And also, I love that they put a deep hug rather than a kiss because here at this moment, a hug is more powerful than a kiss and besides, I doubt the 2 of them are in the mood to kiss TBH, especially right after Ben and Lewis kissed so.. understandable; that was a really good hug, showing Callum really is sincere and serious about giving one last chance, that hug means ok! I love you so much that’s why I’m giving you this one last chance to make it work and that’s it, if it failed then despite it’s heartbreaking, we have to end it, this hug has many layers of emotions and feelings, it’s like making a promise for one last time, no more back and forth, forgiveness again and again, enough is enough; this is much better in this scene as a proper hug than a kiss, a kiss won’t be much powerful and meaningful than this hug!!👍👍👌👌👏👏
Calm before the storm. Much needed conversation, but I'm worried. Just hope they have some happiness, proper onscreen happiness before it all goes to shit again.
"you betray me, you cheat on me again, we are over." That will be the reason why Ben will not tell Cal what Lewis did to him. He's gonna be afraid of losing Callum.
So true. Callum is the boy who cried wolf! He gives final ultimatums out on almost a daily basis. Just dump him and move on - it's getting old and sad.
Lexi!!! Angel!! Baby girl! I’m scared and worried for her, because what’s about to come, big storm coming to her daddies, but how could we just protect her from those trauma that’s about to come💗💗😇😇☂️⛱☔️, could we be her umbrella to protect her from the drama? I really wish she could be happy always and not get dragged in the mess🥺🥺🥺 This is it, literally THE ONE LAST CHANCE for ballum marriage, Callum made it really clear, Ben seems trying a little bit, but not nearly enough, not even close, and he immediately asked would you report me to the police?? It sound to me this is more of what he cares about than working on his problems, working on their marriage, he forgot it’s Stuart’s chemo as well; he just forgot everything else, just it’s all about him, I mean I get his pain and trauma, but instead of getting help, he just puts his pain onto others, without even thinking Callum at all, maybe that’s just how he was raised, that’s the only way he knows how to deal with things, and even Callum can’t change that at all😭; so if this is ever to have the slightest chance to work, Ben needs to work and try a lot harder than this!!! Otherwise it’s the official end of them!😩😩🥺🥺😭, and besides, Lewis knew the attacks and other stuff now, and we are not trusting him at all, so that might come back bite him later big time, poor Callum, I just can’t help but feel sorry for him, because loving Ben might be one of the world hardest mission ever to be completed 😭😭, I still wish them good luck, praying.. but we don’t know what’s up front for them, so.. just fingers crossed, I hope it’s not the calm before the storm!😱
So Ben breaks the promise because how is he gonna be assaulted without being around Lewis again?? I’m thinking he’s gonna start sneaking to see Lewis in secret (just as friends) and that’s when he gets taken advantage of and he’s gonna be to scared to tell Callum because he know he broke the promise.. so Ben gonna go into another depression binge and Callum is not gonna no what the hell to do.
I think even if he tells Calum he can’t tell the police because Lewis knows the truth about the attacks, I think he will blackmail him into staying silent, also maybe he spikes him and takes him back to his place we don’t know the circumstances of how he gets there yet just what will happen
Their storyline became so repetetive and boring. Happines - Ben doing something stupid - fight - callum forgive ben. After that their story is starting to happen again from the start. Its like 5th, if not even more, same base of their storyline.
I think Ben and Callum need a break. I don't feel the love anymore between them. It isn't reciprocal at all. Callum is getting hurt too much. I know the next storyline audience is suppose to have sympathy for Ben. Right now Callum is like a best friend to Ben not a husband. I guess I don't see what other people are seeing. The writing just isn't good at the moment.
I think their break up will be really brutal but maybe when they get back together they spark will come back…it’s true they’ve lost their sexual chemistry since the COVID distance filming
You nailed it: the chemistry isn't the same anymore. Don't sense that these two are deeply in love -- they are playing it like good friends whose friendship -- rather than their marriage -- is in jeopardy. Poor writing, I think.
Callum's future is on the line. He is a crooked policeman now, just because it's Ben and His relationship. Ben could easily have murdered those people. Peter will find out it was Ben and there will be trouble. How can Callum arrest other people, is it ok to let them off because they are in a relationship.
