@@jobrakai93958:03 is when they start to talk about it. Still a bit clickbatey since it doesn’t really address how women “know” of the pron prediction.
@@HARwinsOUTagain Women can connect and are quite observant. The energy will let them know. Specifically she pointed out that men are not seeing the woman as a human, or even seeing the person, just seeing an object, and women will know that. There is a lot more to say as it is much more complex of an issue, and she probably doesn't get all of it. For example she doesn't get why a man would see a woman from a different country as desirable, when that is in fact hard wired into us. It's the same for women. Women given men's sweaty shirts to smell like the smell of the healthiest man who is most genetically different. It's the pheromones. Completely explaining that ends in a place science has yet too look at and map out. I could explain it, but not point to any research papers. Other things she misses is that free corn is made to be a trap, as it's money comes from advertising and thus wants you hooked. It is written and arranged to make those who consume it unwanted and thus come back for more. It's corn for losers, to watch it you need to put yourself in the mindset of an unwanted loser and that jerk jerk locks that energy in with positive reinforcement. A woman doesn't want a man who desired to bend his mother over a couch, step or otherwise and she will sense it. Brains are separate, but minds are not. She will sense that and get a bad feeling about you. Be a winner, not a looser. You can still get normal porn that isn't like that, but that generally costs. VR seems to have the least looser stuff, and the added setup time helps reduce it's use. It is also not abstracted like flat porn, and can motivate you to improve yourself. Get your state of mind right and put in the work to fit that state of mind. Gym, learning. education, conversation, career, ext.. Research studies looked and men and women playing an online games and they found that the worse a man was doing in the game the more hostile he was to women. That is the loser state of mind. That is that loser energy. The winner respects women. The free porn trap conditions you to be a loser, to make you alone and unwanted so that you will watch more loser porn, and make them more money.
What if you overestimate yourself all the time. And you are not learning from it. For example you are manic or hypomanic. There are other situations that can make you structurally overconfident. Some wwomen suck at spotting an overconfident man. They will stay with him while he ruins his and her life while he stays confident. J Peterson: women are always right.lol
Nope confidence begins as an internal thing derived from knowing yourself irrespective of the world around you .the mistake that crushes it for most people comes as a result of allowing the surrounding world to convince you that theirs something wrong with you ,which then leads to betraying yourself .confidence is not an outwards show even though it leads to being yourself publicly and sometimes in odd ways .all of the shows and displays are just weak people hiding their insecurities ,the tell is in their fear of apologising or of being open about themselves contrary to what so many other weak people would have the masses believe .
If you have healthy testosterone and sleep amd diet very unlikely you will have anxiety in these types of situations. Men who jerk off definitely have anxiety though@@notnotneutral15
Sadia, you are correct about your description in regards to problem solving! I find when I challenge myself regularly and develop a routine to solve a variety of issues, my motivation/energy levels increase.
They’re looking for men with money who will financially provide for them. Younger men have more options in the dating market than older ones. They also usually are not as financially stable as the older man. They want the lifestyle that a First World Country can provide . They want a far more comfortable lifestyle than they would have in their own country, if they were to stay there. It’s usually men who have had much less success with women of their own class , education, and financial status who are the men who must pay to have a woman be his wife.
The part about not reducing whymen to a private part if you have experience with them couldn't be more wrong. It's experience with them that causes you to realize that most don't offer anything outside of their private parts.
what a weird theory. she starts out sounding like she knows what she's talking about then takes a sharp left turn in wtfsville. men (or women) can have a hyperspecific preference in looks without it coming from porn and most men aren't even in a position to be that picky regardless.
I think it's a little out of a touch, but I think you could boil it down to "don't choose someone for their looks, choose for personality" basic timeless advice repackaged as.. this podcast xD
@@Anthony-n3b3w Yes it did. The only Adult entertainment I watch, are fashion model week on RUclips and bikini model bios those kind. Once in a while I’ll watch some corn and let one go, but not excessively.
@@tommygunn2782 I don't watch tv personally I love RUclips The problem is not tv or porn those are tools There is always an intention behind any usage of any tool and it's true we live in a man's based world Woman's perspective usually is more sensitive.
Research studies looked and men and women playing an online games and they found that the worse a man was doing in the game the more hostile he was to women. That is the loser state of mind. That is that loser energy. The winner respects women. Most porn is made for the loser state of mind and what they desire. In watching it they lock that state of mind. Women who watch that are conditioned to want losers. They tend to end up with doms who crush them into submission. I see the women who like porn.
So blames corn industry (typical since YT is mostly men and she can't blame them or risk alienating them) but won't say anything about the whymen who make the corn, even though they are the ones complaining about the alleged ramifications of it. Then claims that life is too easy for men and has a more detrimental effect vs whymen. I disagree. We are literally witnessing what happens when life gets too easy for whymen. They believe that they don't need a man for anything other than physical needs and proceed to mate select accordingly.
i don't understand why anyone take her seriously she is exactly like that one femaloe cult leader that women worship i forgot her name but she had a thumbnail im sure you seen saying how to be rich
Her argument is more about male utility than anything. Women depend on male utility. If they can't use us, then that is a problem that needs attention and fixing.
I cannot speak to other cultures, but in America it would be absurd to blame men for choosing the wrong partners since (social media + dating apps) have given women ALL of the options and left most men with none. Also, this will likely lead to the end of our society within a generation or two.
Dude I've had conversations with women from young to old. They are just not with the accountability. In some parts they agree but not all of it when it's just facts.
I've heard Sadia before on this topic, shaming older men for selecting younger women. This smells an awful lot like sour grapes. She is beautiful, but post-wall. She has a valid point about porn shaping our desires, but so does TV, movies, videos and social media. They always promote the most gorgeous people - male or female. Same could be said about women who read romance novels. That becomes their "dream man." Only problem is he doesn't exist. It's pure fiction. Men are smart enough to separate fantasy from reality. Many women are not.
Sadia is the prime example of why you should ignore appeals to authority. She is biased and ignorant trying to play the "im different" game as a last ditch effort to attract a baller with her remaining good years.
