They think shouting louder harder and longer will win. They win most of the verbal fights but end up losing the war. Most rip there own homes and familes apart. some do it 2,3 even 4 times. Married divorced married divorced. And don't get it blame all the men all the time. Don't throw stones in a glass house. . . If I new then what I know now 🤔 I've pondered over that saying for many years. Many years. That saying was around 1000s of years ago when you get it. 😂. It's very powerful. How can you tell or explain to someone how to travel through time. When you get it you can truly time travel. I've never been able to find the words to explain it. If I new then what I know now hmmmmm. 😣 if you are a awake you will get it. You can turn your life around in a matter of months. Only if you really get it. Most sayings have been around before I was born eg never trust a woman who made that up and when? It was 1000s of years ago read between the lines. My father always said never let the left hand know what the right hand is doing. That saying is very old very old. What it mean is it referring to life or women you tell me !
Kevin has more paitence than me, I honestly couldn't have a conversation with a woman with 3 kids 2 different men about marriage. That ship sailed probably 10yrs ago.
I am 🤚🏽I found out about him 3 months before he passed. My husband been listening to him but never shared with me. He honestly said he thought I wouldn’t like the content. I’ve been bingeing for the last 4 days and I don’t know how I got started but I honestly can say it’s changing me like the 1st time I started listening. I’m grateful for his content!
Your perspective and guidance helped me become a better wife. I have such a good man and I was so angry all the time. Hate that it took me so long to chill out, take a step back, and re-evaluate how I was treating him. The biggest takeaway from your show has become the most obvious to me - men want peace in their home. I never want my husband to dread walking through our front door. To be annoyed on his days off. I’m grateful he stuck with me long enough to get my act together. We’re both happier.
Facts!!! I learned while I was pregnant and engaged… calmed my ass down… got it together and boom… he couldn’t wait to marry me!! 1/1/22- we got hitched… been together 4 years
Noooooo! Nothing more classy than a woman with a big tattoo of all her 'keeeeds' names (in Hellvetica script) in the middle of her chest. Bonus points for a black panther on her thigh. CEO's LOVE to bring these types of women to the company picnic. Sarcasm: OFF
Seek GOD for wisdom. He has good points but a man must live life on his terms. He mixes some facts with theories and opinions. Pay attention to a woman and your observation will answer more questions than asking her foolishly what she brings to a table. You know why…… because people will lie. Men and women too. But her communication, how she presents herself, how she talks to people, her nature and character will show. If she rude and tempered with others but not you ……run bruh because she gone flip one day
Walk away and cut a chick off... this has ABSOLUTELY been my downfall. TWICE, I've married women who if I was being honest with myself, I should have left long before. Sunken cost fallacy... it happens in men as well. I left them both, as they were absolutely draining me. However, my fault is knowing that beforehand... but believing 'they' also knew my worth to their lives. Had I KS's videos 15yrs ago... I would have been belted and girded against this self delusional idiocy.
Yup, I paused at 33:30 when Kevin said "you better learn how to cut a chick off..". Too many men and wmn stay in dysfunctional or dead end relationships wasting time without thinking about it.
Your story mirrors mine to a tee. 1 marriage 20yrs. 1 LTR 14yrs. They drained me dry and got comfortable. Thought I would never leave. Until I did. I’m 49yrs old. Once a man tastes freedom there no going back. OG’s get the last laugh
It has been said if you set ground rules early, things will go better overall. They are either with it or they move on without wasting everyone's time.
Last night, I took my wife to a restaurant & we saw a few tables of single women having "Galentines Day" groups saying all that "I don't need a man" BS, being loud & laughing. But this guy proposed to his GF & One dame congratulated them, went back to her table with her friends& broke down crying about why she can't get a man to where attention in the restaurant shifted to her crying instead of the couple's engagement.
Damn!!!! I wonder did her Single friends give her advice on how to land a husband ? My advice ditch those Single girlfriends and get out in the game by herself and find her a husband ! I been married 34 years and it’s good to go into your golden years with a spouse! Lot of women will grow old with their college degrees!
I just had an "a-ha" moment... I've always wondered to myself, why does Kevin impress the idea of a cookbook so hard? Why is that defining? I own many cook books, but I never use them, I have them packed away. I have been cooking since I was very young, I remember my grandmother would cook everything from scratch, I would ask her if she had a recipe and she said "No, its in my head." Now that's how I am, I can cook a great many things, well, but its all "in my head". Occasionally people ask me for my recipe to something, and I struggle to sit down and actually write something out to give them. I feel like, I have to show them, because it's instinct versus intention at this point. My "a-ha" moment, was realizing that the cook book is not for me. For me to sit down, write my recipes down, to make a conscious effort to start keeping record of the things I make, has nothing at all to do with me. Its for my children. Their children. This is something physical I can pass down, so when I am not here, they can know how to make the things they enjoy, properly, without wasting their ingredients and time. It's a way to pass down apart of our culture, which is in the recipes, when I am no longer around. So, Mr Samuels, I finally understand and I will start to keep track of my recipes. Thank you!
Love it! Thank you for sharing! Nothing we do here is a about us...it's about the ones around us, and the ones we will leave behind! Of course we'll get to laugh...have fun and enjoy ourselves while we're here, but whats the purpose of your existence when you only think of helping yourself?
That's right... its for the children. The best and fondest memories I have as a boy, was sitting and talking with my grandmother in Hungarian as she prepared meals, baked bread and made homemade wine - while I helped her make and eat it too.
I think it's also about teaching daughters how to be wives. Not just hoping they subconsciously pick up things from you but actively teaching them the importance of being a caretaker and supportive wife. Father's make a big deal about teaching their sons how to be a good man and a good husband. Women should lean into their daughters the same way men Lean into their Sons. A cookbook from mom to daughter is like a Watch from father to son. It's a beautiful thing. 🙂
@Michelle Cleave Ma'am that is an anecdotal and generally ambiguous occurrence and this illusory fear and scarcity mindset most individuals adhere to is the very inhibition on why most relationships fail. When you operate predicated entirely on fear...well as the adage denotes you receive what you give. Stop operating on the most negative of outcomes and ponder on why that's the outcome you receive.
@@jayrahvisions she right though and ima man that’s what MOST YOUNG MEN DO ! We both stirred the wrong direction and its sad ! You said all that smart shit to probably describe yourself which is cool ! But its alot of lame ahh dudes to tbh
@@YourFavoriteCoolCousin it definitely is annoying how both genders have fallen over the last 5-6 decades and just want to put the blame on each other now. Both men and women have forgotten their place in this world.
@@Bella-Mae0422 honestly when i started watching these videos it was entertainment but my third eye just started seeing stuff ! Its alot of men who really dont know how to think with nothing besides their dik head reading comments i feel from a distance how lost and delusional both sides be lol the entertainment is in the comment section tbh i pause video and smh while reading
@@YourFavoriteCoolCousin agreed! As a woman myself when I first watched this I understood the men's perspective and still do but at the same time the more I watch these videos I see how the men on here are just as shallow and ignorant as the modern women are today. Women are shallow when it comes to a man's money and financial crap and men are shallow when to comes to a woman's looks and youth. KS makes alot of good points but he's putting it into these mens head that a woman is no longer any good after 30. That's simply not true.
Always love hearing him ask that question that makes the ladies look baffled.....after they rant and rave about what they want and what they deserve and he hit them with........well what does the type of man you want expect from a woman........stops them in their tracks every time
Majority of women make moves unbeknownst to the reality of dualism. Meaning, reality only give us "two" choices and everything else is escapism. Examples includes, but not limited to, right/wrong, up/down, positive/negative, left/right, reality/fantasy, male/female, like/dislike, submissive/unsubmissive, just to name a few. In closing, people may grant you excuses, but reality will not.
For every woman on air that wants a husband, there’s a man out there that she knows that would make them a wonderful husband, but she don’t want that man! 😆😆😆
Imagine a business that has never thought about what its customers want. The business ignores customer feedback and gets hostile when customers speak up. The business doesn't put any effort into marketing or product development. The business has a large surplus of over-priced inventory that it refuses to discount, even though the inventory is about to become obsolete, which means that its value will fall off a cliff. The business has a ton of debt and other liabilities... but is also wildly optimistic that a wealthy investor will bail it out... even though it doesn't know any wealthy investors and is on the verge of bankruptcy. That is how many of these callers approach dating, and they seem shocked when they are told that's no way to run a business.
