@TDMFAN no way. That is retarded logic. The offender was told to leave and left. You don't just throw in the towel for one person. Kids are impressionable and they learned a lesson from the referee and their coach that day. In the context of soccer, rules that are enforced teach those lessons. You are a horribly misguided individual.
@@Joemight13no,the centre ref was right, to question the refs decision is a red card, as it means you are downgrading the refs control of the field, if a player just says oh cmon ref quietly it’s not a ref as it’s not to the ref and it’s would play on, don’t just agree with side liners, refs have to go through hours of hard training, trust there knowledge
@@armandoroman6644 have you gone through around 24 hours of red training and have had multiple reminders about questioning the refs decisions and all of that, I have gone through that as a proper ref but believe what you want I guess 🤷♂️
Respect to him for having the bravery and confidence to throw em off. Can’t say how many times I’ve played and wanted parents to go away because they’re talking trash
I love how the ref was straight back to business even while the coach is still screaming on his way off the field. No need for that crap even if the refs are imperfect. Good handling of the situation there.
I’m a referee and I see that every Sunday when I ref their games. It happened yesterday in two games, I got cops called on me by them lol everything was okay tho the couple got kicked out 😅
As a athletic I’d prefer players referees in coaches, communicating with each other I got my first technical foul because I was falling around. I said that’s bullshit. 😂
the AR could have done more before it got to that point to try to keep the coach calm ..not all parents and coaches are wrong because they don't have the whistle ..I wish I was there to see the whole game
Hey kid, you're doing great, there's so many adult center refs who don't have the spine to put unruly staff or parents in their place. Keep it up. That's exactly what you should do
it's not that they don't have the spine..they are lazy and don't want the extra paperwork, don't want the assignor seeing he can't handle that age group..I was an AR for a game with the Philadelphia union academy team. The ref was a younger ref ..the Philly keeper was yelling the F word from the net at players and the ref..I was telling the keeper to stop cursing and the center ref just ignored the whole thing..I told the ref at half time that he needs to clamp down on that..he said, "I'll never be invited back if I start cracking down on stuff like that.,.smh..it's a huge problem when the clubs have that much power all because of money
In our association, abuse of the referee is taken very seriously; by a coach even more so. God help you if you abuse a teenage ref (that you know by definition has limited experience and is likely to make more errors); this generally results in a permanent ban. I say generally as if I'm aware of it happening in the 8 years I've coached, but at the coaches' meeting every preseason, the association states in no uncertain terms that a permanent ban is the result of this behavior.
These kids are like U7 why is bro getting heated, like it’s not like a scout or some shit to see this and he is going to become the next man united coach or one of the players will get signed to Chelsea
Those kids don't even look 13. Great call by the ref, stop this behavior before it gets worse. It really is a shame when parents think any behavior like this is remotely acceptable. Coach learned a good lesson.
my older brother was a soccer referee at 14, that was his first job. so many parents would argue with him but he was little and was scared. when he got older he spoke back and took control of situations where coaches were almost gonna fight each other. mind you my brother has played soccer his entire life so he knew what he was doing. he also took a class to make sure he was great. when i turn 14, i’m gonna have to do the same but mind you, i have a little bit of an attitude so with my attitude i’d probably scare the parents and get them to shut up before i cancel the game. mind you, you can do that. i’ve learned so much from my brother and i can’t wait to work. hopefully parents now a days are no longer vicious animals
As a coach coaching kids like this, if you are kicked out of the game, you should receive a minimum 5 game suspension from coaching. Do it again in the same season, you should be banned from coaching forever. No place in any minor sports program for this behaviour.
"I walked away from you!" Ref: "Yeah, you walked away from me after you stepped on the pitch to verbally harangue me. That's what the red card is for, bonehead!"
