The Girl Who Came Back From The Dead... | The Case of Delimar Vera

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
  • Start speaking a new language in 3 weeks with Babbel! 🎉 Get up to 60% OFF your subscription HERE: go.babbel.com/t?bsc=1200m60-y... 🔴 After a devastating housefire, the Vera family thought they had lost their daughter Delimar... But Delimar's mother, Luz, was not convinced. Despite being certain that her baby had been stolen, no signs of Delmar ever showed up... That would be until January 2004.
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    00:00 Intro
    02:22 Philidelphia
    03:26 Delimar's family
    04:56 An uneasy visit...
    07:12 Aftermath
    10:46 January 2004
    11:43 Proving it's you...
    14:50 Tests and Legal Proceedings
    19:00 Moving forward
    19:48 Outro
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  • @CoffeehouseCrime
    @CoffeehouseCrime  Год назад +610

    Hi folks! What do you think about this case? Slightly deviated away from our typical format this time, did you mind? And thanks to Babbel for sponsoring today's video! 🎉Get up to 60% OFF your subscription HERE: go.babbel.com/t?bsc=1200m60-youtube-coffeehousecrime-apr-2023&btp=default&RUclips&Influencer..coffeehousecrime..USA..RUclips

    • @Veldrusara
      @Veldrusara Год назад +6

      Need more kitty footage in your videos! But otherwise, great job as always, of course! 💙

    • @kathrynbillinghurst188
      @kathrynbillinghurst188 Год назад +6

      I didn’t mind…the change of format is just a great way for you to creatively express your unique and gentle style! I must say that ALL of your presentations are exceptional… and the little joke around at the end with 🐈 your baby!! Humour is relatable,especially after a shocking upload!! Thank you Adrian 👏🤟

    • @grec.
      @grec. Год назад +10

      I enjoy every case you bring to the channel.
      Because it allows us to explore human nature from all aspects. Thank you.

    • @grec.
      @grec. Год назад +14

      I really liked the fact that she ended up being a 'normal' person. That this crazy experience didn't affected her ability to engage in life with a positive outcome.

    • @The_MostHigh
      @The_MostHigh Год назад +9

      The sentence should be longer, she tried to kill two children and their mother and kidnapped a baby. I think a life sentence would be more fitting, if she wanted a child so bad there are thousands of children in need that can be adopted legally.

  • @tessknits
    @tessknits Год назад +4151

    I love the occasional murder-free story! Sometimes we need a happy ending

    • @JoBlo321
      @JoBlo321 Год назад +47

      These types are my favorite!

    • @kaysia6556
      @kaysia6556 Год назад +19

      Agreed

    • @teresaroby4441
      @teresaroby4441 Год назад +25

      I was thinking that same thing and scrolling down to leave a similar comment! It is so true!! I almost didn't click on the video because I assumed the worst & can't handle hearing much more about harm coming to children with 2 big trials happening right now for Leticia Stauch & Lori Daybell over the murders of 3 children. So this was a nice change of pace.

    • @lovelylina1659
      @lovelylina1659 Год назад +14

      Yes! Much needed & I'm grateful 🤗

    • @philleotardo8923
      @philleotardo8923 Год назад

      NO! More bodies, blood, guts and brains the better I'm not happy unless the video ends with someone's head in a frying pan.

  • @1ChxnceLxnce
    @1ChxnceLxnce Год назад +2084

    Not only did she deny them 6 years of their daughters life, she also endangered the life of their sons. The brave mother suffered Burns trying to save them, and much more losing her daughter.

    • @animesubway7433
      @animesubway7433 Год назад +177

      And broke up the parents with the stress

    • @yvonnejacko5644
      @yvonnejacko5644 Год назад +88

      What a fucking horrible thing to do to someone 😞. She should've received life in prison......happy it turned out for the mom. Can't imagine!!!! Jeez😢😊

    • @WynneL
      @WynneL Год назад +68

      @@yvonnejacko5644 Exactly. We don't need people like her on the streets. She could pull the same whole thing again.

    • @ntokozomazibuko3
      @ntokozomazibuko3 Год назад +1

      Pp

    • @ronniewall492
      @ronniewall492 Год назад +1

      HAVE YOU SEEN LOGAN MARR

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry307 Год назад +958

    9 years is not enough for arson and stealing a child. She is a threat to society.

    • @TheStapleGunKid
      @TheStapleGunKid Год назад +82

      Especially considering she set the house on fire. She easily could have killed someone and she didn't care.

    • @hatake1990
      @hatake1990 Год назад +42

      9 yrs minimum...and only 30 years maximum! I cringe at our "justice system" literally every day. Such a circus.

    • @hatake1990
      @hatake1990 Год назад +18

      And, naturally, i goofed and made my last comment before i got to the end of the video...where we find out she really got out after 9 years, and a "lifelong ban" on contacting her and her family....
      And let's be real, we've seen how well restraining orders, etc. have worked for people in the past...
      Ugh this country is truly infuriating.

    • @yeahyeahyeah3724
      @yeahyeahyeah3724 Год назад +13

      And it's her second arson... she has no problem commiting arson as long as she needs to. Authorities should have kept her locked up or at least be keeping an eye for her rn....

    • @pettykittyfam
      @pettykittyfam Год назад +3

      ​@@hatake1990Omg me too 🤬
      The American justice system needs an overhaul!

  • @mariosolanonavarro4320
    @mariosolanonavarro4320 Год назад +1316

    The fact that the mom got the hair sample was smart she went that far to prove it was her daughter ❤

  • @celfhelp
    @celfhelp Год назад +754

    big respect to the social workers for being able to explain the situation to a 6 year old in such a way that Delimar not only understood but embraced the monumental life change

    • @dealan-dhe
      @dealan-dhe Год назад +28

      As someone who was abused as a child, I can say that I probably would have had a similar reaction at that age. I literally used to fantasize about something like this happening - the desire to escape my situation was so great. Makes me wonder what her childhood with that lunatic was truly like.

