I see this went over a lot of people's head. At no point did this man say he condones cheating. She asked a dumb insecure pickmesha question and he gave her a honest answer that she was capable of understanding. He read the room and spoke in a way the audience and perhaps the viewers could digest. You don't have to be a part of a situation (i.e cheating) to make an intellectual observation. There's no victims here. A person can only do what you allow or accept. Evaluate yourself.
Many women esp those who missed their time, are steady creating delusions that a man likes them just by being a good friend, big brother or lending a helping hand. Men need to avoid such "trap a man" pickmeshas with no self worth. They will blackmail a "too nice guy" in a quick second. It happened to 3 men I know. Wise men never get trapped like nice guys.
@@modernwomanTv 1 the guy didn't know game or play his part, 2 you shouldn't be having sex with girls you dont intend to stay with nor have a crystal clear understanding of what the situation entails. 3 friends got blk mailed over some booty? Guy #1 didnt put guy 2&3 on game? Get better friends
He gave the psychology of how he can like you more but why it doesn’t matter in an emotionally intelligent way. I hope these women with low self esteem listen closely to this bc it’s not a compliment
His girlfriend is in no better position than his other woman. He’s unfaithful, dishonest and disloyal to both! He run to his other woman whenever his girlfriend get on his nerve! He says he don’t like her but he love her what kinda shit is that. He’s not a good man for neither! Just like the other woman shouldn’t deal with that, neither should the girlfriend! I wouldn’t want to be in neither one of those positions!
@@jovelhamilton601absolutely missed it bg a country mile. It's laughable how he's clearly explaining to her the mindset of the supposed boyfriend who likes her more than said girlfriend. Even the platitudes he gave about side piece being able to slide in, squeeze herself in without upsetting what he got going on was a thinly veiled insult. Trip just basically explained that (a) old girl is delusional (b) Boyfriend is using her for the convenience she offers How is this hard to miss
I RANNNN AROUND THE ROOM SIIIRRRR‼️‼️‼️ YESSSSS PUT IT RAW JUST LIKE THAT, SO THEY(women) CAN KNOW...YES HE LIKES YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T REQUIRE MUCH(easy) AND YOU WILLINGLY FIT YOUR SELF INTO HIS LIFE & WHAT HE GOT GOIN. And yes I re-watched it like 3 times🤷🏾♀️😅 The breakdown of it all was just so beautiful lord lol🙌🏾
But you know what? His girl may not require much either. I know a guy who has a girl and he doesn't do more for his girl than he does the side chick 🤷🏾♀️. Just because you're the actual girlfriend doesn't mean you're gaining anything from being with him; both women might be being low balled.
Whoa, think you can preach that in the highest mountain with the loudest speakers and still not be heard, don't know why so many people look at that as a challenge
This is why women need to unite like the men do ! Girl don’t step on the sister you never met back. AND YOU KNOW ABOUT HER ? You deserve to be the joke in the room looking so freaking beautiful like why ? Why be 2nd or 3rd when you can be the 1 and only ? I’m waiting patiently to be someone’s one and only girl I know it gets boring but don’t just start being 2nd best 🥺
I 100% agree, he’s not telling men to cheat( he has no control over others actions) he saying if you want to squeeze into my life at the right time and you’re not asking for much and you know i got a girl and you still letting me kick it, then yeah he gonna like you, because you as the girl already set the ton. 🤷🏾♀️
He bee. Breadcrumbs her and she wants another man to side with her irrational beliefs. The problem is alot of women has this same mentality and wholeheartedly believes the guy. It's Brazy out here. Bless up tho
Shame has been removed from women so they think anything is ok to say and do. And people pandering and praise them for it. But the consequences are still the same.
This brotha be coming with fire responses and never is ashamed to state the truth👏🏾👏🏾💯🔥, but what makes this video hysterical was the brotha in the red shirt screaming with excitement🤣🤣
The sad part is, I bet she didn't even catch the insult. To all the chicks who do this, smile in the mirror when you see yourself love. And if you didn't catch that, it too was an insult.
