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0:00 Entitled Karen makes FALSE ACCUSATIONS at work, just to try and get as many people fired as possible. (u/Dragon_Crystal)
5:50 My family wants to try and punish my aunt for changing her Christmas Party date, and I honestly feel like I am getting in the middle of something incredibly toxic and ridiculous. (u/Instaplot)
10:05 I am convinced that My wife’s friend secretly wanted me and my wife to get a divorce, and I can’t believe I didn’t see it sooner. (u/ThrowRA_M27)
16:36 today I messed up by falling madly in love with a man who does not love me in return. (u/Common_Gurl)
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False accusers should be in prison.
Considering how often it happens, but the problem is those same people making the false accusations are usually the same ones in power
I read “False Accusations should be in prison”, and that gave me a small chuckle.
Since a false accusation is in itself a felany, yeah, you're absolutely right
Yup, it’s blatant defamation!
Facts if I was the guy who got fired by karen im suing for wrongful termination
for story 3 I think you were a bit harsh. the girl manipulated the guy when he was in one of his lowest. I think it took him a bit long to cut contact but I believe the ultimate blame should be put on the friend and not so much the op.
Agreed
The fourth story that woman is creepily obsessed since the guy already made his stance clear and this is a friends with benifits situation where one party (the op) has gotten way to attached and now him keeping distance is because he isn't looking for a relationship.
Story 4, I agree that it's a bit irresponsible for the guy to invite the girl he knew was in love with him for a hook up but he was always straight with his intentions. OP needs to learn to take "no" for an answer and not to take it so personally. Nobody's entitled to have their feelings reciprocated.
@AlannahsArt96 And now the narratore will get judged for simping again.
I don’t fault the guy in the last story AT ALL. he was VERY obvious with his intentions and what he was looking for.
exactly.
I think people react way too quickly to hookups. especially against the guy.
Hookups are fine. as long as both parties are clear with their intentions and don't put more expectations on each other than they're ready for.
Neither of them were in the wrong, it's just an unfortunate circumstance where one developed feelings that the other didn't reciprocate which isn't anybody's fault.
She just needs to realize that he doesn't feel the same way she does abs it's not something wrong with her and just try to move on
In the first story, you can easily sue on grounds of being fired for false reasons, there are cameras and all.
Story 4
Guy: I'm not looking for anything serious, just a hookup
Narrator: I think that guy just invited you out to hookup
Really stretching to make the guy who told her his intentions out to be a jerk.
Fr very annoying
What do you expect from a jewish npc
is "emotional cheating" basically just being friends with anyone who isn't your partner orrr lmao
that's what AITJ and a lot of society seems to think
@@aubarlowe Really sad that there are people who think you can't be friends with someone of the other sex when you're married. The fact they think it could lead to cheating leads me to think they're projecting.
@@jorelnavarro honestly agreed. It's also extra ironic to me, as a lesbian, for probably obvious reasons. Like, people see me hugging my guy friend (we're both just very huggy people) and just assume we're dating.
Hell, my brother and I look nothing alike, and people constantly thought we were in a relationship just because we got along and hung out a lot. We didn't even hug or stuff like that. It's ridiculous.
Story 3, the dude was being emotionally manipulated by the ex friend. He was in an emotional low point and she pounced. His wife has chosen to forgive him for his "emotional affair "
I know that a part of how "emotional cheating" is typically described involves sharing relationship issues with the other person. However I disagree with JUST that being grounds for calling it "emotional cheating" even though I've seen people do it before.
My only issue is that it seems like he WAS aware that she might be attracted to him and kept doing it. Then I'd probably call it an "emotional affair." That being said it could ALSO be that OP is looking back on the interactions while writing the post and realizing the signs that OP may have ignored at the time that the ex friend was interested.
@@DoctorOaks emotional cheating is a thing now, too funny..
Honestly, emotional cheating is absolute nonsense. Let people have close friends. He did nothing wrong except trust the wrong person.
Wasnt an affair
@@DoctorOaksI’d go further and say there’s no such thing as an emotional affair. If nothing physical happened then it wasn’t an affair. The only exception I think of is sending nudes or something
Last story: op is very desperate. And I do not think she was played as commented. He told her he wasn't looking for anything more before she even went. And told her what he was looking for. And she even said she thought she would be ok with it until she saw him. So she is the one who did this to herself.
