Mark is the mini-grandpa. The carbon copy! Mark doesn’t have your patience Dan but it’s alright. Grandpa is very courteous and appreciative of everyone for what they are doing for him. “Oh thank you, I appreciate it!” Is a profuse phrase always from Grandpa. He is adorable indeed!
Boy! That is SO true!! A fall can be a real game changer!! Dan you are 5:28 so vigilant about your dad’s safety when walking! 👏👏 Your dad is SO fortunate to have such loving sons! I live with my 108 year old mom n I think of Dan sometimes because I hear myself saying the same things in the same way!! LOL!!
So true! My friends Dad was doing great for his age 79. But, he tired to open the garage door fell and broke his hip, unfortunately after that happen he went downhill and passed away within 6 months. Falls can be real serious as you get older.
Very true. My mom had dementia. She fell and broke her hip on January 1st, 2020. She passed nine days later. The doctor told my family that older people suffering from dementia sometimes don’t survive long after breaking a bone.
It’s wonderful your father can move around, toilet himself, feed himself etc…this is everyday normal mental stimulation to him and keeps his mind busy regardless of his confusion. This is wonderful for him.
It really is. Independence is what we as human would love to have until the day we pass. Sadly not everyone is so blessed. My grandfather drove until he passed at age almost 92. I can only hope I’m as independent as he was or as Ed is.
Your father is so polite and sweet he thinks you all the time. I know you have to answer the same questions over and over again but please try to do so sweetly or at least more politely than you currently are is it really that big of a deal to say the same words over and over honestly I don't understand how people can be short tempered with someone in this situation and yes I have been through it not living in my household but still you just remember how fortunate you are to still have them and better yet remember that you may very well wind up in the same position someday and believe me although Alzheimer's patients may not have much memory they certainly do know when someone is speaking in an agitated and angry voice or a kind and loving voice. Just remember what goes around comes around, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
We were taking turns with my grandfather and it got too confusing for him, he was an escape artist 😂one day he walked out the front door and went inside the neighbors and sat on their couch and started watching tv😂thank God they new him. He did it several times 😂
@@GSR902 🤣he was a mess, my dad had to secure the house! He thought my mom was his wife and would pinch her on the butt 🤣🤣my dad would say, Dad!! That's my wife, he would say ohhhhh 🤣
Hey Mark, be loving and kind to your dad. He always is concerned for your well-being and loves you so very much. You may be in his position one day.🙏❤️
@@glitterprincess5672yeah women need to stop demonizing men for having emotions. He told his dad something in a sharp way, if a woman did that you’d have a million excuses. You can take care and love someone in your family and also get frustrated and snap at times. You’re pathetic
@@glitterprincess5672 You should have a little more empathy for him. He obviously loves and cares for his father or he wouldn't bother taking care of him. They've clearly got money, they could put him in a home if they didn't care. Caring for elders is extremely stressful, some frustration is to be expected.
I believe that the stimulation and security Ed receives by being around his family is the best medicine. He is cared for, experiences life and demonstrates his capabilities that are still there, because he is cared for in this way. So much better than a stale and sterile life in a facility. This family is a gift by their example.
I agree. I'd hate to see his demeanor if he wasn't in this environment. It certainly would not be anything close to what we're all gifted with here with this fabulous family. ❤ 🙏
This is very accurate, those experiences with different family members, situations, pets helps dad cope and never get bored.Mark seems like an awesome part of this family experience and keeps things real and regular no sugar coating.Key is he loves his family.Dan, Mark and Danielle, thanks for opening your life to us, it helps us deal with our aging parents through health changes that are sometimes inevitable 💯
Mark, this house looks like it’s in great shape. I had tenants move out after six years and the house was trashed. After ten years, you would expect to replace the items you’re referencing. The floors look AWESOME!!! You’re fortunate you have carpet replacement in the bedrooms only. Count your blessings❣️ Sending love & light to the sweet soul who transitioned. 🙏😇✨
I’m caring for my 96 yr old mother with dementia now. I’m almost 65. My sister 54 and I swap out like they do. You are not kidding about the repeats. Watching these videos helps me. Instead of holding her shirt I stick my hand just inside of her pants in the back. We are trying so hard to keep her out of the NH.
@@maryann823 I feel for you. I kind of went through what you're going through with my grandmother who was 98. I was the only one out of her family who she could recall at all. But the reason for that was was because I looked like her dad. But she never did confuse me with her dad, she always knew that I was her daughter's son. As frustrating as it is you're going to miss it. 🙏
I was caregiver to my father who sadly passed away last year.I just wanted to tell you that it takes the patience of Job and you all are doing a wonderful thing for your father. God bless.
