1. Rejection motivates us to do better. 2. Rejection reminds us we're human. 3. Rejection teaches patience. 4. Rejection causes us to explore different paths. 5. Rejection forces us to reevaluate ourselves. 6. Rejection makes us reconsider our goals.
My daughter was dumped by a man she really cherished, in the middle of her taking her final year exams in campus. My girl almost lost her head, but I thank God I supported n she healed after several cansellings. Even parents feel for their children.
Maggie, I'm a mama to 2 wonderful adult kids, a boy n a girl, and I feel you. You are the super mama every girl needs and deserves. Loads of love n blessings.
I went through a terrible heartbreak in 2016 ,weuh it was bad,the dude was from my hood so everyone knew the whole story,to make it worse he wedded..It was so tough,aibu pia..2017 it was me and my God, I would go to Vincentian prayer house every Saturday just to cry, surprisingly by the end of 2017 i had healed.. 2018 met my spouse at Vincentian prayer center ,2020 tukafanya dowry na wedding.
She’s telling the story of so many women. She’s so beautiful ,smart,eloquent and God will restore her . God will heal her and bless her with the right man❤❤❤.
@@hannahnjerinjeri3459 I’m so sorry 😢. They don’t have the capacity to reflect,they don’t have empathy for the victim that they hurt ,especially when they already have a new supply . You are better off without them ❤️🥰
Lynn hizo braids zikiwa zimeachiliwa zinakaa awesome ofcos Edith anakaa awesome alafu kizungu meeen,,,,si kama ya murima🥰😂 Kindly like this comment ukisoma😁
Lynne hapa pia uliflow na story. Msiogope sana God favours sincere people. Do you imagine how you can pull your child away from the road when you see recklessness in driving. God does the same with us.....my daughters wedding same or worse thing happened , thrown out of a Toyota 100 2yrs down the line she is doing a prado guys. Keep your lane quite bad relationships keep a relationship with your creator and you will fuel your purpose
Lynne hapa pia uliflow na story. Msiogope sana God favours sincere people. Do you imagine how you can pull your child away from the road when you see recklessness in driving. God does the same with us.....my daughters wedding same or worse thing happened , thrown out of a Toyota 100 2yrs down the line she is doing a prado guys. Keep your lane quite bad relationships keep a relationship with your creator and you will fuel your purpose
Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Edith you are worth a good God fearing man. He is somewhere. Be patient and when you are selecting a marriage partner please do due diligence. Listen to your gut feelings before committing to someone. God will give you the right person.
Thank you finally a comment I can relate to. narcissists don't break your heart, they break your soul and spirit. Gosh I may one day speak about it. It's the worst kind of abuse, and they target mostly empaths. Sadly the church is a rich hunting ground for narcissists.
Lemme finish crying first,, I have a whole story to tell, juu we kiliniramba pia, but that experience drew me closer to God more that I ever expected,I know God is a promise keeper, he will visit me again as he promised,😭😭
You are a strong women .. stop crying, find peace n may God fulfil all the desires of your heart. May you enjoy every good thing in the land of the living. 🙏🙏🙏
I don't know why strong Christians (not just ladies) have a tough journey when it comes to dating. I think it's because we are not exposed to the schemes of bad guys since we think everybody is nice like us. Otherwise at the end you get the best of your life after learning all your lessons. Edith is coming with a great testimony soon🎉.
Hi Lynn thanks for bringing this gal,tell her to take courage and move on...some of us were dumped 14yrs ago back 2010..Infront of elders and he said proudly he doesn't love me anymore..but am greatful today my first born daughter graduated last week on Friday2nd graduating next year,and lastborn son in junior high school..I want Edith to search story of Carol wanjiru (munduiriri composer she went thru the same.Edith the next thing God is doing in your life it's big ,just trust in God and everything will falls in place
Take time to listen to the conversation, learn something. Edith story should be studied. you will learn a lot form her. she is a strong woman,. Good job Lynn, you are an amazing interviewer.
The moment Edith talked about the lawyer and the quick engagement I knew that's a narcissist. Love bombing. Then a string of relationships evidenced by the emails that is typical narcissist they leave a track of heartbroken individuals.
No, for women it is different. I dealt with a civil engineer I am the one that got emotionally abused even the sister had warned me. Narcissists are everywhere. I also suffered in their hands being the learned friend that I am
I loved listening to this lady, and the fact that she chose to speak English. I am happy. I am South African watching from Saudi Arabia. Thanks Lynn for hosting this amazing guest.
We as the murima people are very proud of you Edith. The English is englishing well.... Na R na L are being placed in their rightful places. May God fulfil your dreams.
Glad you noted. Her English is on another level. I love it. Surprisingly, she attracts haters because of her eloquence. She'd attract haters, too, if she crucified the language. Damned if she does n damned if she doesn't.
Nimenyete ukiiga mirago na ukiingura uinguranga ni wedo,ndagichokia gatho ni murango waingurire .........my favorite even though I don't know gikuyu well this blesses me alot. Take heart girl and may God keep restoring you I love you
Aki u remind me my cuzo the day ya harusi the guy instead aende church alienda kwa side chik,nd side chik aka mdrag,we waited for the guy,hadi jioni ilibidi watu wakule fud,warudi na gifts,it was hell,afta aweek jama akakuja kuexplain what happened,but waliachana nd shes now hapily married with 2kids, Edith God will give u agud man,😊
Wow Edith has such a pure heart that seeks to please God. Thank you for Opening up the way you did Edith. I am shona from Zimbabwe, but I googled all the words on Nitasimana(thanks to the swahili captions) . It is a true gospel message. I am standing because Jesus paid the price. Today, the meaning of that message was very relatable. Thank you for this honest conversation. What you went through is spreading the gospel.
@@gracy644 Because everyone likes good things , be patient, I had numerous advances from non-born again but waited patiently on God, He makes all things beautiful in His time 💕💕💕
Cry it out if u have to, write down how you feel, put yourself out there, hangouts with friends or family,meet new people, gets something ti keep you busy and distracted eg join the gym/home workouts, read a book, get online for engagements, watch movies etc.. And before you realize it, you will be over him and one day u will ask yourself what the hell u were doing dating such a person. 🥂.
