I left Kota like 2 months ago due to self harm. As someone who can be considered a bit privileged I can't imagine the situation of students who come from a background of financial hardships or even someone with strict parents. For me my parents were my biggest supporters and they later encouraged me to follow my passion and move towards the field of law. Now I'm in a different city preparing for CLAT and other law entrance exams. I am going to have a gap year in my record but I don't regret it at all.
I had also planned to take a gap year due to some reasons, but due to peer pressure and all, I didn't, and now I regret it so much. I wish I had supportive parents :)
I was forced to drop 2 yrs for neet. I dont know what did I learn from those so called institutes but in these yrs I learned how to tackle depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. People say think of your parents before taking wrong steps and they forget that unintentionally parents and loved ones are one of the biggest reason to the disastrous decision. Not demotivating anyone but aspirants need to talk to failures rather than glorified achievers. All the best to all those who are going for competitive exams.
@@sagarjoshi10 Parties system nahi badalti because janta Ch*tiya hai, pehle ramdi rona karti hai but jab sarkar badalne ko karti hai to protest karne lagti hai
Bhaiya i am in kota right now i scored 94% in 12th and scored well in first 2 test in kota but at 3rd test i scored very low due to sickness at that day a teacher insulted me alot in front of whole batch of 300 students from that day i am very depressed and stressed you got our point and i am proudly saying i will do something big and one day i will return back to that coaching and tell them iit jee is not everything
Bhai konsi coaching mein ho😂...hum bhi kota mein 2 saal rhe hain...issi saal wapas aaya hun...kabhi nahi dekha kisi teacher ko insult karte hue dusre bachche ko....infact test ke agle din teachers result ki baat tak nahi krte hain....
Agree with** English sudhar le warna boards mein fail ho jaoge😅
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Bro ekdam sahi apne Yaha India me 95 % se bhi jayda log sirf government job ka hi dream dekhte h or ye sab Education System ki wajah se hi h [According to My Thinking] ❤
It's not only about JEE and NEET students but it's a student problem as a whole. Students of master, PhD , medical CA, UPSC, NET , GATE, govt exam, students who are passed out and are unemployed everyone is facing this problem and it should be fixed as soon as possible
As a local of Kota I can totally agree with you....coaching institutes are everywhere...the environment is so unhealthy that even if someone tries to stay positive they can't.....that situation is just so depressing ...
@@Anonymous-007yup bc kota ka locals jitna maderchod koi nhi hai bhai baccho ko kutta smjte hai aur jitna hi sake utna lutate hai But hum sabko nhi bol sakta lekin jitni ki bhi shops,auto etc. Sab lutate hai
@@Iluvsushiehain?? paisa earn karte hai? Oh my god mujhe nhi pta tha capitalism mei private tutoring institutes aisa karte hai. Coaching toh ghatiya hai hi par society aur govt ki galti bhi hai. I can tell stuff which tv news will never tell you😂
When you are from General category and from state like UP , Bihar and Rajasthan and cutoff skyrocketing to 613 / 720 in NEET UG , Private Medical college ask around 1Cr which is not possible for all . Govt of India should focus on reducing this fees .
When children are in high school, Counseling of parents should be made by management of school and teachers on one to one basis after assessing capability of students and educating parents on strengths and interests of children
11:26 onwards - Every student should listen this, no matter for which competitive exam you are preparing for. The words might sound harsh, but are definitely true. Listen to your gut instinct. If you having feelings like this course is not apt for me or I might be not able to do that good in it, then just drop it please. Don't think about money invested in it, money can be earned anytime but life is earned once. If you are having suicidal thoughts because of no matter what, go to a person and talk. It helps a lot. Ending your precious life is not a solution, you are not a failure or waste, you are just at a wrong place.
Recently I have been getting suicidal thoughts and here are the main reasons- 1.Toxic parents 2. No one to cheer or support 3. No friends (have some friends but they only use me for their work not close ) 4. Concentration is fked up 5. Fear that I can't do it and will probably fail 6. No internal satisfaction And really fear to die so yeah 👍
Mera almost aapke tarah hi situation hai aur mei koyi guru jaisa nahi bolunga bas aapko bato se relate karke mere experience se bolunga jisse maybe thoda sa aapki help hojae. Mei aapke parents ke baare mei kuch nahi bolsakta kyuki muje koyi idea nahi hai ki aapke parents exactly toxic kaise hai I have no right to talk about it. You can listen to calm songs of your type which is what I usually do when it is my sleeping time. You don't have to watch for emotional support because you will alone be responsible for your own success. Ignore those types of friends who use you for work are they even your friends then? Concentration would remain fkd up until or unless you start to actually think about yourself and of course try to engage your parents to just help you for once. If you are passionate about studying you will not fail You won't find any major satisfaction in this ride after 10th everything feels down so please try to make that one friend who is actually not a douchebag and who is genuinely supportive. Dying won't solve anything and I'm really sorry if I have been brutal but this is basically India's situation in education departments this is the bitter truth. In basic words the only supporter who will support you throughout your life till you die is your own self.
That helped a lot bro I was 14 years old when I joined aakash institute in delhi It ruined my mental status I had been suicidal for several months Thanks to god I had such supportive parents who even lost their life earning in coaching fee and stills support me in my drop year decision
Yes true now I am in kota and I feel this Reason : Backlog Parents pressure Mess harmful food Kota water High price of things High price acompudation Can't miss a single class Can't live like normal day .....and leads to high depression and anxiety but kota aaker maine rehna sekh lya and now I am a strong girl
Did my masters from IIT and I can guarantee that most of the suicides in IIT do not not even come to the media. Also, the way some professors behave is astonishing too. From calling the students illegitimate child to sexually harassing students, everything happens in IIT. Just want to say, the grass always looks greener from the other side. Do not fall for the trap of IIT is the best Institute. This Institute is a brand and makes the students (who survive) handle any situation. 😄
@@aryanm2982 it is.. The harassment part happened to me, so I can vouch for that. My only advice for you (if you get into IIT) is - stay very focused, don't question the professors and do your work silently. Your peers will be very supportive, so make friends there. Keep your ego in a box before leaving for classes. The academic pressure will be huge, but you'll survive and become a better person in the end.
In general, are MOST of the peers truly supportive? I reckon that a whopping majority of them conceal their callousness and enviousness under the decisive veneer of courtesy and cordiality. Since it's a public platform, you may refrain from answering a question like this, and it's absolutely hunky-dory.
@@harshu5670 ha Bhai chahie hota hai magar 99% log jinka nahi hua wo kya karenge tum hardwork kitna b karlo selection 1 %ka hi hoga har saal kyu seats utni hai
There have been instantances where I felt being side lines like 1. There was one teacher who said after four mock test I will make u sit according to ur marks like the first bench for toppers and last bench for student who didn't perform well 2. Our chemistry teacher only asked questions to the toppers and motivated them ...but what about students who are not good in chemistry ? They just sit quit with their eyes on the table not feeling confident ....and if an average student asks a question to the teacher before the answer There would always be insult in some or the other way 3. Telling the toppers which extra books they should buy and providing them with extra questions and pervious years questions.....but when a n average student asks which extra book should they go for ?the teacher would reply as "aap pehle ncert complete karloo" I was in Aakash for 3 years and now I can say those 3 years were the worst years of my life.....nothing in my life has demotivated me to this level There was a point in my life when I wanted to tell my parents that I don't want to got the institute but one thing that held me back from it was that if my brother can do it then why can I? Towards the end I got a lot of suicidal thoughts I would cry everynight thinking I am such a disgrace to my family I was jealous of my real brother...I use to hate when he use to come to our house during his vacations....I always felt detached from my own family members....but I didn't gave up and scored good marks in neet...even though I am not in my dream college but somewhere I am happy and confident now....to all those student who are appearing for any competitive exam I just have one advice that don't let go ur social life and don't let anyone make u feel inferior ....u are ur best version
The bitter truth is lack of seats in instituitions, and difficulty level in jee advanced increses every year due to which mostly candidates join coaching instituite from 9th standard and strats preparation for 4 years till 12th standard, and one this Difficulty in exams is directly proportional to money earning by coaching instuites. And some corruotion also main cause behind studend suicide.
