HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNTIONAL BACKGROUND 3

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @Gods_seeds
    @Gods_seeds 10 месяцев назад +43

    I've cried from the first episode to this, you are just opening wounds I thought I buried abs never healed... Thank you for understanding our pain. I came from a dysfunctional home and I have never experienced what family is but thank God for who God is to us. Thank you for this series.

  • @msk7458
    @msk7458 9 месяцев назад +15

    Pastor Femi….Your anointing will never run dry. 🙏🏾

  • @oshowoledamilola2141
    @oshowoledamilola2141 10 месяцев назад +20

    I cried, God please help me, I need you to heal me, for, I am só wounded. I need your guidance, I need you more than ever Abba🥺😭. God bless you and your family so much Amen.

  • @omotolaniabolade5093
    @omotolaniabolade5093 11 месяцев назад +22

    Who is this Mannnnnnn? Practical, Reality and Spiritual....Let love Ruleeee❤

  • @feuolaofficial
    @feuolaofficial 10 месяцев назад +20

    Thank you, man of God. I am viewing your content for the very first time, all the way in Trinidad and Tobago, 2 months later. I testify that I am free and delivered, and I give God all the glory 🙏🏾

  • @bekienwela2613
    @bekienwela2613 11 месяцев назад +51

    This teaching is a rare gemstone. This is loaded with spirituality and reality. This is a cure of dysfunctional background for real❤❤❤❤

  • @endoweddominic3858
    @endoweddominic3858 10 месяцев назад +18

    It’s funny how some persons are even victims of all the 10 forms of dysfunctional backgrounds. Indeed only GOD can help.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS SIR. This is not just a teaching, but a therapy and yes, we will heal by GOD’S grace.🙏🏾
    MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS, KEEP AND INCREASE YOUR GRACE SIR. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sonitayufenyuy
      @sonitayufenyuy 9 месяцев назад +1

      Im atleast 8 of these 😊. Thank God for deliverance

  • @mayowaogunnaike9118
    @mayowaogunnaike9118 10 месяцев назад +11

    One thing i like about Pastor Lazarus is, in the midst of many young pastors in our generation, he is one of the ones who are very balanced in doctrinal matters.

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 Год назад +38

    Your ministry is a direct mirror of my Life... I never thought I'll find someone who truly understand me. Your messages has proven otherwise

    • @godsblessingamaefule5329
      @godsblessingamaefule5329 10 месяцев назад +4

      Likeee...I literally see myself in every of his messages and it's sooo easy for me to understand. This is God telling me that he can see me and has planned my healing cos I've always asked God if I was ever going to heal from all the heartbreaking experiences that I had. So this is the answer that I needed, to know that I'll heal from all life injuries and that is a reason why I had to go through those experiences. Thank you so much Daddy,more of God's Grace sir

  • @anj_olaoluwa
    @anj_olaoluwa 11 месяцев назад +14

    It’s always the shoutout to the online viewers for me. This is a really interesting and relatable series.

  • @SDLMINISTRY
    @SDLMINISTRY 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh my goodness, every christian must listen to this.
    This is a message for all.
    More unction sir.

  • @funshykay
    @funshykay 8 месяцев назад +2

    Very real, practical and well-rounded teaching. Majority of us are victims and hearing this can only serve as a source of therapy. I pray for healing of your children oh God.
    How can I love Apostle’s teaching 100 times? He doesn’t mince words, he says it as it is regardless of whose ox is gored. Everyone must collect as he must shake the table reach everyone’s side.
    God bless you sir, may the anointing of God over your life and ministry never run dry🙏

  • @driphie811
    @driphie811 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you sir.
    "Harvest requires way more hardwork than sowing" mathew 9:37/38
    Following up on converts with love of Christ, until they mature into the fullness that God intends requires more!
    May God help us.

  • @odekunleayobami3186
    @odekunleayobami3186 11 месяцев назад +10

    I'm not a slave to validation....amen

  • @anie6283
    @anie6283 10 месяцев назад +6

    Therapy and deliverance is the side effect of watching and listening to these 3 part series. God bless you Sir❤

    • @angelamaryeli5796
      @angelamaryeli5796 10 месяцев назад

      There is a fourth part. Please look for that also if you haven't seen it yet.

  • @Nuella_Paedics
    @Nuella_Paedics 10 месяцев назад +5

    God bless you man of God. Your message is rare and this generation needs to hear and understand why sometimes we behave the way we do.There is indeed a place for everyone in God's plan.