THANK YOU. We didn't start out being attracted to foreign women. Our minds were closed off to those possibilities because once upon a time we had no NEED to pursue outside America. The social value has gone to SHIT so obviously we have to look elsehwere. Supply & Demand. This ain't rocket science and it's gone over her head, yet she has previous videos elaborating on the issues with Modern American Women so right now this sounds a bit contradictive.
@@trueindividual1417 That's why I never lesson to a women or take them seriously. They can't logic Don't be fooled if they sound smart for the moment.
@@abcdefzhij Exactly. Women do not watch porn. If anything, they probably watch lesbian porn because it's super, super, super clear that they're completely repulsed by men at this point. There's only a small percentage of women who watch porn, and those are the women that actually like sex. But that percentage is microsized compared to men, trust me on this.
@@KtotheG Not true. Unless the woman has a high masculine libido, it actually makes us puke. It is repulsive to women because that's our biological wiring. We're not visual, remember? So if you've encountered women who enjoy it, then consider them MEN as they've bid goodbye to their femininity, natural biology and insticts a LONG time ago. Run from those women
I know, if she was my girlfriend , we'd get into a lot of arguments because of her constant interrupting, the first time she'd cut me off before I finished what I was trying to say , Id have to tell her to stop that in an very salty way, Dont interrupt me !
She is the typical "I know better because I am a unique woman with the ability to see behind a human" podcast girl. What has she achieved professionally? Is she a licensed psychologist / sociologist or any other kind of human science? Or is she the type of woman, who thinks she is an expert at relationships, because a lot of men wanted to get laid with her when she was young? Being desired sexually doesn't turn you into an expert. What are her credentials? P. S "my credentials are my life experiences" - don't count
Sadia is so comically solipsistic in this video. Notice the 3:30 point onward where she laments the lack of tribes and what not. Sure it's a good point but no where is there much of any mention about how women have been spoiled by the ease of life also. I just want women for just ONCE to admit that yes porn is a problem but so is social media and dating apps. The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west.
"The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west." You are dating a porn star, but without the skillset or money. All the negatives of dating a porn star, other than the having public sex for money, yet none of the advantages. Are they looking for a husband or a pimp? Once you have adopted the correct mindset to date one, you are in the mindset to date a better version. The relationship with them is all cat, and no dog, so to speak. Yet they require you to be all dog, and no cat. You are to come when called and do tricks for a treat. The traditional man is in a bad place. I can have a relationship with a modern woman, as I get cats, but I will not be a dog for them, and to do so requires building a new skill set. At that point you have what a porn star needs and you can only shake your head at where the modern society is at.
He is right. I have high self esteem but I struggle with anxiety that affects my mood to be self confident on many occasions. That sucks! Nothing that a beer can't solve😂😂😂
@@daisyflower8362 I was being sarcastic 😁but fortunately just one beer get me in the flow.. and it's good for me, because I do hate beer and alcohol in general. But you are right. Alcoholic drinks do no't solve anything. 😊
To Tom: In my experience, as one of the Last Men On Earth who have formed and cultivated some form of tribes; in my experience the "fat person" starts off with an untreated or undiagnosed *physical injury,* often to the legs or lower back. This causes a feedback loop where they need to be sedentary and consume a lot of nutrition to maintain/manage that injury. This sedentary nature, combined with the additional problem of mobility begins a snowball where when they finally DO get active, they can only hold it a month or so before that injury is reactivated, and then they have to go back to rest/sedentary state and further consumption. It's a terrible wall to be up against when you don't have the physiological support that your body needs. I would say that's a failure of the medical system and old-school "tough your way through the pain" mentality of it and parents at times, before either the person or the food industry.
Interesting comparison of porn and food. What holds true for both is that moderate, controlled (to use Tom's word) consumption of both is critical to staying physically and emotionally healthy. If the body and mind are healthy in most ways -- leading to a productive social life -- then periodic excesses of either food or porn should not be a problem. It's not the porn that is disabling young men. It's their reluctance (or inability) to actively pursue, experience, and appreciate real women.
Interesting therory about the male selection process. But what then about female hypergamy? Haven't males always been attracted to something beautiful to look at before porn though, and females on the other hand someone strong to protect and support them and their children?
@@Lisaaaaaaq because I get tired of hearing sub par XX try to tell me. What we should think of how we should think. When they are not a spring chicken..
I agree that any addiction can take the place of companionship, but unless one experiences the same addiction at one point and kicks it, it's hard for me to believe in their observation of who really has it.
misleading title but some good points brought up in here I think Porn can destroy because you go home to hundreds of videos of asian and latin women vids instead of going out in the world and finding one for yourself
Dear Sadia Khan, you´re right about so many things. Please stop filling your face. There is an egg-shaped bulge on your cheek, that doesn´t belong there. Please know you´re beautiful inside and out und you don´t need to mess with your face. A beautiful woman may age, but she doesn´t loose her grace and wisdom. So please please just let nature do its thing.
8:56 I live in California and I have never had anything in common with none of the girls that were in any of my schools even after going to college, the reason women hate porn is because it shows how sex is supposed to be done right
It doesn't matter how intelligent she is, when the title of the video is a clickbait. I clicked because I wanted to know how women spot men who watch adult content, and learned nothing about it. Isn't it great when persons with shady business morals lecture you about your ethics? Btw I love adult content, I am pretty sure that no woman can spot it, and in case she can, I don't care. I empower myself, without harming anyone else.
Someone said Sadia is a narcissist? DO YOU EVEN KNOW THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD YOU JUST USED??😂😂 Don't go around using words you saw online carelessly.
What has hijacked the selection process of men is having the experience of being a respectful, affectionate and considerate provider and protector for a woman to latter in the relationship being exploited, taken advantage of, cheated on and abandoned for no good reason whatsoever. Despite that men continued to long for a wholesome relationship with a woman, but realize they won't allow it because of their own nature. Consequently men come to the extreme conclusion that a woman is just a support system for a v@g¡na. From that point on they just try to obtain the only thing is possible to obtain from them with the minimum possible cost and effort, which is a sexual worker. So, feminist continues to be to blame for the relationship chaos we are expecting day to day.
