The girl with the Sza situation…her delight in getting attention and having a conversation with Sza (that she could share for clout) over powered her already struggling sense of humanity. Sza was correct that the girl lacked empathy. She was also devoid of maturity and character. It was cringey watching her deflect and avoid taking accountability for her actions. The gaslighting and stuff was bonkers. Why do so many people advertise their personality disorders.
This is exactly it, these people are not just immature, they’re disordered. Cluster B Personality Disorder paired with Autism Spectrum Disorder/Terminally on line, equals these kinds of people. They are the only “real” people in the world, everyone else is an NPC to mistreat, and deny basic human status too.
That was ridiculous. If she wanted clout she had a chance to apologize to sza and make a video explaining how the meme is hurtful and promoting its end. Instead she gaslighted sza and told her to just deal with it because other people are probably going to do it too. A lot of growing up to do.
Yessss! to they advertise their personality disorders. So many of these stars develop it/born with it. Obviously they are the brand so they can overtime get stuck up which is environmental, but these kids are being born with disorders and uninvolved/ or un knowledgeable parents are watching these stars and learning/being normalized acting like the spoiled main character. They develop rude personalities and to a lot of ppl clout=money. They are the main character and will gaslight to protect their imaginary “brand”, some are forgetting to have empathy for others. They get so delusional it can be hard for them to see until they meet someone worse. That’s why it’s getting worse.
Imagine claiming to be a fan of someone, posting hurtful content about them, them reaching out to share how it made them feel, and instead of acting like a fan you criticize their feelings and post it for social media clout. Miss Charlotte you are NTA, this kid is.
Fr. The entitled behavior of Americans is getting out of hand. The bombastic audacity of some people just leaves me gob smacked. If I wasn’t 40 and too grown for fighting, I’d punch some people in their foreheads, IstG. That’s why I live in the middle of nowhere. So I don’t have to interact with no one. It’s too peopley outside.
There seems to be a new trend for young people to crap all over or be hateful to the people they're fans of. I don't get it and don't see how you disrespect the people you like or are fans of. Like the throwing things at concerts you paid to be at. Like wtf
@@vikkilooper4075 yeah, the same trash behavior at concerts and towards their idols is the same way they treat their friends and family. I’ve seen a few of my friends teen kids being super entitled, disrespectful, manipulative, and gaslighting towards the people they say they love. It’s literally CRAZY trash ass behavior. Edit: it’s honestly ALLL of the red flags.
I am a teacher at a middle school and when a student is in the wrong and we are having an argument they will say, "why are you arguing with a child?" It grinds my gears. They are aware their age protects them from almost all consequences.
Personally, I think if someone can articulate something like that, they are old enough to know better. Stuff like that is one of many reasons I dislike being around kids.
“Because I respected you enough to try to have a conversation instead of just shutting you down because you’re a child.” Honestly, I hated because I say so as the end all be all when I was growing up because “I don’t argue with children” was the attitude then. They should be glad adults take the time to have a disagreement now vs just shutting them down.
The sza drama was crazy, she literally gaslit her and was like “take a chill pill”. I despise people that turn around and act like something they did wasn’t a big deal because someone had a reaction to it.
Kinda like the dude who "pranked" their (now ex) fiance who had lost her first love in a horrid way by pretending to be dead and covered in blood on the kitchen floor.. on their anniversary.
the only time i say “ur arguing with a child rn.” is if they’re being childish and are completely ignoring me. “ur arguing with a child, and the child is being more mature” is a much better response, imo. i personally opt for “you’re being immature and trying to mock a child. you’re an adult, have a normal conversation like one.”
If you're saying you're too young for consequences, you're also admitting to being too young to be on social media unsupervised 💅🏽 This girl is really telling on herself here, letting the world know she can't act right without a grown-up
SZA’s better than I am. I’d have told that little child to f*** off! If lil girl is old enough to listen to the music, but tickets to the show and get online to smack talk? She’s old enough to be told to shut up!!
Also like ok great she made a comment to SZA who doesn’t know her etc but what if she made a comment to the WRONG person and got worse consequences than just being told off in her DMS
I feel like if You Say You are too young for consequences... You know what You are Doing, like if You are self concious enough to understand your age and your level of maturity You understand what You are Doing, You understand your actions have consequences and You are making concious decisions, it's a weird excuse.
One tip for those who have someone who says “why are you arguing with a minor”, learned this from a classmate, perfect response: “Cause I wanted to respect you, not dismiss you like a child. If you wanna be treated like a child, keep acting like this, and you will.”
Nah the girl in the Sza situation was weird. She was clearly pleased about being noticed even in a negative light. And the fact that she's still talking about it and the way she talks about it shows she doesn't think she did anything wrong. For someone who paid $350 for a ticket, you would think she'd be a better "fan" and understand where Sza is coming from. Where is the basic decency and empathy? Sza took the time to explain things to her calmly and with respect. Did Sza have to keep going? No. But she's human.
I found it funny how the fan couldn't understand why Sza dm'ed her and not people who hate her. But why would you dm someone who openly dislikes you? You aren't going to change their mind. Thinking that messaging your fan would have an positive impact is much more logical because they like you and would probably also want you to like them. Like I personally would have guessed that getting a message from a person you like or admire would get you to rethink your actions. If they are active in the fan community it might even promote healthy self-policing of also informing others of "She is uncomfortable with that and has asked fans not to do that. She sees this stuff and has even asked some fans personally to stop." My logic would also be that you would be more likely to message someone younger that their actions/words are hurtful or inappropriate, because we are more forgiving of teens and think that the cause of the action is ignorance. Whereas with clear adults we (often incorrectly) assume that they know and the hurt was intended.
@@goddessjennifer3254nah, someone who would victimize a child deserves a fate worse than prison. And fortunately for society, the other inmates recognize that.
Most age of consent was meant for teenagers who are in a relationship, but is parroted by older people, usually men, who want abuse the notion, among other things.
I fully support sza in this. She was super respectful in her messages and wasn’t attacking this girl at all she was just telling her how it made her feel and I actually felt bad for sza when this happened
Sza was graceful in her interaction with the 16 year old girl . "I'm so young" card does not work if you are the one who instigated it . Actions have consequences and realising that I think is a part of growing up . Edit :- the girl is 18 , not 16 .
I'd never heard of Sza until just now, but she seems lovely and mature. She wasn't stalking the fan who dissed her, she was trying to give her a lesson in how to be a good person. I've got a bone to pick with the guy who insinuated that all "boomers" are hateful to young people and we are all entitled Karens. That's just not true.
The way that teen felt so confident about her take on the SZA interaction... Her lack of empathy and entitlement will live on the internet forever. Future partners employers will all be able to know just how well she treats the people she claims she likes... Congrats to her for getting the attention she so desperately wanted.
This is why I have no issue clapping back at kids. We need to stop protecting them when they do shitty behaviour and show them the consequences of their actions. Don't dish what you can't take. Your age doesn't absolve you. I had a younger cousin when I was in my early 20s that used to make fun of my weight. I ignored it at first but then got tired of it because he wouldn't stop and his mom would be like, "Well, he's just a kiiidddddd." I'm sorry, but when I was his age (he was 10), I knew that kind of behaviour was wrong because my mother taught me. So I clapped back, roasted his big ass ears, roasted his braces, roasted the fact that he still slept with a night light (in front of his friends), so on and so forth. He started crying and ran off to find his mom. My aunt got mad at me but I said, "Maybe if you held him accountable instead of excusing his behaviour, he'd not be a little shithead." (Which caused him to cry harder btw) He never did it again and stopped the behaviour in general from what I know. Over a decade later, he apologised to me and said that my words caused him a lot of insecurity for years. I told him that I wasn't sorry and that it was a teachable moment for him to consider his words/actions towards others.
It used to be you could expect any adult to correct bad behavior. However, as a human in this world who has a child, I trust humanity less and less to do so well 😂😂
This is why as a preschool teacher I perform discipline to my children in my care to teach them right from wrong. I make them learn that there are consequences to their actions. Most parents in my service are wonderful but I will meet some occasional ones that are…not so friendly. These are families who either don’t care or listen no matter what I tell them or they only find reasons to complain (never a compliment or feedback, just all they do is complain). Mind you, I’m also a parent to a child with autism and I have to also work hard to teach him the ways of the world and to help build his resilience and independence. I HATE it when people say that kids will be kids because kids CAN learn and they should be accountable for their actions no matter their age.
That butthurt teenager is so…ugh. “Oh, SZA went crazy on me! She sent ten texts in a row!” Totally glossing over the absolute books that she wrote in her texts. Honey, you were engaging on a very verbose level. So SZA responded in turn. That could have all been over if you just said “I’m sorry. I didn’t think about you seeing it how it would make you feel.” No, instead you doubled down by calling her old and insisting she has no right to her feelings because she’s famous.
I personally thought Sza was a very kind person for not telling the girl where to go and how to get there🤣 Plus Sza could have busted her on social media but did it privately so as not to embarrass or humiliate her bully, which not only shows class, but sympathy and empathy too.
And then had to nerve to call sza's replies rude? Like girl, where? And commented on the punctuation, ugh. Yes, the extra space is annoying but did homegirl not read her own novellas and see that punctuation?
I think that Sza took the time and tried to explain her issues to a random girl without a large social media presence is huge. In my eyes Sza tried to have an honest conversation...
Here’s the thing…Being young doesn’t excuse you from getting in trouble or facing consequences of your actions. If you cheat on your homework and get in trouble for it, you can’t say “but I’m young” and it just be fine. You made a decision on your own volition and now you have to suffer the consequences.
Exactly! And she isn't that young. She is 18. She should know better. She is lucky that Sza didn't call her out publically because then she would have been really facing the consequences of her actions.