Ladies keep playa on both ends never catch feelings for a nga who's not yours and keep your options open when you playing the field that's why it's best to stay single
The issue with that is…we are wired differently (NATURALLY). You play with fire…don’t be surprised WHEN you get ❤️🔥. To many of y’all competing with men. It’s sad and why so many women are operating in their masculinity. Being feminine will help you live longer. Stay in your lane ladies.
Ah yes the solution to infidelity is not to find and reward fidelity but instead to engage in more infidelity "on your terms" Gosh this generation is funny
I'm 43 yrs old and have been saying this for years. Ladies, the sweet spot for you is for your man to like you and love you. Don't get comfortable with just him loving you. Sometimes, it's better if he genuinely likes. How many of us have people that we love, but don't like? You see how you act towards them? Same applies to you. Likeable and lovable. Be that for your man. It keeps him in a place where you're constantly on his mind.
I’m with someone now and it feels a bit like that. We def have our moments. I do have meaningful convos with alot of older and wiser men and everyone of them has said “I love my wife, but I don’t like her”. I’ve even heard some say “I hate my wife but will never leave her and I’m good with that”. Men and women are just different in seeing and feeling things. I’m starting to see what they’re telling me about but I guess you need that balance, I believe in balance.
Right. It’s called being the side, not the main, for whatever gender. So whatever dl position you’re in get what you need, don’t get caught up & keep it moving (not condoning though) Also, if you’re a side don’t let that person be a main or at least more than a “main” side (even if they’re the only one) “Liking” a side more than your SO is similar to “liking”, enjoying, being nicer to & more patient with someone else’s kid/s & family more than your own. You’re not fully responsible/consequential/reactive/dependent for/to them If your the person being cheated on don’t think just because you’re the “main” it’s all good. Ppl still leave for sides, delusion, significant reasons etc. Be safe & easy
He's not lying. If we decide to cheat and the woman we cheat with is okay with the situation... You are the perfect storm. Just keep in mind, when that storm starts becoming more than we are willing to bear, we will remove ourselves from it.
This is truth... But, the girlfriend to this type of man should be aware ... its easy to love someone when they're doing what you want and how you want . The true test is when you're not doing what they want do they still like you . To not like someone but, claim to love and be in love with them is wild ... Seems like a lot of men don't like women but, love what women can do for them
🙄🙄 BAD TAKE. Men can use the SAME argument you typed. No couple likes each other EVERY single day. There's times where they are "Going to War". The LOVE is gonna make them stay together and fight to make it work. When things are going good, of course you are gonna "like" someone. The same thing with family. You can love them even though they get on yo got damn nerves. You out here trying to pit Men vs Women. 🙄 The "Prize" is a HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.
EVERYONE he's with is his girlfriend. Side chick is just a more detailed description of the girlfriend. No different than when people called a woman their "Main squeeze" in the 70's and 80's. That person was the girlfriend who got the most attention.
There is an entire group of women who have classified themselves as sidechicks.... No she doesn't want to cook for you, clean for you, wash your clothes, or ask you how your day was......She just wants to show up, get it in & bounce after getting broke off for the shoes, bag, or bill she needs to pay.
I had this happen a couple of times, that a dude had a crush on my while having a gf….. I can’t do the side chick thing or fwb it feels as if I’m putting myself in a box I ain’t meant to fit in…. And also I lose respect for the man for treating his woman that way, as a sapiosexual I’m turn off and it’s nun I could want from u, your undisciplined as a man I wouldn’t even see u as a husband if u can’t even stick to the commitment of a gf🤷🏽♀️ I’ll walk away crying before I even put myself in a situation. Oh u gotta gf oh u like me? Blocked* I will not be the object of your temptation
Sapiosexual and using text grammer "ain't" and "nun". And the man is undisciplined?? Ok sure. You and women like you will be the side chick with the right man and commit to him. With a smile. Women all want the same men and it doesn't bother them if he has wife or gf. They will and do rationalize it out. All the time, everyday.
