The pain of losing my mother, child and endless fights with my girlfriend's mother | Summer Family

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 года назад +195

    Good morning team LNN.
    What message do you have for Summer?
    You can reach him on 0723250207
    Catch him on his channel here ruclips.net/user/THEESUMMERFAMILY
    To share your story with us, send an email to info@Lnn.digital
    See you tomorrow at 10am for Becky's episode

    • @felixmajorvlogs598
      @felixmajorvlogs598 2 года назад +70

      True story .... 😭😭😭😭James was my high school mate.... Same form but different stream.... James went through alot .... It's a true story 😭😭😭

    • @churchillomondi7253
      @churchillomondi7253 2 года назад +6

      Poleni

    • @kendimuhoro8471
      @kendimuhoro8471 2 года назад +25

      @Lynn I wish my brother could agree to open up. He grew up in the streets alone with no one. He's been in jail several times, he would steal tajen to jail and steal again when he's released simply because in jail there was food and shelter. He's grown up now and has a family. He has not yet made it in life but for me he's an example of there's life even when you have no one.

    • @victoriawaithera126
      @victoriawaithera126 2 года назад +6

      Take heart sometimes things happen and you are so powerless and people who are close will heart you the most

    • @raychlucky2050
      @raychlucky2050 2 года назад +3

      @@felixmajorvlogs598 woyeee he went through

  • @commentator254
    @commentator254 2 года назад +118

    Thank you Lyne for hosting this amazing couple. It only gets better from here🙏 Mungu mbele

    • @sallyakinyi3638
      @sallyakinyi3638 2 года назад +1

      And it's because of you we knew wot they were going through....thanks Comme

    • @nancywanjiku5552
      @nancywanjiku5552 2 года назад

      Amen....and be blessed for the shout out🙏🙏

    • @JacklynMuriungi
      @JacklynMuriungi 2 года назад

      ThankYou Comme...

  • @rebbecahkhiranga3266
    @rebbecahkhiranga3266 2 года назад +135

    We rebuke spirit of rejection in Jesus name 👏 I thought I was alone..the only people who hurt us big are family members are relative's..Lyn one day I will open up to you my story.my name is also Becky..I pray for this young man may God open up his ways and may have a bright future.. keep up the good job Lyn👏

    • @fatumaabdi7986
      @fatumaabdi7986 2 года назад +8

      Am also a victim 😓 I ran away from my country I'll be back after 7yrs I need to heal 💔

    • @christinekaros9202
      @christinekaros9202 2 года назад +1

      I am with you in this,I decided to cut off but I'm in the healing journey

    • @michelbahati6714
      @michelbahati6714 2 года назад +1

      Same with me, mungu ni mungu,,,,,

  • @Nancymutahi66
    @Nancymutahi66 2 года назад +176

    This has directed me to pastor T's teaching on rejection...for you to get rejected there is something big and I mean a blessing in your way ..summer your are the Joseph in the bible

  • @qamarabey8089
    @qamarabey8089 2 года назад +117

    This young man is eloquent...mashaAllah.. educating a girl..is eradicating poverty......

  • @naomihall802
    @naomihall802 2 года назад +51

    I love this kid sooo much, I have gone through similar experiences but God will change his life for good as my life can attest of God's goodness. The education that I didn't get in my childhood I have just graduated with bachelors of Medical Sciences and will be finishing my masters in my fifth decade. So all dreams are valid and they will come to pass. I was called all names but that does not deter God's blessings on my life and my children for He's not a son of man

  • @winnienatalia
    @winnienatalia 2 года назад +291

    this is where i say you have the right to cut off anyone bringing negativity in your life even if it's FAMILY !!!!! may God open doors for you Summer

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 2 года назад +3

      💯

    • @Flametales-r4h
      @Flametales-r4h 2 года назад +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @annenimo5171
      @annenimo5171 2 года назад +1

      Yes it's true Lynn that person being your mum it's very difficult to cut her off Hakuna courage💔

    • @bettynino7354
      @bettynino7354 2 года назад +3

      True, that’s what I decided to do

    • @Minister-Delina.
      @Minister-Delina. 2 года назад

      I cut off my parents too. They chose witchcraft i chose God. They are always after my life after they killed my sister. But they sure are paying hard now

  • @MamaD-2016
    @MamaD-2016 2 года назад +259

    These kids have gone through a lot, yet in the midst of it they were a beacon of hope to a young widow called Koko.
    They were pouring her with love and grace yet they are also in their own realm of pain.
    James just so you know, you can cut off family. Do not hesitate to walk away from tables where respect is not served.
    Mama Becky has nothing on you. Let no one tell you she has your blessings. God commands your destiny.

