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  • @CharlotteDobre
    @CharlotteDobre  11 месяцев назад +5703

    Sorry about the playback issues on todays video guys! Just skip through for now. Kinda wish it didn’t freeze on my face looking like that tho 😭💀

    • @savagesage
      @savagesage 11 месяцев назад +164

      We love that girlie

    • @MrsJustJessie
      @MrsJustJessie 11 месяцев назад +94

      We still love the heck outta you ❤❤❤❤

    • @randomsandra4039
      @randomsandra4039 11 месяцев назад +301

      I thought it was my husband turning off the WiFi! I’m like: he is trying to make me stop watching Charlotte! 🤪

    • @MsAZYou
      @MsAZYou 11 месяцев назад +298

      And here I thought my internet was laggy.😂

    • @Liz_Lizille
      @Liz_Lizille 11 месяцев назад +146

      Here I thought that it was my phone! 🤣

  • @KEOSHAANEILIA
    @KEOSHAANEILIA 11 месяцев назад +4244

    The girl with the Sza situation…her delight in getting attention and having a conversation with Sza (that she could share for clout) over powered her already struggling sense of humanity. Sza was correct that the girl lacked empathy. She was also devoid of maturity and character. It was cringey watching her deflect and avoid taking accountability for her actions. The gaslighting and stuff was bonkers. Why do so many people advertise their personality disorders.

    • @sighthoundlady15
      @sighthoundlady15 11 месяцев назад

      This is exactly it, these people are not just immature, they’re disordered. Cluster B Personality Disorder paired with Autism Spectrum Disorder/Terminally on line, equals these kinds of people. They are the only “real” people in the world, everyone else is an NPC to mistreat, and deny basic human status too.

    • @NZKiwi87
      @NZKiwi87 11 месяцев назад +285

      Believe people when they show you how they feel. That girl ain’t a fan worth having.

    • @NC4E
      @NC4E 11 месяцев назад +284

      That was ridiculous. If she wanted clout she had a chance to apologize to sza and make a video explaining how the meme is hurtful and promoting its end. Instead she gaslighted sza and told her to just deal with it because other people are probably going to do it too. A lot of growing up to do.

    • @CuteMindreader
      @CuteMindreader 11 месяцев назад +37

      Yessss! to they advertise their personality disorders. So many of these stars develop it/born with it. Obviously they are the brand so they can overtime get stuck up which is environmental, but these kids are being born with disorders and uninvolved/ or un knowledgeable parents are watching these stars and learning/being normalized acting like the spoiled main character. They develop rude personalities and to a lot of ppl clout=money. They are the main character and will gaslight to protect their imaginary “brand”, some are forgetting to have empathy for others. They get so delusional it can be hard for them to see until they meet someone worse. That’s why it’s getting worse.

    • @KDu400
      @KDu400 11 месяцев назад +118

      Right?!? Nothing Sza said was “hate bullying” 😂

  • @monroerobbins7551
    @monroerobbins7551 7 месяцев назад +254

    One tip for those who have someone who says “why are you arguing with a minor”, learned this from a classmate, perfect response: “Cause I wanted to respect you, not dismiss you like a child. If you wanna be treated like a child, keep acting like this, and you will.”

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +4175

    Imagine claiming to be a fan of someone, posting hurtful content about them, them reaching out to share how it made them feel, and instead of acting like a fan you criticize their feelings and post it for social media clout. Miss Charlotte you are NTA, this kid is.

    • @anasardinha473
      @anasardinha473 11 месяцев назад

      The kid is actually disgusting.... I'm so sorry and embarassed for her parents....

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +1

      Fr. The entitled behavior of Americans is getting out of hand. The bombastic audacity of some people just leaves me gob smacked. If I wasn’t 40 and too grown for fighting, I’d punch some people in their foreheads, IstG. That’s why I live in the middle of nowhere. So I don’t have to interact with no one. It’s too peopley outside.

    • @BluMusa
      @BluMusa 11 месяцев назад +220

      she just wanted attention and she's a natural bully, so... It was so dissgusting to even see her XD

    • @vikkilooper4075
      @vikkilooper4075 11 месяцев назад +162

      There seems to be a new trend for young people to crap all over or be hateful to the people they're fans of. I don't get it and don't see how you disrespect the people you like or are fans of. Like the throwing things at concerts you paid to be at. Like wtf

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 11 месяцев назад +100

      @@vikkilooper4075 yeah, the same trash behavior at concerts and towards their idols is the same way they treat their friends and family. I’ve seen a few of my friends teen kids being super entitled, disrespectful, manipulative, and gaslighting towards the people they say they love. It’s literally CRAZY trash ass behavior.
      Edit: it’s honestly ALLL of the red flags.

  • @44zeex
    @44zeex 11 месяцев назад +792

    I am a teacher at a middle school and when a student is in the wrong and we are having an argument they will say, "why are you arguing with a child?" It grinds my gears. They are aware their age protects them from almost all consequences.

    • @linabasilisk1955
      @linabasilisk1955 11 месяцев назад +114

      Personally, I think if someone can articulate something like that, they are old enough to know better. Stuff like that is one of many reasons I dislike being around kids.

    • @kay19129
      @kay19129 11 месяцев назад +75

      Arguing with a child, huh. How else are they supposed to learn about things if nobody says anything to them? These kids are ridiculous and act spoilt.

    • @saraarnett2557
      @saraarnett2557 11 месяцев назад +104

      “Because I respected you enough to try to have a conversation instead of just shutting you down because you’re a child.” Honestly, I hated because I say so as the end all be all when I was growing up because “I don’t argue with children” was the attitude then. They should be glad adults take the time to have a disagreement now vs just shutting them down.

    • @danniq4278
      @danniq4278 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@saraarnett2557
      YES!!!!❤

    • @sai6118
      @sai6118 11 месяцев назад +17

      Please tell them that that's what you get paid for next time.

  • @bowie.90
    @bowie.90 11 месяцев назад +1075

    Never realized "you need to respect your elders" and "you're literally arguing with a minor rn 🙄" have the same energy

    • @katastrofekatrine
      @katastrofekatrine 11 месяцев назад +84

      Us millennials just can't do anything right, apparently. Gaslighting from the generations before AND the one after us. 😵

    • @mumbaigirl125
      @mumbaigirl125 11 месяцев назад +41

      ​@@katastrofekatrineas a genz girl I apologize for people like that but I assure you, most of us are not like that ❤

    • @andrealedet9541
      @andrealedet9541 9 месяцев назад +21

      She's lucky she didn't try that with Cardi B she could've gotten sued

    • @NoraS-K
      @NoraS-K 5 месяцев назад +2

      Wow, I never thought of it like that, but this is so true.

    • @vinniewrites
      @vinniewrites 5 месяцев назад +10

      the only time i say “ur arguing with a child rn.” is if they’re being childish and are completely ignoring me. “ur arguing with a child, and the child is being more mature” is a much better response, imo. i personally opt for “you’re being immature and trying to mock a child. you’re an adult, have a normal conversation like one.”

  • @goddessjennifer3254
    @goddessjennifer3254 11 месяцев назад +3584

    Anyone who thinks 28 is old AND knows the age of consent in every state is most likely someone who should be behind bars.

    • @thatonewitch
      @thatonewitch 11 месяцев назад +146

      ........ *How da hell does one remember the age of consent in every state???*

    • @goddessjennifer3254
      @goddessjennifer3254 11 месяцев назад +254

      @@thatonewitch Someone who is very determined to have sex with as many minors as possible?

    • @AMomWithRocksAndBooks
      @AMomWithRocksAndBooks 11 месяцев назад +149

      He was just WISHING the age of consent in every state is 16. Gross. 🤢

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 11 месяцев назад +131

      @@goddessjennifer3254nah, someone who would victimize a child deserves a fate worse than prison. And fortunately for society, the other inmates recognize that.

    • @nekk-ra7080
      @nekk-ra7080 11 месяцев назад +84

      Most age of consent was meant for teenagers who are in a relationship, but is parroted by older people, usually men, who want abuse the notion, among other things.

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 11 месяцев назад +1015

    Sza was graceful in her interaction with the 16 year old girl . "I'm so young" card does not work if you are the one who instigated it . Actions have consequences and realising that I think is a part of growing up .
    Edit :- the girl is 18 , not 16 .

