HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNCTIONAL BACKGROUND 1

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  • @magdaleneidris9313
    @magdaleneidris9313 11 месяцев назад +117

    This is my first time watching any sermon from this minstry and I can say this hits hard. I recently moved away from home / my parents, and I can say I have been faced with a lot of traumas it’s like I thought leaving would set me free but it was when I left I realized I had a lot of work to do. I had to heal from certain childhood trauma and neglect as a child which has caused me great pain, trust issues and dysfunctional relationships with both male and females. I’m opened to healing and hoping that I have a normal family someday.

  • @Storina2024
    @Storina2024 Год назад +41

    I think one day, maybe on an Independence day, the president should have an announcement on all Television stations and this teaching should come on in Nigeria

  • @diannaoffor
    @diannaoffor 10 месяцев назад +10

    Reading this title alone brings tears to my heart but I thank Jesus he is working on my heart, my home will not be dysfunctional in the name of Jesus

  • @ifunanyathomas2918
    @ifunanyathomas2918 Год назад +87

    For the first time in my life I’m searching for a sermon and eager to listen to the end and repeatedly. For the first time, I feel I’ve found the truth.

    • @oluwatosinrebecca3733
      @oluwatosinrebecca3733 8 месяцев назад

      Same here ,work makes stop half way ,each time I’m less busy I go back to it again

  • @rumekpadamrophe912
    @rumekpadamrophe912 Год назад +48

    Sadly, most Nigerians grew up in disfunctional homes. I hope more people listen to this.

    • @MONICABADJAN-l2g
      @MONICABADJAN-l2g Месяц назад

      It's not only in Nigeria, many African children come from dysfunctional homes.

  • @isell_global124
    @isell_global124 Год назад +53

    Lord You have blessed my generation with men like Apostle Lazarus! Thank you 🙏

  • @Godsfavoritechild100
    @Godsfavoritechild100 Год назад +197

    The worst thing about growing up in an abusive home is that the parent never realizes and apologize for what they did wrong. They act like it never happened and pretend like they are your friend when you are older and they need something from you. I pray that God helps us to heal and live free. 🙏

    • @ebaiyvonne9261
      @ebaiyvonne9261 11 месяцев назад +11

      Ahhh exactly my case. My mother is so toxic and narcissist. I have cut off from her bad energy and condemnation. One thing I like about myself is that when I let go I let go

    • @ebaiyvonne9261
      @ebaiyvonne9261 11 месяцев назад +9

      She mocks me every time because I don't have a job yet and she instead loves my elder brother because he has money. I wonder if this challenge is going to end but I believe in my God

    • @innocentbisibukola754
      @innocentbisibukola754 11 месяцев назад +2

      It would end my brother.
      Keep faith alive

    • @AnastasiachideraAnastasia
      @AnastasiachideraAnastasia 11 месяцев назад

      Amen 😢

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 11 месяцев назад +5

      Oh, your comment just spoke to my heart. This is so true. May we heal so that we don't hurt our children.

  • @BAAR.
    @BAAR. Год назад +45

    My mother raised us by herself, and she raised us well! Nobody knew life was going to go the way it did. I'm super proud of my Mother.
    A man who is afraid of the progress of his woman is insecure, and weak!

  • @abemhirna4152
    @abemhirna4152 11 месяцев назад +8

    This man is a blessing,we pray our generation will be able to heal and do things differently

  • @aimeez0440
    @aimeez0440 Год назад +24

    The generation that will change things is the generation that will question things.

  • @habibaisglobal
    @habibaisglobal Год назад +11

    The fact that you are asking is a proof that you are thinking differently and you will come out!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @divaliciousdiva2560
    @divaliciousdiva2560 Год назад +29

    i just finished watching this with my husband, i cried, he cried, this resonated so much with us, thank u Pastor.

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  Год назад +16

      Wow.
      I'm glad it blessed you!

