@Deepak Arya this bhabhi fetish is really f***** up. Here is my theory: people have sex with someone who is an outsider to family(u only marry girl or boy who comes from a different family). A fetish is a weired sexual desire (which intends to break the rules set by society) so having a fetish means having a forbidden desire (sounds daring,thus increase in confidence/ego). having sex with a family member is a big no, imagine fantasizing your mother,sister or daughter (repulsive x100) but bhabhi although a family member she is not related to u by blood. So desiring bhabhi fulfills the fetish of desiring a family member but at the same time it's not incest. I don't know if it makes sense
But at least when we all reach their age we won't be that snooty and nosey about everyone and everything- won't be that judgemental. True when we are in school or college, peer pressure and groupism increases this tendency to gossip and soon make that as a habit. But now people are becoming more aware so we'll have slight shift to open mindness .At least the rate of such behavior would decrease. I feel not all aunties are that bad,they too are busy.its just generalizing everyone.Just my opinion
@Akshay 786 yea, and its a trait mostly among aunties of old generations across different cultures. Asians, African, Mid-Eastern or even some in Europe share this in common. It's a lack of etiquette you could say, but I feel like next generation aunties are much more respectful and chill. Like.. Have you ever wondered what kinda aunt or uncle you're going to be? Let's hope it's a cool and funny one* 😄👍🏼
Ok aunti BHI Kabhi victim thi that doesn't mean that she should throw out all her frustrations on us. Agar yahi BAAT majority of aunties of samajh mein Aaye tabhi society aage badega...
I m a 16 year old girl and this channel is really helping me out finding out my questions to world and makes me think a different way i m really glad that i found out this channel.
Both aunty's and uncles are like this . It's just that uncles are less loud about this and aunty's take the baton of sanskaar everywhere .That's why I hate such uncles and aunties equally who meddle in everyone's affairs aur khud ke bachhe ki khabar nahi rehti
uncles are subtle and also cannot be changed..because the are so subtle we cannot even point out we can point out aunties and try to change their ways.. ppl need to chill y'all talking like aunties are the only people who judge the sole difference is aunties and uncles do it publicly without shame we do it on personal chat windows.... (not an aunty but a realized individual) peace.
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 bruh don't get this bollywood idea of uncles...reality hits different..idk how it is in the north india but i see down here in south there is misogyny but on a majority nobody appreciated honour killings.. by the way if someone says how is it bollywood's fault search for pygmillion effect..it is a psychology which clearly proves that it is bollywood's fault for an even more misogynistic society
@@___9370 I just said I hate them both equally . I said aunties are more vocal about it that might be the reason that they get noticed about it more. Which is wrong . Both are equally idiotic .
@@anshagrawal6289 indirectly it do contributed in the formation of opinions... For whom do we look feminine? - Men To attract whom do we wear red lipsticks- Men For whom we want to wear covered clothes- So that men dnt think us sex objects For who do we wear short clothes- To attract men... Indirectly every little action related to men brings in the patriarchy system when fathers implements rules for daughters, brothers dictating the frn circle, husband deciding can his wife ever wear jeans or son deciding whether his mother should not meet his father's friends after his father died. Deny or not men and women both supporting patriarchy is harmful for all the genders striving.
@@mimis.5139 you seriously have some problem Till a few months ago feminists claimed that women wear clothes of their choice or apply makeup etc. for their own happiness and not to make men happy Also every father lays out rules for his child irrespective of gender Even if the husband insists it is after all the wife's choice to wear jeans or not You might have had a bad experience but don't generalise
Yeah I often complain that most aunties ask how much marks u got or when r u going to marry but the truth is mother also ask the same questions to my cousins 🤦
if this channel made you a feminist then you have a wrong idea of feminism...or don't look things on a deeper level. don't get me wrong the content they put up is great but the subtle phobias they show without fact-checks show they are pseudos
I think we should completely try to breakdown this stereotype otherwise the girls who are young today in future will become mothers and aunties and if this aunty stereotype will go on the way it is today, tomorrow they have to face the same problem, tomorrow they will become villains of someone's life and I think we should do this work from ourselves and our families, by making ourselves better, if we will become better than our society will also become better. And I think movies and RUclips video's play a major role in this, by making videos and movies like this, there is little impact on us and which makes us do things like this and hate our aunties. If they won't show these kinds of movies and videos and sometimes try to change the character of aunty in good way and also the idea of how we depict them, there will still be a little change in our society. And these small, small changes leads to a huge change.
