How To Impress Your Boyfriend's Parents

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
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    In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick walks you through the process of how to impress your boyfriend's parents, what questions they'll ask you and how you can win them over every time.

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick  3 месяца назад +1

    *NEW SUMMER 2024*
    I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
    Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @daliyah1012
    @daliyah1012 4 года назад +334

    I'm so awkward with adults they make me uncomfortable

  • @rsecr6311
    @rsecr6311 3 года назад +249

    It’s 4am I am meeting her in 7 hours 😭

  • @sophie4304
    @sophie4304 4 года назад +181

    Me watching this while he has two moms:👁️👄👁️

  • @theaneheydenreich5999
    @theaneheydenreich5999 4 года назад +134

    Im so scared to meet them cause he has a huge family.

    • @allykairoig2645
      @allykairoig2645 4 года назад +2

      lmk how it goes

    • @user-hr8es7gx8c
      @user-hr8es7gx8c 4 года назад +10

      im scared to introduce him because i have a huge family 😭

    • @itsmesheng2343
      @itsmesheng2343 4 года назад +4

      나비보벳따우 well my family have high standards and they only want my ex husband 🙁

    • @simple2398
      @simple2398 4 года назад +1

      @@user-hr8es7gx8c I really feel this ☹

    • @Pawsitive_PawPrints
      @Pawsitive_PawPrints Месяц назад

      Same I meet them tmrw on the 4th of July

  • @toruoikawa1153
    @toruoikawa1153 3 года назад +28

    I’ve met my boyfriend’s parents like 5 times and they say they like me but his mom gives me an intense look every time she sees me and I feel a lot of pressure

  • @jkimmy1978
    @jkimmy1978 4 года назад +35

    Thanks for the helpful information. I'll definitely be using these tips. I've been with my bf for 3 months and he is closest with his mother. I really want her to love me and genuinely want a connection with her. Yeah I enjoy all your videos. I think you're good at presenting and being througal with each topic. Keep up the great work and great advice!!

  • @idktbh9628
    @idktbh9628 4 года назад +22

    😭😭😭😭When I first met his parents they were very okay with us dating. However, after my mom met his mom they HATED each other. Then his mom started hating me. She is so not okay with us dating now. She also hates my past. Started this off the wrong way🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @sanconnections2859
    @sanconnections2859 4 года назад +18

    That was hilariously presented and absolutely relevant. Thanks so much Ryan! I feel like that next stage of meeting the parents is another job interview - getting your foot into the door for a potential full time permanent position as wife and daughtinlaw. I also feel the tips presented will apply for all cultures even with the gf not speaking the same language as the parents. They do screen and they do ask difficult questions, but with absolutely good reasons! Go mums! (and dads) hahaha

  • @kayleywhite9545
    @kayleywhite9545 3 года назад +46

    im meeting my bf's parents tomorrow im so nervous and excited

  • @abigailrichardson9823
    @abigailrichardson9823 4 года назад +15

    Your voice reminds me of the main actor from the Netflix series “Love”

  • @bruhservices5942
    @bruhservices5942 4 года назад +61

    WELP I’m doomed cause I discovered my bf’s mother was my 9th grade teacher and I failed her class a lot .
    It’s gonna super awkward and it’s likely they’re gonna bring it up a lot to roast me.

    • @michelliebevis
      @michelliebevis 4 года назад +6

      oh gosh goodluck

    • @haiivaii1452
      @haiivaii1452 3 года назад +3

      how did it go? 😂

    • @bruhservices5942
      @bruhservices5942 3 года назад +20

      @@haiivaii1452 She made fun of me -‘d bullied me and would bring it up every single time we visited.
      (We broke up cause he didn’t stand up for me)

  • @antheaarellano
    @antheaarellano 3 года назад +9

    me meeting my bf's parents in christmas: 👁️👄👁️

  • @savannahvallee4540
    @savannahvallee4540 3 года назад +13

    I went over to my boyfriends house for the first time and I met his mom, step dad, and grandparents. I helped his grandpa (who is a professional baker) make a cake (because I love to bake). His mom wasn’t home when I first got there, but everyone else was. His grandparents and I got along extremely well. But his mom flat out ignored me the entire time once she got home. She kept talking to my boyfriend about this other girl who she wants him to marry (her best friends daughter, who is close friends with him). She was saying things like “How would (other girl) feel about this?” “Why didn’t (other girl) come over.” His mom is obsessed and in love with this other girl and she wants him to marry her, so his mom didn’t like me before she met me. I don’t know what to do and how to improve my relationship with her, especially when she doesn’t give me a chance to try. Any advice? Everyone keeps telling me I need to break up with him, but it’s not his fault. I love him so much, and I could never break up with him for something that’s not his fault. HELP! 🥺

    • @haiivaii1452
      @haiivaii1452 3 года назад

      Did u talk about it with ur boyfriend? And what did he say to his mom when she told him that? I know its hard, but I think its good to just let her know what it does to u when she talks like this. If thats too much for u. Ask ur boyfriend to talk to her and also ask what he thinks about it.

