What have you been doing to stop ! I can sue ! Just go the doctor once month let him or her you can perform at work and I are afraid to sleep at night because it sounds like some one is in your house !
I feel the same way you do I have neighbors they do the same thing to me. I live in a ghetto. This is the high prices that we pay for these people around my area. I love the drama the world is coming to an end with these annoying people.
Me too I have upstair neighbours from the philipines and they are rude and make noises since two years EVERYDAY and I couldnt move due to financial issues but I am moving on feb. I wish them the worst life. When I face them they act like pure innocents and cute and play the (it is not us card) everytime sm1 reports them.
That’s how I feel the little boy keep bouncing the damn ball above us it’s very stressful I gotta go back to work and my Daughter going back to school I need to move real bad 😢
I do absolutely agree with u on this I lived in 2 types of apartments and in both times I did get in trouble with some kind of antisocial neighbor Eventually, I moved to a vacation park temporarily to stay there for almost 8 months in a bungalow (this was a huge relief) Until I found a home without this trouble...
Yet apartments are being built like crazy everywhere nowadays. It’s not a bad thing only and ONLY if the buildings are built with strong noise isolation material. However that is skipped to save on cost. This type of BS encouraged me to buy a home and did that.
@@xzaviuraurai Yes i confronted my rental company multiple times they did renovate it with heat isolation made solarpanels on the roofs painted the place etc etc it where great but they forget the noise isolation in response they said well we can't do that it would mean we have to rebuild every wall to much expensive and they said in appartments theres always more livingsounds u just have to get used to it never understood it just garbage... while going over the border to Germany 40km's away from me it seems like their appartments are better build in general it's so important to have an better living experience
@@miinto7668 so sorry ya gotta deal with this. If only people had the decency to atleast do that from like say 12pm till 10pm. I’ll never understand why some folks gotta jam music soooo loud and repeating for hours. Yes I’ve blast my music before or movie but after a couple listens turn it back down. At night I usually wore headphones when living at apartments. Move outta there as soon as possible.
@@xzaviuraurai I did have no problem the woman played her audio files for her it where a moment of joy it went on for 2 hrs every evening same issue the walls so yes eventually she stopped and understood most annoying that i could hear her talking on the phone in the morning when i where still in bed this got me so frustrated to the point that i jumped out and furiously started throwing doors myself XD nothing helped every letter every phonecall to this rental company she just got over it and started making noise again in several ways then blaming construction as the problem im trying to move out but here in the Netherlands we have a pointsystem i rlly dont know what to do anymore some say u can't do much than work and hold on couple more years until i can move
I am not a violent person and I've lived my life trying to be as nice, polite and considerate as possible. But this is the kind of stuff that could literally send me to jail. I could totally lose my shit over this.
They are trying to force her out. These people are narcissists and devils. I have neighbors like this. They are provoking you to confront them or are trying to sicken you.
I know exactly the kind of stress this brings. I'm going through it right now. my next door neighbors are just a constant source of noise. The amount of hatred i harbour towards these people is unreal.
Same, 2 years now and the cops do nothing, they'll even laugh at me, rev their engines etc all night out of spite, even though I bought a giant speaker and microphone system that can finally drown them out and get mad and leave, but it's like their heads are screwed on backwards because the next day they'll do it again and they even have the 10 commandments in their front yard!!!!😢
I had neighbors that drove me to insanity. I did everything in my power to shut them up but I ultimately just moved. Moving forward, I just call the police when neighbors go to far. I don’t care. When living in apartment, you’re basically in one house. Everyone has to be respectful towards each other.
Alot of landlord doesn't want to deal with it instead they throw on your face to call the police or they don't respond to your noise complaint, all they care is their money . Ugh
It always gets worse when you confront them to complain. The property manager does nothing here. The association does nothing here. The police do nothing here. I'm going to move into the woods soon to get away from these selfish animals.
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. People who have never been through this don't understand how harmful this is. Just had a fight with my neighbors who threw a party on their balcony, which is right across mine, which started at 11 o'clock. After telling them several times to turn the volume down, they went inside continued there and at 1 AM they started having extremely loud sex. The woman was not even moaning anymore, it was literal screaming in front of the OPEN window. That was my breaking point and I yelled "BE QUIET" at the top of my lungs out of my window. Some may think that this is funny, but it really is not. In fact it's literal torture. You reach a point where you can't feel safe in your own house anymore, your entire body shakes out of frustration and anger and you feel like you're about to collapse. The worst part is that I've tried talking to them, but they don't speak a word English. Not one single word, so they don't even understand me or even attempt to. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against foreigners, I'm one myself, that'd make no sense. I just want peace during the night in my own house.
That sounds awful! You described it so well like your body has a reaction because you feel powerless. The language barrier makes it even worse because you can’t communicate how they’re harming you. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.
Just call immigration, the DEA and local law enforcement. Most of those beeners will tremble at the sight of law enforcement or they will try and act all tough, either way they will go to jail. You can sue the owner of the property with the evidence that you may have available, also for each time the officers come out, a citation ticket is given.
Sorry. This has nothing to do with foreigners. At least they dont understand. The worst is when American people understand this and keep playing lout Tv. Lets not be judgem
I'm also sorry u had to endure this torture it's hard when ppl are loud & self centered like this nowadays, ppl just want peace & quiet & not everyone has a lot of $ to afford a house & all the Xtra problems & $ it takes to upkeep them on top of high inflation, I have ptsd & anxiety so when u said body shaking this hit close to home for me as well
We left apartment life 6 months ago after 20 years of renting. It’s the loud music/ bass that gets me . Now in a single family house going through the same thing next door. I honestly think they want attention. People that behave this way want to be acknowledged. They want people to know they exist. Not sure if they’re renters . I’ve broken leases a few times, called the cops and just moved out after lease end . People are miserable. They are miserable and want everyone else to be miserable. We’ve lived top floor and still doesn’t matter. I also wonder why I’m being punished with horrible neighbors if I am being punished
@@ladymb4237 right, but our houses are a few feet from each other and we share a gate yet they don’t or refuse to understand how bass works. They don’t care . I never understood when people in single family homes complained about hearing and feeling their neighbors noise inside of their own home. Now I do . I know it’s definitely possible. It’s weird because sometimes we hear several bangs on the wall closest to their house like you would with an apartment neighbor next door and we’re separated by a wooden fence. They bang on something so hard next door that we can feel and hear the banging . Besides their aggressive dog 🐶 kept outside 24/7 that growls at us in our own backyard and front yard. We keep to ourselves due to their antisocial behavior
Very intelligent observation. This is their miserable way to adfirm their presence on this world. Actually I feel like law is protecting this kind of people. I had to cope with an horrible family who was way over the concept of 'noisy' and 'annoying': parents were both unemployed and survived through social help. I felt somehow that I had to work to maintain these parasites of the society. I am a boxer and I thought many times I could give the father a lesson but I also knew that I would have had problems with the law and violence is not the right answer anyway outside a ring. More educated and intelligent people will always lose unfortunately.
I lived in several different apartments for 8 years. Finally a couple of years ago I simply had enough and couldn't deal with it. I found a small house in a nearby city, even though I would now have to pay higher rent, and commute to work. I didn't care, I desperately wanted something quieter. But that didn't happen because I discovered right away that the neighbors were leaving their dogs outside 24/7 and they never did ANYTHING to shut them up! I could hear the barking really loudly inside the house. I initially talked to them politely, nothing changed. Complained to the landlord and called animal control, nothing changed still. I work in the logging industry and I have some plastic timber faller's wedges I keep around...I discovered that they make a loud "crack" almost as loud as a small caliber gunshot when slammed against the wooden fence. I started doing that every time the barking started, and yelling really loudly and angrily to shut their goddamn dogs up. I kept that up for a couple of weeks and they finally started getting the hint and moved their dogs to the front yard. But then the pieces of crap started going outside themselves and making deliberate noise. Finally they got kicked out by their landlord. The new neighbors are much quieter overall, but I hear them outside slamming things around unnecessarily loudly, like they are trying to make me aware of their presence or something. Kinda like what you mentioned above. The other neighbors do the same type of crap also. I just don't get it. I've always tried to be really friendly and respectful of people's peace and quiet. But no matter where I live I never have neighbors that treat me the same.
@@fral.2708 I’m pretty sure these people didn’t grow up with attention from family. Their behavior screams “ hey ! Look over here at us! Do hear us?! We’re over here !”
"What kind of adult acts like this?" Someone with zero inner life. Noise fills their emptiness. No great mystery. World's full of interchangeable pod people. They aren't bad, or good, just empty, from birth to death.
Omg girl!!!! I’ve been dealing with this for over two years now. I two felt like it was possible karma! It truly feels like some sort of punishment but rest assure it is not! Some people are just horrible neighbors and bad for society. They will get what they are giving out sooner or later.
I’ve been going through the same thing with a spiteful elderly neighbor for almost 4 years. It’s really devastating I can’t even speak about it with anyone anymore, some people don’t believe me but that’s why I look up videos like this cause there are others who deal with demons like this who know do this stuff out of spite. Management is also on their side; same age and race as them and don’t care about how I feel. It’s me (24) vs 50 year old ladies. Lolll. Not sure what I even did to them, they’re bothered by my existence I guess. And being nice to them got me no where, they lie about the stuff they do act friendly with me and continue with the harassment
@@tokyodiva 4 years?! Oh no I’m so sorry she is being such a hateful person. Management can be such a pain especially when they choose to look the other way. People didn’t believe me either so I got plenty of proof. Maybe you could compile enough evidence to bring to management? Management had to stop dismissing me once I showed them videos of the harassment.
@@tokyodiva you definitely should look into legal action. They are clearly targeting you and it sounds very personal. Maybe threaten to sue them and see if they stop first? I wish it was cheap and easy to acquire a lawyer but it’s not so before moving forward I’d give them a final warning. I’m in the same position, student looking for a job so the last thing I need is to pay for a lawyer 🤦♀️
Yes and some people are so ignorant and selfish, they make noise on purpose to try and get you to move. Not everybody can just up & move bcus a neighbor is an A-hole'. Smfh. 😠
I’m going through this as well. The hardest thing about dealing with people like this is the thoughts. I’m not proud of the thoughts I have. One day I turned my stove on and didn’t realize there was a plastic bowl left inside, and when the plastic melted it caught on fire. Most people would panic at seeing their oven on fire but I sat there and contemplated just letting the whole apartment burn 😅 anyhoo, you’re not alone. And you can get through this. If you can don’t renew you lease. And if you can’t get a house get an upstairs unit at best. I wish you the best of luck. ❤️
Thank you! I’m sorry for you too. Literally my intrusive thoughts have been wild like wishing for their electricity to be cut lol. I stupidly renewed my lease before the noise escalated and they’re not letting me out of it which is another battle I’m facing 😩 but you’re right, I’m not alone and we will get through this.
@@lily10598 something that’s been helping me is journaling when I started to get angry and listening to spa and meditation music at night when I want to sleep. It tunes out my neighbors bs. Sometimes I walk around with ear plugs in my ears throughout the day, just to keep my anxiety and anger at bay. You may have already tried these things but in case you haven’t, try it. Also be kind to yourself. Please please be the most kind to yourself, because this isn’t your fault. Coming across awful people is inevitable, living with them is worse.
@@Fakindafunkpnay You just gotta confront the people causing the problem. Not angrily, not demandingly, but calmly and firmly, like you just wanna be able to focus or enjoy your spare time or sleep. You have to be the more mature, diligent, constant person.
I’ve been a bottom floor neighbor for 10 weeks before switching to a top unit at my current complex, and I absolutely feel your frustrations. I am not someone who does well when my ceiling is someone else’s floor.