2:44 I confirm. Neet Matlab Chemistry aur bio ki pura books Ratt lo...if you thoroughly memorize each and every sentence aapke 540 marks assured hai.80%theoretical questions. JEE Is different.Very less theoretical questions,more about application.The more you know concepts and it's application,the more you score.
One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔 Government should regulate the Hostel/Coaching as they pressure the student If they are late for fees submission
@@Iluvsushiestudents don't remember that half percent of the selection are due to reservation and it's very difficult for general students to get that one rank
Well done Harsh this reality check was very much needed ... I cleared neet this year and now I can say that coaching centres are the biggest reason for parents high expectation.... They glorify their teaching but in reality they are just expanding their business These institutes make the child feel like there is nothing more important than exams ....I was in Aakash jalandhar branch and few teachers were so demotivating especially to student who were average ...they just focus on their top students and give their best facilities to the toppers only but what about students who are average ? Don't they have right for improvement or the same facilities ......
Bro, you doing a great job. You educating the youth in a perfect manner, not this specific video, all the videos. The way you structure the video, while backing it up with reliable studies is amazing. Goodluck👏🏾
Thanks for this video. society itself is the problem. over expectations from child is very toxic, let child's live their life and let them choose their desired career and help them choosing it not forcing
It's not only done in India It's also done in Nepal and other neighbors country on India. I'm from Nepal & Buaa's is from Delhi and her son is an IITina. when ever she call to my dad she use to tell about her son a lot only. she tells after bachelor my son is going to get 20 lakh package, 1 cr package blaa blaa blaa. My family pressure me to visit kota for Jee preparation and see I'm now in kota doing preparation of Jee. Even I'm interested in Science but due to family pressure I'm here. I don't know what next happens to me in my future but I'm sure I'm not going to do suicide at any cost.
My parents are not toxic actually they never forced me to prepare for jee it was my sole decision and so was coming to kota but after coming here i have lost my interest in studies it's been one month only but i can't focus much my mother tells me to study everytime and not make much friends and even restricts me from going anywhere but she still says if the pressure is too much come back. But this actually hurts knowing that you chose this career option yourself and not having any interest in it. Sometimes i just cry and cry but can't share it with my parents because my mom is very emotional she'll ask me to come back instead of motivating
It's not just Kota, I went to study for jee at a very known institute of a city, studied in the top batch but the pressure given by the institute was insane, they will make you do anything for top AIRs, they pretend they care about students but they also give 100% to destroy student's mental health, they tell you to attend every lecture even if you are so sick to get out of the bed.
Honestly sorry that I can't sympathize with you cuz it's partly your fault for not having a thick skin. Blaming it on mental health are just excuses cuz you also know that they were doing that for your own good
As a experienced ex neet aspirants believe me neet is not everything I realised this thing only this year just live for your loved ones not for neet ❤😊
I am in kota previous year preparing for neet. Mai kota gaya tha apna sapne leke kii KGMU jaunga agli saal aur mai iss saal KGMU jaa bhi raha hu lekin admission lene nhi balki har mahine apne headache kii medicine lene joo mujhe kota me mila hai. I SUGGEST EVERY PARENTS TO DON'T SEND THEIR CHILDREN'S TO KOTA FOR ANY PREPARATION OR THEY LOST THEIR CHILDREN PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY.
Hey i am a resident doctor at KGMU and don't feel low life is just Like ECG reading ups ad down failure and success is part of process and about headache migraine come on Monday i will try to meet you and get to the neuro department straight aay
this video was too fine ,but as a jee aspirant i can confirm teachers are not just teachers they treat us like mentors , shout out to nkc , vj, skm, ag , alakh, gb, pankaj sir
each and every word said by him is accurate and on point, this video was much needed ! and this is coming from a guy who left his corporate career to pursue youtube, he is happy and as he said, success comes with patience. If he wouldn't have moved on from his low academic marks, we wouldn't have been able to see this side of harsh, and it takes alot of guts to leave a job for yt, so im proud of him and he himself is an example! so dont worry, life will give u many opportunities...life doesn't revolved around a single exam..keep going, there's a lot still left.
A lot of people think ki Kota bhej denge to selection ho jaega, but Aisa Bilkul Bhi nhi hai. Hostels, specially in Kota just adds unnecessary pressure on students. Preparing at home Is way better than going Kota.
I was in Kota last year in 4th phase of PW , nd one year dropper and new student for jee unfortunately I got only 7 months for both attempts and didn't able to crack my jee exam and got only 88.7 percentile I really suffered a lot there due to unavailability of teachers due to which I did prepare by my self using online and I am middle class really going through a lot and from last three months taking pills to comfert my self and now going to some private college. Home some day my days will be good in sha allah and I will overcome my depression and will do good in my lyf , due to money reasons I can't drop more .
to all aspirants lemme tell u I cleared JEE advanced with 7k rank and mains with approx same rank. currently I am pursuing Btech in IT from IIIT Gwalior. after spending 2 years here, I can tell u one thing , after some years it doesnt depends where u studied. I know many people from pvt clg who are doing way better than us and also some IITians and IIITians that ruined their life on drugs and smoking. SO in long term it doesnt matters whether u study in IIT/NIT/IIIT, but what matters is the hardwork u are doing in these 2 years, if u maintained this hardwork even after jee, believe me there is no limit to your success..
Medical is the new engineering, 80% marks se bhi zyda kuch nhi hota unka, aur abhi june mei 1 suicide hua tha kyunki 3-4 bf the aur bf ko pta chal gya ek dusre ke bare mei aur ghar wale bhi strict the, phir vo bf pareshan/balckmail kar rahe the. Coaching toh ghatiya hai logo ki upbringing aur society bhi toh achhi nhi hai. Ye aspect news mei kabhi nhi ayegi kyunki mafia mafia karne se logo ko views aur trp milti hai😂 Coaching are too responsible, usually the arrogant younger teachers especially in allen. It's quite shitty that some teachers/students just cyberbully or some shit like asking minor girls if they are sexually active or catcall. It's just disappointing the way our society is structured because the victims are usually scared of involving in 'unnecessary drama'. To be fair what you said is said by most the experienced teachers and some of the younger ones are usually arrogant and egoistic The thing with private clg in medical field is that it's too expensive and thus people feel pressurized
Finaly someone said this....even my brother from BHU IIT said the same thing....he found that he was not at all interested in engineering and hence somehow managed to stay there.....but wasted his life although his IIT tag somehow saved him in his professional life
In India everyone wants naukri but nobody wants to learn the subjects completely, most of the students lack the practical knowledge and skills. The students are treated like a product not human beings
Brother uske liye teachers bhi matter karte hai...personally mene face kiya jab teachers mere doubt sunte tak nhi theh.... PS I belongs to a highly reputed school of Rajasthan...🙂🤐
Not just Kota students, even non Kota students suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. I myself was a JEE aspirant(not from Kota) and I can confirm this.
Yup but other cities has some different environment too But kota is something different here whole environment is only of competitive exam from a shopkeeper to chai wala everyone talks about exams only😢
@@Henji235 I understand their situation. One of my friends is in Kota for JEE drop year, he said that environment here is so competitive like you feel pressurized by yourself.
Everyone has talent in different fields, and people should start to respect all fields, being a doctor or an engineer is not the only way to succeed in life.
the similar situation is in some north indian communities with regards to visa approval. the stigma is the same it’s just instead of IITs and NITs its Canada america Australia
Being an aspirant is really tough. I was also a medical aspirant (not an indian, so i dont know much about kota.. But i had also suffered alot.. Its a very big buisness.. and manipulation happens a lot to take money from students.. after working hard for 4 years (1 drop year and 1 year lost for covid in our country ) i quit everything and joined arts.. A lot of my beliefs were changed after that.. The suicidal feeling is not unusual.. the whole damn preparation phase isolates you from the entire world.. so you start getting delusional and start feeling like nothing exists beyond medical college..