The other side of the game they don’t talk about. Love can end in heartbreak. Losing someone you like is just another daily disappointment, it’s way easier to live with💯💯
Cold blooded but true. A man can do you any type of way and you still want to be bother with him. Heck yea he is going to like you. But where is your self love.
Every body scream and pull the “self worth” card all day and night and these men put the game on display for show but somehow still LIE when asked this question... “Do you have a girlfriend, wife or anybody that you're talking to? If it was that easy these men would tell the truth out the gate!!! And I bet shorty in this video didnt even know about his girlfriend at first and he took advantage of her because she brought the dream he sold her, she found out about his girl AFTER he got her deeply involved, she continued to stay because she was in too deep and didn't wanna let go as she should have. Long blah blah blah short tell the truth up front and stop taking a woman's right to choose away. #SackAsses 🤣💯
Yesssss! This is my thoughts exactly. You can see that all the women care about is hurting and running the side chick off. Yet they won't leave either. They fitting in as well. Most keep a rotation of women and don't care. Once one finds out they will lie to keep her around out of ego and greed. But all everyone hears is he got in her shit. Let's also not forget that at some point these same women have unknowingly been a side or in some case knowing. So the self-righteous pat on the back is really unnecessary. Now granted some women don't care and purposely hurt other women by going after their men. But, it's really not that many who do. The man makes that choice to do what he wants which ends up hurting everyone. It's really no laughing matter. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Damn how hurt have you been that someone explaining the truth about a situationship and a girl too caught up in her feelings that she refuses to leave has you worked up? A lie has tk be remembered every damn time. Unless his wife and or kids live out of state if he were lying you would find out soon enough, at least long enough before making any major financial, sexual or deeper emotional commitment. Maybe you people really need the Steve Harvey 90 day rule
@@xelaander8429 I most definitely know how to move out here in these streets no hurt intended whatsoever. I thought healed people can speak on topics too not just hurt/ broken people so don't try to jump to conclusions and place me in that box. 🙄 My point is people who are with someone else already need not be on the dating or in single people face. Self-control is what has to be accounted for, not me figuring out down the line no matter how long it takes for that truth to come to light. Like I said people brag bout being grown and a G until its time to move with loyalty to thy self. The single scene is for single people. People tryna be slick by creating third party situations for the person who is actually single is what's the real issue. By all means stand on your perception of what I said and I'll do the same. 👍🏾
But want he the same one in another episode saying that in some circumstances someone might truly be unable to leave their "circumstance" but for real be in love with the side piece? Doesn't this contradict that?
I like how he broke it down from a guys standpoint. A man ( in this example) likes you for what you are doing for him. That doesnt mean he values you for anything other than that. Women need to stop thinking that getting another woman's man is a flex. If he truly wanted you like that he would do things in a better way by you and his current woman, but yet he keeping you in the shadows where you allow yourself to be. Too many men out here to willingly accept any position other than one and only.
Neither but while she sitting their thinking she a prize because he got her believing he like her more than his girlfriend. He probably didn’t even say that. That’s just what she want to think more than likely. This brother is letting her know he like you because you willing to play a part that fit into his system. That doesn’t make you special, it just make you his go to when his girl is getting on his nerves.
That so deep & real.. I'm Literally standing & screaming & in goosebumps right now.. Powerful to the Core!! Much Respect for This Self Awareness Message!! Wow!! 🫡💯
Ive done this before but its been a while but listening to him made me like that girl, almost developed feelings for her lol. The way he put it opened up a lot of eyes
Lmfaoo people was catching the holy ghost when he was talking that real shit. Its good to see men and woman both react to something real in agreement in times where people dislike the truth and all the men vs woman content you see on social media that divide us everyday. Especially our own people.
The Latina in the audience was mad offended at this truth. I think it hit hard. If you are the side piece he has zero intention of choosing you. Only time I’ve ever seen the side chick get chose is when his significant other cuts ties. Meaning he wasn’t given a choice. You were his only choice. Thats a rocky foundation that don’t last.
He is the definition of: when keeping it real goes right.
Yess! Savage but all truth. Love it!!