    • @Beepbopboop19
      @Beepbopboop19 Год назад

      You guys still together??

  • @VIP_Lenah
    @VIP_Lenah 18 дней назад

    Meeting his parents on his birthday this coming Saturday along with his 3 sisters and their boyfies. I’m a bit nervous esp to his Mom. She is my goal!

  • @darielyalmarales.9470
    @darielyalmarales.9470 3 года назад +5

    im meeting them in 2 days guys wish me luck

  • @megancastro6234
    @megancastro6234 3 года назад +4

    i’m meeting my bf’s grandparents in a day i’m so nervous !!

  • @daianarojas6151
    @daianarojas6151 6 дней назад

    Really helpful! Thanks

  • @amandaweishaar1327
    @amandaweishaar1327 Год назад +1

    I'm going over to my crushes house tomorrow, thank you for the tips

  • @Filamerica
    @Filamerica 4 года назад +5

    How could I impress my boyfriend parents when the first time talking with them in Video chat ? Thanks.

  • @a.thibodeaux4306
    @a.thibodeaux4306 2 года назад +2

    This made me smile. Thank you

  • @bubblegumtropical8380
    @bubblegumtropical8380 3 года назад +2

    Me being single watching this cause it popped up in my recommended

  • @summerdow7149
    @summerdow7149 3 года назад +8

    If you’re in college, and going to your boyfriends parents house, do you still recommend beginning something to their house when you meet them?

  • @abigailrichardson9823
    @abigailrichardson9823 4 года назад +2

    Good video kept me interested the whole time!

  • @lilly3696
    @lilly3696 3 года назад +6

    I’m so scareddddd please help

  • @megancastro6234
    @megancastro6234 3 года назад +7

    i’m gonna bring them chocolate covered strawberries because i really want them to like me :/

  • @hhhhhhhhhh3347
    @hhhhhhhhhh3347 3 года назад +2

    Hey Ryan, say if me and my boyfriend got married, and his parents wants grandchildren, but I don’t want any, what should I do?

  • @deci2639
    @deci2639 2 года назад +1

    My bf said he hasn't told his parents yet bc they haven't been happy with his past relationships which is understandable but I want to be the girl to impress them so now I am tryna figure out how to loll

  • @demandamartin3243
    @demandamartin3243 Год назад +1

    i looked this up an hour before his mom is supposed to drop off something. hes at work. im a introvert... SEND
    HELP

  • @britanymadden3582
    @britanymadden3582 2 года назад

    So I’m closer to my boyfriends mom and not his dad and back in May we watched a tv show together and help on getting closer with his dad

  • @eliskapudova
    @eliskapudova 4 года назад +5

    Hi, I want ask you what should I do or how should I respond when his father start screaming at him when I am next to him? Should I be quet or say smothing like: why he is that agressive to his own son?
    I know his father did this in front of his friend (girl) and that is one of the reasons why he is afraid to introduce me or any other girl his parents

    • @ConceitedBarbie22
      @ConceitedBarbie22 4 года назад +4

      Eli Pudová you shouldn't probably say anything infront of his father

  • @norah2514
    @norah2514 4 года назад +5

    Okay so the “football team” tip, me and my boyfriend we’re gonna do kind of like a prank. Our sports teams are rivals, so I was gonna wear my team’s jersey to their house to be funny. Is that a good idea or should I leave that for the second or third visit?

    • @michelliebevis
      @michelliebevis 4 года назад +10

      maybe leave it for the second or third visit just incase something backfires or goes wrong. unless they have a good sense of humor... so it doesn't make things awkward but if you both think its alright go for it

  • @ladyhigh702
    @ladyhigh702 2 года назад +1

    Meeting my boyfriend’s mom today it is September 17 on a Friday and it’s 6:03 PM and we’re going to the movies they are about to pick me up I’m nervous to speak to his mom wish me luck

  • @riannaleigh1942
    @riannaleigh1942 3 года назад +2

    meeting her tomorrow 😬

  • @daddysgon9705
    @daddysgon9705 3 года назад +1

    Thing is my mom passed when I was young, and to me it scary to tell the parents and be accepted because, obviously the mother in law would like another women in there life her age to invite to get togethers and I’m just not sure I would be preferred over a girl with a mom😞

    • @taniatherien1378
      @taniatherien1378 3 года назад +4

      Omg girl don’t even worry , that would be ridiculous.... I lost my mom too and it’s the opposite she really respect me bc she knows I don’t have a mom. I will meet her next week but good luck and don’t worry at all ! If they have a heart they will have compassion for you

  • @stephaniemoreno5043
    @stephaniemoreno5043 Год назад +1

    Im súper nervous ima meet his mom tomorrow 😭😭 I have eye contact anxiety and I don’t want her to think I’m weird cus I can start being so awkward

  • @sammieg145
    @sammieg145 3 года назад +1

    Meeting my bfs parents in 13 hours🤯

  • @ShantayGood2Go
    @ShantayGood2Go 2 года назад

    Thanks!