Consuming p0rn is a sin. Stop watching it. Develop a stronger relationship with Jesus Christ ✝️ Please develop habits and relationships with people that are more spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally fulfilling.
Consuming Jezus Xrist is a sin. Please stop over-indulging consumption of the sinful 8ible, with Songs of Songs, ethnic genocides and the chosen people using slavery.
Great interview. just an observation. if you suddenly pile on weight and you aren't really sure what's going on, please get a blood test. Certain foodstuffs, if you are intolerant or worse, can lead to weight gain..
Unfortunately, the topic doesn't get addressed (clickbait). I wouldn't fully disagree with her statements, but life is more complex than how she describes it, therefore Tom's reply is more thought through. Being attracted visually to a specific type of women doesn't mean you do not care about other the attributes of women. The visual part is one filter mechanism of many. Like women will have a type of guy they will be attracted to. Some like the blond-haired type, some the dark-haired type, some like the more southern style man, some like the more northern style man, etc. There will exist many different personal preferences and they are not set by watching *orn. They are probably a synthesis of different elements: unconsciously preferring (genetically) some visual traits of your mother (if you are a guy), from your father (if you are a woman), some experiences you had in life (maybe you were in love with a girl during your school time which defined certain preferences). I am extremely attracted to very long hair since I was a very small boy. There are stories from my childhood where it gets clear I have that preference. So, a woman will automatically trigger high interest in me if she has nice long hair. That doesn't mean I never dated a woman with average hair because I do not reduce a woman to her hair...still, if a woman has very nice hair, she ticks a box on my side of a certain level of attraction. So, saying such preferences stem from watching *orn is far too simplified. Life is more complex. Regarding obesity: I agree it is important to take responsibility and not simply play always the victim, as that is too easy. However, some are in a really difficult situation and just basically telling them: it's your fault, dig yourself out of this deep hole yourself is far too simple. Tom's example is a good one: having obese parents, growing up with being fed the wrong food, maybe have some health-related issues, ..., can have you end up very obese. How do you want to lose weight once you reach extremely high levels of obesity? It's a spiral, like being in quicksand, which will pull you down more and more, the more you try to get out. That is a very hard difficult path you must dig yourself out and it needs iron will. And as most of us know: our hormones will literally fu** our brain regularly to break our diet rules. It is not easy. It is always so easy to tell people they are weak, and they should improve if you are acting from a "safe" position. Swap the role and I am not sure if these people still had such a big mouth: 1) A slim and fit person mocking a very obese person thar they lack discipline. How would that discipline look like if that fit person was 200kg heavier? 2) Women mocking men for being so di**-driven. How would women behave if they had the testosterone levels of men? 3) Men mocking women for their emotional craziness. How would men behave if they had the estrogen levels of women? 4) Rich people mocking poor people for their poor educational choices or ending up with shitty paid jobs. How would that rich person behave if he/she had the same starting point as the poor one? I always say to myself be careful how you judge others because you might behave/end up in the same way/position as that other person depending on the circumstances. It's healthy to not play the victim card and take responsibility but let's be careful how we blame people.
Not your typical lady’s man, you got here Sadia. I liked his note taking technique. “Ok, go on, I just made a bid. Let me write this all down so I can draw out the picture.” Level headed. I hope he does long-term just as well. Not mostly a one night stander. Seems like a very nice guy.
Porn is not why men find hot women hot.. i don't think porn changed men's preferences so much.. because even if porn didn't exist men would still find hot women attractive
That is so true some women must check their habits in romantic relationships, a woman who is doing the right things in a relationship. You know like being productive and active, like leading a healthy lifestyle and striving for some improvement in her life. You know ends up attracting her partner even more, now how do I end up loosing that attraction as a Man, when she starts letting herself go and she starts having unhealthy habits.😲🔥🔥🔥 can
I agree with Tom. Unfortunately, the environmental toxins and food is so inflammatory now that it affects the microbiome in the gut and is not only causing obesity but diabetes and chronic illnesses. I feel sorry for people who don’t understand this and deal with weight issues.
So does she lol. All these relationship podcasters are grifters and differentiate by a small margin. Sell their BS to naive listeners. This one isn't much different from Pearl, aside of having better looks
@@lapisletar369 You full of sh*t yourself. How do you say "naive listeners" when you constantly follow their content as well 😂 You can't always agree with everyone, it's impossible. But you can't always disregard everyone's views, because at some point they might say something meaningful. Hell even the craziest people say meaningful stuff sometimes 😅
I disagree on the part where she speaks about how adult content effects men. This fixation of porn is stupid as we men are not picky at all even after all these years of porn industry influence on modern men, data tells us men are not picky about how some woman looks. It literally stayed the same how men view sex and how they act on it. Only thing that lacks is men being more educated about what women desire in bed. Thats it. Porn industry just filled a empty gap that can be filled with better education thats it. Its very simple. When i was younger i didnt know only less then 20% women can reach orgasm with only penis penetration. I didnt understand it, no woman i slept with talked about it. So it stayed a mistary for far too long. Thats the key. Porn is just like a bad hollywood movie: stupid, useless, but still somehow enjoyable if you are lonely and relationships are often lonely too.
Dear Dr. Kahn. Firstly, I really love your content. But, I want to point out something that bothers me. You're a beautiful woman, but, when you put on your lipstick you paint across the bottom of your philtrum ( the crease in the center of your upper lip). As an admirer of beautiful women I wish more women paid more attention to this detail.
False .just because a man copes with being alone through passing indulgence in adult content does not mean that he cannot offer comitment or loyalty .we all have needs .the current hype about porn is ridiculous .im not saying that it is good but it serves a purpose but its not enough or real and offers no intimacy which are also needs. I knew before i even knew what i wanted to do for employment ,that i wanted a loving happy family of my own ,and its true that i was briefly married in my younger years and raised my two boys on my own afterwards. Worlds a superficial mess ,but you can blame anything you like instead of searching yourself and saying why are my choices skewed and search deeper. And i still want and search for depth and the same commitment that i always offer but the worlds a mess and many have decided that the passing indulgences are everything .