What sucks is that some people just escalate the invasive behaviour when they have been told before to keep it at a decent level. You are doing the right thing though. You are an inspiration ❤
I came here with a neighbour problem … and am filled with empathy and support for you. I hope you, and all of us with this issue, can find quiet places to just be.
The one and only time I lived in an apartment, it was directly next to someone who blasted loud bass-heavy rap music all day and evening. Not being able to relax and unwind in my own home nearly pushed me to a mental breakdown. Once I realized that neither the police or apartment management were going to do anything about it, I started taking matters into my own hands. I would get up at 3 or 4am and start beating on the shared wall with a hammer for a couple of hours. When it was time for me to leave for work, I would make sure all of my stereo speakers were facing the shared wall, then I would turn on and turn up the loudest and twangiest country and bluegrass music I could find on continuous nonstop loop as a counter to their obnoxious ghetto bass, and let it run for the next 8+ hours nonstop. If you are going to make me miserable, then I’m going out of my way to make you even MORE miserable. I hate all the scumbags in this world who torment other people with their obnoxious ghetto bass, like they think it’s their “right”. People like that make me root for Covid.
I am so sorry you had to go through this and I completely empathise with you . I am currently going through the same, but not as bad as you. Even as I write this it’s 10pm here in London, and in the apartment above me the child is running around and there’s thumbing on my ceiling. I have lived here for 16 years and not heard a sound from numerous tenants over the years. However, just over 18 months ago a new family moved in and since then it’s been noisy. I told the child’s dad a few weeks ago in a polite way to please keep the noise down. He did not say nothing or acknowledge and just walked. The impact for me is I have stopped working from home because sometimes they play music loud and I always hear thumping noises coming from upstairs, it’s then so hard to concentrate on work. In the evening I can hear child running around like now. I know karma comes back around tho. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
The problems you're describing have been exactly mine the last several months, multiple times a week, usually on work nights. The longer I let it go, the worse it gets. I'm now confronting it. It's aggravating. I'm hoping they'll just calm the f down eventually
In my religion, people that disturb, annoy, hurt or do such to their neighbors will never ever go to heaven. But i'm here forcing a smile, while still able to hear them even though i'm wearing earphones, listening to any podcast with high volume
Ive been dealing with this jerk next door for over a year that wears concrete shoes. I’ve tried being an adult and talking to him, got worse. Had management talk to him, even worse. Finally I had enough and went to the office today to see how much it would cost to break my lease (I have 8 months left and can’t make it that long.) They finally gave me the option to move to another unit this weekend. I feel so relieved. I hope this has gotten better for you.
I feel your pain Lily. My new upstairs neighbors of 2 months are also classless. Spoke to them in person early on and brought treats to them to ask them nicely. Manifested into many other things. Now that they are on the top floor because they moved from a bottom floor somewhere else it seems as though they didn’t learn how to be courteous but just be spiteful. My previous neighbors of 11 years were minimalists and quiet. Thanks for putting out your video.
I’m sorry you’re going through this too, especially after you were so kind to them. I definitely appreciate all my quiet neighbors more now, sucks that’s not the standard.
I don't know if you're in the US, but walls are notoriously terribly constructed for soundproofing, so people upstairs are typically too loud even when they're doing normal things at normal volumes. The quiet ones are REALLY quiet. I need to run a box fan at night now.
Narcissists are nuts and sleep deprivation is one of their favourite tactics. Don't give them attention, move on with your life and get out of their reach. If it was your own home that you purchased, that's a different thing.
What type of person does this? Clearly this is not an adult but a hurt hateful insidious malicious child habitating an adult body. They are trying to wear you down with all the stuff they are doing. Trying to ignore it is impossible. I haven't any advice just document document document. Everything has a season and this will end...people fail to realize that everything they do comes back
Bless your heart I moved out because of loud upstairs neighbours, it was my very first apartment that I saved for and loved. The people (and I use this term lightly as they're really lesser than that) got worse when I sent letters to ask them to please quiet down. They tried getting in my face when I approached them politely, I'm a taller/bigger guy so that tactic failed, so they cried victim and just shut the door to continue the banging/music. Let's just say I got my vengeance in another way or another, and I'm a very quiet and calm individual myself so I couldn't dream of doing what I did prior. This was non-stop for 8 months and management didn't do anything. We peaceful individuals always become victims to these bullies and you have to get your point across that you won't stand for it because unfortunately, no one but yourself has your back. Like you said, everyone has their breaking point. I pray your peace is settled now.
I live in an apartment also and my neighbors follow me around my entire apartment. I have not had a moment to myself (in my own apartment) since I moved into it seven months ago. My neighbors hover over my head even when I'm in the bathroom. I just recently complained and am hoping for good results. I hope your situation gets better. Keep your head up.
That's right Lily!! Stand up for yourself. I'm dealing with this right now and was ready to give up, but eff that!! I have to stand my ground, and will I hope things have gotten better for you in the meantime🙏🏾
The phone microphone does not do justice to how loud it is, I know what it sounds like when you're living in a place like that. I'm sorry to hear this. I'm dealing with loud neighbors too atm. I moved to a more rural area thinking it would be less loud but it turns out it's worse because there are people who have giant speakers outside their home they can play 24 hrs/day. I hope you will find a more quiet place to live where people respect noise boundaries and you can actually sleep.
Yep, the phone microphone picks up like 1% of the noise. I've tried different mics, you have press to the wall to pick much up. Trying to sleep to music coming through walls is one thing, trying to prove it's there in a recording is another.
My neighbor starts talking early in the morning and keeps talking, in a loud, monotone voice, until late at night. I just wonder what’s wrong with this woman. I never hear other voices. (?!)
What happens is, it starts interfering with your life and your stress levels start going up. You might wind up getting really angry. I recommend ear plugs, a good fan or white noise machine. You will only have to wait until you move for it to stop. try not being home as much because if you fight back they will escalate and sometimes can lie and make you look like the bad one. be careful...
True it's complex i did leave my TV on and went to work at 07:30 in the morning until 16:30 came back at home with a rather loud volume i knew they were both jobless They never stopped until they did eventually ......but then a few weeks later the garbage started again i just moved out cuz rental company did not do much more then talking with them giving warnings etc it's horrible when u know when at home theres still no peace
Continue to document the disturbance! I lived through hell with my noisy neighbors, but I documented all of it! Including my confrontation with them. In the end, they all got evicted! Now it's finally peaceful and I can sleep through the night!
When u documented who did u turn it into?How did u get them evicted?I have a neighbor upstairs she's young she just moved out of a recovery house her kids were taking from her but she gets visitation the kid is 11 both her an the kid stomp across the woid floors it's a small one bedroom they never sit down or leave the apartment its dreadful
@@krissiognen2151 I just gave it to my landlord. I was renting from a private landlord and I told him I would move out unless he took action against the noise disturbance. Last year, I also moved into a new place. I chose a place with new buildings and mostly retired/senior tenants and I got much more peace and quiet now.
2:25 you caught it on camera I can't believe it! I have that same sounds in my flat all day long. They are constantly moving their furniture and on top there is hammering since month(!) now..every day ...I had the punishment feeling too. Few years ago I didn't help my neighbor when she complained about loud neighbors (it was kids she complained about so I didn't want to complain _--) Thanks for mentioning. I was patient for way too long now..lost lots of weight and get deeper and deeper into my depression..I don't know why my neighbors are home all day and who on earth has the strength to move furniture all day. I'm so glad you caught that sound I'm always too late to properly record it. Just when I put my phone away it's extra loud --_
Im here on this video because I understand how you feel. My upstairs neighbors move their furniture around every single day and sound like actual elephants every time they take a step. I work from home and feel helpless because I have nowhere to go when this noise is occurring during meetings and calls. They leave their patio slider open all day so I ordered an air horn on Amazon and I'm so excited to use it at 3 am when they're asleep.
The plot is thickening… I’m making calls and trying to hold management accountable. Planning to do an update once this reaches 1k views. Please continue watching and give me any advice you might have!
I absolutely feel your pain and frustration. I have been wearing noise cancelling headphones inside my own home because of my nightmare neighbour. I have given up and I will be moving 😢
This is super relatable. I have my own unfair share of inconsiderate neighbors upstairs. They make the last neighbors who vacated their apartment look like the quietest people you've ever known--and believe me, those people were freaking loud (kids hoverboarding on wood floors, high heels thudding into the floor for hours at a time, etc). My father passed away last year, and despite not enjoying the old neighbors like I didn't, he never retaliated and had the patience of a saint. My youngest sister (when she was still living here) and I though, not as much. These new neighbors run what seems like a 24 hour dojo above our heads. They literally do martial arts all day, and the kids have a total disregard for anyone but themselves. The family runs, screams, yells, claps, argue, chase each other, crash into things, slam doors, drop stuff on the floor incessantly, constantly move heavy objects back and forth, loudly train their new dog, blast movies and music and games, blast a noise machine or music that loops over and over at night to help them sleep, sometimes toss stuff off their deck that lands on mine, it never ends. My sister works from home most of the time so one day the noise set her off so much we used a broom to knock on the ceiling and eventually called the property manager about their excessive noise. They talked to our neighbor and he came to our door himself to "apologize" saying he would give his kids iPads or something to keep them quiet for awhile and that they'd probably be quieter once school started back up. Me and my sister temporarily felt bad after that, but ever since then...nope. They're louder than ever before--recently they were blasting jazz music at 5:30 in the morning. Now that it's just myself here, with my hamster and fish, we're waiting for a 1 bedroom apartment to open up so I can get the hell outta Dodge...but so far I'm stuck with these people hearing their every move and second of their life. Maybe he meant nothing by it, but the guy upstairs even had the nerve to say "I don't want you to move, you're the coolest neighbor I've ever had to deal with, I'm gonna have to deal with new neighbors once you do." "Deal" with me? I've been nothing short of patient with these people even when I wanted to grab and bump the broom to the ceiling or call the office on them. The only silver lining is that I get to be equally as loud if I want to...but...thing is, I don't always want to be loud. These people though, it's as if they live on adrenaline and they're allergic to quietude. I can't stand them whatsoever. I'm not the type of person to say no fun allowed, I mean I get it, I was younger once and remember our old downstairs neighbor coming to our door on my 13th birthday to obnoxiously complain about alleged noise we were making and made me cry, just after we had moved in and my grandfather having passed about a week earlier. But these neighbors, they just dial it up from 10 to a thousand in a matter of seconds. They live in their own thin-walled bubble and could obviously care less about those around them. As long as they're happy, that's all that matters. And of course the management of these buildings wall-to-wall carpeted all the ground floor units like mine but couldn't bother with the rest of them. You're supposed to cover your floors with rugs or carpet yourself if you're not on the ground floor as it said in the lease, but these people never bothered to care enough to do so. Honestly...I can't wait to move but I always seem to be surrounded with the loudest neighbors possible so I'm not getting my hopes up very much.
That sounds absolutely awful. Those neighbors sound like inconsiderate jerks. I understand not being a loud person, people told me to fight back with even louder noise but I’m just not that way. It sucks people like that take advantage of nice people like us. I really hope you can find a new place soon and finally get some peace!
@@lily10598 Thanks for the support, from one fed-up neighbor to another. They're blasting music right now and my Shazam app was actually able to pick it up despite the muffled noise--that's how loud they are. People have no consideration for those around them. Despite the silver lining of being able to be as loud as I want to be myself since they'd have no room to complain, I don't enjoy being a party animal 24/7. Can't get enough just purely quiet time in this place--I honestly thank God that I have my fan, ear plugs, and a sleep mask to get myself to sleep despite their lack of respect for those living under and above them. Just saw your other video update and wanted to say I'm glad your situation seemingly changed for the better, I hope. No one deserves to be subjected to as much unnecessary disregard for fellow neighbors as we both have had to deal with, along with countless others.