    • @IshFoods
      @IshFoods Месяц назад

      ​@@femi_lazarusI need to talk to this pastor because things are not sitting well with me.😢😭😭🙏

  • @ijeomanlemchukwu3732
    @ijeomanlemchukwu3732 Год назад +32

    This message is something I can’t fathom with human understanding. Our God is really raising giants in our times that are resetting the system in Church for his coming. Thank you so much Apostle Femi, God bless and keep you and your family in this days in Jesus name. Amen. It’s amazing

  • @Kadiatuuu
    @Kadiatuuu 11 месяцев назад +13

    I thank God for bringing me to see this sermon. I'm also coming from a dysfunctional home and I battle a lot because of it. But I know that God is setting things right! He is doing it for me 🙏🏿❤️🙌🏿

  • @sat_702
    @sat_702 Год назад +20

    8 minutes into this sermon am already in tears 😢I pray 🙏🏾 that I make it through this teaching

  • @beckleyomolara789
    @beckleyomolara789 Год назад +25

    Okay, so recently my hubby has been sending me your short clips on facebook and i grew in love with your teachings and just this early hours at work i saw this full video on youTube and i was drawn to it..even before it commenced , i was already in tears because i dont want to bring up my kids the same way i was.
    Thank you Apostle

  • @Onyekose
    @Onyekose Год назад +8

    This man is a preacher,teacher, pastor and an apostle

  • @princeselormk.agordah8288
    @princeselormk.agordah8288 Год назад +32

    i started listening to pastor femi, about 3 months ago, and I have been asking myself since since..."where has this man been hiding!?" God bless you man of God. Your message was a hard mirror for me and I'm sharing this with my siblings. i know we needed healing and this is what you have brought us. thank you
    😭

    • @bernicedoku5241
      @bernicedoku5241 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same with me. I love listening to him now❤

  • @folashadeadeoye7421
    @folashadeadeoye7421 Год назад +50

    Thank you pastor for raising this. This is what the lord has been speaking to me , to help those that grew from dysfunctional homes. I had the experience and God helped me , he spoke to my heart to help others . Thank you sir, i can totally Relate

  • @adepoju__temitope
    @adepoju__temitope Год назад +81

    Kai Apostle, first time listening to a full sermon and I’m undoubtedly blessed. My God 🥹🥹😭😭. Thank you Sir

  • @sonitayufenyuy
    @sonitayufenyuy Год назад +11

    Your upbringing shapes the way you perceive life
    If the foundations be destroyed what can the Righteous do.
    First things first, i need to heal from my past. Because God has in store for me for the future and i just can't mess it up with my overreacting to things.
    Heal me Holy Spirit 🙏

  • @jackobot7905
    @jackobot7905 Год назад +32

    What kind of man are you sir, Your knowledge is a total shift from the regular religious pastor. Most Pastors go about criticizing people without having the slightest knowledge of what the person is going through. Total Ignorance. I love this message

  • @lucyphilip4292
    @lucyphilip4292 10 месяцев назад +30

    I was raised by my father....he abused me continually when I was a child. Am a single mom with 2 boys raising them alone. I need help psychologically. Oh Lord help me

    • @KetsiaFodjon
      @KetsiaFodjon 7 месяцев назад +1

      Lucy the Lord is your help, will pray for you to heal.

    • @yvonneodul8291
      @yvonneodul8291 7 месяцев назад +4

      Am so sorry,may you find healing in God and get counseling, Pastor Joyce Meyer was also abused and she rose above that with God's help,may God help you in your healing journey

    • @blessingsyahweh185
      @blessingsyahweh185 3 месяца назад +1

      Be healed sis😢😢😢

    • @pettiolugbile879
      @pettiolugbile879 2 месяца назад +1

      The first step to healing is forgiving the offenders. Second, forgive yourself. Third, accept the love that Jesus Christ offers. You are blessed in the name of Jesus Christ amen ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ObiIfy-rq9lo
      @ObiIfy-rq9lo Месяц назад

      You are soo loved

  • @blessingetienodickson4949
    @blessingetienodickson4949 Год назад +4

    I watched a reel of this message on Facebook. I screen recorded it. I wanted to post it but it turned out I didn't recorded it well. I went back to Facebook but couldn't find it. I decided to check it out on RUclips and I am glad I did.
    God bless you sir.