1. This is a kids game, not the World Cup final. This is where they are having fun and getting a workout. 2. If by some chance there is a referee that is making bad calls, as long as it’s consistent in both ends of the teams then it’s just a coin flip for the decisions, and a review of the arbiter post-match so he can learn from those mistakes. 3. We are human, people make mistakes. If you think you can do a better job, put on the uniform. Otherwise you’re just a spectator with zero say in what goes on the match regarding rules
And the loser walks directly across the field. No shame, no understanding. I own my own club, indoor facility and leagues - in 8 years I have reffed nearly 7000 games, and am ruthlessly strict with parents. I do not use cards.. minor fouls are incidentals (free kick), anything malicious/dangerous is a strike. After 1 strike, the next foul is an automatic goal for the other team and a free kick.. In this span there has not been 1 injury (due to a foul). Ive only had to permanently ban 4 families, and 1 entire team during a tourney. Does it work? There is now a 9 month waiting list (35 pre-paid families) for each and every program from u5 to Mens and womens leagues being held in escrow.. I decided to do it myself.. and now the national program is coming by.. they are actually considering what I am doing..
100% the ref should have called the game after the coach walked across the field and started shouting at the ref. What a HORRIBLE example this coach is setting for his players. If I was the President of his soccer club, I would fire that coach, not for the red card but for his actions after. Additionally, If I was running that league, he'd be banned from coaching in it for life. You have to protect your youth refs and the example you are setting for these youth players.
As a 14 year old ref, while the ref made the right decision to eject the parent, you are supposed to ask the coach to remove the parent and if they or the parent do not comply the coach can get a red or the game can be abandoned. You are never supposed to give a red card to a spectator even if they did deserve it.
Each league and tournament has their own policies for spectator removals. You are correct that there isn’t a Soccer Law about Red carding a spectator for ejection unless they step foot on the pitch…even then it’s a straight ejection
The unhinged coach should not coach in any league. Referee was awesome and managed this situation perfectly. The coach, on the other hand was a bad representation for his team. He even trounced across the field after ejection- a sure sign that he respects nothing about this sport.
It's not just the parents and coaches. It's the leagues, too. Obviously this isn't universal, but a lot of leagues don't protect their refs by backing up their ejection decisions with bans, so the refs are thrown under the bus constantly.
When I was a teenager playing traveling club ball, I didn't respect any of the coaches in their 20s or 30s that already had a beer gut. They were weirdly common, and they were never any good at coaching. A good coach has to be an effective disciplinarian. He has to set an example. What does it say when a coach isn't even disciplined with his own body?
I swear adults, whether they are watching their kid or playing in a rec league, who suck ass just go to blow off steam. They just show up and are already pissy looking for drama. It’s pathetic
its a twofold problem, parents and coaches that do not understand the game, and then frustrated parents and coaches with refs that are horrible. Its a kids game but its also safety concerns, hours of volunteer hours poured into a team, both sides need better training
the coaches anger is coming from week after week seeing poor officiating ..I've assessed refs and believe me, there are refs that should be doing something else. there's not enough info shown unfortunately
@@forzajuve4845 yes but you have to start some where. Young refs need a place to start, and there are not enough refs to go around. They need to be trained more frequently, especially as they are being paid. I as well have assessed refs, coaches and clubs.
Hey "Coach" - here's a thought: Why don't you give up coaching (since you set a piss poor example for the kids anyway), and put on the stripes since you obviously know so much about being a Ref!!
We don’t have the context of the disagreement. The ref may very well have been making bad or one sided calls. Bad officiating, along with bad coaching, are both ruining youth sports.
I see so many of these soccer clips. First a red card is for players not the coach or parents. Coach can be sent off and has to leave and the assistant coach takes over. I refer for many years.
That coach couldn’t run the length of the field - so there is no way he could do the job of the ref. So, let him ref the game. Best thing for the kids - kick those who aren’t a positive influence on the game and the players out.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes. This is the reason grassroots referees rarely stay in it past 2 years. I myself am quitting in a month after 2 1/2 years.
