But then they handed me my new sister when I was 2.5 years old and I became a leader without realizing it. Pretty soon there were two more siblings and all their friends and they and my Mom expected me to keep them busy. We put on a circus and charged a nickel to get in. I’m still reluctant to lead from the front because of the responsibility and time, but I love to delegate, and would make an excellent Monarch if forced to take the job which I would find repulsive in nearly every way (I mean a real monarch-a mere figurehead would be even more repulsive). I’d be looking for a way out, as soon as the war was over.
I’m a INTJ workaholic and continual learner with a 135 IQ. I do not like excuses and conformity is an insult to my intelligence and a daily struggle. I’ve often been told I’m weird which I let them know is a compliment to me, “thank you!” My circle is small, not just anyone can share my space and I often have issues with romantic relationships. If you can’t first stimulate my mind, I will get bored. I don’t have drama and don’t have time for it! I’m a truly commitment phobe. I need my space. My brain won’t shut off, and I have undiagnosed ADHD! I am stern with my boundaries which make people think that I mean, but I’m not. When I say no I mean no! I am loyal with a heart of gold. But I won’t let you play me and I don’t sugarcoat anything. I’m honest, authentic and I tell it like it is, I don’t sugar coat shit! I don’t mean to hurt you, but I feel like I’m hurting you if I don’t tell you the way you need to hear it especially if you come to me. Ijs! 🤷🏾♀️
The "she doesn't choose to lead unless she has to" is true for me. I've always struggled with leadership roles in school during childhood because the expectations are rather different from what a leader should actually be. It's more like they voted you to be a leader for you to be the first one to follow orders and be the first one to be blamed for failing to do so. Having parents who don't understand that is also another thing because they raised me in their standards, so I had a hard time fitting in with society. To this day, I don't have friends, but I feel a lot more confident and comfortable being alone now, unlike when I was younger, I was always anxious of not having friends.
As a female INTJ, I dont care what men or women think of me. They are equally human in my eyes. It just human that I like, dislike, and insignificant 😂
Ironic that a video on intj female attributes, (which includes an obsessive focus on efficiency) would repeat itself word for word in numerous places:) yes, i am one of these intj women and i am being analytical...but overall i enjoyed the content and felt it was accurate.
Idk if I’m an outlier as an INTJ woman who often chooses to lead. Maybe it’s just based on life experience, or maybe I naturally assume leadership without thinking about it. But I generally volunteer to lead, because I know that ~90% of the time, I’m the most capable leader in the room 🤷♀️ and I don’t do well working under bad leadership
Most comfortable with men (boys) then puberty hit that then messed up these friendships. I had female friends, but few and hard to find and always were more able to connect in conversations with men.
I recently learned of the terms, "sigma" males & females. That is, lone wolves, basically. I identified with that. You have lots of leadership qualities, but don't necessarily want to lead. This video is great, too. Very fitting. 👏🙏💫
Wish I had known this back in the 1960s but I just struggle to exist. I have taken several tests online now and always come up INTJ with score of 100 percent in imtuition portion. I remember a test for the 7th graders. One portion was abstract reasoning with shapes asking to match what was similar. They got more complex so I went into the zone in my mind where I would wonder about things and where I went with my art. I finished the whole test. Later I was sent to a room at school to talk with a guy in a suit. He told me I scored the highest in the school with a 1+. Then he said a boy in the next aisle got was the next higher scorer and haf I copied from him. I was n not told why I was there. So I thought I was in trouble. I was also very shy, a loner and did not respond as this all made mo sense. Then he said math scores did not reflect this and was I not trying. I again did not know what to say to this . I had transferred from a religious grade school in 5th grade snd had been 2+ years behind in math. I loved to read so was ahead in other areas. Then this guy scowled and looked at.me and said , well what do you like to do in school the most? I said I liked art class the most. He then looked at me and said " well that explains it" and sent me back to class. I never told my parents as I thought I was now out of trouble and the school never told them of the test. Well it was the 1950, 1960s with a lot of female potential suppressed and lost. I look back and think of what more I might have accomplished if I understood what I do now. .
These traits are what led me to lead a completely unconscious emotional adult life. It's fascinating to consider now and look back on. As I have raised children, (often wondering why I didn't feel MORE mushy expected affection for them!), I am reading, thinking, and figuring out my next chapter in life. The struggles are very real. I often think, Ignorance is (would be) bliss."
A woman wearing a muzzle (as you have in your video) would not likely be an INTJ. Conforming with the rest of society isn’t in our nature, especially when all indicators suggest society is suffering from mass formation psychosis and not operating from logic ie: the last few years.
I agree. We like to be inside our heads and chose what we want & what is important to us than what others want (even though we might’ve cared a little but thats just human nature).