I find it funny that theyre literally paying the money for her concerts to do this. Sza is definitely winning on this one. Celebrities are real people too peeps! Respect
I don't care for or listen to Sza, but she was 100% in the right. The girl literally said she revived the whole thing, so that could be the reason she contacted her specifically and not someone else. Plus, it doesn't matter your age. If you're going to bully, don't get upset if you get called out. Also, she can't claim to be a fan and then continue to bash her just to get views.
to anyone wondering what the girl in the last video said after she got out, her boss said "why didn't you just turn the lock and pull?" and she said (to the viewers) "i'd been at work for 12 hours and my will to live was pretty low, so i just kinda gave up" before it picks up at "thank you all for being so concerned"
Well, the main door latch may still be engaged even if you unlock and pull the deadbolt, but she would just have to slide something between the door and frame to release that (e.g. a credit card, cardboard from one of the boxes, wire, etc. - she was in a storeroom full of useful items...to include the chocolate).
Sza seems like a really nice person. I work down the street from the high school she went to and she recently bought pizza for the whole entire school when she was in the area visiting. I don't think I even know her music but I thought that was so sweet that she did that for the kids.
The scary thing about that teenager and the SZA thing is, if she’s treating people she doesn’t know that “she is a fan” of that way. Imagine how she treats the people she actually cares about! Her behaviour was unacceptable and gross but her response was despicable. She’s basically trying to absolve herself of any wrong doing by victim blaming . It’s scary that she honestly has no idea how wrong she is !!!
@@Haileyhardinn you can’t be serious !!! 🧐 why would I say that SZA is in the wrong ? I’m quite clearly talking about the teenager lacking empathy and social skills.
The girl was a jerk. SZA had a right to get her feelings hurt & reach out to the girl. But she should've stopped it there & just blocked her instead of going back and forth with her. When you're famous enough to have 17 million followers & win awards & have thousands of people pay to see you in concert, you have to develop a thick skin because there are always going to be jerks saying things about you. If you get that upset by things that are posted about you, get an assistant to go through your mentions for you & get rid of the ones that are hurtful. Maybe get some therapy so you can learn to let that stuff roll off your back. Yes, you're human but you're also rich & famous & powerful so just say fuck y'all to the haters & spend your time interacting with the people who love you.
About the whole teenage girl and SZA thing: As a young adult myself, I can tell you we're not all like that. Some of our parents actually raised us with common sense, accountability, and respect. Girls like that are, as we all know the stereotype, very insecure projectors. I can absolutely promise that I was bullied by girls with that same mindset of "oh, get over it" or "I didn't actually think I'd get caught" my whole life.
Exactly... And she isn't that young. She is 18. Way too old to be acting like that. She is really lucky that Sza didn't respond publicly, which she had every right to do since she had tagged her in her post. Then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.
As a 32 year old woman, I'm gonna let you know we don't see you all the same. I know there are plenty of good empathetic young people out there. I hope you get past the bullies and don't let them bring you down. You seem like a good person.
I can’t believe how lovely Sza was in taking the time to message with her and thank her for coming to the show. On top of that, she actually shared something that’s pretty personal, saying how this trend caused her so much anxiety and self doubt that she found it hard to do shows and that it hurt her feelings that the girl posted that. If this woman was actually a fan as she kept saying she was, then the normal response to that would be to feel awful that you made her feel bad and apologise profusely before taking it down. I would likely also feel a bit star struck that someone that famous was taking the time to message me and speak to me in what was a more friendly way than she deserved. Instead of being that way, this moron doubled down and argued the point constantly and THEN went and described these very kind messages as “personal hate DMs”. There was no hate there at all - she called her love, she did thank her for coming to the show despite the idiot saying that she hadn’t and she was very human in sharing her feelings, which she didn’t have to do to a stranger. Instead of feeling bad, this girl decided to play the victim and act as if she hadn’t done anything wrong, because she is “only 18”. 18 is an adult so what is the point she’s making? She’s not a 5 year old child, unable to be responsible for her own actions. I hate the way that we seem to act as if 18 year olds are still children who need pandering to - they aren’t, they are fully grown adults. Yes we keep growing through our entire adult life, but we are still adults at 18 and need to accept the consequences of our actions. I had my first child at that age and lived alone from home with nobody to pick up after me or treat me like a baby. It actually hurt me watching the video because Sza was being so real and honest and it was being thrown back in her face :-(. Of course it is a free world and if someone wants to do that, then legally you can’t stop them posting it, but just simple human decency would make you feel bad for hurting someone if you didn’t intend to and especially if you’re supposedly a fan of that person.
Right?? That was incredibly vulnerable of Sza to admit all that, and I'm sure it made her feel absolutely horrible to get the type of response that she did from that girl. 😭
Apparently "hate" to this child means "daring to disagree with me." That she's still doing that at 18 speaks quite poorly of her character. My mother was smacking me down for that--verbally and appropriately--when I WAS just five years old, because how else was I going to learn to self-regulate that? I don't know that "hurt" was what I felt watching the video, personally. "Contempt" would be a lot closer, and for the same reasons as you. That set of DMs was so genuine and honest and kind, and this little brat responded like an emotional abuser and bully!
no im definitely with you girl. sza has every right to snap in that situation, and that girl with the eyeliners just forgot how to be a HUMAN BEING and take responsibility for her actions. she said there are millions of ppl tagging her and how she was so innocent cuz she was the one get picked on, but like, that doesnt justify her actions. apparently people get mad when get treated the way they treated people.
“Why are you coming after me instead of someone who really hates you instead of a fan like me?” How is Sza supposed to tell you are actually a fan if you post things like that? How can she possibly tell that you are really a “fan”?
It's a red flag when people have "It was just a joke" ready in their back pocket after they do something mean/racist/sexist etc. and they don't get the response they wanted from other people.
One of my favourite line from a Bridgerton fan fic which was said by Lady Danbury to Miss Edwina: "It is unwise to demand the respect of being an adult... when you expect the privileges of being a child." From 'A Promise Made In Haste' by Waterlily Rose on AO3 This line is for all those teens who think they shouldn't face consequences. ❤️🐝🌷
The entitlement and being a victim. As typical bully that pull the victim when confronted. Sza has style and grace in the face of this brat. She's a brat. Her parents have failed society.
Lmfao nah Sza is doing the most like is she going to go after everyone who makes fun/jokes about her??? You don't see others who have actual style and grace do this or even entertain childish shit like this 💀
@@W.E.M.Lpeople get hurt when they're bullied. Stop making excuses for shitty people. She's old enough to know better. Sza may have pushed it a little too much but she had every right to say something when it hurt her. The world is quite fucked when people like you shit on the victim for speaking up when they're being bullied.
@@W.E.M.LShe has a right to defend herself. The grace comes in the calmness and respect she spoke to this girl with when explaining why it wasnt okay. This girl threw it in her face further by posting the interaction online for clout. The only thing childish is this CHILD
Apparently, there are many people who were never taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, then say nothing at all. One simple rule that could save so many people from embarrassment.
One of the things I’m teaching my kids is “If someone doesn’t like what you’re doing or they tell you to stop, you stop. It’s called consent.” SZA stated a boundary. If this girl was a true fan, she’d say something along the lines of, “You’re right. I’m sorry. I’ll stop” instead of giving excuses.
“Power imbalance” ??? She is acting like a victim. She didn’t really show all of her power. She told she was hurt in a nice human way possible and this girl still keeps acting like a 🤡. How about say “I’m sorry” ?? If someone said that to her, then only she could understand how it feels. It’s not just one person. Countless people.
Yes, she’s parroting a term that isn’t applicable to the situation to try and act the victim. The power imbalance would only be relevant if she were using it against the girl but all she has done is share her hurt feelings.
Exactly. Sza had every right to reply with a public post and really put that girl on blast, but she didn't. I almost wish she had, because then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.
The SZA situation hurts my heart and is literally the reason why I have never wanted fame, she's still a human being who doesn't deserve to feel awful about something that she's spoken out about. She had every right to stick up for herself and make it a teachable moment for this young person who clearly was too entitled and didn't understand that there were consequences for actions.
She’s not a real fan. Fans don’t throw shade or make jokes at someone else’s expense. Also, teenagers aren’t immune to being called out. At their age, they know what bullying behavior is. Good for Sza for calling this little twerp out.
SZA kept trying to get the creator to understand her position & yet she still wasn't getting it. She never did see that she'd done anything wrong. Good on SZA for trying, especially for as long as she did; I would've given up from frustration long before she did.
"Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it" Mike Tyson (I'm not violent but he has a point!)
I just wanted to express how much the first video clip resonated with me. My son and I run a lawn channel and we have recently discovered that someone has been stealing our content. This Channel not only took our entire content without giving us the credit, but is also posting almost all of our videos as if they were theirs. To make matters worse, they have blocked us from their channel and are trying to pass off our content as their own - even though we are the ones featured in the videos. It is extremely upsetting when we request them to take it down due to copyright infringement, yet they refuse to comply and continue to post our content. We have reported the channel, but nothing has changed as of yet. These instances make it clear how easy it is for unscrupulous individuals to steal and repost the content of hardworking creators.
Would it be too distracting to add a watermark saying "Video created by [channel name/handle]", appearing every now and then on the video, at spots in the picture where it'd be obvious if it was just blurred out? Such practises don't seem to be common on RUclips, but on other platforms I've seen even videos where a large logo of the creator is bouncing around the screen during the whole video. So apparently theft is a bigger problem on some other sites, so apparently RUclips is doing something more than them, but still not enough.
@@enginerd80 Excellent idea. A transparent watermark would work just fine. It would let the vid show through and still be impossible to blur without being obvious.
That kid who went after SZA is so much like the nasty little brat who bullied just about everyone in my year in high school. I bet she'll be exactly as underdeveloped as a person when she grows up. In my experience, people like that don't learn or grow.
