The Truth About Living With In-Laws | Meet Brian’s Mom

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

Комментарии • 216

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish 3 года назад +99

    I love my mother inlaw. She's so funny, fun and loving. She has never once made me feel less of a person because of skin colour. Now she's so far away and I miss her company so much.

  • @Lslaughter3701
    @Lslaughter3701 3 года назад +86

    I love how the parents truly love and show respect for boundaries for Lexi & Brian. It's really beautiful!

  • @loreanjenkins3777
    @loreanjenkins3777 3 года назад +55

    That is awesome guys. My husband's mother moved in with us. We had such a loving, strong, relationship. She passed away a few years ago. I truly miss her everyday.

  • @angelablake4578
    @angelablake4578 3 года назад +52

    The family that pray together stay together.

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 3 года назад +34

    When you love people you genuinely want to do those things that make them happy. You can tell love abounds between Lexie & her Mom-In-Love. I love that everyone knows communication is key to a healthy dynamic. Little Aza will benefit from this time the Parents are in her home. Loved this video

  • @Imv62
    @Imv62 3 года назад +32

    It’s admirable how Cole family respects each other’s boundaries and their communication to one another is valued to make the living arrangements work for all and how Mama Cole is so loving with Lexi .🤗

    • @zoebird6655
      @zoebird6655 3 года назад +2

      It's all about to respect!

  • @ItsPriscillaB
    @ItsPriscillaB 3 года назад +24

    My mom has lived with us twice. She respects boundaries in the same way and has never overstepped. She also happens to be a woman of prayer also. SUPER grateful for her. ♥️

  • @sybilbailey5503
    @sybilbailey5503 3 года назад +24

    Wow you guys are amazing. Your mother in law is so down to earth 🌎. God bless stay safe.🙏🙏🇬🇧🇯🇲

  • @lucyfraser2723
    @lucyfraser2723 3 года назад +5

    Having followed a few interracial couples on this platform, one common trait which I've seen among the parents are their acceptance of their child's choice of life's partner. This to me is exceptionally commendable. They're also so jovial and committed to family.
    Although I've looked at some of your videos, today I've become a new subscriber, because I need to see more of 'mom-in-love.; )'

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +2

      Welcome!! So happy to have you joining these conversations. And I agree - family is everything and we’re very appreciative we have amazing parents. You will see more of them we promise.

  • @wandastroud2887
    @wandastroud2887 3 года назад +7

    Mom is awesome! This is family! Love. Honesty. Transparency. Acceptance. Mutual concern. This is beautiful!

  • @nomusahlogwane6255
    @nomusahlogwane6255 3 года назад +19

    Very relaxing difficult conversation
    U all make it sound so peaceful.love u Snr Mom 4 keeping the crew United. To God be the Glory.

  • @MomentsWithPhoebe
    @MomentsWithPhoebe 3 года назад +8

    Nothing is so sweet like living with your parents so close .I stay close with my husband's parents and they are so sweet and loving. It's just awesome for me.Love you guys❤

  • @cathybozeman4657
    @cathybozeman4657 3 года назад +30

    Although I don’t comment very often…I love the way you all openly love one another.🧡🤍🧡🤍🧡

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +4

      Thank you. We appreciate it!

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 3 года назад +20

    It's great having that kind of relationship. You are blessed.

  • @janicesanders9981
    @janicesanders9981 3 года назад +53

    Aza is going to be super spoiled now for real. That's great!!!

    • @louisanthony927
      @louisanthony927 3 года назад

      Nice, how are you doing over there?

    • @ladyt4062
      @ladyt4062 3 года назад +1

      Definitely Loved!!!

  • @amberscott5659
    @amberscott5659 3 года назад +2

    The love between Lexi and her mom-in-love is so beautiful! I love y'all! 😍🥰🤗💖

  • @barbaralockett2956
    @barbaralockett2956 3 года назад +17

    What a beautiful family, i think it’s an amazing idea for families to live together in harmony, God bless you guys.

  • @cheralewhite8253
    @cheralewhite8253 Год назад

    It is no wonder Brian fell for Lexi. Can totally see how genuine and authentic his mom is, respecting boundaries, but knows how to bring up tough topics too(family chores and who isn't pulling their weight). Totally great overall family unit. Just glad there is so much love and support, all around.

