to share with neighbours. Now with health and mobility issues, I am back to growing in containers, table top raised beds made by my brother and taking advantage of the fruit from the small orchard and hedges of fruit bushes created over the years. Trust me even a pot of parsley on a window sill is worthwhile. I may never have a lot of money but I feel the abundance my gardens have provided has made me feel wealthy in that I have what I need and can afford to share generously with family friends and neighbours.
HECK YEAH😉 I married at 20, and divorced after 26 years. Never was involved with finances, and was a stay at home mom. Using the Every Dollar budget app has been the most important thing for me (I use the free version). Not only does it keep me on track, I can also spend on some wants without using money for the things I truly need. It has given me confidence in my abilities to handle my finances, as well as free me from fear of spending and giving because i know where i stand financially at all times.
I just got my apartment and didn't have much furniture. So I started going to the thrift stores and found some beautiful antique furniture for cheap. It has saved me a ton of money. Sure it will cost for paint, sanding paper etc but it is better made than what you can buy now
Some really great tips! I did not live alone until my kids were grown and moved out. Now I have a roommate by choice (and her rent goes toward my debt payoff!). Two things from your list that go hand in hand, and is so very important, live on a faux budget and to not to buy a home only to end up house poor. Way before you buy, while renting, figure out what your mortgage payment/housing expenses would be if you were to purchase a home (Zillow gives estimate mortgage/house expenses). Take the amount of the mortgage each month, and pay your rent from that amount then put the rest into savings. This will help you save up the down payment and/or closings costs for when you do purchase a home. I did that prior to buying my home and it was the only way I was able to purchase it. I meal plan and only shop every 10 -14 days. I keep my meals simple and make bigger portions so I can have leftovers.
I ❤ the single life! No debt, no one trying to manipulate me! It's great to be a responsible free agent with substantial savings equaling security and future possibilities of many choices. 😊😊😊😊
Esp in the crazy economic time depending on where u live, rents can be outrageous for a dump. Your rent can easily be one half or more of your monthly income, your choice of apts may be extremely limited due to availability in your income range. You may need to Cut back in other areas, this is what it’s like where I live. Take care y’all. 🦋❤️
Heck yes! I have a different life change for a faux budget - retirement! Planning retirement - how much can you live on when your working days are over. I underestimated what I could live on. Fortunately I am able to work a part time job I enjoy, and I am putting most of my earnings into a savings account. I have lived alone over 20 years and cooking for 1 has been my greatest challenge. I have learned to do some batch cooking and either freeze leftovers or creatively make a yummy meal with leftovers. So many things you can do with cooked chicken or hamburger, or even side dishes like rice or potatoes. Happy Frugal Friday!
I love your tips! My message to others is don’t be surprised at how good you get at it! Life is full of challenges and this is yours! My opinion is a cat always helps! Warmth and a good TV and simple food and preparation! You know best what you need!
My biggie was scalloped potatoes. Scallop potatoes don't include cheese, they are just white sauce and potatoes. Then you can chose to switch them up with some cheese, some ham, some veggies, some left over chicken or turkey, or some combination of the mix.
Something I did was part time in food service where I got a free meal! They quickly asked me to work full time! I did and was making twice the income from retail, where hours were being cut. Kitchen employees got a good free meal per shift, it was win, win from there! I am retiring now!
Living alone has been the best move in my life, 30+ years on I have no regrets. I think my best tip is to ignore what the Joneses have just acquired. If I can be content with what I have, then that's fine. Be thankful for what you do have, save for what you need. It was a huge struggle for many years, but so worthwhile for the peace of mind. Rejoice that if you buy some food and put it in the fridge nobody else eats it! Learn skills to make things easier for yourself to make your place homely. If people look down their noses at your decor or other things you haven't been able to fix/upgrade, then they're not real friends.
Truth! I've been house-poor and it was beyond miserable on so many levels! Led to further bad decisions- debt. Great tips! Post divorce and finding Dave Ramsey- I seriously dialed my thermostat down to 60 in the winter, I cut cable and All tv And internet for 3.5 years. I had unlimited phone data. I now have tv and internet again- but I really don't ever turn on my tv. I got used to living without. Had Hulu and Netflix for a bit, but when they doubled my rates I canceled my subscriptions. Now they are offering a greatly reduced rate to get me back. People need to check their subscriptions and not automatically agree to the new prices.
Kate what an amazing video. I've lived on my own for about 5 years now after my marriage ended .and I absolutely love it lol. You can do what you want when you want but yes it can be very easy to get carried away. I think my tip would be treat reducing your bills and saving money as a challenge and have a prize or something to look forward to. Its very easy to get bored and disheartened so keep it fun ❤️👍👍
the video and all the tips are really great! I have lived alone for 14 years. at the age of 20 into his first own apartment. back then i had a lot of used things given to me, from furniture to crockery. I was so thankful for it at the time and I probably showed that I still get presents like this today. Nobody needs a €20 voucher for Christmas when you can get a barely used €200 coffee machine that would otherwise end up in the bin. my tip is that you shouldn't try to imitate your parents' household. just because mother needed three different brooms it doesn't necessarily mean you need three yourself. you don't need 20 different spices if you're not good at cooking and so on. many people also overestimate how much bed towels and so on they need because they are used to the large selection that they parents have built up over decades.
One thing I do in the clothing arena, I also hang clothes that are lightly worn, but I bought a bottle of Febreeze Fabric Refresher and spray them, let them hang, and then put them away. Works great. And works on dry clean only as well. And consider using the Woolite dry cleaning cloths to extend between visits for those clothes that need professional care.
Consolidate your trips to save gas. Run all your errands at once. Go to the grocery on the way home from work. Do not go to the grocery for just one item
I found that from scratch cooking to be critical for keeping food costs down and also for better health. Often, this meant cooking recioies for 4 or 6 amd having a lot of left overs. I used left overs for lunch and froze the rest. I didn't skip on baking just because I was single either. I had an honest set of dishes, silverware, glasses, and mugs and established an eating area; depending, i only moved with the silverware 'cause i valued my pots, lan, kitchen appliances, spices, cleaning supplies, and larder more than dishes which I could pick up once moved and needed packing protection; PIA that it is, dint forget to pack a broom "cause most new places need to be swept. After my first experience and first 2 weeks, I learned to keep some type of a larder too. Out side of spices, condiments, and treats I seldom bought any food that wasn't on some type of a sale; usually a good sale or mark down.
I am late commenting, but I really wish that I lived on my own when I was younger. I finally am and I have learned so much about myself. I think twice about what I spend because I know that I am the one who pays the consequences. If I miss out on a trip or concert that I really want to see, and I don't have the money because of buying stuff I didn't need. And if I borrow money from someone else, I feel awful. Because borrowing money from family or friends is not a thing. The freedom of living alone is wonderful and if I watch my spending it can be better and not relying on anyone else is so good.
Heck yeah, I just started living alone again in government subsidized housing 6 months ago and what I do to save money is batch cook large amounts of food in my huge commercial stainless steel pot I inherited from a restaurant I used to be a chef at and portion and freeze meals and also use my big 8 quart Instant Pot as well which is faster and uses very little hydro and keeps my place cool instead of using my oven.