    • @kearstinnekenerson6676
      @kearstinnekenerson6676 11 месяцев назад +67

      Agree as a mom I would be so pissed if my teen acted like that no need to be mean for nothing

    • @wifeofagrumpyoldmarine428
      @wifeofagrumpyoldmarine428 11 месяцев назад +64

      A bully is a bully. It has nothing to do with age.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch 11 месяцев назад +49

      I'd never heard of Sza until just now, but she seems lovely and mature. She wasn't stalking the fan who dissed her, she was trying to give her a lesson in how to be a good person.
      I've got a bone to pick with the guy who insinuated that all "boomers" are hateful to young people and we are all entitled Karens. That's just not true.

    • @LeadrynMcKrotch
      @LeadrynMcKrotch 11 месяцев назад +39

      This attitude comes from the moms that won't discipline their kids "because they are just a baby" then never actually teach them right and wrong

    • @angelmariiii
      @angelmariiii 11 месяцев назад +30

      16 isn’t even that young too

  • @Alexia_moore
    @Alexia_moore 11 месяцев назад +686

    The sza drama was crazy, she literally gaslit her and was like “take a chill pill”. I despise people that turn around and act like something they did wasn’t a big deal because someone had a reaction to it.

    • @JoCamp696
      @JoCamp696 10 месяцев назад +39

      Kinda like the dude who "pranked" their (now ex) fiance who had lost her first love in a horrid way by pretending to be dead and covered in blood on the kitchen floor.. on their anniversary.

    • @mailvoor698
      @mailvoor698 10 месяцев назад +13

      Thats how my brother gave me the "agressive bitch" name.
      Alsays taunting me and when I reacted he cried with the parents.
      Parents never knew

    • @schrdngrskat3847
      @schrdngrskat3847 9 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@JoCamp696That is horrendous! 😮 I hope she broke up with him *immediately* That must've been so traumatizing for her 😢

    • @FukaiKokoro
      @FukaiKokoro 8 месяцев назад +6

      Gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss vibes.

    • @Jessi-sj3zx
      @Jessi-sj3zx 7 месяцев назад +11

      Seemed like she was setting a boundary with her “fan”. Cause if you don’t respect those boundaries are you a fan?

  • @bellahontas510
    @bellahontas510 11 месяцев назад +1930

    If you're saying you're too young for consequences, you're also admitting to being too young to be on social media unsupervised 💅🏽
    This girl is really telling on herself here, letting the world know she can't act right without a grown-up

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 11 месяцев назад +30

      #facts

    • @brianhellums-gi8pf
      @brianhellums-gi8pf 11 месяцев назад

      SZA’s better than I am. I’d have told that little child to f*** off! If lil girl is old enough to listen to the music, but tickets to the show and get online to smack talk? She’s old enough to be told to shut up!!

    • @beyourownsunshine5548
      @beyourownsunshine5548 11 месяцев назад +41

      Also like ok great she made a comment to SZA who doesn’t know her etc but what if she made a comment to the WRONG person and got worse consequences than just being told off in her DMS

    • @fabianafagundezmuniz8119
      @fabianafagundezmuniz8119 10 месяцев назад +22

      I feel like if You Say You are too young for consequences... You know what You are Doing, like if You are self concious enough to understand your age and your level of maturity You understand what You are Doing, You understand your actions have consequences and You are making concious decisions, it's a weird excuse.

    • @bellahontas510
      @bellahontas510 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@fabianafagundezmuniz8119 exactly! Like just by saying that we know she knows better

  • @ninaradio
    @ninaradio 11 месяцев назад +859

    That butthurt teenager is so…ugh. “Oh, SZA went crazy on me! She sent ten texts in a row!” Totally glossing over the absolute books that she wrote in her texts. Honey, you were engaging on a very verbose level. So SZA responded in turn. That could have all been over if you just said “I’m sorry. I didn’t think about you seeing it how it would make you feel.” No, instead you doubled down by calling her old and insisting she has no right to her feelings because she’s famous.

    • @Blondie77128
      @Blondie77128 11 месяцев назад +64

      It’s called narcissism. The parenting style of last couple of decades is producing so many narcissistic people.

    • @stephaniefarley1236
      @stephaniefarley1236 11 месяцев назад +65

      I personally thought Sza was a very kind person for not telling the girl where to go and how to get there🤣 Plus Sza could have busted her on social media but did it privately so as not to embarrass or humiliate her bully, which not only shows class, but sympathy and empathy too.

    • @one_mel_swoop
      @one_mel_swoop 11 месяцев назад +49

      And then had to nerve to call sza's replies rude? Like girl, where? And commented on the punctuation, ugh. Yes, the extra space is annoying but did homegirl not read her own novellas and see that punctuation?

    • @The.Office.Alliance.
      @The.Office.Alliance. 11 месяцев назад +21

      Right?! that's literally how conversations work, girl 😂 you respond and she will respond.

    • @janeemflores
      @janeemflores 11 месяцев назад +11

      She needs to be called out for that rude behavior. She could have just apologized, but noooo...she just had to make a video about it.

  • @jura2288
    @jura2288 11 месяцев назад +133

    I think that Sza took the time and tried to explain her issues to a random girl without a large social media presence is huge. In my eyes Sza tried to have an honest conversation...

  • @CM-yz3ze
    @CM-yz3ze 11 месяцев назад +507

    The way that teen felt so confident about her take on the SZA interaction... Her lack of empathy and entitlement will live on the internet forever. Future partners employers will all be able to know just how well she treats the people she claims she likes... Congrats to her for getting the attention she so desperately wanted.

    • @heykaylc23
      @heykaylc23 11 месяцев назад +29

      This!! And even if she deletes her video, she's still in this compilation video of Charlotte's and who knows where else.

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 5 месяцев назад +1

      For real!

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 3 месяца назад

      💯

  • @juliaweasley
    @juliaweasley 11 месяцев назад +1252

    Nah the girl in the Sza situation was weird. She was clearly pleased about being noticed even in a negative light. And the fact that she's still talking about it and the way she talks about it shows she doesn't think she did anything wrong. For someone who paid $350 for a ticket, you would think she'd be a better "fan" and understand where Sza is coming from. Where is the basic decency and empathy? Sza took the time to explain things to her calmly and with respect. Did Sza have to keep going? No. But she's human.

    • @SininenMeri
      @SininenMeri 11 месяцев назад +49

      I found it funny how the fan couldn't understand why Sza dm'ed her and not people who hate her. But why would you dm someone who openly dislikes you? You aren't going to change their mind. Thinking that messaging your fan would have an positive impact is much more logical because they like you and would probably also want you to like them. Like I personally would have guessed that getting a message from a person you like or admire would get you to rethink your actions. If they are active in the fan community it might even promote healthy self-policing of also informing others of "She is uncomfortable with that and has asked fans not to do that. She sees this stuff and has even asked some fans personally to stop."
      My logic would also be that you would be more likely to message someone younger that their actions/words are hurtful or inappropriate, because we are more forgiving of teens and think that the cause of the action is ignorance. Whereas with clear adults we (often incorrectly) assume that they know and the hurt was intended.

    • @heatherduke7703
      @heatherduke7703 11 месяцев назад +55

      “But I said sorry!” She doesn’t know what a real apology is

    • @Fire-Rabbit87
      @Fire-Rabbit87 11 месяцев назад +51

      Her TikTok account is set to private now 🤣 She probably had tons of people telling her that she's being a brat and she can't handle it!

    • @LoveNLifewithHim
      @LoveNLifewithHim 11 месяцев назад

      She has a right to her opinion

    • @just_apotato
      @just_apotato 11 месяцев назад +32

      @@LoveNLifewithHim and so does sza and everybody else.

  • @Bibble1989
    @Bibble1989 7 месяцев назад +93

    Girl.. what the heck happened at 15:27!? 😭😭🤣🤣🤣 the amount of times I refreshed youtube thinking my wifi was down or smth 🤣😂😭

    • @Ztblaq
      @Ztblaq 7 месяцев назад +11

      Yeah. I restarted RUclips for it to freeze 2 more times, then I noticed the timer going. Lol

    • @GrainneSheridan
      @GrainneSheridan 5 месяцев назад +6

      Omg yes! I thought it was my fault!