Its not just aunties....but thats how its always depicted in our movies/shows...and it just shows the mentality of our society towards women...the fact being , both our indian uncles and aunties(whom we dont even know sometimes) are so interested in knowing others life. As a student, we all must be the victim of people eagerly waiting for our results, and i bet its not just aunties😄😄
Because they love to poke their nose everywhere... Privacy kya hoti h, auntie ko nhi pta And above all they dare to give all sort of suggestions, even if somebody is not asking them to do so
It's a reflection of our cinema that depicted the Aunties as a villain and all women as a helpless, always trying to fit in this patriarchy society. So I think they should take initiative to change the way of portraying the women. After all cinema is the reflection of our society.
Tum Bollywood mein umeed hi maat Rakho. Ek toh Woh Muslim dominated and Hindu hatred hain. + inn women ko villain depict karte Hain phir desh mein Kisi BHI women related koi harassment hua, desh KO dosh dete Hain... Bolte Hain Hame India mein rehene se sharam aata Hain.😑
Whenever I get mad at any aunty for commenting on something which is not her business whatsoever, I like to remind myself that it's her conditioning and not her condition Also, great video 👏👏
The uncles are worst. I was 12 when he asked me to make him tea when he came to our house. "Women are housewives and need to learn how to make tea to serve their husbands" he said.
Every video is just top of the class , each time every time. Your content, delivery and video editing is par excellence. You force us to think differently. You start with an intriguing question and leave us with a deeper thought. How do you guys do so much “overthinking” .... Love Swaddle. ❤️
This is such an important discussion to have! Might as well expand our interpretation of 'aunty,' since many of us will be called the same thing sooner or later 😂
Nice video swaddle 👍☺️. Btw why don't you make a video on 'Why are women in most of the households are or shown superstitious howsoever they are educated?' we would like if you cover this topic
I agree we should not generalise them as that makes us an aunty type too. Common not every aunty is an aunty type there are many who will be just like ur mother😊 but they will be aunty shamed too because of our generalisation so I guess we should not straightway come to a point that all auties are bad and if someone is either try to tell them n change them or just leave it to them but generalising will not solve the problem instead it will increase the gender gap.
@Deepak Arya ni vo to koi ni but sorry haan is tarah reply Karne ke liye main bhool gyi thi aap ladke h, devta h, society ne apko rights de rakhe h, ab mujhe rape threats ya harrass mat karna plzzzzz🙇🙇🙇
I've never thought about it this way, cuz like everybody else, I joke about 'aunties' being annoying very frequently. Thanks for showing me what's wrong with doing so! I absolutely agree. SUCH A GOOD VIDEO
I somehow always felt so uncomfortable whenever there were memes/aunty jokes. Could never put a finger on it. Thank you so much for this!!!! So grateful for this quality content. As always, love you peeps❤️
i love these videos soo much, it reflects the thoughts of million of youth today who are slowly realising all the flaws and defects of our society. These videos give a very unique and creative depiction of the same while being very non-biased!!!
This channel has such quality content. We all like to think that we are unbiased but this made me realize that there are some prejudices in us that are hidden in plain sight. Amazing video. Very thought provoking.
This channel is by far one of the best i love the way you guys present facts and explain it to us i hope you guys maintain your content quality even in d future
I am honestly so glad team swaddle you bought up this issue. I've tried explaining this to many people and friends of my age but everyone takes it as a joke. And when it comes to sexist or racist stuff its not only aunties who do this but people of all ages irrespective of their gender. I am honestly really thankful to you guys for bringing this issue. It's time we rip off such stereotypes we hold about people .
wooowww I really love your channel to breaking the chain of saying same old things again and again and actually putting efforts to explain and also to provoke thoughts...
When my dad said "please don't be like your neighborhood aunties when you grow up" he meant don't be upholder of internalized misogyny and now I understand this.