  • @godsblessingamaefule5329
    @godsblessingamaefule5329 10 месяцев назад +5

    That part where you mentioned a chaotic home,where peace is barely experienced in one week is purely my life experience sir...kaiiiii you're truly God's sent to me in this season cos i really need to heal

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 7 месяцев назад +3

    You are quite right. The body of Christ has not come to the revelation regarding trauma, abuse and counselling for recovery . Certain messages have not been preached to help people to recover from abuse, trauma, alcohol and drug addicts .

  • @ejiededawe_diamon
    @ejiededawe_diamon 11 месяцев назад +10

    I really don't know how I got hold of your messages, but since listening to "Black Tax", i've been actively following.

  • @IfyagwuJosh
    @IfyagwuJosh 10 месяцев назад +3

    Apostle you are just shaking tables everywhere touching everything

  • @oyeniyitohby
    @oyeniyitohby 10 месяцев назад +5

    Iv taken my time to listen to at least one message everyday after the very first one I watched (black tax) …… I have learnt soo much than I could have ever imagined, soo much it has become an habit and an everyday devotion ! Thank you … thank you 🙏

  • @talkswiththe_blackybones6670
    @talkswiththe_blackybones6670 9 месяцев назад +2

    For the longest time I wondered if my Dad will seat with my Mum to bless my marriage but God re-orientated me a year ago, they are still very separated but I know they will seat together and bless my marriage as parents 😊

  • @rosebaaka7636
    @rosebaaka7636 9 месяцев назад +1

    It is indeed Divine 😢me watching this movie at age 33. Thank you Jesus for giving me a message on winning the battles of the mind. Through your servant. Thanks produser for this word master piece.God bless you

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 10 месяцев назад +3

    My pastor and all round life's mentor, you are so intelligent and l call it supernatural wisdom and insight - completely uncommon.
    Love your wise and transparency in teachings, very rare and unique, 100% splendid 👌
    You get backing, no mind them, just teach on, no look face sir.
    It is a (my) real life story with a vision less, violet, lazy, hostile, immature, arrogant, unremorseful and parrotic man as husband over 14yrs....
    God really saved my life from such a toxic and abusive, fair-whether so - called marital and deceitful relationship.
    Thanks to God 🙏😥🙌
    Crystal clear and undiluted. 👍👌❤️
    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @deborahadebiyi4830
    @deborahadebiyi4830 11 месяцев назад +5

    Have really been blessed with this series. This is the first time I’m listening to you. Thank you sir. More grace

  • @pearlnarh7584
    @pearlnarh7584 4 месяца назад +1

    Most relevant sermon series ever, and I am not saying this for pleasantries sake

  • @victoronodjacha3642
    @victoronodjacha3642 10 месяцев назад +1

    These are real issues indeed, sir! And the church is not talking about them. God bless you and amplify your voice more and more in Jesus' name!

  • @AmandazipaulSunday
    @AmandazipaulSunday 22 дня назад

    Thank you for igniting the fire that was once quenched in my life 🔥🔥🔥🔥😭😭😭😭 i can do better now thank you Sir..

  • @Nja4real
    @Nja4real 9 месяцев назад +1

    Listening in Jan 2024 - a therapeutic series. Thank you for validating all I have in my head but cant share. Please do a series on the effect of the JAPA on the young families.

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 10 месяцев назад +6

    Remain blessed sir.
    Infact, your ministry will excel globally and prosper till eternity for the truth 🙏
    I am amazed at your teaching my mentor ❤

    • @ololademary2506
      @ololademary2506 10 месяцев назад +1

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @rjthelit
    @rjthelit 5 месяцев назад +2

    It’s Dysfunctional Singles That Make Dysfunctional Homes …….So True May God Help Us 😢

  • @franchescaasamoah3046
    @franchescaasamoah3046 9 месяцев назад +1

    I receive my Total n Complete HEALING N THERAPY from these 3 sermons. God bless u Sir for this 🙏🏻 sermons

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you sir. Faulty foundation also affects Pastors. You are right sir

  • @Phoebenails143
    @Phoebenails143 9 месяцев назад

    This is a pure therapy. God I am healed .
    Thank you JESUS 🙏🏻

  • @nessakay899
    @nessakay899 12 дней назад

    Apostle Femi. God Bless you 🙏

  • @Olajumoke_Adeife
    @Olajumoke_Adeife 11 месяцев назад +5

    This sermon is really for me!!