  • @chebyhocutt9055
    @chebyhocutt9055 3 года назад +6

    Now I see also who Aza favors as well! The love is so generous and genuine!
    I love it! Aza is so much surrounded by love

  • @sharonkirkaldy8776
    @sharonkirkaldy8776 3 года назад +2

    This is why you guys r one of my favorite family’s . Showing the the world mother in love can work. Brian u r a blessed man and u know it!! 💖💖💖

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +1

      Yes I am! So blessed and grateful. Thank you for that.

  • @sharonadams2858
    @sharonadams2858 3 года назад +4

    The most important and common denominator of such an amazing relationship between you all is the Anchoring relationship that you each have with our INCREDIBLE GOD. When He remains center & foremost, His guidance will never fail us. Your family dynamics is simply AMAZING! I see God in the midst. 🤎🤗🤎

  • @bettymaxwell6029
    @bettymaxwell6029 3 года назад +15

    I LOVE THIS COUPLE SO FREAKIN MUCH! God bless y'all.

  • @mosesoluwagbemigaolabodela3480
    @mosesoluwagbemigaolabodela3480 3 года назад +4

    I am loving this woman more and more whenever am watching their videos

  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith3443 3 года назад +7

    I love your family Dynamics, why can't more families be like this love and respect each other's boundaries.🤗❤

  • @redd2sons
    @redd2sons 3 года назад +4

    Just a beautiful Mom all the way around. Loves her son and his choice of a life mate. They are so comfortable around their kids and that’s a big plus. True Love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @splchicago4636
    @splchicago4636 3 года назад +9

    That was great. Lexi, you have such a great relationship with your MIL. She’s funny too. So much wisdom!

  • @vanessamilton82
    @vanessamilton82 3 года назад +3

    Love the way the family is coming together and the beautiful relationship growing between Mother and Daughter

  • @MariniFacey
    @MariniFacey 3 года назад +4

    This is so refreshing and delightful! It's lovely to see the bond ya'll have and that y'all cut through the stigma of what in-laws will be like. This is such a blessing! 💞😇🤗💞

  • @teresiamaina1720
    @teresiamaina1720 3 года назад +1

    This is why I love your channel. The openness and vulnerability of your family, which is what we all face. Thanks for being real and authentic. I love y'all Cole family❤💖

  • @deeroberson1208
    @deeroberson1208 3 года назад +4

    Such a Beautiful family!!!! So refreshing to see how genuine everyone’s relationships are!!! Bravo 🙌🏽

  • @mmaolisae3675
    @mmaolisae3675 3 года назад +3

    Yay happy to see Momma Cole! I love her relationship with Lexi. After reading the comments I can see how Aza looks like her. So cute! 😍☺️

  • @mauangmil8612
    @mauangmil8612 3 года назад +40

    Great when extended family can get along

  • @Wlf5953
    @Wlf5953 3 года назад +2

    Space and being respectful within that dynamic is so important,glad you all were able to grow and appreciate each other through whatever transpired.
    Stay safe/ healthy
    Shalom

  • @diannemorefield6021
    @diannemorefield6021 3 года назад +12

    You guys are the most Blessed family ever! Love ❤️ this.

  • @franceschoi4555
    @franceschoi4555 3 года назад +15

    Thank you, Coles family for sharing, about the living arrangements with in law's and having a healthy relationship, Beautiful!

  • @h.patriciablackshire6003
    @h.patriciablackshire6003 3 года назад

    My first viewing, you blew me away with your pure essence- your beings. Your words felt so sincere. We need more of this on Planet Earth - COMMUNITY! A family blossoming in today's world - awesome! Thank you and many blessings! And. A hug for Baby Asa!😇

  • @chidinmaekwe3236
    @chidinmaekwe3236 3 года назад +11

    I’m loving this family Cole even more!💕💕💐As an African it’s always a cultural obligation to keep our aged or aging parents close to us.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +4

      Absolutely love that! American culture does not typically embrace that ideal but we do. It’s so important.