He so far off base with the last story, like seriously. How is the guy a scumbag? The op says the he has said multiple times that he doesn't want anything serious. So she knows he doesn't want anything with her. And he told her come out and we can spend some quality time together. She willingly went and hooked up with him knowing that he just wanted to hook up. That's completely on her for going knowing how the guy feels. Because he has been completely upfront about it.
ya the narrator is a simp
Yeah, the OP is a stalker. The guy was honest all along, but the OPs unrequited love is blinding her from his honesty.
This narrator is a beta honestly. He has a tendency to give BS advise.
Story 3/4 is just the reader simping as usual..
@@gotenblack2542 that's what I always say
Story 1: That manager is such a simp. The karen was proved to be lying and yet the manager went along with the lie
Story 3: What the hell is an 'emotional affair'? Why can't people be close friends without it being cheating? I mean, I get we have a jealous bint trying to destroy a relationship but still, emotional affair? Have some self-confidence. Honestly it's weird crap like this that makes me glad I'm single and not looking to mingle.
With story 3 it does not seem like an emotional affair seems like someone going through a rough time and thinking they had someone safe to talk it out with. They turned out to be wrong, of course. If that was a standard for an emotional affair, then everyone is having one with their friends.
If
I agree
I know the situation is a bit different but in general this dude has a thing against guys with close girl friends. It's pathetic and outdated. Just find any other video with that situation and he's always saying that relationship is inappropriate.
@@GhostZero17 he has a problem with guys in general. The last story, he literally blamed the guy after he was literally transparent with his intentions and goals. This narrator shouldn't even be on this channel
*Final Story* I don't think the med student is a scum bag. He very clearly verbalized that "playing around" was all he could offer. He specified that his career, family, & religion are the ONLY things he is willing to be committed to. He didn't lead OP on, he told the truth. OP continuing to see him was confirmation to him that she was ok with that. If OP knew she catches feelings too easily she should've explained that to him & stopped seeing him as soon as he conveyed that to her. He would've understood. The fact that OP suddenly can't deal with it, is not his fault. He was honest & forthcoming. He is not the wrong here.
The first story, good grief. This woman is crazy
Story 1 is the reason why I hate the "believe all women" crap. I also had to deal with a lying karen at a past job and she made up lies to try to get me fired. She placed an order with a wrong part and I was the unfortunate soul that shipped to the customer. The customer was angry of course and the Karen tried putting the blame on me demanding I should be fired. She even went so far as to say I was making her uncomfortable due to me staring at her, I wasn't even working in the same building as her so wtf? I was saved by my coworkers and boss coming to my side, but I heard this lady has gotten others fired in the past. She got away with her trash behavior due to her husband being the regional manager.
About story 3: I'm gonna have to disagree with you man, I don't necessarily think it was an emotional affair. I've been in that situation before, at a rough patch in my relationship, and just needing to talk to someone I trust... then they started spewing venom about my gf and afterwards they confessed that if I left my gf they were down for business, if you know what I mean.
It was a complete breach of my trust, now I don't really discuss anything relationship-related with anyone... I don't trust people's intentions and, in the end, they will never get the whole picture as much as I try to be unbiased when talking about stuff. It just leads to ppl having resentment for my partner and I honestly never want that, it's so messy everytime.
Clarification: I see how this story could be an emotional affair, but, based on the information that OP gave, the sketchy behavior seems to be one-sided... I think OP actually thought he had a friend that he could trust to discuss his issues.
op's friend , op or his wife might be the jerk.
@@viviennemorgan7217 based on what we know, i would say the friend is the main jerk here, i think she's the only one with clear malicious intent here
@@camo.0w0 ok I agree with your Statement.
There's no such thing at an emotional affair...
The company I used to work for was exactly like this, except replace catering entitled to catering stupid, lazy workers and punishing the hard workers.
The last guy was not the jerk he was just being a friend letting his friends spend the weekend with him it's not his fault that she's head-over-heels in love with him he clearly said that he wasn't going to do that in the beginning.
First story: from then on, stay as far away as practicable. Talking to her? Stay 50ft away and yell back in response to her. "No, Mr. Manager, I wasn't mocking her. She didn't want me in her personal space, so I ensured that I would never be anywhere near her personal space again".