I went to a very tough phase in my life, Swaddle is helping me to come out from depression which not even meditation or any other therapy worked on me. When i see swaddle videos i get confident and feel relaxed. I see that not only me but many women are going though very tough phase in their life. I'm happy that there are many women are there who thinks like me. I'm not alone now. I'm right about my rights.
Can u make a video on how porn imprints the wrong idea of love into young male minds, like sex is all we want to feel loved.... But that's not the case, all we want is someone who cares, is a little romantic, puts in efforts to understand you, and respects our boundaries. Also another idea was, how the society tend to see all the things that women genuinely love, like the color pink, romantic movies, or being caring and soft as cringe and idolizes the things which guys love, like being into sports, superhero movies, violent fights, etc. Just thoughts that I overthink a lot these days
i seriously have heard a lot about '' THE AUNTIES '' but have not met anyone like that... my parents are not like them (they hate talking about other people's life!!) neither are my relatives or my grandparents nor my neighbours.. i have never been compared to my relatives 's kids nor been told about sanskaar or anything.. all my relatives including my grandparents never questioned me on wearing my choice of clothes or anything... they have always supported me throughout... seeing the comment section i was pretty shocked.. i thought everyone's family is like mine.. all of a sudden feeling blessed!!
I love aunties in general. The hate they get is misdirected, it's our disgust for patriarchy and judgement that we put on them. Sure, they prod us to get married, have kids, judge our colour of skin and hairstyle and clothes, but as it is with other people, once you get to truly know a person and when you both have walked a mile in each other's shoes you really come to know where it's coming from. Aunties, to me, mean good food, blunt honest opinions, warmest of hugs in a society that shuns PDA, and belly laughs once you strike the right chord.
As usual I loved the topic picked up by @Swaddle In my opinion, cinema has not played a very big role in creating the identity of the "evil aunty" because I believe, we see this identity or this character in our day to day lives on a much higher scale. One famous example is our oh-so-caring aunties worrying over our marriages even more than our own parents🤷♀️ P. S. Today my paternal aunty told my dad (on phone) that she's not gonna die until she sees my marriage (background- She's been quite sick due to old age) My dad's Savage reply to her was... In that case, my daughter said she is never gonna marry so that you live long😂
Wow, I just subscribe to your channel today and found such amazing content. It is really amazing to see such an informative and in-depth video within 4 minutes. The other thing I want to say to you all is "You are doing a great job keep doing" it and most importantly thank you for providing valuable content.
this gets me thinking about all the times i argued with my mother to get to do and have things that i wanted but things that weren't actually good for me. on such occasions , my father would often favor me unduly , and since having my own way was all i wanted , i'd ignore if my mum forbode/ warned against doing something she felt wasn't good . much like daddy's spoilt girl being disrespectful to her not-so-'cool' mother. like papa's consent was the only and enough. my younger sister follows my example. if that's somebody else's story too, try to change it. respect mummy as much as papa , and let her know you do through your actions. there's things only a mother knows and can teach you.# againstinternalmisogyny
A video on "choice for passion" is still difficult in the Indian society . If u are an artist then others will always judge that there no carrier in it . Can't people be bussy in there own life why they want to always disturbting someone's aim.🙄
I always had this thought. But now I've figured the reason for it. Education is the most important even if you are an artist. Because, artists get replaced all the time. So u can see some people doing "suicide" due to lack of opportunities;(
I understood this in my very early age that they are victims ...and they do exact same with us whatever they gone through ... because they have taught this is right ....it's all bcs of growing up in that society
I would love to overthink about this and change my perception about aunties but ever since my family arranged these ' ladke walle' meetings to get me married I have started seeing horrible aunties who are narrow minded and way too much into colourism. Before this I used to think people talk non sense when they say a woman is a woman's worst enemy but seeing these aunties changed my perception. Some woman take too much pride in insulting other woman, men aren't good either but these aunties are no better * end of rant..* I'm just stating my experience and view feel free to disagree.
Oh MY GOd this makes perfect sense ! I always thought abt the typical slang "Women against women always" and couldn't understand why it is so. But now it makes sense. Also in those ancient times, males were highly privileged and allowed to have multiple affairs and wives so obviously for the sake of affection and insurance from their Man, those women turned against each other. Trying to always bring each other down just to gain some favor from their husband or his family or the society. It all originated their and is still very prevelent.
