I just found this channel today and just on this interview, i am so blessed. I love how the host doesn't interrupt every minute giving the guest the opportunity to talk their mind. This can only be by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Jobs 32:8. To host, the world is your platform, you will never loose your light. Thank you. 🎉
I could relate to every word that came out of her mouth. 5 years ago, my mum, the most devoted Christian I know, healthy and bubbly, slumped in church on Good Friday and never woke up. I got mad at God, stopped going to church, until I came to the realization that He knows and sees it all. May God continue to heal all the broken hearted.
I'm at that point and truthfully I don't know what else can convince me that God really loves me. Iv been sick without any improvement irrespective of drugs..I'm homeless n in custody cos I couldn't afford my rents I'm just in utter dispair right now
@Ellaeduke Do not worry, God is definitely working behind the scenes. Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, never leaning on your own understanding, in all thy ways acknowledge him and He shall direct your paths.
@@ellaeduke6418 God is loves you and he is working on your heart. Please open your heart to him to heal you. You are his heart created you and cannot live you now I'm sending you love and peace of God tonight 🙏🏾❤ Father in the name of Jesus, I bring your child before you, please Lord help Ellaeduke right now. You say in your word you are close to those who are hurting please comfort and provide for her in the name of Jesus I pray 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I literally can relate here. I lost my mum on 7 of june this year. My mum is a virtuous woman a woman that is too good to a fault. Surrounded by great men of God yet she died just like that.😢 I cried 😢and asked God so many questions, i promised myself never to do good like my mother because everything she did couldn't keep her alive. But God came to me and took me on a journey the showed me my mum where she us seated in heaven 😮 i woke up and the grief and pain in my heart left me. I had peace and joy even when i remember my mom i dont feel said again. God knows it all...
That feeling of disfavor, the devil has been trying so hard to plant that seed. And I often find myself looking out the window at other people living their lives and thinking to myself, Oh they are so blessed and so favored.. But when she talked about God being the Balm in Gilead, I needed to hear that...
I watched this video in tears ,I lost my mom when I was twelve dad died too after six years so I can relate.. this video opened my eyes to so many things ahh I'm overwhelmed and I have learnt and unlearn .God bless the host and the guest . You've gained a subscriber.
Mummy Duru was truly a force, its hard not to remember her. Wednesday mornings at Royal Women was all it could be and more. The memory of the righteous is truly blessed.
I didn’t want this to end… I just kept saying “hmmm”. So many things to take out of all the stories and testimonies shared in this video but I have to commend Flourish for how she hosts. There’s a calm to your hosting, you’re not trying to drag with your guests but you give them the time and just let share from the heart. What a blessing. May God continue to direct this channel and all that’s to come!
Mummy Duru Louise ❤, i met Mama at Okusipes birthday party 2014. Have never met her before. She sent for me and her PA said Mama want to see you. I went straight to her and said ; i have a word for you. As she was leaving, i rose up and walked after her. She asked for my consent p to be prayed for and i said yes Mama. Brought her perfume and sprayed alll over me. She prophesied and hugged me and I landed on the ground. i was invited to her fellowship at Ogba 2month after and God moved mightily. Mama Duru, Rest well Ma.❤❤❤ She’ was a genuine WOG
Everybody thinks that I'm weird At a point, I smile and then the next thing, I switched to being moody I've been raised and shaped into an hard face ever since my dad had died at age 9. I'm 19 now and people don't really want to talk to me I've been through different hurts which I don't like talking about. I experienced one not quite long and the holy Spirit directed me to this message. He also told me to drop this. Thank you Miss flourish and Amaka. I can't appreciate you enough
@lovelyoke You are healing, sis. The thing is just that it may take a while for you to have a scar that no longer hurts. The fact that you still feel pain doesn't mean you're not healing. Healing begins from the moment you begin to treat your wound. Sometimes the depth of the wound determines the longevity of the healing process. Patiently go through the healing process with God. Trust me, in the crushing, in the breaking, he's making new wine 🍷 and as long as you're a believer of God, all things including every season of your life works together for your good, for his glorification and to the end that you become who he's intended you to be. You have my prayers, ma'am ❤️
This is really a shining light God is the source from which I am fetched, He fits me into His family tree and calls me His own. So much strength in these words
In your pain , draw close to God …. Having a grudge or detaching from God never solves that pain. He is your Father, your source, you were made out of Him hence He feels that pain & weakness more , so you are to draw into that strength He ( GOD) has provided to settle that pain. Ha, I listened, literally felt I was having the conversation with both the host & guest.. GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 Love from Ghana.
I've been missing my mom for some days, can't even explain how I'm feeling to anyone because I felt no one can relate. I have test this morning but my mind was so burdened, I was led in my spirit to watch TikTok(I thank God I did) and I found the intro that directed me to this video. Ohhh, I'm so relieved and I learnt a lot. Thank you so much❤
Glad you feel relieved. The good thing is that you can come back to watch whenever you feel this way again. It reminds you of who God is and his promises. Goodluck in your exam!