@@rainbow3649You are extremely rude it’s called a comment section for a reason and if you can’t leave a nice one I suggest you don’t say nothing at all
He’s not mean to him, that’s his demeanor. They all love and care for grandpa. I thought Danielle talked harshly to him until I kept watching. Grandpa is blessed to be surrounded by so much love. Mark was busy and grandpa was being grandpa q🤷♀️
Ed is a grown man . He doesnt seem to be bothered by Mark. And Mark seems to be doing well with all that he has on his plate. Ed has known Mark all of his life . Im sure he knows Marks personality just as he knows Dans. No need treating Ed like a baby. He knows he is loved by the family.
Ed reminds me of my own Dad who passed at 94 even the keys and money .Mark needs to be a bit easier with Ed -he will sadly miss him when he goes.Ed is great a gentle giant and very intelligent and sensitive
I agree, I love that they don't treat him like a baby Ed still has his independence because of Dan, Mark & Danielle! There doing a great job! Do you know Ed is a fireball? Lol... you got to remember it's not easy, they are learning new things everyday...like Ed said in one of his videos "that's my family, and no one can take that away from me" (Ed Salinger, 2023).
@@patriciavance4450mark was the original person to decide to take on grandpa and care for him. He does not have a wife to help out like Dan, and he is much older! Couple that with the fact he’s dealing with having to figure out how to fix his rental house and replace his income! Be more kind, he is doing a great job.
@@patriciavance4450 then you have never heard Dan yell from the shower or when Ed doesn’t want to take his pills. They all do great with Ed and they all have their own history with Ed.
I honestly dont think mark is mean. He's just seems straightforward. Plus he's older. His emotions are usually the same in each video. I think that's just his personality. Nothing bad
Coming here to say this. They just have two different styles. You can see both times when Dad comes to the door Mark stops and waits to make sure he's okay.
Absolutely Mark and I are different the same way. Danielle and I are different. People can pick and choose their favorites, but in reality, all three of us care for him.
@@dsalnorcal1434That's so true. Please make a pinned comment explaining Mark's great contribution to your father's care since last two years and how your mother was worried about Mark's personal life if he takes dad to live with him so that people will stop with these comments. All three of you are doing a wonderful job :)
Mark comes across as very impatient and gruff with dad. Dan is tolerant, communicates and explains things (multiple times) gently and in a caring manner to help dad feel more at ease and involved. I'm positive it's a hard thing to do and an extremely hard job to undertake. I commend Dan and Mark for stepping up and taking care their dad who raised and supported them growing up. Loving caring families eventually take on this role. It's hard but that's what you do for the ones you love that played this same role with you. God bless Danielle for participating and accepting this fact of life, welcoming dad into their home, being a significant "other" to dad and THE significant loving spouse of Dan.
It is so hard at times. My mother took care of her mom with Alzheimer’s for years and I had so much patience with my Grandmother and I found myself constantly telling my mom to not get so agitated with things she’d do or say. And oh boy when my mom came down with it I found myself doing to her what I had defended her from doing to my grandmother. I had to get myself in check real fast because that was my mom.
Taking care of someone with Alzheimer's, or dementia isn't 1/10 of what you see. There are good days and terrible days. You have all your own humanly struggles, with the addition of taking care of someone who has no idea what's going on and day in and day out "can" become a bother; it's normal with any of us. You see small clips... I enjoy the videos and Dan seems like a great guy, but that doesn't mean he doesn't experience the full range of emotions.
Dan is only 56, while Mark is older, tholder you get is extremely hard to take on caring for a loved one, especially if Dementia is the ailing problem. You cannot change a persons personality to cope with this situation. I admire you both . My personality is of caring, patience, tolerance, an only child now almost 80, my husband of 62 yrs is totally opposite, short fuse mostly over nothing. This is how we survived. Mark does not love his dad any less than Dan, it’s just their different personalities as to how the cope with this very sad disease. So cheers to both Dan and Mark for their concern for their Dad Ed!
Thanks Dan for showing an authentic reaction because every day you guys aren't going to be patient. Dementia is a terrible disease so I am extremely happy that you two keep him active. Mark is human just like the rest of us and is allowed to have a bad day. Please show him the grace and mercy that you expect to receive as well.
Hi Dan I watch your videos all the time and love the way you and your wife take care of your father. I was a caregiver for both my dad and mom. I miss them so much. It is a lot of work but it is so worth it because when he’s gone you will miss him. I know I will miss your videos of your dad ! It make me sad to see Mark have no patience with your dad. He need to learn to have more patience with him. Especially your dad having dementia now. My dad had emphysema and my mother had Alzheimer’s. It was hard but I would do it all over again. Thank you Dan for sharing your dad with us.
😅 don’t forget Mark was having a very stressful day running all over looking for a dishwasher and working on fixing up the house in the yard. I posted this to give people an idea of what life is really like dealing with life issues with dad in tow.
