Dude this really helps, thank you for the breath of introspection. I think distancing yourself from other people who truly aren't good for you is good but I asked my mom about dropping my friends and she said you should take a break cuz youre gonna miss your frienda and I find that beyond black and white.
As someone who has been chasing emotionally unavailable people my whole life, I really needed to hear this. I'm tired of trying to please people in order for them to stay, especially since I really cared about someone I recently met, yet they kept choosing other people, toxic people, over me. This really traumatized me to the point that now I get panic attacks every time I encounter that person and start crying afterwards because of how much that person hurt me all because I was chasing the wrong person. Instead, I should have just focused on my passions and being myself; and then, the right type of people will come along and accept you and see your true value.
Parents that think their kids owe them anything rile me up. I didn't ask to be born. I know they raised me and I'm grateful for that but it doesn't mean I'm obligated to give back everything and look after you in your retirement. I can try but don't rely on me like that.
I was a people pleaser with my ex. I just loved her and wanted her to be happy. And I wanted her to feel the same for me. Instead She barely did the bare minimum and i let it upset me. But it’s day 3 of the break up and I realized that she never made me unhappy or depressed. I made myself unhappy by waiting for them and expecting them to show up. It was the expectations I placed on her and our relationship that made me upset. I got close to detachment a couple times but I kept relapsing. But I still want to learn self acceptance, self love , and detachment.
The crabs are trying to climb over the top one to get out, then they all fall back in. It is not intentional. Love the message, though. Thank you, Mae!
I just finished watching your video regarding the subject of villain era. It came right at the time where I personally feel that I’ve entered. This video played after it and it’s also hitting home. Both videos deeply resounded with me. Thank you for the much needed strong and impactful messages.
I want to encourage you to keep uploading and to be persistent in your channel. I absolutely love your videos and you are going to be HUGE!! I really needed to hear this message today because I was slipping back into my people-pleasing tendencies but now I’m being kinder to myself and showing myself for love. Sending you lots of love and blessings!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I love all your videos, but today especially I needed to hear this and it meant the world to me. You are a beautiful person, keep being you, we need more people like you ❤
I'm binge watching your videos at the moment and this video besides your selflove video fits the most to my whole live. I really need to say f*** off more often! 😂 Thank you for everything, you are helping me a lot at the moment! can't wait for your coming content❤ lots of love❤
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and tips! I had begun blocking toxic people from my life recently as well haha. Looking forward to more of your videos💜
bro this woman is aggressively beautiful
She shifted her identity. If you saw her before her quantum leap you wouldn’t have thought that 😂❤
@ we’re in the present so what you’re chatting about is irrelevant
within several videos you've done for me more than a year of therapy
The less you need approval, the more free you become. Yes, you can never change others. Its difficult enough to change yourself ~peace
You never fail to speak the truth sis 🙌🏽🙌🏽 all my respect goes to you
Let people be wrong about you. Good one, Mae! JUST LET THEM have their own opinions.
Dude this really helps, thank you for the breath of introspection. I think distancing yourself from other people who truly aren't good for you is good but I asked my mom about dropping my friends and she said you should take a break cuz youre gonna miss your frienda and I find that beyond black and white.
As someone who has been chasing emotionally unavailable people my whole life, I really needed to hear this. I'm tired of trying to please people in order for them to stay, especially since I really cared about someone I recently met, yet they kept choosing other people, toxic people, over me. This really traumatized me to the point that now I get panic attacks every time I encounter that person and start crying afterwards because of how much that person hurt me all because I was chasing the wrong person. Instead, I should have just focused on my passions and being myself; and then, the right type of people will come along and accept you and see your true value.
Trauma hurts and it kills if you let it.
Parents that think their kids owe them anything rile me up. I didn't ask to be born. I know they raised me and I'm grateful for that but it doesn't mean I'm obligated to give back everything and look after you in your retirement. I can try but don't rely on me like that.
