Thanks so much for watching. No matter what you're going through, I promise you you're never stuck there forever. I'm praying for better days ahead for all of us and a life filled with dreams come true!
Thank you for sharing. I am also a survivor and it happened while I was traveling for work. I gained a lot of weight, drank too much, and just didn't want to be around anymore. I went through life as a zombie for over 5 years. My mom offered to pay for an EMDR therapist that was not under my insurance plan. Through EMDR, I finally got my life back. I quit drinking and I am working on my MBA. Your story brought me to tears because I remember what that dark time in my life felt like. I cried out of sadness for me back then and out of relief for having survived the storm and made it out the other side and happy again. Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤
@@coreyparson9906 You are so strong! EMDR was a therapy that helped me a lot too, so it's good to hear your story. So glad you shared your story thank you.
Oh Sarra...my heart breaks hearing you tell this story that is familiar to so many of us. 😢 My love to you and to every single woman who has been through similar dark times. ❤ Thank you for reminding us that we CAN rise like phoenixes into a new, vastly better life.
Thank you so much for sharing this! Your bravery is so inspiring and your courage to be open about what you suffered is really important to anyone who has had similar awful traumatic experiences. You are epic ❤As is your wonderful voice!
Oh my goodness, thank you for sharing such a personal story, it was so meaningful to hear where you came from and I know it couldn't have been easy to share. You are so appreciated and inspiring, thank you for this awesome video!!
Sending you love Bethany!!! I know it's a big important time in your life, too, and I'm sending all my happy thoughts and wishes for so much joy ahead.
I am disabled and dependant on a husband who does not love me... I'm scrambling to get an income stream that can support me before he leaves. Making a living on writing takes time, I know this... but at least I have hope for the future. Thank you for everything, Sarra. For this RUclips content, for the courses, and most of all for sharing so much of yourself that we can see ourselves in you, and therein see the possibilities. Hope is a hard gift to give, but here you are handing it out.
Wishing you the best! Hope you can make that FU money in time you can be the one to leave him. Or wait, I guess leave him FIRST so he won't have any legal rights to a single penny of it! ❤
You are literally my favourite person in the online bookish space. Truly just the most kind and welcoming and incredible soul. Sending all my love to you.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I too am an SA survivor, domestic violence survivor, and survived a suicide attempt nearly 30 years ago. That was my wake up call. I left my abusive husband, got sober and started working on changing my life. A few years later, I met my wife and we've been joyfully married for 26 years. I turned 50 when my first book was published. Last month, I turned 58 with more than a dozen published titles to my name. This year, I made a profit for the first time and also cracked the 5-figure mark. I'm hoping the HB90 course will help me better organize my time so that I can break 6 figures next year.
Please, never listen to people to deter you from telling this story. It is heartbreaking what you went through, but this is the story that have, is and will change people lives for the better. Thank you for your courage! ❤️
I'm @13:03 Goosebumps, Sarra! I'm 64, and am old enough to be your mother. I just want to say that when seeing your photo and hearing you sing, I had the strongest urge to hug that beautiful young lady (not that far from being a girl) and tell her just how proud I am of her. You are so worthy of respect and love - you are a diamond! 💟
Following your wisdom and kindness has been a pivotal part of my life. To quote a song from Wicked: 'Because I knew you, I have been changed for good.' Every single one of your videos leaves me feeling motivated and empowered to keep moving forward, a small step at a time. Thank you for all the love you share with the world, Sarra ❤🍒
Wow! You have a beautiful voice. You’re very brave for not only standing up for yourself but going through the whole ordeal to help prevent it from happening to others 🙏🏽
“Know that you are worthy of something different for yourself. You can create something different.” Oh, how I needed to hear that today. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
😢 thank you Sara for sharing your story. I’ve gone thru similar stuff with SA from my childhood that I’ve stuffed for so long and kept inside and has led me to make unhealthy choices in my life like drinking and smoking. I’m 40 now with an amazing husband and 3 beautiful boys and while I still battle my demons my dreams of becoming a writer and having my own business is big and strong! My husband is my support and life is so fragile and goes by so fast that there really isn’t much time to waste. There’s no such thing as a perfect time. Thank you! Your amazing! I love you! 💕
Wow, Sarra. I already know your story from other videos over the last couple years, but the way you told it in this one was wow. And we got to hear you sing!!! Thank you for putting yourself out there so we can all learn from you. I'm excited about YPF and HB90, and this was even more motivating. Thank you
This hit me. As a ghostwriter, I'm used to having an author between me and the public. But I want to transition from ghostwriter to public-facing author, and it's a terrifying prospect. Watching this makes it feel less scary. I admire your bravery and vulnerability. Thank you for this video. I needed it.
I had to pause halfway to write this comment- this is the best video you have ever posted and I’m sitting at my desk at work sobbing for everything you’ve gone through and how inspiring you are and how much you encourage me.
First of all, you look so beautiful in this video. I just had to tell you. Second, I feel like this was meant for me to hear today. Thank you so much for sharing this video. I have been dealing with the aftermath of trauma for the last 4 years and struggling to get back to writing again. This is exactly what I needed. What a blessing! Thank you so much for being open and honest and sharing this.
So much of this resonates with me, down to Tennessee living and “Miss Priss”. Instead of opera, it was Christian music that I had to sing that didn’t sit right with me. Now, I have trouble singing when triggered, but my dark psychological fantasy writing has led to yoga instructor training, as it’s helped me when I have fibromyalgia flare-ups. Thank you for all your sharing. It’s helped me on my writing journey, which has helped more of my dreams come true. Been out of an abusive relationship for years, where SO much SA happened. My life is finally feeling balanced, as I have love, life, inspiration, and less people pleasing in my life. Also fur-babies who love cuddles. As for the Air Force… I was in the AF and still had things swept under the rug. Even by myself, because I feared I would lose my job. Never feel bad for crying. Tears are information. And evidence that it’s real in your life. Whether happy, fearful, or angry tears. Or sad. They’re okay with me. ❤ My condolences for your loss. Grieve however you need. Also, happy early anniversary! So glad you have a great family to help you heal.