  • @HannahAmabu
    @HannahAmabu Год назад +6

    i never thought i will be heal from my worries and stagnation but God did it for me through your messages halleluyah 🙏 thank you pastor i am connecting from Abuja.

  • @itsallaboutjesus6111
    @itsallaboutjesus6111 Год назад +7

    This man of God understand 😢I have found my therapist 💯🥳

  • @Deejayfozter
    @Deejayfozter 11 месяцев назад +5

    For the first time I heard a sermon for one hour on RUclips

  • @felixdanso9996
    @felixdanso9996 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'm Felix from Ghana. I must confess this message is for me... God help us all. It is well

  • @blessingekle3496
    @blessingekle3496 Год назад +12

    So calm, yet pouring out deep thoughts,

  • @joychika1929
    @joychika1929 Год назад +13

    I never knew such message is here. Thank you Sir for being used to dig out the root of my problem 😭😭😭 I'm healed today and forever

  • @cherissagold
    @cherissagold Год назад +7

    All I can say is wow. There’s a reason why I clicked on this video. Thank you Jesus!

  • @DivineAbraham-rr3po
    @DivineAbraham-rr3po Год назад +10

    This is so true
    I think there should be a book on this
    Its really going to help our generation

  • @samsonodigie7300
    @samsonodigie7300 Год назад +15

    One of the biggest things God did for me was that my mother stayed.....

  • @ConfidenceChinasa
    @ConfidenceChinasa Год назад +15

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I'm in tears listening to this massage. I wish My parents had the opportunity to hear this. Thank You ABBA for the privilege to be a partaker of this blessings

  • @Obabinrin
    @Obabinrin Год назад +21

    This sermon is a blessing from God to correct generational confusion and dysfunctional households.

  • @AdesolaAkinyanmi
    @AdesolaAkinyanmi Год назад +5

    This sermon got me crying. My Mum stayed for us but she died when the time was ripe for her to start eating the fruits of her labour.
    This is such a reset sermon!!!

    • @adebisiamida2080
      @adebisiamida2080 6 месяцев назад

      Sorry about that. Her memory is blessed.

  • @marychadeka5597
    @marychadeka5597 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for these teachings. We don't need counseling from the world first, come here first.... I bet by the time you finish you will not need any counselling....... This teaching is deliverance on its own

  • @cewjnyte
    @cewjnyte 11 месяцев назад +5

    My God. How is it that your sermon resonates so much that it feels that you are taking words out of not just my mouth but my heart?There is something divinely genuine about theSpirit that lives in you pastor Femi Lazarus. May God Almigh Be praised!

  • @aimeez0440
    @aimeez0440 Год назад +11

    We cannot have a new Nigeria without discussing family. Thanks for this message sir, someone shared the link and I know I will be blessed for listening and adhering. God bless you.

  • @francisnkechinyerenneoma1954
    @francisnkechinyerenneoma1954 Год назад +3

    The sermon is so relentable with the story of my life😭😭 I've been seeking for solutions to my trauma for years ever since my childhood but to no avail the trauma has dealt with me so bad that I'm scared of marriage now...
    God bless you pastor I believe this sermon is freedom I have long awaited for.. my soul 8ve finally seen the deliverance it seeks for a long time😭😭😭😭

  • @folorunshoviavonu3560
    @folorunshoviavonu3560 Год назад +6

    I got to know about you this morning through the WhatsApp status of a friend. It's the best thing I have gained from social media. God bless you richly, sir, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

  • @nuellasnuggets
    @nuellasnuggets Год назад +14

    Sir, no lies in this. As a PK, I can testify. I shared how I had to change my perspective on prayer in my book “PRAY this.” I'm still learning but I'm grateful for the revelation. 🙏🏾