I watched it too and wouldn't say/ conclude that she refused to open up. The focus f the interview was different. Please watch it again and notice how happy she is in that one and how Jeff made her laugh almost throughout the interview. Lets appreciate both for their different content
Wairimu I have paused and prayed for you. I will continue praying for you my dota. One day you will thank God as you join the dots. Life is a journey, good things are ahead. Count on mama Kim for prayers. Every gal who is going a real bad heart break, may the good Lord cushion you with lots of love and grace to go through the season. It shall be well with time. Don't settle at anyone, you deserve the best. Cheers ❤❤❤❤
I watched your story before in another channel but you never disclosed all this,that says alot "HEALED" You took your time and now you have the courage to speak up.KUDOS🎉
Dating men in ministry needs alot of Discernment there is alot hidden behind the " pulpit " .We who have been victims of spiritual men need to awaken the rest and speak up,,,Tondu aya andu . Red flags shouldn't be ignored even if they are walking in the Pope annointing... Thank you Edith
I love her with passion she is blessed her songs teaches me despite i don't know Kikuyu yote lkn ile kidogo nashukuru kupata msg zake.Weee Ngai wa ngapi shothe i love this song so much,na pia ile ya Mlango i listen to them so much time in a day
My ex did the same.Mungu naye ni Mungu last year I got married to a loving husband Pst Josh❤🎉🎉 Soon usisahau kunialika kwa your wedding. Actually to a divine husband who understands your calling. 🎉
You are beautiful..and still young. The man for you is coming. Those men were not meant for you..... God saved you from them and removed them from your life. Those men didn't deserve you. You deserve better. Best wishes. I wish you happiness. There are many who wish you well. Take heart.
Hey Lynn, this interview was so amazing at some point I got so teary@ Edith,you speak so beautifully about the Grace of God, God bless and keep you....
What do men want really? such a kind, loving , wonderful woman of God, she doesn’t deserve such treatments from those men, that man who canceled the wedding is going to regret for the rest of his life, he will never get even a quarter of Edith. My daughter met a narcissist, who pretended to be nice for 3 yrs though my daughter ignored many red flags, until pre wedding day when I saw the red flags and tried to stop the wedding but I was overweighed , after 5 months into marriage, my daughter couldn’t take it and left. I had asked God after the wedding for His will to be done, I was so troubled during the wedding day because I could clearly see this man didn’t love my daughter, she loved her money, I kept praying for my daughter. Edith it’s good that man canceled the wedding, otherwise you would have left by now. God had a reason for the cancellation. Do not be stressed, God had you back. My daughter is just like Edith, I fully understand what she’s going through. Edith God’s timing is the best, at His own time, He will let the right man locate you. Watch the blessing fall upon you in few moments. Keep trusting in Him and do His work endlessly. Lynn thank you so much for giving people your platform. I have learned a lot from them. May God continue blessing you Lynn, I love you so much as my daughter.
I dated this guy for three years akapata kazi huko Nairobi when he came back tulikaa like a month kumbe anaplan wedding yake huko ushago and I didn't know.Mind you we lived together,so sato moja akanishow anaenda ushago kidogo nipike minji mchele "his favorite'my lawd kumbe alikuwa anaenda harusi yake.Just saw pictures za congrats to new weds.Up to date can't eat minji hehe
This interview has really ministered to me......lm speechless.....lve learned alot and l can relate to this interview......May God bless Edith Wairimu.....God bless you Lynn Ngugi
much love Lynn thanks for hosting Edith i just love how she has thrown out everything and managed to share her story which i trust its going to be a blessing to anyone going through the same ,despite everything she trusted God who has walked with her through the hard times.
Really listening to this girl just lives me in tears. Her anisiaga siage song is one of my best songs. I did not know the hell that she has been through and the inspiration of this song. Edith Kimani you are great and a strong woman. Lynn an excellent platform that is really inspiring and speaking to real issues. Edith Kimani I now love you the more.
Niliachwa FEBRUARY na 3 kids my 3rd born alikuwa 5 month then...within 2 months he got married (Big swahili wedding) na mimi hio miaka yote sijawahi nunuliwa ata pete ya 30 bob yet nilikuwa naambiwa mimi tu ndio mamaa💔😂...HERI KUACHWA BILA MIMBA AU WATOTO
Edith has been through a lot. Count it all Joy when you go through suffering... God will elevate you... you will look back and forget your past. Praying for you
Weeeee When I listen to this story. You get to know life is spirituality. Edith the devil really wanted to destroy you. The spirit of rejection ... been in ministry..the devil try to get legal ground to torment you. Am able to relate with Bamboo and Erika... that things start at spiritual realm before physical. May God see you through this spirit of rejection
Lynn encourage her guest to speak in shwahili she is the one starting most of the time for getting her international views, and I am a South African by the way
You tell a man he is not the only one it becomes a game ,men are clever .You say i want only a Born again , he tells you he s born again or behaves like one. Men will do anything for a cookie.
Sure. you cant dismiss another party expecting your partner to understand. And she calls it a small thing, as if she wasnt into that nice guy that much. Unbilievable
She shouldn't have told the 2nd man about the first man. She should just stop seeing the person. You have to be wise but I respect her openess and honesty.
Been wanting to watch her story cause I really love her songs . The last one I checked on youtube unfortunately the whole conversation was in Kikuyu. Thank you Lynn for bringing her here ❤.
Wueeh i understand the heartbreaks but women let us wake up this is 2025 !!Never attach yourself with a man, just respect him for what he benefits you with ... whatever value he adds to your life ,,,respect him for thet . 2.continue chasing your dreams and taking care of your pretty self . 3. Lets learn to give birth to the number of kids that we can only afford raising without these men.Always imagine yourself without him . Yes we are all learning men are trash really 😂
@@Sky_shine254 this is life , Mens also have stories, it's only that in society women talks more about their issues. , There are also many families that lives wonderful lifes. Secondly when you say values man He adds to your life,, there is soo many??????? God is God of orders and when His orders are compromised by human, then chores happen in the society...
I may be the odd out but I do believe Edith led the lawyer guy through...I mean if you don't want something why entertain it for the fear of what people will say? Eti not to embarrass him...if something is not right, it's not right, speak right there and let nature take it's course!