    • @HappyBirddi
      @HappyBirddi 10 месяцев назад +5

      For sure, kids are surprisingly quick to adapt to new situations but with something like this it could've gone a lot worse. I'm just so glad that Delimar was able to reunite with her real parents and live a good life

    • @Atmatan_Kabbaher
      @Atmatan_Kabbaher 6 месяцев назад +4

      My first thought as this was unfolding was like 'man, I do NOT want to be that kids therapist' but this is a great case that's going to go down in history teaching us how to handle traumatic events like this and others.

  • @debbie7747
    @debbie7747 Год назад +978

    My problem with the time she received in jail is that she potentially could have killed 3 other people in that fire. The fact that she didn’t give that any thought tells me how selfish she is. I’m so glad the mom never gave up! Great ending for this family.

    • @rudra62
      @rudra62 Год назад +53

      More than 3. The fire could have easily spread to neighbor's houses - which if the video is factual or an accurate representation, were extremely close or shared walls.

    • @surrealistgirlx
      @surrealistgirlx Год назад +14

      It's unfortunate that there wasn't enough evidence to charge that slime with arson. That surely would greatly increase her prison sentence because she would have been charged with a slew of crimes. I don't know why she had such a light sentence. Unfortunately Delimar's parents probably did not know that they could have testified at the parole hearing to keep that b1tch in jail.
      It's great that Delimar is having a good life.

    • @mlmc9464
      @mlmc9464 Год назад +14

      I agree 100% she put not only a family of 3 lives in danger, the fire could have spread to adjacent buildings. That clearly was premeditated and attempted murder if I've ever seen a clearer case. No way enough jail time. Total disregard for lives. Selfish and criminal.

    • @Dionysos-
      @Dionysos- Год назад

      Female privilege

    • @CovidConQuitTheCensorship
      @CovidConQuitTheCensorship Год назад +2

      Exactly. Multiple counts of attempted murder and she walks free. Unbelievable!

  • @florence.5088
    @florence.5088 Год назад +454

    I'm shocked that the mother had only spent a few days with her newborn daughter before she was taken, yet 6 whole years later she recognized her immediately. That's really impressive.

    • @z.z.1876
      @z.z.1876 Год назад +81

      Honestly, I think she always suspected the kindapper, because of how she was the last stranger around. However, when she saw a little girl who was the same age and looked similar to her own other children... As she never accepted her daughter's death, it makes sense that she would at least hope that it could be "that simple".

    • @GG-jn4dx
      @GG-jn4dx Год назад +16

      A true mother would recognize their baby regardless.

    • @rday9358
      @rday9358 Год назад +30

      Being a mum is a weird biological thing that brings out deep primal instincts. I can’t explain it but you just know things without having logical reason for it.

    • @FeniixWings
      @FeniixWings Год назад +9

      Siblings have a high chance of sharing "family features".

    • @andrewphillips8754
      @andrewphillips8754 Год назад +9

      @@GG-jn4dxyou’d think. I hadn’t seen my mom from the age of 3-17. Never spoke to her, didn’t know if she was alive or dead. Found her, went to meet her at her job, she just stared at me, looking annoyed and was like “ can I help you?” While rolling her eyes. Didn’t tell her & left.

  • @TheBadGuuy
    @TheBadGuuy Год назад +179

    Taking some of the baby's hair was not weird at all, when you first said it I immediately thought of how genius of a move that was! A mother's instinct is usually 97.9% correct 😂

    • @CrystalRosebud
      @CrystalRosebud Год назад +4

      With the context it makes total sense, but I think he just meant imagining a relative going up to a child at a family function and collecting their hair seems really weird from an outside perspective. And imagine being the people who ran the test... "I saw this child at a family function who I swear is my daughter even though everyone says she's dead so I took some of her hair and brought it with me". Thank god they humored her.

  • @marlenigomez4963
    @marlenigomez4963 Год назад +736

    as a Puerto Rican - just a few things I needed to say: "Luz" is pronounced like "LOOZ", it means "light". and Puerto Ricans are not really immigrants to the states, as the US took control of the country long long ago and we are technically US citizens whether we were born on the island or on the mainland. its a common misconception and not a big deal, just thought I'd add! Great content as always. Been a fan since day 1

    • @marlenigomez4963
      @marlenigomez4963 Год назад +84

      @@Thetruththatisee lmao go to sleep sis

    • @schnook-in-boots1027
      @schnook-in-boots1027 Год назад +62

      Glad I scrolled down and saw your post --- saves me from stating that PR's are US citizens.

    • @LathropLdST
      @LathropLdST Год назад

      They are not, but they surely feel like they are immigrants.
      Especially after every hurricane. *cough potus cough*

    • @lokshok
      @lokshok Год назад +28

      Thanks! Came here to say the same thing. I figured he'd want to learn how to pronounce the name correctly :)

    • @marlenigomez4963
      @marlenigomez4963 Год назад +89

      it has everything to do with the story bc it's one of the main people involved but okay lol
      God forbid I use an opportunity to make sure my people are represented correctly 😂 costs nothing at all to be nice and learn but okay cool miss ma'am hope you enjoyed being salty for two minutes and accomplishing nada ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ ty for the laugh lmao

  • @errorcode0491
    @errorcode0491 Год назад +899

    When she said “you’re my mom” I nearly broke down. No doubt this follows her for the rest of her life but what a great way to start a relationship with your real mom. Such an interesting story as always :)

    • @sea7544
      @sea7544 Год назад +40

      I'm crying like a baby over here at that comment. I'm not a mum but just putting myself in her shoes, i would be a complete mess seeing my baby girl call me mum after all those years.