I would bet that most family caregivers would insist their dementia parent stay in the care while they made a 5 minute survey of the rental property..It is Dan's gig to do the video taping...Mark had work to do to assess his rental property.
What a great kids you dad raised!!! Some people are trying to stay away from their aging parents! Thank you for showing the kindness part of this difficult world! ❤
Dad is pure class. I can but wish I would be half as decent person in my old age, and with dementia too. And real good of you for caring for him so patiently. Watching my parents struggle with granny's dementia, I know how hard can it be for children to adapt to a new reality.
Mark and dad is two of a kind. In looks and personality. I just love grandpa; he's a sweet man. He makes me laugh a out his keys and his chest book. Dan, you are so patient with him. May God bless you, and your family. Danielle is funny. ❤
His not lucky to have mark his old and grumpy plus rude grandad should stay @ dans all the time hate to think how his getting treated when cameras are not on poor grandad leave him alone be kind like dan
I love how the Salinger sons, all have Ed’s features as they age. I also really loved this video. It’s really enlightening seeing Ed, so excited that his family taking full care of his safety, needs and especially making Ed feel loved. You guys are really showing the world, what a real family should be doing in life for their parents. ❤ y’all.
It’s obvious why you’re (Dan) the one helping your dad the most. I had no help with my mom as nobody could handle having to repeat themselves constantly. I would, like Dan, repeat almost as if it was the first time she asked. He has so much patience and much needed humor! 😊
I am so happy to find your channel. I just passed the one year mark, living with my 94 year old Mum with dementia. Dan, seeing the way you and your family interact with him helps me have patience and gives me comfort knowing I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.
Dan I love the way you interact with your Dad, there’s so much patience and love. You are more gentle and tolerant towards him. Thank you for sharing your videos. There’s so much to learn . Pray Dad lives a healthy and happy long life
Mark is your dad's twin. Physical features, plus the walk. That's, great you and Mark arrange your dad's daily activities. So many families would struggle with this. Well, done Mark, Dan, Danielle and the rest of the family.
You guys do a great job. You show the tough stuff, too. It's very difficult taking care of someone with dementia. We all lose our patience at times. Its good to bring him along to help.
Dan! You are such a good guy! I love the way you look after Dad….making sure he watches his steps! And it’s amazing that despite his memory confusion….Dad stays on point with conversations! If it wasn’t for the fact that he forgets and repeats the same questions….I think he’s doing wonderful!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I love Mark, Dan and Dad because they are really good guys and they have good hearts and it’s just nice to see that loved - that shared love. All the best, Dani
Such a sweet Dad. He always says thank you, or asks if he can do anything for you or Danielle. He still worries about his grown-up kids. That is the epitome of a great Dad and a gentleman. Thank you Dan, Danielle and Mark for sharing your lives to us. Love from Philippines❤.
Luv the family interactions, personalities, ailments, trials and tribulations, most of all family life💜💙❤💚 Thank you Dan for sharing this story, this chapter, this journey... Amazing stuff💕💕💕💕
Dan I love how you will stop in the middle of anything to talk to one of your pets. That is so sweet. I can tell how much you love them all. I'm the same way. Constantly talking to my cat Kip like he's another person. It makes life around us so much easier and enjoyable. I hope it makes you feel more peaceful to know you have all these people in here cheering you on. You just have to let the nay sayers go. They are clueless. Have a good week!
I got that dog from the pound during Covid when my mom was isolated in her house all alone, and brought her cinnamon for company. When Mom moved to a different location, Mark took the dog.
Dan you are so adorable with your dad .You are so protective and patient with your dad I always enjoy the interaction with you and your dad Continue to love and care for him. He has a wonderful life with you
I hate when I hit my head on a hanging light.... "it's a rental Dad!" Life is all about the everyday inteactions and the little things. You are fantastic sons and caregivers to your wonderful Dad!
Mark looks like Dad and even walks like him...lol. Dan , you seem to be more patient with Dad than Mark. It's not easy.
Definitely, A bit short. Yes, very hard
That’s true.
When u live it with the same questions day after day it becomes hard. So many people feel memory makes you intelligent.
@@michele21auntiem Damn.. this is such an insightful comment 👏
Was thinking mark not so patient,
Mark is hilarious lol. He seems like a grumpy version of your dad 😂
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Nailed it!!
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HILARIOUS 😅😅😅
Absolutely!
I love Dan for being patient with grandpa and loving animals❤
Mark is the mini-grandpa. The carbon copy! Mark doesn’t have your patience Dan but it’s alright. Grandpa is very courteous and appreciative of everyone for what they are doing for him. “Oh thank you, I appreciate it!” Is a profuse phrase always from Grandpa. He is adorable indeed!
Mark is somehow harsh to his Dad. He has no friendly tone compared to Dan. Dan is the best!❤
Good Dan❤😂😂
Mark may look more like his dad, but Dan’s disposition seems more like his dad’s.
