How to beat biphobic arguments every time | Bisexual Self Confidence Coach explains!

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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2024

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  • @notdefining
    @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +5

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  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 7 месяцев назад +9

    5:56 THANK YOU FOR ARTICULATING THIS! Not everything is negotiable and has a middle ground. A lot of bigots (and centrists) use that as an excuse to be ‘contrary’ which is dangerous.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 7 месяцев назад +10

    WELCOME BACK! Let’s get our boxing gloves ready against Biphobia. Let’s be ‘bash’ full.

  • @Ephebvs
    @Ephebvs 7 месяцев назад +6

    My hubby who's bi, told me about the fact that dolphins only reproduce in bisexual orgies hahaha!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +6

      Very true. All animal species that have ever been studied show a very common incidence of bisexuality. In fact it’s completely commonplace in nature.

    • @Ephebvs
      @Ephebvs 7 месяцев назад

      @@notdefining I believe bisexuality is more common in nature than homosexuality, although some gay penguins pair forever. Apes, primates fight for territory and sometimes the winner tops the one who lost the fight as a symbol of status, power, similarly to human prisons.

  • @SakanaDrawing
    @SakanaDrawing 7 месяцев назад +8

    Im just starting to fully accept that im bisexual, but have been mostly been met with biphobia online and it has really been difficult. I had hoped i would feel welcomed into the lgbtq community but now i have been left with a sad feeling in my stomach... i never realised how big of a problem this is.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +4

      Hey there. Thank you for sharing what you’ve been going through. We are so proud of you and you are so warmly welcome and loved here in this community. 🩷🩷🩷

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 7 месяцев назад

      * SO they can Waltz off to Tartarus

  • @panthersworld5587
    @panthersworld5587 7 месяцев назад +6

    No matter what happens some people still don't understand some are still unaware some people still don't want to accept it some knew but just don't want to deal with it can never control what the world would do to us

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +2

      Very true. It is up to us to own our own happiness and confidence in that world. They will catch up eventually when they realise they can’t bring us down.

    • @panthersworld5587
      @panthersworld5587 7 месяцев назад

      @@notdefining yep

    • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
      @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@notdefining Love this!!! ^^

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 7 месяцев назад +5

    7:00 Where were you a few days ago when I was fighting with a troll? Although I did feel I gave it back to them. Sorry but I am petty.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +2

      Hey that’s okay. We all get drawn in sometimes. As long as we are conscious of it. The question to ask is; am I in control of this or am I being controlled? We want the former. Then you can’t get hurt.

  • @dkgaming1842
    @dkgaming1842 7 месяцев назад +3

    I feel so left out as a bi person, especially at PRIDE events they always skip over bi when shouting out the different LGBTQ 😅🥹

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +3

      I know it’s wild. Well you’re not left out here.

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 7 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed . Absolutely immediately. I am me 100% of the time. I am very forward about the fact that I'm bisexual. I have every reaction under the sun. From "Yay!". To " oh... You're just greedy.". 🤣. If someone reacts badly, that has nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them.

    • @rhythmoflove2
      @rhythmoflove2 6 месяцев назад +1

      As a bi queer woman, I do NOT support pride! Why should I support a group of people who h.te or question my reality?
      🩷💜💙

  • @Public.Enemy.Number1
    @Public.Enemy.Number1 7 месяцев назад +3

    I don't care what others think because why should I, what do I gain from people being blatantly hatful.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. Love this energy.

  • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
    @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 7 месяцев назад +3

    I keep trying to post a longer comment I wanted to say but RUclips keeps deleting it.😭 Oh well...in short, what I wanted to say is that I absolutely love the points you made here and they are all something we should live by!!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  7 месяцев назад +3

      Hey omg thank you for saying. I’m so glad you liked the video. Thank you for being here and for your lovely comment. It made my day.

  • @elicordero4019
    @elicordero4019 3 месяца назад +1

    As a bisexual man the lifestyle is hard because of the somewhat double standard.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад

      Hey thanks for saying. I totally feel you.

  • @essaeldridgeYoBro
    @essaeldridgeYoBro 3 месяца назад

    Please help me.
    I was watching another RUclips channel and someone bi said they played both sides.
    As a femme non binary person I kinda saw that as erasure of anyone who’s not on the binary.
    I know lots of bi people are actually inclusive and not transphobic, but in my opinion this was.
    Whether it’s erasure or ignorance I found it offensive and when I challenged it, nothing was said.
    So bi is meant to mean two or more?