  • @jemimaeric6575
    @jemimaeric6575 Год назад +10

    I wish I could make this church my church. I love these sermons. God bless you, Pastor Femi Lazarus

  • @OlorunmayeDorcas
    @OlorunmayeDorcas Год назад +20

    This sermon is a big reset for me. Thank God for His grace over you sir. More annoiting and revelation for you sir. Amen 🙏🏿
    Unto the next. Part 2

  • @oloridestiny3251
    @oloridestiny3251 Год назад +15

    I’m upset that I didn’t find your sermons earlier but I am also grateful to God that brought this video on to my fyp you are blessing to my generation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ayooloyin
    @ayooloyin Год назад +7

    Sir this is amazing, after Instagram nuggets I decided to come check more on RUclips and I was not disappointed thank you sir for saying yes to God

  • @siyanbola4788
    @siyanbola4788 11 месяцев назад +1

    First timer and listening 3 months afterwards. Thank God for the divine unction given to deliver this profound sermon. So so blessed and delivered by the Word

  • @AB1kaenobi
    @AB1kaenobi Год назад +6

    These truths. It's interesting how I woke up with this family dysfunction heavy on my mind. I had cried literally because I was coming to terms with certain dynamics, and then I'm led to a post that leads me to this message! God is indeed in the details

  • @hannahotumfuo2282
    @hannahotumfuo2282 11 месяцев назад +4

    Hah!
    This is for me😢
    If someone shows too much caring I find it a problem. I'm okay even if I'm not okay.
    May the Lord heal me

  • @leahchengobutala9790
    @leahchengobutala9790 27 дней назад

    My friend recommended i watch this after a conversation we had of not wanting to pass bad generational habits into our kids. I've truly been blessed Apostle. I could see some flaws in myself as you preached.

  • @kingdomshighway7168
    @kingdomshighway7168 Год назад +3

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. Listening to this message blessed me tremendously. My healing has began since listening to you from first week of December. I am grateful for all this timely messages.

  • @rebeccaattah6544
    @rebeccaattah6544 11 месяцев назад +3

    I was in tears listening to this sermon
    Thank you so much Sir
    You have no idea what you have done for me..
    God bless you abundantly ❤

  • @awuorochuodho6394
    @awuorochuodho6394 11 месяцев назад +1

    Wow! Wow! Wow! Am lost for words! But, the number of times I have had to pause to just absorb the teaching because it was like Apostle was talking about me! Definitely coming to listen again and will be sharing it with my siblings and ftiends and anyone in my circle I feel will need this message!

  • @johnpaulowori5499
    @johnpaulowori5499 Год назад +4

    thanks for teaching me how to parent . this is a blessing

  • @carrentugoi
    @carrentugoi Год назад +9

    Dysfunctional families are real.. i thank God for using this man to speak about this .. I am receiving healing in the name of Jesus
    Let me choose forgiveness ,,, I wanna let them go .. am not holding on to anyone anymore

    • @SimisolaAdetayo
      @SimisolaAdetayo 7 месяцев назад

      I really wish but the memory keeps dragging me back. I just wish I can forget completely. It's a terrible feeling.

  • @MONICABADJAN-l2g
    @MONICABADJAN-l2g Месяц назад

    Am from a dysfunctional home and my own story is sad. I hate my father so much and the hatred is been transferred to my mom for giving us such a man as father. Am praying for healing and to also forgive my parents. This sermon touched me so much. Thank you so much sir.

  • @chukwuemekaokonkwo7148
    @chukwuemekaokonkwo7148 Год назад +11

    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh..... Apostle God bless you ... Look at the way you are so composed spitting fire 🔥, I want to listen to this over and over again ... God bless you ❤️

  • @deborahmanari4286
    @deborahmanari4286 Год назад +1

    I've seen a man who dishes the absolute truth. Thank you Lord 🙌

  • @oluwatosinawoniyiLive
    @oluwatosinawoniyiLive Год назад +3

    Messages like these give me joy! Upbringing/background has done a lot of damage to people and they don't even know it. Thank you so much for this!

