How to beat biphobic arguments every time | Bisexual Self Confidence Coach explains!

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  • Опубликовано: 21 мар 2024
  • Biphobia is sadly all around us. Many of us deal with biphobic comments all the time and it can be incredibly difficult to deal with.
    This video gives expert advice on how to destroy biphobic arguments every single time. Learn to confront biphobia confidently and assertively with this method.
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  • @notdefining
    @notdefining  3 месяца назад +3

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  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 месяца назад +8

    5:56 THANK YOU FOR ARTICULATING THIS! Not everything is negotiable and has a middle ground. A lot of bigots (and centrists) use that as an excuse to be ‘contrary’ which is dangerous.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 месяца назад +9

    WELCOME BACK! Let’s get our boxing gloves ready against Biphobia. Let’s be ‘bash’ full.

  • @SakanaDrawing
    @SakanaDrawing 3 месяца назад +6

    Im just starting to fully accept that im bisexual, but have been mostly been met with biphobia online and it has really been difficult. I had hoped i would feel welcomed into the lgbtq community but now i have been left with a sad feeling in my stomach... i never realised how big of a problem this is.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +3

      Hey there. Thank you for sharing what you’ve been going through. We are so proud of you and you are so warmly welcome and loved here in this community. 🩷🩷🩷

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 3 месяца назад

      * SO they can Waltz off to Tartarus

  • @panthersworld5587
    @panthersworld5587 3 месяца назад +5

    No matter what happens some people still don't understand some are still unaware some people still don't want to accept it some knew but just don't want to deal with it can never control what the world would do to us

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +1

      Very true. It is up to us to own our own happiness and confidence in that world. They will catch up eventually when they realise they can’t bring us down.

    • @panthersworld5587
      @panthersworld5587 3 месяца назад

      @@notdefining yep

    • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
      @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 3 месяца назад +1

      @@notdefining Love this!!! ^^

  • @Ephebvs
    @Ephebvs 3 месяца назад +5

    My hubby who's bi, told me about the fact that dolphins only reproduce in bisexual orgies hahaha!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +4

      Very true. All animal species that have ever been studied show a very common incidence of bisexuality. In fact it’s completely commonplace in nature.

    • @Ephebvs
      @Ephebvs 3 месяца назад

      @@notdefining I believe bisexuality is more common in nature than homosexuality, although some gay penguins pair forever. Apes, primates fight for territory and sometimes the winner tops the one who lost the fight as a symbol of status, power, similarly to human prisons.

  • @TopGigaChad96
    @TopGigaChad96 3 месяца назад +3

    I don't care what others think because why should I, what do I gain from people being blatantly hatful.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly. Love this energy.

  • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
    @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 3 месяца назад +2

    I keep trying to post a longer comment I wanted to say but RUclips keeps deleting it.😭 Oh well...in short, what I wanted to say is that I absolutely love the points you made here and they are all something we should live by!!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +2

      Hey omg thank you for saying. I’m so glad you liked the video. Thank you for being here and for your lovely comment. It made my day.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 месяца назад +5

    7:00 Where were you a few days ago when I was fighting with a troll? Although I did feel I gave it back to them. Sorry but I am petty.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +2

      Hey that’s okay. We all get drawn in sometimes. As long as we are conscious of it. The question to ask is; am I in control of this or am I being controlled? We want the former. Then you can’t get hurt.

  • @dkgaming1842
    @dkgaming1842 3 месяца назад +3

    I feel so left out as a bi person, especially at PRIDE events they always skip over bi when shouting out the different LGBTQ 😅🥹

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  3 месяца назад +3

      I know it’s wild. Well you’re not left out here.

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 2 месяца назад +1

      Agreed . Absolutely immediately. I am me 100% of the time. I am very forward about the fact that I'm bisexual. I have every reaction under the sun. From "Yay!". To " oh... You're just greedy.". 🤣. If someone reacts badly, that has nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them.

    • @rhythmoflove2
      @rhythmoflove2 2 месяца назад +1

      As a bi queer woman, I do NOT support pride! Why should I support a group of people who h.te or question my reality?
      🩷💜💙