The woman i marry become my sister in resurrection: Matthew 22:30 New International Version 30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
I think there's been a spell on the word fat and if people are fat we should be able to call them fat or ourselves fat without giving an emotional attachment to it. Whats a word called when you're supposed to develop 5hrough it to the solved problem?
Toxic masculinity came from a study of incarcerated psychopaths. The term has been abused to be used as character assaignation. I t’s use has been the same as you”narcissist” which really Isnt speaking of communal, grandiose, vulnerable F60.81 or icd11 criteria.
Right, nowadays every womans ex was a " narcissist " which translated, means a man who didn't give in to her every demand, which of course made him selfish and not her
i have said already that advices of this woman are simply worthless.no man is attracted by personality but we all look for a hot bodies. Internal beauty is one big lye for poor agley women
Don't be too hard on her, she's got some worthwhile insights. Big Pharma, food and Feminism have got a lot to answer for, interesting people seem to be realising it at the same time, awareness of the BS is massively rising atm and that's v positive
I am tired of people just blaming porno for men's problems. I just with that women would admit that social media and dating apps are warping their minds too.
bro women have shifted the culture to what it is now, and they objectify everything and even intimate relationships must be transactional - that is the current culture. i dont think its fair to say men have poor selection when your stuck in a situaton of two choices -- pick anything or get nothing. not to mention all the chameleons in church communities -- so much so that now christians have a high divorce rate..... soo something is hapeing to the women and its not starting at 18 , its influencing them much sooner than that. do a female focus episode ?
Tom, I liked and agreed with everything you said about obesity, but you missed the existence of food deserts, which are an unfortunate reality for some folks. Otherwise, love the content.
6.00 minutes : you give far too much credit to the "scientists" of the food-industry. I am convinced that the marketing by the foodindustry and the lack of basic knowledge of home-economics that entices people to consume unhealthy "foods"😵💫. I introduced my young nieces and nephews to home-cooked meals and let them participate in preparing food. Well, now that they are adults , their lifestyle and general health is far better that those of their (grand)mothers.
They don't, trust me. If anything, they most likely watch lesbian porn. They hate men with a passion homie, they have absolutely zero interest in us in America at this point 🫥.
If someone is fat, it's the fault of the man who got her pregnant, injured her or is stressing her out. If it is a man, he has no excuse or causation except gluttony or poor food choices.
Modern ideologies, combined with technology such as cell phones etc. and social media. Have destroyed the social interactive dynamic of the world we live in today and thus relationships. It's not a corn thing, although that can be problematic also.
clickbait. doesn't address topic
Thanks!
Yes. It does. How could you miss it? I heard it clearly.
@@sgayle6689Well when did she address it?
@@jobrakai93958:03 is when they start to talk about it. Still a bit clickbatey since it doesn’t really address how women “know” of the pron prediction.
@@HARwinsOUTagain Women can connect and are quite observant. The energy will let them know. Specifically she pointed out that men are not seeing the woman as a human, or even seeing the person, just seeing an object, and women will know that. There is a lot more to say as it is much more complex of an issue, and she probably doesn't get all of it. For example she doesn't get why a man would see a woman from a different country as desirable, when that is in fact hard wired into us. It's the same for women.
Women given men's sweaty shirts to smell like the smell of the healthiest man who is most genetically different. It's the pheromones.
Completely explaining that ends in a place science has yet too look at and map out. I could explain it, but not point to any research papers.
Other things she misses is that free corn is made to be a trap, as it's money comes from advertising and thus wants you hooked. It is written and arranged to make those who consume it unwanted and thus come back for more. It's corn for losers, to watch it you need to put yourself in the mindset of an unwanted loser and that jerk jerk locks that energy in with positive reinforcement.
A woman doesn't want a man who desired to bend his mother over a couch, step or otherwise and she will sense it. Brains are separate, but minds are not. She will sense that and get a bad feeling about you. Be a winner, not a looser.
You can still get normal porn that isn't like that, but that generally costs. VR seems to have the least looser stuff, and the added setup time helps reduce it's use. It is also not abstracted like flat porn, and can motivate you to improve yourself. Get your state of mind right and put in the work to fit that state of mind. Gym, learning. education, conversation, career, ext..
Research studies looked and men and women playing an online games and they found that the worse a man was doing in the game the more hostile he was to women. That is the loser state of mind. That is that loser energy. The winner respects women.
The free porn trap conditions you to be a loser, to make you alone and unwanted so that you will watch more loser porn, and make them more money.
It isn't always your fault you are the way you are, but it's your responsibility to fix it.
You tell them, nhafhey! 👍
Agreed 💯💯💯
Someone tell this dude confidence is the consequence and not the cause of good self esteem, you can't just become confident without results first
What if you overestimate yourself all the time. And you are not learning from it. For example you are manic or hypomanic.
There are other situations that can make you structurally overconfident.
Some wwomen suck at spotting an overconfident man. They will stay with him while he ruins his and her life while he stays confident.
J Peterson: women are always right.lol
but he's right: it is possible to have good self-esteem and still experience anxiety, especially on a biological level.
Nope confidence begins as an internal thing derived from knowing yourself irrespective of the world around you .the mistake that crushes it for most people comes as a result of allowing the surrounding world to convince you that theirs something wrong with you ,which then leads to betraying yourself .confidence is not an outwards show even though it leads to being yourself publicly and sometimes in odd ways .all of the shows and displays are just weak people hiding their insecurities ,the tell is in their fear of apologising or of being open about themselves contrary to what so many other weak people would have the masses believe .
True masculinity is a results driven business
If you have healthy testosterone and sleep amd diet very unlikely you will have anxiety in these types of situations. Men who jerk off definitely have anxiety though@@notnotneutral15
Sadia, you are correct about your description in regards to problem solving! I find when I challenge myself regularly and develop a routine to solve a variety of issues, my motivation/energy levels increase.
Terrible
No real insight
Those women from those countries are looking for older men. You can't blame the men. You have said in the past choose the woman who chooses you.
They’re looking for men with money who will financially provide for them. Younger men have more options in the dating market than older ones. They also usually are not as financially stable as the older man. They want the lifestyle that a First World Country can provide . They want a far more comfortable lifestyle than they would have in their own country, if they were to stay there. It’s usually men who have had much less success with women of their own class , education, and financial status who are the men who must pay to have a woman be his wife.