Sarra! You're beautiful in every way. Thank you sharing your personal story and sparking inspiration and hope. You're talented, courageous, and have a glorious soul. Wishing you and your family a blessed 2025 ❤
Thank you for sharing your story, I think almost every woman has experienced a form of SA in their lives. It's definitely a problem and the way we're told to "just move on with your life" will never be the right answer. And we wonder mental illness is so common. You can't just stuff that down! I'm glad I got to hear you sing! WOW! Great pipes 💜 I can't get enough of hearing about people (women) who have overcome hardships and made something beautiful in their life.
Although I already knew a lot about your story, thank you for sharing Sarra. For someone who experienced multiple traumas during childhood, this truly resonated with me. And we got to hear you sing! You have a beautiful voice, but I’m also glad you’re living your true calling as an author and mentor ♥️
Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry you went through that, especially at such a young age. Healing is a lifetime journey, but you deserve it. Sending you love.
I cried with you through parts of this video - for you and for me. Let's just say, I can relate to many of the experiences you have been through. I'm so sorry for your recent loss. As you know, I have just been through the same. Sending you much love and thank you as always for the wonderful inspiration. Can't wait to do HB90 again and Manifest Your Year.
In sorry that you had to go through all that suffering but I'm so glad to see where you are today I agree with what you say about redefining our lives. I've been on a similar journey for several years and I am so proud of where I am today. There's so much more to do but - like you said - piece by piece: you try, you learn, you adjust, you practice gratitude and learn to recognize the little wins from each incremental step. And you celebrate them! And you keep learning. And growing. And getting better and better.
Sara, thank you for sharing your story. I DO appreciate you and your story. As someone who can relate whole heartedly. Life can change for the better. Blessings and love to you. My story is similar to yours. However, too long. I am blessed. I'm not a writer. But I do share my story when necessary. Thanks again!❤
Thank you for sharing parts of your story. It is not easy to share most times for many reasons. The world would not have been blessed with you, your family would not have existed, and your inspiration would not have helped others if you gave up early on. Life can be so overwhelming, but we can't give up. Sometimes I get sad about the detours I didn't choose, the struggles that should not have happened, the justice that didn't happen, the mean people in this world, financial hardships, health issues, or even more... We need to find joy, protect our children, take care of our minds and health, and do what makes your heart happy. We only can move forward even if our past can weigh us down at times. Surround yourself with special people. I hope the new year brings blessings to you and your viewers.
You have truly been such a light in my life. Meeting you in Raleigh was such a joy for me and I was just dying on the inside of excitement because you just mean so much to me. I was SA’d 5 years ago and I am truly still crawling out of that quicksand. Your videos and stories show me my life still has so much left I can achieve and dream for. I turn 24 next week and I am hopeful for the future. Today is my last day at my job that has been killing me mentally. Here’s to the future!
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm a survivor also. I was raped when I was 16 years old. I'm so glad I got to hear you sing. You have a beautiful voice. 💜
Because of your strength and courage in sharing your past, You gave the strength to escape an abusive relationship. I left in February of this year. It was scary but because of you I did it. I moved to a state where I only knew one person. I took your advice about seeking therapy and I am in a much better place now and I owe that first step I made to you and I am actually starting to plan for the dream I have always had of being a writer. You are so amazing Sarah. Thank you for giving so much of yourself to us. You truly have made a difference for so many I know you gave me my life back.
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable story to help pull others up. Thank you for being that example that the life of our choosing is just decisions away!!!!❤You deserve all the good things in your life. I’m so happy for you!
Thank you so much for sharing. I knew some of this, but not all, and now I'm even more impressed and drawn to you. I've been in that space before. I find myself in that space now and then still (trauma follows us and hates to let go), and we always just have to keep choosing to be here, to keep moving forward.
Thank you so much for sharing. I was a therapist specializing in trauma in a county that has a military base, and the stories I have heard from survivors have absolutely broken my heart because the military answer seems to be to move them elsewhere… It’s absolutely heartbreaking. The negative spiral is one I’m familiar with after I decided to leave my career, finally received a proper diagnosis of PMDD, and started healing what even through years of therapy, grad school, and so much learning about trauma I had never recognized the weight of. I wish you continued healing and am sending love!
just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. i know how difficult it is to share the hard stuff, but because of people like you, the rest of us feel like we can share our hard stuff, too. ❤
OMG Sarra! As if I wasn't having enough trouble fighting the tears when you were getting upset - then you go and play us your amazing singing and I was gone! What an incredible voice! You truly are a VERY multi talented lady. xxxx
I can so relate to this. Sexual assault is so life altering in ways people can’t understand who haven’t experienced it. Truly terrible. Glad you survived.
Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability. 💗💗💕 You have an angelic voice and many stories to tell. I’m so happy for all your blessings! And more to come!💯
Thank you for sharing Very deeply helped my heart ❤️ to hear your story sometimes I can feel depressed about stuff that happened in my life but your story inspires me to move forward ❤
Oh, Sarra. You are such a beautiful soul, and you deserve everything you have created. Your tenacity, your strength, and your humility is incredibly inspiring. Thank you for sharing such a personal story and for the strength you demonstrated in being vulnerable in this way. Sending you all the love and gratitude; thanks for all the million things you do - seen and unseen - for this community. 🩷🩷🩷
I really connected to what you've shared, thank you for sharing with us. I'm so sorry for what you've been through, I understand how those situations can impact your mental health. They are events that never leave us. I'm a believer of "what doesn't kills you makes you stronger". Lately i've felt like my ability to "fight for life" has greatly reduced and I'm not functioning well. But there's a small part of me that acknowledges that, and i give myself a small push to find positivity in my day.
