Time for Recovery | Paul Seller's Vlog 20
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
- At different stages in our lives, we can be impacted by an act of aggressive violence that goes deep into the very soul of our being. It doesn't always need to be toward us - it can be to others too.
This vlog started just after I was attacked by a middle-aged runner. This was because of a brief altercation where he forced two small children and their mother off the official cycle path when he could and should have moved to his rightful lane to allow them to continue on the safety of a designated and mandatory cycleway where they were well protected.
After confronting him very briefly with no raised voice or swearing changed my life through an act of intentional aggression. I want to explain why and some of what resulted in this vlog here.
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Paul, it’s so hard to convey how much we love and appreciate you, and how stricken we were to hear that anyone would intentionally hurt you. I am so relieved to see your recovery. Thank you again for everything,
You may not realize that you are indeed a woodworking hero to so many of us. The inspiration you have given me personally is unparalleled . Wishing the very best for you. You are indeed in my prayers.
Paul, I hope you laid charges so you claim for pain,suffering And loss of income.That mouse is a scoundrel and should get away from liberting a man from behind
Let him pay you for the rest of his life
Terrible news to listen to Paul. This world needs a lot of help right now!! But My Friend you need quite a lot of help yourself right now!! But kick back and let the world go on by its little lonesome!!
I’ll pop back here soon and see what all has happened!!
Signing Off as the ‘Ol’ Grandpa of 12. I live in Casey ILLINOIS, Home of the World’s Largest Golf Tee. Google it. You won’t be sorry you did!!
Nite
I hope you get back to good health. May God bless you with a speedy recovery
Absolutely
What an awful cowardly man he was.
Thank you for standing up for what's right.
Wishing you a swift and complete recovery.
Never relax
"man"
You are a national treasure no matter which side of the pond you live. That jerk should be arrested and put away for his malicious intent and purposeful injury that was caused. Be well and to a quick recovery.
Oi, dont horde him for just UK, hes a legend here in australia too. Mr. Sellers is a international treasure
@@acrazydurian You’re right. He’s a treasure to the world. I said that because he lived in US as well as UK.
So sorry about what happened to you. Your resilience, humility and passion for your work, even in such a difficult time, is the reason we all love and respect you. Get well soon Paul.
Please rest up Paul. You are the most important teacher of woodworking I’ve ever come across
Having been an EMT and ski patroller for the past 30 years I find your blog an excellent description of the recovery process. Broken ribs can be, and are treated, as a very serious, and possibly, life threatening injury. Thankfully you were in good physical condition leading up to the injury. As a further note, here in the US, an assault on an individual 65 or older garners serious felony charges.
Here in the USA, stubbing your toe on a door at a store will garner serious charges. All in the name of dollars!
@@cappystrano1 That may be true to some extent...but he didnt stub his toe. He was assaulted.
Amen to all of this comment
@@qfudgedoggy you weren’t there so assault is of your own imagination.
@@cappystrano1 He was assulted here is a quote from his website "On Thursday 21st of March Paul was assaulted. He was pushed from his bike as he cycled home at the end of the day.
Police are aware and investigating."
Shame on that runner - hope he gets his come-uppance (not from revenge but to hopefully stop him doing this to anyone else).
Be kind to yourself Paul; I've learned so much from you that I feel I owe you a huge debt of gratitude.
As Tom120ali said, you are loved and respected 639,000 of us wishing you well and empowering your recovery.
Bless you, get well soon.
What do you want to happen to the runner?
Dear Paul: you are an example of strength even under such a tough crossroad. When others may have been overpowered by rage and feeling powerless, you are hanging in there with class. All the best to you
The woodworking community is with you, Paul. We all heard about it in March and were physically shaken over it. You are one of those that we all look up to. You are a teacher, a mentor, a gentleman and much more. Please be well and recover!
This man never bad mouthed the guy that caused all this (aside from saying what he did was stupid), found a silver lining, and grew from it. You’re a very graceful human Paul, and I commend you on your class!
Paul Sellers, a gentleman, master craftsman and no coward. All the best!