Absolutely!! 🫡💯
😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I’m so happy to finally see men breaking it down dummy style to these women that think they doing something by being the side chic
He went a little to far lol
I see this went over a lot of people's head. At no point did this man say he condones cheating. She asked a dumb insecure pickmesha question and he gave her a honest answer that she was capable of understanding. He read the room and spoke in a way the audience and perhaps the viewers could digest.
You don't have to be a part of a situation (i.e cheating) to make an intellectual observation. There's no victims here. A person can only do what you allow or accept. Evaluate yourself.
Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
She’s goofy and lacks discernment this is how men get over on women like her
Talk your talk... See how clear you sound...bet you someone still not gonna get it and argue with your statement SMH!!!
Let me know when your next preaching engagement is pastor Kk😂🎉❤
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The truth. So many women need to hear this. Have self worth!
Exactly
Many women esp those who missed their time, are steady creating delusions that a man likes them just by being a good friend, big brother or lending a helping hand. Men need to avoid such "trap a man" pickmeshas with no self worth. They will blackmail a "too nice guy" in a quick second. It happened to 3 men I know. Wise men never get trapped like nice guys.
@@modernwomanTv 1 the guy didn't know game or play his part,
2 you shouldn't be having sex with girls you dont intend to stay with nor have a crystal clear understanding of what the situation entails.
3 friends got blk mailed over some booty? Guy #1 didnt put guy 2&3 on game? Get better friends
NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF MALE/FEMALE TO BE AN OPTION WHILE MAKING SOMEONE ELSE A PRIORITY!!!!
Unless both are the option to each other 😮
Never on option. A side piece just to hit if needed but that’s it
Some of us don't want a whole person. Just a piece of them.
Your comment should be taught in schools. These are wise and deep words 👏
@@rudy97johnsonyea prederably dat ass
That’s a hard pill to swallow. But it’s the God honest truth.❤
Fact!!!!
Yes☝️
Welp she asked! 🤷🏽♀️ & She received exactly what she needed to hear, hopefully she processed it correctly. 😂
Lol 😂
He gave the psychology of how he can like you more but why it doesn’t matter in an emotionally intelligent way. I hope these women with low self esteem listen closely to this bc it’s not a compliment
A lot of women and men need this conversation to be had. When he said you squeezed in without taking up space....... Wooooo that was hard right there.
Yep that part went over a lot of their heads but it was🔥
Luv it
That was truth being spoken all day and don't let yourself look like a fool who don't know any better.
exactly..ouch
@@metsl1870c
I love when he speaks he hits everything where it should be! Facts not opinion
he speaks nothing but factd i love this guy loll
until he start telling yall bout ya self then its a different story smh
*Not her thinking she was getting points for being "LIKED" more.🙄🤣*
Yeah....she really thought she ate.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know...she looking dumb by the end of this video
True!! Although it is cheating. He is explaining to her what her PLACE is in his life. Its up to her to be okay with it.
His girlfriend is in no better position than his other woman. He’s unfaithful, dishonest and disloyal to both! He run to his other woman whenever his girlfriend get on his nerve! He says he don’t like her but he love her what kinda shit is that. He’s not a good man for neither! Just like the other woman shouldn’t deal with that, neither should the girlfriend! I wouldn’t want to be in neither one of those positions!
Exactly! But it's a lot of mains applauding as if they are not allowing the same thing.
U missed the entire point🤦
Well he isn't married to either one of them so you have a point there.
you could speak for yourself but I've seen both the side chick and the main brag about being in the positions..
@@jovelhamilton601absolutely missed it bg a country mile. It's laughable how he's clearly explaining to her the mindset of the supposed boyfriend who likes her more than said girlfriend. Even the platitudes he gave about side piece being able to slide in, squeeze herself in without upsetting what he got going on was a thinly veiled insult. Trip just basically explained that
(a) old girl is delusional
(b) Boyfriend is using her for the convenience she offers
How is this hard to miss
I RANNNN AROUND THE ROOM SIIIRRRR‼️‼️‼️
YESSSSS PUT IT RAW JUST LIKE THAT, SO THEY(women) CAN KNOW...YES HE LIKES YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T REQUIRE MUCH(easy) AND YOU WILLINGLY FIT YOUR SELF INTO HIS LIFE & WHAT HE GOT GOIN.