I do understand what it's like to feel like you're just caught in that negative cycle and it's impossible to get out. My heart is definitely with you because I know how hard it is to be in that place. But I can promise you that there is hope for the future.
So so talented!! I'm so so sorry of what happened to you in the past, and it's horrible that a person is talented and is loving as you would have to go through something like that in your lifetime and not have the support that you deserved. But through it all, on the other side, God has truly given you a beautiful, beautiful family, and you are doing what you absolutely love and inspiring, so many people and teaching so many people. And reminding us all to never give up and to keep the hope alive and keep chasing what it is that you want in life and that it is attainable not just a dream. I am so thankful to be within your universe, and I have learned from you more than you know.! thank you for sharing so much with all of us. We all really truly appreciate you.❤
Thank you for sharing your story. I am really at a very low point in my life right now and hearing your story gives me hope that I can find a way to dig myself out of the hole that I feel like I have been trapped in. No one really knows unless they experienced it themselves what trauma can do to a person. Your video made me feel less alone and that I can overcome my self-sabotaging and my fear to achieve the life that I dream of . Thanks again.
Gosh, this is so true. No one really knows, even if they can see pieces of it. But you aren't alone, and even if I don't know your specific heartbreak, I believe 100% that you can create whatever life you want for yourself. It isn't easy, I know, and it won't come all at once, but there is definitely hope.
Oh Sarra! I am so sorry that you have gone through sexual assault but I am also so motivated by your journey through healing. I am a mentor for military women who have been sexually assaulted either in the military or in other parts of their lives. We walk through this healing together with women who can relate. I sent this to every one of the women in our group. Thank you for being authentic with us. Thank you for giving us hope for a life without the constant residual of sexual assault/abuse. ❤❤❤
You are inspirational in so many ways - and incredibly talented! Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful singing voice. I'm so happy for you that you have built this wonderful life you have now.
I'm turning 40 this year and I don't have the life I always wanted. But when I think about how different my life could be I realised my daughter wouldn't be part of it. So now after years of being disappointed in myself I'm forging a new life plan
Hey Sarra, I'd been avoiding to watch this video and I'm glad I ended up watching it when I did. I think I was waiting for the moment to watch this, it was obviously meant for me to see... I relate with you a lot on a personal level of what you've discussed. I too have experienced SA and that type of Trauma from my childhood trauma. It still haunts me to this day and I too have struggled with chasing my dreams. For the longest time I thought i've wanted to be in the path of law enforcement, but I think I'm truly meant to be on this other path of creating which is my writing and art. I'm definitely not where I need to be and I'm seeing this now. This was so emotional for me and I'm so glad I found you and this community. You guys are helping me push more of what I want out of my life. I'm 35 already and I am definitely not where I thought I'd be! I don't want to still be in this position in 5 years either! Thank you for motivating me and continue to shower us with your love!
Sarra, I am thankful for you and appreciate you! You have an amazing and inspiring testimony/story! You are living proof that life can get better (even amazing!) after bad things happen to us. The part I related to the most was that though life is different than you imagined or expected, you still have an amazing life. I am definitely where I didn't expect to be. And I needed that reminder that I can still have a great life....but I gotta put in the work to make it happen. Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. As a long time subscriber, I learned so much about you. How did I not know your musical theatre and opera background OMG 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 This video resonates with me right now. I feel like I’m in the same place I was 1 year ago. I’m stuck. 2025 we are changing it all up :)
Man I was trying to not purchase this other course just cause money is tight as I prepare to quit my job and make big changes. But this video is making that very hard. Bravo for everything you have done and created 💜💜💜💜
You’re so brave for sharing such a difficult topic. I think your experience is something that happens far more often than anyone will admit. Thank you for bringing the aftermath to attention and showing recovery is possible. It’s good to note that recovery isn’t proof that what happened was somehow okay or not that bad (thinking which can sometimes fuel self-sabotage) but proof of your strength and the fact bad actions towards you speak of the person doing them, not you. Sending you all the love!
Your voice is beautiful! I took voice lessons and sang opera in middle school and high school. But I didn’t believe in myself enough to pursue it in college. Bravo beautiful! And my heart aches with your losses and hardships. All of the highs and the lows made you who you are today. You write with extreme clarity and depth of emotion, and I think your experiences and your resilience are how you can do that. Love you, Sarra!
I so relate to a lot of what you said, Sarra! While my mother wasn't necessarily narcissistic, she did try to control my life and what I did. And, like Sarra, I was influenced by other people's opinions. Looking back now, it's odd to think of myself that way. But I'm ready to change my life and design it the way I know it's supposed to be. And can we talk about that opera singing? Wow, just wow.
Thank you so much for telling your story. I am rebuilding my life in my 40's. It feels so so lonely sometimes but hearing your uplifting message inspired me so much. Thank you.
Sarra, you’re a gift. I hope you hear all the encouragement from us and let it drown out the haters, and the nasty inner voice that says you aren’t enough. You have been a huge inspiration to so many, and we appreciate the ways you show up and cheer for our successes. Thank you for your vulnerability and for your strength. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing!❤ My friend lost her baby by a miscarriage, she was assaulted as well and it is soooo hard to get out of the depresssion and fear just cause of one single incident. Now her husband is the sweetest i can dream of and she is a an expat travelling and working in her dream career. That made me so happy.