    • @Glitterbeauties
      @Glitterbeauties Год назад +14

      SAMEEEE and I was applying mascara 😅 I’m a mess but that line, just hit me a wave of emotions out of nowhere! So happy this story had a happy ending 🙏🥹

    • @MKfoxbat
      @MKfoxbat Год назад +24

      "Nearly"
      I did and I'm a grown ass man

    • @HachuneMiku01
      @HachuneMiku01 Год назад +14

      Big props to the child psychologist for convincing her

    • @RevengeOfTheNetherrealm
      @RevengeOfTheNetherrealm Год назад

      :')

  • @1or3..
    @1or3.. Год назад +128

    she’s so beautiful. when you mentioned her jumping out and surprising her mother when they first met i couldn’t help but tear up. im sure it’s been really rough on her mentally and emotionally growing up, no matter how good her childhood was, the psychological damage that must have done is terrible. but im glad she seems to be doing well and happy. she’s such a strong young woman 🥹

    • @thegreencat9947
      @thegreencat9947 Год назад +9

      I was thinking that maybe Delimar new that Carolyn wasn't her real mom.

  • @Denise_Cocoa
    @Denise_Cocoa Год назад +44

    She literally is stunning! 😍 It gives me chills how the real parents intuition was sooo strong that they just knew she was their daughter, even though she was only 10 days old when she was kidnapped. That’s absolutely amazing.

  • @amylondon36
    @amylondon36 Год назад +248

    The fact that delhimar shouted suprise and said “yes your my mommy” that’s literally must have been the best moment for luz.-. A daughters and mothers bond can never be broken ❤

  • @PamelaH_HappyVibes
    @PamelaH_HappyVibes Год назад +594

    I’m so happy she got reunited with her Mom and Dad! ❤

  • @timothyhh
    @timothyhh Год назад +23

    I live in Philly and this story was huge. You really have to question the investigation of the fire, seemed like it was just rubber-stamped. I remember Luz's beaming smile on the news -- she was so happy!

  • @connissia
    @connissia Год назад +6

    I have a problem with them being called immigrants from Puerto Rico. It makes Puerto Rico seem foreign, but it's an American territory, and Puerto Ricans are American citizens.

  • @Urm0mz
    @Urm0mz Год назад +550

    I knew she was alive when they said she was cremated in a 14 minute house fire.
    Not even a small baby can be reduced to nothing in 14 minutes

    • @Justin9700
      @Justin9700 Год назад +128

      Yeah pretty shoddy work by the investigators. Makes me think they just didn’t want to look into it further so just washed their hands of it by saying “Well I guess she was just incinerated into absolutely nothing!”

    • @stargater2892
      @stargater2892 Год назад +5

      You watch too much tv

    • @KristineS73
      @KristineS73 Год назад +3

      Correct!

    • @Lola-AreaCode212
      @Lola-AreaCode212 Год назад +59

      ​@@stargater2892 you should read more books.

    • @Rantsack
      @Rantsack Год назад +31

      @@Angel-vv9xo authorities only work on a case half ass and then closed the case if it’s not their family. Bet if it’s one of their family members, all hell will break loose and the authorities will be all up on it.

  • @jediping
    @jediping Год назад +438

    When you think of all the children in foster care in need of loving homes, this is even more heartbreaking, but also shows the kidnapper’s selfishness.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Год назад

      how's the kidnapper selfish?

    • @claude3429
      @claude3429 Год назад +59

      @@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 think about it, so many children without parents can be adopted or fostered, and she goes for the one who has a home full of love

    • @jellypeaches26
      @jellypeaches26 Год назад +50

      ​@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 how about a challenge? How is the kidnapper NOT selfish?

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Год назад +1

      @@claude3429 Well is there a reason why she kidnapped her and not a foster kid? Was it because of bad stereotypes, was it taboo, maybe a racist motive, or could it be because foster kids aren't as influenced as newborns?

    • @TheQueenOfSheba
      @TheQueenOfSheba Год назад +46

      @@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 she set fire to the house and nearly killed the girls brothers… she’s evil.

  • @jocortez3816
    @jocortez3816 Год назад +29

    I know someone recently who had Pseudocyesis. It was so heartbreaking to watch them believe they were pregnant. If they don't want to seek help, all anyone can do is wait and see what they do.

    • @frankiefavero1666
      @frankiefavero1666 Год назад +10

      I met someone who went through it as well... it's heartbreaking when they eventually realise (after not giving birth and medication/therapy) there's never been a baby... my friend never stole a baby though, that is next level!

    • @mexxicokitty
      @mexxicokitty 4 месяца назад +2

      The lady I knew said she got a puppy and got better after that..

  • @jessiarriaga4521
    @jessiarriaga4521 Год назад +28

    The fear and terror this mother went through... not just with the fire, but not knowing where her daughter is. Feeling crazy for not accepting her "death". Going with her gut and doing that DNA test, knowing it may not be the answer she was looking for. Being afraid she wouldn't be able to take her daughter home from CPS after she FINALLY found her... ugh. Its heart breaking. That God they were reunited ❤

  • @R1L6N
    @R1L6N Год назад +239

    This kind of story is one that you'd think would only be in telenovelas. These stories without gruesome ending are always welcome!

    • @FernRoses
      @FernRoses Год назад +2

      Telenovelas-NoVerLas
      😆

    • @befrugalwithus
      @befrugalwithus Год назад +6

      Actually this was made into movie. I first saw it on lifetime.

    • @befrugalwithus
      @befrugalwithus Год назад +8

      Movie is Little Girl Lost: The Delimar Vera Story. I would recommend it

    • @TheStapleGunKid
      @TheStapleGunKid Год назад

      The series "Cold Case" made an episode based on this case called "The Ghost of my Child". Great episode of a great series. It's how I first found out about the case.

    • @RockyGems
      @RockyGems Год назад +2

      Well, you know what they say, truth is stranger than fiction!