11:38 Is Too Relatable ❤ I Got Good Marks In IIT And AIEEE Entrances After My 12th But I Thought To Improve My Marks In Next Attempt After Coaching Which Got Worse Yes Peer Pressure Is The Main Stress To A Student's Mind
As an aspirant, I've been facing all this currently! I completely agree with your every single point. LITERALLY EVERY POINT🙂. All this is very heartbreaking 💔🙃 no one will ever understand this unless they've been actually to this phase Don't know when all these judgments will stop
Yes, You are absolutely right bhaiya I am also in kota if someone is listening to me then please don't send your child,brother or friend to kota . Keep them in front of yourself.
Born and brought up in Kota, I've always seen all these in air. That too in an area where most students live. My house itself is let out to 15 students. My mother makes sure that they are doing good and treats them like their own child. Not advertising my house, just telling how owners of rooms/pg can also contribute to improving Kota's environment as responsible citizens.
Ye parents ke pressure ke wajah se..hota hai jisko emotional blackmail kehte hai...jaise ki apke mother father apko baar baar apni pareshani batate rahenge...jisse aap frustrate ho jayenge..aur aap ki pareshani bhi aise jo aap kisi ko bata nahi ...sakte..tab apke paas ek solution bachta hai suicide...
me kota me hu 11th (jee) mai unn sabhi students ko yeh advice dena chahta hu ki aggr aapka interest uss subject mai nahi h to peer pressure me uski prep karne kota kabhi mt aana , kyuki tum kota aaoge tumhara interest hi nahi rahega to padhai me mnn nahi lagega or tum class bunk chalu krr doge but 4-5 months bitne ke baad tum apne aap ko worthless samjhoge and galat thought aayenge and now u can see the situation of kota. so please choose your intrest by your choice non of your parent choice thanks
जब हम लोग स्कूल में थे वो समय बहुत बढ़िया था अब तो स्कूल एक धंधा बन चुका है 😢 शुक्र है कि अब हम स्कूल में नहीं है लेकिन हमारी आने वाली पीढ़ी की ही चिंता रहती है 😢
Being a student of Kota I can tell you, please go to Kota only if you want. Don't go to Kota by taking pressure of parents. I myself told my parents to go to Kota, I was not told by anyone and now I am in IIIT Kancheepuram
Kota was so depressing for me , you have to face the pressure of parents and also of teachers if you failed to score good marks in test . Teacher's mainly focus on the topper student who can get them rank and demotivate other student. Finally feeling relief after leaving kota .
Government ko Baaki "Government Colleges" Ki level sudharne ki bhi jarurat hai . Agar India mai Saare Colleges ka Curriculum High class hai , Campus IIT's level ka hai toh kon ki Faltu mai IIT's ke peeche suicide krega. IIT's ko hi glorify krne se hi suicides hote hai IIT's sirf 17k seats provide krti hai .Usse kai guna jyada Government College ki seats vacant jaati .Uski Quality mai sudhar krna chahiye usse competition bhi kaaphi kmm hongi aur Job opportunities jyada honge
I am from kota And mai real me bohot serious hu preparation ko leke Aur mere parents bhi mujhe kbhi pressurise nii krte But mujhe yha pe itna pressure feel hota hai ki mai kya hi btau Har time iit iit and iit I really i mean really depressed in every single time of my preparation 😢😭😭😥 Agar koi preparation krna bhi cahta h na toh mai unhe advise karunga ki discipline me rehke khud se study kro book se hi kyuki coaching bohot bohot bekar jagah hai yaha pe top batch ka toh shi hi h but regular batch waalo ka halat kharab ho jaata hai Agar tum top batch me nii jaa paye fir toh preparation krna bohot problematic and pressurising hota hai
I remember when my father said beta I wish you best of luck for your future but when you feel like to leave your job you can leave we are not forcing you" I was so relieved to know that if someday I want to leave I can because of my parents and family 😊 ❤️
Main first asian finalist thi jisne unicef ka ek project mein Naam banaaya tha. India aake, INDIA aake pata chala sirf quota hi matter karta hai. kuch nahi mila, JNU se masters karke wapas chali gayi. Aaj inventor hu aur Phd mein hu.
I'm from nit, i think government ko companies pe restriction lgani chahiye ki wo on campus placement pe na jaye, on campus placement band kar seni chahiye aur companies ko ek comman platform bnana chahiye placement ke liye jha par sabhi college ke students apply kar sak. Aise karne se sabhi students iit jee ka picha shoad denge aur sirf research oriented students hi iit/nit jayegnge
As someone who is now tackling neet pg..i'm very satisfied to have never gone to Kota or destroyed my formative years in any way.. Hope to continue doing the same in neet pg as well.
Just wanna guide my junior prep for jee .....Take competition in healthy way , it short term stress......AFTER CLEARING ADV , IIT WILL RETURN U IN 2 MONTHS THE PRIZE OF THAT STRESS ❤
As a neet aspirant I'm sure about my Career,,,, If anything happens with me I'm pretty sure about changing path . I'm not that fake aspirant who will take 8 drops just to get into mbbs
Absolutely true. Even I almost became a Dr. My parents thankfully, always encouraged me to follow my passion and to do what I actually enjoy. Even our school was different. The founder of the school personally new Rabindranath Tagore and was inspired by his teachings. The Principal always encouraged us to do what we love and not follow the herd. I am so blessed to have grown up in such an environment. Now I have my own 3D animation studio, which I always wanted. Still, some relatives and people around me always say directly or indirectly that I could have done much better as a Dr. Its true that I don't earn nearly as much as I would have if I went to IITs but at the end of the day, I love what I do and slowly and surely I am confident that my venture will grow bigger.
I didn't wanted to take pressure that's why i left the school after 5th class. And guess what today i am earning even more than degree holders. In my early age i saw jethalal left the school after 5th class, this gave me idea and i opened Electronics shop. 🙏
Being an engineering student from tier 3 college who couldn't clear iit, I can surely say that whether you crack IIT or not ultimately your hard work and passion towards a certain field will make you successful and I mean it... Engineering sab same hai uske baad kya karoge wo socho 😊
Bro I think u haven't gone through the society and it's mindset. My cousin is IITian and I still remember whenever someone ask him what he is doing he replies BTech then everyone had a smile on their face but when he says that BTech from IIT everyone in room turns serious in just a second. Even today many of my seniors from school have persuaded BTech from tier 3 colleges or private colleges like LPU and CU but the school board bears the name of ex students who got selected into IIT and NIT. Moreover in private or tier 3 colleges the maximum package goes around 20lpa but in Gen 1 IITs the median package goes upto 25lpa and the highest in crores that makes the difference. Wether u accept it or not but an engineer isn't respected in India until he's an IITian or NITian .
@@hardiksharma9341 yeah I agree that iit has its glory and prestige... I'm talking about those who can't get into it but still manage to get high paid jobs through hard work and passion... So don't get demotivate and work in right direction
@@Zoro_9SwordStyle yeah I too admit that. I m just showing you the face of our society. A non IIT engineer isn't given that amount of respect as an IITian. Yeah there are very good options like BITS Pilani, IIIT H&B, Thapar but non of them is as regarded as IIT/NIT
Though i cracked IIT back in 2022, without going to kota just prepared from youtube and self study since my finacial situation was not good it took a lot of hardwork,dedication i also was getting depressed sometime but my desire to get into IIT was so strong that i stood against all odds and made it so never give up on your dream your time will come 👍
BHaiya Ap ka khna Bilkul shi hai But kota me Kai ese Institute hai jo Shiksha ke sath sath Students ka pura pura dhyan rkhte hai .........kafi Acha Environment provide krwate hai ... Because I m fully satisfied with motion 💯😍😍😍
2 years Ago I was suffering but my parents and one old teacher was highly supportive towards me . I am pursuing B.Pharm From Dehradun but have learned so much that even being a doctor could not have done.
I will be graduating next yr from Engineering. During 2020 COVID lockdown even I was diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder due to JEE exams. Till today I'm having anti depressants !! I wil die but will never forget those painful days 🥺
One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔
The problem is we as lower-income families have little and dreams of having more and for that when we get into the streets of competition with very little knowledge and patience and then we get frustrated with failures because we chose the right path but didn't get the right guidance and right support to walk on that path and then that path either leads to death and if we get lucky, we change the path and get some hope to live but now with different dreams but same old frustrations of having little.