You are such a brave girl. God has better things in store for you. Remain in his care. He has never failed anyone; he definitely won’t start with you. God loves you girl. Thanks for sharing your testimony of Gods faithfulness in your life. ❤all the way from USA
God of healing,see your servant(Edith)through..Heal her arm miraculously and devinely...fill her life with so much joy and peace...meet her at her point of need....Bless her abudantly in Jesus mighty Name Amen
OMG this purposely came for me. So inspired by your story my sister...alot are a head of you. He who started something in you will walk with you to the end.
Nimeona title, and I remember while on holiday and my former lover was drunk, she dropped her phone , when I picked it up, Tinder Tinder and nakedness. I silently took her back to the hotel and booked my flight back same night. And the next day I moved, i did ghosting premium. She never knew I found out. I hear she told people I had been taken by someone else.
I was left via a text message on WhatsApp for no reason after all plans have been made for introduction. I'm still healing 1 year down the line. I'm trusting God for complete healing and the marriage of my dreams. I know God makes everything beautiful in His own time.
Girl you are still young ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 well am fori n I know for sure I'll not go heaven b4 God gives me the right companion , our stories are our pillar ,stepping stone to the next chapter .
Betrayal never leave us defenceless it only make us strong. Edith God never see you defeated or bound but as an overcomer and the greatest chapter of your life is yet to be written. You will see a revival of your life on a level you have never seen Him before.
Not True. From a psychology point of view the Guest is a Liar, too much obsessed with money related stuff, entitlement and ego. I'm not surprised the wedding was cancelled.😂
Hata Mimi niliambiwa nisonge after kuzaa watoto wawili, Kwanza Yule mdogo alikua three months na mkubwa 3 years, Mungu ni mwaminifu ametushikilia, firstborn anaingia form four na mdogo grade nine ni God
its tougher for us church girls coz another girl will just go and probably sire with a married man, but for us we will fear fornication. Ei let me hope God is faithful
This is the best testimony for children of God. The gifts of discernment is very important and obeying. Many have been trapped into marriages that looked rosy and could not continue their ministry. Edith God loves you. The enemy tried to get you after you dodged the first engagement but God intervene and stopped this second trap. Keep singing and preaching the goodness of the Lord. Amen 🙏
My mentor ,you we I'll make it in Jesus name, I myself I've gone through rejection by my husband and in laws but let me tell you God's timing is always the best, now I've a wonderful man God fearing who treats me well and sees the future ahead,
My story though I got a son,I don't trust anyone.was rejected even with family members ,I stay alone no one visits me no one checks up on us.what kills me is my son grabbed a man shirt on the road while we were walking and said" dad let's go home." Ooh myy...l sunk into tears
Wait not me listening this lawyer part and comparing it to my life,,I got my child with a lawyer got pregnant nikiwa campus and I just don't know everything happened so quickly and I understand Edith so well this people can lie to things looking like it's true,they gamble with your mind and I tell you it's baad ...by the tym you realise they are narcissts wait it's bad and it's ruined your life...av cried listening to Edith coz this close to the life I had with that guy,,I don't want to say lawyers are bad but eeeiii eeeiii...I wish Edith could do a Kikuyu part of this niekee mamangu askie juu this me but can't explain to her anielewe,,they always feel I was the bad one but only that Sasa nitaelezea aje,coz the guy mum used to feel he is a nice person and the way he would come home kama son in-law wa ukweli mum feels Mimi ndo mbaya,,but there's so mum can't understand... However I I moved on its not easy coz av been blaming myself so much for failing myself and esp having a child together so like you are holding the scars all along 8yrs ago,but I thank God 2 years ago I decided fully to cut everything everything off,,now whats left is to pray for my daughter so so much that she understands she's not the reason my life got broken at a point I don't want her to ever feel this.Edith is strong .
I didn't know about her until I went to rema feast 2024 and I really admire her strength some of Us we are struggling to move on I believe God time is the best
I feel this girl. People who've suffered rejection in the past are likely to make such mistakes. I am a product of rejection and i understand her very well. You become mean to yourself at the expense of pleasing others. You want to prove those who rejected you wrong and for that, you end up making many mistakes, but the grace of God will always be there to save us.
Lynn,you have a gift of making your guests feel comfortable. I've noticed that in your shows, guests open up and are able to speak about very personal issues. Edith, you're a blessing in this generation,God's chosen soldier. And Him being your foundation,He's got you. I listened to you at EPIC women's meeting and i was like wow! I thought you only sing,but your ministry amazed me.
I was felt there was something Edith wasn't saying previously,glad ,God has given her the grace to to heal,and stand again... truly "heal before you deal",marry for purpose not just for companionship.Lynn you are truly a gem
I feel like as young ladies particularly in ministry (like I am) the society has a way of making us look like we'd be better of or of more value if we are married. But here's the thing, we need to decenter men and marriage by all means. We are enough🥺🥺❤
Quite a story. As the bible teaches, the greater the temptation/setback/suffering the bigger the blessing. God has your back Edith. Your resilience is on another level. God bless you Lynn for always inspiring your audience.
Edith needs to heal that child that is hurting and was rejected. She needs to find a good therapist that will help her identify each of the traumas and deal with them until she is whole. I'm sure she can find total healing and through prayer and faith God will help her find a good partner and settle for a happy marriage.
This is part of healing, when I miscarried after crying for so long , my therapist encouraged me to be sharing my journey of grief, I would share and reshare my pain story to everyone or anybody who’d listen. A year later I am now better,the talking out helped. Been 1 yr and 1/2 now
Ladies time to learn learn learn. 1. Listen to what those around are telling you. 2. Love is blind. Be very alert and sober minded. 3. Love with your mind first before your heart. 4. When you see repeatitive patterns in ur relationships time to seek for spiritual counsel 5. Never ignore redflags of disrespect, control, stingyness, accusations etc 6. Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. 7. Give yourself ample time to heal when transitioning from one relationship to another.
