Wow! That’s the most beautiful story I ever heard about a deceased father’s love. You have such a wonderful father. I wish my deceased father would come and give the same love and encouragement like your father did. ❤
Sadly ypu hit rock bottom with your self esteem. Glad that you didn't ignore your depression and had faith in spiritual health. Prayers are always answered in different waus, shapes, forms. Keep encouraging others out there who might be going through what you did. Its difficult for them to see the light at the end of the tunnel when being so oppressed by the living situation.
Hmmmm! This audio story was similar to my mom's brother's case during war time while we were still living back in Laos :) As I could remember the story correctly when I was a kid at the time the story was being told :) So my mom's brother's story went something like this..."He was a soldier staying with his troops group away from the Village where she was at home :( One evening the enemy's soldiers came in and raid their entire Village killing his wife at that night :( The sad news got to him :( He and two of his best friends volunteered to help :( The three waited until nightfall the day after the incident has occurred and then they quietly went to the Village completely in darkness :( When they approached the edge of the Village, he lead the way to his house by crawling slowly with no lights at all :( Inch by inch and pace by pace using only his hands trying to find his wife's body inside of the house where she was brutally murdered by enemy soldiers :( Once he found the body all three of them helped each other dragged her out of the house to be buried just outside of his home :( While his friends stood guard, he was busy digging and trying to bury his wife in a hurry just in case the enemy soldiers returned to check it on the Village :( Fortunately just in time with the burial of his wife, the enemy soldiers did return to check on the Village :( They exchanged gun fires and the three split up running in their own directions :( He was alone all by himself at this time hidden under a log :( He was so petrified of everything so the plan was remain still until day light comes and then he could find his way and leave or so he thought :( A miracle bird flew over him with a sounds chirping like 'LIAG TAWM TSIV, LIAG TAWM TSIV' because his real name was 'LIAG' indeed :( Waste no time he got up and run in the same direction of the bird flew away :( In a short distance of running in the dark he came upon a street pathway that led him to safety and he was saved and lived :) He also migrated to the U.S. and was a Minnesota resident until he passed away about a decade ago"
All woman out there that are similar to this lady in this story, sometime some of us might not be lucky to have someone out there to watch out for us when we are vulnerable. Don't wait around, don't sit around and listen to people who just going to shut us down. I'm sure most hmong wife gone through the same too. Do what you think will be good for the family as long as you do the right thing no matter what your husband think or say he will see the benefit of it one day and be thankful for you. I was like that too where I don't buy or do anything if my husband say no but I know I need to do it I just do it. Most guys don't know what is good or bad for your household. You as a wife does so you need to step up and just do it. If you don't do it when people talk they only going to say you a bad housewife not him. You do what you got to do. The most you can do for him is let him know you buying this and that but getting his permission is not needed. There will be times and situations for both opinions but just the normal housewife duties you do not have to ask for his permission.
Mloog thaum pib es koj tus txiv khoo koj mas kuv twb yog txiv neej los cav npau taws thiab 😄😄😄cas yuav nplaum ua luaj es koj tseem uv nyob tau nrog . Tab sis thaum xaus kuj zoo , nrog koj zoo siab os niam tsev 👍👍👍yuav tsum coj li tom qab no thiaj ncaj hos !! Twb nyob meskas muaj vaj huam sib luag ne !!!
Viv ncaus ib txhia txiv neej tsis sawm hwm, tsis sawm kom tus poj niam nyoo, tsis sawm kom tus poj niam tiam thiab hlub hlub nws li nawb. Peb cov poj niam yog leej twg tseem raug tus txiv khoo npaum tus no thiab txhob nyo hau rau nws lawm, koj cia li mus nrhiav hauj lwm ua mus khuv nyiaj siv los ntawm koj lub peev xwm, txhob tos nws yug koj li. Lub ntsib yog hais tias yog tus hwm yus ces yus hwm yog tus tsis hwm yus ces txhob ntshaw nrog nws nyob cia li hais kiag hais tias yog koj hlub thiab xav yuav kuv ces coj kom kuv xav nrog koj nyob, coj kom kuv khuv xim koj, coj kom kuv nco thiab tshua koj. Yog tsis li cas kuv paub tias qhov rooj nyob qhov twg lawm no xwb.