  • @joycekanema870
    @joycekanema870 2 года назад +32

    Lynn you are God sent as a voice for the voiceless.
    My heart goes out to James Summer and how much he's carrying on his young shoulders.
    I am a mother three sons and a daughter (all four older than James) and I hurt to think that people continue to hurt James who's mother is not there to protect him.
    I have just subscribed to "The Summer Family" and this is just the beginning of my support for this young couple.
    Wipe those tears James and cry no more. Once you sit on that chair of Lynn Ngugi.....that's it !!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Jennifer_kim94
    @Jennifer_kim94 2 года назад +180

    Joseph was hated by his brothers, rejected and sold out but its through that God was preparing him for greatness same thing he is working on your life Summer. All this shall bring out victory in you.. Becky and your siblings. Hugs summer and good Job Lynn and your team for bringing this stories to us and your space to impact lives. Baraka

    • @Joyful-gu5bj
      @Joyful-gu5bj 2 года назад

      Jennifer. Amen and Amen.

    • @kinjowadad2422
      @kinjowadad2422 2 года назад

      True.

    • @maryjabernyiri8497
      @maryjabernyiri8497 2 года назад

      Amen 🙏🙏

    • @Bogohoney
      @Bogohoney 2 года назад

      Amen I know I,m the Joseph here...and by now I,m two years ...sijai kanyaga kwetu...it pains me so hard to know my mum hates or dispises me

  • @lifeofsheila4041
    @lifeofsheila4041 2 года назад +90

    Aawww thank you Lynn for hosting these kids aki ....I just want them to know that it's okay to cut off people even family...it's too much especially when it's a mom who clearly doesn't have an open mind and basically doesn't have the best interest for her daughter...Becky it's okay to walk away and live your life...you guys are young but you're also grown and wise...I know you can do great things together keep growing your empire...mjisomeshe and live your life the way you want to. The sky is not even the limit....you got this💞

    • @marywasai1705
      @marywasai1705 2 года назад +2

      James even if the world rejects you ,God is always with you.God will never reject you my son.Joseph suffered but the end was sweet.you will have the best.jst believe in God.

  • @stelakantai2062
    @stelakantai2062 2 года назад +71

    It's amazing you called yourself Summer coz that in itself means you are a ray of sunshine and will stand in the gap for your family...you will thrive and be amazing

  • @sherrigtk4407
    @sherrigtk4407 2 года назад +34

    Lynn's empathy makes me believe there are gud pple out there.....thanks Lynn

  • @lizsonny7460
    @lizsonny7460 2 года назад +22

    This is sad...😭😭🥺🥺,he has been chasing love,acceptances,to fill in the space...aki this breaks my heart as a parent.....polygamy is destroying destinies....May God heal this soul

  • @RiseandImpact
    @RiseandImpact 2 года назад +56

    If you watched this and didn't shade tears then I don't know what will shake you. I don't want to say I understand what he went through but I really feel his pain. You are indeed very strong Summer and you are the hero of your family 😍😍May God protect you and guide you in every decision that you take and I wish you all the best.
    One thing I like to remind myself is that " life without struggles is not worth talking about" Your story is indeed inspiring and you just proved that Young people are able and capable.🤗🤗🤗🤗Love from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @topnineshow
    @topnineshow 2 года назад +84

    I started watching these guys on their first video. Haven't watched them in a while but they're the most genuine RUclipsrs I came across last year. Wishing them more success.

    • @shufaaesala3511
      @shufaaesala3511 2 года назад +1

      What's the name of there youtube channel

    • @patriciamarcella1360
      @patriciamarcella1360 2 года назад +6

      @@shufaaesala3511 The SUMMER FAMILY

    • @shufaaesala3511
      @shufaaesala3511 2 года назад +1

      @@patriciamarcella1360 thanks

    • @verrymoraa2119
      @verrymoraa2119 2 года назад +1

      Very true

    • @everlynesenelwa7027
      @everlynesenelwa7027 Год назад +1

      Jemo never give up..God has season for all this..I have watched this and it really broke my heart....And I know you will be the light to your siblings.

  • @camelineomukami9047
    @camelineomukami9047 2 года назад +102

    I felt like you were too young to live together but had a feeling that there was something different about you guys.Whoa!This says a lot about never pointing fingers till you know one's backstory.😍😍

  • @aliceotieno
    @aliceotieno 2 года назад +12

    I wish I can sit down with Lyn Ngugi one day to share my story with her coz this the kind of life I went thru coz of rejection,,, I'm still out of the country but I will send an email 📧 to Lyn when I'm almost coming back home,, how I wish if my uncle who is a lecturer at Musinde Muliro can watch this so that he can thru this young determined composed boy,,,it's very painful in deed. Nimelia yangu yote. Thanks Lyn for sharing this.

