He Spent Their Life Savings On A Farm 🐷 Help! I'm In A Secret Relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 29 май 2024
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  • @Jenniferlynn6504
    @Jenniferlynn6504 2 месяца назад +209

    He needs to pay her back and she needs to walk away

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад

      👏👏

    • @traceyann4509
      @traceyann4509 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes yes yes and never look back

  • @EN-mh6sr
    @EN-mh6sr 2 месяца назад +143

    His gaslighting is appalling.

    • @rancidrabbitspensley3475
      @rancidrabbitspensley3475 2 месяца назад +1

      i see a defo not good at masking the traits of a np/bpd Dsm5 defo a Cluster B

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад

      😂

  • @EclesysGalaxy
    @EclesysGalaxy 2 месяца назад +168

    If someone did this to me I would end up in jail lol

  • @carolmpekethu3643
    @carolmpekethu3643 2 месяца назад +97

    The fact that he's smilling when explaining...is getting a toll on me already

  • @angelsunlight
    @angelsunlight 2 месяца назад +80

    Never use a joint account. My grandma always told me. Everything that she ever told me was true

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад +4

      👏👏

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 2 месяца назад +11

      The key is a joint account for shared bills/savings goals and separate account for your own individual savings. Always protect yourself first.

    • @augustdelacreme
      @augustdelacreme Месяц назад +3

      I bet she saved most of the money in that account which is why he felt the need to make an executive decision with her money. Had it been most of his money he wouldn’t have needed to go behind her back to do it

  • @NatashaTapps
    @NatashaTapps 2 месяца назад +62

    She should take him to court and ask every penny he took from her

  • @aeternam3710
    @aeternam3710 2 месяца назад +70

    She is damn patient, I would just leave and sue his ass

  • @jaislyngreene2142
    @jaislyngreene2142 2 месяца назад +64

    The way Ronnie and Travis’s hear turn from one person to the other is so funny lol

    • @kerensa7349
      @kerensa7349 2 месяца назад +10

      I was cracking up 😂 ik it wasn't supposed to be funny but it's like 2 kids listening to their parents fighting

    • @jimehrlich7389
      @jimehrlich7389 2 месяца назад +2

      Like watching cats at a ping pong tournament

  • @gooswan
    @gooswan 2 месяца назад +51

    this guy sucks, you can tell he's just getting annoyed by the simplest of pushback. he can't take criticism at all

  • @BlossomInfinity
    @BlossomInfinity 2 месяца назад +18

    If he did something like this, this early in the relationship, better believe he’ll do it again. This was a test run 😂

  • @harashe1000
    @harashe1000 2 месяца назад +91

    Ladies, keep money independent of your partner/spouse. A joint account is one thing (still should keep some savings separate) but a joint account that only ONE partner has access to/checks is a nightmare waiting to happen. Her name better be on the deed

    • @christylouis2611
      @christylouis2611 2 месяца назад +5

      Fax

    • @HouseJudges
      @HouseJudges 2 месяца назад +3

      It cannot be on the deed if she didn’t sign paperwork

    • @saffroncurtis1664
      @saffroncurtis1664 Месяц назад +3

      Her name wouldn't even be on it. She didn't know about it or sign anything. Super shaaaady

  • @hm6134
    @hm6134 2 месяца назад +40

    Spent the money ? More like wasted it

  • @James_Doyle83
    @James_Doyle83 2 месяца назад +57

    Shame she forgave him and now embracing the farming life i would've left the partner aand sued them for the money back

    • @ngonda1
      @ngonda1 2 месяца назад

      The things love make us accept..

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад

      😅

  • @user-ny5xm4mi2l
    @user-ny5xm4mi2l 2 месяца назад +31

    I’d sue him

  • @HouseJudges
    @HouseJudges 2 месяца назад +8

    He stole her money and bought himself a farm after never paying bills 😂

  • @christinaluedke9779
    @christinaluedke9779 2 месяца назад +20

    Time to go to court and leave.

  • @lang-ed3bk
    @lang-ed3bk Месяц назад +6

    Whether or not he spent a lot of their money, or she actually likes the place, it’s the fact that he’s making big decisions without her. Major red flags on so many levels.

  • @ladystarr8366
    @ladystarr8366 2 месяца назад +15

    Hope she made sure her name was on the deed..and not just his name but their money

    • @HouseJudges
      @HouseJudges 2 месяца назад +1

      Deed and not the mortgage

  • @pebbles5450
    @pebbles5450 2 месяца назад +29

    No... too much talking lol shut up and sue him lmfaoooo

  • @wickidblazed420
    @wickidblazed420 2 месяца назад +9

    Typical narcissistic behavior!!! My ex bf Antonio wanted my banking info when we were together!!! He wanted my banking name to log on and the password to get into my online banking account!!! I never gave it to him

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад +2

      👏👏👏

  • @Bongwater33
    @Bongwater33 2 месяца назад +18

    Look honey I bought you just what I always wanted!