Story 3: That wasn't an emotional affair, but she definitely was trying to poach.
Story 1: I had a coworker just like this but worse. She was a prison guard who would lock up inmates to punish coworkers who stood up to her, even if in the slightest. She also refused to allow me to get an inmate to medical when he was about to have a seizure. He wasn't faking, I dealt with him for years.
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I agree with you on Story #3 if he has issues with his wife, he should talk to her or find a male friend if he wants to vent out. Choosing a female's shoulder to cry on is a very bad move especially if that female has a hidden desire. She's taking advantage of his weakness and vulnerability.
Sooo what you're saying is it's his fault for being manipulated
Also you can vent to whoever you want, male or female lmao.
exactly
@@otterpopozzie obviously the friend had feelings for him. and if he wanted to vent, he could have vented to his wife or a male friend. or even if he wanted to vent to a female friend, why her? and no i’m not saying it’s his fault for being emotionally manipulated.
It's not an emotional affair when the dude is being manipulated tf 💀
That and there's no such thing as an emotional affair
Sometimes I wish I was in the story... With plenty of torture devices...
3rd story: i do agree that he was spending a bit too much time w that friend. she even hugged him in front of his wife at the airport, and she has been acting very weird. she has tried to emotionally manipulate him and he is very lucky that his wife took him back. that friend sounds like the devil himself.
Wait, so she gets a hookup, KNOWS it's just a hookup, falls in love with said hookup knowing he only wanted a hookup and has this career, and the narrator STILL blames the dude when dude had his intentions on the table from the get go? Fucking hell, man!
100% this. The OP ironically gave herself more accountability than the narrator.
this is why i dont like the guy he simps so for girls is annyoing lol
@@gotenblack2542 seriously. It's fucking annoying.
@@gotenblack2542 speak english dumb fuck
really now going to start shit
Story 1: Karen's like this are the big reason why many people out there don't take the whole "Me too" movement seriously. Also, the management here are just as big of jerks, she was pretty much proven to be outright lying, and yet those other people were disciplined and fired. I would've sued both the Karen and the management. Karen's like this exist solely to cause trouble.
Story 2: There's some issues here that i dont think are being told here, but probably a good thing. The aunt changing the dates for the get together like that is quite annoying and inconsiderate, but the husband wanting to stage a boycott and cause a scene is just as stupid.
Story 3: This is a good reason why you need to be careful who you confide in. That "friend" was really nothing of the sort, to either the wife or the OP, especially with how hostile the friend was over the job offering. The friend here is definitely a jerk. I dont think the OP is a jerk here, but definitely is a dullard.
Story 4: OP needs to give up and move on before this becomes some kind of obsession.
Story 1. That wouldn't last for long. A nice investigation from the labor board would end it fast.
In the last story, she did not get played!! Lol. He was honest the whole time. She still chose to participate. No one played on her emotions!! Lol
The first story, what did that Karen smoke?
Whatever it is, it sure isnt legal or good for you.
@@QuickManEXE I got stories about Karen’s like her believe me
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It's funny I hear them talking in terms that describe my job at Home Depot til it was given away by the homer badge 😂
Dude, the guy from the last story made it clear he only wanted to hook-up and not get into anything serious. How is he leading her on? I honestly think you don't know how hook-ups work.
The third story of this guys response is absolute garbage. Saying that having people help you cope and heal emotionally is an emotional affair is straight trash. He was using someone to help him cope and was not doing anything that would imply he liked her. Hugs and crying with people aren’t allowed now? I think what this guy is saying is always a hit or miss because he just somehow says the worst. I can’t stand listening to the atrocious takes.
Nah, you don’t vent about your SO to their friends. Especially ones that they are competitive with. Totally inappropriate and unhealthy. That’s what your friends are for.
Lil' Wonder It's your opinion but it's wrong. It is wholeheartedly emotional cheating, and a little physical. If the op didn't think it was, he wouldn't have been hiding it from his wife.
@@isamu6197 didn’t she come to him? Either way he was venting to people he knew, he probably didn’t vent to his friends to not burden them or have himself be pitied.