At the end of the day our officials do the best they can. They can only call from the angle we they see. They do a great job. Thanks to all the officials who let our kids play sports. Needs to be a National Sports Official day. We don’t have a game with out you
Instead of giving the muppet a red card, the ref should give him a ball and he can demonstrate all the skills and techniques that he passes onto his U11 D grade (??) players. Its usually these guys with the biggest mouths that think they're coaching in the big time that are the most inept !!
at least it adds heat to the game. No parent actually likes watching a trashy 8 year old game. If stuff like this happens at least it gets a little interesting 😂
I see dad brought his soccer dad body to face off with a 16 yr old. Why don't you ref then dad if it's so easy. Way to handle it ref, the league has your back.
im not a fan of this ref's handling of this situation..he has a lot to learn ..he will lose control in many games if he thinks the solution is yellow and red cards..there are many ways to handle this without tossing the coach . as a ref since 1981 this ref should be taught other methods
"I walked away from you!!!" (And you kept mouthing off, while you were walking away) Do you think the Ref gave you the red card for the direction of your walk?
To the teenage official I say, Bravo!
Dude walks across the field too to delay the game even further
Ref should've called the game for that and given it to the other team. Red means off the field, not walking across it.
@TDMFAN it's a kid's game. Why punish them? Get over it, send off the perp and play on.
@@nickstevens4482 it would make them and their parents realise they need a coach who can control himself?
@@nickstevens4482 if you don't teach kids how to be respectful in sport at this age then you're setting them up for failure.
@TDMFAN no way. That is retarded logic. The offender was told to leave and left. You don't just throw in the towel for one person. Kids are impressionable and they learned a lesson from the referee and their coach that day. In the context of soccer, rules that are enforced teach those lessons. You are a horribly misguided individual.
Listen to the trashy parents cheer for the coach and say they have his back. They're everything that is wrong with youth sports.
I mean, can you blame the coach he didn’t even attack him that sports
@@Joemight13no,the centre ref was right, to question the refs decision is a red card, as it means you are downgrading the refs control of the field, if a player just says oh cmon ref quietly it’s not a ref as it’s not to the ref and it’s would play on, don’t just agree with side liners, refs have to go through hours of hard training, trust there knowledge
@@Thatoneperson-that-you-knowI get what you're saying, but it should have been a yellow and not a straight red. Thats bs lol
@@armandoroman6644 have you gone through around 24 hours of red training and have had multiple reminders about questioning the refs decisions and all of that, I have gone through that as a proper ref but believe what you want I guess 🤷♂️
Everything that is right with youth sports. The big leagues ain't no daycare. Ain't no friendly environment.
Respect to him for having the bravery and confidence to throw em off. Can’t say how many times I’ve played and wanted parents to go away because they’re talking trash
Yo BC what are you doing here!? I love your videos! (I'm a friend of Christopher Connelly.)
@@chessbricks2134 sup bro🤙🏻😎
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Good job Ref. These coaches want to keep talking... time to go
There has to be zero tolerance of any type whatsoever of disrespect to referees in ALL sports..
I love how the ref was straight back to business even while the coach is still screaming on his way off the field. No need for that crap even if the refs are imperfect. Good handling of the situation there.
Imagine being a full grown adult acting like a child at a kids soccer game smh
I’m a referee and I see that every Sunday when I ref their games. It happened yesterday in two games, I got cops called on me by them lol everything was okay tho the couple got kicked out 😅
As a athletic I’d prefer players referees in coaches, communicating with each other I got my first technical foul because I was falling around. I said that’s bullshit. 😂
Theres a right and a wrong way of teaching kids this guy clearly showed himself who he was 😂
I am a teenage ref myself, who does a lot of adult games, and trust me I see it ALL THE TIME!!
This teenage ref deserves a commendation. Standing up for respectful play and conduct. Good for him. 🏅🏅
the AR could have done more before it got to that point to try to keep the coach calm ..not all parents and coaches are wrong because they don't have the whistle ..I wish I was there to see the whole game
We need to adopt a zero tolerance attitude against adults like this or we will lose youth sports forever
Definitely need some better policies
You must not have been around sports.
Youth sports has been lost for years and years.
And lose officials. There is a referee and umpire shortage for a reason.
@kt-ru4hq oh No Skippy, better call the Authorities! We have to do something 🤡
Bro soccer moms these days are just way to overprotective of their children
They feel very entitled.