Bro I'm also in 12th Not doing any Of these jee iit courses Coz i know this is just shit , bit the teachers and parents always demotivate me as I don't opt for it and I'm not even interested in it now, What I'm interested in is 3d works and VFX But you know no one supports us Fu*k Education System
@@idk-69247 that's how society treat those who persue something different, I'm also interested in animation but ya I also feel confused and self doubt but that's part of Journy would recommend to follow your passion or you may regret later. Huh l should also work on my passion. Good luck to you!
@@idk-69247can understand u bro but in my case my Mom supports me to do what ever I want so I don't have any pressure of doing any iit or medical that's for sure
I can confirm that that when I got 80k rank in jee mains so got very depressed and didn't study for 1month and then got 23k rank in advance In short Never Give Up.
@@ajain2603 bsdk never give up ka kya matlab h misinformation faila raha h mc anpad Bhai mains me gen cat me agar 98.5 nahi aaate to kuch nahi h available aur adv me acchi rank 5k se start h theek and agar koi sc st ya obc h to Kam karle percentile and bhai jo internet pe har cheez Jo user ne public kardi h uspe comment Kara Jaa sakta h fir pucha kisi ne terko ye comment karne ko
The thing is till tenth syllabus is not hard . A lot of students get good percent and are overconfident. Then their expectations increase and when they enter 11th they are completely shattered seeing the difficult course. Problem is that indian goverment is making 10th syllabus easy so that literacy rate increases but they dont think about the aftermath of mental trauma student face in 11th and 12th
Very true. I am an engineer but working as a freelance data scientist. Even though I am earning 3 times of an engineer in Google but still facing challenges in marriage because that's how society thinks. They think of getting into a good college and then a secure job. But economy has grown so much that even gig workers like me get immense work opportunities.
❤❤thank you brother. I was preparing for neet for mbbs. And I thought that there is mbbs only for a successful life . Even right now some where I feel lost . Right not I'm giving cat and then I will do my mba . From a good college hope so I get out of that zone soon enough 😅
I am preparing for JEE 2024 and tbh I am proud of myself because I don't share same mindset as of my classmates and competitors...they only care about "rank" and "percentile" whereas I only and only care about depth knowledge of physics and math as I wanna pursue them as main subjects....maybe it's just my self endurance because I am just used to be depressed and hyped up most of the time as I am a bipolar...I hope students will soon realize that rank and IITian's tag doesnot decided their future at all...
Bhaiya I will tell you one of the very big reason why people get mad on colleges is that due to curriculum in our school and then coaching most of the students lost all there other hobbies that usually led them to believe this is what they meant to be.[ I am in similar situation I don not have any other skill scare to start learning anything new at 19 in order of fear that what if if I fail?
All we need is "beta jo acha lagta hai wo karo, hum tumhare saath hai".. successful and unsuccessful people are in every field... why not live a humble life and do what you love doing
2021 = 16 lakh students 2022 = 18 lakh 2023 = 21 lakh so what is the numbers in 2024 and seats are only 1 - 1.5 lakh so what 19.5 lakh students will do I think government should make population control law first
Today's situation is not hard but Today's generation is weak I am from also kota but obslutely allen is pressurising the student by dividing topper and average student it's so bad
Why only educational pattern is being blamed,instead why can't we have more government colleges of equal importance and low cutoffs . It's like state government colleges
True... Just follow your own mind... You will be in a better place.. Also don't get into wrong Grp... It will ruin your life... Better stay... Unsuccessful for years.. Rather than a ruined adult.. It will destroy you mentally..
As I'm an Allenite and a jee aspirant, agree with all points Harsh told us, after these activities students done so far, now these institutes planning fun days every week and student teacher meetings, which is too good decision and yaa, by these steps by institutes really giving satisfaction and I'm literally feeling relaxed
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I left Kota like 2 months ago due to self harm. As someone who can be considered a bit privileged I can't imagine the situation of students who come from a background of financial hardships or even someone with strict parents.
For me my parents were my biggest supporters and they later encouraged me to follow my passion and move towards the field of law.
Now I'm in a different city preparing for CLAT and other law entrance exams. I am going to have a gap year in my record but I don't regret it at all.
Happy to hear that you are following your passion. Gl for CLAT or any other exam you give
@@DeepanshVGI?
@@swanandiapar6040 good luck = GL
Best decision ever fr
I had also planned to take a gap year due to some reasons, but due to peer pressure and all, I didn't, and now I regret it so much. I wish I had supportive parents :)
I was forced to drop 2 yrs for neet. I dont know what did I learn from those so called institutes but in these yrs I learned how to tackle depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. People say think of your parents before taking wrong steps and they forget that unintentionally parents and loved ones are one of the biggest reason to the disastrous decision. Not demotivating anyone but aspirants need to talk to failures rather than glorified achievers. All the best to all those who are going for competitive exams.
Hats off to this comment🎉
Completely agree to your words
Bro I also did 2drops from Kota , I went into anxiety, depression, mental tensions and suicidal thoughts......
@@Fisheslover5 what are you doing now
Dont blame institute tum chutiye ho jo dhang se padh nahi paaya.
Indian education system needs to be revise and improved its high time we need that !
Mera hogaya first attempt mbbs kal se start hai hostel jana phati padi hai
@@Stronggandwise best of luck 👍
@@Stronggandwisekisi ne puch tere se lavde
Education system nhi college mein seats badhana chahiye
@@sagarjoshi10 Parties system nahi badalti because janta Ch*tiya hai, pehle ramdi rona karti hai but jab sarkar badalne ko karti hai to protest karne lagti hai
Bhaiya i am in kota right now i scored 94% in 12th and scored well in first 2 test in kota but at 3rd test i scored very low due to sickness at that day a teacher insulted me alot in front of whole batch of 300 students from that day i am very depressed and stressed you got our point and i am proudly saying i will do something big and one day i will return back to that coaching and tell them iit jee is not everything
are bhai konsi buliding mai ho mai to 2 sal sa kota hu ajtak nhi dekha kisi teacher ko specific ek baccha ko datate hua
@@Henji235 ham 5 bacho ki insult ki thi ki in bacho ka koi dost bhi h kya no. Nahi aate toh chod do tumhare bas ka nahi h rhene do
Bhai konsi coaching mein ho😂...hum bhi kota mein 2 saal rhe hain...issi saal wapas aaya hun...kabhi nahi dekha kisi teacher ko insult karte hue dusre bachche ko....infact test ke agle din teachers result ki baat tak nahi krte hain....
@@merrccyyyyyyyy Allen
@@merrccyyyyyyyy Allen main SR sir ne
Being a student of kota and Neet aspirant I can agree all points of Harsh Bhai 👍
bro survived the gulag!
Same jee me bhi same hai
Agree with**
English sudhar le warna boards mein fail ho jaoge😅
Bro ekdam sahi apne Yaha India me 95 % se bhi jayda log sirf government job ka hi dream dekhte h or ye sab Education System ki wajah se hi h [According to My Thinking] ❤
Abe ja na behrn k lwde jake pdhai kr
It's not only about JEE and NEET students but it's a student problem as a whole. Students of master, PhD , medical CA, UPSC, NET , GATE, govt exam, students who are passed out and are unemployed everyone is facing this problem and it should be fixed as soon as possible
As a local of Kota I can totally agree with you....coaching institutes are everywhere...the environment is so unhealthy that even if someone tries to stay positive they can't.....that situation is just so depressing ...
Kota ki local v studento se paisa lotte hai , ap v zimedar ho...