The part about not reducing whymen to a private part if you have experience with them couldn't be more wrong. It's experience with them that causes you to realize that most don't offer anything outside of their private parts.
Oh sheeet
Eh. I thonks its a spectrum. Some are amazing. Some are not so amazing and some are right in the middle. Just like us men.
@@jacobclayton2954
Boom... she "womansplains" too much, at times. Sometimes, she's on point and other times, she's not. This is one of those times she's not.
Is it possible you're doing something that doesn't attract a quality woman?
Does it address the title of the video at any point?
Nope.
@@Dan1ell Typically female shit.
what a weird theory. she starts out sounding like she knows what she's talking about then takes a sharp left turn in wtfsville. men (or women) can have a hyperspecific preference in looks without it coming from porn and most men aren't even in a position to be that picky regardless.
I think it's a little out of a touch, but I think you could boil it down to "don't choose someone for their looks, choose for personality" basic timeless advice repackaged as.. this podcast xD
Wtfsville 😂 oh bruv nice one from Palmerston North City New Zealand
That’s one of the reasons why I deleted my Instagram account, so I wouldn’t get sucked in to following all those models I used to.
Did it work?
@@Anthony-n3b3w Yes it did. The only Adult entertainment I watch, are fashion model week on RUclips and bikini model bios those kind. Once in a while I’ll watch some corn and let one go, but not excessively.
You get no gf you loose male
Nasty
@@ThrowAway-f6q That’s not how you get a girlfriend. I had many just by approaching, not by social media. Did you?
The topics are all over the place..
That first 45 seconds is everything.
How men spot women who watch adult content😜(reality in reverse)
@@tommygunn2782 yeah but almost everything is presented through the men's view of how sex "should" be so .big conversation..
@@tommygunn2782 I don't watch tv personally I love RUclips The problem is not tv or porn those are tools There is always an intention behind any usage of any tool and it's true we live in a man's based world Woman's perspective usually is more sensitive.
Research studies looked and men and women playing an online games and they found that the worse a man was doing in the game the more hostile he was to women. That is the loser state of mind. That is that loser energy. The winner respects women.
Most porn is made for the loser state of mind and what they desire. In watching it they lock that state of mind.
Women who watch that are conditioned to want losers. They tend to end up with doms who crush them into submission.
I see the women who like porn.
So blames corn industry (typical since YT is mostly men and she can't blame them or risk alienating them) but won't say anything about the whymen who make the corn, even though they are the ones complaining about the alleged ramifications of it.
Then claims that life is too easy for men and has a more detrimental effect vs whymen. I disagree. We are literally witnessing what happens when life gets too easy for whymen. They believe that they don't need a man for anything other than physical needs and proceed to mate select accordingly.
i don't understand why anyone take her seriously she is exactly like that one femaloe cult leader that women worship i forgot her name but she had a thumbnail im sure you seen saying how to be rich
Ya. Did she Botox her cheeks?
Her argument is more about male utility than anything. Women depend on male utility. If they can't use us, then that is a problem that needs attention and fixing.
No mention about romance novels, which is porn for women. Fifty Shades of Gray, anyone?
@@danielcobbins8861 Ya I remember news of women wetting themselves at the cinema watching that movie..
I cannot speak to other cultures, but in America it would be absurd to blame men for choosing the wrong partners since (social media + dating apps) have given women ALL of the options and left most men with none. Also, this will likely lead to the end of our society within a generation or two.
You still have choices.....
@@cowboyofscience7611
the choice to go on a dating app, or to not!
Why is it always the man's fault?
Dude I've had conversations with women from young to old. They are just not with the accountability. In some parts they agree but not all of it when it's just facts.
@@HHH-pk3to You are right. This is the truth.
Bingo
I've heard Sadia before on this topic, shaming older men for selecting younger women. This smells an awful lot like sour grapes. She is beautiful, but post-wall. She has a valid point about porn shaping our desires, but so does TV, movies, videos and social media. They always promote the most gorgeous people - male or female. Same could be said about women who read romance novels. That becomes their "dream man." Only problem is he doesn't exist. It's pure fiction. Men are smart enough to separate fantasy from reality. Many women are not.
Sadia is the prime example of why you should ignore appeals to authority. She is biased and ignorant trying to play the "im different" game as a last ditch effort to attract a baller with her remaining good years.
Not true what she says about desiring women of different cultures. It is the VALUES of the non-western women that are MOST attractive.
THANK YOU. We didn't start out being attracted to foreign women. Our minds were closed off to those possibilities because once upon a time we had no NEED to pursue outside America. The social value has gone to SHIT so obviously we have to look elsehwere. Supply & Demand. This ain't rocket science and it's gone over her head, yet she has previous videos elaborating on the issues with Modern American Women so right now this sounds a bit contradictive.
@@trueindividual1417 That's why I never lesson to a women or take them seriously. They can't logic Don't be fooled if they sound smart for the moment.
Q: How do women spot men who watch adult content?
A: It's the men who aren't blind.
Women watch it more than we do, but they're insistent on demonizing men for it.
Wrong lmao
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Exactly. Women do not watch porn. If anything, they probably watch lesbian porn because it's super, super, super clear that they're completely repulsed by men at this point.
There's only a small percentage of women who watch porn, and those are the women that actually like sex.
But that percentage is microsized compared to men, trust me on this.
@@KtotheG Not true. Unless the woman has a high masculine libido, it actually makes us puke. It is repulsive to women because that's our biological wiring. We're not visual, remember? So if you've encountered women who enjoy it, then consider them MEN as they've bid goodbye to their femininity, natural biology and insticts a LONG time ago. Run from those women
@@KtotheGexactly, and they love jamming those fingers while doing it
Sadia has a terrible habit of not listening to other person and consistently interrupting them
I know, if she was my girlfriend , we'd get into a lot of arguments because of her constant interrupting, the first time she'd cut me off before I finished what I was trying to say , Id have to tell her to stop that in an very salty way, Dont interrupt me !
THEY all do😂
She is a narcissist
It’s cause she really thinks she’s right.