@Mayawamaq If someone calmly tells you that what you said or did hurt them and explained why and you acted like this AH did, that makes you ....an AH. Maybe you should think on why you think this is okay.
@Mayawamaq How to say I have never grown passed a 13 year old in maturity, without saying I have never grown passed a 13 year old in maturity. And actually I know a lot of 13 year olds who have a lot more empathy and humanity than you.
The whole “you’re 15 years older than me why are you arguing with me?” Is actually like a thing my mother said a lot when I was younger and me and my age gap siblings got into fights so it comes from the parents
Wild for a child to tell someone to regulate their emotions when they obviously haven’t even been through situations that would cause them to feel that way. Bc if she did she’d have more empathy for her and not even say mean things to anyone regardless of social status. It’s giving ✨entitled✨
You’re not wrong about the Sza thing. Sza was sooo nice to her about it and talking to her like a reasonable person, explaining that it hurts her feelings. The girl literally could have said “omg I’m sorry I didn’t mean it at all, I love you, I thought it was just a meme. I’ll delete it now. I’m so sorry.” But instead, SHE decided to leave it up, delete szas comment, and escalate it. I feel for performers man. Social media has made fans feel so entitled to do whatever the fuck they want to their favorite performers and it’s frankly dystopian and gross. They are people too!
@Burger_pants Tf are you on? Literally no one said what you are suggesting. But you ARE responsible for someones feelings if you are actively doing things to hurt them. You are responsible for the response they have to YOUR actions. It isn't entitlement. Those are the consequences of your actions. It isn't a matter of "you need to change your life to cater to me". Its a matter of treat people how you would want to be treated. You just don't treat people like shit. Period. There's no excuse for it. It just makes you a garbage person. Actions, good or bad, will always have consequences. It is literally the most basic of life lessons that everyone understands regardless of age. Some people, like the girl doing the bullying and you apparently, just think that doesn't apply to them.
You are absolutely correct! They stole her ENTIRE room. There was no talk obout how she inspired them and credited her original idea what so ever. They probably learned this bad behavior from sssniperwolf because she does it to creators on a constant basis. She even cuts their names out from the original content and will sit there and not even comment about what she's watching..smh..😬
Not only that, but can we talk about how these are children just filming themselves sleeping and resting!! Like that’s so eerie. There’s so many creeps on that app that are probably loving their videos. What parents/ guardians would let their kids film this kind of stuff!!🫤
@@lovers123991 It's even MORE terrifying that they are literal *children* that did this! Like at first I thought they were teens or young adults, but then I saw the video showing how they stole the background - that's not something children normally do or can do very well
Giving the whole gaslight of "it was just a joke; why are you mad" after a boundary has been crossed and there's an actual consequence. The entitlement.
12:35 this is a prime example of the "Mean Girls" trashing someone then going "why are you being so mean to us" once the person they trashed comes back at them...
Sza wasn’t messaging because the girl did or didn’t like her, Sza was starting a conversation to help the girl learn why what she did wasn’t cool or funny. The girl then saw it like a lecture and tried to shrug off the accountability lesson by, ya know, not being willing to be accountable at all. Her then using excuses about age difference, it’s just a meme, Sza’s famous so she should expect it are all accountability dodging stock excuses and prove how much she should actually go back and really read and learn from what Sza was taking the time to teach her.
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Imagine having to fight to be seen as a real person, that’s crazy. I feel bad for SZA in the situation. That girl needs to learn some humility and empathy.
I'm a "boomer" and I take issue with people making nasty comments and assuming the worst about my generation. I always go out of my way to be kind and respectful to others. If someone deliberately disrespects me, then, yes, I will clap back! Remember, there are "Karens" in every age group and you don't have to be old to be a jerk...just ask any public school teacher.
Genuinely, I think part of the reason why kids are so cruel online nowadays is because…this is how they always had been, behind an adult's back. It's just getting aired out, and instead of just classmates, anybody online can be subject to it. Of course now there's enough people to encourage it, so there's another level of making it ten times worse, but I don't believe for a second that it's *just* the internet is making them bad. It's…exposing what has been there, and the exacerbating it.
Agreed. It isn't all kids but it's a lot of them. I got bullied so much in grade school and middle school that I can sympathize a bit with kids that want to hurt the kids that hurt them...the only thing stopping me was empathy for all the kids that weren't mean. A lot of kids are awful, and adults ignore how much of an impact bullying has on its victims.
Yeah. There is a reason you can't diagnose personality disorders before a certain age. Kids develop empathy very slowly and the preteen and teen years are very important in that process.
@@tiryaclearsong421 Now I don't really believe that notion on empathy. For one, kids can and are usually the most empathetic individuals out there. Empathy is an emotion. To a point, you either have it or you don't, even as a kid, because a lot of it hinges on your relationship with emotions to begin with. And as a kid, if there wasn't a lot of trauma to damage that relationship with emotions, that would give more room for empathy because that relationship is stable. Now, with sympathy, I can see that argument holding up well, since that's more of a reasoning/logical way of expressing concern, often because there's a distance between the people, from experiences, attachment, etc. That is something you'd have to learn. Anyway, the primary reason why people usually don't diagnose personality disorders in kids is because their behavior can be indicative of a lot of things, and because they're younger, there isn't that much history to discern a pattern of behavior in personality. Also, personality disorders tend to be hard-baked into the person. Given it's a disorder of the personality. With someone so young, however, there is the potential to rectify any damage done and help alleviate the symptoms to the point it isn't considered a personality disorder. And I'm saying this as someone who is emotionally blind, so my empathy is limited as a result, with both a family and personal history with BPD, so I'm not talking out my ass. Also not just ranting for the hell of it. Lol. It's just stuff I'm interested in as well.
@@slsthewriter1299 Most disorders are rarely diagnosable in people under the age of 18-25 because the adolescent brain basically is capable of reproducing every single disorder in the DSM V without being a permanent state, and probably will reproduce several. It's an emotionally volatile time. Empathy is not an emotion itself, it's the ability to understand and relate to the emotions of others; when your brain is all over the place and you don't understand your own feelings, it's a lot harder to empathize with others. That's why some extremely empathic children wind up seeming to lose that empathy during adolescence, but then once they're fully adult, seem to miraculously regain it. This is the explanation given both by my developmental psych course and my brother, who is a clinical mental health counselor with several adolescent clients. In a more colloquial way, I'd describe it as "hormonal flooding turns kids into monsters." It can happen to adults with hormonal difficulties, too; I tried progestin birth control, and as my mother described, I became "a ball of apathy punctuated by flashes of insane fury." I got off the progestin, and within three days was a reasonable human being again. You are definitely right that this isn't something that's only just started happening because of the Internet, though. It's been going on for as long as human beings have been. Still, we need to call it out when we see it happening, because you can't learn to not do it if nobody ever lets you know that you're doing it and it's wrong.
@@BullerSmithWedding2024 With the point of empathy, I'm going to maintain that it is, in itself, an emotion. Hence why apathy, it's reverse, is generally attributed to indifference. And the mechanism behind both is whether you feel it, or you don't. The asterisk to that is more that you could still be physically feeling empathy towards another person, but there's other contributing factors that get in the way. Regardless, a lack of empathy explains why people, like psychopaths, are the way they are. The legitimately do not understand caring for people, because they legitimately do not feel that. Likewise, they can understand the logic behind why you should feel bad, given that's where sympathy lies. With the disorder thing, I still doubt it, because that's not…an actual reason? What you're referencing is a hormonal thing. That can happen to anyone, including adults. For instance, after severe trauma to the body where it's hormonally altered, and different behaviors are perpetuated. Or, substances. From experience, the primary reason why seems to cumulate from 1) a denial towards mental health, 2) teenagers are still very young. There isn't as much history there to reference for a disorder since most disorders are dictated by the observation of behaviors for an extended period of time. Which. Fair. But in those with, say, personality disorders, those signs were always there. And in diagnosis, the professionals usually do a deep introspection with their patient into their childhoods, and they do so for a reason. And then there's just stigma. You say disorders are rarely diagnosable under 18-25, yet people are diagnosed with all kinds of anxiety and/or depressive-based disorders, or autism, or ADHD, very young. (Some of them misdiagnosed because…people also just like throwing medication at a problem, but that is a different tangent.) Big reason why is those disorders are more widely "accepted", and they're trendy. As opposed to things like, say, BPD. So, honestly, just as much as there's good reasons for disorders to be diagnosed later on, there's just as many bad. People want to diagnose their kid in school with ADHD to throw medication at the problem. People don't want to deal with a "BPD" kid, so that kid, as an adult, has to go out to find help on their own.
I was thinking the same thing. As a girl, I never even considered "What is the age of consent?" Why would I as a young girl need to know that information. A. If I was going to have sex, I would. B. No law tells me what to do with my own body. C. Age of consent is not a "reason to have sex".
But the guy in this story, didn't actually know the ages of consent. He was joking... it's pretty obvious from what she said about him and his responses. Some of u ppl are taking his crude jokes way too seriously. May not be funny to u, but we are also missing context.
@@rockinchik06wooooooooow what an interesting way to cover for a man you know nothing about. I like how most women hear "i know the age of consent in every state" as really concerning in and of itself, but people really be out here like "because he was wrong, it was a joke" not "because he was wrong it's EVEN MORE concerning".
@@lilycollegemythbusters5532I did learn the age of consent as a young girl because a lot of creepy men were hitting on me. So I would tell them how old I was and how many years in prison they would get if they had sex with me. Usually that would cause them to leave me alone.
Sza was being nice and trying to teach that Mimi how to act. The problem is she was raised by the internet and just wanted to gain followers from the fact that someone famous DM’d her. She did not learn one thing from this and was rewarded with exactly what she wasn’t. I can’t with these people.
