मैं इन्हें बहुत वर्षों से जानती हूं।यह बहुत ही विचारणीय है,इनकी बहु तो स्वयं आर्मीमें है और उसे अपने रैंक के मुताबिक सुविधाएं मिल रही थी,अगर बेटे की सुविधाएं मां बाप को मिल जाती तो उनको एक सहारा हो जाता,न तो ट्रेन की सुविधा,न कैंटीन एवं मेडिकल की ।इस उम्र में मेडिकल की सुविधा बहुत महत्वपूर्ण होती है।
@@ramatyagi8165 to phir pension or army facility maa baap ko dene me kya dikkat h ....bahu to dono trf se mje kr rhi or maa baap ke aakho me aasu h ....ye aasu khi bahu ke liye baddua ka kaam na kr jaaye
We are still stepping in boots made by the English. Why we could not craft as per Indian culture since 1947. Ministry of Defence and ,DOPT should should make necessary Changes
Kuch nahi milna cahiyey. Us soilder kay bacchon ka future kyon kharab ho. Yeh bikari parents apnay bachhon ko bankrupt kana cahtey hein. Children have no right to select their parents so parents should not stake claims on children's wealth if they are married.
all that the wife gets or parents gets is a choice that the soldier makes. If he knew his parents were not in good terms with the wife and there is insecurity in the job then in the Nomination form they should add their parents as well. I feel sad for the parents who have invested in their son for years and now what they get is nothing. This is also case in civil where sons are throwing their parents out on street to beg. They should educate the soldiers of all these realities of life
Biswaranjan Pattanayak, the benefits of a soldier are automatically diverted to his wife and children after his death. But he can write to the Army and instruct that a part of the pension etc should go to his parents.
The family has finally spoken against the harrasment. It is important to speak against injustice. Just imagine this is the pain of family of Major Mohit Sharma. The system needs to be balanced. This is akin to dishonour of such heroes. The government must make sure that both the Family and wife of the soldier are taken care off. Both deserve equal mention and any compensation given must be divided accordingly. Currently the system is extremely biased.
it was in hand of him , he decided to give everything to wife . and second his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning . we must know the law before we beleive someone . it is a family dispute nothing else .
@@sonabhalke3486 First and foremost do not include Maj Mohit in this. NOK status in those times were automatically allotted to the wife. Major Mohit would never approve of a situation where his parents were denied entry to the Republic day ceremony because his wife would refuse to invite them. Moreover any compensation either in the form of insurance lumpsum or pension must be divided to both the wife and parents of fallen soldiers. If laws give money to the lady then she must divide money accordingly provided parents get nothing. The idea is to make sure no one is left dependent and this is basic ethical nature which must be applied to both parents and wife. You say that people are earning and not dependent but truth is there are many cases where parents are left helpless with zero compensation and zero pension because of different circumstances in different areas/states. Read about Naib Subedar Chuni Lal (most decorated Indian soldier) whose parents got nothing while the wife walked away with everything leaving them in depleted condition. Read about Lance Naik Govind Bhadouriya whose wife was in the process of obtaining divorce as she had an affair with another man but immediately arrived and took all compensation when husband died in Operation. She was such a sadist that she even fought for the medal and later lost the case.. Imagine what his parents must have felt when they couldn't even hold the medal forget money. This is not about wife or parents but about fairly compensating everyone who is affected. In case of Major Sharma the family has kept respectable silence all these years but imagine the insult and dishonour they were subjected to when they had to barge in the Republic Day ceremony to see their own son being awarded posthumously... Today with god's grace they are well to do but this is not the case every time.
@@sonabhalke3486no it was not in his hand if someone get killed automatically his wife get nok and his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning than why his wife is getting all the benefits? His wife is col in the army and I am saying this as a sosa
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj ye baat mujhse acchi tarha kon janega jiske papa bhi army me rahe or ab chhota bhai bhi .. lekin main kya kahu jub mere father army me the tab meri mother bhi ek wife rahi hain or ab Mera Bhai army me hain to vo hi mother army person ki maa ho gayi ... Main to bs yahi samjhti hun ki dono ko respect milni chahiye bs wife apne authority ka fayda uthate hue saas sasur ko dukh na pahuchaye ... Or usi tarha saas sasur bhi apni bahu ke dukh ko samjhte hue usko hamesha ek family member ki tarha se rakhe ..taki kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti to dono ko ek dusre ke bare me soach chahiye
@@MR.K.P.-mi4uh she lost her husband and she is alone , this lady has her husband and second son too . do you care about it ? she is unable to defend herself in media . do you care about that ? everything was done as per law and her son's wish . she is alone lady why should she be burdned with taking of them ? doesnt this lady has her husband and second son to take care ? NET nET is a family dispute for money and we must leave it at that .