That's what I'm saying. Sports are sports man. Not pedicures
@@ronaldmartinez6732 Excellent 😂😂
Just looking at that coach, you could tell he was once an elite athlete accustomed to competing at the highest levels.
Love this comment❤ God bless from England🏴🇺🇸 P.S. it's footy not soccer,😂
"You're a joke" says the adult getting kicked out of a kids soccer game 😂
Hey kid, you're doing great, there's so many adult center refs who don't have the spine to put unruly staff or parents in their place. Keep it up. That's exactly what you should do
Totally agree
it's not that they don't have the spine..they are lazy and don't want the extra paperwork, don't want the assignor seeing he can't handle that age group..I was an AR for a game with the Philadelphia union academy team. The ref was a younger ref ..the Philly keeper was yelling the F word from the net at players and the ref..I was telling the keeper to stop cursing and the center ref just ignored the whole thing..I told the ref at half time that he needs to clamp down on that..he said, "I'll never be invited back if I start cracking down on stuff like that.,.smh..it's a huge problem when the clubs have that much power all because of money
Grown man trying to bully a teenager at a child’s game. Classy. Quite a role model.
he showed them, walking across the pitch like the hero he is.
This is why I love Parent coaches vs the real thing. Total disregard for the game
The entitlement to think he can berate an official while simultaneously stepping onto the field during a match is next level nutzo...
This video alone is enough to get that coach banned from coaching for multi-season cycles in our association
In our association, abuse of the referee is taken very seriously; by a coach even more so. God help you if you abuse a teenage ref (that you know by definition has limited experience and is likely to make more errors); this generally results in a permanent ban. I say generally as if I'm aware of it happening in the 8 years I've coached, but at the coaches' meeting every preseason, the association states in no uncertain terms that a permanent ban is the result of this behavior.
@@toddwright662 Yes! Verbal abuse of a minor referee in our state USSF USYS association is handled very seriously and the coach usually gets fired.
These kids are like U7 why is bro getting heated, like it’s not like a scout or some shit to see this and he is going to become the next man united coach or one of the players will get signed to Chelsea
Parents and coach are a damn joke.
Good on the ref for standing his ground. If the coach is not careful he will be suspended from the next game.
Those kids don't even look 13. Great call by the ref, stop this behavior before it gets worse. It really is a shame when parents think any behavior like this is remotely acceptable. Coach learned a good lesson.
my older brother was a soccer referee at 14, that was his first job. so many parents would argue with him but he was little and was scared. when he got older he spoke back and took control of situations where coaches were almost gonna fight each other. mind you my brother has played soccer his entire life so he knew what he was doing. he also took a class to make sure he was great. when i turn 14, i’m gonna have to do the same but mind you, i have a little bit of an attitude so with my attitude i’d probably scare the parents and get them to shut up before i cancel the game. mind you, you can do that. i’ve learned so much from my brother and i can’t wait to work. hopefully parents now a days are no longer vicious animals
For the most part, the sidelines are decent, it’s a few that ruin it for others.
What a cheeseburger coach.
It's so sad to see how parents and coaches act these days.
Tossed😂😂
My son coaches, he's calling the refferee a joke and look at the age of those kids. Shameful and disgusting.
Good for your son but you don't hear the coaches son tell his dad stop it coach trash talks a 16 yr while leaving is your son that way to?
Dipsick walked across the pitch to spoil the game even longer...
As a coach coaching kids like this, if you are kicked out of the game, you should receive a minimum 5 game suspension from coaching. Do it again in the same season, you should be banned from coaching forever. No place in any minor sports program for this behaviour.
i can’t even tell you how many times i’ve wanted a parents or a coach off the field. sm respect to that referee
And then he walks across the pitch.
"I walked away from you!"
Ref: "Yeah, you walked away from me after you stepped on the pitch to verbally harangue me.
That's what the red card is for, bonehead!"
The linesman cannot be wearing sunglasses.
It's children playing.. Relax man 😂
That dude definitely hits people if he thinks he can get away with it.
Great lesson for the kids coach...walking disrespectfully across the field...