@@hildankhata3169mark is also older then Dan so I’m sure that has something to do with it
Dan you need to keep him all the time your brother doesn't have the patience like you do and I worry about how he treats him when they are alone.😮😮😮
Dan is so loving and patient towards his father,
A lot of respect Dan for making sure his dad doesn't fall. I worked as a nurse and a fall at his age is so dangerous.
Boy! That is SO true!! A fall can be a real game changer!! Dan you are 5:28 so vigilant about your dad’s safety when walking! 👏👏 Your dad is SO fortunate to have such loving sons!
I live with my 108 year old mom n I think of Dan sometimes because I hear myself saying the same things in the same way!! LOL!!
So true! My friends Dad was doing great for his age 79. But, he tired to open the garage door fell and broke his hip, unfortunately after that happen he went downhill and passed away within 6 months. Falls can be real serious as you get older.
Oh, I wish you didn’t go to Marks. I literally want to cry the way he talks to him and I went through this with my dad. I know how difficult it is.
Very true. My mom had dementia. She fell and broke her hip on January 1st, 2020. She passed nine days later. The doctor told my family that older people suffering from dementia sometimes don’t survive long after breaking a bone.
So true , he doesn’t really lift his feet very well, making me nervous
It’s wonderful your father can move around, toilet himself, feed himself etc…this is everyday normal mental stimulation to him and keeps his mind busy regardless of his confusion. This is wonderful for him.
It's wonderful for a man his age.
It really is. Independence is what we as human would love to have until the day we pass. Sadly not everyone is so blessed. My grandfather drove until he passed at age almost 92. I can only hope I’m as independent as he was or as Ed is.
My grandmother had dementia and stayed with us in her last years.
She has severe difficulty in walking and for her natures calls as well.
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Your father is so polite and sweet he thinks you all the time. I know you have to answer the same questions over and over again but please try to do so sweetly or at least more politely than you currently are is it really that big of a deal to say the same words over and over honestly I don't understand how people can be short tempered with someone in this situation and yes I have been through it not living in my household but still you just remember how fortunate you are to still have them and better yet remember that you may very well wind up in the same position someday and believe me although Alzheimer's patients may not have much memory they certainly do know when someone is speaking in an agitated and angry voice or a kind and loving voice. Just remember what goes around comes around, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
We were taking turns with my grandfather and it got too confusing for him, he was an escape artist 😂one day he walked out the front door and went inside the neighbors and sat on their couch and started watching tv😂thank God they new him. He did it several times 😂
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This sounds scary; but at the same time wholesome. I like that your neighbors were like *”oh it’s just Rene’s grandfather, come join us, watch tv”* ❤
@@GSR902 🤣he was a mess, my dad had to secure the house! He thought my mom was his wife and would pinch her on the butt 🤣🤣my dad would say, Dad!! That's my wife, he would say ohhhhh 🤣
@@renewhipple8887 I ❤️ this, you are super lucky to have a wholesome family. There’s a lot of love in your family. I’m jealous. 😬
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I Love the way Dan treats his dad he's so patient and careful with Grandpa.
Hey Mark, be loving and kind to your dad. He always is concerned for your well-being and loves you so very much. You may be in his position one day.🙏❤️
👏👏👏 ya you can def tell he don’t take very good care of him!
@@glitterprincess5672no you absolutely cannot.
@@glitterprincess5672yeah women need to stop demonizing men for having emotions. He told his dad something in a sharp way, if a woman did that you’d have a million excuses. You can take care and love someone in your family and also get frustrated and snap at times. You’re pathetic
@@glitterprincess5672 You should have a little more empathy for him. He obviously loves and cares for his father or he wouldn't bother taking care of him. They've clearly got money, they could put him in a home if they didn't care. Caring for elders is extremely stressful, some frustration is to be expected.
@@RunstarHomerit’s hard but he needs to show more patience. His dad isn’t forgetful on purpose. It’s the disease.
Mark and Dan are super blessed to still have both parents.❤
Yesss❤
Dan I love the way You show love to all animals, I can feel the sincerity! Especially with dogs!!
Wherever there is an animal I love Dan's baby talk, makes me chuckle!
Don't Forget The New Kitten Was All Dan I Remember When He Brought It Home Lol
I second that!! They are soooo good to their pets!
I the pig is his favorite
You can judge a man by how he treats his dog. Dan’s good people.
You and your brother Mark deal with your Dad very well, you're both amazing ❤
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I just love Mark! He has a great sense of humor has an amazing heart taking in his Dad. And find out that he has a rescue dog ❤
I believe that the stimulation and security Ed receives by being around his family is the best medicine. He is cared for, experiences life and demonstrates his capabilities that are still there, because he is cared for in this way. So much better than a stale and sterile life in a facility. This family is a gift by their example.