शहीद मेजर मोहित जी शर्मा जी की मां की दर्दभरी आवाज ...बहुत दुख होता है ऐसे बहादुर बेटे मोहित शर्मा को जन्म देने वाली मां की ऐसी दुर्दशा...भारत सरकार को इस मामले मे गंभीरतापूर्वक समाधान करना चाहिए शहीद मोहित जी की धर्मपत्नी द्वारा ऐसा अशोभनीय व्यवहार बहुत बुरा लगा आखिर इस मां ने भी तो मोहित जी को जन्म दिया क्या इस मां को इतना भी हक नही है कि उसे अपने शहीद बेटे के हक हकूक मिले रक्षा मंत्रालय भारत सरकार से आग्रह है कि सेना के हर शहीद के परिवारो मे प्राय: शहीद की पत्नियो का ऐसा व्यवहार जग जाहिर हुआ धर्म पत्नि को जो भी पैकेज मिले उसके साथ शहीद के माता पिता को भी पैकेज मे इतना ही हक देना चाहिए जितना शहीद की पत्नि को मिलता है !! शहीद की मां की दर्दभरी दास्तान को सुनकर मन व्यथित और दुखी होगया
major mohit sharma ek legend hain aur unke mata pita ke upbringing, shikhsha, di hui educarion , values ki wajh se thi ...oosmein sirf mata pita ka credit hain 😢
Are moorkh ye khud. Govt servant likh ke jata kitna kisko milna this is not problem of system kuch pta nhi h to bakchodi Mt kro y totally uski declaration pr depends krta Jo o khud deta dept ko year me 2 bar mangta h ki if any casualty hoti to kisko kitna milega
@@mohitnegi8412bewkuf hi rhoge moorkh kisi army personnel se pucho y asa kyu y soldiers khud bharta h uski mrji 50% 50% v likh skta but Jo o likhega usiko milega smje
In the Award ceremonies the Parents are supposed to go with their Daughter in law. They too have lost their Son whom they groomed for so many years. These days, it seems very common amongst these Army families. Parents too need their Medical help, Canteen facilities etc. Am sorry to this all. Ma'am you should fight for your rights. Stay Blessed Ma'am
Punarbasit karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai. Duniya ke har desh me family matlab husband wife aur children hota hai. Parents come in extended family. Bas India me log itne laalchi hai ki bete ko investment samjhte hai usko apni nayi family basane nahi dete khud pure paiso par aiyaashi karna chate hai. Sharma aati hai Indian parents ki hipocracy par
Apni bakwas band karo tum..baaki desho se hame kya..ham india me hai...and here parents come before anyone else ..to khud ye baate banana band karo....or jo ye bol rahe ho ki family me wife or bacche hai ye rules Britishers ke time ka hai...hamne isme kuch change nhi kiya@@Raythelightlife
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz wah bhai wah agar parents pehle aate hai to shadi mat karo. India me parents laalchi hote hai bete ko ek investment samjhte hai. Isliye brainwash karte hai ki parents come first. Isliye India me khokh me bacchiya maar di jaati hai. Kyuki beta is an investment jeevan bhar uski kammayi khana hai. Aise bhikmango ko apne ladko ki shadi nahi karni chahiye
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz 🤣🤣🤣 tere laachi bhikmange parents Tera brainwash kiye hai. Lagta hai abhi single hai. Sun meri baad kabhi shadi mat karna. Tu ghar basane aur sambhalne ke kaabil nahi. Apne maa ki chaat Jaa kar
Bilkul sahee kahaa mother of the martyred soldier lekin yah kahnaa kae wife kee asthma aur autoimmune disease ek excuse aur bahaanaa hae aur shaadee kae four years maey sae 3 saal wife hospital maey thee toe that is not something to be spoken of as a fault of the wife and that kaun karaegaa doosre shaadee widow kae saath because she is a patient of an autoimmune disease ! Must hear the other side too and with due respect to the mother of a brave soldier ! Madam( mother of the veer soldier) went a bit too far with a few things about the wife and with rest of her complaints she may be right but this was not done! Not just or called for!
V sad to hear Heart touching real story Changes should be done Parents are sufferers Why A girl in very short duration getting everything Parents are no where Govt should look into these matters
🙏aunty ji Major Aashish Dhonchak's sister here. Hamarè saath bhi yahi hua h.Parents aur siblings is dukh k saath jeeta h ,wife to apne parents k pas rehne k liye chali jaati h
You should approach Supreme Court through PIL with documetry evidence of all such cases. Your community have lot of reputed lawyers and dominance in politics. There are still men of integrity who shall consider themselves fortunate to fight such cases.
Major Ashish Dhonchak will always be remembered for his selfless and supreme sacrifices for this Motherland 🇮🇳. May God give the tremendous support and love to his entire family 🙏🎉🙏 Major's selfless sacrifice will always be remembered till ages and also it will work as a fuel of motivation for the energetic youth of this country 🙏🇮🇳🙏
ससुराल छोड़ने पर और दूसरी शादी करने के बाद सारे अधिकार समाप्त होने चहिए। कानून इसके तहत बनना चाहिए। और मां बाप को क्यों नहीं पूछा जाता है। जबकि सबसे बड़ा अधिकार मां बाप का है। और शहीद की पत्नी ससुराल में ही रहती है तो उसको सारे अधिकार हैं। मगर शादी करेगी तो सब कुछ समाप्त।
@@NeelamSharma23500 next shaadi karne par woh naye pati par depend hogi na, toh usko pichle husband se jo faida utha rhi thi woh khatam ho jayega.. tum dono pati se faida nhi utha sakti.. ye law ke khilaf hai.. esa hai toh dono admi se shaadi karna padega jo ki hindu law ke anusar allowed nhi hai.. agar bacha hai toh sirf us bache ka maintenance ke lie hi paisa milega..
I raised this issue in smriti case also. NOK , misuse of female centric laws , all other related stuff . And all feminists came heavily . Luckily people awareness have increased and several voices in support of Parents have grown immensely..I hope this idiotic rules change and parents get their due recognition which should be primary and not secondary .🙏
Teri maturiry kahan gayi alok srivastava. Mujhe pata hai army main will kaise banwayi jati hai. Zabardasti wife ko hi dena hota hai sab kutch nahi toh CO piche pad jata hai.
Parents ka haq pehle hai kyonki wife apni ichhaanusar shadi karti hai koi jabardasti uski shaadi nhin karwata par maa baap kya jo apne bachhe ke saamne haar maan jaate hain @@aloksrivastava2797
क्यों माता पिता का अपमान किया जाता है सरकार और सेना द्वारा ? पैसा चाहे औरत को दो पर सम्मान माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए , क्योंकि वो ही दो लोग है जिन्होंने किसी वीर पुत्र या पुरुष को शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से तैयार किया है
this is agree both parents and wife should be respected but if she is talking about money n all uska husband decide kiya ismein galti hey to ladke ki hey
Very sad , Parents must have given rights for their child . Parents pain is very limitless ,only Parents in same situation can understand their pain 😭😭
I recently visited Major Mohit Sharma metro station in ghaziabad for exam centre and I'm grateful to the UP government to give metro station on the name of martyrs ❤ and it's beautiful and cleaned city and well maintained then Delhi. I also prayed their where Mohit Sharma sir statue was placed and I hope all people of India should be together when it's comes to nation 🙏❤
शहीद को जो भी सम्मान दिया जाये वो माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए, ताकि उसकी आने वाली पीढियां उसको देखकर गर्व महसूस करें NOK rules bilkul galat hai so sad for parents😢
Throughout the video I could not stop my tears....😢..last me jo Bola I support this ....agar in-laws ki care krti hai to hi unko nok ka right dena chahiye .....judiciary must intervene the nok matter
This was a very heart breaking interview. The parents have been totally neglected by the Army. Very astonishing. This is being so cruel to the mother, who has given birth. Why is the daughter in law being so insensitive? Please change NOK rules to the satisfaction of all.
it was her Son who decided to give everything to wife and this lady's husband is well earning and getting benefits of bank . they are not on road that she is needs medical benefits etc and why not this expectation from their second son who is alive ???? we need to differentiat between family fued and actual requirement
@@anii9398 what is the definition of depedent ??? Her husband is getting benefits from govt bank retirement . And they have their second son too why no one questions him that why your parents are Not being looked after by you after his death . Sasural and bahu ke fights commin hey . Jo yahab gyan de rahe hey woh bhi jane kya karte hoge real life mein .