Min. Edith you are a great woman of God. Take note of this matter it has put scars to many great women Kathryn khulman and Marie wood worth. I pray that the Lord shall keep Great in our generation and generations
I get so encouraged by people stories, they have really built, and motivated me thnx Lynn today's story has really helped me, i was going through the same pain and crying thank you the gust of today
This beautiful girl needs to pray 🙏🏾 and ask God to deliver her from the spirit of rejection. And raise the standard for her and bring to her a person who will love her ❤! Praying for her ❤
Her story is really touching. Marriage is about asking God whom your rib is. Life is all about asking God about your story lines of life. Glory to God🎉🎉🎉
1. Rejection motivates us to do better.
2. Rejection reminds us we're human.
3. Rejection teaches patience.
4. Rejection causes us to explore different paths.
5. Rejection forces us to reevaluate ourselves.
6. Rejection makes us reconsider our goals.
Sure
Exactly...I'm a witness.I'm cutting ✂️ this express...to my status ❤
True
Rejection is God's protection
And everything worketh for good to those who love God
My daughter was dumped by a man she really cherished, in the middle of her taking her final year exams in campus. My girl almost lost her head, but I thank God I supported n she healed after several cansellings. Even parents feel for their children.
So goood❤❤❤❤
Maggie, I'm a mama to 2 wonderful adult kids, a boy n a girl, and I feel you. You are the super mama every girl needs and deserves. Loads of love n blessings.
I went through a terrible heartbreak in 2016 ,weuh it was bad,the dude was from my hood so everyone knew the whole story,to make it worse he wedded..It was so tough,aibu pia..2017 it was me and my God, I would go to Vincentian prayer house every Saturday just to cry, surprisingly by the end of 2017 i had healed..
2018 met my spouse at Vincentian prayer center ,2020 tukafanya dowry na wedding.
I tap that blessings 🎉
I am so glad it turned out great for you!😢❤
God is good all the time congratulations 🎊 dear 😊
I don't date Christian ladies to me it is a hell No
I don't date Christian ladies ie born again Christian ladies to me it is a hell No
She’s telling the story of so many women. She’s so beautiful ,smart,eloquent and God will restore her . God will heal her and bless her with the right man❤❤❤.
Everything happens for a reason. Take heart.. you will rise again
Like myself,after dating for 4yrs only to receive a text"have decided to break this relationship and my family is happy about it"
Your story is so inspiring Edith , at A certain point I felt tears... But I also love the ending... You amazing girl 🎉
@@hannahnjerinjeri3459 I’m so sorry 😢. They don’t have the capacity to reflect,they don’t have empathy for the victim that they hurt ,especially when they already have a new supply . You are better off without them ❤️🥰
@@NK-ms2el which story? Liar she is. Kwani anatubeba ufala aje. 🤣
Lynn hizo braids zikiwa zimeachiliwa zinakaa awesome ofcos Edith anakaa awesome alafu kizungu meeen,,,,si kama ya murima🥰😂
Kindly like this comment ukisoma😁
Hakuna kizungu ya morima😂,huku ni Kikuyu,kiembu na kimeru😂
Anything for lynn❤❤❤
@ciruAgneskamande9011 Aki wewe 😂😂😂😂😂and you have forgotten kirinyanga but you sound ❤
Lynne hapa pia uliflow na story. Msiogope sana God favours sincere people. Do you imagine how you can pull your child away from the road when you see recklessness in driving. God does the same with us.....my daughters wedding same or worse thing happened , thrown out of a Toyota 100 2yrs down the line she is doing a prado guys.
Keep your lane quite bad relationships keep a relationship with your creator and you will fuel your purpose
Lynne hapa pia uliflow na story. Msiogope sana God favours sincere people. Do you imagine how you can pull your child away from the road when you see recklessness in driving. God does the same with us.....my daughters wedding same or worse thing happened , thrown out of a Toyota 100 2yrs down the line she is doing a prado guys.
Keep your lane quite bad relationships keep a relationship with your creator and you will fuel your purpose
Edith is so comfortable sharing her personal stories with you lynn.....it shows she trust you and we love it
It's easier to open to a lady than a man coz most probably ladies understand emotions
To all of us actually. This is in RUclips 😂😂
A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage
True lost my marriage and the hardest thing l will never heal from
Dating broke women is like playing aviator
Always
❤absolutely 💯
You just said it
Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.
Edith you are worth a good God fearing man. He is somewhere. Be patient and when you are selecting a marriage partner please do due diligence. Listen to your gut feelings before committing to someone. God will give you the right person.
Edith needs to heal from Narcissistic abuse it is physically draining, mentally draining and spiritually draining. It takes time but God heals .
True
😢 precisely ...Truly God saved her from such hell of people.
Thank you finally a comment I can relate to. narcissists don't break your heart, they break your soul and spirit. Gosh I may one day speak about it. It's the worst kind of abuse, and they target mostly empaths. Sadly the church is a rich hunting ground for narcissists.
Religious narcissist😢@@blaquecinderella3560
Lemme finish crying first,, I have a whole story to tell, juu we kiliniramba pia, but that experience drew me closer to God more that I ever expected,I know God is a promise keeper, he will visit me again as he promised,😭😭
You are a strong women .. stop crying, find peace n may God fulfil all the desires of your heart. May you enjoy every good thing in the land of the living. 🙏🙏🙏
I don't know why strong Christians (not just ladies) have a tough journey when it comes to dating. I think it's because we are not exposed to the schemes of bad guys since we think everybody is nice like us. Otherwise at the end you get the best of your life after learning all your lessons. Edith is coming with a great testimony soon🎉.
This is sooo true ....waaaa God help us
Very true
Very true sooo i hv learnt alot through meeting wrong ppo, kingdom marriages r mostly delayed
Amen
I can agree with you because I have gone through hell.
Hi Lynn thanks for bringing this gal,tell her to take courage and move on...some of us were dumped 14yrs ago back 2010..Infront of elders and he said proudly he doesn't love me anymore..but am greatful today my first born daughter graduated last week on Friday2nd graduating next year,and lastborn son in junior high school..I want Edith to search story of Carol wanjiru (munduiriri composer she went thru the same.Edith the next thing God is doing in your life it's big ,just trust in God and everything will falls in place
Strength of a woman!..more grace mama❤
@worddaily5586 much appreciated
Cheiii, am so encouraged for sure😊
Your status will change soon. You will soon been called the richest in your family.🙏🙏🙏❤
Amen Amen this is mine I claim it injesus name
Hardwork. No shortcut
AMEN❤❤🙏🙏🙌
Take time to listen to the conversation, learn something. Edith story should be studied. you will learn a lot form her. she is a strong woman,. Good job Lynn, you are an amazing interviewer.