I just can't tell how much I love the content of this channel..... But I honestly I feel that we youngsters already are aware of these points but jinko actual zarurat hai iss sb gyan ki vo h hmare parents, so PLZZ @the_swaddle bring this series in hindi language also So that we could make our parents/relatives or other problematic elements 😅 to overthink about these so happily acceptable nonsensical customs and traditions through ur much sensical n valid points and questions
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During my edit, it was really fun finding Bollywood aunties from the 80s and 90s. Is there an aunty from pop culture you identify with?
2 video phele bollywood ko accha batya. Madam konsi school se padhi ho jaha History ke reference me bollywood movie ka use hua he.
@Deepak Arya Man that is a good video idea
Definitely Shabana's character from Aunty ji short film. Must watch.
@Deepak Arya this bhabhi fetish is really f***** up. Here is my theory: people have sex with someone who is an outsider to family(u only marry girl or boy who comes from a different family). A fetish is a weired sexual desire (which intends to break the rules set by society) so having a fetish means having a forbidden desire (sounds daring,thus increase in confidence/ego). having sex with a family member is a big no, imagine fantasizing your mother,sister or daughter (repulsive x100) but bhabhi although a family member she is not related to u by blood. So desiring bhabhi fulfills the fetish of desiring a family member but at the same time it's not incest.
I don't know if it makes sense
@Sudarshana Chakra 2.0 yeah right?
Everyone is gangsta until they reach middle age themselves.
@Shreyaawashere lol
true, young adults can behave like aunties and uncles also
@Shreyaawashere true
But at least when we all reach their age we won't be that snooty and nosey about everyone and everything- won't be that judgemental. True when we are in school or college, peer pressure and groupism increases this tendency to gossip and soon make that as a habit. But now people are becoming more aware so we'll have slight shift to open mindness .At least the rate of such behavior would decrease. I feel not all aunties are that bad,they too are busy.its just generalizing everyone.Just my opinion
hahahahahahahah.true
all teenagers hate aunties forgetting their own mothers are aunty to someone
Someone being my mom doesn't guarantee her wokeness
Even you'll become a judgy uncle 😂
@Akshay 786 yea, and its a trait mostly among aunties of old generations across different cultures. Asians, African, Mid-Eastern or even some in Europe share this in common. It's a lack of etiquette you could say, but I feel like next generation aunties are much more respectful and chill. Like.. Have you ever wondered what kinda aunt or uncle you're going to be? Let's hope it's a cool and funny one* 😄👍🏼
@@Lilac_Pearl lmao noo 😂😂
@David Larry is that an insult‽ yes I'll age and I'll be aunty to someone. is that an issue?
Don't you think that every aunty was a girl that hated aunties once and so on 😭🤣
That's what they said... they r the victims once who is victimizing others now
"Aunty bhi kabhi teen thi"
Ok aunti BHI Kabhi victim thi that doesn't mean that she should throw out all her frustrations on us. Agar yahi BAAT majority of aunties of samajh mein Aaye tabhi society aage badega...
@@teddybuddy45 I agree with you
Facts.👍
I m a 16 year old girl and this channel is really helping me out finding out my questions to world and makes me think a different way i m really glad that i found out this channel.
So true
i hope u r communist
me 2... i have always been a feminist and seriously this channel made me think about certain things in a more matured way!!
Yeah but it's ain't all sunshine and rainbow... The channel..it's got a few drawbacks too...like not every topic they cover is truly true
Yeah same
Both aunty's and uncles are like this .
It's just that uncles are less loud about this and aunty's take the baton of sanskaar everywhere .That's why I hate such uncles and aunties equally who meddle in everyone's affairs aur khud ke bachhe ki khabar nahi rehti
uncles are subtle and also cannot be changed..because the are so subtle we cannot even point out
we can point out aunties and try to change their ways..
ppl need to chill y'all talking like aunties are the only people who judge
the sole difference is aunties and uncles do it publicly without shame
we do it on personal chat windows....
(not an aunty but a realized individual)
peace.