@@sonabhalke3486 you are totally wrong over here. Parents are equally dependent on their son as his wife is. He might be receiving salary or pension but contrary to that she is also earning a good salary. Equal distribution should have been there in case of disagreement between the wife and parents of the major. No one has the sole right over his martyrdom. Even till now his father is paying loan EMIs for the house in which they aren't even allowed to enter. Pathetic.
Kitna pain hai Maa ki aawaaz mein 🥺 Hey Bhagwaan inko strength dena 🙏 I pray for them 🙏 Shat Shat Naman Parents ko bhi aur Brave Late. Major Mohit Sharma ji ko 🙏🇮🇳
इसमें कोई दो राय नहीं पत्नी की आयु को देखते हुए उसे लम्बे समय तक संघर्ष करना पड़ता है। फिर भी सरकार को असाहय बुजुर्ग माता-पिता का ध्यान में रखते हुए आर्थिक रूप से सहायता करनी चाहिए। सम्पूर्ण राष्ट्र भारत माता के महान सपूतों का ऋणी रहेगा। जय हिन्द वन्दे मातरम् 🙏🌹🌹🌹🇮🇳
@@prakashtiwari8003 श्रीमान प्रकाश तिवारी जी मैंने ये नहीं कहा कि माता पिता को कुछ नहीं मिले। आर्थिक सहायता अवश्य मिले ताकि उनके बाकी के जीवन में कम से कम शारीरिक कष्ट हो।🙏🇮🇳
@@VijaySharma-zj7pi sab cheez radar main laao. Kitni property hai parents ki. Kisko kitna mila. Gold kitna hai . Bahu ko bhi equal haq mile. Fir pension bhi divide ho.
Mam you & your son has done enough for this country. I salute you for giving birth & raising son like mohit. I wish best for you & mohit's father. God bless you mam.
Very Seriously issue parents ko bhi 40 percent Haq milna chahiye Medical Facility bhi Deni chahiye Pension bhi parents ko mile Major Mohit Ki wife already Army officer hai now Full Colonel hai salary leti hai pension stopage immediately
100% Responsibility lies with son. It is he who has to nominate his parents and wife. Daughter in law must give some financial support to parents. This is her responsibility.
No; son cannot do that. As per NOK rules, after marriage, the soldier's wife get the 1st preference and all preference in case of the soldier's death.. That's the rule.
Does nomination work in nok? I have not been able to find it out.Will applies to “estates” only,pension and pensionary benefits are given to nok only.But can a military personnel change his/her nok.Because after marriage nok is by default changed to spouse.
@@karv80The pension benefits are switched to the wife after marriage, it is true. But soldiers can write to the authorities and add their parents name to the NoK. They can also mention the percentage of allocations to each party.
@@gurprittawar4134 रामराम जी रामराम प्यारे भाई सेना Nok नोमनी में केवल एक नाम बताने का ही ऑप्शन होता है ऐसे में पत्नी या मां को ही चुन सकते हैं ,बल्कि होना ये चाहिए की दो नोमनी होना चाहिए मेरे मित्र जो सेना में था वा उसकी पत्नी भी सेना में है ,मेरे दोस्त के शहीद होने पर पत्नी को पेंशन वा सारी संपत्ति मिल गई फिर वही पत्नी ने एक और सरकारी नोकरी वाले से शादी कर ली अब वह महिला तीन सैलरी ले रही है ऐसा देश है मेरा , 15 अगस्त की शुभकामनाएं
रामराम जी रामराम इस सरकारी नोकरी करने वाली महिला स्वयं की सैलरी के अलावा कितने लोगों की ओर पेंशन ले सकती हैं मेरे आंखों देखी ऐसी कई महिला है जो खुद की सैलरी और दो फौजियों के मरणोपरांत उनकी सैलरी ले रही है क्या ऐसी महिला 5 पेंशन भी ले सकती है
@@krishanmohanyadav1824 apki me kadar kra hu sir me khud ek foji hu or foji bhut seedhe or bhavuk kism ka hota h or usko sabhi lutne ki faraq me rhte h dukan. Makan. Train TT . Society even family member q na ho ap chitan k samne me kritagya hu ap b bhav me sochre h apka abhar but ye jo jgha h hamari society awareness zero h foj k mahole me Marne ki koi ni sochta sir
बेटे के हर चीज पर मां बाप का पहले हक होना चाहिए माना कि बहूं भी हकदार हैं लेकिन आधे का। मैं एक मां हूं मैं अच्छे से जानती हूं बच्चे पालने में कितनी खुद की इच्छाओं कि कुर्बानी देनी पड़ती है।
She is a women who did raise a legend like Major Mohit Sharma, she indeed deserves everything...🙏🏻❤
True.Parents have equal rights as wife.
@@shaikifthekar5957 much more than the wife
I am mohits buddy. Don't perpetrate falsehood. The parents are devils.