This kind of relationships u need to leave his ruam qhovquav tseg. Ull thank urself later. Tus txivneej coj tus cwjpwm phem li no ces muab tso plig mus ces 4tag. Nyob lubneej zoo li no ces koj kawg mob stroke tuag. I hope u find ur way out away from this loser.
Niag pog dag aw tej lus ko ces hai khuj kom koj tus txiv hlub cwb ho yog muaj npaum ko ces thaum tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces kom koj txiv muab nyiaj rau koj siv xwb tsis thas khwv kiag mam
You are so foolish to let your husband dictate and control you and manipulate you. You work and am entitled to use your money as you see fit. You need to love and respect yourself. You need to recycle him.
Tus niam phauj zaum tas los koj tseem tsav tsheb tsis tau ceev heev ua rau poob qab ke me 2 xwb koj txiv thiaj qhias me2 kom koj khoo tus txiv xwb yog zaum tom ntej no koj tsav tsheb kom ceev es yas ib tis ib tis mas kuv ntseeg tias koj txiv yuav qhias kom koj muaj peev xwm mus sib tw ua ib tug thawj pwm tsav nav
Ab muaj tseeb npaum ko ces kom koj txiv pab ntxiv es mus sib tw ua nej tus tswv nroog mas thiaj txau qhua pob es qhov zoo ho tsis qhias koj ho qhias tej yam los khoo tus txiv xwb nab
Wow congratulations to you haib tshaj plaws li os yom
Wow! That’s the most beautiful story I ever heard about a deceased father’s love. You have such a wonderful father. I wish my deceased father would come and give the same love and encouragement like your father did. ❤
I believe this lady story, because my Dad in heaven has always helping me.
Sadly ypu hit rock bottom with your self esteem. Glad that you didn't ignore your depression and had faith in spiritual health. Prayers are always answered in different waus, shapes, forms. Keep encouraging others out there who might be going through what you did. Its difficult for them to see the light at the end of the tunnel when being so oppressed by the living situation.
Glad u survived and good for you for speaking up to him.
I love your cover photo of is this story. So young and innocent.
Good job proud of you sister
Hmmmm! This audio story was similar to my mom's brother's case during war time while we were still living back in Laos :) As I could remember the story correctly when I was a kid at the time the story was being told :) So my mom's brother's story went something like this..."He was a soldier staying with his troops group away from the Village where she was at home :( One evening the enemy's soldiers came in and raid their entire Village killing his wife at that night :( The sad news got to him :( He and two of his best friends volunteered to help :( The three waited until nightfall the day after the incident has occurred and then they quietly went to the Village completely in darkness :( When they approached the edge of the Village, he lead the way to his house by crawling slowly with no lights at all :( Inch by inch and pace by pace using only his hands trying to find his wife's body inside of the house where she was brutally murdered by enemy soldiers :( Once he found the body all three of them helped each other dragged her out of the house to be buried just outside of his home :( While his friends stood guard, he was busy digging and trying to bury his wife in a hurry just in case the enemy soldiers returned to check it on the Village :( Fortunately just in time with the burial of his wife, the enemy soldiers did return to check on the Village :( They exchanged gun fires and the three split up running in their own directions :( He was alone all by himself at this time hidden under a log :( He was so petrified of everything so the plan was remain still until day light comes and then he could find his way and leave or so he thought :( A miracle bird flew over him with a sounds chirping like 'LIAG TAWM TSIV, LIAG TAWM TSIV' because his real name was 'LIAG' indeed :( Waste no time he got up and run in the same direction of the bird flew away :( In a short distance of running in the dark he came upon a street pathway that led him to safety and he was saved and lived :) He also migrated to the U.S. and was a Minnesota resident until he passed away about a decade ago"
All woman out there that are similar to this lady in this story, sometime some of us might not be lucky to have someone out there to watch out for us when we are vulnerable. Don't wait around, don't sit around and listen to people who just going to shut us down. I'm sure most hmong wife gone through the same too. Do what you think will be good for the family as long as you do the right thing no matter what your husband think or say he will see the benefit of it one day and be thankful for you. I was like that too where I don't buy or do anything if my husband say no but I know I need to do it I just do it. Most guys don't know what is good or bad for your household. You as a wife does so you need to step up and just do it. If you don't do it when people talk they only going to say you a bad housewife not him. You do what you got to do. The most you can do for him is let him know you buying this and that but getting his permission is not needed. There will be times and situations for both opinions but just the normal housewife duties you do not have to ask for his permission.