  • @gimbiyarus
    @gimbiyarus Год назад +91

    “Surprise!” Lovely how her six year old daughter made it easier for her real mother in the end. Just lovely!❤️

  • @stephaniedison4878
    @stephaniedison4878 Год назад +37

    9 years? That is nowhere near enough time, but I'm glad there's a no contact order in place. Hopefully, she stays away from everyone involved. Delimar is a beautiful young lady and it's wonderful that there was a happy ending, after such a traumatic and devastating beginning. Thanks, Adrian this was a nice change of pace and (as always) you never disappoint! Love from Alabama ❤️

  • @ridethroughlifertl
    @ridethroughlifertl Год назад +19

    This story is nuts. It really makes you think of how different people's lives can be.

  • @yvaincallipso84
    @yvaincallipso84 Год назад +379

    This low-key reminds me of how my great grandma was convinced my grandmother had a twin that was stolen at the hospital. And the fact that family and friends over the years saw my grandma in locations where she definitely couldn't have been a couple of times in 60 years just gives the theory more credit.

    • @jsun68
      @jsun68 Год назад +68

      Have any of you tried an ancestry DNA test? Maybe if grandma had a twin out there you could find someone connected to her.

    • @oxcolette
      @oxcolette Год назад +22

      You should look into it.

    • @springy9959
      @springy9959 Год назад +43

      Omg it makes you wonder how many were actually taken or parents told one twin died or something just to be taken 😮😢 it bet it happened a bit back in the day.

    • @jaydub2546
      @jaydub2546 Год назад +11

      Mate... That actually happened it's well known it happened

    • @IllHandleThis
      @IllHandleThis Год назад +22

      I feel sad for your great grandmother who I’m sure is deceased by now (going by the past tense you use). I bet she was right.

  • @justrich1741
    @justrich1741 Год назад +177

    Seriously just serving 9 years??? WTH!
    I'm just so glad that Delimar's story has a beautiful ever after.

    • @M1985-
      @M1985- Год назад

      9-30 years.

    • @SpottFlory1966
      @SpottFlory1966 Год назад +6

      @@M1985- she was sentenced 9 to 30 years, but she was released after only nine. That is way too lenient. This also caused the break up of a marriage, which can be detrimental to the children as well.

    • @claireevans3131
      @claireevans3131 Год назад +3

      Agreed I think she definitely should of had longer in jail.

    • @KlaunFuhrer-du7fr
      @KlaunFuhrer-du7fr Год назад

      Delimar is not her name but family name...

  • @4eversteena
    @4eversteena Год назад +14

    A mother NEVER forgets the face of her child. Good for Luz for following her intuition❤. Ty Adrian for the varied content. Much appreciated.

  • @valeria821
    @valeria821 Год назад +17

    Hello Adrian! Just stopped by to say that puertorricans are not immigrants. We are US citizens. We just move. Keep up the great work. Love your videos. Hugs from PR 🇵🇷

  • @stevend3753
    @stevend3753 Год назад +125

    I can only imagine Delimar will be watching this, and to you ma'am I say I'm sorry this happened to you, but anyone can see you've grown in to a beautiful woman complete with an even more beautiful family. I wish you well.

    • @janinemccartha1811
      @janinemccartha1811 Год назад +1

      Hi Coffee House Crime. Happy she was reunited with her Mom. I can speak from experience, that this is the best feeIing I had after reuniting with my daughter when she came home,from going through medical treatment & living in another state. Adrian you are awesome, see you on the next show, love, Janine Smiley✌😀😍😘😎😇☕🍩☕🍰🎵🎶🦓

    • @KlaunFuhrer-du7fr
      @KlaunFuhrer-du7fr Год назад

      Delimar is not her name but family name...

  • @Indigoviolet97
    @Indigoviolet97 Год назад +168

    This story genuinely made me furious. That poor child and her family. I’m glad it had a happy ending.

  • @SHAX7864LIFE
    @SHAX7864LIFE Год назад +49

    Man, this was certainly a shocking case. So much happening in one go! It’s genuinely upsetting that all of this has happened, especially the fire and the baby theft.
    The mother is mighty tough to never give up on her daughter, despite everything. Really smart to use bubblegum to get Delimars’ hair + identifying her daughter with DNA.
    Taking the mental condition into consideration, Caroline is mega f***ed for doing all that. Kidnapping Delimar, setting ablaze the house and trying to sabotage the second DNA test? Man… that’s really messed up. Thank goodness she got arrested.
    Thank goodness that all is well with the family and I wish Delimar, her mother and her family all the best in the future and beyond.
    Honestly Adrian, very well made video again. So much thought and love has been put in.
    Keep up the good work. I’m sure that the Coffehouse Crime Club loves your work and will continue to do so!

    • @CoffeehouseCrime
      @CoffeehouseCrime  Год назад +13

      Thank you so much!! That’s coffee sorted for the week! ☕️🙌🔥 I really appreciate it! :) see you again in the next one later today!

  • @AmeliasMiMi
    @AmeliasMiMi Год назад +11

    I’m grateful she was finally reunited with her parents. With Delimar speaking primarily English, hopefully her dear mother never had to deal with another language barrier issue. It’s so frustrating that in Philadelphia of all places there weren’t any translators around to help these people out. So very sad that Delimar’s parents split up, but so glad there was finally a happy ending to this story. ❤️😎

  • @SICresinwrks
    @SICresinwrks Год назад +43

    So glad to hear delimar turned out ok and this didn't ruin her life. The lady that kidnapped her should have had a life sentence

  • @MrLexanderluther1986
    @MrLexanderluther1986 Год назад +6

    Wow..this story actually made me emotional lol The "Surprise!" And "do you know who I am?.." "you're my Mom" got me 🥹 I do like these occasional breaks in murder stories and given somewhat of happy endings. Best True Crime channel out there. Keep it up!