The moment Edith talked about the lawyer and the quick engagement I knew that's a narcissist. Love bombing. Then a string of relationships evidenced by the emails that is typical narcissist they leave a track of heartbroken individuals.
He went on to do devaluation via media
When he confessed that he had slept with other women to overcome Edith that's classical Narcissist . They are super sexual .
Could there be an issue with the so called 'my learned friends ?' They seems to be experts in character development manipulations . Pure narcissist 😢
No, for women it is different. I dealt with a civil engineer I am the one that got emotionally abused even the sister had warned me. Narcissists are everywhere. I also suffered in their hands being the learned friend that I am
I loved listening to this lady, and the fact that she chose to speak English. I am happy.
I am South African watching from Saudi Arabia.
Thanks Lynn for hosting this amazing guest.
We as the murima people are very proud of you Edith. The English is englishing well.... Na R na L are being placed in their rightful places. May God fulfil your dreams.
Glad you noted. Her English is on another level. I love it. Surprisingly, she attracts haters because of her eloquence. She'd attract haters, too, if she crucified the language. Damned if she does n damned if she doesn't.
Nimenyete ukiiga mirago na ukiingura uinguranga ni wedo,ndagichokia gatho ni murango waingurire .........my favorite even though I don't know gikuyu well this blesses me alot. Take heart girl and may God keep restoring you I love you
Kumbe it was what she was going through
Aki u remind me my cuzo the day ya harusi the guy instead aende church alienda kwa side chik,nd side chik aka mdrag,we waited for the guy,hadi jioni ilibidi watu wakule fud,warudi na gifts,it was hell,afta aweek jama akakuja kuexplain what happened,but waliachana nd shes now hapily married with 2kids,
Edith God will give u agud man,😊
What?Aki this men can leave you in the desert without water.
@@Shire-f1fFear men,upende Na akili,sio roho shit happens
Ama alisema alishikwa kwa msako😂😂😂.men will always be men
My goodness 😭😭
Ngai this is beyond sad 😢 aki hii gender 😅
Wow Edith has such a pure heart that seeks to please God. Thank you for Opening up the way you did Edith. I am shona from Zimbabwe, but I googled all the words on Nitasimana(thanks to the swahili captions) . It is a true gospel message. I am standing because Jesus paid the price. Today, the meaning of that message was very relatable. Thank you for this honest conversation. What you went through is spreading the gospel.
That Prayer Edith made to God ... iyo yenye alisema God I made mistakes, but if you let me we can start again made me tear😢...
Very profound
Me too
@@PearlThoko me too...and I knew bingo! From there with God all will be fine. Hallelujah what an awesome God.
If God did it for me He will do it for you and He will give you the best. God knows what He saved you from. You are blessed of the Lord❤❤❤❤❤
AM PRAYING THOUGH I FIND LOVE NON BORN GUYS BUT WHY
You are beautiful Edith. Very blessed
I agreed. Mine was cancelled 2months to the wedding day. Looking at it nowadays makes me smile. That's the best thing to happen in my life ❤❤🎉🎉
@MuringiNduta-f4p I am glad that which was meant for evil turned out to be good for you to the glory of God 🙏
@@gracy644 Because everyone likes good things , be patient, I had numerous advances from non-born again but waited patiently on God, He makes all things beautiful in His time 💕💕💕
Iam here crying after being heartbroken 😢😢after watching this iam like wait what??? No more crying 😂take it easy Edith your songs blesses us ❤❤❤
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Cry it out if u have to, write down how you feel, put yourself out there, hangouts with friends or family,meet new people, gets something ti keep you busy and distracted eg join the gym/home workouts, read a book, get online for engagements, watch movies etc.. And before you realize it, you will be over him and one day u will ask yourself what the hell u were doing dating such a person. 🥂.
Lynn you're a trusted person, imagine I followed Edith on Jeff's channel and she refused to open up .. here she's comfortable, she's feeling at home😅
True
But at that time it was too early for her to speak about it,and as you speak about an issue it becomes lighter and easier to speak it with time.
I watched it too and wouldn't say/ conclude that she refused to open up. The focus f the interview was different. Please watch it again and notice how happy she is in that one and how Jeff made her laugh almost throughout the interview. Lets appreciate both for their different content
She categorically said,she will share once she is ready.
This shows that she is now ready
I have also learnt different interviewers do it differently which is a great thing.she never refused,she said she will share once ready
Wairimu I have paused and prayed for you. I will continue praying for you my dota. One day you will thank God as you join the dots. Life is a journey, good things are ahead. Count on mama Kim for prayers.
Every gal who is going a real bad heart break, may the good Lord cushion you with lots of love and grace to go through the season. It shall be well with time. Don't settle at anyone, you deserve the best. Cheers ❤❤❤❤
Healing looks good on her💯❤️
God is always faithful
Better a broken r/ship than a broken marriage I was left with 3 kids and serve with separation and you know what I have a million reasons to thank God
Iam happy for you dear Ruth ❤
I watched your story before in another channel but you never disclosed all this,that says alot "HEALED"
You took your time and now you have the courage to speak up.KUDOS🎉
Jeff's...yeah she didn't disclose all this
@esthermwangi1446 You are right ✅️
Usijali Edith, was dumped after 10 years with two kids. I am moving only slowly by the grace of God.
23yrs and I survived the shame,am strong
The cultural shame that is mostly perpetuated by other women.
PHD ie playa hats degree mostly women
Eti miaka kumi , mimi 25 yrs down the line with three children one grandchild
hey come ni Step Up
Don't worry girl.I wish I went through such than to live in hell for 9 years and almost ended tragically 😢
Me too dear it's better than a broken marriage😢,I stay in my marriage 13 yrs it's like hell
Mutyo😢
But God is great
Your story was rewritten
Dating men in ministry needs alot of Discernment there is alot hidden behind the " pulpit " .We who have been victims of spiritual men need to awaken the rest and speak up,,,Tondu aya andu .