1. This is a kids game, not the World Cup final. This is where they are having fun and getting a workout.
2. If by some chance there is a referee that is making bad calls, as long as it’s consistent in both ends of the teams then it’s just a coin flip for the decisions, and a review of the arbiter post-match so he can learn from those mistakes.
3. We are human, people make mistakes. If you think you can do a better job, put on the uniform. Otherwise you’re just a spectator with zero say in what goes on the match regarding rules
Parents getting in mob mentality against teenagers is insane..
I seriously wonder if the American coach even knows what is offside and there are positions in football?
Yes I remember what happened there I played there for soccer once 🤦
10 year old kids...coaches, 3 officials all in same attire, let them just play
Outstanding Ref! Tool bag Bill
And the loser walks directly across the field. No shame, no understanding.
I own my own club, indoor facility and leagues - in 8 years I have reffed nearly 7000 games, and am ruthlessly strict with parents. I do not use cards.. minor fouls are incidentals (free kick), anything malicious/dangerous is a strike. After 1 strike, the next foul is an automatic goal for the other team and a free kick..
In this span there has not been 1 injury (due to a foul).
Ive only had to permanently ban 4 families, and 1 entire team during a tourney.
Does it work? There is now a 9 month waiting list (35 pre-paid families) for each and every program from u5 to Mens and womens leagues being held in escrow..
I decided to do it myself.. and now the national program is coming by.. they are actually considering what I am doing..
100% the ref should have called the game after the coach walked across the field and started shouting at the ref. What a HORRIBLE example this coach is setting for his players. If I was the President of his soccer club, I would fire that coach, not for the red card but for his actions after. Additionally, If I was running that league, he'd be banned from coaching in it for life. You have to protect your youth refs and the example you are setting for these youth players.
"At the end of the day you gotta be consistent " ... How does this warrant a red card ??
Go Referee. All coaches should do Ref training and ref games before being allowed to coach.
As a 14 year old ref, while the ref made the right decision to eject the parent, you are supposed to ask the coach to remove the parent and if they or the parent do not comply the coach can get a red or the game can be abandoned. You are never supposed to give a red card to a spectator even if they did deserve it.
Each league and tournament has their own policies for spectator removals. You are correct that there isn’t a Soccer Law about Red carding a spectator for ejection unless they step foot on the pitch…even then it’s a straight ejection
Been seeing this a lot and i know parents and coaches catch flack for being ridiculous but some of these refs be soft af.
There is no need for a coach to act this way - there kids are like 7 years old
The unhinged coach should not coach in any league.
Referee was awesome and managed this situation perfectly. The coach, on the other hand was a bad representation for his team.
He even trounced across the field after ejection- a sure sign that he respects nothing about this sport.
There is a ref shortage.. I wonder why?
It's not just the parents and coaches. It's the leagues, too. Obviously this isn't universal, but a lot of leagues don't protect their refs by backing up their ejection decisions with bans, so the refs are thrown under the bus constantly.
Lead by example and teach your kids that sometimes things don't go the way you want. Learn to deal with adversity.
And we wonder why our kids have no respect for authority
That parent should be banned for the rest of the season
Good job to that kid ref. Parents are a joke.
When I was a teenager playing traveling club ball, I didn't respect any of the coaches in their 20s or 30s that already had a beer gut. They were weirdly common, and they were never any good at coaching.
A good coach has to be an effective disciplinarian. He has to set an example. What does it say when a coach isn't even disciplined with his own body?
I swear adults, whether they are watching their kid or playing in a rec league, who suck ass just go to blow off steam. They just show up and are already pissy looking for drama. It’s pathetic
its a twofold problem, parents and coaches that do not understand the game, and then frustrated parents and coaches with refs that are horrible. Its a kids game but its also safety concerns, hours of volunteer hours poured into a team, both sides need better training
the coaches anger is coming from week after week seeing poor officiating ..I've assessed refs and believe me, there are refs that should be doing something else. there's not enough info shown unfortunately
@@forzajuve4845 yes but you have to start some where. Young refs need a place to start, and there are not enough refs to go around. They need to be trained more frequently, especially as they are being paid. I as well have assessed refs, coaches and clubs.