@@chacharesarish581 when you don't know the whole facts it's better not to pass loose comments
@@shaikifthekar5957 yes that is just and fine but not all one sided
मैं इन्हें बहुत वर्षों से जानती हूं।यह बहुत ही विचारणीय है,इनकी बहु तो स्वयं आर्मीमें है और उसे अपने रैंक के मुताबिक सुविधाएं मिल रही थी,अगर बेटे की सुविधाएं मां बाप को मिल जाती तो उनको एक सहारा हो जाता,न तो ट्रेन की सुविधा,न कैंटीन एवं मेडिकल की ।इस उम्र में मेडिकल की सुविधा बहुत महत्वपूर्ण होती है।
You are right❤❤
Help kro didi aap...wo besharm bahu ne uske naam se sena me nokri bhi le li lekin maa baap ka hak maar liya us besharm aurat ne ....or army kya kr rhi
Maa baap ka haq maara? Use govt de Rahi hai. @@manusingh-ip9ir
@@manusingh-ip9irनौकरी ली नहीं पहले से ही आर्मी में हैं।
@@ramatyagi8165 to phir pension or army facility maa baap ko dene me kya dikkat h ....bahu to dono trf se mje kr rhi or maa baap ke aakho me aasu h ....ye aasu khi bahu ke liye baddua ka kaam na kr jaaye
सेना में शहीद के मां बाप को भी हक मिलना चाहिए
Hearts of life partners are won, wars are won, and vice-versa. Specialists knows the strategy. Hak is always given, still hak is confusing in meaning.
@@Subhash-v2p jiske maa baap bhikmange hai wo apne ladke ki shadi na kare. Pura paise milega. Maze hi maze
Are khahna kya chahte ho😅😢@@Sagar4321-q4v
Koi army join krta h to parents ki vjah se wife k vajh se nhi saari suvidhae wife ko di jaati h after marriage this is wrong
Sena me to ma Pita bachhae ko bhejnae ki himmt kartae haen phir into kaesae ignore keya ja sakta.Glantry award to parents ko hi milna chaheya
माँ बहुत कष्ट में है 😥सरकार से अपील है इनकी सहायता करें 🙏
I ❤️ u major sahaab🥹
This is the mirror of our Indian Administrative system
We are still stepping in boots made by the English. Why we could not craft as per Indian culture since 1947.
Ministry of Defence and ,DOPT should should make necessary Changes
ये इंडियन एडमिनिस्ट्रेशन की नहीं बल्कि ब्रिटिश परंपरा वाली भारतीय सेना का नियम है।
मां बाप का बच्चे पर सबसे पहला हक होता है।🎉❤
Are dost normal aadmi pe itna against laws h army walo pe choro
Also the marriage institution
Mam aap bilkul sahi hai aapko justice milna chahiye 😢😢😢😢😢
Bolne c mill jayega
आजादी के दिन ये सब देखना, सुनना और वो दर्द महसूस करना। कितना दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण है।
शहीद के माता पिता दर दर की ठोकरें खा रहे हैं सेना में नियम बदलने होंगे माता-पिता को हक मिलना चाहिए इस मां के आंसुओं की कोई कीमत नहीं है, 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Badlav hona chahiye
Kuch nahi milna cahiyey. Us soilder kay bacchon ka future kyon kharab ho. Yeh bikari parents apnay bachhon ko bankrupt kana cahtey hein. Children have no right to select their parents so parents should not stake claims on children's wealth if they are married.
मा बाप ही एक वीर सपूत को जन्म देती है
Ye Jo kolkatta me rape case hua wo bhi maa baap ka hi saput tha
all that the wife gets or parents gets is a choice that the soldier makes. If he knew his parents were not in good terms with the wife and there is insecurity in the job then in the Nomination form they should add their parents as well. I feel sad for the parents who have invested in their son for years and now what they get is nothing. This is also case in civil where sons are throwing their parents out on street to beg. They should educate the soldiers of all these realities of life
ब्रिटिश परंपरा वाला ये नियम खत्म होना चाहिए।जवानों को दी जाने वाली मदद पर मां बाप का पहला हक है।
सत्यमेव जयते 🎉❤
Indian Army should provide justice to the parents of Army staff
Army officers need to write their wills seriously if they want compensation to be given to parents after their death.
Absolutely, valid point..
Alll men
That is by default given to wife.They can't put will as their parents after marriage as per army rules
Do you even know the meaning of will?
@@biswaranjanpattnaik7962
Biswaranjan Pattanayak, the benefits of a soldier are automatically diverted to his wife and children after his death. But he can write to the Army and instruct that a part of the pension etc should go to his parents.
शहीद की माता बिलकुल सही बात कह रही है...कृपया सरकार को शहीदों की पत्नी के साथ साथ माता पिता का भी ध्यान रखना चाहिए
The family has finally spoken against the harrasment. It is important to speak against injustice. Just imagine this is the pain of family of Major Mohit Sharma. The system needs to be balanced. This is akin to dishonour of such heroes. The government must make sure that both the Family and wife of the soldier are taken care off. Both deserve equal mention and any compensation given must be divided accordingly. Currently the system is extremely biased.
it was in hand of him , he decided to give everything to wife . and second his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning . we must know the law before we beleive someone . it is a family dispute nothing else .
@@sonabhalke3486 First and foremost do not include Maj Mohit in this. NOK status in those times were automatically allotted to the wife. Major Mohit would never approve of a situation where his parents were denied entry to the Republic day ceremony because his wife would refuse to invite them. Moreover any compensation either in the form of insurance lumpsum or pension must be divided to both the wife and parents of fallen soldiers. If laws give money to the lady then she must divide money accordingly provided parents get nothing. The idea is to make sure no one is left dependent and this is basic ethical nature which must be applied to both parents and wife. You say that people are earning and not dependent but truth is there are many cases where parents are left helpless with zero compensation and zero pension because of different circumstances in different areas/states. Read about Naib Subedar Chuni Lal (most decorated Indian soldier) whose parents got nothing while the wife walked away with everything leaving them in depleted condition. Read about Lance Naik Govind Bhadouriya whose wife was in the process of obtaining divorce as she had an affair with another man but immediately arrived and took all compensation when husband died in Operation. She was such a sadist that she even fought for the medal and later lost the case.. Imagine what his parents must have felt when they couldn't even hold the medal forget money. This is not about wife or parents but about fairly compensating everyone who is affected. In case of Major Sharma the family has kept respectable silence all these years but imagine the insult and dishonour they were subjected to when they had to barge in the Republic Day ceremony to see their own son being awarded posthumously... Today with god's grace they are well to do but this is not the case every time.