@@randywright8908 cap you can hug a female without it being physically cheating, they didn’t kiss, he didn’t touch her inappropriately or try anything of the sort. He confided in her and she showed empathy. He didn’t hide it more so just didn’t mention it. He didn’t see anything wrong with what he was doing so why hide something you feel isn’t wrong? It wasn’t wrong so he should not have needed to say anything. Hell he didn’t even say anything that would imply emotional cheating, confiding in a person isn’t emotional cheating.
@@lilwonder1053 He said he didn't tell his wife and kept it from her. Go back and watch it again, then you so off base
S1, could’ve pressed charges against management and the karen due to false accusations and trying to kick the good workers out of their job- and even if it doesn’t work it’ll land them in some serious trouble at some point.
Story 2: While I agree with the OP and the narrator, having 2 Christmas dinners seems like it'd be a good idea, it should definitely be talked about with the Aunt so that it can be coordinated (for the next celebration, not the present one in the story) bc it seems like the family is absolutely massive and expecting the whole family showing up is pretty naive, they should definitely have multiple celebration dates so that everyone in the family can spend some time with family during the holidays.
Yep I think she's trying to break you up the first clue was the fact that she said she had a job for you but when they find out a child gotten back together suddenly the job was no longer available
Third story: that friend is a citizen of the island Lesbos
Sounds like Karren just loves Drama
Op is talking about “Wally’s world”
14:05 as a person who comes from denmark I am so happy to hear something about Copenhagen in one of your videos. Although the situation is a bad thing.
Then you lead a very sad life
@@rollitup419 Wdym?
Honestly the gut you told management that if they fire would wouldn't have cared made an excellent point when comes to entitled people because based on what we know it seems like if a customer stores to that establishment and doesn't get their they will ask for someone kind of compensation for that. If the associate refuses the entitled customer will throw a fit and demand a manager. After the manager is called and is given both sides of the story the will give the customer what they want as compensation just to keep them happy. Which is absolutely ridiculous. Yes a business should keep customers happy because a business with no customers will fail but they should also strive to keep employees happy because from what being described the establishment the originally poster described can't be run by one person so if the employees quit what will happen the business will shut down. This will be worse if someone who worked leaves a bad review about what it would be like to work there then that business will be hiring but no will be applying.
I know this might sound messed up, but I think the guy where his wife’s friend was trying to break up the marriage I don’t think it’s his fault at all. He was struggling with something really hard and thought his marriage might end and he said that his wife’s friend and him were friends also so I just see it as him going to a friend not emotional affair I’m not going to lie I’m not a person that believes in emotional affair.
In the first story the Karen is the jerk
And the managment
Story number 3: OP didn't do anything wrong. The ex friend is definitely a narcissist and with banking on OP and his wife splitting up because she wanted him. I'm just guessing here, the only reason she wanted OP was because she couldn't have him. The gas lighting, the emotional manipulation, the triangulation, the smear campaign and hoovering didn't work. Hopefully OP's wife takes a hint and cuts the friend off completely. You don't need toxic people like that in your life. The fact that it's acknowledged that she has always been competitive is another toxic trait. No person should be competitive with anyone else but with their former selves.
The last story. The guy made his intentions known in the very beginning. He knew that he was going to be very busy with everything going on in his life and didn't want a relationship, so this is what he did. Basically a 1 night stand. She knew that going into it. Unfortunately she got hooked on him and that's not his fault. If he didn't tell her all of that then it would have been, but he did so sorry narrator it's her fault this time.
Karen was boning management
Story 2 I'm trying to go bed but right before I do story 2 the op should have call the cops for harassment of his aunt
Dude at the end did nothing wrong. She just keeps disappointing herself. He told her what was good and she thought she could change his mind
The last one.... I feel like you could replace 'doctor' with CIA operative and you would have the subplot to True Lies. The part where Jamie Lee Curtis' character is duped by the car salesman.
1st story: management only listens to those that scream the loudest. if the rest of them really wanted to make a point they should have all reported the women daily while saying they were going to jointly walk out or sue if she was not dealt with.