My man bought me an official cookbook for Valentine's Day, super excited. I had all my recipes in a binder but they are about to be so organized now. Your advice has helped me get into this healthy relationship. Started watching you last January and I have changed SO MUCH.
@@vickyy.9880 Have you ever noticed when women are having a conversation about their issues, you never see a man jump in screaming, "me too...me too!"?
@@erictoomer5665 Thanks to @Oshay Duke Jackson, I got to know who KS is. I had been reluctant for a min to check him out but as @Oshay consistently referenced him in his RP and Celebrity Junk videos, I finally decided to give his channel a try (that was sometime in November 2020). By this time, the Average at best video was going viral, but for me I was more curious to check out his earlier *mhens styling and fragrance content, which I binge watched for 2 months. All this to say, I have never looked back! The Godfather has totally changed my outlook towards life because he is the TRUTH!
Females think 35 is the new 21 a lot of females have unrealistic expectations gotta be 6’3” make 200k a year, dunk a basketball, read my mind when I’m hungry and he has to go to church 8 days a week😂😂😂💯
I never expected a man to be that tall or make anywhere near that much when I was 21 and I’m 6”2’ and child free. i always dated men shorter than me and never considered a man’s income when selecting a partner. Maybe I should have cuz those men didn’t even appreciate me. Should’ve passed them all over
@Michelle Cleave sounds like you waiting for her to slip to get back in or waiting for him to come to his senses. Look, it wasn’t meant to be. If you did all of those things, he got scared because he saw you as a wife when he wasn’t ready to have one. Listen, don’t stop doing what you would do for a man. Especially if you enjoy it. Before you get into something new, you need to let go of the old.
God damn. Paradigm fuckin' shifter. This man is a beautiful genius. Handsome. I'll be damned. Love you, Kevin. Rest in peace, brother. You'll always be remembered and changed the world with your gravitas, gift of gab, wisdom and class. May your spirit guide this generation and future generations of strong lions and tigers. Let's make changes CIA/FBI. God bless you KS. Thank you for your humanitarian services. Rest my brother, rest.
At 35, you should be at the 50% off rack. At 40, you should be on clearance. At 50, you should be at the outlet. At 60, you should be at the SALVATION ARMY 🤣😭💀💀
Problem is to much focus is on the skin of a woman and women get court up in ego, but they didn’t want to be wife’s and build with a man so now they age pretty or not but empty, and unfulfilled
So damn true. I think Black women have an issue with age. They age better than most, but inevitably you still will age. If you look at pics of someone at 25 and then of them in their 80s. It damn near looks like two different people. That's the way our bodies are set up. To age. 20 yr old titties and lol 80 yr old titties are damn sure not the same...🤣🤣
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 3:06 🎬 Show Starts, Monologue, Wait I Thought You Were So Special 15:45 Stats 23:24 Throwback video revisited 29:55 Back to Monologue 1:07:06 1st Caller age 29, 2nd Caller Quinn age 36 1:45:29 3rd Caller age 23, 4th Caller age 24 , (break song) Conversation (Instrumental Version) By Sionya 1:56:28 Outro
I heavily agree with KS on walking away and not arguing with modern women... You can point out all the facts/stats/data you want to, and it will not make a bit of difference. It is just a waste of time trying to argue - Just walk away. Give them your silence, absence, and indifference.
That damn rambling she does without taking a breath would drive me fucking crazy! The deflections and loud pitch she has like so many sisters, I'd walk away after one minute!!
33 is the cutoff in my opinion. It's gonna take at least a year to two years for these women to get to know a man well enough to want to have a child with him. By then they're looking at a geriatric pregnancy. It only gets more difficult after that because men realize they aren't realistically going to be able to have a family with a woman over 35. So what's in it for the man? A roommate that takes half of everything you own when she decides to move out? These women wasted every damn bit of time they had. Spare me the crocodile tears.
Unfortunately, almost all unmarried women by that age are broken. Mental illness, shape shifters desperate to tell a man what he wants to hear, masculine, super high body count, single mothers, overweight/obese, and bitter/ruined from past relationships. Pretty much all of them fit at least one (and probably many) of these attributes. I’d say meeting a girl by around 25 is the cutoff for most, and even that is a stretch with the current culture poisoning them.
Yep,,that's why the all want high earning men cause those hyenas are broke. That.s why theyre complaining about men not asking them out anymore. No more free dinner and drinks...lol they love to flex
@@Osunshoney409 That explains why only 1 out of 4 black women will never be married yet 80% of you are having children out of wedlock and end up "doing it by yourself ". Choosing sex with pookie and Ray Ray over building a family with average earning men. Make it make sense.
If you lose money … you didn’t lost nothing If you lose health …you have lost something We lost something valuable when we lost Kevin He meant SANITY for the absolutely mentally Ill American Women’s community
Amazing a grown a** woman that is 29 years old.....saying she is trying to grow up!? With three children! Seriously this is scary..... nothing is funny about this at all!
Basically, they seem to forget that their sexual prime basically starts around 15 when they should be looking for a guy in high school that they might be able to take seriously, and from there they have another 10 years or so from 15 in the height of their prime. If you reach 25 if you’re still at Mary, go back 100 years, you’d be considered an old maiden
A man living reckless In his young days, ends up dead or in jail. A woman living reckless in her youth, leaves her a single mother and unwanted by decent men but also having higher expectations. And this is the real reason men and women don't look at life the same.
Damn that's it in a nutshell! Bottom line women need to understand to want to be equal to a man, Lord forbid they have the superiority complex, means you want death as a consequence to your fucquery, and they don't want that.
You will learn more here in the manosphere in a day than you would in a life time of watching TV, regardless if you are a young man or a young lady. Best wishes to you.
Summer? Where do you live? There's 3 metres of snow and hurricane-like winds here in parts of Northern Europe. Its February! Summer. We really are different...🤔
At 30:03 and nearly ten mins into Saved me hours and couple bucks on therapy just hearing your words. I was brought down a lot in my past relationships and i wouldn't admit it. Still saving for therapy. Thank you so much for sharing this understanding.
I took my girlfriend out last night to a nice Italian restaurant. I got dressed up - in a suit and tie...she had a nice tight dress. I noticed we were getting looks from the GALENTINE'S DAY group of 8 who didn't have male dates. I posted a pic in my community chat of them LOL. Dating and marriage are quickly becoming ELITIST INSTITUTIONS!!!
Be careful the word( train) is a trigger... women don't like that word unless it's about some type of job training... training at a gym... dog training... or potty training... a man in a relationship can't (train) a woman to do anything LOL
@@kidasingh820 I use that word very intentionally. If they're triggered, that's their problem. We don't wanna hear that sob story BS when we want a simple yes or no
The reason why women especially in the Atlantic area are so educated with bachelors and masters degrees yet make very little money is because of these degree mills out there where anybody and everybody can get a 4.0 and a college degree with very little effort. The professional world has caught on to this about a decade ago from schools like devry, westwood, ITT tech etc. The degrees are worthless but the debt is real. This is why you see somebody with a communications degree that can't communicate. An economics degree and you're a bartender.
True! It definitely depends on what people are getting the degree in as well. Most black people that I’ve seen in college are getting liberal arts degrees in business, communications, psychology. These degrees will not get you more than 45,000-50,000 a year at best.
He's right, my definition of a successful life has always been a healthy marriage, solid relationship with God, raising whole & healthy children, & making sure we keep our mental health in tact. I've always wanted to be a stay at home mom but things occurred in a different way & I had to get out there and support my family. I still desire to be an amazing wife, a home maker, & have a healthy blended family. I feel bad I took forever to go to therapy but I'm thankful I got over my fear.
A grad student who has no idea what the definition of "predicament " is? I know we have a broken education system now, but I had no idea it's gotten that bad that a student could get a bachelor's degree and be accepted into a graduate level program without the equivalent vocabulary of a high school graduate from a few decades ago.
Her issue is no guys will date her because she believes she is on a higher level. Men have wised up and the dating market is evaporating...."No soup for you"
Ok I heard this part, and this is actually just women needing to always have a problem in their life. She didn't have an issue, but still wanted to call in and talk about "her issue". Just like the other woman who dwelled on her trauma and her therapist tells her she's fine. Women make trauma a part of their identity rather than something that just happened.