  • @deeone5326
    @deeone5326 Год назад +7

    I’m so happy that Delimar was reunited with her loving Mother, what a beautiful family. Sending love - Good conquers bad when we exercise our goodness together!

  • @Sorchia56
    @Sorchia56 Год назад +53

    That poor mum!!! She fought so hard, well done. Why would they not listen to her? Space heater yet window is open? She’s not daft just because of a language barrier! Delimar is absolutely gorgeous and I’m so pleased she, her mum & brothers got to all be together.

  • @ToriR94
    @ToriR94 Год назад +684

    Two small things!! “Luz” is pronounced more like “loose” in Spanish!! And Puerto Ricans don’t immigrate to the US, we’re born US citizens. 😅

    • @WykkydSoul
      @WykkydSoul Год назад +86

      omg I was thinking the exact same thing. I was listening on the way to work and was like "I've never heard someone with the name luss before".
      And to anyone who's curious, "Luz" means "light" in spanish.

    • @thehillisalive
      @thehillisalive Год назад +50

      Came to the comments hoping someone had mentioned this; thank you!

    • @infamousNfamous
      @infamousNfamous Год назад +69

      I'm not even hispanic but hearing him say "Luss" 1600 times got SO annoying. Would've been nice if he actually googled a pronunciation audio or that PR is a U.S. territory lol

    • @javvasquez3935
      @javvasquez3935 Год назад +17

      Right, thanks for letting that be known

    • @edwardlthompson
      @edwardlthompson Год назад +23

      I'm glad you commented this because I was about to! I was just a few seconds into the video and paused to see if anyone else caught that. LMFAO!

  • @FernRoses
    @FernRoses Год назад +64

    I find it odd that the father didn’t put his name on the birth certificate.
    There’s translators at hospitals and the county recorders office.
    Plus, that was his third.

    • @gaylegroves8048
      @gaylegroves8048 Год назад +18

      So they could receive government assistance for the children ofc

    • @pieterdebie4162
      @pieterdebie4162 Год назад +2

      Yeah, I thought the exact same thing. It's super sus

    • @Rdwrer
      @Rdwrer Год назад +9

      @@gaylegroves8048 That seems way more likely than he "didn't want her".

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Год назад +3

      I came here to say something similar. They had already had two children, so knew exactly how it all works. There are translators always available, especially for Spanish speakers. There's only one reason he wouldn't sign the paperwork and we all know why. As much as I love this channel, Adrian often fudges some of the info to the benefit of certain people.

    • @kadexhebexhia5611
      @kadexhebexhia5611 Год назад +1

      He didn’t put his name on the birth certificate, because he didn’t want to pay alimony for the child in cause his wife divorced him.

  • @unknownvip1
    @unknownvip1 Год назад +3

    This episode of Coffee House Crime made me break down and cry when he said the girl came out of the table and said "Surprise " following with "Your my mother".
    Theres a God out there 🙏🏻.

  • @davidowen5135
    @davidowen5135 Год назад +85

    This reminds me of a story here in South Africa, of a 3 day old baby (Zephany Nurse) kidnapped from hospital.
    Her biological sister befriended her at school and at the age of 17, she found out that her "mother" was not who she thought she was. This shows you the terrible trauma experienced by all of them, as they grapple to come to terms with the past actions of the woman who kidnapped her.

    • @z.z.1876
      @z.z.1876 Год назад +8

      I read her book - it was very interesting, because in that case she was just too old for reunification :/ She still sees her kidnapper as her mother and doesn't seem too fond of her biological parents. I hope in this case at 6 she was really able to adapt to the new situation and embrace her family.

    • @simonebrown8336
      @simonebrown8336 Год назад +2

      Is the Netflix series Blood & Water about her?

    • @z.z.1876
      @z.z.1876 Год назад +3

      @@simonebrown8336 Yes - though the story is just loosely based on the true events, I believe

    • @simonebrown8336
      @simonebrown8336 Год назад +1

      @@z.z.1876 Thanks!

    • @samp4050
      @samp4050 Год назад +1

      @David Owen I'm writing a historical romance fiction book, based during the Anglo Boer War, where a newborn is abducted by a woman and raised as her own daughter. Twenty years later, the biological father traces his daughter, and when he listens to the 'mother's' reasons why she took his baby, he realizes she had no option, and that she did the best she could in their unique situation. There's many twists and turns in this story. However, in reality, there are many cases of kids being abducted from their biological parents. Its great knowing this family had a happy ending. Thanks Adrian, love your channel.

  • @naivenostalgia
    @naivenostalgia Год назад +64

    Personally, I have no problem with seeing more cases like this one that don't involve murder or death & have at least a somewhat happy ending. Multiple crimes were committed, so it still counts as "true crime." It was a nice change of pace & it was quite uplifting to see Delimar's instagram account at the end as it seems she is thriving.

  • @bkitteh6295
    @bkitteh6295 Год назад +6

    Thanks for the happy ending, Adrian! Delamar is a beautiful woman. I hope she and her real family are healthy & happy. They all deserve at least that. 💜

  • @heynowheynow-tk6tk
    @heynowheynow-tk6tk Год назад +7

    What a beautiful lady she has turned into I’m so glad she and everyone involved had a happy ending in the end ❤

  • @Finians_Mancave
    @Finians_Mancave Год назад +136

    While it was a stroke of inspiration to get the little girl's hair sample for a DNA test, it's baffling that Luz didn't suspect Caroline all those years before since she was convinced the baby was stolen and Caroline was there just moments before she went missing! A little detective work at that point would have revealed Caroline suddenly had a new baby, and had they managed the DNA test then, they could have gotten Delimar back six years sooner!

    • @rudra62
      @rudra62 Год назад +34

      She would have had to convince someone in authority to perform the test, investing several hundreds of dollars on poor brown people who did not speak English well. Sad, but that's the way it is. It would not have happened had Luz and Pedro been wealthy, white, and lived in an affluent neighborhood.