I saw this video last year and I didn't even know I'd be saddled with the responsibility of caring for my mum till the point of passing and even planning a whole burial as the only child in Nigeria. I was at a rational point and not an emotional one. 3 months down the line, the emotions started creeping up on me. I remembered this podcast amidst the whole scheme of events and I honestly did stay strong. Thank you for sharing and I hope whoever needs healing will heal too.
The nicest request to subscribe. I don subscribe😅 This interview is almost my family's story in a way. My younger brother was the overall best Law student in 2012. He was murdered by his "friends" 2 months after his call to bar. God has held my family together and has comforted us. I processed my pains in God and have healed.❤
We need to divorce looking towery to strength, being vulnerable is deep strength...It takes a lot of self awareness, confidence and restedness in who you are to show emotions and not to be apologetic about it....Chiamaka shared this at 25:36 👏👏👏👏👏
Very deep! But many people dont want to embrace this. I pray we do so we can be free. I dont know if this is just me but in the midst of great vulnerability I feel strong strength.
Truly, you shouldn't hide your pain from God. Rather, that pain should bring you close to God. Press on to Him. I remember when I lost my mum, she was my only surviving parent cos my dad died years back. My mum was everything to me, but you know what? Something told me she was killed to break my spirit, because that was when I started my spiritual journey. The way my mum served the Lord and the way she died, was enough to make me lose faith in God and focus but it brought me closer to God and even though it was painful, I started to heal and grew more in my spiritual journey with Him.
Her love was tender but firm... Ah what a beautiful description.. I hope my son can attest like this about me. I struggle with the firmness required as a parent.
34:00 It doesn't matter the fullness of gift..I am still under authority of the priest over my house..my husband. Look for fruit not for gift....the gift of God is without repentance. Wow...What a super Mom and Dad indeed...this talk really blessed me.
Seeing you talk without even tearing shows a lot of healing. I’m dealing with a loss currently. Two years down the line i haven’t got enough courage to keep going. I can’t pursue my dreams again. I’m just trying to stay alive first. Adding financial struggles to it is even driving me crazy. I think I’ll draw strength from your story. God help me. God heals, he truly does.
God is with you and He will carry you through,just hold on to him. When He heals,He heals completely and totally. It's going to be ok. God is on your side and it is well with your soul❤
I can imagine how she felt when her mum died. i lost my close aunt 5 years ago and the day she died, on our way to the hospital to get her death certificate i looked her and i was in shock in my mind am like "this woman wake up now stop the joke now" I didnt cry at all for a week cause i was still processing it like can it be true. I have never lost someone close to me. the day of the burial, i was a mess once they dropped in her coffin. my emotions were all over the place
Could it not end? Haba there is a lot packed in here o, topics for days!! No this is a beautiful conversation. Please i need to know where she is ministering, this is a voice that needs to be heard in our generation today
"Chiamaka Ige is an envoy of healing" is all I could of listening to this conversation. Healing is possible. Healing with God is possible. Thank you so much. I'm so blessed. God bless you, Shining Light Flourish.🧡
The story of her parents made me feel a lot of emotions, I felt like I knew her parents, godly parents are truly the best gifts God can give. Thank you for this powerful and refreshing interview. I felt God in a new and fresh way. God bless you.❤❤❤
I have been seeing this video pop up every single time for some time now but I decided to watch today. Yes, I lost my sister last year and I miss her so much but I have learnt a few. I know I’d testify some day.
Please, Is there another episode? I feel there is still more and that it ended abruptly. It is not a coincidence that I stumbled into this teaching. Most of this spoke to me this morning. Especially at a point where God is calling me to be vulnerable with him and I keep asking him how to do that. Ms. Amaka just simplified it for me. Wow! Tears are not enough to capture how I am feeling now. God God, please help me to find my identity in you. I mostly do not even know who I am. I do not even know where I stand. I have been numbed and in trauma for too long that I do not even know who I am anymore. God help me 🙏
God is so intentional, this video has been in my “watch later” for sometime.. At the beginning of this month ( 1/11/23) I lost my brother suddenly, he was not sick.. its me that found him first seated in the car, thinking he is taking a nap like he had said, windows where halfway open, he did not suffocate. The whole time of the vigil and burial I looked strong to everyone. The past few days after have been really hard, its been hard to explain what exactly I feel. One of the things I knew well is that I was really discouraged thinking about how men in my family have died over the years, starting with my dad that past when I was 10yrs, then a brother, then a nephew and now this. But the words of this lady have realllyyy brought me some light. One thing that I’ve picked up is not to process my pain outside of God. It seems I had slipped into doing that and feeling like why does our family keep going through this, yet before this whole sad incident God has been preparing me by taking me deeper in prayer and spending intentional time with him. It might take a while but am encouraged that I will be okay eventually. Thank you
This was such a blessing - a very liberating session that screamed, "Grief is real, but so is our God!" Thank you so much, Chimamaka for sharing from such a vulnerable, real and God- place. Amazing hosting too, Flourish! I particularly love how beautifully paced and natural it was❣
Lately my soul has been craving God and I've been on it for a while so whilst scrolling through tiktok I saw this lady talking and this is just an interview every word every smile every reaction it's a message a ministration I had to leave and come here to find out the whole gist and I must say flourish youre doing a great job thank you for starting this ❤️
This one really catch me.: You don't process your pain outside God! The only side you find total healing is in God ! Is so true,😢 Thank you sometimes we used to forget
As Chiamaka made mentions of, credits to Ministers Sunmisola Agbebi and Dunsin Oyekan who penned songs that expressed and reminds us of how we should relate to our heavenly Father.