I agree. I'd hate to see his demeanor if he wasn't in this environment. It certainly would not be anything close to what we're all gifted with here with this fabulous family. ❤ 🙏
This is very accurate, those experiences with different family members, situations, pets helps dad cope and never get bored.Mark seems like an awesome part of this family experience and keeps things real and regular no sugar coating.Key is he loves his family.Dan, Mark and Danielle, thanks for opening your life to us, it helps us deal with our aging parents through health changes that are sometimes inevitable 💯
Mark, this house looks like it’s in great shape. I had tenants move out after six years and the house was trashed. After ten years, you would expect to replace the items you’re referencing. The floors look AWESOME!!! You’re fortunate you have carpet replacement in the bedrooms only. Count your blessings❣️ Sending love & light to the sweet soul who transitioned. 🙏😇✨
I thought the same thing. He was complaining about the condition and I was wowed about how great it looked
@@secondchances8238 me too.
Looks beautiful. Looks like A Condo I leased for three years, but his is more modern and updated. I would hate to know the cost in Cali.
Mark took on the responsibility first. Then they shared it after 6 months. Wonderful caring sons...who have to repeat the same thing 50 times a day👏🥰🥰
I’m caring for my 96 yr old mother with dementia now. I’m almost 65. My sister 54 and I swap out like they do. You are not kidding about the repeats.
Watching these videos helps me.
Instead of holding her shirt I stick my hand just inside of her pants in the back.
We are trying so hard to keep her out of the NH.
@@maryann823 I feel for you. I kind of went through what you're going through with my grandmother who was 98. I was the only one out of her family who she could recall at all. But the reason for that was was because I looked like her dad. But she never did confuse me with her dad, she always knew that I was her daughter's son. As frustrating as it is you're going to miss it. 🙏
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Dan ..u r so much patience than ur brother.....u have soothing voice
Dad is so lucky to have a sons like them❤️who are patiently taking care of him❤️God bless u all🙏❤️
Dad hanging out with "his boys" love it.❤
Dan you have your dad's patience and demeanour.Mark looks like your dad.
For 91 he is very alert. I Don't think I could be that calm. Bless you Dan.
I was caregiver to my father who sadly passed away last year.I just wanted to tell you that it takes the patience of Job and you all are doing a wonderful thing for your father. God bless.
I like the compassion that Dan is always giving to his Dad than anybody else. I feel your love and care.
Dan you crack me up the way you talk to the animals! You can tell you really love them!🐶
Who asked u??
U just seen 2seconds of their day out of 24hrs.
@@rainbow3649You are extremely rude it’s called a comment section for a reason and if you can’t leave a nice one I suggest you don’t say nothing at all
Marcia totally agree Dan loves animals 👏👏👍👍🤗🤗🌸
Congrats Dan on your patience with your Dad. It’s certainly not a walk in the park
Mark is not as patient! Mark looks and walks just like his Dad. Your Dad is a blessed man to have sons that will take care of him!!
lol mark is old himself
I love how Mark’s dog is a rescue and the way Dan talks to the animals♥️
Dad is beyond fortunate in having such great sons especially Dan!
Love how Dan's tone rises when speaking to the animals 😂❤
Hilarious 😂
He is definitely an animal person. You can see that from his videos
@@mariahb3107 yeah, I love it ❤️
Dan, kudos to you. I like your interactions with your dad. You understand his mental state and treat him kindly.
I cried when I saw how Mark talked to his dad.
I laughed.
He’s not mean to him, that’s his demeanor. They all love and care for grandpa. I thought Danielle talked harshly to him until I kept watching. Grandpa is blessed to be surrounded by so much love. Mark was busy and grandpa was being grandpa q🤷♀️
I don’t believe that is the way he want it to be but that his demeanour..
Grandpa has so much humour and so does Mark in his responses and still believing in his dad’s past comprehensions
Omg! It’s just how he is and he is 68 Dan is 56??
Ed is so polite. He's a role model for humanity. It must be frustrating for him but he just has too much class to lessen him. God Bless Ed!
Ed is a grown man . He doesnt seem to be bothered by Mark. And Mark seems to be doing well with all that he has on his plate. Ed has known Mark all of his life . Im sure he knows Marks personality just as he knows Dans. No need treating Ed like a baby. He knows he is loved by the family.
Mark is very short with dad I don’t like it. Dan has much more patience with dad. Im sure it isn’t easy
Ed reminds me of my own Dad who passed at 94 even the keys and money .Mark needs to be a bit easier with Ed -he will sadly miss him when he goes.Ed is great a gentle giant and very intelligent and sensitive
I agree, I love that they don't treat him like a baby Ed still has his independence because of Dan, Mark & Danielle! There doing a great job! Do you know Ed is a fireball? Lol... you got to remember it's not easy, they are learning new things everyday...like Ed said in one of his videos "that's my family, and no one can take that away from me" (Ed Salinger, 2023).