Red flags shouldn't be ignored even if they are walking in the Pope annointing...
Thank you Edith
A wake up call mostly women
@SteveIrunguJermaine indeed
I am glad I read this
Plz rise up and help us
Gal
I love her with passion she is blessed her songs teaches me despite i don't know Kikuyu yote lkn ile kidogo nashukuru kupata msg zake.Weee Ngai wa ngapi shothe i love this song so much,na pia ile ya Mlango i listen to them so much time in a day
Me too
Wi Ngai wa Ngai ciothe
Muthamaki munene
😊😊😊
My ex did the same.Mungu naye ni Mungu last year I got married to a loving husband Pst Josh❤🎉🎉
Soon usisahau kunialika kwa your wedding.
Actually to a divine husband who understands your calling. 🎉
More grace to Yu bby girl
You are beautiful..and still young. The man for you is coming. Those men were not meant for you..... God saved you from them and removed them from your life. Those men didn't deserve you. You deserve better.
Best wishes. I wish you happiness. There are many who wish you well. Take heart.
Hey Lynn, this interview was so amazing at some point I got so teary@ Edith,you speak so beautifully about the Grace of God, God bless and keep you....
Edith you will find someone else definately.This was just a life trials and tribulations and someone is out there for you.❤🎉
What do men want really? such a kind, loving , wonderful woman of God, she doesn’t deserve such treatments from those men, that man who canceled the wedding is going to regret for the rest of his life, he will never get even a quarter of Edith. My daughter met a narcissist, who pretended to be nice for 3 yrs though my daughter ignored many red flags, until pre wedding day when I saw the red flags and tried to stop the wedding but I was overweighed , after 5 months into marriage, my daughter couldn’t take it and left. I had asked God after the wedding for His will to be done, I was so troubled during the wedding day because I could clearly see this man didn’t love my daughter, she loved her money, I kept praying for my daughter. Edith it’s good that man canceled the wedding, otherwise you would have left by now. God had a reason for the cancellation. Do not be stressed, God had you back. My daughter is just like Edith, I fully understand what she’s going through. Edith God’s timing is the best, at His own time, He will let the right man locate you. Watch the blessing fall upon you in few moments. Keep trusting in Him and do His work endlessly. Lynn thank you so much for giving people your platform. I have learned a lot from them. May God continue blessing you Lynn, I love you so much as my daughter.
I was in the same situation but for me l was engaged but l broke things off
Beneath that veneer of "niceness" there must be something we don't know that those men know!She must be a handful!
@@mercythuku4597This takes so much courage
Walk High, dear. Let your eyes remain stayed on the Lord. He'll keep you in perfect peace. I am a living testimony!
I dated this guy for three years akapata kazi huko Nairobi when he came back tulikaa like a month kumbe anaplan wedding yake huko ushago and I didn't know.Mind you we lived together,so sato moja akanishow anaenda ushago kidogo nipike minji mchele "his favorite'my lawd kumbe alikuwa anaenda harusi yake.Just saw pictures za congrats to new weds.Up to date can't eat minji hehe
Kula tu minji yeye anajienjoy life goes on.
I’m so sorry 😢 though you put it in a humorous way 😂 ooh my lawd fear men
Ohhhh my😢
😂😂😂 aki hii gender
Jesus yenyewe i have come to realize like 80% of Men are heartless,lack of Empathy wuui
I love her songs.."Gai wa gai ciothe Muthamaki munene"...reminds me of how God is the greatest and the mightiest
This interview has really ministered to me......lm speechless.....lve learned alot and l can relate to this interview......May God bless Edith Wairimu.....God bless you Lynn Ngugi
much love Lynn thanks for hosting Edith i just love how she has thrown out everything and managed to share her story which i trust its going to be a blessing to anyone going through the same ,despite everything she trusted God who has walked with her through the hard times.
Really listening to this girl just lives me in tears. Her anisiaga siage song is one of my best songs. I did not know the hell that she has been through and the inspiration of this song. Edith Kimani you are great and a strong woman. Lynn an excellent platform that is really inspiring and speaking to real issues. Edith Kimani I now love you the more.
Niliachwa FEBRUARY na 3 kids my 3rd born alikuwa 5 month then...within 2 months he got married (Big swahili wedding) na mimi hio miaka yote sijawahi nunuliwa ata pete ya 30 bob yet nilikuwa naambiwa mimi tu ndio mamaa💔😂...HERI KUACHWA BILA MIMBA AU WATOTO
Waaa aki pole😢
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Pole Sana I can relate Swahili wedding reminds me my past
Pole sana
Pole sana 😢
Edith has been through a lot. Count it all Joy when you go through suffering... God will elevate you... you will look back and forget your past. Praying for you
At least I get to listen to this in English version.Asante Lynn.
Indeed Healing is a process
Every time I listen to Edith I learn and get inspired. I hope I'll have the courage to tell my story one day
Weeeee When I listen to this story. You get to know life is spirituality. Edith the devil really wanted to destroy you. The spirit of rejection ... been in ministry..the devil try to get legal ground to torment you. Am able to relate with Bamboo and Erika... that things start at spiritual realm before physical. May God see you through this spirit of rejection
lady u speaks on my behalf thanks so much u have ur sit in heaven keeps moving
She is my friend, pass my greetings to her. She is going far.
Saw her pregnant photos, she hasn't mentioned anything about it
I would like to dedicate to our guest her own song The Best In My Life. I'm blessed.
God restore my sister 😢woyee been rejected b4,I understand
👏👏👏👏👏
Ata nimeshindwa na lakusema so let me just give this a standing ovation as I applaud Edith and Lynn. This was GUUUUUUUUUUDDDDDDD!
As a Ugandan 🇺🇬, i feel so happy when our guest uses English. Thanks Lynn for the show ❤
Lynn encourage her guest to speak in shwahili she is the one starting most of the time for getting her international views, and I am a South African by the way
Thax....as a Ugandan I've always been disappointed and lost in the mist of stories told in swahili.....pse lynn....think about us....big love from UG
You tell a man he is not the only one it becomes a game ,men are clever .You say i want only a Born again , he tells you he s born again or behaves like one. Men will do anything for a cookie.