To say that this video is what I needed is an understatement. I am actually getting back into a pretty dark place because I feel like I am stuck and do not control anything right now. Which is how I felt 3 years ago and it is not fun. So thank you so much for sharing. I will definitely start celebrating more and build my dominos 💖
I'm so glad I found your videos a couple of years ago! They’ve been inspiring and motivating me ever since.❤ Thank you for sharing your stories and for all the radiant energy you've put out into the world that has touched my life and the lives of so many others 😊
You are such an inspiration and I am so honoured that you shared your story so openly. The world needs more people like you...very real, very talented, very tenacious. ❤
I love it when you share your story! Everytime it energizes me. My story is similar, down to a penchant for dragonflies and it's so inspiring to watch you - if she can do it, I can, too (maybe? Maybe!) And dang it, my "word" for 2025 is follow through, but it just aint in the budget right now. A goal to make for myself :) like you said 'it'll be here when you need it'
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I'm in the very beginning of making big changes after being in that quicksand for years. Your channel has helped me so much. Your singing is beautiful! The first thing I thought seeing your graduation photo is Evie has the exact same face as you! Adorable.
I love the takeaway about gratitude. In spite of all you have been through you still have a grateful heart. I believe this is a key component for healing and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your story and having a heart to help others. Giving to others is also key for substance in our own lives. Get it girl!
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being vulnerable with us. You give me hope that I can turn my life around from what it's become. And hope is a precious gift, so thank you, infinitely. I am so sorry about your friend. Sending you love and hugs. And finally, girl, you can SING sing. Someday, maybe you'll sing us your fave Broadway tune. I genuinely don't understand why they didn't think you could do that because you definitely have the chops. I always wanted to sing. But I sound like a tortured animal instead. 😂
Oh my goodness, CHILLS, your voice is so beautiful!!!! I know I don't know you personally, but after years of watching you here, I just adore you. I'm so grateful to hear and see your journey of healing. Your content moves me and makes me feel seen. Thank you 🥰💜🍒💜
Thank you so much for your bravery and love in sharing this with those of us who needed to hear that we're not alone in our struggles. This whole year has been the worst massive backward spiral ever for me. 😪
Esse ano eu conheci o seu canal e virei sua fã, estou tentando ler seus livros mesmo meu inglês sendo ruim. Eu estou tentando me levantar de um momento ruim da minha vida, esse vídeo veio no momento certo, como você disse no vídeo, como se fosse a peça do quebra-cabeça que eu precisava neste momento. Obrigada💖
This takes a lot of courage to be this vulnerable on RUclips so I thank you deeply for sharing. As someone who has been struggling with infertility, I’m facing disappointment right now as I thought last year I would at least be pregnant by this Christmas if not already holding my baby in my arms. Gearing up for IVF in the new year which is incredibly scary and disheartening but your story gives me hope. Thank you for just being you.
An inspiration, as always!! ❤❤ I took a leap and changed my YT channel to talk about using manifestation in it writing journey. It’s because of you and your wonderful community who has given me the courage to do this. 😊✍️📚
Your story and mine are VERY similar. SA, DV, even musical theatre! I went to school for theatre in NYC. Thank you so much for sharing. It took so much strength and bravery and I am so thankful to you for sharing.
Sarra, I cannot tell you how much this video has meant to me, partly because I know I will be processing it for a long time. I’ve had my own trauma that has completely derailed my dreams, and it has left me floundering with dreams and fears for the last 6+ years. Your tenacity and courage is so inspiring and fills me with so much hope! I’ll be seeing you in YPF and can’t wait to learn more from you ❤
I can relate to all of this so profoundly. While I still feel something like a disaster, this gives me hope for establishing more agency in life, lol. Thank you so much for this inspiring and vulnerable post, Sarra! You and your channel are a light in a dark place. 🤍
I am listening with my small cellphone speaker and your voice gave me chills- so beautiful. I know it wasn’t your long term path, but I am glad you had that time in your life. Thanks for sharing 💕
Your voice is stunning Sarra, and your generously shared story will help so many people (and already has.) I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend. 💔 One of my best friends was killed by a drunk driver this summer, and I miss her every day. You are a miracle and a gift my friend. 💕
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Thanks so much for watching. No matter what you're going through, I promise you you're never stuck there forever. I'm praying for better days ahead for all of us and a life filled with dreams come true!
Thank you for sharing. I am also a survivor and it happened while I was traveling for work. I gained a lot of weight, drank too much, and just didn't want to be around anymore. I went through life as a zombie for over 5 years. My mom offered to pay for an EMDR therapist that was not under my insurance plan. Through EMDR, I finally got my life back. I quit drinking and I am working on my MBA. Your story brought me to tears because I remember what that dark time in my life felt like. I cried out of sadness for me back then and out of relief for having survived the storm and made it out the other side and happy again. Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤
@@coreyparson9906 You are so strong! EMDR was a therapy that helped me a lot too, so it's good to hear your story. So glad you shared your story thank you.
You as well ❤️
Oh Sarra...my heart breaks hearing you tell this story that is familiar to so many of us. 😢 My love to you and to every single woman who has been through similar dark times. ❤ Thank you for reminding us that we CAN rise like phoenixes into a new, vastly better life.
Thank you so much for sharing this! Your bravery is so inspiring and your courage to be open about what you suffered is really important to anyone who has had similar awful traumatic experiences. You are epic ❤As is your wonderful voice!
“Bitch yes!” Was my reaction when I heard you sing; girl you’re amazing!!!!!
Agreed. I’ve always wanted to sing like that. Opera is my absolute favourite music
You do have an amazing voice too Sarra! I had the goosies or the goosebumps
Oh my goodness, thank you for sharing such a personal story, it was so meaningful to hear where you came from and I know it couldn't have been easy to share. You are so appreciated and inspiring, thank you for this awesome video!!
Sending you love Bethany!!! I know it's a big important time in your life, too, and I'm sending all my happy thoughts and wishes for so much joy ahead.
I am disabled and dependant on a husband who does not love me... I'm scrambling to get an income stream that can support me before he leaves.