  • @purpleboge8218
    @purpleboge8218 2 года назад +15

    I love this young Man, @23 he has been through alot , yet he has remained strong and Brave, i have cried with him,and felt his pain, My advice to Summer is that he should remain strong, he reminded me of my own past, was rejected by my own family, on 3 occasions i attempted suicide, but i sat down and told myself that i will not give them an opportunity to win, God has seen me through, when i stood on my feet, i was hated more than they hated me when i had nothing, the same hatred has been passed to my daughter, like summer i always wear a brave face in public but i break down when am alone but i keep on Fighting, Summer, God created you with a purpose, chase that purpose and put God first, they are watching you and believe me, they will see you on top and will be ashamed of themselves, Mob Love and Blessings.

    • @carolinefinna4033
      @carolinefinna4033 2 года назад

      Seek deliverance from the spirit of rejection.Pastor Ezekiel of New Life Mombasa, Pastor John Kimani, Pastor Rai of Mombasa, Pastor Jane King'ori of Nairobi.....we live because of God's Grace.We walk strong for His favour.

  • @wycliffelevigan6702
    @wycliffelevigan6702 2 года назад +17

    The relationship summer is describing with his mother is the same one I have with mine I wouldn't be where I am if it wasn't for her resilience and sacrifices I thank God for her each and everyday....

  • @alphasworld7848
    @alphasworld7848 2 года назад +86

    When he started whispering about his failed dreams I broke down.. This is so heartbreaking

  • @evakariuki6697
    @evakariuki6697 2 года назад +16

    This guy is so awesome and amazing . If all had heroes like this one . Summer is the knight in a shinning amor for Becky. His crying and carrying the burden for this young girl yet it's not his responsibility. God bless you. One in a million guys.

  • @jacdez3520
    @jacdez3520 2 года назад +51

    Family isn’t always blood. Lynn I hope this interview touches many. He’s is a real man even through tears and hardships.

  • @evepatrick5235
    @evepatrick5235 2 года назад +46

    7 years from today u will come here happily married with the love of your life and already achieved what you want to do in life

  • @Luvandwajacy
    @Luvandwajacy 2 года назад +58

    We rebuke every spirit of rejection from our parents,,our family in the mighty name of Jesus,, Amen,,Becky and James you blessed!!!all shall come to pass

  • @fidelliswambui6217
    @fidelliswambui6217 2 года назад +11

    Your destiny is so great James, that's why the enemy is fighting you so hard. Seek God with all your might. Atakushindania

  • @jenardmwiggeh9093
    @jenardmwiggeh9093 2 года назад +14

    It is very sad indeed,when some mother's are on their knees praying God to salvage their teenage children from prostitution,drug abuse and all other evils, Becky's mum is doing the opposite! This is more of a spiritual warfare,and Summers you have to fight it spiritually,find a church that can nurture,teach and help you fight this battle as we fans also pray with you,but Kama Ile ya Virginia na Kamotho tulitoboa, hat hii tutaweza,nothing is too hard for God!

  • @felistermwongeli6334
    @felistermwongeli6334 2 года назад +15

    This guy is so strong and he's going far thank you Lynn for hosting this family God bless you 🙏

  • @mitchellnamiso
    @mitchellnamiso 2 года назад +111

    The people you call family will always hurt you the most but we always forgive them regardless ... Be strong let go and let God

    • @winfredrhoda408
      @winfredrhoda408 2 года назад +1

      Unfortunately I Don't have a forgiving heart. Its my prayer that a day will come Neema ya Mungu inibebe na inibadilishe
      The torture my sisters and I went through in the hands of relatives after our parents passed on....sioni nikiwasamehe
      NEVER and Not me

    • @MamaD-2016
      @MamaD-2016 2 года назад +2

      @@winfredrhoda408 you forgive for your sanity. TO FORGIVE IS TO SET A PRISONER FREE AND REALISE THAT,THAT PRISONER IS YOU.

    • @winfredrhoda408
      @winfredrhoda408 2 года назад

      @@MamaD-2016 imagine am very FREE I don't carry anyone in my heart it's only that Sina roho ya kusamehe....
      I hardly let anyone who broke me down to even come near...
      It's me and my God

    • @anneketu6860
      @anneketu6860 2 года назад

      This young man diserves help & prayers aki.
      Huyu so called mother inlaw ni binadamu wawapi aki 🤷 .
      Something good will happen to this two young people i do believe 🙏🙏

    • @jacquememo
      @jacquememo 2 года назад

      Very true

  • @lizmu-thefavoured9983
    @lizmu-thefavoured9983 2 года назад +87

    It's okay to cut off toxic people even it they are family.
    Hugs to the Summer Fam

    • @lucydejojos1073
      @lucydejojos1073 2 года назад +3

      Very true

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 2 года назад +1

      💯

    • @faithmwikali4139
      @faithmwikali4139 2 года назад +1

      Liz mù true mimi niliwa cut off

    • @lynnemwangangi2942
      @lynnemwangangi2942 2 года назад +1

      I needed this🥺thank you so much❤️

    • @NyukuriLillyarn
      @NyukuriLillyarn 2 года назад +2

      And from today I cut off my mother,who has caused me the most pain,she sure has caused me the most pain,plus being the foundation of almost every wrong decision I I ever made.