I honestly don't think OP 4 is the jerk you can't help who you fall in love with and they clearly struggling with their feelings and know that the person they are in love with has boundaries and is respecting them I hope they can move on and find happiness.
if anything her getting that guy fired was doing him a favour, because he will get to get another job where he wont have to put up with her on a daily basis
20:50 fumbled the explanation
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Maybe learn English before trying to fucking speak it, dumbass
@@rollitup419 what’s wrong with you, you can say it in a different way, f.e. you wrote it wrong,may I correct you. I myself am not native English speaker, and I still make mistakes
@@rollitup419 why are you like this? I just told you what you did wrong, and you insult me like this. There are rules in society. Accept it or leave
@@daykibaran9668 😂😂😂😂 rules? So now I HAVE to listen to you because YOU made shit up? Once again, I don't fucking care about your feelings being hurt. If you don't like what I comment, you don't have to fucking read it. FUCK OFF AND LEAVE ME ALONE
I LOVE how the guy clearly shows he wants no relationship and STILL gets labeled a scumbag. 😵💫🤯 it's okay to get laid when you are busy... but since it is a man wanting some stress relief it's automatically labeled scumbagish if it was a woman it would be "you don't own her" so yea YOU DONT OWN HIM!!!
Dude, he was currently in a rough path at the time, they probably do you like what you were doing
I am surprised that work place was still open considering that no one would want to work there because the bosses were trying to suck up to a spoiled brat Karen.
Jesus this story is crazy rn
What i saw with the husband and his wife friend was he just needed a sounding board and a friend i saw nothing to indicated that he was interested in her at all . He just saw her as a good friend giving him emotional support the friend was the one causing all the problems
Floormat needs a life. All he wants from her is her tail. You're too damn easy.
karen wants every employee fired, so she wants the manager to believe her like how stupid can management be like wake up karen accused them for harassment.
So voicing ones concern over marriage troubles equals I wanna date you? Is that your stance? So dose everyone wanna date their therapist or best friend?
Nice stray gameplay in the background
4th story. Not buying the judgement you're dropping on this guy - he was never dishonest. He was clear from the beginning this is a hook up situation which she didn't express any concerns about, AND he dropped out the minute she made it clear she wanted more. He didn't string her along. He didn't deceive her. He didn't promise things. He was clear: this is not serious, I don't want serious, I don't have time for serious. It's sad she got emotionally invested but that's on her to deal with and be aware of in the future if casual relationships are not for her or just not with this guy
Story 4. The guy has another partner on the side.
The guy and op have never been in a relationship and he has priority. Like he needs to focus on his career and being a doctor is a hell of a level of dedication and focus. That is why he doesn't want to have any serious relationship and he probably doesn't want to neglect his lover. Both he and op only had a hookup and that was it. Nothing romantic from the guy's side.
I relate to story 4 in a way, and it really hurts me to think of this again
The last guy is probably in a relationship. It's infatuation and puppy love.
Emotions. Actually most the time you shouldn't go by your emotions. I found this out the hard way.
I have a3 day rule when I'm talking to a guy. If they ghosts me for 3 days. I'm done. I will never act desperate again.
For story three I don't blame the OP because I know what a family death is like. its crushing. I have not talked about it at all to anyone, but I wish so badly I could to my best friend but she lives in another country. Im able to talk about it with my family but I need another person to talk to it about. So I don't blame the OP one bit for needing someone to talk to.
In the last story the guy is not a jerk or anything if the true intentions we set at the beginning by both. She caught feelings she told him he stated that he wasn’t wanting that but she left door open for hookups still and it’s his fault he continued that does make him wrong
Story #1 - That is nothing new. Karen's have been doing that since they were able to enter the work force. This is why I love working from home so I do not have to deal with Karen's. I literally dealt with a lady named Karen, we called her Judy, that did all that she could to make our lives hell at work and management enable her. Also this is why I refuse to be alone with any female at work. I have seen the false accusations by Karen's cause all kinds of problems at various jobs.
I actually understand the sister/ husband in story 2. It seems petty and it may actually be, but sometimes people need to be reminded that they’re not the center of the universe. Insisting that you host this event every year, then changing the date on a whim to accommodate ONE person or a few select people alienates almost everyone else. No thought about how fair that is to others clearly shows that this person needs to learn how to respect other people’s time and everything isn’t about them. It also has this weird tone of “these people are more important than everyone else” when you change dates for some and others are just left out
for the last story, I strongly disagree with you. That guy is not a scumbag. He literally told her that he is not interested in any sort of relationship and she needs to understand that. she’s keeps trying to forces her feelings onto someone who’s not interested, but she doesn’t seem to care and he keeps having to tell a time after time after time he is not interested in any relationship. The relationship they have is just a booty just friends with benefits. If she wants more that is her fault because she she knows he isnt interested in more. if she wants to be more than that and doesn’t like feeling like she’s being used she need to stop going to him for fun time bc shes only gotta get hurt more
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15:58 i don't agree
Yessirrrr this story is always amazing by am I the jerk
I swear I’m early but if I see like 2 or 5 people saying first and not commenting early
How's tjat the guys fault at the last story he literally was honest with her about not wanting anything more than a hook up it's not his fault she's hung up on him he really could just be having 1 night stands while he focuses on school family and work like is he not allowed to have fun on his free time ??? That's insane he was honest with her and straight up as can be
What’s the game in the background called?