@@patriciavance4450mark was the original person to decide to take on grandpa and care for him. He does not have a wife to help out like Dan, and he is much older! Couple that with the fact he’s dealing with having to figure out how to fix his rental house and replace his income! Be more kind, he is doing a great job.
@@patriciavance4450 then you have never heard Dan yell from the shower or when Ed doesn’t want to take his pills. They all do great with Ed and they all have their own history with Ed.
I honestly dont think mark is mean. He's just seems straightforward. Plus he's older. His emotions are usually the same in each video. I think that's just his personality. Nothing bad
Coming here to say this. They just have two different styles. You can see both times when Dad comes to the door Mark stops and waits to make sure he's okay.
Absolutely Mark and I are different the same way. Danielle and I are different. People can pick and choose their favorites, but in reality, all three of us care for him.
@@dsalnorcal1434That's so true. Please make a pinned comment explaining Mark's great contribution to your father's care since last two years and how your mother was worried about Mark's personal life if he takes dad to live with him so that people will stop with these comments. All three of you are doing a wonderful job :)
He doesn’t seem mean at all. He’s the dry humour type. Most Americans don’t understand that.
@@alisonfraser8231, Yes!!
Dan you are blessing to your Dad it's a joy to watch your videos and see how much love you have given your Dad.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mark is inpatient. Dan you're doing a great job for being patient with Grandpa. God will prepare someone patient like you for your old age too.
I love your dad! Mark isn’t as patient as you are but we all deal with this in different ways
Kudos to you Dan for being very patient & loving with your dad. God bless you❤
Love you Mark!! What you and Dan do for Grandpa is awesome. I wish I had a Mark in my life to help with my husband with dementia. ❤
I love grandpa! He is just a gentle soul 🥰
Mark looks just like Dad! Your father is so kind and considerate. Always so thankful and looking out for someone else. I so enjoy these videos
You are wonderful sons with heaps of patience
Dan thanks for being patient and reassuring to your Dad it is very important
Nice rental seems like last guy was good to the place. Good renters are hard to come by also Mark looks like a younger version of Dad
Mark comes across as very impatient and gruff with dad. Dan is tolerant, communicates and explains things (multiple times) gently and in a caring manner to help dad feel more at ease and involved. I'm positive it's a hard thing to do and an extremely hard job to undertake. I commend Dan and Mark for stepping up and taking care their dad who raised and supported them growing up. Loving caring families eventually take on this role. It's hard but that's what you do for the ones you love that played this same role with you. God bless Danielle for participating and accepting this fact of life, welcoming dad into their home, being a significant "other" to dad and THE significant loving spouse of Dan.
It is so hard at times. My mother took care of her mom with Alzheimer’s for years and I had so much patience with my Grandmother and I found myself constantly telling my mom to not get so agitated with things she’d do or say. And oh boy when my mom came down with it I found myself doing to her what I had defended her from doing to my grandmother. I had to get myself in check real fast because that was my mom.
Taking care of someone with Alzheimer's, or dementia isn't 1/10 of what you see. There are good days and terrible days. You have all your own humanly struggles, with the addition of taking care of someone who has no idea what's going on and day in and day out "can" become a bother; it's normal with any of us. You see small clips... I enjoy the videos and Dan seems like a great guy, but that doesn't mean he doesn't experience the full range of emotions.
Dan is only 56, while Mark is older, tholder you get is extremely hard to take on caring for a loved one, especially if Dementia is the ailing problem. You cannot change a persons personality to cope with this situation. I admire you both .
My personality is of caring, patience, tolerance, an only child now almost 80, my husband of 62 yrs is totally opposite, short fuse mostly over nothing. This is how we survived. Mark does not love his dad any less than Dan, it’s just their different personalities as to how the cope with this very sad disease. So cheers to both Dan and Mark for their concern for their Dad Ed!
They all are blessed well for their kindness, attitudes and patience, proof that blessings are existing.
Can't believe how much mark looks like his dad wow
I know right! It is like watching twins.
Even walk the same. ❤
His son Dave even looks and walks more like Ed than Mark does
Yes Mark does look like his dad even walks like him. They are like two peas in a pod!
I saw that, too!
His love for his children always comes through… you can tell he’s always had good manners!☮️🙂
Dad is so adorable.
Blessed are you to be able to have him so long.
Dan you have a lot more patience then your brother does with your dad 😂
I agree! I don't think Mark has the patience Grandpa needs. J.S. ❤
Being a caretaker isn't easy. He loves his Dad enough to do it, that's what counts.