I don’t know SZA, but worked with this generation for the last decade or so as an educator. Most do not understand any consequences for their behavior and have been absolved of blame their entire life by their parents. It’s not shocking that this girl sees herself as the victim as opposed to the problem. Nothing has probably ever been her fault.
I work in juvenile and adult corrections (nurse not an officer) and I bought a sign for our infirmary that says “you are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice” because that sums up so much.
Given that complaints of this nature literally date back to ARISTOTLE, I don't think it's just "for the last decade," it's more a phase a lot of children go through before they learn to be decent people. Lord knows, I look back at the person I was at that age and want to reach back through time and slap myself silly.
I think its absolutely creepy that any guardian would think that showing their kid sleeping online publically is ok. I am sure many questionable members of society are giving them their views (gross)
Thinking the same thing, like, for the majority, it's cute when it's like on a private facebook "look how sweet, my baby likes snuggles" but it's not worth exposing a minor in that vulnerable way on a VERY public platform
Charlotte gives us everyday the tea, the drama, the jokes and the funny reactions. We can't get better than her. She knows how to spoiled us. Charlotte FOREVER. 😂♥️
Even as a kid I used to get so mad if other students copied me for art projects. Especially if there was a competition involved or the grading was based on originality.
It’s interesting how the younger generation (not everyone obviously) is often offended by literally EVERYTHING but then when someone has feelings in regards to their actions or words it somehow isn’t okay.
No, the power in balance would be if she screenshot your messages and post them on her Instagram and told everybody your user handle and your shit got blown up. But instead she decided to DM you like person to person so I feel like you’re extremely lucky. #ThatShitIsOverParty.
You can tell that her parents told her that everything against her growing up was an imbalance or injustice. And I think it’s funny how she decided to pick on SZA when we all know that there are many other artists who would have roasted her so hard if she would’ve deleted her socials.
@@idkifimokay_7817 I know sweetie I watched the same video you did. I mean, if she’s a screenshot of the responses and sent her many fans to attack the person who did the “SZA Wack”
I’m not a Sza fan, but a true fan would never bully an artist that they truly loved. That fan needs to check herself. There is so much hate out there in the world. Why spread negative comments especially if it’s one you know your favorite artist asked people not to do? Sza handled that situation gracefully and with class. This girl is just upset because she got called out for her actions. Bad behavior has consequences.
Good afternoon Charlotte, I'm happy to say that I found a way to cope with my panic disorder. I found out that whistling is at this point is calming me down with tremendous effect. I haven't had a panic attack in 10 days. Before that I was having a panic attack at least once a week for over 2 years. I'm also volunteering at Brave Hearts every week now, because of how much they've helped me, and to keep me on track to getting back to a paying job. It will still be a long road, yet I'm seeing a faint light of hope at the end of a very long tunnel. Thank you so much for your continued help to this very grateful veteran
Ur laugh is ConTagiOus, watching ur videos is always the best part of the day and not once did i find myself not smiling after watching ur video! Love ur contant and superb job on the editing too. Thank you
Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ Something weird going on with the video... Hey kids, there's a thing called consequences. Just because you're 15, doesn't mean you won't face consequences.
I am 74 and I do not know why people these days treat people like they do, in my book there is no room or need for any body no matter what age you are to be rude to any body else. treat people like you wish to be treated with respect
That last video had me thinking that is why we take a fully charged 2 way walkie-talkie when doing a merchandise re-stock/inventory check in the stockroom. ALWAYS! 😂
i think sza was very mature about how she handled it, and that girl was clearly taking/making offense where there was none bc she was upset she got called out.
Too many men know the age of consent but not what consent is. On scout camp told the 17 nearly 18 year old trying to flirt/stalk me I told him I’m 15 and had a boyfriend didn’t care, took our Scout leader telling him to back off before he got the hint
Sorry about the playback issues on todays video guys! Just skip through for now. Kinda wish it didn’t freeze on my face looking like that tho 😭💀
We love that girlie
We still love the heck outta you ❤❤❤❤
I thought it was my husband turning off the WiFi! I’m like: he is trying to make me stop watching Charlotte! 🤪
And here I thought my internet was laggy.😂
Here I thought that it was my phone! 🤣
The girl with the Sza situation…her delight in getting attention and having a conversation with Sza (that she could share for clout) over powered her already struggling sense of humanity. Sza was correct that the girl lacked empathy. She was also devoid of maturity and character. It was cringey watching her deflect and avoid taking accountability for her actions. The gaslighting and stuff was bonkers. Why do so many people advertise their personality disorders.
This is exactly it, these people are not just immature, they’re disordered. Cluster B Personality Disorder paired with Autism Spectrum Disorder/Terminally on line, equals these kinds of people. They are the only “real” people in the world, everyone else is an NPC to mistreat, and deny basic human status too.
Believe people when they show you how they feel. That girl ain’t a fan worth having.
That was ridiculous. If she wanted clout she had a chance to apologize to sza and make a video explaining how the meme is hurtful and promoting its end. Instead she gaslighted sza and told her to just deal with it because other people are probably going to do it too. A lot of growing up to do.
Yessss! to they advertise their personality disorders. So many of these stars develop it/born with it. Obviously they are the brand so they can overtime get stuck up which is environmental, but these kids are being born with disorders and uninvolved/ or un knowledgeable parents are watching these stars and learning/being normalized acting like the spoiled main character. They develop rude personalities and to a lot of ppl clout=money. They are the main character and will gaslight to protect their imaginary “brand”, some are forgetting to have empathy for others. They get so delusional it can be hard for them to see until they meet someone worse. That’s why it’s getting worse.
Right?!? Nothing Sza said was “hate bullying” 😂
Imagine claiming to be a fan of someone, posting hurtful content about them, them reaching out to share how it made them feel, and instead of acting like a fan you criticize their feelings and post it for social media clout. Miss Charlotte you are NTA, this kid is.
The kid is actually disgusting.... I'm so sorry and embarassed for her parents....
Fr. The entitled behavior of Americans is getting out of hand. The bombastic audacity of some people just leaves me gob smacked. If I wasn’t 40 and too grown for fighting, I’d punch some people in their foreheads, IstG. That’s why I live in the middle of nowhere. So I don’t have to interact with no one. It’s too peopley outside.
she just wanted attention and she's a natural bully, so... It was so dissgusting to even see her XD
There seems to be a new trend for young people to crap all over or be hateful to the people they're fans of. I don't get it and don't see how you disrespect the people you like or are fans of. Like the throwing things at concerts you paid to be at. Like wtf
@@vikkilooper4075 yeah, the same trash behavior at concerts and towards their idols is the same way they treat their friends and family. I’ve seen a few of my friends teen kids being super entitled, disrespectful, manipulative, and gaslighting towards the people they say they love. It’s literally CRAZY trash ass behavior.
Edit: it’s honestly ALLL of the red flags.
I am a teacher at a middle school and when a student is in the wrong and we are having an argument they will say, "why are you arguing with a child?" It grinds my gears. They are aware their age protects them from almost all consequences.
Personally, I think if someone can articulate something like that, they are old enough to know better. Stuff like that is one of many reasons I dislike being around kids.
Arguing with a child, huh. How else are they supposed to learn about things if nobody says anything to them? These kids are ridiculous and act spoilt.
“Because I respected you enough to try to have a conversation instead of just shutting you down because you’re a child.” Honestly, I hated because I say so as the end all be all when I was growing up because “I don’t argue with children” was the attitude then. They should be glad adults take the time to have a disagreement now vs just shutting them down.
@@saraarnett2557
YES!!!!❤
Please tell them that that's what you get paid for next time.
That guy saying that kids now act like the boomers they mock is SPOT ON. Golden content right there ahahah
The sza drama was crazy, she literally gaslit her and was like “take a chill pill”. I despise people that turn around and act like something they did wasn’t a big deal because someone had a reaction to it.
Kinda like the dude who "pranked" their (now ex) fiance who had lost her first love in a horrid way by pretending to be dead and covered in blood on the kitchen floor.. on their anniversary.
Thats how my brother gave me the "agressive bitch" name.
Alsays taunting me and when I reacted he cried with the parents.
Parents never knew
@@JoCamp696That is horrendous! 😮 I hope she broke up with him *immediately* That must've been so traumatizing for her 😢
Gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss vibes.
Seemed like she was setting a boundary with her “fan”. Cause if you don’t respect those boundaries are you a fan?
Never realized "you need to respect your elders" and "you're literally arguing with a minor rn 🙄" have the same energy
Us millennials just can't do anything right, apparently. Gaslighting from the generations before AND the one after us. 😵
@@katastrofekatrineas a genz girl I apologize for people like that but I assure you, most of us are not like that ❤
She's lucky she didn't try that with Cardi B she could've gotten sued
Wow, I never thought of it like that, but this is so true.
the only time i say “ur arguing with a child rn.” is if they’re being childish and are completely ignoring me. “ur arguing with a child, and the child is being more mature” is a much better response, imo. i personally opt for “you’re being immature and trying to mock a child. you’re an adult, have a normal conversation like one.”
If you're saying you're too young for consequences, you're also admitting to being too young to be on social media unsupervised 💅🏽
This girl is really telling on herself here, letting the world know she can't act right without a grown-up
#facts
SZA’s better than I am. I’d have told that little child to f*** off! If lil girl is old enough to listen to the music, but tickets to the show and get online to smack talk? She’s old enough to be told to shut up!!
Also like ok great she made a comment to SZA who doesn’t know her etc but what if she made a comment to the WRONG person and got worse consequences than just being told off in her DMS
I feel like if You Say You are too young for consequences... You know what You are Doing, like if You are self concious enough to understand your age and your level of maturity You understand what You are Doing, You understand your actions have consequences and You are making concious decisions, it's a weird excuse.