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I've had some loud neighbors at the places I've lived, but nothing like that. I hope you're able to find somewhere more quiet because it's so bad for your mental health to be subjected to noise all the time. I currently live in a small house and deal with some occasional noise here and there, but nothing like I used to in apartments. I had some problem neighbors that are gone now thankfully, but I still have some problems with the new neighbors and the people on the other side of me. If you ever happen to look into a house, keep in mind that you may STILL be able to hear noise from neighbors loud and clear inside the house. It just depends on the neighbors and construction of the house, but it's something to keep in mind.
I truely understand what you're going through. Actually 100%. I have been in my apt for yrs & every neighbor I have had has been loud 2 the point I have asked myself everytime, are they on drugs bcus it seems they never go to work, sit down and just relax & watch tv, or even go 2sleep. Out of 5 different tenants, even that can't be true... My management actually tells all the tenants who complain, that they can't control how a person lives and either move or put up with it. You vid is the prime example of why i will try my best 2 not live in certain types of apts in the future... 😕😩
Learned my lesson now too. Need to live somewhere where management actually cares about the quality of the living spaces they’re providing. Useless management is just as much at fault as loud neighbors.
@@lily10598 Yes. So many people have complained about their experiences and because the rental market is so over crowded many apt managers feel if we move they will just move on to the next person without even warning them about the structure of the building and how bad the noise can get... 😞😕
Always document. Always. I have expended over $500 on tech to mitigate the noise. Eventually you need to remind your leasing company that there is a clause in your lease (and presumably theirs) that they are not permitted to disturb neighbors/surrounding community.
But speaking to your apartment manager in person and playing them those videos in person will help. It should send the point home, and hopefully the leasing company will implement a 3 strikes policy
I'm not even in a apartment. My neighbor across the street crank his music almost 24/7 for two years. So I can only imagine living next wall to these kind of people.
I’m sorry that your going through this I’m dealing with same things. Basically everything you describe the neighbor above me have been making a lot noise. Moving furniture to jumping and running & waking me up early. These are 3 adults. If they were kids running maybe I’ll understand. Best advice move out you deserve to enjoy your life. Especially after a long day you deserve to relax at your home. No one deserves to go what your going through if anything remember karma will come back at them. THE MOVING CHAIR. I DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND YOU. Talk to my neighbor why he be was moving the chair at 4 a.m & guess what? He started doing that every single day before he left to work.
I'm in this part of RUclips because, probably like everyone else, I typed Noisy neighbor on the search bar. I swear these inconsiderate squammies can drive a calm rational person insane. I ignored my loud-ass noisy neighbors for far too long, thinking they would improve or see the error in their ways, I literally just buried my head in my pillow and screamed inwardly and left them at it for around 5mos before I finally plucked up the courage to speak to them through their window, and the result was that they laughed at me and imitated my voice, they didn't even talk to me. Welp, that's what giving them a grace period got me 💀💀 I learned to face problems head-on and be more assertive on what's right. Few things are as important as inner peace and mental health.
I totally agree with you! I can't stand our neighbors on either side. They are always making noises and especially I hate the loud music coming through the walls too so you feel it!! Luckily it's only on the weekend mostly but it's constant on and off all day and last night it was until midnight when they are supposed to stop at 10-11 and not past 50 decibels. If they keep it up, I am calling Law enforcement. We have one in LA specifically for noise nuances that disrupt the peace. I also believe in taking a stand so they don't feel they can keep it up, that's ridiculous!! People should be able to get a good night's sleep and not be treated that way and ya, never be ashamed to stand up!! You're strong and beautiful, never forget it!! xx ❤
I went through this torture for a year an it took 7 complaints an a police report to get them evicted. Now they moved in more trash next door that's playing it at 8am. I don't know how a sound bar or stereo is not banned in apartments.
My experience with rental companies/landlords is that they never ever didn't do anything about it and the crap just kept going While i could not handle it anymore and took action myself by producing more television sounds Unfortunatly this didn't work they kept going Called police multiple times nothing did hold them back I did have no other option then to go back to my parents house This truly sucked...
Even I now deal with this. My life has been horrible lately. These new neighbors keep partying every 4 to 5 days and play loud ass music every time I am about to go to sleep. I don’t like it. If they do this one more time, I am about snap and that is my breaking point. That is the point I will get the cops involved and tell them to write the neighbors a fine for disturbing me and other people besides me. If they do this even during school nights, I will literally open all the windows in the house and blast loud ass music so see if they like it. Like if I cannot sleep, you will not sleep. One time they didn’t even shut the music off until 3 am in the morning and I was still wake up at the time and woke up 4 hours later.
I wanted to add that southern California can be really bad because of relaxed building codes around 1960- essentially apartment walls and floors paper thin and no insulation 😮
I sympathize with you! I’ve endured 2 months so far living over my neighbor (he has dementia) who blasts his television from 9 am to 3 am the next morning, every day!
Our neighbours are like that they shouts in groups like they all will gather nearby our house talks and shouts like anything this continuous whole day it's been 15 years we are tired to tell them but they did n't stops... I can feel your pain..
Couldn't here the music in the video but i definitely sympathise with you. I had really loud neightbours who loved to socialise and stay up all night. They never used to work so when we were at work in the day, they slept! When we wanted to sleep at night, they had 4 or 5 friends over and sometimes more, drinking and smoking weed, talking very loudly and shouting at times. They played music sometimes, even at 3 or 4am! Thankfully they moved out
Having loud unemployed neighbours is horrible... They can afford to stay up late and they can sleep in peace. Meanwhile I have to wake up early sleep deprived to pay for their welfare.
Dealing with this myself. For me its a guy that blasts music full bass to where its vibrated my walls and I could feel it on my pillow in bed even with earplugs and noise cancelling headphones combined. And he has a big dog that barks all throughout the day when he's gone and it all echos throughout my apartment. Beyond just being extremely disruptive this has screwed up ZOOM meets and confrence calls that are work related and related to job hunting for me. I was about to blow my top but after eough complaints fortunately the landlord gave him a 10 day notice. We'll see what happens now I guess. 🤷♂️ I hope your situation got better too. You aren't alone
Hold them to that 10 day notice! I was told my neighbors were given a 7 day notice but it turned out to be just a scare tactic because the noise continued and nothing was done
@@lily10598 Well I have a decent relationship it seems with the landlady but for sure I will! I am still hearing the barking and it woke me up from sleeping and trying to rest while I been sick so I really have no mercy at this point if and when he gets evicted. He obviously doesn't listen and doesn't care that he neglects the dog all day long and sometimes night to where it's causing grief for everyone including his poor dog. I hope the poor dog is taken from him and given to a better home. He's had so many opportunities that I don't think and hope that he burned his last one. I will keep you posted on what happens!
I was dealing with this but worse! The property manager lied and wasn’t willing to do anything so I broke my lease 🤷🏾♀️ You have the right to peace and quiet in your own home, that is the law and the cops are not always helpful! I hope you were able to move 🙏🏾
I think that’s what I’ll have to do too. Can you explain how you did it? Did you have to pay for remainder of lease or just a few months. Did you already have another place lined up and was the move expensive ?
My neighbors were listening to music at night and the music was very loud, so I couldn't sleep. I didn't know what to do with them. Filing complaints, talking to them, calling police didn't work out. They completely ignored it. But I found a way to shut them up. One morning after another sleepless night, I decided to teach them a lesson. Since they listen to music at night, they most likely sleep during the day. I turned on loud music and went for work. The music played all day (which is not a violation of the law) and it is clear that my neighbors could not sleep all day. And it actually worked out well 😂 They were never listening to music at night again 😅
This is what I'm dealing with , they do it for no reason ... I am a light sleeper and they are always stomping so loud and throwing things on the ground multiple times, I throw stuff at the ceiling but they never stop plus they have a big dog which is very annoying too. Luckily we are moving in less then 30 days!!
I totally relate. I have a deejay living above me who when asked to lower his music has retaliated with stomping and chair scraping. I too have thrown oranges at the ceiling, pounded the ceiling with a broomstick, but he just retaliates further. So I have been bullied into submission and wear Bose noise cancelling headphones all day long. After a year of looking, I have finally found a top floor apartment. Oh, and I complained and complained to management and they did little to nothing. I hope you prevail and get some peace.
I hope things are better now, I’m currently going through this but my main issue is the neighbor is loud past 10pm which is when quiet hours starts. Wishing everyone the best who has this situation
Me and my family live in the countryside, we have the same family of neighbours on both sides of the property. Since day one, they've been rude, loud and malicious. Their children often yell several hours during daytime and when i say yell, i mean scream like a pig, blast music during daytime aswell, but then often it goes as long as 5-6 AM. It's the worst during weekends, holidays, but especially since mid-spring to late-summer. We've tolerated it for a few years, at the time of writing this, i have once again called the police. The police went over there, the music stopped for a bit and then it continued. Add to that they also burn trash during the summer, even during night that pollutes. THESE PEOPLE ARE LITERAL DEMONS. I don't know if there's hope for us, this is a private house and we have a large backyard, so it's not like we can just leave like that. Every time it happens, i feel i am getting closer to acting out dark thoughts...
I used to live in North Hollywood, Ca. I had 2 new women living next to me and I thought, seems cool but after some time dammm they were horrible. They would make noise at night so since they were not the only ones and I had told the manager so many times I didn't want to bother the manager anymore ( this manager was not doing her job). I posted a note on the door of these 2 women, the note was not bad at all I was just letting them know I couldn't sleep and wake up for work at 5:30 am they got so pissed off a week later they started banging on my wall like monsters I was actually scared and decided not to call the cops because I didn't want any more problems w them. I was so sick of these two different neighbors making noise all the time I decided to finally move. I think moving can be a good choice. I feel better where I am at, it is noisy during the day here where I live now but not during the night time
I can relate more than you know.. it's literally ruining my mental and physical health. I have sworn to myself this is my LAST apartment. Once my lease is up I am out of here. Motivating me to level up and move into a house without sharing walls with idiots anymore!
I am dealing with this right now. I am afraid if I break my lease earlier that I will have problems. Hopefuly I can get through these 2 months. The thing thats the worse is like you said, it is ruining my mental and physical health.
Thank you LILY, Ur story is soooo similar to mine. Being quiet and patient and not wanting to bother others when you are a quiet tenet. My neighbor has gotten worse since I too complained to my landlord. Even with police involvement. We are going in circles. In my case it's not music, its a parent allowing her kids to jump off furniture and run the hallways as early as 6am and at times as late as 11pm. Somedays, it goes on forever...like I live under a playground. I have felt like you..."why am I going through this" questions? I involved the landlord but he's only concerned about collecting rent. I've documented, ignored, and bought cameras when my neighbor began passive aggressive behavior due to my complaints. It is a nightmare, especially for those just wanting peace and quiet. Their are laws re: The Right to Quiet Enjoyment and A cease and desist letter you can file. However, they are costly. I hope your situation is better... I wanted to thank you for posting. It can become an isolating nightmare when others don't live through it. I just appreciate knowing i'm not alone and thank you for being brave and ending with a positive message.
You are certainly not alone. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. It is scary that parents are raising those children to be loud and inconsiderate. I really hope your situation gets better, surely you can’t be the only one hearing all the noise?