    • @yourprincess4996
      @yourprincess4996 3 месяца назад +1

      Sameeee

    • @hdawn2708
      @hdawn2708 2 месяца назад +2

      I thought my iPad was breaking 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

    • @ClariceMarie-ze6bz
      @ClariceMarie-ze6bz 2 месяца назад +1

      *Pin this comment lol

  • @vwgirl
    @vwgirl 11 месяцев назад +944

    The entitlement and being a victim. As typical bully that pull the victim when confronted. Sza has style and grace in the face of this brat. She's a brat. Her parents have failed society.

    • @notevenlistening6072
      @notevenlistening6072 11 месяцев назад +32

      Apparently, the failure spread to her skill with cosmetics. Not cute outwardly or inwardly

    • @haz.fellie
      @haz.fellie 11 месяцев назад

      Okay no reason to attack a sixteen year old's physical appearance. She was in the wrong but you're also being mean.@@notevenlistening6072

    • @who__cares__
      @who__cares__ 11 месяцев назад +2

      Lmfao nah Sza is doing the most like is she going to go after everyone who makes fun/jokes about her??? You don't see others who have actual style and grace do this or even entertain childish shit like this 💀

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 11 месяцев назад +59

      ​@@who__cares__people get hurt when they're bullied. Stop making excuses for shitty people. She's old enough to know better. Sza may have pushed it a little too much but she had every right to say something when it hurt her. The world is quite fucked when people like you shit on the victim for speaking up when they're being bullied.

    • @The.Office.Alliance.
      @The.Office.Alliance. 11 месяцев назад +27

      ​@@who__cares__She has a right to defend herself. The grace comes in the calmness and respect she spoke to this girl with when explaining why it wasnt okay. This girl threw it in her face further by posting the interaction online for clout. The only thing childish is this CHILD

  • @arikalestin
    @arikalestin 11 месяцев назад +319

    If this little girl thinks that what she said was "coming at her" I can't wait until she has to live in the real world lol

    • @moniqueengleman873
      @moniqueengleman873 11 месяцев назад +28

      She is in for a rude awakening 😂😂

    • @louisenielsen7106
      @louisenielsen7106 11 месяцев назад +16

      I give her 10 minutes on her first real job 😂

    • @felinemoonchild
      @felinemoonchild 11 месяцев назад +15

      Wait until a Karen goes off on her.

    • @shell6829
      @shell6829 11 месяцев назад +9

      Seriously! 😂

  • @Itsjessxx
    @Itsjessxx 10 месяцев назад +46

    I fully support sza in this. She was super respectful in her messages and wasn’t attacking this girl at all she was just telling her how it made her feel and I actually felt bad for sza when this happened

  • @Morto1899
    @Morto1899 11 месяцев назад +1114

    This is why I have no issue clapping back at kids. We need to stop protecting them when they do shitty behaviour and show them the consequences of their actions. Don't dish what you can't take. Your age doesn't absolve you. I had a younger cousin when I was in my early 20s that used to make fun of my weight. I ignored it at first but then got tired of it because he wouldn't stop and his mom would be like, "Well, he's just a kiiidddddd." I'm sorry, but when I was his age (he was 10), I knew that kind of behaviour was wrong because my mother taught me. So I clapped back, roasted his big ass ears, roasted his braces, roasted the fact that he still slept with a night light (in front of his friends), so on and so forth. He started crying and ran off to find his mom. My aunt got mad at me but I said, "Maybe if you held him accountable instead of excusing his behaviour, he'd not be a little shithead." (Which caused him to cry harder btw) He never did it again and stopped the behaviour in general from what I know. Over a decade later, he apologised to me and said that my words caused him a lot of insecurity for years. I told him that I wasn't sorry and that it was a teachable moment for him to consider his words/actions towards others.

    • @katemarr1984
      @katemarr1984 11 месяцев назад +95

      This. This is the way.

    • @Blondie77128
      @Blondie77128 11 месяцев назад +46

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @kimberleywilliams7802
      @kimberleywilliams7802 11 месяцев назад +60

      You ate that LOL

    • @nikkita1688
      @nikkita1688 11 месяцев назад +66

      It used to be you could expect any adult to correct bad behavior. However, as a human in this world who has a child, I trust humanity less and less to do so well 😂😂

    • @vulpixfairy1985
      @vulpixfairy1985 11 месяцев назад +76

      This is why as a preschool teacher I perform discipline to my children in my care to teach them right from wrong. I make them learn that there are consequences to their actions. Most parents in my service are wonderful but I will meet some occasional ones that are…not so friendly. These are families who either don’t care or listen no matter what I tell them or they only find reasons to complain (never a compliment or feedback, just all they do is complain). Mind you, I’m also a parent to a child with autism and I have to also work hard to teach him the ways of the world and to help build his resilience and independence. I HATE it when people say that kids will be kids because kids CAN learn and they should be accountable for their actions no matter their age.

  • @irinaparent9066
    @irinaparent9066 11 месяцев назад +175

    sza: your comment hurt my feelings, please do not do that again
    fan: why are you attacking an 18 year old????????

    • @kjb_2022
      @kjb_2022 6 месяцев назад +7

      I was waiting for Charlotte to say "How are you not embarrassed!!!!???" That little girl needs a reality check fr.

  • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
    @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 10 месяцев назад +52

    I can’t believe how lovely Sza was in taking the time to message with her and thank her for coming to the show. On top of that, she actually shared something that’s pretty personal, saying how this trend caused her so much anxiety and self doubt that she found it hard to do shows and that it hurt her feelings that the girl posted that. If this woman was actually a fan as she kept saying she was, then the normal response to that would be to feel awful that you made her feel bad and apologise profusely before taking it down. I would likely also feel a bit star struck that someone that famous was taking the time to message me and speak to me in what was a more friendly way than she deserved. Instead of being that way, this moron doubled down and argued the point constantly and THEN went and described these very kind messages as “personal hate DMs”. There was no hate there at all - she called her love, she did thank her for coming to the show despite the idiot saying that she hadn’t and she was very human in sharing her feelings, which she didn’t have to do to a stranger. Instead of feeling bad, this girl decided to play the victim and act as if she hadn’t done anything wrong, because she is “only 18”. 18 is an adult so what is the point she’s making? She’s not a 5 year old child, unable to be responsible for her own actions. I hate the way that we seem to act as if 18 year olds are still children who need pandering to - they aren’t, they are fully grown adults. Yes we keep growing through our entire adult life, but we are still adults at 18 and need to accept the consequences of our actions. I had my first child at that age and lived alone from home with nobody to pick up after me or treat me like a baby. It actually hurt me watching the video because Sza was being so real and honest and it was being thrown back in her face :-(. Of course it is a free world and if someone wants to do that, then legally you can’t stop them posting it, but just simple human decency would make you feel bad for hurting someone if you didn’t intend to and especially if you’re supposedly a fan of that person.

    • @schrdngrskat3847
      @schrdngrskat3847 9 месяцев назад +5

      Right?? That was incredibly vulnerable of Sza to admit all that, and I'm sure it made her feel absolutely horrible to get the type of response that she did from that girl. 😭

    • @kathrynsmith2114
      @kathrynsmith2114 9 месяцев назад +4

      Apparently "hate" to this child means "daring to disagree with me." That she's still doing that at 18 speaks quite poorly of her character. My mother was smacking me down for that--verbally and appropriately--when I WAS just five years old, because how else was I going to learn to self-regulate that? I don't know that "hurt" was what I felt watching the video, personally. "Contempt" would be a lot closer, and for the same reasons as you. That set of DMs was so genuine and honest and kind, and this little brat responded like an emotional abuser and bully!

  • @mindyschocolate
    @mindyschocolate 11 месяцев назад +90

    She’s not a real fan. Fans don’t throw shade or make jokes at someone else’s expense. Also, teenagers aren’t immune to being called out. At their age, they know what bullying behavior is. Good for Sza for calling this little twerp out.

  • @ThatGingerHannah
    @ThatGingerHannah 11 месяцев назад +344

    Here’s the thing…Being young doesn’t excuse you from getting in trouble or facing consequences of your actions. If you cheat on your homework and get in trouble for it, you can’t say “but I’m young” and it just be fine. You made a decision on your own volition and now you have to suffer the consequences.