Dang this is why I will never volunteer for youth soccer reffing, I remembered when I was playing lmao!!! HELLLLNAAHH I don’t want any part of it!!
Hey "Coach" - here's a thought: Why don't you give up coaching (since you set a piss poor example for the kids anyway), and put on the stripes since you obviously know so much about being a Ref!!
another dad (coach) that thinks his kid is going to play for team USA 🙄
Loud mouth coach needs to be a better example.
The kids look like they are about 9 years old. After being tossed, he had to walk across the field instead of walking around.
An immature so-called "man" posing as a Coach. Good for the referee!
We don’t have the context of the disagreement. The ref may very well have been making bad or one sided calls. Bad officiating, along with bad coaching, are both ruining youth sports.
Typical suspect
I see so many of these soccer clips. First a red card is for players not the coach or parents. Coach can be sent off and has to leave and the assistant coach takes over. I refer for many years.
That coach never ran a day in his life
Just can’t keep their mouth shut
I wish the refs would issue more cards. If that league works like my son's, the coach is suspended for the next game too.
Well done to the ref. This guy is a buffoon
i tossed an ex nfl player who was coach from a little league game when i was umpire at 12
To be fair the coach didn’t continue talking. It was the cameraman he heard saying something about consistency😂
You're deaf
The coach didn’t exactly do anything to stop him. At the end of the day to use his words, it is his side line and his responsibility.
Walk of shame. 😂
Proud of the referee. 🎉🎉🎉
Agree
Respect the referee even if they make mistakes. unless you have vr. people complain about the ref but don't want to be the ref. isn't that irony?
That coach couldn’t run the length of the field - so there is no way he could do the job of the ref. So, let him ref the game. Best thing for the kids - kick those who aren’t a positive influence on the game and the players out.
Agree
Hats off to that ref. Amazing situation handling with a coach that acts more like a kid then the teenage ref himself
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
This is the reason grassroots referees rarely stay in it past 2 years. I myself am quitting in a month after 2 1/2 years.
Once the man walked through the field & Ref had to stop the game he'd ended the game.
At the end of the day our officials do the best they can. They can only call from the angle we they see. They do a great job. Thanks to all the officials who let our kids play sports. Needs to be a National Sports Official day. We don’t have a game with out you
Tossed for saying we have to be consistent. I thought only MLB umps were that soft.
Saying "we have to be consistent" is code for "I'm going to be a jerk, but use weasel words like "consistent" to make myself seem fair-minded.
Great ref coach doesn’t know what he is talk about
It should be required for any parent or coach to take anger management course before being allowed back.
Instead of giving the muppet a red card, the ref should give him a ball and he can demonstrate all the skills and techniques that he passes onto his U11 D grade (??) players.
Its usually these guys with the biggest mouths that think they're coaching in the big time that are the most inept !!
Bet his kid is just like him
This is a grown man arguing with college/hs kids (refs) over 8 year olds playing a game
at least it adds heat to the game. No parent actually likes watching a trashy 8 year old game. If stuff like this happens at least it gets a little interesting 😂
I was a ref as a teen. Job sucked
I see dad brought his soccer dad body to face off with a 16 yr old. Why don't you ref then dad if it's so easy. Way to handle it ref, the league has your back.
Lol the fuck coach walks off…. While every kid on the field just wants to go home and play video games..
All this over soccer, nobody cares in the first place.
im not a fan of this ref's handling of this situation..he has a lot to learn ..he will lose control in many games if he thinks the solution is yellow and red cards..there are many ways to handle this without tossing the coach . as a ref since 1981 this ref should be taught other methods
But the problem is I heard what your parents said. U have to control your parents or its on you.
So strange that volunteer officials are hard to find these days
So what exactly happened? I might be able to help if you don't understand
Bad by the ref. Refs gotta go to the coach before the spectators.
"I walked away from you!!!" (And you kept mouthing off, while you were walking away) Do you think the Ref gave you the red card for the direction of your walk?
I did this referee nonsense for ten years.
Sad stuff to see in kids sports.