  • @oyekanvictory7275
    @oyekanvictory7275 7 месяцев назад

    Everything you said is real sir, from episode 1to 3 they are happening in my life and family I wish I have been listening to your message years before

  • @olaGpk
    @olaGpk Год назад +5

    Thank you so much sir for this message...it has changed my mentality about myself...
    God keep and bless you, amen

  • @ufuomajane4642
    @ufuomajane4642 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this message,I’m from a broken home and an only child from both parents and it has really affected me alot cause the pressure from both side is outside the world,I often think how my marriage will be,if both of them will wear different clothes on that day and if both side, will be at peace with their families,God will help me sha

  • @amakarhoda9147
    @amakarhoda9147 8 месяцев назад +1

    😭😭😭😭😭 I'm glad I met you here sir, thank you, with time I will show you how grateful I am 😭🧡 its time for me to GO FORWARD 🔥🔥 God bless you sir

  • @solamalomo3336
    @solamalomo3336 6 месяцев назад

    Boxer, DJ, teacher, tutor, real estate, pastor, apostle, counselor

  • @theodoraokpewho5829
    @theodoraokpewho5829 9 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you so much sir for this great and true teaching

  • @annamutie1799
    @annamutie1799 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great teaching. God bless you.❤❤

  • @julietnkechi5155
    @julietnkechi5155 7 месяцев назад

    God bless you sir for this teaching.....I'm blessed.

  • @FaithKangwa-bt2gs
    @FaithKangwa-bt2gs 9 месяцев назад

    Khaiii What a blessing You are Apostle Femi Lazarus 😭 Thankyou for answering God's call over your life🙌♥️

  • @laurint.3129
    @laurint.3129 10 месяцев назад

    Please🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 kindly make the recording/sound louder, i have been so much blessed by your messages

  • @Fifi-qp7in
    @Fifi-qp7in 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sir, may God continue to bless you🙏🏾

  • @doobeeremita
    @doobeeremita 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this series sir

  • @joandavid7216
    @joandavid7216 11 месяцев назад +1

    Indeed I was blessed,enlightened and encouraged with this mess!God bless you pastor Femi

  • @Olalekan_O
    @Olalekan_O Год назад +4

    God bless you Apostle. This is life changing

  • @bridgeteyo-honesty9838
    @bridgeteyo-honesty9838 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir, for this series. Its liberating for me.

  • @pennyvee100
    @pennyvee100 9 месяцев назад +1

    Apostle where have you been?? God bless you sir
    Timely message

  • @marytakon
    @marytakon 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ah! God bless you sir 🔥

  • @abiodunlight561
    @abiodunlight561 9 месяцев назад

    God bless your ministry pastor Femi

  • @basseyemmanuel
    @basseyemmanuel 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Jesus 🙌
    Thank you apostle

  • @cookieejar7710
    @cookieejar7710 5 месяцев назад

    You are a blessing 🙌🏾 ❤

  • @FavorFavor-fd1iv
    @FavorFavor-fd1iv 10 месяцев назад +2

    Am blessed sir. Thank you

  • @olayinkamartins6479
    @olayinkamartins6479 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your messages are more than super ❤

  • @nadinen.24
    @nadinen.24 11 месяцев назад +1

    What a wisdom! Thank you Sir!

  • @27144
    @27144 11 месяцев назад +1

    So true sir,God bless 🙌

  • @oliviachiemela3403
    @oliviachiemela3403 10 месяцев назад +1

    I wish I can really talk to you one on one or on phone, this message describes me and my background I've been struggling to heal.

  • @SAMUELFAKANLE
    @SAMUELFAKANLE 11 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you Sir

  • @ChisomBethel-lsJesus1stbaby
    @ChisomBethel-lsJesus1stbaby 11 месяцев назад +2

    This message is for me. Thank you Pastor.
    I need the church address in Port Harcourt.

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  11 месяцев назад +4

      Currently we have our branches only in Abuja, Ibadan, Lagos, Ile-ife, Abeokuta and Kano.
      You can always join our service online @sphere light Church every Sunday by 8:30am and on Tuesday and Friday by 5:15pm

  • @bimdiva1
    @bimdiva1 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank youuuuuu sir this message !!!!!

  • @olajumokeodunuga17
    @olajumokeodunuga17 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is deep 🤔🤔…thank you sir.

  • @okoreesther8948
    @okoreesther8948 10 месяцев назад +5

    On abuse, Apostle keeps mentioning 3- sexual, verbal and emotional. What about physical abuse? Merciless bearings, rubbing pepper in private parts and sensitives eyes, etc... I thought it was an omission in the first part of this series, but this is the third part and he still hasn't included it.
    Physical abuse is the first and prime abuse children face in some homes.

    • @theeaglegirl8405
      @theeaglegirl8405 10 месяцев назад

      I noticed that too but I think physical abuse is underpinned by all 3 he mentioned. However, I agree he should have mentioned it specifically.