@@sonabhalke3486no it was not in his hand if someone get killed automatically his wife get nok and his parents by law are not dependent on him as his father is earning than why his wife is getting all the benefits? His wife is col in the army and I am saying this as a sosa
You are such a strong woman...salute to you
शत् शत् नमन् 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
माता पिता कोभी सम्मान दिया जाना चाहिए तिरंगा हमें उनके सपूतों के बलिदान से मिला है सरकार की जिम्मेदारी है पूरे परिवार को मदद करें 🎉
एक मां के दिल में कितना दुख है मां का भी सामान बराबर होना चाहिए
ऐसा ही रहा तो परिवार अपना बच्चा सेना में भर्ती के लिए तैयार नहीं करेंगे 😢😢
Haan sach me aisi stories sunne ke baad parents ko man nahi karega apne baccho ko is line me bhejne ka
@@worldofahomemaker आर्मी में पत्नी नही मां बाप भेजते हैं बीवी बाद में आती हैं
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj ye baat mujhse acchi tarha kon janega jiske papa bhi army me rahe or ab chhota bhai bhi .. lekin main kya kahu jub mere father army me the tab meri mother bhi ek wife rahi hain or ab Mera Bhai army me hain to vo hi mother army person ki maa ho gayi ... Main to bs yahi samjhti hun ki dono ko respect milni chahiye bs wife apne authority ka fayda uthate hue saas sasur ko dukh na pahuchaye ... Or usi tarha saas sasur bhi apni bahu ke dukh ko samjhte hue usko hamesha ek family member ki tarha se rakhe ..taki kabhi ek hath se nahi bajti to dono ko ek dusre ke bare me soach chahiye
@@worldofahomemaker नमन करता हूं आपके परिवार को 🙏🙏🙏
@@SagarKumar-ub6oj 🙏😊
This lady is speaking the truth.
not really we dont know other side of story
@@sonabhalke3486She lost her son. Do Anyone care about that???
@@MR.K.P.-mi4uh she lost her husband and she is alone , this lady has her husband and second son too . do you care about it ? she is unable to defend herself in media . do you care about that ? everything was done as per law and her son's wish . she is alone lady why should she be burdned with taking of them ? doesnt this lady has her husband and second son to take care ? NET nET is a family dispute for money and we must leave it at that .
@@sonabhalke3486 usne apne husband ya fr uske bcche ko 9 mhine womb m ni rkha jo vo ye dard smj payegi.
@@Dannyy1300 haan if your father dies ( bhagwan na kare ) to yeh question apni maan se bhi poochna )
Ye log apni izzat k karan itne sal chup rahe .
We are with them
जो औरत अपने पति के माँ -बाप का दर्द ना समझें ओ कैसे देश सेवा करती होंगी 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Shai kaha aapne
@@JyotiChoudhary-ct8xuright
Right
Paise k liye, vo sirf usko nokri maamti h, darpok
शहीद मेजर मोहित जी शर्मा जी की मां की दर्दभरी आवाज ...बहुत दुख होता है ऐसे बहादुर बेटे मोहित शर्मा को जन्म देने वाली मां की ऐसी दुर्दशा...भारत सरकार को इस मामले मे गंभीरतापूर्वक समाधान करना चाहिए शहीद मोहित जी की धर्मपत्नी द्वारा ऐसा अशोभनीय व्यवहार बहुत बुरा लगा आखिर इस मां ने भी तो मोहित जी को जन्म दिया क्या इस मां को इतना भी हक नही है कि उसे अपने शहीद बेटे के हक हकूक मिले रक्षा मंत्रालय भारत सरकार से आग्रह है कि सेना के हर शहीद के परिवारो मे प्राय: शहीद की पत्नियो का ऐसा व्यवहार जग जाहिर हुआ धर्म पत्नि को जो भी पैकेज मिले उसके साथ शहीद के माता पिता को भी पैकेज मे इतना ही हक देना चाहिए जितना शहीद की पत्नि को मिलता है !!
शहीद की मां की दर्दभरी दास्तान को सुनकर मन व्यथित और दुखी होगया
major mohit sharma ek legend hain aur unke mata pita ke upbringing, shikhsha, di hui educarion , values ki wajh se thi ...oosmein sirf mata pita ka credit hain 😢
एक मां के अंदर कितना दर्द है😢😢😢
😢
अंशुमान की मां और मोहित शर्मा की मां को सौ बार नमन जिन्होंने इस क़ानून को बदलने का साहस किया और ईश्वर से प्रार्थना करते हैं कि इन्हें सफलता मिले
Very very heartbreaking. I don't have any words for these girls. ☹️
Offcouse by seeing his mom crying Mohit sir soul will crying too..
मेरे आंखों में आसू आ गया ❤❤❤😢😢
माँ बाप पाल कर देश को बेटा देते हैं सरकार उनके साथ ऐसा सलूक करती है ऐसे माँ बाप का सम्मान होना चाहिए
सबकी बहुएँ खराब क्यों निकल जाती हैं ??
Shame on our system and on such daughter in law
bilkul ye desh ke lie he prem hai ki gov itna nahi bhi karti fir bhi jaan dete hai jawan is desh ke lie ....sharam se doob mare gov
@@mohitnegi8412 ye law abhi aaya hai kya jo gov ko ab gaali de rha h ...
Are moorkh ye khud. Govt servant likh ke jata kitna kisko milna this is not problem of system kuch pta nhi h to bakchodi Mt kro y totally uski declaration pr depends krta Jo o khud deta dept ko year me 2 bar mangta h ki if any casualty hoti to kisko kitna milega
@@mohitnegi8412bewkuf hi rhoge moorkh kisi army personnel se pucho y asa kyu y soldiers khud bharta h uski mrji 50% 50% v likh skta but Jo o likhega usiko milega smje
@@Aheeryaduvansdost abhi tak koi option nhi tha automatically wife ko nok manajata ha . Ab kuch change ho jaye to acha hoga
सवाल तो उठता है जब अपने मां बाप ही सुरक्षित नहीं तो देश के सेवा किसके लिए शहादत किसके लिए
Bai system ka weakness hai beta ki nahi
आजकल के रिस्तो मे इतनी खटास है कि क्या बोले माँ का दर्ज़ा सब से बड़ा है बहुत दुःख हुवा देख के🙏❤️
How sad that Parents couldn't attend their ceremonies
How sad that Parents couldn't attend their ceremonies
In the Award ceremonies the Parents are supposed to go with their Daughter in law.