  • @celeneochiro1904
    @celeneochiro1904 2 года назад +11

    I have cried throughout this episode life without a dad it's really miserable this my lifetime story God of mercy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @everlynemuriuki5466
    @everlynemuriuki5466 2 года назад +11

    23 is so young....you have your whole life ahead...your star ✨✨ is bright...dont listen to the naysayers

  • @RythaSherrie
    @RythaSherrie Год назад +12

    And who said maturity comes with age!
    MUCH RESPECT 💛🙌🏿

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 года назад +568

    Nobody watches you harder than the people that don't like you..
    Give them a show!

  • @kidsentertainmenthub4126
    @kidsentertainmenthub4126 2 года назад +18

    Ohh Summer i first heard about you when you hosted a hurting widow(Koko) even when yourself were going through all this but still had a heart to look out for others..lots of hugs James and il pray that you go through this and come out stronger.

  • @wacekendonga5658
    @wacekendonga5658 Год назад +3

    Summer, you are young and have a full life ahead of you. Watching you has brought me so much tears , I went through that and much much more. I looked for love in the man I thought would love me. The narcissistic destroyed me and took away everything I had left, even my dignity, and threw me out with my four children , penniless and jobless.
    I will be 51 in November and I am finding myself now. I want to fly higher and higher and get all my dreams into fruition. I am praying for good health and a sound mind.
    Summer, you are my third born's age mate. Do not lose hope, hang in there. You will be some big person some day and you and Becky will be parents to your biological children and many more in your childrens' home. May the heavens here you. Hugs son.

  • @margaretkamau7834
    @margaretkamau7834 2 года назад +41

    Oh my God... as a parent i have felt so much pain. I refuse this spirit of rejection and i declare you shall do well in life these things you see in your vision they shall come to pass in Jesus Name. I speak as a Mother in faith and i pass so much love to you and your family❤❤❤ hugs(())

  • @j.j3601
    @j.j3601 2 года назад +30

    The summer family you need guidance on how to break generational curses through prayers.. seek God's guidance and stay on your knees , pray for protection. Recite /read psalm 35 daily and mention all those people causing you trouble while reading it. All will be well. Will get intouch with you.🙏

  • @lucymboci7702
    @lucymboci7702 2 года назад +43

    I'm a teacher and I really take care of my language with the kids... because I too was hurt by a teacher, and Incase I find out that I've said something bad to a child I always find way to apologize, and I'm loving the journey.

    • @Ki-l7s
      @Ki-l7s 2 года назад +1

      May God bless you

  • @Briannahjolene2014
    @Briannahjolene2014 2 года назад +30

    The humiliation from some teachers is so bad... I hate the deputy principle of the school I went through due to the trauma she put me through.. . That lady hated me for no reason and could bang on me every time .."I am a teacher and my learners are so comfortable around me I won't like any child to go through pain either physically or mentally. May we learn to spread love 🙏

    • @paulysutsiey649
      @paulysutsiey649 2 года назад

      When you tell people there are humans who hate others who've not offended them they thing is just an imagination, this world is full of haters.

  • @mitchellnamiso
    @mitchellnamiso 2 года назад +52

    This guy is Soo strong... positivity is on another level...may God remember you guys and stay in Faith

  • @Dee90641
    @Dee90641 2 года назад +17

    saying prayers for this young man, and Becky his siblings, and so is Becky's mum

    • @elvinawakio
      @elvinawakio 2 года назад

      Summer I cancel all negativities in your life in the mighty name of Yahshuah!.may God of heaven open every door n windows that the devil tried to shut. Amen.

  • @DeanTalksShowKE
    @DeanTalksShowKE 2 года назад +36

    If you're listening an watching it in 2090, I'm already dead but remember one thing, "this one took my soul"!!! Classic interview !

  • @keshdee8269
    @keshdee8269 2 года назад +19

    I know Becky's mum will watch this may you find a place in your heart to let these love birds be.they have already been through alot be their peace and try to put yourself in their shoes how would you feel if your in-laws treated you that way, would you be happy?