Viv ncaus cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li nas yus muaj yus nyiaj es koj yuav ntshai koj niag txiv dev ua luaj li nas viv ncaus
Mloog thaum pib es koj tus txiv khoo koj mas kuv twb yog txiv neej los cav npau taws thiab 😄😄😄cas yuav nplaum ua luaj es koj tseem uv nyob tau nrog . Tab sis thaum xaus kuj zoo , nrog koj zoo siab os niam tsev 👍👍👍yuav tsum coj li tom qab no thiaj ncaj hos !! Twb nyob meskas muaj vaj huam sib luag ne !!!
Txhob ntshai os mog twb yog koj nyuab 2 siab es koj txiv los qhia koj kom koj paub pab koj xwb os yus niam yus txiv thiaj hlub yus tshaj txawm ciaj thiab tuag los lawv tseem nco qab ntsoov yus os mog.
UA cas koj lub neej es yuav tsis tshiab txawv lis kuv lub lis os. UA neej nrog cov neeg siab phem mas laj UA neej kawg lis os. Good Luck to you.
Lady, you have to stand up to control bullying husband. Don't let him walk all over you.
Kuv tau tus txiv lim hiam zoo nkaus li koj tus tiag
Kuv nkag siab koj zoo.
Eb...tos tej laus nim hais tias ntiaj teb no tsis yog yus ib leeg no os...xav tias yog kuv xwb thiaj tau tus zoo li no es koj thiaj lo me sister aw😢😢
Viv ncaus ib txhia txiv neej tsis sawm hwm, tsis sawm kom tus poj niam nyoo, tsis sawm kom tus poj niam tiam thiab hlub hlub nws li nawb. Peb cov poj niam yog leej twg tseem raug tus txiv khoo npaum tus no thiab txhob nyo hau rau nws lawm, koj cia li mus nrhiav hauj lwm ua mus khuv nyiaj siv los ntawm koj lub peev xwm, txhob tos nws yug koj li. Lub ntsib yog hais tias yog tus hwm yus ces yus hwm yog tus tsis hwm yus ces txhob ntshaw nrog nws nyob cia li hais kiag hais tias yog koj hlub thiab xav yuav kuv ces coj kom kuv xav nrog koj nyob, coj kom kuv khuv xim koj, coj kom kuv nco thiab tshua koj. Yog tsis li cas kuv paub tias qhov rooj nyob qhov twg lawm no xwb.
This kind of relationships u need to leave his ruam qhovquav tseg. Ull thank urself later. Tus txivneej coj tus cwjpwm phem li no ces muab tso plig mus ces 4tag. Nyob lubneej zoo li no ces koj kawg mob stroke tuag. I hope u find ur way out away from this loser.
Niag pog dag aw tej lus ko ces hai khuj kom koj tus txiv hlub cwb ho yog muaj npaum ko ces thaum tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces kom koj txiv muab nyiaj rau koj siv xwb tsis thas khwv kiag mam
There is life after death! I’m telling you guys if you experience it you will know there is something aside from us living humans.
You are so foolish to let your husband dictate and control you and manipulate you. You work and am entitled to use your money as you see fit. You need to love and respect yourself. You need to recycle him.
Poj niam hmoob ruam tshaj koj ces tsis muaj lawm. Phem npaum ntawd ces muab nws nrauj kiag xwb los paub txiv neej nim tas rau koj niag txiv lawm lov. Peb li peb tej txiv nyoo peb xwb. Tsis yog thuam koj tabsi pab hlub koj xwb.
Tus niam phauj zaum tas los koj tseem tsav tsheb tsis tau ceev heev ua rau poob qab ke me 2 xwb koj txiv thiaj qhias me2 kom koj khoo tus txiv xwb yog zaum tom ntej no koj tsav tsheb kom ceev es yas ib tis ib tis mas kuv ntseeg tias koj txiv yuav qhias kom koj muaj peev xwm mus sib tw ua ib tug thawj pwm tsav nav
Koj ces yog ib tug poj niam ua dhau plaws tus txiv li ko ces yog tsis hwm yus tus txiv mom
Ab muaj tseeb npaum ko ces kom koj txiv pab ntxiv es mus sib tw ua nej tus tswv nroog mas thiaj txau qhua pob es qhov zoo ho tsis qhias koj ho qhias tej yam los khoo tus txiv xwb nab