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 bruh don't get this bollywood idea of uncles...reality hits different..idk how it is in the north india but i see down here in south there is misogyny but on a majority nobody appreciated honour killings..
by the way if someone says how is it bollywood's fault search for pygmillion effect..it is a psychology which clearly proves that it is bollywood's fault for an even more misogynistic society
Tumhare uncles Ka patta nai but most uncels I know are pretty chill and enjoy life.
Bilkul sahi baat boli h tumne 👍👍
@@___9370 I just said I hate them both equally .
I said aunties are more vocal about it that might be the reason that they get noticed about it more. Which is wrong .
Both are equally idiotic .
i NEVER thought about that this way
we are blaming the victims of patriarchy
@Akshay 786 Nowadays women blame every wrong thing in the world to be a result of patriarchy
@@anshagrawal6289 indirectly it do contributed in the formation of opinions...
For whom do we look feminine? - Men
To attract whom do we wear red lipsticks- Men
For whom we want to wear covered clothes- So that men dnt think us sex objects
For who do we wear short clothes- To attract men...
Indirectly every little action related to men brings in the patriarchy system when fathers implements rules for daughters, brothers dictating the frn circle, husband deciding can his wife ever wear jeans or son deciding whether his mother should not meet his father's friends after his father died.
Deny or not men and women both supporting patriarchy is harmful for all the genders striving.
@@mimis.5139 you seriously have some problem
Till a few months ago feminists claimed that women wear clothes of their choice or apply makeup etc. for their own happiness and not to make men happy
Also every father lays out rules for his child irrespective of gender
Even if the husband insists it is after all the wife's choice to wear jeans or not
You might have had a bad experience but don't generalise
@Halo Father and mother both do and mother is a lot more stricter
@Halo My father is a lot more concerned about culture than my mother
I love the topics you chose to cover and the way you explain them
So truuue...In my case my mom herself is the biggest stereotypical 'aunty'🤣🤣
Yesss
I KNOW RIGHT
If there's a group or cult of indian Karen's my mom gonna be their leader that's for sure
Yeah I often complain that most aunties ask how much marks u got or when r u going to marry but the truth is mother also ask the same questions to my cousins 🤦
Our moms are aunty in someone's Story 😁😁n that's how cycle go on
I don't like to get Judged. That's why, I'll never judge Someone.
I hope we don't become these aunties someday.
This channel made me a feminist.
if this channel made you a feminist then you have a wrong idea of feminism...or don't look things on a deeper level.
don't get me wrong the content they put up is great but the subtle phobias they show without fact-checks show they are pseudos
@@___9370 hey please give examples of that I really want to understand what you are saying
@@___9370 💯 finally found someone intelligent enough on this channel! 😂😂
@@___9370 i agree with you. This channel is too stereotypical
@@___9370 yeah.. These channels are full of double standards .
I think we should completely try to breakdown this stereotype otherwise the girls who are young today in future will become mothers and aunties and if this aunty stereotype will go on the way it is today, tomorrow they have to face the same problem, tomorrow they will become villains of someone's life and I think we should do this work from ourselves and our families, by making ourselves better, if we will become better than our society will also become better.
And I think movies and RUclips video's play a major role in this, by making videos and movies like this, there is little impact on us and which makes us do things like this and hate our aunties. If they won't show these kinds of movies and videos and sometimes try to change the character of aunty in good way and also the idea of how we depict them, there will still be a little change in our society. And these small, small changes leads to a huge change.
This is the perfect comment I was searching for.... Exactly what I was thinking sis 👍😀
@@mansisingla5790 😊
Thatsss truee!Well written
@@pruthikachavan6431 thank you
Yes let's do this
Its not just aunties....but thats how its always depicted in our movies/shows...and it just shows the mentality of our society towards women...the fact being , both our indian uncles and aunties(whom we dont even know sometimes) are so interested in knowing others life. As a student, we all must be the victim of people eagerly waiting for our results, and i bet its not just aunties😄😄
not in my case tho
Because they love to poke their nose everywhere... Privacy kya hoti h, auntie ko nhi pta
And above all they dare to give all sort of suggestions, even if somebody is not asking them to do so
But aren't uncles the same ???
But we hate an aunty more.