I have been through this as well. So I know how you feel. In this block of flats, I was on the first floor. So other than all the other noise that you had to tolerate. I had this as well. Below me, and one unit to the side was a middle aged lady. She was a very kind person. But her son was not. He would come, and knock on her door around 12:30am to 2:30am in the early hours of the morning. This would always wake me up. He was a male equivalent of a Lady of the Night. He was looking for money for drugs. After a string of times being woken up. I had enough. My balcony overlooked the door. So the next time he appeared at night, I went out, and glared at him. After a few minutes he became aware of me. This attracted some gestures from him to go away. Which I did not. He then told me to F-Off. I told him that if I had to come down, and have a 'Chat' with him about waking me up at night, I was going to seriously damage his Carcass. I never saw him after that, and his mother was very grateful.
As I am watching this I swear my upstairs neighbor is training for the marathon. I made the mistake of buying a first floor condo and I am trapped financially. I told my husband that you stay if you want but I am ready to check into a hotel.
I do night shift a couple days a week and its actually EASIER to sleep mid day than it is at night due to less noise. Everyone is at work, but you'd assume everyone being asleep would make it quiet at night. You would assume wrong. Of course we have a 10pm-7am "quiet time" that means absolutely nothing. So thats cool.
Sounds like you’ve been putting up with this for a long time and have tried being nice about getting them to stop. Many cities have local noise ordinances. At this point you need to get your local police department involved. The violators can potentially be charged with a misdemeanor. If you live on campus and your college or university has its own police department I would start by filing a complaint with them, and then reach out to local police. I would first lookup the noise ordinance for your city and see what it says. Most cities have one. Keep us in the loop if you decide to pursue this path.
My nextdoor neighbor apt 118 is crazy. She would get on me over the sounds or noise i make. When i'm really doing normal stuff. I hope the my nextdoor neighbor would move out or pass away
Hi, I am so sorry you have had to live with inconsiderate neighbours above you - I totally understand as I am having the same problem. May I ask how did you record the sound so clearly, meaning which equipment did you use? I tried it with my iPhone but its not very clear. I need to produce clear recordings for my landlord. Many thanks
I got up on a chair and held my phone as close to the ceiling as I could. I recommend getting a microphone that plugs into your phone to help pick up the sound better!
I’m going through this right now. I have talked to this dude 3times about turning his music down because it’s been heard through my floor! Same as you won’t stop until midnight. I was ready to knock on his door with my gun but I had to humble myself. I’m breaking my lease and moving at the end of this month finally. I can not take it anymore.
me too moved out and do not care about the lease . if the management doesn’t fix the problem then move , take care my health and i do not want anything go too far. talk to bad neighbors never work, I did too many times.
Wow! This is absolutely unacceptable!!! :( I feel so bad for you ❤️ Can you move? They seem like selfish, immature and unreasonable people. How can you reason with someone like that unless THEY have an awakening? 😊 I truly hope you find a solution soon. You need your sleep. These people are depriving you of your basic needs 😔❤️😘
PS. It's not your karma. We all meet people like this at some point in our lives, unfortunately. Also, I am sure you have never done something like what they are doing now - making you suffer on purpose like this. ❤️
Omg, Lily! I am desperately trying to find a vacant apartment to move to before my lease expires in two months!!! I am a single female who lives on the bottom floor under a family of four people. They have two kids who literally run/stomp so loud that it literally overpowers my television at its loudest volume which is loud. This literally goes on until the early hours of the morning. Like you I am SUPER patient but eventually it starts to wear your nerves. Taking some advice from Reddit, I’m documenting the noise to bring to my landlord”s attention.
I live in a condo..What I do is...I have 3 surround sound systems(Good Ones) centrally located in the living room, my bedroom and spare bedroom...get good ones so you can battle the noise....you like music too right? Instead of using energy to bang or yell...use the volume knob instead...Keep a good pair of headphones handy...
I rented a studio because I needed a place close to work. ITS THE WORST. At least in a 1-2 bedroom the noise is generally isolated to the living room areas(of course not always). But in a studio its all your bedroom and you hear it all. YT decided my last comment was too aggressive and deleted it so I can't say any more 😆
These type of toxic people wanted to show how tough they are but really they're weak. I see this type of people everyday because they're everywhere. I usually get them back!
Good luck to you, I am fighting the same thing here with the people upstairs, except in my case, it's a throbbing thud of a basketball on the floor above me. I know you will prevail.
I’m going through a similar situation it is so annoying. My next door apartment neighbors are a couple that fights all the time and bang on the walls/yell at each other. They also take like 5 showers a day for some reason. I just built my pc setup in my bedroom and I have to deal with this while working / gaming. I have sound panels coming in but I don’t know if it will help much.
Hey I can totally relate, some people are horrible neighbors, when I moved to a new apartment on the second floor I could hear everything even the people walking downstairs, I ended up buying a white noise machine , so I turn that on and also connect Spotify pink noise and put it on loop on some speaker at regular volume, it has helped me tremendously, it can take time to adjust but it works 😊
I have controlled my anger for so long that they thing it's okay to gossip about whatever they think I do/did. Took some SSRI to contain my rage, Ritalin for planning and an adrenargic med to kinda tweak their lives just a little. Doing nothing will only enable their bad behavior. I want to help them turn their lives around 180°.
I'm sorry baby girl! I hope this situation got better. 🙏 ugh some neighbors are soooo inconsiderate 😒 im dealing with it too. These people are literally soulless, I'm convinced.
😮I feel your pain I have a similar situation with my neighbour above he is stalking me and always knows which room I am in its absolutely crazy and scary he has attacked me and the police have done nothing as I’m typing right now he is directly above me what are you using to record them? My neighbour has been using a device that stops me from recording him
I’m so sorry you’re going through that and the police won’t do anything! I used my phone to record. I got up on a chair and put my phone up to the ceiling to catch the noise better. If you can’t get up to the ceiling, I recommend buying a phone microphone to help pick up the sound.
@@lily10598 aww thank you so much I have seen a mic like that on Amazon I will buy it for sure god bless you I hope things are better for you now 🙏🏽✌️🏽&🫶🏽
I’ve been dealing with this for 7 months in my FIRST apartment. One person lives above me (drags things across the floor, stomps excessively, walks as hard as possible, drops heavily objects, blasts music, etc.) talked to the management they don’t give 2 Sh*ts. They see me as the problem bc she was living here before me. I’ve tried talking to her, wouldn’t come to the door, called the police they didn’t do anything… I’m so sleep deprived all the time bc causes making my life a living hell. I’m always falling asleep at work, calling out because I’m so exhausted. I’m SICK of living like this🤦🏽♀️
i know this was a year ago, but im also dealing with this. im a 14 year-old and my neighbors are loud 24/7 a mother with 7 seven kids is understanding that they can be Rowdy and not listen, but that isnt an excuse to blast music til you can hear the type of music. They once threatened my family in a note saying that we should move out FROM A SMELL. so just saying i know how you feel, the anger, frustration. and im also glad you said something as well❤
Girrrl, I have been there with the apartment living and it was HORRIBLE. Now I live in a house in a "nice" neighborhood, except now it's the house directly next to mine. Mexican music every weekend. All day all night ..usually doesn't stop until 4am. I hate the thoughts I have now because I am also a very patient person. But I haven't slept in days, and it's making me feel evil. I call the cops every weekend and it does nothing. They always turn back up when the cops leave. And I can't slept during the day either because they just start back up. It is a horrible way to live.
Ugh that is unfortunate because that is why anyone moves to a "nice" neighborhood in the first place to get away from trashy inconsiderate people yet here they are finding ways slip into places they shouldn't be in.
I am on the same boat but my neighbors also own more motorcycles than they have kids - which is not the typical 1-3 trust me it is aggravating the money we pay in mortgage to have to drown our neighbors loud ass motorcycle revving at all times of the day and night. I have really tried not to wish ill health and horrible tragedy on him but that is waning...
The first apt. I rented there was a girl living above me and she would get up early to get ready for work and put on heals and make all kinds of racket. after that I always rented the upstairs apt.
❤I am reading your story today because I am going through it now! My neighbors from hell, about 3 ladies, one male with mental issues 2 boyfriends and 2+ kids. Long story short, they moved in during the pandemic. I know their old neighbors was dancing the street when they left. The one male which is a brother, smokes his cigs, leaves butts and throws up in the shared driveway. He’s walking around 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I could somehow deal with that. The family plays loud music, whenever they feel like it. They argue loudly! This week was awful lost 2 nights of precious sleep. Thank goodness I don’t live in the apt building. The manager is trash, all she knows is for me to call the police, which I have. The worse is it’s been 4 horrible neighbors. I don’t know what to do, I cannot live like this! I did talk to someone one regarding this, it helped then. I am a senior it’s wearing me down! It’s time to pray! I hope you are in a great place now or that the neighbor has calmed down! Thanks for your video! I wish you the best!
We live above moronic folks who bang wooden weaving looms all day. It's a residential colony, not an industrial house, and I have suffered for almost a year now. I honestly dont know what to do since the landlord is their relative and i dont know if they'll talk to them if i make a complaint. I'm in distance learning so I'm in the house all day, but now i just take really long walks or go to shop far away because I dread going home. Praying something changes 🙏
Hope you found peace with this situation…right now I’m going through the same thing. I want a house next…will not ever go through this again…many blessings to you!
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What have you been doing to stop !
I can sue ! Just go the doctor once month let him or her you can perform at work and I are afraid to sleep at night because it sounds like some one is in your house !
I hope everything works out for you..I know you just want to live in peace...Some people are so inconsiderate these days..😔
@@jujubeans9321 That wouldn't work. Only solution is to leave
@@jamesstpatrick8493
Your right. Pack up the love ones and let's go.
I feel the same way you do I have neighbors they do the same thing to me. I live in a ghetto. This is the high prices that we pay for these people around my area. I love the drama the world is coming to an end with these annoying people.
My sleep, mental health, and anxiety has gotten so bad because of my upstairs neighbors. I feel your pain.
Me too have this weird stomach pain everytime i hear them make i noise cuz i know now they have begin
Me too I have upstair neighbours from the philipines and they are rude and make noises since two years EVERYDAY and I couldnt move due to financial issues but I am moving on feb. I wish them the worst life. When I face them they act like pure innocents and cute and play the (it is not us card) everytime sm1 reports them.
That’s how I feel the little boy keep bouncing the damn ball above us it’s very stressful I gotta go back to work and my Daughter going back to school I need to move real bad 😢
They call people like that real life trolls
What’s complete shit is that there isn’t any financial programs to help people like you move out.
I left apartment living in 2012. People are evil. We're not meant to live on top of each other.
I do absolutely agree with u on this I lived in 2 types of apartments and in both times I did get in trouble with some kind of antisocial neighbor
Eventually, I moved to a vacation park temporarily to stay there for almost 8 months in a bungalow (this was a huge relief)
Until I found a home without this trouble...
Yet apartments are being built like crazy everywhere nowadays. It’s not a bad thing only and ONLY if the buildings are built with strong noise isolation material. However that is skipped to save on cost.
This type of BS encouraged me to buy a home and did that.
@@xzaviuraurai Yes i confronted my rental company multiple times they did renovate it with heat isolation made solarpanels on the roofs painted the place etc etc it where great but they forget the noise isolation in response they said well we can't do that it would mean we have to rebuild every wall to much expensive and they said in appartments theres always more livingsounds u just have to get used to it never understood it just garbage... while going over the border to Germany 40km's away from me it seems like their appartments are better build in general it's so important to have an better living experience
@@miinto7668 so sorry ya gotta deal with this. If only people had the decency to atleast do that from like say 12pm till 10pm. I’ll never understand why some folks gotta jam music soooo loud and repeating for hours.
Yes I’ve blast my music before or movie but after a couple listens turn it back down. At night I usually wore headphones when living at apartments.
Move outta there as soon as possible.