I remember a woman I worked with was standing by the door waiting for me to open it for her. I said, trying to be funny, "You gone make sure I act like a man." She responded, "No, I'm just a lady at all times." That always stuck with me.
Mate I've only been following you for last two years since covid started really but so glad I found this content, you've done great to try and be true , keep on making vids 👍🤟
Caller 1: I respect her honesty and willingness to admit her flaws. It’s so common for women to vent too much to friends/family. Those folks become cheering sections for her to leave the relationship. The cycle continues as she often bounces from relationship to relationship.
If government-guaranteed school loans were abolished, that would solve the problem. No more 40k student debt for worthless degrees, as no private bank would finance that...
I thought it was just my wife that had a painfully hard time getting to the point. Talking to her sometimes is like asking her to go the neighbors house to pick up something and she gets in the car, drives to her job, gets on the phone, asks the neighbor if she can come over and then drives to the neighbors house which is 50 yards away from our front door. Painful!
We can fix this if we don’t tolerate with our daughters. American men allowed this to happen. Our culture communicates in the feminine. We need to require it to be in the masculine again. It wasn’t very long ago
Yesterday "Valentines day" my wife and I had planned a very nice date night. After our dinner when we were relaxing out back near the pool with a fire as it was 66 degrees and a cloudless sky with a full moon. My wife's phone started blowing up, she ended up shutting it off. My wife must have gotten 10 calls in the span of 15 minutes from some of her single friends who were very sad and wanted to talk. When Kevin ask are you getting the out comes you want, and they say no...I just smile to myself, and think that those women do not get what they want, but they do get what they deserve...
Hey man I feel you, micro was busy on Valentine’s Day but I still took the time to go get her some white chocolate dipped strawberries and some Valentine’s Day gear so she could still feel special even though she was busy, she loved it so much and I can only think about how there are so many women out there who think they deserve that, but won’t even put in the minimum amount of work required
FYI- ladies, my Dad had a eleventh grade education, worked the cotton fields of south Georgia due death of father. My father was the oldest child of six kids. He joined the Army to get more money for my Grandmother and mom. We moved to Atlanta in September of 1963( three kids,grandmom and wife). That common man had two jobs for over thirty years to take care of his family. That common man had two good retirement plans upon his death. That common man took care of my mom from the grave over thirty years until her death. Ladies you should be looking for a good common man making $40 to $60 per year, with a good retirement plan(on his job for 20-30 years). Ladies if you find one, you should fight ten snakes and two lions over him. He is a keeper.Tks Kevin for your platform. 🥰
I actually feel bad for women since listening to Kevin. Its a tough situation alotta girls find themselves in. The window is only a few years for girls it seems
@@goodbro7846 18 - 30 isn’t a few years! That’s peak SMV (Sexual Marketplace Value) for women. Kevin suggests that women who want to be wives take actions that meet those desires early on. Hence so many women of other ethnic groups get married earlier than BW because they respect the leadership of the men in their ethnic group. BW are the only group who regularly ridicule their own for wanting to get married.
@@LeMan8o4 18-30 for women that take care of their bodies, and health. Let's be real,there are alot of women in early 20s overweight and drink on the regular. That window gets smaller.
Just keep her away from feminism- it's a cancer on women and decimated the black community. Conservative Christian/Faith based values are making a comeback
Majority of women make moves unbeknownst to the reality of dualism. Meaning, reality only give us "two" choices and everything else is escapism. Examples includes, but not limited to, right/wrong, up/down, positive/negative, left/right, reality/fantasy, male/female, like/dislike, just to name a few. In closing, men/women may grant excuses, but reality will not.
Japan goes through the same over inflated value ego of women seeking men of high value the superficial stuff they get the name kotastu-hensachi. But here in japan they are not direspectful to men
I went to dinner last night for Valentine’s with my Fiancé and what I saw blew my mind. Every table was occupied with couples or families. What was surprising, there where mostly blacks men there and only myself and another gentleman had black women. All the rest of the black men had different races of women. Things are seriously changing and black men are doing something else with there resources and time.
Valentine's is all the time with me and my hubby. Dont need to wait until one special day to be treated extra special We fo that to each other all year long.
@@rfreeman7139 completely understand that, my fiancé and I go out every Friday for the last 3 yrs. It’s something I love doing and she enjoys it as well but we went out Monday because she will be out of town on Friday. (Scratching my head) just dawn on me she got her dinner date before she left town. 🤦🏽♂️
The only women I feel sorry for are the ones that lose infants or toddlers. Even that is circumstantial. All these others have to deal with the consequences of their choices. Ain't no superman wearing a cape out here waiting for your run down goods.
@Michelle Cleave This isn't about exceptions to the rule. You can find one of anything in an attempt to refute a point but how disingenuous of an argument is that?
@Michelle Cleave Get therapy. There is no excuse for any of us to live our entire lives as a victim. God doesn't endorse that mindset and neither do I!
@@ascensiondimension7119 Thank you! They always jump in with the what-about-isms, then move to color purpling of the black relationship/ family experience. Damn that shyt is getting old!!
I'm watching the first caller and I have absolutely no idea how any man is able to get past the voice, the anger, the aggression, the combativeness, the raised volume. The destruction of the language? THIS IS A NURSE WITH A DEGREE? How does anyone tolerate that for literally 5 seconds, let alone to the bedroom? And she's acknowledging that she's learned blah blah, so we're getting her at her absolute best? Where has all this wild delusion come from? For BOTH men and women!!!! Why would you touch that? She can't speak clear or clean English and she's a nurse?
I'm a woman myself but why tf can't any of these women answer a question??? Hell u ask there age and they'll say some shit like I'll be 30 in June.... wth............ so in you're 29!! Why is that so hard
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@@macman9689 For sure! The man be dropping references all the time! From the 300! to Golden Girls to Trading Places and so on… Dude have me feeling like Captain America “I got that reference!” 🤣🤣
I'm a married woman and I don't care about Valentine's Day. Love me everyday. Give me the money or invest that money you will spend for them roses and overpriced candy. I don't need you to post what you got me--nor do I need to post what you got me at any point. I know you love me and I love you and that's all that matters to me. All that showboating means nothing, especially when we're giving and receiving all through the year. BUT if you're going to celebrate it, men should get flowers and candy too. Who said/made Valentine's day JUST for women? Besides, I think some guy/priest was beheaded on Feb 14th way back in the day for this "Hallmark/MadisonAvenue Holiday."
Same. We enjoy vacations and buying things for our children. Trinkets just don't impress me. Like you said, he treats me well every day and I do the same for him.
Yes he was a Saint in the 3rd century that was martyred. His celebratory feast was on February 14th (started in the 8th century) that feast was associated with courtly love.
Why do they bring up the percent of black men in prison? Do they think that there are good men in prison that they are missing out on?? Why does any man in prison matter? What about the ones not in prison!?
Never heard anyone talk about incarceration rates in a romantic context outside the black community. Shit is absolutely crazy. No white, Asian, Hispanic or Arabic lady is out here justifying her poor outcomes in love by saying "well x% of men are in jail anyway"... Imagine how far gone a woman has to be in order to have done the mental gymnastics to arrive at that and see no issue with it. The need to be right and free of any responsibility for the modern woman is truly the most insidious side effect of the horrible chain of events, starting with the Industrial Revolution (the pacification of men and beginning of the end of the patriarchal society) and ending with the clusterfuck of romantic trauma, failure and prevailing hypergamy in the modern age.
It's just an excuse on why they pick poorly and can't get a man. Same woman who have PHD's talk about how all the "good" men are locked up because that PHD isn't getting them a man.
Can't marry a women that see you as her equal or that to selfish to think of others we gotta stop just sleeping with women just cause their pretty we gotta step up our standards men thank you Kevin for always helping elevate my thought my standards and my knowledge God bless you
What a woman always tries to do is pump the story, always the story. It keeps coming, it's never their fault, they were always the victim, and any man listening must realize that the SHE in the same old STORY will never be happy, and you will be made to pay.
I don’t believe a word many of these broads speak. As you said they are either the victim of hero of their story. Even when they were in reality the villain.
That 29 year old with 3 kids voice is SO ANNOYING. um um um followed by a bunch of gibberish. She loves the sound of her own voice and completely tunes out Kevin. When he said something, it took her 8 seconds to hear that he was talking.