@@fabianafagundezmuniz8119 exactly! Like just by saying that we know she knows better
One tip for those who have someone who says “why are you arguing with a minor”, learned this from a classmate, perfect response: “Cause I wanted to respect you, not dismiss you like a child. If you wanna be treated like a child, keep acting like this, and you will.”
that is an A+++++ response to these disrespectful children.
YES! *That Part!*
This is a perfect response.
Phenomenal.
Honestly if a child can dish it out like an adult, they can take it like one.
Nah the girl in the Sza situation was weird. She was clearly pleased about being noticed even in a negative light. And the fact that she's still talking about it and the way she talks about it shows she doesn't think she did anything wrong. For someone who paid $350 for a ticket, you would think she'd be a better "fan" and understand where Sza is coming from. Where is the basic decency and empathy? Sza took the time to explain things to her calmly and with respect. Did Sza have to keep going? No. But she's human.
I found it funny how the fan couldn't understand why Sza dm'ed her and not people who hate her. But why would you dm someone who openly dislikes you? You aren't going to change their mind. Thinking that messaging your fan would have an positive impact is much more logical because they like you and would probably also want you to like them. Like I personally would have guessed that getting a message from a person you like or admire would get you to rethink your actions. If they are active in the fan community it might even promote healthy self-policing of also informing others of "She is uncomfortable with that and has asked fans not to do that. She sees this stuff and has even asked some fans personally to stop."
My logic would also be that you would be more likely to message someone younger that their actions/words are hurtful or inappropriate, because we are more forgiving of teens and think that the cause of the action is ignorance. Whereas with clear adults we (often incorrectly) assume that they know and the hurt was intended.
“But I said sorry!” She doesn’t know what a real apology is
Her TikTok account is set to private now 🤣 She probably had tons of people telling her that she's being a brat and she can't handle it!
She has a right to her opinion
@@LoveNLifewithHim and so does sza and everybody else.
Anyone who thinks 28 is old AND knows the age of consent in every state is most likely someone who should be behind bars.
........ *How da hell does one remember the age of consent in every state???*
@@thatonewitch Someone who is very determined to have sex with as many minors as possible?
He was just WISHING the age of consent in every state is 16. Gross. 🤢
@@goddessjennifer3254nah, someone who would victimize a child deserves a fate worse than prison. And fortunately for society, the other inmates recognize that.
Most age of consent was meant for teenagers who are in a relationship, but is parroted by older people, usually men, who want abuse the notion, among other things.
I fully support sza in this. She was super respectful in her messages and wasn’t attacking this girl at all she was just telling her how it made her feel and I actually felt bad for sza when this happened
Sza was graceful in her interaction with the 16 year old girl . "I'm so young" card does not work if you are the one who instigated it . Actions have consequences and realising that I think is a part of growing up .
Edit :- the girl is 18 , not 16 .
Agree as a mom I would be so pissed if my teen acted like that no need to be mean for nothing
A bully is a bully. It has nothing to do with age.
I'd never heard of Sza until just now, but she seems lovely and mature. She wasn't stalking the fan who dissed her, she was trying to give her a lesson in how to be a good person.
I've got a bone to pick with the guy who insinuated that all "boomers" are hateful to young people and we are all entitled Karens. That's just not true.
This attitude comes from the moms that won't discipline their kids "because they are just a baby" then never actually teach them right and wrong
16 isn’t even that young too
The way that teen felt so confident about her take on the SZA interaction... Her lack of empathy and entitlement will live on the internet forever. Future partners employers will all be able to know just how well she treats the people she claims she likes... Congrats to her for getting the attention she so desperately wanted.
This!! And even if she deletes her video, she's still in this compilation video of Charlotte's and who knows where else.
For real!
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@@heykaylc23true, I saw it before I saw it here. If I were an employer I wouldn't want her handling any customers/clientele of any kind.
Girl.. what the heck happened at 15:27!? 😭😭🤣🤣🤣 the amount of times I refreshed youtube thinking my wifi was down or smth 🤣😂😭
Yeah. I restarted RUclips for it to freeze 2 more times, then I noticed the timer going. Lol
Omg yes! I thought it was my fault!
Sameeee
I thought my iPad was breaking 🤦🏻♀️😂
*Pin this comment lol
This is why I have no issue clapping back at kids. We need to stop protecting them when they do shitty behaviour and show them the consequences of their actions. Don't dish what you can't take. Your age doesn't absolve you. I had a younger cousin when I was in my early 20s that used to make fun of my weight. I ignored it at first but then got tired of it because he wouldn't stop and his mom would be like, "Well, he's just a kiiidddddd." I'm sorry, but when I was his age (he was 10), I knew that kind of behaviour was wrong because my mother taught me. So I clapped back, roasted his big ass ears, roasted his braces, roasted the fact that he still slept with a night light (in front of his friends), so on and so forth. He started crying and ran off to find his mom. My aunt got mad at me but I said, "Maybe if you held him accountable instead of excusing his behaviour, he'd not be a little shithead." (Which caused him to cry harder btw) He never did it again and stopped the behaviour in general from what I know. Over a decade later, he apologised to me and said that my words caused him a lot of insecurity for years. I told him that I wasn't sorry and that it was a teachable moment for him to consider his words/actions towards others.
This. This is the way.
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You ate that LOL
It used to be you could expect any adult to correct bad behavior. However, as a human in this world who has a child, I trust humanity less and less to do so well 😂😂
This is why as a preschool teacher I perform discipline to my children in my care to teach them right from wrong. I make them learn that there are consequences to their actions. Most parents in my service are wonderful but I will meet some occasional ones that are…not so friendly. These are families who either don’t care or listen no matter what I tell them or they only find reasons to complain (never a compliment or feedback, just all they do is complain). Mind you, I’m also a parent to a child with autism and I have to also work hard to teach him the ways of the world and to help build his resilience and independence. I HATE it when people say that kids will be kids because kids CAN learn and they should be accountable for their actions no matter their age.
That butthurt teenager is so…ugh. “Oh, SZA went crazy on me! She sent ten texts in a row!” Totally glossing over the absolute books that she wrote in her texts. Honey, you were engaging on a very verbose level. So SZA responded in turn. That could have all been over if you just said “I’m sorry. I didn’t think about you seeing it how it would make you feel.” No, instead you doubled down by calling her old and insisting she has no right to her feelings because she’s famous.
It’s called narcissism. The parenting style of last couple of decades is producing so many narcissistic people.
I personally thought Sza was a very kind person for not telling the girl where to go and how to get there🤣 Plus Sza could have busted her on social media but did it privately so as not to embarrass or humiliate her bully, which not only shows class, but sympathy and empathy too.
And then had to nerve to call sza's replies rude? Like girl, where? And commented on the punctuation, ugh. Yes, the extra space is annoying but did homegirl not read her own novellas and see that punctuation?
Right?! that's literally how conversations work, girl 😂 you respond and she will respond.
She needs to be called out for that rude behavior. She could have just apologized, but noooo...she just had to make a video about it.
I think that Sza took the time and tried to explain her issues to a random girl without a large social media presence is huge. In my eyes Sza tried to have an honest conversation...
If this little girl thinks that what she said was "coming at her" I can't wait until she has to live in the real world lol
She is in for a rude awakening 😂😂
I give her 10 minutes on her first real job 😂
Wait until a Karen goes off on her.
Seriously! 😂
Here’s the thing…Being young doesn’t excuse you from getting in trouble or facing consequences of your actions. If you cheat on your homework and get in trouble for it, you can’t say “but I’m young” and it just be fine. You made a decision on your own volition and now you have to suffer the consequences.
This! She's literally 18. If she was 6 I'd understand but you're 18 dude. Grow tf up! Guarantee she was the school bully when she was in grade school
Exactly! And she isn't that young. She is 18. She should know better. She is lucky that Sza didn't call her out publically because then she would have been really facing the consequences of her actions.
I find it funny that theyre literally paying the money for her concerts to do this. Sza is definitely winning on this one. Celebrities are real people too peeps! Respect
I don't care for or listen to Sza, but she was 100% in the right. The girl literally said she revived the whole thing, so that could be the reason she contacted her specifically and not someone else. Plus, it doesn't matter your age. If you're going to bully, don't get upset if you get called out.
Also, she can't claim to be a fan and then continue to bash her just to get views.
to anyone wondering what the girl in the last video said after she got out, her boss said "why didn't you just turn the lock and pull?" and she said (to the viewers) "i'd been at work for 12 hours and my will to live was pretty low, so i just kinda gave up" before it picks up at "thank you all for being so concerned"
Thanks. I kept rewinding but couldn’t catch it. 😂😂😂
Thank you so much! I was looking for this 🙌🏾
I felt so much for that girl. I've been going through it at work lately and I just feel her so much. I hope she's doing better
Well, the main door latch may still be engaged even if you unlock and pull the deadbolt, but she would just have to slide something between the door and frame to release that (e.g. a credit card, cardboard from one of the boxes, wire, etc. - she was in a storeroom full of useful items...to include the chocolate).
Omg, I just thought my phone was broken. Thank you
Sza seems like a really nice person. I work down the street from the high school she went to and she recently bought pizza for the whole entire school when she was in the area visiting. I don't think I even know her music but I thought that was so sweet that she did that for the kids.
The scary thing about that teenager and the SZA thing is, if she’s treating people she doesn’t know that “she is a fan” of that way. Imagine how she treats the people she actually cares about! Her behaviour was unacceptable and gross but her response was despicable. She’s basically trying to absolve herself of any wrong doing by victim blaming . It’s scary that she honestly has no idea how wrong she is !!!