She is the typical "I know better because I am a unique woman with the ability to see behind a human" podcast girl. What has she achieved professionally? Is she a licensed psychologist / sociologist or any other kind of human science? Or is she the type of woman, who thinks she is an expert at relationships, because a lot of men wanted to get laid with her when she was young? Being desired sexually doesn't turn you into an expert. What are her credentials? P. S "my credentials are my life experiences" - don't count
I love how he put it the confidence is the byproduct of self-esteem I love this great point
Sadia is so comically solipsistic in this video. Notice the 3:30 point onward where she laments the lack of tribes and what not. Sure it's a good point but no where is there much of any mention about how women have been spoiled by the ease of life also. I just want women for just ONCE to admit that yes porn is a problem but so is social media and dating apps. The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west.
Tribing is a product we've destroyed on purpose so it can be packaged and resold as apps, conventions, followings, etc.
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"The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west."
You are dating a porn star, but without the skillset or money. All the negatives of dating a porn star, other than the having public sex for money, yet none of the advantages. Are they looking for a husband or a pimp?
Once you have adopted the correct mindset to date one, you are in the mindset to date a better version. The relationship with them is all cat, and no dog, so to speak. Yet they require you to be all dog, and no cat. You are to come when called and do tricks for a treat.
The traditional man is in a bad place.
I can have a relationship with a modern woman, as I get cats, but I will not be a dog for them, and to do so requires building a new skill set. At that point you have what a porn star needs and you can only shake your head at where the modern society is at.
He is right. I have high self esteem but I struggle with anxiety that affects my mood to be self confident on many occasions. That sucks! Nothing that a beer can't solve😂😂😂
It solves it? For how long before you need another beer?
Your good bro we all have struggles not the same but we all in this dude God bless 🙏
@@daisyflower8362 I was being sarcastic 😁but fortunately just one beer get me in the flow.. and it's good for me, because I do hate beer and alcohol in general. But you are right. Alcoholic drinks do no't solve anything. 😊
@@UTFapollomarine7409 thanks bro🙏💪
SO she thinks the reason older men from all over the world are attracted to young attractive women is because of porn................
Is it the porn industry’s fault for women only pre-selecting tall men?
Corn saved me from divorces, child support , alimony !
Change my mind
How
100% projection here. Bushido.
"The way of the Warrior?"
Her accent is half her platform
What about her beauty? The English accent is too ubiquitous to be exotic.
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Probably because you're unintellectual and can't understand her points.
3:57 - there are a lot - combat training .... ju jitsu, boxing etc etc ... business ... the individual makes it happen
This woman Sadia is comically beautiful. The clickbait title reeled me in but I stayed for one of the most beautiful women on the planet.
She's a 5.5
It cut off! Where can i listen to the whole conversation?
The title is a lie.
I heard it clearly. How could you miss it ?
@@sgayle6689You sound like a bot
Clickbait title that was not even addressed. I agree with her, but that’s some bullsh*t marketing. Plz do better
This woman needs to be reality checked by Myron.
@crispycritter143 Even so.
To Tom: In my experience, as one of the Last Men On Earth who have formed and cultivated some form of tribes; in my experience the "fat person" starts off with an untreated or undiagnosed *physical injury,* often to the legs or lower back. This causes a feedback loop where they need to be sedentary and consume a lot of nutrition to maintain/manage that injury. This sedentary nature, combined with the additional problem of mobility begins a snowball where when they finally DO get active, they can only hold it a month or so before that injury is reactivated, and then they have to go back to rest/sedentary state and further consumption.
It's a terrible wall to be up against when you don't have the physiological support that your body needs. I would say that's a failure of the medical system and old-school "tough your way through the pain" mentality of it and parents at times, before either the person or the food industry.
Interesting comparison of porn and food. What holds true for both is that moderate, controlled (to use Tom's word) consumption of both is critical to staying physically and emotionally healthy. If the body and mind are healthy in most ways -- leading to a productive social life -- then periodic excesses of either food or porn should not be a problem. It's not the porn that is disabling young men. It's their reluctance (or inability) to actively pursue, experience, and appreciate real women.
Interesting therory about the male selection process. But what then about female hypergamy? Haven't males always been attracted to something beautiful to look at before porn though, and females on the other hand someone strong to protect and support them and their children?
i wanted to subscribe, but too many ads prevented me from doing so :(
What Does her face Look like with Zero make up????
i wonder how much confidence and self esteem she would have total clean face all the way natural
So true! Make up should be banned!
The only thing worse is filters
Why do you care so much when all the women you are lusting over all wear makeup 😂
@@Lisaaaaaaq because I get tired of hearing sub par XX try to tell me. What we should think of how we should think. When they are not a spring chicken..
@@Lisaaaaaaq that's what you think but nothing beats el natural. Women think blowfish lips look good but in reality the jokes on them 😆 🤣
But she's probably tight
She over thinking the physical attraction stuff. Reduced to a vaj..
I agree that any addiction can take the place of companionship, but unless one experiences the same addiction at one point and kicks it, it's hard for me to believe in their observation of who really has it.
misleading title but some good points brought up in here
I think Porn can destroy because you go home to hundreds of videos of asian and latin women vids instead of going out in the world and finding one for yourself
But when do you stop looking? We're told not to lower our standards, yet....
Dear Sadia Khan, you´re right about so many things. Please stop filling your face. There is an egg-shaped bulge on your cheek, that doesn´t belong there. Please know you´re beautiful inside and out und you don´t need to mess with your face. A beautiful woman may age, but she doesn´t loose her grace and wisdom. So please please just let nature do its thing.
True.
So much for “Girl Power “?
HAHAHA!! Discredits all of her BS rants immediately.
How old is she actually?
@@abdelhamid6674she’s 36.
DO A FORENSIC ON THE MAN’ s COMPUTER AND IT IS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW …HIS CHARACTER IS THERE ON THE WEBSITES HE IS 👀……
And hers is in the books she read and the Instamodels she follows?
8:56 I live in California and I have never had anything in common with none of the girls that were in any of my schools even after going to college, the reason women hate porn is because it shows how sex is supposed to be done right
We all have choices, although the circumstances in which we have to make those choices may not be of our choosing.