HECK YES! I agree with the others who said batch cooking. Most recipes feed 4 so I eat two and freeze two for another week. I portion everything out so I can grab and go for lunch. I drove a young coworker through Burger King the other day and his combo meal was almost $18! That's crazy!!! I love to cook so I buy protein on sale and plan around it. I have a deep freezer so I can take advantage of sales and store all my portioned meals. I currently have one portion of sloppy joe to put on a sweet potato, picadillo, soup and a chicken dish cooked with veggies. That's just off the top of my head. My sister adds cilantro to her potato salad and I'll be doing that with potatoes I need to do something with. Thanks, Kate!
When I first moved on my own, I still spent like I was liveing with my Mom so I had to quickly get that worked out of my system. So what I did was rearanged the budget to put all the fun stuff on the bottom of the budget because I could live with out it if need be.
Make sure there is shelfs table foods in the house, crackers, peanutbutter, dried noudels, hotdogs in a jar and bread in a donated freezer, cerial and coffee
Ive lived alone over 20 years and i love it as i am in control of my spending. Growing up in a large family we never had money for extras. I always stay within my means and never get into debt. . Happily retired on a fixed pension, I know how much money is coming in each month. I save any money left at the end of the month to go towards holidays and meetings friends .
To get the most savings is if you live in an apartment or rent house turn off your breakers except for the a/c, icebox, and freezer... It will cut you bill by half... Make soap from dawn dish soap to for your laundry two cups water to one cup of soap cleans your clothes beautifully..
I’ve been living alone since college for 28 years, and I’ve only ever bought two pieces of new furniture...a kitchen table and a glider rocker with ottoman! Everyone loves my house and it’s coziness. And don’t spend your $ on stuff that you don’t need that will just become clutter.
I can SO relate! When I was in my twenties, I was afraid to live by myself, but I made myself do it. After about 6 months, I couldn't imagine any other way. Now that I'm a mom, I love that, too, and am so glad I had the chance to live on my own before the next new phase in my life! 👍🌞
Heck Yes!!! I am looking forward to living alone again. Did it in my twenties for several years, then again for several years after I was widowed. Lost my job sue to Covid and moved in with my sister's family to take care of my elderly father who also lived with them. Now that he is gone I am taking care of my brother-in-law 's elderly mom who now lives with them. And their youngest moved back in too after graduating college and her roommate moved to go to graduate school. Too much coming and going, several different diets / ways of eating, different schedules, etc. It is saving me money as I don't buy groceries or pay utilities. My land at home is paid off, so I am saving to build a small house. All these tips are so valid for young, middle age, and elders living alone.
These things apply to us that have been adulting a long time. At 70 I found myself single again and budgeting on social security. Wrap your head around that, I’m well below the poverty level. Did I mention I’m disabled, so working is an option.
I’m sorry I missed the frugal Friday live chat this morning. My son has a field trip today and he went with his dad so I had to get their lunches packed and ready. I’m going to watch the video here soon since I took a day off to myself. I’m an introvert so it’s a glorious day lol 😂 😊
Heck Yes, I love these tips, I spent almost a month alone while taking care of my mothers apt after she passed away & it was amazing- I am married & as happy to be alone for a time. My mother lived by many of these tips as well. Good info thanks for sharing 👏👏👏
I have one! Intermittent fasting! I budget $10 a day for food and every day I fast I put a ten dollar bill in the jar. At the end of the month I can afford a treat or save for a short vacation. Also, who doesn't have those awesome outfits in the back of the closet you don't get to wear as much as you would like because they just don't fit like they used to? You might just be wearing them on a long weekend mini trip😎 And don't forget about off season rates!
When buying groceries try to stock up on items. So when you do go to the grocery store and only need staple items whatever you have budgeted for groceries whatever you have left will be for Bargain Hunt. Look throughout the store for bargains because they are there. This way it takes less stress off stretching your money out.
Both times when I moved out on my own, I had only the necessities, then I gradually bought things or things were given to me, first time at 19, I had a mattress, I also had a hoped chest so I have plenty of stuff for the kitchen and bathroom, I bought me a used black-and-white TV for $25, the used furniture store threw in the stand for free, I also had a couch my brother loan me. until I could buy my own. I live on my own for five years before I got married. The second time, I was 51 years old, we split everything down the middle, my daughter had a full-size mattress, a dresser, her TV and games, her clothes, etc. I gave her the bedroom, I took the front room. I put a futon in lay a way for me in advance, and paid it off. The day we moved in, I had my dresser from my bedroom, took one of the tv, a bookcase, and a coffee table that my sister in-law gave me, my rocking chair. My husband and me also split everything in the kitchen and the closet. That was it. my daughter started college later on that year. She insisted that I take the bedroom because she’s wasn’t going to be there most of the time, just visiting and she take the front room. I’ve been living on my own for a long time, and I love it🩵🩵🩵 and I’m a introvert, there’s nothing like peace
Heck yeahhhhh..recently separated from my husband...moving out soon ...you dropped this video so damn at the right time...we thank God❤..thanku Ksquad❤❤❤
I just started living alone, not by choice and it's a huge adjustment. Got rid of cable, don't have any subscriptions, switched internet providers so its cheaper. My pets bills really seem to be my biggest expenses.
I've lived alone for most of my adult life. I have collected the art and furniture over the years that bring me joy. It's ok to own things that make you happy. I don't own a tv or a spare bed. I do own a humongous California King bed, lol... My life is built for one. I downsized to a smaller home 3 years ago and kept what I love, let go of the rest. I cook, clean and do for myself. I garden, read, watch the birds... life is peaceful and good. I'm very thankful.
Your Friends story reminds me of when I moved out I had 8 movies and nothing else no cable and a membership to a video store. So funny I listened to a lot of radio and I know Gone with the Wind by heart. I think the library is also helpful for entertainment.
I have lived a lone by choice as a younger person and currently live alone now by life circumstance (I am a widow). I love this video because it is the first time I have not had to listen to someone say "get a room mate." There is no question that living alone is more expensive than living with someone else, but in my 60's I have absolutely no interest in dealing with a "room mate" situation. That said, your tips were all good. One I would add is that isolation and loneliness can lead to some less than frugal habits. So I build into me week at least one frugal, preferably free, activity with friends and or family that I love - I have friends that I hike with, others that I craft with, others that we eat at homes together, others that we find free museum passes, etc. Also, surround yourself with people who are like minded, people with whom you feel no shame in saying "thanks but that's not in the budget this week, how about ..." If people give you peer pressure to spend, then I minimize my contact with them. Finally cook "Planned-Overs" - When I cook, I always make more than I need for that one meal, but before cooking, I will put everything into an oven safe dish and pop it in the freezer (like a casserole, on make individual lasagna, or single serving calzone). That way I know I have a few options in the freezer that I can just pull out and put in the oven. It isn't re-heated so doesn't feel/taste like leftovers and I do not need to eat the same thing a few nights in a row. Keeps meals for one more interesting. Thanks for always posting encouraging videos. Heck Yeah!
Good idea as you could come home one day and find your room mate has gone and taken all the furniture and household items and appliances with them. Happened to a bloke I knew. Went to work and came home to find house mate gone with all his stuff. She had organized a truck when he was out she loaded up the truck and off she went.