As you were describing this man’s behavior with the approaching family of cyclists, I knew right away that he exhibited traits VERY high on the narcissistic spectrum. So sorry this psychopath took out his anger & dissatisfaction with his own life out on you., Paul. 😡
I’m glad you had so many people there at your site of the assault to care for you. Prayers for your healing, and may justice prevail. 🙏
I very rarely comment on any video, but I want to tell you Mr Sellers; that you have been a golden beacon of education and inspiration for me ever since I discovered your content as a young man about 13 years ago. Back then I spent most of my evenings watching your videos and I practised what I learnt from you as much as I could in my own time. You have helped me massively in becoming what I am today; a passionate and quality Joiner (with much more to learn, of course!). I'm disappointed and angry about what happened. I'm glad you're OK and bouncing back, and I hope it cheers you up to know how much of a difference you've made to my life, and I'm sure many others too!
Thank you so much!
From the very second you started this vlog Mr Sellers I could tell that there was something wrong. The sparkle in your eyes wasn't as bright as it always is in your videos and I'm sure it won't be long before it's back bigger and brighter than ever. The pain will go but the memories of what happened to you will take much longer to heal. You're an inspiration to us all and I hope that in some small way our best wishes aids your recovery both inside and out. Look after yourself Mr Sellers. Best wishes.
To have such a productive, kind being disabled by a cowardly fool is unthinkable. We are living in times of fear and anger. From one hand tool worker to another, wishing you a speedy and complete recovery.
Get well Paul. I started wooding late in life (60 years old) and you quickly became an inspiration...thinking of you and hoping for the best. Take care.
I'm glad to see you're on the mend!
Make sure to press charges against that man, that sort of behaviour is not on.
Get well soon Paul. Thank you for everything you do and share with us.
You’ve the resilient strength of American hickory and the character of English Elm. Happy woodworking Paul.
I broke 3 ribs on my left side falling off a horse. I completely empathise with your recovery process, and the very intense pain and long convalescence. What I admire about your disposition is the focus on results rather than blame. Love your work.
You Mr Sellers are indeed a national treasure and shame on that person who injured you i wish you a speedy recovery and many more projects to come
Cheers from the USA
Выздоравливай, дорогой дедушка. Держу за тебя пальцы
Sorry to hear about your injury Paul! I'm glad you are back doing what you love.
Sir, your messages here are both gutting and uplifting. Your message about healthcare workers and Good Samaritans are proof that goodness exists among us and your description of drawing buds is an enlightening reminder to seek beauty in our everyday travels.
The fact that someone assaulted you is deeply disturbing and infuriating. I feel for you. It’s a stark reminder that our actions have consequences beyond the moment. I hope there is justice for the incident and something in the universe makes that person realize his actions are not okay. I am tempted to wish for that to experience equal or greater pain than he inflicted upon you, but I don’t believe that is healthy for us to hold grudges or perpetuate a cycle of violence. I do hope that person is held accountable for their actions and learns from their pitiful malfeasance.
I’m sorry you had to endure such an evil event and painful recovery. I admire your courage to share with us your thoughts and emotions. I respect deeply your positivity, your commitment to your health, and the kindness from within that exudes through every second of your decades of videos, every page of your texts, every pencil line of yours sketches, and every shaving of your joinery.
To Your Health!
-Castor
Very sorry to hear this Paul.
Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Hopefully the criminal who cowardly hit you from the rear will be locked up.
Hello Mr. Sellers,
I'm sending you all my Love energy from where I Am.
You will recover for sure.
God Bless you
Bonjour Paul, très touché par votre mésaventure. J'en tire une simple leçon, savoir dépasser la lâcheté et en sortir grandit, c'est exactement ce que vous avez fait, magnifiquement. Merci.
You continue to be a fine example of what a human being can be. Sorry for your pain, but thank you for your resilience and courage.
A true gentleman who shares his passion with us all.
Paul ,glad to hear your feeling better! I love how you took a negative situation and turned it into a positive! God bless you and your family!
I hope you have a speedy and full recovery, Paul. I also hope that jerk of a runner is identified and prosecuted for that malicious and completely unnecessary act.
We've been praying for you everyday Paul, and hope you recover your former vitality soon. USA near Detroit, MI
I had two broken ribs when I was 38, and my friend, that was excruciating. I’m 63 now, and I doubt I could bounce back from such an injury as I did before.
You come across as such a good, decent man, and I will pray for you each day as you recuperate.
It HURTS. HURTS! I had to sleep in a recliner and hold a pillow whenever I had to cough or sneeze.
You got this, bud!
SLOW AND EASY.
Blessings to you, sir!