Thank you Amaka and Flourish. I did not stumble on this by mistake. I have seen things and it's a call to work on my walk with Christ in a better way. Handle pain with him, converse with him like he's just beside me, and involve him in discovering my identity. This has not only blessed me but I've taken notes from your parent's marriage that I'll need to imbibe and cultivate when mine happens. Thank you for pouring into us. One thing that stood out for me was your saying - for his strength is made perfect in my weakness. He will not judge me when I falter but rather his strength carries me. Again, this has blessed my soul. God bless you.
Talking about hurt doesn’t do anything it only brings more hurt!!! I felt that line. 🔥🔥🔥 It’s much more important to talk about healing as much as we talk about hurt.
This is really heavy... I felt this same shock when i lost my Mum, I stopped living, and after one year i lost my Dad... But God is the healer and i am a work in Progress. I thank God that today i can tell this story and still be happy... Like trusting God becomes so easy now.
This is beautiful, I had all emotions here especially how she mentions what offense is and how we Christians don’t talk about it but piles ups. I was in isolation season but now I am on a journey of healing.
This interview got me praying because i see the beauty of how building your personal work with God can save you and save your children and generations. 🥺🥺🥺This was a wholesome interview 😇 Thank you Mama Chiamaka and Flourish 🙏
This had been popping up on my you tube for some time an I thought "Hmm... I don't know these people and I don't think i'm interested in the topic." Today I was compelled to watch it and It was what I needed! The guest spoke with such grace, poise, and love that made the message so real and clear. I appreciate this video so much. Thank you both!
Your testimony of your parents and their faith-walk stuck out to me the most. Of a truth, one’s ministry is first to the family. What would my children say about me and my relationship with God? Even when I am no longer there, would it serve to help them know the right direction to take?
Goodness!! Havnt being moved by a Godly conversation for so long! Jesus i know what this will do to my mindset now! My heart is yours lord! Speak father, i am ready
This was nothing short of amazing! Truly inspiring. I must watch this again because I there are qualities in your mother and father that I desire to develop. Thank you for sharing, Chiamaka. Just amazing! God bless you ladies.
Thank you is all I can say! Learning to steward and process our pain in Christ Jesus. This episode holds key information on emotional intelligence as Christian. If the scripture "His strength is made known through our weakness" was a person, it is definitely Chimamaka Ige. I grabbed my tissue box and note book and came here! Thank you guys for giving us undiluted expressions of a journey to healing, and managing our emotions as a Christian.
I really enjoyed watching this. Listening to Chiamaka speak about her parents just opened my eyes even more to the ministry of parenting and its importance. Lord, help us be parents after your heart, leading our children in the right way to go! Thank you for your vulnerability, I really learnt alot even about God's fatherhood and our identity ❤
Hearing this guest speak for the first time and God, she carries so much grace. So much wisdom and knowledge of the word of God. This video has been a blessing to me, thank you. ❤
I don't really know how I stumbled on this show. First time seeing/ knowing you both, thank you Chimamaka. This was a therapeutic session for me. I so miss my parents but I guess one day I would be able to talk about it the way you did without much hurt. You healed well and I am proud of you journey. Thank you.