What a great idea for leftovers! I always make more than I need but get sick of eating it day after day and end up throwing it away. I’ll invest in some single serve cookware now and portion it out before cooking and freeze it that way. Thank you, and thank you Kate! You rock!
It is so True...When I moved to my own place I was so blessed to have a sister to give me a dining room table and it was such a blessing later on I was able too get some other furniture which didn't cost very much....so I've been very blessed to have been able to find some that has been a very blended way to get what I wanted while still being able to get them with them costing very much. 😊😊😊
Kate, when I was married we purchased many items in bulk. Had to change my mindset now that living single may not require bulk. Buying smaller quantities may cost a bit more but for me it meant less waste. Am hoping to purchase a manufactured home in near future. Will develop a faux budget!! Thanks for that tip!! Have an awesome weekend 🌼🌞🌮
Mobile home depreciate Vs appreciate!! Yes the look good gor a while ,but eventually they need repair.. we live in a Mh many years goll we built our own home …. Was a bog difference and the cost was something that eventually went up in value. A friend also turned me on to home ownership. Said you can own what used to be rent for little or less. Soooo true!!
Heck yes 👍 I struggle with my grocery bill. Healthy foods are expensive, and if you have food allergies/ restrictions then the cost is even more. Everything gluten-free and dairy free are ridiculously priced. I try to cook more at home to cut the cost down. I don’t live alone but I love your tips and hacks.
1000% agree with all of these recommendations and do follow them!! I would add that thrift stores are excellent inexpensive places to find furniture, small appliances, clothes. Also batch cooking and freezing meals, buy from the day old bakery section, fruits and vegetables, just process and freeze when you get home.
Furniture: freebies on curbs and free market sites; Food: food pantries, your own garden (many communities have community gardens now, where for a small fee, you can "rent" your own garden space) and, of course, home-cooking; Movies: free from the library (both streaming and on DVDs); Commuting: walk, bike, bus or carpool (whatever you have available); Internet: The Affordable Connectivity Program (income-based-check with your provider); Cable: totally not needed now to get quality programming; Clothing: thrift shops, yard sales, exchanges (not buying new clothes helps the environment, too); and don't forget to treat yourself a little bit every now and then!
Heck yes! I have been living alone for the past few months and these tips are definitely spot on! Looking into moving soon and I will be sure to keep it within budget and close to work. I have recently gotten a pieces of furniture for free on FB. It made me realize brand new isn't that important to me anyways!
I live in a place where electricity is quite expensive, especially in the winter (they raise the price in winter). I recently did some research into which appliances use a lot of electricity and which ones use little. The slow cooker/crockpot uses the least in the kitchen, so I'll be making all my suppers all winter with my slow cooker and avoid my full-size oven as much as possible.
I love my crockpot. I use mine in the winter. I am considering using it this summer not to use my oven at all. Right now, with all this hot humid heatwave weather, I am using more electricity with my ac running constantly. I do not need to heat up my kitchen.
We did the same with Friends. It’s a great show to use as background noise. Especially if you’ve watched it a lot, because you don’t have 100% focus on it. But it still makes you laugh cause you know the punchlines. 👍
1. I've had really good luck with renting rooms or in-law apartments from people. It's a nice way to save on rent depending on your definition of and reasons for living alone. I had a rent reduction for providing cat care even, which was a major perk for me. 2. I also use being a household of one as an opportunity to really embrace what is important to me and what I enjoy. My current apartment has no furniture but has many jigsaw puzzles. I don't have ketchup but I do have two bottled salad dressings. Living alone gives me the freedom to spend my money on the things I value. I don't have to buy anything because it's what is expected or for someone else's benefit. (Entertaining at home is clearly not something that I value! Plenty of people who live alone do and they should set up their homes to reflect that. Living alone means getting to choose.) It means setting the thermostat at my preferred temperature. Making the sacrifices that I find acceptable. There are lots of costs that come with living alone but it can also be very frugal in satisfying ways.
Re: utilities check what settings you are using on the washing machine and dishwasher to save on hot water/electric. Also set your thermostat low in winter and high in summer. If you're cold bundle up (robe & slippers), if you're hot wear less and use a personal fan. Keeping HVAC off as much as possible will have a bigger impact than turning off lights with 9 W LED bulbs.
I love the YT channel Julia Pacheco. She has so many great vids about making meals on an extreme budget. She even records in the grocery to show you what to buy. Highly recommend!
Thank you for this, I enjoyed your video! My tip is to learn how to cook a roast. You can usually find something nice for about $4-$6 per lb. I suggest a 3 lb roast (beef or pork). It’s so easy to cook and will provide leftovers for days. You can make quesadillas from the leftovers or maybe a roast beef sandwich. You can also find some amazing designer clothing at thrift stores as well as home decor. Your style and space can be truly unique. In any event, being frugal can be fun and rewarding.
For those living alone: one can decide on individual economies as regards utilities and groceries. Cook one pot batch cooking; freeze in jam jars; NEVER fill jars to the top as liquids expand in freezing; plan meals and take out from freezer night before; saves utilities. In winter double and treble clothes in winter to reduce heating requirements. Listen to this video.
For me, budgeting was CRITICAL when I lived alone. And, for the most part, most of my bills were split across paychecks. The big bills had money taken out across paychecks. The small ones were taken out of different paychecks. I did NOT use credit outside of a vehicle loan without already having the money set aside, then paying the bill often before it was due. My eating life style would have been drastically altered elsewise. I was also very frugal and mindful with my utility usage; this kept me out of the poor house but also allowed me to socialize. For the most part, I was more urban-ish and/ or closer to things and places. I walked as much as I could to save on vehicle gas. Oh, whether pets were allowed or not, i would put a bowl of water outside my door step and sometimes a bit of odiferous food (@1 Tablespoon of tuna works) to see what cats would come to visit; I never left food out for very long 'cause you dont want to draw rats. Neighbor cats, stray cats, or feral cats i usually ended up with a cat. I used broken pieces of brewer's yeast, vitamin tabs (ultimately in a trail that led in the doorway, shush) as needed/ wanted. Keeping a by the clock time schedule for some kibble out side the door works too; they will set thiernwandering time past your doorstep to clock time.
KATE: Excellent, worthwhile Video. Lots of Great , constructive IDEAS to cut the cost of living alone. My TIP, that I personally still use today, is to start off with a "NO SPEND" week and then learn to expand it to a "NO SPEND" month etc. As You so correctly suggest; "If its not in the budget, it doesn't get purchased". NO spend does not mean not paying for items like groceries or Hydro that are budgeted for, it simply means NO impulse or un-needed purchases. Thanks for Your wonderful effort. Greetings from Ontario, Canada.
Heck yes!!! I’ve lived alone for over 20yrs and now I’m retiring with no debt!!! Kate, you rock!
Cindy, I would love to connect and talk to you about your journey and how it could help me along.
I've lived on my own since I was 20! Now I'm in my mid 50's and own my car and home OUTRIGHT! IT'S ALL ABOUT paying the Monthly bills and MORE stuffing of the Retirement Accounts NOW! Oh and yeah DEFINITELY CUT THE CABLE BILL ALL TOGETHER!