I bought my girl a private chef a air bnb and a decorator , she said it was nice, wasn’t amazing wasnt mind blowing. Then when i expressed complaints she said it was amazing and she apologized….Short story I’m single
Yea they think they are special even when every single sign points to the opposite. My wife is the poster child to the extent that people wouldn't even believe our relationship is real
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Have watched a number of this guy's videos now and have yet to hear any of the ladies describe offering patience, helpfulness, tenderness for their potential husbands. A successful marriage needs all of those and much, much more if you are both going to be happy.
You ain’t even got to put them on camera you can tell by the way a female talks and responds is a wife or not off top!!!!!!!! 😂 a woman has a certain vocabulary and sound you can tell when her mother does her job correctly 💯💯💯
That’s so true Kevin! My widowed aunt is in her 70s and still looking for a good man🤔👀 What?! This is after all the eligible seniors that crossed her path over time. Wish I had better news for her.
She can find a husband. She'll just be more of a nurse than a wife. I have a neighbor who is 72 and just got married to an old army vet with health problems but full retirement and disability benefits.
@@keptbygrace6221 A husband may find her but it's unlikely for most people at 70+. Even those men in their 70s may be seeking women in our fifties or sixties.
Kevin is so right about women who can't handle conflicts
They’ll break up/divorce if it’s too much, they’re not willing to stay and fight
They think shouting louder harder and longer will win.
They win most of the verbal fights but end up losing the war. Most rip there own homes and familes apart. some do it 2,3 even 4 times. Married divorced married divorced. And don't get it blame all the men all the time.
Don't throw stones in a glass house. . .
If I new then what I know now 🤔 I've pondered over that saying for many years. Many years.
That saying was around 1000s of years ago when you get it. 😂. It's very powerful.
How can you tell or explain to someone how to travel through time. When you get it you can truly time travel. I've never been able to find the words to explain it.
If I new then what I know now hmmmmm. 😣 if you are a awake you will get it. You can turn your life around in a matter of months. Only if you really get it.
Most sayings have been around before I was born eg never trust a woman who made that up and when? It was 1000s of years ago read between the lines. My father always said never let the left hand know what the right hand is doing. That saying is very old very old. What it mean is it referring to life or women you tell me !
They think people being sick of them and leaving is winning. Then they’re surprised they have no friends or relationships.
Kevin has more paitence than me, I honestly couldn't have a conversation with a woman with 3 kids 2 different men about marriage. That ship sailed probably 10yrs ago.
@@firebirdstark weak willed women. More and more we see of this. Reminds me of an ex.
Who else is binge watching all of his shows after his passing?
I been binge watching him so much after his passing
🙋♀️ me !
I do about one a night.
I am 🤚🏽I found out about him 3 months before he passed. My husband been listening to him but never shared with me. He honestly said he thought I wouldn’t like the content. I’ve been bingeing for the last 4 days and I don’t know how I got started but I honestly can say it’s changing me like the 1st time I started listening. I’m grateful for his content!
He didn't pass. He was murdered
Your perspective and guidance helped me become a better wife. I have such a good man and I was so angry all the time. Hate that it took me so long to chill out, take a step back, and re-evaluate how I was treating him. The biggest takeaway from your show has become the most obvious to me - men want peace in their home. I never want my husband to dread walking through our front door. To be annoyed on his days off. I’m grateful he stuck with me long enough to get my act together. We’re both happier.
Facts!!! I learned while I was pregnant and engaged… calmed my ass down… got it together and boom… he couldn’t wait to marry me!! 1/1/22- we got hitched… been together 4 years
Same here!
I don’t agree with all of what Kevin says might be because I was raised by a single mom but peace is what I look for he’s right on that
Yep annt nothing worst than a nagging for nothing ass women after a long day at work in the place that’s supposed to be peace.
I did the same and my relationship is so much stronger. Thanks 🙏🏽 Kevin
"Stop getting tattoos ladies, it's ugly" Couldn't agree with Kevin more.
Amen.
Damn right
Stop with them dam lashes looking like 🧹 or blinds got your window 🤦🏿♂️
So Freakin true!!!!!!!
Noooooo! Nothing more classy than a woman with a big tattoo of all her 'keeeeds' names (in Hellvetica script) in the middle of her chest. Bonus points for a black panther on her thigh.
CEO's LOVE to bring these types of women to the company picnic.
Sarcasm: OFF
Raise by a single mother,.. But I've learned more about women in these past 2 years listening to Kevin then my whole up bringing 😩
Wow
@@gizmojenkins courage to admit that he was raised by a single mother? I really don’t understand why ppl think that is a diss!
Pitiful.
@@gizmojenkins still don’t see why anyone should be ashamed to admit that
Seek GOD for wisdom. He has good points but a man must live life on his terms. He mixes some facts with theories and opinions. Pay attention to a woman and your observation will answer more questions than asking her foolishly what she brings to a table. You know why…… because people will lie. Men and women too. But her communication, how she presents herself, how she talks to people, her nature and character will show. If she rude and tempered with others but not you ……run bruh because she gone flip one day
1.71M SUBS today!!!! I found him very late, and have watched everything. I subbed in at 1.68M.
This is WONDERFUL!!!! His message Grows.
Over…
27 - sell
30 - 50% off
35 - clearance
40 - outlet
50 - goodwill, salvation army basically give it to charity 😂😂
K.S the goat 🐐
😂🤣☠️
Walk away and cut a chick off... this has ABSOLUTELY been my downfall. TWICE, I've married women who if I was being honest with myself, I should have left long before. Sunken cost fallacy... it happens in men as well. I left them both, as they were absolutely draining me. However, my fault is knowing that beforehand... but believing 'they' also knew my worth to their lives. Had I KS's videos 15yrs ago... I would have been belted and girded against this self delusional idiocy.
Yup, I paused at 33:30 when Kevin said "you better learn how to cut a chick off..". Too many men and wmn stay in dysfunctional or dead end relationships wasting time without thinking about it.
Same here ...myself 14yrs. Thanks KS for debunking this negative narrative of us brothas.
Your story mirrors mine to a tee. 1 marriage 20yrs. 1 LTR 14yrs. They drained me dry and got comfortable. Thought I would never leave. Until I did. I’m 49yrs old. Once a man tastes freedom there no going back. OG’s get the last laugh
It has been said if you set ground rules early, things will go better overall. They are either with it or they move on without wasting everyone's time.
I 2nd that!!
I ran into Kevin on youtube after his passing. He's still helping men even in his death! Never met u but wish u were still here.
I honestly believe the Matrix killed Mr. Samuels. He was undoing 50 years of problems in his community. He will be missed.
Same! 4wks now since I have watched him!
same
@@JBCCT01 q😊q
Last night, I took my wife to a restaurant & we saw a few tables of single women having "Galentines Day" groups saying all that "I don't need a man" BS, being loud & laughing. But this guy proposed to his GF & One dame congratulated them, went back to her table with her friends& broke down crying about why she can't get a man to where attention in the restaurant shifted to her crying instead of the couple's engagement.
Wow that's crazy...
That’s nuts, but it makes sense. Women love to act like they don’t want what they want
well that's awkward.
Sound like you made this up 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damn!!!! I wonder did her Single friends give her advice on how to land a husband ? My advice ditch those Single girlfriends and get out in the game by herself and find her a husband ! I been married 34 years and it’s good to go into your golden years with a spouse! Lot of women will grow old with their college degrees!
I just had an "a-ha" moment... I've always wondered to myself, why does Kevin impress the idea of a cookbook so hard? Why is that defining? I own many cook books, but I never use them, I have them packed away. I have been cooking since I was very young, I remember my grandmother would cook everything from scratch, I would ask her if she had a recipe and she said "No, its in my head."
Now that's how I am, I can cook a great many things, well, but its all "in my head". Occasionally people ask me for my recipe to something, and I struggle to sit down and actually write something out to give them. I feel like, I have to show them, because it's instinct versus intention at this point. My "a-ha" moment, was realizing that the cook book is not for me. For me to sit down, write my recipes down, to make a conscious effort to start keeping record of the things I make, has nothing at all to do with me. Its for my children. Their children. This is something physical I can pass down, so when I am not here, they can know how to make the things they enjoy, properly, without wasting their ingredients and time. It's a way to pass down apart of our culture, which is in the recipes, when I am no longer around.