thankyou, Jesus for letting me see this today. this is a story i literally felt myself in. maybe cos I lost my parents as well and someday i wish I can share my testimonies, growth, God, and emotions with the world, just to glorify God's name and be a source of strength for someone the way you've done to me today.💜💜💜🙏
Not letting the devil convince me that I am so alone and special and no one can relate... This is so true... God have men everywhere. Don't allow the devil corner you. 1 Peter 5.9 is the scripture for this
I needed to hear this... I just lost my mom, three years after losing my dad. They were pastors, the most dedicated and given to the work of God. Losing my mom also same week i lost my international job. I'm at the brink of losing it cos I can't understand why all these and if this is the beautiful end he promised those who love Him! I won't lie, I've been just angry and hurt
This is very helpful, I literally watched this video very early this morning 3AM; while I was asleep I had a dream about someone I wished I would've called before going to sleep, so In the dream the person was not In her good state so, immediately I woke up and went to this my friend Dm to drop a message just to be sure she's fine, but unfortunately she was not online so I went to a friend's status and BOOM💥 I saw this. Now I realised that God literally woke me up to watch this beautiful piece. God Bless you both, Chiamaka and Flourish.❤🎉 Cheers 🍻
Thank you so much ma,I really needed to hear this to understand that God is still working and that I will be fine. I lost both parents 2020(seven months apart),my mum's death shook me to my root,she was prayerful,I thought she didn't deserve it,but owww the growth process I went through. Just last week I lost my sister in-law again,she was a sister and a friend,my friend got into an accident,see life did not make sense anymore,I began to doubt who I was and if I really knew God,even my prayer life didn't feel right anymore,I wanted to scream at God,but I guess he needed me to listen to this. Thank you both for being a vessel
May the Lord strengthen you in your weakness. The Holy Spirit will help you through this phase of your life. Jesus has got you, stay in Him, He loves you.
Oh goodness, what a BEAUTIFUL HOUR I’ve spent with you ladies! My heart was a rollercoaster of emotions. That hug part just had me undone. In fact, you dragged me kicking and screaming to confront my parenting to my own 12 year old. I want to be like Jesus to her, to demonstrate great faith…much like Chimamaka’s mother.
Wow... this is so beautiful!! So excited to hear how the interview blessed you! May the fruits it has produced in you remain forever in Jesus name! Amen!
I pray after watching this i can heal,it hasnt bn easy since i lost my job and mum March 2023,it was sudden not expected,i couldnt reconcile how a good God can allow such a thing happen after all the prayers etc My faith has been shaky,i feel disappointed and all alone and the fact that life goes on makes tins painful.
This is not just an interview, it's a ministration, therapy and a conversation that glorifies God.
Amaka your parents did an amazing job with you.
Honestly
I couldn’t have said it any better. Thank you
A phenomenal job her parents did! And yes this was a wholesome ministration!
I agree absolutely
It's been an amazing time and I learned so much. Thank you.
I just found this channel today and just on this interview, i am so blessed. I love how the host doesn't interrupt every minute giving the guest the opportunity to talk their mind. This can only be by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Jobs 32:8.
To host, the world is your platform, you will never loose your light. Thank you. 🎉
I could relate to every word that came out of her mouth. 5 years ago, my mum, the most devoted Christian I know, healthy and bubbly, slumped in church on Good Friday and never woke up. I got mad at God, stopped going to church, until I came to the realization that He knows and sees it all. May God continue to heal all the broken hearted.
I'm at that point and truthfully I don't know what else can convince me that God really loves me. Iv been sick without any improvement irrespective of drugs..I'm homeless n in custody cos I couldn't afford my rents I'm just in utter dispair right now
@Ellaeduke
Do not worry, God is definitely working behind the scenes.
Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, never leaning on your own understanding, in all thy ways acknowledge him and He shall direct your paths.
❤❤ sending Gods love and his full healing in Jesus name....God loves you ❤
@@ellaeduke6418 God is loves you and he is working on your heart. Please open your heart to him to heal you. You are his heart created you and cannot live you now I'm sending you love and peace of God tonight 🙏🏾❤
Father in the name of Jesus, I bring your child before you, please Lord help Ellaeduke right now. You say in your word you are close to those who are hurting please comfort and provide for her in the name of Jesus I pray 🙏🏾🙏🏾
God is with you ellaeduke
“Even when you’re pursuing God’s agenda, don’t think that you will not be hurt along the line 📌”.
I felt this!!!😢 🙇🏾♀️
I felt that too
I literally can relate here. I lost my mum on 7 of june this year. My mum is a virtuous woman a woman that is too good to a fault. Surrounded by great men of God yet she died just like that.😢
I cried 😢and asked God so many questions, i promised myself never to do good like my mother because everything she did couldn't keep her alive. But God came to me and took me on a journey the showed me my mum where she us seated in heaven 😮 i woke up and the grief and pain in my heart left me. I had peace and joy even when i remember my mom i dont feel said again.
God knows it all...
That feeling of disfavor, the devil has been trying so hard to plant that seed. And I often find myself looking out the window at other people living their lives and thinking to myself, Oh they are so blessed and so favored.. But when she talked about God being the Balm in Gilead, I needed to hear that...
Her dress is so regal, she's so eloquent and wise.
I watched this video in tears ,I lost my mom when I was twelve dad died too after six years so I can relate.. this video opened my eyes to so many things ahh I'm overwhelmed and I have learnt and unlearn .God bless the host and the guest . You've gained a subscriber.
‘You can’t question the supremacy of God but you can ask your Father questions’ … this hits different ❤
I love Chiamaka's composture, carriage and speech fluency. She is a lady that has worked so much on herself. More Grace Chiamaka.