Roku can give you just about everything and it is buillt into most TVs now, or you can get a Roku box for a converter @@veronicalee5937
After living 20yrs + with a narcissist, living alone is a breath of fresh air. No more treading on egg shells all the while.I can now do what I please when I please. Decorate my house how I want it, eat what I want, go to bed late or sleep late. Have friends round I could go on & on. Only regret, wish I'd done it sooner
YASSS!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you. LIFE CHANGING!
I have lived alone for the past 2 years since my divorce. I spent the past 30 years putting up with a man baby and after having the freedom to do what I want when I want for 2 years it would very hard for me to ever live with a man again lol. My friend is the opposite- she has been on the hunt for another man ever since her divorce was final. I’m like “Why in the world do you want another one?” 😂
My tip as an introvert. Make like minded connections. Cheap at home meal or just coffee n treat on the porch is refreshing.
Love these!
@@KateKaden yes, outdoor fireside chats are back!
OMG! I am an introvert too and love stuff like that.
I love the idea of coffee and treats ... I live in Florida so the porch is HOT but I can certainly invite friends over for coffee and treats instead of lunch or dinner! Budget friendly!
I long to meet someone like that! I love the simple things in life….quiet…peaceful….and being with someone that enjoys these moments!
I lived alone from the age of 22 until I got married at 29. It was one of the best times of my life. I had hand me down furniture the first couple years and no clutter because I didn’t have the money to buy crap. I learned how to be independent, self-sufficient and responsible. I never felt lonely. I think everyone should spend at least a year living alone if they can swing it financially. I had so much fun and the freedom is exhilarating.
YASSS Mare!
Yes. Best time to find yourself & set life goals.
Go dumpster diving
Heck yeah! I'm a frugal elder who loves your tips. I live alone and make a game out of saving money. My latest money saving practice is that I've quit buying clothes for the rest of 2023. I have lots of beautiful clothes that I love combining in new outfits. I also try to waste zero food. Love you Kate! ❤
Most women and men could do this.
Sharon I''m SO SO glad you are here!!!! I LOVE this!
This company called Woman Within (size 12 up to 6X) used to have drastic sales in March. Big haul in ‘21, from nighties, swimsuits, a thermal-lined hoodie coat for $6.00. This year, it wasn’t the same. More like $75. reduced to $54. SHEIN, like Amazon, has unreliable sizing, so I did get a lot of cute things, but too many I couldn’t even get over my head.
I love living alone with my kid. It is not for everyone but I love it. Make my kind of food, drink my coffee, read my books, watch my shows, etc. If I come across a wonderful man, that would be amazing but I am also content in my life. God has blessed me in so many ways I am grateful that I am able to be independent or contribute to a relationship.
I live the same way- God has given me contentment. Lord bless you.
I am struggling to find that contentment. Thanks for reminding me of all my blessings
As a senior living alone, I think groceries are the most difficult part of the budget especially when you are trying to eat healthy, avoid fatty, high carb, and processed foods, etc. With the current crazy inflation, retirement funds don’t go as far as they used to. You have to prioritize the protein that you need for the week/month and shop the best sale prices.
Very good point Erin! So true. Thanks so much for sharing with us:)
Shopping at more than one supermarkets”lost leaders” will save you quite a bit of money. Sure, it takes more time, but it is worth it to stretch your food budget.
I am 58 and have been living alone 14 yrs since divorce in 2009. The struggle is real. IF social security is available to me in the near future- my SS check will be small because I made the choice to stay home (not earn income) with my 6 children for 16 years. I have learned to be most frugal.
I cook in bulk- mostly cuz that's all I know from once feeding a family of 8. Used to hate leftovers- now they are my lifeline. Just made a 5 QT pot of soup from ground beef, rice, broth, some store brand Rotel tomatoes, salsa remnants, and drained cans of pinto beans, black beans, and corn- some spices. It's super delicious (to me). It will feed me for days. It cost about $12 max to make. I am lucky and grateful to like soups and easily combined foods.
Chicken vegetable soup is cheap and delicious too. With side of cornbread of course.
Look at eggs. The best protein!
I've lived alone for years until recently. My brother and me have decided to move in together because of health concerns. He's had heart bypass surgery and I have cancer so we thought it would be best to keep an eye on one another for obvious reasons. But we both have substantial income and I just paid off my house, so can't complain about much of anything. Still love your videos though, watch them whenever I can. You my dear are a winner, hope you know that❤️
Appreciate you so much!
Oh my stars, I am glad you have one another! Wishing you both long and happy lives. God bless 🙏
Heck yes!! My tip for living alone is to find a good repair person and become friends with them. I’m really good friends with the guy I call for repairs. He never charges me too much and he’s fun to be around!
Great idea! Thanks Abigail!
Heck yeah! I live by myself, one income, and love love love animals but I know that I can’t afford one so I’m going next weekend to a training to be a volunteer at the local animal shelter. Win/Win situation.
That is awesome Lena!
Awesome !!!!! Good on you.
My favorite one to add; ask friends and family for their left over paint. I painted my walls and revamped some furniture with that when I moved. It made them happy (no guilt for having bought too much, or keeping it for “just in case”) and it made me happy. When I walk through my house the colors remind me of people I love.
Bonus tip; after painting, put some paint in an old jar. And donate the rest to another person who can use it. Not having more stuff in your home than you need saves time and money too.
Oooh, good idea!
That's the best tip I've read in a long time. Thank you. My house needs a face-lift but I have had neither the funds nor the physical strength to do it. Guess how I will be tackling it now?
@@veemcg3682 And, the added benefit of hanging with your besties when they help you. Good luck with it all
Heck yeah!! I lived alone after graduating nursing school until I got married (6 years). I absolutely loved it. I was alone but never lonely. I’m divorced now and my grown daughter lives with me but she’s busy with her own life so I pretty much consider myself living alone again ( with my fur babies) I spend my money the way I want to plus I only have to please myself and no one else.
My very favorite cost-saving tip is using the library for just about everything. Books, audiobooks, music CDs, movies, classes, book clubs, concerts, new friends…
Love it!
I'm retired now and have been on my own for 20 years. Debt free retirement is the only way to go! Many things lead me down the debt free path but I think the #1 thing is to be mindful with spending. Think about it for a day or 2. That tells you if you want it or need it. Big difference. Great video!
Batch cooking and freezing leftovers for future meals. You save a lot of money that way. (Food purchase, electricity, time and dishes.)
YASSS Sue! Thank you!
Happy Frugal Friday, KSquad!!! Heck yes! We are empty nesters! We can live cheaply and still have a luxurious lifestyle! Simple things bring us immense joy! Sitting on our back patio with our homemade drinks watching the sunset over the Catalina mountains in Tucson is simply the best way to spend an evening! 😊
"Conscious spending" is a phrase we all should be following at all times. When I moved from a large metro area to a bucolic rural scene my income was reduced by 60%. I started evaluating every purchase in terms of how many hours of minimum wage work it would cost me. Really changed my mindset to equate spending with earning. Guess I was raised in a bubble. Now I'm retired with a paid off mortgage and almost no other debt and I'm happier than ever. Thank you.