Big hugs Paul, try taking it easy on. yourself, sending all my best wishes to you and your family
A RESPECTED PRODUCTIVE GENTLEMAN, I LEARN FROM YOU FROM FAR AWAY DISTANCE, AS A SELF TEACHING WOOD WORKER. I AM INSPIRED BY YOUR CLARITY, PRECISION, AND QUALITY WORKS AND TECHNIQUES. WISH YOU ALL THE BEST WELL BIENG!
We all wish you well Mr Sellers. Hope you have a speedy recovery. Cheers from Perth Western Australia 👍🇦🇺🦘
Joiner all my life 63 yr old, crashed a motorcycle 20 yrs ago, did a few ribs, honestly it takes ages to recover a couple of months at least, well said you.
Get well taking all the time needed. I'm rooting for you Paul 🤗
I am back and in good health. Thank you.
So sorry that you were attacked from behind no less. Your grace under fire is something we can all imitate . Do try to take deeper breaths to keep pneumonia sneezing up on you. I hope you have a full recovery.
So sorry to hear this, Paul. I won't voice my thoughts on the person who committed this attack on you. Its amazing how you see the positives in this when so many others would only be able to focus on the negative. You're an inspiring man who inspires people to be better versions of themselves.
Paul, I hope gods grace shines on you and provides his healing power! 🙏
Having had a broken rib, I can appreciate what you're going through. Wishing you a speedy recovery, and thanking you for sharing your skills as a woodworker.
Dear teacher,
Good to see you healthy.
I'm one of those you inspire.
Here's to a speedy recovery, Paul! You've been an amazing instructor and inspiration to my woodworking journey and I wish you all the best health and the fastest possible recovery.
I admire how you’ve managed to balance a positive outlook while being a realist about the situation. I like how you see the beauty in what some might consider ordinary things, such as a budding leaf and flower. You show us that we’re all capable of making anything from furniture to cellos if we put our mind to it, and remind us that making is part of what defines us as human beings. You’ve also reminded us that kindness and compassion is more powerful and prevalent than we might realize. Glad to see you’re doing better and I can’t wait to see what you work on next.
I just watched a Red Krueger video that gave you credit and a report of being injured. I have been a vocational school trained Woodworker for 58 years and your videos have always given me more skill sets. No matter your education or experience, your videos will always share improvements or altogether better ways to accomplish the task in hand. By the end of this video you are back and I sincerely hope you stay that way. I'll be watching more videos the next month as I just broke both wrists playing pickleball. Keep them coming. I need the company:)
Happy to hear you are on the road to recovery, remember to keep your mind active with drawing and journaling as you are. You are an inspiration to all of us.
Oh Paul, I feel for you. Broken ribs are debilitating and painful.
What an arsehole. This is an assault and should be reported to the police.
I’m so glad you were looked after post assault. Sending love and strength from Australia.
Very best wishes Paul... I had a heart attack three weeks ago and can only echo your experience of our amazing NHS. Bless all those incredible staff members that help patients. I hope your recovery progresses well. Thank you.
Hoping for your quick recovery Paul
I hadn't realized the affection I feel for you Paul. Respect and admiration have always been there, but this feels like a member of my family has been hurt. Use this time to do all the quiet things you've been putting off and heal well.
Praise God that you're on the mend, Mr. Sellers.
Blessings to you Paul. I fell a couple weeks ago, tripped over a garden hose. Thought I broke a rib, but it was just sprained. I can't imagine the pain you were (are) in. I'm so sorry.
Dear Paul, you have my sympathy. Rib injury is so painful. Please seek and accept the help you need.
What an absolute sincere vlog you've made! I've had long covid since 13-10-2023 and I'm still recovering from it. The first 4 months I couldn't work with my hands only recover. It made me think a lot about it's not only a physical process but certainly also a massive mental process. Pushing through during the ups and downs creating light in the end of the tunnel when needed. It makes you struggle but stronger at the end. And rise even more above that self centered person and really realize wat a good person you are and great natured people you have around you! You're a great great person keep up your spirit and your wonderful work! Worm wishes Eke.
My great uncle was a masterful woodworker. It was because of him that I suspected I might be able to get into woodworking even though I'd mostly just done computer stuff all my life and never had a chance to train with him before he reposed.
Your videos were the first that I found as I tried to begin to teach myself and I think it's fair to say that it's been life changing to be able to build these skills and work with my hands and hand tools.
Thank you for what you do, and for making this sort of video as well.
A speedy recovery Paul, you and I are the same age. Any injury at our age takes longer, no matter how fit you are. I wish I lived in UK to apprentice to you!!!