I loved this lady so much and I don’t even know her God bless you 🇿🇦🇿🇦❤️
I aspire to be the kind of mother she described of her Mom. ♥️ to be so deep in prayer that you know what is going on
So much me especially to and for my siblings.....God biko ooo
Lord I pray that whoever reads this message their heart will be filled with your peace, mercy, and forgiveness
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen
Amen 🙏🙏
Amen
Mummy Duru was truly a force, its hard not to remember her. Wednesday mornings at Royal Women was all it could be and more. The memory of the righteous is truly blessed.
"I don't need to down play another person to shine"
powerful words
All I can say is that this show is a show from heaven above. I'm super blessed. God bless you mama flourish and ma Chiamaka
Awwn, amenn. Thank God
I didn’t want this to end…
I just kept saying “hmmm”.
So many things to take out of all the stories and testimonies shared in this video but I have to commend Flourish for how she hosts. There’s a calm to your hosting, you’re not trying to drag with your guests but you give them the time and just let share from the heart. What a blessing.
May God continue to direct this channel and all that’s to come!
Right? She is beautiful in how she listens and how she gives feedback and how she asks her questions.
AMEN!! Thank you so much Mobolaaji!! I appreciate you!
That calm to her hosting,I feel it too...simply the Holyspirit.
You're right
Mummy Duru Louise ❤, i met Mama at Okusipes birthday party 2014. Have never met her before. She sent for me and her PA said Mama want to see you. I went straight to her and said ; i have a word for you. As she was leaving, i rose up and walked after her. She asked for my consent p
to be prayed for and i said yes Mama. Brought her perfume and sprayed alll over me. She prophesied and hugged me and I landed on the ground. i was invited to her fellowship at Ogba 2month after and God moved mightily. Mama Duru, Rest well Ma.❤❤❤ She’ was a genuine WOG
Mummy’s book still with me and the wrapper i wore that day. She asked me to keep it. She was deep spiritually and kind ❤ ❤❤
God is speaking to his children in this season on identity.
This hit the nail in the head!!!
I sight you 🫡🫡
True. May we get it!
Very very true 🙏😩
Everybody thinks that I'm weird
At a point, I smile and then the next thing, I switched to being moody
I've been raised and shaped into an hard face ever since my dad had died at age 9. I'm 19 now and people don't really want to talk to me
I've been through different hurts which I don't like talking about. I experienced one not quite long and the holy Spirit directed me to this message. He also told me to drop this. Thank you Miss flourish and Amaka. I can't appreciate you enough
Thank you Holy Spirit
🫂🫂
God's healing is real. Isn't it amazing how she didn't even shed a tear?🥺❤️
Overlying Amazing 🥺🙇
I wish I could heal . Is more than 4years, is just still hurting
@lovelyoke You are healing, sis. The thing is just that it may take a while for you to have a scar that no longer hurts. The fact that you still feel pain doesn't mean you're not healing. Healing begins from the moment you begin to treat your wound. Sometimes the depth of the wound determines the longevity of the healing process. Patiently go through the healing process with God. Trust me, in the crushing, in the breaking, he's making new wine 🍷 and as long as you're a believer of God, all things including every season of your life works together for your good, for his glorification and to the end that you become who he's intended you to be.
You have my prayers, ma'am ❤️
Thanks alot
@@theblessingraji325 God bless you for this comment ❤
This is really a shining light
God is the source from which I am fetched, He fits me into His family tree and calls me His own.
So much strength in these words
In your pain , draw close to God …. Having a grudge or detaching from God never solves that pain. He is your Father, your source, you were made out of Him hence He feels that pain & weakness more , so you are to draw into that strength He ( GOD) has provided to settle that pain.
Ha, I listened, literally felt I was having the conversation with both the host & guest.. GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 Love from Ghana.
I've been missing my mom for some days, can't even explain how I'm feeling to anyone because I felt no one can relate. I have test this morning but my mind was so burdened, I was led in my spirit to watch TikTok(I thank God I did) and I found the intro that directed me to this video. Ohhh, I'm so relieved and I learnt a lot. Thank you so much❤
Glad you feel relieved. The good thing is that you can come back to watch whenever you feel this way again. It reminds you of who God is and his promises.
Goodluck in your exam!
wow... thank You Jesus!
I saw this video last year and I didn't even know I'd be saddled with the responsibility of caring for my mum till the point of passing and even planning a whole burial as the only child in Nigeria.
I was at a rational point and not an emotional one.
3 months down the line, the emotions started creeping up on me.
I remembered this podcast amidst the whole scheme of events and I honestly did stay strong.
Thank you for sharing and I hope whoever needs healing will heal too.