  • @joycemumbe6868
    @joycemumbe6868 2 года назад +386

    I lost my son in 2020 he committed suicide and my friends , neighbors and some relatives said that I sacrificed my son .I have gone through alot I hope one day I will get achance here to share my story .hugs to the summer family

  • @naomikiagethestoryteller7425
    @naomikiagethestoryteller7425 2 года назад +20

    Baba and mummy Becky God is there,and trust me no one passes through Lyn's hands and remains the same take heart sweethearts all shall be okay ,na mti wenye matunda ndio hupigwa sweethearts,take heart dear ones ....I love you

  • @shanondhe1762
    @shanondhe1762 2 года назад +73

    My dear cousin, you have really been through so much. You are too young for all this. Keep fighting, God does not slumber. He is a God of vengeance, God of miracles, You are a winner already...He is fighting for you on a daily basis. You shall live to testify of His goodness.

    • @apparently2972
      @apparently2972 2 года назад +6

      Keep checking on him please

    • @azariahval9320
      @azariahval9320 2 года назад +14

      If you are one of the cousins, please help him fight this . He is going to be great,I see him being more than Bahata and Jalango. Just don't be the fake cousins. This is polite . Konye Lemo be

    • @shanondhe1762
      @shanondhe1762 2 года назад +8

      ​​@@azariahval9320 He remains to be my best cousin together with his sisters. They know that deep in their hearts. I consider them as my siblings

    • @shanondhe1762
      @shanondhe1762 2 года назад +1

      ​@@apparently2972 God is with us. We fight this together. We keep each other stronger through sharing

    • @marthadamacline1332
      @marthadamacline1332 2 года назад +2

      I urge you to hold this guy close, may you be that cousin that he can vow with his blood that he can count on na utabarikiwa...haikai rahisi aki

  • @wycliffelevigan6702
    @wycliffelevigan6702 2 года назад +7

    We also need to have conversation about children coming from polygamous family and how it affects them...

  • @Ennkavisionhomes
    @Ennkavisionhomes 2 года назад +15

    This is my client and friend from Migoro, purchases everything from me and he has a good heart.you are a great guy Jemo

  • @elizajacob1
    @elizajacob1 2 года назад +7

    YOU'RE MY STRENGTH when i see you young n fighting i know the bright future is coming

  • @janetkambo804
    @janetkambo804 2 года назад +5

    GOD OF TOMORROW YOU ARE ALIVE AND YOU ARE NOT A MAN TO LIE. I KNOW I WILL SEE JAMES SOMEDAY FULLY RICH AND LOVING GOD FOR HIS FAITHFULLNESS.

  • @safrinalenny6304
    @safrinalenny6304 2 года назад +8

    This guy en his gal are so real. May God see u through guys😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 vitu zenye tuna pitia huku inje only God knows we just smile to cover the saddest side🤦🤦but God Ako every thing happens with a reason ❤️❤️

  • @Missieartitudetv
    @Missieartitudetv 2 года назад +32

    Let's not forget to put God first in everything we do!
    Sending you light, love and healing James and Becky ,it is well

  • @bellawangari8557
    @bellawangari8557 2 года назад +42

    The best advice I would give these couples is to stay away from toxic relatives and get on with there lives.
    They should seek counseling on the best way to cope with the deaths in there family.

    • @njerifaith903
      @njerifaith903 2 года назад +2

      for sure they should avoid avoid avoid ..... if it's toxic it ain't healthy

  • @sallyochieng1948
    @sallyochieng1948 2 года назад +10

    Lord Jesus, may your mercy speak for my son Summer, Becky and his siblings. Parents why do we kill our children with our words and actions, why insult a kid and break them this way. I'm a mother of a boy summer's age, I've tasted this kind of rejection and insults but i made the decision NEVER to insult or hate on my kids.Teachers please especially deputy head teachersI don't know what is wrong with you. Summer, God is able, no weapon fashioned against you shall prosper and every tongue that rises against you shall be condemned.

  • @morynphoebe
    @morynphoebe 2 года назад +24

    Weeeeeeeh I feel you summer because your story is the same as mine but through God we will conqure all of this we just let God to fight for our battles.
    My mum was the second wife too and she was the second wife by then my mum was the breadwinner of the family since my dad and my step mu had no work bythen. When dad got money he decided to call my mum atoke oshago akam nakuru atleast afurahi ata yy but step mum alimwambia unafurahi unakuja nakuru ujue tutakurudisha mashambaa na jeneza na true to his word tulirudisha mum na jeneza na mindyou hakumaliza ata 10mnths nakuru alikufa 2010 let me tell yo from that day henceforth ourlives have never been the same again but through God am now doing science and Lab technician opposite to what stepmum said ati sitawahisucceed in life but who is God though still some challenges but atleast now

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 года назад +1

      Sorry about this. Praying you find nothing but success.

    • @wamuciingunjiri5410
      @wamuciingunjiri5410 2 года назад +1

      Weee I lack words but kuna rejection on both sides, I pray for God peace .
      Your voice is soo good you can try media voice ni kama ya Jeff kuria.