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin6211 3 года назад +2

    I Love how you all get a long communication is so important thanks for sharing that’s that Godly Love.

  • @francesiadams7723
    @francesiadams7723 3 года назад +1

    Nothing like family when you need them, they are always there and every one is very truthful with each other, I'm happy with your parents moving next door.

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 3 года назад +1

    This is the kind of connection that makes God Divine smile.

  • @RaisingNine
    @RaisingNine 3 года назад +1

    I'm about to have our mother in law move in to our new home!!! Send prayers!!! I love her but my husband always gives her what she wants even if means going against what i prefer.

  • @mcmic1212
    @mcmic1212 3 года назад +15

    Their house looks so nice, wow!

  • @carolyngordon2225
    @carolyngordon2225 3 года назад +1

    What a sweet MomInLove!!!! Blessings to you all and your growing community of love. 😍

  • @MariniFacey
    @MariniFacey 3 года назад +2

    Lex and Brian, ya'll are such visionaries! It's wonderful how much ya'll dream and things come to fruition, because ya'll have vision! Wonderful! Blessings to your families!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! One of my favorite things to do is plan for the future and get excited about what we can build.

    • @MariniFacey
      @MariniFacey 3 года назад

      @@TheColeLife That is God breathed🕊 for sure and such a gift🎁 you've been given, being a visionary! 👏🏾

  • @joannwimberly5223
    @joannwimberly5223 3 года назад +4

    Great family. As a new subscriber who doesn't normally comment but always give a thumbs up, I really enjoy you guys videos. Stay blessed Cole Family.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад

      Thank you! We really appreciate that. 😊

  • @sondraurgelles8530
    @sondraurgelles8530 3 года назад

    Love this video family means everything ❤Great to hear Mom and Dad are moving in and building their home next door. Living together is always a challenge but it doesn't have to be a disaster. Enjoy these precious times once again under the same roof. You're teaching your daughter some great lessons about love and sacrifices. Keep the special videos coming.

  • @Reos417
    @Reos417 3 года назад +12

    I love the family relationship and when Lexi said this is mom. I don't like using mother in law. Beautiful and the spirituality that exist.

  • @CA-he4nj
    @CA-he4nj 3 года назад +1

    So beautiful to see the loving relationship among the family! God Bless you all and love to Aza!🙏🏾

  • @jaelee3826
    @jaelee3826 3 года назад +1

    Awwwwww, I absolutely love you all.. Brian, your mom is such a sweetheart!!! I pray that I will meet you all one day!!!!

  • @mamieteagle5394
    @mamieteagle5394 3 года назад +1

    You’re a beautiful family. It’s wonderful living next door to the grandparents. I enjoyed this experience when I was young. I have wonderful memories of it. God bless you and the family.❤️❤️❤️😊

  • @dorrishaynes8349
    @dorrishaynes8349 3 года назад +8

    Beautiful family dynamics!

  • @rogenak6542
    @rogenak6542 3 года назад +1

    I love the beauty of your family dynamics! Love effuses from all of you! Blessings on the rapid construction of your family’s home!🙏🏽❤️

  • @platinumbranch2056
    @platinumbranch2056 3 года назад +7

    Awww, such a nice, and realistic video. The love is visibly tangible so I definitely see how it's working. So, where are the other two brothers living now?

  • @CC-lp2us
    @CC-lp2us 3 года назад +10

    Love the Chemistry and Respect 😄🌹👍🏾

  • @maryjackson2946
    @maryjackson2946 3 года назад

    THIS IS REALLY NICE TO HAVE LOVING AND RESPECTFUL IN LAWS. I'M GLAD THAT Y'ALL CAN GET ALONG SO WELL. MAY GOD BLESSINGS,COURAGE AND STRENGTH CONTINUE TO BE WITH YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS. 🙂💖🙏🙏🙏

  • @donnahood6917
    @donnahood6917 3 года назад

    Your family is a blessing and an inspiration. Thanks for sharing and being transparent!

  • @rosalynblocker541
    @rosalynblocker541 3 года назад +1

    I loved the family dynamics going on. I felt like a distant family member for real. Thanks🙏🏾

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 3 года назад +2

    Communication is key. I’m glad that all of you were willing to ask for what you needed and respect each others’ boundaries/personal space.