  • @dashaunnashields100
    @dashaunnashields100 3 года назад +8

    I’m sort of scared to meet his parents because they are white and I don’t know what to expect.

  • @Thenameisellie
    @Thenameisellie 3 года назад +3

    Why am I watching this video even though I'll probably never get a boyfreind👁💧👄💧👁

  • @riddell_illustrates6021
    @riddell_illustrates6021 4 года назад +4

    Im 15, what should i bring??

  • @faith3466
    @faith3466 3 года назад

    Any tips for Cubans in law?? I don’t know what to expect

  • @remsvic
    @remsvic 3 года назад

    his parents r gonna take me home from somewhere and i’m so scared😭

  • @viviennefawn
    @viviennefawn 3 года назад

    thank u

  • @keylayajones2806
    @keylayajones2806 Год назад +1

    Does this still apply for grandparents?😂 My boyfriend was raised by his grandparents and I'm really shy, so whenever I meet new people, they think I'm being rude and I'm not... ESPECIALLY older people

    • @daisychimbay437
      @daisychimbay437 Год назад +1

      Smile a lot, let them talk a lot, agree and nod

  • @Liv-ww7fh
    @Liv-ww7fh 3 года назад +2

    My bf having two dads 😏

  • @nooradiarrassouba2631
    @nooradiarrassouba2631 4 года назад +1

    Hi Ryan just a question how to escape the topic about the religion ?

    • @deanasmusic1
      @deanasmusic1 4 года назад +1

      Don't escape it. If religion will be a deal breaker or cause friction, it should be discussed with your partner before meeting them and that partner should address it early on and ask for acceptance, or set a boundary that it will not be discussed, like politics or sex.
      LOL
      I just now thought "We can discuss religion if you wish, but that will immediately follow with discussion about the other two topics, politics and sex. All or none, waddaya say?
      What do you think, Ryan?

  • @dancing1133
    @dancing1133 10 месяцев назад

    I'm not even exclusive with this guy but, he wants me to meet his mom. Is that normal? What does it mean ?

  • @gachimeyt9362
    @gachimeyt9362 3 года назад

    My bf's mom found out about me and him tho we are LDR so I'm kind of nervous and I'm thinking of a way to impress her

  • @totallyrealperson4237
    @totallyrealperson4237 4 года назад +3

    So my (not official.. yet) guy lives like 40 minutes away (we met last October at a Christian event, and had been talking- textin, calling, facetiming- everyday ever since. I met his family for the first time last week while hanging out with our mutual friends. His family situation is a little different (his grandparents adopted him) so he kinda has 2 moms (his birth mom and his grandma/mom) and then he has his granddad too (He calls them mamaw, pappy, and mom). His cousins are technically his nieces and nephews and his aunt is technically his sister. Its weird. Anyway. I met them before I watched this video. His pappy seems to really like me, his aunt/sis is rlly welcoming, his nieces and nephews/ cousins rlly (and I mean REALLY) love me, and his mom is already calling me his girlfriend. She also scrolled thru my fb ;-; ... Anyway. His mamaw had been a little against me prior to meeting and was a little passive aggressive when I was attempting to help her when the guy started bleeding a little. She seems to have mellowed out a bit but I really need to win her over bc my guy listens to her and if she says no... yeah. But he thinks she is starting to realize she can't stop him from liking me and is loosening up. Anyway I kinda wanted some input... ~Belle

    • @totallyrealperson4237
      @totallyrealperson4237 4 года назад

      I wanna also mention that he tells me abt other girls that he sort-of likes, but always says that I'm the one he likes the most (he's a very shy, awkward Christian guy that is easily embarrassed and doesn't say these kinds of things without a bit of a struggle.. so I rlly trust that he means it. A problem I have tho: I'm super physically affection, I love cuddling but um.. he kind of.. um.. can't handle it if you know what I mean. So if you have any tips that would be great, thanks

    • @totallyrealperson4237
      @totallyrealperson4237 3 года назад +3

      @Mariely Leonardo he finally asked me out in august. Not even 2 weeks in, i realized it was a mistake. Broke up with him in october 😅. He was actually rlly toxic, it was just hidden by the rose-colored glasses 👀 but i did find a man who treats me well after i broke up with that guy. And im in a happy healthy relationship with a better understanding of what i want and what i dont ❤

  • @tpilapil3517
    @tpilapil3517 2 года назад

    I'm meeting her mom in 3hrs☺️😣

  • @follding948
    @follding948 Год назад +1

    Does this work for african parentes?💯💯😂😂

  • @carlottacapocci4838
    @carlottacapocci4838 3 года назад +1

    Fml