They too have lost their Son whom they groomed for so many years.
These days, it seems very common amongst these Army families.
Parents too need their Medical help, Canteen facilities etc.
Am sorry to this all.
Ma'am you should fight for your rights.
Stay Blessed Ma'am
@@pushpakanyalsawant4051 well said dear 💕🙏
Shame on now colnel Reshma Sarin
It’s sad but a true story of almost all the martyrs
I think it’s high time for our government to think about it
Please support major mohit sharma sir mother and father❤😢🙏...jai hind 🇮🇳
कितनी टीस है।
दर्द के साथ अपमान-दर्द की कोई सीमा नहीं
सरकार रिश्तों को पुनर्भाषित करे
Paiso ke liye apne bete ko badnaam kar rahe hai maa baap. Jub paise khud hi rakhne the to shadi kyu kiye ladke ki
Punarbasit karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai. Duniya ke har desh me family matlab husband wife aur children hota hai. Parents come in extended family. Bas India me log itne laalchi hai ki bete ko investment samjhte hai usko apni nayi family basane nahi dete khud pure paiso par aiyaashi karna chate hai.
Sharma aati hai Indian parents ki hipocracy par
Apni bakwas band karo tum..baaki desho se hame kya..ham india me hai...and here parents come before anyone else ..to khud ye baate banana band karo....or jo ye bol rahe ho ki family me wife or bacche hai ye rules Britishers ke time ka hai...hamne isme kuch change nhi kiya@@Raythelightlife
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz wah bhai wah agar parents pehle aate hai to shadi mat karo. India me parents laalchi hote hai bete ko ek investment samjhte hai. Isliye brainwash karte hai ki parents come first. Isliye India me khokh me bacchiya maar di jaati hai. Kyuki beta is an investment jeevan bhar uski kammayi khana hai. Aise bhikmango ko apne ladko ki shadi nahi karni chahiye
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz 🤣🤣🤣 tere laachi bhikmange parents Tera brainwash kiye hai. Lagta hai abhi single hai. Sun meri baad kabhi shadi mat karna. Tu ghar basane aur sambhalne ke kaabil nahi. Apne maa ki chaat Jaa kar
आजादी ऐसे बहु से साहिए देश को। मा बाप का दुःख सबसे भारी।
शर्म करो इंडियन आर्मी शर्म करो ये रोते मां बाप के आंसू तुम्मको बरबाद कर देंगे, अपयश हो रहा है
NOK m Gallantry award mother ko milna chaiye...
Bilkul sahee kahaa mother of the martyred soldier lekin yah kahnaa kae wife kee asthma aur autoimmune disease ek excuse aur bahaanaa hae aur shaadee kae four years maey sae 3 saal wife hospital maey thee toe that is not something to be spoken of as a fault of the wife and that kaun karaegaa doosre shaadee widow kae saath because she is a patient of an autoimmune disease ! Must hear the other side too and with due respect to the mother of a brave soldier ! Madam( mother of the veer soldier) went a bit too far with a few things about the wife and with rest of her complaints she may be right but this was not done! Not just or called for!
😢😢😢😢 Maa G Belive upon D mighty. Radhe Radhe🙏🙏🙏🙏
V sad to hear
Heart touching real story
Changes should be done
Parents are sufferers
Why A girl in very short duration getting everything
Parents are no where
Govt should look into these matters
आर्मी (सेना) का कानून अंधा है। क्या डिफैंस मिनिस्ट्री (भारत सरकार ) तत्काल नियमों में संशोधन करके माता पिता के साथ न्याय करेगी।
Pura desh ka kanoon hi andha hai bhai
Uche log apne mutabik use kr lete hai
Nahi karegi
@@princetonacademy6385I can understand that Fellow could not decipher Hindi.
Sir ma bhi fouji hu .आँखों में आंसू aa गए फौजी कभी रोता नहीं है पर ऐसे बात सुनकर और क्या करे ❤❤❤❤❤. माता जी की हेल्प करो
Apni nok badlao sir fir
Truth Spoken Shahhed Major de Mother, Center Govt Watch Pl this matter.Parnaam Shaheeda Nu.
My favourite War Hero ..
Mohit Sharma ..❤❤
सरकार को सैन्य बलों के साथ साथ केन्द्र और राज्य की सेवाओं में भी माता पिता की देखभाल और उनके अधिकार के बारे में नियम बनाने चाहिए।
🙏aunty ji
Major Aashish Dhonchak's sister here. Hamarè saath bhi yahi hua h.Parents aur siblings is dukh k saath jeeta h ,wife to apne parents k pas rehne k liye chali jaati h
We all now feel ur pain thru youtube video ,govt shud take strict decision 4 parents n siblings
I seen major Ashish's mother's video n ur papa also tear were dere in my eyes
You should approach Supreme Court through PIL with documetry evidence of all such cases.
Your community have lot of reputed lawyers and dominance in politics.
There are still men of integrity who shall consider themselves fortunate to fight such cases.
Major Ashish Dhonchak will always be remembered for his selfless and supreme sacrifices for this Motherland 🇮🇳.
May God give the tremendous support and love to his entire family 🙏🎉🙏
Major's selfless sacrifice will always be remembered till ages and also it will work as a fuel of motivation for the energetic youth of this country 🙏🇮🇳🙏
Par app ki babhi Tu bool rahe ha ve rahna chate ha app ke sath leken app rakhna nhi chate, kya ye sach ha
ससुराल छोड़ने पर और दूसरी शादी करने के बाद सारे अधिकार समाप्त होने चहिए। कानून इसके तहत बनना चाहिए। और मां बाप को क्यों नहीं पूछा जाता है। जबकि सबसे बड़ा अधिकार मां बाप का है। और शहीद की पत्नी ससुराल में ही रहती है तो उसको सारे अधिकार हैं। मगर शादी करेगी तो सब कुछ समाप्त।
Right
Inke case me to uss aurat ne shadi ni ki h pr sab kuch le gayi.... 50-50 milna chahiye, jbtk wo next shadi ni krti....