  • @bettyharris7812
    @bettyharris7812 3 года назад +1

    Such family love!! Great daughter- N- love & great mother- N- love !! Stay blessed Cole family. Love y'all.

  • @thetwinfamily6169
    @thetwinfamily6169 3 года назад +3

    Aww what a great sweet mom / mom law you have and I know your father/ father law
    Is the same. I also lived with more brothers then sisters. You all relationship is great even from looking at pass videos you can tell the family support. I only wish my parents and n laws were still here. Blessing for a close family relationship forever ❤

  • @ThePsimmons3821
    @ThePsimmons3821 3 года назад +1

    I Love The Cole Family 🥰😍May God Continue To Bless Your Family🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @altrinaallen887
    @altrinaallen887 3 года назад +3

    You guys have a very lovable family having your mother-in-law living with you guys until the house get finished getting built it's beautiful good luck

  • @Eyerusalem_
    @Eyerusalem_ 3 года назад +2

    I don’t even know how this was in my recommendation, you guys seem to be great family.

  • @shakinariley6272
    @shakinariley6272 3 года назад +1

    I just love the love from this beautiful family, Lexi is so sweet, beautiful video

  • @noreenlovelock9899
    @noreenlovelock9899 3 года назад +1

    Aww thanks for sharing you are all truly bless. Brian your mum is just awesome 👏🙏💖

  • @LisaPadenTPGB
    @LisaPadenTPGB 3 года назад +1

    Just a suggestion to you because we recently completed our basement. To remove a majority of the dust while renovating, consider renting a negative air machine. It's the best!

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt4062 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful Love!!!
    I miss my parents staying in the same State!!
    Everything
    changed after Hurricane Katrina!!

  • @namasebo231
    @namasebo231 3 года назад +6

    I have a great relationship with my mother-in-law.

  • @kayekaye08
    @kayekaye08 3 года назад +14

    I feel like I'm looking at Aza's twin🤩 she took Mom's WHOLE face

  • @pamsaunders6044
    @pamsaunders6044 3 года назад +1

    Once there is love among each other , there will always be a healthy and happy home. Just keep it real.😇💞❤️🙏🏽

  • @alexiadaniel4585
    @alexiadaniel4585 3 года назад

    I enjoy the mature conversations that they have with each other. I wish this would be the same for most adults now-a- days, instead of being quick to anger.
    Imagine the amount of problems that would be resolved in the world today, if people just have mature conversations.

  • @Shayechique
    @Shayechique 3 года назад

    Amazing video. I’ve been through this too and it is a definite learning curve

  • @morgan.a.mcneill
    @morgan.a.mcneill 3 года назад

    love the relationship between lexi + mama cole 🧡!! so beautiful!

  • @vickiemurph
    @vickiemurph 3 года назад +1

    Your family is very special. God bless you all. ❤🙏

  • @feliciaTox48
    @feliciaTox48 3 года назад

    Love it..It's so refreshing too see a loving family!!

  • @sharonkaysnowton
    @sharonkaysnowton 3 года назад

    I love this family! What a blessing they are with each other and for us.

  • @taiwodavid7462
    @taiwodavid7462 3 года назад +2

    I love this conversation, beautiful family

  • @SpanishAcademyTV
    @SpanishAcademyTV 3 года назад +2

    I love how your family engages with one another! ❤️
    Have you considered learning Spanish as another activity to enjoy together?
    We would love to partner with you!

  • @mimiwright3029
    @mimiwright3029 3 года назад +7

    Love this family!!!!!

  • @angel29616
    @angel29616 3 года назад

    Such a beautiful family...I love the love you have for one another....Blessing beyond measure to your family❤😇

  • @cocosmith12
    @cocosmith12 3 года назад +1

    Wowww may God keep blessing you 🙏this is so sweet 💖 Brian is so sweet so is his family. .lexi,she is a good wife 👌#i always pray for a loving in law family and I believe God will do it.