@@xzaviuraurai I did have no problem the woman played her audio files for her it where a moment of joy it went on for 2 hrs every evening same issue the walls so yes eventually she stopped and understood most annoying that i could hear her talking on the phone in the morning when i where still in bed this got me so frustrated to the point that i jumped out and furiously started throwing doors myself XD nothing helped every letter every phonecall to this rental company she just got over it and started making noise again in several ways then blaming construction as the problem im trying to move out but here in the Netherlands we have a pointsystem i rlly dont know what to do anymore some say u can't do much than work and hold on couple more years until i can move
I am not a violent person and I've lived my life trying to be as nice, polite and considerate as possible. But this is the kind of stuff that could literally send me to jail. I could totally lose my shit over this.
I totally understand. I am the same way. This is mental torture that literally drives people insane.
I tried using black magic curses
@@MD-hy9jvdo they work
They are trying to force her out. These people are narcissists and devils. I have neighbors like this. They are provoking you to confront them or are trying to sicken you.
@@MD-hy9jv7 people liked this foolishness
We are in such a selfish society
Results of Alcohol i believe
I know exactly the kind of stress this brings. I'm going through it right now. my next door neighbors are just a constant source of noise. The amount of hatred i harbour towards these people is unreal.
Same, 2 years now and the cops do nothing, they'll even laugh at me, rev their engines etc all night out of spite, even though I bought a giant speaker and microphone system that can finally drown them out and get mad and leave, but it's like their heads are screwed on backwards because the next day they'll do it again and they even have the 10 commandments in their front yard!!!!😢
I'm in this situation now with my upstairs neighbour she stomps around something unreal and the hatred that I feel for her is terrifying
@@aquatadevore9335
NO WAY!
Save me please
I had neighbors that drove me to insanity. I did everything in my power to shut them up but I ultimately just moved. Moving forward, I just call the police when neighbors go to far. I don’t care. When living in apartment, you’re basically in one house. Everyone has to be respectful towards each other.
It's the bass, it transcends all barriers. I think it should be illegal to play loud base in any apartment complex.
The landlord or management should be prosecuted for giving evil people the apartment. Full stop.
My apartment should be too.
Alot of landlord doesn't want to deal with it instead they throw on your face to call the police or they don't respond to your noise complaint, all they care is their money . Ugh
@@tedoneilclark4710 FACT 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I'm sorry you're going through this! I cannot stand inconsiderate people... disgusting and inhumane.
It always gets worse when you confront them to complain. The property manager does nothing here. The association does nothing here. The police do nothing here. I'm going to move into the woods soon to get away from these selfish animals.
Sue them all. Check your lease as noise violations are breaches of lease.
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. People who have never been through this don't understand how harmful this is. Just had a fight with my neighbors who threw a party on their balcony, which is right across mine, which started at 11 o'clock. After telling them several times to turn the volume down, they went inside continued there and at 1 AM they started having extremely loud sex. The woman was not even moaning anymore, it was literal screaming in front of the OPEN window. That was my breaking point and I yelled "BE QUIET" at the top of my lungs out of my window. Some may think that this is funny, but it really is not. In fact it's literal torture. You reach a point where you can't feel safe in your own house anymore, your entire body shakes out of frustration and anger and you feel like you're about to collapse. The worst part is that I've tried talking to them, but they don't speak a word English. Not one single word, so they don't even understand me or even attempt to. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against foreigners, I'm one myself, that'd make no sense. I just want peace during the night in my own house.
That sounds awful! You described it so well like your body has a reaction because you feel powerless. The language barrier makes it even worse because you can’t communicate how they’re harming you. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.
Just call immigration, the DEA and local law enforcement. Most of those beeners will tremble at the sight of law enforcement or they will try and act all tough, either way they will go to jail. You can sue the owner of the property with the evidence that you may have available, also for each time the officers come out, a citation ticket is given.
They don't need to speak English... They know what they're doing.
Sorry. This has nothing to do with foreigners. At least they dont understand. The worst is when American people understand this and keep playing lout Tv. Lets not be judgem
I'm also sorry u had to endure this torture it's hard when ppl are loud & self centered like this nowadays, ppl just want peace & quiet & not everyone has a lot of $ to afford a house & all the Xtra problems & $ it takes to upkeep them on top of high inflation, I have ptsd & anxiety so when u said body shaking this hit close to home for me as well
We left apartment life 6 months ago after 20 years of renting. It’s the loud music/ bass that gets me . Now in a single family house going through the same thing next door. I honestly think they want attention. People that behave this way want to be acknowledged. They want people to know they exist. Not sure if they’re renters . I’ve broken leases a few times, called the cops and just moved out after lease end . People are miserable. They are miserable and want everyone else to be miserable. We’ve lived top floor and still doesn’t matter. I also wonder why I’m being punished with horrible neighbors if I am being punished
If you are in a single family home you
Shouldn’t be sharing walls right
@@ladymb4237 right, but our houses are a few feet from each other and we share a gate yet they don’t or refuse to understand how bass works. They don’t care . I never understood when people in single family homes complained about hearing and feeling their neighbors noise inside of their own home. Now I do . I know it’s definitely possible. It’s weird because sometimes we hear several bangs on the wall closest to their house like you would with an apartment neighbor next door and we’re separated by a wooden fence. They bang on something so hard next door that we can feel and hear the banging . Besides their aggressive dog 🐶 kept outside 24/7 that growls at us in our own backyard and front yard. We keep to ourselves due to their antisocial behavior
Very intelligent observation. This is their miserable way to adfirm their presence on this world. Actually I feel like law is protecting this kind of people. I had to cope with an horrible family who was way over the concept of 'noisy' and 'annoying': parents were both unemployed and survived through social help. I felt somehow that I had to work to maintain these parasites of the society. I am a boxer and I thought many times I could give the father a lesson but I also knew that I would have had problems with the law and violence is not the right answer anyway outside a ring. More educated and intelligent people will always lose unfortunately.
I lived in several different apartments for 8 years. Finally a couple of years ago I simply had enough and couldn't deal with it. I found a small house in a nearby city, even though I would now have to pay higher rent, and commute to work. I didn't care, I desperately wanted something quieter. But that didn't happen because I discovered right away that the neighbors were leaving their dogs outside 24/7 and they never did ANYTHING to shut them up! I could hear the barking really loudly inside the house. I initially talked to them politely, nothing changed. Complained to the landlord and called animal control, nothing changed still.
I work in the logging industry and I have some plastic timber faller's wedges I keep around...I discovered that they make a loud "crack" almost as loud as a small caliber gunshot when slammed against the wooden fence. I started doing that every time the barking started, and yelling really loudly and angrily to shut their goddamn dogs up. I kept that up for a couple of weeks and they finally started getting the hint and moved their dogs to the front yard. But then the pieces of crap started going outside themselves and making deliberate noise. Finally they got kicked out by their landlord.
The new neighbors are much quieter overall, but I hear them outside slamming things around unnecessarily loudly, like they are trying to make me aware of their presence or something. Kinda like what you mentioned above. The other neighbors do the same type of crap also. I just don't get it. I've always tried to be really friendly and respectful of people's peace and quiet. But no matter where I live I never have neighbors that treat me the same.
@@fral.2708 I’m pretty sure these people didn’t grow up with attention from family. Their behavior screams “ hey ! Look over here at us! Do hear us?! We’re over here !”
You make me feel less alone. Thank you for being mature enough not to retaliate by becoming toxic yourself.
"What kind of adult acts like this?" Someone with zero inner life. Noise fills their emptiness. No great mystery. World's full of interchangeable pod people. They aren't bad, or good, just empty, from birth to death.
The emptiest vessels make the most noise.
Omg girl!!!! I’ve been dealing with this for over two years now. I two felt like it was possible karma! It truly feels like some sort of punishment but rest assure it is not! Some people are just horrible neighbors and bad for society. They will get what they are giving out sooner or later.
Two years?! I’m so sorry! Yes, karma is so real and they’ll get it back!
I’ve been going through the same thing with a spiteful elderly neighbor for almost 4 years. It’s really devastating I can’t even speak about it with anyone anymore, some people don’t believe me but that’s why I look up videos like this cause there are others who deal with demons like this who know do this stuff out of spite. Management is also on their side; same age and race as them and don’t care about how I feel. It’s me (24) vs 50 year old ladies. Lolll. Not sure what I even did to them, they’re bothered by my existence I guess. And being nice to them got me no where, they lie about the stuff they do act friendly with me and continue with the harassment
@@tokyodiva 4 years?! Oh no I’m so sorry she is being such a hateful person. Management can be such a pain especially when they choose to look the other way. People didn’t believe me either so I got plenty of proof. Maybe you could compile enough evidence to bring to management? Management had to stop dismissing me once I showed them videos of the harassment.
@@tokyodiva you definitely should look into legal action. They are clearly targeting you and it sounds very personal. Maybe threaten to sue them and see if they stop first? I wish it was cheap and easy to acquire a lawyer but it’s not so before moving forward I’d give them a final warning. I’m in the same position, student looking for a job so the last thing I need is to pay for a lawyer 🤦♀️
Yes and some people are so ignorant and selfish, they make noise on purpose to try and get you to move. Not everybody can just up & move bcus a neighbor is an A-hole'. Smfh. 😠
I am very sorry. Such people should not really exist to be honest. Support from Rome, Italy.
I’m going through this as well. The hardest thing about dealing with people like this is the thoughts. I’m not proud of the thoughts I have. One day I turned my stove on and didn’t realize there was a plastic bowl left inside, and when the plastic melted it caught on fire. Most people would panic at seeing their oven on fire but I sat there and contemplated just letting the whole apartment burn 😅 anyhoo, you’re not alone. And you can get through this. If you can don’t renew you lease. And if you can’t get a house get an upstairs unit at best. I wish you the best of luck. ❤️
Thank you! I’m sorry for you too. Literally my intrusive thoughts have been wild like wishing for their electricity to be cut lol. I stupidly renewed my lease before the noise escalated and they’re not letting me out of it which is another battle I’m facing 😩 but you’re right, I’m not alone and we will get through this.
Poor soundproofing creates psychotic thoughts and behavior
@@lily10598 something that’s been helping me is journaling when I started to get angry and listening to spa and meditation music at night when I want to sleep. It tunes out my neighbors bs. Sometimes I walk around with ear plugs in my ears throughout the day, just to keep my anxiety and anger at bay. You may have already tried these things but in case you haven’t, try it. Also be kind to yourself. Please please be the most kind to yourself, because this isn’t your fault. Coming across awful people is inevitable, living with them is worse.
@@PumpkinSpicePretzels wow that makes sense. I’ve been having those not gonna lie 😭
@@Fakindafunkpnay You just gotta confront the people causing the problem. Not angrily, not demandingly, but calmly and firmly, like you just wanna be able to focus or enjoy your spare time or sleep. You have to be the more mature, diligent, constant person.
I’ve been a bottom floor neighbor for 10 weeks before switching to a top unit at my current complex, and I absolutely feel your frustrations. I am not someone who does well when my ceiling is someone else’s floor.
What sucks is that some people just escalate the invasive behaviour when they have been told before to keep it at a decent level. You are doing the right thing though. You are an inspiration ❤
The young lady should move...
I came here with a neighbour problem … and am filled with empathy and support for you.
I hope you, and all of us with this issue, can find quiet places to just be.