Made two big meals on Sunday & ate them every week night while in college! It saved a ton of $$
Double thumbs up for suggesting reduce/stop streaming and watch RUclips for free!
Currently living alone & in my late 50's, working full-time from home. Seven years ago, my mom & I bought a small house together. Sadly, she passed away suddenly soon after we moved in. I struggled financially for some time but I've been able to continue in the house (mortgage payments are still cheaper than renting an apartment).
Have had a couple of different roommates but choose to live by myself & my two senior cats. The cost of their care has increased this past year because of their health. But that is part of being a pet parent.
I'm already using several of the tips in this video, such as no cable, just paying for streaming subscriptions that I really like & watch.
My grocery list is always the same each month. However, to protect my health, I'm trying to stay away from the refined & processed foods, no matter how cheap they are. They aren't healthy. So, I always have eggs & cheese in my fridge, since there so many ways to prepare them. As well as veggies, both fresh & frozen. I'm trying to grow my own lettuce & kale too.
One grocery store I shop at has rewards points: for free items, discounts for total bill, or discounts for fuel.
Thanks for such a great video. It's always good to review and assess what we're doing and make any adjustments or changes as needed.
Heck yes
I’ve lived on my own for three years now. It definitely can be stressful when everything goes wrong at the same time, but I have always managed.
Way to go Rachael! You're rockin it!
I have lived on my own for over 15 years now. I agree that when you have a lot that goes wrong unexpectedly at the same time, that is where I struggle. It is tough to feel the weight of not having anyone else to rely upon or to "save" you when things go wrong. God has been good to me, and He has provided for me all these years. I am so grateful for Him.
Thanks, guys, your comments give me hope. Been through a tough year, two years this dude of my divorce. I live alone, other than my best friend the dog. But after a health scare in '22 Tha ran a whole year, plus my dog and my car taking turns eating at a credit card with their breakdowns and health issues....it's been a difficult year so far. My health improved thus far, and the dog seems better (though now has meds for life), but the car.....the car.......
The car, which takes me 16 miles round trip 4 days a week to my min wage job, in a small town with no real work prospects (59 yo with 35 years of retail experience....pretty limited)....I need a car, to keep working. It's paid for (was my ex's daily commuter, 140 miles a day 5 days a week) he gave it to me, knowing I couldn't buy a car..... but now it's falling apart. It's 11 years old w/ 207k miles on it.
I can't afford a different car. I am struggling to pay for all these expensive repairs.
But, I would not change a thing. I love the challenge of starting over-- but even better is the peace and freedom that comes with living alone. After the divorce, I realized the longest I'd ever lived alone was in my first aptmt, age 19, for 3 mos.
Then I lived a roommate, and eventually my ex husband (36 years).
So in spite of the difficulty this year, I'm still thrilled to be in my own again. Not even dating--don't care!
I have lived alone for 5 years now and love it! Living can be as cheap or extravagant as I choose. It’s just a matter of personal preference. As of now, the idea of living with anyone else is not a pleasant thought.
Heck yes! Widowed (years ago). The last 2 years, I've enjoy peace & contentment. I work all day 5 miles from this homestead. The budget is tight at times, but the $$ I save is a lot!!
LOVE!
Already live alone. Learn to grow some edible stuff that you would normally buy as part of your grocery shopping. I started with sprouting seeds, then salad leaves, and gradually added all my favourite herbs in window boxes with edible flowers as a bonus. These things saved me a fair bit and then I was raring to go when I had a patio to put containers on and grow veg and strawberries. When my circumstances changed again and I had a garden, I grew much more veg and fruits, herbs and every salad ingredient I could as well as flowers for the house. A small flock of hens provided fresh eggs daily for baking, desserts meals and to share with neighbours. Now with health and mobility issues, I am back to growing in containers, table top raised beds made by my brother and taking advantage of the fruit from the small orchard and hedges of fruit bushes created over the years. Trust me even a pot of parsley on a window sill is worthwhile. I may never have a lot of money but I feel the abundance my gardens have provided has made me feel wealthy in that I have what I need and can afford to share generously with family friends and neighbours.
HECK YEAH😉 I married at 20, and divorced after 26 years. Never was involved with finances, and was a stay at home mom. Using the Every Dollar budget app has been the most important thing for me (I use the free version). Not only does it keep me on track, I can also spend on some wants without using money for the things I truly need. It has given me confidence in my abilities to handle my finances, as well as free me from fear of spending and giving because i know where i stand financially at all times.
YASSS HOLLY!
thanx4tip dollar budget🤗🐢
Oops..Every Dollar 🤭
I'm looking that one up! Thanks.
I just got my apartment and didn't have much furniture. So I started going to the thrift stores and found some beautiful antique furniture for cheap. It has saved me a ton of money. Sure it will cost for paint, sanding paper etc but it is better made than what you can buy now
Better quality too.
“ new to you” furniture is great! Slipcover with an inexpensive blanket.
Some really great tips! I did not live alone until my kids were grown and moved out. Now I have a roommate by choice (and her rent goes toward my debt payoff!). Two things from your list that go hand in hand, and is so very important, live on a faux budget and to not to buy a home only to end up house poor. Way before you buy, while renting, figure out what your mortgage payment/housing expenses would be if you were to purchase a home (Zillow gives estimate mortgage/house expenses). Take the amount of the mortgage each month, and pay your rent from that amount then put the rest into savings. This will help you save up the down payment and/or closings costs for when you do purchase a home. I did that prior to buying my home and it was the only way I was able to purchase it. I meal plan and only shop every 10 -14 days. I keep my meals simple and make bigger portions so I can have leftovers.
I ❤ the single life! No debt, no one trying to manipulate me! It's great to be a responsible free agent with substantial savings equaling security and future possibilities of many choices. 😊😊😊😊
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Heck yes!
Capsule grocery list - love it ❤
Thank you Gigi!
Esp in the crazy economic time depending on where u live, rents can be outrageous for a dump. Your rent can easily be one half or more of your monthly income, your choice of apts may be extremely limited due to availability in your income range. You may need to
Cut back in other areas, this is what it’s like where I live. Take care y’all. 🦋❤️
Heck yes! I have a different life change for a faux budget - retirement! Planning retirement - how much can you live on when your working days are over. I underestimated what I could live on. Fortunately I am able to work a part time job I enjoy, and I am putting most of my earnings into a savings account. I have lived alone over 20 years and cooking for 1 has been my greatest challenge. I have learned to do some batch cooking and either freeze leftovers or creatively make a yummy meal with leftovers. So many things you can do with cooked chicken or hamburger, or even side dishes like rice or potatoes. Happy Frugal Friday!
HAPPY FRUGAL FRIDAY DONNA!!!!
I love your tips! My message to others is don’t be surprised at how good you get at it! Life is full of challenges and this is yours! My opinion is a cat always helps! Warmth and a good TV and simple food and preparation! You know best what you need!
My tip… tithing! Tithe your income and watch what God work.🙏
I love being alone don’t need a man got animals and 2 grown up boys x
My biggie was scalloped potatoes. Scallop potatoes don't include cheese, they are just white sauce and potatoes. Then you can chose to switch them up with some cheese, some ham, some veggies, some left over chicken or turkey, or some combination of the mix.