And yes I re-watched it like 3 times🤷🏾♀️😅
The breakdown of it all was just so beautiful lord lol🙌🏾
But you know what? His girl may not require much either. I know a guy who has a girl and he doesn't do more for his girl than he does the side chick 🤷🏾♀️. Just because you're the actual girlfriend doesn't mean you're gaining anything from being with him; both women might be being low balled.
Stop chasing people who are taken. That's just asking for trouble. If they chase you, then run. You don't want that drama.
Women cannot do this. They're always wanting the same man that her gf's actually qualify for.
🗣🗣🗣🗣‼️
Yep! If they cheat *with* you, they will cheat *on* you.
Whoa, think you can preach that in the highest mountain with the loudest speakers and still not be heard, don't know why so many people look at that as a challenge
One mo' gin. 😂💛
He said "You mean you're OK with being #2 while #1 stops being mad at my foolishness?" 😅
This is why women need to unite like the men do ! Girl don’t step on the sister you never met back. AND YOU KNOW ABOUT HER ? You deserve to be the joke in the room looking so freaking beautiful like why ? Why be 2nd or 3rd when you can be the 1 and only ? I’m waiting patiently to be someone’s one and only girl I know it gets boring but don’t just start being 2nd best 🥺
Men ain’t united. Got ninjas out here bragging about banging another man’s wife
It will never happen as long as women like the same type of men.
Agreed.
Her body, her choice. Nobody else’s.
One and only in this society, haha. We wouldn't be having these conversations if that was an option.
I 100% agree, he’s not telling men to cheat( he has no control over others actions) he saying if you want to squeeze into my life at the right time and you’re not asking for much and you know i got a girl and you still letting me kick it, then yeah he gonna like you, because you as the girl already set the ton. 🤷🏾♀️
I love the way this gentleman articulates himself.
I just wanna know why she thought this was the question to ask 😂
Right 🥴
She loves him. Poor thing. I want better for her but she's not in a place to want that for herself.
He bee. Breadcrumbs her and she wants another man to side with her irrational beliefs. The problem is alot of women has this same mentality and wholeheartedly believes the guy. It's Brazy out here. Bless up tho
Shame has been removed from women so they think anything is ok to say and do. And people pandering and praise them for it. But the consequences are still the same.
@@Mrreal1871 why is he cheating though?
This brotha be coming with fire responses and never is ashamed to state the truth👏🏾👏🏾💯🔥, but what makes this video hysterical was the brotha in the red shirt screaming with excitement🤣🤣
The sad part is, I bet she didn't even catch the insult.
To all the chicks who do this, smile in the mirror when you see yourself love.
And if you didn't catch that, it too was an insult.
He wasn’t trying to insult her. He was putting her up on game.
You really ARE a weirdo.
Ladies keep playa on both ends never catch feelings for a nga who's not yours and keep your options open when you playing the field that's why it's best to stay single
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The issue with that is…we are wired differently (NATURALLY). You play with fire…don’t be surprised WHEN you get ❤️🔥. To many of y’all competing with men. It’s sad and why so many women are operating in their masculinity. Being feminine will help you live longer. Stay in your lane ladies.
Single and useless too society 😂😂😂
Play huh I see every sister at my job with kids no man... Sisters need to quit playing
Ah yes the solution to infidelity is not to find and reward fidelity but instead to engage in more infidelity "on your terms"
Gosh this generation is funny
I'm 43 yrs old and have been saying this for years. Ladies, the sweet spot for you is for your man to like you and love you. Don't get comfortable with just him loving you. Sometimes, it's better if he genuinely likes. How many of us have people that we love, but don't like? You see how you act towards them? Same applies to you. Likeable and lovable. Be that for your man. It keeps him in a place where you're constantly on his mind.