    • @killinglonliness88
      @killinglonliness88 Год назад +26

      Caroline had been lying to a ton of people and saying (and believing) she was pregnant for months, and said she was almost 9 months pregnant when she stole Delimar and set the fire. No one suspected anything including Luz because they all thought she had just had HER OWN baby around the same time. But in reality she didn't have a kid, she couldn't. It's in the video....

    • @Finians_Mancave
      @Finians_Mancave Год назад +13

      @@rudra62 Well, no, the first thing she would have to do is convince the cops that the woman likely took her baby. Since there was a lack of human remains in the fire, that should have prompted an investigation and probably would have if Luz didn't come across as hysterical and had just pointed them in the right direction. Even a simple check on Caroline would have revealed: 1) That she suddenly had a baby that even her own husband couldn't explain. (Also wouldn't Luz and Pedro be able to recognize the baby as their own?), and 2) A background check would show a previous arson conviction -- just like the fire in this case. At this point there would be enough evidence to justify a DNA test (paid for by the county/state).

    • @alicantino59
      @alicantino59 Год назад

      ​@@rudra62 Typical racist victim mentality.

    • @TicTac2
      @TicTac2 Год назад +7

      @@Finians_Mancave yeah wasn't it obvious that that specific woman must have stole her baby? not sure how she got away with it for 6 years just for Delimar then to be at a family party that Luz was invited

  • @SophiaMuusa
    @SophiaMuusa Год назад +230

    It feels illegal to be this early.

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel Год назад +4

    Unbelievable is an understatement. What a miracle.
    It’s so nice to hear a story that doesn’t include losing a life.
    It would be a beautiful world when we no longer have to hear horrific stories.
    Although we still appreciate your skillful storytelling. 😃

  • @jmequeenbee4339
    @jmequeenbee4339 Год назад +3

    Girl, I was so worried she was gonna be so traumatized by this, but she popped out of the table and said you're my mom, my heart 😭😭😭❤❤

  • @ChefNourhan
    @ChefNourhan Год назад +181

    I hope those 9 years made a difference and she became a better person. And so happy for the mom and daughter’s reunion.

    • @ashleysmith5001
      @ashleysmith5001 Год назад +11

      I don't think it did, and she probably went out of the country and is hiding. I pray she's not up to doing it again. She should've been put in an institution. She is not safe around any child.

    • @ashleysmith5001
      @ashleysmith5001 Год назад +9

      She also has never shown remorse

    • @amalgamangel
      @amalgamangel Год назад +6

      Doubt it. Some people are incapable of feeling remorse.

  • @natasha9263
    @natasha9263 Год назад +7

    Delimar jumping out from under the table shouting 'surprise' would have melted me 🥺

  • @gigilarigi3132
    @gigilarigi3132 Год назад +8

    I’m not sure that was enough time in jail with the Hell she put this young family through. I can’t imagine one of my children being kidnapped and the mother in this story is incredibly brave to keep seeking answers, even when doors were closed in her face.

  • @chanimalice3874
    @chanimalice3874 Год назад +5

    I'm glad this eventually had a happy ending, as somebody with a 3 week old baby, the idea of losing him for 6 years of his life is heartbreaking.

  • @KristineS73
    @KristineS73 Год назад +13

    As a mother you know when your looking at your child. Weve seen this many times before. Thank god this had a happy ending!

  • @Adot_is_Adrienne
    @Adot_is_Adrienne Год назад +33

    You've been really good about covering lesser known cases. It's refreshing to have a case with a happy ending.

  • @robertlevine2827
    @robertlevine2827 Год назад +21

    Did Luz not remember that Carolyn was apparently still in the house retrieving her purse when the fire started? This person she never met before is upstairs out of sight when a fire breaks out, she goes upstairs, sees Delimar is gone and the window open, and this person hasn't yet walked out the front door but is nowhere to be found, nor did they find this person's body in the house after the fire ...

  • @ivybee347
    @ivybee347 Год назад +4

    I'm glad this story has a seemingly happy ending. I'm glad Delimar was reunited with her parents.

  • @Tra_C
    @Tra_C Год назад +20

    Taking some of Delimar's hair was smart and understandable. I would've done the same. Tears flooded my eyes when I saw her Instagram, what a beautiful young lady. So happy she was reunited with her mom and family❤

  • @themoonandhelvetica195
    @themoonandhelvetica195 Год назад +14

    I have to admit, as a true crime fan these stories of survival are refreshing to hear about. It goes to show that not every crime story has to end in tragedy to be interesting.

  • @jodyknight
    @jodyknight Год назад +3

    Thank you Babble for sponsoring Coffeehouse Crime we love your support for this outstanding channel.
    I don't think she had any help from the father, and I don't think she spent enough time behind bars for stealing a newborn baby and making the parents believe the child was dead/try to make them believe it. I'm very glad to see that the extremely beautiful Delimar has not allowed her 1st six years of life to define her and that she is happy and enjoying life now. Great video Adrian, thanks from Oz xxooxx

  • @seantheelite
    @seantheelite Год назад +4

    Damn this was a PHENOMENAL case after a rough work day. This warmed my heart man.

  • @dakg8034
    @dakg8034 Год назад +12

    Her sentence was not near long enough, irrespective there are instances - as you correctly state - where murderers got lighter sentences. What she did was unspeakably evil. For, not only did she steal the baby and thus denied the real family of 6 precious and formative years of that child's life, but she used arson to cover her crime, and thus endangered the lives of those who braved the fire, trying to find a baby that was not even in the home. That devil should rot in prison, which quite frankly is much better than the thought I have in mind.

  • @jahdai7543
    @jahdai7543 Год назад +10

    I saw this story when I was a teenager in primer impacto we were stunned of how the mother was so sharp to cut the baby's hair!! in those days I dont think it wouldve ocurred to many! I still remember the mothers face when she told the interviewer very adamantly the moment she saw her "this is my child" amazing mothers intuition!! Thank you Adrian so much for bringing this back with an update!