Years ago my dad broke couple of ribs in a fall in theater, he was rough the same age at the time, it took him some time to heal. So don't rush it.
May you continue in health Paul. Your teaching is a wonderful inspiration and a great help to small-time amateur woodworkers like me! A big THANK YOU from Lisbon!
Oh, Paul. Even from Oklahoma in the US, I can feel your lovely spirit. I'm so sorry about your injury. Broken ribs are no laughing (sorry) matter. My partner broke 2 ribs, and said everything you have about symptoms and the ups and downs of recovery. Continue to be patient, and don't over do. Unfortunately, it will likely take longer than you would expect. Sending much light and healing energy your way.
I so appreciate all the valuable knowledge you have shared. As an older woman, I'm just learning the craft. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and spirit.
Hoping and praying for your speedy recovery
As someone who trains fighters, who on occasion have this type of injury. I can tell you that rib injuries are in a special category in terms of recovery time. This is because it is the nature of these bones to flex with our breathing and movement, our ability to move is dependent on this capacity, and as such, while the bones knit, they will be aggravated when you push them too far. I will tell you that it can take 2-3 months for the pain to completely subside, to the point where you won't be restricting your movement in fear of the pain. There will also come a time, usually after 3 weeks, where you should be testing your range of motion fairly often. The injury is not only to the ribs, but the connective tissue that joins them together, the joints where the ribs meet the spine, the sternum or cartilage (depending on the rib), and that connective tissue will be tight to begin with. This is the body attempting to protect the injury as it heals. As your healing progresses, it is important to flex this by doing slow, controlled movements, twisting, bending, inhaling deeply, just to make sure you do not lose any range of motion. Then there is the psychological aspect to this. Being assaulted, particularly being ambushed and feeling helpless is a trauma, and it will take time to restore your confidence and sense of security. When I work with students who have been assaulted, it helps to develop a greater awareness of your surroundings, and to have a plan for any similar situation in the future. I wish you a speedy recovery, and I hope they caught the miscreant and jailed him appropriately.
Wishing you a speedy recovery and that your pain ends. You’ve taught me so much even as a 25-year woodworker myself. My ancestors were from the Village of Livesay, the ancient Hauls of Livesay, at the southwest portion of Blackburn (Feniscowles now, I think). You are one of the UK’s treasures. Put your God above all things. Ed Livesay of Lemon Springs, North Carolina, USA.
I am slow listening to Paul; those of us in the woodworking community are disheartened by the act of cowardice perpetuated upon him. God bless you and yours - as well as those who assisted you
Brother get well our prayers are with you.
Wish you strength and speedy recovery, from Spain.
Paul, we all want you to get well soon. We love your teaching. While we all want you to get well soon, most of us have been injured, and we want everything back to normal as soon as possible. Your body is busy healing itself. God created us in this way! You think you’re not improving as quickly as you want. There’s a lot going on. Until this is finished, your ability to push yourself will be hampered, and may even be detrimental to your recovery. Until you reach a certain point, you and your doctor will determine, don’t push it too much. You’ll get there! I’m confident of that
Our hope for a speedy recovery.
I sense your wounded spirit. A few months ago I developed sciatica, which really put me down both physically and spiritwise, because I am rarely sick or down. I was not attacked like you but the effects on my mood , my body and spirit were similar. I am much better and I feel sure that you too will be back to your normal self soon. The hard part is being patient. Every one of your viewers are cheering you on. USA North Carolina
Paul,
I heard well wishes for your recovery from Rex Krueger. You've inspired so many woodworkers. My life is defined by pain lately with multiple surgeries for a family member and I'm building my shop while also being a care giver.
Your sensibilities about slowing down, allowing yourself to heal, and being honest with your mental health along the way is inspiring. I hope you continue to heal and rest as needed.
I don't know the situation, only what you've shared and I have no idea what justice is because it will not erase the injury or replace the time healing, but I do know peace and I hope you find it. Thank you, again, for all you've shared.
Take the time you need to recover, we will still be here when your better! Hope you get better soon Paul.
Get well soon Sir. Get some well deserved rest. You have worked hard your entire life. Just take a break.
You show me so many lovely views of life. Thank you. Oh, thank you.
There is much I can learn from this man outside of the shop as well.
He’s a gem!
Well said. Paul reminds me of my father and this video only validates that belief.