The one and only time I lived in an apartment, it was directly next to someone who blasted loud bass-heavy rap music all day and evening. Not being able to relax and unwind in my own home nearly pushed me to a mental breakdown. Once I realized that neither the police or apartment management were going to do anything about it, I started taking matters into my own hands. I would get up at 3 or 4am and start beating on the shared wall with a hammer for a couple of hours. When it was time for me to leave for work, I would make sure all of my stereo speakers were facing the shared wall, then I would turn on and turn up the loudest and twangiest country and bluegrass music I could find on continuous nonstop loop as a counter to their obnoxious ghetto bass, and let it run for the next 8+ hours nonstop. If you are going to make me miserable, then I’m going out of my way to make you even MORE miserable. I hate all the scumbags in this world who torment other people with their obnoxious ghetto bass, like they think it’s their “right”. People like that make me root for Covid.
I am so sorry you had to go through this and I completely empathise with you . I am currently going through the same, but not as bad as you. Even as I write this it’s 10pm here in London, and in the apartment above me the child is running around and there’s thumbing on my ceiling. I have lived here for 16 years and not heard a sound from numerous tenants over the years. However, just over 18 months ago a new family moved in and since then it’s been noisy. I told the child’s dad a few weeks ago in a polite way to please keep the noise down. He did not say nothing or acknowledge and just walked. The impact for me is I have stopped working from home because sometimes they play music loud and I always hear thumping noises coming from upstairs, it’s then so hard to concentrate on work. In the evening I can hear child running around like now. I know karma comes back around tho.
Thanks for sharing your story with us.
Thank you for sharing your story as well! So sad that man is raising his child to be an inconsiderate jerk as well.
The problems you're describing have been exactly mine the last several months, multiple times a week, usually on work nights. The longer I let it go, the worse it gets. I'm now confronting it. It's aggravating. I'm hoping they'll just calm the f down eventually
It is so difficult to have to confront people like this and you’re so brave. Best of luck to you!
@@lily10598 Yep :) They calmed down 😆 Being persistent and calm and firm and willing to find balance with them is working so far.
In my religion, people that disturb, annoy, hurt or do such to their neighbors will never ever go to heaven. But i'm here forcing a smile, while still able to hear them even though i'm wearing earphones, listening to any podcast with high volume
Ive been dealing with this jerk next door for over a year that wears concrete shoes. I’ve tried being an adult and talking to him, got worse. Had management talk to him, even worse. Finally I had enough and went to the office today to see how much it would cost to break my lease (I have 8 months left and can’t make it that long.) They finally gave me the option to move to another unit this weekend. I feel so relieved. I hope this has gotten better for you.
I feel your pain Lily. My new upstairs neighbors of 2 months are also classless. Spoke to them in person early on and brought treats to them to ask them nicely. Manifested into many other things. Now that they are on the top floor because they moved from a bottom floor somewhere else it seems as though they didn’t learn how to be courteous but just be spiteful. My previous neighbors of 11 years were minimalists and quiet. Thanks for putting out your video.
I’m sorry you’re going through this too, especially after you were so kind to them. I definitely appreciate all my quiet neighbors more now, sucks that’s not the standard.
I don't know if you're in the US, but walls are notoriously terribly constructed for soundproofing, so people upstairs are typically too loud even when they're doing normal things at normal volumes. The quiet ones are REALLY quiet. I need to run a box fan at night now.
Narcissists are nuts and sleep deprivation is one of their favourite tactics. Don't give them attention, move on with your life and get out of their reach. If it was your own home that you purchased, that's a different thing.
What type of person does this? Clearly this is not an adult but a hurt hateful insidious malicious child habitating an adult body. They are trying to wear you down with all the stuff they are doing. Trying to ignore it is impossible. I haven't any advice just document document document. Everything has a season and this will end...people fail to realize that everything they do comes back
Yesss
Very well said, thank you! They will get their negative energy back one day!
@@lily10598God loves Justice. God sees everything. He will enact just vengeance. Trust in the truth.
You are not alone. Thank you for sharing your experience, I am living like this right now.
I am so sorry. I really hope it gets better.
Bless your heart I moved out because of loud upstairs neighbours, it was my very first apartment that I saved for and loved. The people (and I use this term lightly as they're really lesser than that) got worse when I sent letters to ask them to please quiet down. They tried getting in my face when I approached them politely, I'm a taller/bigger guy so that tactic failed, so they cried victim and just shut the door to continue the banging/music. Let's just say I got my vengeance in another way or another, and I'm a very quiet and calm individual myself so I couldn't dream of doing what I did prior. This was non-stop for 8 months and management didn't do anything. We peaceful individuals always become victims to these bullies and you have to get your point across that you won't stand for it because unfortunately, no one but yourself has your back. Like you said, everyone has their breaking point. I pray your peace is settled now.
I live in an apartment also and my neighbors follow me around my entire apartment. I have not had a moment to myself (in my own apartment) since I moved into it seven months ago. My neighbors hover over my head even when I'm in the bathroom. I just recently complained and am hoping for good results. I hope your situation gets better. Keep your head up.
Fingers crossed for you 🤞 I hope your management actually helps.
That's right Lily!! Stand up for yourself. I'm dealing with this right now and was ready to give up, but eff that!! I have to stand my ground, and will
I hope things have gotten better for you in the meantime🙏🏾
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this too. Don’t give up! You got this 💪
The phone microphone does not do justice to how loud it is, I know what it sounds like when you're living in a place like that. I'm sorry to hear this. I'm dealing with loud neighbors too atm. I moved to a more rural area thinking it would be less loud but it turns out it's worse because there are people who have giant speakers outside their home they can play 24 hrs/day. I hope you will find a more quiet place to live where people respect noise boundaries and you can actually sleep.
Yep, the phone microphone picks up like 1% of the noise. I've tried different mics, you have press to the wall to pick much up. Trying to sleep to music coming through walls is one thing, trying to prove it's there in a recording is another.
Listen with headphones. I hear everything and it sounds unbearable. I'd definitely get a ceiling vibrator
My neighbor starts talking early in the morning and keeps talking, in a loud, monotone voice, until late at night. I just wonder what’s wrong with this woman. I never hear other voices. (?!)
What happens is, it starts interfering with your life and your stress levels start going up. You might wind up getting really angry. I recommend ear plugs, a good fan or white noise machine. You will only have to wait until you move for it to stop. try not being home as much because if you fight back they will escalate and sometimes can lie and make you look like the bad one. be careful...
Definitely was getting angry at everything-my blood pressure was high 😳
True it's complex i did leave my TV on and went to work at 07:30 in the morning until 16:30 came back at home with a rather loud volume i knew they were both jobless
They never stopped until they did eventually ......but then a few weeks later the garbage started again i just moved out cuz rental company did not do much more then talking with them giving warnings etc it's horrible when u know when at home theres still no peace
Continue to document the disturbance! I lived through hell with my noisy neighbors, but I documented all of it! Including my confrontation with them.
In the end, they all got evicted! Now it's finally peaceful and I can sleep through the night!
When u documented who did u turn it into?How did u get them evicted?I have a neighbor upstairs she's young she just moved out of a recovery house her kids were taking from her but she gets visitation the kid is 11 both her an the kid stomp across the woid floors it's a small one bedroom they never sit down or leave the apartment its dreadful
@@krissiognen2151 I just gave it to my landlord. I was renting from a private landlord and I told him I would move out unless he took action against the noise disturbance.
Last year, I also moved into a new place. I chose a place with new buildings and mostly retired/senior tenants and I got much more peace and quiet now.
2:25 you caught it on camera I can't believe it! I have that same sounds in my flat all day long. They are constantly moving their furniture and on top there is hammering since month(!) now..every day ...I had the punishment feeling too. Few years ago I didn't help my neighbor when she complained about loud neighbors (it was kids she complained about so I didn't want to complain _--) Thanks for mentioning. I was patient for way too long now..lost lots of weight and get deeper and deeper into my depression..I don't know why my neighbors are home all day and who on earth has the strength to move furniture all day. I'm so glad you caught that sound I'm always too late to properly record it. Just when I put my phone away it's extra loud --_
Im here on this video because I understand how you feel. My upstairs neighbors move their furniture around every single day and sound like actual elephants every time they take a step. I work from home and feel helpless because I have nowhere to go when this noise is occurring during meetings and calls. They leave their patio slider open all day so I ordered an air horn on Amazon and I'm so excited to use it at 3 am when they're asleep.
What is an air horn? I live in this.Hell is empty all the devils are here.
Oh I will google this air horn.Thanks
Thank you for making this video. You're not alone. It's a big problem because it's happening everywhere.
The plot is thickening… I’m making calls and trying to hold management accountable. Planning to do an update once this reaches 1k views. Please continue watching and give me any advice you might have!
Evidence is everything
I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. This is extreme. I can’t fathom that people think this is okay.
I absolutely feel your pain and frustration. I have been wearing noise cancelling headphones inside my own home because of my nightmare neighbour. I have given up and I will be moving 😢
This is super relatable. I have my own unfair share of inconsiderate neighbors upstairs. They make the last neighbors who vacated their apartment look like the quietest people you've ever known--and believe me, those people were freaking loud (kids hoverboarding on wood floors, high heels thudding into the floor for hours at a time, etc). My father passed away last year, and despite not enjoying the old neighbors like I didn't, he never retaliated and had the patience of a saint. My youngest sister (when she was still living here) and I though, not as much. These new neighbors run what seems like a 24 hour dojo above our heads. They literally do martial arts all day, and the kids have a total disregard for anyone but themselves. The family runs, screams, yells, claps, argue, chase each other, crash into things, slam doors, drop stuff on the floor incessantly, constantly move heavy objects back and forth, loudly train their new dog, blast movies and music and games, blast a noise machine or music that loops over and over at night to help them sleep, sometimes toss stuff off their deck that lands on mine, it never ends. My sister works from home most of the time so one day the noise set her off so much we used a broom to knock on the ceiling and eventually called the property manager about their excessive noise. They talked to our neighbor and he came to our door himself to "apologize" saying he would give his kids iPads or something to keep them quiet for awhile and that they'd probably be quieter once school started back up. Me and my sister temporarily felt bad after that, but ever since then...nope. They're louder than ever before--recently they were blasting jazz music at 5:30 in the morning. Now that it's just myself here, with my hamster and fish, we're waiting for a 1 bedroom apartment to open up so I can get the hell outta Dodge...but so far I'm stuck with these people hearing their every move and second of their life. Maybe he meant nothing by it, but the guy upstairs even had the nerve to say "I don't want you to move, you're the coolest neighbor I've ever had to deal with, I'm gonna have to deal with new neighbors once you do." "Deal" with me? I've been nothing short of patient with these people even when I wanted to grab and bump the broom to the ceiling or call the office on them. The only silver lining is that I get to be equally as loud if I want to...but...thing is, I don't always want to be loud. These people though, it's as if they live on adrenaline and they're allergic to quietude. I can't stand them whatsoever. I'm not the type of person to say no fun allowed, I mean I get it, I was younger once and remember our old downstairs neighbor coming to our door on my 13th birthday to obnoxiously complain about alleged noise we were making and made me cry, just after we had moved in and my grandfather having passed about a week earlier. But these neighbors, they just dial it up from 10 to a thousand in a matter of seconds. They live in their own thin-walled bubble and could obviously care less about those around them. As long as they're happy, that's all that matters. And of course the management of these buildings wall-to-wall carpeted all the ground floor units like mine but couldn't bother with the rest of them. You're supposed to cover your floors with rugs or carpet yourself if you're not on the ground floor as it said in the lease, but these people never bothered to care enough to do so. Honestly...I can't wait to move but I always seem to be surrounded with the loudest neighbors possible so I'm not getting my hopes up very much.
That sounds absolutely awful. Those neighbors sound like inconsiderate jerks. I understand not being a loud person, people told me to fight back with even louder noise but I’m just not that way. It sucks people like that take advantage of nice people like us. I really hope you can find a new place soon and finally get some peace!