Sure. you cant dismiss another party expecting your partner to understand. And she calls it a small thing, as if she wasnt into that nice guy that much. Unbilievable
Hehe wanaume ni wanaume tu
A man's nature, he ain't allow to be rejected...
@@MyJOSE2013 Bana. I am loving the reawakening of men.
She shouldn't have told the 2nd man about the first man. She should just stop seeing the person. You have to be wise but I respect her openess and honesty.
Been wanting to watch her story cause I really love her songs . The last one I checked on youtube unfortunately the whole conversation was in Kikuyu. Thank you Lynn for bringing her here ❤.
You wrote my thoughts exactly.
@@peninnahmbinya4833 me too
Wueeh i understand the heartbreaks but women let us wake up this is 2025 !!Never attach yourself with a man, just respect him for what he benefits you with ... whatever value he adds to your life ,,,respect him for thet .
2.continue chasing your dreams and taking care of your pretty self .
3. Lets learn to give birth to the number of kids that we can only afford raising without these men.Always imagine yourself without him .
Yes we are all learning men are trash really 😂
I love your thinking.wishing all women can see this comment
@@Sky_shine254 this is life ,
Mens also have stories, it's only that in society women talks more about their issues. ,
There are also many families that lives wonderful lifes.
Secondly when you say values man He adds to your life,, there is soo many???????
God is God of orders and when His orders are compromised by human, then chores happen in the society...
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I may be the odd out but I do believe Edith led the lawyer guy through...I mean if you don't want something why entertain it for the fear of what people will say? Eti not to embarrass him...if something is not right, it's not right, speak right there and let nature take it's course!
I have two and ain't adding another one,hawa hata akiniacha nitalea vizuri na wasome
Lynn bring us Kathy Kiuna, I believe she has a powerful testimony
Hehehehehehhe
@@teresiahwachira1099I like the way you're laughing
@@teresiahwachira1099😂😂😂😂
Yes bring pst kathy
Hi Edith,am so sorry for what you have gone through.kindly listen to a testimony of Pastor Horidah Omoso JCC Kitengela
It's better to be single than married to the wrong person, honestly something happens for a reason in our life. God is in control 🙏
You are such a brave girl. God has better things in store for you. Remain in his care. He has never failed anyone; he definitely won’t start with you. God loves you girl. Thanks for sharing your testimony of Gods faithfulness in your life. ❤all the way from USA
God of healing,see your servant(Edith)through..Heal her arm miraculously and devinely...fill her life with so much joy and peace...meet her at her point of need....Bless her abudantly in Jesus mighty Name Amen
Wow, so eloquent, I can't tire of listening to you Edith. You are such a great girl. 🙏
OMG this purposely came for me. So inspired by your story my sister...alot are a head of you. He who started something in you will walk with you to the end.
A powerful woman! A daughter of the Most High God! Keep going sweetheart, keep going ❤
Nimeona title, and I remember while on holiday and my former lover was drunk, she dropped her phone , when I picked it up, Tinder Tinder and nakedness.
I silently took her back to the hotel and booked my flight back same night. And the next day I moved, i did ghosting premium. She never knew I found out. I hear she told people I had been taken by someone else.
Ooh no sorry
Ghost master. Pole man
@@janegicheru973 🤣🤣🤣
Sad
Hugs brother 🫂
I was left via a text message on WhatsApp for no reason after all plans have been made for introduction. I'm still healing 1 year down the line. I'm trusting God for complete healing and the marriage of my dreams. I know God makes everything beautiful in His own time.
Hugs dear it's well
Take heart dear girl. God is doing a new thing in your life. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to the show.
For no reason at all? Are women always victims in failed relationships?
...hugs dia....seek therapy...heal ....
Girl you are still young ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 well am fori n I know for sure I'll not go heaven b4 God gives me the right companion , our stories are our pillar ,stepping stone to the next chapter .
Betrayal never leave us defenceless it only make us strong. Edith God never see you defeated or bound but as an overcomer and the greatest chapter of your life is yet to be written. You will see a revival of your life on a level you have never seen Him before.
I swear this guest is real.Human mistakes are normal.
Not True. From a psychology point of view the Guest is a Liar, too much obsessed with money related stuff, entitlement and ego. I'm not surprised the wedding was cancelled.😂
@@Fondo0laughing at other people's sad moments. Your day is coming
@@Fondo0laughing like a fool😮
Fondo? Did you listen to anything??
The two beautiful girls having a beautiful conversation ❤ we learn from our own mistakes.
Her beautiful voice somehow resembles that of lady Bee
Some rejections and failures just makes us more resillient and harden us
Better wee uhiki waku wakanjirwo utekumenya ,ithui twekiriwo gichuhi na thutha wa kugia ciana igiri agakwira thonga titawe ndendaga ,kairitu ugutuura ohau ,ndukire wihure rukungu na uge tiga niwe jehova ingiri ndahoteka
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@@margaretnjoki1031 same
Hata Mimi niliambiwa nisonge after kuzaa watoto wawili, Kwanza Yule mdogo alikua three months na mkubwa 3 years, Mungu ni mwaminifu ametushikilia, firstborn anaingia form four na mdogo grade nine ni God
its tougher for us church girls coz another girl will just go and probably sire with a married man, but for us we will fear fornication. Ei let me hope God is faithful
@@MyJOSE2013may the good GOD help us really
We really need Him
This is the best testimony for children of God. The gifts of discernment is very important and obeying. Many have been trapped into marriages that looked rosy and could not continue their ministry. Edith God loves you. The enemy tried to get you after you dodged the first engagement but God intervene and stopped this second trap. Keep singing and preaching the goodness of the Lord. Amen 🙏
My mentor ,you we I'll make it in Jesus name, I myself I've gone through rejection by my husband and in laws but let me tell you God's timing is always the best, now I've a wonderful man God fearing who treats me well and sees the future ahead,
I was broken by men, i have commitment issues, am turning 40 with no kids, no husband nothing but i have peace...
There is nothing wrong with that
Sorry for that,may God remember you.
What do you mean by commitment issues?
@@denisongondi8558 i never date coz i always feel am being played or going to be hurt so i let go of the relationship.