Going back to God,I can't believe I thought to move on without God but am going back to God 😢😢😢
Did u go back
This is ministration. the parenting/home training in this lady is pro-max! The interviewer also seems blessed !! God bless you all
I couldn't agree more. such a profound session
The nicest request to subscribe. I don subscribe😅 This interview is almost my family's story in a way. My younger brother was the overall best Law student in 2012. He was murdered by his "friends" 2 months after his call to bar. God has held my family together and has comforted us. I processed my pains in God and have healed.❤
Oh no. I'm so sorry. Whaaatttt??!!!!!
This must have been hard.
I can totally relate
Lost my dad 6years ago and my Mom 2 months ago
This interview is just for me
I really need this ❤
Thank you so much Chiamaka
We need to divorce looking towery to strength, being vulnerable is deep strength...It takes a lot of self awareness, confidence and restedness in who you are to show emotions and not to be apologetic about it....Chiamaka shared this at 25:36 👏👏👏👏👏
“You don’t process your pain outside of God”
"Being vulnerable is deep strength“
Very deep! But many people dont want to embrace this. I pray we do so we can be free. I dont know if this is just me but in the midst of great vulnerability I feel strong strength.
There is strength in vulnerability but with the right person.
Thank you Jesus, still miss my father 12 years later, especially this Easter....I long for my father and late brother...
Truly, you shouldn't hide your pain from God. Rather, that pain should bring you close to God. Press on to Him. I remember when I lost my mum, she was my only surviving parent cos my dad died years back. My mum was everything to me, but you know what? Something told me she was killed to break my spirit, because that was when I started my spiritual journey. The way my mum served the Lord and the way she died, was enough to make me lose faith in God and focus but it brought me closer to God and even though it was painful, I started to heal and grew more in my spiritual journey with Him.
Talk of Elegance,,fluency,strength, spirituality,beauty,,,Trully God does a neat Job🙏❤️.
Bless you gurls❤️.
Her love was tender but firm...
Ah what a beautiful description..
I hope my son can attest like this about me. I struggle with the firmness required as a parent.
34:00 It doesn't matter the fullness of gift..I am still under authority of the priest over my house..my husband. Look for fruit not for gift....the gift of God is without repentance.
Wow...What a super Mom and Dad indeed...this talk really blessed me.
Seeing you talk without even tearing shows a lot of healing. I’m dealing with a loss currently. Two years down the line i haven’t got enough courage to keep going. I can’t pursue my dreams again. I’m just trying to stay alive first. Adding financial struggles to it is even driving me crazy. I think I’ll draw strength from your story. God help me. God heals, he truly does.
God is with you and He will carry you through,just hold on to him. When He heals,He heals completely and totally. It's going to be ok. God is on your side and it is well with your soul❤
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The Joy of the Lord is your strength
I can imagine how she felt when her mum died. i lost my close aunt 5 years ago and the day she died, on our way to the hospital to get her death certificate i looked her and i was in shock in my mind am like "this woman wake up now stop the joke now"
I didnt cry at all for a week cause i was still processing it like can it be true. I have never lost someone close to me. the day of the burial, i was a mess once they dropped in her coffin. my emotions were all over the place
Could it not end? Haba there is a lot packed in here o, topics for days!! No this is a beautiful conversation. Please i need to know where she is ministering, this is a voice that needs to be heard in our generation today
All I can say is, "God bless you, Amaka."
Literally felt the Presence with me as I listened to her...God bless you both 🙏 🙏 🙏 🔥 🔥 🔥
"Chiamaka Ige is an envoy of healing" is all I could of listening to this conversation. Healing is possible. Healing with God is possible. Thank you so much. I'm so blessed. God bless you, Shining Light Flourish.🧡
The story of her parents made me feel a lot of emotions, I felt like I knew her parents, godly parents are truly the best gifts God can give.
Thank you for this powerful and refreshing interview. I felt God in a new and fresh way. God bless you.❤❤❤
You need to put a tissue on this table because we will be needing it.😢. This was beyond inspiring❤.
Tissue would have helped😅
@@theshininglightshow 😂
I can relate I lost my dad 2021 nd my mum this year April 😢. But all the same God is still Good
Lord God! I’m thankful for Chimamaka Ige! She’s spoken to my heart as a mother,a child of God. My heart is full😊
I have been seeing this video pop up every single time for some time now but I decided to watch today. Yes, I lost my sister last year and I miss her so much but I have learnt a few. I know I’d testify some day.
The goosebumps and the emotions … OMG! What a word!. Thank you for sharing
It is such a delight listening to Chimamaka. She's so graceful. May her tribe increase in Jesus' name!