  • @elizabethgreer27
    @elizabethgreer27 Год назад +3

    I know someone who has suffered from phantom pregnancy at least 3x. Its very sad to witness. She truly believed that she was pregnant and she actually looked somewhat pregnant each time. But we all knew she wasn’t. It’s scary bc we were all wondering what lengths she would go to to produce a baby for real.

  • @melissadwiggins
    @melissadwiggins Год назад +9

    It's amazing to see that delamar accepted the story so readily, even jumping out surprising her mother when she entered the room. It's like she knew in her heart all along that Luz was her mother. So sweet.

  • @SavvyMuhon
    @SavvyMuhon Год назад +43

    When Adrian described their reunion, I burst into tears. Delimar sounds like she’s such a sweet girl. I hope she’s thriving in life now

  • @crazycatmackem8967
    @crazycatmackem8967 Год назад +42

    Sadly I could see where this story was going early on in the story, so, so pleased she was ok and reunited with her parents xx

  • @PixieMermaid-fz9rt
    @PixieMermaid-fz9rt Год назад +2

    Aw this story gave me all the feels 😭 I've watched a lot of kidnapped baby stories that resulted in a reunion and unfortunately several of them resulted in the child not connecting emotionally with their birth parents. Seeing how Delimar was able to resume her life with her real family is so amazing and beautiful. Luz is an amazing mama and this story is very inspiring. Thank you Coffeehouse Crime for the video!

  • @samgrace6813
    @samgrace6813 4 месяца назад +1

    I am so glad Delimar was able to grow up happy with her true family

  • @msk4795
    @msk4795 Год назад +81

    As a person that has lived in many countries all my life, and having to learn a new language as a result, I do not believe that Pedro did anything wrong here. Carolyn (sp?) is the only true monster in this story. Wonderful tale, and yes it’s great to have a “happy ending”….or at least not a murder once and a while. Thank you and I’d love to see more. Your work is great.

    • @gaylegoodman9097
      @gaylegoodman9097 Год назад

      Or deaths of any kind.

    • @victrola2007
      @victrola2007 Год назад +10

      Well, as a naturalized American who had to learn English as did my parents, it is very odd to hear that when a child born in a major US city's hospital, there was no one available to translate a basic place to sign. Pedro's not 'at fault', but it's strange.
      (Philly's just 3 hrs from me)

    • @msk4795
      @msk4795 Год назад +5

      @@victrola2007 I can see your point. But I also remember needing someone to translate for me, and that person not being available..sometimes hospitals are just too busy. Especially in a General Hospital.

  • @pameversole5886
    @pameversole5886 Год назад +55

    Been through a house fire…it’s devastating.🥺
    Luckily, I woke up in time to get everyone awake & out.🙏. I can’t & don’t want to imagine what could have happened if not.

    • @1ChxnceLxnce
      @1ChxnceLxnce Год назад +6

      Glad you and your loved ones made it. Must suck, but you can get new things.

    • @Monika-bc3dq
      @Monika-bc3dq Год назад +7

      We had a fire when I was a kid, I only remember my mom taking me and my brother through a window, because she slightly bumped my head over the frame and I got angry, because I was woken up in the middle of the night, didn't know what's happening and now got bumped over head. My grandma and great grandma were cut off on the top floor and had to be saved through balcony. There was 7 people in the house and we're all alive only because the our dog started barking like crazy when it sensed danger. I can't imagine what they all had to feel as adults understanding the situation and knowing how many people there are between two floors, but not knowing what happened to each other. If it wasn't for the dog, three generations of our family might've just vanish.

    • @pameversole5886
      @pameversole5886 Год назад +6

      @@Monika-bc3dq I’m glad all of you made it out. I know there were at least 3 days that I don’t remember. It’s been 10 years now but I still can’t talk about it without breaking down. I’m glad you were young enough to not understand exactly what was going on.

    • @Justin9700
      @Justin9700 Год назад +6

      @@Monika-bc3dq My dad was saved by my dog waking him up during a house fire as well.

    • @Monika-bc3dq
      @Monika-bc3dq Год назад +6

      @@Justin9700 remarkable animals aren't they? Because it had doggy door, but instead of running away, he made sure the people were woken up. Idk if there's a similar saying in English, but in Poland we have a saying that would translate to "loyal like a dog", which is so true. They love us as much as we love them.

  • @jenniferking7264
    @jenniferking7264 Год назад +7

    Just for future reference, the mom's name is pronounced Luze, although spelled Luz. This was a great ending to what could have been a scary one. Love your videos.

  • @benisboop
    @benisboop Год назад +4

    How did nobody immediately point fingers at Caroline? Given her history of arson and the fact that she was literally there just before this shit happened. This is wild.

    • @Trini2dbone868
      @Trini2dbone868 9 дней назад

      They were incredibly mentally slow on this one, that’s for sure …

  • @jr7845
    @jr7845 Год назад +14

    Hey all, I remember my late Mother explaining that when she was pregnant with me, there was a lady who actually thought she was pregnant but sadly if was all in her head. Wow this is such a tragic tale, I'm glad that a happy ending was the conclusion. Always respectful and always with a lil humour

  • @INNdibongo
    @INNdibongo Год назад +23

    Thanks for including how well Delimar has faired after what happened in her childhood! It’s reassuring to see how things can end well.

  • @annabelle3510
    @annabelle3510 Год назад +3

    This goes to show how incredible a mother's instinct is. You can fool anyone, but you can't fool a mother - she knows her child.

  • @Everyoneisanartist776
    @Everyoneisanartist776 Год назад +1

    Man, children are so resilient! Blessings you all 🙏🏾🫶🏽

  • @MothicalBeast
    @MothicalBeast Год назад +4

    “You’re my mom” oh gods. I’m a parent and this story is/was/will probably always be one of my worst nightmares is someone taking my baby

  • @TankHardcheese
    @TankHardcheese Год назад +9

    I'm so so so SO happy everything worked out and Delimar's living a normal, healthy and happy life with her real parents.