So true.. I didn't ask to be born. Im not parent's investment 😢 lets release and be ourselves 💪🏻
Naturally, trauma has taught me all of your lessons. Your channel is 🔥. No therapy needed. Just this channel
I was a people pleaser with my ex. I just loved her and wanted her to be happy. And I wanted her to feel the same for me. Instead She barely did the bare minimum and i let it upset me. But it’s day 3 of the break up and I realized that she never made me unhappy or depressed. I made myself unhappy by waiting for them and expecting them to show up. It was the expectations I placed on her and our relationship that made me upset. I got close to detachment a couple times but I kept relapsing. But I still want to learn self acceptance, self love , and detachment.
You’re sooo pretty, unreal!❤
I have a few friends who can really use a video like this
Send it to them :)
@@20mina13 I just might
@@20mina13 I just might :)
Everything you said has been helpful for me more than you could realize. Thank you for being you, and all that you do. Much love Mae
you spoke out whats been always on my mind, but was never confident of doing. But this video really helped, thank you so much!
The crabs are trying to climb over the top one to get out, then they all fall back in.
It is not intentional.
Love the message, though.
Thank you, Mae!
Heyyy I love your voice. It sounds somehow confident and still very feminine and attractive. I also love how clear your pronunciation is
I just finished watching your video regarding the subject of villain era. It came right at the time where I personally feel that I’ve entered. This video played after it and it’s also hitting home. Both videos deeply resounded with me. Thank you for the much needed strong and impactful messages.
Thank you for these videos! Been binge watching them the last few days and my mindset is so right.
I want to encourage you to keep uploading and to be persistent in your channel. I absolutely love your videos and you are going to be HUGE!! I really needed to hear this message today because I was slipping back into my people-pleasing tendencies but now I’m being kinder to myself and showing myself for love. Sending you lots of love and blessings!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I agree!! She has potential. Reminds me of Liz. But in her own nice sweet way. Very nice. Still not comparable with anyone
omg you and your surroundings are so beautiful
Didn’t know how much I needed this. Thank you for creating such an amazing content 🖤
Your videos are really helping me girl. Thank you for making this.
You‘re videos are helping me to build the positive voice in me. They become my daily manifestation. Thank you! 💕
I love this. Exactly what i needed to hear, thank you sm
I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I love all your videos, but today especially I needed to hear this and it meant the world to me. You are a beautiful person, keep being you, we need more people like you ❤
I'm binge watching your videos at the moment and this video besides your selflove video fits the most to my whole live. I really need to say f*** off more often! 😂 Thank you for everything, you are helping me a lot at the moment! can't wait for your coming content❤ lots of love❤
I love your vids! Please make more and more. Such positive impact on me and probably others ❤
Girl everything you said was liquid GOLD!!✨️
I love ur aesthetic
I love how this honestly changed my whole perspective in one video. I love you for this. you are and have helped me so much.
I love your videos thank you!!! it gives me so so much motivation to just get up and do something, to change. Thank you again
Its good to listen to positive affirmations too
i just found your channel and i love your videos, they’re really helpful. i hope you will get so much more subscriber.
You’re adorable and such a wise young woman! Thank you for this message today that I needed!💜
I love you girl you have helped me so much
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and tips! I had begun blocking toxic people from my life recently as well haha. Looking forward to more of your videos💜
Thank you this is so helpful! :D
Thank you! I love listening ❤
You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.
Thank you so much, you inspired me :’)
I love this sm this is such a great advice I love this make more pls💓💓
needed this
Wow thank you!
Best words
Being Sigma i am not a people pleaser and that's the reason society hate me.
Lmao
Thank youuuu
I love blocking people too 😂😂
I’m gonna leave the bucket 🪣 🦀
👏👏
REAL
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You seem really interesting
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Is this good for men
I'd marry you someday girl
Yummy goth woman
girl ur sooo pretty, reminded me of kiss of life NATTY!❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹💛💛💛💛
Thank you Mea I Really Needed To Hear This ❤🥹🙌
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