@@abhinavsharma2179 I think so hating on aunties or uncles is a pretty ageist thing to do. Not all old people are weirdos.❤️
2nd line.... *Privacy* kya hoti h, aunty ko nhi pta
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 your 2nd Comment.. 💯👏
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 Ikr
It's a reflection of our cinema that depicted the Aunties as a villain and all women as a helpless, always trying to fit in this patriarchy society. So I think they should take initiative to change the way of portraying the women. After all cinema is the reflection of our society.
Tum Bollywood mein umeed hi maat Rakho. Ek toh Woh Muslim dominated and Hindu hatred hain. + inn women ko villain depict karte Hain phir desh mein Kisi BHI women related koi harassment hua, desh KO dosh dete Hain... Bolte Hain Hame India mein rehene se sharam aata Hain.😑
Whenever I get mad at any aunty for commenting on something which is not her business whatsoever, I like to remind myself that it's her conditioning and not her condition
Also, great video 👏👏
The uncles are worst. I was 12 when he asked me to make him tea when he came to our house. "Women are housewives and need to learn how to make tea to serve their husbands" he said.
My mom is like those typical aunties 😂
True you can't generalize
This is one of my favourite channels on RUclips to watch. Kudos to your team, for all their efforts.
Every video is just top of the class , each time every time. Your content, delivery and video editing is par excellence. You force us to think differently. You start with an intriguing question and leave us with a deeper thought. How do you guys do so much “overthinking” .... Love Swaddle. ❤️
This is such an important discussion to have! Might as well expand our interpretation of 'aunty,' since many of us will be called the same thing sooner or later 😂
This might become my favorite indian channel cuz it talks about stuff i introspect about a lot!!!
Kudos to the team and continue this amazing job!!!
You still can't deny how older women shame younger women for the choices they take.
The accent in which she says "ayuntyyy" more like anteeeeee
I am proud to be an indian 😂😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
This channel is GOLD! Why RUclips didn't recommend me this earlier?
Nice video swaddle 👍☺️.
Btw why don't you make a video on 'Why are women in most of the households are or shown superstitious howsoever they are educated?' we would like if you cover this topic
This is a good topic 👍🔥
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 same!
Misamisa
I agree we should not generalise them as that makes us an aunty type too. Common not every aunty is an aunty type there are many who will be just like ur mother😊 but they will be aunty shamed too because of our generalisation so I guess we should not straightway come to a point that all auties are bad and if someone is either try to tell them n change them or just leave it to them but generalising will not solve the problem instead it will increase the gender gap.
@Deepak Arya vo mera dp h na then why r u having any problem?
@prak lol 😂
@Deepak Arya ni vo to koi ni but sorry haan is tarah reply Karne ke liye main bhool gyi thi aap ladke h, devta h, society ne apko rights de rakhe h, ab mujhe rape threats ya harrass mat karna plzzzzz🙇🙇🙇
@prak 😅😅 yeah insanes never leave us😂😂
@Akshay 786 nope she is not because she is not alive. And when she was here she never judged anyone may be that's the reason I never judge anyone too.
Thank goodness. I have always thought about the internalized misogyny in portraying aunties. And some one really said it. Thank you swaddle
I hope your channel gets more successful and popular. People NEED to know about this stuff.
No it will not
The thing is you can't hide the truth for long.
Well if the video is to be believed it's been happening for 1000s of years. That not long enough for you
"Instead of targeting the system, it pits victims of a system against each other"
Well said.
They also tend to make aunties look superficial, vain and dumb. That's the deliberate script.
I've never thought about it this way, cuz like everybody else, I joke about 'aunties' being annoying very frequently. Thanks for showing me what's wrong with doing so! I absolutely agree. SUCH A GOOD VIDEO
None of swaddles videos are overthinking. They are genuine discussions about important issues. And its about time someone talked about it.
I somehow always felt so uncomfortable whenever there were memes/aunty jokes. Could never put a finger on it. Thank you so much for this!!!! So grateful for this quality content. As always, love you peeps❤️
This was such a fresh take! Never thought of it this way!
i love these videos soo much, it reflects the thoughts of million of youth today who are slowly realising all the flaws and defects of our society. These videos give a very unique and creative depiction of the same while being very non-biased!!!
This channel has such quality content. We all like to think that we are unbiased but this made me realize that there are some prejudices in us that are hidden in plain sight. Amazing video. Very thought provoking.