Making a living on writing takes time, I know this... but at least I have hope for the future.
Thank you for everything, Sarra.
For this RUclips content, for the courses, and most of all for sharing so much of yourself that we can see ourselves in you, and therein see the possibilities.
Hope is a hard gift to give, but here you are handing it out.
Wishing you the best! Hope you can make that FU money in time you can be the one to leave him. Or wait, I guess leave him FIRST so he won't have any legal rights to a single penny of it! ❤
I wish you the very best in your journey. Virtual hugs.
One step at a time. Hope is priceless. You have a community here. You are not alone. ((hug)) Kim
My grandma always said to me that it's better to be alone than being in bad company. I wish you the best.
You are literally my favourite person in the online bookish space. Truly just the most kind and welcoming and incredible soul. Sending all my love to you.
Okay, bringing more tears to my eyes. Thank you. Sending love back.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I too am an SA survivor, domestic violence survivor, and survived a suicide attempt nearly 30 years ago. That was my wake up call. I left my abusive husband, got sober and started working on changing my life. A few years later, I met my wife and we've been joyfully married for 26 years.
I turned 50 when my first book was published. Last month, I turned 58 with more than a dozen published titles to my name. This year, I made a profit for the first time and also cracked the 5-figure mark. I'm hoping the HB90 course will help me better organize my time so that I can break 6 figures next year.
Congrats! Glad you are out there now making those dreams come true!😊
I believe in you! You are one strong person for sure!
Please, never listen to people to deter you from telling this story. It is heartbreaking what you went through, but this is the story that have, is and will change people lives for the better. Thank you for your courage! ❤️
Very inspiring story. I've subscribed, thank you 😊
I'm @13:03 Goosebumps, Sarra! I'm 64, and am old enough to be your mother. I just want to say that when seeing your photo and hearing you sing, I had the strongest urge to hug that beautiful young lady (not that far from being a girl) and tell her just how proud I am of her. You are so worthy of respect and love - you are a diamond! 💟
Following your wisdom and kindness has been a pivotal part of my life. To quote a song from Wicked: 'Because I knew you, I have been changed for good.' Every single one of your videos leaves me feeling motivated and empowered to keep moving forward, a small step at a time. Thank you for all the love you share with the world, Sarra ❤🍒
Wow! You have a beautiful voice. You’re very brave for not only standing up for yourself but going through the whole ordeal to help prevent it from happening to others 🙏🏽
“Know that you are worthy of something different for yourself. You can create something different.” Oh, how I needed to hear that today. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
😢 thank you Sara for sharing your story. I’ve gone thru similar stuff with SA from my childhood that I’ve stuffed for so long and kept inside and has led me to make unhealthy choices in my life like drinking and smoking. I’m 40 now with an amazing husband and 3 beautiful boys and while I still battle my demons my dreams of becoming a writer and having my own business is big and strong! My husband is my support and life is so fragile and goes by so fast that there really isn’t much time to waste. There’s no such thing as a perfect time. Thank you! Your amazing! I love you! 💕
Wow, Sarra. I already know your story from other videos over the last couple years, but the way you told it in this one was wow. And we got to hear you sing!!! Thank you for putting yourself out there so we can all learn from you. I'm excited about YPF and HB90, and this was even more motivating. Thank you
This hit me. As a ghostwriter, I'm used to having an author between me and the public. But I want to transition from ghostwriter to public-facing author, and it's a terrifying prospect. Watching this makes it feel less scary. I admire your bravery and vulnerability. Thank you for this video. I needed it.
I always feel like when our intuition is telling us it's time, we can always trust it. Go for it!
You can do it!
I had to pause halfway to write this comment- this is the best video you have ever posted and I’m sitting at my desk at work sobbing for everything you’ve gone through and how inspiring you are and how much you encourage me.
First of all, you look so beautiful in this video. I just had to tell you. Second, I feel like this was meant for me to hear today. Thank you so much for sharing this video. I have been dealing with the aftermath of trauma for the last 4 years and struggling to get back to writing again. This is exactly what I needed. What a blessing! Thank you so much for being open and honest and sharing this.
Thank you. And I'm here to be support as much as I can. I know it isn't easy but we are worthy of that healing.
So much of this resonates with me, down to Tennessee living and “Miss Priss”. Instead of opera, it was Christian music that I had to sing that didn’t sit right with me. Now, I have trouble singing when triggered, but my dark psychological fantasy writing has led to yoga instructor training, as it’s helped me when I have fibromyalgia flare-ups.
Thank you for all your sharing. It’s helped me on my writing journey, which has helped more of my dreams come true.
Been out of an abusive relationship for years, where SO much SA happened. My life is finally feeling balanced, as I have love, life, inspiration, and less people pleasing in my life. Also fur-babies who love cuddles.
As for the Air Force… I was in the AF and still had things swept under the rug. Even by myself, because I feared I would lose my job.
Never feel bad for crying. Tears are information. And evidence that it’s real in your life. Whether happy, fearful, or angry tears. Or sad. They’re okay with me. ❤
My condolences for your loss. Grieve however you need.
Also, happy early anniversary! So glad you have a great family to help you heal.
Sarra! You're beautiful in every way. Thank you sharing your personal story and sparking inspiration and hope. You're talented, courageous, and have a glorious soul. Wishing you and your family a blessed 2025 ❤
Thank you for sharing your story, I think almost every woman has experienced a form of SA in their lives. It's definitely a problem and the way we're told to "just move on with your life" will never be the right answer. And we wonder mental illness is so common. You can't just stuff that down! I'm glad I got to hear you sing! WOW! Great pipes 💜 I can't get enough of hearing about people (women) who have overcome hardships and made something beautiful in their life.