I’m with someone now and it feels a bit like that. We def have our moments. I do have meaningful convos with alot of older and wiser men and everyone of them has said “I love my wife, but I don’t like her”. I’ve even heard some say “I hate my wife but will never leave her and I’m good with that”. Men and women are just different in seeing and feeling things. I’m starting to see what they’re telling me about but I guess you need that balance, I believe in balance.
Right. It’s called being the side, not the main, for whatever gender. So whatever dl position you’re in get what you need, don’t get caught up & keep it moving (not condoning though)
Also, if you’re a side don’t let that person be a main or at least more than a “main” side (even if they’re the only one)
“Liking” a side more than your SO is similar to “liking”, enjoying, being nicer to & more patient with someone else’s kid/s & family more than your own. You’re not fully responsible/consequential/reactive/dependent for/to them
If your the person being cheated on don’t think just because you’re the “main” it’s all good. Ppl still leave for sides, delusion, significant reasons etc.
Be safe & easy
On point 👉 ✅💯
Man that was cold blood but the stone cold TRUTH!
I meannnnnnn LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN 🙏🏽 😂😂😂😂😂
Amen!!!
He always speaking facts. I love that man 😂
He's not lying. If we decide to cheat and the woman we cheat with is okay with the situation... You are the perfect storm.
Just keep in mind, when that storm starts becoming more than we are willing to bear, we will remove ourselves from it.
This is truth... But, the girlfriend to this type of man should be aware ... its easy to love someone when they're doing what you want and how you want . The true test is when you're not doing what they want do they still like you .
To not like someone but, claim to love and be in love with them is wild ...
Seems like a lot of men don't like women but, love what women can do for them
🙄🙄 BAD TAKE. Men can use the SAME argument you typed. No couple likes each other EVERY single day. There's times where they are "Going to War". The LOVE is gonna make them stay together and fight to make it work. When things are going good, of course you are gonna "like" someone. The same thing with family. You can love them even though they get on yo got damn nerves. You out here trying to pit Men vs Women. 🙄 The "Prize" is a HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.
I am screaming rn... so many women need to understand this and know their place in a mans life
That Man Kept it 💯💯💯💯💯💯
He answered her question perfectly. Hopefully she listens and stops getting played. Find YOUR ONE, leave hers alone.
EVERYONE he's with is his girlfriend. Side chick is just a more detailed description of the girlfriend. No different than when people called a woman their "Main squeeze" in the 70's and 80's. That person was the girlfriend who got the most attention.
This is my favorite podcast. Everyone is genuine and keeps it a buck❤❤❤
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This is exactly why Pricella Clark and Cyn G be on point when it comes to knowing your worth smh these women be so damn silly over males like I can’t
When You Get The Answer You Wasn’t Looking For 👀
It doesn’t matter. It was the answer she needed. ❤
Words that every side chick needs to hear
They will still elect to be side chicks.
There is an entire group of women who have classified themselves as sidechicks....
No she doesn't want to cook for you, clean for you, wash your clothes, or ask you how your day was......She just wants to show up, get it in & bounce after getting broke off for the shoes, bag, or bill she needs to pay.
Nobody’s trying to admit this out loud though 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Angela Simmons said as much on The Breakfast Club in an interview.
Classify it any way you please, that's still a girlfriend. She's just not the one who gets the most attention on a daily basis.
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This is classic… I’m saving this and sharing b/c we all have that friend that ask this same question 🤦🏽♀️
What’s wrong with asking a question?
A whole King out here keeping it real 🥰🥰🥰
I had this happen a couple of times, that a dude had a crush on my while having a gf….. I can’t do the side chick thing or fwb it feels as if I’m putting myself in a box I ain’t meant to fit in…. And also I lose respect for the man for treating his woman that way, as a sapiosexual I’m turn off and it’s nun I could want from u, your undisciplined as a man I wouldn’t even see u as a husband if u can’t even stick to the commitment of a gf🤷🏽♀️ I’ll walk away crying before I even put myself in a situation. Oh u gotta gf oh u like me? Blocked* I will not be the object of your temptation
Sapiosexual and using text grammer "ain't" and "nun". And the man is undisciplined?? Ok sure. You and women like you will be the side chick with the right man and commit to him. With a smile. Women all want the same men and it doesn't bother them if he has wife or gf. They will and do rationalize it out. All the time, everyday.