    • @petep6314
      @petep6314 Месяц назад

      🤣 That a good one! I never heard that before 😂

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ 2 месяца назад +25

    He spent all of their money on cow and chicken....

    • @mr.redeyes2583
      @mr.redeyes2583 2 месяца назад +2

      dad was proud, he didn't care how..

    • @theceech
      @theceech 2 месяца назад +1

      loooooooooooooooool

  • @angelicalanz2
    @angelicalanz2 2 месяца назад +4

    She forgave him? LOL... she gave him "carte blanche" to lie to her a thousand more times.. "once a liar always a liar"

  • @Superstarr859
    @Superstarr859 2 месяца назад +15

    How did u not see money gone

    • @LilFoxyCosplay
      @LilFoxyCosplay 2 месяца назад +3

      She said she didn't check the account

    • @AtlChica883
      @AtlChica883 2 месяца назад +1

      My bank accounts have apps. Why wouldn’t you check the app.

  • @bellbranda
    @bellbranda 2 месяца назад +8

    Judge all I seen was red and I snapped out. I plea temporary insanity.

  • @TaraTiaraBell
    @TaraTiaraBell 2 месяца назад +7

    Why would anyone open a joint account anyway

  • @vikkitee4686
    @vikkitee4686 2 месяца назад +3

    If someone spent my money without telling me....They need to be paying me back asap or go to jail for theft

  • @youseebiggirl
    @youseebiggirl 2 месяца назад +2

    how the fuck is she so relaxed about this man basically stealing HER life efforts, using HER money for his OWN dreams, telling everyone about what he did with HER money and then almost shifted the blame on HER by saying "well you funded it" I would genuinely catch an assault charge if someone tried that with me

  • @daletheriault9956
    @daletheriault9956 2 месяца назад +2

    The Audacity !!! Get yourself an attorney !!!

  • @UnknownHemi
    @UnknownHemi 2 месяца назад +1

    Ain't No Way She Went All That Time Without Checking That Account.

  • @savannahlopez8251
    @savannahlopez8251 2 месяца назад +1

    "We can be more serious"
    Boy....you took the money you were both saving and bought a property behind her back! How she didn't know about it is stupid!

  • @jaguwa4816
    @jaguwa4816 12 дней назад

    Why is everyone in the comments hating on him so much, it really wasn't that bad. At the end of the day he had good intentions, and the result isn't terrible.

  • @KennethBrown-bt2bs
    @KennethBrown-bt2bs 2 месяца назад +7

    You know i can understand where He's coming from on wanting to build a home and start a family and that he wants a future even if it means living on a farm with his lady however doing something like that at her expense by spending there entire savings let alone not consulting with her 1st before making that move I'm sorry but there's are certain things you dont tempted with a joint savings account is one especially after everything you both put yall life blood sweat and tears in I don't know where there future is at now but I can tell where it's gonna lead to and it's anything but a Fairy tale happy ending 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад

      😅

    • @videofan1010
      @videofan1010 2 месяца назад +1

      Your comment makes no natural sense whatsoever.

  • @DontBeScaredGENXmaybealil
    @DontBeScaredGENXmaybealil 2 месяца назад +1

    FFS why anyone would stay with this guy. Girl cut the LOSS, best weight loss ever. Instantly losing 100/200 lbs.
    be SINGLE save your money fund your dream. NOT HIS especially since he is so BACK DOOR about it

  • @ludonthoiwa1105
    @ludonthoiwa1105 Месяц назад

    Love how good Ronnie looks right now
    The whole look is a vibe🔥🔥🔥
    This guy is just delusional,she needs to give him a dose of reality

  • @trishc8390
    @trishc8390 Месяц назад

    I would've left with them. In order for her to even try to get any of her money back, she's got to play along. I don't believe she truly forgave him.

  • @ashleyc.6189
    @ashleyc.6189 2 месяца назад

    This should have been the end of the relationship. Such a huge violation. He not only spent her money without her permission, but he also steamrolled over her hopes and dreams for the future.

  • @summerfields2792
    @summerfields2792 2 месяца назад

    Girl RUN! Take the loss and run or take him to court but that’s going to cost you more than you could get back more than likely. Oh man, this is a bad situation.

  • @missebone
    @missebone 2 месяца назад +1

    A farm...a farm....oh Adam 🤦🏾

  • @ZenzeraBellaAnna
    @ZenzeraBellaAnna 2 месяца назад +16

    Divorce and lawsuit

    • @Jennilynne
      @Jennilynne 2 месяца назад +2

      Right. When should we expect to see them on an episode of Divorce Court lol

  • @delisibenedetta
    @delisibenedetta Месяц назад

    I wouldn’t share a bank account with anyone.

  • @hevanisawesome12
    @hevanisawesome12 Месяц назад

    Anyone know what episode this is?

  • @wildyam474
    @wildyam474 Месяц назад

    What in the pending lawsuit is this?

  • @saviomarius7654
    @saviomarius7654 Месяц назад

    They'll definitely stay together

  • @D-Will2k
    @D-Will2k 2 месяца назад

    This is pure case of selfishness and lack of trust. This is why I don’t share my stuff with anyone.