  • @bunny8352
    @bunny8352 2 года назад +8

    @Lynn Ngugi, I wish you could connect him to Benjamin Zulu, the boy needs therapy before he moves on, he is very damaged.

  • @esthermumo7005
    @esthermumo7005 2 года назад +16

    Lets create time to listen to our children and show them love

  • @godspowerhouse528
    @godspowerhouse528 2 года назад +11

    Summer you are such great Man! Full of wisdom. Very selfless. I would now advice you to lay off everyone from your shoulders and first heal YOU. You have a heart of gold but accept that you can't carry the world for everyone. Kwanza mama Betty, offload her completely! Be selfish for once, retract everything and gather around all energy to yourself. I really wish you can get someone to walk with you even spiritually. You are very close to your breakthrough Summer.

  • @beatriceduana232
    @beatriceduana232 2 года назад +7

    Dear lord please 🙏 give this youth a peace of mind 🙏 Amen and Amen 🙏

  • @tinahkikie2544
    @tinahkikie2544 2 года назад +14

    Thank you lynn for hosting summer family ❤️❤️

  • @karimimiriti3827
    @karimimiriti3827 2 года назад +10

    Lynn you’re one in a million you impact people,you bring the toughest story with much heartbreaking and painful history to the table and the broken ones leaves the table smiling for making them to see life differently and there’s better tomorrow God bless you Lynn 🙏🏾💜Summer you’re important to this life and important to yourself you’re not a failure you’re a victorious🎊you’re not a loser you’re a go getter and very blessed,you’re not cursed nooo you’re blessed remember God loves you so much be strong and you will overcome move forward with your shoulders high because you’re the truth Son of the soil and the land owner is your father in heaven who so it’s very okey to create a land and a son to live on 👌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾be proud of yourself to be that strong to overhear all those stories and still you’re strong 💗💗💗am proud of you for being a man today and standing in that gap of a father to your siblings and brother to your sisters and a husband to Becky
    Do the best as you can and I wish you all the best in this life🙏🏾🙏🏾remember God is Greater than our worries

  • @isabellakendi5204
    @isabellakendi5204 Год назад +6

    I felt so emotional watching this episode. It is my prayer that these young kids will overcome this and have a smile on their face.
    To parents... It's important to listen to your kids, know how they feel, support them, be there for them,..... What is wrong with that?

  • @lauraminayo582
    @lauraminayo582 2 года назад +27

    This guy has been through alot,may God give him strength🫂

  • @MillionsK.
    @MillionsK. 2 года назад +23

    Sending prayers, love and hugs to this young man. The future is very bright James💪💪💪

  • @Carol-KK
    @Carol-KK 2 года назад +19

    He’s so BROKEN 😞!……SAD to watch….lots of hugs from Germany 🇩🇪.

  • @robbymukonjero4854
    @robbymukonjero4854 2 года назад +6

    My son ata kama ur relatives wamekukataa, mungu ako na ww,I want to thank God for u and u are going far and far mother pls let us respect.or children,and if u have a man friend he should not have powers over ur children ladies pls tupende watoto wetu,a man is not ur relative pls,my son there is no Destimony without a test,lynn thanks so much for hosting him

  • @joymule9613
    @joymule9613 2 года назад +4

    seeing a man break is the painful point ever.... This is painful,,, hugs James, thank you for standing with that girl as your sister

  • @judyken.135
    @judyken.135 2 года назад +113

    Never judge someone before you know the whole story 😭

    • @naomykikky
      @naomykikky 2 года назад +1

      Very true

    • @hildahindiazi3712
      @hildahindiazi3712 2 года назад +1

      true

    • @estherdudink
      @estherdudink 2 года назад +1

      I agree with you mnalaumu mama hawa watoto wasikuizi ni vichwa ngumu hakuna mama haoendi mtoto wake ni uchungu sana kwa huyu mama msichana heshimu mzazi wako

    • @maureenkasoa
      @maureenkasoa 2 года назад

      🙄

    • @queencecekay6816
      @queencecekay6816 2 года назад

      Sure....

  • @jaelofthevillage
    @jaelofthevillage 2 года назад +20

    Oh my people, how could I come so close to you and not realise you were fighting such big demons. My bad.What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

  • @peterkariri7991
    @peterkariri7991 2 года назад +19

    Peace to everyone watching this video..