Although I already knew a lot about your story, thank you for sharing Sarra. For someone who experienced multiple traumas during childhood, this truly resonated with me. And we got to hear you sing! You have a beautiful voice, but I’m also glad you’re living your true calling as an author and mentor ♥️
I am so glad we finally got to hear you sing!!! Wow!!! What a treat, thank you.
Sarra, you'll never know how much I needed to hear this. This makes me want to heal from my experience with being SA at age 5. Thank you. ❤️ 😢
Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry you went through that, especially at such a young age. Healing is a lifetime journey, but you deserve it. Sending you love.
Girl you can SANG 🤩 So happy you’re here now and have blessed us with your words 😊
Thank you for sharing your story. I am in awe of the woman you became. So grateful that you are here making a difference in so many people's lives.
I cried with you through parts of this video - for you and for me. Let's just say, I can relate to many of the experiences you have been through. I'm so sorry for your recent loss. As you know, I have just been through the same. Sending you much love and thank you as always for the wonderful inspiration. Can't wait to do HB90 again and Manifest Your Year.
In sorry that you had to go through all that suffering but I'm so glad to see where you are today
I agree with what you say about redefining our lives. I've been on a similar journey for several years and I am so proud of where I am today. There's so much more to do but - like you said - piece by piece: you try, you learn, you adjust, you practice gratitude and learn to recognize the little wins from each incremental step. And you celebrate them! And you keep learning. And growing. And getting better and better.
This is exactly it! You definitely have a lot to be proud of just for being so aware and on this journey. Thank you for sharing this!
Sara, thank you for sharing your story. I DO appreciate you and your story. As someone who can relate whole heartedly. Life can change for the better. Blessings and love to you. My story is similar to yours. However, too long. I am blessed. I'm not a writer. But I do share my story when necessary. Thanks again!❤
Thank you for sharing parts of your story. It is not easy to share most times for many reasons. The world would not have been blessed with you, your family would not have existed, and your inspiration would not have helped others if you gave up early on. Life can be so overwhelming, but we can't give up. Sometimes I get sad about the detours I didn't choose, the struggles that should not have happened, the justice that didn't happen, the mean people in this world, financial hardships, health issues, or even more... We need to find joy, protect our children, take care of our minds and health, and do what makes your heart happy. We only can move forward even if our past can weigh us down at times. Surround yourself with special people. I hope the new year brings blessings to you and your viewers.
You have truly been such a light in my life. Meeting you in Raleigh was such a joy for me and I was just dying on the inside of excitement because you just mean so much to me. I was SA’d 5 years ago and I am truly still crawling out of that quicksand. Your videos and stories show me my life still has so much left I can achieve and dream for. I turn 24 next week and I am hopeful for the future. Today is my last day at my job that has been killing me mentally. Here’s to the future!
I'm just devastated that you went through that 😭 but there is still so much goodness waiting for you in the future. My heart is with you!
Your encouragement and support to strangers through your videos is a gift in itself. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm a survivor also. I was raped when I was 16 years old. I'm so glad I got to hear you sing. You have a beautiful voice. 💜
Because of your strength and courage in sharing your past, You gave the strength to escape an abusive relationship. I left in February of this year. It was scary but because of you I did it. I moved to a state where I only knew one person. I took your advice about seeking therapy and I am in a much better place now and I owe that first step I made to you and I am actually starting to plan for the dream I have always had of being a writer. You are so amazing Sarah. Thank you for giving so much of yourself to us. You truly have made a difference for so many I know you gave me my life back.
Oh my gosh, this is such a powerful message. I'm so happy for you.
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable story to help pull others up. Thank you for being that example that the life of our choosing is just decisions away!!!!❤You deserve all the good things in your life. I’m so happy for you!
Thank you so much for sharing. I knew some of this, but not all, and now I'm even more impressed and drawn to you. I've been in that space before. I find myself in that space now and then still (trauma follows us and hates to let go), and we always just have to keep choosing to be here, to keep moving forward.
"I don't want to live a life that is less than what I deserve." - thank you! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing. I was a therapist specializing in trauma in a county that has a military base, and the stories I have heard from survivors have absolutely broken my heart because the military answer seems to be to move them elsewhere… It’s absolutely heartbreaking. The negative spiral is one I’m familiar with after I decided to leave my career, finally received a proper diagnosis of PMDD, and started healing what even through years of therapy, grad school, and so much learning about trauma I had never recognized the weight of. I wish you continued healing and am sending love!
just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. i know how difficult it is to share the hard stuff, but because of people like you, the rest of us feel like we can share our hard stuff, too. ❤
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. So inspiring. And I very much agree. Each of us is capable of creating whatever life we desire.
OMG Sarra! As if I wasn't having enough trouble fighting the tears when you were getting upset - then you go and play us your amazing singing and I was gone! What an incredible voice! You truly are a VERY multi talented lady. xxxx
I can so relate to this. Sexual assault is so life altering in ways people can’t understand who haven’t experienced it. Truly terrible. Glad you survived.
Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability. 💗💗💕 You have an angelic voice and many stories to tell. I’m so happy for all your blessings! And more to come!💯
This really resonated. Thank you ❤
Ahhhhhh you ARE SOOOO GOOD!!!! And side note...now I really see HOW MUCH Evie is your lil Mini!!! Thanks for sharing your story!!!
I re-wrote my book titles to match each other and I can see it coming together clearer and for great sales. Thanks Sarra.🇬🇧🇺🇸
Thank you for sharing
Very deeply helped my heart ❤️ to hear your story sometimes I can feel depressed about stuff that happened in my life but your story inspires me to move forward ❤
Oh, Sarra. You are such a beautiful soul, and you deserve everything you have created. Your tenacity, your strength, and your humility is incredibly inspiring. Thank you for sharing such a personal story and for the strength you demonstrated in being vulnerable in this way. Sending you all the love and gratitude; thanks for all the million things you do - seen and unseen - for this community. 🩷🩷🩷
I really connected to what you've shared, thank you for sharing with us. I'm so sorry for what you've been through, I understand how those situations can impact your mental health. They are events that never leave us. I'm a believer of "what doesn't kills you makes you stronger". Lately i've felt like my ability to "fight for life" has greatly reduced and I'm not functioning well. But there's a small part of me that acknowledges that, and i give myself a small push to find positivity in my day.