Only now does Callum realize what Ben is like? (I'm referring to the previous clips), Callum has always given everything for Ben, Ben on more than one occasion has tried to leave Callum hurting him .... now that Callum is tired of his games, Ben begs him to stay, and Callum gives him this chance by staying in a toxic relationship ... As much as he adores Ben and Callum together, Callum should lose out on what's good for him, not what's good for just Ben ...
even at this point. There is no justifiable reason for the upcoming attack by Louis. None. the whole storyline looks like it was thought up while producers were getting drunk at a bar. they're just making Ben weak. that's not this character!!!
So here’s the thing… I’m so happy they are in good terms right now and are still together but I don’t agree with Callum not allowing Ben to see Lewis. I understand why, but it just doesn’t sit right with me. No one has the right to tell anyone who they can and can’t see. I also know what’s coming, which makes me so sad for Ben and angry at Lewis. I just hope Callum being the decent guy he is knows immediately what happened and believes Ben.
Not if your married no. If your just boyfriend and girlfriend or boyfriend and boyfriend then I agree but marriage is a different level. I’ve seen some incredible marriages my parents is one of them and some awful abusive and toxic marriages with cheating, manipulation and cohesive control. And fail because of that type of thinking. When you are married you think as one (not literally obviously) but you don’t think as an individual anymore you don’t think about me or I in decisions that effect you both. And when you think about her it’s us. It’s not how does my decision effect her it’s how does my decision effect us. You become we and that’s how everyone else sees you as well. they think of you as one as a pair. Now obviously their is individuality in that you know going for a drink with with the guys or the girls or going on holiday with the lads or the girls you do things individually. You should have a life within the marriage for yourself but it should be about what you both get up to within the marriage not what you get up to individually without your spouses knowledge. And When your on a night out you stay out for as long suits that marriages. When your on holiday or away from your spouse because your thinking as a pair still even when your away from your spouse for decisions that impact both of you. You still think as a pair. Now of course your still going to think about yourself but only when you are the only one effected. So back to Ben and Callum. Yes you can make decisions about who your partner sees if it negatively effects your marriage. And the reasons beyond their request are reasonable. Which they are because the decision of Ben still seeing Lewis would effect Callum negatively. Your commitment is to your marriage not you. And if it is to you then either your not meant for marriage which is great theirs not problem with that or your married to the wrong person. Because you should want to think as one it’s not a chore it should come naturally to both of you. And when your naturally thinking as one is when you know your ready for marriage. When you would make reasonable big sacrifices for your partner without hesitation that’s when you know that this person is marriage material.
So Callum is just taking him back without addressing his husband's PTSD that led them to this very situation? Why is he so unconcerned about it when Ben has been a mess for months now? Ben is clearly not well and needs to be seeing a mental health professional, or they're going to have this exact same fight a month from now.
I'm not giving up on them the love they have for each other is so beautiful and they can get though anything beautiful and gorgeous husbands ❤💛🤍🌍🌈💙♥️🥰😍💕 xxx
I'm not giving up on them
And also, I love that they put a deep hug rather than a kiss because here at this moment, a hug is more powerful than a kiss and besides, I doubt the 2 of them are in the mood to kiss TBH, especially right after Ben and Lewis kissed so.. understandable; that was a really good hug, showing Callum really is sincere and serious about giving one last chance, that hug means ok! I love you so much that’s why I’m giving you this one last chance to make it work and that’s it, if it failed then despite it’s heartbreaking, we have to end it, this hug has many layers of emotions and feelings, it’s like making a promise for one last time, no more back and forth, forgiveness again and again, enough is enough; this is much better in this scene as a proper hug than a kiss, a kiss won’t be much powerful and meaningful than this hug!!👍👍👌👌👏👏
My emotions are exhausted after this.
Thanks Zebra.
You’re very welcome 😊
Ben is lucky to have a hubby like Callum.
Calm before the storm. Much needed conversation, but I'm worried. Just hope they have some happiness, proper onscreen happiness before it all goes to shit again.