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 11 месяцев назад +21

      This! She's literally 18. If she was 6 I'd understand but you're 18 dude. Grow tf up! Guarantee she was the school bully when she was in grade school

    • @jeanams07
      @jeanams07 11 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly! And she isn't that young. She is 18. She should know better. She is lucky that Sza didn't call her out publically because then she would have been really facing the consequences of her actions.

  • @melissa8313
    @melissa8313 11 месяцев назад +8

    As a fan, that girl should’ve been empathetic and stoked to have such a personal opportunity to communicate with SZA!

  • @maef7026
    @maef7026 11 месяцев назад +557

    It's a red flag when people have "It was just a joke" ready in their back pocket after they do something mean/racist/sexist etc. and they don't get the response they wanted from other people.

    • @RougeMaire
      @RougeMaire 11 месяцев назад +9

      Or when they say “just playing the devil’s advocate”

  • @ashabonam
    @ashabonam 11 месяцев назад +330

    “Power imbalance” ??? She is acting like a victim. She didn’t really show all of her power. She told she was hurt in a nice human way possible and this girl still keeps acting like a 🤡. How about say “I’m sorry” ?? If someone said that to her, then only she could understand how it feels. It’s not just one person. Countless people.

    • @just_apotato
      @just_apotato 11 месяцев назад +20

      Exactly, like sza didn’t blast her and post the dms on her page, the girl did. So what power imbalance is there?

    • @EH23831
      @EH23831 11 месяцев назад +6

      “It was obviously a joke” 🤌🏼😒

    • @ivoryphoenix7
      @ivoryphoenix7 11 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, she’s parroting a term that isn’t applicable to the situation to try and act the victim. The power imbalance would only be relevant if she were using it against the girl but all she has done is share her hurt feelings.

    • @EH23831
      @EH23831 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@ivoryphoenix7 yep - and sza didn’t start it…

    • @jeanams07
      @jeanams07 11 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly. Sza had every right to reply with a public post and really put that girl on blast, but she didn't. I almost wish she had, because then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.

  • @hilariousness6644
    @hilariousness6644 10 месяцев назад +26

    One of my favourite line from a Bridgerton fan fic which was said by Lady Danbury to Miss Edwina:
    "It is unwise to demand the respect of being an adult... when you expect the privileges of being a child."
    From 'A Promise Made In Haste' by Waterlily Rose on AO3
    This line is for all those teens who think they shouldn't face consequences. ❤️🐝🌷

    • @voidtectonic
      @voidtectonic 6 месяцев назад +1

      I kinda stand for you quoting a fanfiction. I love that!

  • @trishapottsmith6075
    @trishapottsmith6075 11 месяцев назад +332

    I don't care for or listen to Sza, but she was 100% in the right. The girl literally said she revived the whole thing, so that could be the reason she contacted her specifically and not someone else. Plus, it doesn't matter your age. If you're going to bully, don't get upset if you get called out.
    Also, she can't claim to be a fan and then continue to bash her just to get views.

  • @what_equals_42
    @what_equals_42 11 месяцев назад +493

    That kid who went after SZA is so much like the nasty little brat who bullied just about everyone in my year in high school. I bet she'll be exactly as underdeveloped as a person when she grows up. In my experience, people like that don't learn or grow.

    • @irishcountrygirl78
      @irishcountrygirl78 11 месяцев назад +15

      Yeah, nah they never change, they become crappy adults. 👍

    • @MidniteSpectre
      @MidniteSpectre 11 месяцев назад +1

      They don't think they're qrpng because nobody in their life has pointed it out to them, so they don't see any reason they should change.

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@irishcountrygirl78 nah, i was never means in school but what she did i felt like i would have done. like of i mad a joke thats clearly ironic satire, and some big celebrity got mad at me, id probally be argumentive not understanding.

    • @HeatherSealey
      @HeatherSealey 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Mayawamaq If someone calmly tells you that what you said or did hurt them and explained why and you acted like this AH did, that makes you ....an AH. Maybe you should think on why you think this is okay.

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 11 месяцев назад

      @@HeatherSealey I really dont care if i offended a celebreality by irony. if its hurt them toughen up. dont be famous if you dont like being famous. im not gonna be mean to anyone, make personal attacks or insult them. the orginal post was irony, and she has to understand that. people will post things likes that.
      theres not much you can do if it. and if i where a child, ik for a fact id judge her

  • @RandomSubjects
    @RandomSubjects 11 месяцев назад +25

    I've never heard of Sza before but I'm in her corner on this one. I wish more people would call out nastiness online.

    • @allisoncastle
      @allisoncastle 5 месяцев назад +1

      I highly recommend her music!!

  • @mollyflowers5728
    @mollyflowers5728 11 месяцев назад +436

    I thought at first, oh great, another influencer upset that they influenced. But no, that is stealing. They could at least give the credit.

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 11 месяцев назад +57

      You are absolutely correct! They stole her ENTIRE room. There was no talk obout how she inspired them and credited her original idea what so ever. They probably learned this bad behavior from sssniperwolf because she does it to creators on a constant basis. She even cuts their names out from the original content and will sit there and not even comment about what she's watching..smh..😬

    • @lovers123991
      @lovers123991 11 месяцев назад +56

      Not only that, but can we talk about how these are children just filming themselves sleeping and resting!! Like that’s so eerie. There’s so many creeps on that app that are probably loving their videos. What parents/ guardians would let their kids film this kind of stuff!!🫤

    • @thatonewitch
      @thatonewitch 11 месяцев назад +27

      ​@@lovers123991
      It's even MORE terrifying that they are literal *children* that did this! Like at first I thought they were teens or young adults, but then I saw the video showing how they stole the background - that's not something children normally do or can do very well

    • @annsu6997
      @annsu6997 11 месяцев назад +9

      What exactly do these girls do?! Livestream themselves aleeping???

    • @ll2323
      @ll2323 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@lovers123991there’s definitely some creeps watching those kinds of videos.

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 11 месяцев назад +108

    15:27 - 15:44 - Charlotte freezes . 😂 . Also 17:02 - 17:17 . Also 21:30 - 21:40 .

    • @caljones
      @caljones 11 месяцев назад +18

      This is a first! EVERYBODY FREEZES

    • @kayleeciccarello8668
      @kayleeciccarello8668 11 месяцев назад +35

      Came here to see if this happened to anyone else or just me.

    • @elephantzik
      @elephantzik 11 месяцев назад +1

      Also 21:30-21:37

    • @Shae_Sandybanks
      @Shae_Sandybanks 11 месяцев назад +37

      I thought it was my wifi!

    • @MrsJustJessie
      @MrsJustJessie 11 месяцев назад +24

      I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME!!!!! I reset my wifi and everything 🤣🤣🤣

  • @melissajones363
    @melissajones363 11 месяцев назад +18

    I find it funny that theyre literally paying the money for her concerts to do this. Sza is definitely winning on this one. Celebrities are real people too peeps! Respect

  • @vnokesCO
    @vnokesCO 11 месяцев назад +169

    SZA kept trying to get the creator to understand her position & yet she still wasn't getting it. She never did see that she'd done anything wrong. Good on SZA for trying, especially for as long as she did; I would've given up from frustration long before she did.

  • @MadJenno
    @MadJenno 11 месяцев назад +765

    The scary thing about that teenager and the SZA thing is, if she’s treating people she doesn’t know that “she is a fan” of that way. Imagine how she treats the people she actually cares about! Her behaviour was unacceptable and gross but her response was despicable. She’s basically trying to absolve herself of any wrong doing by victim blaming . It’s scary that she honestly has no idea how wrong she is !!!

    • @Haileyhardinn
      @Haileyhardinn 11 месяцев назад +9

      Wait whos wrong her or sza cause i dont think sza was wrong i can’t understand wht ur saying

    • @MadJenno
      @MadJenno 11 месяцев назад +36

      @@Haileyhardinn you can’t be serious !!! 🧐 why would I say that SZA is in the wrong ? I’m quite clearly talking about the teenager lacking empathy and social skills.

    • @ChioGaru
      @ChioGaru 11 месяцев назад +27

      Agreed. It is scary. I mean, the artist Selena was murdered by the president of her fan club, so...yeah, "fans" can be a terrifying kind of people...