@@Anonymous-007yup bc kota ka locals jitna maderchod koi nhi hai bhai baccho ko kutta smjte hai aur jitna hi sake utna lutate hai
But hum sabko nhi bol sakta lekin jitni ki bhi shops,auto etc. Sab lutate hai
@@Anonymous-007 Kota me coaching business ban chuka hai. Sab students ke through Paisa earn karna chahte hai
Buddy same in Kakadeo😅
@@Iluvsushiehain?? paisa earn karte hai? Oh my god mujhe nhi pta tha capitalism mei private tutoring institutes aisa karte hai. Coaching toh ghatiya hai hi par society aur govt ki galti bhi hai. I can tell stuff which tv news will never tell you😂
When you are from General category and from state like UP , Bihar and Rajasthan and cutoff skyrocketing to 613 / 720 in NEET UG , Private Medical college ask around 1Cr which is not possible for all . Govt of India should focus on reducing this fees .
When children are in high school, Counseling of parents should be made by management of school and teachers on one to one basis after assessing capability of students and educating parents on strengths and interests of children
11:26 onwards - Every student should listen this, no matter for which competitive exam you are preparing for. The words might sound harsh, but are definitely true.
Listen to your gut instinct. If you having feelings like this course is not apt for me or I might be not able to do that good in it, then just drop it please. Don't think about money invested in it, money can be earned anytime but life is earned once. If you are having suicidal thoughts because of no matter what, go to a person and talk. It helps a lot. Ending your precious life is not a solution, you are not a failure or waste, you are just at a wrong place.
Education system ki to lagi padi hai....but fir bi parents ka support bhot important hai.... Proud to have such parents ❤
Recently I have been getting suicidal thoughts and here are the main reasons-
1.Toxic parents
2. No one to cheer or support
3. No friends (have some friends but they only use me for their work not close )
4. Concentration is fked up
5. Fear that I can't do it and will probably fail
6. No internal satisfaction
And really fear to die so yeah 👍
Leave that place as soon as possible take the help from police as soon as possible
@@romirhyme we live in India things don't work like this here and yet I have got social anxiety
Don't use your phone much , especially if u r a boy then don't go to "those" sites , things may become better
@@PARTH_669 I don't just a bit youtube
Mera almost aapke tarah hi situation hai aur mei koyi guru jaisa nahi bolunga bas aapko bato se relate karke mere experience se bolunga jisse maybe thoda sa aapki help hojae.
Mei aapke parents ke baare mei kuch nahi bolsakta kyuki muje koyi idea nahi hai ki aapke parents exactly toxic kaise hai I have no right to talk about it.
You can listen to calm songs of your type which is what I usually do when it is my sleeping time.
You don't have to watch for emotional support because you will alone be responsible for your own success. Ignore those types of friends who use you for work are they even your friends then?
Concentration would remain fkd up until or unless you start to actually think about yourself and of course try to engage your parents to just help you for once.
If you are passionate about studying you will not fail
You won't find any major satisfaction in this ride after 10th everything feels down so please try to make that one friend who is actually not a douchebag and who is genuinely supportive.
Dying won't solve anything and I'm really sorry if I have been brutal but this is basically India's situation in education departments this is the bitter truth.
In basic words the only supporter who will support you throughout your life till you die is your own self.
That helped a lot bro
I was 14 years old when I joined aakash institute in delhi
It ruined my mental status
I had been suicidal for several months
Thanks to god I had such supportive parents who even lost their life earning in coaching fee and stills support me in my drop year decision
Yes true now I am in kota and I feel this
Reason : Backlog
Parents pressure
Mess harmful food
Kota water
High price of things
High price acompudation
Can't miss a single class
Can't live like normal day
.....and leads to high depression and anxiety but kota aaker maine rehna sekh lya and now I am a strong girl
I remember people calling me
DR . SAHAB even before I cleared neet , I can't share how traumatizing it was
Nalla insaan
@@Anonymous-007😑😑
True brother😢 expectations badhate jaate hai aur hum uss pressure me niche ghaste jaate hai
@@Anonymous-007 actually I have cleared NEET ..so who is nalla insaan ...guess
@@Bhupender_singh_sigma male
Did my masters from IIT and I can guarantee that most of the suicides in IIT do not not even come to the media. Also, the way some professors behave is astonishing too. From calling the students illegitimate child to sexually harassing students, everything happens in IIT. Just want to say, the grass always looks greener from the other side. Do not fall for the trap of IIT is the best Institute. This Institute is a brand and makes the students (who survive) handle any situation. 😄
From Which iit???
@@CbumX6 kgp
Hey is this really true?? Because if it is then it's all so fucked up. I'm gonna be giving jee this year and for what then???
@@aryanm2982 it is.. The harassment part happened to me, so I can vouch for that. My only advice for you (if you get into IIT) is - stay very focused, don't question the professors and do your work silently. Your peers will be very supportive, so make friends there. Keep your ego in a box before leaving for classes. The academic pressure will be huge, but you'll survive and become a better person in the end.
In general, are MOST of the peers truly supportive? I reckon that a whopping majority of them conceal their callousness and enviousness under the decisive veneer of courtesy and cordiality. Since it's a public platform, you may refrain from answering a question like this, and it's absolutely hunky-dory.
हमारे यहां लोग टैलेंट की इज्जत नहीं करते इसीलिए हमारे देश में अधिकतर लोग iit, neet, sarkari naukari के पीछे भाग रहे हैं
In sb exams m rank laane ke liye bhi hard work aur talent chahiye hota h...
@@harshu5670 ha Bhai chahie hota hai magar 99% log jinka nahi hua wo kya karenge tum hardwork kitna b karlo selection 1 %ka hi hoga har saal kyu seats utni hai
28 sal k ho gye govt job ki teyari krte hue...Anxiety depression sab ho gya h...
True 😢
@@mrbeanclips9868 ha bhai pr hr field m competition to h hi chahe koi sa bhi ho...
There have been instantances where I felt being side lines like
1. There was one teacher who said after four mock test I will make u sit according to ur marks like the first bench for toppers and last bench for student who didn't perform well
2. Our chemistry teacher only asked questions to the toppers and motivated them ...but what about students who are not good in chemistry ? They just sit quit with their eyes on the table not feeling confident ....and if an average student asks a question to the teacher before the answer There would always be insult in some or the other way
3. Telling the toppers which extra books they should buy and providing them with extra questions and pervious years questions.....but when a n average student asks which extra book should they go for ?the teacher would reply as "aap pehle ncert complete karloo"
I was in Aakash for 3 years and now I can say those 3 years were the worst years of my life.....nothing in my life has demotivated me to this level
There was a point in my life when I wanted to tell my parents that I don't want to got the institute but one thing that held me back from it was that if my brother can do it then why can I?
Towards the end I got a lot of suicidal thoughts I would cry everynight thinking I am such a disgrace to my family
I was jealous of my real brother...I use to hate when he use to come to our house during his vacations....I always felt detached from my own family members....but I didn't gave up and scored good marks in neet...even though I am not in my dream college but somewhere I am happy and confident now....to all those student who are appearing for any competitive exam I just have one advice that don't let go ur social life and don't let anyone make u feel inferior ....u are ur best version
After reading your full comment i can for sure say one thing you made it happen bro ,
Are u studying in government medical College??
@@Pratiksingh3 yeah
@@JahaanDosanjhcongrats bro don't know why but feeling so happy for you
@@unknownhacker8223 😊
The bitter truth is lack of seats in instituitions, and difficulty level in jee advanced increses every year due to which mostly candidates join coaching instituite from 9th standard and strats preparation for 4 years till 12th standard, and one this Difficulty in exams is directly proportional to money earning by coaching instuites. And some corruotion also main cause behind studend suicide.
2:44 I confirm.
Neet Matlab Chemistry aur bio ki pura books Ratt lo...if you thoroughly memorize each and every sentence aapke 540 marks assured hai.80%theoretical questions.
JEE Is different.Very less theoretical questions,more about application.The more you know concepts and it's application,the more you score.
One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔
Government should regulate the Hostel/Coaching as they pressure the student If they are late for fees submission
Point to hein
Yea a fail in exam is not just an academic fail but also failing to perform for parents. Which is just so depressing
Still not saying ki vo school itne achhe kare ki coaching ki jaroorat na pade .
@@Iluvsushiestudents don't remember that half percent of the selection are due to reservation and it's very difficult for general students to get that one rank
Isiliye I think online best option h
Well done Harsh this reality check was very much needed ...