So, Mr Samuels, I finally understand and I will start to keep track of my recipes. Thank you!
Love it! Thank you for sharing!
Nothing we do here is a about us...it's about the ones around us, and the ones we will leave behind!
Of course we'll get to laugh...have fun and enjoy ourselves while we're here, but whats the purpose of your existence when you only think of helping yourself?
That's right... its for the children. The best and fondest memories I have as a boy, was sitting and talking with my grandmother in Hungarian as she prepared meals, baked bread and made homemade wine - while I helped her make and eat it too.
I think it's also about teaching daughters how to be wives. Not just hoping they subconsciously pick up things from you but actively teaching them the importance of being a caretaker and supportive wife. Father's make a big deal about teaching their sons how to be a good man and a good husband. Women should lean into their daughters the same way men Lean into their Sons. A cookbook from mom to daughter is like a Watch from father to son. It's a beautiful thing. 🙂
@@josephzsoka874 As a boy, did she allow you to taste the wine?
@@kagnewcobra5228 LMAO...yup ! ..she always gave me an ounce or two with a snack.
Nailed it. Women today do not want to be wives. They want to be in short term situationships. 💯
@Michelle Cleave Ma'am that is an anecdotal and generally ambiguous occurrence and this illusory fear and scarcity mindset most individuals adhere to is the very inhibition on why most relationships fail. When you operate predicated entirely on fear...well as the adage denotes you receive what you give. Stop operating on the most negative of outcomes and ponder on why that's the outcome you receive.
@@jayrahvisions she right though and ima man that’s what MOST YOUNG MEN DO ! We both stirred the wrong direction and its sad ! You said all that smart shit to probably describe yourself which is cool ! But its alot of lame ahh dudes to tbh
@@YourFavoriteCoolCousin it definitely is annoying how both genders have fallen over the last 5-6 decades and just want to put the blame on each other now. Both men and women have forgotten their place in this world.
@@Bella-Mae0422 honestly when i started watching these videos it was entertainment but my third eye just started seeing stuff ! Its alot of men who really dont know how to think with nothing besides their dik head reading comments i feel from a distance how lost and delusional both sides be lol the entertainment is in the comment section tbh i pause video and smh while reading
@@YourFavoriteCoolCousin agreed! As a woman myself when I first watched this I understood the men's perspective and still do but at the same time the more I watch these videos I see how the men on here are just as shallow and ignorant as the modern women are today. Women are shallow when it comes to a man's money and financial crap and men are shallow when to comes to a woman's looks and youth. KS makes alot of good points but he's putting it into these mens head that a woman is no longer any good after 30. That's simply not true.
"When you are rich, women, will find something cute on you."
Les Brown. unlimited.
Facts on faxs lol
To make it seem like it’s not solely for the money and lifestyle lmao
Yeah, it's called a wallet. 😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄
@@rm5282 omg🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
If a chick is hot, y all find something psotive to say bout her.
Always love hearing him ask that question that makes the ladies look baffled.....after they rant and rave about what they want and what they deserve and he hit them with........well what does the type of man you want expect from a woman........stops them in their tracks every time
Ladies, it's very telling when you use the word "feel", because only a blind person uses that sense predominantly to navigate through life.
Ouch!!! Ugly truth!!!
Damn son that shit got some heat , can fell it all the way up here in Canada 😆.
Very well worded .
Majority of women make moves unbeknownst to the reality of dualism. Meaning, reality only give us "two" choices and everything else is escapism. Examples includes, but not limited to, right/wrong, up/down, positive/negative, left/right, reality/fantasy, male/female, like/dislike, submissive/unsubmissive, just to name a few. In closing, people may grant you excuses, but reality will not.
Lmao wooaaah that was ugly 😂😂 they aint gon like that one
Bars
For every woman on air that wants a husband, there’s a man out there that she knows that would make them a wonderful husband, but she don’t want that man! 😆😆😆
Catdog
Got that shit right!
Yes. They love fckng bad boyz. Husbands get laughed at.
exactly she’s gone let tyrone run threw her 50 times first
Imagine a business that has never thought about what its customers want. The business ignores customer feedback and gets hostile when customers speak up. The business doesn't put any effort into marketing or product development. The business has a large surplus of over-priced inventory that it refuses to discount, even though the inventory is about to become obsolete, which means that its value will fall off a cliff. The business has a ton of debt and other liabilities... but is also wildly optimistic that a wealthy investor will bail it out... even though it doesn't know any wealthy investors and is on the verge of bankruptcy.
That is how many of these callers approach dating, and they seem shocked when they are told that's no way to run a business.
Kitchen Nightmares
Love the analogy!
Best analogy I've seen !
im a business major and this explanation is fucking huge bro big up
Love ❤️ this!!
My man bought me an official cookbook for Valentine's Day, super excited. I had all my recipes in a binder but they are about to be so organized now. Your advice has helped me get into this healthy relationship. Started watching you last January and I have changed SO MUCH.
Nice! I hope you find some fun recipes to share with your subscribers
@@LeMan8o4 Thank you, working on it! Baked so many sweets yesterday.
Well now that you actually have a cookbook from your man, “I don’t need a cookbook “actually applies here without ridicule 😂😂😂
@@duckfoutube1761 Right!😂 I don't need a cookbook bc I already got one!
Outstanding!
“One of the biggest problems with men today is you don’t know how to walk away.” I’ve def been guilty. No more though.
Thank you. Never sacrifice your self respect and integrity for these hyenas!
Never reward bad behavior...we owe them no understanding.
It works both ways
@@vickyy.9880 Have you ever noticed when women are having a conversation about their issues, you never see a man jump in screaming, "me too...me too!"?
Will Smith needs to read this comment haha
I agree wholeheartedly. It takes courage to walk away yet strength to stay away!
Great show interesting points masculinity in women can’t be a component for a healthy relationship an Alpha will bounce before it starts ✌🏾
Any man thinking with his brain instead of his hormones will leave the moment he spots those masculine red flags in women.
Or waste her time and deal with her behind closed doors... just don't date what u do not want
@AZME facts 🚪👍
Ying and yang that's how heterosexual relationships work
@@htsyami 🎯🎯🎯
They don't deserve explanations. Let them suffer the consequences of their choices.
Man I’m proud of dude mane been watching three yrs
I’m at a little over a year but what a godsend he is!
@@erictoomer5665 Thanks to @Oshay Duke Jackson, I got to know who KS is.
I had been reluctant for a min to check him out but as @Oshay consistently referenced him in his RP and Celebrity Junk videos, I finally decided to give his channel a try (that was sometime in November 2020).
By this time, the Average at best video was going viral, but for me I was more curious to check out his earlier *mhens styling and fragrance content, which I binge watched for 2 months.
All this to say, I have never looked back! The Godfather has totally changed my outlook towards life because he is the TRUTH!
It’s been a journey! From fragrances to counseling men… to now counseling BW!
It’s all appreciated! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Females think 35 is the new 21 a lot of females have unrealistic expectations gotta be 6’3” make 200k a year, dunk a basketball, read my mind when I’m hungry and he has to go to church 8 days a week😂😂😂💯
Yup and they wont fully follow scripture when it comes to submission
I never expected a man to be that tall or make anywhere near that much when I was 21 and I’m 6”2’ and child free. i always dated men shorter than me and never considered a man’s income when selecting a partner. Maybe I should have cuz those men didn’t even appreciate me. Should’ve passed them all over
Not Dunk a basketball lol
@Michelle Cleave sounds like you waiting for her to slip to get back in or waiting for him to come to his senses. Look, it wasn’t meant to be. If you did all of those things, he got scared because he saw you as a wife when he wasn’t ready to have one. Listen, don’t stop doing what you would do for a man. Especially if you enjoy it. Before you get into something new, you need to let go of the old.
@Michelle Cleave all do respect it, it sounds like you have a poor choice in men
God damn. Paradigm fuckin' shifter. This man is a beautiful genius. Handsome. I'll be damned. Love you, Kevin. Rest in peace, brother. You'll always be remembered and changed the world with your gravitas, gift of gab, wisdom and class. May your spirit guide this generation and future generations of strong lions and tigers. Let's make changes CIA/FBI. God bless you KS. Thank you for your humanitarian services. Rest my brother, rest.
miss kevin...glad we have all these videos, but we still lost a giant
At 35, you should be at the 50% off rack. At 40, you should be on clearance. At 50, you should be at the outlet. At 60, you should be at the SALVATION ARMY 🤣😭💀💀
Ty
most women are from the flea market
You forgot at 30 that it’s time to sell, he never mentioned 60 😂
Don’t let any of RC Blakes fans see this, they’ll call you a bitter hurt man 😂😂😂😂😂
Over 60 is the scratch and dent section of the thrift store
As a woman over 40, black may not prematurely crack....but it still sags. There's no escaping gravity. Great show!!!!!!