@@lily10598 Thanks for the support, from one fed-up neighbor to another. They're blasting music right now and my Shazam app was actually able to pick it up despite the muffled noise--that's how loud they are. People have no consideration for those around them. Despite the silver lining of being able to be as loud as I want to be myself since they'd have no room to complain, I don't enjoy being a party animal 24/7. Can't get enough just purely quiet time in this place--I honestly thank God that I have my fan, ear plugs, and a sleep mask to get myself to sleep despite their lack of respect for those living under and above them. Just saw your other video update and wanted to say I'm glad your situation seemingly changed for the better, I hope. No one deserves to be subjected to as much unnecessary disregard for fellow neighbors as we both have had to deal with, along with countless others.
I actually read that whole thing ultrasonic
@@shelydon78 It's a mouthful, but a mouthful is necessary to describe the earfuls of noise these people create, lol.
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I've had some loud neighbors at the places I've lived, but nothing like that. I hope you're able to find somewhere more quiet because it's so bad for your mental health to be subjected to noise all the time. I currently live in a small house and deal with some occasional noise here and there, but nothing like I used to in apartments. I had some problem neighbors that are gone now thankfully, but I still have some problems with the new neighbors and the people on the other side of me. If you ever happen to look into a house, keep in mind that you may STILL be able to hear noise from neighbors loud and clear inside the house. It just depends on the neighbors and construction of the house, but it's something to keep in mind.
I truely understand what you're going through. Actually 100%. I have been in my apt for yrs & every neighbor I have had has been loud 2 the point I have asked myself everytime, are they on drugs bcus it seems they never go to work, sit down and just relax & watch tv, or even go 2sleep. Out of 5 different tenants, even that can't be true... My management actually tells all the tenants who complain, that they can't control how a person lives and either move or put up with it. You vid is the prime example of why i will try my best 2 not live in certain types of apts in the future... 😕😩
Learned my lesson now too. Need to live somewhere where management actually cares about the quality of the living spaces they’re providing. Useless management is just as much at fault as loud neighbors.
@@lily10598 Yes. So many people have complained about their experiences and because the rental market is so over crowded many apt managers feel if we move they will just move on to the next person without even warning them about the structure of the building and how bad the noise can get... 😞😕
Always document. Always. I have expended over $500 on tech to mitigate the noise. Eventually you need to remind your leasing company that there is a clause in your lease (and presumably theirs) that they are not permitted to disturb neighbors/surrounding community.
But speaking to your apartment manager in person and playing them those videos in person will help. It should send the point home, and hopefully the leasing company will implement a 3 strikes policy
You’re so right. Just checked my lease and there is a section prohibiting noise disturbances. Will definitely bring this up to them, thank you!
What tech ?
I'm not even in a apartment. My neighbor across the street crank his music almost 24/7 for two years. So I can only imagine living next wall to these kind of people.
I’m sorry that your going through this I’m dealing with same things. Basically everything you describe the neighbor above me have been making a lot noise. Moving furniture to jumping and running & waking me up early. These are 3 adults. If they were kids running maybe I’ll understand. Best advice move out you deserve to enjoy your life. Especially after a long day you deserve to relax at your home. No one deserves to go what your going through if anything remember karma will come back at them. THE MOVING CHAIR. I DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND YOU. Talk to my neighbor why he be was moving the chair at 4 a.m & guess what? He started doing that every single day before he left to work.
I'm in this part of RUclips because, probably like everyone else, I typed Noisy neighbor on the search bar. I swear these inconsiderate squammies can drive a calm rational person insane. I ignored my loud-ass noisy neighbors for far too long, thinking they would improve or see the error in their ways, I literally just buried my head in my pillow and screamed inwardly and left them at it for around 5mos before I finally plucked up the courage to speak to them through their window, and the result was that they laughed at me and imitated my voice, they didn't even talk to me. Welp, that's what giving them a grace period got me 💀💀 I learned to face problems head-on and be more assertive on what's right. Few things are as important as inner peace and mental health.
I totally agree with you! I can't stand our neighbors on either side. They are always making noises and especially I hate the loud music coming through the walls too so you feel it!! Luckily it's only on the weekend mostly but it's constant on and off all day and last night it was until midnight when they are supposed to stop at 10-11 and not past 50 decibels. If they keep it up, I am calling Law enforcement. We have one in LA specifically for noise nuances that disrupt the peace. I also believe in taking a stand so they don't feel they can keep it up, that's ridiculous!! People should be able to get a good night's sleep and not be treated that way and ya, never be ashamed to stand up!! You're strong and beautiful, never forget it!! xx ❤
I went through this torture for a year an it took 7 complaints an a police report to get them evicted. Now they moved in more trash next door that's playing it at 8am. I don't know how a sound bar or stereo is not banned in apartments.
My experience with rental companies/landlords is that they never ever didn't do anything about it and the crap just kept going
While i could not handle it anymore and took action myself by producing more television sounds
Unfortunatly this didn't work they kept going
Called police multiple times nothing did hold them back
I did have no other option then to go back to my parents house
This truly sucked...
I considered moving back to my parents house too. I’m sorry you went through that, it does suck.
Even I now deal with this. My life has been horrible lately. These new neighbors keep partying every 4 to 5 days and play loud ass music every time I am about to go to sleep. I don’t like it. If they do this one more time, I am about snap and that is my breaking point. That is the point I will get the cops involved and tell them to write the neighbors a fine for disturbing me and other people besides me. If they do this even during school nights, I will literally open all the windows in the house and blast loud ass music so see if they like it. Like if I cannot sleep, you will not sleep. One time they didn’t even shut the music off until 3 am in the morning and I was still wake up at the time and woke up 4 hours later.
I wanted to add that southern California can be really bad because of relaxed building codes around 1960- essentially apartment walls and floors paper thin and no insulation 😮
I sympathize with you! I’ve endured 2 months so far living over my neighbor (he has dementia) who blasts his television from 9 am to 3 am the next morning, every day!
Our neighbours are like that they shouts in groups like they all will gather nearby our house talks and shouts like anything this continuous whole day it's been 15 years we are tired to tell them but they did n't stops... I can feel your pain..
Couldn't here the music in the video but i definitely sympathise with you. I had really loud neightbours who loved to socialise and stay up all night. They never used to work so when we were at work in the day, they slept! When we wanted to sleep at night, they had 4 or 5 friends over and sometimes more, drinking and smoking weed, talking very loudly and shouting at times. They played music sometimes, even at 3 or 4am! Thankfully they moved out
Having loud unemployed neighbours is horrible... They can afford to stay up late and they can sleep in peace. Meanwhile I have to wake up early sleep deprived to pay for their welfare.
Dealing with this myself. For me its a guy that blasts music full bass to where its vibrated my walls and I could feel it on my pillow in bed even with earplugs and noise cancelling headphones combined. And he has a big dog that barks all throughout the day when he's gone and it all echos throughout my apartment.
Beyond just being extremely disruptive this has screwed up ZOOM meets and confrence calls that are work related and related to job hunting for me. I was about to blow my top but after eough complaints fortunately the landlord gave him a 10 day notice. We'll see what happens now I guess. 🤷♂️ I hope your situation got better too. You aren't alone
Hold them to that 10 day notice! I was told my neighbors were given a 7 day notice but it turned out to be just a scare tactic because the noise continued and nothing was done
@@lily10598 Well I have a decent relationship it seems with the landlady but for sure I will! I am still hearing the barking and it woke me up from sleeping and trying to rest while I been sick so I really have no mercy at this point if and when he gets evicted.
He obviously doesn't listen and doesn't care that he neglects the dog all day long and sometimes night to where it's causing grief for everyone including his poor dog. I hope the poor dog is taken from him and given to a better home. He's had so many opportunities that I don't think and hope that he burned his last one. I will keep you posted on what happens!
I was dealing with this but worse! The property manager lied and wasn’t willing to do anything so I broke my lease 🤷🏾♀️ You have the right to peace and quiet in your own home, that is the law and the cops are not always helpful! I hope you were able to move 🙏🏾
I think that’s what I’ll have to do too. Can you explain how you did it? Did you have to pay for remainder of lease or just a few months. Did you already have another place lined up and was the move expensive ?
@@t.terrell7037where I live you can break it but you have to pay off the remainder, have another place lined up
My neighbors were listening to music at night and the music was very loud, so I couldn't sleep. I didn't know what to do with them. Filing complaints, talking to them, calling police didn't work out. They completely ignored it. But I found a way to shut them up. One morning after another sleepless night, I decided to teach them a lesson. Since they listen to music at night, they most likely sleep during the day. I turned on loud music and went for work. The music played all day (which is not a violation of the law) and it is clear that my neighbors could not sleep all day. And it actually worked out well 😂 They were never listening to music at night again 😅
Good luck. Meanwhile neighbours dogs are killing me with their barking
Im so sorry you haft to deal with this 😥💔 hope you're situation gets better for you I really do like you said knowone should put up with this
This is what I'm dealing with , they do it for no reason ... I am a light sleeper and they are always stomping so loud and throwing things on the ground multiple times, I throw stuff at the ceiling but they never stop plus they have a big dog which is very annoying too. Luckily we are moving in less then 30 days!!
I’m glad you’re moving! I do not recommend living under people-let alone a big dog!
I totally relate. I have a deejay living above me who when asked to lower his music has retaliated with stomping and chair scraping. I too have thrown oranges at the ceiling, pounded the ceiling with a broomstick, but he just retaliates further. So I have been bullied into submission and wear Bose noise cancelling headphones all day long. After a year of looking, I have finally found a top floor apartment. Oh, and I complained and complained to management and they did little to nothing. I hope you prevail and get some peace.
How do you find the noise cancelling headphones help? Do they help with sleep?
@@TheCobalt5 they absolutely help! I have Bose quiet comfort
I hope things are better now, I’m currently going through this but my main issue is the neighbor is loud past 10pm which is when quiet hours starts. Wishing everyone the best who has this situation
Me and my family live in the countryside, we have the same family of neighbours on both sides of the property.
Since day one, they've been rude, loud and malicious.
Their children often yell several hours during daytime and when i say yell, i mean scream like a pig, blast music during daytime aswell, but then often it goes as long as 5-6 AM.
It's the worst during weekends, holidays, but especially since mid-spring to late-summer.
We've tolerated it for a few years, at the time of writing this, i have once again called the police. The police went over there, the music stopped for a bit and then it continued.
Add to that they also burn trash during the summer, even during night that pollutes. THESE PEOPLE ARE LITERAL DEMONS.
I don't know if there's hope for us, this is a private house and we have a large backyard, so it's not like we can just leave like that.
Every time it happens, i feel i am getting closer to acting out dark thoughts...
I used to live in North Hollywood, Ca. I had 2 new women living next to me and I thought, seems cool but after some time dammm they were horrible. They would make noise at night so since they were not the only ones and I had told the manager so many times I didn't want to bother the manager anymore ( this manager was not doing her job). I posted a note on the door of these 2 women, the note was not bad at all I was just letting them know I couldn't sleep and wake up for work at 5:30 am they got so pissed off a week later they started banging on my wall like monsters I was actually scared and decided not to call the cops because I didn't want any more problems w them. I was so sick of these two different neighbors making noise all the time I decided to finally move. I think moving can be a good choice. I feel better where I am at, it is noisy during the day here where I live now but not during the night time
They are professional upstairs neighbours. They are just doing their job.
I can relate more than you know.. it's literally ruining my mental and physical health. I have sworn to myself this is my LAST apartment. Once my lease is up I am out of here. Motivating me to level up and move into a house without sharing walls with idiots anymore!
Same here! A quiet house sounds so peaceful right now.
@@lily10598 Are you still dealing with this? I sure hope not!