They really couldn't break them up for at least a week, they just had to have Callum being a doormat, again.
I think the breakup is coming next week once Ben makes Callum believe he slept with Lewis rather then tell him the truth
I really loved this episode. Cannot wait for the next few weeks, exciting new material
"you betray me, you cheat on me again, we are over." That will be the reason why Ben will not tell Cal what Lewis did to him. He's gonna be afraid of losing Callum.
The last chance until the next last chance. Ben has never changed, he's just like Phil.
So true. Callum is the boy who cried wolf! He gives final ultimatums out on almost a daily basis. Just dump him and move on - it's getting old and sad.
I honestly don’t blame Callum for not wanting Ben to see Louis I do not trust Louis personally
You shouldn’t, he’s gonna rape Ben in next weeks episodes
Lewis*😂
@@lubinaaa what’s funny? I’m confused 🤷🏼♀️
@@taylorphinney6711 his name is Lewis not Louis
@@lubinaaa That’s what I meant I’m just not very good at spelling
Yay ballum are back
Callum finally grew balls!
Shut up
Lexi!!! Angel!! Baby girl! I’m scared and worried for her, because what’s about to come, big storm coming to her daddies, but how could we just protect her from those trauma that’s about to come💗💗😇😇☂️⛱☔️, could we be her umbrella to protect her from the drama? I really wish she could be happy always and not get dragged in the mess🥺🥺🥺
This is it, literally THE ONE LAST CHANCE for ballum marriage, Callum made it really clear, Ben seems trying a little bit, but not nearly enough, not even close, and he immediately asked would you report me to the police?? It sound to me this is more of what he cares about than working on his problems, working on their marriage, he forgot it’s Stuart’s chemo as well; he just forgot everything else, just it’s all about him, I mean I get his pain and trauma, but instead of getting help, he just puts his pain onto others, without even thinking Callum at all, maybe that’s just how he was raised, that’s the only way he knows how to deal with things, and even Callum can’t change that at all😭; so if this is ever to have the slightest chance to work, Ben needs to work and try a lot harder than this!!! Otherwise it’s the official end of them!😩😩🥺🥺😭, and besides, Lewis knew the attacks and other stuff now, and we are not trusting him at all, so that might come back bite him later big time, poor Callum, I just can’t help but feel sorry for him, because loving Ben might be one of the world hardest mission ever to be completed 😭😭, I still wish them good luck, praying.. but we don’t know what’s up front for them, so.. just fingers crossed, I hope it’s not the calm before the storm!😱
Every time, Ben takes part of authentic callum, classic relationship where one looses themselves.. sigh
So Ben breaks the promise because how is he gonna be assaulted without being around Lewis again?? I’m thinking he’s gonna start sneaking to see Lewis in secret (just as friends) and that’s when he gets taken advantage of and he’s gonna be to scared to tell Callum because he know he broke the promise.. so Ben gonna go into another depression binge and Callum is not gonna no what the hell to do.
I think even if he tells Calum he can’t tell the police because Lewis knows the truth about the attacks, I think he will blackmail him into staying silent, also maybe he spikes him and takes him back to his place we don’t know the circumstances of how he gets there yet just what will happen
Callum is just a doormat at this moment just there for ben to stamp and wipe his feet on it’s pathetic where’s Callum???
I dont think Ben will change though.
Their storyline became so repetetive and boring. Happines - Ben doing something stupid - fight - callum forgive ben. After that their story is starting to happen again from the start. Its like 5th, if not even more, same base of their storyline.
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I think Ben and Callum need a break. I don't feel the love anymore between them. It isn't reciprocal at all. Callum is getting hurt too much. I know the next storyline audience is suppose to have sympathy for Ben. Right now Callum is like a best friend to Ben not a husband. I guess I don't see what other people are seeing. The writing just isn't good at the moment.
I don’t think they need a break I think ben needs real serious deep concealing cause he always mess up things when they are going good
I think their break up will be really brutal but maybe when they get back together they spark will come back…it’s true they’ve lost their sexual chemistry since the COVID distance filming
You nailed it: the chemistry isn't the same anymore. Don't sense that these two are deeply in love -- they are playing it like good friends whose friendship -- rather than their marriage -- is in jeopardy. Poor writing, I think.