Exactly
Yeah, that resilient skin may just end up holding a bunch of extra adipose together.
Problem is to much focus is on the skin of a woman and women get court up in ego, but they didn’t want to be wife’s and build with a man so now they age pretty or not but empty, and unfulfilled
Yeah it definitely sags especially if you continue to put on weight
So damn true. I think Black women have an issue with age. They age better than most, but inevitably you still will age. If you look at pics of someone at 25 and then of them in their 80s. It damn near looks like two different people. That's the way our bodies are set up. To age. 20 yr old titties and lol 80 yr old titties are damn sure not the same...🤣🤣
Time stamps
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵
3:06 🎬 Show Starts, Monologue, Wait I Thought You Were So Special
15:45 Stats
23:24 Throwback video revisited
29:55 Back to Monologue
1:07:06 1st Caller age 29, 2nd Caller Quinn age 36
1:45:29 3rd Caller age 23, 4th Caller age 24 , (break song) Conversation (Instrumental Version) By Sionya
1:56:28 Outro
Preciate it bro! Shout to KS for a great show
Your one of best people
Thx from Germany
Day Just started when stream stopped
Thx mvp, love from Belgium
The goat has entered
you're husband material
I heavily agree with KS on walking away and not arguing with modern women... You can point out all the facts/stats/data you want to, and it will not make a bit of difference. It is just a waste of time trying to argue - Just walk away. Give them your silence, absence, and indifference.
Absolutely.
Once the scene starts looking like a soap opera i'm out!
That right there...
wow! powerful. im writing this down
That damn rambling she does without taking a breath would drive me fucking crazy! The deflections and loud pitch she has like so many sisters, I'd walk away after one minute!!
I noticed American women have problems being direct, kevin asks very straight forward questions. Just be direct.
Where are you from?
@@DeKnight95 The Caribbean
It’s often the only time they aren’t aggressive or in their masculine energy.
And even then it comes off as disingenuous, defensive or deflection.
Yes they do!! It is soon annoying 😒
That’s because they are preparing to lie 🤣🤣🤣
Great show! We appreciate it you bro...keep pushing! RQQ
This man is doing God's work. Respect
I 👍 agree...
Indeed, he is.
Factsssss
Facts
He's not doing the Lord's work but he is putting many hard truths out there. Enough truth to make some tears flow down because of reality.
33 is the cutoff in my opinion. It's gonna take at least a year to two years for these women to get to know a man well enough to want to have a child with him. By then they're looking at a geriatric pregnancy. It only gets more difficult after that because men realize they aren't realistically going to be able to have a family with a woman over 35. So what's in it for the man? A roommate that takes half of everything you own when she decides to move out?
These women wasted every damn bit of time they had. Spare me the crocodile tears.
I cant wait for the boss babes to age out!.....lol
Amen and at 35 they think they are settling because the guys they really want are giving them nothing but sexual attention. It's truly funny to watch
Unfortunately, almost all unmarried women by that age are broken. Mental illness, shape shifters desperate to tell a man what he wants to hear, masculine, super high body count, single mothers, overweight/obese, and bitter/ruined from past relationships. Pretty much all of them fit at least one (and probably many) of these attributes.
I’d say meeting a girl by around 25 is the cutoff for most, and even that is a stretch with the current culture poisoning them.
To me a woman past 30 is old. Not the kind of women you'd want to settle down with.
I would never consider marrying a women past 27🤷🏾✊🏾.
The Matriarchy has some SERIOUS explaining to do as the average American BW earns less than $50k per year.
Yep,,that's why the all want high earning men cause those hyenas are broke. That.s why theyre complaining about men not asking them out anymore. No more free dinner and drinks...lol they love to flex
Yea the main point NOBODY wants to talk about
Can’t put a price on a piece of mind… women will rather do it themselves than be bothered with a man that ain’t about nothing
@@Osunshoney409
That explains why only 1 out of 4 black women will never be married yet 80% of you are having children out of wedlock and end up "doing it by yourself ". Choosing sex with pookie and Ray Ray over building a family with average earning men. Make it make sense.
@@Osunshoney409 Is that why there are so many single mothers in the black community?
If you lose money … you didn’t lost nothing
If you lose health …you have lost something
We lost something valuable when we lost Kevin
He meant SANITY for the absolutely mentally Ill American Women’s community
They killed this man
Men get post nut clarity. Women get post child clarity
Damn that was a bar
😂😂😂😂😂
Damn!
😂😂😂😂✌🏽
Genius!
Amazing a grown a** woman that is 29 years old.....saying she is trying to grow up!? With three children! Seriously this is scary..... nothing is funny about this at all!
Shows how families have failed to prepare many for adulthood.
3 kid's, 29 🤔 done... She'll be looked at as fun
A Woman's SMV Chart
25yrs+ Time to sell
30yrs+ it's 50% off
35yrs+ Clearance
40yrs+ Outlet Mall
50yrs+ Goodwill
Life is so short 😆😂😂
Damn🤣💀
Basically, they seem to forget that their sexual prime basically starts around 15 when they should be looking for a guy in high school that they might be able to take seriously, and from there they have another 10 years or so from 15 in the height of their prime. If you reach 25 if you’re still at Mary, go back 100 years, you’d be considered an old maiden
🤣🔥👍
🤣😂
A man living reckless In his young days, ends up dead or in jail. A woman living reckless in her youth, leaves her a single mother and unwanted by decent men but also having higher expectations.
And this is the real reason men and women don't look at life the same.
Damn that's it in a nutshell! Bottom line women need to understand to want to be equal to a man, Lord forbid they have the superiority complex, means you want death as a consequence to your fucquery, and they don't want that.
Facts 💯💀
@@raytooz9383 I think they have a hard time even imagining it.
You forgot one for men .. or ends up homeless.
Powerful statement!🔥
You are absolutely right on this, Us men are becoming better versions of themselves, while women are de-evolving into angry objects...
Angry birds lol
So true , the just met u and they are looking to argue......and as a man u should be proving yourself
👍🏽My man!! ♓ Season round the corner!🙌🏽
have to implement watching Kevin's channel regularly, this helps a lot to inform me about the adult world as a 15 year old
You’re cheating lol good move though
You are well ahead of the Game of adult, relationship life.
Smart Move.
Take notes, child!
Prayers for you and a blessed journey through life brother, or sister.
You will learn more here in the manosphere in a day than you would in a life time of watching TV, regardless if you are a young man or a young lady. Best wishes to you.
10 pushups for every "i feel like" Summer is coming lets get it folks 💪🏾 Hope they don't steal my comment again lol
Summer? Where do you live? There's 3 metres of snow and hurricane-like winds here in parts of Northern Europe. Its February! Summer. We really are different...🤔
You will surely be ripped after 10 shows 💪🏿
10 pushups for every “I feel like!” They’ll look like a body builder in 3 weeks. 😂😂🤣😂
I'm going to be swoll🤣😂🤣😂
@@georgebusybee1497 Hell, we already swolled from the "I feel likes" on all the previous videos 😅😅😅
This show was very well balanced and smooth. The women were in a space of wanting to learn. And the show didn't seem to drag on just flowed nicely.
At 30:03 and nearly ten mins into Saved me hours and couple bucks on therapy just hearing your words.
I was brought down a lot in my past relationships and i wouldn't admit it. Still saving for therapy. Thank you so much for sharing this understanding.
I remember that 70 year old woman that had decided she would be ready by 72 to accept a HVM in her life😂😂😂😂
What show was that?
70???? 72???? Wow. What show was this?
😂 good luck with that
😂😂😂
I took my girlfriend out last night to a nice Italian restaurant.
I got dressed up - in a suit and tie...she had a nice tight dress.
I noticed we were getting looks from the GALENTINE'S DAY group of 8 who didn't have male dates.
I posted a pic in my community chat of them LOL.
Dating and marriage are quickly becoming ELITIST INSTITUTIONS!!!