I cleared neet this year and now I can say that coaching centres are the biggest reason for parents high expectation....
They glorify their teaching but in reality they are just expanding their business
These institutes make the child feel like there is nothing more important than exams ....I was in Aakash jalandhar branch and few teachers were so demotivating especially to student who were average ...they just focus on their top students and give their best facilities to the toppers only but what about students who are average ? Don't they have right for improvement or the same facilities ......
Bro, you doing a great job. You educating the youth in a perfect manner, not this specific video, all the videos. The way you structure the video, while backing it up with reliable studies is amazing. Goodluck👏🏾
Thanks for this video.
society itself is the problem.
over expectations from child is very toxic, let child's live their life and let them choose their desired career and help them choosing it not forcing
Problem isnt education system its just too much competition and population
It's not only done in India It's also done in Nepal and other neighbors country on India. I'm from Nepal & Buaa's is from Delhi and her son is an IITina. when ever she call to my dad she use to tell about her son a lot only. she tells after bachelor my son is going to get 20 lakh package, 1 cr package blaa blaa blaa. My family pressure me to visit kota for Jee preparation and see I'm now in kota doing preparation of Jee. Even I'm interested in Science but due to family pressure I'm here. I don't know what next happens to me in my future but I'm sure I'm not going to do suicide at any cost.
My parents are not toxic actually they never forced me to prepare for jee it was my sole decision and so was coming to kota but after coming here i have lost my interest in studies it's been one month only but i can't focus much my mother tells me to study everytime and not make much friends and even restricts me from going anywhere but she still says if the pressure is too much come back. But this actually hurts knowing that you chose this career option yourself and not having any interest in it. Sometimes i just cry and cry but can't share it with my parents because my mom is very emotional she'll ask me to come back instead of motivating
It's not just Kota, I went to study for jee at a very known institute of a city, studied in the top batch but the pressure given by the institute was insane, they will make you do anything for top AIRs, they pretend they care about students but they also give 100% to destroy student's mental health, they tell you to attend every lecture even if you are so sick to get out of the bed.
Honestly sorry that I can't sympathize with you cuz it's partly your fault for not having a thick skin. Blaming it on mental health are just excuses cuz you also know that they were doing that for your own good
As a experienced ex neet aspirants believe me neet is not everything I realised this thing only this year just live for your loved ones not for neet ❤😊
I am in kota previous year preparing for neet. Mai kota gaya tha apna sapne leke kii KGMU jaunga agli saal aur mai iss saal KGMU jaa bhi raha hu lekin admission lene nhi balki har mahine apne headache kii medicine lene joo mujhe kota me mila hai. I SUGGEST EVERY PARENTS TO DON'T SEND THEIR CHILDREN'S TO KOTA FOR ANY PREPARATION OR THEY LOST THEIR CHILDREN PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY.
Hey i am a resident doctor at KGMU and don't feel low life is just Like ECG reading ups ad down failure and success is part of process and about headache migraine come on Monday i will try to meet you and get to the neuro department straight aay
@@Dr.Abhinav_ sir I m 28yrs wanted to give neet exam , is there any discrimination in college regarding age ?? Or pursuing medicine ,
this video was too fine ,but as a jee aspirant i can confirm teachers are not just teachers they treat us like mentors , shout out to nkc , vj, skm, ag , alakh, gb, pankaj sir
Nkc sir solos all but I hate unacademy for no reason
Yeahhh gb Sir skm and vj sir are legends
Pankaj sir ko goli maro 10 students toh pw vidyapeeth se maare h
Bekar teacher h pw meh ek bacha toh hmare class ka hee h
@@niggasinkanpur yeah unacademy is expensive
@@ruchisaraswat7380 apni kaksha?
each and every word said by him is accurate and on point, this video was much needed !
and this is coming from a guy who left his corporate career to pursue youtube, he is happy and as he said, success comes with patience. If he wouldn't have moved on from his low academic marks, we wouldn't have been able to see this side of harsh, and it takes alot of guts to leave a job for yt, so im proud of him and he himself is an example! so dont worry, life will give u many opportunities...life doesn't revolved around a single exam..keep going, there's a lot still left.
A lot of people think ki Kota bhej denge to selection ho jaega, but Aisa Bilkul Bhi nhi hai. Hostels, specially in Kota just adds unnecessary pressure on students. Preparing at home Is way better than going Kota.
Bache pe depend karta hai bhai
@@nishchhal-zb4xc Haan wo Bhi hai
किसी छोटे शहर में जाकर कर लो पर कोटा में जाना याने जो बंदा मोटिवेटेड होगा वो भी डिप्रेस्ड हो जाएगा
I was in Kota last year in 4th phase of PW , nd one year dropper and new student for jee unfortunately I got only 7 months for both attempts and didn't able to crack my jee exam and got only 88.7 percentile I really suffered a lot there due to unavailability of teachers due to which I did prepare by my self using online and I am middle class really going through a lot and from last three months taking pills to comfert my self and now going to some private college. Home some day my days will be good in sha allah and I will overcome my depression and will do good in my lyf , due to money reasons I can't drop more .
Challenges and hardships are part of life , they either break you so bad you can't recover, or mold you so strong you can never be broken .
to all aspirants lemme tell u I cleared JEE advanced with 7k rank and mains with approx same rank. currently I am pursuing Btech in IT from IIIT Gwalior.
after spending 2 years here, I can tell u one thing , after some years it doesnt depends where u studied.
I know many people from pvt clg who are doing way better than us and also some IITians and IIITians that ruined their life on drugs and smoking.
SO in long term it doesnt matters whether u study in IIT/NIT/IIIT,
but what matters is the hardwork u are doing in these 2 years, if u maintained this hardwork even after jee, believe me there is no limit to your success..
@@raghunandan4914 SMART. REALLY SMART!
Medical is the new engineering, 80% marks se bhi zyda kuch nhi hota unka, aur abhi june mei 1 suicide hua tha kyunki 3-4 bf the aur bf ko pta chal gya ek dusre ke bare mei aur ghar wale bhi strict the, phir vo bf pareshan/balckmail kar rahe the. Coaching toh ghatiya hai logo ki upbringing aur society bhi toh achhi nhi hai. Ye aspect news mei kabhi nhi ayegi kyunki mafia mafia karne se logo ko views aur trp milti hai😂
Coaching are too responsible, usually the arrogant younger teachers especially in allen. It's quite shitty that some teachers/students just cyberbully or some shit like asking minor girls if they are sexually active or catcall. It's just disappointing the way our society is structured because the victims are usually scared of involving in 'unnecessary drama'.
To be fair what you said is said by most the experienced teachers and some of the younger ones are usually arrogant and egoistic
The thing with private clg in medical field is that it's too expensive and thus people feel pressurized
@@atulyaroy8962 no and the main thing they have to drop yrs n societal pressure is main problem
Finaly someone said this....even my brother from BHU IIT said the same thing....he found that he was not at all interested in engineering and hence somehow managed to stay there.....but wasted his life although his IIT tag somehow saved him in his professional life
Bro I believe but somewhere you get more opportunities in iit the pvt clgs...
In India everyone wants naukri but nobody wants to learn the subjects completely, most of the students lack the practical knowledge and skills. The students are treated like a product not human beings
Brother uske liye teachers bhi matter karte hai...personally mene face kiya jab teachers mere doubt sunte tak nhi theh....
PS I belongs to a highly reputed school of Rajasthan...🙂🤐
Not just Kota students, even non Kota students suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. I myself was a JEE aspirant(not from Kota) and I can confirm this.
Yup but other cities has some different environment too
But kota is something different here whole environment is only of competitive exam from a shopkeeper to chai wala everyone talks about exams only😢
@@Henji235 I understand their situation. One of my friends is in Kota for JEE drop year, he said that environment here is so competitive like you feel pressurized by yourself.
@@Henji235in Hyderabad and AP there is srichaitanya and narayana there literally torture students as in jail
Everyone has talent in different fields, and people should start to respect all fields, being a doctor or an engineer is not the only way to succeed in life.
the similar situation is in some north indian communities with regards to visa approval. the stigma is the same it’s just instead of IITs and NITs its Canada america Australia
Being an aspirant is really tough.