If the truth will set you free was a person. Message!
Thank God for having a dad!🙏🏾🙏🏾God along with my living father taught me all this before I started dating💪🏿💪🏿
And every woman does not want to be loved. Some are happy and content being LIKED for the rest of their lives.. Know what you want and where you fit!!
The other side of the game they don’t talk about. Love can end in heartbreak. Losing someone you like is just another daily disappointment, it’s way easier to live with💯💯
Now that's reality.
😂😂Ace is so XXXTRA. But so truly true though
I'm in love with his man's mind, he stay speaking the truth about these things❤😂
She needed to hear that💯
I need to see this whole video. This is baffling she stood up there & asked. & it went over her head. 😊
a man cheating on his girlfriend is no prize to begin with .. strange flex from him
He really was just trying to prove a point. That he can do whatever, however with you and why would you go for that? He wasn’t trying to brag.
It went right over your head
@@mrsmokeright nothing complicated about what he said
You think he was flexing? 🥴
I don't think he was flexing. I think he was answering that 🤡's question sarcastically😂😂😂
Yo my boy just snapped really quick like man he Babe Ruth that like crazy
Cold blooded but true. A man can do you any type of way and you still want to be bother with him. Heck yea he is going to like you. But where is your self love.
I did this with two women when I was young. I feel sorry for the affect it had on the "other" girl.
I think this applies to men and women. People in general need to start holding themselves to a higher caliber.
My boy be spittin 😅😅😅😅
This one is my favorite!! He always come with stone cold facts!! ❤❤😂💯
Hes never gonna leave his gf for you & if he does, it wont end well.
Every body scream and pull the “self worth” card all day and night and these men put the game on display for show but somehow still LIE when asked this question... “Do you have a girlfriend, wife or anybody that you're talking to? If it was that easy these men would tell the truth out the gate!!! And I bet shorty in this video didnt even know about his girlfriend at first and he took advantage of her because she brought the dream he sold her, she found out about his girl AFTER he got her deeply involved, she continued to stay because she was in too deep and didn't wanna let go as she should have. Long blah blah blah short tell the truth up front and stop taking a woman's right to choose away. #SackAsses 🤣💯
Yesssss! This is my thoughts exactly. You can see that all the women care about is hurting and running the side chick off. Yet they won't leave either. They fitting in as well. Most keep a rotation of women and don't care. Once one finds out they will lie to keep her around out of ego and greed. But all everyone hears is he got in her shit. Let's also not forget that at some point these same women have unknowingly been a side or in some case knowing. So the self-righteous pat on the back is really unnecessary. Now granted some women don't care and purposely hurt other women by going after their men. But, it's really not that many who do. The man makes that choice to do what he wants which ends up hurting everyone. It's really no laughing matter. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Damn how hurt have you been that someone explaining the truth about a situationship and a girl too caught up in her feelings that she refuses to leave has you worked up?
A lie has tk be remembered every damn time. Unless his wife and or kids live out of state if he were lying you would find out soon enough, at least long enough before making any major financial, sexual or deeper emotional commitment. Maybe you people really need the Steve Harvey 90 day rule
@@xelaander8429 I most definitely know how to move out here in these streets no hurt intended whatsoever. I thought healed people can speak on topics too not just hurt/ broken people so don't try to jump to conclusions and place me in that box. 🙄 My point is people who are with someone else already need not be on the dating or in single people face. Self-control is what has to be accounted for, not me figuring out down the line no matter how long it takes for that truth to come to light. Like I said people brag bout being grown and a G until its time to move with loyalty to thy self. The single scene is for single people. People tryna be slick by creating third party situations for the person who is actually single is what's the real issue. By all means stand on your perception of what I said and I'll do the same. 👍🏾
Being A Gf In That Situation Is Not Fun...But The Bf Allowing Someone In Is A 🚩🚩🚩🚩
And this is how you have to give it to a person…. Paint a picture for them!!! This is why we go to men for advice 😂😂😂 they will spare no expense!