I was rollin..like wow..he yelling at the man. Wth
I thinks it comical. He loves his dad and does more than most would . He just has his ways of showing it.
well the guy is 91 and doesnt have his hearing. probably speaks louder just so he doesnt have to repeat himself every question@@ohsomarvalus4712
Dan, you are Angel!!!! 👌Thank you for taking care of your father 🙏
You can see Dad wanting to participate and offer suggestions; it is tough to keep repeating but he’s your Dad ..gotta love him and help. 💙💙💙
Thanks Dan for showing an authentic reaction because every day you guys aren't going to be patient. Dementia is a terrible disease so I am extremely happy that you two keep him active. Mark is human just like the rest of us and is allowed to have a bad day. Please show him the grace and mercy that you expect to receive as well.
I just love watching Dad, such a calm demeanor. Ty Sir Dan for taking good care of him, also ty too Mark.❤
bet he was a wise old owl.....still is really
What a sweet trio. You all are amazing…So kind to your Papa.💕
Dan you seem more patient With Dad than Mark does. I know it's hard . Glad Your Dad Has His Family. 😊
Your seeing short clip. Mark is great with Ed.
i suspect he is great with his dad....
Hi Dan I watch your videos all the time and love the way you and your wife take care of your father. I was a caregiver for both my dad and mom. I miss them so much. It is a lot of work but it is so worth it because when he’s gone you will miss him. I know I will miss your videos of your dad ! It make me sad to see Mark have no patience with your dad. He need to learn to have more patience with him. Especially your dad having dementia now. My dad had emphysema and my mother had Alzheimer’s. It was hard but I would do it all over again. Thank you Dan for sharing your dad with us.
Seeing this reminds me of my late father, who I miss a lot! It's hard when watching your parents get older. Thank you for sharing. 🥰
Ahhhhh I love your family!
There is no tougher job than bring a caregiver!
Bless you all!
Dan has way more patience with his dad! Your Dad is so nice! So pleasantly ❤
Thats what i did with my father in law. We would run errands. Bless him ,everyone loved him.
You two are awesome...taking care of your dad.Bless you both❤❤
Dan is definitely way more patient than Mark.....but still it can't be easy❤❤❤❤
😅 don’t forget Mark was having a very stressful day running all over looking for a dishwasher and working on fixing up the house in the yard. I posted this to give people an idea of what life is really like dealing with life issues with dad in tow.
@@dsalnorcal1434 We're Gonna See What We Want To See 😉 Because As You All Know We're Just Protective Of America's Grandpa!
So glad you bring him along. I'm dealing with the same issues with my Mom. Repeating the same thing over and over is frustrating. I know.
Yep. Your family remids me of mine, cussing and all! Lol. I would have said the same thing if I would have hit my head on the lowhanging light!! 😂🤣
I would bet that most family caregivers would insist their dementia parent stay in the care while they made a 5 minute survey of the rental property..It is Dan's gig to do the video taping...Mark had work to do to assess his rental property.
What a great kids you dad raised!!! Some people are trying to stay away from their aging parents! Thank you for showing the kindness part of this difficult world! ❤
God bless Dan and Mark for loving, and taking care of their dad. I follow you guys with joy.😊
I see why Dad be happy to see Dan when he's coming back from Marks house
Dad is pure class. I can but wish I would be half as decent person in my old age, and with dementia too. And real good of you for caring for him so patiently. Watching my parents struggle with granny's dementia, I know how hard can it be for children to adapt to a new reality.
I know it’s not easy but we can see the patience you have when dad asks the same question more than once. 💞
That’s a beautiful house. You guys are funny. Damn, I think I’m seeing double looking at Mark and the Dr. They even walk alike. ❤️❤️❤️
If you think Mark is like Ed, wait til you see Dave!
@@RM-ti8nfright!!
@@RM-ti8nf I’ve never seen Dave yet. I love these guys.
Mark and dad is two of a kind. In looks and personality. I just love grandpa; he's a sweet man. He makes me laugh a out his keys and his chest book. Dan, you are so patient with him. May God bless you, and your family. Danielle is funny. ❤
Your Dad is so lucky that he's surrounded by family whose so compassionate, patience, and understanding. Just very pleasant to watch.
His not lucky to have mark his old and grumpy plus rude grandad should stay @ dans all the time hate to think how his getting treated when cameras are not on poor grandad leave him alone be kind like dan
Its a wonderful thing to see two sons so committed to their dads quality of life ❤
Mark has the average person’s patience. You are far beyond the avearGe Dan. God bless both of you❤
Dan you have such a beautiful and kind way with your Dad,love your patience and care for him ❤❤❤
Just wanted to thank the both of you for caring for your dad. Your family is the best!! ❤❤❤❤
I love how you keep your dad engaged in everyday life. I learning to be a better caregiver following your family's example. ♥️✨✨
My favorite part of the videos is when Dan talks to the animals. He has a special way and I love it!! 🥰🥰🥰
I love how the Salinger sons, all have Ed’s features as they age.