18:02 I relate to this right now. I’ve been through so much and it seems like it’s never ending
I do understand what it's like to feel like you're just caught in that negative cycle and it's impossible to get out. My heart is definitely with you because I know how hard it is to be in that place. But I can promise you that there is hope for the future.
Oh, finally a new long Video! You don't know how much I love it, I've seen all your old Video and I enjoy them all
So so talented!! I'm so so sorry of what happened to you in the past, and it's horrible that a person is talented and is loving as you would have to go through something like that in your lifetime and not have the support that you deserved. But through it all, on the other side, God has truly given you a beautiful, beautiful family, and you are doing what you absolutely love and inspiring, so many people and teaching so many people. And reminding us all to never give up and to keep the hope alive and keep chasing what it is that you want in life and that it is attainable not just a dream. I am so thankful to be within your universe, and I have learned from you more than you know.! thank you for sharing so much with all of us. We all really truly appreciate you.❤
Thank you so, so much for being so willing to be brave and vulnerable with us. You are so appreciated x
You have such a beautiful voice. Thank you for sharing your story with us! ❤
Thank you Sarra for sharing your story, your voice and your soul! You inspire me ❤
I truly appreciate you for sharing your story. It takes such courage to be that vulnerable. Thank you for your inspiration. Bless you and your family.
Thank you for sharing your story. I am really at a very low point in my life right now and hearing your story gives me hope that I can find a way to dig myself out of the hole that I feel like I have been trapped in. No one really knows unless they experienced it themselves what trauma can do to a person. Your video made me feel less alone and that I can overcome my self-sabotaging and my fear to achieve the life that I dream of . Thanks again.
Gosh, this is so true. No one really knows, even if they can see pieces of it. But you aren't alone, and even if I don't know your specific heartbreak, I believe 100% that you can create whatever life you want for yourself. It isn't easy, I know, and it won't come all at once, but there is definitely hope.
Oh Sarra! I am so sorry that you have gone through sexual assault but I am also so motivated by your journey through healing. I am a mentor for military women who have been sexually assaulted either in the military or in other parts of their lives. We walk through this healing together with women who can relate. I sent this to every one of the women in our group. Thank you for being authentic with us. Thank you for giving us hope for a life without the constant residual of sexual assault/abuse. ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story. You’re a blessing to so many.
You are inspirational in so many ways - and incredibly talented! Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful singing voice. I'm so happy for you that you have built this wonderful life you have now.
I'm turning 40 this year and I don't have the life I always wanted.
But when I think about how different my life could be I realised my daughter wouldn't be part of it. So now after years of being disappointed in myself I'm forging a new life plan
Hey Sarra, I'd been avoiding to watch this video and I'm glad I ended up watching it when I did. I think I was waiting for the moment to watch this, it was obviously meant for me to see... I relate with you a lot on a personal level of what you've discussed. I too have experienced SA and that type of Trauma from my childhood trauma. It still haunts me to this day and I too have struggled with chasing my dreams. For the longest time I thought i've wanted to be in the path of law enforcement, but I think I'm truly meant to be on this other path of creating which is my writing and art. I'm definitely not where I need to be and I'm seeing this now. This was so emotional for me and I'm so glad I found you and this community. You guys are helping me push more of what I want out of my life. I'm 35 already and I am definitely not where I thought I'd be! I don't want to still be in this position in 5 years either! Thank you for motivating me and continue to shower us with your love!
Sarra, I am thankful for you and appreciate you! You have an amazing and inspiring testimony/story! You are living proof that life can get better (even amazing!) after bad things happen to us. The part I related to the most was that though life is different than you imagined or expected, you still have an amazing life. I am definitely where I didn't expect to be. And I needed that reminder that I can still have a great life....but I gotta put in the work to make it happen. Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. As a long time subscriber, I learned so much about you.
How did I not know your musical theatre and opera background OMG 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This video resonates with me right now. I feel like I’m in the same place I was 1 year ago. I’m stuck. 2025 we are changing it all up :)
Man I was trying to not purchase this other course just cause money is tight as I prepare to quit my job and make big changes. But this video is making that very hard. Bravo for everything you have done and created 💜💜💜💜
You’re so brave for sharing such a difficult topic. I think your experience is something that happens far more often than anyone will admit. Thank you for bringing the aftermath to attention and showing recovery is possible. It’s good to note that recovery isn’t proof that what happened was somehow okay or not that bad (thinking which can sometimes fuel self-sabotage) but proof of your strength and the fact bad actions towards you speak of the person doing them, not you. Sending you all the love!
Hearing you sing brought tears to my eyes. WOW!!! & your testimony is powerful. Thanks for sharing!
Hugs. You are always an inspiration to all of us ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this! I applaud your courage! You are giving Hope to many to find their dreams & never give up.
Ok...loving the look of the Notion page. I want!
Your voice is beautiful! I took voice lessons and sang opera in middle school and high school. But I didn’t believe in myself enough to pursue it in college. Bravo beautiful! And my heart aches with your losses and hardships. All of the highs and the lows made you who you are today. You write with extreme clarity and depth of emotion, and I think your experiences and your resilience are how you can do that. Love you, Sarra!
I’m sorry this happened to you. I was little, and he was family when it happened to me.😢
All my love to you. I'm so sorry you went through that.