    • @isla.vuewall
      @isla.vuewall 11 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely!

    • @jazznpercy
      @jazznpercy 11 месяцев назад +7

      The girl was a jerk. SZA had a right to get her feelings hurt & reach out to the girl. But she should've stopped it there & just blocked her instead of going back and forth with her. When you're famous enough to have 17 million followers & win awards & have thousands of people pay to see you in concert, you have to develop a thick skin because there are always going to be jerks saying things about you. If you get that upset by things that are posted about you, get an assistant to go through your mentions for you & get rid of the ones that are hurtful. Maybe get some therapy so you can learn to let that stuff roll off your back. Yes, you're human but you're also rich & famous & powerful so just say fuck y'all to the haters & spend your time interacting with the people who love you.

  • @hollisblinn7910
    @hollisblinn7910 11 месяцев назад +38

    I'm a "boomer" and I take issue with people making nasty comments and assuming the worst about my generation. I always go out of my way to be kind and respectful to others. If someone deliberately disrespects me, then, yes, I will clap back! Remember, there are "Karens" in every age group and you don't have to be old to be a jerk...just ask any public school teacher.

  • @SherryEllesson
    @SherryEllesson 11 месяцев назад +242

    That first content creator has every reason to be pi**ed. As someone who'd had everything from ideas to phrases claimed by others, I know how infuriating it is! "Copying" or even "gleaning inspiration" is one thing - straight across theft is another, and I hope she's able to get some kind of recompense!!

    • @josje9231
      @josje9231 11 месяцев назад

      Sorry.. But what??? The view from your house is your intellectual property now? You can call yourself an innovative creator because the street outside of your house looks nice. Get your head out of your ass. No creativity was put in the video she made. She just was fortunate with her apartment. Not saying it's cool if someone else claims it as theirs. But the way she spoke as if she made an oil panting that took 100 hours for this video that was just a shot of her room is soo entitled

    • @rachaelbrugmans4309
      @rachaelbrugmans4309 11 месяцев назад +3

      Agreed!

    • @WisdomSubstitute
      @WisdomSubstitute 11 месяцев назад +2

      Completely agree

    • @catherineg9943
      @catherineg9943 11 месяцев назад +3

      Agreed. All the OP had to do was state in her post, “Inspired by, and Re-Created from, “………’s” amazing “Room with a View”!!

  • @fangirlie444
    @fangirlie444 11 месяцев назад +361

    About the whole teenage girl and SZA thing:
    As a young adult myself, I can tell you we're not all like that. Some of our parents actually raised us with common sense, accountability, and respect. Girls like that are, as we all know the stereotype, very insecure projectors.
    I can absolutely promise that I was bullied by girls with that same mindset of "oh, get over it" or "I didn't actually think I'd get caught" my whole life.

    • @jeanams07
      @jeanams07 11 месяцев назад +33

      Exactly... And she isn't that young. She is 18. Way too old to be acting like that. She is really lucky that Sza didn't respond publicly, which she had every right to do since she had tagged her in her post. Then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.

    • @mumbaigirl125
      @mumbaigirl125 11 месяцев назад +5

      I agree with you. I'm 18 too but I would never do something like this to someone, let alone a celebrity that I admire and am a fan of.

    • @sai6118
      @sai6118 11 месяцев назад +2

      We've all been a young adult, believe it or not. We know not everybody is like that lol

    • @sierra4766
      @sierra4766 9 месяцев назад +4

      As a 32 year old woman, I'm gonna let you know we don't see you all the same. I know there are plenty of good empathetic young people out there. I hope you get past the bullies and don't let them bring you down. You seem like a good person.

  • @bradleymartin5532
    @bradleymartin5532 3 месяца назад +8

    Just because one is famous, doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect. You are human like the rest of us and are allowed to have feelings.

  • @mikchik00
    @mikchik00 11 месяцев назад +196

    It’s always the men who know age of consent that never actually know what consent is. 😤

    • @lilycollegemythbusters5532
      @lilycollegemythbusters5532 11 месяцев назад +17

      I was thinking the same thing. As a girl, I never even considered "What is the age of consent?" Why would I as a young girl need to know that information. A. If I was going to have sex, I would. B. No law tells me what to do with my own body. C. Age of consent is not a "reason to have sex".

    • @rockinchik06
      @rockinchik06 11 месяцев назад +3

      But the guy in this story, didn't actually know the ages of consent. He was joking... it's pretty obvious from what she said about him and his responses. Some of u ppl are taking his crude jokes way too seriously. May not be funny to u, but we are also missing context.

    • @jossypoo
      @jossypoo 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​​@@rockinchik06wooooooooow what an interesting way to cover for a man you know nothing about.
      I like how most women hear "i know the age of consent in every state" as really concerning in and of itself, but people really be out here like "because he was wrong, it was a joke" not "because he was wrong it's EVEN MORE concerning".

    • @xuanzhencat
      @xuanzhencat 11 месяцев назад

      @@lilycollegemythbusters5532I did learn the age of consent as a young girl because a lot of creepy men were hitting on me. So I would tell them how old I was and how many years in prison they would get if they had sex with me. Usually that would cause them to leave me alone.

  • @LLove1613
    @LLove1613 11 месяцев назад +109

    The official slogan of every bully out there in the world is "it was just joke."

  • @marissatourney9839
    @marissatourney9839 10 месяцев назад +8

    15:40 any one else get a weird pause right here 😂 I thought something was wearing with my Internet but i don’t think soo lol😅

  • @allystrya
    @allystrya 11 месяцев назад +120

    The, “It’s just a joke.”, defense is past its expiration. I don’t care how old you are.

    • @bevmaxwell3016
      @bevmaxwell3016 11 месяцев назад +11

      Right up there with; it's just a prank bro!

    • @misshell2223
      @misshell2223 11 месяцев назад

      100% dusty ass expired!!!

    • @belinda960
      @belinda960 11 месяцев назад +3

      When someone says "It's just a joke", clap back with: "jokes are funny". Shuts it down real quick.

  • @janedoe928
    @janedoe928 11 месяцев назад +213

    I just wanted to express how much the first video clip resonated with me. My son and I run a lawn channel and we have recently discovered that someone has been stealing our content. This Channel not only took our entire content without giving us the credit, but is also posting almost all of our videos as if they were theirs. To make matters worse, they have blocked us from their channel and are trying to pass off our content as their own - even though we are the ones featured in the videos. It is extremely upsetting when we request them to take it down due to copyright infringement, yet they refuse to comply and continue to post our content. We have reported the channel, but nothing has changed as of yet. These instances make it clear how easy it is for unscrupulous individuals to steal and repost the content of hardworking creators.

    • @slactweak
      @slactweak 11 месяцев назад +5

      I don't know very much about this kind of thing but can't you take them to court?

    • @enginerd80
      @enginerd80 11 месяцев назад +26

      Would it be too distracting to add a watermark saying "Video created by [channel name/handle]", appearing every now and then on the video, at spots in the picture where it'd be obvious if it was just blurred out? Such practises don't seem to be common on RUclips, but on other platforms I've seen even videos where a large logo of the creator is bouncing around the screen during the whole video. So apparently theft is a bigger problem on some other sites, so apparently RUclips is doing something more than them, but still not enough.

    • @slactweak
      @slactweak 11 месяцев назад +23

      @@enginerd80 Excellent idea. A transparent watermark would work just fine. It would let the vid show through and still be impossible to blur without being obvious.

    • @Merryfrances
      @Merryfrances 11 месяцев назад +18

      Share the link so we all can report the channel too.

    • @susannairisastarte5192
      @susannairisastarte5192 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yes. Just terrible 😢

  • @EatinPeaches82
    @EatinPeaches82 10 месяцев назад +3

    18:35. Yes that is necessary information for a man to know. In order to avoid getting into trouble. Some girls look way older than they are. Make-up is crazy stuff lol.

  • @edwardchen9619
    @edwardchen9619 11 месяцев назад +516

    no im definitely with you girl. sza has every right to snap in that situation, and that girl with the eyeliners just forgot how to be a HUMAN BEING and take responsibility for her actions. she said there are millions of ppl tagging her and how she was so innocent cuz she was the one get picked on, but like, that doesnt justify her actions.
    apparently people get mad when get treated the way they treated people.