  • @vfstx
    @vfstx Месяц назад

    i know this guy irl 😂

  • @l0rdapophis
    @l0rdapophis Месяц назад

    Oh I'd crash out 🤷🏽‍♂️ sorry not sorry, I'd be locked up for *MANY* years

  • @Hi.Im.Lovely
    @Hi.Im.Lovely 2 месяца назад

    His smart ass response’s is all I need to know that she needs to leave him & she him for every penny she put in that account, which now that I think about it I’m almost so sure that SHE put majority of the money in that account.

  • @wtichery
    @wtichery 2 месяца назад

    To be fair, he the house looks like it will be very nice when finished

  • @shioriryukaze
    @shioriryukaze 27 дней назад

    Me seeing the ending:😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @PeggyRabbit32
    @PeggyRabbit32 2 месяца назад +1

    Aint no way

  • @jtz3563
    @jtz3563 Месяц назад

    I think that the hosts are partly to blame! She was clearly on the side of thinking he was an awful manipulative thieving liar until the host said all that stuff about wish you the best and nice to meet you to the lying guy and whatever you decide to do and blah blah blah. She shouldn't have said any of that suggestive stuff. Maybe said if you need time to think apart from this. I've been in an abusive relationship with someone I think is probably a narcisist and this kind of behavior and comments from others really confuses you! When you're in doubt and questioning things but hear other people treating the abuser nicely and wishing them well right after they did some of the worst manipulative abusive things, it messes with you! And makes you quesiton if the one making a big deal out of nothing is you!

  • @roderickbell4224
    @roderickbell4224 2 месяца назад

    If only people knew how much money is into farming

  • @saviomarius7654
    @saviomarius7654 Месяц назад

    She's lowkey has mixed emotions towards his decision

  • @aleighc
    @aleighc 2 месяца назад

    So, his family hasn't met her yet. Fuck this show, I'd end up on Forensic Files, with any luck, Cold Case Files.

  • @alanaquestelles6110
    @alanaquestelles6110 24 дня назад

    I believe you should leave now get out of this relationship now.

  • @user-qw2um5ez6w
    @user-qw2um5ez6w 2 месяца назад

    Traduzir

  • @WanderingAlone.
    @WanderingAlone. 2 месяца назад

    Never have joint anything with a BF or GF.

  • @Kate_epixx
    @Kate_epixx 2 месяца назад

    where's nev and kamie?

  • @Gfxfghjjhgh
    @Gfxfghjjhgh 2 месяца назад +4

    Hes a manipulation 😅

  • @JessaLynn8
    @JessaLynn8 2 месяца назад +6

    Stupid mistake of keeping such a big thing a secret and making huge decisions without her, but he had good intentions and wanted to surprise her with something he thought would be an amazing surprise. Wanted to wait until he completed the house it looks like.
    Not the end of the world. They can finish the house and sell the property if they want. Definitely would make money if they did that. Houses and properties are good investments.
    He seems like a really awesome guy actually.

    • @lesyeuxsansvisage1157
      @lesyeuxsansvisage1157 2 месяца назад +5

      No, he didn’t. This is HIS dream, not hers. It’s repulsive what this gaslighter did. Stealing her share of the savings, to buy a farm HER NAME IS NOT ON, is NOT LOVE. JFC, get it through your head, this was narcissistic gaslighting at its bloody peak.
      And no, they wouldn’t make money. They will sink FAR more into it, than what they could get out. I grew up in a town of less than a 100, and saw idiots trying this all the damn time. Wasted money, wasted lives, miserable marriage, abuse, and then divorce.

    • @theceech
      @theceech 2 месяца назад

      this is crazy and uacceptable. especially cuz that was HALF her money..he shouldve just used is if anything

    • @JessaLynn8
      @JessaLynn8 2 месяца назад

      @@lesyeuxsansvisage1157 WOW lmao that's crazy you're getting THIS upset over this and it's not even about you lol. Do you even know what gaslighting means? He didn't gaslight her, and he wasn't a narcissist. He took FULL accountability- he just explained how he saw it from his end. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ nice use of "buzz words" tho lol

    • @gigggiii
      @gigggiii 2 месяца назад

      You are a user's dream woman.

  • @user-wv4jt2mc5u
    @user-wv4jt2mc5u 2 месяца назад +1

    That property is seriously a great investment. 5 times the investment in a few more years. He was thinking about their future, not just blowing the money in a 2 month trip overseas.

    • @bregowego
      @bregowego 2 месяца назад +3

      he was thinking about their future?? he literally stated verbatim that it was a spontaneous decision. he was thinking of himself.

  • @user-xt4tk4vg6m
    @user-xt4tk4vg6m Месяц назад

    I really believe he was doing this to surprise her and his heart was in the right spot he just could of done it differently

  • @mzgirl1000
    @mzgirl1000 2 месяца назад

    tried to build a stable lifestyle by actually investing in a stable is crazy work

  • @ftw7026
    @ftw7026 2 месяца назад +4

    Damn. He'd be on a missing person's list if he did that to me