  • @abigae___2899
    @abigae___2899 Год назад +3

    My God 😭. I am literally crying as I am listening. I will come out o 😢. Thank you sir.

  • @preciousgabriel5964
    @preciousgabriel5964 11 месяцев назад +2

    I was really messed up by a disfunctional family , kai am tearing up listening to your message for the first time in full 😢😢😢 God pls help me to raise my children aright,, this cycle must not continue🙏

  • @thetransitioningchannel806
    @thetransitioningchannel806 Год назад +5

    Kai! This is my first time listening to Apostle Femi Lazarus’ message and I'm wowed! God bless you, sir. You nailed this one oo!

  • @ayokunnumialatise6635
    @ayokunnumialatise6635 Год назад +8

    This is powerful I have not heard a sermon like this in recent years

  • @henryijeoma2228
    @henryijeoma2228 Год назад +6

    This sermon is important for everyone

  • @joyokioma4622
    @joyokioma4622 Месяц назад

    This message is a therapy... Healing is attained while listening to this message.

  • @AngelicaaKalu
    @AngelicaaKalu 10 месяцев назад

    This is the first time I've encountered a sermon that actually tackles this issue on childhood trauma, mental health and emotional wellness. God bless you sir❤.

  • @busayomibabalola
    @busayomibabalola Год назад +4

    This is undoubtedly powerful!
    This is truly a lot!

  • @ImpactFuse1
    @ImpactFuse1 8 месяцев назад +1

    My eyes are full of tears . I can't know where to start but I begin a fresh healing from this message. thanks @Femi Lazarus

  • @olabisiolajide2419
    @olabisiolajide2419 Год назад +8

    What a word.. so much truth, God bless you, Sir.
    May this message go far to the ears of all who need to hear this in Jesus' name 🙏

  • @sandrasunday9847
    @sandrasunday9847 Год назад +2

    Knowledge
    Lots of dysfunctionality in my life 😢
    Lord heal me
    Amen

  • @celenhledlamini4027
    @celenhledlamini4027 Год назад +6

    This sermon brought me to tears😢so much revelation and truth❤️God bless you man of God🙌🏽

  • @blessingdowie4883
    @blessingdowie4883 Год назад +2

    God bless you and your ministry sir. You are a treasure to our generation. Thank you for making the decision to change the pattern. God is healing every dysfunctionality in my life and family in Jesus' name!

  • @Jessica_Idibo
    @Jessica_Idibo Год назад +10

    This is timely message. Thanks Apostle for this series

  • @pmulah4433
    @pmulah4433 Месяц назад

    Thank you Apostle you don’t know how much you are helping us in realising how where we are coming from has programmed us in a wrong way .I have set myself on a path to healing

  • @coachbimbola
    @coachbimbola Год назад +3

    I celebrate your gift of teaching sir

  • @onomeazih3053
    @onomeazih3053 Месяц назад +4

    My husband came from dysfunctional family....he started living with his Aunt from 9yrs. He didn't experience love growing up and now he does not know how to show love to his own children....all he does is criticize them, never praises even qhen they do well ...now his own children dislike him... never want to be near him.... and its affects our only daughter who hates him with passion....it really bothers me....been praying for her....for God help me on this matter 🙏

  • @oluebubesuccess5382
    @oluebubesuccess5382 2 месяца назад

    Thank God i came across dz sermon
    God wants me to become better,😌
    God bless you Apostle❤

  • @azariaministries
    @azariaministries Год назад +2

    LISTENING TO YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME BUT I AM BLESSED AND HAVE SHARED WITH ALL MY CHILDREN. GOD BLESS YOU APOSTLE FEMI

  • @blessingowoyomi4324
    @blessingowoyomi4324 Год назад +3

    Such a powerful message, had to cry at some point . Thank you sir

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 Год назад +2

    I love this teaching, it is really shaking tables of religion

  • @justmeahom
    @justmeahom Год назад +6

    Every African family needs to listen to this message

    • @SiniMulder
      @SiniMulder 11 месяцев назад

      European here.. 😅

  • @anunihuprecious8378
    @anunihuprecious8378 5 месяцев назад

    Thank God for coming across this Message..I just heard God speaking to me.