Wait whos wrong her or sza cause i dont think sza was wrong i can’t understand wht ur saying
@@Haileyhardinn you can’t be serious !!! 🧐 why would I say that SZA is in the wrong ? I’m quite clearly talking about the teenager lacking empathy and social skills.
Agreed. It is scary. I mean, the artist Selena was murdered by the president of her fan club, so...yeah, "fans" can be a terrifying kind of people...
Absolutely!
The girl was a jerk. SZA had a right to get her feelings hurt & reach out to the girl. But she should've stopped it there & just blocked her instead of going back and forth with her. When you're famous enough to have 17 million followers & win awards & have thousands of people pay to see you in concert, you have to develop a thick skin because there are always going to be jerks saying things about you. If you get that upset by things that are posted about you, get an assistant to go through your mentions for you & get rid of the ones that are hurtful. Maybe get some therapy so you can learn to let that stuff roll off your back. Yes, you're human but you're also rich & famous & powerful so just say fuck y'all to the haters & spend your time interacting with the people who love you.
About the whole teenage girl and SZA thing:
As a young adult myself, I can tell you we're not all like that. Some of our parents actually raised us with common sense, accountability, and respect. Girls like that are, as we all know the stereotype, very insecure projectors.
I can absolutely promise that I was bullied by girls with that same mindset of "oh, get over it" or "I didn't actually think I'd get caught" my whole life.
Exactly... And she isn't that young. She is 18. Way too old to be acting like that. She is really lucky that Sza didn't respond publicly, which she had every right to do since she had tagged her in her post. Then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.
I agree with you. I'm 18 too but I would never do something like this to someone, let alone a celebrity that I admire and am a fan of.
We've all been a young adult, believe it or not. We know not everybody is like that lol
As a 32 year old woman, I'm gonna let you know we don't see you all the same. I know there are plenty of good empathetic young people out there. I hope you get past the bullies and don't let them bring you down. You seem like a good person.
I can’t believe how lovely Sza was in taking the time to message with her and thank her for coming to the show. On top of that, she actually shared something that’s pretty personal, saying how this trend caused her so much anxiety and self doubt that she found it hard to do shows and that it hurt her feelings that the girl posted that. If this woman was actually a fan as she kept saying she was, then the normal response to that would be to feel awful that you made her feel bad and apologise profusely before taking it down. I would likely also feel a bit star struck that someone that famous was taking the time to message me and speak to me in what was a more friendly way than she deserved. Instead of being that way, this moron doubled down and argued the point constantly and THEN went and described these very kind messages as “personal hate DMs”. There was no hate there at all - she called her love, she did thank her for coming to the show despite the idiot saying that she hadn’t and she was very human in sharing her feelings, which she didn’t have to do to a stranger. Instead of feeling bad, this girl decided to play the victim and act as if she hadn’t done anything wrong, because she is “only 18”. 18 is an adult so what is the point she’s making? She’s not a 5 year old child, unable to be responsible for her own actions. I hate the way that we seem to act as if 18 year olds are still children who need pandering to - they aren’t, they are fully grown adults. Yes we keep growing through our entire adult life, but we are still adults at 18 and need to accept the consequences of our actions. I had my first child at that age and lived alone from home with nobody to pick up after me or treat me like a baby. It actually hurt me watching the video because Sza was being so real and honest and it was being thrown back in her face :-(. Of course it is a free world and if someone wants to do that, then legally you can’t stop them posting it, but just simple human decency would make you feel bad for hurting someone if you didn’t intend to and especially if you’re supposedly a fan of that person.
Right?? That was incredibly vulnerable of Sza to admit all that, and I'm sure it made her feel absolutely horrible to get the type of response that she did from that girl. 😭
Apparently "hate" to this child means "daring to disagree with me." That she's still doing that at 18 speaks quite poorly of her character. My mother was smacking me down for that--verbally and appropriately--when I WAS just five years old, because how else was I going to learn to self-regulate that? I don't know that "hurt" was what I felt watching the video, personally. "Contempt" would be a lot closer, and for the same reasons as you. That set of DMs was so genuine and honest and kind, and this little brat responded like an emotional abuser and bully!
no im definitely with you girl. sza has every right to snap in that situation, and that girl with the eyeliners just forgot how to be a HUMAN BEING and take responsibility for her actions. she said there are millions of ppl tagging her and how she was so innocent cuz she was the one get picked on, but like, that doesnt justify her actions.
apparently people get mad when get treated the way they treated people.
"I'm 16 so you have no right to tell me off when I'm being a horrible human being"
She sounds incredibly entitled and delusional.
@Burger_pantsok boomer
These are the same teenagers that bully other teenagers in school too.
@Burger_pantsthe fact that you had it worse does't mean people now should be letting such "small" things slide🤷🏻♀️
“Why are you coming after me instead of someone who really hates you instead of a fan like me?” How is Sza supposed to tell you are actually a fan if you post things like that? How can she possibly tell that you are really a “fan”?
It's a red flag when people have "It was just a joke" ready in their back pocket after they do something mean/racist/sexist etc. and they don't get the response they wanted from other people.
Or when they say “just playing the devil’s advocate”
One of my favourite line from a Bridgerton fan fic which was said by Lady Danbury to Miss Edwina:
"It is unwise to demand the respect of being an adult... when you expect the privileges of being a child."
From 'A Promise Made In Haste' by Waterlily Rose on AO3
This line is for all those teens who think they shouldn't face consequences. ❤️🐝🌷
I kinda stand for you quoting a fanfiction. I love that!
The entitlement and being a victim. As typical bully that pull the victim when confronted. Sza has style and grace in the face of this brat. She's a brat. Her parents have failed society.
Apparently, the failure spread to her skill with cosmetics. Not cute outwardly or inwardly
Okay no reason to attack a sixteen year old's physical appearance. She was in the wrong but you're also being mean.@@notevenlistening6072
Lmfao nah Sza is doing the most like is she going to go after everyone who makes fun/jokes about her??? You don't see others who have actual style and grace do this or even entertain childish shit like this 💀
@@W.E.M.Lpeople get hurt when they're bullied. Stop making excuses for shitty people. She's old enough to know better. Sza may have pushed it a little too much but she had every right to say something when it hurt her. The world is quite fucked when people like you shit on the victim for speaking up when they're being bullied.
@@W.E.M.LShe has a right to defend herself. The grace comes in the calmness and respect she spoke to this girl with when explaining why it wasnt okay. This girl threw it in her face further by posting the interaction online for clout. The only thing childish is this CHILD
The official slogan of every bully out there in the world is "it was just joke."
Apparently, there are many people who were never taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, then say nothing at all. One simple rule that could save so many people from embarrassment.
One of the things I’m teaching my kids is “If someone doesn’t like what you’re doing or they tell you to stop, you stop. It’s called consent.”
SZA stated a boundary. If this girl was a true fan, she’d say something along the lines of, “You’re right. I’m sorry. I’ll stop” instead of giving excuses.
Ahhh but then she’d be mature and responsible but most importantly she wouldn’t be able to make a video to gloat about it
“Power imbalance” ??? She is acting like a victim. She didn’t really show all of her power. She told she was hurt in a nice human way possible and this girl still keeps acting like a 🤡. How about say “I’m sorry” ?? If someone said that to her, then only she could understand how it feels. It’s not just one person. Countless people.
Exactly, like sza didn’t blast her and post the dms on her page, the girl did. So what power imbalance is there?
“It was obviously a joke” 🤌🏼😒
Yes, she’s parroting a term that isn’t applicable to the situation to try and act the victim. The power imbalance would only be relevant if she were using it against the girl but all she has done is share her hurt feelings.
@@ivoryphoenix7 yep - and sza didn’t start it…
Exactly. Sza had every right to reply with a public post and really put that girl on blast, but she didn't. I almost wish she had, because then she would have had to really face the consequences of her actions.
15:37 The video oaused to load at a beautiful time😂
Mine did the same at 15:43 😂
@@Ciela531so did mine 😂😂
And at 17:00
The SZA situation hurts my heart and is literally the reason why I have never wanted fame, she's still a human being who doesn't deserve to feel awful about something that she's spoken out about. She had every right to stick up for herself and make it a teachable moment for this young person who clearly was too entitled and didn't understand that there were consequences for actions.
She’s not a real fan. Fans don’t throw shade or make jokes at someone else’s expense. Also, teenagers aren’t immune to being called out. At their age, they know what bullying behavior is. Good for Sza for calling this little twerp out.
Just because one is famous, doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect. You are human like the rest of us and are allowed to have feelings.
SZA kept trying to get the creator to understand her position & yet she still wasn't getting it. She never did see that she'd done anything wrong. Good on SZA for trying, especially for as long as she did; I would've given up from frustration long before she did.
@Burger_pantsshhhhhhh
sza: your comment hurt my feelings, please do not do that again
fan: why are you attacking an 18 year old????????
I was waiting for Charlotte to say "How are you not embarrassed!!!!???" That little girl needs a reality check fr.
"Social media made y'all way too
comfortable with disrespecting
people and not getting punched in
the face for it"
Mike Tyson
(I'm not violent but he has a point!)
I just wanted to express how much the first video clip resonated with me. My son and I run a lawn channel and we have recently discovered that someone has been stealing our content. This Channel not only took our entire content without giving us the credit, but is also posting almost all of our videos as if they were theirs. To make matters worse, they have blocked us from their channel and are trying to pass off our content as their own - even though we are the ones featured in the videos. It is extremely upsetting when we request them to take it down due to copyright infringement, yet they refuse to comply and continue to post our content. We have reported the channel, but nothing has changed as of yet. These instances make it clear how easy it is for unscrupulous individuals to steal and repost the content of hardworking creators.
I don't know very much about this kind of thing but can't you take them to court?