  • @winnieakello2827
    @winnieakello2827 2 года назад +8

    I love the positivity in you james may God fulfil your dreams to go further too

  • @maggiemarthagathoroko1786
    @maggiemarthagathoroko1786 2 года назад +12

    The way you embraced Koko may the Lord give you victory summer and Becky

  • @sarahankunda944
    @sarahankunda944 2 года назад +6

    As a mother I can't imagine my children going through all this pain, may God open doors for you 🙏 and may God bless Lynn and many more people to bless you endlessly 🙏 much love from Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @louisedoreen8158
    @louisedoreen8158 2 года назад +4

    Becky,I really wanted Summer here..thank God finally u got him..let the world listen to his emotional story..
    @Thee Summer family

  • @dianaotieno3242
    @dianaotieno3242 2 года назад +5

    Sorry my former classmate @ James Magalo , I'm praying for you so that God can give you peace and healing from all heartaches

  • @elizabethwangui2008
    @elizabethwangui2008 2 года назад +8

    The pain in this young man’s heart any parent can feel it. Please mama Becky accept this young family. I went through the same but guess what today me and my poor husband then are in the US. You know what we are the support system for our families. This two with the kind of Love they are showing us, will surely go far. The sky is not even the limit. Don’t lose hope, keep it tight together and watch what God can do.

    • @missymelvins.
      @missymelvins. 2 года назад

      @elizabeth wangui am in this situation as well💔💔lkn i decided to fight for my love despite rejection..Gods time is the best

  • @gracewaigwa705
    @gracewaigwa705 2 года назад +9

    I hope he finds peace now that he has aired it out there whether people buy it or not. God's sufficient grace and strength locate them 🙏. Be blessed Lynn for providing this platform.

  • @anasitacianjerianasitacia4367
    @anasitacianjerianasitacia4367 2 года назад +6

    This world is hard😭😭😭😭you may see somebody smiling but behind the scene it’s a painful story ,this boy is always smiling kumbe he’s going through hell😭😭😭hii kifo ni ya family they need a strong deliverance,even struggles they’re going through ni family lineage kukataliwa ni ile mama yake alikuwa amekataliwa ndio inawafuata oooohh sorry daddy I feel your pain

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад +82

    May he find peace and heal , he's really a strong man especially in a society where rumors are much believed easier than the truth .

  • @faithntinyari5749
    @faithntinyari5749 2 года назад +5

    He is in so much pain ...it's the high time the parenthood toxicity to end ..this young one are traumatized..may God heal them

  • @Makena-lewis.
    @Makena-lewis. 2 года назад +5

    Receiving negative energies especially from people very close to you like family is the worst tragedy in once life. The spirit of rejection is the enemy of progress. Talking out of experience. With God's intervention you will make it bro hugs 🫂🫂🫂

  • @eddnamakori3591
    @eddnamakori3591 2 года назад +4

    Difficulties in your life do not come to destroy you, but to help you realise your potential and power, let difficulties know that you too are difficult

  • @catherinekariuki8692
    @catherinekariuki8692 2 года назад +4

    I have shed tears James never give up God is there for you,May God heal you completely 🙏

  • @karenmwango8419
    @karenmwango8419 2 года назад +10

    Take courage young man.The Lord is your side.You will go far

  • @maryatieno2242
    @maryatieno2242 2 года назад +5

    I can feel the pain,but God is watching let's continue praying 😭

  • @annykings1975
    @annykings1975 2 года назад +14

    Sometimes I sit and wallow in my sorrows thinking how my life has been tough but when I watch such stories I realize mine is just fine. I pray that one day I get the courage to sit with Lynn Ngugi and share my story with the world.
    Such a young man with great potential.
    Courage brother.
    Summer you are strong and u have a bright future.

  • @jimwafula4733
    @jimwafula4733 2 года назад +6

    This story makes me think that this name 'James' is not, the same things i as James passed through. That part of teacher humiliating him i passed through, i was told that i would never go anywhere in life plus i will not go away from my village... 😭😭😭😭 i was so hurt but i thank my aunty who saw something in me and now look at me. A full grown man,working and with a family.... May God bless my aunty (Mummy)

    • @felistermakori902
      @felistermakori902 2 года назад

      Yes, many adults have destroyed kids destinies using their vile mouths. The solution is knowing one's self and understanding that you are not others think or say

  • @catherine1786
    @catherine1786 2 года назад +4

    In a world where you can be anything..be kind🙏you never know battles people fight in private.
    With teary 🥹 eyes and I can’t help but whisper a word of prayer🤲 to God!

  • @louisedoreen8158
    @louisedoreen8158 2 года назад +19

    The only advice I have for thee Summer family is;
    First,u guys have come from far and am sorry to say that u even lost ur bby together,by this tym,aren't judging anyone but Becky,u should remember u love him endless and decided to love him regardless, I have a friend who is now reaching late 30's but she used to take the boyfriends to the parents home but they used to say No to everyone she takes,now she is in late 30z with no one,attymz we have to seek blessings from our parents but some parents will never understand us,remember our Parents too have passed through the same situations before marriage but one thing I know is a parent will never and never abandon their child,Becky,don't ever giveup to the love of ur life,t hurts when two people started from grass but u loose t to grace and another person enjoys t,U too deserve the best,am ur follower btw,am 23 but I know and hope Summer & Becky will be together ,Becky remember when Summer told u to go back but still u decided to be always with him,kindly don't give up to him now,their situations we need to give a deaf ear but later a parent will understand u one day,Speak positive to ur selves and I know u two will make t,Just know ,Becky,u too couldn't be on every media if Summer didn't love you,all in all,I pray u settle together and I hope for the best,I wish u nothing but marriage,be strong,be positive and stay safe