    • @wildfire9017
      @wildfire9017 11 месяцев назад +56

      "I'm 16 so you have no right to tell me off when I'm being a horrible human being"
      She sounds incredibly entitled and delusional.

    • @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult
      @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult 11 месяцев назад

      ​@Burger_pantsok boomer

    • @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult
      @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult 11 месяцев назад

      These are the same teenagers that bully other teenagers in school too.

    • @Tired_Night_Owl_in_the_Woods
      @Tired_Night_Owl_in_the_Woods 11 месяцев назад +43

      ​@Burger_pantsthe fact that you had it worse does't mean people now should be letting such "small" things slide🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ruthroberts8868
      @ruthroberts8868 11 месяцев назад +31

      “Why are you coming after me instead of someone who really hates you instead of a fan like me?” How is Sza supposed to tell you are actually a fan if you post things like that? How can she possibly tell that you are really a “fan”?

  • @KansasNotTheBand
    @KansasNotTheBand 11 месяцев назад +262

    to anyone wondering what the girl in the last video said after she got out, her boss said "why didn't you just turn the lock and pull?" and she said (to the viewers) "i'd been at work for 12 hours and my will to live was pretty low, so i just kinda gave up" before it picks up at "thank you all for being so concerned"

    • @melissaj.beaver9164
      @melissaj.beaver9164 11 месяцев назад +32

      Thanks. I kept rewinding but couldn’t catch it. 😂😂😂

    • @TahmiKnox
      @TahmiKnox 11 месяцев назад +16

      Thank you so much! I was looking for this 🙌🏾

    • @meghanhenderson8417
      @meghanhenderson8417 11 месяцев назад +9

      I felt so much for that girl. I've been going through it at work lately and I just feel her so much. I hope she's doing better

    • @makeyourmark00
      @makeyourmark00 11 месяцев назад +8

      Well, the main door latch may still be engaged even if you unlock and pull the deadbolt, but she would just have to slide something between the door and frame to release that (e.g. a credit card, cardboard from one of the boxes, wire, etc. - she was in a storeroom full of useful items...to include the chocolate).

    • @Victoria-dh9vb
      @Victoria-dh9vb 11 месяцев назад +10

      Omg, I just thought my phone was broken. Thank you

  • @_kd_
    @_kd_ 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thinking someone can't be offended because "it's just a joke I like you" is what bullies pretending to be your friend say

  • @snaileriepimpson
    @snaileriepimpson 11 месяцев назад +229

    You’re not wrong about the Sza thing. Sza was sooo nice to her about it and talking to her like a reasonable person, explaining that it hurts her feelings. The girl literally could have said “omg I’m sorry I didn’t mean it at all, I love you, I thought it was just a meme. I’ll delete it now. I’m so sorry.” But instead, SHE decided to leave it up, delete szas comment, and escalate it. I feel for performers man. Social media has made fans feel so entitled to do whatever the fuck they want to their favorite performers and it’s frankly dystopian and gross. They are people too!

    • @MichaelaBetikova
      @MichaelaBetikova 11 месяцев назад

      @Burger_pants if you need to change your life to not be asshole then the problem one is you.

    • @SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto
      @SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto 11 месяцев назад +23

      @Burger_pants Tf are you on? Literally no one said what you are suggesting. But you ARE responsible for someones feelings if you are actively doing things to hurt them. You are responsible for the response they have to YOUR actions. It isn't entitlement. Those are the consequences of your actions. It isn't a matter of "you need to change your life to cater to me". Its a matter of treat people how you would want to be treated. You just don't treat people like shit. Period. There's no excuse for it. It just makes you a garbage person. Actions, good or bad, will always have consequences. It is literally the most basic of life lessons that everyone understands regardless of age. Some people, like the girl doing the bullying and you apparently, just think that doesn't apply to them.

    • @1LauraMeow
      @1LauraMeow 11 месяцев назад +19

      @Burger_pantswhy are you advocating for people being a$$holes? Why is it so hard to be a good human being?

    • @yougottaseizetheopportunit5778
      @yougottaseizetheopportunit5778 11 месяцев назад +3

      @Burger_pantsshhhhhhhh

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch 11 месяцев назад +3

      @Burger_pants Who peed on your cornflakes this morning? 🤨

  • @alexandranedelcucovers694
    @alexandranedelcucovers694 11 месяцев назад +124

    That guy saying that kids now act like the boomers they mock is SPOT ON. Golden content right there ahahah

  • @TourettesMajestic
    @TourettesMajestic 10 месяцев назад +6

    15:45 wtf was that 😂 am I the only one who saw that intense glitch?

  • @tenshi.kurama
    @tenshi.kurama 11 месяцев назад +718

    I think its absolutely creepy that any guardian would think that showing their kid sleeping online publically is ok. I am sure many questionable members of society are giving them their views (gross)

    • @Shae_Sandybanks
      @Shae_Sandybanks 11 месяцев назад +48

      Yeh for real. So creepy

    • @squizzyicetea
      @squizzyicetea 11 месяцев назад +66

      I've been looking for this comment, and wondering why it's so far down.
      The things that social media has normalized is gross

    • @elisaseverns2543
      @elisaseverns2543 11 месяцев назад +26

      I thought the same thing. Not a good idea to be showing personal space at their age.

    • @mirrrstery
      @mirrrstery 11 месяцев назад +18

      10000% accurate

    • @booterfly6367
      @booterfly6367 11 месяцев назад +21

      Thinking the same thing, like, for the majority, it's cute when it's like on a private facebook "look how sweet, my baby likes snuggles" but it's not worth exposing a minor in that vulnerable way on a VERY public platform

  • @aleey_yo
    @aleey_yo 11 месяцев назад +127

    The SZA situation hurts my heart and is literally the reason why I have never wanted fame, she's still a human being who doesn't deserve to feel awful about something that she's spoken out about. She had every right to stick up for herself and make it a teachable moment for this young person who clearly was too entitled and didn't understand that there were consequences for actions.

  • @aspry91
    @aspry91 9 месяцев назад +8

    Apparently, there are many people who were never taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, then say nothing at all. One simple rule that could save so many people from embarrassment.

  • @NSUDemon14
    @NSUDemon14 11 месяцев назад +309

    One of the things I’m teaching my kids is “If someone doesn’t like what you’re doing or they tell you to stop, you stop. It’s called consent.”
    SZA stated a boundary. If this girl was a true fan, she’d say something along the lines of, “You’re right. I’m sorry. I’ll stop” instead of giving excuses.

    • @kotorisama3080
      @kotorisama3080 11 месяцев назад +15

      Ahhh but then she’d be mature and responsible but most importantly she wouldn’t be able to make a video to gloat about it

  • @Liv_G
    @Liv_G 11 месяцев назад +78

    Nah that first drama was ridiculous. If they are taking all that time to edit then they can give that other girl credit or even ask for permission!!!

  • @EmoiGosu
    @EmoiGosu 2 месяца назад +1

    People think that celebrities or people they see through screens are “not real enough” and think they have the right to say whatever they want. It’s so unbelievably sad that they think they are absolved of all responsibility because it’s “just the internet”. What you say weather it’s through a screen or to someone’s face can hurt, especially when it happens frequently. Everyone boomers gen z whatever needs to grow up and start realizing that no one should be disrespected unless they have done something to actually earn loss of respect.

  • @jbilotta
    @jbilotta 11 месяцев назад +180

    Apparently, that girl who called that singer whack is completely out of touch with human behavior

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo 11 месяцев назад +17

      And since she's a bully, I'll say her make up is not doing her any favors.

  • @MaryAlexMayo
    @MaryAlexMayo 11 месяцев назад +88

    Sza wasn’t messaging because the girl did or didn’t like her, Sza was starting a conversation to help the girl learn why what she did wasn’t cool or funny. The girl then saw it like a lecture and tried to shrug off the accountability lesson by, ya know, not being willing to be accountable at all. Her then using excuses about age difference, it’s just a meme, Sza’s famous so she should expect it are all accountability dodging stock excuses and prove how much she should actually go back and really read and learn from what Sza was taking the time to teach her.