Would it be too distracting to add a watermark saying "Video created by [channel name/handle]", appearing every now and then on the video, at spots in the picture where it'd be obvious if it was just blurred out? Such practises don't seem to be common on RUclips, but on other platforms I've seen even videos where a large logo of the creator is bouncing around the screen during the whole video. So apparently theft is a bigger problem on some other sites, so apparently RUclips is doing something more than them, but still not enough.
@@enginerd80 Excellent idea. A transparent watermark would work just fine. It would let the vid show through and still be impossible to blur without being obvious.
Share the link so we all can report the channel too.
Yes. Just terrible 😢
That kid who went after SZA is so much like the nasty little brat who bullied just about everyone in my year in high school. I bet she'll be exactly as underdeveloped as a person when she grows up. In my experience, people like that don't learn or grow.
Yeah, nah they never change, they become crappy adults. 👍
They don't think they're qrpng because nobody in their life has pointed it out to them, so they don't see any reason they should change.
@Mayawamaq If someone calmly tells you that what you said or did hurt them and explained why and you acted like this AH did, that makes you ....an AH. Maybe you should think on why you think this is okay.
When she said 'what are you gonna do?' I immediately thought schoolyard bully.
@Mayawamaq How to say I have never grown passed a 13 year old in maturity, without saying I have never grown passed a 13 year old in maturity. And actually I know a lot of 13 year olds who have a lot more empathy and humanity than you.
The whole “you’re 15 years older than me why are you arguing with me?” Is actually like a thing my mother said a lot when I was younger and me and my age gap siblings got into fights so it comes from the parents
Wild for a child to tell someone to regulate their emotions when they obviously haven’t even been through situations that would cause them to feel that way. Bc if she did she’d have more empathy for her and not even say mean things to anyone regardless of social status. It’s giving ✨entitled✨
You’re not wrong about the Sza thing. Sza was sooo nice to her about it and talking to her like a reasonable person, explaining that it hurts her feelings. The girl literally could have said “omg I’m sorry I didn’t mean it at all, I love you, I thought it was just a meme. I’ll delete it now. I’m so sorry.” But instead, SHE decided to leave it up, delete szas comment, and escalate it. I feel for performers man. Social media has made fans feel so entitled to do whatever the fuck they want to their favorite performers and it’s frankly dystopian and gross. They are people too!
@Burger_pants if you need to change your life to not be asshole then the problem one is you.
@Burger_pants Tf are you on? Literally no one said what you are suggesting. But you ARE responsible for someones feelings if you are actively doing things to hurt them. You are responsible for the response they have to YOUR actions. It isn't entitlement. Those are the consequences of your actions. It isn't a matter of "you need to change your life to cater to me". Its a matter of treat people how you would want to be treated. You just don't treat people like shit. Period. There's no excuse for it. It just makes you a garbage person. Actions, good or bad, will always have consequences. It is literally the most basic of life lessons that everyone understands regardless of age. Some people, like the girl doing the bullying and you apparently, just think that doesn't apply to them.
@Burger_pantswhy are you advocating for people being a$$holes? Why is it so hard to be a good human being?
@Burger_pantsshhhhhhhh
@Burger_pants Who peed on your cornflakes this morning? 🤨
Thinking someone can't be offended because "it's just a joke I like you" is what bullies pretending to be your friend say
I thought at first, oh great, another influencer upset that they influenced. But no, that is stealing. They could at least give the credit.
You are absolutely correct! They stole her ENTIRE room. There was no talk obout how she inspired them and credited her original idea what so ever. They probably learned this bad behavior from sssniperwolf because she does it to creators on a constant basis. She even cuts their names out from the original content and will sit there and not even comment about what she's watching..smh..😬
Not only that, but can we talk about how these are children just filming themselves sleeping and resting!! Like that’s so eerie. There’s so many creeps on that app that are probably loving their videos. What parents/ guardians would let their kids film this kind of stuff!!🫤
@@lovers123991
It's even MORE terrifying that they are literal *children* that did this! Like at first I thought they were teens or young adults, but then I saw the video showing how they stole the background - that's not something children normally do or can do very well
What exactly do these girls do?! Livestream themselves aleeping???
@@lovers123991there’s definitely some creeps watching those kinds of videos.
The girls reaction in being excited about someone looking like her is so cute! I love her energy.
Giving the whole gaslight of "it was just a joke; why are you mad" after a boundary has been crossed and there's an actual consequence. The entitlement.
12:35
this is a prime example of the "Mean Girls" trashing someone then going "why are you being so mean to us" once the person they trashed comes back at them...
Sza wasn’t messaging because the girl did or didn’t like her, Sza was starting a conversation to help the girl learn why what she did wasn’t cool or funny. The girl then saw it like a lecture and tried to shrug off the accountability lesson by, ya know, not being willing to be accountable at all. Her then using excuses about age difference, it’s just a meme, Sza’s famous so she should expect it are all accountability dodging stock excuses and prove how much she should actually go back and really read and learn from what Sza was taking the time to teach her.
“I was just recreating a meme” is giving the same energy as “it’s just a prank bro”
I will never understand "fans" who say bad things "as a joke" and can't understand why they get called out for it even one second.
"It's just a joke" one of the most commonly used manipulative sayings used by people to bring down someone's confidence
I wish they would restock the PETTY COUTURE VELOUR HOODIE and TRACK PANTS in black in a 2X and the RECOVERING PEOPLE PLEASER SHIRT in a XL because I think they would look awesome together. Plus I love to get it for myself since it would fit me perfectly since I am recovering people pleaser myself! MUCH LOVE AND I LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!!
Imagine having to fight to be seen as a real person, that’s crazy. I feel bad for SZA in the situation. That girl needs to learn some humility and empathy.
The lookalike was hilarious. Loads of charm and charisma. Great reaction!
I'm a "boomer" and I take issue with people making nasty comments and assuming the worst about my generation. I always go out of my way to be kind and respectful to others. If someone deliberately disrespects me, then, yes, I will clap back! Remember, there are "Karens" in every age group and you don't have to be old to be a jerk...just ask any public school teacher.
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The, “It’s just a joke.”, defense is past its expiration. I don’t care how old you are.
Right up there with; it's just a prank bro!
100% dusty ass expired!!!
When someone says "It's just a joke", clap back with: "jokes are funny". Shuts it down real quick.
Genuinely, I think part of the reason why kids are so cruel online nowadays is because…this is how they always had been, behind an adult's back. It's just getting aired out, and instead of just classmates, anybody online can be subject to it.
Of course now there's enough people to encourage it, so there's another level of making it ten times worse, but I don't believe for a second that it's *just* the internet is making them bad. It's…exposing what has been there, and the exacerbating it.
Agreed. It isn't all kids but it's a lot of them. I got bullied so much in grade school and middle school that I can sympathize a bit with kids that want to hurt the kids that hurt them...the only thing stopping me was empathy for all the kids that weren't mean. A lot of kids are awful, and adults ignore how much of an impact bullying has on its victims.
Yeah. There is a reason you can't diagnose personality disorders before a certain age. Kids develop empathy very slowly and the preteen and teen years are very important in that process.
@@tiryaclearsong421 Now I don't really believe that notion on empathy. For one, kids can and are usually the most empathetic individuals out there. Empathy is an emotion. To a point, you either have it or you don't, even as a kid, because a lot of it hinges on your relationship with emotions to begin with. And as a kid, if there wasn't a lot of trauma to damage that relationship with emotions, that would give more room for empathy because that relationship is stable.
Now, with sympathy, I can see that argument holding up well, since that's more of a reasoning/logical way of expressing concern, often because there's a distance between the people, from experiences, attachment, etc. That is something you'd have to learn.
Anyway, the primary reason why people usually don't diagnose personality disorders in kids is because their behavior can be indicative of a lot of things, and because they're younger, there isn't that much history to discern a pattern of behavior in personality. Also, personality disorders tend to be hard-baked into the person. Given it's a disorder of the personality. With someone so young, however, there is the potential to rectify any damage done and help alleviate the symptoms to the point it isn't considered a personality disorder.
And I'm saying this as someone who is emotionally blind, so my empathy is limited as a result, with both a family and personal history with BPD, so I'm not talking out my ass. Also not just ranting for the hell of it. Lol. It's just stuff I'm interested in as well.
@@slsthewriter1299 Most disorders are rarely diagnosable in people under the age of 18-25 because the adolescent brain basically is capable of reproducing every single disorder in the DSM V without being a permanent state, and probably will reproduce several. It's an emotionally volatile time. Empathy is not an emotion itself, it's the ability to understand and relate to the emotions of others; when your brain is all over the place and you don't understand your own feelings, it's a lot harder to empathize with others. That's why some extremely empathic children wind up seeming to lose that empathy during adolescence, but then once they're fully adult, seem to miraculously regain it. This is the explanation given both by my developmental psych course and my brother, who is a clinical mental health counselor with several adolescent clients.
In a more colloquial way, I'd describe it as "hormonal flooding turns kids into monsters." It can happen to adults with hormonal difficulties, too; I tried progestin birth control, and as my mother described, I became "a ball of apathy punctuated by flashes of insane fury." I got off the progestin, and within three days was a reasonable human being again.
You are definitely right that this isn't something that's only just started happening because of the Internet, though. It's been going on for as long as human beings have been. Still, we need to call it out when we see it happening, because you can't learn to not do it if nobody ever lets you know that you're doing it and it's wrong.
@@BullerSmithWedding2024 With the point of empathy, I'm going to maintain that it is, in itself, an emotion. Hence why apathy, it's reverse, is generally attributed to indifference. And the mechanism behind both is whether you feel it, or you don't. The asterisk to that is more that you could still be physically feeling empathy towards another person, but there's other contributing factors that get in the way. Regardless, a lack of empathy explains why people, like psychopaths, are the way they are. The legitimately do not understand caring for people, because they legitimately do not feel that. Likewise, they can understand the logic behind why you should feel bad, given that's where sympathy lies.