If praying to God is Law-based and not Love -based, it becomes a chore"...... that's deep
Please, Is there another episode? I feel there is still more and that it ended abruptly. It is not a coincidence that I stumbled into this teaching. Most of this spoke to me this morning. Especially at a point where God is calling me to be vulnerable with him and I keep asking him how to do that. Ms. Amaka just simplified it for me. Wow! Tears are not enough to capture how I am feeling now. God
God, please help me to find my identity in you. I mostly do not even know who I am. I do not even know where I stand. I have been numbed and in trauma for too long that I do not even know who I am anymore. God help me 🙏
God is so intentional, this video has been in my “watch later” for sometime.. At the beginning of this month ( 1/11/23) I lost my brother suddenly, he was not sick.. its me that found him first seated in the car, thinking he is taking a nap like he had said, windows where halfway open, he did not suffocate. The whole time of the vigil and burial I looked strong to everyone. The past few days after have been really hard, its been hard to explain what exactly I feel. One of the things I knew well is that I was really discouraged thinking about how men in my family have died over the years, starting with my dad that past when I was 10yrs, then a brother, then a nephew and now this. But the words of this lady have realllyyy brought me some light. One thing that I’ve picked up is not to process my pain outside of God. It seems I had slipped into doing that and feeling like why does our family keep going through this, yet before this whole sad incident God has been preparing me by taking me deeper in prayer and spending intentional time with him. It might take a while but am encouraged that I will be okay eventually. Thank you
My goodness! Your story is so moving. Praying for complete healing for you and your family. God can totally heal you.
This was such a blessing - a very liberating session that screamed, "Grief is real, but so is our God!"
Thank you so much, Chimamaka for sharing from such a vulnerable, real and God- place.
Amazing hosting too, Flourish! I particularly love how beautifully paced and natural it was❣
I love that phrase: Grief is real but so is our God... I am already writing that in my journal and adding to it that God is greater than our grief.
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Thank you Ozioma😊
I was feeling so burdened about a school exam and watching this took it away!! Thank you Jesus 🎉❤😊
Lately my soul has been craving God and I've been on it for a while so whilst scrolling through tiktok I saw this lady talking and this is just an interview every word every smile every reaction it's a message a ministration I had to leave and come here to find out the whole gist and I must say flourish youre doing a great job thank you for starting this ❤️
This one really catch me.:
You don't process your pain outside God!
The only side you find total healing is in God !
Is so true,😢
Thank you
sometimes we used to forget
As Chiamaka made mentions of, credits to Ministers Sunmisola Agbebi and Dunsin Oyekan who penned songs that expressed and reminds us of how we should relate to our heavenly Father.
Thank you Amaka and Flourish. I did not stumble on this by mistake. I have seen things and it's a call to work on my walk with Christ in a better way. Handle pain with him, converse with him like he's just beside me, and involve him in discovering my identity. This has not only blessed me but I've taken notes from your parent's marriage that I'll need to imbibe and cultivate when mine happens. Thank you for pouring into us. One thing that stood out for me was your saying - for his strength is made perfect in my weakness. He will not judge me when I falter but rather his strength carries me. Again, this has blessed my soul. God bless you.
So Amazing!! Amen!! Thank You Jesus!!
First of she’s my name sake 🎉 I love her so much, very eloquent and I pray for her grace- her strong and calm demeanour ❤❤
Words like Heaven!!
Words from Heaven!!
Thank you! Thank you!
Blessed beyond measure.❤
Chiamaka Ige...you are beautiful...you are loaded....thank you so much
Talking about hurt doesn’t do anything it only brings more hurt!!! I felt that line. 🔥🔥🔥
It’s much more important to talk about healing as much as we talk about hurt.
This is really heavy... I felt this same shock when i lost my Mum, I stopped living, and after one year i lost my Dad... But God is the healer and i am a work in Progress. I thank God that today i can tell this story and still be happy... Like trusting God becomes so easy now.
I don't know how this channel ended up on my algorithm, but I am so grateful that it did❤🙏
I have listened to this interview i don't know how many times, now but its feels as though i am listening to it for the first time
This is beautiful, I had all emotions here especially how she mentions what offense is and how we Christians don’t talk about it but piles ups. I was in isolation season but now I am on a journey of healing.
This interview got me praying because i see the beauty of how building your personal work with God can save you and save your children and generations. 🥺🥺🥺This was a wholesome interview 😇 Thank you Mama Chiamaka and Flourish 🙏
This had been popping up on my you tube for some time an I thought "Hmm... I don't know these people and I don't think i'm interested in the topic." Today I was compelled to watch it and It was what I needed! The guest spoke with such grace, poise, and love that made the message so real and clear. I appreciate this video so much. Thank you both!
Same here
I am glad l did now
An hour and more well spent. This is so powerful
Just lost my mom recently and I'm so glad I came across this
A word in season❤ . Praying for everyone suffering in silence
Your testimony of your parents and their faith-walk stuck out to me the most. Of a truth, one’s ministry is first to the family. What would my children say about me and my relationship with God? Even when I am no longer there, would it serve to help them know the right direction to take?
My goodness! Thank you Father for leading me to this interview. Ms Ige, God bless u for allowing Him to minister to us though you.
Goodness!! Havnt being moved by a Godly conversation for so long! Jesus i know what this will do to my mindset now! My heart is yours lord! Speak father, i am ready
Walk your pain, your hurt in HIM..thank you so much Chiamaka.
