How to feel queer enough (proven technique)

I get asked this so often. How do I feel queer enough? How do I feel queer enough to be in the queer community? What if I’m not queer enough to be accepted or to fit in?
It’s understandable. Many of us from less recognised parts of the community fear this and it’s okay. I’m here to let you know how you can break free of this worry.
This video goes through some real tried and tested techniques to ensure that you are feeling confident in your queerness in no time. You will be feeling queer enough in any situation.
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[@SteveJobsIsGod]

Thanks for this, as a masc presenting guy it’s hard to tell for other people what I “am” and I definitely fall between most peoples labels!
It’s hard being queer and having to explain that I don’t fit peoples labels

[@panthersworld5587]

Being different can be very unique

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Your videos are so soothing and nice. It’s always nice to tune in.

[@notdefining]

Oh thank you!

[@jiliciar.1423]

Thank you for this. 💟

[@notdefining]

You are so welcome!

[@Biggest_Luisa_Fan]

Always love watching your vids!🤗 I agree with what you said about gatekeeping. Like you said, it absolutely goes against what the LGBTQ+ community stands for. I struggle feeling "queer enough" too sometimes. This is some great advice! I think it's definitely important to validate yourself and build your own confidence, rather than constantly seeking approval or invitation from others. Thank you for this, seriously. (By the way, I love your nail polish!!)

[@notdefining]

Omg thanks 🩷

[@Biggest_Luisa_Fan]

@@notdefining My pleasure!😄

[@Minttwo]

"I'm queer! Enough! " will be my new mantra 😊 Those of us who have more fluent attractions seem to have more nuanced understanding in different attractions and experiences and are more interested and tolerating of "other microlabel queers". I can love anybody and it's wonderful to find others who can understand that not everything is always this or that, "maybe it's not that romantic this time" or "maybe it's not that sexual this time", but it all flows at its own pace.

[@notdefining]

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[@vincentimbesi3947]

You have the best videos! 👍🏼

[@notdefining]

Wow, thanks!

[@mike.B.1]

You're very handsome 😍

[@notdefining]

Thank you. You are too kind.

[@angelaholmes8888]

Love this video ❤❤😊

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Thank you!!