Virtually no fat people 100 years ago? This dude has never bothered to look at photos from the 1920s.
the average man and is woman is definitely fatter today.
Who punched her in her cheeks?!? got damn!
The real question is who's clapping her cheeks
Very intelligent woman and well spoken
It doesn't matter how intelligent she is, when the title of the video is a clickbait. I clicked because I wanted to know how women spot men who watch adult content, and learned nothing about it. Isn't it great when persons with shady business morals lecture you about your ethics? Btw I love adult content, I am pretty sure that no woman can spot it, and in case she can, I don't care. I empower myself, without harming anyone else.
Idk what he saying has to do with title yep click bait
I’m so tired of this chick.
Someone said Sadia is a narcissist? DO YOU EVEN KNOW THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD YOU JUST USED??😂😂
Don't go around using words you saw online carelessly.
What has hijacked the selection process of men is having the experience of being a respectful, affectionate and considerate provider and protector for a woman to latter in the relationship being exploited, taken advantage of, cheated on and abandoned for no good reason whatsoever. Despite that men continued to long for a wholesome relationship with a woman, but realize they won't allow it because of their own nature. Consequently men come to the extreme conclusion that a woman is just a support system for a v@g¡na. From that point on they just try to obtain the only thing is possible to obtain from them with the minimum possible cost and effort, which is a sexual worker. So, feminist continues to be to blame for the relationship chaos we are expecting day to day.
Consuming p0rn is a sin. Stop watching it. Develop a stronger relationship with Jesus Christ ✝️ Please develop habits and relationships with people that are more spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally fulfilling.
Mind your business pal...
Consuming Jezus Xrist is a sin. Please stop over-indulging consumption of the sinful 8ible, with Songs of Songs, ethnic genocides and the chosen people using slavery.
Great interview. just an observation. if you suddenly pile on weight and you aren't really sure what's going on, please get a blood test. Certain foodstuffs, if you are intolerant or worse, can lead to weight gain..
Like is drawn to like. I didn't need to go to college to know this. I was taught this in 8th grade.
Unfortunately, the topic doesn't get addressed (clickbait). I wouldn't fully disagree with her statements, but life is more complex than how she describes it, therefore Tom's reply is more thought through.
Being attracted visually to a specific type of women doesn't mean you do not care about other the attributes of women. The visual part is one filter mechanism of many. Like women will have a type of guy they will be attracted to. Some like the blond-haired type, some the dark-haired type, some like the more southern style man, some like the more northern style man, etc. There will exist many different personal preferences and they are not set by watching *orn. They are probably a synthesis of different elements: unconsciously preferring (genetically) some visual traits of your mother (if you are a guy), from your father (if you are a woman), some experiences you had in life (maybe you were in love with a girl during your school time which defined certain preferences).
I am extremely attracted to very long hair since I was a very small boy. There are stories from my childhood where it gets clear I have that preference. So, a woman will automatically trigger high interest in me if she has nice long hair. That doesn't mean I never dated a woman with average hair because I do not reduce a woman to her hair...still, if a woman has very nice hair, she ticks a box on my side of a certain level of attraction. So, saying such preferences stem from watching *orn is far too simplified. Life is more complex.
Regarding obesity: I agree it is important to take responsibility and not simply play always the victim, as that is too easy. However, some are in a really difficult situation and just basically telling them: it's your fault, dig yourself out of this deep hole yourself is far too simple. Tom's example is a good one: having obese parents, growing up with being fed the wrong food, maybe have some health-related issues, ..., can have you end up very obese. How do you want to lose weight once you reach extremely high levels of obesity? It's a spiral, like being in quicksand, which will pull you down more and more, the more you try to get out. That is a very hard difficult path you must dig yourself out and it needs iron will. And as most of us know: our hormones will literally fu** our brain regularly to break our diet rules. It is not easy.
It is always so easy to tell people they are weak, and they should improve if you are acting from a "safe" position. Swap the role and I am not sure if these people still had such a big mouth:
1) A slim and fit person mocking a very obese person thar they lack discipline. How would that discipline look like if that fit person was 200kg heavier?
2) Women mocking men for being so di**-driven. How would women behave if they had the testosterone levels of men?
3) Men mocking women for their emotional craziness. How would men behave if they had the estrogen levels of women?
4) Rich people mocking poor people for their poor educational choices or ending up with shitty paid jobs. How would that rich person behave if he/she had the same starting point as the poor one?
I always say to myself be careful how you judge others because you might behave/end up in the same way/position as that other person depending on the circumstances.
It's healthy to not play the victim card and take responsibility but let's be careful how we blame people.
I always thought *mansplaining* was a myth until I heard this guy... 😅😂
She's womansplaining, though... so they're even.
@@KtotheG nope, it's her area of expertise
@@hardToSignUpHere How is it not his?
@@KtotheG dude, do your own homework!
@@hardToSignUpHere Why are you mad? I'm curious.
Not your typical lady’s man, you got here Sadia. I liked his note taking technique. “Ok, go on, I just made a bid. Let me write this all down so I can draw out the picture.” Level headed. I hope he does long-term just as well. Not mostly a one night stander. Seems like a very nice guy.
He is Tom Bilyeu, google him 😂
@@markosimionovic9802 Tom Bilyeu you say? Did I get something wrong? How is that going to help me?
he’s my type.
@@LaciRaeCreep
@@youngdylan5083 how so?
Porn is not why men find hot women hot.. i don't think porn changed men's preferences so much.. because even if porn didn't exist men would still find hot women attractive
1:39 they most likely have. The general public isn't given knowledge of most helpful technology/products until much later.
Calling a person fat does not help them.
Both of these two people are so completely out of touch with reality it’s disgusting 🤮
I agree with her completely 💯💯💯
If you are in the dating pool -- already doing something wrong.
It's the growth hormones in our food that is making us fat. I assume it affect the embryo creating GMO humans. Also the puberty age drops.