  • @SEUNNY2306
    @SEUNNY2306 11 месяцев назад

    Very correct message. This message must be preached and heard in all churches.

  • @ezennennafortunate2770
    @ezennennafortunate2770 7 месяцев назад

    Wow wow wow. God bless you Sir for this teachings. Our future is blessed and secure already. We are healed from dysfunctional backgrounds.

  • @FaithDoom
    @FaithDoom 10 месяцев назад

    I love apostle Femi so much he talks about my challenges in almost all his sermons

  • @SoundsofNature-nf5rp
    @SoundsofNature-nf5rp Год назад +2

    I love this man's teaching.

  • @misstokunbo
    @misstokunbo 11 месяцев назад

    Merciful God, thank you for helping me locate this sermon!

  • @efunshilemoses4679
    @efunshilemoses4679 Год назад +16

    this message is for me because i lack parental care,my mom lay alot of causes on me when growing up and now shes expecting alot from me.i having issues giving back to her
    my father was nowhere to be found until i was 21 years

    • @osatohamenosatohamen
      @osatohamenosatohamen 9 месяцев назад

      Same with my dad

    • @maneyanombwende9269
      @maneyanombwende9269 8 месяцев назад +1

      Sending hugs,kisses and deliverance from all those curses.Amen

    • @opeyemiolawole4627
      @opeyemiolawole4627 3 месяца назад

      B

    • @opeyemiolawole4627
      @opeyemiolawole4627 3 месяца назад +1

      What the time and what the heck
      What is that speech 💬.
      Who are you telling me your name 📛😠
      Sorry that my mom
      If you don't tell me I will report.
      If you see o
      It is me Opeyemi Olawole.

  • @nazfav2757
    @nazfav2757 11 месяцев назад

    The practicality of this teaching screams wisdom. You did an indepth research about the topic Sir.
    I celebrate you greately Sir and this teaching blessed me beyond my imagination.

  • @EphraimChibueze-y4b
    @EphraimChibueze-y4b 2 месяца назад

    I am enjoying this message like a fresh suya from the oven even though I am still listening...

  • @dinahekundayo5331
    @dinahekundayo5331 Месяц назад

    How you told the story of mine and my siblings life with these series,I have come out praying and working my siblings out

  • @taiwoal
    @taiwoal Год назад +3

    Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. May God Bless, SUSTAIN and Enlarge you. AMEN.

  • @Agbonifo_Cynthia
    @Agbonifo_Cynthia 3 месяца назад

    I just ssnt this to my Husband. May God preseve you Sir.

  • @williamssarah9389
    @williamssarah9389 Год назад +1

    Tiktok led me here I thank God for this message it's timely for me

  • @tolukolade2331
    @tolukolade2331 Год назад +15

    The generation that will change things are the Generation that will question things

  • @feliciaben-ameh1526
    @feliciaben-ameh1526 11 месяцев назад

    About time. Thank God for the boldness to speak without fear

  • @angelynsam9694
    @angelynsam9694 6 месяцев назад

    A mighty man of God indeed you are Apostle Femi. God bless and keep you, increase your oil, amen

  • @joshinfiniti2986
    @joshinfiniti2986 Год назад +1

    Another huge blessing to this generation ❤️🙏🏾💯✅

  • @veronicatawo6796
    @veronicatawo6796 11 месяцев назад

    Apostle this is a message for this generation. May God bless you more.

  • @Mercylifechinwendu
    @Mercylifechinwendu Год назад +3

    Thank you so much, sir.....
    A mindset has been reset today for good 😊