I so relate to a lot of what you said, Sarra! While my mother wasn't necessarily narcissistic, she did try to control my life and what I did. And, like Sarra, I was influenced by other people's opinions. Looking back now, it's odd to think of myself that way. But I'm ready to change my life and design it the way I know it's supposed to be. And can we talk about that opera singing? Wow, just wow.
Thank you so much for telling your story. I am rebuilding my life in my 40's. It feels so so lonely sometimes but hearing your uplifting message inspired me so much. Thank you.
Your story truly resonated with me and made me hope and believe that I too can change my life!
This is so kind of you thank you!! 💓
Sarra, you’re a gift. I hope you hear all the encouragement from us and let it drown out the haters, and the nasty inner voice that says you aren’t enough. You have been a huge inspiration to so many, and we appreciate the ways you show up and cheer for our successes. Thank you for your vulnerability and for your strength. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing!❤
My friend lost her baby by a miscarriage, she was assaulted as well and it is soooo hard to get out of the depresssion and fear just cause of one single incident. Now her husband is the sweetest i can dream of and she is a an expat travelling and working in her dream career. That made me so happy.
I cried, I cheered and I was inspired. You always help me remember that I am still here and I can make my life better. Thank you for being you.
To say that this video is what I needed is an understatement. I am actually getting back into a pretty dark place because I feel like I am stuck and do not control anything right now. Which is how I felt 3 years ago and it is not fun. So thank you so much for sharing. I will definitely start celebrating more and build my dominos 💖
Thank you for being vulnerable. You are truly inspiring.
I'm so glad I found your videos a couple of years ago! They’ve been inspiring and motivating me ever since.❤ Thank you for sharing your stories and for all the radiant energy you've put out into the world that has touched my life and the lives of so many others 😊
You are such an inspiration and I am so honoured that you shared your story so openly. The world needs more people like you...very real, very talented, very tenacious. ❤
I love it when you share your story! Everytime it energizes me. My story is similar, down to a penchant for dragonflies and it's so inspiring to watch you - if she can do it, I can, too (maybe? Maybe!)
And dang it, my "word" for 2025 is follow through, but it just aint in the budget right now. A goal to make for myself :) like you said 'it'll be here when you need it'
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I'm in the very beginning of making big changes after being in that quicksand for years. Your channel has helped me so much.
Your singing is beautiful! The first thing I thought seeing your graduation photo is Evie has the exact same face as you! Adorable.
Thank you, Sarra. Wish I could take the course, but it's too late now. I'll have to catch it next time around.
I love the takeaway about gratitude. In spite of all you have been through you still have a grateful heart. I believe this is a key component for healing and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your story and having a heart to help others. Giving to others is also key for substance in our own lives. Get it girl!
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being vulnerable with us. You give me hope that I can turn my life around from what it's become. And hope is a precious gift, so thank you, infinitely. I am so sorry about your friend. Sending you love and hugs. And finally, girl, you can SING sing. Someday, maybe you'll sing us your fave Broadway tune. I genuinely don't understand why they didn't think you could do that because you definitely have the chops. I always wanted to sing. But I sound like a tortured animal instead. 😂
Oh my goodness, CHILLS, your voice is so beautiful!!!! I know I don't know you personally, but after years of watching you here, I just adore you. I'm so grateful to hear and see your journey of healing. Your content moves me and makes me feel seen.
Thank you 🥰💜🍒💜
You look so pretty! That’s a nice top
You are an inspiration. I so enjoy your videos and feel you are a good person who truly wants to be the best you can be. Thank you!
Thank you so much for your bravery and love in sharing this with those of us who needed to hear that we're not alone in our struggles. This whole year has been the worst massive backward spiral ever for me. 😪
Esse ano eu conheci o seu canal e virei sua fã, estou tentando ler seus livros mesmo meu inglês sendo ruim. Eu estou tentando me levantar de um momento ruim da minha vida, esse vídeo veio no momento certo, como você disse no vídeo, como se fosse a peça do quebra-cabeça que eu precisava neste momento. Obrigada💖
This takes a lot of courage to be this vulnerable on RUclips so I thank you deeply for sharing. As someone who has been struggling with infertility, I’m facing disappointment right now as I thought last year I would at least be pregnant by this Christmas if not already holding my baby in my arms. Gearing up for IVF in the new year which is incredibly scary and disheartening but your story gives me hope. Thank you for just being you.
An inspiration, as always!! ❤❤ I took a leap and changed my YT channel to talk about using manifestation in it writing journey. It’s because of you and your wonderful community who has given me the courage to do this. 😊✍️📚
Love you, Sarra! Off to register for Your Path Forward before I re-do hb90 ❤
Your story and mine are VERY similar. SA, DV, even musical theatre! I went to school for theatre in NYC. Thank you so much for sharing. It took so much strength and bravery and I am so thankful to you for sharing.
love you, Sarra! Met you at the last RAM (my pen name is Imani). Thank you so much for sharing, you're a true inspiration
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending much love and many hugs.
Sarra, I cannot tell you how much this video has meant to me, partly because I know I will be processing it for a long time. I’ve had my own trauma that has completely derailed my dreams, and it has left me floundering with dreams and fears for the last 6+ years. Your tenacity and courage is so inspiring and fills me with so much hope! I’ll be seeing you in YPF and can’t wait to learn more from you ❤
I can relate to all of this so profoundly. While I still feel something like a disaster, this gives me hope for establishing more agency in life, lol. Thank you so much for this inspiring and vulnerable post, Sarra! You and your channel are a light in a dark place. 🤍
I am listening with my small cellphone speaker and your voice gave me chills- so beautiful.
I know it wasn’t your long term path, but I am glad you had that time in your life. Thanks for sharing 💕
Your voice is stunning Sarra, and your generously shared story will help so many people (and already has.) I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend. 💔 One of my best friends was killed by a drunk driver this summer, and I miss her every day. You are a miracle and a gift my friend. 💕