This is such a profound ministration...I could cry!!🥺🥺🥺
It's still so hard for me to heal from my Dad's passing. Omo!!!!!!!!
I have never listen to such shows for an hour...wueh it's just amazing 😢😢
Wish it can have another part❤❤❤❤
God bless you guys.
This is so true. People have offended me lots of time but i use the word christian to let go. Buy deep within me I'm hurt
It is important that we pay attention to (the texture of our) hearts.
God is my point of Origin. Powerful message.
This was nothing short of amazing! Truly inspiring. I must watch this again because I there are qualities in your mother and father that I desire to develop. Thank you for sharing, Chiamaka. Just amazing! God bless you ladies.
Who is this lady? who are her parents she speak about. she is just so beautiful, full of light and i love her countenance
Thank you is all I can say! Learning to steward and process our pain in Christ Jesus. This episode holds key information on emotional intelligence as Christian. If the scripture "His strength is made known through our weakness" was a person, it is definitely Chimamaka Ige. I grabbed my tissue box and note book and came here! Thank you guys for giving us undiluted expressions of a journey to healing, and managing our emotions as a Christian.
I really enjoyed watching this. Listening to Chiamaka speak about her parents just opened my eyes even more to the ministry of parenting and its importance. Lord, help us be parents after your heart, leading our children in the right way to go! Thank you for your vulnerability, I really learnt alot even about God's fatherhood and our identity ❤
Amen
Hearing this guest speak for the first time and God, she carries so much grace. So much wisdom and knowledge of the word of God.
This video has been a blessing to me, thank you. ❤
God’s healing does a neat job like the problem never existed ❤🙏🏽
Being vulnerable is real strength. This show is highly recommended.
I don't really know how I stumbled on this show. First time seeing/ knowing you both, thank you Chimamaka. This was a therapeutic session for me. I so miss my parents but I guess one day I would be able to talk about it the way you did without much hurt. You healed well and I am proud of you journey. Thank you.
Thanks
thankyou, Jesus for letting me see this today. this is a story i literally felt myself in. maybe cos I lost my parents as well and someday i wish I can share my testimonies, growth, God, and emotions with the world, just to glorify God's name and be a source of strength for someone the way you've done to me today.💜💜💜🙏
Not letting the devil convince me that I am so alone and special and no one can relate...
This is so true... God have men everywhere. Don't allow the devil corner you. 1 Peter 5.9 is the scripture for this
I needed to hear this... I just lost my mom, three years after losing my dad. They were pastors, the most dedicated and given to the work of God. Losing my mom also same week i lost my international job. I'm at the brink of losing it cos I can't understand why all these and if this is the beautiful end he promised those who love Him! I won't lie, I've been just angry and hurt
This is very helpful, I literally watched this video very early this morning 3AM; while I was asleep I had a dream about someone I wished I would've called before going to sleep, so In the dream the person was not In her good state so, immediately I woke up and went to this my friend Dm to drop a message just to be sure she's fine, but unfortunately she was not online so I went to a friend's status and BOOM💥 I saw this. Now I realised that God literally woke me up to watch this beautiful piece. God Bless you both, Chiamaka and Flourish.❤🎉
Cheers 🍻
Being vulnerable is deep strength 🤍Thank you so much for this vulnerable video! I learnt so much. Thank you Flourish, this prospers in your hands.
Thank you so much ma,I really needed to hear this to understand that God is still working and that I will be fine. I lost both parents 2020(seven months apart),my mum's death shook me to my root,she was prayerful,I thought she didn't deserve it,but owww the growth process I went through. Just last week I lost my sister in-law again,she was a sister and a friend,my friend got into an accident,see life did not make sense anymore,I began to doubt who I was and if I really knew God,even my prayer life didn't feel right anymore,I wanted to scream at God,but I guess he needed me to listen to this. Thank you both for being a vessel
May the Lord strengthen you in your weakness. The Holy Spirit will help you through this phase of your life. Jesus has got you, stay in Him, He loves you.
Oh goodness, what a BEAUTIFUL HOUR I’ve spent with you ladies! My heart was a rollercoaster of emotions. That hug part just had me undone. In fact, you dragged me kicking and screaming to confront my parenting to my own 12 year old. I want to be like Jesus to her, to demonstrate great faith…much like Chimamaka’s mother.
Wow... this is so beautiful!! So excited to hear how the interview blessed you! May the fruits it has produced in you remain forever in Jesus name! Amen!
I pray after watching this i can heal,it hasnt bn easy since i lost my job and mum March 2023,it was sudden not expected,i couldnt reconcile how a good God can allow such a thing happen after all the prayers etc My faith has been shaky,i feel disappointed and all alone and the fact that life goes on makes tins painful.
Sorry about that Bosede. God sees you.
The Joy of the Lord is your strength
Oww she operated in the strong discerning spirit