  • @bolaokeowo3092
    @bolaokeowo3092 3 года назад

    Love you guys! So good to see positivity in family relationships

  • @ceceliadavis1999
    @ceceliadavis1999 3 года назад +1

    Servant that's a strong word and a lot of us find it hard to be that. As Christians that is supposed to be us so we have to do a better job, good conversation 👍

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад

      That’s a very strong word! 😂😂 but it’s real! We need to embrace serving one another like Christ did

  • @joycedauzart4764
    @joycedauzart4764 3 года назад +1

    This family is so beautiful.

  • @yemi5193
    @yemi5193 3 года назад

    Lovely video. I always like your honesty where you talk and the good and the bad. So that people looking in don’t think everything is all on point all the time. Love the video as usual and mama cole, God bless you real good 😌

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +1

      Thank you. That means a lot to us. Being genuine and transparent is really the most impactful. Nothing in life is ever perfect and it’s very dangerous for people on social media to paint a picture that it is because viewers can begin to fantasize about a life they want that isn’t even real.

    • @yemi5193
      @yemi5193 3 года назад

      @@TheColeLife it’s so true. Blessings to your family

  • @latricebader9226
    @latricebader9226 3 года назад +2

    What a beautiful family and awesome example for Aza.

  • @JessNell8
    @JessNell8 3 года назад

    Beautiful family God bless you all...Lexi love your headband matching Brian's sweater. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @shirleyhardnett6067
    @shirleyhardnett6067 3 года назад +3

    Beautiful lovely couple.beautiful little baby girl. I love watching your video

  • @caramelqueen6943
    @caramelqueen6943 3 года назад +1

    @thecolelife 😘❤ As always, lovely video. Nice to have family nearby, love your relationships.

  • @feliciasmith150
    @feliciasmith150 3 года назад +4

    Blessings to you all 💝❤️💝

  • @ohglory3924
    @ohglory3924 3 года назад +13

    Brian scarism "I was living with a girl, she was my wife"

  • @AYODIFAMILY
    @AYODIFAMILY 3 года назад +12

    Yall look so happy together Ouaaaw 🥰 But... I COULD NEEEVERRRR 😂😂😂

    • @Ismaetha
      @Ismaetha 3 года назад

      🤭🤭🤭 girrrllll

    • @NaidaAri
      @NaidaAri 3 года назад +1

      Same.

    • @melliemel32
      @melliemel32 3 года назад

      If you needed to & TRUST & OBEY the Lord, He’s help you through it. 🙏🏽😁

  • @valerienuby1158
    @valerienuby1158 3 года назад

    Enjoyed video.Nice to see you guys get along

  • @ruthwells1389
    @ruthwells1389 3 года назад +3

    Beautiful family 🙏

  • @lydiamarlow2171
    @lydiamarlow2171 3 года назад +1

    At the beginning, I had mixed thoughts, however, listening to your family encounters, I not only heard but felt the truth coming out. Especially, the salient points on communication, respect and caring for each other.
    Next episode let us see Dad's and Mom's on both sides talking about their relationship. Also, how are Brian's bothers getting along without Mom and Dad.🙌💞☺️

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад

      Yes, those things are so crucial to make this work. And my brothers are doing great. Nathan is in an apartment on his own and is engaged now. Matthew also has an apartment by himself.

  • @shaleenaw39
    @shaleenaw39 3 года назад +1

    I love the we are living in a community and it’s very nice.

  • @CC-lp2us
    @CC-lp2us 3 года назад +3

    Awesome Family ❤️

  • @denisejohnson1729
    @denisejohnson1729 3 года назад +1

    Family is all about love family is all about being there for one another family is family and we love him one another no matter what Gabriel’s you’ll see your next one miss seeing baby girl hope to see you soon God bless stay healthy and safe

  • @DM-xu9yw
    @DM-xu9yw 3 года назад +1

    Where the brothers moving to. They aren’t moving in also? I live such a busy life but whenever I get an opportunity to catch up on videos, you guys make me so happy to see a loving familyship

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  3 года назад +1

      That’s amazing - thank you for catching up with us. Nathan is in an apartment by himself and is now engaged. Matthew is also in an apartment by himself.

  • @ashleymiller7391
    @ashleymiller7391 3 года назад +1

    I really enjoyed this video!