People at my work tend to assume that I am shy because I don’t talk much and I don’t have bubbly personality. I don’t consider myself as a shy person, I just prefer listening and analysing and if everything was said during the meeting I just say if I agree or sometimes I add a few thoughts.
Well this music in the background is very annoying and doesn't fit the topic in my opinion 😅 otherwise, I would agree with the essence of what is being said.
One of my coworkers told me that if she saw me coming down the hall she would examine her conscience. I don’t know why. I did seem to be the one people came to for answers, although my responses were often questions. “My printer won’t print.” “Was there an error message?” Or, “I don’t know what to do about X.” “Did you talk to Y?” I also got good responses from judges-when I explained why I thought ignorance of the law was sometimes an excellent excuse, I was thanked and excused, not sent off to civil court like the woman who said she was a racist. And the time I explained why a time limit on a meter and a parking limit on a space are not the same thing and the sign was worded wrong if it meant to prevent the adding of more coins after the time expired.
Identify? You can identify all you want, but if you don't test out INTJ, you aren't. If you are by psychological measure a female INTJ, the struggles are very real.
It's a label. I was surprised that someone had discovered the one for me, but I find that while people may have identified the what, they still have no idea of the why and still don't understand us.
As an INTJ female ,I have so many friends and I smile a lot .guys is the stereotype or am I mistyped?!😢but still I do share many of the characteristics of an intj,🧐I am so confused right now😣
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“She doesn’t choose to lead unless she has to.”
But then they handed me my new sister when I was 2.5 years old and I became a leader without realizing it. Pretty soon there were two more siblings and all their friends and they and my Mom expected me to keep them busy. We put on a circus and charged a nickel to get in. I’m still reluctant to lead from the front because of the responsibility and time, but I love to delegate, and would make an excellent Monarch if forced to take the job which I would find repulsive in nearly every way (I mean a real monarch-a mere figurehead would be even more repulsive). I’d be looking for a way out, as soon as the war was over.
Spot on!
Exactly
I’m a INTJ workaholic and continual learner with a 135 IQ. I do not like excuses and conformity is an insult to my intelligence and a daily struggle. I’ve often been told I’m weird which I let them know is a compliment to me, “thank you!” My circle is small, not just anyone can share my space and I often have issues with romantic relationships. If you can’t first stimulate my mind, I will get bored. I don’t have drama and don’t have time for it! I’m a truly commitment phobe. I need my space. My brain won’t shut off, and I have undiagnosed ADHD! I am stern with my boundaries which make people think that I mean, but I’m not. When I say no I mean no! I am loyal with a heart of gold. But I won’t let you play me and I don’t sugarcoat anything. I’m honest, authentic and I tell it like it is, I don’t sugar coat shit! I don’t mean to hurt you, but I feel like I’m hurting you if I don’t tell you the way you need to hear it especially if you come to me. Ijs! 🤷🏾♀️
Ditto. This is me, too!
Same here 🤝 If someone wants my opinion, I will offer my honest opinion, don’t expect me to sugarcoat shit.
„Why aren‘t your smiling more?“ - „cuz‘ you don’t give me any reason to.
Im assuming english isnt your first language...sheesh
@@DonnaSeward-m7l She's and INTJ. She doesn't care what you think. (Neither do I.)
The "she doesn't choose to lead unless she has to" is true for me. I've always struggled with leadership roles in school during childhood because the expectations are rather different from what a leader should actually be. It's more like they voted you to be a leader for you to be the first one to follow orders and be the first one to be blamed for failing to do so. Having parents who don't understand that is also another thing because they raised me in their standards, so I had a hard time fitting in with society. To this day, I don't have friends, but I feel a lot more confident and comfortable being alone now, unlike when I was younger, I was always anxious of not having friends.
That's the leader role, take the responsibility.
Can relate 💯%
I always ended up being the leader because I was the one with the ideas and they were happy not to have to think.
As an INTJ, I think this video repeats itself too many times. I got it the first time😊
Yes, and why all the photos of Sensates exercising in slow motion? Why so many shopping bags?
Wait, we’re we supposed to be critiquing the execution or the concepts?
Thank God. I thought I was mistaken for a second. Glad I wasn't the only one who noticed 😅😁
As a female INTJ, I dont care what men or women think of me. They are equally human in my eyes. It just human that I like, dislike, and insignificant 😂
Ironic that a video on intj female attributes, (which includes an obsessive focus on efficiency) would repeat itself word for word in numerous places:) yes, i am one of these intj women and i am being analytical...but overall i enjoyed the content and felt it was accurate.
Could have been 1/2 as long…
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Was just about to comment on this and of course, another INTJ spotted/commented first lol Bravo
I definitely caught that too😂
Idk if I’m an outlier as an INTJ woman who often chooses to lead. Maybe it’s just based on life experience, or maybe I naturally assume leadership without thinking about it. But I generally volunteer to lead, because I know that ~90% of the time, I’m the most capable leader in the room 🤷♀️ and I don’t do well working under bad leadership
"We don't have any better" is what bosses often say about me.