This channel is by far one of the best i love the way you guys present facts and explain it to us i hope you guys maintain your content quality even in d future
Most of your videos discuss narratives I am already familiar with, and I feel understood while watching them. But this? Absolutely eye-opening.
I am honestly so glad team swaddle you bought up this issue. I've tried explaining this to many people and friends of my age but everyone takes it as a joke. And when it comes to sexist or racist stuff its not only aunties who do this but people of all ages irrespective of their gender. I am honestly really thankful to you guys for bringing this issue. It's time we rip off such stereotypes we hold about people .
Finally someone spoke about this issue prevailing in our society.
Finally,, sm1 had the guts to speak about this !!! ❤️❤️
This is so true...while saying others as villains let us be aware that we may not become so...Our work has to be constructive 🌱
I love your topics and the way you present.Good presentation Anahita.
I think we were all waiting for THIS video!
Truee ! 🤣
To all aunties who are watching : change with some speed 🤣👏
Nice. You are guiding where we are going wrong as a society
wooowww I really love your channel to breaking the chain of saying same old things again and again and actually putting efforts to explain and also to provoke thoughts...
When my dad said "please don't be like your neighborhood aunties when you grow up" he meant don't be upholder of internalized misogyny and now I understand this.
I went to a very tough phase in my life, Swaddle is helping me to come out from depression which not even meditation or any other therapy worked on me. When i see swaddle videos i get confident and feel relaxed. I see that not only me but many women are going though very tough phase in their life. I'm happy that there are many women are there who thinks like me. I'm not alone now. I'm right about my rights.
It's good that you are awarening people about patriarchy but please provide simple solutions make the end very positive.
I hate those aunties so much they have a problem with me gaining weight, wearing shorts, being athiest. My mother isn't like that to anyone.
Who came here after watching gayatri😄
ME!😄
This is just so so well put!!!
Finally someone pointed it out! Thanks!
You guys are seriously underrated
Can u make a video on how porn imprints the wrong idea of love into young male minds, like sex is all we want to feel loved....
But that's not the case, all we want is someone who cares, is a little romantic, puts in efforts to understand you, and respects our boundaries.
Also another idea was, how the society tend to see all the things that women genuinely love, like the color pink, romantic movies, or being caring and soft as cringe and idolizes the things which guys love, like being into sports, superhero movies, violent fights, etc.
Just thoughts that I overthink a lot these days
i seriously have heard a lot about '' THE AUNTIES '' but have not met anyone like that... my parents are not like them (they hate talking about other people's life!!) neither are my relatives or my grandparents nor my neighbours.. i have never been compared to my relatives 's kids nor been told about sanskaar or anything.. all my relatives including my grandparents never questioned me on wearing my choice of clothes or anything... they have always supported me throughout... seeing the comment section i was pretty shocked.. i thought everyone's family is like mine.. all of a sudden feeling blessed!!
Well , i didn't hate my any aunt just click on the button to find out the reason why the notion of hating aunties is......
Thanks for this video. Gives fresh perspective, same goes with mother-in-law image
I love aunties in general. The hate they get is misdirected, it's our disgust for patriarchy and judgement that we put on them. Sure, they prod us to get married, have kids, judge our colour of skin and hairstyle and clothes, but as it is with other people, once you get to truly know a person and when you both have walked a mile in each other's shoes you really come to know where it's coming from. Aunties, to me, mean good food, blunt honest opinions, warmest of hugs in a society that shuns PDA, and belly laughs once you strike the right chord.
As usual I loved the topic picked up by @Swaddle
In my opinion, cinema has not played a very big role in creating the identity of the "evil aunty" because I believe, we see this identity or this character in our day to day lives on a much higher scale.
One famous example is our oh-so-caring aunties worrying over our marriages even more than our own parents🤷♀️
P. S. Today my paternal aunty told my dad (on phone) that she's not gonna die until she sees my marriage (background- She's been quite sick due to old age)
My dad's Savage reply to her was... In that case, my daughter said she is never gonna marry so that you live long😂
There are some people who do fit the stereotype but I never thought of all middle aged women as a stereotypical aunty
This has become my favourite channel on RUclips 😍
wow I never thought of this! love your insightful and educational vids:)
A much needed video
This channel never disappoints! 🤘
Such a great series!