YUM!
Something I did was part time in food service where I got a free meal! They quickly asked me to work full time! I did and was making twice the income from retail, where hours were being cut. Kitchen employees got a good free meal per shift, it was win, win from there! I am retiring now!
Living alone has been the best move in my life, 30+ years on I have no regrets.
I think my best tip is to ignore what the Joneses have just acquired. If I can be content with what I have, then that's fine. Be thankful for what you do have, save for what you need. It was a huge struggle for many years, but so worthwhile for the peace of mind. Rejoice that if you buy some food and put it in the fridge nobody else eats it! Learn skills to make things easier for yourself to make your place homely. If people look down their noses at your decor or other things you haven't been able to fix/upgrade, then they're not real friends.
Yasss🙌❤️
Heck yes! I'm three years widowed, a teacher (which means fixed income) and have been looking to Kate for great budget ideas!! Keep up the great work!
Truth! I've been house-poor and it was beyond miserable on so many levels! Led to further bad decisions- debt.
Great tips! Post divorce and finding Dave Ramsey- I seriously dialed my thermostat down to 60 in the winter, I cut cable and All tv And internet for 3.5 years. I had unlimited phone data. I now have tv and internet again- but I really don't ever turn on my tv. I got used to living without. Had Hulu and Netflix for a bit, but when they doubled my rates I canceled my subscriptions. Now they are offering a greatly reduced rate to get me back. People need to check their subscriptions and not automatically agree to the new prices.
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Kate what an amazing video. I've lived on my own for about 5 years now after my marriage ended .and I absolutely love it lol. You can do what you want when you want but yes it can be very easy to get carried away. I think my tip would be treat reducing your bills and saving money as a challenge and have a prize or something to look forward to. Its very easy to get bored and disheartened so keep it fun ❤️👍👍
Thank you so much Stu!
the video and all the tips are really great! I have lived alone for 14 years. at the age of 20 into his first own apartment. back then i had a lot of used things given to me, from furniture to crockery. I was so thankful for it at the time and I probably showed that I still get presents like this today. Nobody needs a €20 voucher for Christmas when you can get a barely used €200 coffee machine that would otherwise end up in the bin.
my tip is that you shouldn't try to imitate your parents' household. just because mother needed three different brooms it doesn't necessarily mean you need three yourself. you don't need 20 different spices if you're not good at cooking and so on. many people also overestimate how much bed towels and so on they need because they are used to the large selection that they parents have built up over decades.
Thank you so much for sharing with us❤️🙏 So glad you’re here
One thing I do in the clothing arena, I also hang clothes that are lightly worn, but I bought a bottle of Febreeze Fabric Refresher and spray them, let them hang, and then put them away. Works great. And works on dry clean only as well. And consider using the Woolite dry cleaning cloths to extend between visits for those clothes that need professional care.
Consolidate your trips to save gas. Run all your errands at once. Go to the grocery on the way home from work. Do not go to the grocery for just one item
I found that from scratch cooking to be critical for keeping food costs down and also for better health. Often, this meant cooking recioies for 4 or 6 amd having a lot of left overs. I used left overs for lunch and froze the rest. I didn't skip on baking just because I was single either. I had an honest set of dishes, silverware, glasses, and mugs and established an eating area; depending, i only moved with the silverware 'cause i valued my pots, lan, kitchen appliances, spices, cleaning supplies, and larder more than dishes which I could pick up once moved and needed packing protection; PIA that it is, dint forget to pack a broom "cause most new places need to be swept. After my first experience and first 2 weeks, I learned to keep some type of a larder too. Out side of spices, condiments, and treats I seldom bought any food that wasn't on some type of a sale; usually a good sale or mark down.
I am late commenting, but I really wish that I lived on my own when I was younger. I finally am and I have learned so much about myself. I think twice about what I spend because I know that I am the one who pays the consequences. If I miss out on a trip or concert that I really want to see, and I don't have the money because of buying stuff I didn't need. And if I borrow money from someone else, I feel awful. Because borrowing money from family or friends is not a thing. The freedom of living alone is wonderful and if I watch my spending it can be better and not relying on anyone else is so good.
Heck yeah, I just started living alone again in government subsidized housing 6 months ago and what I do to save money is batch cook large amounts of food in my huge commercial stainless steel pot I inherited from a restaurant I used to be a chef at and portion and freeze meals and also use my big 8 quart Instant Pot as well which is faster and uses very little hydro and keeps my place cool instead of using my oven.
HECK YES! I agree with the others who said batch cooking. Most recipes feed 4 so I eat two and freeze two for another week. I portion everything out so I can grab and go for lunch. I drove a young coworker through Burger King the other day and his combo meal was almost $18! That's crazy!!! I love to cook so I buy protein on sale and plan around it. I have a deep freezer so I can take advantage of sales and store all my portioned meals. I currently have one portion of sloppy joe to put on a sweet potato, picadillo, soup and a chicken dish cooked with veggies. That's just off the top of my head. My sister adds cilantro to her potato salad and I'll be doing that with potatoes I need to do something with. Thanks, Kate!
Love this, thank you Lynne!
I love your idea of eating 2 servings and freezing the rest. I meal plan for the month and think I'll have a week of leftovers. 15:34
When I first moved on my own, I still spent like I was liveing with my Mom so I had to quickly get that worked out of my system. So what I did was rearanged the budget to put all the fun stuff on the bottom of the budget because I could live with out it if need be.
Make sure there is shelfs table foods in the house, crackers, peanutbutter, dried noudels, hotdogs in a jar and bread in a donated freezer, cerial and coffee
Thank you!
Peanut butter and crackers are good and cheap.
Ive lived alone over 20 years and i love it as i am in control of my spending. Growing up in a large family we never had money for extras. I always stay within my means and never get into debt. . Happily retired on a fixed pension, I know how much money is coming in each month.
I save any money left at the end of the month to go towards holidays and meetings friends
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Love this Nelly!
To get the most savings is if you live in an apartment or rent house turn off your breakers except for the a/c, icebox, and freezer... It will cut you bill by half... Make soap from dawn dish soap to for your laundry two cups water to one cup of soap cleans your clothes beautifully..
I’ve been living alone since college for 28 years, and I’ve only ever bought two pieces of new furniture...a kitchen table and a glider rocker with ottoman! Everyone loves my house and it’s coziness. And don’t spend your $ on stuff that you don’t need that will just become clutter.
So many things to find at Thrift Stores as well if you check and look well.
I can SO relate! When I was in my twenties, I was afraid to live by myself, but I made myself do it. After about 6 months, I couldn't imagine any other way. Now that I'm a mom, I love that, too, and am so glad I had the chance to live on my own before the next new phase in my life! 👍🌞
YASSS Maryann! So happy to see you! Thanks for sharing with us:)
I'd love a video about your roll over meal concept. Like buy these 10x ingredients and make these meals this week.