I was also a medical aspirant (not an indian, so i dont know much about kota..
But i had also suffered alot..
Its a very big buisness.. and manipulation happens a lot to take money from students.. after working hard for 4 years (1 drop year and 1 year lost for covid in our country ) i quit everything and joined arts..
A lot of my beliefs were changed after that.. The suicidal feeling is not unusual.. the whole damn preparation phase isolates you from the entire world.. so you start getting delusional and start feeling like nothing exists beyond medical college..
11:38 Is Too Relatable ❤
I Got Good Marks In IIT And AIEEE Entrances After My 12th But I Thought To Improve My Marks In Next Attempt After Coaching Which Got Worse
Yes Peer Pressure Is The Main Stress To A Student's Mind
Same brooi
As an aspirant, I've been facing all this currently! I completely agree with your every single point. LITERALLY EVERY POINT🙂. All this is very heartbreaking 💔🙃 no one will ever understand this unless they've been actually to this phase
Don't know when all these judgments will stop
Bus apna lift khatam mat karna
Yes, You are absolutely right bhaiya I am also in kota if someone is listening to me then please don't send your child,brother or friend to kota . Keep them in front of yourself.
Born and brought up in Kota, I've always seen all these in air. That too in an area where most students live. My house itself is let out to 15 students. My mother makes sure that they are doing good and treats them like their own child. Not advertising my house, just telling how owners of rooms/pg can also contribute to improving Kota's environment as responsible citizens.
Ye parents ke pressure ke wajah se..hota hai jisko emotional blackmail kehte hai...jaise ki apke mother father apko baar baar apni pareshani batate rahenge...jisse aap frustrate ho jayenge..aur aap ki pareshani bhi aise jo aap kisi ko bata nahi ...sakte..tab apke paas ek solution bachta hai suicide...
me kota me hu 11th (jee) mai unn sabhi students ko yeh advice dena chahta hu ki aggr aapka interest uss subject mai nahi h to peer pressure me uski prep karne kota kabhi mt aana , kyuki tum kota aaoge tumhara interest hi nahi rahega to padhai me mnn nahi lagega or tum class bunk chalu krr doge but 4-5 months bitne ke baad tum apne aap ko worthless samjhoge and galat thought aayenge and now u can see the situation of kota. so please choose your intrest by your choice non of your parent choice thanks
जब हम लोग स्कूल में थे वो समय बहुत बढ़िया था अब तो स्कूल एक धंधा बन चुका है 😢 शुक्र है कि अब हम स्कूल में नहीं है लेकिन हमारी आने वाली पीढ़ी की ही चिंता रहती है 😢
Being a student of Kota I can tell you, please go to Kota only if you want. Don't go to Kota by taking pressure of parents. I myself told my parents to go to Kota, I was not told by anyone and now I am in IIIT Kancheepuram
Difference bro in intelligent and average people like us bro
Kota was so depressing for me , you have to face the pressure of parents and also of teachers if you failed to score good marks in test . Teacher's mainly focus on the topper student who can get them rank and demotivate other student. Finally feeling relief after leaving kota .
😢
Government ko Baaki "Government Colleges" Ki level sudharne ki bhi jarurat hai .
Agar India mai Saare Colleges ka Curriculum High class hai , Campus IIT's level ka hai toh kon ki Faltu mai IIT's ke peeche suicide krega.
IIT's ko hi glorify krne se hi suicides hote hai
IIT's sirf 17k seats provide krti hai .Usse kai guna jyada Government College ki seats vacant jaati .Uski Quality mai sudhar krna chahiye usse competition bhi kaaphi kmm hongi aur Job opportunities jyada honge
My parents always wanted me to become a doctor but after my one refusal they never forced me ever again. I am pursuing CA now .
Bhai kuch tips dedo mujhe Mai bhi ca ki taiyari karna chahta hu (class 10th me hu abhi)
Financial burden killed me , I am no more of my older version, totally devastated 💔
Don't give up! Life is beautiful. Believe on God ❤
One of the best video by Harsh , it is really helpful and convening ❤
Truly said.... "Hum kota se nikl jaate hain lekin kota hmse nhi niklta" ...... 4 saal ho gye but aaj bhi uska affect life pr h....
Kaise btayegi
Being a student living in Kota I can confirm it eveyrthing here is messed up everyone just cares about money be it hostel owner or coaching ...
Same vro
" Chote City ke medical clg me Jake kya kroge Jana hai to metro City jao"🙂👍🏻 so called motivation
I would never say its a motivational video but close to eye opening.Parents should go through this video. They need reality check.
I am from kota
And mai real me bohot serious hu preparation ko leke
Aur mere parents bhi mujhe kbhi pressurise nii krte
But mujhe yha pe itna pressure feel hota hai ki mai kya hi btau
Har time iit iit and iit
I really i mean really depressed in every single time of my preparation 😢😭😭😥
Agar koi preparation krna bhi cahta h na toh mai unhe advise karunga ki discipline me rehke khud se study kro book se hi kyuki coaching bohot bohot bekar jagah hai yaha pe top batch ka toh shi hi h but regular batch waalo ka halat kharab ho jaata hai
Agar tum top batch me nii jaa paye fir toh preparation krna bohot problematic and pressurising hota hai
I remember when my father said beta I wish you best of luck for your future but when you feel like to leave your job you can leave we are not forcing you" I was so relieved to know that if someday I want to leave I can because of my parents and family 😊 ❤️
a jee student in kota ,all you said in this video is 100 percent true ..but on other side kota tells us about hardwork in life
Main first asian finalist thi jisne unicef ka ek project mein Naam banaaya tha. India aake, INDIA aake pata chala sirf quota hi matter karta hai. kuch nahi mila, JNU se masters karke wapas chali gayi.
Aaj inventor hu aur Phd mein hu.
I'm from nit, i think government ko companies pe restriction lgani chahiye ki wo on campus placement pe na jaye, on campus placement band kar seni chahiye aur companies ko ek comman platform bnana chahiye placement ke liye jha par sabhi college ke students apply kar sak.
Aise karne se sabhi students iit jee ka picha shoad denge aur sirf research oriented students hi iit/nit jayegnge
As someone who is now tackling neet pg..i'm very satisfied to have never gone to Kota or destroyed my formative years in any way..
Hope to continue doing the same in neet pg as well.
I did my JEE advanced prep from Kota this year. Although I cleared JEE advanced but I did not get an IIT because I had 74.8% in boards, 🤡🤡
Bhai rassi lau 😂😂😂 😹
.2% 😂
Bhagwan aapko himmat de 🙂❤️
@@gamingwithprakhar3149😂
Just Indian things bro 🤡🤡 , feeling so bad for you bro😓
Just wanna guide my junior prep for jee .....Take competition in healthy way , it short term stress......AFTER CLEARING ADV , IIT WILL RETURN U IN 2 MONTHS THE PRIZE OF THAT STRESS ❤
As a neet aspirant I'm sure about my Career,,,,
If anything happens with me I'm pretty sure about changing path . I'm not that fake aspirant who will take 8 drops just to get into mbbs
Absolutely true. Even I almost became a Dr. My parents thankfully, always encouraged me to follow my passion and to do what I actually enjoy. Even our school was different. The founder of the school personally new Rabindranath Tagore and was inspired by his teachings. The Principal always encouraged us to do what we love and not follow the herd. I am so blessed to have grown up in such an environment. Now I have my own 3D animation studio, which I always wanted. Still, some relatives and people around me always say directly or indirectly that I could have done much better as a Dr. Its true that I don't earn nearly as much as I would have if I went to IITs but at the end of the day, I love what I do and slowly and surely I am confident that my venture will grow bigger.
As a citizen of Kota .....I can verify his news and points are all accurate
I didn't wanted to take pressure that's why i left the school after 5th class.
And guess what today i am earning even more than degree holders.
In my early age i saw jethalal left the school after 5th class, this gave me idea and i opened Electronics shop.