My story though I got a son,I don't trust anyone.was rejected even with family members ,I stay alone no one visits me no one checks up on us.what kills me is my son grabbed a man shirt on the road while we were walking and said" dad let's go home." Ooh myy...l sunk into tears
@@violetingahizu1114oh my! sorry about that.
Wait not me listening this lawyer part and comparing it to my life,,I got my child with a lawyer got pregnant nikiwa campus and I just don't know everything happened so quickly and I understand Edith so well this people can lie to things looking like it's true,they gamble with your mind and I tell you it's baad ...by the tym you realise they are narcissts wait it's bad and it's ruined your life...av cried listening to Edith coz this close to the life I had with that guy,,I don't want to say lawyers are bad but eeeiii eeeiii...I wish Edith could do a Kikuyu part of this niekee mamangu askie juu this me but can't explain to her anielewe,,they always feel I was the bad one but only that Sasa nitaelezea aje,coz the guy mum used to feel he is a nice person and the way he would come home kama son in-law wa ukweli mum feels Mimi ndo mbaya,,but there's so mum can't understand...
However I I moved on its not easy coz av been blaming myself so much for failing myself and esp having a child together so like you are holding the scars all along 8yrs ago,but I thank God 2 years ago I decided fully to cut everything everything off,,now whats left is to pray for my daughter so so much that she understands she's not the reason my life got broken at a point I don't want her to ever feel this.Edith is strong .
Love your command of English Minister Edith🎉
I didn't know about her until I went to rema feast 2024 and I really admire her strength some of Us we are struggling to move on I believe God time is the best
That song sends tears into eyes..yaani I have to balance the tears...In amazement of Gods goodness
Girl Child be weary of those destiny killers!... especially if you have a NAME!.... be very careful with whoever you plan to start a life with!...😢😢😢😢
Last time you were here in 2022, you spoke a powerful word that i carry to date, never say a chance is by the devil but see God
I feel this girl. People who've suffered rejection in the past are likely to make such mistakes. I am a product of rejection and i understand her very well. You become mean to yourself at the expense of pleasing others. You want to prove those who rejected you wrong and for that, you end up making many mistakes, but the grace of God will always be there to save us.
True
I can relate, most of us are scapegoat goats
I have gone through so many rejections to a point of shutting men from my life .I only trust my son , myself and God
Lynn,you have a gift of making your guests feel comfortable. I've noticed that in your shows, guests open up and are able to speak about very personal issues.
Edith, you're a blessing in this generation,God's chosen soldier. And Him being your foundation,He's got you. I listened to you at EPIC women's meeting and i was like wow! I thought you only sing,but your ministry amazed me.
I was felt there was something Edith wasn't saying previously,glad ,God has given her the grace to to heal,and stand again... truly "heal before you deal",marry for purpose not just for companionship.Lynn you are truly a gem
Narcissism is also in church. They work together to siaga the chosen ones
Someone called it the spirit of jezebel
Weeh they are vampires in church
I feel like as young ladies particularly in ministry (like I am) the society has a way of making us look like we'd be better of or of more value if we are married. But here's the thing, we need to decenter men and marriage by all means. We are enough🥺🥺❤
Go visit a PSYCHIATRIST FOR YOURSELF badly AGAIN and get NEW MEDS.
I love this ❤
@@essnduta ministry is same as SHAKAHOLLA cult.
I also learnt the harder way, being too nice, putting other peoples feelings in front of mine. Narcissism is real!
You were a toxic empath. Toxic to yourself. I also learnt the hard way. I guard myself jealously
True..Narcissists..they love bomb someone then change later change
I totally agree......being nice sometimes can be costly
When you are nice, people tend to take advantage of that......
Quite a story. As the bible teaches, the greater the temptation/setback/suffering the bigger the blessing. God has your back Edith. Your resilience is on another level. God bless you Lynn for always inspiring your audience.
Edith needs to heal that child that is hurting and was rejected. She needs to find a good therapist that will help her identify each of the traumas and deal with them until she is whole. I'm sure she can find total healing and through prayer and faith God will help her find a good partner and settle for a happy marriage.
This is part of healing, when I miscarried after crying for so long , my therapist encouraged me to be sharing my journey of grief, I would share and reshare my pain story to everyone or anybody who’d listen. A year later I am now better,the talking out helped. Been 1 yr and 1/2 now
@@nanawonders6078going through this...I hope to get over the pain of a miscarriage
No-one has a remedy to keep a man ,its by God's grace.ngempela onayo indoda akanakho okokusho okuningi ,
Once you heal, no one can use your pain against you😌
I honestly don't understand why people bully her.
She is a strong one❤❤
@LynnNgugi yeees and thank you for the episode ❤️
Edith has gone thro alot weehh...May God encourage her always.
Mbeu ya NGAI ndiumaga, ndihohaga, na ndicinagwo ni heho, mbeu ya NGAI utuuragio no NGAI, Kaa Kwa Mungu.
Ladies time to learn learn learn.
1. Listen to what those around are telling you.
2. Love is blind. Be very alert and sober minded.
3. Love with your mind first before your heart.
4. When you see repeatitive patterns in ur relationships time to seek for spiritual counsel
5. Never ignore redflags of disrespect, control, stingyness, accusations etc
6. Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage.
7. Give yourself ample time to heal when transitioning from one relationship to another.
Exactly, love from your mind first before your heart
Number 4 is important
Min. Edith you are a great woman of God.
Take note of this matter it has put scars to many great women
Kathryn khulman and Marie wood worth.
I pray that the Lord shall keep Great in our generation and generations
I get so encouraged by people stories, they have really built, and motivated me thnx Lynn today's story has really helped me, i was going through the same pain and crying thank you the gust of today
This beautiful girl needs to pray 🙏🏾 and ask God to deliver her from the spirit of rejection. And raise the standard for her and bring to her a person who will love her ❤! Praying for her ❤
Her story is really touching. Marriage is about asking God whom your rib is. Life is all about asking God about your story lines of life. Glory to God🎉🎉🎉
She needs therapy and deliverance, and someone more mature in matters love to hold her hand and walk with her
Njambi...I love your comments coz they speak the truth...she needs therapy...
Sai nikusonga kama injili 😅 time ya therapy hakuna