Heck Yes! Lived alone for 6 years now and finally cut the cable. Don't miss it at all. Lots of DVDs
Yasss🙌
Heck Yes!!! I am looking forward to living alone again. Did it in my twenties for several years, then again for several years after I was widowed. Lost my job sue to Covid and moved in with my sister's family to take care of my elderly father who also lived with them. Now that he is gone I am taking care of my brother-in-law 's elderly mom who now lives with them. And their youngest moved back in too after graduating college and her roommate moved to go to graduate school. Too much coming and going, several different diets / ways of eating, different schedules, etc. It is saving me money as I don't buy groceries or pay utilities. My land at home is paid off, so I am saving to build a small house.
All these tips are so valid for young, middle age, and elders living alone.
Living alone. Budget, budget-- stick to it. This is so freeing. 😊
These things apply to us that have been adulting a long time. At 70 I found myself single again and budgeting on social security. Wrap your head around that, I’m well below the poverty level. Did I mention I’m disabled, so working is an option.
Love you Granny Prepper!!!!!!!
You aren't the only one girl!!!!❤
Same here though not disabled thank God. I would welcome some YTubes budgeting tips for seniors on limited income. God bless u!
I’m sorry I missed the frugal Friday live chat this morning. My son has a field trip today and he went with his dad so I had to get their lunches packed and ready. I’m going to watch the video here soon since I took a day off to myself. I’m an introvert so it’s a glorious day lol 😂 😊
Melissa! We missed you!!! Hope your son's field trip is a great one! HAPPY FRUGAL FRIDAY!
Heck Yes, I love these tips, I spent almost a month alone while taking care of my mothers apt after she passed away & it was amazing- I am married & as happy to be alone for a time. My mother lived by many of these tips as well. Good info thanks for sharing 👏👏👏
Yasss Melissa!!!🙌🙏❤️
Yes, I totally agree on no commuting: I live about 2.5 miles from the office.
I have one! Intermittent fasting! I budget $10 a day for food and every day I fast I put a ten dollar bill in the jar. At the end of the month I can afford a treat or save for a short vacation. Also, who doesn't have those awesome outfits in the back of the closet you don't get to wear as much as you would like because they just don't fit like they used to? You might just be wearing them on a long weekend mini trip😎 And don't forget about off season rates!
Thank you Lisa!
You are so honest about money. Wish I heard you 30 years ago
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I love living alone!!! I'm a introvert but I like my time alone...😊😊😊
When buying groceries try to stock up on items. So when you do go to the grocery store and only need staple items whatever you have budgeted for groceries whatever you have left will be for Bargain Hunt. Look throughout the store for bargains because they are there.
This way it takes less stress off stretching your money out.
YASS! Thanks Di!
Both times when I moved out on my own, I had only the necessities, then I gradually bought things or things were given to me, first time at 19, I had a mattress, I also had a hoped chest so I have plenty of stuff for the kitchen and bathroom, I bought me a used black-and-white TV for $25, the used furniture store threw in the stand for free, I also had a couch my brother loan me. until I could buy my own. I live on my own for five years before I got married. The second time, I was 51 years old, we split everything down the middle, my daughter had a full-size mattress, a dresser, her TV and games, her clothes, etc. I gave her the bedroom, I took the front room. I put a futon in lay a way for me in advance, and paid it off. The day we moved in, I had my dresser from my bedroom, took one of the tv, a bookcase, and a coffee table that my sister in-law gave me, my rocking chair. My husband and me also split everything in the kitchen and the closet. That was it. my daughter started college later on that year. She insisted that I take the bedroom because she’s wasn’t going to be there most of the time, just visiting and she take the front room. I’ve been living on my own for a long time, and I love it🩵🩵🩵 and I’m a introvert, there’s nothing like peace
Heck yeahhhhh..recently separated from my husband...moving out soon ...you dropped this video so damn at the right time...we thank God❤..thanku Ksquad❤❤❤
I love it when the timing is on point!!!!! So glad you're here Rupali!
I just started living alone, not by choice and it's a huge adjustment. Got rid of cable, don't have any subscriptions, switched internet providers so its cheaper. My pets bills really seem to be my biggest expenses.
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Be private. Vibe alone. Grow in silence.😊
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I love this. I need to have a decorative sign that says that. lol
I've lived alone for most of my adult life. I have collected the art and furniture over the years that bring me joy. It's ok to own things that make you happy. I don't own a tv or a spare bed. I do own a humongous California King bed, lol... My life is built for one. I downsized to a smaller home 3 years ago and kept what I love, let go of the rest. I cook, clean and do for myself. I garden, read, watch the birds... life is peaceful and good. I'm very thankful.
Love it!
I just had a flashback with the potatoes to that scene in Forrest Gump when bubba is talking about shrimp.
😅😅😅me, too!!!❤
I lived alone for 11 years and I loved it and did most of these steps. I am stuck at my parents right now, but hoping to get back out there asap.
Great video I have lived alone for 5 years. Great tips. I'm on a fixed income all my furniture is used.
Your Friends story reminds me of when I moved out I had 8 movies and nothing else no cable and a membership to a video store. So funny I listened to a lot of radio and I know Gone with the Wind by heart. I think the library is also helpful for entertainment.
YESSSS!!!!! Funny but I look back on these times so fondly:)
I have lived a lone by choice as a younger person and currently live alone now by life circumstance (I am a widow). I love this video because it is the first time I have not had to listen to someone say "get a room mate." There is no question that living alone is more expensive than living with someone else, but in my 60's I have absolutely no interest in dealing with a "room mate" situation. That said, your tips were all good. One I would add is that isolation and loneliness can lead to some less than frugal habits. So I build into me week at least one frugal, preferably free, activity with friends and or family that I love - I have friends that I hike with, others that I craft with, others that we eat at homes together, others that we find free museum passes, etc. Also, surround yourself with people who are like minded, people with whom you feel no shame in saying "thanks but that's not in the budget this week, how about ..." If people give you peer pressure to spend, then I minimize my contact with them. Finally cook "Planned-Overs" - When I cook, I always make more than I need for that one meal, but before cooking, I will put everything into an oven safe dish and pop it in the freezer (like a casserole, on make individual lasagna, or single serving calzone). That way I know I have a few options in the freezer that I can just pull out and put in the oven. It isn't re-heated so doesn't feel/taste like leftovers and I do not need to eat the same thing a few nights in a row. Keeps meals for one more interesting. Thanks for always posting encouraging videos. Heck Yeah!
Good idea as you could come home one day and find your room mate has gone and taken all the furniture and household items and appliances with them. Happened to a bloke I knew. Went to work and came home to find house mate gone with all his stuff. She had organized a truck when he was out she loaded up the truck and off she went.
What a great idea for leftovers! I always make more than I need but get sick of eating it day after day and end up throwing it away. I’ll invest in some single serve cookware now and portion it out before cooking and freeze it that way. Thank you, and thank you Kate! You rock!
Hello, Kate! I live alone, I'm retired and I always plan my meals in order to eat healthy ... and spend just what I need ❤
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Heck yes! I'm planning to move out and live alone by the end of this year/early next year. This definitely helps. Thanks, Kate!
YASS!!! You are so welcome Ayra!
