Real talk Unc, I tried to explain this exact concept to another guy and got called toxic lol. Dude couldn't wrap his head around the concept. This video reminded me of about a year ago, because I asked you why you don't speak on the feminization of men more often, and you responded saying you focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. Even the thought process is aggressive, dwelling on problems is passive thinking.
Many modern men have been emasculated. I tried to explain that aggression is a natural part of all animals to a guy who worked in sociology and he disagreed.
You usually accomplish more in life when you are aggressive about it... Whether it's really GETTING AFTER IT with weights/exercise, getting out of the house to meet women, or working toward a personal/financial/ spiritual goal.. It's the INTENSITY/DRIVE behind it
On point (aggressive in pursuit of improvement in lifestyle’s ) solving a problem with more energy and efforts instead bonding with others about complaining
Big Facts O.G my father(R.I.P.🙏🏿), uncles, big brothers, male cousins and even the Big Homies from the hood preach the same message. It's definitely a war on masculinity/manhood. I see a lot of sensitive, sassy, soft, talking under their breath ass niggas in the streets now. It's disgusting.
Unc it was some years ago on this channel where you talked about learning to fight. I’ve never been in a fight, but I do know it was a fear for me as a child. Not knowing if I could handle myself always bothered me in the back of my mind. I’ve pulled women, I have charisma, a sexual aura from what women tell me, but I couldn’t move through the world the way I wanted to. About a month and a half ago I started to get into boxing. It clicked for me instantly. Obviously I need to continue doing the work to improve, but my punches are thrown correctly, my reflexes are great, and most importantly, I learned I can take hard punches all over and bounce back. Now I don’t want to be in a street fight, but I do know I can hold my own. Ever since then, I’ve moved way more freely and aggressively in life. Not afraid to look anyone in the face. Not afraid to die.
It's being able to f*ck shit up, but having the discipline to not always take that route. Most things don't require you to have to use brute force to get stuff done or to put ppl in line. Sure, there's times when being "totalitarian" works best, where you don't include others in the decision-making process to get the most out of them efficiency wise. Then, there's times where you have to take a more egalitarian approach, so that others feel like they have some input and won't actively work against you by indirect means. One thing I will say is that men have been taught that being "aggressive" is toxic masculinity, mainly by ppl who were abused in adolescence by such forces. They saw a side of man that was evil in that regard. I have very little patience when it comes to getting things done. I'm not the person you can always come to talk things out with, I won't help you brainstorm unless it leads to someone being active in fixing a problem. No need for commiserating and bonding over the having the same boring stories, common problems and white lies ppl express to make themselves seem cooler than average. Tribalism has become the norm (perhaps before I was born in the 80s) and ppl have these tiny hierarchies everywhere, and there's always outgroup versus ingroup. Everyone is in competition, but the rules say we all must get along and not cause harm onto each other or whatever. That's why ppl are so passive and timid most times, they cannot fully express the shadow sides they have so it gets dealt with. A little ramble my bad.
Thank you for your time in making this happen, Rom. I'm starting to make the changes necessary in my life. Dedicated the rest of the year to Fitness and Finances. Got to get the aggression back. Peace Rom
Another great message...almost as if you read my mind because I'm in a situation right now where my aggression is absolutely necessary. Thanks brother Rom.👍🏾💯
Sometimes, you have to be aggressive, though. It's apart of being masculine. The language isn't tricky. People are. They've tricked you into believing that being masculine is toxic.
It's a balance. You have to be calm but firm. It also affects how others respond. You can be a bully, emotional and someone will be defensive. If you speak up but stay calm they respond with respect. Even if they harbor resentment later in the moment they respond to masculinity. It's important to not communicate defensively. Control your emotions
Vidéo I needed to hear today unc Actually in physical reeducation unit trying to get back on my two feet Aggressivity can still be about being able to finally raise the toes after weeks of not doing so God bless from France
Passivity will cause life to PASS you by and get you PASSed over.
Real talk Unc, I tried to explain this exact concept to another guy and got called toxic lol. Dude couldn't wrap his head around the concept. This video reminded me of about a year ago, because I asked you why you don't speak on the feminization of men more often, and you responded saying you focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. Even the thought process is aggressive, dwelling on problems is passive thinking.
Well said
Many modern men have been emasculated. I tried to explain that aggression is a natural part of all animals to a guy who worked in sociology and he disagreed.
You usually accomplish more in life when you are aggressive about it... Whether it's really GETTING AFTER IT with weights/exercise, getting out of the house to meet women, or working toward a personal/financial/ spiritual goal.. It's the INTENSITY/DRIVE behind it
I walked away from a long term relationship and relocated to start a new life. No regrets.
Aggression means going for what you want by taking action
Focus, decisiveness, determination = aggression.
Yep! That's it!
True with assertiveness too
"You have to conquer your life. No ifs, ands, or buts." Wise words. Ty Rom Wills
On point (aggressive in pursuit of improvement in lifestyle’s ) solving a problem with more energy and efforts instead bonding with others about complaining
Bout to drive out 40 min to Corono, CA later this morning to play some flag football 🏈🏈... Video is right on time
Big Facts O.G my father(R.I.P.🙏🏿), uncles, big brothers, male cousins and even the Big Homies from the hood preach the same message. It's definitely a war on masculinity/manhood. I see a lot of sensitive, sassy, soft, talking under their breath ass niggas in the streets now. It's disgusting.