  • @Olddanish
    @Olddanish Год назад +4

    You're by far one of my favorite channels on youtube, with murder stories and other content. Keep up the good work

  • @nessal4078
    @nessal4078 3 месяца назад +1

    Mama knew! Also the toddler was identical to the newborn . Amazing!!

  • @sexysonia45
    @sexysonia45 Год назад +3

    Filthadlphia is the proper name for this city of unbrotherly love. Our embarrassment of a mayor said he can't wait to leave here.I remember this story. Beautiful ending❤ and how grown up she is now.

  • @gaylegoodman9097
    @gaylegoodman9097 Год назад +36

    I have to admit, I was very upset when Delimar was discovered. Not only was she taken from the only mother she had ever known and given to a family that were total strangers, which would be extremely traumatic at any age, let alone when she was only 6, her family had to experience the trauma of not knowing whatever happened, with the parents being told she was probably dead, something they never believed. They also were denied the most crucial time period in a child’s life. I figured she would never get over it, and will face many years of mental health issues. Imagine my joy seeing how successful her life has turned out so far. I’m sorry this ended up breaking up the marriage, and hope that the parents were able to find peace 😊

    • @maryanntoner4520
      @maryanntoner4520 Год назад +9

      The loss of a child (whether through death or disappearance/abduction) is one of the most devastating things that can happen to a couple. Sadly, many marriages don't survive it. 😥(Especially if there had been other stressors in the marriage prior to the loss.) I, too, hope Delimar's parents have found peace and healing.

  • @toddrichardson8595
    @toddrichardson8595 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love the way Adrian says the word Murder...

  • @DancingWithMissL
    @DancingWithMissL Год назад +1

    Love the title. "The Girl Who Came Back From The Dead" because, as you said, its nice to hear a case that has a happy ending. I initially started watching it expecting the worst... and Most people believed Delimar was dead because of the fire or even simply the time that had passed since she went missing... AND SHE WASNT!!! She really did come back from the figurative grave and back to (her) LIFE! Well done, CHC. Well Done

  • @CissyBrazil
    @CissyBrazil Год назад +5

    I found myself grinning from ear to ear at the great ending of the story. Sort of gave me chills when Delamar realized who her real mom is. Very unusual story, thank you Adrian.

  • @kungfucandy
    @kungfucandy Год назад +8

    I am so delighted to hear this story has a happy ending. Good on the mom for never backing down and trusting her motherly instincts! Delimar is absolutely beautiful and it's great to see she now has a happy family of her own. Sending well wishes to all. Except for the nutbag that stole Delimar in the first place.

  • @inkfeather1152
    @inkfeather1152 Год назад +5

    I'm not Hispanic, but as a fan of The Owl House it hurt every time you said Luz's name lol.

  • @AnaFolkenstal
    @AnaFolkenstal Год назад +15

    Of course you're free to make these kind of videos in between!
    It's always good to see a happy end after all the hurt some people caused to the famillies.

  • @zuzu5175
    @zuzu5175 Год назад +13

    I agree, it was really nice that this didn't have murder involved and had a relatively happy ending. I am so glad the mother never gave up and didn't let it break her.❤

  • @7aneris7
    @7aneris7 Год назад +1

    I remember watching the lifetime movie about this case forever ago!!! This was like crazy deja vu listening to this case again!!

  • @marlenedouglas7957
    @marlenedouglas7957 Год назад +3

    I can't imagine the grief the poor parents went through loosing daughter etc etc. But a happy ending.

  • @kathrynbillinghurst188
    @kathrynbillinghurst188 Год назад +6

    Deli mar is just as beautiful as her dear mother. Such a great ending and Justice was served. I hope 🤞 Delimar and her real family are doing well!

  • @emperorofpluto
    @emperorofpluto Год назад +4

    "Luz" is usually pronounced "loose"

  • @Marcia.Marcia.Marcia
    @Marcia.Marcia.Marcia Год назад +1

    Didn't mind the change in the story topic simply because you're such a great storyteller! Sometimes we don't realize how much we need a break from the regular content until it's presented. Kinda refreshing. Well done Adrian!

  • @fialagerdahl8556
    @fialagerdahl8556 Год назад +2

    While a heart wrenching case, it was so delightful to wake this day up to you telling a story that ultimately comes with a good ending. Thank you.

  • @CBrown86
    @CBrown86 Год назад +5

    If someone stole my baby and tried to make me think she was dead, she would have been spending 9 years in prison and 9 years on life support

  • @Barb-iu3el
    @Barb-iu3el Год назад +8

    I'm so tired of psychologists knowing what's better for the child. The child having "trust" issues.
    I speak from experience, the best thing for the child is the TRUTH. Explained at their level.

    • @ET-xj3qq
      @ET-xj3qq Год назад +1

      I can tell that you’ve never taken any psychology classes or anything of the sort because that is not true. I can tell you’re not that smart, because what you said is nonsense.
      You speak from experience, but not very “experience” is the exact same. Since you want to talk about “knowing” stuff, which you don’t. I’m sorry for your experience, but it’s not the same for every child out there. That’s a fact.

  • @Angie-Magi-ATIN-Army
    @Angie-Magi-ATIN-Army Год назад +2

    A breath of fresh air, a happy ending. We need this from time to time. Great presentation as always Adrian.

  • @ballsmcballs7067
    @ballsmcballs7067 Год назад +2

    incredible thinking on the mother for taking a hair sample. i teared up when the baby jumped up from under the table and yelled 'surprise!' 💔

  • @truecrime_us
    @truecrime_us Год назад +31

    It would be very nice if every issue had a happy ending, but unfortunately this is not possible.