"nice tight dress"
you are lucky man. Lotta guys dont have a women that dress that way for their guy
Interesting how Kevin masterfully trains the 2nd caller to communicate effectively and to answer a direct question with a direct answer.
She likes to talk alot with no purpose
Be careful the word( train) is a trigger... women don't like that word unless it's about some type of job training... training at a gym... dog training... or potty training... a man in a relationship can't (train) a woman to do anything LOL
And according to AJ the baby boy actress it's okay for a man to run a (train) on you!! It was a beautiful dance!!😍
I’ve seen Jesse Lee Peterson do this too. It’s fascinating and I wish more women knew how to just answer a g damn question
@@kidasingh820 I use that word very intentionally. If they're triggered, that's their problem. We don't wanna hear that sob story BS when we want a simple yes or no
The reason why women especially in the Atlantic area are so educated with bachelors and masters degrees yet make very little money is because of these degree mills out there where anybody and everybody can get a 4.0 and a college degree with very little effort. The professional world has caught on to this about a decade ago from schools like devry, westwood, ITT tech etc. The degrees are worthless but the debt is real. This is why you see somebody with a communications degree that can't communicate. An economics degree and you're a bartender.
Shout out to Alexandria Ocasio Cortez
@@duckfoutube1761 and her phenomenal knowledge and education around economics LOL.
True! It definitely depends on what people are getting the degree in as well. Most black people that I’ve seen in college are getting liberal arts degrees in business, communications, psychology. These degrees will not get you more than 45,000-50,000 a year at best.
James Thor 😂😂
He's right, my definition of a successful life has always been a healthy marriage, solid relationship with God, raising whole & healthy children, & making sure we keep our mental health in tact. I've always wanted to be a stay at home mom but things occurred in a different way & I had to get out there and support my family. I still desire to be an amazing wife, a home maker, & have a healthy blended family. I feel bad I took forever to go to therapy but I'm thankful I got over my fear.
I’m pulling for you. What matters is you’re making the effort and realize what you need to do
I agree
Solid relationship with God is key.
A grad student who has no idea what the definition of "predicament " is? I know we have a broken education system now, but I had no idea it's gotten that bad that a student could get a bachelor's degree and be accepted into a graduate level program without the equivalent vocabulary of a high school graduate from a few decades ago.
I have a GED. When the plandemicc hit. Most people went out and bought all the tissue 🙄
Her issue is no guys will date her because she believes she is on a higher level. Men have wised up and the dating market is evaporating...."No soup for you"
Trash schools. This is why there's a high premium placed on graduating from a top tier school.
Ok I heard this part, and this is actually just women needing to always have a problem in their life. She didn't have an issue, but still wanted to call in and talk about "her issue". Just like the other woman who dwelled on her trauma and her therapist tells her she's fine. Women make trauma a part of their identity rather than something that just happened.
Probably a “pandemic degree”. Masters of the Zoom
This is one of Kevin's most valuable videos to date. Great show!
I remember a woman I worked with was standing by the door waiting for me to open it for her. I said, trying to be funny, "You gone make sure I act like a man." She responded, "No, I'm just a lady at all times."
That always stuck with me.
I am a gentleman but I would have opened the door and closed it behind me. 😄 🤣 😂 😆
@@rm5282 yep
Mate I've only been following you for last two years since covid started really but so glad I found this content, you've done great to try and be true , keep on making vids 👍🤟
Caller 1: I respect her honesty and willingness to admit her flaws. It’s so common for women to vent too much to friends/family. Those folks become cheering sections for her to leave the relationship. The cycle continues as she often bounces from relationship to relationship.
If government-guaranteed school loans were abolished, that would solve the problem. No more 40k student debt for worthless degrees, as no private bank would finance that...
I agree women over 30 need to prove themselves to you! Men have always been the prize.
One fact Kevin made ,men Will go down a notch in looks and up for cooperation all day .
I thought it was just my wife that had a painfully hard time getting to the point. Talking to her sometimes is like asking her to go the neighbors house to pick up something and she gets in the car, drives to her job, gets on the phone, asks the neighbor if she can come over and then drives to the neighbors house which is 50 yards away from our front door. Painful!
Men everywhere feel your pain.
We can fix this if we don’t tolerate with our daughters. American men allowed this to happen. Our culture communicates in the feminine. We need to require it to be in the masculine again. It wasn’t very long ago
Yesterday "Valentines day" my wife and I had planned a very nice date night. After our dinner when we were relaxing out back near the pool with a fire as it was 66 degrees and a cloudless sky with a full moon. My wife's phone started blowing up, she ended up shutting it off. My wife must have gotten 10 calls in the span of 15 minutes from some of her single friends who were very sad and wanted to talk. When Kevin ask are you getting the out comes you want, and they say no...I just smile to myself, and think that those women do not get what they want, but they do get what they deserve...
Hey man I feel you, micro was busy on Valentine’s Day but I still took the time to go get her some white chocolate dipped strawberries and some Valentine’s Day gear so she could still feel special even though she was busy, she loved it so much and I can only think about how there are so many women out there who think they deserve that, but won’t even put in the minimum amount of work required
Or was it another man calling her?
@@TRADINGTHEGOLD Not called for.
@@TRADINGTHEGOLD 😄, shady ass
Somebody wanna tell
Him?🤦🏾♂️
FYI- ladies, my Dad had a eleventh grade education, worked the cotton fields of south Georgia due death of father. My father was the oldest child of six kids. He joined the Army to get more money for my Grandmother and mom. We moved to Atlanta in September of 1963( three kids,grandmom and wife). That common man had two jobs for over thirty years to take care of his family. That common man had two good retirement plans upon his death. That common man took care of my mom from the grave over thirty years until her death. Ladies you should be looking for a good common man making $40 to $60 per year, with a good retirement plan(on his job for 20-30 years). Ladies if you find one, you should fight ten snakes and two lions over him. He is a keeper.Tks Kevin for your platform. 🥰
The level of injustices black baby mommas are doing to their own children is extremely disheartening smh
Amen
I actually feel bad for women since listening to Kevin. Its a tough situation alotta girls find themselves in. The window is only a few years for girls it seems
@@goodbro7846 18 - 30 isn’t a few years! That’s peak SMV (Sexual Marketplace Value) for women.
Kevin suggests that women who want to be wives take actions that meet those desires early on.
Hence so many women of other ethnic groups get married earlier than BW because they respect the leadership of the men in their ethnic group.
BW are the only group who regularly ridicule their own for wanting to get married.
@@LeMan8o4 18-30 for women that take care of their bodies, and health. Let's be real,there are alot of women in early 20s overweight and drink on the regular. That window gets smaller.
@@LeMan8o4 buddy 12 years is only a few years LOL
K/S speaking facts, I’m on here getting educate to make sure my daughter makes right moves for her life.
Just keep her away from feminism- it's a cancer on women and decimated the black community. Conservative Christian/Faith based values are making a comeback
You need to show her a heathy marriage where you are submitting to a man program happily.
Majority of women make moves unbeknownst to the reality of dualism. Meaning, reality only give us "two" choices and everything else is escapism. Examples includes, but not limited to, right/wrong, up/down, positive/negative, left/right, reality/fantasy, male/female, like/dislike, just to name a few. In closing, men/women may grant excuses, but reality will not.
@@Ruckerpark98 - Facts brother! Show the example instead of only telling the daughters what to do.
@@Ruckerpark98 word! Stop passing your kids off to learn from someone vs their own parents! They gotta be the example, not Kevin
Women practice putting yourself in a man’s shoes. 3kids 2 diff dads, talk too much etc.would you accept this from a man. Damn
Kevin was so funny lol. It’s so sad he passed
Keeping your appearance and money together gone always have you in the winning position fellas 💯.
best way to put it
You sounding like Castillo bro LMAO. "Sniper out now on all digital platforms". It's facts though most men barely look presentable tbh.
You saved my freedom and life THANK YOU GOD FATHER. I AM MARRIED TO A HYENA. BUT I AM ON MY WAY OUT TO GET MY LIFE BACK .THANK YOU
Wow a HYena, strong words! Damm sounds like hell!
I can relate.
Caller: I'm 24......
KS: Live to be 25 shit I don't know!!