🙏
Being an engineering student from tier 3 college who couldn't clear iit, I can surely say that whether you crack IIT or not ultimately your hard work and passion towards a certain field will make you successful and I mean it... Engineering sab same hai uske baad kya karoge wo socho 😊
Bro I think u haven't gone through the society and it's mindset. My cousin is IITian and I still remember whenever someone ask him what he is doing he replies BTech then everyone had a smile on their face but when he says that BTech from IIT everyone in room turns serious in just a second. Even today many of my seniors from school have persuaded BTech from tier 3 colleges or private colleges like LPU and CU but the school board bears the name of ex students who got selected into IIT and NIT. Moreover in private or tier 3 colleges the maximum package goes around 20lpa but in Gen 1 IITs the median package goes upto 25lpa and the highest in crores that makes the difference. Wether u accept it or not but an engineer isn't respected in India until he's an IITian or NITian .
@@hardiksharma9341 yeah I agree that iit has its glory and prestige... I'm talking about those who can't get into it but still manage to get high paid jobs through hard work and passion... So don't get demotivate and work in right direction
@@GGLACC-ij2ko Congo bro... What's your work domain ?? Where are you placed currently?
@@Zoro_9SwordStyle yeah I too admit that. I m just showing you the face of our society. A non IIT engineer isn't given that amount of respect as an IITian. Yeah there are very good options like BITS Pilani, IIIT H&B, Thapar but non of them is as regarded as IIT/NIT
@@hardiksharma9341comedk college too
Though i cracked IIT back in 2022, without going to kota just prepared from youtube and self study since my finacial situation was not good it took a lot of hardwork,dedication i also was getting depressed sometime but my desire to get into IIT was so strong that i stood against all odds and made it so never give up on your dream your time will come 👍
BHaiya Ap ka khna Bilkul shi hai But kota me Kai ese Institute hai jo Shiksha ke sath sath Students ka pura pura dhyan rkhte hai .........kafi Acha Environment provide krwate hai ... Because I m fully satisfied with motion 💯😍😍😍
2 years Ago I was suffering but my parents and one old teacher was highly supportive towards me .
I am pursuing B.Pharm From Dehradun but have learned so much that even being a doctor could not have done.
Bhi sab kuch jyada nahi hogya😂😂.
Ur a very Good jeVlin thrower😂
I will be graduating next yr from Engineering. During 2020 COVID lockdown even I was diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder due to JEE exams. Till today I'm having anti depressants !!
I wil die but will never forget those painful days 🥺
One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔
It's true
The problem is we as lower-income families have little and dreams of having more and for that when we get into the streets of competition with very little knowledge and patience and then we get frustrated with failures because we chose the right path but didn't get the right guidance and right support to walk on that path and then that path either leads to death and if we get lucky, we change the path and get some hope to live but now with different dreams but same old frustrations of having little.
A neet aspirant especially a dropper can relate with it, well researched harsh bhai
I am a 12th grade students and can really relate to all these problems,
It was really helpful bro
Thanku
Bro I'm also in 12th
Not doing any Of these jee iit courses
Coz i know this is just shit , bit the teachers and parents always demotivate me as I don't opt for it and I'm not even interested in it now,
What I'm interested in is 3d works and VFX
But you know no one supports us
Fu*k Education System
@@idk-69247 that's how society treat those who persue something different, I'm also interested in animation but ya I also feel confused and self doubt but that's part of Journy would recommend to follow your passion or you may regret later. Huh l should also work on my passion. Good luck to you!
@@idk-69247can understand u bro but in my case my Mom supports me to do what ever I want so I don't have any pressure of doing any iit or medical that's for sure
Really this topic needs discussion. Very nice video ❤
I can confirm that that when I got 80k rank in jee mains so got very depressed and didn't study for 1month and then got 23k rank in advance
In short Never Give Up.
Bhai to konsa kuch badiya ho gaya dono me kuch nahi milne wala
@@lakshaybhardwaj2695 bhai pucha kya tere se gyaan mat chod
@@ajain2603bina padhe 23k rank 😂
@@ajain2603abhi kidhar ho bhai aap fir?
@@ajain2603 bsdk never give up ka kya matlab h misinformation faila raha h mc anpad Bhai mains me gen cat me agar 98.5 nahi aaate to kuch nahi h available aur adv me acchi rank 5k se start h theek and agar koi sc st ya obc h to Kam karle percentile and bhai jo internet pe har cheez Jo user ne public kardi h uspe comment Kara Jaa sakta h fir pucha kisi ne terko ye comment karne ko
The thing is till tenth syllabus is not hard . A lot of students get good percent and are overconfident. Then their expectations increase and when they enter 11th they are completely shattered seeing the difficult course.
Problem is that indian goverment is making 10th syllabus easy so that literacy rate increases but they dont think about the aftermath of mental trauma student face in 11th and 12th
Very true. I am an engineer but working as a freelance data scientist. Even though I am earning 3 times of an engineer in Google but still facing challenges in marriage because that's how society thinks. They think of getting into a good college and then a secure job. But economy has grown so much that even gig workers like me get immense work opportunities.
How did you become a data scientist? What roadmap you followed?
hey , i am also looking fwd to Data field as career option.. can we talk in coming days..
❤❤thank you brother. I was preparing for neet for mbbs. And I thought that there is mbbs only for a successful life . Even right now some where I feel lost . Right not I'm giving cat and then I will do my mba . From a good college hope so I get out of that zone soon enough 😅
Finally someone talk about this topic.
I am preparing for JEE 2024 and tbh I am proud of myself because I don't share same mindset as of my classmates and competitors...they only care about "rank" and "percentile" whereas I only and only care about depth knowledge of physics and math as I wanna pursue them as main subjects....maybe it's just my self endurance because I am just used to be depressed and hyped up most of the time as I am a bipolar...I hope students will soon realize that rank and IITian's tag doesnot decided their future at all...
Bhaiya I will tell you one of the very big reason why people get mad on colleges is that due to curriculum in our school and then coaching most of the students lost all there other hobbies that usually led them to believe this is what they meant to be.[ I am in similar situation I don not have any other skill scare to start learning anything new at 19 in order of fear that what if if I fail?
All we need is "beta jo acha lagta hai wo karo, hum tumhare saath hai".. successful and unsuccessful people are in every field... why not live a humble life and do what you love doing
As an aspiring teacher, I will focus on the mental health of my students. 💯
Thankfully and luckily my passion was to do jee preparation and then icrb to finally become scientist and same my parents wanted from me❤
2021 = 16 lakh students
2022 = 18 lakh
2023 = 21 lakh
so what is the numbers in 2024
and seats are only 1 - 1.5 lakh so what 19.5 lakh students will do
I think government should make population control law first
Btw in 2023 it's 23lakh😅
26 lakh
Sala population bhi kam nai hai na
@@aishwaryamaiti4249 Fucking 145crs bruhh🙂
Actually there are around 50k good colleges but students only want iits
Today's situation is not hard but
Today's generation is weak
I am from also kota but obslutely allen is pressurising the student by dividing topper and average student it's so bad
every line is on point , best video harsh bhaiyya , as a aspirate , everyline just feel so real!!!
as a student of kota i can't deny any topic discussed by harsh bhaiya , I can agree all points of Harsh Bhai 👍
Why only educational pattern is being blamed,instead why can't we have more government colleges of equal importance and low cutoffs . It's like state government colleges
Yeah this is what I am trying to say😅😅😅
The state I am from even has a university even older than IIT and it also has a lot of good government colleges and few universities😅
True... Just follow your own mind... You will be in a better place.. Also don't get into wrong Grp... It will ruin your life... Better stay... Unsuccessful for years.. Rather than a ruined adult.. It will destroy you mentally..
I'm really happy that I've never been to Kota and neither my parents forced me to go.
Kabhi kabhi there's no pressure from parents ...its just individual feelings where a person feels all her dreams are shattered and theres no hope left
As I'm an Allenite and a jee aspirant, agree with all points Harsh told us, after these activities students done so far, now these institutes planning fun days every week and student teacher meetings, which is too good decision and yaa, by these steps by institutes really giving satisfaction and I'm literally feeling relaxed
Aazadi😂
Hardcore Allen andh bhakt
main root cause is parents expectations....