  • @aaliyah6464
    @aaliyah6464 11 месяцев назад +4

    18:56 well its not matt rife cause he likes older women

  • @MAG9212
    @MAG9212 11 месяцев назад +83

    Wild for a child to tell someone to regulate their emotions when they obviously haven’t even been through situations that would cause them to feel that way. Bc if she did she’d have more empathy for her and not even say mean things to anyone regardless of social status. It’s giving ✨entitled✨

  • @skystruck236
    @skystruck236 11 месяцев назад +5

    She was so sweet when she was excited she thought she had a twin! That was sweet, that girl is so bubbly and a ray of sunshine we like her

  • @persaunna
    @persaunna 11 месяцев назад +3

    Giving the whole gaslight of "it was just a joke; why are you mad" after a boundary has been crossed and there's an actual consequence. The entitlement.

  • @kingsofguyana
    @kingsofguyana 11 месяцев назад +72

    Imagine having to fight to be seen as a real person, that’s crazy. I feel bad for SZA in the situation. That girl needs to learn some humility and empathy.

  • @S0il1
    @S0il1 11 месяцев назад +20

    17:07 my vid keeps freezing what

  • @Hypnoticeagle
    @Hypnoticeagle 5 месяцев назад

    Haha I didn’t understand the video freezing comment till I got to that point! Hahahaha the frozen face is perfect! I thought it was intentional

  • @nikitatavernitilitvynova
    @nikitatavernitilitvynova 11 месяцев назад +161

    Drama Kween said it best over here on RUclips. She gaslit SZA into letting her actions slide. What she did is despicable.

  • @DanielSelk
    @DanielSelk 11 месяцев назад +68

    I will never understand "fans" who say bad things "as a joke" and can't understand why they get called out for it even one second.

  • @ToeBeanCozy
    @ToeBeanCozy 11 месяцев назад

    Imagine trash talking someone during an event you PAID TO SEE. Madness

  • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
    @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes 11 месяцев назад +59

    Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
    Something weird going on with the video...
    Hey kids, there's a thing called consequences. Just because you're 15, doesn't mean you won't face consequences.

  • @savannahvicenti3068
    @savannahvicenti3068 11 месяцев назад +86

    No, the power in balance would be if she screenshot your messages and post them on her Instagram and told everybody your user handle and your shit got blown up. But instead she decided to DM you like person to person so I feel like you’re extremely lucky. #ThatShitIsOverParty.

    • @luludee1300
      @luludee1300 11 месяцев назад +15

      Right! I was like, "power imbalance?? Girl, what? 🤨"

    • @savannahvicenti3068
      @savannahvicenti3068 11 месяцев назад +9

      You can tell that her parents told her that everything against her growing up was an imbalance or injustice.
      And I think it’s funny how she decided to pick on SZA when we all know that there are many other artists who would have roasted her so hard if she would’ve deleted her socials.

    • @idkifimokay_7817
      @idkifimokay_7817 11 месяцев назад +3

      She actually commented on her post.

    • @savannahvicenti3068
      @savannahvicenti3068 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@idkifimokay_7817 I know sweetie I watched the same video you did.
      I mean, if she’s a screenshot of the responses and sent her many fans to attack the person who did the “SZA Wack”

    • @idkifimokay_7817
      @idkifimokay_7817 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@savannahvicenti3068 Don’t be condescending to me, sweaty.
      I wasn't retorting your opinion, I was just adding to it.

  • @BeccaHetrick
    @BeccaHetrick 11 месяцев назад +3

    Did anyone else's phone freeze for like 30 seconds? Or is the dead zone in my bathroom acting up again?

  • @slsthewriter1299
    @slsthewriter1299 11 месяцев назад +63

    Genuinely, I think part of the reason why kids are so cruel online nowadays is because…this is how they always had been, behind an adult's back. It's just getting aired out, and instead of just classmates, anybody online can be subject to it.
    Of course now there's enough people to encourage it, so there's another level of making it ten times worse, but I don't believe for a second that it's *just* the internet is making them bad. It's…exposing what has been there, and the exacerbating it.

    • @tylaquiljones
      @tylaquiljones 11 месяцев назад +8

      Agreed. It isn't all kids but it's a lot of them. I got bullied so much in grade school and middle school that I can sympathize a bit with kids that want to hurt the kids that hurt them...the only thing stopping me was empathy for all the kids that weren't mean. A lot of kids are awful, and adults ignore how much of an impact bullying has on its victims.

    • @tiryaclearsong421
      @tiryaclearsong421 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah. There is a reason you can't diagnose personality disorders before a certain age. Kids develop empathy very slowly and the preteen and teen years are very important in that process.

    • @slsthewriter1299
      @slsthewriter1299 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@tiryaclearsong421 Now I don't really believe that notion on empathy. For one, kids can and are usually the most empathetic individuals out there. Empathy is an emotion. To a point, you either have it or you don't, even as a kid, because a lot of it hinges on your relationship with emotions to begin with. And as a kid, if there wasn't a lot of trauma to damage that relationship with emotions, that would give more room for empathy because that relationship is stable.
      Now, with sympathy, I can see that argument holding up well, since that's more of a reasoning/logical way of expressing concern, often because there's a distance between the people, from experiences, attachment, etc. That is something you'd have to learn.
      Anyway, the primary reason why people usually don't diagnose personality disorders in kids is because their behavior can be indicative of a lot of things, and because they're younger, there isn't that much history to discern a pattern of behavior in personality. Also, personality disorders tend to be hard-baked into the person. Given it's a disorder of the personality. With someone so young, however, there is the potential to rectify any damage done and help alleviate the symptoms to the point it isn't considered a personality disorder.
      And I'm saying this as someone who is emotionally blind, so my empathy is limited as a result, with both a family and personal history with BPD, so I'm not talking out my ass. Also not just ranting for the hell of it. Lol. It's just stuff I'm interested in as well.

    • @kathrynsmith2114
      @kathrynsmith2114 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@slsthewriter1299 Most disorders are rarely diagnosable in people under the age of 18-25 because the adolescent brain basically is capable of reproducing every single disorder in the DSM V without being a permanent state, and probably will reproduce several. It's an emotionally volatile time. Empathy is not an emotion itself, it's the ability to understand and relate to the emotions of others; when your brain is all over the place and you don't understand your own feelings, it's a lot harder to empathize with others. That's why some extremely empathic children wind up seeming to lose that empathy during adolescence, but then once they're fully adult, seem to miraculously regain it. This is the explanation given both by my developmental psych course and my brother, who is a clinical mental health counselor with several adolescent clients.
      In a more colloquial way, I'd describe it as "hormonal flooding turns kids into monsters." It can happen to adults with hormonal difficulties, too; I tried progestin birth control, and as my mother described, I became "a ball of apathy punctuated by flashes of insane fury." I got off the progestin, and within three days was a reasonable human being again.
      You are definitely right that this isn't something that's only just started happening because of the Internet, though. It's been going on for as long as human beings have been. Still, we need to call it out when we see it happening, because you can't learn to not do it if nobody ever lets you know that you're doing it and it's wrong.

    • @slsthewriter1299
      @slsthewriter1299 9 месяцев назад

      @@kathrynsmith2114 With the point of empathy, I'm going to maintain that it is, in itself, an emotion. Hence why apathy, it's reverse, is generally attributed to indifference. And the mechanism behind both is whether you feel it, or you don't. The asterisk to that is more that you could still be physically feeling empathy towards another person, but there's other contributing factors that get in the way. Regardless, a lack of empathy explains why people, like psychopaths, are the way they are. The legitimately do not understand caring for people, because they legitimately do not feel that. Likewise, they can understand the logic behind why you should feel bad, given that's where sympathy lies.
      With the disorder thing, I still doubt it, because that's not…an actual reason? What you're referencing is a hormonal thing. That can happen to anyone, including adults. For instance, after severe trauma to the body where it's hormonally altered, and different behaviors are perpetuated. Or, substances. From experience, the primary reason why seems to cumulate from 1) a denial towards mental health, 2) teenagers are still very young. There isn't as much history there to reference for a disorder since most disorders are dictated by the observation of behaviors for an extended period of time. Which. Fair. But in those with, say, personality disorders, those signs were always there. And in diagnosis, the professionals usually do a deep introspection with their patient into their childhoods, and they do so for a reason.
      And then there's just stigma. You say disorders are rarely diagnosable under 18-25, yet people are diagnosed with all kinds of anxiety and/or depressive-based disorders, or autism, or ADHD, very young. (Some of them misdiagnosed because…people also just like throwing medication at a problem, but that is a different tangent.) Big reason why is those disorders are more widely "accepted", and they're trendy. As opposed to things like, say, BPD. So, honestly, just as much as there's good reasons for disorders to be diagnosed later on, there's just as many bad. People want to diagnose their kid in school with ADHD to throw medication at the problem. People don't want to deal with a "BPD" kid, so that kid, as an adult, has to go out to find help on their own.