Stray
When you have sex you bond emotionally. Men don't expect the first time. He isn't a scum bag, he's just a man.
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You are wrong about the last two stories. The guy in the last story was open about his intentions and the guy in the second to last story needed a friend when his cousin died. That’s no emotional betrayal, else every friendship would be cheating
Idk how these players do it. I wish I could get 1 woman to care about me and want me. And yet they get so many.
You don't want it. You really don't
Ok am not the only one who thinks it’s weird she caught like 6 people harassing her. Even if they knew nothing about what actually happend isn’t it suspicious that (i am just assuming since how she acted) the woman who is extremely sensitive (like i said am just guessing) caught so many people most good employees harassing her i mean that is just weird that’s just my thoughts tho
That's just typical female behavior
Last story, OP is the problem
It not funny to get people fired for fun by faking thing it really mean even a 1 year old knows better
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Dude the guy talking to his freind behind his wife back wqant an emotional affair he didnt love the freind flirt or anything he vented which is natural i vent to my friends about shit with other freinds or even my gf when im mad its nit flirting its not inviting trouble its natural
I feel like the so called "Friend" may have actually been behind some of the "rough patch" things in some way. She moved in BEFORE the rough patch, then once it started goaded the OP into venting to her and opening up. It's not wrong of the OP to think the "friend" was being anything but friendly at first, so that isn't the problem. It sounds like the wife and OP had some serious communication problems and the "friend" was purposely manipulating both of them for her own gain.
I disagree with you on the last story. I don't think he is a scum bag. If he had made it seem like he wanted a relationship and strung her along, then he would be a scum bag. But, that's not what happened. Yes. He did just want to hook up with her, but it seems like he was very up front about it and he let her know early on that he has no interest in it being anything else. The fact that the OP didn't listen to him is her fault.
Is it just me or does this narrator usually side with the women in these stories whether wrong or right
Last story: it's NOT all your fault, he's kind of been leading you on, I mean, telling you he isn't on the same page and may never be serious and then kissing you goodbye?? He knows you like him more than he likes you, and if he doesn't have any intention of taking it further, he shouldn't be taking you out and kissing you. He definitely has some responsibility in this situation 😑😡
Last story dude ur judgement is wrong first of all he didn't commit any future plans to her second that she was equally responsible for the hoockup third as a medical student u dedicate literally 12 years to study (I am also a medical student) just to become a doctor and save people and for the fact before becoming a resident u don't get paid enough to cover up bills and support himself it not that he is toying with other girl or hanging out with friends it just that he is pressurized and u don't even know how much we have to dedicate from highschool
And the op didn't even tell that he like spending time or that he was with her as well as not giving her time
It's like u two dates and then he didn't go well with the relationship it's just the op is attracted to him so the medical student is not the jerk neither u
For the fact we literally have to study like at least 8 hours a day remember each and every line from like 18 texbooks which are each 600 pages and op listen
What do u think he should like give time even if he is saying u
1) u
2) medical book
3) family / helping siblings or parents
4) presentation
5) practical
6) experiment
7) case study
8) lab projects
9) lack of sleep (like we people literally sleep 3-5 hours a day u think that enough and the sleep time is pretty odd because of night shifts)
10) he might as well be doing some second job so that he can pay of college/ rent/ food / date)
People we are also human but when u realise how hard it is u would understand
For a few days we won't be able to speak to are parents just for a bit of comfort
What due the op wants it not that everyone life is easy
Ya we do get holidays and Sunday free but the test and study continue and each day we should at least study like 6-7 hours so think about the problem of other than ur people because might know how in pain the other person is in
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