With the disorder thing, I still doubt it, because that's not…an actual reason? What you're referencing is a hormonal thing. That can happen to anyone, including adults. For instance, after severe trauma to the body where it's hormonally altered, and different behaviors are perpetuated. Or, substances. From experience, the primary reason why seems to cumulate from 1) a denial towards mental health, 2) teenagers are still very young. There isn't as much history there to reference for a disorder since most disorders are dictated by the observation of behaviors for an extended period of time. Which. Fair. But in those with, say, personality disorders, those signs were always there. And in diagnosis, the professionals usually do a deep introspection with their patient into their childhoods, and they do so for a reason.
And then there's just stigma. You say disorders are rarely diagnosable under 18-25, yet people are diagnosed with all kinds of anxiety and/or depressive-based disorders, or autism, or ADHD, very young. (Some of them misdiagnosed because…people also just like throwing medication at a problem, but that is a different tangent.) Big reason why is those disorders are more widely "accepted", and they're trendy. As opposed to things like, say, BPD. So, honestly, just as much as there's good reasons for disorders to be diagnosed later on, there's just as many bad. People want to diagnose their kid in school with ADHD to throw medication at the problem. People don't want to deal with a "BPD" kid, so that kid, as an adult, has to go out to find help on their own.
Kids (teens) today are like “look at me look at me”, so you look and then you get the “what r u lookin at?!”
It’s always the men who know age of consent that never actually know what consent is. 😤
I was thinking the same thing. As a girl, I never even considered "What is the age of consent?" Why would I as a young girl need to know that information. A. If I was going to have sex, I would. B. No law tells me what to do with my own body. C. Age of consent is not a "reason to have sex".
But the guy in this story, didn't actually know the ages of consent. He was joking... it's pretty obvious from what she said about him and his responses. Some of u ppl are taking his crude jokes way too seriously. May not be funny to u, but we are also missing context.
@@rockinchik06wooooooooow what an interesting way to cover for a man you know nothing about.
I like how most women hear "i know the age of consent in every state" as really concerning in and of itself, but people really be out here like "because he was wrong, it was a joke" not "because he was wrong it's EVEN MORE concerning".
@@lilycollegemythbusters5532I did learn the age of consent as a young girl because a lot of creepy men were hitting on me. So I would tell them how old I was and how many years in prison they would get if they had sex with me. Usually that would cause them to leave me alone.
Nah that first drama was ridiculous. If they are taking all that time to edit then they can give that other girl credit or even ask for permission!!!
I am SO HERE for creators, artists, etc defending themselves and not taking internet bullying! LOVE TO SEE IT!
15:27 - 15:44 - Charlotte freezes . 😂 . Also 17:02 - 17:17 . Also 21:30 - 21:40 .
This is a first! EVERYBODY FREEZES
Came here to see if this happened to anyone else or just me.
Also 21:30-21:37
I thought it was my wifi!
I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME!!!!! I reset my wifi and everything 🤣🤣🤣
Sza was being nice and trying to teach that Mimi how to act. The problem is she was raised by the internet and just wanted to gain followers from the fact that someone famous DM’d her. She did not learn one thing from this and was rewarded with exactly what she wasn’t. I can’t with these people.
15:45 wtf was that 😂 am I the only one who saw that intense glitch?
I don’t know SZA, but worked with this generation for the last decade or so as an educator. Most do not understand any consequences for their behavior and have been absolved of blame their entire life by their parents. It’s not shocking that this girl sees herself as the victim as opposed to the problem. Nothing has probably ever been her fault.
I work in juvenile and adult corrections (nurse not an officer) and I bought a sign for our infirmary that says “you are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice” because that sums up so much.
Given that complaints of this nature literally date back to ARISTOTLE, I don't think it's just "for the last decade," it's more a phase a lot of children go through before they learn to be decent people. Lord knows, I look back at the person I was at that age and want to reach back through time and slap myself silly.
Apparently, that girl who called that singer whack is completely out of touch with human behavior
And since she's a bully, I'll say her make up is not doing her any favors.
I love how other people can decide how others feel.
It's not your place to tell others how to feel.
You control your own emotions, not others.
I think its absolutely creepy that any guardian would think that showing their kid sleeping online publically is ok. I am sure many questionable members of society are giving them their views (gross)
Yeh for real. So creepy
I've been looking for this comment, and wondering why it's so far down.
The things that social media has normalized is gross
I thought the same thing. Not a good idea to be showing personal space at their age.
10000% accurate
Thinking the same thing, like, for the majority, it's cute when it's like on a private facebook "look how sweet, my baby likes snuggles" but it's not worth exposing a minor in that vulnerable way on a VERY public platform
That the SZA girl thought that her bullying would be excused because she's "only 18" is something else. Girl, you're 18, *you're an adult!*
I've never heard of Sza before but I'm in her corner on this one. I wish more people would call out nastiness online.
I highly recommend her music!!
personally I love it when they get carried away and brag about their 'edgy' and toxic traits as it help me identify who I want to avoid 😆
the fact the girl in the sza clip said "power imbalance" she knows exactly what she's doing and considers it "punching up"
You cannot convince me the TikTok comedian isn’t Matt Rife. Like. It’s definitely him 🤣
She was so sweet when she was excited she thought she had a twin! That was sweet, that girl is so bubbly and a ray of sunshine we like her
Charlotte gives us everyday the tea, the drama, the jokes and the funny reactions. We can't get better than her. She knows how to spoiled us. Charlotte FOREVER. 😂♥️
Charlotte!!!!! ✊🏼
As a fan, that girl should’ve been empathetic and stoked to have such a personal opportunity to communicate with SZA!
Even as a kid I used to get so mad if other students copied me for art projects. Especially if there was a competition involved or the grading was based on originality.
It’s interesting how the younger generation (not everyone obviously) is often offended by literally EVERYTHING but then when someone has feelings in regards to their actions or words it somehow isn’t okay.
There’s a lot of people in all generations like this. My boomer mom is offended by everything.
Boomer here! I’m 68 and I’m just here to say that I have LOUDLY defended cashiers from knotheads who thought they were entitled to bully them.
Love how Charlotte's videos knew the perfect moment to freeze all by itself 😂💖
I thought it was only me 😂 that was strange
Lol…I thought maybe my charger was shorting out or something🤣
Very choppy today. Need to reupload this one!
No, the power in balance would be if she screenshot your messages and post them on her Instagram and told everybody your user handle and your shit got blown up. But instead she decided to DM you like person to person so I feel like you’re extremely lucky. #ThatShitIsOverParty.
Right! I was like, "power imbalance?? Girl, what? 🤨"
You can tell that her parents told her that everything against her growing up was an imbalance or injustice.
And I think it’s funny how she decided to pick on SZA when we all know that there are many other artists who would have roasted her so hard if she would’ve deleted her socials.
She actually commented on her post.
@@idkifimokay_7817 I know sweetie I watched the same video you did.
I mean, if she’s a screenshot of the responses and sent her many fans to attack the person who did the “SZA Wack”
@@savannahvicenti3068 Don’t be condescending to me, sweaty.
I wasn't retorting your opinion, I was just adding to it.
12:26 what u wanna bet her friend's 👎 was for her behavior and not sza's😂😂😂
I’m not a Sza fan, but a true fan would never bully an artist that they truly loved. That fan needs to check herself. There is so much hate out there in the world. Why spread negative comments especially if it’s one you know your favorite artist asked people not to do?
Sza handled that situation gracefully and with class. This girl is just upset because she got called out for her actions. Bad behavior has consequences.
Good afternoon Charlotte, I'm happy to say that I found a way to cope with my panic disorder. I found out that whistling is at this point is calming me down with tremendous effect. I haven't had a panic attack in 10 days. Before that I was having a panic attack at least once a week for over 2 years. I'm also volunteering at Brave Hearts every week now, because of how much they've helped me, and to keep me on track to getting back to a paying job. It will still be a long road, yet I'm seeing a faint light of hope at the end of a very long tunnel. Thank you so much for your continued help to this very grateful veteran
Good for you! I´m proud of you💖
Ur laugh is ConTagiOus, watching ur videos is always the best part of the day and not once did i find myself not smiling after watching ur video! Love ur contant and superb job on the editing too.
Thank you
Another day, another Charlotte. Let's do this.
That girl is not a fan let's stop calling her a fan she's a troll.
Right!!! Thank you!
Drama Kween said it best over here on RUclips. She gaslit SZA into letting her actions slide. What she did is despicable.
The ending of the last clip was so darn satisfying and wholesome 💕😘
Definitely with you on the Sza situation. That girl was entitled and rude. Sza however, was graceful, mature and extremely patient with her.
Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Something weird going on with the video...
Hey kids, there's a thing called consequences. Just because you're 15, doesn't mean you won't face consequences.
Morning Nichole!!! ❤
Petty potats!!!! Love you!!!!
Hallooooo Pretty Petties!
Morning! 🥔
The Prettiest potato 💙
I am 74 and I do not know why people these days treat people like they do, in my book there is no room or need for any body no matter what age you are to be rude to any body else. treat people like you wish to be treated with respect
That last video had me thinking that is why we take a fully charged 2 way walkie-talkie when doing a merchandise re-stock/inventory check in the stockroom. ALWAYS! 😂
4:17 if they can understand how to do all THAT then they can understand that credit needs to be given
i think sza was very mature about how she handled it, and that girl was clearly taking/making offense where there was none bc she was upset she got called out.
Too many men know the age of consent but not what consent is. On scout camp told the 17 nearly 18 year old trying to flirt/stalk me I told him I’m 15 and had a boyfriend didn’t care, took our Scout leader telling him to back off before he got the hint