I am dealing with this right now. I am afraid if I break my lease earlier that I will have problems. Hopefuly I can get through these 2 months. The thing thats the worse is like you said, it is ruining my mental and physical health.
Thank you LILY, Ur story is soooo similar to mine. Being quiet and patient and not wanting to bother others when you are a quiet tenet. My neighbor has gotten worse since I too complained to my landlord. Even with police involvement. We are going in circles. In my case it's not music, its a parent allowing her kids to jump off furniture and run the hallways as early as 6am and at times as late as 11pm. Somedays, it goes on forever...like I live under a playground. I have felt like you..."why am I going through this" questions? I involved the landlord but he's only concerned about collecting rent. I've documented, ignored, and bought cameras when my neighbor began passive aggressive behavior due to my complaints. It is a nightmare, especially for those just wanting peace and quiet. Their are laws re: The Right to Quiet Enjoyment and A cease and desist letter you can file. However, they are costly. I hope your situation is better... I wanted to thank you for posting. It can become an isolating nightmare when others don't live through it. I just appreciate knowing i'm not alone and thank you for being brave and ending with a positive message.
You are certainly not alone. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. It is scary that parents are raising those children to be loud and inconsiderate. I really hope your situation gets better, surely you can’t be the only one hearing all the noise?
I have been through this as well. So I know how you feel.
In this block of flats, I was on the first floor. So other than all the other noise that you had to tolerate. I had this as well.
Below me, and one unit to the side was a middle aged lady.
She was a very kind person. But her son was not.
He would come, and knock on her door around 12:30am to 2:30am in the early hours of the morning. This would always wake me up.
He was a male equivalent of a Lady of the Night. He was looking for money for drugs.
After a string of times being woken up. I had enough.
My balcony overlooked the door.
So the next time he appeared at night, I went out, and glared at him.
After a few minutes he became aware of me. This attracted some gestures from him to go away. Which I did not.
He then told me to F-Off.
I told him that if I had to come down, and have a 'Chat' with him about waking me up at night, I was going to seriously damage his Carcass.
I never saw him after that, and his mother was very grateful.
As I am watching this I swear my upstairs neighbor is training for the marathon. I made the mistake of buying a first floor condo and I am trapped financially. I told my husband that you stay if you want but I am ready to check into a hotel.
I do night shift a couple days a week and its actually EASIER to sleep mid day than it is at night due to less noise. Everyone is at work, but you'd assume everyone being asleep would make it quiet at night. You would assume wrong. Of course we have a 10pm-7am "quiet time" that means absolutely nothing. So thats cool.
Sounds like you’ve been putting up with this for a long time and have tried being nice about getting them to stop. Many cities have local noise ordinances. At this point you need to get your local police department involved. The violators can potentially be charged with a misdemeanor. If you live on campus and your college or university has its own police department I would start by filing a complaint with them, and then reach out to local police. I would first lookup the noise ordinance for your city and see what it says. Most cities have one. Keep us in the loop if you decide to pursue this path.
Girl I feeeeel youuu.. I am living this at this very moment 😢
I’m so sorry. I hope it gets better for you
My nextdoor neighbor apt 118 is crazy. She would get on me over the sounds or noise i make. When i'm really doing normal stuff. I hope the my nextdoor neighbor would move out or pass away
Hi, I am so sorry you have had to live with inconsiderate neighbours above you - I totally understand as I am having the same problem. May I ask how did you record the sound so clearly, meaning which equipment did you use? I tried it with my iPhone but its not very clear. I need to produce clear recordings for my landlord. Many thanks
I got up on a chair and held my phone as close to the ceiling as I could. I recommend getting a microphone that plugs into your phone to help pick up the sound better!
Thank you Lily. I'm 73 and not very steady on a ladder, our ceilings are high, but will try your suggestion of a microphone. Warm regards
I’m going through this right now. I have talked to this dude 3times about turning his music down because it’s been heard through my floor! Same as you won’t stop until midnight. I was ready to knock on his door with my gun but I had to humble myself. I’m breaking my lease and moving at the end of this month finally. I can not take it anymore.
You’re so lucky you can break your lease. I totally understand, it is unbearable living conditions. People are so inconsiderate.
me too moved out and do not care about the lease . if the management doesn’t fix the problem then move , take care my health and i do not want anything go too far. talk to bad neighbors never work, I did too many times.
Wow! This is absolutely unacceptable!!! :( I feel so bad for you ❤️ Can you move? They seem like selfish, immature and unreasonable people. How can you reason with someone like that unless THEY have an awakening? 😊 I truly hope you find a solution soon. You need your sleep. These people are depriving you of your basic needs 😔❤️😘
PS. It's not your karma. We all meet people like this at some point in our lives, unfortunately. Also, I am sure you have never done something like what they are doing now - making you suffer on purpose like this. ❤️
Use any white noise generator to sleep better. Never use headphones to watch movies or listening music.
Omg, Lily!
I am desperately trying to find a vacant apartment to move to before my lease expires in two months!!!
I am a single female who lives on the bottom floor under a family of four people.
They have two kids who literally run/stomp so loud that it literally overpowers my television at its loudest volume which is loud.
This literally goes on until the early hours of the morning.
Like you I am SUPER patient but eventually it starts to wear your nerves.
Taking some advice from Reddit, I’m documenting the noise to bring to my landlord”s attention.
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I live in a condo..What I do is...I have 3 surround sound systems(Good Ones) centrally located in the living room, my bedroom and spare bedroom...get good ones so you can battle the noise....you like music too right? Instead of using energy to bang or yell...use the volume knob instead...Keep a good pair of headphones handy...
I rented a studio because I needed a place close to work. ITS THE WORST. At least in a 1-2 bedroom the noise is generally isolated to the living room areas(of course not always). But in a studio its all your bedroom and you hear it all. YT decided my last comment was too aggressive and deleted it so I can't say any more 😆
These type of toxic people wanted to show how tough they are but really they're weak. I see this type of people everyday because they're everywhere. I usually get them back!
Call the police on them.
I want to but I’m nervous about getting backlash from the property manager 🙃
Good luck to you, I am fighting the same thing here with the people upstairs, except in my case, it's a throbbing thud of a basketball on the floor above me. I know you will prevail.
I’m going through a similar situation it is so annoying. My next door apartment neighbors are a couple that fights all the time and bang on the walls/yell at each other. They also take like 5 showers a day for some reason. I just built my pc setup in my bedroom and I have to deal with this while working / gaming. I have sound panels coming in but I don’t know if it will help much.
Hey I can totally relate, some people are horrible neighbors, when I moved to a new apartment on the second floor I could hear everything even the people walking downstairs, I ended up buying a white noise machine , so I turn that on and also connect Spotify pink noise and put it on loop on some speaker at regular volume, it has helped me tremendously, it can take time to adjust but it works 😊
"What kind of adult acts like that?" (@02.45). Four kinds: mentally ill, brain damaged, drug addict, or all three.
Omg Im so sorry. Thats alot of noise. My neighbour blends, hoovers, goes in and out the building after midnight. Its so exhausting.
I have controlled my anger for so long that they thing it's okay to gossip about whatever they think I do/did. Took some SSRI to contain my rage, Ritalin for planning and an adrenargic med to kinda tweak their lives just a little. Doing nothing will only enable their bad behavior. I want to help them turn their lives around 180°.
LOUD BLUE GRASS COUNTRY MUSIC HELPED SOLVE THIS ISSUE. THEY PLAY THEIR GAMES U PLAY YOURS
I'm sorry baby girl! I hope this situation got better. 🙏 ugh some neighbors are soooo inconsiderate 😒 im dealing with it too. These people are literally soulless, I'm convinced.
😮I feel your pain I have a similar situation with my neighbour above he is stalking me and always knows which room I am in its absolutely crazy and scary he has attacked me and the police have done nothing as I’m typing right now he is directly above me what are you using to record them? My neighbour has been using a device that stops me from recording him
I’m so sorry you’re going through that and the police won’t do anything! I used my phone to record. I got up on a chair and put my phone up to the ceiling to catch the noise better. If you can’t get up to the ceiling, I recommend buying a phone microphone to help pick up the sound.
@@lily10598 aww thank you so much I have seen a mic like that on Amazon I will buy it for sure god bless you I hope things are better for you now 🙏🏽✌️🏽&🫶🏽
I’ve been dealing with this for 7 months in my FIRST apartment. One person lives above me (drags things across the floor, stomps excessively, walks as hard as possible, drops heavily objects, blasts music, etc.) talked to the management they don’t give 2 Sh*ts. They see me as the problem bc she was living here before me. I’ve tried talking to her, wouldn’t come to the door, called the police they didn’t do anything… I’m so sleep deprived all the time bc causes making my life a living hell. I’m always falling asleep at work, calling out because I’m so exhausted. I’m SICK of living like this🤦🏽♀️
It was my first apartment too! I knew people would be loud but didn’t think they would be so extreme. I’m so sorry you’re going through that.
i know this was a year ago, but im also dealing with this. im a 14 year-old and my neighbors are loud 24/7 a mother with 7 seven kids is understanding that they can be Rowdy and not listen, but that isnt an excuse to blast music til you can hear the type of music. They once threatened my family in a note saying that we should move out FROM A SMELL. so just saying i know how you feel, the anger, frustration. and im also glad you said something as well❤
She was evicted
Watch the video 😂
Unreal
Girrrl, I have been there with the apartment living and it was HORRIBLE. Now I live in a house in a "nice" neighborhood, except now it's the house directly next to mine. Mexican music every weekend. All day all night ..usually doesn't stop until 4am. I hate the thoughts I have now because I am also a very patient person. But I haven't slept in days, and it's making me feel evil. I call the cops every weekend and it does nothing. They always turn back up when the cops leave. And I can't slept during the day either because they just start back up. It is a horrible way to live.
Ugh that is unfortunate because that is why anyone moves to a "nice" neighborhood in the first place to get away from trashy inconsiderate people yet here they are finding ways slip into places they shouldn't be in.
I am on the same boat but my neighbors also own more motorcycles than they have kids - which is not the typical 1-3 trust me it is aggravating the money we pay in mortgage to have to drown our neighbors loud ass motorcycle revving at all times of the day and night. I have really tried not to wish ill health and horrible tragedy on him but that is waning...
The first apt. I rented there was a girl living above me and she would get up early to get ready for work and put on heals and make all kinds of racket. after that I always rented the upstairs apt.
❤I am reading your story today because I am going through it now! My neighbors from hell, about 3 ladies, one male with mental issues 2 boyfriends and 2+ kids. Long story short, they moved in during the pandemic. I know their old neighbors was dancing the street when they left. The one male which is a brother, smokes his cigs, leaves butts and throws up in the shared driveway. He’s walking around 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I could somehow deal with that. The family plays loud music, whenever they feel like it. They argue loudly! This week was awful lost 2 nights of precious sleep. Thank goodness I don’t live in the apt building. The manager is trash, all she knows is for me to call the police, which I have.
The worse is it’s been 4 horrible neighbors. I don’t know what to do, I cannot live like this!
I did talk to someone one regarding this, it helped then. I am a senior it’s wearing me down!
It’s time to pray!
I hope you are in a great place now or that the neighbor has calmed down! Thanks for your video! I wish you the best!
We live above moronic folks who bang wooden weaving looms all day. It's a residential colony, not an industrial house, and I have suffered for almost a year now. I honestly dont know what to do since the landlord is their relative and i dont know if they'll talk to them if i make a complaint. I'm in distance learning so I'm in the house all day, but now i just take really long walks or go to shop far away because I dread going home. Praying something changes 🙏
Hope you found peace with this situation…right now I’m going through the same thing. I want a house next…will not ever go through this again…many blessings to you!