She aint got no self esteem cause she in a competition with no competitor. As long as you're willing to be a play thing they gone play
Ace's facial expressions are everything! They're giving me life!💜🦋🦄🌻🙏🙏
I love tripp..he is wise beyond his age. 💪🏽
But want he the same one in another episode saying that in some circumstances someone might truly be unable to leave their "circumstance" but for real be in love with the side piece?
Doesn't this contradict that?
He always speaking truth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Why is this conversation that’s needed barely can be found we don’t need shorts we need the whole video
It's to make you buy the tickets
Preach my brother! Trippppp!
That was the realest read of 2023! All facts….no fiction!😂
I like how he broke it down from a guys standpoint. A man ( in this example) likes you for what you are doing for him. That doesnt mean he values you for anything other than that. Women need to stop thinking that getting another woman's man is a flex. If he truly wanted you like that he would do things in a better way by you and his current woman, but yet he keeping you in the shadows where you allow yourself to be. Too many men out here to willingly accept any position other than one and only.
He kept it real 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Okayyyy! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯
This was in Houston. I remember the moment
The real question is, which woman is getting the better end of the deal?
Neither but while she sitting their thinking she a prize because he got her believing he like her more than his girlfriend. He probably didn’t even say that. That’s just what she want to think more than likely. This brother is letting her know he like you because you willing to play a part that fit into his system. That doesn’t make you special, it just make you his go to when his girl is getting on his nerves.
@@MelissaLona But he is upfront with her. He is not upfront with the wife.
He is so on point. Liking does not equate to prioritising.
That so deep & real.. I'm Literally standing & screaming & in goosebumps right now..
Powerful to the Core!! Much Respect for This Self Awareness Message!! Wow!! 🫡💯
He couldn’t have taught that lesson any better than he did 💯💯💯💯💯💯🤷🏽♀️
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 her face went smack on the floor!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
He hit 🎯 Nail Right on the Money 💵.
Lol😂🎉
A Master class lesson in less than 5 minutes!!!
Ive done this before but its been a while but listening to him made me like that girl, almost developed feelings for her lol. The way he put it opened up a lot of eyes
Bro be PREACHING!!😂😂💯💯 She wanted to push back until he showed her how stupid it looks from a different angle
😂😂😂I am thinking of sending this to a few side tricks.
This is a pure example of “The Blind Leading The Blind”…. Likes you better than his actual girlfriend? Up is down and down is up🤪
He spoke nothing but true facts
Lmfaoo people was catching the holy ghost when he was talking that real shit. Its good to see men and woman both react to something real in agreement in times where people dislike the truth and all the men vs woman content you see on social media that divide us everyday. Especially our own people.
"You didn't even try to take up space." OOOOHHHH that was a read right there
BIG FACTS 💯 💪🏾 FROM A REAL BIG SPEAKER 🔊
I pray for the day I'm healed focused and direct as this brother right here
Daaaamn he kept it all the way real
Most of these relationship problems comes from cheating if you pay attention.
Alot of women need to hear, THIS!! I know this message NOW however i wished i heard it 3 yrs ago.
Damn that was triggering 🤣🤣🤣
Damn that was BRUTAL 😂
I wish I could love this a million times. These sidechicks have no morals and no self esteem
it needed to be said real bad lol...the cheating still wrong and some have the nerve to be be taking care of these sides!!
Preach!!! You betta say that!!💜🦋🦄🌻🙏🙏
The Latina in the audience was mad offended at this truth. I think it hit hard. If you are the side piece he has zero intention of choosing you. Only time I’ve ever seen the side chick get chose is when his significant other cuts ties. Meaning he wasn’t given a choice. You were his only choice. Thats a rocky foundation that don’t last.
Did anyone see the pastor cloth 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ouch. This is definitely a hard pill to swallow if you have that headache.
0:17 that truth hit home && its all over her face 😂
Buddy on point. 🎯🎯🎯
In other words "You know what it is. So play yo position. You like the 6th man coming off the bench. But you still not a starter.'😂
My dawg preaching aint he!!! lol