😂😂😂😂
Japan goes through the same over inflated value ego of women seeking men of high value the superficial stuff they get the name kotastu-hensachi. But here in japan they are not direspectful to men
I see that less here in Tanzania Africa but I do see women that are ready and have the necessary skills to become a wife.
I have noticed a massive increase in homeless women around the neighborhoods that I've never seen before... 😳 It's Starting...
Yes me too
That’s very sad. I hope single women start learning at younger ages.
There is no way that Asian lady is a size 4 🙄 I’m 5’1, 109 lbs & a size 2-4
I went to dinner last night for Valentine’s with my Fiancé and what I saw blew my mind. Every table was occupied with couples or families. What was surprising, there where mostly blacks men there and only myself and another gentleman had black women. All the rest of the black men had different races of women. Things are seriously changing and black men are doing something else with there resources and time.
Valentine's is all the time with me and my hubby. Dont need to wait until one special day to be treated extra special We fo that to each other all year long.
@@rfreeman7139 completely understand that, my fiancé and I go out every Friday for the last 3 yrs. It’s something I love doing and she enjoys it as well but we went out Monday because she will be out of town on Friday. (Scratching my head) just dawn on me she got her dinner date before she left town. 🤦🏽♂️
The only women I feel sorry for are the ones that lose infants or toddlers. Even that is circumstantial. All these others have to deal with the consequences of their choices. Ain't no superman wearing a cape out here waiting for your run down goods.
@Michelle Cleave This isn't about exceptions to the rule. You can find one of anything in an attempt to refute a point but how disingenuous of an argument is that?
@Michelle Cleave Get therapy. There is no excuse for any of us to live our entire lives as a victim. God doesn't endorse that mindset and neither do I!
@@ascensiondimension7119 Thank you! They always jump in with the what-about-isms, then move to color purpling of the black relationship/ family experience.
Damn that shyt is getting old!!
@Michelle Cleave but that's rare though like very rare
Women will never understand that smacking their lips together during a conversation, is the ultimate turn off
I'm watching the first caller and I have absolutely no idea how any man is able to get past the voice, the anger, the aggression, the combativeness, the raised volume. The destruction of the language? THIS IS A NURSE WITH A DEGREE?
How does anyone tolerate that for literally 5 seconds, let alone to the bedroom? And she's acknowledging that she's learned blah blah, so we're getting her at her absolute best?
Where has all this wild delusion come from? For BOTH men and women!!!! Why would you touch that? She can't speak clear or clean English and she's a nurse?
I'm a woman myself but why tf can't any of these women answer a question??? Hell u ask there age and they'll say some shit like I'll be 30 in June.... wth............ so in you're 29!! Why is that so hard
Lol this is how it is 99% of the time.
When she said "Thailand", I was like huh?? Have you seen "Zoom To Thailand" RUclips channel😂😂😂
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"In Philadelphia it's worth 50 bucks!" That's a hard bar referencing Trading Places!!
KS has to be the most nostalgic youtuber
@@macman9689 For sure! The man be dropping references all the time! From the 300! to Golden Girls to Trading Places and so on…
Dude have me feeling like Captain America “I got that reference!” 🤣🤣
It’s not that women don’t want to settle. It’s more like women don’t want to SETTLE DOWN!
I'm a married woman and I don't care about Valentine's Day. Love me everyday. Give me the money or invest that money you will spend for them roses and overpriced candy. I don't need you to post what you got me--nor do I need to post what you got me at any point. I know you love me and I love you and that's all that matters to me. All that showboating means nothing, especially when we're giving and receiving all through the year. BUT if you're going to celebrate it, men should get flowers and candy too. Who said/made Valentine's day JUST for women? Besides, I think some guy/priest was beheaded on Feb 14th way back in the day for this "Hallmark/MadisonAvenue Holiday."
Same. We enjoy vacations and buying things for our children. Trinkets just don't impress me. Like you said, he treats me well every day and I do the same for him.
@@keptbygrace6221 Love it!!
Invest my $50 I spent was way worth seeing a smile on my wife’s and daughters faces. Money comes and goes. Moments memories don’t
St Valentines Day Massacre in Boston , Massachusetts. This day started from murder not love. I been stopped celebrating this when I was younger.
Yes he was a Saint in the 3rd century that was martyred. His celebratory feast was on February 14th (started in the 8th century) that feast was associated with courtly love.
"Men need to learn to walk away" MAJOR!!
Debt Free @ 36 y.o. Stay financially free my brothers....no 1 can touch you especially the government. Keep that score above 700 too.
5'2", 140 ibs, dress size 4? My fiance even said, "the math doesn't add up."
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Why do they bring up the percent of black men in prison? Do they think that there are good men in prison that they are missing out on?? Why does any man in prison matter? What about the ones not in prison!?
Good question
Cause they the bad boys. Just ask their cell mates. 🤣🤣
Never heard anyone talk about incarceration rates in a romantic context outside the black community. Shit is absolutely crazy. No white, Asian, Hispanic or Arabic lady is out here justifying her poor outcomes in love by saying "well x% of men are in jail anyway"... Imagine how far gone a woman has to be in order to have done the mental gymnastics to arrive at that and see no issue with it. The need to be right and free of any responsibility for the modern woman is truly the most insidious side effect of the horrible chain of events, starting with the Industrial Revolution (the pacification of men and beginning of the end of the patriarchal society) and ending with the clusterfuck of romantic trauma, failure and prevailing hypergamy in the modern age.
It's just an excuse on why they pick poorly and can't get a man. Same woman who have PHD's talk about how all the "good" men are locked up because that PHD isn't getting them a man.
Can't marry a women that see you as her equal or that to selfish to think of others we gotta stop just sleeping with women just cause their pretty we gotta step up our standards men thank you Kevin for always helping elevate my thought my standards and my knowledge God bless you
What a woman always tries to do is pump the story, always the story. It keeps coming, it's never their fault, they were always the victim, and any man listening must realize that the SHE in the same old STORY will never be happy, and you will be made to pay.
I don’t believe a word many of these broads speak. As you said they are either the victim of hero of their story. Even when they were in reality the villain.
That 29 year old with 3 kids voice is SO ANNOYING. um um um followed by a bunch of gibberish. She loves the sound of her own voice and completely tunes out Kevin. When he said something, it took her 8 seconds to hear that he was talking.
I think we have to account for social conditioning in concert with how we were raised. This is where the "grace" KS talks about comes into play.
they dong have grave for "broke" men so i guess let them die out like they have done to men for centuries
I bought my girl a private chef a air bnb and a decorator , she said it was nice, wasn’t amazing wasnt mind blowing. Then when i expressed complaints she said it was amazing and she apologized….Short story I’m single
Sorry to hear that fam but great story telling, funny actually 🤣
@@jamesthomas4787 lol
Oh wow! I wish a guy done that for me. You are so sweet. She didn't deserve u.
Yea they think they are special even when every single sign points to the opposite. My wife is the poster child to the extent that people wouldn't even believe our relationship is real
He hit the nail on the head. Theze single women are lying to themselves.
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My WIFE and I went to a resort, got a spa treatment, and a couple of fancy dinners. Good luck Shirley.
Wish I had a Dad like Kevin growing up or even a Step Dad like him.
Have watched a number of this guy's videos now and have yet to hear any of the ladies describe offering patience, helpfulness, tenderness for their potential husbands.
A successful marriage needs all of those and much, much more if you are both going to be happy.
Yep I guard my seed with my life, I have assets now and 3 weeks from closing on my second property I can’t mess up
You ain’t even got to put them on camera you can tell by the way a female talks and responds is a wife or not off top!!!!!!!! 😂 a woman has a certain vocabulary and sound you can tell when her mother does her job correctly 💯💯💯
At 5'2 145 pounds for a asian girl is fat. She needs to get in the gym. In Cali it's bad asian girls she can't compete.
That’s so true Kevin! My widowed aunt is in her 70s and still looking for a good man🤔👀 What?! This is after all the eligible seniors that crossed her path over time. Wish I had better news for her.
Lmao I didn’t mean to laugh but damn 🤦🏾♀️
@@Mantoa_R91 streets don't play smh LOL
She can find a husband. She'll just be more of a nurse than a wife. I have a neighbor who is 72 and just got married to an old army vet with health problems but full retirement and disability benefits.
@@keptbygrace6221 A husband may find her but it's unlikely for most people at 70+. Even those men in their 70s may be seeking women in our fifties or sixties.