Most of us knows it, but they don't understand it....
I really love when Anahita describes the facts
Editing level 💯 🔥🔥
I had never thought of it...thank you!
Thank you swaddle. Even I hated all aunties...but this changed my mentality :) No more generalising
I do genuinely love all videos of swaddle and I am sure many others do.... glad I subscribed to the channel... great content
Wow, I just subscribe to your channel today and found such amazing content. It is really amazing to see such an informative and in-depth video within 4 minutes. The other thing I want to say to you all is "You are doing a great job keep doing" it and most importantly thank you for providing valuable content.
This is because aunties are frustrated because they couldn't live their life according to their will, didn't have chance to explore things.
Your topic is just so awesome......♥️
Love you, Team Swaddle❤️
this gets me thinking about all the times i argued with my mother to get to do and have things that i wanted but things that weren't actually good for me. on such occasions , my father would often favor me unduly , and since having my own way was all i wanted , i'd ignore if my mum forbode/ warned against doing something she felt wasn't good . much like daddy's spoilt girl being disrespectful to her not-so-'cool' mother. like papa's consent was the only and enough. my younger sister follows my example.
if that's somebody else's story too, try to change it. respect mummy as much as papa , and let her know you do through your actions. there's things only a mother knows and can teach you.# againstinternalmisogyny
Thumbs up! Makes sense. 👍🏻
Waow you guys are really showing how these stereotypes originated which helps us to understand it's root cause and not be one dimensional
Manorama in ‘Bombay to Goa’ and ‘Seeta aur Geeta’ is the OG Reel Aunty I love and aspire to be.
These videos are awesome..!!
Swaddle always surprises with their contents
It's too dangerous that swaddle is feeding such generalized answers to every problem that exists in our society.
"Patriarchy".....
It is the real problem India is facing.
Patriarchy.Root of all crimes that take place here.
They don't to admit women's real nature.
A video on "choice for passion" is still difficult in the Indian society . If u are an artist then others will always judge that there no carrier in it . Can't people be bussy in there own life why they want to always disturbting someone's aim.🙄
I always had this thought. But now I've figured the reason for it. Education is the most important even if you are an artist. Because, artists get replaced all the time. So u can see some people doing "suicide" due to lack of opportunities;(
True, we got to break the bias rather than making new ones.
One problem with aunties is "They ask way too many questions when I come from work!"
I understood this in my very early age that they are victims ...and they do exact same with us whatever they gone through ... because they have taught this is right ....it's all bcs of growing up in that society
I would love to overthink about this and change my perception about aunties but ever since my family arranged these ' ladke walle' meetings to get me married I have started seeing horrible aunties who are narrow minded and way too much into colourism. Before this I used to think people talk non sense when they say a woman is a woman's worst enemy but seeing these aunties changed my perception. Some woman take too much pride in insulting other woman, men aren't good either but these aunties are no better * end of rant..*
I'm just stating my experience and view feel free to disagree.
So true . Some of these swaddle videos are like ditto me and my so called overthinking theories.. and snippets
we hate "Aunties" Not be'coz of what we saw on a Silver screen but what we have experienced in our REAL life.
Who is after gaya3's video
Oh MY GOd this makes perfect sense ! I always thought abt the typical slang "Women against women always" and couldn't understand why it is so. But now it makes sense. Also in those ancient times, males were highly privileged and allowed to have multiple affairs and wives so obviously for the sake of affection and insurance from their Man, those women turned against each other. Trying to always bring each other down just to gain some favor from their husband or his family or the society. It all originated their and is still very prevelent.
I just can't tell how much I love the content of this channel..... But I honestly I feel that we youngsters already are aware of these points but jinko actual zarurat hai iss sb gyan ki vo h hmare parents, so PLZZ @the_swaddle bring this series in hindi language also So that we could make our parents/relatives or other problematic elements 😅 to overthink about these so happily acceptable nonsensical customs and traditions through ur much sensical n valid points and questions
Well I really hope that our generation becomes the cool aunty that's gonna bring you chocolate and stand out for our nieces and nephews.
I learn many things from this channel
How do you even come up with such unique topics everytime?