Perfect description of INTJ ladies
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Most comfortable with men (boys) then puberty hit that then messed up these friendships. I had female friends, but few and hard to find and always were more able to connect in conversations with men.
I recently learned of the terms, "sigma" males & females. That is, lone wolves, basically. I identified with that. You have lots of leadership qualities, but don't necessarily want to lead. This video is great, too. Very fitting. 👏🙏💫
Wish I had known this back in the 1960s but I just struggle to exist. I have taken several tests online now and always come up INTJ with score of 100 percent in imtuition portion. I remember a test for the 7th graders. One portion was abstract reasoning with shapes asking to match what was similar. They got more complex so I went into the zone in my mind where I would wonder about things and where I went with my art. I finished the whole test. Later I was sent to a room at school to talk with a guy in a suit. He told me I scored the highest in the school with a 1+. Then he said a boy in the next aisle got was the next higher scorer and haf I copied from him. I was n not told why I was there. So I thought I was in trouble. I was also very shy, a loner and did not respond as this all made mo sense. Then he said math scores did not reflect this and was I not trying. I again did not know what to say to this . I had transferred from a religious grade school in 5th grade snd had been 2+ years behind in math. I loved to read so was ahead in other areas. Then this guy scowled and looked at.me and said , well what do you like to do in school the most? I said I liked art class the most. He then looked at me and said " well that explains it" and sent me back to class. I never told my parents as I thought I was now out of trouble and the school never told them of the test. Well it was the 1950, 1960s with a lot of female potential suppressed and lost. I look back and think of what more I might have accomplished if I understood what I do now.
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These traits are what led me to lead a completely unconscious emotional adult life. It's fascinating to consider now and look back on. As I have raised children, (often wondering why I didn't feel MORE mushy expected affection for them!), I am reading, thinking, and figuring out my next chapter in life.
The struggles are very real.
I often think, Ignorance is (would be) bliss."
A woman wearing a muzzle (as you have in your video) would not likely be an INTJ. Conforming with the rest of society isn’t in our nature, especially when all indicators suggest society is suffering from mass formation psychosis and not operating from logic ie: the last few years.
I agree. We like to be inside our heads and chose what we want & what is important to us than what others want (even though we might’ve cared a little but thats just human nature).
As soon as I saw that one scene with the masked female, I was irked.
"A master of her own fate"
People at my work tend to assume that I am shy because I don’t talk much and I don’t have bubbly personality. I don’t consider myself as a shy person, I just prefer listening and analysing and if everything was said during the meeting I just say if I agree or sometimes I add a few thoughts.
Wooooow!!!!!! This is 100% on Point!!!! 😳💯🎯
Greetings from an intj- sigma from Switzerland...🤩🤭😏😁
Well this music in the background is very annoying and doesn't fit the topic in my opinion 😅 otherwise, I would agree with the essence of what is being said.
True... 😅
Thank you for your suggestion, we will consider it in our next videos ❤
Thank you for your suggestion, we will consider it in our next videos ❤
Thank you, guys)))
Am I the only one that is annoyed with the voice and music? I tried to focus
I’m annoyed by ‘that’ Wednesday as well. She’s not an infj
Love it ❤❤❤
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One of my coworkers told me that if she saw me coming down the hall she would examine her conscience. I don’t know why. I did seem to be the one people came to for answers, although my responses were often questions.
“My printer won’t print.” “Was there an error message?” Or, “I don’t know what to do about X.” “Did you talk to Y?” I also got good responses from judges-when I explained why I thought ignorance of the law was sometimes an excellent excuse, I was thanked and excused, not sent off to civil court like the woman who said she was a racist. And the time I explained why a time limit on a meter and a parking limit on a space are not the same thing and the sign was worded wrong if it meant to prevent the adding of more coins after the time expired.
It is inconsistent to call female INTJs rare, and also say they alter the female stereotype. Rare confirms the stereotype.
Love it 😍
INTJ in secrecy they win
Identify? You can identify all you want, but if you don't test out INTJ, you aren't. If you are by psychological measure a female INTJ, the struggles are very real.
It's a label. I was surprised that someone had discovered the one for me, but I find that while people may have identified the what, they still have no idea of the why and still don't understand us.
Thankyou ❤
As an INTJ female ,I have so many friends and I smile a lot .guys is the stereotype or am I mistyped?!😢but still I do share many of the characteristics of an intj,🧐I am so confused right now😣
Mbti is just a tool. You can always be yourself as long as you don't care.
You really sound like David Attenbourgh describing a rare rodent.
Just pop some X and become the new Grimes 💪
Is this an AI channel?
💗💗💗💗
she is clearly an istp tho
As an IDIOT, I disagree.
Boy! I can't stand the narrator's voice
So much repetition