  • @battlecat6766
    @battlecat6766 11 месяцев назад +56

    personally I love it when they get carried away and brag about their 'edgy' and toxic traits as it help me identify who I want to avoid 😆

  • @katastrofekatrine
    @katastrofekatrine 11 месяцев назад

    Not me checking multiple times if my landlord was messing with the wifi again to make it reach to his garage where he hosts "manly grill nights" next to his vintage car. 😆

  • @JacobWloch
    @JacobWloch 11 месяцев назад +27

    "It's just a joke" one of the most commonly used manipulative sayings used by people to bring down someone's confidence

  • @ameleiizane
    @ameleiizane 11 месяцев назад +44

    Sza was being nice and trying to teach that Mimi how to act. The problem is she was raised by the internet and just wanted to gain followers from the fact that someone famous DM’d her. She did not learn one thing from this and was rewarded with exactly what she wasn’t. I can’t with these people.

  • @Asset80
    @Asset80 11 месяцев назад +3

    THE AUDACITY!!!!!!!! The privilege.... the lack of accountability. Don't harass your idols. 11:50

  • @taylorjorgenson7230
    @taylorjorgenson7230 11 месяцев назад +11

    Good afternoon Charlotte, I'm happy to say that I found a way to cope with my panic disorder. I found out that whistling is at this point is calming me down with tremendous effect. I haven't had a panic attack in 10 days. Before that I was having a panic attack at least once a week for over 2 years. I'm also volunteering at Brave Hearts every week now, because of how much they've helped me, and to keep me on track to getting back to a paying job. It will still be a long road, yet I'm seeing a faint light of hope at the end of a very long tunnel. Thank you so much for your continued help to this very grateful veteran

    • @shinesunred9699
      @shinesunred9699 11 месяцев назад +2

      Good for you! I´m proud of you💖

  • @katcaparula7898
    @katcaparula7898 11 месяцев назад +55

    Another day, another Charlotte. Let's do this.
    That girl is not a fan let's stop calling her a fan she's a troll.

    • @Aliyluv
      @Aliyluv 11 месяцев назад +7

      Right!!! Thank you!

  • @RabidSnarf
    @RabidSnarf 11 месяцев назад

    I'm old and senile. I've never seen SZA before. She is STUNNINGLY BEAUTIFUL and has such a good vibe. I'm going to listen to her stuff now!

  • @bnuernb777
    @bnuernb777 11 месяцев назад +110

    I don’t know SZA, but worked with this generation for the last decade or so as an educator. Most do not understand any consequences for their behavior and have been absolved of blame their entire life by their parents. It’s not shocking that this girl sees herself as the victim as opposed to the problem. Nothing has probably ever been her fault.

    • @KjoRoRN
      @KjoRoRN 11 месяцев назад +12

      I work in juvenile and adult corrections (nurse not an officer) and I bought a sign for our infirmary that says “you are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice” because that sums up so much.

    • @kathrynsmith2114
      @kathrynsmith2114 9 месяцев назад +2

      Given that complaints of this nature literally date back to ARISTOTLE, I don't think it's just "for the last decade," it's more a phase a lot of children go through before they learn to be decent people. Lord knows, I look back at the person I was at that age and want to reach back through time and slap myself silly.

  • @ashlynnecarpenter5688
    @ashlynnecarpenter5688 3 месяца назад

    The girl talking about SZA is giving..."OMG everyone is always hitting on me!!!"

  • @mbourque
    @mbourque 11 месяцев назад +61

    12:35
    this is a prime example of the "Mean Girls" trashing someone then going "why are you being so mean to us" once the person they trashed comes back at them...

  • @caljones
    @caljones 11 месяцев назад +15

    SOMEONE NEEDS TO MAKE POTATO STICKERS!!! I was hoping the last one was “we knew you needed some space” 🤣

    • @StrangeQuack
      @StrangeQuack 11 месяцев назад +2

      🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔

  • @lorenamvasquez8360
    @lorenamvasquez8360 11 месяцев назад

    being human and giving wisdom to help someone grow is not bias. NO accountability , self awareness , and borderline DELULU.

  • @angel_t3338
    @angel_t3338 11 месяцев назад +15

    In the case of Sza, not enough parents are teaching their children that Actions have Consequences. If minors are going to act like adults, bully adults, talk to adults then you are going to receive the same in return.

  • @Fireprincess161
    @Fireprincess161 11 месяцев назад +41

    The girls reaction in being excited about someone looking like her is so cute! I love her energy.

  • @Dhicks_Twitch
    @Dhicks_Twitch 9 месяцев назад

    Sza obviously said that to her because she was a fan, she doesn’t address the haters but she would like her fans not to make jokes like that. It’s literally that simple

  • @Cherurei1109
    @Cherurei1109 11 месяцев назад +37

    Yeah, I definitely think that little girl is in the wrong. People tend to forget that popular artists, influencers, actors… everyone is human! How would you feel if someone was saying that to you? What about if it’s hundreds of thousands of strangers saying that to you??
    There’s this thing called common decency.. they might need to learn it.

  • @April_2007
    @April_2007 11 месяцев назад +29

    Too many men know the age of consent but not what consent is. On scout camp told the 17 nearly 18 year old trying to flirt/stalk me I told him I’m 15 and had a boyfriend didn’t care, took our Scout leader telling him to back off before he got the hint

  • @piratsnygg
    @piratsnygg 6 месяцев назад +1

    "Then she dm'd me like ten times." Girl, look at the paragraph you just wrote! 😂 Her messages weren't even half of that wall of text. 18 is way to old not to know better. People wanna bash on millenials, but at least we never used the "I'm just a teenager" exuse when called out.
    Edit: Oh, and "the punctuation", while writing like THAT?! LMAOOO

  • @herpdyderpp
    @herpdyderpp 11 месяцев назад +19

    Charlotte,
    If the individual(s) are old enough to write an essay, which they are, then they're old enough to know about siting sources and the *punishment of plagiarism*

  • @bluemoonslightASMR
    @bluemoonslightASMR 11 месяцев назад +8

    This is why I keep my comments civil and social media presence to nil. I don’t understand the need for attention but then again I’m an old millennial lol 😂 I’ll be invisible and laugh at Charlotte’s jokes. Makes my day thanks for posting darling!

  • @na_dai
    @na_dai 11 месяцев назад

    Age has nothing to do with it, a bully is a bully. SZA is a human being who has feelings and doesn’t deserve to be treated that way

  • @rebeccaerazo825
    @rebeccaerazo825 11 месяцев назад +32

    It’s interesting how the younger generation (not everyone obviously) is often offended by literally EVERYTHING but then when someone has feelings in regards to their actions or words it somehow isn’t okay.

    • @emilypeterson1133
      @emilypeterson1133 11 месяцев назад +4

      There’s a lot of people in all generations like this. My boomer mom is offended by everything.

  • @MizMima
    @MizMima 11 месяцев назад +29

    Definitely with you on the Sza situation. That girl was entitled and rude. Sza however, was graceful, mature and extremely patient with her.

  • @jammiejoy7143
    @jammiejoy7143 2 месяца назад

    The girl locked in the room!! What did her boss say?? I have to know! "Why didnt you just-" 😮 JUST WHAT?!

  • @ellenkarlsson9490
    @ellenkarlsson9490 11 месяцев назад +10

    That the SZA girl thought that her bullying would be excused because she's "only 18" is something else. Girl, you're 18, *you're an adult!*

  • @dylanaxel2723
    @dylanaxel2723 11 месяцев назад +11

    Anyone else get that weird glitch at 15:30 or was it just me? Regardless this video had me in my nosy era, drama is fun to watch unfold from the outside