@@NeelamSharma23500 next shaadi karne par woh naye pati par depend hogi na, toh usko pichle husband se jo faida utha rhi thi woh khatam ho jayega..
tum dono pati se faida nhi utha sakti.. ye law ke khilaf hai.. esa hai toh dono admi se shaadi karna padega jo ki hindu law ke anusar allowed nhi hai..
agar bacha hai toh sirf us bache ka maintenance ke lie hi paisa milega..
@@sourabhkumar3852 Haan... Next shadi krne pr 50% wife ki pension again parents ko transfer ho Jani chahiye....
This is bound to happen in this country ..keep on serving this beautiful country 👏👏
Pain in her voice
I really cried
I fully agree with the mother of Shaheed Mohit Sharma Parents should be protected
I raised this issue in smriti case also. NOK , misuse of female centric laws , all other related stuff . And all feminists came heavily . Luckily people awareness have increased and several voices in support of Parents have grown immensely..I hope this idiotic rules change and parents get their due recognition which should be primary and not secondary .🙏
Very sad
Ma ki mamta ka justice hona chiye
This is shameful no one can replace parents...They deserve respect too
Mata ji aap bilkul sahi kh rahi ho
सरकार को शहीदों के माता पिता के हित में नियम बनाने चाहिए।
If constitution can be amended .. Then why not NOK ?
A mother gives son to tha nation, not a wife, why she is glorified? She even remarried. Can our nation not respect a mother?
Shame on your ideology. You can't compare mother with any one on this earth.n@@aloksrivastava2797
Teri maturiry kahan gayi alok srivastava. Mujhe pata hai army main will kaise banwayi jati hai. Zabardasti wife ko hi dena hota hai sab kutch nahi toh CO piche pad jata hai.
Parents ka haq pehle hai kyonki wife apni ichhaanusar shadi karti hai koi jabardasti uski shaadi nhin karwata par maa baap kya jo apne bachhe ke saamne haar maan jaate hain @@aloksrivastava2797
Oye inki wife ne bhi dobara shadi krl.i@@guptagup8909
@@Romangirl234 aaj ke time me sari ladkiya aisi hi hai , kuch din pahle bhi same case aaya tha
Well said👍 parents का bhi अधिकार है बेटे पर
Very sad… plight of the mother is heart wrenching
क्यों माता पिता का अपमान किया जाता है सरकार और सेना द्वारा ? पैसा चाहे औरत को दो पर सम्मान माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए , क्योंकि वो ही दो लोग है जिन्होंने किसी वीर पुत्र या पुरुष को शारीरिक और मानसिक रूप से तैयार किया है
this is agree both parents and wife should be respected but if she is talking about money n all uska husband decide kiya ismein galti hey to ladke ki hey
Very sad , Parents must have given rights for their child . Parents pain is very limitless ,only Parents in same situation can understand their pain 😭😭
Salut to mothers
All are requested to raise the voice of parents...
Salute to Mother..
जिन माता पिता के अथक प्रयासों के कारण एक बच्चा ऑफिसर बनता है उनकी ऐसी दुर्दशा एक विचारणीय मुद्दा है
Ek aulaad par maa se jyada haq kisi ka nahi ho sakta , patni ka bhi nahi 😢😢😢
Sahi bat hai
Bilkul shi. ..parents should have more rights
Fouj me bhut drama hai... family sirf wife or bacho ko smjha jata hai ..ma baap ko nhi
Due recognition and respect should be given to parents
🙏🙏 speechless
I recently visited Major Mohit Sharma metro station in ghaziabad for exam centre and I'm grateful to the UP government to give metro station on the name of martyrs ❤ and it's beautiful and cleaned city and well maintained then Delhi. I also prayed their where Mohit Sharma sir statue was placed and I hope all people of India should be together when it's comes to nation 🙏❤
शहीद को जो भी सम्मान दिया जाये वो माता पिता को ही मिलना चाहिए, ताकि उसकी आने वाली पीढियां उसको देखकर गर्व महसूस करें NOK rules bilkul galat hai so sad for parents😢
I'm shocked beyond word's. Especially coming from a family of a such a renowned hero of IA.
आप court में अपना संघर्ष जारी रखिए एक दिन आप की जीत होगी शायद युग परिवर्तन है
But will.they be alive till then.....
This Reality hits...💔
sir aaj bhi sab ke inspiration hai...
मां आप बलिदानी सपूतों की कुर्बानी पर सच्ची देशभक्ति निभाती हैं जयहिंद जय-जवान जज्बे को सलाम ईश्वर हिम्मत दे सुरक्षित रखे आपको 🎉🎉
Ek Beta jane ke baad jo dukh Mata pita Ko hota wo govt ya koi nahi samajh sakta my salute to Brave mother
बापरे बाप.... सूनकर दिमाग का दही हो गया❗😢
कब तक देश में दुष्ट बहुएं कानून का दुरूपयोग करके पति के घर की महिलाओं पर अत्याचार करेगी ?????
Throughout the video I could not stop my tears....😢..last me jo Bola I support this ....agar in-laws ki care krti hai to hi unko nok ka right dena chahiye .....judiciary must intervene the nok matter
This was a very heart breaking interview. The parents have been totally neglected by the Army. Very astonishing. This is being so cruel to the mother, who has given birth. Why is the daughter in law being so insensitive? Please change NOK rules to the satisfaction of all.
it was her Son who decided to give everything to wife and this lady's husband is well earning and getting benefits of bank . they are not on road that she is needs medical benefits etc and why not this expectation from their second son who is alive ???? we need to differentiat between family fued and actual requirement
For her It is not about money... But there r sm parents who r totally dependent on there sons... So army has to change there rules
@@anii9398 what is the definition of depedent ??? Her husband is getting benefits from govt bank retirement . And they have their second son too why no one questions him that why your parents are Not being looked after by you after his death . Sasural and bahu ke fights commin hey . Jo yahab gyan de rahe hey woh bhi jane kya karte hoge real life mein .