Callum's future is on the line. He is a crooked policeman now, just because it's Ben and His relationship. Ben could easily have murdered those people. Peter will find out it was Ben and there will be trouble. How can Callum arrest other people, is it ok to let them off because they are in a relationship.
No he became crooked when he agreed to do an unofficial undercover work for his boss
Is it really crooked to not arrest somebody doing community service?
@@malikmartinez1454 Yes. And now again .. all for Ben.
Can’t believe it’s been 4 months since their last kinda kiss, can’t wait to for Christmas
Only now does Callum realize what Ben is like? (I'm referring to the previous clips), Callum has always given everything for Ben, Ben on more than one occasion has tried to leave Callum hurting him .... now that Callum is tired of his games, Ben begs him to stay, and Callum gives him this chance by staying in a toxic relationship ... As much as he adores Ben and Callum together, Callum should lose out on what's good for him, not what's good for just Ben ...
This is when you wished they lived in the USA or any country where spousal privilege exists.
I wish hamzah would cuddle me like that I just want sort it out I love him but he is like Ben in real life
Ben so Cute
Ben forgive you Callum so why can’t you do same thing
These two are so horrible for each other and people support this. WHAT WRONG WITH YALL!
Awesome 😎
Who lived in that flat before or is it a brand new set?
Mick and Linda. Remember when Ollie saw a rat and shouted “a RAT”😂😂
@@marydballerfatubarin thank you.
even at this point. There is no justifiable reason for the upcoming attack by Louis. None. the whole storyline looks like it was thought up while producers were getting drunk at a bar. they're just making Ben weak. that's not this character!!!
So here’s the thing…
I’m so happy they are in good terms right now and are still together but I don’t agree with Callum not allowing Ben to see Lewis. I understand why, but it just doesn’t sit right with me. No one has the right to tell anyone who they can and can’t see.
I also know what’s coming, which makes me so sad for Ben and angry at Lewis. I just hope Callum being the decent guy he is knows immediately what happened and believes Ben.
Not if your married no. If your just boyfriend and girlfriend or boyfriend and boyfriend then I agree but marriage is a different level. I’ve seen some incredible marriages my parents is one of them and some awful abusive and toxic marriages with cheating, manipulation and cohesive control. And fail because of that type of thinking.
When you are married you think as one (not literally obviously) but you don’t think as an individual anymore you don’t think about me or I in decisions that effect you both. And when you think about her it’s us. It’s not how does my decision effect her it’s how does my decision effect us. You become we and that’s how everyone else sees you as well. they think of you as one as a pair. Now obviously their is individuality in that you know going for a drink with with the guys or the girls or going on holiday with the lads or the girls you do things individually. You should have a life within the marriage for yourself but it should be about what you both get up to within the marriage not what you get up to individually without your spouses knowledge.
And When your on a night out you stay out for as long suits that marriages. When your on holiday or away from your spouse because your thinking as a pair still even when your away from your spouse for decisions that impact both of you. You still think as a pair. Now of course your still going to think about yourself but only when you are the only one effected.
So back to Ben and Callum. Yes you can make decisions about who your partner sees if it negatively effects your marriage. And the reasons beyond their request are reasonable. Which they are because the decision of Ben still seeing Lewis would effect Callum negatively. Your commitment is to your marriage not you. And if it is to you then either your not meant for marriage which is great theirs not problem with that or your married to the wrong person. Because you should want to think as one it’s not a chore it should come naturally to both of you. And when your naturally thinking as one is when you know your ready for marriage. When you would make reasonable big sacrifices for your partner without hesitation that’s when you know that this person is marriage material.
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They need to breakup.
So Callum is just taking him back without addressing his husband's PTSD that led them to this very situation? Why is he so unconcerned about it when Ben has been a mess for months now? Ben is clearly not well and needs to be seeing a mental health professional, or they're going to have this exact same fight a month from now.
I'm not giving up on them the love they have for each other is so beautiful and they can get though anything beautiful and gorgeous husbands ❤💛🤍🌍🌈💙♥️🥰😍💕 xxx