It is so True...When I moved to my own place I was so blessed to have a sister to give me a dining room table and it was such a blessing later on I was able too get some other furniture which didn't cost very much....so I've been very blessed to have been able to find some that has been a very blended way to get what I wanted while still being able to get them with them costing very much. 😊😊😊
Kate, when I was married we purchased many items in bulk. Had to change my mindset now that living single may not require bulk. Buying smaller quantities may cost a bit more but for me it meant less waste. Am hoping to purchase a manufactured home in near future. Will develop a faux budget!! Thanks for that tip!! Have an awesome weekend 🌼🌞🌮
Thank you so much Diane!
Mobile home depreciate Vs appreciate!! Yes the look good gor a while ,but eventually they need repair.. we live in a Mh many years goll we built our own home …. Was a bog difference and the cost was something that eventually went up in value. A friend also turned me on to home ownership. Said you can own what used to be rent for little or less. Soooo true!!
Heck yes 👍 I struggle with my grocery bill. Healthy foods are expensive, and if you have food allergies/ restrictions then the cost is even more. Everything gluten-free and dairy free are ridiculously priced. I try to cook more at home to cut the cost down. I don’t live alone but I love your tips and hacks.
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you're here!
1000% agree with all of these recommendations and do follow them!! I would add that thrift stores are excellent inexpensive places to find furniture, small appliances, clothes. Also batch cooking and freezing meals, buy from the day old bakery section, fruits and vegetables, just process and freeze when you get home.
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Furniture: freebies on curbs and free market sites; Food: food pantries, your own garden (many communities have community gardens now, where for a small fee, you can "rent" your own garden space) and, of course, home-cooking; Movies: free from the library (both streaming and on DVDs); Commuting: walk, bike, bus or carpool (whatever you have available); Internet: The Affordable Connectivity Program (income-based-check with your provider); Cable: totally not needed now to get quality programming; Clothing: thrift shops, yard sales, exchanges (not buying new clothes helps the environment, too); and don't forget to treat yourself a little bit every now and then!
Thank you so much Cathie!
The Affordable Connectivity Program has expired.
Heck yes! I have been living alone for the past few months and these tips are definitely spot on! Looking into moving soon and I will be sure to keep it within budget and close to work. I have recently gotten a pieces of furniture for free on FB. It made me realize brand new isn't that important to me anyways!
I want to watch Doc Martin. I feel so peaceful when having that on. Thank you for this video.
I love that you can find something in every video that you put out.
Keeping it real, K Squad
Keep it real.
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I live in a place where electricity is quite expensive, especially in the winter (they raise the price in winter). I recently did some research into which appliances use a lot of electricity and which ones use little. The slow cooker/crockpot uses the least in the kitchen, so I'll be making all my suppers all winter with my slow cooker and avoid my full-size oven as much as possible.
I love my crockpot. I use mine in the winter. I am considering using it this summer not to use my oven at all. Right now, with all this hot humid heatwave weather, I am using more electricity with my ac running constantly. I do not need to heat up my kitchen.
Lots of love from us here in Australia
Thank you so much Kerry! Right back at cha!
We did the same with Friends. It’s a great show to use as background noise. Especially if you’ve watched it a lot, because you don’t have 100% focus on it. But it still makes you laugh cause you know the punchlines. 👍
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Loved all 10 thoughts... really needed for all in this day and age. for older people too, not just young starting out.
Thank you so much Darlene!!!!
1. I've had really good luck with renting rooms or in-law apartments from people. It's a nice way to save on rent depending on your definition of and reasons for living alone. I had a rent reduction for providing cat care even, which was a major perk for me.
2. I also use being a household of one as an opportunity to really embrace what is important to me and what I enjoy. My current apartment has no furniture but has many jigsaw puzzles. I don't have ketchup but I do have two bottled salad dressings. Living alone gives me the freedom to spend my money on the things I value. I don't have to buy anything because it's what is expected or for someone else's benefit. (Entertaining at home is clearly not something that I value! Plenty of people who live alone do and they should set up their homes to reflect that. Living alone means getting to choose.) It means setting the thermostat at my preferred temperature. Making the sacrifices that I find acceptable.
There are lots of costs that come with living alone but it can also be very frugal in satisfying ways.
nice, wanting to move away from my narc parent eventually but i was stressed out and didnt know what to do or how to do it
Re: utilities check what settings you are using on the washing machine and dishwasher to save on hot water/electric. Also set your thermostat low in winter and high in summer. If you're cold bundle up (robe & slippers), if you're hot wear less and use a personal fan. Keeping HVAC off as much as possible will have a bigger impact than turning off lights with 9 W LED bulbs.
I love the YT channel Julia Pacheco. She has so many great vids about making meals on an extreme budget. She even records in the grocery to show you what to buy. Highly recommend!
Thank you for this, I enjoyed your video! My tip is to learn how to cook a roast. You can usually find something nice for about $4-$6 per lb. I suggest a 3 lb roast (beef or pork). It’s so easy to cook and will provide leftovers for days. You can make quesadillas from the leftovers or maybe a roast beef sandwich. You can also find some amazing designer clothing at thrift stores as well as home decor. Your style and space can be truly unique. In any event, being frugal can be fun and rewarding.
Thank you so much Andrea!
For those living alone: one can decide on individual economies as regards utilities and groceries. Cook one pot batch cooking; freeze in jam jars; NEVER fill jars to the top as liquids expand in freezing; plan meals and take out from freezer night before; saves utilities. In winter double and treble clothes in winter to reduce heating requirements. Listen to this video.
For me, budgeting was CRITICAL when I lived alone. And, for the most part, most of my bills were split across paychecks. The big bills had money taken out across paychecks. The small ones were taken out of different paychecks. I did NOT use credit outside of a vehicle loan without already having the money set aside, then paying the bill often before it was due. My eating life style would have been drastically altered elsewise. I was also very frugal and mindful with my utility usage; this kept me out of the poor house but also allowed me to socialize. For the most part, I was more urban-ish and/ or closer to things and places. I walked as much as I could to save on vehicle gas.
Oh, whether pets were allowed or not, i would put a bowl of water outside my door step and sometimes a bit of odiferous food (@1 Tablespoon of tuna works) to see what cats would come to visit; I never left food out for very long 'cause you dont want to draw rats. Neighbor cats, stray cats, or feral cats i usually ended up with a cat. I used broken pieces of brewer's yeast, vitamin tabs (ultimately in a trail that led in the doorway, shush) as needed/ wanted. Keeping a by the clock time schedule for some kibble out side the door works too; they will set thiernwandering time past your doorstep to clock time.
My husband is allergic to cats but have 3 cats that visit each day for a snack, they belong to neighbours.
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KATE: Excellent, worthwhile Video. Lots of Great , constructive IDEAS to cut the cost of living alone. My TIP, that I personally still use today, is to start off with a "NO SPEND" week and then learn to expand it to a "NO SPEND" month etc. As You so correctly suggest; "If its not in the budget, it doesn't get purchased". NO spend does not mean not paying for items like groceries or Hydro that are budgeted for, it simply means NO impulse or un-needed purchases. Thanks for Your wonderful effort. Greetings from Ontario, Canada.
Thank you so much Barry🙏
My tip is to freeze fruit and vegies when abundant. I defrost figs, berries and tomatoes for cooking and desert in winter.