@@anii9398 in his parents case it is not a fact they have another son and a retire bank employee pension too and it was their son”s choice
@@sonabhalke3486 you are totally wrong over here. Parents are equally dependent on their son as his wife is. He might be receiving salary or pension but contrary to that she is also earning a good salary. Equal distribution should have been there in case of disagreement between the wife and parents of the major. No one has the sole right over his martyrdom. Even till now his father is paying loan EMIs for the house in which they aren't even allowed to enter. Pathetic.
Can see the pain of mother. Government should take care of such things.
बहुत दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण
Kitna pain hai Maa ki aawaaz mein 🥺
Hey Bhagwaan inko strength dena 🙏
I pray for them 🙏
Shat Shat Naman Parents ko bhi aur Brave Late. Major Mohit Sharma ji ko 🙏🇮🇳
इसमें कोई दो राय नहीं पत्नी की आयु को देखते हुए उसे लम्बे समय तक संघर्ष करना पड़ता है। फिर भी सरकार को असाहय बुजुर्ग माता-पिता का ध्यान में रखते हुए आर्थिक रूप से सहायता करनी चाहिए। सम्पूर्ण राष्ट्र भारत माता के महान सपूतों का ऋणी रहेगा। जय हिन्द वन्दे मातरम् 🙏🌹🌹🌹🇮🇳
Bilkul shi bat ❤❤❤❤❤
Patni shadi kr leti hai agar umar kam hoti hai
Wife ke sath sath maa papa ko bhi pure hak hone chahiye
Mein bhi ladki hu tab bhi aisa bol rhi hu
What if she marry again? Her pension and perks should be discontinued.
@@prakashtiwari8003 श्रीमान प्रकाश तिवारी जी मैंने ये नहीं कहा कि माता पिता को कुछ नहीं मिले। आर्थिक सहायता अवश्य मिले ताकि उनके बाकी के जीवन में कम से कम शारीरिक कष्ट हो।🙏🇮🇳
@@VijaySharma-zj7pi sab cheez radar main laao. Kitni property hai parents ki. Kisko kitna mila. Gold kitna hai . Bahu ko bhi equal haq mile. Fir pension bhi divide ho.
Mam you & your son has done enough for this country. I salute you for giving birth & raising son like mohit. I wish best for you & mohit's father. God bless you mam.
there was no need for background music to make it more emotional.
Very Seriously issue parents ko bhi 40 percent Haq milna chahiye Medical Facility bhi Deni chahiye Pension bhi parents ko mile Major Mohit Ki wife already Army officer hai now Full Colonel hai salary leti hai pension stopage immediately
Not 40 percent, 70 percent given to parents and 30 percent for wife if she has kids.
Yes very true👍
ik k tu kids b nai hain.@@rozlinpanda5483
@@rozlinpanda5483don't get married 100% money will be given to parents .... ku ldki ki zindagi khrb krni h
Exactly
Very right ji
Ham aap k sath hai mam
100% Responsibility lies with son. It is he who has to nominate his parents and wife. Daughter in law must give some financial support to parents. This is her responsibility.
No; son cannot do that. As per NOK rules, after marriage, the soldier's wife get the 1st preference and all preference in case of the soldier's death.. That's the rule.
Does nomination work in nok? I have not been able to find it out.Will applies to “estates” only,pension and pensionary benefits are given to nok only.But can a military personnel change his/her nok.Because after marriage nok is by default changed to spouse.
@@karv80The pension benefits are switched to the wife after marriage, it is true. But soldiers can write to the authorities and add their parents name to the NoK. They can also mention the percentage of allocations to each party.
सब कहते हैं कि बहू को बेटी के समान मानो। तो बहुएं सास को मां के समान क्यों नहीं मानतीं
Salute to this Mother❤ 🫡 Bahut Bojh ott rkha hai unhone apne dil m🥺
Right 💯
Justice must be served .....!!!!
सेना के नियम को शर्म है लानत है
फौजी अफसर कभी अपने मां बाप का सम्मान नहीं करते सिर्फ अपनी औरतों के पीछे रहते हैं इसीलिए इन्होंने कानून भी अपनी घरवाली के लिए ही बनाए हैं
Asa ni h dost foji khud NOK form choice hoti h vohi h jo army krti h mom dad ko milna chye me favour me hu
@@gurprittawar4134 रामराम जी रामराम
प्यारे भाई सेना Nok नोमनी में केवल एक नाम बताने का ही ऑप्शन होता है ऐसे में पत्नी या मां को ही चुन सकते हैं ,बल्कि होना ये चाहिए की दो नोमनी होना चाहिए
मेरे मित्र जो सेना में था वा उसकी पत्नी भी सेना में है ,मेरे दोस्त के शहीद होने पर पत्नी को पेंशन वा सारी संपत्ति मिल गई फिर वही पत्नी ने एक और सरकारी नोकरी वाले से शादी कर ली अब वह महिला तीन सैलरी ले रही है
ऐसा देश है मेरा , 15 अगस्त की शुभकामनाएं
रामराम जी रामराम
इस सरकारी नोकरी करने वाली महिला स्वयं की सैलरी के अलावा कितने लोगों की ओर पेंशन ले सकती हैं
मेरे आंखों देखी ऐसी कई महिला है जो खुद की सैलरी और दो फौजियों के मरणोपरांत उनकी सैलरी ले रही है
क्या ऐसी महिला 5 पेंशन भी ले सकती है
@@krishanmohanyadav1824 apki me kadar kra hu sir me khud ek foji hu or foji bhut seedhe or bhavuk kism ka hota h or usko sabhi lutne ki faraq me rhte h dukan. Makan. Train TT . Society even family member q na ho ap chitan k samne me kritagya hu ap b bhav me sochre h apka abhar but ye jo jgha h hamari society awareness zero h foj k mahole me Marne ki koi ni sochta sir
बेटे के हर चीज पर मां बाप का पहले हक होना चाहिए माना कि बहूं भी हकदार हैं लेकिन आधे का। मैं एक मां हूं मैं अच्छे से जानती हूं बच्चे पालने में कितनी खुद की इच्छाओं कि कुर्बानी देनी पड़ती है।
I request all people to write ✍️ Mail to PMO and home minister about NOK rule change 🙏 🙏 🙏
Request to govt Please do something about this NOK
ur child story is so terrific no one can imagine .. the pain
माता पिता को प्राथमिकता ज़रूर मिलनी चाहिए