GREAT CONTENT.All men need to hear this! Being proactive, go for what you want! REAL MEN are ACTIVE, not passive!
Unc it was some years ago on this channel where you talked about learning to fight. I’ve never been in a fight, but I do know it was a fear for me as a child. Not knowing if I could handle myself always bothered me in the back of my mind. I’ve pulled women, I have charisma, a sexual aura from what women tell me, but I couldn’t move through the world the way I wanted to. About a month and a half ago I started to get into boxing. It clicked for me instantly. Obviously I need to continue doing the work to improve, but my punches are thrown correctly, my reflexes are great, and most importantly, I learned I can take hard punches all over and bounce back. Now I don’t want to be in a street fight, but I do know I can hold my own. Ever since then, I’ve moved way more freely and aggressively in life. Not afraid to look anyone in the face. Not afraid to die.
Real talk though, no mores
excuses
Needed to see this seriously I appreciate it brother
Great video I’ve taken a break from the gym but I plan on being aggressive with the gym and getting my degree
People used to praise me for my patience but maybe thats the problem. Im way too "Patient", thanks Rom for showing me the way
Patients is always an asset. Aggressively work and be patient to see the results.
Controlled aggression, but overpowering when unleashed.
It's being able to f*ck shit up, but having the discipline to not always take that route. Most things don't require you to have to use brute force to get stuff done or to put ppl in line. Sure, there's times when being "totalitarian" works best, where you don't include others in the decision-making process to get the most out of them efficiency wise. Then, there's times where you have to take a more egalitarian approach, so that others feel like they have some input and won't actively work against you by indirect means.
One thing I will say is that men have been taught that being "aggressive" is toxic masculinity, mainly by ppl who were abused in adolescence by such forces. They saw a side of man that was evil in that regard. I have very little patience when it comes to getting things done. I'm not the person you can always come to talk things out with, I won't help you brainstorm unless it leads to someone being active in fixing a problem. No need for commiserating and bonding over the having the same boring stories, common problems and white lies ppl express to make themselves seem cooler than average.
Tribalism has become the norm (perhaps before I was born in the 80s) and ppl have these tiny hierarchies everywhere, and there's always outgroup versus ingroup. Everyone is in competition, but the rules say we all must get along and not cause harm onto each other or whatever. That's why ppl are so passive and timid most times, they cannot fully express the shadow sides they have so it gets dealt with. A little ramble my bad.
I never gave the phrase "toxic masculinity" any credence. It's misandric.
@@KtotheG good deal
The Spear, the scepter, and the staff.
Without eyes of the tiger🐅 ,
A man ain’t worth spit.
All talk with no action
never produces Sh!!!!
YOU HAVE TO GO CONQUER YO LIFE. FACTS.
Thank you for your time in making this happen, Rom. I'm starting to make the changes necessary in my life. Dedicated the rest of the year to Fitness and Finances. Got to get the aggression back. Peace Rom
Aggression is a must for a man. If he doesn’t have it, then something’s off.
Another great message...almost as if you read my mind because I'm in a situation right now where my aggression is absolutely necessary. Thanks brother Rom.👍🏾💯
“It’s from other men who don’t want to stand up”
Language is tricky. I think sometimes being assertive is a little less belligerent than being aggressive.
Sometimes, you have to be aggressive, though. It's apart of being masculine. The language isn't tricky. People are. They've tricked you into believing that being masculine is toxic.
It's a balance. You have to be calm but firm. It also affects how others respond. You can be a bully, emotional and someone will be defensive. If you speak up but stay calm they respond with respect. Even if they harbor resentment later in the moment they respond to masculinity. It's important to not communicate defensively. Control your emotions
Vidéo I needed to hear today unc
Actually in physical reeducation unit trying to get back on my two feet
Aggressivity can still be about being able to finally raise the toes after weeks of not doing so
God bless from France
I understand. Myself and I we are assertive. Keep on moving. Straight forward.
Thank you for being a voice, Unc 💪🏾💎
Only if I heard this when I was 8 years old. 😡💯
Powerful message Rom. Thanks.
Damn bruh you spitting bars on this
So much gems 💎 💎💎💎
All, all, all, all, FACTS!!!!
Powerful message brother
Matthew, Mark,
Luke, and Fred.
Faith without action
is worthless and dead💀!
💯. Unc, from your perspective what’s the difference between being aggressive and being assertive? Thanks.
Just degrees of taking action. A man can be assertive in stating his viewpoint. A man can aggressive in terms of taking action.
Thank you for this video Bro.
Great drop!
Thank you for this Unc 💯 #Fight4YOFam #Empowerment
Heard You Rom From Bklyn, NY 1000%
Excellent video Rom!
Much appreciated topic
This was on point!
Ok pastor Wills
As God said “Subdue the Earth”.
Facts 💯
Thanks
Thanks for your support.
💯
I just now seeing this. Doesn’t aggression and assertiveness go hand in hand?
Yes. Both are two factors of masculinity. There are more I've talked about.
@@RomWills right, I can’t say I remember everything but I do know you talked about more