She interrupted him
That is so true some women must check their habits in romantic relationships, a woman who is doing the right things in a relationship. You know like being productive and active, like leading a healthy lifestyle and striving for some improvement in her life. You know ends up attracting her partner even more, now how do I end up loosing that attraction as a Man, when she starts letting herself go and she starts having unhealthy habits.😲🔥🔥🔥 can
I agree with Tom. Unfortunately, the environmental toxins and food is so inflammatory now that it affects the microbiome in the gut and is not only causing obesity but diabetes and chronic illnesses. I feel sorry for people who don’t understand this and deal with weight issues.
then, why are people living longer lives than ever before?
HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?, They just open their eyes lmao
HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?
Not a q - so shouldn't have a '?'
I don’t think he thinks she is smart…he keeps correcting her.
He likes to hear himself speak
So does she lol. All these relationship podcasters are grifters and differentiate by a small margin. Sell their BS to naive listeners. This one isn't much different from Pearl, aside of having better looks
People like when they're listened to.😊
@@lapisletar369 You full of sh*t yourself. How do you say "naive listeners" when you constantly follow their content as well 😂
You can't always agree with everyone, it's impossible. But you can't always disregard everyone's views, because at some point they might say something meaningful. Hell even the craziest people say meaningful stuff sometimes 😅
Many times is world u grew up in,,not all people can handle cities as some small towns not all resist digeneracy
Ppl with money can solve problems more a lot of ppl without it can’t even with knowledge
I disagree on the part where she speaks about how adult content effects men. This fixation of porn is stupid as we men are not picky at all even after all these years of porn industry influence on modern men, data tells us men are not picky about how some woman looks. It literally stayed the same how men view sex and how they act on it. Only thing that lacks is men being more educated about what women desire in bed. Thats it. Porn industry just filled a empty gap that can be filled with better education thats it. Its very simple. When i was younger i didnt know only less then 20% women can reach orgasm with only penis penetration. I didnt understand it, no woman i slept with talked about it. So it stayed a mistary for far too long. Thats the key. Porn is just like a bad hollywood movie: stupid, useless, but still somehow enjoyable if you are lonely and relationships are often lonely too.
Dear Dr. Kahn. Firstly, I really love your content. But, I want to point out something that bothers me. You're a beautiful woman, but, when you put on your lipstick you paint across the bottom of your philtrum ( the crease in the center of your upper lip). As an admirer of beautiful women I wish more women paid more attention to this detail.
What’s wrong with single men who watch adult content? Or even coupled men who watch it for inspiration, lol?
False .just because a man copes with being alone through passing indulgence in adult content does not mean that he cannot offer comitment or loyalty .we all have needs .the current hype about porn is ridiculous .im not saying that it is good but it serves a purpose but its not enough or real and offers no intimacy which are also needs. I knew before i even knew what i wanted to do for employment ,that i wanted a loving happy family of my own ,and its true that i was briefly married in my younger years and raised my two boys on my own afterwards. Worlds a superficial mess ,but you can blame anything you like instead of searching yourself and saying why are my choices skewed and search deeper. And i still want and search for depth and the same commitment that i always offer but the worlds a mess and many have decided that the passing indulgences are everything .
how many times have you cheated? 😮
The woman i marry become my sister in resurrection:
Matthew 22:30
New International Version
30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
I think there's been a spell on the word fat and if people are fat we should be able to call them fat or ourselves fat without giving an emotional attachment to it. Whats a word called when you're supposed to develop 5hrough it to the solved problem?
Fake title of the video. Thumbs down
clickbait
Toxic masculinity came from a study of incarcerated psychopaths. The term has been abused to be used as character assaignation. I t’s use has been the same as you”narcissist” which really Isnt speaking of communal, grandiose, vulnerable F60.81 or icd11 criteria.
Right, nowadays every womans ex was a " narcissist " which translated, means a man who didn't give in to her every demand, which of course made him selfish and not her
What does porn do ? How does it make a man weak
Who even watches?
Everyone
@@SuperEman500no
Most men watch that.
And it absolutely is the junk food industry.
i have said already that advices of this woman are simply worthless.no man is attracted by personality but we all look for a hot bodies. Internal beauty is one big lye for poor agley women
Don't be too hard on her, she's got some worthwhile insights. Big Pharma, food and Feminism have got a lot to answer for, interesting people seem to be realising it at the same time, awareness of the BS is massively rising atm and that's v positive
I am tired of people just blaming porno for men's problems. I just with that women would admit that social media and dating apps are warping their minds too.
Feminism is the reason why your mom isn't pregnant again with her 8th kid, living in a trailer.
Enough with the anti- women sh*t. It's so boring.
bro women have shifted the culture to what it is now, and they objectify everything and even intimate relationships must be transactional - that is the current culture. i dont think its fair to say men have poor selection when your stuck in a situaton of two choices -- pick anything or get nothing. not to mention all the chameleons in church communities -- so much so that now christians have a high divorce rate..... soo something is hapeing to the women and its not starting at 18 , its influencing them much sooner than that. do a female focus episode ?
Tom, I liked and agreed with everything you said about obesity, but you missed the existence of food deserts, which are an unfortunate reality for some folks. Otherwise, love the content.
when a queen speaks listen
Stop calling women queens 😒 It’s pathetic.
This is a masculine woman.
6.00 minutes : you give far too much credit to the "scientists" of the food-industry. I am convinced that the marketing by the foodindustry and the lack of basic knowledge of home-economics that entices people to consume unhealthy "foods"😵💫.
I introduced my young nieces and nephews to home-cooked meals and let them participate in preparing food. Well, now that they are adults , their lifestyle and general health is far better that those of their (grand)mothers.
What about women who watch adult content? 😂😂
They don't, trust me. If anything, they most likely watch lesbian porn. They hate men with a passion homie, they have absolutely zero interest in us in America at this point 🫥.
They got sardine smelling fingers
If someone is fat, it's the fault of the man who got her pregnant, injured her or is stressing her out. If it is a man, he has no excuse or causation except gluttony or poor food choices.
Have you heard that song, My Type by Saweetie ? Are you sure men are the only ones with the problem? Just saying...
This guy invites her on and talks her ear off.
Modern ideologies, combined with technology such as cell phones etc. and social media. Have destroyed the social interactive dynamic of the world we live in today and thus relationships. It's not a corn thing, although that can be problematic also.