I want to second the comments that point out how much we appreciate you and how much you do to make all our lives better. Feel better and know that we are all pulling for your speedy recovery.
feeling your pain and frustration for those who feel they are above everyone else. get well soon Paul. Frank from Sydney , down under
Anger is real. Some cant handle it. Hope you heal happily sir. Your channel is the best on YT
Stay safe and don't get down. Divert your energies to getting well and doing other things. Keep the mind busy. I am 72 and am recovering from minor surgery on my eyes and doing the usual things of trying to stay in shape. Must be smart.
I'm afraid it may not come across in this collection of videos because things inevitably date and quite quickly. I am recovered and totally back in the saddle and riding fence. My health is good and thank you.
@@Paul.Sellers Sooooo very glad to hear you are recovered!! Bless you
That’s totally awful, it’s good to see you smile.
What a horrible person doubtful he will grow.
Thankful your ok, that could have been so much worse. 🖖
Nice drawing and explanation 🎉
Great that you are talking the positives.
I'm fairly new to your channel, and I have already learned so much from the patient and detailed nature of your woodworking presentations. I am praying for your continued healing and that the hateful criminal responsible for your injuries will be brought to justice. With three broken ribs there is likely a lot of bruising of muscles and such, so, it makes sense that you are experiencing a lot of pain during your recovery. I am happy to hear that you are being careful with the pain medication as it won't alleviate all of the pain and it is extremely toxic to your body and brain generally and to your kidneys specifically.
Your nature drawings and observations are wonderful. I find myself encouraged to practice my own drawing skills and getting out into the natural world more often. God bless you, Brother.
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Mr. Sellers!
Get well soon Paul. I've taken so much inspiration and learning from your videos. You're a true gent and a wonderful teacher.
I will pray for you and your country. Thanks for sharing
We are not ready to do without you, Paul! Get well soon, and keep up the blogging!
Its easy to do the right thing when you are strong and healthy, you should feel proud that at great risk to yourself you did the right thing.
So many people let bad people prosper by being scared to do the right thing.
God Bless good to hear you are on the mend.
Rest up Paul, All the best.
So glad to hear you are on the road to recovery Paul. Such a sad state of our society that this happens, take care and hope to see you fully recovered soon.
Sorry for your troubles, great to see you recovering, will say a prayer 🙏 for you. Love the videos. Take care and God bless.
Be well, Paul. Take care of yourself. Ribs are a big pain to deal with. I had 3 myself.
We’ll see you back in the shop in no time.
Peace
All the "best" Paul, take your time on your recovery, look forward to seeing you with more video's in the future.....
Hang in there, Paul. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
What an utterly despicable act.
I wish you a full & rapid recovery.
Hello Mr Sellers . Bon courage, soignez vous bien et remettez vous rapidement en forme .💪
Take care of yourself. It is disturbing that there are people who would do such a thing. You are in my prayers. By the way, I watched your video on making a mallet with bois d'arc and have made a couple myself.
thankyou Paul, glad to hear you are back at your workbench
Swift recovery- hopefully you will be back in your shop soon . Rex Cruger mentioned you on his channel , so they’re thinking of you over there
I can’t say that I’ve been injured from a malicious assault but I have suffered many broken bones and concussions from having played rugby for exactly 40 years. The difference, I am guessing, is the mental effects that you are suffering from. Bones heal but the mind has a tendency to remember.
I’ve suffered from black dog episodes for the last 50 plus years and, even now. Do not know what triggers them. I do find making - I’ve been woodworking as a hobby for about the same length of time - to be helpful so long as I don’t push myself. When I hear my body or my mind saying “that’s enough” I have learned to listen from it.
To try and get my disabilities into perspective, I think of all those thousands and, perhaps millions, who are so much worse off than me. My disabilities are not life threatening but are life-shortening; yet think of those young people who, through no fault of their own, don’t even get to taste the fruit of adulthood. I try and repay my good or tune by helping out, as best I can, the Royal Marines Charity. I find that good for me and, hopefully, useful to them
Wishing you well and a speedy recovery.
Get well soon Paul, I hope you get better soon both physically and mentally. Aside from the fact that you are an inspiration to us struggling woodworkers, you are also a human being and should be able to tell someone they have made the incorrect decision without fear of being assaulted. That runner was probably taking some sort of performance enhancing drug and some of them cause agressive tendencies. I've been there and know what it's like. God bless. Paul.
Get well soon Paul ♡ you're an inspiration for all of us!
Get well Paul ,praying for you.