    • @bridget3163
      @bridget3163 9 месяцев назад

      Physical abuse causes an emotional toll on someone maybe he categorized it differently…

    • @Nja4real
      @Nja4real 9 месяцев назад

      Physical abuse is often an expression of all the abuses he mentioned. Physical abuse should be a series on its own.

    • @okoreesther8948
      @okoreesther8948 9 месяцев назад +1

      @Nja4real
      There are verbally abusive parents who won't lay a finger on you but will destroy you with their tongue. Same with emotional abusers. I don't think physical abuse underpins all the other abuses. It should stand alone and it's usually the more prevalent abuse.

  • @sharicutty
    @sharicutty 10 месяцев назад +1

    This abuse mentality is a perfect mirror of our country at the moment.

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm 22 but I am learning wisdom

  • @juhlyefestus2699
    @juhlyefestus2699 9 месяцев назад

    There’s a way he quenches the youthful thirst of life and mends the bridge between Religion and reality,…

  • @sylvia-mwangi.6406
    @sylvia-mwangi.6406 8 месяцев назад

    sir speak about single parents please.... especially about raising a son alone sir please

  • @marympesuka
    @marympesuka 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have found a father in you❤

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 Год назад +5

    Please I'll like to know how to reach you sir face to face

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 10 месяцев назад +1

    We inflict pain to cause change because of the pain you are going through

  • @mbendongruth6851
    @mbendongruth6851 8 месяцев назад

    This is real healing.

  • @agathaasare1045
    @agathaasare1045 10 месяцев назад +1

    God reachly bless you i need to change😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @mightymandate4873
    @mightymandate4873 Год назад +1

    Patiently waiting

  • @blessingetienodickson4949
    @blessingetienodickson4949 10 месяцев назад +2

    I keep asking myself "Who is this man"

  • @oritsedamilolahephzibah6427
    @oritsedamilolahephzibah6427 8 месяцев назад

    More anointing sir

  • @AngelicaHutchinson1
    @AngelicaHutchinson1 4 месяца назад

    “Marry right so you don’t ever wish you are single.”
    “Dysfunctional singles make dysfunctional marriage.”

  • @ntangnwutsam
    @ntangnwutsam 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is fireful

  • @ogidimichael1967
    @ogidimichael1967 11 месяцев назад +3

    There’s still hope for me

  • @okaforozioma3126
    @okaforozioma3126 9 месяцев назад

    Please the name of the church? I am in Abuja and location please

  • @paulinalima1134
    @paulinalima1134 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @specialagent7640
    @specialagent7640 11 месяцев назад +1

    I need to locate in Abuja asap

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  11 месяцев назад

      This is the location for our Abuja branch
      ABUJA VENUE
      GIVERNY PARKS & GARDEN, AREA 10, PLOT 101 BACHITA CI, OPPOSITE AMALA KLASS AMAC 900211, ABUJA, FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY

  • @Thehandbaguru263
    @Thehandbaguru263 8 месяцев назад

    thank you

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 8 месяцев назад

    In fairness to the Israelites, the people of Anak were giants. So yeah, one wouldn’t blame the Israel for thinking they look like ants.
    I like stew on rice, but I learnt to serve people with stew in a bowl seperately

  • @AdaAda_
    @AdaAda_ 10 месяцев назад +2

    🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation 10 месяцев назад

    What if you no get house, you no come get home?

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 10 месяцев назад +1

    You will believe people see you the way you see yourself

  • @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd
    @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd 11 месяцев назад +1

    Please,is this church far away from University of Ibadan??

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  11 месяцев назад +1

      Not at all. Just at Bodija, Osuntokun Avenue. Sphere of Light Church

  • @chiomaesther6218
    @chiomaesther6218 11 месяцев назад +1

    Please apostle do you offer counselling services for people that grew up in a dysfunctional family? How much for such sessions? How can one register or apply for such?

  • @wendytamakloe2118
    @wendytamakloe2118 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you soo muchh

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 11 месяцев назад +2

    Emotional unstable personality disorder contribute to dysfunctional family

  • @ChisomOkolie12
    @ChisomOkolie12 11 месяцев назад +1

    Kai🔥🔥🔥

  • @Lolatrendstore
    @Lolatrendstore 3 месяца назад

    My God💔💔

  • @catekarimi1851
    @catekarimi1851 8 месяцев назад

    Ooh God 😭😭

  • @danielsaint022
    @danielsaint022 Год назад

    Hmmmm..

  • @OkeestherOkeesther
    @OkeestherOkeesther 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Nuella_Paedics
    @Nuella_Paedics 10 месяцев назад

    God bless you man of God. Your message is rare and this generation needs to hear and understand why sometimes we behave the way we do.There is indeed a place for everyone in God's plan.