  • @jomi2023
    @jomi2023 2 года назад +8

    Toxic parents! This is a whole conversation! Thank you Lynn for sharing this story. Love and light to you James. All the best as you forge ahead.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 2 года назад +1

      X God his own mother wasn t toxic, this is why I dn t support poligomy, the jealousy is just too much.

  • @emarilynemarura3587
    @emarilynemarura3587 2 года назад +5

    Nimekuwa Niki watch your videos on YT all along sijawai jua unapitia haya yote kijanaa...usijali, mungu ako nawe...one day you will have a happy life with your wife/girlfriend Becky na mungu atawabariki na watoto wenu...The God we serve halali..I feel you brother❤

  • @vionawamuyu
    @vionawamuyu 2 года назад +13

    I have identified this story in more ways than I can explain. What I can say is this, you need to let go of a few things. This will make your life easier. I've tried to find love somewhere I know it will never come from. I tried so much for so many years to find that love. But, it was never forthcoming and it nearly broke me to the point I also just wanted to end it all. I thought I'd find the same from marriage, but that was a complete failure. Eventually, I started healing and understood something, you can love people but have them at a distance. Mama Becky may never give you the love the way you want to be loved. This is so sad but that's a reality you might be forced to face. The day I realized that, it was like a weight lifting from my shoulders. My dear summer, please look for the love you want from within. It's not easy to do but it will help you and Becky so much. I know that desire to be loved and accepted, but life at times doesn't happen the way we want it to happen. You and Becky are lucky to have one another, but you both have to do the work to heal. Let go of all those who you want to love you and keep showing you rejection. Focus on what is going right and try to move on day by day. It's not easy, trust me I know my dear it's not easy. But at times letting go of people is the best thing you can do for yourself. I got stuck all of my 20s trying so hard to be loved but now I know it's better to love myself and keep taking care of those in my life to be okay. My dear you will be okay, this story has brought up so many memories for me gosh. Please please please it's time to find another path. If they don't want you, then fight for yourself.

    • @ruthnjeri1574
      @ruthnjeri1574 2 года назад

      Be👋✋👍 strong in the lord 🙏 son😍😍 God is in control take

  • @everlinekemunto267
    @everlinekemunto267 2 года назад +3

    Thanks sister Lynn kwa kazi nzuri,watu ambae wanakudhalau bro,wasikilize story ya samweli mv bukoba,hawatakuwa na madharau,pia mama wa msichana ajunguze maisha yake asitusumbue,mtoto wa kike upitia maisha mamake aliyoyapitia pasipokuwa maombi,pia kijana aombewe roho ya rejection imtoke,sikiliza mafundisho ya archbishop Harrison nganga teachings, ndio utajielewa,but pole kwa maisha your mom alipitia,Mungu awalinde wadogo zangu.

  • @gloriahnthenya872
    @gloriahnthenya872 2 года назад +4

    We serve a living God. You're going to be a great man among nations. Be strong, keep the faith and trust in God. Also protect your mental health, cut off all those toxic relatives. Praying for you 🙏

  • @iminathinhleko1158
    @iminathinhleko1158 2 года назад +5

    Don't give up dearest summer there's always light at the end of the tunnel

  • @juliaachieng4062
    @juliaachieng4062 2 года назад +15

    Lynn being rejected pains more than anything in this world... Am on same line of it.my immediate family..I always cry behind close doors most of the time...u can see me shine outside but what's inside me no one can carry it...my family/kids home all is same have no shoulder to lean on.. but what keeps me going is my 3 lovely children... Families nowadays have more hatreds/rejection much more... For the young boy just have courage n believe in your self that all shall be fine... All belongs to God... One day you'll shine

  • @joycegichohi618
    @joycegichohi618 2 года назад +3

    All is not lost son, keep the fire burning.Its well, you are loved by Your Creator who created you in his own image.STAY BLESSED

  • @shirleejohns6618
    @shirleejohns6618 2 года назад +8

    keep fighting summer... you are lucky money came first .. youtube pays ... some of us went to school ndo sai tunasaka pesa haziko ... We wish you the very best in life ... one day youll look back and be proud that you went through all this

  • @Maggie-m6c
    @Maggie-m6c 2 года назад +5

    Summer for sure you're a strong man, may our almighty God bless you n have peace in your life 🙏🙏🙏🙏