I also really loved this video. It’s really enlightening seeing Ed, so excited that his family taking full care of his safety, needs and especially making Ed feel loved. You guys are really showing the world, what a real family should be doing in life for their parents. ❤ y’all.
It’s obvious why you’re (Dan) the one helping your dad the most. I had no help with my mom as nobody could handle having to repeat themselves constantly. I would, like Dan, repeat almost as if it was the first time she asked. He has so much patience and much needed humor! 😊
I am so happy to find your channel. I just passed the one year mark, living with my 94 year old Mum with dementia. Dan, seeing the way you and your family interact with him helps me have patience and gives me comfort knowing I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.
Hope things are going ok and you have support.
You are definitely not alone 💜🙏🏼
I can feel how you love your parents.
Dan I love the way you interact with your Dad, there’s so much patience and love. You are more gentle and tolerant towards him. Thank you for sharing your videos. There’s so much to learn . Pray Dad lives a healthy and happy long life
It was nice seeing the famous Mark 😊 all 3 together ❤️
Out of curiosity can we know if dad worries for you Dan when He's at Mark's house ?🤣
I have the same question 😂
Me too 😅
That's a good question
I would also like to know 😂
That's right, tell us about that,Dan!
Mark is your dad's twin. Physical features, plus the walk.
That's, great you and Mark arrange your dad's daily activities.
So many families would struggle with this.
Well, done Mark, Dan, Danielle and the rest of the family.
what a BLESSING that you have sibling(s) to help you out.
I love that your dad was thinking of the dog (water comment) even in his confusion. He's a compassionate man.
Animals is man best frien
You guys do a great job. You show the tough stuff, too. It's very difficult taking care of someone with dementia. We all lose our patience at times. Its good to bring him along to help.
Keeping it real,
Dan! You are such a good guy! I love the way you look after Dad….making sure he watches his steps! And it’s amazing that despite his memory confusion….Dad stays on point with conversations! If it wasn’t for the fact that he forgets and repeats the same questions….I think he’s doing wonderful!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I love grandpa I clearly see he's getting worse that was hard to watch thanks Dan and Mark for sharing him with us❤
I love the fact that your family and Mark are tag teaming in taking care of your dad. I love your interactions.
I love Mark, Dan and Dad because they are really good guys and they have good hearts and it’s just nice to see that loved - that shared love. All the best, Dani
Dan was pre-empting the ever-existing problem of Mark not having food to eat.
😂 noticed that too
Always a dad 🥰
😊😊
Especially his goto food is McDonald's
I had to laugh when Dan asked Mark do you have any food, so Ed would know Mark is doing fine😁
I Love to see Y'all interacting with your Father. Your Dad knows his children Love him. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
I remember my dad with your dad. He was 71 when he died 20 yrs younger than Mr. Ed Salinger. Salute🎉❤
Mark and dad look like twins oooh even walk the same wow .and mark doesn't have your patience Dan yours is outstanding am sure dad is proud of you.
Such a sweet Dad. He always says thank you, or asks if he can do anything for you or Danielle. He still worries about his grown-up kids. That is the epitome of a great Dad and a gentleman.
Thank you Dan, Danielle and Mark for sharing your lives to us. Love from Philippines❤.
So strange that he can’t remember his sons name, but he always knows Danielle. :)
Luv the family interactions, personalities, ailments, trials and tribulations, most of all family life💜💙❤💚
Thank you Dan for sharing this story, this chapter, this journey... Amazing stuff💕💕💕💕
That’s what this is all about trials and tribulations of life
@@dsalnorcal1434 u betcha
Dan I love how you will stop in the middle of anything to talk to one of your pets. That is so sweet. I can tell how much you love them all. I'm the same way. Constantly talking to my cat Kip like he's another person. It makes life around us so much easier and enjoyable. I hope it makes you feel more peaceful to know you have all these people in here cheering you on. You just have to let the nay sayers go. They are clueless. Have a good week!
I got that dog from the pound during Covid when my mom was isolated in her house all alone, and brought her cinnamon for company. When Mom moved to a different location, Mark took the dog.
@dsalnorcal1434 Dan, you really are sweet guy! That was really nice and thoughtful to do for your mom during covid. I hope she loved it too:)
@@dsalnorcal1434pls. Upload longer videos..i love y'all
Dan you are so adorable with your dad .You are so protective and patient with your dad I always enjoy the interaction with you and your dad Continue to love and care for him. He has a wonderful life with you
I hate when I hit my head on a hanging light.... "it's a rental Dad!" Life is all about the everyday inteactions and the little things. You are fantastic sons and caregivers to your wonderful Dad!
Watch your step, Dan! 😂 Sorry, I had to when you bonked your head on the light fixture. 😂😂
Danielle would have laughed too 😂